That's the part that gets me. Because she was not even shock or anything, but merely annoyed. It obvious this mom acts like that all the time and bridesmaid witnessed it often
The mom doesn't need to be "politely" helped, her narcissism needs to be called out. It's obviously an ongoing issue too since the daughter resignedly said "how she is" (which I know how that feels)
To be honest, she is laughing because to such psychopath the sadness of others ,even of her own daughter is a sth funny...especially since she caused that sadness...this woman is "an emotional vampire"!
I absolutely agree, the mother was downright cruel Do that to her daughter. I Have a habit of thinking from both sides of the spectrum, is it a possibility the mother is just annoyed at this point because of having to go to so many stores all over the world? 🤷🏼♀️ I want to see the whole episode!
@@mah-e-kana373 Yes she did find a nice dress and had a nice wedding. Her mom found a nice dress too. However, who knows what happened behind the scenes.
The “mom” is probably the reason why they visited 80-100 stores. The daughter probably already found a dress that she loved and the “mom” probably tore her down during those appointments as well.
Exactly this. I also think her mother is jealous of how beautiful she is. In or out of that dress, or any dress, she has a natural beauty and glow to her that her mother is obviously lacking here. This sweet girl. Y'all know she's been dealing with this her whole life, too.
With a strong opinionated Mother like that, I would probably have bought that dress just BECAUSE my Mother hated it, and I would have loved it even more 😊
Her girlfriend is a REAL Friend in a time when not too many women are cultivating real female friendships she has a good girlfriend. I feel s😢d for this young woman follow them down this mom has been doing this her whole life.
Know she’s not! Her mother is being deliberately damaging. When you try on wedding dressed. they aren’t the right size. They alter them to fit properly.
The designer of the dress was freaking horrified. She was laughing as a defense mechanism, but her face said, "I'm horrified! Somebody Duck Tape this bitch's mouth shut NOW!"
@@20PINKluvr still. she couldve said it a little more nicer if she really did not like that part. Atleast sugarcoat it to make her daighter feel a little better since she really loved the dress.
@@20PINKluvr she was smiling. theres no reason to smile if you think your daughter's dress is inappropriate. she was just making fun of her daughter to belittle her
Seriously. These women who are jealous of their beautiful daughters sounds like Snow White's mother. In the original Grimm's fairy tales, it was her mother, not stepmother, who was the evil queen.
I think she's jealous of her daughter's youth but her daughter isn't as thin as her and I bet the mom rubs that in her face. (I think the daughter is beautiful I'm just saying what I see from the mom) Like how she was sucking up to the designer. The designer has the same "look" as the mom. Like Botox and high maintenance woman, etc.
I agree she truly loves watching her lovely daughter suffer. I noticed that the toxic mom was wearing a very short dress which draws attention to herself rather than the daughter. A part of me wanted to wipe that disgusting smirk off of her face.
I surprised the mom could smile at all, with all the work she's had done to her face. She seems like she's used to getting ALL the attention, maybe she was very beautiful when she was young, and she can't stand being older and letting her daughter have the spotlight. So sad.
When she did that she looked like the bigest jerk but she didn't care becouse she can't stand that it wasn't about her but her dother. Her dother has been dealing with that probobly her whole life. How can someone who is so self centerd be a parent?
She is a toxic middle eastern parent . She behaves the same. She has no shame and doesn't think what she is doing is wrong. She has the old mentality that if someone is bigger in size they shouldn't wear big huge gowns that make them look bigger. She doesn't consider her kid's feeling but what everyone else will think...ughhh now I'm triggered
If she's this toxic to an adult woman who is about to get married and can survive on her own. Imagine how toxic and controlling she must've been during her childhood.
Yup my mother also acts this way towards me once my mom tells me to hurry and just get what I want after she would say she didn't like it. Even just the little things then once I get it I would sometimes cry then she would sometimes joke to me that i looked weird and laugh at me so yeah it does hurt a lot
The part where you said good parents don’t have kids hits hard. Honestly I think that’s where all the found family tropes in shows come from. Like jaded people being found parents. Shit hits differents
This is what I don’t understand with some of the parents on this show. THIS IS YOUR CHILD! The way they can make them cry and see them crying and still smirk and laugh. What the f@ck??? I have three sons and no daughters. I will never enjoy the pleasure of going bridal gown shopping. But if my sons ask me to take them suit shopping I will only be looking at their faces. If they walked out with a smile as big as this girl did I wouldn’t care what they were wearing. Their happiness outshines anything in this world.
Ikr. It breaks my heart when parents act like this towards their kids. If you are lucky enough to be blessed with a child you should cherish them with all your heart. Through all the ups and downs and especially their wedding.
@@em83998 I agree and my late mom was loving but she had her flaws too. My late mom was not this bad thank goodness. I am not a mom yet but am an aunt so I know how to treat my nephews. My nephews all love me as I treat them all very well. Glad that your sister did the same.
Exactly. It's a first sign of being abused. She seemed too tired to be even bothered by her behavior so she just simply gave up on the dress she loved. That's scandalous and very sad.
Agreed. This is just a normal day for her with her mom. You can tell by the stance and the fact the poor girl doesn't break down. Even when Randy tells her it's not right and it's not something that should happen. Even then she doent really react. She is so used to this behavior she can turn numb and stay in that mode. Then when someone shows affection she stays numb because she's not used to it, or feels its false due to mom's passive aggressive attitude. Hope her future husband helps her drop that toxic husk of a human called her mother.
Her mom is a narcissist and the girl needs therapy. Her friends should've told her as much at least because she has a whole life ahead of her and she'll never be happy for as long as she keeps allowing her mom to impact her like that
Yes. I don’t see her ,I’ve never seen such an unloving Mother, I don’t see any love or any feelings towards her beautiful daughter!!! At all!so so sad.
Because she went to over 80 dress shops in 3 continents already and still had no dress. We don't know if the mother liked other dresses and the daughter did not. The mom has issues and is cold, but the daughter seems like a spoiled princess with a mommy who can afford Pinina (my spelling is awful here, apologies). Who has time and money to shop that much for a dress, even if it is a wedding dress? The mother wasn't wrong about the dress either. The daughter is beautiful and has a great body, but that dress did not suit her body type or height. It was the mother who even picked the dress, not the daughter. The daughter ended up liking it. The mother didn't. The mother was wrong about how she phrased her dislike of the dress. It was cold and rude, but I think she does care about her daughter and did not want to see her walk down the aisle in a dress that wouldn't work on her. Sometimes you need to take these shows with a grain of salt. If they are losing a sale on a $10k dress, of course they might make the person objecting feel bad and say things like...what kind of person are you. I think Randy is too sanctimonious and putting down the person with the credit card, not a great idea in real life.
Oh please ! The mom was cold but she was right. The 👗 doesn't flattering her girl. Not at all. For sure the way mom acted was bad. But the girl has no taste. And friends & vendor are just hypocrites.
I come back to this clip a lot. My mom is exactly like that. It gives me so much hope to see people who see how she is and that people care so much. It reminds me not to shut people out because of how someone acts amd people truly are better than what my mother says.
ME TOO!!! I literally watch this over and over again like I get such comfort knowing I’m not alone with a narcissistic mother. It’s so sad when I get more love and empathy from strangers than my own mother. I’m sorry you are going through this and for anyone that has a narcissist for a mother.
My mom is too, as is my brother. If I like something or someone, whatever or whoever it may be, they will mercilessly mock and heckle me for any and every interest I show. So, I don't tell them anything anymore. And they are act clueless about why they are now locked out of my life.
"I see it on the mannequin it looked different but on her it's ugly I don't like it" such a wholesome thing to say to your daughter who found a dress she liked after visiting 80 stores.
I think the daughter maybe didn't really even like the dress because SHE liked it but cause her mom said she loves it at the beginning. I bet they wasted time in 80 stores cause the bride was too busy looking for smth that would please the MOM and not her, in which case, she might as well just not get married cause I doubt she'll ever find an actual dress her mom likes
The first dress didn't look good on the bride yes!! It looked beautiful on the mannequin.. true... But the mother could have said that in a less hurtful way. 😭
@@20PINKluvr It's just cleavage. She's a woman, so yes she has cleavage big deal... You put her in this world like this, why criticize your daughter's body in a dress and say what she can and can't wear? Your children are individuals and don't live for you. They live for themselves.
I don’t know how many years/episodes I’ve watched say yes to the dress but I think she is absolutely the most beautiful bride I’ve ever seen- for her to not want to look at herself in the mirror literally gave me a physical pain. She deserves so much love, self-love, and respect from others. And simply to be able to enjoy her life and special day
The idea that she has now been to 82 stores and hasn't found a dress makes me think that her mother has treated her this way 82 times over her wedding dress, which is just heart breaking.
I was just thinking that. I was like “wow! 82 stores? That’s a lot does she want something very specific?” Then when her mom made that comment it clicked. Like, “ohhhh now I see what happened here”
This is exactly what I was thinking and the fact that this young lady didn’t shed any tears bc she’s numb to this abuse breaks my heart for her. She’s so beautiful, I hope she’ll love herself one day enough to ignore her vile mother.
@@gabrielphee watching the way the mum reacted to every dress she tried on leads me to believe that the reason she hasn't found a "better dress" is because her mum has continually behaved like this and the girl has been conditioned to believe her.
It's very clear to me that this woman feels like she's a hot mom and her daughter is average at best I have a feeling that this woman has been criticizing her daughter's appearance since she was a little girl
That’s the vibe I got and it killed her to see her daughter look stunning cause she did look gorgeous in that dress and is younger and prettier than herself so she had to kill her spirit.
For me it seemed like the mom was always a hottie and always grabbing the attention, but now she is just "The Mom of the Beautiful" and feels the attention going over to her Daughter and gets jelous...thats the Vibe that I get
guilt tripping yes, gaslighting no. those aren’t the same things. it’s good to call bad behavior out when we see it, but we can’t just be calling everything abusive gaslighting.
I can relate to Randy, it took me many years to have children and I don’t know how anyone could treat their daughter like that. She was literally glowing in that dress, how can you as a mother crush you child’s confidence like that?
Sadly there are mothers and fathers too that literally hate their children. I felt that way with my late parents. At times they can be loving but at times they can be so brutal.
Wonder if she showed up at her daughter's wedding wearing a white dress designed to sort of resemble a wedding gown. I saw one post where a young woman said that her MIL actually did wear a wedding gown to the wedding. She cut the train off and said that made it no longer a wedding gown. She apparently was one of those women who felt like SHE should be marrying her son instead of the bride marrying her son. She even jumped between the bride and groom when they were trying to take pictures of JUST the two of them. What sort of psycho person does that to her son and his brand new wife?
Spot on. She's a narcissist, this is how they treat their daughters. I would get married at the courthouse, before taking a dime from her or even include her in the wedding. She lost the right to call herself a mother, being that cruel and abusive. All she did was give birth.
Narcissists get their Narcissistic supply by abusing others, so when she have said what she should, she smiled‼️Narcissists need supply as others need oxygen ‼️We shall be glad if we don't have a mother like her, but I had a Narcissistic mother who saw me as an extension of herself ‼️A Narcissist can't stand to see others shine, those are full of hate, ans are envios and jelous of others, their biggest joy is to control a target and dim their light‼️Many daughters have sent me messages and told their mother are like her in the move, and that are so sad‼️💎Starseed Heyoka.
My dad is somewhat of a narcissist at times in the sense that he just doesn’t seem to be happy with what I do. At least in my experience. Telling him how I feel would be pointless because he’ll just end up dismissing me as being dramatic or some bs
This was my mom when i bought my prom dress. She told me i was too fat for it and looked like a beached whale. I never sent to prom and still have it packaged newly in my closet
Going to Klienfelds is a whole experience. You don’t just “get it and go” like you just popped into the store to buy milk. The daughter tried on the dress her mom picked, probably to please her, and then this awful woman goes, Well I liked it on the mannequin but it doesn’t look good on Her. And she made Randy cry.
Yes, most children of narcissists grow up to feel like they are never enough. Karma is a bitch. These types never change. They usually end up old, bitter and alone.
I love my mom so much. I got my dress a few days ago and she was beaming through the whole process. We researched dresses together for months to find the style I was going for and when I had to go in and pick some dresses to try on she was the one person who I asked to help me. She was actually the one who pulled the dress I got. My mom mad me feel so beautiful and I am so sorry to the beautiful ladies who don’t have that experience with their mothers.
Her "mom" so easily complimented the other lady yet can't even be bothered to squeeze one nice thing out for her own child. Some people shouldn't be involved in planning important events.
Just wrote the same thing about Snow White and her stepmother! Though I do think this wasn't the perfect dress for her. Still, the way her mother made it all about herself, was so not okay.
@@ww4734 why Couldn't they just not make this a story...i feel bad how they changed it to step mom from real mom for the kids but used step moms as villain. Not good at all Step mom's are loving too. They need to stop putting these in kids head that a step mom is evil.
I'm so sorry for her. She was absolutely shattered. Randy was such a gentleman, the way he just comforted her and supported her. How all the staff rose to the occasion and supported her. I hope she found her dream dress.
She’s one of those mothers who doesn’t see her daughter as her “daughter”, more like competition and she’s been controlling that girl since she came out of her birth canal.
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 As an Indian myself, I disagree with your opinion. You can't justify a person's mean and narcissistic behaviour on their ethnicity and no, Indian moms are definitely not like this.
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 I’m Lebanese (like the people in the video) and blaming her behavior on the fact that she’s Lebanese makes no sense at all, most Lebanese mothers aren’t anything like this. My mother is full blooded Lebanese and she’s one of the kindest, most loving people I know. Ngl your comment felt kind of racist, saying all middle eastern and Indian parents are like the mother in the video is generalizing and wrong.
The mother is a classic manipulative narcissist. This poor daughter is trying to chase her approval, like trying to catch the wind it will never happen.
I love the fact this video is online and everyone is commenting on how horrible this mother is. I hope she sees this. I hope she understands how hateful she is. I hope she regrets her behavior. So selfish. So disgusting.
Lol this a reality show, one with many reported fake conflicts, as it is with reality shows - the trashiest form of entertainment media. You don't know their real life dynamic or how the dressing tour has gone up to this moment. For all we know this *could* very well be a case of 80 stores in 2 continents not satisfying a spoiled rich daughter, and she couldn't live with her mom not liking the dress when she finally found it, in which case the mom would be justifiably ready to completely done with it.
The mom saying to Pinina over and over how she was looking at her outfit and not at her daughter was not misunderstanding anything. She is a nasty woman.
@@VinnieMF Even if it is fake, there are people out there who do go through this. Who do have parents like that. Let's let them know this is not okay and it is not their fault. Also, no, I can't imagine this would have been the case. If the mother was so very done with the shopping spree why on Earth would she have said she hates the dress on her daughter? Makes no sense to me.
Honestly. She seems to only think of herself in life. I can’t imagine how she will pretend the wedding is hers throughout. She seems like a control freak too.
My sister married into a Lebanese family. Their culture is just very straight-forward and no-nonsense which is often perceived as rude. At first I was very shocked or concerned about the way my sisters new family was acting, but they are actually very sweet people just very honest. Keep in mind this is also reality tv, so they could’ve very well cut out some of the positive things she said.
@@simplygina7703 just saying there is a difference between being straight forward and rude. This lady's behaviour - atleast what was shown on screen - was rude.
@@W-I463 It seems like english isn't her first language (or that she's not proficient in English.) Who knows, if she leaned the language better, maybe she would've phrased her words better.
The mother is clearly narcissistic and has been abusing and gaslighting her daughter throughout her entire life. Why hasn’t anyone seen this before????
👍 Good comment. It's sad that most people aren't aware of what Narcissistic behaviour is. It can be years down the line when they've been hurt one time too many that they go seek answers. ☹️ and usually by that time they're in their 40s and 50s. This sort of psychology should be taught in schools.
Her mom is the devil, I hate how her confidence went from 100-0. She looked absolutely stunning in the dress and the fact that her mother enjoys taunting her really hurts.
Randy was the perfect surrogate parent that this girl needed during the aftermath of a toxic mother. Sometimes a stranger can be kinder to you than your own family.
Exactly what I was just thinking. Her mom probably acted that same way in every store, laughing at her daughter in every dress she put on. I feel so bad for her and just want to give her a hug and tell her she's beautiful and worthy of a happy life with her man and that her mother's snarky opinions shouldn't matter because she's perfect the way she is.
Exactly, she probably had already found a dress that she liked but then her mother ruined it for her. Makes the whole are you sure this is the dress thing at the beginning shine in a whole different light.
They've been to 81 stores because her mom hates everything she likes. She's trying to please her mother at the cost of her own happiness. She needs to stop bringing her mom with her.
That's something I noticed for a LOT of brides in the show. Itvs always "my mom and I don't get along" THEN WHY BRING HER TO THE SALON OF SHE JUST MAKES YOU MISERABLE
@@wonderlandartwork3579 i think its so normal just to bring your mother no matter what. not only that a lot of the time the family pays (like the mom in this situation). it honestly hurts seeing these toxic mothers just treat their daughters in such mean ways
A lot of the time this happens because the person feels like not including the mother (or other toxic person in the situation) would turn out worse than bringing her. Like here, she said she didn't want the dress anymore because she knew her mother would be shit talking it behind her back at the wedding. Imagine what her mom would do if the bride told her she couldn't help to pick out the dress at all. Guarantee the mom would trash talk any dress she brought home in that scenario, and would even be likely to shit talk her own daughter to anyone who'd listen for not including her in the process.
Why would anyone bring their mother with them? The only reason I can think of is if the mother is paying for the dress, and even then her opinion is not required and should not be welcome.
This poor woman. My mother could be brutal, laughing at my hair, makeup, clothing, making passive aggressive comments about my parenting. The day she said made a comment about my son I tore into her. She had the audacity to cry and play victim. I know what this woman is going through. It's tough. But I bet she will be an amazing mother because she knows how NOT to be a mother.
@@yougsa a mother should teach her daughter to value her feelings and needs above other ppls wants its normal to want validation from a parent its not normal for it to be debilitating codependency
@@jsjgfdhgfsf9693 Indeed. This girl shouldn’t feel like she has to make her mother happy. This is HER wedding, not her bitchass mother’s. I think she’s better off not inviting her mother to the wedding if she’s gonna be like that
@@pinningformichigan8120 people say you should love your close ones no matter what and forgive them, but again, just because someone is your blood , doesn't mean you have to put up with them, cause its not fair to you
As someone who's mother is like this.. ding ding ding.... it's been like that her whole life. From my teeth to me "looking like I'm wearing a diaper" in a skirt... that's been my mom forever.
It won't change anything. These mom's know how they are. They think they know best and everyone else is wrong. So many Arab parents are like this (including mine).
i am crying for her. being raised by someone like this is absolutely soulcrushing. i hope her mother is not in her life anymore and that she is healing.
That dress is stunning. It’s made for her. The sad part is that she has probably found a dress she likes in all the stores she’s been to but it’s her mom.
As soon as I saw the way the mom acted, it just clicks to why they’ve been to so many stores. This is most likely a repeating cycle, and thats honestly so cruel.
The way the mom acted was terrible but the dress was horrendous. It had too much going on and it wasn’t flattering around the bust at all. The dress was wearing her, not the other way around. That’s the problem with a lot of Pnina Tornai’s dresses.
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 but she’s happy in it so it doesn’t matter, she looks beautiful because it’s something she loves!!! Her mother is destroying her confidence, she was already having a hard time finding the perfect dress and trust me on your wedding day nothing matters more to a girl than her dress. The mother could have constructed her criticism much better than what she did.
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 _yeah but it's not her mom's wedding doesn't really matter that the mom didn't like her dress the fact of the matter is that she loved the dress and she really wanted it to be her wedding dress and it really is upsetting that she couldn't have it_
Found an update to this, the total shops she went to ended up being 100 and she did get married, there was no mention if the mother was present or not.
I absolutely hope that the mom was not only no longer invited to the wedding, but out of the bride’s life. The bride looked like royalty in that dress.
Exactly what I was thinking. No wonder she hasn’t found the dress, her own mother puts her down every time she finds one she’s likes. It’s heartbreaking.
The problem wasn’t the dress, the problem was to bring mom with you knowing how she is, the first 2 ok l get it after she made those comments leave mom home and go shop by yourself
The fact that she just laughs and can’t see what she’s doing wrong is so upsetting and the she got offended when her daughter agreed with her that she was evil.
The fact that she's not having a breaking down crying just shows she's been treated like that her whole life but she's been told her mom is great because she has money.
@@invu_lynn y’all assume everything no matter wtf it is don’t ya? I know people with great lives and parents who are just calm people and don’t start bawling there eyes out over something trivial
@@yougsa As someone that had a mother like that, that isnt “calm”. I will not be responding to you further as you seem to be the type to be like that mother.
@@yougsa Yeah the problem is that , that girl doesn't have a great mom. The people you know have great parents. Of course they would be calm and insults doesn't affect them.
I feel like the mom is in a way body-shaming her daughter. Mannequin has the "perfect body" so anything on a Mannequin looks great, The daughter looks beautiful in the dress too. Also, Some of the moms on this show are so entitled, like it's not your wedding if your daughter feels good in the dress then that is all that matters.
Ok but I don’t see how the mom doesn’t think the daughter looks good. I honestly think she looks better than the mannequin. That daughter is so pretty I’d be suprised if she didn’t look good in it
The best is the end where the mom says "Because I'm the evil mom here" and the daughter agrees and the look on the mom's face is everything. So hurtful that you would do that to your daughter and laugh at her.
When Randy said he couldn’t believe the way the mom treated her child, when it is his dream to have kids, my heart just shattered. I bet he would be a better parent than that mom, but life’s so unfair.
When your child is shopping for the most important day of their life, it's all about them. Not what you like, want, think, but what rocks their world and makes them feel the prettiest, handsomest. most special person. I felt really sad for this young woman. I hope they eloped.
So true , absolutely agree that woman Is a narcissist and that 's why she treats her daughter that way , she can not handle that her daughter is the only one who matters at moment .
Absolutely. Narcarsist's always have to have all eyes in them. In addition, they also have to be the ones manopolizing all conversations, where other people can not contribute to the conversation otherwise.
Now, on to the most important thing; that poor girl didn’t want a dress. She wanted her mother to look at her and say she’s beautiful. And her mother never will. Just breaks my heart.
That got me as well. Having a child of your own is such a gift, that many woman and men don't get the luxury of experiencing. Not only that, but your girl is getting married! You should be so excited. Making her feel good about herself, making sure she feels comfortable in what she's wearing and most of all making sure she gets what SHE wants for her special day. But this "mother" wants to make jokes, turn the attention off of her daughter and make it seem like choosing a wedding dress isn't that important. That's not being a mother, that's being a bully.
If he wants children he should have children. He would be an amazing father. Heck maybe Samantha can boot her mom to the curb and Randy can be her parent.
@@flarrow24 I know the way he talked to her at the end and gave her a hug just broke me I cried. But happy tears she needed that after the way her mom was 😭😊❤️.
When my daughter tried on her wedding dress, I cried and told her how stunningly beautiful she is! My daughter is so petite they took the dress right off the mannequin and it got her perfectly! She kept saying “Mom why are you crying?” I said because I’ve never seen anything more beautiful in my life. And then she started crying happy tears and hugged. I could NEVER treat my baby, my daughter, my best friend like this. My heart truly hurts for this young woman!
I have a feeling she’s gone to so many stores because the mom keeps doing this. Some people are defending the mom because she’s paying but no, she’s just rude and a bully.
Nadiicruz Ur absolutely right, that woman, cause shes no mum, is nothing but a bully, Samanthas face lit up when she saw herself in the mirror, them boom she gets slagged by her mum, shame on u x
She's not having a hard time finding a dress. She's having a hard time finding her mothers approval. Poor Samantha. Hope Mario takes her far away from that witch of a mother.
Oh no. She knew exactly what she was doing. Women like that behave this way because their whole life, nobody ever told them it was wrong. Until the staff and friends didn't back her up the way her cronies always have, and then she's left there feeling stupid. As she should.
@@sonjafrost4 if she's a narcissist she really does not see wrong, she's only thinking about herself and will day this things cause she really thinks them not to hurt the daughter that's just s consequence... Some moms are like that...
Yes...she is the evil 😈 mom...my heart broke for this girl....I wonder what dress she finally bought??? I wish they'd have an update on some of these shows!!! My mom wasn't as bad as this one but I bought and chose my wedding dress all by myself...didn't even take my bride's maids along....enough said on that...I hope this girl finally gets sick and tired of taking this horrible treatment from her evil mother...maybe her husband will have enough of the mom too and speak up for the girl and shut that awful woman down!!!
It really is such a common thing with narcissistic parenting, my own mom is very similar where if you try to talk to her about something she does that hurts you, she will twist it into a way where she's the victim and you're being a bitch who should feel guilty. Parents like this will never own up to their shortcomings or change for the better, and I really hope this girl finds the strength to go no or low-contact with her mom. I'm a sure a weight will be lifted from her shoulders when she gets that space from her.
YES. I had a friend like that in high school. She would tear everyone down but when they’d ignore her or end a friendship, it was because they “couldn’t handle her honesty” 🤦♀️
What a horrible mother, ruining her daughter's wedding, when she clearly loved the dress. She was struggling not to cry, and I almost cried for her. That woman is a monster. Randy is right.
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 the bride likes the dress. The mother could have said I don’t like it as much as I thought or said something kinder. She completely destroyed her daughter’s confidence.
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 idc if it’s scripted or not. How that woman is talking about her daughter isn’t okay, and if it is scripted, doesn’t mean it makes that behaviour okay, it’s an example of a terrible parent either way.
The mom saying that she’s the bad guy at the end reminded me of Tangled with Gothel saying “now I’m the bad guy” such a common manipulation tactic. Disgusting
I realized she was kinda gaslighting her daughter just like how Mother Gothel did it by saying she loved the dress, not liking it, and loving it. That's one sign of gaslighting that I noticed and when she said "I'm the evil mom.." I went "Wow, she's Mother Gothel in the flesh!"
"Diana, we're not shopping for you" Props to the friend who politely tried to help
That's the part that gets me. Because she was not even shock or anything, but merely annoyed. It obvious this mom acts like that all the time and bridesmaid witnessed it often
That's a polite way to say, "Zip it." The mom already had her moment.
The fact the mother said she wasn’t even focusing on her own daughter she’s so rude I’d slap her in the face if that was me
Yeah!
The mom doesn't need to be "politely" helped, her narcissism needs to be called out. It's obviously an ongoing issue too since the daughter resignedly said "how she is" (which I know how that feels)
The mum thinks she’s funny but everyone clearly sees how toxic she is yikessss
To be honest, she is laughing because to such psychopath the sadness of others ,even of her own daughter is a sth funny...especially since she caused that sadness...this woman is "an emotional vampire"!
A narcissist
The mum is a SNAKE!
When her mom said all those words I could already hear the aggressive keyboard typing-
Be quick
Thats probably why she went to 100 stores. This mother is annoying
Came for this comment
Literally thought the same thing!
I absolutely agree, the mother was downright cruel Do that to her daughter. I Have a habit of thinking from both sides of the spectrum, is it a possibility the mother is just annoyed at this point because of having to go to so many stores all over the world? 🤷🏼♀️ I want to see the whole episode!
Yes it’s not the daughter it’s the mom ruining it for her!!
The mother is not “annoying “, she is jealous and cruel!
This woman is the definition of the saying " who needs enemies when your family is like this"
hey, so quick question i know this video is 2 years old but did she ever find the dress? you got any idea?
@@mah-e-kana373 Yes she did find a nice dress and had a nice wedding. Her mom found a nice dress too. However, who knows what happened behind the scenes.
Yep! My mom is similar to Diana
I feel like it wasn't her not liking a single dress in the 80 stores, it was the mom making her feel terrible in everything
Agreed! We saw exactly why she’s been to so many stores.
yes! what i just said!!
Defenitely
Ikr she must have felt so hurt! Poor girl
Same!
The “mom” is probably the reason why they visited 80-100 stores. The daughter probably already found a dress that she loved and the “mom” probably tore her down during those appointments as well.
Was looking for this comment. I have never seen a Lebanese mother so unsupportive of her kid.
Exactly this. I also think her mother is jealous of how beautiful she is. In or out of that dress, or any dress, she has a natural beauty and glow to her that her mother is obviously lacking here. This sweet girl. Y'all know she's been dealing with this her whole life, too.
Aaaahhh. 80-100 it was!!
I understood 8'200 (eightytwohundered) and I was wtf?!😳😳😳😳
With a strong opinionated Mother like that, I would probably have bought that dress just BECAUSE my Mother hated it, and I would have loved it even more 😊
@@sideglance 🤦🏾♀️I also thought she said 8200
That friend who told the mom that they’re not shopping for her but for the bride is a real one.
Yeah.. may be the same thing happened in all the 80stores🤷
Her girlfriend is a REAL Friend in a time when not too many women are cultivating real female friendships she has a good girlfriend. I feel s😢d for this young woman follow them down this mom has been doing this her whole life.
But the mom literally said if you want it I’ll buy it and that she isn’t goin to be wearing it she is.
Good that's how it should be it's the brides day
Know she’s not! Her mother is being deliberately damaging. When you try on wedding dressed. they aren’t the right size. They alter them to fit properly.
“Because I the evil mom in here”
I love how there was literally zero hesitation for her daughter to say “YEP!”
And then her mom looking at her like that like she didn’t expect her to agree is hilarious
fr it was so manipulative
Okay but let’s give props to the friend calling the mom out “Diana we aren’t shopping for you”
Y E S
The designer of the dress was freaking horrified. She was laughing as a defense mechanism, but her face said, "I'm horrified! Somebody Duck Tape this bitch's mouth shut NOW!"
Im disgusted to be named diana now....
@@dianaa615 I am so sorry u share her name
@@dianaa615 same my name is also Diana
She’s the kind of mom that now says “no it’s ugly” and then shows up to the wedding wearing this dress
That mom envies her daughter.
😴😴
Envious mother. She thinks she look better than her daughter.
Exactly
This is so true
Fuuuck. It’s true.
The smirk on her mother’s face when she said “I don’t want it”. She won. Congratulation mom, you crushed your daughter’s self confidence. Way to go.
She was smiling for a second, until everyone around her was catching on and defending the daughter.
She probably didn't like the boobage
Mom hates the fact that she is aging.
@@20PINKluvr still. she couldve said it a little more nicer if she really did not like that part. Atleast sugarcoat it to make her daighter feel a little better since she really loved the dress.
@@20PINKluvr she was smiling. theres no reason to smile if you think your daughter's dress is inappropriate. she was just making fun of her daughter to belittle her
This daughter is absolutely GORGEOUS!!! That evil thing is jealous of her own beautiful daughter.
My thoughts exactly.
I have a feeling that is it and I find it sad that mothers can be jealous of their daughters like that.
Seriously. These women who are jealous of their beautiful daughters sounds like Snow White's mother. In the original Grimm's fairy tales, it was her mother, not stepmother, who was the evil queen.
I think she's jealous of her daughter's youth but her daughter isn't as thin as her and I bet the mom rubs that in her face. (I think the daughter is beautiful I'm just saying what I see from the mom)
Like how she was sucking up to the designer. The designer has the same "look" as the mom. Like Botox and high maintenance woman, etc.
Her mom had that narcissistic smirk on her face, watching her daughter look crushed. She was enjoying every minute of it.
Usually I hate when people use that word, because I think it devalues the whole npd diagnosis, but yeah no, we're all thinking it.
I agree she truly loves watching her lovely daughter suffer. I noticed that the toxic mom was wearing a very short dress which draws attention to herself rather than the daughter.
A part of me wanted to wipe that disgusting smirk off of her face.
I surprised the mom could smile at all, with all the work she's had done to her face. She seems like she's used to getting ALL the attention, maybe she was very beautiful when she was young, and she can't stand being older and letting her daughter have the spotlight. So sad.
So disgusting
When she did that she looked like the bigest jerk but she didn't care becouse she can't stand that it wasn't about her but her dother. Her dother has been dealing with that probobly her whole life. How can someone who is so self centerd be a parent?
i think we found the reason why she has been to 80 stores...
Exactly, I wouldn’t even bring the mother to the appointment
Ikr
Right
its prolly not the dress shop problem its the mom
This one probably wasnt the only time her mother behaved like this!!!! this makes me so sad..
If she is this toxic in front of people, imagine how she treats her daughter when no one is around.
She is a toxic middle eastern parent . She behaves the same. She has no shame and doesn't think what she is doing is wrong. She has the old mentality that if someone is bigger in size they shouldn't wear big huge gowns that make them look bigger. She doesn't consider her kid's feeling but what everyone else will think...ughhh now I'm triggered
classic narcissistic parent 🥲
@C’est la Vie It's my opinion, I can say what I want. I'm not offending anyone. The mom is Lebanese. You can't deny the truth lol..
@C’est la Vie I didn't say it's all middle eastern parents bruh...why you arguing with my on youtube?
If she's this toxic to an adult woman who is about to get married and can survive on her own. Imagine how toxic and controlling she must've been during her childhood.
Randy had me tearing up! What a sweet person. Truly deserving of kids. I also don't understand how anyone could treat their own kid that way.
Sadly there are some that really hate their kids and constantly want to control them. Not all parents are loving and sweet.
“Do you like it? I’ll pay for it and let’s GO”
This is one of the worst feelings a person can feel from a parent…
Yup my mother also acts this way towards me once my mom tells me to hurry and just get what I want after she would say she didn't like it. Even just the little things then once I get it I would sometimes cry then she would sometimes joke to me that i looked weird and laugh at me so yeah it does hurt a lot
@@yvezmia3311 I’m sorry :(
its like 5 minutes ago you loved something but as soon as they say this its like you dont want it anymore
@@yvezmia3311 omg god same my mom is so toxic
That’s exactly what my mom does and it actually hurts
The fact that this mom is acting like a condescending “popular girl” in high school makes me kinda uncomfy
Agreed, she also seems like a sassy girl
she looks like one tho :0
Chances are, she was one, and hasn't grown out of it.
Can someone please tell me this episode is of which season?
God, that is such an insightful comment, I didn’t realize it but that’s exactly what she’s acting like, eww
They should’ve kicked this mom out. She literally ruined everything
right! like the dress was so gorgeous on her and it makes me so upset that her mom laughed at her. i feel like that’s something my mom would do tbh 😭
She’s paying so they can’t kick her out
As soon as her mother opened her mouth her face just dropped I feel so bad
Ikr- she just wants her dress to be the worst-
She really said “It’s ugly!” On the bride and said “Omg I love the top” on the mannequin. Bitch wtf is wrong with this mother-
This made me cry. How could a mother be that cruel to her daughter on the most important day of her life. Randy was right to walk out on the mom.
I hate how the mom thinks that hurting her daughters confidence is a joke
Got you to 800🐸🌱💚🌿
It was obviously entertaining for her. Bully af.
It's just sickening how the mum thinks this is all bloody ok when clearly it's not
Can someone tell me this episode is of which season?
She’s a sick cruel b!tch . She was laughing at her own daughter. I can’t take it. She makes me want to puke
Her mom is making her so insecure.
Yeah
Mmhm and she looks absolutely stunning in the dress and she’s a beautiful woman I’m mad at her mom
@@_Https.maddie yeah ik
She needs to grow a backbone before walking down the aisle.
So
Randy's response is proof that a lot of the people who shouldn't have kids have them, and those who would be awesome parents don't or can't
I wish Randy would have children. He’d be a wonderful parent.
You're right. Many of us can't and it breaks my heart each and every time I see a parent degrade their child like this mother did.
The part where you said good parents don’t have kids hits hard. Honestly I think that’s where all the found family tropes in shows come from. Like jaded people being found parents. Shit hits differents
This is what I don’t understand with some of the parents on this show. THIS IS YOUR CHILD! The way they can make them cry and see them crying and still smirk and laugh. What the f@ck??? I have three sons and no daughters. I will never enjoy the pleasure of going bridal gown shopping. But if my sons ask me to take them suit shopping I will only be looking at their faces. If they walked out with a smile as big as this girl did I wouldn’t care what they were wearing. Their happiness outshines anything in this world.
Ikr. It breaks my heart when parents act like this towards their kids. If you are lucky enough to be blessed with a child you should cherish them with all your heart. Through all the ups and downs and especially their wedding.
I'm so lucky my mom is a sweetheart, I can't imagine having a mom like this.
You are lucky as not all moms are loving and sweet like the one we see here.
@@em83998 I agree and my late mom was loving but she had her flaws too. My late mom was not this bad thank goodness. I am not a mom yet but am an aunt so I know how to treat my nephews. My nephews all love me as I treat them all very well. Glad that your sister did the same.
Same, just wish it could've been like that for my dad too
It's hell you're lucky
respect to the girl who said “we’re not shopping for you” 😂
PERIODTT 🤣🤣
XD
I was looking at the commons while watching the video and as soon as I saw yours they said that XD
@@blackteababy5424 Same
😂😂pure facts
The fact she doesn’t cry or gets upset’ shows that her mother must do this all the time and she’s used to being treated that way,
Exactly. It's a first sign of being abused.
She seemed too tired to be even bothered by her behavior so she just simply gave up on the dress she loved. That's scandalous and very sad.
Agreed. This is just a normal day for her with her mom. You can tell by the stance and the fact the poor girl doesn't break down. Even when Randy tells her it's not right and it's not something that should happen. Even then she doent really react. She is so used to this behavior she can turn numb and stay in that mode. Then when someone shows affection she stays numb because she's not used to it, or feels its false due to mom's passive aggressive attitude. Hope her future husband helps her drop that toxic husk of a human called her mother.
or she doesn’t wanna cry on tv?
Her mom is a narcissist and the girl needs therapy. Her friends should've told her as much at least because she has a whole life ahead of her and she'll never be happy for as long as she keeps allowing her mom to impact her like that
I wonder how her husband treats her
“I’m hungry, I wanna go eat” why is this woman acting like one of the most important days in her daughter’s life is an errand?
Yes. I don’t see her ,I’ve never seen such an unloving Mother, I don’t see any love or any feelings towards her beautiful daughter!!! At all!so so sad.
Look at how she's dressed, at how she pulls the attention to herself. Thats a narcissist.. I totally feel for Diana..
Because she went to over 80 dress shops in 3 continents already and still had no dress. We don't know if the mother liked other dresses and the daughter did not. The mom has issues and is cold, but the daughter seems like a spoiled princess with a mommy who can afford Pinina (my spelling is awful here, apologies). Who has time and money to shop that much for a dress, even if it is a wedding dress? The mother wasn't wrong about the dress either. The daughter is beautiful and has a great body, but that dress did not suit her body type or height. It was the mother who even picked the dress, not the daughter. The daughter ended up liking it. The mother didn't. The mother was wrong about how she phrased her dislike of the dress. It was cold and rude, but I think she does care about her daughter and did not want to see her walk down the aisle in a dress that wouldn't work on her. Sometimes you need to take these shows with a grain of salt. If they are losing a sale on a $10k dress, of course they might make the person objecting feel bad and say things like...what kind of person are you. I think Randy is too sanctimonious and putting down the person with the credit card, not a great idea in real life.
Oh please ! The mom was cold but she was right. The 👗 doesn't flattering her girl. Not at all. For sure the way mom acted was bad. But the girl has no taste. And friends & vendor are just hypocrites.
Like girl go eat afterwards for celebration your daughter is happy 🙄
I come back to this clip a lot. My mom is exactly like that. It gives me so much hope to see people who see how she is and that people care so much. It reminds me not to shut people out because of how someone acts amd people truly are better than what my mother says.
My late mom was sort of like this too but not this bad. This mom takes the cake.
ME TOO!!! I literally watch this over and over again like I get such comfort knowing I’m not alone with a narcissistic mother. It’s so sad when I get more love and empathy from strangers than my own mother. I’m sorry you are going through this and for anyone that has a narcissist for a mother.
My mom is too, as is my brother. If I like something or someone, whatever or whoever it may be, they will mercilessly mock and heckle me for any and every interest I show. So, I don't tell them anything anymore. And they are act clueless about why they are now locked out of my life.
The fact she’s smiling after destroying her daughters confidence is just sick
I agree
I agree, just because she thinks she’s the mom doesn’t mean she’s a queen the bride is SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY DRESS honestly
Yesss
I feel her. My mom is always criticizing my outfit.
agreed
"I see it on the mannequin it looked different but on her it's ugly I don't like it"
such a wholesome thing to say to your daughter who found a dress she liked after visiting 80 stores.
I think the daughter maybe didn't really even like the dress because SHE liked it but cause her mom said she loves it at the beginning. I bet they wasted time in 80 stores cause the bride was too busy looking for smth that would please the MOM and not her, in which case, she might as well just not get married cause I doubt she'll ever find an actual dress her mom likes
@@sin3358 or maybe this mom just kept judging every thing she likes until she didnt like it anymore
The first dress wasn't flattering. The mother should have said that in a supportive manner.
Mom’s like this think the day is about them
The first dress didn't look good on the bride yes!! It looked beautiful on the mannequin.. true... But the mother could have said that in a less hurtful way. 😭
I bet it's the moms fault that the daughter went to EIGHTY ONE STORES for a dress. She's awful.
Cause all of them showed cleavage. I wouldnt want my daughter to wear that
Exactly what I was thinking.
@@20PINKluvr It's just cleavage. She's a woman, so yes she has cleavage big deal... You put her in this world like this, why criticize your daughter's body in a dress and say what she can and can't wear? Your children are individuals and don't live for you. They live for themselves.
@@20PINKluvr women have cleavage?!? how surprising.
@@20PINKluvr don't reproduce
I don’t know how many years/episodes I’ve watched say yes to the dress but I think she is absolutely the most beautiful bride I’ve ever seen- for her to not want to look at herself in the mirror literally gave me a physical pain. She deserves so much love, self-love, and respect from others. And simply to be able to enjoy her life and special day
It looked like she had a nice wedding and did find a nice dress. But who knows what happened behind closed doors.
The idea that she has now been to 82 stores and hasn't found a dress makes me think that her mother has treated her this way 82 times over her wedding dress, which is just heart breaking.
I was just thinking that. I was like “wow! 82 stores? That’s a lot does she want something very specific?” Then when her mom made that comment it clicked. Like, “ohhhh now I see what happened here”
No. She said it herself at the beginning. There's got to be a better one somewhere. May not be the mum.
This is exactly what I was thinking and the fact that this young lady didn’t shed any tears bc she’s numb to this abuse breaks my heart for her. She’s so beautiful, I hope she’ll love herself one day enough to ignore her vile mother.
@@gabrielphee watching the way the mum reacted to every dress she tried on leads me to believe that the reason she hasn't found a "better dress" is because her mum has continually behaved like this and the girl has been conditioned to believe her.
@@meemurthelemur4811 From the video, we can only see reaction to one try. There is no reacting to every dress. That is a hasty generalisation.
It's very clear to me that this woman feels like she's a hot mom and her daughter is average at best I have a feeling that this woman has been criticizing her daughter's appearance since she was a little girl
Sadly a lot of moms do this and it’s really sad. Emotional factors in stuff like this
That’s the vibe I got and it killed her to see her daughter look stunning cause she did look gorgeous in that dress and is younger and prettier than herself so she had to kill her spirit.
For me it seemed like the mom was always a hottie and always grabbing the attention, but now she is just "The Mom of the Beautiful" and feels the attention going over to her Daughter and gets jelous...thats the Vibe that I get
I just thought of that thanks for the insight
You just summed up my life. I know how she feels
The mom really did gaslight her daughter. "Fine, buy it! Lets go" thats 110% the definition of guilt tripping.
That’s what my mom did to me when I was picking prom dresses :/ wonder what she will be like when it’s my turn to pick a wedding dress
Yeah and at the end when she said "I'm the evil mom" glad the daughter said yeah instead of giving in to that guilt tripping
My mom always did this to me when we were shopping. Not as intensely as the video but I know exactly how she feels.
guilt tripping yes, gaslighting no. those aren’t the same things. it’s good to call bad behavior out when we see it, but we can’t just be calling everything abusive gaslighting.
That's what my mom does,is that really guilt tripping?
I can relate to Randy, it took me many years to have children and I don’t know how anyone could treat their daughter like that. She was literally glowing in that dress, how can you as a mother crush you child’s confidence like that?
Sadly there are mothers and fathers too that literally hate their children. I felt that way with my late parents. At times they can be loving but at times they can be so brutal.
I feel like she’s one of those moms who is weirdly competitive with their daughters and will put them down so they don’t feel outshined. Sad.
Wonder if she showed up at her daughter's wedding wearing a white dress designed to sort of resemble a wedding gown. I saw one post where a young woman said that her MIL actually did wear a wedding gown to the wedding. She cut the train off and said that made it no longer a wedding gown. She apparently was one of those women who felt like SHE should be marrying her son instead of the bride marrying her son. She even jumped between the bride and groom when they were trying to take pictures of JUST the two of them. What sort of psycho person does that to her son and his brand new wife?
Yes. My thoughts exactly. It’s a competition.
Yes!! Exactly!
Spot on. She's a narcissist, this is how they treat their daughters. I would get married at the courthouse, before taking a dime from her or even include her in the wedding. She lost the right to call herself a mother, being that cruel and abusive. All she did was give birth.
literally.
I am disgusted on how the mom smiled after she made her daughter upset.
Narcissists are happy only when their victim are sad ‼️Those want's to control, destroy and dim another humans light ‼️
@@tovenrvik6336 that’s true
She’s absolutely disgusting. Why would you want to make your own child feel horrible about herself?
Narcissists get their Narcissistic supply by abusing others, so when she have said what she should, she smiled‼️Narcissists need supply as others need oxygen ‼️We shall be glad if we don't have a mother like her, but I had a Narcissistic mother who saw me as an extension of herself ‼️A Narcissist can't stand to see others shine, those are full of hate, ans are envios and jelous of others, their biggest joy is to control a target and dim their light‼️Many daughters have sent me messages and told their mother are like her in the move, and that are so sad‼️💎Starseed Heyoka.
My dad is somewhat of a narcissist at times in the sense that he just doesn’t seem to be happy with what I do. At least in my experience. Telling him how I feel would be pointless because he’ll just end up dismissing me as being dramatic or some bs
I HATE this mom. She is so rude and is putting her daughter down.
@@isabellej81 ya-
Her Mom is rude mean she think she all thatshe should not go with her daughter anymore stay home jerk
@@isabellej81 I am so sorry. I would never treat my girls like this, where is the love? Life just seems to be about the mother.
This was my mom when i bought my prom dress. She told me i was too fat for it and looked like a beached whale. I never sent to prom and still have it packaged newly in my closet
There is so many mothers like that
"I just want to get a dress, pay for it and leave... I'm hungry. I want to go eat. Haha." Narcissist.
Going to Klienfelds is a whole experience. You don’t just “get it and go” like you just popped into the store to buy milk. The daughter tried on the dress her mom picked, probably to please her, and then this awful woman goes, Well I liked it on the mannequin but it doesn’t look good on Her. And she made Randy cry.
When Randy said “it would be a dream of mine to have children, how could you treat your child that way?” I almost cried omg
Gay men are great dads because they have to work so hard to become one.
@@feet300 is Randy gay? Sorry I’m new
@@aangrylemon1291 isn't it obvious? Haha
Bruh I will be Randy’s child
Same
The fact that she didn’t even cry just shows that her mom does this to her often…
She probably did find a dress she liked at all of those past appointments.
@@XuiLeeEv fr
@@XuiLeeEv ikr
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@Hello It's K Absolutely, but some mothers are like that. The daughter seems lovely.
The bride didn't search for a perfect dress, she's searching for an unconditional love from her mother
Poor bride 😢
Amen 🙏🏻 Exactly this.
Yes, most children of narcissists grow up to feel like they are never enough.
Karma is a bitch. These types never change. They usually end up old, bitter and alone.
Yes
I've watched this so many times. Samantha's mother is a self centered witch. She needs to take the other 2 girls
I love my mom so much. I got my dress a few days ago and she was beaming through the whole process. We researched dresses together for months to find the style I was going for and when I had to go in and pick some dresses to try on she was the one person who I asked to help me. She was actually the one who pulled the dress I got. My mom mad me feel so beautiful and I am so sorry to the beautiful ladies who don’t have that experience with their mothers.
Her "mom" so easily complimented the other lady yet can't even be bothered to squeeze one nice thing out for her own child. Some people shouldn't be involved in planning important events.
Some people shouldn't have children either.
Like having a child? SMH. Some people should truly, sincerely NOT be parents. :-( Wish Randy could adopt Samantha!
999 likes, made it 1k :) lmao
@@v.3314-t1w stole the words from my mouth!💯
That is cultural Arabs for you- gentle with others but harsh on her own blood. 🤣
The mom sitting there, SMIRKING as her daughter is IN TEARS-that's the definition of toxic.
Rt!
Well she wasn’t in tears but like yah
It’s no wonder she’s been to 81 stores. Her mom is a WITCH.
Welcome to narcissistic mothers.....
Just relized my mum is toxic ✌️
Bc my mum act the same
I just think she was JEALOUS how beautiful her daughter looked in that dress. Reminded me of snow white and her step mother.
THIS. Actually the true story of Snow White was that it WAS her real mom. Disney changed it for the kids.
I think the dress swallowed the girl. Too big on her.
Just wrote the same thing about Snow White and her stepmother!
Though I do think this wasn't the perfect dress for her. Still, the way her mother made it all about herself, was so not okay.
@@ww4734 why Couldn't they just not make this a story...i feel bad how they changed it to step mom from real mom for the kids but used step moms as villain. Not good at all
Step mom's are loving too. They need to stop putting these in kids head that a step mom is evil.
@@tabassum9401 that’s true. A lot of step mom are loving and maternal, a lot of biological moms are not.
I'm so sorry for her. She was absolutely shattered. Randy was such a gentleman, the way he just comforted her and supported her. How all the staff rose to the occasion and supported her. I hope she found her dream dress.
She’s one of those mothers who doesn’t see her daughter as her “daughter”, more like competition and she’s been controlling that girl since she came out of her birth canal.
No Arab, Indian, Pakistani and Afghani moms are boss and brutal honest if you do not like to bad
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 As an Indian myself, I disagree with your opinion. You can't justify a person's mean and narcissistic behaviour on their ethnicity and no, Indian moms are definitely not like this.
@@lijajohnson9862 depends
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 so sorry you know people like that, but there is no excuse to how she treated her daughter.
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134
I’m Lebanese (like the people in the video) and blaming her behavior on the fact that she’s Lebanese makes no sense at all, most Lebanese mothers aren’t anything like this. My mother is full blooded Lebanese and she’s one of the kindest, most loving people I know. Ngl your comment felt kind of racist, saying all middle eastern and Indian parents are like the mother in the video is generalizing and wrong.
The mother is a classic manipulative narcissist. This poor daughter is trying to chase her approval, like trying to catch the wind it will never happen.
Yes. She was jealous of her daughter
wait-
i thought this was normal-
@@layanmalla2914 No
@@layanmalla2914 no
@@layanmalla2914 well that's same how my mom would react.
“All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children .” -Lots of YT comments
It’s very true tho.
Nk . Mo00008
Very true
So very true!!!
Well said
I love the fact this video is online and everyone is commenting on how horrible this mother is. I hope she sees this. I hope she understands how hateful she is. I hope she regrets her behavior. So selfish. So disgusting.
Lol this a reality show, one with many reported fake conflicts, as it is with reality shows - the trashiest form of entertainment media.
You don't know their real life dynamic or how the dressing tour has gone up to this moment. For all we know this *could* very well be a case of 80 stores in 2 continents not satisfying a spoiled rich daughter, and she couldn't live with her mom not liking the dress when she finally found it, in which case the mom would be justifiably ready to completely done with it.
The mom saying to Pinina over and over how she was looking at her outfit and not at her daughter was not misunderstanding anything. She is a nasty woman.
People like that never change. They just think everyone else is wrong.
@@VinnieMF Have you ever gone bridal shopping before? If you haven't, you have zero clue what you're talking about.
@@VinnieMF Even if it is fake, there are people out there who do go through this. Who do have parents like that. Let's let them know this is not okay and it is not their fault.
Also, no, I can't imagine this would have been the case. If the mother was so very done with the shopping spree why on Earth would she have said she hates the dress on her daughter? Makes no sense to me.
“I like her outfit, where’d you get it” “I just want to go eat” She literally only cares about herself 🤦🏾♀️
Honestly. She seems to only think of herself in life. I can’t imagine how she will pretend the wedding is hers throughout. She seems like a control freak too.
For people like her the only thing I can say is hope you like your eventual retirement home cause your daughter will be the one picking it.
Imagine the mother is jealous.
Spoken like the absolute narcissist that she is.
I looked back and my comment and still feel the same.
This isn’t even constructive criticism this is just bullying...
My sister married into a Lebanese family. Their culture is just very straight-forward and no-nonsense which is often perceived as rude. At first I was very shocked or concerned about the way my sisters new family was acting, but they are actually very sweet people just very honest. Keep in mind this is also reality tv, so they could’ve very well cut out some of the positive things she said.
@@simplygina7703 just saying there is a difference between being straight forward and rude. This lady's behaviour - atleast what was shown on screen - was rude.
@@W-I463 It seems like english isn't her first language (or that she's not proficient in English.) Who knows, if she leaned the language better, maybe she would've phrased her words better.
I love your profilpicture
@@123shortkarma___9 No rude is the same in every language
The mother is clearly narcissistic and has been abusing and gaslighting her daughter throughout her entire life. Why hasn’t anyone seen this before????
Yep I see it. Mine is narcissistic too and would do the same if this was my bridal appointment. This shit is sad!
Yes, she is a narcissist.
My father is narcissistic I know how it feels......
Yup same my mom too, horrible horrible attitude.
👍 Good comment. It's sad that most people aren't aware of what Narcissistic behaviour is. It can be years down the line when they've been hurt one time too many that they go seek answers. ☹️ and usually by that time they're in their 40s and 50s. This sort of psychology should be taught in schools.
Her mom is the devil, I hate how her confidence went from 100-0. She looked absolutely stunning in the dress and the fact that her mother enjoys taunting her really hurts.
Randy was the perfect surrogate parent that this girl needed during the aftermath of a toxic mother. Sometimes a stranger can be kinder to you than your own family.
He has that "grandma" personality.
She probably went to all those stores because her mother was being judgey.
Exactly what I was just thinking. Her mom probably acted that same way in every store, laughing at her daughter in every dress she put on. I feel so bad for her and just want to give her a hug and tell her she's beautiful and worthy of a happy life with her man and that her mother's snarky opinions shouldn't matter because she's perfect the way she is.
It’s like she’s purposely trying to make her daughter feel bad. She isn’t your high school rival Karen, she’s your daughter.
Yes that was what I was thinking
Exactly, she probably had already found a dress that she liked but then her mother ruined it for her. Makes the whole are you sure this is the dress thing at the beginning shine in a whole different light.
They've been to 81 stores because her mom hates everything she likes. She's trying to please her mother at the cost of her own happiness. She needs to stop bringing her mom with her.
That's something I noticed for a LOT of brides in the show. Itvs always "my mom and I don't get along" THEN WHY BRING HER TO THE SALON OF SHE JUST MAKES YOU MISERABLE
@@wonderlandartwork3579 i think its so normal just to bring your mother no matter what. not only that a lot of the time the family pays (like the mom in this situation). it honestly hurts seeing these toxic mothers just treat their daughters in such mean ways
A lot of the time this happens because the person feels like not including the mother (or other toxic person in the situation) would turn out worse than bringing her. Like here, she said she didn't want the dress anymore because she knew her mother would be shit talking it behind her back at the wedding. Imagine what her mom would do if the bride told her she couldn't help to pick out the dress at all. Guarantee the mom would trash talk any dress she brought home in that scenario, and would even be likely to shit talk her own daughter to anyone who'd listen for not including her in the process.
@@singingwolf8997 that checks out. People SUCK
Why would anyone bring their mother with them? The only reason I can think of is if the mother is paying for the dress, and even then her opinion is not required and should not be welcome.
This poor woman. My mother could be brutal, laughing at my hair, makeup, clothing, making passive aggressive comments about my parenting. The day she said made a comment about my son I tore into her. She had the audacity to cry and play victim. I know what this woman is going through. It's tough. But I bet she will be an amazing mother because she knows how NOT to be a mother.
“Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child” 😔
Children deserve GOOD parents. A "mother" like this is worse than no mother at all.
Completely agree.
👏 👏 👏
@@Serai3 no not really
@@AshleyyRobinsonn Plenty of people raised by abusive parents would agree it's worse than not having them.
“I cant walk down the isle knowing that she doesnt like it”
This girl has been manipulated by her mother
No that’s just a common thing that people feel. They want validation from there mother
@@yougsa a mother should teach her daughter to value her feelings and needs above other ppls wants its normal to want validation from a parent its not normal for it to be debilitating codependency
@@jsjgfdhgfsf9693 Indeed. This girl shouldn’t feel like she has to make her mother happy. This is HER wedding, not her bitchass mother’s. I think she’s better off not inviting her mother to the wedding if she’s gonna be like that
@@yougsa absolutely not, this is manipulation at its finest
@@royal3809 mm that’s completely your opinion
Randy admitting he always dreamed of having children makes me love him.
You can tell he got emotional after dealing with the mother.
I hope that dream comes true someday
“i can just feel the love in the room”
i love randy sm
It’s like she’s purposely trying to make her daughter feel bad. She isn’t your high school rival Karen, she’s your daughter.
Sad to think how long this has been going on. I wouldn't doubt if it was her whole life.
💯. She's acting exactly like that!
She's cruel
@@pinningformichigan8120
people say you should love your close ones no matter what and forgive them, but again, just because someone is your blood , doesn't mean you have to put up with them, cause its not fair to you
As someone who's mother is like this.. ding ding ding.... it's been like that her whole life. From my teeth to me "looking like I'm wearing a diaper" in a skirt... that's been my mom forever.
“It’s because I am an evil mom”
“Yep”
YES GIRL SAY IT
AND THEN THE MOM HAD THE AUDACITY TO LOOK SURPRISED LMAOOOO 😭😭🤚
I felt so proud of her when she said that! I could never be brave enough to confront my mother like that
It won't change anything. These mom's know how they are. They think they know best and everyone else is wrong. So many Arab parents are like this (including mine).
Trying to guilt trip her own daughter the whole time so gross
Timestamp?
RANDY is disgusted. Yeah, he’s not the only one. 🙄
Your not the only one here sis.
@@jellycube6364 babes what😀
@@emilyvazquez3877 what?
@@emilyvazquez3877 i meant im disgusted,that mOm literally made fun of her daughter when others can only dream of having kids.
@@wyewonn Um no he's not, he finds it gross that the mother is putting down her own child like that over a dress
i am crying for her. being raised by someone like this is absolutely soulcrushing. i hope her mother is not in her life anymore and that she is healing.
That dress is stunning. It’s made for her. The sad part is that she has probably found a dress she likes in all the stores she’s been to but it’s her mom.
That's what I was thinking.
As soon as I saw the way the mom acted, it just clicks to why they’ve been to so many stores. This is most likely a repeating cycle, and thats honestly so cruel.
Yeah i think she already found a perfect dress but her mom is on her way
@Angel Bulldog3 the dress isn't fitted yet. they purposely make a larger size so brides can try them on
The way the mom acted was terrible but the dress was horrendous. It had too much going on and it wasn’t flattering around the bust at all. The dress was wearing her, not the other way around. That’s the problem with a lot of Pnina Tornai’s dresses.
what's even more saddening is the daughter probably chose this dress because her mom liked it when she saw it in the mannequin 😭
Yeah but come on mom is kinda right,she didnt really look good in it..too poofy and ..just not a good fit
You're right!
Mum is never pleased
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 but she’s happy in it so it doesn’t matter, she looks beautiful because it’s something she loves!!! Her mother is destroying her confidence, she was already having a hard time finding the perfect dress and trust me on your wedding day nothing matters more to a girl than her dress. The mother could have constructed her criticism much better than what she did.
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 _yeah but it's not her mom's wedding doesn't really matter that the mom didn't like her dress the fact of the matter is that she loved the dress and she really wanted it to be her wedding dress and it really is upsetting that she couldn't have it_
I adore Randy. He is so kind and caring. He’s also such a gentleman. He’s a great example to follow. He’s a handsome, dignified but also fabulous man.
I absolutely agree with you, such a kind, caring, loving man ❤
very true :)
I agree! I love him ^w^
i soo agree !! im a big randy enjoyer and lover
A great consultant as well if I was the girl I would’ve appreciated the help and kindness randy showed her
Found an update to this, the total shops she went to ended up being 100 and she did get married, there was no mention if the mother was present or not.
I absolutely hope that the mom was not only no longer invited to the wedding, but out of the bride’s life. The bride looked like royalty in that dress.
NOW WE KNOW WHY SHE'S BEEN TO 81 STORES... THX TO DIANNA, THE HEARTLESS MOM!
Exactly what I was thinking. No wonder she hasn’t found the dress, her own mother puts her down every time she finds one she’s likes. It’s heartbreaking.
Sounds like mum wanted to have her five minutes of fame.
The fact she was still smiling/ laughing after the daughter wasn’t even looking at herself in the mirror
Yesss this moment drove me insane. The daughter was near tears and sounded so defeated yet she sat on the couch smirking
Drama of tv 🤨
The problem wasn’t the dress, the problem was to bring mom with you knowing how she is, the first 2 ok l get it after she made those comments leave mom home and go shop by yourself
Yess she wasn't taking this day serious i would have bought that dress it was soo beautiful 😍
Shes lebanese all arab moms are like that
The fact that she just laughs and can’t see what she’s doing wrong is so upsetting and the she got offended when her daughter agreed with her that she was evil.
Narcissism in its purest form, everyone sees it except the monster.
@@acer4237 You are not wrong, she is a monster.
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I think she knew exactly what she was doing. Mama's just jealous Dat wasn't about her.
I'm pretty sure that the fact they've gone to so many salons is because of the daughter being scared of this reaction from her mom.
Yes to Randy’s feelings! He is soooooooo right!
Okay, here's the plan: Mom is uninvited to the wedding, Randy adopts this beautiful woman and finds her the dress of her dreams.
Underated comment. I wish this happened
totally on board! Let's go!
Agreed he would be a way better parent
Randy should adopt her
It's a truly sad state of affairs when a gay man can be a better father to a stranger woman than the woman's OWN mother??!! 🤔🤨😒
The fact that she's not having a breaking down crying just shows she's been treated like that her whole life but she's been told her mom is great because she has money.
It’s shows nothing. The most it shows is that she’s a calm person that knows how to hide her emotions
@@yougsa it shows that the mother is so heartless and cold that her daughter is forced to remain “”calm”” when being verbally abused.
@@invu_lynn y’all assume everything no matter wtf it is don’t ya? I know people with great lives and parents who are just calm people and don’t start bawling there eyes out over something trivial
@@yougsa As someone that had a mother like that, that isnt “calm”. I will not be responding to you further as you seem to be the type to be like that mother.
@@yougsa Yeah the problem is that , that girl doesn't have a great mom. The people you know have great parents. Of course they would be calm and insults doesn't affect them.
I feel like the mom is in a way body-shaming her daughter. Mannequin has the "perfect body" so anything on a Mannequin looks great, The daughter looks beautiful in the dress too. Also, Some of the moms on this show are so entitled, like it's not your wedding if your daughter feels good in the dress then that is all that matters.
Ok but I don’t see how the mom doesn’t think the daughter looks good. I honestly think she looks better than the mannequin. That daughter is so pretty I’d be suprised if she didn’t look good in it
Yeah shes beautiful in the dress
That mom is so over done with plastic surgery and the “real housewives look” and the daughter is a natural beauty. I’m thinking mom is jealous.
The daughter looks nice in it. Once it was fitted for her it would look amazing. The mom is something else.
This is exactly what I was thinking
The best is the end where the mom says "Because I'm the evil mom here" and the daughter agrees and the look on the mom's face is everything. So hurtful that you would do that to your daughter and laugh at her.
When Randy said he couldn’t believe the way the mom treated her child, when it is his dream to have kids, my heart just shattered. I bet he would be a better parent than that mom, but life’s so unfair.
it crushed my soul, when he said that
When your child is shopping for the most important day of their life, it's all about them. Not what you like, want, think, but what rocks their world and makes them feel the prettiest, handsomest. most special person. I felt really sad for this young woman. I hope they eloped.
Correct!!!!
Indeed, Randy's heartfelt counselling to that poor young woman was the highlight of this otherwise pathetic parading of hostility for "entertainment".
@@junipervip681 true!!!🤗
She's JEALOUS of her daughter, because she's the center of attention instead of her.
So true , absolutely agree that woman Is a narcissist and that 's why she treats her daughter that way , she can not handle that her daughter is the only one who matters at moment .
Bingo! #divamom
And she’s more beautiful
Absolutely. Narcarsist's always have to have all eyes in them. In addition, they also have to be the ones manopolizing all conversations, where other people can not contribute to the conversation otherwise.
"At some point, you have to think about not disappointing Samantha" - such an important message, and delivered with such kindness and grace
Now, on to the most important thing; that poor girl didn’t want a dress. She wanted her mother to look at her and say she’s beautiful. And her mother never will. Just breaks my heart.
That part.
You are EXACTLY right.
the mother is jealous of her daughters flawless face, while she has aged and no longer looks 20. disgusting woman.
😔
@Alize Farhin It’s not of a girl’s life, it’s of a person’s life.
When Randy said “It would be a dream of mine to have children” and was apologizing to her... that broke my heart.
That got me as well. Having a child of your own is such a gift, that many woman and men don't get the luxury of experiencing. Not only that, but your girl is getting married! You should be so excited. Making her feel good about herself, making sure she feels comfortable in what she's wearing and most of all making sure she gets what SHE wants for her special day. But this "mother" wants to make jokes, turn the attention off of her daughter and make it seem like choosing a wedding dress isn't that important. That's not being a mother, that's being a bully.
me too 😞
I love randy he’s such a sweetheart actually everyone there is. I loved how randy handled the situation.
If he wants children he should have children. He would be an amazing father. Heck maybe Samantha can boot her mom to the curb and Randy can be her parent.
@@flarrow24 I know the way he talked to her at the end and gave her a hug just broke me I cried. But happy tears she needed that after the way her mom was 😭😊❤️.
When Randy said “it would be a dream of mine to have children”.......made me feel so sad. What a great, supportive and loving Dad he would be.
Randy would make a beautiful father 😢
Right! He is so sweet and warm.
Plus this girl super pretty and nice! She would look gorgeous in anything. I hope at least her husband treats her right and with respect
He'd be an amazing role model
He could tho? Even if he doesn't have a biological child, he could adopt?
When my daughter tried on her wedding dress, I cried and told her how stunningly beautiful she is! My daughter is so petite they took the dress right off the mannequin and it got her perfectly! She kept saying “Mom why are you crying?” I said because I’ve never seen anything more beautiful in my life. And then she started crying happy tears and hugged. I could NEVER treat my baby, my daughter, my best friend like this. My heart truly hurts for this young woman!
I have a feeling she’s gone to so many stores because the mom keeps doing this. Some people are defending the mom because she’s paying but no, she’s just rude and a bully.
I was thinking the same thing
Nadiicruz Ur absolutely right, that woman, cause shes no mum, is nothing but a bully, Samanthas face lit up when she saw herself in the mirror, them boom she gets slagged by her mum, shame on u x
Agreed. People don't just pop up with behavior out of nowhere. I'm betting this daughter has seen this a lot.
My thoughts exactly!!! Her mom needs to keep her mouth shut
@Elizabeth Alberico Yeah lol, I watch these when I’m supposed to be watching my classes so I don’t check my spelling. Thanks for telling me.
Randy wants a child so bad but i would kill to have a parent like him
Yeah, he is so kind... Can we just move in to the salon as adoptive children? :)
I'm thinking same. He's so sweet.
Same tho Why can’t he adopt us? :(
I hope you're not saying this because your father is like her mother.... if that's the case I'm so sorry 😞
I know right Randy is the perfect person to become a parent
She's not having a hard time finding a dress. She's having a hard time finding her mothers approval. Poor Samantha. Hope Mario takes her far away from that witch of a mother.
Amen! Far far away!
She’s the kind of mom that now says “no it’s ugly” and then shows up to the wedding wearing this dress
@@serinathomas7335 did you just copy the comment above word for word
@@serinathomas7335 not you copying what someone else said-
Her mother should help her not laugh at her. Gee if she can’t stand looking at her daughter then she shouldn’t be there
I love Randy !!! And he would be an amazing Father !!! Never loose ur heart feelings Randy. U can sure tell u were raised with a lot of love and care.
I hate that at the end she calls herself a evil mom as a joke but when Samantha agrees she is surprised.
I actually thought, good on you Samantha. very concise and blasted 'Mommy dearest' right out of the water.
The usual surprised Pikachu face of an entitled, self centered Karen, when faced with the truth about herself.
She was trying to play The victim card, well done "mom"
That was her failed attempt at gaslighting.
The mom totally played herself LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣
The sad part is that this woman doesn't even realize she's being so mean. I wouldn't say this usually, but this is abusive.
Oh no. She knew exactly what she was doing. Women like that behave this way because their whole life, nobody ever told them it was wrong. Until the staff and friends didn't back her up the way her cronies always have, and then she's left there feeling stupid. As she should.
@@sonjafrost4 if she's a narcissist she really does not see wrong, she's only thinking about herself and will day this things cause she really thinks them not to hurt the daughter that's just s consequence... Some moms are like that...
Narcissistic seems like the best wordx
She knew exactly what she was doing. People were telling her to her face how she sounded and she still spoke out about it
Mom has psychopathic tendencies.
the mom doesn’t even hate the dress, she probably just jealous that her kid gets to wear a beautiful dress and she doesn’t.
Factss
It seems to me that Mom is single and it doesn't surprise me with a shitty attitude like that. She's clearly a narcissist.
Same
I think she’s jealous that she’s not as youthful. It’s so petty.
So true.. if there was other sections instead of being just bridal, pretty sure the mom would have ran off to shop for herself without second thought
Randy is a true Gem and I hope he can have a family of his own because he’d be an amazing parent.
“Yep, because I’m the evil mom.” The ease in the way she tried guilt tripping her daughter makes me so upset.
Same. Like yes you were in that moment. How hard is it to understand
And when her daughter said 'yep'', she looks shocked because her guilt trip backfired
Yes...she is the evil 😈 mom...my heart broke for this girl....I wonder what dress she finally bought??? I wish they'd have an update on some of these shows!!! My mom wasn't as bad as this one but I bought and chose my wedding dress all by myself...didn't even take my bride's maids along....enough said on that...I hope this girl finally gets sick and tired of taking this horrible treatment from her evil mother...maybe her husband will have enough of the mom too and speak up for the girl and shut that awful woman down!!!
Reminded me of Mother Gothel from "Tangled." "Great, now _I'm_ the bad guy."
It really is such a common thing with narcissistic parenting, my own mom is very similar where if you try to talk to her about something she does that hurts you, she will twist it into a way where she's the victim and you're being a bitch who should feel guilty. Parents like this will never own up to their shortcomings or change for the better, and I really hope this girl finds the strength to go no or low-contact with her mom. I'm a sure a weight will be lifted from her shoulders when she gets that space from her.
She’s the type of person to say “I’m just honest” literally every time they make a ridiculous or hurtful comment
That is how my mother operates
@@erinpoppert4472 same lol
YES. I had a friend like that in high school. She would tear everyone down but when they’d ignore her or end a friendship, it was because they “couldn’t handle her honesty” 🤦♀️
or "its just a joke"
My best friend ahahahaha
What a horrible mother, ruining her daughter's wedding, when she clearly loved the dress. She was struggling not to cry, and I almost cried for her. That woman is a monster. Randy is right.
The daughter is just so sweet and graceful though. Hope she’s happy.
No she is not. Mom is right that dress is not looking good on her
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 the bride likes the dress. The mother could have said I don’t like it as much as I thought or said something kinder. She completely destroyed her daughter’s confidence.
@@jemmajens9583 relax. She is a great mom. All these reality shows are scripted. Narcissistic mother potrayal have bought more views.
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 idc if it’s scripted or not. How that woman is talking about her daughter isn’t okay, and if it is scripted, doesn’t mean it makes that behaviour okay, it’s an example of a terrible parent either way.
I would hire these salespeople in a heartbeat. Honest, cheerful, and amazing. Great job.
The mom saying that she’s the bad guy at the end reminded me of Tangled with Gothel saying “now I’m the bad guy” such a common manipulation tactic. Disgusting
And she was shocked when it didn’t work!
@@pitredish76 you can tell she’s been doing it for so long. It really hurts to see this
yup, they play the victim card
I realized she was kinda gaslighting her daughter just like how Mother Gothel did it by saying she loved the dress, not liking it, and loving it. That's one sign of gaslighting that I noticed and when she said "I'm the evil mom.." I went "Wow, she's Mother Gothel in the flesh!"
Yep this is confirmed my mom's hella manipulative