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  • @AbaNPreach
    @AbaNPreach  Год назад +510

    Rate yourselves 1-30
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  • @kamwinalisa2815
    @kamwinalisa2815 Год назад +2697

    "28 going on 80" 😂😂😂 Aba's pettiness towards Fresh is a 10/10

    • @linusettu
      @linusettu Год назад +119

      shit had me dying 😭😭😭

    • @dogwarrior54
      @dogwarrior54 Год назад +28

      You guys noticed that too huh! Would you say shots fired?

    • @bxi1547
      @bxi1547 Год назад +13

      Yeah that had me like wth

    • @TuAmigoElMorrocoy
      @TuAmigoElMorrocoy Год назад +62

      28?? There is no way Fresh in in his 20s... that bald spot and eye bags is giving me AT LEAST 35.

    • @franklingoodwin
      @franklingoodwin Год назад +16

      My theory is that they chose to react to that video just for an excuse to be petty to Fresh. I'm all for it 😂

  • @drethethinker6418
    @drethethinker6418 Год назад +7051

    My fave is the one when the girl rated a chubby guy a 3...then rated herself a 10, and the next guy said she look like a lizard. I pray she saw that clip and it humbled tf out of her.

    • @JT-bt6jy
      @JT-bt6jy Год назад +276

      Tbf she was asked the question and answered honestly. If the chubby dude was a 3 the he is a 3. She was right

    • @JedoRPG
      @JedoRPG Год назад +1283

      I mean to be fair she could be a 10 to the lizard community.

    • @JMJ5LIVING5SINGLE
      @JMJ5LIVING5SINGLE Год назад +155

      @@JedoRPG Hilarious

    • @gutzz1519
      @gutzz1519 Год назад +31

      Timestamp/link?

    • @Channel-23s
      @Channel-23s Год назад +163

      @@JT-bt6jy best not to throw stones while she lives in a glass house tbh

  • @victorlogan5038
    @victorlogan5038 Год назад +2625

    Accepting that you’re average or the reality of where you are doesn’t mean one has low self esteem. It just means you’re self aware.

    • @Solitaire427
      @Solitaire427 Год назад +130

      Exactly. It means you live in reality not in delusion.

    • @morris9973
      @morris9973 Год назад +99

      and the irony is: as you go through life, you'll see the value of being self aware.

    • @dmani8791
      @dmani8791 Год назад +47

      Facts, a lot it women arent good at this tho. They build a lot of delusions for themselves 😬

    • @Shark-hn4mv
      @Shark-hn4mv Год назад +51

      Very true. Many women act like they have to see themselves as the best looking to display confidence, but actual confidence is knowing you're average and being chill with it. The latter wins more respect too, so it's amazing that so many choose the former.

    • @The1Shawn
      @The1Shawn Год назад +9

      Exactly brother! I mean hell i know im a 2 and only thing keepin me from a 0 is my personality!

  • @dustin0579
    @dustin0579 Год назад +961

    "Shout out to my negatives..." and a flash of Hawking across the screen killed me 🤣
    I spit my drink all over my phone, now I gotta put this shit in some rice 😭

    • @thomaslewis247
      @thomaslewis247 Год назад +35

      I started crying 😭

    • @NatashaVincent
      @NatashaVincent Год назад +61

      RIP to that man. Literally. 😭

    • @bryansantoyo8597
      @bryansantoyo8597 Год назад +17

      Naw bruh I started crying when I seen that 😂😂😂😂

    • @MaddyIntravia
      @MaddyIntravia Год назад +10

      Yeah I burst out laughing lol both times be flashed the picture 📸😅

    • @solomonokpobrisi4799
      @solomonokpobrisi4799 Год назад +6

      Happened to me exactly the moment. I saw this comment. Now I've got fanta all over my PC

  • @lethabomalatjiot
    @lethabomalatjiot Год назад +1972

    It's really okay not to be desired by everyone. Being desired and valued is not the same thing.

    • @someblaqguy
      @someblaqguy Год назад +27

      So very true

    • @saninkontron925
      @saninkontron925 Год назад +14

      What is the diff between "desired" and "valued" ?

    • @Mastikator
      @Mastikator Год назад +169

      @@saninkontron925 Respect is the difference. Being sexy may make you desired, but not respected.

    • @PCLHH
      @PCLHH Год назад +2

      FACTS

    • @solidway
      @solidway Год назад +7

      Words to live by.

  • @lifeisrosyyy
    @lifeisrosyyy Год назад +1215

    I saw a tiktok where a guy rated an attractive girl an 8.5 and in the comments women were offended for her. Never in my life did I think anyone could be offended over an 8.5/10. That is a great rating! They were acting like he called her butt ugly. What kind of world are we living in where a compliment is taken as an insult? Average people have become way too comfortable with calling themselves perfect.

    • @ericapaquette9624
      @ericapaquette9624 Год назад +121

      I always thought 10 was perfect like super fit, perfect chest and bum, like photoshop. 9's are like natural perfect as for 8's super pretty but not a model...🤷‍♀️

    • @LadyCoyKoi
      @LadyCoyKoi Год назад +36

      I think a rate of 6-8 leaves room for improvements and betterment, which is better than 9 or 10. 9 and 10s mean you are too perfect and nothing to improve on which sucks to be honest.

    • @kalesmart1
      @kalesmart1 Год назад +23

      @Juci Shockwave I thought 10s have got to have exceptional skin, youth and genetics, I just found out that Melanie go boom chick was 36 and I couldn't believe it, thought she was 22 lol, she got awesome genes lol

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch Год назад +10

      Theirs nothing wrong with average people calling themselves perfect it effects literally nobody.

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 Год назад +21

      That’s cuz girls rate themselves 11s, 15s, and 20s 😂😂😭 which aren’t even on the scale

  • @household5soapcompany95
    @household5soapcompany95 Год назад +1980

    "you have the right to be average" this is possibly the absolutely most body positive statement I've ever heard. And easily one of the most common sense empowering statements I've heard on this channel.....and I've probably watched an unhealthy amount of yalls videos.

    • @floki5182
      @floki5182 Год назад +14

      If you start to live by that standard or principle then you'll never be able to better yourself. I was agreeing with em till I heard aba add in charisma and other personality traits. Cos its alright to have that mindset or standard based solely on looks, but when you start to add other things in then it's unhealthy to have that mindset. As a man, you should always be striving to be better. If you adopt the mindset of "average is best" or "its ok to be average" then that's all you'll ever be. This principle should only be applied to looks for men.
      Edit: This principle should only be used for looks and height. Cos they can't be changed.

    • @Lbdataz1469
      @Lbdataz1469 Год назад +61

      @@floki5182 Except there's a huge difference between actually becoming better and faking it for likes. That's the problem with this generation, they're all fake. Because social media conditioned them to be that way and normalized faking it till you make it. Much like your comment, you can give this preachy self help guru stuff all day long, but unless you actually practice what you preach, I'm not buying it.

    • @lasgio_
      @lasgio_ Год назад +31

      @Floki I'm okay with looking like an ugly caveman, a solid 2. I dress average, I have great hygiene and I'm laid back. I'm that guy girls swipe left on Tinder but in person they want to get to know me more. I think that's the outlook Aba n Preach are trying to articulate. Be okay with yourself

    • @LoveMae1222
      @LoveMae1222 Год назад +23

      @@floki5182 you can be happy with yourself now AND strive to be better at the same time. That's almost like saying "don't be content with that A- because you won't study hard or harder for the next test"
      Or saying don't be happy about this promotion you just got because you won't be able to better yourself and achieve the next one.
      So also this whole "it's ok to be average" was mostly about looks.. but it can also be more than that. You'll never be happy if you are always needing to strive for better BEFORE you can be okay with yourself.. there would be no end because you can always do better..
      So two things can be true at once.. you can be happy with where you are AND have plans to be further in the future.
      I prefer to not live a life chasing a happiness I can never enjoy because I'm not allowed to until I've reached "the next" step. There's always another step though.

    • @LoveMae1222
      @LoveMae1222 Год назад +2

      @@floki5182 also knowing you look average vs having a ridiculous outlook that you are some untouchable top ten but you are just average? 🤷🏼‍♀️
      Enough said there.
      And it's not a men problem as much as it's a lady problem, as you see in the video.

  • @andianderson3017
    @andianderson3017 Год назад +107

    I’m a solid 5 lady and I had to work to get this high and I’m not ashamed of it!! I had to work out and get fit to get above a 3. 5 is great. I’ve maxed out my potential💪.

  • @m.f8655
    @m.f8655 Год назад +1277

    Sometimes rating yourself low doesn't mean you're insecure, it means you're self aware. I'm a 4-5 and I'm confident in that. Confidence doesn't belong to attractive people.

    • @thehungrysage
      @thehungrysage Год назад +163

      This is what people need to realize… being confident doesn’t mean you’re a ten… usually means you’re confidently delusional.

    • @m.f8655
      @m.f8655 Год назад +12

      @@thehungrysage exactly

    • @forzajuve4935
      @forzajuve4935 Год назад +1

      Beautiful girls are some of the absolute most insecure women on the planet. Ive dated them, ive also dated average girls and usually they are much more comfortable in their skin.
      Disclaimer: This is in northern europe, not america where every girl thinks they're 10's no matter what they look like.

    • @CaulkMongler
      @CaulkMongler Год назад +83

      Self awareness is attractive, especially paired with brutal humor. Self delusion is neeever cute.

    • @SaberInferno
      @SaberInferno Год назад +35

      I'm rocking that 4- making all the 3s want some

  • @markofisaiah1449
    @markofisaiah1449 Год назад +781

    Cut to Fresh’s Face after talking about looks for some reason made me burst out laughing 😂

  • @shun8104
    @shun8104 Год назад +491

    You know "looks don't matter" is nonsense when you see people desperately rating themselves a 10

    • @evilbabaroga
      @evilbabaroga Год назад +19

      who even honestly thinks that looks dont matter? its just a cope like size doesnt matter. everything matters, but especially looks.

  • @jaanusvuks8160
    @jaanusvuks8160 Год назад +445

    I had a guy at my course in trade school who was and still is 9,9999... Tall, muscular, good face. He knew he could get any girl just by looking at her. And he was humble about it and he hated it. He once told me that he can fool around as much as he wants, but no he can't get a serious relationship because most of the girls who chase him are mindless morons with no personality and moral values. I seriously felt bad for him at that moment.

    • @laszlokocsi1825
      @laszlokocsi1825 Год назад +68

      Thats still better than nothing

    • @jaanusvuks8160
      @jaanusvuks8160 Год назад +109

      @@laszlokocsi1825 true, but there is a huge difference between fooling around and one special lovely woman.

    • @laszlokocsi1825
      @laszlokocsi1825 Год назад +15

      @@jaanusvuks8160 ooh I know that very well

    • @NAT-turners-Revenge
      @NAT-turners-Revenge Год назад

      Celebrity who he most resembles 🤔

    • @jaanusvuks8160
      @jaanusvuks8160 Год назад +8

      @@NAT-turners-Revenge Marco Asensio is similar.

  • @torachan23
    @torachan23 Год назад +1836

    Why is it so important to feel perfect even if you know that you aren't? Or do they seriously believe that they are legitimately a 10?

    • @aaronf2467
      @aaronf2467 Год назад

      Folks are delusional

    • @Bezmenov93
      @Bezmenov93 Год назад +322

      They're delusional by nature.

    • @Lacosanostra699
      @Lacosanostra699 Год назад +211

      low self esteem.

    • @jabreakitjubawdit6391
      @jabreakitjubawdit6391 Год назад +193

      It's all ego. Lol

    • @cmbsr4851
      @cmbsr4851 Год назад +100

      I ask myself the same thing 😂 I'm perfectly fine with admitting I may be a 5, maybe a soft 6 😂 my husband says I don't give myself enough credit, but I feel he has a biased opinion

  • @nehemiahhudgins-lopez8696
    @nehemiahhudgins-lopez8696 Год назад +505

    “You have the right to be average” -Preach (PUT IT ON A SHIRT AND SELL IT AS MERCH)

    • @davida99
      @davida99 Год назад +9

      I’ll take two please 😢

    • @kjaerdian7864
      @kjaerdian7864 Год назад

      @Aba N Preach make it happen 🤟

    • @ashharkausar413
      @ashharkausar413 Год назад

      YES

    • @Georgia.J
      @Georgia.J Год назад

      If you gym up and grow your hair or spike it up in a slick way you won't be average that's a fact. I like guys with long hair, not every girl does but every girl likes muscles.
      Of course you have the right to be average if you are. Some guys are way to hard on themselves😢 and don't realise they are far better looking than they think.
      But gym and a bit of hair grooming increases a man quite a bit if he wants to self improve aesthetically.👍🌹

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 Год назад +1

      Average is perfectly acceptable. A 6 is cute, a 7 is attractive and 8-10 are beautiful, sexy, and gorgeous.

  • @CaliBoi226
    @CaliBoi226 Год назад +382

    “Fresh, my mans is 28 going on 80”. Yoooo that was hilarious Aba. Keeping that pressure on those dudes 😂💀.

    • @eddiek8179
      @eddiek8179 Год назад +22

      I hope they get a sponsor for hair product, then they can bring Fit into the conversation.

    • @rorisang8602
      @rorisang8602 Год назад +11

      @@eddiek8179 hopefully a Manscaped commercial.

    • @BusterBossJR
      @BusterBossJR Год назад +19

      @@eddiek8179 Do you want hair that look like fit's? I didn't think so. That's why you should use Keeps!

    • @jayclearmen411
      @jayclearmen411 Год назад +15

      nah that shit super corny..hate is a burden on the soul. it is a terrible state of mind to have someone living there life living rent free on ur mental.

    • @timothyballen7636
      @timothyballen7636 Год назад +4

      No cap bruh i died

  • @justtece
    @justtece Год назад +111

    We all need friends like Aba and Preach

  • @maestreiluminati87
    @maestreiluminati87 Год назад +848

    You know what's weird? How we live in an age where we are supposed to accept that no matter how we look we are beautiful in our own way and yet we turn around and then do everything in our power to change, from lying to ourselves to plastic surgery.

    • @GrandRizzard
      @GrandRizzard Год назад +57

      exactly, its always "love yourself however you are" until someone doesnt think they are hot.

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm Год назад +31

      Its almost as tragic as fat acceptance Women who openly state they wouldn't date overweight men.
      Like you can say everyone is equally attractive, but what you do feel actual attraction to is generally the same and based on nature.
      So look wise you can clearly see diffrences.

    • @reikun86
      @reikun86 Год назад +33

      For a generation that doesn't believe in labels, they still like putting labels on how others look.

    • @ChristopherCricketWallace
      @ChristopherCricketWallace Год назад +36

      let's not forget the hypocrisy of those same "love yourself" people talking trash to other people that don't meet their standard. So it's really: "love yourself as long as I approve."

    • @andyjcurtis
      @andyjcurtis Год назад +6

      @@reikun86 they are a generation that loves being labeled. pronouns!

  • @aly01123
    @aly01123 Год назад +393

    As a female I always felt that being a 6 or a 7 was s as good thing 😂

    • @elisejackson2854
      @elisejackson2854 Год назад +42

      If they asked me depending on how I felt that day I’d say 6 or 7. I’m surprised so many people said 10.

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 Год назад +1

      Normally it would be, because women use to have SOME DEGREE of realism. Now even 6 and 7's think they deserve to be treated just like the 10's, whether they think they're 10's or accept they are 6's & 7's. They all want royal treatment. The delusion is a massive turn-off. Hence why we hit it and then ghost.

    • @aegon_the_conquerer9563
      @aegon_the_conquerer9563 Год назад +21

      Yeaa the extremes always come with a baggage. 6 or a 7 means if you take care of yourself your attractive to most people and if not your average.

    • @blunt2416
      @blunt2416 Год назад +35

      Women that are 6 or 7s on Tinder get treated like Jennifer Aniston in the 90s...so yall good.

    • @Maleetorres105
      @Maleetorres105 Год назад +19

      It is, just for whatever reason no one uses the 1 to 10 scale right. 5 should be the average plain Jane face

  • @mpGreen03
    @mpGreen03 Год назад +311

    For people who are just starting to look into skin care and are buying scrubs - please don't over-exfoliate! You have to be very gentle when using physical scrubs, so don't overdo it and when you are scrubbing, especially on your face, be gentle, don't push too hard to not damage your skin and cause micro tears and wounds which could lead to a whole load of skin problems. I know men have thicker skin but I think that scrub can be equally damaging if not used properly.

    • @royalacity
      @royalacity Год назад +15

      FACTS ! I found this out the hard way. I never break out unless I exfoliate everyday, then my skin is THE WORST.

    • @Pssst.ByTheWay
      @Pssst.ByTheWay Год назад +10

      There was an Instagram thread about people how often do a shower, and some people out here scrubbing themselves to 3 times a day absolutely ruining the skin biome

    • @benlewis5312
      @benlewis5312 Год назад +7

      The exfoliating scrub is only used twice a week and yeah like you said, men have thicker skin

    • @mpGreen03
      @mpGreen03 Год назад +2

      @@royalacity Yup, NEVER use it daily, let alone few times in a day, when I was teenager who didn't know better I used to scrub every evening and it made my acne so much more worse.
      Currently I use physical scrub a few times a month but also use C-50 serum every few days, which is more like like chemical exfoliant.

    • @Raphael-sk9pv
      @Raphael-sk9pv Год назад +1

      I’m getting a lot of bumps on my back. Ig it’s back acne but do you have any tips on how to get rid of it?

  • @moon5472
    @moon5472 Год назад +73

    For me, a 10 will only ever be a girl who makes me feel something when I'm around them, a 10 is more than looks.

  • @sakshamrawat7353
    @sakshamrawat7353 Год назад +503

    The cut to Stephen Hawking when talking about negatives had me going 🤣. You guys are hilarious

    • @BrandonPilane
      @BrandonPilane Год назад +52

      Rip ma dawg Stephen but that shit funny af!😂😂😂

    • @vicegripp
      @vicegripp Год назад +26

      Yet Mr. Hawking (RIP) was married. Ionno how you can be a negative or a 0 if you are married lol.

    • @gallafia3771
      @gallafia3771 Год назад

      @Vice Gripp pretty sure he got married before his disease completely handicapped him. He wasn't always wheelchair bound.
      Edit: yeah there's old pictures of him standing next to 1 of his wives

    • @SDBR
      @SDBR Год назад

      ​@@vicegripp Because, on average, physical appearance doesn't matter as much for women as it does for men, especially for highly intelligent people who don't just allow their monkey brain to dominate their life decisions. But these ratings are based on physical appearance alone, so you have to admit that physically he does not have any traits that the majority of people would find attractive.

    • @vicegripp
      @vicegripp Год назад

      @@gallafia3771 Yes I am aware.

  • @jujur3197
    @jujur3197 Год назад +402

    I am average and I know it. But I think it’s hard for women to accept it (me included) because of how many gorgeous woman we see on social media. The longer you watch beautiful people, the more you think it’s the norm, even if it’s really an exception. When you see beautiful people non-stop since you’re young, it creates mental problems such as dysmorphie. Because most woman feel this way, they feel empathy towards their friend, so they try to boost their ego by saying “no, you’re a 10, you’re gorgeous”! I think the emphasis on beauty is even more prominent on the younger generation and it affects everyone.

    • @alfredfreedomjones5105
      @alfredfreedomjones5105 Год назад +12

      Absolutely right, we need to focus away from looks. It seems physical beauty is a pre-requisite to success now a days. Even in industries that are focused on talent or education. I’m sick and tired of the thirsting and blind favoritism towards pretty faces

    • @JEGHETTO
      @JEGHETTO Год назад +30

      Most of the women online don’t really look like that anyway, sooooo……

    • @jujur3197
      @jujur3197 Год назад +11

      @@JEGHETTO in reality no, but the algorithm promote in general better looking people. It really depends of your « for you page » 🤷‍♀️

    • @NotAnotherKuromi
      @NotAnotherKuromi Год назад +4

      I don't understand if you see loads of attractive women online, so get thinks skewed, why wouldn't you rate your friends even lower than usual?

    • @jujur3197
      @jujur3197 Год назад +8

      @@NotAnotherKuromi i think it’s to raised their self esteem or to not sound mean. I can’t say if it’s the case for everyone

  • @gilroyblinker
    @gilroyblinker Год назад +75

    “You’re not perfect, sport. And let me save you the suspense. This girl you met, she isn’t perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other. That’s what intimacy is all about.” - Good Will Hunting

  • @fakeaccount704
    @fakeaccount704 Год назад +58

    I’m a girl, and objectively speaking, I’m a 5 or a 6 at most. Yeah, I’m not a stunner, but who cares! And no, I don’t think I have the personality to make up for it 😂 I’m strictly average in all fronts, but I’m okay with it. I’m not negating the importance of looks, because in the real world, I can’t deny how much looks matter. I’m just choosing to look past all of that and still be happy. There are more important things in life, and I believe I’m a decent person who cares for others and is kind, so that’s enough for me. I wish people would realize that average isn’t bad. It’s a pretty stable place to be

    • @raulinhomaster
      @raulinhomaster Год назад +1

      Awesome that you're happy how you are. Keep in mind you can always improve how you look massively by going to the gym if thats what you want. But yes, being kind and a a good person is way more important.

    • @fakeaccount704
      @fakeaccount704 Год назад +9

      @@raulinhomaster I’m fit, so that’s not the issue. I just have a very average looking face, so not much to do about that haha. I put on a bit of makeup, do my hair, and I look presentable. Just not “pretty” per se

    • @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie
      @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie Год назад +6

      Being average or decent looking is a balance basically I agree

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan Год назад +3

      ​@@fakeaccount704 humble and real. Stable wife material

    • @corpgov
      @corpgov Год назад

      you'll still get way more guys sliding into your DMs than the average looking guy would get girls messaging him. That's
      just the reality of being female!

  • @theunexplained2855
    @theunexplained2855 Год назад +378

    I had a girl call me gay because I said there’s no perfect woman out there I’m looking for the one that compliments me. She said you must be gay if you think there isn’t any 10/10 women out here. I can’t tell you how done I am with this generation.

    • @ricosuave62094
      @ricosuave62094 Год назад +49

      My ex routinely called me gay for breaking up with her.

    • @captainclutch3818
      @captainclutch3818 Год назад +61

      @@ricosuave62094you messed with her ego she wanted to blame it on something else

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 Год назад

      Bruh the fucking audacity and ego women have nowadays holy shit. They’re even more arrogant than the fuck boys they claim that they hate!

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 Год назад +71

      @@ricosuave62094 call them homophobic. Play by their rules 😂👌

    • @theezenriarinze9203
      @theezenriarinze9203 Год назад +3

      Lmao 😂😂😂

  • @jesseinkoom3082
    @jesseinkoom3082 Год назад +126

    My issue with the beauty scale is that everyone thinks it's linear. In reality, beauty is a bell curve. In other words many people are 5's. And being a 7 or an 8 is extreme beauty, therefore very few people fall into that category.

    • @kft4764
      @kft4764 Год назад +7

      Exactly. I think I can count on one hand the number of people that have actually taken my breath away because they were so stunning. It is extremely rare. I once worked with models, saw attractive people all the time. Even then most models are an 8 at best. But an actual 10, it’s been years since I’ve seen one.

    • @heavenking2065
      @heavenking2065 Год назад +2

      I agree with you 100%. That is very true.

    • @0redfr0g0
      @0redfr0g0 Год назад +2

      I think the mentality behind it is that 5 is a baseline average for someone not trying, for women that could be an average girl without make-up. For a guy it could be a guy who hasn't shaved or put on a nice outfit. So if they have put some effort into their appearance they deserve an extra 1-2 points because of it.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +1

      At the end when they were saying you're just as likely to be a 10 as a 0 I was thinking "yeah like 10%, hold up it doesn't work that way, this shit has a normal distribution. Only like .3% of chicks are 10's and same for 0's"

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +8

      @@kft4764 Literally you know it's 10 when people are blown away by the same sex even if they're straight. I saw Hugh Jackman once and even I couldn't take my eyes off of him, I told all of my friends he's such a beautiful man lol

  • @blusaphire910
    @blusaphire910 Год назад +162

    The perfectly timed Tiege Hanely 'Fresh Roast Ad' gets me every time. It's so versatile.😂

  • @alfredfreedomjones5105
    @alfredfreedomjones5105 Год назад +5

    When someone says they’re a 10 they’re arrogant, but if they say 6 or 7 they’re fake humble and seeking for attention. You can’t win 🙄

  • @genshishio9316
    @genshishio9316 Год назад +362

    I grew up with three sisters who were all into fashion, if they asked me if the looked fat they expected the most brutal form of the truth. Other girls didn’t appreciate that feedback 😂

    • @Mimi-hn6iv
      @Mimi-hn6iv Год назад +1

      I learned real quick that there are girls, that do not like the truth. I've had friends in the past where they could be brutally honest with me, but if I were politely honest with them, they wouldn't talk to me for days.

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Год назад +69

      "Does this dress make me look fat?"
      Good answer: I'll just say the dress isn't the best choice.
      Bad answer: I don't think it's the dress.

    • @salmagtz7110
      @salmagtz7110 Год назад +1

      @briant7265
      Actually
      The "Bad option" is the best

    • @masterace9543
      @masterace9543 Год назад +2

      @@vnolan633 it's either the dress makes them look fat or they are fat. I don't think they wanna hear the latter

    • @anthonyg5001
      @anthonyg5001 Год назад +7

      Same deal with me, only boy out of three girls and was taught to do the same thing. We were harsh to each other but it helped us develop thick skin and made sure we didn’t look like shit when we went out

  • @slackerofhell
    @slackerofhell Год назад +119

    Calling yourself a 10 and then hesitating on if other people would call you a 10 is a good sign that you don't actually believe you're a 10

    • @spagbolphin7814
      @spagbolphin7814 Год назад +16

      U can find yourself a ten without needing others to also think you're a ten

    • @apeiceofmoldedclay
      @apeiceofmoldedclay Год назад +10

      I think people learn to appreciate their own beauty over time so that they are a 10 to themselves but that doesn't mean they a deluded enough to think they are everyone's cup of tea.

    • @thetruth4116
      @thetruth4116 Год назад +2

      @@apeiceofmoldedclay No that not out it works. if you're average and think you are a ten then what do you call the likes of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie.

    • @velvetvulpix
      @velvetvulpix 10 месяцев назад

      If she had said yes to that y’all would’ve said she was insufferable
      There was no right answer to that question lol

    • @diypictures
      @diypictures 6 месяцев назад

      @@spagbolphin7814 You're actually right. Anyone can call themselves whatever they want, just doesn't mean its true.

  • @oKamja.
    @oKamja. Год назад +317

    An interesting perspective to consider is that they might not be thinking about the bell curve model of 0 and 10 being outliers and 5 being average , but rather the grade point model we're taught in school (10-9 Excellent , 8 Passing , 7 Average , 6 and below Unacceptable).

    • @lucasmt.2000
      @lucasmt.2000 Год назад +9

      Where is that grade point model from?
      Damn, everywhere I have studied, from middle school to university, 3 was the average, 4 was ok, 5 was passing, 6 was a good mark, 7 a great mark, 8 was incredible, 9 was unbelievable, and 10 was absolutely perfect

    • @6ticky
      @6ticky Год назад +66

      @@lucasmt.2000 US schools below 60 is an F

    • @6ticky
      @6ticky Год назад +18

      Average is generally near C for most classes

    • @rodrigombl452
      @rodrigombl452 Год назад

      @@lucasmt.2000 bro if you had ratings all the way up to 10 and the average was still 3, then most of the class was getting 1s and 2s. Bunch of retardeds

    • @doggo6517
      @doggo6517 Год назад +19

      @@lucasmt.2000 Average 3/10? I'm assuming at least some of this is for subjects where there are right/wrong answers - how does it work that missing two thirds is considered acceptable?

  • @MaddyIntravia
    @MaddyIntravia Год назад +30

    I used to care about my "rating" in HIGH SCHOOL, lol luckily at 28, I have way more confidence & I've never struggled with attracting men. But half were losers and vampires who would leech off my money/generosity 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don't need to be a 10 and I'm happy with my looks! Thank God we all look different and beautiful in our own way ❤️

  • @blargandy1172
    @blargandy1172 Год назад +661

    I rate this episode 10/10. It hit all the nails on the head.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 Год назад +15

      "Your wrong, Stop" - preach

    • @anjaxtv
      @anjaxtv Год назад +4

      When preach said some of you are a negative 😂😂😂😭

    • @MikeBarbarossa
      @MikeBarbarossa Год назад +6

      " If you are a 4, don't feel bad, there are 2s out there"
      " If you're a negative 10 , don't feel bad, because there are negative a millions out there"

    • @captaink5594
      @captaink5594 Год назад +1

      @@MikeBarbarossa very happy being a 4 right now

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 Год назад

      aBsOlUtElY, gAL.

  • @5amura115
    @5amura115 Год назад +217

    The goal is to feel like a 10 within yourself but accept your average and be content with what you got. If you love yourself then the judgment of others don't affect you nearly as much.

    • @idirbouchdoug1567
      @idirbouchdoug1567 Год назад +16

      there is a difference between being content with being average and deluding yourself into thinking you are a 10.

    • @ConcernedResident_GiantStack
      @ConcernedResident_GiantStack Год назад +7

      Eh, I don't know about that. I lived in a place where I was treated like a rock star simply because I was a foreign white guy. (I was also in really good shape, but I was definitely no rock star by American standards.) I have to say that my confidence went through the roof. It was awesome. I conducted myself a lot better around people as a result. Then I lost a job and had a major health problem so that even my fitness is gone. I think the goal should be faith. In the end, we all are going to lose everything: money, looks, mental prowess, what have you. So if we base our self-worth on any of that, we're founded on sinking sand as it were. Yet if we base our self-worth on something metaphysical or religious, such as being made in the image of God or being a blood-bought member of Christ's family, then that will last us throughout our lives.
      It's so easy to die or get hurt and lose everything. We need something deeper than the superficial to last us through the storm, which definitely will come and most likely in waves.

    • @5amura115
      @5amura115 Год назад

      @SecaKaizen 😊

    • @xavirav3358
      @xavirav3358 Год назад +1

      @@ConcernedResident_GiantStackI ain't reading all that. I'm happy for u tho. Or sorry that happened.

    • @harrypike731
      @harrypike731 Год назад +1

      No, its not about 'feeling like a 10' regardless, it's about knowing you're a 4/5 but being completely OK with it. Most people are average, that's why its 'average'.

  • @vonlauriente
    @vonlauriente Год назад +259

    I'm a 4/10 girl and I've found myself hanging out most of my life with girls that were around 8. It's a very tough experience ngl, especially in terms of self esteem. I've learned to watch all my crushes approach me to approach them. I took refuge in mind stuffs, all of these things that make you an interesting human being, but nothing compares to attractiveness for a girl. One thing I've noticed tho is that the longer a woman knows she's attractive the lower tends to be her sufferability.
    it's the small satisfaction i get out of this.

    • @kharig8268
      @kharig8268 Год назад +66

      +1 for the small dose of pettiness at the end ;) I like it.

    • @sharan9993
      @sharan9993 Год назад +19

      Guess what it is ok to be average.
      😂😂 alright i just found ur comment interesting and wanted to let u know.

    • @malrofo
      @malrofo Год назад +32

      You could also try getting in great shape. A banging body with an average face is wonderful

    • @ceejay1476
      @ceejay1476 Год назад +54

      As a guy, another self-satisfaction: For a ton of these beautiful women, it's downhill like hell once they start getting older, since their entire world spins around their attractiveness, so once they don't get attention from men, or have them bend over, and society in general bend over for them endlessly, they start losing it bad.
      If you're really 4, nothing much is going to change really, so you don't have to worry about that and if you invested on being an interesting and good human being that makes you much more of wife material than those other women.

    • @Mimi-hn6iv
      @Mimi-hn6iv Год назад +27

      I feel this. When I was single, a guy took me out to dinner, just to ask me if my friend was single and talk about her 😂

  • @maryb.7522
    @maryb.7522 Год назад +93

    My husband asked me to rate myself 1 to 10. I said 6.5 to 7. He told me I’m delusional, and I need to have more self confidence 😂

    • @ayofrtho7014
      @ayofrtho7014 Год назад

      Because all these men here who are trying to get 🐱 wanna lower women's self-esteem so that they don't have to put in as much work. When a man loves you/is a gentleman, he'll lift you up. When he just wants to fck/is insecure, he'll bring you down to "his level" if not lower.
      They won't admit it tho, they aren't even aware or they'll gaslight you into thinking you're "delusional". But I ain't blind, I see it.
      It's cool to know society's standards, but society's standard is always changing so just love yourself no matter what. You're a 6-7 in society's eye, but a 10 in your universe girl! F*ck these beta ass "men"!!! ❤️💯💯

    • @xxxmelissatacionxxx
      @xxxmelissatacionxxx Год назад +15

      My boyfriend is always telling me I'm a nine. It's cute because I can tell he genuinely believes it but I'm an 8 at best 😭😂😭

    • @assgrabber5473
      @assgrabber5473 Год назад +19

      @@xxxmelissatacionxxx if a guy likes a girl, we think she's a 10 even if she look like precious or sum

    • @couragelk9428
      @couragelk9428 Год назад

      @@assgrabber5473 cap

    • @juha1428
      @juha1428 Год назад +21

      you probably are a 6, but since he's your husband you're 10 to HIM and in the end that's all that matters.

  • @hayleymarie2013
    @hayleymarie2013 Год назад +450

    I love Aba’s last comment. One of the best things my dad did with me was be brutally honest about my looks as a child. He told me “you’re not the worst woman a man would see, but nobody’s going to stop and in their tracks when they see you. You better develop a great personality, work ethic, and take care of yourself.” I always tell younger girls that there’s someone younger, thinner, and prettier at the party so develop who you are as a person.

    • @thisismyprivateaccount6546
      @thisismyprivateaccount6546 Год назад

      As a child you’re not even developed yet, not only bodily, but not in the face either. Honestly I’m offended for you girl. He could have told you to do all that without saying you’re anything less than gorgeous.

    • @briankenome
      @briankenome Год назад +75

      In today's world that would have been termed misogynistic or some kind of abuse. Good on you for heeding tho

    • @hayleymarie2013
      @hayleymarie2013 Год назад +75

      Thank you 😊 I think there’s a difference between blunt honesty and misogyny. My dad definitely had some misogynistic views, but this wasn’t one of them. One of the biggest failures we do for girls today is to put forth this “everyone is beautiful” idea. It does girls a disservice because: 1) If they’re not what society considers beautiful, then they’re going to experience way more rejection and it’s going to cause a lot of unnecessary pain; and 2) We’re conveying the importance of developing other personality traits (compassion, intelligence, work ethic, etc.) that would serve them more in the world. People are always shocked when I say that I’ve never considered myself beautiful, because I’m not. I think when I’m in shape and on my game, I’m a cute woman. It’s just being honest about yourself that I think people really struggle with.

    • @aurianaames7940
      @aurianaames7940 Год назад +60

      Wtf 😭😂😂 gawd damn

    • @kpoppy9635
      @kpoppy9635 Год назад +33

      Eh...I would take that differently hearing that from my father but something tells me my relationship with my Dad was different than yours.

  • @SuigaRou
    @SuigaRou Год назад +275

    As a guy, I've had girls tell me I'm a higher number than I know I am, but it's not so much of a lie as it is a skewed assessment. It's coming from friends who are taking your personality into account, so their emotional attachment to you muddies the results. I think most guys kinda understand that, and understand that the "rate yourself" question is asking based solely on looks, so we answer more honestly because we know what a 10 looks like and we know it ain't 99% of us.

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 Год назад +1

      Those girls will give you a higher number but would never sleep with you. It's 100% skewed

    • @SuigaRou
      @SuigaRou Год назад +18

      @@LeeEverett1 Oh for sure. That's why I don't take compliments seriously anymore. They're a nice gesture, but they're usually empty.

    • @whasian1487
      @whasian1487 Год назад +12

      A long time ago, the site hotornot was just a site where you could post your pic and strangers would rate your attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10. There was no place to put a comment in or anything. That's about as objective an average you'll get.

    • @senorpepper3405
      @senorpepper3405 Год назад

      Yer mom said I had a small tip 😔

    • @SuigaRou
      @SuigaRou Год назад +10

      @@senorpepper3405 She's an honest woman.

  • @Shanex250
    @Shanex250 Год назад +142

    I still remember the day me and my classmates were hanging outside our small college and this 8-9 woman who looked like a model walked past, and she ended up having an attitude about something. As soon as that attitude we all collectively thought the same thing and thought she went from a 9 to like a 4 that fast.
    It don't matter how good you look if you got no substance. A 6 can be someones 9 if they make them feel some time of way.

    • @kcsnipes
      @kcsnipes Год назад +3

      I think the number rating is on looks alone cause often we just look at a picture for the rating, but I agree, like preach says open your mouth u can go down to a 4 fast

  • @AlexandroPortilla
    @AlexandroPortilla Год назад +24

    The other day I was talking with my girlfriend about this and she told me that many women will always rate theirselves 10/10 because their way of showing that they are happy with who they are. Even if it isn't accurate, they don't want to seem insecure (mostly to other girls) and give themselves a realistic rating. I guess it also has a little to do with pride.

  • @Undeadhalfelf
    @Undeadhalfelf Год назад +108

    “I can’t rate myself a 10, i’ve been to Carnival” love it preach absolutely fantastic

  • @ClaraBell3452
    @ClaraBell3452 Год назад +287

    Maybe it's because I'm 28 and I've already gotten over the need to be drop dead gorgeous, but there is no need to be a ten in the eyes of other people. It more important to come to peace with how you look and maximize what you got. Appreciate what makes you look unique, rather than what makes you the same as every 10 on insta

    • @juliapeters6036
      @juliapeters6036 Год назад +7

      I second this.

    • @alexs5368
      @alexs5368 Год назад +45

      At least youre not 28 going on 80 like Fresh

    • @ClaraBell3452
      @ClaraBell3452 Год назад +6

      @@alexs5368 😂

    • @santioliva
      @santioliva Год назад +3

      im glad i saw at least one sensible girl in the chat, bonus that you did not take long at long to realize that

    • @grindcoreninja6527
      @grindcoreninja6527 Год назад +5

      And that mentality is more attractive in my mind then someone desperately trying to be a "10".

  • @Greedsmith
    @Greedsmith Год назад +35

    You did Stephen dirty!
    He may have been a negative, but his mind was of the charts.

  • @crimealleysoutlaw1103
    @crimealleysoutlaw1103 Год назад +63

    I wouldn't call myself a 10 if I needed cakeface to go outside.
    If I were a 10 I'd walk fashion shows and not zebra-crossing outside a bar

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Год назад +11

      You do realize not every pretty person wants to be a model right?? Modeling is overhyped, most people would rather do something with a less toxic work environment.

    • @Faith-po9pf
      @Faith-po9pf Год назад +3

      @@Las645 but they still be going to best clubs not roadside pubs and stuff

    • @dayanarab6874
      @dayanarab6874 Год назад

      Exactly 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @trunicolemckenzie7288
      @trunicolemckenzie7288 Год назад +2

      That's a myth though that models are always pretty...most times they need to be skinny...if they happen to have good hair,or clean skin and pretty that's the plus.

  • @justinsavedra7633
    @justinsavedra7633 Год назад +44

    "My man's 28 going on 80 and I don't want that to be you guys!" You kill me Aba, thank you for the chuckle good sir.

  • @shaani7978
    @shaani7978 Год назад +111

    “Guess what, I’m happy with what I got!” Peach is giving us that uncle/fatherly advice right there 😂

  • @michaeljr4112
    @michaeljr4112 Год назад +61

    Yoo, y’all did fresh dirty!!😂 28 going on 80 😂😂

    • @claraclara9399
      @claraclara9399 Год назад

      Fresh and fit still wining with view and money
      Crazy world 😱💀💀💀.

  • @xCalpsy
    @xCalpsy Год назад +2

    Honestly.. This video has been ironically helpful for me. I have very low self esteem, even tho I also think others might be happier having what I got. It's a very disconnected way of thinking, I guess. A lot goes into bullying for being ugly as a kid and my view on myself is now distorted... Anyhow, I don't know if others feel the same, but I always crave to look "perfect". I want everyone to like me. I want everyone to find me pretty. I always wanted to be a 10, because I've seen how 10s get treated and I always wanted that.
    But in all honesty, this video has hit a sweet spot for me. It's okay to not be a 10. I should just work with what I got and not cry about not having what I want.
    "It's okay to be average" is such a strong statement. I found that so inspiring that I had to sent this video to a friend of mine. This made my day. I have such crippling perfectionism, that hearing this sentence made me go like "Dang, I didn't look at it this way. This is so cool. I should adopt to this mindset"

  • @SkibilityGaming
    @SkibilityGaming Год назад +64

    The quick flash at 7:08 caught me so off guard 😂

  • @asparrow9876
    @asparrow9876 Год назад +591

    The sheer audacity of every woman rating themselves a 10... Habibi, you're living in a fantasy world & you're there all by yourselves. Not one of these chicks is even above 7.

    • @juliapeters6036
      @juliapeters6036 Год назад +59

      A 7 is generous. Lol

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 Год назад +22

      @@juliapeters6036 I indeed was being generous. Personally, they're all 5.5...

    • @asparrow9876
      @asparrow9876 Год назад +10

      @@anjaxtv the realism can give a solid 0.5 to 1 extra point. Trust me. 👍

    • @ddawg3230
      @ddawg3230 Год назад +24

      Given how much effort and money 95% of them have put into their hair, dress, and overall look, they probably just say it to hype themselves up and feel less conscious about their looks lol.

    • @CoryTheRaven
      @CoryTheRaven Год назад +4

      I'd be willing to give the first girl an 8 or 9, but it's subjective.

  • @SqLionRio
    @SqLionRio Год назад +119

    I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance.

    • @MegaFunnyvids4u1
      @MegaFunnyvids4u1 Год назад +4

      Sadly its been the norm to conflate the 2 amongst our generation

    • @robertstone9988
      @robertstone9988 Год назад +3

      Exactly confidence is earned arrogance is just coping. If I throw 20 darts at a dart bored and get 18 of them in the bullseye I can be pretty confident that if I throw another Dart I can at least get it close to the bullseye. These women can't even hit the wall the dart boards hanging on and are 100% confident if you give them another Dart they can get a bullseye. This is why when you tell people just be confident as dating advice you're absolutely giving s*** advice. You should be saying do something that makes you confident because just acting confident is arrogance

    • @morris9973
      @morris9973 Год назад +1

      or straight up delusion

    • @tyshaq9286
      @tyshaq9286 Год назад

      Or delusion lol

    • @NathanaelNaused
      @NathanaelNaused Год назад

      How would you define the difference?

  • @omnium_gatherum
    @omnium_gatherum Год назад +14

    It's interesting too because someone's 4 is someone else's 8. A 10 isn't even a true 10 and a 1 isn't a true 1 because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. .. And there's a whole lot of different "beholders" out there lol

    • @M2JoyBoy
      @M2JoyBoy 3 месяца назад +1

      You know I do agree with this because my high school sweat heart I genuinely thought she was very pretty, I was infatuated with her, we've been friends since we were little middle schoolers, and even now as we're both 25 24 year old's we keep in touch, but my friends in high school thought she had a busted face and you know how we were as teenagers with no confidence I genuinely wondered if there was something wrong with me for thinking she was pretty.

  • @cherryhazard8002
    @cherryhazard8002 Год назад +139

    Honestly, I don't know why that is, but when someone calls themselves a 10, they stop becoming attractive, and when someone calls themselves maybe a 4, 5 or 6, they become more attractive. Maybe it's the brain being defiant, but it might also be that humility is attractive.

    • @imyournme6632
      @imyournme6632 Год назад +16

      Yea simply because arrogance and being presumptuous is anoying to listen to.

    • @winoodlesnoodles1984
      @winoodlesnoodles1984 Год назад +7

      You get life is all. Someone having to inflate their value typically indicates low self esteem which often leads to other issues. An accurate or more accurate evaluation is more attractive because the person is clearly comfortable with who they are and has high self esteem.

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch Год назад +1

      @@winoodlesnoodles1984 not really but ok.

    • @winoodlesnoodles1984
      @winoodlesnoodles1984 Год назад +2

      @@DominantBtch fair enough if your life has given you other experience.
      My life has taught me that little things are indicators of bigger things. My life has taught me that people who need to inflate self worth typically have issues like low self esteem, narcissism, insecurities, dillusional, inferiority complex, etc. Not all of those issues in one person, but one or more issues is often the case. I have over 52 years on the planet and that little thought has been incredibly accurate.
      Again, perhaps you have been in contact with better people than me and have a different experience.

    • @Slyfa187
      @Slyfa187 Год назад

      @@DominantBtch care to explain?

  • @chrisjohnson926
    @chrisjohnson926 Год назад +161

    Men are realistic, we base The 10 on how they WANT to feel. Speak it into existence all you want. You know the truth ma’am.

    • @jellymatsuryuka6853
      @jellymatsuryuka6853 Год назад +5

      I think what some of these people don't realise is that a ten is the top of the top of the top, basically no one gets to be a ten, no matter how good you look, no matter what you do, you can probably never be a ten, but these people think a ten is as common as existing.

    • @jellymatsuryuka6853
      @jellymatsuryuka6853 Год назад +3

      I've seen about 5 dudes in my life that were tens, and I saw them on the internet (I say this as a guy btw)

    • @aqmohra4
      @aqmohra4 Год назад

      I don't think men are realistic at all. They are unrealistic the other way around I.e a dude who everyone would rate a 7 would rate himself a 5

    • @Georgia.J
      @Georgia.J Год назад

      Girls won 't tell the truth if surrounded by friends. If it was just you and her she would be more humble and probably more attractive as a result.
      Guys do compliment women on social media but a girl knows if she is attractive according to men in real life or not. I think girls feel they have to say ten because women are told to love themselves just the way they are.
      If men were told the same thing that wouldn't be such a toxic sentiment. But they aren't. But remember looks are not everything and they fade for both men and women.

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 Год назад +2

      As a guy, sometimes I don’t think I’m completely honest with myself. I’ve always considered myself a solid 7 cuz it’s a nice number. But I’m probably a 6 and a 6.5 on a good day 😂

  • @taybaybay5553
    @taybaybay5553 Год назад +38

    Thankfully my mom taught me it was ok to be average and I've never been insecure about being average. Now I'm not saying there isn't things I've had insecurities about but it was never because I felt average.

  • @kemj9
    @kemj9 Год назад +70

    I’d never downplay someone else’s looks just because of my level of attraction towards them. It might not make sense to people but it’s just how I am.

    • @standia
      @standia Год назад +3

      I mean they are asking YOU how would you rate them on a scale of 1-10. Basically attraction

    • @kemj9
      @kemj9 Год назад +18

      @@standia that has nothing to do with attraction. My cousins and mother, they are beautiful, 0 attraction.

    • @strawberryfields6917
      @strawberryfields6917 Год назад +1

      I agree. Im assuming he is asking general attraction vs how attracted YOU are to THEM :)

  • @Azure_GT
    @Azure_GT Год назад +208

    I laughed harder than i should have at this the negative bit had me blowing out my soda

    • @AYG9001
      @AYG9001 Год назад +5

      i was drinking ice tea and almost spit it out during that bit

    • @naynay9601
      @naynay9601 Год назад +4

      I nearly puked😂😂

    • @serpentsuperior7473
      @serpentsuperior7473 Год назад +16

      For me it was Stephen Hawking 😭😂

    • @54321bizzer
      @54321bizzer Год назад +8

      It was so out of pocket 😅😅😅

    • @dfredankey
      @dfredankey Год назад +4

      THAT SHIT WAS INSANE SONNN

  • @prismajane
    @prismajane Год назад +19

    That Stephen Hawking image showing up for a split second caught me way off guard

  • @whatchyagonnado
    @whatchyagonnado Год назад +42

    Yall threw Fresh WAYYYY under the bus 😂😂

    • @winoodlesnoodles1984
      @winoodlesnoodles1984 Год назад

      The Miami boys make it easy to do.

    • @eastwaters4082
      @eastwaters4082 Год назад +1

      They still winning with views and money. Crazy world.

    • @winoodlesnoodles1984
      @winoodlesnoodles1984 Год назад +1

      @@eastwaters4082 All that shows is the cluelessness of the average person. To quote Churchill, "The best argument against democracy is a five minute conversation with the average voter."
      That kind of sums things up. Basically a lot of younger guys don't recognize them as the red pill parrots they are.

    • @DatDudeFromAfrica
      @DatDudeFromAfrica Год назад

      Just the comment I was looking for🤣

  • @YobYm2
    @YobYm2 Год назад +33

    Don’t forget, everyone can change their “score” to an extent with a little effort, working out a little and a good haircut/shave can go a LOOONG way for a lot of people. The confidence that comes from a cleaner appearance will only further boost that score!

  • @fuzzynuttz5092
    @fuzzynuttz5092 Год назад +47

    Now I know it's good be confident with yourself, but then there's just being an arrogant jerk and I think it's good to have some humility

    • @octoslut
      @octoslut Год назад +7

      some?? bra you will not improve without humility, its why arrogant people are some of the most complacent people ever.

    • @atropabelladonna3120
      @atropabelladonna3120 Год назад +7

      Because if you are humble you can take good well-constructed criticism and grow from there, but throw some criticism on these "I'm 10" lads and see how they freak out. Confidence my ***, that's arrogance.

    • @winoodlesnoodles1984
      @winoodlesnoodles1984 Год назад +1

      Exactly! Overrating yourself is a sign of low self esteem, which often leads to other insecurities. All those women saying 10, I would just walk away from. The one who said 6 likely has solid self esteem and is likely worth your time to at least say hi.

  • @nbtino73
    @nbtino73 Год назад +31

    I started doing a lot of spiritual work and stopped obsessing over my looks. I mainly care about my appearance in regards to how I can utilize my looks to have a better life without sacrificing integrity. Beyond that, I don’t worry about where I land on a scale of 1-10. Besides, people I think are attractive are ugly to my friends and vice versa. Just focus on mental, spiritual and physical health and you will be handsome/beautiful to those who matter.

  • @pcarebear1
    @pcarebear1 Год назад +127

    This video made me feel good to be an average girl. It's true, girls try to boost each other (unless they are frienemies). Guys tend to accept and go with what they have. It's refreshing to have an objective view and work on being content in your life. Be your own version of a 10 inside and out.🤗🥰

    • @Georgia.J
      @Georgia.J Год назад +15

      Agreed. I had a "best friend" in school who put me down every chance she got. I was insecure at the time and said nothing but looking back a lot of boys made fun of her looks and she was overweight. She was projecting her feelings of low self worth onto me.
      I don't think girls should be mocked for their appearance btw, or boys. But she really was vicious to me.
      It's a shame the way society is without fixation on physical appearance. It makes both genders feel incomplete and erodes their self confidence.

    • @haileyquinnzel
      @haileyquinnzel Год назад

      Men don’t have objective views. They give their opinions an inflated sense if importance & claim it’s “objectivity.” Please learn about what attractiveness is.

    • @noobboon2579
      @noobboon2579 Год назад +1

      I like trains

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 Год назад

      Self-delusion is UGLY. On the inside, you’re a 2.5

  • @expjose6781
    @expjose6781 Год назад +11

    Fresh catching the stray out of nowhere was hilarious. I damn near spit out my coffee

  • @DerrickKidder
    @DerrickKidder Год назад +55

    Flashing Stephen Hawking while talking about negatives got me crying 😭

    • @someguy892
      @someguy892 Год назад

      Steven Hawking has intelligence and Charisma. Just cause he is not physically attractive, he is still attractive.

    • @bakaribridges7358
      @bakaribridges7358 Год назад +6

      @@someguy892 🧢

    • @CameronkAK
      @CameronkAK Год назад +1

      @@someguy892 your a better person than me. I don't know a single women who would buss it down for Steven Hawkins.

    • @PostInquiry
      @PostInquiry Год назад +1

      @@CameronkAK well he was married til the end, so there was at least that one

    • @asara8065
      @asara8065 Год назад

      @@PostInquiry All that money got him outta the negatives and made him look a 1 to his gold digging nurse. As for his first wife, she met him when he was 2 and could still walk.

  • @diivaiinthehouse1
    @diivaiinthehouse1 Год назад +87

    These conversations always crack me up. This is what it boils down to..
    Girl: Im pretty. I think I'm a 10
    Everyone: You ugly. Beauty standards suck... But you still don't meet them.
    Its a game that if you play right you lose ( ig baddies) if you don't play you lose ( girls that don't scribe to beauty standards) and if you suck at the game you lose. ( Girls that try but it's doesn't look right)
    Love your self and find other who do too

    • @sub-harmonik
      @sub-harmonik Год назад +5

      a lot of women are deluded about what the beauty standards actually are. "insta baddies" aren't as good looking as they think they are, w/ their overdone makeup and general phoniness. not to mention women who think ridiculously long lashes and/or nails are attractive somehow.
      That's not to say that all ppl on instagram or who wear makeup are unattractive, but 'the beauty standards' women perceive aren't actually what the beauty standards are a lot of the time.
      Beauty standards aren't bad or good, they are what they are because people are gonna be attracted to something.

    • @kalesmart1
      @kalesmart1 Год назад +2

      Well put, most of the time I consider personality sets the score anyway, I know some chicks that are fairly pretty but they are absolute catches because of who they are. I have seen some vile women too who are definitely in the negatives, amber heard anyone 🤔

    • @nibbacheese3787
      @nibbacheese3787 Год назад

      Couldn't have said it better

    • @Miztique
      @Miztique Год назад +2

      @@sub-harmonik Idk how you can say that: Men will say they want an all natural girl but all natural actually means light makeup and clear skin. Men make jokes about waking up to their girl without makeup and "thinking it's a dude" all the time. Like be for real now.

    • @sub-harmonik
      @sub-harmonik Год назад

      @@Miztique yeah light makeup. not caked-on or done to the point where you're unrecognizable.
      Depends on the woman too imo.
      A lot of women use makeup to the point where they don't look natural at all.
      I do think it's possible to pull off a look with a lot of makeup but 95% of the time it doesn't work

  • @StudentDoctor94
    @StudentDoctor94 Год назад +29

    The segway into the Tiege Hanley promo was pure poetry

  • @Vic-Valentine
    @Vic-Valentine Год назад +5

    one thing that really annoys me about the current fake postivity mindset everyones has is them confusing confidence with narcissism

  • @99BullD
    @99BullD Год назад +27

    That Stephen Hawkins insert while talking about them "negatives" cracked me up🤣

  • @adrianchatman5734
    @adrianchatman5734 Год назад +140

    This is what happens when you're told you're special your entire life and told you just have to look pretty and show up. You end up delusional. But society still pats them on the head. I find it funny that one group is fine the way that they are, the other has to grind, and consistently work on themselves because they're not good enough as they are. Truly fascinating.

    • @mealovesyu
      @mealovesyu Год назад

      Well males have themselves to blame. Telling your daughters that they shouldn’t do STEM subjects or play soccer, and just be good looking and have a husband has done this. Males only appreciate women for their looks alone.
      Of course you will create a generation of looks obsessed people in general. In this society you need to be relatively good looking/popular in order to open any doors for yourself.

    • @adrianchatman5734
      @adrianchatman5734 Год назад

      @@mealovesyu ok this argument is pretty disingenuous. It's father's who are taking their daughters shopping for clothes and make up and telling their daughters on how to attract men? No, it's the mothers. I will agree with you that it is fathers who are too over protective of girls and putting it in their heads that nobody is good enough for them. As far as STEM, goes, FALSE. STEM has been open to women for decades. your argument basically is saying women have zero agency and cannot think choose for themselves what they want to do. Which is proven even doubly false considering they have pretty much unlimited freedom where they want to go to college and what they want to learn in classes. You're saying a woman whos far from home, supposedly has her own agency and all those STEM classes available won't go to them because her father said not to? Stop. Take some accountability. I find it funny that women have agency up until it doesn't benefit them anymore.

    • @rose-yeah
      @rose-yeah Год назад +1

      😂this not a movie. A person cannot be delusional about looks.

    • @phonesjuda7318
      @phonesjuda7318 Год назад +12

      @@rose-yeah you certainly haven't met enough people

    • @sparkyboomboomboi7051
      @sparkyboomboomboi7051 Год назад +3

      @@rose-yeahthey certainly can??? Many people are even body wise which leads to eating disorders etc even if the person is already skinny to the bone

  • @Ultra_Sauce
    @Ultra_Sauce Год назад +68

    Being told you ain’t shit is important and it shows more and more every day

    • @blewmutant2263
      @blewmutant2263 Год назад +2

      Crazy thumbnail lol

    • @justacoginthefkery
      @justacoginthefkery Год назад +4

      One thing ppl don't understand is some truly are one "you ain't sh*t" away from crippling depression because so many ppl go out of their way to be douche-canoes for no reason other than to feed their soulless ego.

    • @goldenpersonwhoexists8834
      @goldenpersonwhoexists8834 Год назад

      Exactly. Everyone needs a "you aint shit (but ugly), but you aint shit (drop dead gorgeous)

  • @TrueDarkMajin
    @TrueDarkMajin Год назад +2

    Yoooooooooooooooo 7:10 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 STOP IT!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @silentbutharry3819
    @silentbutharry3819 Год назад +5

    7:10 why y’all do him like that 😂

  • @bungleboy7
    @bungleboy7 Год назад +37

    Actually rating people is extremely subjective. For example my best friend likes guys who look a bit feminine (like Shawn Mendes) and she thinks these guys are 10. Personally I find these kind of dudes extremely mid. I always rate guys who look little bit "rough" in the face a 10 because for me a man is more manly if he looks like he's been through shit. I will never forget the time me and her went through a list of celebrities and she would rate some of them 10, I would rate them like a 2.
    So ratings people appearances depends on taste, culture and fetishes.

    • @Sunflowers_220
      @Sunflowers_220 Год назад +1

      Amen, I agree a bit of nuance I like to add is that within every culture there are basic things we deem as beautiful and ugly.
      So based upon this generalization of beauty. we can rate beauty. Its just never objective. Like Abba said the subjectiveness comes in to place based on the person that rates others, meaning since we have perconceived notions of beauty per culture you go up or down maybe a point or two depending on who rates you.
      You see this in studies done about beautiful people all the time on avarage a certain person is a 8 in the states but a 4 in france. Because on avarage we are formed by what we are told is beautiful during out life-time. And ofcoure some people in those studies give different ratings since beauty is always subjective on a personal level . But we do all have box we fit in based on beautystandards. I would like to think of those boxes as this. 4-6, 6-8, 8-10. We all fall into a box. The box just changes per culture and continent.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +4

      I feel like a 10 is something that we all agree is a 10 no matter what you're type is, but I'm with you. I have a friend who likes zero fat on women and I find the girls he brings home disgusting because they're so skinny but I'm sure he says the same about the girls I like because I like some thickness.

    • @Kirbystare1992
      @Kirbystare1992 Год назад +1

      @Christopher Hall agreed

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad Год назад +1

      So you're both delusional.

  • @csikip99
    @csikip99 Год назад +5

    7:06 Bro i cant 💀💀💀💀

  • @simplebidnessman
    @simplebidnessman Год назад +4

    7:57 there is that hitting Preach was telling Aba he didn’t like a few weeks back😭

  • @juliapeters6036
    @juliapeters6036 Год назад +44

    Ooooh, the confidence those girls had. "I´m a 10." And I´m sitting here, thinking "You´re practially a baby with a face plastered with make-up. Go home and work on that 10."

  • @Kaslabarak
    @Kaslabarak Год назад +6

    8:56 wow perfect omg. 10\10 Preach

  • @lucianadannon134
    @lucianadannon134 Год назад +21

    I always had the feeling I was a 5 or AT MOST a 6.5 in a good day, but friends only tell you that you are a 10 and then I just have to keep wondering and it bugs me even more. Recently I kinda confirmed I was average and I'm a lot happier not havng to wonder. That being said I do think my husband needs to say I'm a 10 in his eyes, even if it's not true because I want the illusion that TO HIM an HIM ONLY I am perfect :)

    • @somegrill7561
      @somegrill7561 Год назад +2

      🤦

    • @shadow_realm47
      @shadow_realm47 Год назад +1

      Sister in christ, had us in the first half ngl.
      You can always look better/fitter/more muscular/ healthier.

  • @muffygraves6107
    @muffygraves6107 Год назад +24

    I've never really cared what others see me as when attractiveness is involved there's so much more then looks that makes someone attractive, not to mention not everyone likes the same stuff, I've been told my whole life I'd look prettier if I had natural hair and wore some colour... Well that's not me... And I can just wake up with drool still coming off me and my husband still says I'm the most beautiful woman!! Just because some rando on the street doesn't like they way you look doesn't mean everyone doesn't!!! Stay confident and love yourself!!!

    • @veronicaana
      @veronicaana Год назад +4

      Your husband telling you you are gorgeous is like my grandmother telling me Im beautiful...it doesnt count. I need to know where I would objectively stand if I were to end up divorced tomorrow and if I would likely get any dates.

    • @AizakkuZ
      @AizakkuZ Год назад +4

      @@veronicaana Lmao ight well ima say it then, if her pfp is her then yeah I can understand where her husband is coming from. Calling a stranger beautiful is cringe to me so i'll just say it like that and say it like this-- she definitely is not ugly, that is for sure.

  • @Lunaa_613
    @Lunaa_613 Год назад +61

    You guys actually continually become better looking, glow up is constant . Also being a 6 is a great place to be (imo).

  • @aviliosalmon6096
    @aviliosalmon6096 Год назад +17

    LMAO no mam your not a 10 😂 "top 4"

  • @lucilledelorme
    @lucilledelorme Год назад +13

    I’d definitely agree about your rating of yourselves but you are also right about your charisma and you both have beaucoup charisma and personality which gets better with age. Keep on keeping on, you’re both great. And you know it!

  • @mikelitorous5570
    @mikelitorous5570 Год назад +17

    Also, I think it’s cool having distinctive features. Like I’ve got quite a big nose but it goes with my face shape and makes me stick out in a crowd of people, literally. People also say they don’t notice it when I tell them so it’s not like everyone notices. I used to be insecure about it and people used to joke about it but now I’m older I like it. Plus I can manage it with grooming etc. I think it you look like the stereotypical beautiful person it’s boring to me I’ve always been attracted to girls who have an extenuated feature because it separates them from the crowd and makes them unique.
    My nose doesn’t make me a 10 but I would consider myself around a 7-8ish because you can sort out other features and I have attractive features on top of the nose. And you can always work on your body to make yourself more attractive.

    • @veronicaana
      @veronicaana Год назад

      Unfortunately not all physical attributes are desired. Kinky curls for example, are NOT desireable by any man of any race. I know.

    • @AizakkuZ
      @AizakkuZ Год назад

      fax

  • @TonyRealTalk07
    @TonyRealTalk07 Год назад +10

    Maaan! When I learned to hit on women that saw me attractive, that’s when my dating changed and armed up. There’s power to know what and how you can make it work

  • @elusivemayfly7534
    @elusivemayfly7534 Год назад +12

    Everybody has attractive things about them! Everybody. These things include but aren’t limited to looks. Engage and grow your strengths. That produces confidence and draws others to you. Genuine kindness draws them as well. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday and work toward who you will be tomorrow. This stuff sounds corny, but I can tell you it has rung true in my 40 years on the planet. The more I’ve done this, the more I have been able to just have fun instead of feeling bad about myself

  • @ouishelly
    @ouishelly Год назад +2

    6:10 Preach: I ain't nowhere near a ten. Aba: ABSOLUTELY

  • @raketensven3127
    @raketensven3127 Год назад +5

    4:25 Uuhhh petty and I'm here for it!

  • @FatManJackson
    @FatManJackson Год назад +30

    A 10 is an unachievable ceiling. If you are a 10, you are not a human being that poops and farts and smells if they dont shower. A 10 is a godlike being.

    • @StriveforJannah2
      @StriveforJannah2 Год назад +1

      Jon snow is a 10

    • @FatManJackson
      @FatManJackson Год назад +8

      @@StriveforJannah2 you know NOTHING about 10s

    • @MrLij02
      @MrLij02 Год назад +2

      Emily Ratajkowski is a ten straight up no questions

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Год назад

      Imo? A 10/10 woman is one that is head turning beautiful with little effort. Like she can roll out of bed. Messy bed head, no make up on. Walk outside to get her mail in her robe and still turn heads.
      A 10/10 guy is Mr Steal yo girl. Like you think she faithful until a guy like him comes around and expresses intrest.

    • @FatManJackson
      @FatManJackson Год назад

      @@MrLij02 funny how I would even go as far as to call her ugly. Not even joking. Incredibly unattractive to me. I could list some more who are perceived as beautiful by some, but are ugly to me are. Like Emma Watson, Gal Gadot, Anne Heathaway, Halle Barry. I would not even date them for a hundred bucks hahah

  • @Rude_Boi
    @Rude_Boi Год назад +8

    That cutaway to "Fresh, my man is 28 going in 80" has me gone bro 💀 🤣

  • @thisisnotmyname4700
    @thisisnotmyname4700 Год назад +35

    I'm 36 and I don't remember us rating each other when we were younger. Seems weird.
    Also I think there comes a point in life when you realize how shallow all that is. Been married for 14 years with 7 kids...couldn't imagine thinking about another man as hot or whatever because there is depth that surpasses all that in the intimacy that you have with your partner. These guys saying how average they are...trust me a wife that loves you wouldn't even think like that. To her, you are over 10 or whatever ridiculous thing you rate yourselves on.

  • @CG-rr3wi
    @CG-rr3wi Год назад +26

    Yes, we can say that it's okay to be average or below in the looks department. However, it's very difficult to manage through the obvious or subliminal mistreatment faced every time I walk out the door.

    • @nah4205
      @nah4205 Год назад +5

      hell is other people. i wouldn't care about being average if people didn't treat me like shit :(. then its further confirmed when i see my pretty acquiantances get treated nicely.

    • @maxhatush5918
      @maxhatush5918 Год назад

      There is no miss treatment if you’re female, that’s only for low status, ugly men and just men in general. Hell a 9/10 man has it WAY worse than an absolutely bottom tier obese female (saying this as a man who absolutely adores fat women and prefers average to below average women).

    • @cyberspace7208
      @cyberspace7208 Год назад +1

      Then you must be below average.

    • @maxhatush5918
      @maxhatush5918 Год назад

      @@gg_ingy that mistreatment does not exist for women that’s why

    • @veronicaana
      @veronicaana Год назад

      Some people do not need outside validation, but some people do. Its easy for you to say "just dont care" but as you can see within the fabric of society getting everyone to think like that would be impossible. What would your solution be?

  • @desertpunk9740
    @desertpunk9740 Год назад +17

    I once had a conversation with a female friend about people rating others. I decided to have fun with the conversation. I said "I'm a 6. My wife is a 9." She wanted me to say my wife is a ten and caught the joke mid sentence. She replied. "No. You're supposed to say your wife is a t... ohh.." 😳
    Me: 🤣

  • @Cfoster.3
    @Cfoster.3 Год назад +32

    Idk if I’m late, but this is a brilliant concept. I just wonder if the people asked about their ratings saw the responses

  • @lasenoradelacruz
    @lasenoradelacruz Год назад +24

    I got my husband some skincare for Christmas! Thank you Aba!

  • @Goddess_Infinity
    @Goddess_Infinity Год назад +50

    I’m pretty sure those girls don’t look in the mirror every morning and think I look like a Victoria Secret model . I believe they rate them self that because they don’t want people to perceive them as being insecure. Because if a girl says I’m a 4 or 6 everyone would say no sweetie your are beautiful,you have a great smile and a great personality. So in order to not look like you lack confidence, the say I’m a 10 , which in looks and having a great personality and a wonderful smile makes you a 10, in a non superficial way . That’s just my guess . Where as for dudes society don’t really judge you base of your looks more so your wallet . In which most guys will exaggerate as well.

    • @koolaidjerk
      @koolaidjerk Год назад +11

      Except people don't say that, as evidenced in this video when her own friend is like "6? THAT'S RIGHT!" lol.
      I think this is from people confusing their physical attractiveness with their self worth. Having a great smile or personality doesn't mean you aren't a 4. It's fine to be a 4. When people need to jump in and say "no you aren't" it's kind of insulting to all the 4's who are great people. Nothing wrong with not being the world's best looking person. Don't make people think there is.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Год назад

      @@koolaidjerk I agree , that’s why I said I’m sure these girls don’t actually think they are a full 10 in the looks department.

    • @citrinewitch1882
      @citrinewitch1882 Год назад +3

      @@koolaidjerk People say that all the time, just because that friend didn't doesn't mean other women wouldn't. I have received that response myself when I have rated myself average, other women rush to tell you that you're beautiful because they equate an average self-rating with low self esteem.

    • @Elviladia
      @Elviladia Год назад +2

      Or it’s to avoid the “you’re fishing for compliments” if you rate yourself lower than 7.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Год назад

      @@Elviladia Exactly! Don’t you hate that one pretty / skinny friend that constantly says how ugly and fat she is and everyone has to remind her how beautiful she is . Yeah that’s annoying.

  • @kinginconsistent
    @kinginconsistent Год назад +5

    PREACHES FACE AT 4:12 😭😭😭

  • @Mike-fl8ou
    @Mike-fl8ou Год назад +31

    This is a perfect time to introduce you guys to "The O'Connor Scale", so named for a former roommate of mine. You have 1-10. 1's and 10's are basically an idea, for most purposes they aren't even real. 10 is like an angel straight from heaven or something. 5 is the middle, the median. It's average. Woooo lordt, let me tell you the fun we had at the pub when we've met some girls and they ask 'What would you rate my friend?'. "A solid 5, maybe 5 and a half". The looks we would get! It always ended up being a good conversation though, helped set expectations right from the jump. The vast majority of us are 5's, just what it is. Get to know a person, and personality can bump that 5 up or down.

    • @rebeccashields9626
      @rebeccashields9626 Год назад +6

      You are using the bell curve model. Which makes sense, most human traits are along a standard bell curve. I think where the disconnect is that a lot of people are thinking on a percentage out of 100 type scale. By that scale, 70% of the population is overweight, so in general every normal weight person is going to be at least 7 or above. And that doesn’t factor in age. So if you asked people specifically to use a standard bell curve the answer might be different. Because if you are thinking out of base 100, the scores would be much higher based on age alone. Young people who are normal weight would all be 9/10 at least I would bet anything most of these ladies are thinking out of 100, not as a bell curve.

    • @dibby1045
      @dibby1045 Год назад +1

      @@rebeccashields9626 Of course the 70% thing only really applies to America, compare it to the world and it would be roughly 30% overweight.

    • @rebeccashields9626
      @rebeccashields9626 Год назад +1

      @@dibby1045 haha true we are fatter here. But I think these are filmed in America.

  • @vh5636
    @vh5636 Год назад +11

    People will always rate others differently. What may be a 10 to you could be a 5 to someone else and vice versa. But what I said in another comment is you can always get up on the general scale by taking care of yourself better. Improve your health, confidence and self-care. You will be alright.

    • @kokorobread5243
      @kokorobread5243 Год назад +2

      Exactly!! This question is quite opinionated. There's nothing wrong or delusional with thinking you're a 10. It might only be if you think everyone else in the world will think you're a 10. I've seen gorgeous women and have had people disagree with me. Most of it is opinionated

    • @vh5636
      @vh5636 Год назад

      @@kokorobread5243 100% agree