I would never let the fact that the ex had the exact same or even similar item bother me. If I want it I'm going to get it. But, I do agree. Say that more than twice and you'd be out.
I feel like it just wouldn't work on me. I'd be like, "Oh, I guess you have a type, huh?" or "She has good taste" and put the cushion in the cart. I just can't see not wanting something just because a partner's ex happened to have it.
My relationship hack after 10 years together with my husband. Flirt with your partner. It will remind them that you are still interested in them and often times leads to a good laugh or big smiles. My husband was cooking some thing the other night and I shoo'ed him out of the kitchen telling him he had to leave. When he asked why, I said, "Because you're so hot you're going to burn dinner." The goofy smile was worth it.
From someone over 20 years with my partner: good advice and I double down! It’s ofc best if you look at them and feel like flirting naturally. So, if you do, don’t hold back And it’s never too much 😁
Relationship hack (from a wife): Every time he is half naked or completely naked I do a little wolf whistle. Shirt off? Whistle. Naked getting into/out of the shower? Whistle. Makes him grin every time. I asked him once if it made him uncomfortable, and he told me that initially he didn't know how to respond, but after all these years if I didn't whistle at him, he'd be heartbroken. He's mine for life. Also, higher level of this is give a long look up and down either before, after, or in place of the whistle. They have to be paying attention, so it's a bit more involved, but also works.
Yes! The separate blankets hack is a life saver!!! My husband and I have always had separate blankets and it's amazing! We both burrito ourselves and my husband is a roller.
Lol, my dog used to curl up next to my boyfriend's or my head because she wanted to be on tbe pillow, and needless to say we would wake up with terrible neck pain. One night I decided to push a chair up against the bed next to me with the opening facing the bed, and then I threw one of her poufs in it with some blankets. She immediately understood the assignment, and our necks have been saved ever since. My boyfriend has dubbed it the 'side car.'
A German relationship tip: Don't just each buy your own blanket. But also separate mattresses for the shared bed. In Germany that is standard! you don't notice if your partners Movement. , for example, my Girl sleeps very restlessly and constantly tosses and turns but i don't mind because my mattress don't get the Movement. The gap between the mattresses is stable enough to lie on without noticing :). This increases shared sleeping comfort by 1000%
Also, people have different mattress preferences. My boyfriend prefers soft mattresses... I absolutely hate soft mattresses. I've slept on a wooden bed before while travelling in Southeast Asia and that was probably more comfortable to me than a super soft mattress would me. The gap is more of a bug than a feature to me though. Especially if you want to cuddle when falling asleep or are "having adult fun time".
@@Query_8P me as well, we are in our 60s and my hubby brought two long single beds as they can put the bed head up or down and that’s the only saving grace after 37 years. I would like to cuddle to go to sleep.
This is really helpful! I can never chose a restraunt because I get Choice Paralasys. There are way too many choices out there and it causes anxiety to make a choice. And my husband always gets so frustrated because I can never make up my mind. So THIS is EXCELLENT advice!!!! I will ask my husband to choose 3 and then I can choose 1 of the 3! Excellent thank you!
You all are one of the few sources of joy in my life. Each day, I find myself rewatching your videos, clinging to the motivation they provide to keep going. Whenever I feel like everything is falling apart, lost in my thoughts, or overwhelmed by sadness, I retreat to your channel and immerse myself in your videos. Thank you deeply for creating such wonderfully funny and captivating content. It means more to me than you can imagine.
Reading your comment, is like you were describing me. And how I feel. It’s sad isn’t it? I do get joy from watching Toni & Ryan. They’re both so upbeat and fun. I hope things get better for you. 💕
This is a relationship hack for gift giving. If you're out with your partner and they say "I love this but I can't justify getting it for myself" or something along those lines, write down what the thing is. It's been such a solid way of getting good gifts for my partner.
My hack: when I start dating someone, i put notes in their contact in my phone incase we work out lolol favorite musician, color, foods, birthdays - including family; and date nites “first date at ……, first kiss on this date. But makes it super easy to give best gifts, always be on point, and I read it every once in a while and bring a card for some random “anniversary “, like for our first kiss. Been together 8 years and married for 5 now!!
The time I asked my partner if she wanted a chocolate bar from the dairy while I picked up one for myself and she said no. Then she spent hours yelling at me for not getting one and making me find a petrol station store that was open after 10pm on a Sunday to buy one for her in the desperate hope she would finally shut up about it. I know what you're thinking, should've just ignored her and made her take responsibility for saying she didn't want one when kindly offered. I gave in after 5 hours of being yelled at and broke up with her a couple of months later - waited until she aced her finals at uni so it wouldn't accidentally sabatage her summa cum laude honours. That was 25 years ago - she got married, had a kid, divorced and nearly drove her ex-husband to several nervous breakdowns during their marriage with vivid descriptions of him lying on the floor in the fetal position. Talk about a dodged bullet. P.S. She got her PhD in psychology....
My husband and I have a wheel with our favorite restaurants. We spin the wheel and whatever it lands on is where we go. If we are ever unsure, we spin the wheel 3 times and pick 1 out of the 3 choices. No complaining and always great meals!
My husband do the pick three for everything. Pick three movies, pick three restaurants, etc. but we take turns. Once he’ll pick three then I’ll pick one then next time I pick three and he picks one. It’s great! I’ve never heard anyone else ever say this!
A few days ago, I asked my boyfriend if he'd still love me if I were a duck, because I thought I was being funny, and he very seriously said that he'd bring me bread everyday and now I think I'll keep him forever. Although we did have to agree to a better foodstuff to bring duck-me because bread isn't nutritious enough
Best movie picking hack ever guys. Being older, I remember wasting a lot of time at the video store looking for VHS/DVDs & going home without anything. Now that was frustrating.
We have separate blankets because he gets hot and I always get cold, so he has a thinner blanket than me so he doesn't over heat and I don't freeze. And we also have a dog that sleeps on between us!
Using separate blankets is a necessity. My bf uses the down feather comforter while I use a big, thin fleece blanket because I’m not a psychopath who likes waking up dripping with sweat 🙃
The one at 5:30 reminds me of my aunt and uncle so much! He was really into cars, and she decided to be nice and wash his car for him after he'd been working away for a while. Anyway, she used a scourer and accidentally scratched it all - but she didn't notice. So when he came home, and she pointed out she'd washed his car, he went out to see it, screamed, ran into the office yelling "what did you do to my car?!" She ran for the stairs, he chased her up (to be clear, he was in no way abusive, he'd never have hit her at all, I think this was just the first time she'd ever seen him angry), she started throwing things at him on the stairs (she told us this story and clearly remembers throwing a pile of cleaned clothing at him), he realised she was getting annoyed... He turned tail, ran down the stairs, straight into the pub around the corner and stayed there for six hours. At 8pm, he rang home asking if he was okay to come back 🤣🤣 She'd messed up and HE was the one worried about coming home
@@dacdebuc8020 Depends on the man. My uncle was never prone to violence and my aunt knew it. My own partner if he chased me up the stairs in anger I know for a fact he'd never hurt me. But yeah, I can understand it that maybe others have had awful men who would hurt them. We've both just been very lucky
@@Evija3000 I mean, I grew up in a postcode that was declared one of the worst to live in. My boyfriend grew up in a much nicer postcode and is really quite soft. So... I'd say it would be the other way round in our relationship 😂 But like I said, I can understand others feeling that way, but I'd also say that again, it's how well you know the man and how prone he is to actual violence.
Loved these. So many good ideas. Toni.. I'm with you, separate blankets! I like to burrow, but hubby tends to lift and pull on the blankets when he rolls over. Then there are those times when I need a blanket, but he doesn't. So we have used separate blankets for quite some time. Oh and my "weighted blanket" is my Shadow. Male black cat who waits until I am settled on my side hugging my support pillow (I have shoulder issues), then he climbs up and lays on me, usually using my hip for a pillow.
Separate blankets and the biggest bed you can manage. I've been with mine for 19 years. He's tall and rolly, in the early days he elbow dropped me nightly. No more! And we both sleep well.
Instead of separate blankets me and my partner of 22 years have separate rooms. He snores and is touchy feelie sweaty mess and I need my space so we don’t share a bed or room. It works. I recon we wouldn’t have lasted this long if I had to listen to the nose breathing every damn night. I would have suffocated him in his sleep by now. I just got a cat and I’m seriously thinking he needs to sleep in my partners room. I NEED MY SPACE DAMN IT😂 I’ve not slept more than 3 hours since.
Hubby and I have two blankets. Also agree it’s a lot easier to have dog in the bed when you can make sure they can’t take away your blanket. Or the spouse.
I told my (now) husband before we moved in that we're having separate blankets. I wake up if any part of my blanket is removed from me. He absolutely loves having his own blanket now.
My wife and I started using separate blankets, then separate rooms, then separate houses, then separate countries... We've been separated for almost 10 years now. Best hack ever!!
I reaaaaaalllg like your guys energie...... Been in aussie for 6,5 weeks, been back in the Netherland since 17 February but seeing you guys make me miss aussie so much more
Ryan’s hack for what to watch on TV also works for what to eat 😂 I normally give my husband a few options of what I’d be happy with and then he picks which one 😂 if he doesn’t want any of my options, we eat separate things 🤷🏼♀️😂
One of my hugest pet peeves with my ex had to do with choosing where to eat. If I'm asked where I want to eat I always responded back with a place. Every single time he would say no and then choose somewhere else. Like, WTF is the point of even asking. Then he would get mad because I never choose.
If the guy could not pick a place I would pick the most expensive place I have always wanted to try. It sets the bar higher than expected if it is a first date. Poor planning WILL cost you.
Here in Sweden we mostly sleep with our own blankets/duvet/covers. I dont know a single person that uses a big one to share 🤣❤ And the advice of one partner choosing three movies and the other chooses one of them to see, we've used forever, and it's great! 👍👏
We do a "pick one/veto one" method. One of us picks three movie choices. The other one can EITHER pick one from those three to watch. OR veto one from the three, and the person who gave the three choices can pick from the remaining two. Saves so much time. We've been together 12 years. 😆
The separate blanket thing I've always done with my husband. He tosses and turns in his sleep and pulls the blanket off of himself and me. Plus he likes a basic duvet blanket to cover with and I prefer to use super soft blankets as I have a thing about certain textures making me uncomfortable. We have been together 10 years and just hit our 9 year wedding anniversary and it has worked for us.
My family and I will sit there and scroll until we all eventually just get up without watching anything. Happens a lot more than we actually watch something
Separate blankets are peak. We started doing this during our 3rd pregnancy and have never gone back. 20 years of marriage, and this is one of the best hacks
His hack for movies is the same hack I use with my spouse to figure out a place to eat and when we can’t figure out the 3, we make the list off and we both say which ones we don’t want to eat at in that list until we got the 3, then we both cancel out 1 place.
I don’t understand the trope about girls not knowing what they want to eat. I can assure you, that at any moment of the day or night, I can tell you exactly what I feel like eating and how much. In fact, even if I’m eating at the time, I can tell you exactly what I want to eat for my next meal
Nah, dude is almost correct, but the truth is your girl wants a sandwhich from chik fil a, fries from mcdonals a shake from steak and shake and mozzerella sticks from arbys. You just gotta let em know it's okay.
After we had only been dating for maybe a couple of months I asked my boyfriend if he would still love me if I was disfigured in an accident and he made this terrible face and said eww no way haha it made me laugh so hard even though I knew he wasn’t joking haha I still remind him of how mean that was and thankfully no accidents yet hahaha
They really have a good chemistry. And I love Toni! (Alright, I love Ryan too. 😝) I'm surprised that Bridgette has never been jealous of Toni 'cause how close the two of them are. But if that's the case, good for you Ryan, she's a keeper! ❤️
Omg!!! This guy asked my friend out on a date to a comedy club. He said his friend was going up on stage. And did she want to come. She said sure. She loves going to comedy shows. They planned to meet there. She pulled up in the car park and she sees the guy get out of his car and he’s wearing this yellow Hawaiian shirt with a red bow tie and a pair of green corduroy pants cut off into shorts. And he has on red converse high tops. And she knows now that it’s not his friend going on stage but actually him. And she gets out of her car and starts walks up to him. But because it was her favorite comedy club all the regular comedians and regular staff know her. She has worked there on and off for years and loves going to watch different shows. And dude is tired of waiting so he walks up to her and asks how all these people know her. She admits that she’s worked there a long time on and off when she needs extra cash. So she knows every one well. They go in and don’t get charged the cover fee. And as she walks in one of the bartenders hand her a drink. And again dude is surprised and says something like that’s presumptuous. And she says no that’s called good service they know what I like and make it as soon as I walk in. Then he starts walking up to the table his friends are sitting at and I he hostess ignores him and takes her into the reserved section. And he acts like whoa that’s presumptuous. And she told him. Either you can grab your friends and have them come up here where you have a better view and will get a few complimentary drinks . And have more room. Or we can go down there where it’s crowded and you can’t see the stage that well. He of course goes and grabs his friends and they join her. About 4 guys who are trying out to get possible jobs at the club go up and get put through for possibly getting a job there. And then her date goes up. He stands up and the first thing she noticed was he had on girls pants. They buttoned on the wrong side. And he SUCKED. And didn’t get passed. He didn’t even have a full 3 minute act. He bombed bad. And he looked at her expecting her to praise him. And she told him that he wasn’t ready. He shouldn’t have gone up until he had a full flush set. His friends were dieing in laughter and she didn’t laugh she couldn’t even look at him. And she finished her burger and made a quick escape telling him she had to go. She had a long day tomorrow and she needed to go home and go to bed. And he told her that he had a bag packed he would follow her home and they could work on his set and go to bed and then finish up working on his set then she could go do her plans. And she told him no. And he asked don’t you think I’m FUNNY??? And she had to be brutally honest. And she said out of the full 2:30 minutes he didn’t have any fully formed jokes. And there was no cohesive structure and only one maybe two funny premises to work from. But the rest was flat. He tried to run to his car to follow her home anyway. And thankfully the parking lot staff saw what happened and blocked him from getting to his car. They waited for her to get home and text saying she was home before they let him move. There were 5 guys blocking him. The parking lot crew told her to park in the garage just to be safe. That creep showed up at the club for a month looking for her. He tried going to her job. But they no trespassed him. And they moved her to a different location just to keep her safe.
when getting food, one of us will pick like 5 places and then we will each go back and forth eliminating one until we have like two left. If we still can't pick a place we let price decide and we open up Uber Eats, put what we want in the cart see what one is cheaper and go with that place. We are celebrating 6 years next week.
My hubs and i use seperate blankets since we saw a vid of some Norwegian gal showing her morning routine of hanging her COMFORTERS (plural) outside each day. We were like, Wtf! Genius. That said, when the cleaner or guest comes we hide this fact by putting ANOTHER blanket over the two on the bed.
On that dishwasher/sink spoon thing? (funny, ofc) In response to T & R's comments: At our house, we have a 'spoon & dish of the day' and 'butter knife of the day' - We drink lots of coffee & tea in a day/eve and it would lead to a gajillion potential spoons, but we don't want a 'naked' spoon just laying on the counter, so we have a small dish/plate (like the saucer to a teacup in size) and a spoon that whoever's up first gets out fresh, putting the old ones in the sink for the next washup. Same with 'toast or something that needs a pat of butter in it' throughout the day/eve - a butter knife on a folded paper towel by the butter, with a change out for new first thing the next day (although in summer time the butter has to go in the fridge in between uses, but the idea's roughly the same). Totes agree with just sending that meme/cute kitten pic/etc - positive vibes of some kind are inevitable. And cannot agree more with the 'thinking of grabbing a coffee/etc on the way and wondering' response - yes, just do it. We used to have fairly regular little bumps of the grumpies when one or the other of us grabbed a snack/drink/etc on the way home or whatever, until we talked about it and realized there were going to be far more times when we wanted that thing coming along with our S.O. than there would be times we didn't want it. Don't want it right now? Put it in the fridge or freezer, whichever's right, and heat it up or give it a quick blitz in the blender later when you want it. Either way, in these little inclusive moments, we remind each other that we're thinking of our partners and want to make them happy or make their life a little easier. Oh, the picking a restaurant thing! If there's a quandary - usually we're pretty much on the same page - we each just say what we definitely don't want (usually that's easier than the opposite, because we're both pretty flexible), and then we either flip a coin for who chooses or sometimes one or the other of us isn't craving anything strongly enough to decide and will leave it to the one who gives a damn to pick. ;p Love watching your content, you two, and thanks for sharing it. 😁👍🏻💜
I have some mental health stuff and can’t watch a lot of things so I always pick what we watch and I also can’t eat a lot of things so I always pick what we eat. So if this is you find a very flexible and agreeable partner. It works great for us. ❤
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I used to be single and happy before I subscribed to this channel. Now I’m single and happy and subscribed to this channel.
Thank you Mitch hedberg 😂
Same for me! Except for the happy part, but I’m working on it ; )
Never had a truer statement been uttered
I wish I could be happy. 😂😂😂
@@GixsirR.I.P Mitch, loved his comedy. ❤😂
For the record, anyone who tried to pull that "my ex had that" mind game crap on me, would indeed be, my ex.
I would never let the fact that the ex had the exact same or even similar item bother me. If I want it I'm going to get it. But, I do agree. Say that more than twice and you'd be out.
Yeah yeah yeah. That's what my ex used to say.
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I would be like your ex had you too so...???
I feel like it just wouldn't work on me. I'd be like, "Oh, I guess you have a type, huh?" or "She has good taste" and put the cushion in the cart. I just can't see not wanting something just because a partner's ex happened to have it.
I'd be like "IF YOURE NOT OVER YOUR EX JUST SAY THAT"
You know who else used to say that? My ex! 😁
Exactly!
I'd be like "wow she must have great taste! :) "
There are like 10+ clips in this video, use a timestamp for context, like this: 1:51
@@italianbasegardis your memory that bad? The video is less than fourteen minutes.
My relationship hack after 10 years together with my husband. Flirt with your partner. It will remind them that you are still interested in them and often times leads to a good laugh or big smiles. My husband was cooking some thing the other night and I shoo'ed him out of the kitchen telling him he had to leave. When he asked why, I said, "Because you're so hot you're going to burn dinner."
The goofy smile was worth it.
From someone over 20 years with my partner: good advice and I double down!
It’s ofc best if you look at them and feel like flirting naturally.
So, if you do, don’t hold back
And it’s never too much 😁
This is a marriage tip. Ill remember.
Relationship hack (from a wife): Every time he is half naked or completely naked I do a little wolf whistle. Shirt off? Whistle. Naked getting into/out of the shower? Whistle. Makes him grin every time. I asked him once if it made him uncomfortable, and he told me that initially he didn't know how to respond, but after all these years if I didn't whistle at him, he'd be heartbroken. He's mine for life. Also, higher level of this is give a long look up and down either before, after, or in place of the whistle. They have to be paying attention, so it's a bit more involved, but also works.
Can confirmed as a man with another man, it works
Awww how adorable!
Now this is a life hack
Sounds like you've given yourself the power to absolutely destroy him at will.
I do this but no whistle. Just make comments or eye up and down. Works like a charm 😂
Yes! The separate blankets hack is a life saver!!! My husband and I have always had separate blankets and it's amazing! We both burrito ourselves and my husband is a roller.
My and my boyfriend also do separate blankets. I love it. No more fighting over the blanket
Lol, my dog used to curl up next to my boyfriend's or my head because she wanted to be on tbe pillow, and needless to say we would wake up with terrible neck pain. One night I decided to push a chair up against the bed next to me with the opening facing the bed, and then I threw one of her poufs in it with some blankets. She immediately understood the assignment, and our necks have been saved ever since. My boyfriend has dubbed it the 'side car.'
Genius hack!
A German relationship tip: Don't just each buy your own blanket. But also separate mattresses for the shared bed. In Germany that is standard! you don't notice if your partners Movement. , for example, my Girl sleeps very restlessly and constantly tosses and turns but i don't mind because my mattress don't get the Movement. The gap between the mattresses is stable enough to lie on without noticing :). This increases shared sleeping comfort by 1000%
Also, people have different mattress preferences. My boyfriend prefers soft mattresses... I absolutely hate soft mattresses. I've slept on a wooden bed before while travelling in Southeast Asia and that was probably more comfortable to me than a super soft mattress would me. The gap is more of a bug than a feature to me though. Especially if you want to cuddle when falling asleep or are "having adult fun time".
Nope, not for me… One rockhard, super-heavyweight double mattress and one big duvet for the two of us.
I’m German, but apparently, I’m not… 😂🇩🇪
Same but we’re in NL! Love putting my leg in the mattress gap
@@Query_8P me as well, we are in our 60s and my hubby brought two long single beds as they can put the bed head up or down and that’s the only saving grace after 37 years. I would like to cuddle to go to sleep.
What would a bed be without the „Besucherritze“
Please make your content longer. I love you guys so much
They post like 5, 30 minute podcasts a week. They don't all have visuals though.
"that's a day knife" absolutely love this
The restaurant thing: one picks three places; the other chooses from those.
I think this is way better because if I'm guessing where someone is taking me I wouldn't necessarily say the option I want the most.
@@shadowcat311 Yeah, you might just say whatever is believable.
This is really helpful! I can never chose a restraunt because I get Choice Paralasys. There are way too many choices out there and it causes anxiety to make a choice. And my husband always gets so frustrated because I can never make up my mind. So THIS is EXCELLENT advice!!!! I will ask my husband to choose 3 and then I can choose 1 of the 3! Excellent thank you!
That’s what I usually do!
You all are one of the few sources of joy in my life. Each day, I find myself rewatching your videos, clinging to the motivation they provide to keep going. Whenever I feel like everything is falling apart, lost in my thoughts, or overwhelmed by sadness, I retreat to your channel and immerse myself in your videos. Thank you deeply for creating such wonderfully funny and captivating content. It means more to me than you can imagine.
Reading your comment, is like you were describing me. And how I feel. It’s sad isn’t it?
I do get joy from watching Toni & Ryan. They’re both so upbeat and fun.
I hope things get better for you. 💕
I hope you guys are hanging in there as best you can ❤
@@ARareAndDifferentTune_13 Thank you, I truly appreciate your kindness
Y’all should check out my favorite podcast Are You Garbage it brings me that joy you speak of. This show is also amazing! Stay up everyone!!!!
I hope things get better for you both soon ❤🙏🏻
Family hack: when someone is having a rough day, take turns doing ridiculous fake laughs until everyone is really laughing. Works great for us!
Toni and Ryan, "You should both do standup!". 😂
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What is the original creators name?
You flirt, you...
This is a relationship hack for gift giving. If you're out with your partner and they say "I love this but I can't justify getting it for myself" or something along those lines, write down what the thing is. It's been such a solid way of getting good gifts for my partner.
My hack: when I start dating someone, i put notes in their contact in my phone incase we work out lolol favorite musician, color, foods, birthdays - including family; and date nites “first date at ……, first kiss on this date. But makes it super easy to give best gifts, always be on point, and I read it every once in a while and bring a card for some random “anniversary “, like for our first kiss. Been together 8 years and married for 5 now!!
I've started to say "And i ALWAYS have said that" thanks to Toni
I can't get over how handsome Ryan is. Beard, thick hair, dimples, funny, dreamy eyes
Shit, it took me THIRTY-ONE years to figure out we need separate blankets!😂😂
Same.
Same. Lol
Bro we've got separate rooms and it's literally the best.
The time I asked my partner if she wanted a chocolate bar from the dairy while I picked up one for myself and she said no. Then she spent hours yelling at me for not getting one and making me find a petrol station store that was open after 10pm on a Sunday to buy one for her in the desperate hope she would finally shut up about it. I know what you're thinking, should've just ignored her and made her take responsibility for saying she didn't want one when kindly offered. I gave in after 5 hours of being yelled at and broke up with her a couple of months later - waited until she aced her finals at uni so it wouldn't accidentally sabatage her summa cum laude honours.
That was 25 years ago - she got married, had a kid, divorced and nearly drove her ex-husband to several nervous breakdowns during their marriage with vivid descriptions of him lying on the floor in the fetal position. Talk about a dodged bullet.
P.S. She got her PhD in psychology....
That's a wild ride buddy
My husband and I have a wheel with our favorite restaurants. We spin the wheel and whatever it lands on is where we go. If we are ever unsure, we spin the wheel 3 times and pick 1 out of the 3 choices. No complaining and always great meals!
My husband do the pick three for everything. Pick three movies, pick three restaurants, etc. but we take turns. Once he’ll pick three then I’ll pick one then next time I pick three and he picks one. It’s great! I’ve never heard anyone else ever say this!
A few days ago, I asked my boyfriend if he'd still love me if I were a duck, because I thought I was being funny, and he very seriously said that he'd bring me bread everyday and now I think I'll keep him forever.
Although we did have to agree to a better foodstuff to bring duck-me because bread isn't nutritious enough
At 6:00 I’ve never felt more scene in my life! I don’t have a “day knife” but I have a “day spoon” 😂
I have a day cup
I used to be a scene girl. ")
@@karinland8533got all three 😂
Best movie picking hack ever guys. Being older, I remember wasting a lot of time at the video store looking for VHS/DVDs & going home without anything. Now that was frustrating.
We have separate blankets because he gets hot and I always get cold, so he has a thinner blanket than me so he doesn't over heat and I don't freeze. And we also have a dog that sleeps on between us!
When I’m running late for work I always add 10 mins longer on so when I rock up earlier than expected I’m seen as a hero lol
Yes to separate blankets! Been doing this for years especially if you have a dog between you!!!
Using separate blankets is a necessity. My bf uses the down feather comforter while I use a big, thin fleece blanket because I’m not a psychopath who likes waking up dripping with sweat 🙃
The one at 5:30 reminds me of my aunt and uncle so much!
He was really into cars, and she decided to be nice and wash his car for him after he'd been working away for a while. Anyway, she used a scourer and accidentally scratched it all - but she didn't notice.
So when he came home, and she pointed out she'd washed his car, he went out to see it, screamed, ran into the office yelling "what did you do to my car?!"
She ran for the stairs, he chased her up (to be clear, he was in no way abusive, he'd never have hit her at all, I think this was just the first time she'd ever seen him angry), she started throwing things at him on the stairs (she told us this story and clearly remembers throwing a pile of cleaned clothing at him), he realised she was getting annoyed...
He turned tail, ran down the stairs, straight into the pub around the corner and stayed there for six hours.
At 8pm, he rang home asking if he was okay to come back 🤣🤣
She'd messed up and HE was the one worried about coming home
Sorry that would scare me too have a man chase me up the stairs in anger
@@dacdebuc8020 Depends on the man. My uncle was never prone to violence and my aunt knew it.
My own partner if he chased me up the stairs in anger I know for a fact he'd never hurt me.
But yeah, I can understand it that maybe others have had awful men who would hurt them. We've both just been very lucky
@@04williamsl Self-preservation instincts might still take over even if you know he's not abusive.
@@Evija3000 I mean, I grew up in a postcode that was declared one of the worst to live in.
My boyfriend grew up in a much nicer postcode and is really quite soft.
So... I'd say it would be the other way round in our relationship 😂
But like I said, I can understand others feeling that way, but I'd also say that again, it's how well you know the man and how prone he is to actual violence.
10:57 totally agree - my love language is definitely “I saw this and thought of you” whether it be a meme/reel etc on instagram or something in a shop
Loved these. So many good ideas. Toni.. I'm with you, separate blankets! I like to burrow, but hubby tends to lift and pull on the blankets when he rolls over. Then there are those times when I need a blanket, but he doesn't. So we have used separate blankets for quite some time. Oh and my "weighted blanket" is my Shadow. Male black cat who waits until I am settled on my side hugging my support pillow (I have shoulder issues), then he climbs up and lays on me, usually using my hip for a pillow.
That's precious ❤
I use the pick 3 thing all the time. For food and movies
I like the 3 choices other decides hack. Used on where to eat, clothes to wear, shade of white to paint the walls
There’s an internet spinning wheel me and my bf use it to decide what to eat if we can’t agree.
Separate blankets and the biggest bed you can manage. I've been with mine for 19 years. He's tall and rolly, in the early days he elbow dropped me nightly. No more! And we both sleep well.
"my ex use to have it" Will not work with me. I'll Go like "maybe there is a pattern here" lol
I had a recording of my best friends order because it was so complicated. 😂
“That’s my day-knife” relatable
We always spend more time searching for movies, then just go to bed. LOL😂
I 💯 thought it was a recording. AND it makes so much sense she’d be on the phone…
My friend's wife asked him if she died, would he remove her phone number from his contacts :) It was a trap!
My partner and I are both tall, and our boxers have always slept in between us. There is no other way to go that with a king bed and separate covers ❤
How do you deal with the dog hair?
Instead of separate blankets me and my partner of 22 years have separate rooms. He snores and is touchy feelie sweaty mess and I need my space so we don’t share a bed or room. It works. I recon we wouldn’t have lasted this long if I had to listen to the nose breathing every damn night. I would have suffocated him in his sleep by now. I just got a cat and I’m seriously thinking he needs to sleep in my partners room. I NEED MY SPACE DAMN IT😂 I’ve not slept more than 3 hours since.
The cat doesn't want to hear the snoring either xD
My husband amd I haven't slept in the same bed or even the same room in 10 years. It works for us.
The having a knife or spoon for the day conversation made me feel so seen
“My ex used to” okay well go back to her since you seem to be thinking about her 😊
"Wow you remember like if you went there yesterday (bombastic side eye)"
Blanket stealing SOLVED 🎉 The Blanket Co. 10x10 blankets and they are awesome. 😮 I really hope they deliver to your area.
Hubby and I have two blankets. Also agree it’s a lot easier to have dog in the bed when you can make sure they can’t take away your blanket. Or the spouse.
I get all my relationship tips from Toni & Ryan 😂
11:34 i send my partner shorts all the time. He never watches them but knows they are funny because he just hears me cackling away in the next room 😂
Bridge is a woman after my heart! The "pick 3" tactic is one I've been using for ages. 👏👏👏👏👏
100% on the two blankets! Best money I've spend.
1000% separate blankets is the way to go
Love this longer videos.
I told my (now) husband before we moved in that we're having separate blankets. I wake up if any part of my blanket is removed from me.
He absolutely loves having his own blanket now.
We use the pick three hack for food/restaurant choices too!
My wife and I started using separate blankets, then separate rooms, then separate houses, then separate countries...
We've been separated for almost 10 years now. Best hack ever!!
The day cutlery and dishes is so real I do this
I reaaaaaalllg like your guys energie...... Been in aussie for 6,5 weeks, been back in the Netherland since 17 February but seeing you guys make me miss aussie so much more
Yes to the separate blankets! We each have Queen blankets!
I installed hubbl and my tv did not not burst into flames. Thank you
Ryan’s hack for what to watch on TV also works for what to eat 😂 I normally give my husband a few options of what I’d be happy with and then he picks which one 😂 if he doesn’t want any of my options, we eat separate things 🤷🏼♀️😂
KFC, KFC or KFC?
You always make me laugh when you call the speakerphone on a mobile a loudspeaker. 😂 In the US a loudspeaker is either a bullhorn or a PA system.
I think my wife likes that I am able to just pick anything, especially since she has anxiety.
Aw, that shot of Pippa during the ad! ❤ 8:27
One of my hugest pet peeves with my ex had to do with choosing where to eat. If I'm asked where I want to eat I always responded back with a place. Every single time he would say no and then choose somewhere else. Like, WTF is the point of even asking. Then he would get mad because I never choose.
If the guy could not pick a place I would pick the most expensive place I have always wanted to try. It sets the bar higher than expected if it is a first date. Poor planning WILL cost you.
Here in Sweden we mostly sleep with our own blankets/duvet/covers. I dont know a single person that uses a big one to share 🤣❤
And the advice of one partner choosing three movies and the other chooses one of them to see, we've used forever, and it's great! 👍👏
separate blankets dont work, i wake up and he has both blankets
We do a "pick one/veto one" method. One of us picks three movie choices. The other one can EITHER pick one from those three to watch. OR veto one from the three, and the person who gave the three choices can pick from the remaining two. Saves so much time. We've been together 12 years. 😆
The separate blanket thing I've always done with my husband. He tosses and turns in his sleep and pulls the blanket off of himself and me. Plus he likes a basic duvet blanket to cover with and I prefer to use super soft blankets as I have a thing about certain textures making me uncomfortable. We have been together 10 years and just hit our 9 year wedding anniversary and it has worked for us.
the girl at 2:53 is like a definition of "cute, but psycho... but cute"
I'm with Tony. In Germany it's very common for couples to have separate blankets. Sometimes even separate matrasses.
My family and I will sit there and scroll until we all eventually just get up without watching anything. Happens a lot more than we actually watch something
Separate blankets are peak. We started doing this during our 3rd pregnancy and have never gone back. 20 years of marriage, and this is one of the best hacks
His hack for movies is the same hack I use with my spouse to figure out a place to eat and when we can’t figure out the 3, we make the list off and we both say which ones we don’t want to eat at in that list until we got the 3, then we both cancel out 1 place.
The party hat thing is great.
I don’t understand the trope about girls not knowing what they want to eat. I can assure you, that at any moment of the day or night, I can tell you exactly what I feel like eating and how much. In fact, even if I’m eating at the time, I can tell you exactly what I want to eat for my next meal
I had a bunny named Pippa! Don’t know why I never related that before 😂🤦🏼♀️
Nah, dude is almost correct, but the truth is your girl wants a sandwhich from chik fil a, fries from mcdonals a shake from steak and shake and mozzerella sticks from arbys. You just gotta let em know it's okay.
God im hungry.
100% with Toni, Separate blankets.
After we had only been dating for maybe a couple of months I asked my boyfriend if he would still love me if I was disfigured in an accident and he made this terrible face and said eww no way haha it made me laugh so hard even though I knew he wasn’t joking haha I still remind him of how mean that was and thankfully no accidents yet hahaha
My dog had got up and left only because you guys were talking about dogs and humans sleeping together
Im so mainland european. Seperate blankets is the norm here. Has always been. Sharing gives me the creeps
My bf does that all the time. As soon as I load the dishwasher he dumps all his dishes in the sink. xD
They really have a good chemistry. And I love Toni! (Alright, I love Ryan too. 😝) I'm surprised that Bridgette has never been jealous of Toni 'cause how close the two of them are. But if that's the case, good for you Ryan, she's a keeper! ❤️
If my husband ever looks at me and goes "my ex had that" I would be like "Okay. And? 2 women can have the same items."
I cannot believe I wasn't already subbed to y'all!
Omg!!! This guy asked my friend out on a date to a comedy club. He said his friend was going up on stage. And did she want to come. She said sure. She loves going to comedy shows. They planned to meet there. She pulled up in the car park and she sees the guy get out of his car and he’s wearing this yellow Hawaiian shirt with a red bow tie and a pair of green corduroy pants cut off into shorts. And he has on red converse high tops. And she knows now that it’s not his friend going on stage but actually him. And she gets out of her car and starts walks up to him. But because it was her favorite comedy club all the regular comedians and regular staff know her. She has worked there on and off for years and loves going to watch different shows. And dude is tired of waiting so he walks up to her and asks how all these people know her. She admits that she’s worked there a long time on and off when she needs extra cash. So she knows every one well. They go in and don’t get charged the cover fee. And as she walks in one of the bartenders hand her a drink. And again dude is surprised and says something like that’s presumptuous. And she says no that’s called good service they know what I like and make it as soon as I walk in. Then he starts walking up to the table his friends are sitting at and I he hostess ignores him and takes her into the reserved section. And he acts like whoa that’s presumptuous. And she told him. Either you can grab your friends and have them come up here where you have a better view and will get a few complimentary drinks . And have more room. Or we can go down there where it’s crowded and you can’t see the stage that well. He of course goes and grabs his friends and they join her. About 4 guys who are trying out to get possible jobs at the club go up and get put through for possibly getting a job there. And then her date goes up. He stands up and the first thing she noticed was he had on girls pants. They buttoned on the wrong side. And he SUCKED. And didn’t get passed. He didn’t even have a full 3 minute act. He bombed bad. And he looked at her expecting her to praise him. And she told him that he wasn’t ready. He shouldn’t have gone up until he had a full flush set. His friends were dieing in laughter and she didn’t laugh she couldn’t even look at him. And she finished her burger and made a quick escape telling him she had to go. She had a long day tomorrow and she needed to go home and go to bed. And he told her that he had a bag packed he would follow her home and they could work on his set and go to bed and then finish up working on his set then she could go do her plans. And she told him no. And he asked don’t you think I’m FUNNY??? And she had to be brutally honest. And she said out of the full 2:30 minutes he didn’t have any fully formed jokes. And there was no cohesive structure and only one maybe two funny premises to work from. But the rest was flat. He tried to run to his car to follow her home anyway. And thankfully the parking lot staff saw what happened and blocked him from getting to his car. They waited for her to get home and text saying she was home before they let him move. There were 5 guys blocking him. The parking lot crew told her to park in the garage just to be safe. That creep showed up at the club for a month looking for her. He tried going to her job. But they no trespassed him. And they moved her to a different location just to keep her safe.
TL:DR - Guy takes girl on date, wanted more, turned storkerish and was stopped...
"It's my knife for the day" never related to something more.
That 5’6” would trick me and I would be so disappointed. I like short kings. My bf is 5’7” and I’m 5’8”. I don’t date guys taller than me.
Jeans and a nice Knife needed far more laughs 😂😂😂😂
when getting food, one of us will pick like 5 places and then we will each go back and forth eliminating one until we have like two left. If we still can't pick a place we let price decide and we open up Uber Eats, put what we want in the cart see what one is cheaper and go with that place. We are celebrating 6 years next week.
My hubs and i use seperate blankets since we saw a vid of some Norwegian gal showing her morning routine of hanging her COMFORTERS (plural) outside each day. We were like, Wtf! Genius.
That said, when the cleaner or guest comes we hide this fact by putting ANOTHER blanket over the two on the bed.
Been with my husband 25 years. I can full endorse the separate blankets.
On that dishwasher/sink spoon thing? (funny, ofc) In response to T & R's comments: At our house, we have a 'spoon & dish of the day' and 'butter knife of the day' - We drink lots of coffee & tea in a day/eve and it would lead to a gajillion potential spoons, but we don't want a 'naked' spoon just laying on the counter, so we have a small dish/plate (like the saucer to a teacup in size) and a spoon that whoever's up first gets out fresh, putting the old ones in the sink for the next washup. Same with 'toast or something that needs a pat of butter in it' throughout the day/eve - a butter knife on a folded paper towel by the butter, with a change out for new first thing the next day (although in summer time the butter has to go in the fridge in between uses, but the idea's roughly the same).
Totes agree with just sending that meme/cute kitten pic/etc - positive vibes of some kind are inevitable. And cannot agree more with the 'thinking of grabbing a coffee/etc on the way and wondering' response - yes, just do it. We used to have fairly regular little bumps of the grumpies when one or the other of us grabbed a snack/drink/etc on the way home or whatever, until we talked about it and realized there were going to be far more times when we wanted that thing coming along with our S.O. than there would be times we didn't want it. Don't want it right now? Put it in the fridge or freezer, whichever's right, and heat it up or give it a quick blitz in the blender later when you want it. Either way, in these little inclusive moments, we remind each other that we're thinking of our partners and want to make them happy or make their life a little easier.
Oh, the picking a restaurant thing! If there's a quandary - usually we're pretty much on the same page - we each just say what we definitely don't want (usually that's easier than the opposite, because we're both pretty flexible), and then we either flip a coin for who chooses or sometimes one or the other of us isn't craving anything strongly enough to decide and will leave it to the one who gives a damn to pick. ;p
Love watching your content, you two, and thanks for sharing it. 😁👍🏻💜
I have some mental health stuff and can’t watch a lot of things so I always pick what we watch and I also can’t eat a lot of things so I always pick what we eat. So if this is you find a very flexible and agreeable partner. It works great for us. ❤
Scrap the seperate blankets, invest in super king 😭 you will never be without blanket again
Honestly love you guys! I crack up so much! 🤪
"6:20" yeah, I'm a solid 6'3", always said I'm 5'10".
The one at 5:11 "Dan" they've actually split up....awks 😂