TRY NOT TO LAUGH: Proposal Fails
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- WARNING to Toni's boyfriend or ANYONE ELSE planning on proposing on planning to Toni Lodge ... DO NOT do it in a public place!
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Public proposals are an absolute no unless 1. you've discussed your future with the person and they see themself getting married to you, 2. you've discussed proposals and know for sure that they'd like a public proposal.
My friend cleared it with his girl in advance. They chatted about it. Had serious chats about it. Determined they would say yes to each other. He talked openly about ring shopping. He takes her to NYC to propose and she flips out. Completely chickens, takes a “break” and cheats with three other men. The relationship is over.
@@thaloblue Oof, she clearly had issues, damn, never heard of anyone responding to a proposal that way
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Sounds like your friend was a great communicator and she wasnt the one and he dodged a bullet train wreck @thaloblue
I’m always surprised to see the person being proposed to is surprised. Do people really ask without having a discussion? It gives me anxiety just thinking about it.
All I could think about during the plane proposal is that if she said no, that would have been one uncomfortable plane ride.
Yeah, I'm sure he didn't mean it to be but it was *very* manipulative
And then an uncomfortable vacation and then an uncomfortable trip back
This is why if I ever get hitched it’s a private conversation
Nah he did it next to the plane door. The airline would have understood if she said no he'd be fine to just exit stage right without a chute 😂
@@christopherday3494 we don't know that tho! They most likely have talked about it before and she said she would like a public proposal or said she would want to marry him. The vast majority of couples have that talk before the proposal. IF he just sprung it on her out of nowhere they've never had a talk about whether they'd want to get married before or if the relationship is actively in a bad place that would be really manipulative. BUT I think most people who do public proposals are smart enough to know for sure they're going to get a yes and it's what their partner would want BEFORE doing it. And the people who don't know for sure are people who are just throwing one last hail mary trying to save the relationship.
my favorite proposal from these clips was the one in the bird sanctuary and the girl on the stands volunteered and was told to hold up a 5 dollar note, the bird flew to her hand and took the note then flew back with the 'receipt', and when she read it her boyfriend bgot down on one knee as she read the marriage proposal from the bird. Literally the best example of "and then everybody clapped". 😊
That one was great. The fact that he knew his girlfriend would volunteer makes it extra special.
That was Australia Zoo (the Irwin's zoo) and they do it quite regularly apparently 😍
It was not a sanctuary, it was a zoo.
I've seen this! The fact that he KNEW she would volunteer to meet the bird
Actually, the biggest laugh I got from this was when Tony casually mentioned "Glad my mom died" and no one reacted.
My partner just asked why I was laughing so hard and i had to explain this!
Was a SAVAGE moment
Listening on a train this morning and did a full spit take. Then immediate shame because Ryan didn’t react and I almost spit on someone’s child.
I mean, how do you respond to that
I unsubscribed when she said that. Such bad taste!
The plane proposal is aweful, in my opinion. First it's public so it's harder to say no if she wanted to. Two it's on a plane so she cannot escape him if she wanted to or take a minute to think. Third they're on their way to Bali were they likely know no one and are away from family and friends (support system) should anything go wrong.
It's personal preference but this gives me major icks 😖
That's why a public proposal would be an automatic no. I hate being the center of attention and if you knew me you'd know not to do that. It's so manipulative and cringe
Well you should not propose if there is a chance your partner will say no or...want to get away from you? These things should be discussed ahead of time and communication is key! Talk about how far into the relationship would you consider marrying the person, and by the time you have reached that amount of time, if you don't both know for certain that you are with your forever, you should not be together anymore
The guy who tried to propose to his girlfriend with the choose a paper game should have just written the sams thing on both papers.
Yeah but only 1 card had the ring on it lol
That was so fake.
It was fake but a cute idea
Imagine if she could see through the paper (against light) the ring and rather choose anything else.
@vcelkaMaja12 damn.. what an interesting perspective! I still think the video was fake but nonetheless, I really appreciate the way you think🙂
"Lucky my mom is dead" LMFAO
SAVAGE
4:23
😂😂😂😂
SAME 😂🤣💁🏻♀️
6:07 Aussies and Brits saying “squirrel” brings me a joy that I can’t truly put into words 😂❤
Aussie here, don't say squirrel like that lol
@@Annie1962 well, my Aussie husband sure does so idk what to tell you. You’re special? Lol
That’s what I came to say, my favorite part of the video for sure 😊
It could literally be my perfect person. Been together for years, beautiful, lovely. But if they propose in public, I'd end the relationship then and there, because it would show how little they actually knew me. Actual nightmare fuel.
It's literal emotional blackmail. It also comes across as really fake, always.
Oh so isn't just me!
The only “public” proposal I’ve ever seen that I thought was cute was someone recreating the 10 things I hate about you serenade scene. And only because it was in a rather quiet park
@@celinavivian1162 there's also the one Toni and Ryan also reacted with the bird show and the zoo, that only works for me cause it all hinges on the fact that she actually enthusiastically participates beforehand
Yeah mine was at his parent's house on Christmas Eve...no pressure there. The ring was right but not the man.
The plane proposal was to prevent her from running away like so many public propsals 😂
Exactly my thoughts.
I would've opened the door mid-flight lol
Surely she could have sought out a parachute?! Surely though, you'd have be 110% certain of the answer or else that'd make for an exceptionally awkward holiday!
Currently hiding out in the comments preparing myself emotionally to continue watching this one 😂💀
The airplane proposal and holding everyone hostage was so cringe I had to fast forward through that one
Yeah and that kiss at the end... I kissed a stranger with more passion
I bet all the people on the flight wished they could fast forward too😂
Me too, you can imagine people sitting there with a fear of flying or some other worry then suddenly you are forced to watch that.
All those people are just stuck there facing them, it was pretty odd.
@@danielreed5199 You enter the plane with a fear of flying because of a potential crash, you leave the plane with a fear of flying because of a potential impromptu marriage proposal.
Saaaaame
Nothing like being proposed to in your "airline clothes." Great pics in sweats, bad hair and glasses.
As a fun story regarding seeing live proposals in person, my now husband and I went to a special hotel that he took me to for our first year dating anniversary. We went back five years later and we wanted to get pictures at the same gazebo from 5 years prior.
We flagged a couple of girls down ro help, and then he mentioned wanting to take a video! He then popped the question and it melts my heart hearing those two react with me and try to stay SO QUIET to let the moment play out! ❤
Turns out one of them was also celebrating her birthday, so it was a hell of a surprise!
The one where the girl knows and she runs around on the beach! So cute! ❤❤
That airplane proposal was so cringe, I could NEVER!
Oh I got one. My ex proposed to me in front of a 7/11 dumpster, and I said yes. I broke it off later, but that should have been my red flag right there.
I'm so sorry, that sounds TERRIBLE! What did he propose with?.. A half eaten donut?😅
@@taylorkozak8890 A slurpee 😂😅
Toni's accent is so effing adorable! She saw a skweerul in kintucky. And im here for it. 😂🎉
The way Ryan ws giving proposal advice regarding Toni at the end plus the "you will see a proposal one day. POV" makes me think this was set up just so Tobs could get advice and pointers for the perfect proposal for Toni❤🎉😂
I thought the same thing. I wonder if we'll soon get news tbh haha.
I so hope so
That poor lady with her dog! Haha. Similar thing happened to me; we were in Egypt and I was standing in front of one of the huge Rameses statues while my husband took a photo of me. Then next thing I know, to my right, some dude drops to one knee and starts proposing. The person filming was facing the camera in exactly my direction! I didn't know what to do and kinda just froze for a second before trying to scurry out of the background. Lol. I definitely photobombed their proposal, but in my defense, I was there first!!! 😂
My husband proposed to me at Alnwick Castle. It was at a picnic bench and my 2 year old daughter was standing up on the seat next to him rubbing a stick of pepperami on his head. It was lovely and quite emotional despite the "distraction".
About half an hour later we walk around the gardens and come across this huge water fountain/feature. I couldn't help the words "this would've been THE place to propose" just spill out of my mouth.
I was mortified! I sounded so ungrateful. We do look back at it 12 years on with amusement.
I've seen a proposal happen in real life. I was a kid, standing in a room in Disneyland's Innovations attraction (RIP), looking at a monitor that is advertising TiVo, which was the very first DVR device to exist (so you can pause live TV, and even record tv shows to watch later, so at that time in my life, it was a big deal lol). The lady being proposed to was our tour guide, and she was proposed to by another staff member. Other staff members stepped out from behind a curtain with their cameras, recording the moment. It was really sweet :)
Do not propose on an airplane... Best case, its annoying for everyone else. Worst case, you're stuck in there with the embarrassment & pity for hours.
I was proposed to about 11 years ago, when the big dancing crowd proposals were huge, that was my biggest nightmare.
I remember I asked my boyfriend if he's even thinking about it please don't do it in public, not even in a restaurant because I'm extremely introverted (he too) and it would be too much pressure.
We were 22, he proposed to me in bed after pumpkin carving for halloween. It was so cute. He had the ring in his backpack for months, waiting for the right moment.
In the last proposal in the video the person laughing when the guy slid off the rock into the water sounded like a damn seagull 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That one on the plane was straight entrapment
I just like the idea of this being someone's first Toni and Ryan video and getting to @4:22 and going "Wait, what? Are we just not gonna address the dead mom??"
I saw this comment before I reached that part of the video. How they cut away just after she said that … could make someone 😮
BTDT - it’s an old bit now. ;)
It’s a running gag. Toni’s mom is dead and Ryan is adopted. Bit of dark humour. Better laugh than cry, right?
This was my first video and it didn’t even phase me tbh
LOOOORD! If someone proposed to me on the loud speaker of a plane I would walk right to my nearest emergency exit and just rip the lever….
I don't know... the proposal in the airplane? Feels a bit like trapping her in mid air so she has no chance to leave and have a very big audience to make sure she won't say no.
My favorite one is the girl Naruto-running away and then she goes ✨oh wait✨ and runs back to let him actually ask so she can say yes 😂 Soooo cute!
Please say “ Squirrel “ 100 times. Thanks from Nashville Tn. 😂
The aeroplane one made me feel sick 🤢 so cringe but then I’m the kind of person that’s like just ask me while we watching tv binging on take out sooo 😂😂
I couldn’t even watch 😶
I walked in front of someone's proposal video once, but to be fair, I was walking with a crowd of people on a busy walkway at an event at the zoo and had no idea what they were doing until it was too late. They decided to do it right in the path during a lull instead of off to the side somewhere, and then we all came trudging along, so I do feel bad, but not completely bad. They looked like a sweet couple. I hope they're still happy together!
Toni's pronunciation of squirrel has me rolling lol I'm a southerner (Louisiana) so we sound crazy saying it too I'm sure, sounds like Skwurl 😂 Toni sounds like skweewurl, love it!
OMG how Toni says squirrel 😂😂😂. Here in America squirrel rhymes with girl (but with 2 syllables)😂😂😂😂
Skweerul. Putting that in my vocabulary.
Awww I LOVED the one on the beach! She was so sweet and excited, doing her little zoomies!!! I want a follow up in 50 years of them as an adorable old couple together ❤
My husband proposed in the middle of an NYC park. People stopped to watch, take pictures and videos of us. Naturally an awkward person with an aversion to PDA, I hollered out "he's getting on my health insurance!" then proceeded to match his one-knee kneel by getting down on two knees and hunching over so he was still taller than me. Married 7 years and have a kid. He jokingly reminds me that I never actually said "yes." As a US citizen, though, I found giving him health insurance to quite romantic. 💞
The airplane proposal was so cringe! Gah! 😂
Love the way Tony pronounces 🐿🐿🐿! 😂🤣
Imagine Toni, an Aussie Lass, getting frightened over a cute little Kentuckian squirrel...😮
Never wanted a fancy proposal. So my husband proposed to me on our 10th anniversary, while I was sitting on the floor eating spicy noodles in my PJs. Perfect proposal!
When I tell you I fast forwarded through the airplane proposal lmfao 😂
I had my wife pick out her ring. At the time, I didn't have a lot of money, I had just gotten on my feet, and had been homeless/living in my car when she and I started dating. When I bought the ring, it was the most expensive thing I'd ever bought in my life. I had this whole grand proposal planned out, was going to have a close friend of mine come to town and help me orchestrate this whole thing in downtown DC around the monuments and stuff.
Well, she and I went to the jeweler to pick up the ring when it was ready (sizing and whatnot), and just having the thing in my posession stressed me out to the point I almost had a panic attack walking out to the car. I had to excuse myself to 'run to the restroom' to get a grip on myself. I was so worried I was going to lose or damage this ring...
Anyway, we got to the car, and I took the box out of my pocket and looked at her, stared blankly for a minute and she gets all attitudinal and asks "What?!"... I hand it to her, and I'm still so disappointed in myself for not finding better words. I handed her the box and said "Here, this is your problem now."
And that's how we got engaged.
That one would be me filming the raccoon and miss the important thing 🤣🤣🤣
My dad proposed to my mom in a mall. He cleft her at the fountain to go get them a drink from the food court...but instead, he picked up the ring from the jewelers. He came back, proposed, and Mom was silent. Someone in the crowd called out "Just answer the man!" and the first thing out of her mouth was "Where's my Orange Julius?" ... they've been married 46 years.
The women who walked past the proposal to put on comfy clothes is a keeper. She isn't expecting it and she just wants to comfy. Forget the diamond ring where are my slippers?
They are proof that guys and girls can be best friends😂
My mom and I saw a man propose in Walmart at the return center him in camo jacket and pants her in a nightgown in Texas
I actually think Toni and Ryan are my favourite people ❤
The seriousness and dread in Toni's voice when the guy on the plane said to stand up "no, sit down."
I got proposed to at Disney Land. My now husband asked the workers who take the photos of families in front of the castle where he could propose so that we would not interrupt everyone else. I know this because I got mad like why tf is he cutting the LINE! No, we did it off to the side out of everyone's way I think literally only two people actually saw him do it besides my family. I appreciated it so much bc I know how expensive it was for us to go and others payed just as much if not MORE so it worked so beautifully in no one's way and not crazy a private moment for him and I.
Okay wait! Stopped the video at the 6:15 mark. WTF did Toni see in Kentucky?? HA!!! Squeeeeeeerrrll ? What? I'm sorry I'm sorry! But that made me laugh out loud.
I could listen to Toni say squirrel all day 😂
Literally right after watching this, immediately after the "too hot, too hot, too hot" end, a commercial came in for some 'Rest' comforter with a woman saying "are you a HOT sleeper?" 😂
toni "ill protect you" awwwwwwwww you two are friend goals man. im 51 and ive never seen a proposal in real life either. and ive been married twice. was not proposed too either time. it just sorta seemed right. first lasted 5 years and we split, hes now married with 5 or 6 kids , good for him :) the second 26 and counting. we just said, weve been together 7 years, we dont want to considered common law married so we went to the courthouse and made it official. TOO HOT!!!
My personal favourite moments from this video:
1. The husband of the prone-overreactive cousin dragging her and holding her mouth at 5:13
2. Getting mesmerised by one of the cutest animals whilst on the job at 5:51
3. Ryan's comment at 7:18 😂😂 so true - also, couldn't think of anywhere worse to propose than an aeroplane
4. And the very last clip because of the laugh alone 🤣😅
I’ve not only seen a proposal, but I stood with the photographer and filmed it. Ending up sending it to the couple :) it was really sweet.
I got a public proposal once. It was cringe. I said yes because I was embarrassed. It was their first public engagement so I’m pretty sure our picture is still hanging on their wall. Fast forward 6 weeks & his true plan was revealed. He then kidnapped me & attempted to unalive me. I HATE public proposals.
Aaaw this was way more wholesome than I expected! :D And yes, the "bro won in life"-one was amazing!!!!! I had the biggest smile over my face the entire time during this video.
I've seen a grand total of 3 proposals happen in my proximity. 1 was my sister-- good for her-- and the other two were people at a convention I go to almost every year. The sweetest one I saw was the third, and it's because they were in a couples cosplay and they proposed at a photo meet up. So sweet.
But I have not seen a proposal rejection yet.
"¡AH! ¡Aye, Miguel! ¡MIGUEEEL!" 😂
Was the proposal cards thing real? I mean, she was under a hairdryer with dry and messy hair and it wasn’t on… just a thought 😂
Yeah, there's no way that bs wasn't staged.
I thought the same thing
To me the worst kind of proposal is a public one where you cant get out if you say no. That plane proposal was basically my worst nightmare.
You flew to Paris to propose… And you brought your mom!? *Red Flag Alert*
Dang I didn't think of that. That's so true
So true. She shouldn't even be there.
I think that was her mum
Maybe it was a family trip.
Some people want their families there for the proposal
"Saur a squeeral" 😂❤
I was NOT ready for how Tony pronounced squirrel 🤣🤣🤣
5:06 Legion! 😂 He's not just a hubby, he's a bro 😂
It's funny how algorithm works...
Today my girlfriend broke up with me. I am not mad or anything, but I feel this darkness, like a void in my chest and mind. This was my second relationship, and I know we didn't combine very well, but still, I tried to be supportive of her, give her random gifts, try to talk, and mostly try to understand her. I always put in higher than average effort and work, not only in relationships but also at work, with family, and with friends. I always want to see other people happy-that makes me happy. Yes, I am a so-called people pleaser, but I do it because of love.
It hurts because it happened not once but twice that someone rejected my effort. I think now I need more time to recover. I used to think people who needed time out after a breakup were weak or didn't want it anymore, but now I understand that our mind is precious, and we do need a break after that, especially when it happens kind of randomly and ends up being confusing. I still question why I did this and that, but it doesn't matter anymore. Now I have more experience, and once again, my mind has opened new doors.
I'm sorry to hear that but I'm sure you've learnt a lot through your two relationships and maybe one day that will really benefit you in life whether that's with a new partner or more in regards to appreciating your own self :)
Take your time, no need to rush. And look after yourself. You are people too.
It took me 4 serious, years long relationships where I did my best and they ended hurting me. I am a people pleaser too, I made up my mind to up my standards and make different choices in a man, and I found my beloved husband. We've raised a son and had some pretty great times together. Do yourself a favor, marry someone you could be best friends with, it makes all the difference.
Newly subscribed. Loving your channel guys. My hubby proposed in public and I hated it. 😂 It forced me to say yes. Not that I didn’t love him but we’d been together 13 years already and I didn’t see the point.
The plane ✈️ proposal was cringey AF💯
It full gave me the ick🤢🤮
The way Toni pronounces "squirrel". hahahahahahahaha.....
I’m so obsessed with the way Australians sai squirrel like squeee rill
The way you say squirrel is amazing.
Public proposals should absolutely be talked about prior. Plus you should know your partner and what they prefer. I’d hate hate having everyone’s attention on me- especially if it’s a no. If you don’t know your partner’s thoughts on marrying you/public marriage- bring it up as a hypothetical or have their friend’s/family ask. Better way to find out they’re not ready and/or going to break up with you privately than publicly. Then no one feels like a prick :)
"Worst she can say is no"
Her: "I'm married and have 2 kids"
On an airplane flight is probably top five worst places you could possibly propose. What if they say no? You have nowhere to go, you can't escape, you're just stuck there for however long your flight is.
A squee-rull? Squee-rull?! What an amazing way to say that. LOL!
Jersey, ball cap inside the plane, and on his way to Bali......Bogan.
Found your channel today... Have surgery in the morning. Looks like imma binge u all day. U guys are hilarious.
Best of luck with it, speedy recovery
Tony saying squeerill gets me 😂
Totally with you Toni. I told my, now fiancé that if he ever proposed then i didnt want an audience.
He proposed with a haribo ring, on a walk during COVID in 2020, on a grassy area overlooking the sea. It was lovely and quiet. But when we told my Dad where he proposed, he informed us that the land was old refuse land 🙈. Now my fiancé tells people he proposed to me on at a rubbish tip 😂.
A month later when shops opened we went to collect the ring he had ordered a week before lockdown, but i still have my original haribo ring and hope to frame it!
I love how Toni says "squirrel".😂
New fear unlocked: someone fake proposes to me and I think it’s real 😂
Every live event, someone needs to propose to Toni!!
The way you say “squirrel” ❤
Destination wedding. We live-streamed our wedding and my mum did JUST like that mum. She stood right in front of the camera. And my daughter had to try to whisper for her to get out of the way. Our friends back home kept commenting on that part.
OMG How Toni says squirrel! It's soooo cute!
My husband proposed to me at home after a fancy dinner and we were playing dice. He was winning and I’m really competitive. I kept getting notes from him whenever I rolled my dice. Started out by saying “hi :-)” the next one said “I have to ask you something…” and I was so mad I was losing I ripped that note up and threw it in the air like confetti and said then just ask me! Next thing I know, I look to my left and my husband is on one knee asking me to be his wife 😂
Skweeeeril. I love how you say squirrel.
So when my husband proposed we had just seen Deadpool and on our way out of the theater there is a fountain. He proposed at the fountain and people in the line for the movies came over and wanted to take our pictures because they had never seen a proposal in real life. They were super nice.
We now live down the street from the place we got engaged and everytime we go there my husband goes "looks like a nice place to propose to someone ". We celebrate our 8th wedding anniversary this Tuesday 9/24/24 and we couldn't be happier. ❤❤
“Skwee-rell” 😂🐿️
every time yall said "too hot" high pitched, i thought you were quoting the end of the song "HOT HOT HOT" LOL too good
So what if the woman on the airplane wanted to say no? 😬
The plane proposal would mortify me! It’s also not private which I would want lolll
The woman and her dog 😂😂 her awkward smile like "hey"
"lucky my mum's dead" I 💀
Ahhh, Toni saw a skwee-rul!
the way you say squirel (idk how to spell) made my day
I use to work up in Rialto Tower and one guy booked the whole funktion room and proposed to his girlfriend, it was so cute! I put rose petals around the table and you could see at her face that she knew what was going on, I wonder how their wedding was like!❤
Give me a proposal at home on a random Tuesday when we’re just hanging around the house in our comfies… no pomp and circumstance…
Although I COMPLETELY feel the chick that had to get her zoomies out!!! I tend to “get flappy” when over excited… just arms flying everywhere… usually a weird noise coming from my mouth…it’s not photogenic in the least. so yeah, I get it. 😂