The Last Supper: The Real Reasons We Broke Off Our Engagement (Episode 7 w/ Eric Whitehead)

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • Sierra and her ex-fiancé Eric Whitehead lay it all on the table and discuss why they broke off their engagement. From Sierra going through Eric’s phone and seeing it going down in his DMs to Sierra throwing drinks and crashing cars, the ex couple sit down for one last seafood boil to talk about all the reasons they couldn’t make their relationship last.
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  • @barbiemm89
    @barbiemm89 Год назад +371

    One thing: I LOVE Sierra. She can go through relationships, but she NEVER changes who she is!

    • @TheGourmetGoddess23
      @TheGourmetGoddess23 Год назад +4

      I would date him.

    • @taneishablair91
      @taneishablair91 Год назад +16

      There are pros and cons to that.

    • @SunnyKinard
      @SunnyKinard Год назад +8

      @@taneishablair91I absolutely agree with you because change is not always bad and as he stated that he’s going through his healing process and she needs to do the same and heal and seek professional help. Like he said she moves on fast

    • @reneemechelle442
      @reneemechelle442 Год назад +6

      Trust me she change every time you soul tie with person something within you change.

    • @justdree2859
      @justdree2859 Год назад +3

      She’s such a sweet spirit love her

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 Год назад +154

    I really like Eric he seems very emotionally present and available. A lot of men these days are withdrawn and that’s a turn off !

    • @JT-ms3wt
      @JT-ms3wt Год назад +1

      Guys are usually emotionally available & present outside of their relationships with their spouses

    • @friabarbie
      @friabarbie Год назад +2

      this a whole act he putting on😂 the woman like sierra gullible & fall for it

  • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
    @AllThingsTiffanyTV Год назад +626

    YALL NEED TO LISTEN TO ERIC AND SIERRA!….This is where women mess up. It’s no way y’all can watch this and say they should be together or get back together. Red flags and all kinds of TOXICITY going on!!! Stop egging on dysfunction

    • @Teatimewithtasch
      @Teatimewithtasch Год назад +23

      Agreed✅

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад +36

      Exactly! @ Tiffany BTV, I thought I watched the wrong video , judging by these comments. No wonder so many Women are in toxic sea relationships. A lot of them are delusional as hell and only hear what they want to hear. 🙄

    • @Jereefancybeauty
      @Jereefancybeauty Год назад +11

      This the comment!!!

    • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
      @AllThingsTiffanyTV Год назад +35

      @@donitaballard5928it gave very much delusion. That man said several times he good and the women talking about “he want you back. Get yo man sis” like huhhhh listen to men and read in between the lines and body language. That man is running the other way. And Sierra is broken. Cussed all through the video while bringing up trauma response. Her need to be right, masculine,. & controlling will keep her single

    • @mambamed8345
      @mambamed8345 Год назад +43

      He gaslit the fuck outta her lol he said that he never cheated. And then said oh wait well I did cheat but we wasn’t serious…then sierra was like nigga we bought a house together, how wasn’t we serious? This is narc Behavior 😂😂😂

  • @SoAmayzing
    @SoAmayzing Год назад +223

    Looking at them on social media I thought they were the perfect couple. This just an example that no relationship is perfect and takes work. Best wishes to them both

    • @Jereefancybeauty
      @Jereefancybeauty Год назад +17

      Straight up.. you never know what goes on behind closed doors..

    • @meka8953
      @meka8953 Год назад +13

      SIERRA JUMPS IN RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT AFTER SHE GETS OUT OF ONE THESE WOMEN NEED TO WORK ON SELF LOVE AND HEALING

    • @whaa3222
      @whaa3222 Год назад +5

      He as lame as they come.😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

    • @JapaneseJennPodcast
      @JapaneseJennPodcast Год назад +1

      Right

    • @ruthcoby2425
      @ruthcoby2425 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂 social media is an illusion never ever believe what you see..it’s a snapshot..folk only posting the good..no one posting their problems

  • @niyah_jordan3147
    @niyah_jordan3147 Год назад +293

    Sierra is going to be very successful forever. The hustle is really just in her and she still young. She reminds me of a Kandi in the making.

  • @Summerlove3
    @Summerlove3 Год назад +261

    I love how he says you brought him closer to God Sierra thts a Blessing you saved a soul for the Kingdom 🫶🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @LifeIsGood49
      @LifeIsGood49 Год назад +1

      💔🤣🤣🤣

    • @almafernandez1250
      @almafernandez1250 Год назад +5

      Amen, that is awesome. I have always loved Sierra, I hope one day she will get counseling for herself.

    • @ilovethiswoman7055
      @ilovethiswoman7055 Год назад +3

      Love this comment!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @vernarolle482
      @vernarolle482 Год назад +8

      Sierra needs to bring herself close to the King

    • @sulemandukuray2165
      @sulemandukuray2165 Год назад

      @@vernarolle482 lmaoooo🤣🤣🤣

  • @ariariKy
    @ariariKy Год назад +60

    This was so raw , transparent and vulnerable of the both of you. Almost uncomfortable to watch because it was sooooooo real. This was soooooo needed Thank you

  • @QutieTV
    @QutieTV Год назад +74

    I like her. It's something peaceful about her. She looks like the Friend that you can tell anything and she will be there for you.

    • @isaidwhatisaidsis
      @isaidwhatisaidsis Год назад +1

      I agree 💯

    • @QutieTV
      @QutieTV Год назад

      @@isaidwhatisaidsis thankyou sister. ❤️❤️💪🏾

    • @lovelyrithatsme7050
      @lovelyrithatsme7050 Год назад +1

      Yes, I like her too and I think that's why. I'm a Libra and most of my friends are Gemini's

  • @EsteeCoako28
    @EsteeCoako28 Год назад +217

    Eric giving me “come back, I talked to the lady” vibes 😂. & Sierra so stubborn, her independence is super strong sometimes she gotta pull back!!!

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад +19

      @ EsteeCoakp29. Pull back for What? A lying, cheating man. He actually thinks that he wasn't cheating because, he was just looking at a naked woman on his phone that he asked to get naked and shower while he watched on his phone. Then the broads calling her phone talking crazy. He had an excuse for that too. Last but not least, he said he didn't want Sierra back, but want to be apart of her business. I hope she's not that gone over him.

    • @stopit41
      @stopit41 Год назад +3

      ​@@donitaballard5928exactly

    • @joquellejones6938
      @joquellejones6938 Год назад +4

      Exactly!! Lol he talked to the lady and doing follow ups 😂

    • @alexysbreana8891
      @alexysbreana8891 Год назад

      Lol he for sure talked to the lady 😅

  • @musicms7723
    @musicms7723 Год назад +48

    He doesn’t think talking to and engaging with other women in a inappropriate way is cheating? That’s a issue with values and integrity, it is possible to be a good person and still have bad and questionable habits, this is a deal breaker. Nice conversation, she made the right choice to end it in my opinion.

    • @mambamed8345
      @mambamed8345 Год назад +15

      He knew it was cheating lol notice he flipped flopped and said oh we wasn’t serious, it was in the beginning of our relationship lol then sierra called him out and was like how did we buy a house together if if we weren’t serious? He’s an intelligent, smooth talking narc.

    • @antaneshiamoore1547
      @antaneshiamoore1547 Год назад +8

      It’s giving liar and narcissistic 😢

    • @summershropshire6305
      @summershropshire6305 Год назад

      @@antaneshiamoore1547that’s a Libra male for you

  • @NursingStudent1543
    @NursingStudent1543 Год назад +51

    All of yall saying she need to get back with him IMMEDIATELY NO! I always use to feel bad for him seeing they relationship on Love and Hip Hop but him saying she "needs to heal" when he's texting them females behind her back and her saying she asked him to stopped and all of that which he shouldn't of been doing anyways. No! You can't be telling someone they need to heal and you doing trifling stuff behind her back at the same time it don't make it no better. Physically or not that's still cheating ! Yes she should've been healing but you shouldn't of been cheating either. They both in the wrong and got a lot to work on

  • @daniellevibes
    @daniellevibes Год назад +57

    I believe these 2 definitely still love each other. My opinion… they should go to counseling to help understand one another and take things slow, emphasizing SLOW. Date, chill, take turns listening to one another and be affectionate and thankful to each other. Them being friends is good and one day maybe they will be back together. I can tell she was hurt but I definitely see he was really hurt a lot also. I’m rooting for them. There is REAL love there. ✌🏼

  • @kyrakouture108
    @kyrakouture108 Год назад +45

    He is being very accountable I think they can be great friends at this point he’s just young right now … the healthy dialogue was everything I’m wishing them the best moving forward.Sierra has been through a lot publicly in her last few relationships I hope she find the love she deserves and desires as well as heal herself 💕

  • @prettygirll98
    @prettygirll98 Год назад +128

    Why he can’t admit he was wrong for talking to other women, I can see how that’s draining…

    • @clarke4400
      @clarke4400 Год назад +12

      Exactly, and flirting with them.

    • @BeautifulbyDesign18
      @BeautifulbyDesign18 Год назад +12

      Yeah, he never held himself accountable for HIS toxic behavior that led to EVERYTHING that happened.

    • @buttad9803
      @buttad9803 Год назад

      Disrespect To A Real Man Is Like Cheating To A Female *it cut jus as deep* Y'all Wouldn't Know Because Y'all Females 🤷🏾‍♂️💯

    • @ktate0809
      @ktate0809 Год назад +1

      Facts 💯💯💯💯

    • @AsiaL33
      @AsiaL33 Год назад +7

      Literally, texting other woman and receiving naked pictures from a woman is cheating

  • @lynnthecreator8132
    @lynnthecreator8132 Год назад +38

    Proper communication would have saved this relationship,and patience as well, lesson learnt guys.

  • @SunnyKinard
    @SunnyKinard Год назад +87

    Honestly, after watching this episode it shows that Sierra jumps into things without healing from the previous man. She literally went from her kids father, to BK, to Eric and there was no time to heal but took the same issues, which is the biggest one trust to each relationship. As she continued to call their relationship toxic it really just sounds like she was the main one that was toxic. Although, Eric admitted to his wrong it’s sad when he says that she ran from their marriage that was fixable. Although, I do hear that she says that he hurt her and pushed her away but he states numerous time that she took away from his masculinity and tried to play step father. she also isn’t a good listener and hears what she wants and very petty. I pray that she really does get serious healing and sees a therapist for all her childhood/relationship trauma because she’s a beautiful person inside and out but work needs to be done.

    • @GetATMEHOE
      @GetATMEHOE Год назад

      I swear

    • @kyrajas
      @kyrajas Год назад +1

      i agree you said it perfectly

    • @plus_sizebeautyjones4873
      @plus_sizebeautyjones4873 Год назад

      Perfectly Said!

    • @ill71
      @ill71 8 месяцев назад

      I totally agree with you, I think she’s the toxic one in this relationship and that’s why I didn’t work out. Sounds like she’s the one who needs to get herself together.

  • @ashackerford
    @ashackerford Год назад +113

    They need to get help with their communication and get back together. They make a cute couple, and I can tell Eric still loves her.

    • @lainalove6149
      @lainalove6149 Год назад +7

      Agreed but she isnt by herself. She comes with two kids which is there overall issue.

    • @Divinebeauty94
      @Divinebeauty94 Год назад +2

      He most definitely is not over her

    • @marvelous2885
      @marvelous2885 Год назад +14

      That's weird, it's obvious to me that she still wants him, she kept asking for hugs and kisses, but I see he only wants friendship, I saw no romantic interest coming from him. None, he was blocking all her advances.

    • @Iam.avantaem
      @Iam.avantaem Год назад

      I agree ❤

    • @Iam.avantaem
      @Iam.avantaem Год назад

      I just love them together 😢❤such a team

  • @yolandabartee7363
    @yolandabartee7363 Год назад +22

    Proud of "Eric" very profound and accepting his role. Sierra has a lot to learn, starting with accepting and being accountable for her part. Getting delivered from her toxic ways. You can be strong as a woman. There is a time and a place for everything be it man or woman, ijs😊

  • @Littlemissscorpio90
    @Littlemissscorpio90 Год назад +39

    Oh nah you dodged a major bullet. He will take credit for your business but won’t take accountability for cheating constantly, the gaslighting is crazy & im more concerned for the girls in the comments saying he’s a good man , no mam🤣 she’s not toxic , she was simply checking shit as she should, anybody that would date him definitely has the “a piece of man is better than no man” mindset

  • @salliewashington4345
    @salliewashington4345 Год назад +32

    Eric doesn't deserve Sierra. He was the problem. Im glad their friends, but any real man would have been focused totally on her and not other women. Forget him. And Sierra is a rare breed. She deserves top tier love snd treatment.

    • @shirelrhodes4784
      @shirelrhodes4784 Год назад +4

      I agree with you! He is immature but willing to grow. They should just be friends.

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 Год назад +4

      You obviously didn’t listen to anything they both said

    • @salliewashington4345
      @salliewashington4345 Год назад +5

      @@lmiller6675 no, u just didn't listen thoroughly. I heard exactly what was said. Then on top of that, he tried to blame her insecurities on her past relationships. So what she went through his phone, Maybe she felt he had something to hide, and he did.

  • @fayehobley2945
    @fayehobley2945 Год назад +58

    being friends after lovers is top-tier--hats off to you BOTH

    • @JT-ms3wt
      @JT-ms3wt Год назад

      Being friends before being lovers is even more top tier

    • @fayehobley2945
      @fayehobley2945 Год назад

      So love their relationship as friends🎉🎉🎉 we could learn a lot from them

  • @YourFaveSagittarius
    @YourFaveSagittarius Год назад +286

    After watching this I can understand both sides. Sierra doesn’t know how to move on from the past and brings up the old shit to justify the things she did to hurt Eric instead of acknowledging that he may have been hurting just like her and taking accountability. She’s very dismissive when he starts to speak on his experience and tries to compare when he expresses himself or make excuses for her behavior which doesn’t allow him to feel validated in his feelings. Eric makes excuses for his behavior also, but it’s also a lot being put on him at such a fast pace and he shouldn’t have accepted the responsibility of being her husband before knowing what it required. Seems that they both sold each other false hood and moving too fast didn’t allow them anytime to process what they were committing to. All in all I wish them healing and the best. I see potential in them getting back after working through the kinks but the lack of accountability from them both needs to stop if they plan on moving forward as a couple.

    • @marywoods5809
      @marywoods5809 Год назад +4

      Exactly

    • @dinapoole9018
      @dinapoole9018 Год назад +7

      very well said.

    • @SunnyKinard
      @SunnyKinard Год назад +6

      I agree with this all the way! I think that the only way it could work if she seriously stuck with counseling individually and together only for them to work and to see what she needs to work on. She’s very dismissive of him and loves to play the victim for her reason for reacting the way she does. However, I do like that Eric has take responsibility for his actions/behavior. But like he said he’s young he’s 29 and she’s 4 years older I think that she’s holding him to the standards of not only her ex husband but BK as well and she has to realize everyone is not the same person.

    • @YourFaveSagittarius
      @YourFaveSagittarius Год назад

      @@dinapoole9018Thank you

  • @paulaprice5400
    @paulaprice5400 Год назад +38

    Sierra & Eric I believe that you guys still have a lot of love for each other, and with time and healing y’all will be back together I see love ❤️ in the both of y’all eyes, nothing is never perfect if it was how would the world be , no cussing no fussing , no drinking come on people be forreal

    • @christanaburton2657
      @christanaburton2657 Год назад

      Yes. I agree. They're chemistry

    • @user-kz8io8ov9t
      @user-kz8io8ov9t Год назад +2

      Exactly they both need to grow and social media/ public eye can ruin a good thing. So many you tube therapists think they know people from a clip 😂

  • @aerialbrown5733
    @aerialbrown5733 Год назад +12

    I’m so glad I watched this video I basically went through the same thing with my ex and this allowed me to see both perspectives in the relationship which is important. Healing from past traumas are necessary before entering a relationships. Learning and respecting each other’s boundaries is very important as well. This hour and a half conversation really hit home for me , Thanks Sierra and Eric for your transparency and truth !! Much love to you both ❤

  • @Triode12896
    @Triode12896 Год назад +42

    Eric made her insecure and she resent and emasculated him. There’s no trust in this relationship . The moved too fast and didn’t know each other. This relationship will never work. Eric wants kids & family Sierra already have kids and said she doesn’t want anymore. It’s time to move on. OAN: them men from ny do love Spanish women, probably one reason why sierra start looking different

  • @Jamella.elisha
    @Jamella.elisha Год назад +64

    Did we all watch the same video? “Eric is such a gentleman and Sierra needed healing” LMFAOOOOO. He kept cheating on her and it made her react. I don’t even hear complete accountability from this man, every reason as to why he did something, he pointed the finger right back to Sierra. She did the right thing by leaving the relationship. Some of y’all need healing and better self esteem

    • @Cmarie118
      @Cmarie118 Год назад +3

      Exactly

    • @serenityw8689
      @serenityw8689 Год назад +6

      I was looking at the same thing these girls saying that must be the ones who want him. only thing I would say is you can tell he is a narcissist and wants her to feel she was lacking somewhere and that’s why he did what he did what I see is we both male and female need to know when to leave. If he felt so unwanted or whatever he says he should’ve left. And when we as women see this man is making me be angry, aggressive basically anything but loving we need to leave.

    • @Jamella.elisha
      @Jamella.elisha Год назад +2

      @@serenityw8689 my thoughts exactly!! Because these comments talking about “That’s a good man Savannah” is killing LMAOOOO

    • @Trisha81
      @Trisha81 Год назад +2

      yeah he's full of ish

    • @TNZ2023
      @TNZ2023 Год назад +1

      @jamella.Elisha girl I been scrolling and waiting for this comment!! I thought maybe something was wrong with me for thinking this man was full is shit!

  • @davettacampbell1704
    @davettacampbell1704 Год назад +19

    This was actually a great segment and you guys showed that break ups and friendships are still possible but I really think the Eric is waiting for you and willing to work it out !!! Just want you to go through counseling

  • @thegworlsarefighting
    @thegworlsarefighting Год назад +23

    I hate when men make excuses for cheating. It really grinds my gears.

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад +7

      @ thegworlsarefighting666 Did you hear that too. By the judge of these comments, you & I and two more people, actually watched this video 🤔

    • @thegworlsarefighting
      @thegworlsarefighting Год назад +6

      @@donitaballard5928 lol he’s such a manipulator

    • @allthingstot1813
      @allthingstot1813 Год назад +1

      SAME !!!!!!!

  • @christanaburton2657
    @christanaburton2657 Год назад +15

    I'm smiling through this entire episode. I love that they're friends..

  • @Divinebeauty94
    @Divinebeauty94 Год назад +154

    That is a GOOD MAN SAVANNAH!!!!! I truly believe God can heal Sierra and Eric’s relationship ❤❤❤

  • @carolgeorge4205
    @carolgeorge4205 Год назад +107

    Sis has to learn listening skills tho. Not just for Eric but for life. He starts talking, she's talking. I love them together and it would be nice IF they could work through these issues. Eric seems like the type of man who would lead his household well. Sierra just has to allow a MAN to do so. We can't always wear the pants. ESPECIALLY if we have a man who has shown the ability to wear his pants with no problem.

    • @epeliteservicesllc4513
      @epeliteservicesllc4513 Год назад +11

      She lacks listening she talk talk talk talk. He is right about the name too

    • @ToriOfTheNile
      @ToriOfTheNile Год назад +7

      The thing is, Sierra has held her own her entire life, she’s made an empire out of nothing on her own, she’s wayyyyy more successful than him, she has the ideas, she’s the creative, she’s a boss period. Why would she let someone less successful than her “lead” what she’s already built so successfully just because he has testicles…. Gender dynamics aren’t just a given because of one’s gender, there are stipulations to those dynamics. Only in the black community is a more successful woman expected to minimize herself to fit a lesser man. What she deserves is someone at a higher level than her, maybe then can she submit to her superior.

    • @clarke4400
      @clarke4400 Год назад +4

      She talks over him

    • @thanksmaddytv815
      @thanksmaddytv815 Год назад +9

      @@ToriOfTheNilethat is no excuse. If you want to share your life you need to adjust who you are to have two people fit or just stay alone

    • @exquisite921
      @exquisite921 Год назад +3

      ​@ToriOfTheNile girl, please you are wrong 🙄

  • @amysmith8035
    @amysmith8035 Год назад +30

    I love this episode and believe that after some time apart and after healing you two will be together again ❤❤

  • @NiaJ144
    @NiaJ144 Год назад +26

    Awww I love this. I really liked y’all together. I’m glad he’s in therapy. He seems like a really great guy but just like us all, we have some childhood traumas that affects us & our interpersonal relationships. Peace & blessings to you both❤

    • @britneywilliams5972
      @britneywilliams5972 Год назад +4

      Yeah they do balance each other out....I must say though you don't have to go through your significant other things or phone....God will bring it to you all the time❤🎉😊🕊️🦋🦋🙏

    • @LK-ps3mt
      @LK-ps3mt Год назад

      ⁠@@britneywilliams5972so true!

  • @mackiawilson2133
    @mackiawilson2133 Год назад +8

    I love how vulnerable Sierra is in this video. ❤️

  • @89Drmz
    @89Drmz Год назад +6

    If he continues with Therapy and she goes to therapy and takes it serious, They will be back together.
    Minus the Toxicity, their chemistry is INTENSE!
    Marriages and relationships take a lot of DEEP work together and individual, Inner work as well
    Chance and Tabitha Brown just spoke about how their marriage was a mess for years before they reached solitude together.
    The issues they have can seriously be fixed.
    Enjoyed the vulnerable, rawness of this.
    THIS is a lot of people's reality behind closed doors.
    & yes, FRIENDSHIP is sooooo important as the FOUDATION to any relationship. its a MUST.
    Definitely continue with that

  • @sexyblakk954
    @sexyblakk954 Год назад +27

    It’s amazing how many women are defending this man because of his demeanor and tone instead of hearing how he made her feel. Most men put on a façade in front of strangers and in the home they are absolute monsters to the women. If he was such a good guy this toxic scene would not be played out right now. He’s a know it all, he’s needy, he’s arrogant and he rude. I see all that from how he’s talking. After she expressed her feelings he turned it around and spoke about himself. He’s a victim at all times. Ugh🚩🚩

    • @Bianca1700
      @Bianca1700 Год назад

      Yeah and she doesn't know how to talk to men. 😂

  • @LadyyNicole
    @LadyyNicole Год назад +26

    You can tell they really did have a good time together and loved each other. I wish the best for y’all 🫶🏽

  • @laquitasingleton7466
    @laquitasingleton7466 Год назад +52

    I'm sorry, please don't bash me, but I know a gaslight when I see one. This man isn't as sweet as he's coming off. He's using God too much. And trust me, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH ACKNOWLEDGING GOD. But when a person does it in the manner that he's doing it. It's making me second guess his intentions. He seems like he can be very mentally and emotionally abusive. And I remember her saying that on the show. And now he's trying to gaslight her and manipulate her into thinking she needs him or made a mistake by divorcing him. Because he's changed, and she's led him to God. Because that's what they do.

    • @Jumanlifestyle
      @Jumanlifestyle Год назад

      Y’all know it’s a scripted show meaning it’s not always true

    • @BlackMercy713
      @BlackMercy713 Год назад

      Girl this him begging for her to take him back, didnt you not hear him say"there's nothing out there"😂😂

    • @Fantasy_Lane
      @Fantasy_Lane Год назад

      This is how me and my child’s dad is… people dont understand how you can be really cool with an ex. And it be nothing behind it.

  • @JT-ms3wt
    @JT-ms3wt Год назад +9

    Sierra hears what she wants to hear and lets him talk when it’s something she doesn’t mind hearing. He probably felt like he had no voice in their relationship. With most established women you can’t come in the relationship and try to assert your dominance. Gotta let it flow and let her see that you got this. Also with her not being a listener, words ain’t gonna do it, you have to show it through your actions.

  • @dambertaylor5334
    @dambertaylor5334 Год назад +27

    I definitely think she should’ve choose Southern Girl eats, b/c like he says you want to reach bigger platforms , both still great minds, they seem like a great couple 😊

  • @JAPANESEJENN
    @JAPANESEJENN Год назад +6

    Lol I love the transparency here . Sometimes people are better off as friends and not a romantic relationship!!!!

  • @KoKoCola82
    @KoKoCola82 Год назад +76

    I’m really getting a strong vibe that Eric is trying to get a portion of her company Ghetto Girlz Eat, because he keeps on trying to bring up and get her to talk about how involved he was “from the ground up” and how he found the vendor, how he helped mix the seasoning, how he was the camera man, how he helped her cook, changed her Mac n Cheese recipe, how he shut the restaurant down and cooked with her and posted that video that went “viral” and that’s what really started her company!!
    Sierra definitely is giving him his credit for how he supported her and all that, but he is really pushing her to say he was basically a 50/50 contributor.
    She’s saying she actually started it before their relationship, so we’ll see how this all plays out!!

    • @kenyatabrown7151
      @kenyatabrown7151 Год назад +6

      I’m getting that vibe

    • @missboo2tru
      @missboo2tru Год назад +11

      Seeee i knew i wasn’t trippin cause I’m like LET IT GO !!!

    • @zay836
      @zay836 Год назад +12

      Y’all do know was married and if he wanted that he could have had it if he wanted too

    • @IamTaTega
      @IamTaTega Год назад +6

      She ain’t going, she know exactly what he’s doing ! That’s why she keep cutting that short

    • @KoKoCola82
      @KoKoCola82 Год назад +10

      @@zay836 Well, not technically if she’s saying it was already a thing before they got together! It seems as if he’s trying to build that case tho… He was talking timelines and all that! I was like Sir, do you feel entitled to half of whaaaaaaaaaat? He talking about how he gave up all his businesses for her and all this to start over in an unfamiliar place to him…. Who does that? You don’t just liquidate successful businesses if you don’t ALREADY have another business plan! He didn’t give shit up.. He saw her as a cash cow. He literally ghosted all his hoes, because he saw 🤑 in Sierra. He ain’t dumb, nor is he naive!! He’s about his money… He saw that he could come up a whole lot more by being with her…. And Diiiiiiiiiid!!!!
      Whoever don’t see that is
      🎶BLIIIIIIID…BLIIIIIIID🎶 SZA Voice

  • @sashaysworld4109
    @sashaysworld4109 Год назад +28

    Sierra need to get sometime by herself, I think she needs her own counseling. Because she hop from one relationship to the next one fast. Even when she not even over the previous ones omg. But I wish her the best! Keep getting your money girl❤

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад +1

      The realest comment on this post. Everyone else seems delusional af

    • @prettyblack488
      @prettyblack488 Год назад

      Over her, she's still carrying her ex husband last name and want Eric to be real

  • @jadesmith1030
    @jadesmith1030 Год назад +14

    These two obviously still love each other....❤❤❤God will fix it

  • @Helloheyhi561
    @Helloheyhi561 Год назад +5

    He looks like he’s 40 that’s wild

  • @carolynwilliams4926
    @carolynwilliams4926 Год назад +8

    I really can see them back together and happy they are aware of there issues.

  • @KareemBrooks-q2b
    @KareemBrooks-q2b Год назад +39

    Sierra definitely has past trauma from her past relationship that she brought into this relationship it’s so clear as day you can see the maturity and accountability in Eric and the hurt in sierra it’s sad to see y’all call it quits for good but hey y’all know what works best for y’all!

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад +6

      Watching naked women on his phones and other women calling his wife to say that they're with him. Yeah, hes really mature🙄

    • @erica.o.v.o9373
      @erica.o.v.o9373 Год назад

    • @ktate0809
      @ktate0809 Год назад +1

      So It’s Her Fault She Wasnt Allowing Him To Text Other Women And Get Sent Naked Pics?!?! FOH 😡😡😡😡 TEAM SIERRA ‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 Год назад

      They didn't her any of that

  • @Isyssmlove
    @Isyssmlove Год назад +6

    I need more of y’all together the content is just so addictive and entertaining

  • @dinapoole9018
    @dinapoole9018 Год назад +26

    She definitely should get into counseling. She has a lot of good qualities. If she doesn't heal herself, she's going to continue finding herself in toxic relationships.

  • @msyoshieagle682
    @msyoshieagle682 Год назад +9

    Time management in relationships will always be a strong topic that struggles to achieve resolve. He keeps mentioning therapy, but I see he still has a ways to go. Comes off as a car salesman to me... I'm glad she did realize the toxicity and red flags that were taking place and made moves despite him downplaying everything. Sierra doesn't come off as toxic nor ghetto to me, never have from what I've observed. I did like her with Eric, but I do notice some of the 'deal breakers' from this conversation. Smart lady.

  • @Kcesar365
    @Kcesar365 Год назад +11

    Dang I love them together but I do understand and respect this episode much respect. Very mature and positive. God bless you guys and journey

  • @swatteambrave
    @swatteambrave Год назад +14

    I feel you. He didn't see your value. He's more blind than liberty.

  • @SippinTeaaa
    @SippinTeaaa Год назад +29

    I wish y’all would let her make her own decisions and stop telling her to get back with him 💯

    • @marvelous2885
      @marvelous2885 Год назад

      I don't think he is interested so 🤷‍♀️

    • @Iam.avantaem
      @Iam.avantaem Год назад

      We can say our opinions THATS WHAT THE COMMENT SECTION IS FOR! That’s why she told us to come watch it 😂

    • @SippinTeaaa
      @SippinTeaaa Год назад +1

      @@Iam.avantaem ok and I stated my opinion

  • @queenabi_x
    @queenabi_x Год назад +23

    No relationship is perfect, but i really think these two could have made a beautiful union!

  • @Dee_Rachelle
    @Dee_Rachelle Год назад +10

    I like you even more Sierra! You seem so sweet and laid back. Plus you’re a Gemini like me😂. We are so misunderstood. I’m a Chef as well and just started my Food Truck business! I also be all over the place with ideas and have to slow down and focus on one project at a time. You are definitely inspiring ❤

  • @lovelyrithatsme7050
    @lovelyrithatsme7050 Год назад +11

    I wish them both the best. Maybe they can be good friends but not in a relationship. One thing that stuck out to me was that Sierra said when he text other women it made he feel like she was not good enough for him 😢 im glad they got to talk through this.

  • @shaybucc82
    @shaybucc82 Год назад +8

    I feel like they should’ve tried therapy instead of just throwing in the towel like they did. Sometimes therapy can save relationships. I hate that they’re not together but I love how they’re friends and they can come together and explain why things wouldn’t work. Hopefully they can both heal and come back to one another and love on each other. You can see they still love and adore one another. ❤

  • @takingreality2612
    @takingreality2612 Год назад +10

    I respect both yalls point of views , i love this ! This was the best episode so far and i wish y’all both the best in the dating world and working on yourselves

  • @VeronicaMartinez-yo8wj
    @VeronicaMartinez-yo8wj Год назад +5

    That’s so dope to keep the love and respect and to be able to talk and overcome all the negativity ❤❤❤❤

  • @latriciablue9341
    @latriciablue9341 Год назад +1

    Boy bye!!! Sierra girl this is toxic .. I’m happy for ur growth. Take ur time with this one. I’ve been following u since ur first season on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. These men don’t deserve you..Do more healing and the right love will find you.. Take a year off men free it will help. It helped me.. Respectfully… I love u and want only the best for u. U inspire me to pursue my dreams.. God bless u and ur family.

  • @karmabars47
    @karmabars47 Год назад +5

    This is so good, hearing both perspectives 🔥

  • @keishajay9982
    @keishajay9982 Год назад +8

    This made me cry . Been through a relationship like this.

  • @SimplySheek
    @SimplySheek Год назад +10

    Sometimes being apart brings you closer together. I’m happy you both are in therapy❤

  • @dollfacedtee2992
    @dollfacedtee2992 Год назад +10

    He ain’t shxt. && he has no accountability. Just because it isn’t sex doesn’t mean it isn’t cheating. She’s def better off.

  • @rbq426
    @rbq426 Год назад +18

    I like him, the way he thinks, and his healing process 🥰 he's a good man Sierra ❤

  • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
    @AllThingsTiffanyTV Год назад +21

    Sierraaaa girlllll lol i pray for peace over your mind. And more healing . You be cussing these man outttt. Girllll lol Let God work on you before you go into relationships… Eric is a man of structure , intellect, and vision. He knows who he is. I’m happy you got to experience a man like that. I hoped the show isn’t the real character and just acting.. At least now you know. Allow God to continue to guide you and help you to be compromising and agreeable. Your light is shining. Whatever you do it’ll be blessed… stop saying y’all friends. Close doors and chapters. That man told you loud and clear he not on that. He knows what he wants. He’s into his healing and he wants a different woman.

    • @urneshayoung646
      @urneshayoung646 Год назад +3

      I agree he’s a real man with much respect I can tell he not use to the loudness

    • @lynntooks1891
      @lynntooks1891 Год назад

      Dead ass ....lol

  • @TatianaLee.
    @TatianaLee. Год назад +12

    She kinda doesn’t listen it’s a little frustrating she seems the type that wants too be heard but doesn’t want too listen. She does need healing and he needs too focus on himself he’s hurt aswell but she doesn’t acknowledge that

  • @TheProductiveMom
    @TheProductiveMom Год назад +8

    Now bring Shooter on the next one

  • @EsteeCoako28
    @EsteeCoako28 Год назад +7

    I enjoyed this a lot, this made me look at somethings I need to work on from my last relationship. ❤

  • @itzsassyashley
    @itzsassyashley 3 месяца назад

    I just recently found Ghetto Girl Eats.. I'm really enjoying the content. Seeing Eric try to take credit for her business accolades and success in a manipulative and narcissistic way really irked me. But I can't wait to see this series continue. The meals always look so GOOD! Really proud of how far she's come. Real respect for her grind and independent growth.

  • @Ateyaaa
    @Ateyaaa Год назад +12

    Eric shut up...but you right though...lol Sierra that was funny AF! This was a GREAT Episode. I love this! More of the healing videos Sierra. This was amazing to watch.

    • @rbq426
      @rbq426 Год назад +2

      That was funny 😂

    • @Ateyaaa
      @Ateyaaa Год назад

      @@rbq426 YESSSS

  • @ashaloves415
    @ashaloves415 Год назад +3

    She’s clearly not OVER him. He can take or leave her based on his answers.
    As women we have to take accountability for our mistakes in relationships/marriages.

  • @stephymeza
    @stephymeza Год назад +4

    This is so awesome that the two of u can remain friends. This doesn’t happen often and it’s nice to see. Maybe one day u guys can get back together.

  • @Iam.avantaem
    @Iam.avantaem Год назад +25

    Sierra is crazy 😂😂😂😂you gotta love her…Eric really is the one for her…he let her feed him ❤

  • @404Golden
    @404Golden Год назад +7

    They definitely love tf out of each other and I can see it going forward

  • @martinarichards7912
    @martinarichards7912 Год назад +2

    He wants recognition for helping her SSOOOO bad, but isn't willing to REALLY accept any wrongdoing. He's toxic af too and can't admit it.
    This conversation was eye-opening though, because it made me realize where I need to tighten up 😅

  • @jerilyngillenwater8
    @jerilyngillenwater8 Год назад +6

    I don’t like Eric. I think that he never liked Sierra, but like what she did for him.

  • @stacygreene2608
    @stacygreene2608 Год назад +2

    That is your soulmate! HE is the special person in your life!❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 girl y'all keep healing

  • @queengypsy8486
    @queengypsy8486 Год назад +8

    You should’ve never accepted his proposal when he said he didn’t wanna date anyone with kids. But y’all are great as friends

  • @tracyblackburn8741
    @tracyblackburn8741 Год назад +25

    Eric is such a gentleman. He’s showing growth and I can honestly see he’s trying to be a better man and I love how he’s so real. But SIERRA, girl, I see myself in you and I don’t like what I’m seeing. You are definitely too strong and you have to let go of the past and the hurt. Remember, pretty girls don’t have to use such much profanity. Girrrlll..😩

  • @shanellanthony4324
    @shanellanthony4324 Год назад +6

    I love his Self Awareness ❤

  • @The_Southern_Bombshell
    @The_Southern_Bombshell Год назад +2

    Because you two were married I’ll say this ; There is no such thing as a perfect union. It takes work and healing prior and during the relationship. Marriage takes effective communication, forgiveness and commitment. Watching you two on this episode showed me that healing needs to be properly executed prior to moving forward. I see that Eric wanted to make this work and fight !
    I am praying Peace over both of you as you embark on your journey of healing ❤ Despite what’s going on in the media between you two . What is meant to be will be . You’re a great team so if a romantic relationship doesn’t work out ; you two will be wonderful business partners!
    God Bless 🙏🏾

  • @Nessavb_
    @Nessavb_ Год назад +3

    “You bring me closer to God” 🥺 if y’all meant to be it will be 🤞🏾

  • @danreielle
    @danreielle Год назад +2

    After Sierra gets through her healing and acknowledges her part in the failed marriage i think they could try again and be GREAT. My mother in law remarried my mans dad when we were seniors and they stayed together until
    His dad died a few years ago. They have a dynamic that’s there it just takes work on BOTH sides.

  • @desh_holm
    @desh_holm Год назад +3

    We love you Sierra, keep shining bright!

  • @MrsJreneeTV
    @MrsJreneeTV Год назад +1

    Healing is essential you guys keep on helping one another it’s rare but needed 🥰

  • @ooooooo-thatschelsie7009
    @ooooooo-thatschelsie7009 Год назад +10

    Aww, he seems so sweet.. Hell, girl if you don't want him send him my way! Lol

  • @yannaplus2699
    @yannaplus2699 Год назад +6

    He didn't know how to accept the fact that he did her wrong he keep tryna put it back on her ..ion like ppl like that

  • @Tookie2Cute
    @Tookie2Cute Год назад +7

    Eric knows he want Sierra soooooooo bad 😂😂😂😂

  • @alaynachardae
    @alaynachardae Год назад +10

    He’s very narcissistic 🚩

  • @kishajackson4951
    @kishajackson4951 Год назад +7

    Sierra need to learn how to talk to her man. It’s hard for a woman that’s bossed up to be submissive in that way . Soon as she get mad I bet he be all kind of bitches & hoes 😏

  • @jacquelineroberts5972
    @jacquelineroberts5972 Год назад +2

    This was great I got to see Eric in a whole new light!

  • @bernardjones5260
    @bernardjones5260 Год назад +3

    This was the best episode you guys need to really get back together !!!!! and I love the fact that you gave that man, his flowers for the positive role, he played in your life.

  • @mainap9714
    @mainap9714 Год назад +1

    He’s so well spoken and polite

  • @tawannadrummond1624
    @tawannadrummond1624 Год назад +4

    I love that y’all could do this! I’m hopeful for y’all

  • @nicoleb8842
    @nicoleb8842 Год назад +5

    This was a good episode. I like them both and wish them both well!

  • @theresaneal4286
    @theresaneal4286 Год назад +5

    Period you gotta love and learn yourself before you can love others if it’s meant to be it will be 🤩🤩

  • @whitneylomax24
    @whitneylomax24 Год назад +5

    The best episode omg I can’t stop laughing y’all chemistry is amazing.

  • @ashleycadet1578
    @ashleycadet1578 Год назад +2

    "Shut up, but you right though" 😂

  • @jakesiajackson2061
    @jakesiajackson2061 Год назад +12

    Y’all both love eachother, and I truly believe y’all belong together 😘