Having a Conversation with My Ex
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- Опубликовано: 13 июн 2022
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So... can exes still be friends?
Yes
Yes
I believe that exes can be friends but if you are in a new relationship is it fair for your partner for you to still remain friends with that ex? Would he have every right for you to want to cut that ex loose? 🤔
Yes! But only when the love respect is there
ABSOLUTELY!!!! Especially when it ends on a good note, u can't deny a REAL friendship.
“Big Slim. I’m not a thug anymore. I’m grown” Respect✊🏾
BIG SLIM‼️ ALL CAPS Girl 😂
@@whatsfunny9571 Right! 😂
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This is definitely a case of “it gets greater later.” This chemistry cannot be denied. We love this H-town love story!
Well he is still in love with her.
Righttt! I knew they were together cause she definitely had some post breakup classic bangers…but I didn’t know it was for as long as it was and ran as deep as it did and still does! I like they were able to do this sit down especially to clarify some stuff so people not judging like “chileee why you goin backwards wit a thug” when folks don’t really know the type man he is and how he genuinely cares about her even as a friend and they’re right…that’s is most DEFINITELY rare especially nowadays! So yea I’m here for it! She been thru so much and I just want her to be genuinely and mutually happy and loved 👑💞👑💯 Oh and imma stay tuned to her new show cause she definitely startin it off with a bang so I pray things continue to thrive🙏🏽💪🏽💯👑💓
Facts!
Righhhhhtttttttttt. The glowwwwwwww ❤️❤️❤️.
I think so but I also think he might be all the way comfortable with that fact that she has kids with someone else
The chemistry between you two is undeniable. I think that absolutely is your soulmate
Terrell got me watching LeToya all over again and loving it.
Yeeeessss!!
SAMMEEEEEE 😍😍😍
Oh that door is DEFINITELY open for them to spin the block 😂😂😂
Yes ma'am! My ex and I had a really deep conversation and laid everything out on the table in 2020. Six months later we were back together and he proposed. We got married on January 29th of this year.
To God be all the Glory for what he has done...CONGRATULATIONS 🤗
Awww this is beautiful 😍 congrats
@@sgloudon thank you!! ☺️❤️
@@sgloudon thank you!! ☺️❤️
@@oneof7billion627 🙌🏾 amen!! Thank you!! ❤️☺️
Had the conversation. Ended up married to my ex. Now we're in the "happily ever after" phase
really
@@AfricanGirl Possibly but I always heard going back is a NO.
@@marriejames01 going back to the wrong person is a no, no positive growth in that person/yourself is a no…
@@marriejames01 it depend why you broke up
😂😂😂😂won't He do it
The shade she threw the whole interview was soooo funny to me. I love the maturity of their situation
Once a man loves a special woman, he’s gonna love her FOREVER! They are an example of that!
"Last time we went to therapy, I won"
😂😂😂 it's not a competition, Sir 😭😂
NEVER, ever want to be back with ANY ex!!!🤣🤣🤣
Their chemistry is everything. It would be nice if they decided to get back together; however, if they don't, they'll always have a lifetime of genuine friendship. Great ex-chat!!
LeToya has that personality that would be phenomenal as a talk show host. I'm locked in now!
She is adorable. That no good x husband's messed up. Slim thug is definitely still crushing on her
Welcome!!
@@LeaveItToLeToya We adore and appreciate your honesty. You always look well groomed and you are clearly dedicated to your ambitions. Slim Thug is definitely carrying you in his heart wherever he goes.
Omg! I was just thinking the SAME THING! She would be a fantastic talk show host for sure. She’d be just the breath of fresh air we need too.
Ok! This woman is a gift from God! She can do it all!!
WHOOOO...I know Tommy was SICK seeing this. They're connection is crazy. The way they smiled at each other when he walked in.....they love each other deeply.
Tommy who!
@@n.b.0212 Not Tommy who!! Lol 🥴😩🤣
Yep, Tommy who!
The chemistry!!! I smiled through the whole interview. He is your soulmate.
I was smiling too hard!! Lol
Me too, I’m like why am I smiling so hard 😂😂😂
Right like are they getting back together or what?! Their chemistry off the charts
Me too, sitting over here cheesing LOL my husband was like what are you smiling so hard for a puppy, baby..???
They dated off and on for a decade I think that was a good run what we all see is two beautiful people that handled the situation of breaking up with love and maturity..it should be left as friends because going back into it there's more at stake they have kids and it can cause real hurt to the point where the friendship could be ruined.. I say stay friends..
Maaaaannnn, Toya snuck in sooooo many little cute digs!! "You can't miss him...annnnddd they don't."- 😂😂🤣The subtle shade was EVERYTHING! Love the relationship these two have and whether they get a chance to revisit being together or just maintain the healthy, beautiful relationship they have...they both are winning!
The fact that they remember details is amazing. Their energy is so kindred
My ex and I had a sit down conversation last night and I was shocked that he remembered so much about our past. And he had me laughing all night with his silly self, might give it another chance but I'm cautious bc I just recently ended a relationship and I just want to be single for a while
@@tonyaelem1674 welljust don't forget why it didn't work the 1st time
Anybody else find themselves smiling through the whole interview? Feels like you guys were meant to be together. I wish you both the best in whatever you decide. #HtownLove
Yessss big koolaid smile
The entire interview!!
Yes! I hope they try dating again, It seems like they have such a great friendship. I truly believe you can meet the right person at the wrong time.
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YAAAASS, Just cheesing like a Cheshire cat🤣🤣🤣
Looks like you both are open to rekindle and I'm super excited for you both! One thing's for sure, if its meant to be, it'll always come back around!
Unfortunately he is a sexist. He does not like when women are independent. They never worked out.
Marry him asap!! The chemistry, love, connection and respect is all there!
It’s so cool how he remembers everything about their relationship from how and when they met, their first date and everything. Most guys can’t even remember your favorite color or your birthday 😒
He payed attention a lot.
Right 😅
Those are the wrong guys.
Right! I have exes that don't even remember that we've dated😑 They will see me out somewhere and try to holler at me...and I'm like dude...we've dated already remember?
@@Kaos_Magazine 🤣😂🤣😂 you too real!
You can tell he still has a lot of love for Toya and it has never left ...she blushed the entire time ❤
Yup...
Slim is just everything! Wish them both much success and happiness in whatever they do
Not “ he leaned into it” 😂😂😂 what a respectful way of saying how much he was cheating 😂😂.
"When I would come home to Houston ... no matter if I lived in L.A, Atlanta, wherever it was ... when we saw each other it just felt like home again."
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I read this as she started saying it.
Am I the only one who wants them to be together like right now?! They are so cuteeeee😍😍😍
He looks younger now! He remembered because he probably is still feeling her! 🥰
Beautiful dialogue!! Thank you Toya!! My ex and I broke up 2005. I put him out because I "thought" he was cheating. Turns out he got another job to buy me a ring (found that out while rekindling) 🤦🏾♀🤦🏾♀. Fast Forward to 2018, my son graduates and invites him to the ceremony. We rekindled. Got engaged December 2019 & married December 11, 2020! Thank you Lord for second chances!! ❤
Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! Congratulations!!!
Wow! That’s beautiful!
Awwww ❤️❤️🥹
Good Stuff🤗
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As a therapist, I think that's hilarious 😂 he said, "last time we went to therapy, I won!". Lawd lol you can't win at therapy.
Because he won, they technically both won 🤣🤣🤣
@@robinbrown7611 lol
Lol
😂😂😂
Lol
Ya'll are freaking adorable together! Time has allowed both of you to grow while still maintaining a friendship. My two cents, a committed relationship would be amazing for the two of you.
I smiled the ENTIRE video. The chemistry between you two is undeniable! I wish you both the best!
She is seriously one of the most down to earth people.
She really is.. Love her. We would be best friends. Lolol
Won't he do it. She went against the industry and still came out with a bag. I love her acting. Especially Greenleaf.
So beautiful too. Her first album in 2006 I played TF out period! Lol. 💜💜💜🙏🏾
I blushed this whole interview…I’m here for these two.
Me too!!
Me three .
Me four🙂
Me five 🙋🏽♀️❤️
😂
He’s not joking she got a great personality, she defo needs her own talk show 😉
Y'all are already married. Y’all just don’t know it yet! I thoroughly enjoyed this. Prayer and communication is what was missing earlier, but I’m glad the foundation of friendship still kept y’all connected.
This chemistry is undeniable !!! Slim and Toya belong together.
Yes. He is really attractive!
I smiled the entire time during the interview. Letoya's personality is everything
omg so did i
I love her 😍
💯
Me tooooo!
Me Too🙋🏾♀️
Omg, to describe a person as home?… That is a deep connection to security and love. I love you guy’s friendship for that and having healed, and I am hoping the best because you guys definitely have me blushing way too hard! 😍🥰🥰🥰🥰
You can’t deny the chemistry. I hope they got back together
My Ex husband and I had this conversation and we started hashing everything out and we ended up back together, and he is no longer my Ex 😂
Shiiiit 😂
I love restoration testimonies
@@rishablessed4249 we were blessed to have another couple council us and it is tough but very rewarding!
@@njpme 🤣🤣🤣
That's awesome! Some people are mature enough to have that conversation..Unfortunately, not ever one is..Congrats!!
I love that he pointed out her qualities/personality and it had nothing to do with her beauty.
She has the prettiest skin tone
I love the chemistry between them. Sometimes you have to go full circle in life to realize what's meant and will always be there...
I don't want to be friends with my exes, chile. For those of yall who can, more power to you. I like to learn my lessons without the reminder.
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Preach!!👍🏽
Amen!!💜💜
I agree
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For 18 minutes and 54 seconds I looked like a “joker” with a permanent smile on my face. Lol Please make it official again. You two are PERFECT for each other. Wow, Great Video!
😂 right ?! This was everything! I love LeToya!
Yesssss me too
I smiled thee whole ENTIRE times
hahahahaahah
lmfaoooo omg I just commented the same hella cheesin the entire video hahaha!
I can see them spinning the block they still got them smiles and giggles 😂
I love how they speak highly of each other! i think they should definitely give it another try 💕
It sounds like he is correct with his soulmate theory. I see chemistry there that I never saw you have with the man you did marry. I hope you two can find your way back to each other. Life is short.
Right I didn’t see it with her ex-husband
Yassss ♥️
These two are SOULMATES, and they are opposites of each other. The attraction and chemistry is undeniable and that is how it is when there is a spiritual connection. It is energetic love and attraction.. They absolutely love each other deeply to pieces. They were meant to be together to show the rest of us what unconditional love looks like. ❤
They are so cute. It seems like they both have matured and they have a great friendship. And it's surprising that he was ready for the family life when they were younger.
You can never go backwards to what was, but you both should build something new going forward. You can tell you both are in love with each other. Hella chemistry ❤️
While I don't care to talk to my exes or ask them any questions. I admire Letoya for having this talk.
Just the fact that he calls you his soulmate still, to me says everything. Y'all get it together and get together. Life is too short! If I had the opportunity, I'd take my first love back again in a heartbeat.
Me too, I miss him😩🥰
That part
You bring up an interesting question. I wouldn’t take him back but I’d definitely be a better friend after we ended things. I think it might have helped him.
Yeah. She can't escape that. He ain't going nowhere.
@@kgoldmon Same...I wouldn't go back...it wouldn't be the love story it seems it would be
Leave it to Letoya should be longer. I didn't want the covo to end. Great segment!
You two definitely seem to be destined for a romantic future again!! Love this interview!
This was great... and you two seem perfect for each other... I guess the universe will determine the rest.
agree
They would be a beautiful couple!
not the universe 🙄 ain't she Christian js
Nice. And totally agree.
@Happy Thoughts who did? If you say Jesus you’re 🐌
I just have one word. Chemistry. That’s hard to deny. Thank y’all for being vulnerable in this conversation. Tuned in for sho 🙌🏾❤️
Right..
Definitely!
Facts… it’s beautiful!
Love this
Wow. Going by your profile picture 📸 you definitely favor Latoya. You are Gorgeous sis!!!
Oh and I agree with you on Chemistry.
Awww they got me smiling from ear to ear. Y’all both deserve real love and happiness 🙏🏽❤️
Toya,… BIG SLIM is the One. The chemistry, bond, transparency, friendship, laughter, and love is truly there.. it always has been there.. and will always be there with soulmates. The light in both your eyes and smiles is undeniable. You both have lived, learned and loved - now y’all gonna Grow forth!! Be happy 🦋
This was not the ex i was expecting. But y’all definitely have chemistry!
I think exes can be friends in the right circumstances.
Riiiight!
Exes should never be friends. What kind of logic is that? You’re an ex for a reason. Don’t mess up your new relationship holding on to pieces of a failed one. Smh. I pray for some of y’all ladies FR!
You can definitely tell there’s a genuine friendship between the two of them and the chemistry is undeniable. If they were to get back together, I’ll definitely support it because this interview shows the level of maturity, transparency, and genuine connection!
I see that as well
I agree.
I thought he was married.
@@MoralOrder1 Judging by this interview, he’s very single!
Their chemistry is undeniable!
I love the energy ya’ll bring together , he’s right ya’ll are SOULMATES!!
The chemistry is undeniable. I hope they get back together.
Me too
Hope not 😆
LeToya, STOP PLAYING!!! 😆.....Slim would love your children as his own. The friendship, chemistry, love and respect that you have for each other is already THERE!!!!!. Whether you guys get together or not, this was a good video and thank you for sharing 🙂.
my ex just like this ... he calls me everyday.. he's still my friend that can never change.
This was so grown and healthy. Shouts out to you both.🙏🏾
18 minutes, 55 seconds of THIS conversation....cheeks are hurting! Mine included! LOL! The heart wants, what the heart wants. Even after a decade. Black love is beautiful, especially when you found the one you want to do life with. Thank you for sharing. I'm tuned in!
Yesss
Girlll I couldn’t stop smiling like they was asking me questions😂🤭
Such a wonderful pair.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Cute convo. I’m all in!!
Can we get another couple of episodes with y’all two?? 🤣 I thoroughly enjoyed this!!
Right!! Just give us a few more. Lol
Not gon lie, they gotta do more episodes together. The chemistry is impeccable 🤗
Me too
It's refreshing!!!
Yes!
Its easy for them to talk to each other. Their convo is flowing. I admire those relationships
I think y’all should go for it again!!! I Literally smiled through the whole interview. You guys have a undeniable connection ❤️
Ikr
You know what? She seems like a natural at hosting a show or something. This was pretty good
The chemistry between the two of you is undeniable. I love it.
Love to see these to together
Definitely love the chemistry/friendship between you two. Hope everything plays out however it's supposed to. 💕
“Whoa whoa whoa… this is my side of the street” LeToya is funny 😂 but they still have the chemistry. It’s good they can still converse although they aren’t together. It’s the transparency for me 👏🏾
Chemistry aside, ladies(and some men) someone cheating on you is NOT a regular up and down of a relationship. That's not the standard and I hate that she felt that because they were having disagreements and she chose to remove herself to clear her head that it was an excuse for him to go have sex with other women. We shouldn't blame ourselves for other's lapse in judgment.
Nailed it perfectly well. Yes, they may be soulmates BUT that’s also a huge issue in a relationship.
FACTS
If you “remove yourself” from the relationship we aren’t together! So you don’t get consideration about who else I sleep with. We aren’t together anymore
Love all points made under this thread. You all are right! All made great points.
@@terickastidbits2342 Removing yourself from a negative situation does not mean an exciting of the relationship. It makes no sense to keep going back and forth in a heated moment to no resolution. Sometimes stepping away from the moment allows both parties to calm down and reassess their thoughts and approach. You took my words too literally.
Omg Toya, you better get your man, Sis!! We can see the chemistry from here and y’all look so freaking good together!! Face it, you’re soulmates!
Slim, hmmmm, he remembers a lot of those first moments 😊❤ that's too cute
After watching this again.
It’s clear that the chemistry is through the roof with these two.
Rekindle!!
That's who she should've married. Friendship is the foundation of a relationship. I feel the love and connection through my screen. I LOVE it. ♥️♥️♥️
I heard he had a child during that time and thats what ended the relationship.
Anybody besides Tommy . Her ex husband was in it to use her it was all about her money and taking care his daughter tommy had a whole child he was definitely looking for a come up
Nope. He clearly wasn’t ready and didn’t love her like he could’ve. Friends don’t mean husband.
@@NyhnaLawTarot exactly. The chemistry looks good but he wasn't mature enough at the time. This may be their season now.
Hey Siri play we belong together by Mariah Carey😍😍😍😍😩😭😭😝😝✨✨😍😍😭😭😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Props to not everyone having a toxic relationship with their ex. My ex and I are friends and there is no animosity. You don’t have to hate each other just because y’all split and move on. ❤️❤️❤️
Facts!!
Right on !
This might sound crazy, but my ex is closer to me now than my own brother. We started with a long distance relationship so we didn't have the kind of drama that comes with relationships when you are around each other all the time. We ended it on a good note. The rest is history!
Exactly!! 👍🏼 💯 that's what I say all the time. Some people can't handled it..Any other way but being nasty and difficult for no reason..Wow! WTF
I had a convo with an ex who was the love of my life many years ago. It actually was very nice to catch up and release what hurt us both. We will never get back together but we always be friends ....from a distance.
She’s so goofy and silly😂😍😍 she’s too cute❤️❤️
Can’t wait for these two to get back together, the way they had me grinning like I was in the same relationship lol
Me too, By the end, I was looking like this emoji 👉🏾😁. 🤣🤣
Me t🙏🤦♀️.
Why am I over here smiling from ear to ear? This was definitely a great topic. I look forward to more content from you.
Me toooo 😩
Right, they have more chemistry than she did with her husband.
Me too.
@@sheena171 Say it again. Her x husband was always running from her and slim thug eluded to it. He said that he enjoys her company and that he was never the type to keep running 🏃♂️ from her. Dam they have something special I hope they don't give up on each other.
Same!!😁😁
FIRE! LMAO! These two have CHEMISTRY! PERIOD!
#Letoya get your man! The love is ruminating through the screen!
hell naw .. do you here the controversial statements this man makes?!! He’s disrespectful, misogynistic etc
That she brought him into another level of the industry and helped him get on…💯 Whether or not they connect romantically again, you can tell that he respects her a lot…Friends like that are worth more than gold!
My cheeks hurt from smiling for almost 19 minutes straight😂🥰 Loved this!!!
Me too
They was so cute together and he is still handsome
Me too 🥰🥰🥰
Right
Dana, I know righti!!! Lol
I literally dropped tears of joy for you guys and the hope that us as black men and woman can work through our past hurts and communicate for a better future. Thank you Toya and Big Slim for opening up and being Vulnerable and sharing your story✝️💜 You too are cute together, with God anything is possible
The way y'all are vibing you'd think yall were back together. The chemistry is STRONG!!!
Omg, on the outside it looks like you guys will get married in a few years. The chemistry is there. Toya you look way more happier than when you were married to the other guy.
I sooo want you two to get back together!!! Your chemistry is undeniable!! I love it!!
Love this for her
Because this is the guy she really loves the other nigga just was a settling thing
1000x happier. And Slim has always shown her nothing but Love in his interviews.
The chemistry between them makes me smile.
Me too!! They’re so cute together
Loved this. Keep us in the loop once you two decide to give things another go.
2nd time watching this- and I can look at this over and over! Love it!!!!!!
I was smiling ear to ear watching this. He so fine, she’s the bomb! The relationship would make a lot more since now that y’all are more mature! I feel y’all would value each other more at this point . It would probably work out this go around! Ijs! I love it!
Same here, watching for the second time😍😍😍
Same. He's so handsome, and I was smiling all throughout this.
Me too!! 😂❤
I was the exact same way while watching this 🤗
Me too. I'm still smiling 😃 😊
I smiled the whole time watching and I honestly believe they’re already working on being together.
They are def soulmates.
I kinda felt that too....
This segment was profoundly interesting informative and fun to watch. Keep up the wonderful shows. Dr.Dixon PS Timing is everything LoL
Thank you Latoya! This is a very healthy approach to life!!