What I’ve Learned About Money, Motherhood, & Men
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- Опубликовано: 18 июл 2022
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I know all too well that life doesn’t always go as planned, but my faith and fierce optimism sees me through. So no matter what life throws at me, just Leave It To LeToya! New episodes every Tuesday at 10am PST. #LeaveItToLeToya
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Your personality is just as beautiful as you are. ✨️ You are naturally hilarious and relatable
All FACTS sis!!!!
Loved it. Lol you are so relatable.. I've always been a fan of yours since "Destiny's Child" & it's beautiful to see how far you've come in your life. Keep being you & I'm so happy you have your own RUclips Channel!
Agreed
My sentiments exactly!
LeToya is a beautiful spirit, witty, intelligent, hilarious, and I love your evolution stories. I'm rooting for you sister always.
I'm 52 years old and I love watching you. You have a great personality and are very entertaining...along with spitting some life lessons. God bless you and your little ones.
Welcome to the 50 plus club!👍🏾✌🏾😉🙏🏽
When she said Y’all REALLY DONT’T BELONG TO ME . Y’all belong to god I SHOUTED 🙌🏾🔥🔥 her kids are covered by their mom in god ! People don’t understand how CRITICAL that is anymore
I just truly appreciate her honesty and hilarious personality! I so love celebrities with a realistic mindset that their fans can relate to.
I lived alone since 18.
I taught myself to live below my means because I grew up poor, and struggling unfortunately. Now at 35 I'm so grateful for having the adult real life experiences from 18 until today.
Having no financial and physical support system always since 18 keeps one very humble along with trusting God!👏🏾
I have had the same at 19 years old I never had money 💰 growing up and I had to learn everything myself and no help at all. and still struggling but I would rather do things on my own
We live and we learn!
@@LeaveItToLeToya Thanks for understanding and reading my story!😁
@@elenasekulovski2962 same here I left home at 19 too I went through my share of issues but it taught me the life lessons I needed to grow so I can be an example to my daughters I want them to know they are my greatest accomplishments although I didn't truly get to where I desired to be just yet .
@@elenasekulovski2962 it makes you stronger I didn't grow up with money but I had a hard working mother who did show me that you can do it whether you're alone or married you have to look out for you before you can help anyone else sometimes we neglect and pour ourselves into others so much we don't take time to have some me time it's nothing wrong with needing time alone to reflect and soul search.
Ain’t the enemy online shopping?! So convenient and therapeutic! 😆
Latoya is sooooo beautiful 😍😍😍 she was always the prettiest one in DC. I’m so happy she left that lame he was feeling himself.
You are SO RIGHT!!! Do not say everything you’re thinking to a man. They ask for Honesty, but you must sensor! I did it and it was aHuge mistake! LOL 😂
Oh yes‼️ learned .
Preach🙌🏽
I am still applying this to my marriage.
"It's not about me losing, it's about me getting rid of" FACTS. I hate this narrative that people repeat whenever famous women end/leave relationship like what if the person wasn't anything to be kept??
Credit is definitely something our community is behind the 8ball on because it’s something a majority of us weren’t taught and we learned about through experience. It was definitely nice to see you talk about that, Toya. I’ve been enjoying these episodes
LeToya is funny without trying too hard.
I can tell that your parents raised you Right! You deserve a man who loves and respects you. He will also love your children unconditionally. Just wait on the Lord and be of good courage.
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ "Notice the flags; if they red, Sis, they red" ... I felt that!
I live for these videos. One of the most down to earth, relatable celebrities.
Money is the seed that God places in our hands to be steward over. We can do what makes it grow and take care of our responsibilities or it can seep through your fingers. I was raised to take care of bills 1st and have GOOD credit. I learned to save something each check and utilize some investment options, 401k, IRA, etc, for your emergency needs and my retirement future. Discernment is required for any relationship, God will have to be my choser going forward and reveal all of that person's character and flags, I am divorced too. You are a great Mama Toya, keep learning, sharing your life, and being Amazing for your babies and YOU! Retail therapy is fun until it's not.... Take care❣️✌🏾
This platinum hair on you is so 🔥
Your honesty and willingness to be open is what I admire about you.
Your personality is everything. You're like the big sister I never had
I will gladly be everyone's big sister!
Hey Letoya, thanks for being so transparent. I never liked that saying oh she can't keep a man, like it's a pet or something. In my opinion a wise woman walks away when she has the least amount of things/ time to lose which is usually in the beginning. Keep being you sis
Well, I'm a very wise w👣man. .
The way she said “ if they red, they red “🤣🤣🤣. Her personality is a whole mood 💛
I am still learning how to budget and save. I'm continuing with building a great credit score, creating goals as it relates to life changing purchases. I was married for 9 years and I've been divorced for a year. Starting over has been a challenge. I'm 40 years old with two young kids with my oldest being on the spectrum. When I tell you that God has been our provider and protector!? My God has kept me through it all despite the storm. I get weary and feel uncertain sometimes but my kids and my relationship with God has gotten me through. I pray everyday for strength. Thank you Letoya for this video. I'm enjoying your channel.
“They just wanna be able to… run in to something!” 😂😂😂😂 So true sis! 24/8
Girl I am with you l was the cash queen and my husband established my credit over the years and l thank GOD for that... thank you for being REAL!!!!
LeToya deserves a GREAT MAN! 🤲🏿
It’s not about me losing, it’s about me getting rid of!! Yessssss!!!!
I love your honesty and your personality, you are such a light to this world. This is so helpful, at 32 I feel lost and embarrassed about not knowing certain things earlier and paying for it now. I am glad for videos like this because it helps to not feel so alone. I am working through my challenges and I know better things are coming.
You're never alone!
Better things are coming for you Dyshema you aren't alone keep striving it will happen.
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I can relate girl I’m 32 too and so many things about life I wish I learned earlier but we’ve got to forgive ourselves and give ourselves grace. We didn’t know what we didn’t know.
This conversation has provided so much confirmation for me. My name is Lisa and I started Greendiggers, a new company with the goal of revolutionizing how women discuss money, manage their money, and prepare financially for their future. I’ve seen so many woman struggle in building themselves up financially. We are providing services to all women. Would you please support us by completing this survey: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeW-0aTmSmjJSha-TNUrDaVhtssiwz8GaMdzq5_-ZamR9h2oA/viewform?usp=sf_link
Thanks in advance
True story...I remember many years ago I was shopping/styling a few friends at Club Monoco is the Houston Galleria & you walked up to me and asked for advice on what color top to choose. That is such a memorable moment in my life & all these years l8tr to see your style growth...Fly chica you didn't need my help...lol
Toya, I am with you. It’s not that I do not know how to keep a man. I just don’t tolerate the disrespect & the BS.
Yes budgeting and saving and cancelling out what you want versus what you need.. is a great way to budget life, money, and having relations is a great way balance lessons. Thanks again Miss Letoya you helping people out in these streets... Love it..
Girl that was to funny Uncle Sam gon get his bag & you put your bag back lol 😂
Hey Le Toya 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I'm still struggling to save money...I love retail therapy too but I definitely want to be out of debt
A lot learned and you have me dying laughing with the “ARE YOU A WASTE OF TIME?” Let the church say…..😂😂😂 This channel is really a breathe of fresh air
Your spirit and personality is absolutely amazing.
Yes. I'm definately a spiritual lady and in that area "you can show me better than you can tell me". Many people can talk the talk but can they wall the walk. Love me like Jesus, treat me with kindness and gentleness. Lead by example and il gladly follow.
I pray you and your person find one another.
You are such a Phonmanal Women, beautiful inside out 💜
I can’t help you on budgeting, it’s still a struggle for me too. But I do know that you can’t be a man’s peace, only God can do that. We are not designed to be their peace, nor are they designed to be ours, that’s a God shaped hole to be filled by God alone. So if a man or a woman is asking you to be their peace, that’s the wrong person for you, they must find their peace in God alone. Psalms 62:1-2. God bless sis.
I am a GREAT Woman! A wonderful mom with a great head on my shoulders. Why am I single? Baby, my mouth!………THIS MOUTH??!???? IS RECKLESS. If there’s a fight to start, I’m going to start it. If there’s a rabbit hole up fi down, I’ma go down it! You gave really good advice!
Some men are not going to allow you to understand them. Lots of men Love a beautiful woman knows how to cook please believe it. They rather eat home than eat in a restaurant all the time.Some men are difficult some women are difficult we all have our faults. Sometimes God ..kept us single for a reason. To allow us to continue work on our in a faults..once we are in the relationship , god make sure we are all the way together before reach out and look for a man actually like the man come to you God knows our love lif everything is on God’s timeYou just have to continue love you ..and spend time with You .🙏🏾🙏🏾💖
"You need a cosigner?😝"😂😂😂
I love how candid and open you are! Thank you for this content!
looovvee her that comment about her kids belonging to GOD .. tears rolled right then
You have to believe what the man is telling you. We aren’t saviors. Yes Letoya….. love seeing you back on your feet.
Latoya, just the fact that you realize your "children belong to God" and you are just the vessel to get them here to earth, I had a HAAARD time understanding this, and Im 52yrs old. You're doing good!
That brings a sense of peace and ease once one realises that.
LeTota is very wise for a young woman. You can learn from everyone.
Talking about her spending habits especially when younger was so honest and funny..I could definitely relate.
I am so happy you created this channel! Your honesty and hilarious personality is refreshing🧡!
Glad you're enjoying it as much as I am!!
Love it
She’s drop dead gorgeous!
LeToya I heard about your story with DC today and it's really inspired me what you've overcome and how you kept going. I totally agree about how important it is to leave the wrong man rather than stay when you're miserable. I think a lot of women stay and put up with all sorts of nonsense. My ex was abusive and I've been single since I left 6 years ago, I couldn't bare to deal with that kind of behaviour again. I'm currently out of work so my goal is to return to work and buy a house. I'm good at being frugal but my struggle has always been low income due to managing some health conditions. Glad to have found your videos, I wish you much continued success.
My new favorite day of the week!!!
Toya is absolutely GORGEOUS! Her personality is bomb!
Man I’ve grew up watching you and your journey and to see you and all the ladies of DC thriving makes my heart so happy.
Giiiiiiiiiirl you are so SILLY and I love it. I guess the silliness in me loves the silliness in you! The word of God does say that "Laughter does the heart good like medicine.". I LITERALLY laughed out loud several times like I was talking to you on the phone. Thank you for your transparency. The best is YET to come.🥰🙏🏽
Why didn’t I know her personality was this bomb!!! She’s hilarious
Don’t tell me they were playing Bills Bills Bills while you were in that drive thru
We love you from South Africa
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The question from that blog should of been why can’t men keep you! 😂 love this show Toya!!❤️
You’re a good person and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. It’s ok to be single and like you rightly said, if they don’t act right, you move. Please don’t let your ex husband guilt trip you in anyway, cos why do I feel like almost every episode is a response to him shading you on Instagram, I stand corrected tho. But anyway, you made the right choice and you’ll find the right partner soon🙏🏽
I look forward to this every week! What relatable content. I feel like I am sitting with my friend!
We are all friends here!
You are absolutely an Amazing Woman. There is a saying.. "If you never heal from what hurt you. You'll bleed on the people that never cut you." Find the peace within you, find your Climax without the sex.. Blessings..
I just me some Letoya!! Please don’t change 💜
Girl u have a comedian personality.... You cracking me up..🤣🤣.. I can listen to you on a bad day and feel better... 💕
Toya thats the hardest thing to not be able to have you kids in the same roof everyday. Its been 11 years and its still hard because thats not what I wanted for my child either but what I have just starting to submit to is casting all my cares, burdens, weights that easily beset me(specifically this one) to the Lord. So this will give you rest and peace from the pain. I hope this helps Toya. This is a good video. You hit all the right points. Im glad I subscribed. Take care and you are a good wonderful mommy.
LETOYA ask better questions of the person you allow in to your life because now you are a package deal. Give yourself more personal Grace. You have the internal power to do so. Allow for that within you. Good Luck.
“Song on the radio but I ain’t got 4 quarters” 😂😂😂 I felt that!
I never had a song on the radio but I know what it like to not have 4 quarters 😩😂😂😂
She’s such a comedian 😂😂😂 I’m here for it
The PERFECT girl talk! 🗣❤️
On point like a #2 Pencil. Wise, Intelligent, Gorgeous, and Perceptive. 😍😍😍😍
Yea, I'm still learning. My credit is not good at the moment. I'm stuck in a cycle. I love things and like being accepted. Credit approvals pulled me in...too many to have! Praying for financial stability.
You are correct about time because you can't get it back.
U so Relatable and real!
Thank you for your transparency. I love everything about this channel. I can't wait until the next video!!!
See ya next week!
Same! Keep doing you Toya!!
You are so down to earth! It's like having a convo with a cool homegirl every time!! 💜😊
Child you make me feel like I am siting in the room with my cousin talking and learning about life. Thank you lady for being transparent.
Love this!!! The part about the kids, had me almost shed a tear. I don't have any kids but I have raised a family member, and he's almost 30. One day, the kids will choose will choose you. Permanently. No worries. As for dating, I feel you! I had to laugh about the red flag. I always say, "They're not purple, blue nor green but red and it means stop!" I have been divorced for almost 20 years, and I am ok. Too many guys with issues.
I am here for all of this! Especially the part where you said your children aren't yours, they are God's anyway! Amen!
Hello beautiful young Queen💐✨️😉🙏🏽 there is no judgment here from a wise Queen😁 but you do NOT have to look hard whatsoever you don't even have to focus the red flags are there soon as you meet that man And converse in conversation whether that be vocal or body language. We as women just have a bad tendency of giving person's chance/ Reasons/ Benefit of the doubt! not wanting to believe the negative that we see ,hear and feels right away etc. ...
😂😂😂 she has no business being this damn funny! You can tell she’s in a good place in regards to her spiritual/internal connectedness because sis is THE MOMENT! Are RUclips shows Emmy eligible??…because ma’am
I’m teaching and talking to my kids now about how important credit is. Another great episode.
I feel you girl. I’m right there with you on the money. Help me Jesus
I handle my money like I don’t no what money is . Got plenty of game on it but haven’t fully applied it 🤦🏽♀️ makes me feel like choking myself
The man part…Chile I’m with you! Get rid of, not losing!
I love these videos. It’s great getting to know you. When you said that about your kids not belonging to you they belong to god… wow a word. I am separated but we haven’t divorced yet so I know the pain of splitting two households. Blessings to you and your family.
I’m at work but I’ll leave a thumbs up now and watch later 😊😊
Lolsh, that what I did& now I'm back!...so good.
I love you, if I could be in a room with 5 people it would be , Jay-Z, Tyler Perry, Oprah Winfrey, Lebron James and Latoya Luckett, because you all are sooo real and truthful. You’re relatable on a personal level. Latoya you’re enough. May God continue to Bless and strengthen you and your family for eternity.
I've def been a fan since DC and now I'm to glad to finally get to see your personality shine through! We didn't have social media back then so I had to imagine what my fave singers were like but girl...you are a whole VIBE. Please keep the content coming!!!
Yeah she was my fave on there as well and her personality is just like I imagined it would be. A whole vibe.
"Y'all don't belong to me. Y'all belong to God anyway." Love this 💕
Toya when you speak about your kids & broken home it speaks to my spirit! When plans are derailed in that manner it's so disheartening. Single parenting days are still tough for me as well, even in another relationship but filling the original void is so hard. I guess God will have to step in for us. ❤❤
Agaun I say...LeToya needs her own talk show. She's so personable and interesting to watch.
You really need your own talk show! I love these videos.
You’re so transparent and authentic I can’t help but laugh and wait for another episode .
“My pockets were ashy” 🤣 That part took me out
1:46 🤣🤣🤣 she say pockets was ashy lmaooo😆😆😆🤣🤣 omg that onehit different today lmaoo omg i love toya... Its like listenin to my inner self talk to me lmao
I swear she had me rollin thru this whole video lmao she need her own national talk show frfr
I love the fact you keep it real great advice keep moving forward 💯
You are so candid Letoya. Money is such a tragedy for so many people. I think we all need to learn the money mode. Money is just not compatible with human mode. We have to incorporate Money mode. Different mindset. I think investing helps. I'm no professional and definitely not a Money mogul. Sometimes God has to help with money understanding. Letoya you're such a catch. I think your independence may scare some; but independence is such a great asset. And you're such a good mom. Your concern for your children is impeccable. Yes men do love home cooked meals. Put the love in the food.😄💜
They RED sis took me out 🤣🤣🤣
You just literally saved me from an argument 2 mins ago i literally listened to you and took a beat lol and I sent it in a text……because the Leo in me gon make sure my partner understand how I feel but respectfully…love you toya❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hahaha love this!
@@LeaveItToLeToya Lol😍
But respectfully lol Happy belated or early birthday! ♌️💜
@@tonyapendleton9316 thank you so much❤️
This hair.....I just LOVE it!
I love the way she talked about her children! The way she said they belong to God and the things she wanted them to know and/or learn... truly beautiful and precious to see. I love me so Letoya hunny! 💙
Toya makes me take a chill pill with this RUclips channel. I love it! I’m just here to hear her go off🤣🤣❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣❤️ love you Toya!!!
Yess Shopping is truly THERAPY!!
I like your honesty and real talk