You have to understand with some in Asian culture they don’t want that distraction for their children so they can focus on studies, music and arts. Also, other cultures adopt this as well, when they believe success is related to “turning off the tube”
They had good chemistry ❤️. One thing a woman should never do though is ask another brother to give her man tips on how to please her sexually😬😳. That’s an ego killer.. lol And I believe in therapy. talking to someone about your innermost issues can be beautiful and freeing. But everyone does not have to do therapy with a professional to be emotionally well. Therapy can be journaling, talking to an accountability partner, sitting in nature , praying... self examination... don’t let ppl look down on you if you haven’t been to a professional therapist... and likewise don’t let ppl make you feel bad if you do seek a professional therapist. Nice episode❤️
I probably wouldn't do a "Love is blind" date. I do believe that physical attraction is very important when choosing a partner, though that can grow as you get to know the person.
David is such a lovely guy! He comes across as a kind-hearted gentleman. Aniya is soooooo sweet with such warm and lovely smile. She's beautiful! I think they look good together. I'm rooting for y'all👍🏽👍🏽
It was a bit awkward for me. It was either he was very nervous, has a hard time expressing himself, or trying to hide something. But the chemistry wasn't too bad, I'm sure they will have awesome convos and experiences together.
It sounds like he is doubtful that she forgives easily. I think her mentioning the passive piece was important. Some people just forgive to avoid conflict and that can be just as harmful and not forgiving in the first place
Being able to reminisce about things from your childhood is one of my fav parts of building with someone so the tv show thing was kind of a let down. BUT being able to introduce someone you’re getting to know to something you love is also a lot of fun. I hope they get to share some shows with each other.
I like the vibe between them. Their conversation flowed and with more time I can see them in each other's lives - great friends or more. Good couple in the making. Love seeing cross race relating well.
😆 this made me a happy! They had a nice flow of conversation. She is so silly , I love how she giggled at most of the questions and he just sat there calmly before he answered. I think they will balance each other out nicely. His slow pauses in answering was a little off putting lol I was like umm some of these responses don’t take all that lol but overall he seems sweet, genuine , and calm which is refreshing ! By the way she is very naturally beautiful! I would love to see an update on them !
You can tell he is such a sweetheart & fun! I like this match... Im also writing this mid watch so I haven't seen their decisions yet! LOL Grow & Stay is my hope!
This one was cool, I'm glad we got an intercultural duo! I was a bit unsure about her saying grow and stay, but I am glad that they both chose to do so because they do have a vibe. I also like that these questions were different than the other ones I have seen where they were a bit more chill and simple to answer but still had that same depth 💕.
I find it interesting that she thought he would not be aware of social experiences because he didn't grow up with cable. He didn't say he was in a cage with no friends. Millennials have been so influenced by TV and social media that it makes them look ignorant in the area of real life experiences and what really matters. Her comment revealed her immaturity in life. But I believe she will realize that with more life experiences. Cable and social media won't be valued as much.
Love this conversation and love the cards. I have to say though that we do not pay tithes we return them. I would however say that could be another conversation opener depending on the couple so that could have been intentionally written that way 🤷🏿♀️ I hope.
Some parents give there kids no cable and shelter them from shows like that’s so raven, Harry Potter, or just anything against their own beliefs. Plus his calm personality could also have thrown her off.
Malaika Kirby there was a point when I was growing up that we didn’t have cable because we couldn’t afford it. And then when we could afford cable my parents restricted what I watched. I just wouldn’t have drawn such an extreme conclusion from someone saying they didn’t have cable.
Id be curious to see the reaction if a guy asks his girl not to wear something but she disagrees and wears it anyway. Also, the same in reverse. If a girl asks her guy not to wear something because its immodest in her opinion.
The modesty question should be asked of the men too. Men dress inappropriate at times or non-modestly as well. Having it only asked of women is feeding into this toxic purity culture.
Im a pretty open book so I often wonder how other people navigate what should stay between husband and wife vs inviting someone in. If my sex life was bad and not improving, id absolutely invite other couples or a professional to join the conversation. Ego needs to be put to bed. Sex is an important part of marriage and needs to be addressed
I don’t know I can imagine for a man you don’t want that thrown in your face by an external party. It would be much better if you discussed as a couple and then on your own went and sought council from other brothers and sisters. If necessary. It should not be your spouse telling another person to help you with your sex game. For anyone that’s just embarrassing
@@richild3967 I partially agree with you. I think it’s inconsiderate and cowardly to go behind your spouse’s back and then have them be ambushed with sex tips. Im speaking about a united front. If WE have tried privately and are not making progress then WE need help. It possible someone’s technique needs help, but its just as likely a communication issue that needs the help. Several things could be at play: - Holding back on expressing TRUE desire out of fear of judgement - Not saying that they dont like something to prevent hurt feelings - Pride because you took something personally - Poor listening skills After We have tried on our own, We decide who to talk to & We go be honest with them. And with reaching out for help, your words “thrown in your face” hit me in the gut. If there’s anything that needs male insight, I only discuss it with men my husband trusts and who love our while family.These men have never thrown any of our struggles in our face. We have a marriage community that is just as honest with us as we are with them and no topic has been off limits so far. I know it takes time to build that though.
I would start by having the conversation with my spouse, and then move to the state of tackling the issue by on seeking help from a professional to improve our sex life, not necessarily call in other couples who might be judgemental or biased to our situation
@@tlou6658 judgement is always a possibility. A professional just wont let you see it (SHOULD not let you see anyway). But i def think that if there is not a safe space available, then a professional is best bet. That is just not always an option financially.
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Okay but why am I answering questions in my head as if I'm the one sitting in front of David🤭😏😆
so...are they allowed to ask follow-up questions? It seems like there were a lot of places where more questions could have been asked that weren't necessarily on the cards. Maybe that happened and just wasn't displayed in the video idk
Sexual history is just another part of getting to know someone. Men often times want to know, but can rarely handle the truth well. I also think weaponizing body count for the sake of numbers is trivial, but if its related to something deeper then it can be productive to share.
@@BGLEE001 i cant definitively say the whole history is a must share, but my personal experience does not separate those two ideas. Ive never slept with someone who was not important to me.
@@EbonyShumpert - I see. I think it's important to share about the people in your past that you've had a sexual or emotional entanglement with. But it's important to share if you feel safe with that person and always extend grace.
Interesting... this guy seems very kind and so does she, but he isn’t very straightforward in answering some of these questions, even the simple ones like “do you tithe”. I dunno just something I noticed...
Imma be honest I'd be mad I'd calm down eventually. But at the time I see pornography as cheating. I can show grace and stil be upset and tbh I think I'd or even he'd if he found me watching porn would have the right to be mad.
He had such a kind and gentle demeanor that was really refreshing. Loved most of her responses, too ❤️
MY DUDE DAVID‼️‼️ YOU ROCK BRO‼️
I love this series I low key be answering the questions like I’m being asked lol but keep it up !
Same
OMG!!!! ME TOOOOO😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Then buy the whole truth game cards...
Saammeeeee thought i was the only oneee!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Definitely 😂
-Growing RUclipsr 😊
I think this was sweet. I love that race was not an issue here. Wish them both the best ☺️
Not having cable is not a sheltered thing it's a broke thang. Cable was high back in the day
🤣😂🤣bros😂
When she said that I was done with her. Like little girl bye
@@leahknowsbeauty1168 - Well maybe she's used to having friends with cable and it was just normal. That could be why she was thrown off.
You have to understand with some in Asian culture they don’t want that distraction for their children so they can focus on studies, music and arts. Also, other cultures adopt this as well, when they believe success is related to “turning off the tube”
I came to the comment section to address that! I was like what you mean sheltered?!
They had good chemistry ❤️.
One thing a woman should never do though is ask another brother to give her man tips on how to please her sexually😬😳. That’s an ego killer.. lol
And I believe in therapy. talking to someone about your innermost issues can be beautiful and freeing. But everyone does not have to do therapy with a professional to be emotionally well. Therapy can be journaling, talking to an accountability partner, sitting in nature , praying... self examination... don’t let ppl look down on you if you haven’t been to a professional therapist... and likewise don’t let ppl make you feel bad if you do seek a professional therapist. Nice episode❤️
Amen sis 🙏🏾
❤️❤️❤️
The best therapy is the Bible can I get an amen
Great Episode!! Would you all ever do a “Love is Blind” kind of first date? And they could only see each other if they BOTH chose “grow and stay”?!?
I probably wouldn't do a "Love is blind" date. I do believe that physical attraction is very important when choosing a partner, though that can grow as you get to know the person.
David is such a lovely guy! He comes across as a kind-hearted gentleman.
Aniya is soooooo sweet with such warm and lovely smile. She's beautiful!
I think they look good together.
I'm rooting for y'all👍🏽👍🏽
I loved them both. Very nice energy. However I did feel like they can be friends but i could not see any special connection
yes i am reading the comment while I am watching. lol
This was lovely. Their personalities match and the conversation flowed
I think the diversity in the body of Christ is beautiful, great job ✝️
👑👑👑
It was a bit awkward for me. It was either he was very nervous, has a hard time expressing himself, or trying to hide something. But the chemistry wasn't too bad, I'm sure they will have awesome convos and experiences together.
I love how calm they both are. Very refreshing ✨
Omggggg wow, I feel like this was so natural. I wish y’all the best and God bless y’all!
It sounds like he is doubtful that she forgives easily. I think her mentioning the passive piece was important. Some people just forgive to avoid conflict and that can be just as harmful and not forgiving in the first place
Bingo, I agree
This is so true
Forgiveness is heart based not just to say you forgive...there has to be a full clear peace about it given by God
I love seeing young couples like my self discover healthy relationships.
Being able to reminisce about things from your childhood is one of my fav parts of building with someone so the tv show thing was kind of a let down. BUT being able to introduce someone you’re getting to know to something you love is also a lot of fun. I hope they get to share some shows with each other.
Hey ebony
@@Weneed2talktv hey!! Love watching these 🤗
I like the vibe between them. Their conversation flowed and with more time I can see them in each other's lives - great friends or more. Good couple in the making. Love seeing cross race relating well.
😆 this made me a happy! They had a nice flow of conversation. She is so silly , I love how she giggled at most of the questions and he just sat there calmly before he answered. I think they will balance each other out nicely. His slow pauses in answering was a little off putting lol I was like umm some of these responses don’t take all that lol but overall he seems sweet, genuine , and calm which is refreshing ! By the way she is very naturally beautiful! I would love to see an update on them !
I agree their convo. was refreshing and it was natural.. I also take pauses and think before answering a question.. don't know about his reasons tho.
Love showing the diversity!
You can tell he is such a sweetheart & fun! I like this match... Im also writing this mid watch so I haven't seen their decisions yet! LOL Grow & Stay is my hope!
This one was cool, I'm glad we got an intercultural duo!
I was a bit unsure about her saying grow and stay, but I am glad that they both chose to do so because they do have a vibe.
I also like that these questions were different than the other ones I have seen where they were a bit more chill and simple to answer but still had that same depth 💕.
I find it interesting that she thought he would not be aware of social experiences because he didn't grow up with cable. He didn't say he was in a cage with no friends. Millennials have been so influenced by TV and social media that it makes them look ignorant in the area of real life experiences and what really matters. Her comment revealed her immaturity in life. But I believe she will realize that with more life experiences. Cable and social media won't be valued as much.
I like his voice. He sounds like he would make a good voice actor or musician
Love this conversation and love the cards. I have to say though that we do not pay tithes we return them. I would however say that could be another conversation opener depending on the couple so that could have been intentionally written that way 🤷🏿♀️ I hope.
Yes come on Adventures in the Book of Virtues! Lol Zach and Annie were always tripping for real
He seems so kind and special!
Black folks will point out racial differences in a heartbeat 🤔
How many of us have been able to live a life without them being pointed out to us?
You still treat ppl the way you expect to be treated.
@@stepahead5944 that's not an excuse.
This conversation was refreshing
Grow and stay. Yeah💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
This was relaxing 😄😁
I love them. He is cool and has a great personality.
Those were some really great questions!
how did she get sheltered from him not having cable??
Some parents give there kids no cable and shelter them from shows like that’s so raven, Harry Potter, or just anything against their own beliefs. Plus his calm personality could also have thrown her off.
Malaika Kirby there was a point when I was growing up that we didn’t have cable because we couldn’t afford it. And then when we could afford cable my parents restricted what I watched. I just wouldn’t have drawn such an extreme conclusion from someone saying they didn’t have cable.
It’s a fair question but it’s usually not as deep as being sheltered,
I got either his parents were strict or they struggled financially
Can y'all pls do a virtual version and take it beyond the statesss! London is interested :)
No thanks london women dnt like regular Christian men
@@kwameopoku3576 huhh? what do you mean by "regular Christian men"?
Marie I’m also intrigued to know what a “regular christian” man is.... and why aren’t we interested in them loool
Id be curious to see the reaction if a guy asks his girl not to wear something but she disagrees and wears it anyway. Also, the same in reverse. If a girl asks her guy not to wear something because its immodest in her opinion.
Yeah, I wanted her to ask him the question as well
They look adorable together. This was nice! 😇
I watched Adventures From the Book of Virtues growing up too.
The modesty question should be asked of the men too. Men dress inappropriate at times or non-modestly as well. Having it only asked of women is feeding into this toxic purity culture.
Im a pretty open book so I often wonder how other people navigate what should stay between husband and wife vs inviting someone in. If my sex life was bad and not improving, id absolutely invite other couples or a professional to join the conversation. Ego needs to be put to bed. Sex is an important part of marriage and needs to be addressed
I don’t know I can imagine for a man you don’t want that thrown in your face by an external party. It would be much better if you discussed as a couple and then on your own went and sought council from other brothers and sisters. If necessary. It should not be your spouse telling another person to help you with your sex game. For anyone that’s just embarrassing
@@richild3967 I partially agree with you.
I think it’s inconsiderate and cowardly to go behind your spouse’s back and then have them be ambushed with sex tips. Im speaking about a united front. If WE have tried privately and are not making progress then WE need help. It possible someone’s technique needs help, but its just as likely a communication issue that needs the help. Several things could be at play:
- Holding back on expressing TRUE desire out of fear of judgement
- Not saying that they dont like something to prevent hurt feelings
- Pride because you took something personally
- Poor listening skills
After We have tried on our own, We decide who to talk to & We go be honest with them.
And with reaching out for help, your words “thrown in your face” hit me in the gut. If there’s anything that needs male insight, I only discuss it with men my husband trusts and who love our while family.These men have never thrown any of our struggles in our face. We have a marriage community that is just as honest with us as we are with them and no topic has been off limits so far. I know it takes time to build that though.
I would start by having the conversation with my spouse, and then move to the state of tackling the issue by on seeking help from a professional to improve our sex life, not necessarily call in other couples who might be judgemental or biased to our situation
@@tlou6658 judgement is always a possibility. A professional just wont let you see it (SHOULD not let you see anyway). But i def think that if there is not a safe space available, then a professional is best bet. That is just not always an option financially.
Okay but why am I answering questions in my head as if I'm the one sitting in front of David🤭😏😆
Great match right there...love it😀👌
Blk folks love playing life guard at the pool. 🤦🏽♀️ My fam does that all the time
Facts. My first time in the deep end of a pool was getting thrown in as a kid lol.
she has an amazing smile if it doesn't work out with him she can hit me up
Cute. Good luck!
cable, sheltered LOL nah man. Like them together though
Love his response to finding pornography questions: How can we walk through this together
so...are they allowed to ask follow-up questions? It seems like there were a lot of places where more questions could have been asked that weren't necessarily on the cards. Maybe that happened and just wasn't displayed in the video idk
Sexual history is just another part of getting to know someone. Men often times want to know, but can rarely handle the truth well. I also think weaponizing body count for the sake of numbers is trivial, but if its related to something deeper then it can be productive to share.
Is sharing the whole history important or certain relationships that left a certain impact on you more important to share?
@@BGLEE001 i cant definitively say the whole history is a must share, but my personal experience does not separate those two ideas. Ive never slept with someone who was not important to me.
@@EbonyShumpert - I see. I think it's important to share about the people in your past that you've had a sexual or emotional entanglement with. But it's important to share if you feel safe with that person and always extend grace.
Cutteee
"Bring in a witness or two"😂
You don't have to give to a church to tithe you can regularly give to the poor or give people the 2nd sweater you have.
Love that they didn't mention race. In God's church there is neither .... 🙏🏾
I think when she said a witness meaning a therapist.
The intro 😂
He's a very sweet man, she is a very nice woman. Why not be adventurous and date outside of your norm?
I'm gonna be *that* person:
The cherry tree was George Washington.
Lols it's sad cause I know what show he's talking about they use to play those in Texas at my elementary school.
Interesting... this guy seems very kind and so does she, but he isn’t very straightforward in answering some of these questions, even the simple ones like “do you tithe”. I dunno just something I noticed...
Imma be honest I'd be mad I'd calm down eventually. But at the time I see pornography as cheating. I can show grace and stil be upset and tbh I think I'd or even he'd if he found me watching porn would have the right to be mad.
ya'll not today is still kind of rude. i feel like the sign should just say no I'm good. to make it easier to say no lol