I hope you enjoyed my video, "The Right And Wrong Moves When A Woman Rejects You (No Drama)" Watch this dating advice video next, "If a woman rejected you or broke your heart SHOULD YOU STOP DATING?" ruclips.net/video/hm3UhoatSgU/видео.htmlsi=3veB_CCM7DNVFcDm Resources ❤ Have a situation you want almost FREE help with? Join my RUclips membership! $5/mth US, cancel anytime. Members' comments are shown to me first. Try not to make your comment a novella! Join here: ruclips.net/channel/UCEfwUiuU69mS19aJ_SveqDAjoin WakeUP2Luv GET AN AMAZING GIRLFRIEND! ("Life-changing!" ~ Steve B. "Soon after finishing the program I got a girlfriend." ~ members.wingmam.com/get-women/ One-on-one coaching? Click here: wingmam.com/relationship-marriage-coach/ The only online therapy I trust FOR MEN! wingmam.com/online-therapy/ (Discount available!) Get Your Testosterone Checked! wingmam.com/blog/2020/02/10/fellas-do-you-have-low-testosterone/ (Discount available!) Or USE THIS DIRECT LINK WITH 25% WINGMAM SUBSCRIBER DISCOUNT: trylgc.com/anna HINT: Healthy testosterone helps with mood, energy, confidence, assertiveness, and weight management! There are fake AIs of "me" endorsing products; I only promote things I believe in through my websites (www.wingmam.com; www.members.wingmam.com) or in a YourWingmam YT video on this or my @WingmamClips channel. I'll never ask you to contact me anywhere else or ask for money. Those are impersonators using my photo and a similar YT handle. *Please report fake accounts wherever you find them.* Only official account for PayPal donations: www.paypal.com/paypalme/wingmam Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE. God loves you and so do I! You got this.
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I got rejected by a woman at work about a year ago. I thanked her for her honesty, and joyfully got on with my day. At least I had a conclusion and knew where I stood. When I bump into her now, I just treat her the same as before. She did nothing wrong. I'll never validate their rejection by being petulent and making them feel as if they've dodged a bullet. And if she changes her mind, it leaves the door open for her to act. But.......I will NEVER ask twice. By asking once, I played my part, and removed the need to simp. Just ask them once, then leave them alone.
Be careful about work relationships. If you have higher work status, you should expect a "Me Too" complaint from now to 30 years from now. Read the "Me Too" allegations against politicians. If she has more status, then if she asks you you have potential for a promotion.
@@crimestoppers1877 Yeah we work in totally different departments, and hardly see each other during the course of an average day, so there's no problem there. I'd never ask someone who's under my feet all day long. Too complex.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
So true! I've mentioned this in the past but I posted over 300 videos over the course of over 3.5 years before I made $1 on RUclips. It's not the same but it did take stamina to keep going. My IT has told me I'm the only person she's worked with who didn't give up after a year. If something matters, keep trying, learning, revising. Take a break if you start to get resentful. Work on yourself instead. Get better not bitter. #stepsoffsoapbox 🫣
@@YourWingmam How about this one? Did you think I was interested in a date? I have a girlfriend? I know someone, who be perfect for you. I can tell him about you. He might be the one for you? Yes, I have used this one. There are many more responses that will force her to introspect.
Most women are entitled and selfish. Their desire is to be desired. they will string you along just to stroke their ego without any intention to genuinely get close to you its tough when you think you are on a good thing. Remember try to act more like a cat than a dog. Give attention on your own terms.
@@YourWingmam Are you thinking of doing a video next to a blob of poop?! LOL. Just kidding! 2024, Happy Thanksgiving to you and to your family. {from the USA}.
Take a breather and work on improving your life somewhere it needs it. Rejection kicks the crap out of self-esteem and can cause a vicious downward cycle. Do *any* one of the things in this video you haven't already tried... *trust me, very potent!* This may be my most under rated video: ruclips.net/video/dOuO0oD1U2w/видео.htmlsi=lX4cMcxjNnLercoa
If you’re getting rejected over and over again, it’s you. Not a problem, women are complicated. Babe Ruth was one of the greatest home run hitters of all time but what people don’t know is that he also held the record for the most strikeouts. Here’s my take Don’t chase women. If you chase them they will run. Act busy and be busy. Ignore her and she will see you are driven. I ignore women and it drives them mad. Acknowledge them with a smile but don’t say a fking word and go about your business. She will follow you. A woman wants what she can’t have. This is actually really sad but if I wear a wedding ring I get more attention. No ring means less value and women try to imagine themselves in your presence. On your arm, in your car and in your house. Wealth isn’t the issue but her being comfortable in your world is. Don’t be needy man. Needy means nice, too nice and it’s about respect. Women don’t love who they don’t respect. Women have respect issues but they all subconsciously understand respect. It’s why they go for the bad boy. Not only is he perceived as one that can treat her like she wants in the bedroom but the dangerous element of his personality brings out in her a level of respect. Who do women respect the most? Their fathers. Women are genetically programmed to follow a man who will pick up where daddy left off. It’s possible you’re being rejected by women who have respect issues or you’re too nice or both. But like the wingman said, you work on you and I think the best way to do that is to make yourself into a high value man. Study Alpha, beta and sigma males. I guess there’s a gamma too but most men are either alpha or beta. I believe that you can change your personality to match something that you want to be. Personally I prefer being in the classification known as Sigma. Women chase sigma’s because they tend to be aloof and they exhibit a certain level of mystery and that’s exciting for them. Mystery novels wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for women being attracted to read them. It’s like I said before, a woman tries to place herself in your world, just make that a place that is comfortable for her and with your mysterious nature she will think she hit the jackpot landing you!
I always always ask myself if I'll still be bothered when I'm in my death bed years from now. I once worked in a hospital and would often hear the elderly patients reflect on their lives, and it helped to hear their perspective. A lot of men grow up with the belief that a partner will complete them or validate their life's efforts etc. It puts us automatically at a major disadvantage. It's important to eliminate this belief while not trying to do the counter opposite just to spite it. Having spent much of my life unknowingly following this belief I can say it's a huge obstacle that stops you from living authentically.
“keep you’re keeper“ ... LOVE THAT❤️ You’re helping so many men of high value too embarassed to ask for relationship advice because of our egos! I’ve followed you for a long time but RN I’m trying to keep my keeper so thanks for reminding me I need my WINGMAM🙌👍😎
She’s not rejecting “you”, she doesnt know you enough to know what she’s rejecting. She’s rejecting the idea of a relationship at that moment. It might not have anything to do with you. She could’ve had a bad day and just wants to be left alone. Don’t take personal. Smile, thank her for her time and move on.
Anna, you give the most valuable guidance for improving my relationships with women. Now I have a community of high value women that I have built positive relationships, which are mutually supportive. I am very appreciative, Respect! You are the best Anna! May God bless you and keep you.
I used to be afraid of rejection but only because my first real relationship ended up with her putting me down for the last year. So I put myself in thy FZ for the next couple years. Well eventually and with the grace of online dating, I evolved into a man independent man. Ultimately I do not accept rejection.. rejection is just a reaction and is not validated until you react.
@@YourWingmam It was a very short answer…. Yes, I quit approaching, I just learned to play stand up bass and joined a C&W band, met a number of women that way, dated a few, married one. They come up to me. Not as many in my 50s as when I was in my 30s.
Anna, if you ask a serious question, you deserve whatever sort of answer I can come up with. I went back to the "earlier" part of the video to compare your hair with the part where you asked about it. Whatever difference there is, it's too subtle for me to have noticed. That said, your hair always looks great, especially compared to mine, which is extinct over three-fourths of my head. I like the color especially.
@@YourWingmam Yes -- my wife of fifty years' standing laughs at my haircut, which is very, very short. Back when I had hair, it was very unruly. Truth to tell, I don't miss it at all.
Since you asked, I love your hair from the color to the way it looks soft and silky. It reminds me of my sisters even though hers was a light brunette. I also enjoy your personality in your videos.
What you do is remarkable in that you are always positive, this one doesn’t apply to me because I don’t initiate maybe that’s an avoidance mechanism, however when I relent problems ensue, I don’t mind rejection , when I do it I just become less attentive . Thanks,GB
Found this video very helpful. In the middle of the scenario at the moment, only been seeing her for 2 months and it was platonic but we had a great connection and so much in common. She broke it off. I found most of the points in the video very helpful. Thanks!
Glad it helped! Not every situation or relationship is meant to be something more. Hopefully, it helped. You become more comfortable with women in general which will also help with the next one. Feeling at ease with women makes women feel at ease with you.
Anna, you ALWAYS look great!!! Just an average American here but my compliment for you is anything but😊 Great Job on your hair and thank you again for being here for us guys💙
I like how spontaneous you are. And yes, your hair looks amazing. Your videos are always helpful and entertaining at the same time. Have a great day! 😊😊😊
Anna, I think you always look wonderful and I love your hair and the color RED! Your lit'l impromptu interaction at the end with a few strangers was cute and bubbly as well. 💫
Hi Anna. Thank you again for an enlightening video. Much appreciated. You asked me for my vote on your hair style so here it is: either hair style makes you look great! Just don't shave your head unless it's necessary for a medical treatment. Then it's necessary. Yes, you certainly were distracted today. The video ending illustrates this, but thanks anyway for the ending. It was different and showed us some behind-the-scenes scenes.
Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for the feedback! It always takes a long time to film in public because of distractions or interruptions but I don’t mind (it’s a public space after all). Glad you like the behind the scenes bit!
One of the most frustrating things about rejection is when it is YOU that was the reason, but because the person wants to avoid confrontation, you won't get any feedback on whether or not it's something you'd like to improve on yourself
Yes, agreed. And the reason women are often not honest about that is because they’ve had poor reactions in the past doing so. The only way you may be able to get around it with some, but not all, women is to let them know you’d like to learn and grow, and promise not to react poorly to honest feedback. You may find there are things a woman doesn’t like about you that *you do like about you* and it’s simply not a right fit.
The problem is solved for me. 😊 I work 8 hours a day, hold contact whit my family and friends, and after a 11 years marriage and a ugly divorce not approach any women. I done with women at all, and I feel myself well. But if you want approach women 7/24 good luck my brother.
The smartest way to handle a rejection is when she turns you down you just say ok see you around it's been nice knowing you and move on and do not give het a chance to say but we can be friends and if she does just say no we can't
im like 32 and so far i have only gotten rejected by all girls i like, Gonna focus on myself for a while and try again asking somebody to a date when im 34.
Key point....perseverance and Kindness❤ just happened to me on internet site........just ordered your memoir book, dating is SALES, you are selling yourself. 40 yrs successful sales, and I never got dating right...go figure....thanks Anna, you are fun and inspiring!!!
@@YourWingmam Your welcome. You've done so much for us. Thank you for all that you do. From what I see and hear you are kind, caring, and a lovely person. Keep being you. You are enough. All the best to you.
De rien! Glad you enjoyed it! I recently met a young gentleman from France who wants to start a self-improvement channel...if this is you, do it! If this is not you, do it? lol jk but do pursue your dreams whatever they may be!
I mentioned in the comments of the previous video about my ex monkey branching. I did probably all the wrong things before going into no contact. For about 14 months things were tough, I tried to keep my hopes up but different things always seemed to drag me back down, trouble with work, family, dating etc. At the same time I heard from mutual friends that my ex was still going strong with her new guy and that she actually moved to him. Around 2-3 months ago something took a turn and life has eased down on me it feels like, I still work hard and improve myself but now I am actually enjoying life. I shine in a different way around my friends now, I started doing dance classes and I am having a blast. I talk to people at the dance and there are some girls I'd like to know better. But I am in a position where I feel no stress about it. I really live my best life at the dance classes and for the first time in a long time I am enjoying myself and am curious about what life holds for me. Regarding the hair, it's different but not in a bad way. Looking amazing no matter what. You got a certain vibe and appeal that just works
Thank you for the compliment! What makes me happiest about your comment is your renewed zest for life! Love that! I hope it inspires other men. I can talk all day long about getting back out there *for you* but it’s your experience that proves it can be done even without a woman on your arm. Bravo!
I love the video - especially the location! The weather must be awesome up there. It may be a little off topic, but your self-improvement and reaching out to others suggestion made me think of doing something for someone who really needs it to help you put your rejection into perspective. Some retail therapy always helps. Well done!
Thanks, it is a lovely location! Filmed before a recent mega storm. And nice of you to think of helping someone else...win-win! If you have Black Friday sales, now is the time for retail therapy lol
I always love your videos, thank you for such great content! I quite liked the "blooper reel" sort of thing at the end too 🤣 Quality content as always and I'm trying out your advice as I'm single at the moment, so thank you! x
So Anna, the pretty background was one thing - but while sat in the car the lighting (and the all grey background) showed off your hair/eye colour and skin, to great effect i might add.
*It’s crucial to show maturity by gracefully accepting the rejection, rather than getting defensive or trying to convince her otherwise. This will leave a positive impression, even if things don't work out.*
Get the dog anyway. If future woman doesn't like dogs, that's a red flag IMHO. If her approval of you is challenged by the presence of your dog, she isn't truly into you and she isn't worth your time. As a young man, rejection in any context (love, business, whatever) was brutally painful. It's not fun now, but as you said, rejection is an opportunity to introspect and grow more. And, yes, if it doesn't work out, God has something better for you if you are willing to trust Him! The hair: gorgeous, just like the rest of you. It amazes me that whatever you do to your hair, (minimal) eye makeup, or attire, you always look fantastic. We are constantly told that women over 50 cannot compete with women in their 20s for beauty, but here you are consistently stunning. Bravo! -- Russ P PS/The chill is in the air and I'm cooking for 7 on Thursday. Odds are good I'll be exhausted on Friday.
@cazzawazzawoowoo1600 If you hold off on the dog in fear that maybe you'll find an allergic woman (which is fairly rare), where do you stop? Do you stop eating meat because she might be vegan? Do you convert to Buddism because she might be Buddist? Don't worry about what she might be. Be your best you (including your dog). If she isn't compatible with you, she isn't the lady for you. She may be great -- but she isn't yours. Keep going. Pet the dog and keep going.
Thank you for your generosity, kind words, and prayers, Russ! Agreed, live your life the way you want and if she’s right she’ll fit right in. Same for those who have allergies or other preferences, the right partner won’t have pets you’re allergic to. Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy the time with your loved ones-it’s worth a nap day! ;)
Hey Anna, Great video! I'd like to ask - what are your thoughts on remaining friends with / becoming closer friends with a woman who you've asked out in the past? I have a really great friend who, about a year ago, I asked out and she told me she wasn't sure about her feelings toward me and wasn't ready to commit to anything. We both handled the situation really well (she's told me that she thinks I'm very emotionally intelligent and was very mature about handling the rejection) and we are good friends to this day. We've become closer recently and we really enjoy spending time together. I know that some people will say men can't be genuine friends with women, but I would generally disagree. What do you think?
I had a huge reaction from my exwife. I waited 2 years and then sent her new husband my huge thanks for caring about her in her decline providing a safe foster home, whilst I had fun with her in her prime
The opposite of love isn't hate but indifference. Anything other than that gives away your inner power. Don't let her memory take up real estate in your mind. :)
@@YourWingmam Don't worry, I learned my lesson, enjoy life, feel perfect alone, but feel good I got rid of her, and all illusions, before she hit the wall, Now a problem of somebody else
@@RickTheClipper Yep. I told my ex wife she was making a huge mistake with a divorce and that I actually felt sorry for her. That just further enraged her. She was going through early menopause. It radically changed her personality. She went from carefree and chill to a raging lunatic. Spiteful. Vengeful. She couldn't sleep for months. Loss of estrogen and oxytocin made her insufferable. She was not the same person. I kept telling her to get medical help which just further enraged her. I told her you carry out this divorce, I will never take you back, and we will never have any contact ever again whatsoever. I meant it and still to this day never contacted her. Sometimes you just have to walk away. Divorcing her was the best thing to happen to me. I am happier, healthier, and far more wealthy.
I would be happy to be rejected at this point. Me not being rejected means more $ out of my pocket. It’s cold but true. So much for me having my stuff together!! I welcome rejection at this point!! 😂
Hi Anna, thank you 🙏for simply being so we can watch your videos. God bless 🙏you! Your hair 👌is fantastic and you have a lovely personality! 💙May I ask that are you of Swedish or Norwegian origin?
Truthfully I don't think long term relationships are the norm now. Sure there are a few. But I have never meet anyone I would commit the rest of the life I have remaining. Nobodys fault really, just reality.
Almost everything u do is right when she all in for ya. And even if u do wrong it’s emotional drama and turmoil which brings addiction. It’s still all bad cause not all women into the toxic games
Rejection used to bother me in the extreme. Lately, the last 4 or 5 years, after I decided that I really don't care, ( surviving cancer helped a good deal with that ) the women that do reject me somehow end up following me around... a lot ! I'll be 70 this next year. Does that have a bearing, maybe ?
I left the job I was rejected in and went no contact after months of dating. Idk it felt weird to do the stuff cuz I was extra and didn't want to be stepped on as the "friend" was that bad
[10:15] the list. Chances are, if you wanted to break up with her you'd arrange things so that she broke up with you, to spare yourself drama. So, this way, she's saved you time by getting it done ahead of schedule.
Dear Anna: Happy Sunday, darlin'! How is life treating you? How rude of people to interrupt you while you are performing such a geat service to thousands!!! And by the way, hair looks amazing. Real quick, what is your favorite omelette? Just curious since you brought it up. Great video again. I must say, at this point in my life, I sometimes find rejection as a blessing. If she did not want me, it was not going to work out even if I begged for the opportunity to change her mind. Best to save time, money and headaches. That is all for today. I am off to go for a run. I need to start a calorie deficit since I will be stuffing myself on Thursday for Thanksgiving. Speaking of which; Anna, my pretty pen pal from Canada. I want you to know that I am thankful for you and all that you do. I hope you have an amazing week, and I am already looking forward to next week's video. You looked beautiful in this video. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You rock, Anna!!!!
Happy Sunday, Joe, and almost Thanksgiving! Hmm, omelet...at this moment, wild-caught salmon, goat cheese, chives. ;) This: "If she did not want me, it was not going to work out even if I begged for the opportunity to change her mind." Truth! Thank you so much for your kind words, I appreciate you, being here and always leaving a positive comment!
@@YourWingmam You're looking at it the wrong way round. The line is empty. Nothing to see here, move along. I did find a red head and ran slowly. My middle daughter got dumped about a month ago, after three years of relationship, and all I could tell her was it wasn't in my skill set. The custody battle should heat up shortly; his family said if they broke up that they would claim her. Great what you are doing for fellas.
I think one of the funniest rejection I had myself was this woman I met from eharmony. She told me on the date she hates anything with violence. I thought okay so I asked at the end if she had a good time and if she’d consider a second date. She said okay and I said I’ll text her in a few days and she made this bizarre text about how she wanted to avoid violence or anything to do and that somehow I was a violent person. I was completely puzzled and confused.
Some of your advice is based on the assumption that there’s still contact post rejection. Anyone who respects himself should terminate the “situationship” or the pursuit and not look back. You shouldn’t care about what she thinks or how she feels after she rejected you. The ship has sailed at that time.
@ you’re welcome! I just lived through this situation a couple of months ago, so I spoke from experience. What you mentioned resonated with me for the most part. However, I made the conscious decision of cutting all contact once I realized I couldn’t keep beating a dead horse. Anything I’ve been doing post breaking point has been for me, not for her to realize what she lost. Keep up the good work!
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Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE. God loves you and so do I! You got this.
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I appreciate your advice as a lonely widow browsing a senior dating site. My growth has been excellent. Don’t even mind to say my public face DogGarageSale. What do you think of my story.
I got rejected by a woman at work about a year ago.
I thanked her for her honesty, and joyfully got on with my day. At least I had a conclusion and knew where I stood. When I bump into her now, I just treat her the same as before. She did nothing wrong. I'll never validate their rejection by being petulent and making them feel as if they've dodged a bullet.
And if she changes her mind, it leaves the door open for her to act.
But.......I will NEVER ask twice. By asking once, I played my part, and removed the need to simp.
Just ask them once, then leave them alone.
Be careful about work relationships. If you have higher work status, you should expect a "Me Too" complaint from now to 30 years from now. Read the "Me Too" allegations against politicians. If she has more status, then if she asks you you have potential for a promotion.
This! Yes, 100%!!
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Yeah we work in totally different departments, and hardly see each other during the course of an average day, so there's no problem there. I'd never ask someone who's under my feet all day long. Too complex.
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@@noelgibson5956 There’s a lot of universities and colleges with “nepotism”. I was surprised how many favours get proposed with the Human Resources
Anna is one of the best therapists 😊 on the internet for relationship issues.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Unless you get lucky, failure is part of every process! You could say if you're not failing you're not trying!
So true! I've mentioned this in the past but I posted over 300 videos over the course of over 3.5 years before I made $1 on RUclips. It's not the same but it did take stamina to keep going. My IT has told me I'm the only person she's worked with who didn't give up after a year. If something matters, keep trying, learning, revising. Take a break if you start to get resentful. Work on yourself instead. Get better not bitter. #stepsoffsoapbox 🫣
To quickly flip the script, let her know you started seeing someone else and were debating breaking things off…thank her for ending it.
Genius move
Love it!!! Bye, Felicia
@@YourWingmam How about this one? Did you think I was interested in a date? I have a girlfriend? I know someone, who be perfect for you. I can tell him about you. He might be the one for you? Yes, I have used this one. There are many more responses that will force her to introspect.
Most women are entitled and selfish. Their desire is to be desired. they will string you along just to stroke their ego without any intention to genuinely get close to you its tough when you think you are on a good thing.
Remember try to act more like a cat than a dog.
Give attention on your own terms.
@@joshuasarfati5520 Of course this is what women are about. Watch and listen to their behaviors.
When she says, "it's me" (this goes the other way), I'd say believe them and move on graciously. Trust me, you'll be happier in the long run.
Yep, just move onward and upward.
Yes exactly.
I can agree with this.
I've also found that most of the rejecters were not happy anyway and my being there wouldn't have changed this.
Totally agree!
Thank you for the great video! You're hair looks great!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate that 🙏
Best coach ever
❤️ 🙂 I appreciate that!
Great background Anna, love the location for this one!
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Glad you like it!
@@YourWingmam Are you thinking of doing a video next to a blob of poop?! LOL. Just kidding! 2024, Happy Thanksgiving to you and to your family. {from the USA}.
What do you do when you're following these steps and the rejections are relentless
Take a breather and work on improving your life somewhere it needs it. Rejection kicks the crap out of self-esteem and can cause a vicious downward cycle. Do *any* one of the things in this video you haven't already tried... *trust me, very potent!* This may be my most under rated video: ruclips.net/video/dOuO0oD1U2w/видео.htmlsi=lX4cMcxjNnLercoa
If you’re getting rejected over and over again, it’s you. Not a problem, women are complicated. Babe Ruth was one of the greatest home run hitters of all time but what people don’t know is that he also held the record for the most strikeouts. Here’s my take
Don’t chase women. If you chase them they will run.
Act busy and be busy. Ignore her and she will see you are driven. I ignore women and it drives them mad. Acknowledge them with a smile but don’t say a fking word and go about your business. She will follow you.
A woman wants what she can’t have. This is actually really sad but if I wear a wedding ring I get more attention. No ring means less value and women try to imagine themselves in your presence. On your arm, in your car and in your house. Wealth isn’t the issue but her being comfortable in your world is.
Don’t be needy man. Needy means nice, too nice and it’s about respect. Women don’t love who they don’t respect. Women have respect issues but they all subconsciously understand respect. It’s why they go for the bad boy. Not only is he perceived as one that can treat her like she wants in the bedroom but the dangerous element of his personality brings out in her a level of respect. Who do women respect the most? Their fathers. Women are genetically programmed to follow a man who will pick up where daddy left off. It’s possible you’re being rejected by women who have respect issues or you’re too nice or both. But like the wingman said, you work on you and I think the best way to do that is to make yourself into a high value man. Study Alpha, beta and sigma males. I guess there’s a gamma too but most men are either alpha or beta. I believe that you can change your personality to match something that you want to be. Personally I prefer being in the classification known as Sigma. Women chase sigma’s because they tend to be aloof and they exhibit a certain level of mystery and that’s exciting for them. Mystery novels wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for women being attracted to read them. It’s like I said before, a woman tries to place herself in your world, just make that a place that is comfortable for her and with your mysterious nature she will think she hit the jackpot landing you!
@@YourWingmam Yes, I agree! Ambivalence coupled with not giving them the attention they seek, works like a magnet. Focus on your life and not women.
I always always ask myself if I'll still be bothered when I'm in my death bed years from now. I once worked in a hospital and would often hear the elderly patients reflect on their lives, and it helped to hear their perspective.
A lot of men grow up with the belief that a partner will complete them or validate their life's efforts etc. It puts us automatically at a major disadvantage. It's important to eliminate this belief while not trying to do the counter opposite just to spite it. Having spent much of my life unknowingly following this belief I can say it's a huge obstacle that stops you from living authentically.
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Thanks!
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“keep you’re keeper“ ... LOVE THAT❤️ You’re helping so many men of high value too embarassed to ask for relationship advice because of our egos! I’ve followed you for a long time but RN I’m trying to keep my keeper so thanks for reminding me I need my WINGMAM🙌👍😎
you're means you are, not something you own.
*Keep your keeper if you're a keeper.*
Love that! I'm so glad I can help. You got this! 💞
@@17cmmittlererminenwerfer81 well said and totally agree👍
She’s not rejecting “you”, she doesnt know you enough to know what she’s rejecting. She’s rejecting the idea of a relationship at that moment. It might not have anything to do with you. She could’ve had a bad day and just wants to be left alone. Don’t take personal. Smile, thank her for her time and move on.
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Anna, you give the most valuable guidance for improving my relationships with women. Now I have a community of high value women that I have built positive relationships, which are mutually supportive. I am very appreciative, Respect! You are the best Anna! May God bless you and keep you.
A strong man is not afraid of being rejected by women and nice guys avoid conflict because they are afraid of being rejected by women.
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I used to be afraid of rejection but only because my first real relationship ended up with her putting me down for the last year. So I put myself in thy FZ for the next couple years. Well eventually and with the grace of online dating, I evolved into a man independent man. Ultimately I do not accept rejection.. rejection is just a reaction and is not validated until you react.
After the first rejection I just quit. Best thing I ever did.
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@@YourWingmamleft you with my website link
I agree.
@@YourWingmam It was a very short answer…. Yes, I quit approaching, I just learned to play stand up bass and joined a C&W band, met a number of women that way, dated a few, married one. They come up to me. Not as many in my 50s as when I was in my 30s.
You can't be the only woman with such an outlook! Thank You. A little wave on your hair looks good!..
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Anna, if you ask a serious question, you deserve whatever sort of answer I can come up with. I went back to the "earlier" part of the video to compare your hair with the part where you asked about it. Whatever difference there is, it's too subtle for me to have noticed. That said, your hair always looks great, especially compared to mine, which is extinct over three-fourths of my head. I like the color especially.
Well thank you kindly! Best advice for follow ally challenges men…own it! Cut it short, and definitely don’t do the combover lol
@@YourWingmam Yes -- my wife of fifty years' standing laughs at my haircut, which is very, very short. Back when I had hair, it was very unruly. Truth to tell, I don't miss it at all.
You do one on ones Anna?
Since you asked, I love your hair from the color to the way it looks soft and silky. It reminds me of my sisters even though hers was a light brunette. I also enjoy your personality in your videos.
Thank you so much for your kind words!
All good points Wingman, and the curls were banging lol,
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Darling, your hair is great! As is your personality and kind heart! keep doing what you're doing and simply being wonderful you.
What you do is remarkable in that you are always positive, this one doesn’t apply to me because I don’t initiate maybe that’s an avoidance mechanism, however when I relent problems ensue, I don’t mind rejection , when I do it I just become less attentive . Thanks,GB
Hi Anna. Sage advise coming from someone who has made many of those mistakes. Your a gem. BTW the hair looks good.
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Found this video very helpful. In the middle of the scenario at the moment, only been seeing her for 2 months and it was platonic but we had a great connection and so much in common. She broke it off. I found most of the points in the video very helpful. Thanks!
Glad it helped! Not every situation or relationship is meant to be something more. Hopefully, it helped. You become more comfortable with women in general which will also help with the next one. Feeling at ease with women makes women feel at ease with you.
Anna, you ALWAYS look great!!! Just an average American here but my compliment for you is anything but😊 Great Job on your hair and thank you again for being here for us guys💙
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Love the hair. Your laughter though, so attractive. Thank you for your guidance
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I like how spontaneous you are. And yes, your hair looks amazing. Your videos are always helpful and entertaining at the same time. Have a great day! 😊😊😊
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@@YourWingmam it comes naturally to me. 😊😊😊
These videos are nice. But nothing at all about feeling unattractive preventing even approaching and flirting.
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Your hair looks nice and clean with curls!
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Anna, I think you always look wonderful and I love your hair and the color RED! Your lit'l impromptu interaction at the end with a few strangers was cute and bubbly as well. 💫
Thanks, glad you enjoyed the video and thank you for the compliment!
Hi Anna. Thank you again for an enlightening video. Much appreciated. You asked me for my vote on your hair style so here it is: either hair style makes you look great! Just don't shave your head unless it's necessary for a medical treatment. Then it's necessary. Yes, you certainly were distracted today. The video ending illustrates this, but thanks anyway for the ending. It was different and showed us some behind-the-scenes scenes.
Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for the feedback! It always takes a long time to film in public because of distractions or interruptions but I don’t mind (it’s a public space after all). Glad you like the behind the scenes bit!
Thank you for the heads up for a positive frame of mind to handle life's bumps.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
One of the most frustrating things about rejection is when it is YOU that was the reason, but because the person wants to avoid confrontation, you won't get any feedback on whether or not it's something you'd like to improve on yourself
Yes, agreed. And the reason women are often not honest about that is because they’ve had poor reactions in the past doing so. The only way you may be able to get around it with some, but not all, women is to let them know you’d like to learn and grow, and promise not to react poorly to honest feedback. You may find there are things a woman doesn’t like about you that *you do like about you* and it’s simply not a right fit.
The problem is solved for me. 😊 I work 8 hours a day, hold contact whit my family and friends, and after a 11 years marriage and a ugly divorce not approach any women. I done with women at all, and I feel myself well. But if you want approach women 7/24 good luck my brother.
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The smartest way to handle a rejection is when she turns you down you just say ok see you around it's been nice knowing you and move on and do not give het a chance to say but we can be friends and if she does just say no we can't
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I'm going try everything that you sied in this video. I'm going let you know with the results 😄.
Your hair looks beautiful 🥰
one of your best - well done!
im like 32 and so far i have only gotten rejected by all girls i like, Gonna focus on myself for a while and try again asking somebody to a date when im 34.
Brilliant! Read my reply in the new pinned comment. :))
Try to ask women this time
9:48 I don’t think beer and skis is a good combination. 😂
Key point....perseverance and Kindness❤ just happened to me on internet site........just ordered your memoir book, dating is SALES, you are selling yourself. 40 yrs successful sales, and I never got dating right...go figure....thanks Anna, you are fun and inspiring!!!
Woohoo, love it! 👏
Loved the ending bit; very wholesome
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I wish I knew all this when I was younger. Not just for dating but it sure would have helped in sales. These two areas have a lot in common.
Yes they do, impressive correlation! Took me awhile to figure it out too, better late than never. :)
oh yes...and love your hair
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Hi Anna, you are pretty and your hair is part of it. Love a women that doesn't put alot of makeup on and still looks great.
Thank you so much!
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@@YourWingmam Your welcome. You've done so much for us. Thank you for all that you do. From what I see and hear you are kind, caring, and a lovely person. Keep being you. You are enough. All the best to you.
Thanks Anna (from France ), precious advices
De rien! Glad you enjoyed it! I recently met a young gentleman from France who wants to start a self-improvement channel...if this is you, do it! If this is not you, do it? lol jk but do pursue your dreams whatever they may be!
I mentioned in the comments of the previous video about my ex monkey branching. I did probably all the wrong things before going into no contact. For about 14 months things were tough, I tried to keep my hopes up but different things always seemed to drag me back down, trouble with work, family, dating etc. At the same time I heard from mutual friends that my ex was still going strong with her new guy and that she actually moved to him.
Around 2-3 months ago something took a turn and life has eased down on me it feels like, I still work hard and improve myself but now I am actually enjoying life. I shine in a different way around my friends now, I started doing dance classes and I am having a blast. I talk to people at the dance and there are some girls I'd like to know better. But I am in a position where I feel no stress about it. I really live my best life at the dance classes and for the first time in a long time I am enjoying myself and am curious about what life holds for me.
Regarding the hair, it's different but not in a bad way. Looking amazing no matter what. You got a certain vibe and appeal that just works
Thank you for the compliment! What makes me happiest about your comment is your renewed zest for life! Love that! I hope it inspires other men. I can talk all day long about getting back out there *for you* but it’s your experience that proves it can be done even without a woman on your arm. Bravo!
What a great video!!!! Thank you
Wingmam looking great in her fall wardrobe
Thank you! :))
I agree she is an attractive woman, carries herself well. I'm sure she must be fighting them off with a big stick😊
All great advice - and love the positive mindset! And yes - now that you mention it: your hair DOES look particularly lovely today! ;-)
Oh thank you!
I love the video - especially the location! The weather must be awesome up there. It may be a little off topic, but your self-improvement and reaching out to others suggestion made me think of doing something for someone who really needs it to help you put your rejection into perspective. Some retail therapy always helps. Well done!
Thanks, it is a lovely location! Filmed before a recent mega storm. And nice of you to think of helping someone else...win-win! If you have Black Friday sales, now is the time for retail therapy lol
Yes-your hair looks lovely.
Thank you so much!
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I can sum it up! ACCEPT IT!
Someone got rejected. 😂
Awesome video miss - honestly helped me a lot!!! 🙏🏻
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I always love your videos, thank you for such great content! I quite liked the "blooper reel" sort of thing at the end too 🤣 Quality content as always and I'm trying out your advice as I'm single at the moment, so thank you! x
So Anna, the pretty background was one thing - but while sat in the car the lighting (and the all grey background) showed off your hair/eye colour and skin, to great effect i might add.
Oh thank you so much!
You are a clever woman Anna and a beautiful on of that. Thankyou for the video and greetings from Denmark.;)
Thank you too fellow Viking!
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Good stuff, Anna. (Or should I call you
Dr Jorgensen?) So much truth and wisdom. Thank you 🙏
Glad you found value! ;)
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Well said spicy señorita Anna!
Thanks, John! Happy Sunday!
Your hair looks great, as always.
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I wouldn’t say anything. When they cut it off, I don’t even say ‘ok’. I just go completely silent. No reaction is better than a bad one.
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Love the curls and the color! Thank you for your excellent and insightful date advice! Take care!
Thanks so much! Glad you found value in the video!
Really good video, some points hit close to home 😅 working on moving on now
edit: Hair looking great
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I told the paramedics the wrong blood type for my ex-GF ...
Now she'll know what rejection feels like ...
* Moscow, Russia
Tell them Anna!
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I appreciate your candor so much.
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*It’s crucial to show maturity by gracefully accepting the rejection, rather than getting defensive or trying to convince her otherwise. This will leave a positive impression, even if things don't work out.*
In the extremely rare instances that this has happened to me (once?), I just get up and walk out. It leaves them speechless. 🤣🤣
Thank you happy Thanksgiving.
You're welcome! Happy Thanksgiving to you too!
Anna, I love your hair every way except short. ( you would expect something different ? )
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Good advice the magical mystery tour of life 😅✊Humour the only way
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Get the dog anyway. If future woman doesn't like dogs, that's a red flag IMHO. If her approval of you is challenged by the presence of your dog, she isn't truly into you and she isn't worth your time. As a young man, rejection in any context (love, business, whatever) was brutally painful. It's not fun now, but as you said, rejection is an opportunity to introspect and grow more. And, yes, if it doesn't work out, God has something better for you if you are willing to trust Him! The hair: gorgeous, just like the rest of you. It amazes me that whatever you do to your hair, (minimal) eye makeup, or attire, you always look fantastic. We are constantly told that women over 50 cannot compete with women in their 20s for beauty, but here you are consistently stunning. Bravo! -- Russ P PS/The chill is in the air and I'm cooking for 7 on Thursday. Odds are good I'll be exhausted on Friday.
@cazzawazzawoowoo1600 If you hold off on the dog in fear that maybe you'll find an allergic woman (which is fairly rare), where do you stop? Do you stop eating meat because she might be vegan? Do you convert to Buddism because she might be Buddist? Don't worry about what she might be. Be your best you (including your dog). If she isn't compatible with you, she isn't the lady for you. She may be great -- but she isn't yours. Keep going. Pet the dog and keep going.
Thank you for your generosity, kind words, and prayers, Russ! Agreed, live your life the way you want and if she’s right she’ll fit right in. Same for those who have allergies or other preferences, the right partner won’t have pets you’re allergic to. Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy the time with your loved ones-it’s worth a nap day! ;)
Thanks for sharing
Bless you Anna, your hair is fabulous, colour really suits you
Thank you so much! The colour is natural so I’m glad it suits me :))
Love your work Anna
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Hey Anna,
Great video! I'd like to ask - what are your thoughts on remaining friends with / becoming closer friends with a woman who you've asked out in the past?
I have a really great friend who, about a year ago, I asked out and she told me she wasn't sure about her feelings toward me and wasn't ready to commit to anything. We both handled the situation really well (she's told me that she thinks I'm very emotionally intelligent and was very mature about handling the rejection) and we are good friends to this day. We've become closer recently and we really enjoy spending time together.
I know that some people will say men can't be genuine friends with women, but I would generally disagree. What do you think?
I had a huge reaction from my exwife.
I waited 2 years and then sent her new husband my huge thanks for caring about her in her decline providing a safe foster home, whilst I had fun with her in her prime
Did she cheat on you with him or did she start seeing him after your divorce was over?
@@silvermine2033 She is a woman, for sure she cheated
The opposite of love isn't hate but indifference. Anything other than that gives away your inner power. Don't let her memory take up real estate in your mind. :)
@@YourWingmam Don't worry, I learned my lesson, enjoy life, feel perfect alone, but feel good I got rid of her, and all illusions, before she hit the wall,
Now a problem of somebody else
@@RickTheClipper Yep. I told my ex wife she was making a huge mistake with a divorce and that I actually felt sorry for her. That just further enraged her. She was going through early menopause. It radically changed her personality. She went from carefree and chill to a raging lunatic. Spiteful. Vengeful. She couldn't sleep for months. Loss of estrogen and oxytocin made her insufferable. She was not the same person. I kept telling her to get medical help which just further enraged her.
I told her you carry out this divorce, I will never take you back, and we will never have any contact ever again whatsoever. I meant it and still to this day never contacted her.
Sometimes you just have to walk away. Divorcing her was the best thing to happen to me. I am happier, healthier, and far more wealthy.
I would be happy to be rejected at this point. Me not being rejected means more $ out of my pocket. It’s cold but true. So much for me having my stuff together!! I welcome rejection at this point!! 😂
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@ Thanks for replying to my comment which was unexpected. I do really appreciate your response and your videos!! Hope you have a nice holiday!! 🙂
Hi Anna, thank you 🙏for simply being so we can watch your videos. God bless 🙏you! Your hair 👌is fantastic and you have a lovely personality! 💙May I ask that are you of Swedish or Norwegian origin?
Thank you so much for your kind words! My dad was a Danish Viking and my mom was a spicy Mexican. Thus, I am a spicy Viking!
Truthfully I don't think long term relationships are the norm now. Sure there are a few. But I have never meet anyone I would commit the rest of the life I have remaining. Nobodys fault really, just reality.
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Whats in Spain? I'm always intrigued about how people make decisions where to live?
Almost everything u do is right when she all in for ya. And even if u do wrong it’s emotional drama and turmoil which brings addiction. It’s still all bad cause not all women into the toxic games
I can't fix the lack of friends. Everyone I know and like isnt available
Or just tell the truth and say…I lowered my standards, why can’t you?
Have some fun with them 😉
Ha!!! As much as I'd get a chuckle from that, most women wouldn't especially if true lol
😂😂😂
Rejection used to bother me in the extreme. Lately, the last 4 or 5 years, after I decided that I really don't care, ( surviving cancer helped a good deal with that ) the women that do reject me somehow end up following me around... a lot ! I'll be 70 this next year. Does that have a bearing, maybe ?
I left the job I was rejected in and went no contact after months of dating. Idk it felt weird to do the stuff cuz I was extra and didn't want to be stepped on as the "friend" was that bad
Well done ma'am, once again. And the hairdo looks cute.
Thank you and thank you! :))
Good to see more of your womanly figure again.....🎉
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You are unique! Just like everyone else.
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Love your hair.
Wow Anna! you're an angel!!!
[10:15] the list. Chances are, if you wanted to break up with her you'd arrange things so that she broke up with you, to spare yourself drama. So, this way, she's saved you time by getting it done ahead of schedule.
If a woman rejects you, that's good, as she could've been a headache down the road.
Dear Anna:
Happy Sunday, darlin'! How is life treating you? How rude of people to interrupt you while you are performing such a geat service to thousands!!! And by the way, hair looks amazing.
Real quick, what is your favorite omelette? Just curious since you brought it up.
Great video again. I must say, at this point in my life, I sometimes find rejection as a blessing. If she did not want me, it was not going to work out even if I begged for the opportunity to change her mind. Best to save time, money and headaches.
That is all for today. I am off to go for a run. I need to start a calorie deficit since I will be stuffing myself on Thursday for Thanksgiving. Speaking of which; Anna, my pretty pen pal from Canada. I want you to know that I am thankful for you and all that you do. I hope you have an amazing week, and I am already looking forward to next week's video. You looked beautiful in this video. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You rock, Anna!!!!
Happy Sunday, Joe, and almost Thanksgiving! Hmm, omelet...at this moment, wild-caught salmon, goat cheese, chives. ;) This: "If she did not want me, it was not going to work out even if I begged for the opportunity to change her mind." Truth! Thank you so much for your kind words, I appreciate you, being here and always leaving a positive comment!
If all my ex-girlfriends were all lined up together the one at the back couldn't see the one at the front.
That’s a lot of exes lol were there red flags? Thank you for sharing and for supporting my channel! 🥰
@@YourWingmam You're looking at it the wrong way round. The line is empty. Nothing to see here, move along. I did find a red head and ran slowly.
My middle daughter got dumped about a month ago, after three years of relationship, and all I could tell her was it wasn't in my skill set. The custody battle should heat up shortly; his family said if they broke up that they would claim her.
Great what you are doing for fellas.
Thank you for the video Anna ❤🙏🏿
You are so welcome and thank you for watching and commenting! 💞
I think one of the funniest rejection I had myself was this woman I met from eharmony. She told me on the date she hates anything with violence. I thought okay so I asked at the end if she had a good time and if she’d consider a second date. She said okay and I said I’ll text her in a few days and she made this bizarre text about how she wanted to avoid violence or anything to do and that somehow I was a violent person. I was completely puzzled and confused.
Odd indeed!
Personal preference. I like you with longer hair. More feminine to me. Thanks for everything.
Some of your advice is based on the assumption that there’s still contact post rejection. Anyone who respects himself should terminate the “situationship” or the pursuit and not look back. You shouldn’t care about what she thinks or how she feels after she rejected you. The ship has sailed at that time.
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@ you’re welcome! I just lived through this situation a couple of months ago, so I spoke from experience. What you mentioned resonated with me for the most part. However, I made the conscious decision of cutting all contact once I realized I couldn’t keep beating a dead horse. Anything I’ve been doing post breaking point has been for me, not for her to realize what she lost. Keep up the good work!