My only suggestion would be you learn not to react to all the comments I understand on RUclips to engage people you need to respond back but you yourself said it’s been 7 years you’re making content so by now you should have learned how to deal with all kinds of comments..this is the con of sharing your everyday life on a public platform people tend to see and react the way they feel is right..and I feel when RUclipsrs start their journey they ask everyone to like/subscriber/share their channel they just want as many people no matter what thought process a person has so why complain now they are the same people who made you what you are..personally I know how you feel anyone would feel the same but the things you share on social media please understand your subscribers and people watching are free to comment/react the way they feel (harsh reality) that’s why many still don’t even have a social media presence that’s the only way to let outsiders not peep into your life or comment on your life/lifestyle
Improve your English!! You are in North America for so long .. from an urban setting in India.. who says “don’t say me?” .. read more .. engage with the world .. and don’t be so dramatic
Payal, u have deleted my comment. U made more enemies in the last 2 vlogs than ur entire youtube journey. Unsubscribing!! I m not sure if my comment ll be visible or u have blocked me. Introspect ! All the best for ur future! TC. U have hurt many with ur rude replies.Not nice. I haven't even made a bad comment nor trolled u!
Well Payal, been ur subscriber from the beginning when u had very few.. Was happy seeing ur growth. I m elder to u. But, now I think I have wasted many hours of my life watching ur videos. Ur channel name no more reflects u!! With age u become wiser. But , u r trolling ur own subscribers!! What a vain person u r!! Glad I have unsubscibed. May God bless u n ur family. Bye. U ll not see my comment again. Tc.
She might unsubscribe but she will still surely watch all videos .Or she will make a fake account and still watch the video. Trolls cannot stop watching and judging to feel good about themselves.
Omg! Never seen such a nasty youtube lady. She is getting paid due to these subscriptions and she bashes them!!! Lets wait till this lady goes to work in corporate world😂 She will be kicked out immediately due to her ego. You answer like this in meetings and she is out of job. Ask your husband if he can talk like this to his colleagues at workplace. She has no idea about real life work thats why this behavior. Leave RUclips and go work, you will see how ppl insult and you still have to be professional and respectful. At work we have to learn from our mistakes rather than rant people.
You are making fuss about small issue in this video you were blabbering looking overhyper... cool down n read comments again most of comment are positive criticism if cant take that then ignore ... anyways do whatever u feel bt one thing is true that you are over possesive about ur family not seen reality of outside world and dont understand every women going through tough face in every day to day life its not only you alone... u urself put title like that and when people reacted then you got overhyper
Very true.you only like positive comments not negative. If you are sharing your thoughts then you have to listen both type of comments. Take it or leave it. Don't crib.
So true. If she says “worst day of her life” I would say hope she stays blessed and this actually is the worst day of the her life. I normally never comment but truth be told “ it’s just an ear infection” count your blessings. There is a lot to be seen and overcome in life. There is a lot happening in the outside world. Open your eyes. Not denying that you are worried about your child. Not denying that you are different from many others and worry a lot. That is all ok. But”worst day of my life”!!! My only unsolicited advice become a little stronger and look at the larger picture. Look at what’s happening in the world.
So true……she cries over very silly things…..der r many other problems outside the world people r facing…dis is just a petty thing agreed ur not able to take things but dis is gng to b very common cuz ur toddler wil start school he wil have to face many other diseases….
People won't understand until they go through the same situation. You are a great and strong Mom and you are not at all answerable to anyone! Got bless your family ❤️
stop showing your click bait kind of thumb nails ... its really not good if you are vlogger for a long time now why you have to always give thumbnails like that you are doing it purposely to get views?obviously people are going to comment than why give over the top reaction?you must have been used to it by now but you just want a one more vlog to talk about it??every one knows that vlogging is to get views and to get money accept it and move on?A child is prone to fluid buildup when they have a cold, allergy-related nasal congestion, respiratory illness or sinus infection.Children are more likely to experience Eustachian tube dysfunction (ETD) than adults because their tubes are shorter, narrower, and more horizontal. This makes it harder for air and fluid to move, and fluid is more likely to get trapped without gravity to help direct it. Children's eustachian tubes also have less developed muscles, which can cause problems. Additionally, children's immune systems aren't fully developed, and their adenoids may be too large, blocking the tube's opening....
@@ambika0006 maybe you should follow your own advice first lol 😂 I am not stopping you im stating my opinion just like you thought you could state yours when not needed, wanted or asked
If you make your life public then you will have to accept these comments. You cannot expect people to react according to your wishes. People will comment otherwise keep your comments section off.
@@ashjoshi4070if she has the right to say and do and make whatever content she wants then why can’t we comment whatever we want?! Why are you restricting others but not her?!
@@ashjoshi4070exactly some useless people are so free to attack people and spread negativity when all they have to do is unfollow or not watch the damn video
If something happens to our kids all mothers become anxious but it’s important to maintain a composer otherwise we cannot think rationally, bringing up a child is a journey with all sorts of tough challenges in life all parents (esp mothers) go through..first time mother getting paranoid is different but once you have one child you become little experience and for second baby we handle these situations in a better way..we should become strong role models for our kids and not be hyper & weak otherwise when our kids face any difficult situation they won’t come to us thinking it would disturb us
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking the way you expressed the whole situation clearly showed you’re being hyper and super anxious (you managed it all by yourself nobody’s taking that from you) but the way you reacted is what us as your viewers saw..I’ve been your subscriber for long and I want to remain your loyal viewer please take a break and then think over the situation instead of just reacting to all the comment in an upset state of mind you’re definitely disturbed after reading the comments but also understand most of us who have observed the same thing are only writing about what we saw and felt..I like your videos and I don’t comment anything negative ever this time also it’s an observation you call us your family member so just like that I said I didn’t use any bad/abusive language
@@rituvaran4662 Hey, it was not just ear infection, her kid was totally inactive all day, almost not appearing fully conscious she told - that is why she has written title as toughest situation (when it was a viral few days before and Sid was active, she was calm only those times even on vlog, this is not the first time he has fallen sick). Also she has handled even this situation calmly only when it happened, without any help. day to day life itself is not easy in usa, emergency/dr visits are different experiences here. She has posted a video about her experience later on because she vlogs about her life only, good or bad. some of the viewers are also misunderstanding her I feel.
Anybody will be anxious and react the same way how Payal did ... If people have guts then go and start your own channel and see how tough that is. Women only brings down other woman... Remember there is no men involved that why we will never rise
@@kaverip7 it’s not just me but many others who noticed/felt the same and what I understand observation of so many can’t be wrong..by the way you plan to respond to everyone..just for your clarity I think it’s the woman viewers strength who made this channel grow big so please keep your woman card to yourself..are you too a RUclipsr
Payel I know you from the beginning...when you have below 100 subscriber......u are so kind hearted and honest❤ but most of the audience used to watch fake things and content like other channels....so just chill and act according to your mind 😊😊
I’m glad you stood up for yourself! Even if you do experience anxiety as a parent, there is no need to justify or explain yourself. It is a normal reaction and emotion. Not everyone is calm and zen-like. Even people who are criticizing you. Shame on them. This is exactly why mental illness is on the rise. People who share the way they feel get judged and criticized for having experienced negative emotions!? How cruel!
We have lived through same situation and can’t understand why you are getting so hyper. You need to stop being defensive and introspect on what majority of the commentators have said. No one dislikes you, but are finding your reactions to situations getting more and more hyper. Maybe you need counselling.
I second that payal…. You might need help you always sound hyper… whether it is neighbors sad life, your dog,bad yogurt container or rai exams… trust me we all face similar situations in life but you cannot make a big deal out of everything…. This is life and life can be cruel at times… learn, survive and grow… stop complaining and present your situation like this in a different manner… a positive way of telling your worst situation and see how motivated ppl will feel seeing your vlogs rather than bashing you…
People should be sensible..N today's world sensibility becomes lack n lost. But Paayal u r so blessed to hv ANGEL like daughter, that's RAI, your so loveable n sensitive husband n sweet n cute baby SIDH ❤
It seems you are watching only single vlogging channel that's why you have no idea of definition of drama queen . Go and look around you will get many many better result .
@@suchandrabose1 who are you to tell me all these mind your own business don't poke your nose on others comment I commented to that drama queen not you.
Being over dramatic or over reacting or over caring is GOOD! That just shows you are being a good, concerned and caring mother. Just ignore people that have an opinion and say for everyone! It’s your child and only YOU know what is best for the kids.
I seriously wonder why you always make content out of comments, if you’re a RUclipsr for seven years by this time you should know to ignore negative comments. You keep telling “so many people said this that “ not for yesterday video but for most of the videos. I’m sure you will talk about this comment too! In my opinion, You need to ignore negative comments.
You're very rude and it seems you're suffering from superiority complex the way you said 'don't say money'!! Calm down and don't say sorry when you are not
There are people who just have so much time to simply criticise.. ignore them dear but good that you answered them back. We know how genuine you are and that is the reason we r ur subscribers from so long
Payal please keep your personal life to yourself you don’t have to tell and each and everything here in RUclips, people will comment positive as well as negative! if u don’t know how to take it please stop sharing your problems
Ma'am she is vloger..and unko kaam hi apna routine dhikhana agar unka baby ka tabiyat kharab hai to she just share that usmai kya hua yr...see some how we all subscribers are also her virtual family and isly she share with us..jab woh apne sari happiness hamare sath share karte hai to apna sad tym bhi share kiye..and hume unke sath hona chayiye virtual hi sahi...don't worry payal di...acce logo k sath acca hi hota...and apke teeno bacce hamesha acce hi rahenge..mata rani blessing is always with u all.❤.❤❤
First time commenting on your blog. Ignore all the negative comments.. You are a very strong and pure heated women . Only sensible person can relate with this situation
Same here m bhi aesy hi video bna kr Husband ko dikhati hn bar bar update deti hn keon ky hm dono distrub hoty hn as parents , sister you are strong don't worry i understand keon ky m bhi akeli sambhalti hn ghar bchy last 3 years sy
Ear infections are horrible!! As an adult I get sometimes, due to the nature of my ear. Its just really a bad pain. Me and other friends who are also mothers, call Day cares as virus hub. Every other week they are getting one infection or other. One week they go to school, next week and half at home recovering. This is happening. If you can, try to keep Sid more time at home. I know they learn social skills etc, but when they are ill, its a bigger headache and we are heartbroken. Also every person deals with crisis in different manner. When your child is sick, every parent is right to be worried. There is no need to judge anyone. Be kind people! Payal, try to ignore the bad comments. You are genuine and you are doing your best!
As a mother I can understand your situation. I too run in a panic mode when my child felt sick when he was a baby until now as grown up teenager I still get worried when he falls sick.
The situation is bad . I agree. But this is social media. There will be all types of people . Don’t bother about negative things. Just do your thing. Who is interested will watch else they can quit. But this is part of process making RUclips videos. Every profession has its pros and cons. If you have decided to make videos expect these . And you have decided not to sell stuff or take up advertising it’s your choice. Making money or not it’s your personal preference . Don’t think much or don’t have to give justification . People will talk no matter what happens.
Whatever you call it overacting drama or pouring in negative comments , she is making money from all of them. The show must go on…😂😂🎉🎉 social media is different ,
Payal your reaction was right even i was in same situation when my premature son had to admitted in hospital and my husband was out of station i newly learned car nd man was constantly shouting saying were is ur husband if you don't know how to drive sit at home....
Just ignore negative comments. Earlier i also said that don't judge her in this situation. When it comes to our kids it is our natural behaviour that we got penic & all. So please be humble.
Hi Payal ..just ignore such people because after all u have to tackle the situation.I know u are most sensible and geniune person.Take care of Sid .Get well soon Siddu baba.
For very 1st time commenting here. I am watching you for years. I know how organic your content is. But recently I have noticed lots of hate comments in all your videos raising questions on anything and everything. People like us who live alone qith kids in a foreign country without any househelps and any family memebers know exactly how does it feel when any of the family members get sick. I can understand totally what you must have gone through...this was needed you know thaf you answered back...although this wont change those backbiters bit yes atleast you needed to vent it out. Be organic like how you are always. Lots of love to you and the kids❤
I screamed and yelled to the core on my husband when he went to US leaving me and 4 year child alone. My son had 102 fever for one week. I used to cry a lot daily. That time I dint know driving also. I must say you had so much patience and handled so bravely.
Hooe you all are well, you are allowed to feel however you want to feel. And dont allow other people to invalidate you, that is a power only you hold. I am so happy to see Siddu walk around and well again, only you know what you have gone through.
By saying that aap kabhi bhi aaisi situation mein na aayein you have risen much more as a human being . This shows what a beautiful person you are and inspire of all this you are wishing the best for everyone. Maa Durga bless you ❤
Hi Payal, I have been watching you since many years now. You and me have same timeline of pregnancy. I have a son of Sid’s age, I get so much help from your videos as I am a first time mother. Even my son had viral infection during last weeks, even now he is recovering. Today when I saw your video, I could completely feel the pain of a parent who is alone at such tough situations. I live in Germany and the medical facilities are tough here as well for emergency times. Me and my husband have faced such situations with our son and to be true, it’s a nightmare, I get goosebumps to even think about it. People who say such horrible things like drama etc , I don’t know about their life experience…but when it comes to our child, we all have the same reactions, no matter what and how strong we are. Please continue with a spark of smile you always keep in your life and spread around. Lots of love and wishes to you and your family, hope Sid recovers soon. ❤
Hi Payal Di I watched both of your vlogs and I feel you are not at all answerable to such negative people they are totally insane, selfish,heartless, mindless they enjoy teasing and commenting bad and useless,daily youtube vloging means sharing your good and bad experiences than why people don't understand ,ek taraf aise logon ko vlogger ki daily life me kya ho raha sab kuch dekhna bhi h phir faltu comment bhi karna h, maine aise vloggers bhi dekhe h jo kya khaya kya nhi khaya kitni roti khai altu faltu apni earning ke liye kuch bhi video me dikhate h waha aise logon ko koi problem nhi hoti yaha agar koi apni genuine problem share kr raha h to kisi ko console karne ki jagah drama bata rahe h ,SHAME ON SUCH EMOTIONLESS PEOPLE ,it's good that you expressed your feelings but plz from next time never give importance to such negative comments just IGNORE them.We like the way you are,you have always inspired us in many ways never change yourself for such stupid negative comments , just chill Di we can see how talented and creative you are you can earn yourself but you gave priority to your family first which is really commendable 👍👍hope Sid gets well soon akele sab kuch manage karna pardes me koi aasaan kaam nhi h phir chahe kitni hi earning kyu na ho anyone can have any difficulty at any time one who faces them knows what they go through so don't worry about such silly people. We all love you ❤ ❤
Di charo.... People have always something to criticize others... Don't explain at all.... They are superheroes... Jaar hoy se bojhe... Lecture dewa is very easy... Ami face korechi same situation like you... Ato helpless laage bolar noy... Ny way lv u... Nd be strong like this always ❤
I have problem only with her thumbnails! Man I watch the whole video for that thumbnail and will hear about it for few seconds that’s it! Payal u need to put some relatable thumbnail . That’s my suggestion ❤ Baki you are a good soul and I like to watch your daily vlogs!
@simplelivingwisethinking @Payal, I have been following you since 10k subscribers in 2018. Dont take peoples comments personally. Comments hurt then you are human. Dont show your childrens activities and health that much. Just say he was not keeping well so you could not make videos. Dont go into details just as you avoid showing Rais life in detail. This is your channel dont make it your childrens. I hope you understand. Start giving 1 or 2 lines of life advice in every video. Things will turn around just see.
I feel bad that you have to go through this. Don’t explain to them. Not worth it. I was worried about you when you didn’t post any videos for six days. I pray for you and your family. You are very real. Jesi bhee ho Bahut pyaari ho. Please remember all of us who likes you the way you are yaar.
Payal didi ,you are a kind hearted soul.i can imagine what you must have gone through,ppl say we have to handle things here all by ourselves but still we need a support system.if bhaiya was there things would have been different.but please don’t justify things .if ppl take it wrong let them,you dont take it to heart .lots of love 🫶🏼hope Sid is doing good now
My son is almost same age as Sid, I can relate to this situation. Ever since my son started going to daycare, he gets a new virus every week… but this is building his immunity. My daughter (who is 7 year older than my son) never had this issue. So ever I used to get scared when my son would get unwell like this. But this will get easy with time, keep doing the good job you are doing.
People won’t understand until they go through the same situation.. I’m a new mother, I can understand and feel you.. take care dear Payal.. stay strong stay positive
It's sad people are being inhuman regarding the situation with a kid. If the kid is playing and eating things still look normal, but seeing an active child suddenly sleeping constantly is a situation to panic...any sane human will get worried. Payal dee good you spoke, u r right people never understand unless they themselves face it. The other day when u took him to hospital before the ear thing, he looked so sick that itself explains how unwell he must be with the ear infection.
After seeing so much hate on your video's, i feel that no matter how good your are there will be ppl who hate you or tell negetive about you or will not be happy with you in general... I have always felt tgat you are such a good person, so caring so sensitive towards everyone... I am surprised how such genuine ppl like you also gets such comments 😓
Ek baat bolu aap ke blog me mujhe cooking acchi lagti h lekin aap apni audiance se aakh mila ke baat kyu nahi karti jab aap blog banate ho to sirf aap aur ek camera jo ki insaan nahi h usme hi to dekhna hota h ...bedhadak hokar camera me dekh kar baat kiya kariye ..ham sabko accha lagega...idher udher aankhe kyu ghumate raheti ho gol gol .bahut hi ajeeb lagta h lagataar aankhe ghumati raheti ho
Payal, don’t worry about other people. Be yourself and take care of your own self and the kids. You don’t have to explain anything till anyone. Hoping Sid is doing well now. God bless you and the family ❤
Don't worry about these comments dear. Any mother in this situation can get worried. Stay positive, your blogs give a lot of positivity in our lives. Lot's of love and more power to you ❤
Keep calm..when ....ur child is sick is bull shit A devoted parent will definitely worry n its absolutely right Be sensitive n pls dont hurt d emotions of a mother Its okay if u guys dont like her....dats fine....but as a mom she was d only one who managed everything single handedly wid two kids in troubled times 👍🙏🏻
Please all the moms will understand what u went through, seeing a child in such position will just make mom nervous. Don't pay heed to any negative comments. You are a very strong woman.
Jsrk I just see but u can say i literally wait fr yr vlogs See people will tell dont bother Its there state of mind There aresick there showed there mind set and not yrs So pls ignore Anyway always krsna blesses yr lovely family ❤🎉
People are mean Payal. My children are same age like yours. I totally get you. In USA to be alone with two kids it’s tough. Don’t be sad. They are just there to demotivate you. You are a amazing mother. Keep it up. Lots of love and blessing to you and your family ❤
hi payal , I can totally understand your feelings and your situation. I have been through this situation and my husband was not here may 11months daughter were sick and my 8yrs old were in school. mujhe apni beti ko admit karna pada tha because of some reason. jis per hota haina tabhi kisi ko samjh aata hai. LEAVE PAYAL..... HARDLY you will get people so really understand these situation..... and yes we are wide and mother too so we have to manage both accordingly.
Forget it payal They are jealous because your are growing They are not part of family we are taking you as family member Wo sab chodo......... I am very happy to see sidu playing in kitchen 😅 Now he is fine and well
Payal don't explain ur self to anyone....we love u the way u r...don't be disturbed by mean PPL 's words...tc. especially of urself since u were well u took care of your kids in absence of shoumik....love from karnataka...❤
Don’t bother negative comments anymore, I know , my husband goes on work trips frequently the person who handles the situation we only know how we feel when kids get sick and if we don’t have any help.
Payal . Don’t bother about the negativity. It’s natural for a mother to get upset, any mother who does not get anxious about the situation is not a mother then. Don’t explain or give an explanation. Your reaction is very natural. You are doing great.
Payel ur fear for a child who verbally can’t yet put forth his pain .. and him being continuously sleepy .. it is something to be worried abt ..ear infection causes lot of discomfort in kids and it is not easily recognisable.. even I faced this when my son was 5 years old .. thgh he conveyed his ears r paining still I had to rush him in emergency because even he was not at all active
Very true. The first time my son had an infection, he was asleep for hours and I had to wake him up at intervals to give him water. It was scary! With no one to guide or walk us through these situations, it can be extremely unnerving. The people who are yapping here must be people who have parents coming take care of their kids for 6 months and then in-laws coming to take care of their kids. They probably have no idea what it is to take care of a baby all the time without a spouse and parents around. Let’s declare godly status for them and move on. They deserve medals for attaining zen without sitting under the bodhi tree. 😀
Payal, in today's world most of the people lacks empathy. You're not at all over dramatic! because a person will definitely not understand a situation until they face the situation themselves. It is a fact that the world is filled with more hate & negativity but always remember that there are many people out there who adore you and your whole family. They always bless & pray for your family. Please take care & ignore all these haters even though it is hard. You're blessed with many good things in life. For me you have been such a motivator for many things in my life. Your vlogs have helped me emmensly to get over depressed situations and bounce back. Keep shining!! Hate comes for the people who are worth enough only. Just remember that. Much love for Rai, Sid & Rex 💕
Arrey, these people are those who have really no work to do & they are for these negative comments,just ignore them & delete their messages.love you Payel ❤❤
Payal I have been following and viewing you since the beginning and I love watching your videos. You are a part of my life now. I would like to let you know certain things which might help you. It's your choice to show your daily life in front of everybody. By experience you must have understood by now that there are both kinds of views that must be coming on your content. Positive as well as negative. I think you should take positive comments as an encouragement and at the same time take negative comments with a pinch of salt. There is really no need to get so upset with the comments and people opinions. Please remember that you have chosen this path of putting out the content publicly. Agreed that people do go beyond their limits while writing. Completely agree. But at the same time you should also know what to take, respond and what to ignore. Continue with your daily vlogging if you really enjoy it and do not bother about the negativity. Lots of best wishes to both your kids.
Payal, whoever is criticizing you just do a public giveaway and give them medals. They deserve them for being such calm and efficient parents. Wo mahaan log hai. Aisa bolo aur chhod do. We are just humans. Baki “cool moms” ke liye 👏 (if you know what I mean)
Please dont stop ... keep showing Sid and Rex ... I will miss them .. Watching your videos now make me feel part of your family.. love to see Sid growing up ... and so also Rex.. Please just for those crazy people commenting .. please dont stop
It was not at all dramatic, we all should learn to be empathic towards others,life isn't easy please don't judge, please don't pass comments,fhats bare minimum we. Can do if not helping others
Hi Payal.. You are very strong lady. I went through similar situation when my baby was 5 days old. I had to take her to emergency as she got fever. It was COVID time and I was all alone as only one visitor was allowed in the hospital. Ignore the toxic people around and shine your life. Your smile motivates multiple new moms. Keep up the good work ❤
Hi Payal! Dear don’t be disheartened because of some ppl who are always judging u negatively. No point in explaining urself to them coz anyways they will believe what they want to. I’ve been ur viewer since Rai was in grade 3 and the first video that I saw of urs was the one in which u were following Rujuta diwakar’s diet and since then I have been ur subscriber. I have seen ur journey since so many years and I know all the ppl who know u since these many years know the kind of person u are. Please don’t change the content of ur videos just because some ppl say bad. If u will show something else they will find faults in that too. So I would suggest that be urself and make videos the way u want to. Take care and stay positive. We all are with u. Lots and lots of love ❤️… keep smiling 😊
I guess people need compassion, love and sensitiveness in their life.. looking at the comment section it made me feel how stone-hearted everyone has become and how they are comparing their lives with hers ..god has given everyone different body features, different situations, different heart so if u don't judge anyone on the basis of ur personal situation..if u cn be compassionate then don't be judgmental about others life... have mercy ..dont spew all ur negativity on other because he is not going according to u and ur lifestyle..
Yes Payal I totally agree with you. I dont understand why people judge others so easily without thinking. Making vlogs is not easy. Staying out of India away from our people in this situation is very difficult.when children are not well, every mother is worried.i can relate coz i m also in middle east country. We feel alone at times.we become helpless. Infact if anyone in the house is unwell we feel restless.Payal we love you. we love your vlogs.loads of love and blessings to cutu Sid🥰 and angel Rai🥰 Pls take care. Dont bother of these senseless people. Love you❤
Payal please don't get angry .They are frustrated in their life , that's why . But for me u r the best and I really admire you. Where I live I also have 0 help , so I can totally understand ur situation. So , pls ignore because u know what is best for ur family 👪. God bless n give loads of love to Kids. Take care😊
i know you might be hurt but pls don't say that you will not talk about your kids, it feels like they are part of our family only. i have a 17 month old and i have been following you since i was pregnant.Though will respect your decision but will miss seeing Rai and Sidd
Payal, you don’t owe anyone any explanation. But I’m glad you spoke about it. I was in disbelief when I read comments on that blog. Hope Sid is doing well now.
@SimpleLivingWiseThinking : Dear Payal, I feel anybody who lacks sympathy is not worth talking with. If I were you, I would show such viewers the way out,and relax in peace 😅. I can't imagine how social media in India has deteriorated the conscience of people over the years. I sometimes get sick of this troll mentality in any comments section of most RUclips channels. These are veiled people, good for nothing when it comes to helping or being nice even in an online community. Would it hurt for people to be good to others ? - simply don't understand. The best way to respond to a troll is to not respond.
Ignore the haters! They will only understand if they are in the same situation. Living in the US without immediate family and managing everything alone can be very daunting! You keep being positive and just see through those negative comments. They have nothing better to do ! We enjoy watching your videos. Take care !
Just ignore negative comments 👍 you are down to earth and sweet we have been watching you since years no need to give clarification....some people.only judge others without understanding other persons circumstances.....keep going ❤
People who commented probably dont know about the medical situation here.Appointments are hard to get, urgent care has long wait times and you cant just walk into pharmacy and get meds, there is wait time and insurance involved.Just give them the benefit of doubt.You dont have to justify yourself.Just know one thing you are in the public view so will get both hate and love.Not many people have the guts to show their lives.Good luck ,also Sid is adorable, pls dont stop showing him at times.
It’s her you tube channel She has the freedom to put the content she likes Her vlogs are just so normal , casual , organic daily home vlogs It surely captures her natural feelings , emotions and expressions It’s normal and natural Every day is different Every child is different Every country is different Every person reacts differently to different situations Oh women c’mon , you wanna watch her channel, and you also want to comment and find faults . I’ve noticed that ,Only a women is capable of doing this . Forever pulling down another woman - criticise whether right or wrong . We live in newer times . Let’s broaden our thinking . Pls encourage and support other women . If you have nothing nice to say - just keep quiet 🙏 Our children also watch us and imitate us . BE MINDFUL Spread love and cheer always . It helps us to have a better quality of life . ( don’t think I am Payals friend , cousin or Aunty. I’m just an old subscriber living oceans apart from her 😊👍)
Kuch log ki aadat hoti faltu comments krne ki pr tum Dil pe mt liya kro or main to vlog dekhti hi bachon ke liye hun maine Rai ko bada hote dekha h or ab Sid ki bhi masti dekh ke acha lgta hai to tum Bachon ko jarur dikhana .God bless you and your family.
My only suggestion would be you learn not to react to all the comments I understand on RUclips to engage people you need to respond back but you yourself said it’s been 7 years you’re making content so by now you should have learned how to deal with all kinds of comments..this is the con of sharing your everyday life on a public platform people tend to see and react the way they feel is right..and I feel when RUclipsrs start their journey they ask everyone to like/subscriber/share their channel they just want as many people no matter what thought process a person has so why complain now they are the same people who made you what you are..personally I know how you feel anyone would feel the same but the things you share on social media please understand your subscribers and people watching are free to comment/react the way they feel (harsh reality) that’s why many still don’t even have a social media presence that’s the only way to let outsiders not peep into your life or comment on your life/lifestyle
Improve your English!! You are in North America for so long .. from an urban setting in India.. who says “don’t say me?” .. read more .. engage with the world .. and don’t be so dramatic
Payal, u have deleted my comment. U made more enemies in the last 2 vlogs than ur entire youtube journey. Unsubscribing!! I m not sure if my comment ll be visible or u have blocked me. Introspect ! All the best for ur future! TC. U have hurt many with ur rude replies.Not nice. I haven't even made a bad comment nor trolled u!
Thanks hopefully I will never see your comment again .Bye Bye and enemy hahaha it’s RUclips only like really joke of the year
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking Payal , why are you replying so rudely 😢
Well Payal, been ur subscriber from the beginning when u had very few.. Was happy seeing ur growth. I m elder to u. But, now I think I have wasted many hours of my life watching ur videos. Ur channel name no more reflects u!! With age u become wiser. But , u r trolling ur own subscribers!! What a vain person u r!! Glad I have unsubscibed. May God bless u n ur family. Bye. U ll not see my comment again. Tc.
She might unsubscribe but she will still surely watch all videos .Or she will make a fake account and still watch the video.
Trolls cannot stop watching and judging to feel good about themselves.
Omg! Never seen such a nasty youtube lady. She is getting paid due to these subscriptions and she bashes them!!!
Lets wait till this lady goes to work in corporate world😂
She will be kicked out immediately due to her ego.
You answer like this in meetings and she is out of job. Ask your husband if he can talk like this to his colleagues at workplace.
She has no idea about real life work thats why this behavior. Leave RUclips and go work, you will see how ppl insult and you still have to be professional and respectful. At work we have to learn from our mistakes rather than rant people.
You are making fuss about small issue in this video you were blabbering looking overhyper... cool down n read comments again most of comment are positive criticism if cant take that then ignore ... anyways do whatever u feel bt one thing is true that you are over possesive about ur family not seen reality of outside world and dont understand every women going through tough face in every day to day life its not only you alone... u urself put title like that and when people reacted then you got overhyper
Very true.you only like positive comments not negative. If you are sharing your thoughts then you have to listen both type of comments. Take it or leave it. Don't crib.
You show off too much by buying expensive stuff & your lifestyle. You act very naive & dumb sometimes. Grow up
@@Vibrantmealways24 you are very low minded, you should not tell like that.
So true. If she says “worst day of her life” I would say hope she stays blessed and this actually is the worst day of the her life. I normally never comment but truth be told “ it’s just an ear infection” count your blessings. There is a lot to be seen and overcome in life. There is a lot happening in the outside world. Open your eyes.
Not denying that you are worried about your child. Not denying that you are different from many others and worry a lot. That is all ok. But”worst day of my life”!!! My only unsolicited advice become a little stronger and look at the larger picture. Look at what’s happening in the world.
So true……she cries over very silly things…..der r many other problems outside the world people r facing…dis is just a petty thing agreed ur not able to take things but dis is gng to b very common cuz ur toddler wil start school he wil have to face many other diseases….
People won't understand until they go through the same situation. You are a great and strong Mom and you are not at all answerable to anyone! Got bless your family ❤️
stop showing your click bait kind of thumb nails ... its really not good if you are vlogger for a long time now why you have to always give thumbnails like that you are doing it purposely to get views?obviously people are going to comment than why give over the top reaction?you must have been used to it by now but you just want a one more vlog to talk about it??every one knows that vlogging is to get views and to get money accept it and move on?A child is prone to fluid buildup when they have a cold, allergy-related nasal congestion, respiratory illness or sinus infection.Children are more likely to experience Eustachian tube dysfunction (ETD) than adults because their tubes are shorter, narrower, and more horizontal. This makes it harder for air and fluid to move, and fluid is more likely to get trapped without gravity to help direct it. Children's eustachian tubes also have less developed muscles, which can cause problems. Additionally, children's immune systems aren't fully developed, and their adenoids may be too large, blocking the tube's opening....
you can chose not to watch her content , it really wouldn’t make a difference. No one asked for your advice in the first place
@@nikitasharma9708 and who r u to stop me ?her personal advisor? Mind your own business…
@@ambika0006 maybe you should follow your own advice first lol 😂 I am not stopping you im stating my opinion just like you thought you could state yours when not needed, wanted or asked
Yes and why are you so triggered @@nikitasharma9708
If you make your life public then you will have to accept these comments.
You cannot expect people to react according to your wishes.
People will comment otherwise keep your comments section off.
@@ashjoshi4070if she has the right to say and do and make whatever content she wants then why can’t we comment whatever we want?! Why are you restricting others but not her?!
@@ashjoshi4070 you passed a judgement on the above person and called them hater and people who give 2 rupees advice. What a hypocrite you are.
@@ashjoshi4070exactly some useless people are so free to attack people and spread negativity when all they have to do is unfollow or not watch the damn video
If something happens to our kids all mothers become anxious but it’s important to maintain a composer otherwise we cannot think rationally, bringing up a child is a journey with all sorts of tough challenges in life all parents (esp mothers) go through..first time mother getting paranoid is different but once you have one child you become little experience and for second baby we handle these situations in a better way..we should become strong role models for our kids and not be hyper & weak otherwise when our kids face any difficult situation they won’t come to us thinking it would disturb us
Really like can you explain what hyper I did …. where you present in the situation or did I call people for help . Giving lectures is very easy
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking the way you expressed the whole situation clearly showed you’re being hyper and super anxious (you managed it all by yourself nobody’s taking that from you) but the way you reacted is what us as your viewers saw..I’ve been your subscriber for long and I want to remain your loyal viewer please take a break and then think over the situation instead of just reacting to all the comment in an upset state of mind you’re definitely disturbed after reading the comments but also understand most of us who have observed the same thing are only writing about what we saw and felt..I like your videos and I don’t comment anything negative ever this time also it’s an observation you call us your family member so just like that I said I didn’t use any bad/abusive language
@@rituvaran4662 Hey, it was not just ear infection, her kid was totally inactive all day, almost not appearing fully conscious she told - that is why she has written title as toughest situation (when it was a viral few days before and Sid was active, she was calm only those times even on vlog, this is not the first time he has fallen sick). Also she has handled even this situation calmly only when it happened, without any help. day to day life itself is not easy in usa, emergency/dr visits are different experiences here. She has posted a video about her experience later on because she vlogs about her life only, good or bad. some of the viewers are also misunderstanding her I feel.
Anybody will be anxious and react the same way how Payal did ... If people have guts then go and start your own channel and see how tough that is. Women only brings down other woman... Remember there is no men involved that why we will never rise
@@kaverip7 it’s not just me but many others who noticed/felt the same and what I understand observation of so many can’t be wrong..by the way you plan to respond to everyone..just for your clarity I think it’s the woman viewers strength who made this channel grow big so please keep your woman card to yourself..are you too a RUclipsr
Payel I know you from the beginning...when you have below 100 subscriber......u are so kind hearted and honest❤ but most of the audience used to watch fake things and content like other channels....so just chill and act according to your mind 😊😊
same here, you r absulately right.
I’m glad you stood up for yourself! Even if you do experience anxiety as a parent, there is no need to justify or explain yourself. It is a normal reaction and emotion. Not everyone is calm and zen-like. Even people who are criticizing you. Shame on them. This is exactly why mental illness is on the rise. People who share the way they feel get judged and criticized for having experienced negative emotions!? How cruel!
Very true
Stop giving counselling to others all mothers have faced this suitation you are not alone
Wow another hateful comment
OMG we knew this would be a content of the next video. You live in. First world country,again look what is happening in and around and calm down
@@ashjoshi4070 read the comment again So you wont have to write SO
@@goodgirl9894you can chose not to watch her content lol idk why ppl like you give unneeded unwanted advice
@@ashjoshi4070So 100 times till it makes sense
@@ashjoshi4070 maybe your IQ is low try reading it for the rest of your life for it to make sense
We have lived through same situation and can’t understand why you are getting so hyper. You need to stop being defensive and introspect on what majority of the commentators have said. No one dislikes you, but are finding your reactions to situations getting more and more hyper. Maybe you need counselling.
Really I feel you need seriously counseling like do you live my life ……
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking of course i don’t, but neither do I get hyper for every possible thing.
I second that payal…. You might need help you always sound hyper… whether it is neighbors sad life, your dog,bad yogurt container or rai exams… trust me we all face similar situations in life but you cannot make a big deal out of everything…. This is life and life can be cruel at times… learn, survive and grow… stop complaining and present your situation like this in a different manner… a positive way of telling your worst situation and see how motivated ppl will feel seeing your vlogs rather than bashing you…
People should be sensible..N today's world sensibility becomes lack n lost. But Paayal u r so blessed to hv ANGEL like daughter, that's RAI, your so loveable n sensitive husband n sweet n cute baby SIDH ❤
She is drama queen asthough she is talking as this is her first child and first experience omg
It seems you are watching only single vlogging channel that's why you have no idea of definition of drama queen . Go and look around you will get many many better result .
@@suchandrabose1 who are you to tell me all these mind your own business don't poke your nose on others comment I commented to that drama queen not you.
She is over smart.
Then will u stop watching her now onwards? U won't because u need entertainment in ur life and make judgement on others life
Being over dramatic or over reacting or over caring is GOOD! That just shows you are being a good, concerned and caring mother. Just ignore people that have an opinion and say for everyone! It’s your child and only YOU know what is best for the kids.
I seriously wonder why you always make content out of comments, if you’re a RUclipsr for seven years by this time you should know to ignore negative comments. You keep telling “so many people said this that “ not for yesterday video but for most of the videos. I’m sure you will talk about this comment too! In my opinion, You need to ignore negative comments.
Good you spoke about it. I too have a son of your age it’s tough to manage here in USA. People are emotionless nowadays
I totally understand, i have been through this aswell ..its scary alone with kids in another country
Feel better, baby Sid! Payal, you are his mom. You shared what you faced, end of the discussion.
Drama queen. She is acting as if she only have baby in this world.💣😡you react so hyper
Logo ka kam hai bolna so don't break your heart be happy ❤❤❤❤
Payal just turn off your comment section for all videos ...it would be good
You're very rude and it seems you're suffering from superiority complex the way you said 'don't say money'!! Calm down and don't say sorry when you are not
It’s good to be rude with rude people otherwise the world will eat you ….. telling from my experience
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinkingWow what an attitude!!
Learn it I told sorry to my real viewers not to trollers
You are very genuine and honest ❤️ just stay the way you are.
There are people who just have so much time to simply criticise.. ignore them dear but good that you answered them back. We know how genuine you are and that is the reason we r ur subscribers from so long
Just ignore...there are people who will be negative influences..just ignore them... We r there to support you... Best wishes from Kolkata
Payal please keep your personal life to yourself you don’t have to tell and each and everything here in RUclips, people will comment positive as well as negative! if u don’t know how to take it please stop sharing your problems
Ma'am she is vloger..and unko kaam hi apna routine dhikhana agar unka baby ka tabiyat kharab hai to she just share that usmai kya hua yr...see some how we all subscribers are also her virtual family and isly she share with us..jab woh apne sari happiness hamare sath share karte hai to apna sad tym bhi share kiye..and hume unke sath hona chayiye virtual hi sahi...don't worry payal di...acce logo k sath acca hi hota...and apke teeno bacce hamesha acce hi rahenge..mata rani blessing is always with u all.❤.❤❤
Exactly you are right sab alag alag sochta hain iska Matlab ya nahe ha jis na kuch galat kaha usma humanity nahe ha
I am a youtuber with a music channel...but only those who share their life story can make dollars....
Some people can be so stupid…Basically I feel they r jealous and r waiting to make negative comments.
First time commenting on your blog. Ignore all the negative comments.. You are a very strong and pure heated women . Only sensible person can relate with this situation
Same here m bhi aesy hi video bna kr Husband ko dikhati hn bar bar update deti hn keon ky hm dono distrub hoty hn as parents , sister you are strong don't worry i understand keon ky m bhi akeli sambhalti hn ghar bchy last 3 years sy
Ear infections are horrible!! As an adult I get sometimes, due to the nature of my ear. Its just really a bad pain. Me and other friends who are also mothers, call Day cares as virus hub. Every other week they are getting one infection or other. One week they go to school, next week and half at home recovering. This is happening. If you can, try to keep Sid more time at home. I know they learn social skills etc, but when they are ill, its a bigger headache and we are heartbroken.
Also every person deals with crisis in different manner. When your child is sick, every parent is right to be worried. There is no need to judge anyone. Be kind people!
Payal, try to ignore the bad comments. You are genuine and you are doing your best!
As a mother I can understand your situation. I too run in a panic mode when my child felt sick when he was a baby until now as grown up teenager I still get worried when he falls sick.
The situation is bad . I agree. But this is social media. There will be all types of people . Don’t bother about negative things. Just do your thing. Who is interested will watch else they can quit. But this is part of process making RUclips videos. Every profession has its pros and cons. If you have decided to make videos expect these . And you have decided not to sell stuff or take up advertising it’s your choice. Making money or not it’s your personal preference . Don’t think much or don’t have to give justification . People will talk no matter what happens.
Whatever you call it overacting drama or pouring in negative comments , she is making money from all of them. The show must go on…😂😂🎉🎉 social media is different ,
Its ok , ignore such people …. Keep up the good work !
You are the most honest vlogger. You have no drama and no showoff .Very realistic videos.
Payal your reaction was right even i was in same situation when my premature son had to admitted in hospital and my husband was out of station i newly learned car nd man was constantly shouting saying were is ur husband if you don't know how to drive sit at home....
Just ignore negative comments. Earlier i also said that don't judge her in this situation. When it comes to our kids it is our natural behaviour that we got penic & all. So please be humble.
Hi Payal ..just ignore such people because after all u have to tackle the situation.I know u are most sensible and geniune person.Take care of Sid .Get well soon Siddu baba.
For very 1st time commenting here. I am watching you for years. I know how organic your content is. But recently I have noticed lots of hate comments in all your videos raising questions on anything and everything. People like us who live alone qith kids in a foreign country without any househelps and any family memebers know exactly how does it feel when any of the family members get sick. I can understand totally what you must have gone through...this was needed you know thaf you answered back...although this wont change those backbiters bit yes atleast you needed to vent it out. Be organic like how you are always. Lots of love to you and the kids❤
Great job 👍👏.just ignore those people .they are always showing there jealousy face 😈... because they are not happy there own life .
I screamed and yelled to the core on my husband when he went to US leaving me and 4 year child alone. My son had 102 fever for one week. I used to cry a lot daily. That time I dint know driving also. I must say you had so much patience and handled so bravely.
Hooe you all are well, you are allowed to feel however you want to feel. And dont allow other people to invalidate you, that is a power only you hold. I am so happy to see Siddu walk around and well again, only you know what you have gone through.
By saying that aap kabhi bhi aaisi situation mein na aayein you have risen much more as a human being . This shows what a beautiful person you are and inspire of all this you are wishing the best for everyone. Maa Durga bless you ❤
Good ...u spoke up which is absolutely ur full right to do.
I hope they understood.
Just ignore them & move on with making vlog❤.
Don't care about negative comments. U are awesome mom and blogger ❤❤
Hi Payal, I have been watching you since many years now. You and me have same timeline of pregnancy. I have a son of Sid’s age, I get so much help from your videos as I am a first time mother. Even my son had viral infection during last weeks, even now he is recovering. Today when I saw your video, I could completely feel the pain of a parent who is alone at such tough situations. I live in Germany and the medical facilities are tough here as well for emergency times. Me and my husband have faced such situations with our son and to be true, it’s a nightmare, I get goosebumps to even think about it. People who say such horrible things like drama etc , I don’t know about their life experience…but when it comes to our child, we all have the same reactions, no matter what and how strong we are. Please continue with a spark of smile you always keep in your life and spread around. Lots of love and wishes to you and your family, hope Sid recovers soon. ❤
Hi Payal Di I watched both of your vlogs and I feel you are not at all answerable to such negative people they are totally insane, selfish,heartless, mindless they enjoy teasing and commenting bad and useless,daily youtube vloging means sharing your good and bad experiences than why people don't understand ,ek taraf aise logon ko vlogger ki daily life me kya ho raha sab kuch dekhna bhi h phir faltu comment bhi karna h, maine aise vloggers bhi dekhe h jo kya khaya kya nhi khaya kitni roti khai altu faltu apni earning ke liye kuch bhi video me dikhate h waha aise logon ko koi problem nhi hoti yaha agar koi apni genuine problem share kr raha h to kisi ko console karne ki jagah drama bata rahe h ,SHAME ON SUCH EMOTIONLESS PEOPLE ,it's good that you expressed your feelings but plz from next time never give importance to such negative comments just IGNORE them.We like the way you are,you have always inspired us in many ways never change yourself for such stupid negative comments , just chill Di we can see how talented and creative you are you can earn yourself but you gave priority to your family first which is really commendable 👍👍hope Sid gets well soon akele sab kuch manage karna pardes me koi aasaan kaam nhi h phir chahe kitni hi earning kyu na ho anyone can have any difficulty at any time one who faces them knows what they go through so don't worry about such silly people. We all love you ❤ ❤
Di charo.... People have always something to criticize others... Don't explain at all.... They are superheroes... Jaar hoy se bojhe... Lecture dewa is very easy... Ami face korechi same situation like you... Ato helpless laage bolar noy... Ny way lv u... Nd be strong like this always ❤
I have problem only with her thumbnails! Man I watch the whole video for that thumbnail and will hear about it for few seconds that’s it! Payal u need to put some relatable thumbnail . That’s my suggestion ❤ Baki you are a good soul and I like to watch your daily vlogs!
@simplelivingwisethinking @Payal, I have been following you since 10k subscribers in 2018. Dont take peoples comments personally. Comments hurt then you are human. Dont show your childrens activities and health that much. Just say he was not keeping well so you could not make videos. Dont go into details just as you avoid showing Rais life in detail. This is your channel dont make it your childrens. I hope you understand. Start giving 1 or 2 lines of life advice in every video. Things will turn around just see.
I feel bad that you have to go through this. Don’t explain to them. Not worth it. I was worried about you when you didn’t post any videos for six days. I pray for you and your family. You are very real. Jesi bhee ho Bahut pyaari ho. Please remember all of us who likes you the way you are yaar.
Payal didi ,you are a kind hearted soul.i can imagine what you must have gone through,ppl say we have to handle things here all by ourselves but still we need a support system.if bhaiya was there things would have been different.but please don’t justify things .if ppl take it wrong let them,you dont take it to heart .lots of love 🫶🏼hope Sid is doing good now
My son is almost same age as Sid, I can relate to this situation. Ever since my son started going to daycare, he gets a new virus every week… but this is building his immunity. My daughter (who is 7 year older than my son) never had this issue. So ever I used to get scared when my son would get unwell like this. But this will get easy with time, keep doing the good job you are doing.
Don't worry about negative comments and u r really great because u take care of every thing very smoothly
People won’t understand until they go through the same situation.. I’m a new mother, I can understand and feel you.. take care dear Payal.. stay strong stay positive
It's sad people are being inhuman regarding the situation with a kid. If the kid is playing and eating things still look normal, but seeing an active child suddenly sleeping constantly is a situation to panic...any sane human will get worried. Payal dee good you spoke, u r right people never understand unless they themselves face it. The other day when u took him to hospital before the ear thing, he looked so sick that itself explains how unwell he must be with the ear infection.
After seeing so much hate on your video's, i feel that no matter how good your are there will be ppl who hate you or tell negetive about you or will not be happy with you in general... I have always felt tgat you are such a good person, so caring so sensitive towards everyone... I am surprised how such genuine ppl like you also gets such comments 😓
Ek baat bolu aap ke blog me mujhe cooking acchi lagti h lekin aap apni audiance se aakh mila ke baat kyu nahi karti jab aap blog banate ho to sirf aap aur ek camera jo ki insaan nahi h usme hi to dekhna hota h ...bedhadak hokar camera me dekh kar baat kiya kariye ..ham sabko accha lagega...idher udher aankhe kyu ghumate raheti ho gol gol .bahut hi ajeeb lagta h lagataar aankhe ghumati raheti ho
Payal, don’t worry about other people. Be yourself and take care of your own self and the kids. You don’t have to explain anything till anyone. Hoping Sid is doing well now. God bless you and the family ❤
Don't worry about these comments dear. Any mother in this situation can get worried. Stay positive, your blogs give a lot of positivity in our lives. Lot's of love and more power to you ❤
Keep calm..when ....ur child is sick is bull shit
A devoted parent will definitely worry n its absolutely right
Be sensitive n pls dont hurt d emotions of a mother
Its okay if u guys dont like her....dats fine....but as a mom she was d only one who managed everything single handedly wid two kids in troubled times 👍🙏🏻
Please all the moms will understand what u went through, seeing a child in such position will just make mom nervous. Don't pay heed to any negative comments. You are a very strong woman.
Jsrk
I just see but u can say i literally wait fr yr vlogs
See people will tell dont bother
Its there state of mind
There aresick there showed there mind set and not yrs
So pls ignore
Anyway always krsna blesses yr lovely family ❤🎉
She is a drama queen
People are mean Payal. My children are same age like yours. I totally get you. In USA to be alone with two kids it’s tough. Don’t be sad. They are just there to demotivate you. You are a amazing mother. Keep it up. Lots of love and blessing to you and your family ❤
Ur very honest person plz dnt mind those persons
Don't give importance to negative comments Payal you r such a positive person you ll always get god's blessings
hi payal , I can totally understand your feelings and your situation. I have been through this situation and my husband was not here may 11months daughter were sick and my 8yrs old were in school. mujhe apni beti ko admit karna pada tha because of some reason. jis per hota haina tabhi kisi ko samjh aata hai. LEAVE PAYAL..... HARDLY you will get people so really understand these situation..... and yes we are wide and mother too so we have to manage both accordingly.
Forget it payal
They are jealous because your are growing They are not part of family we are taking you as family member
Wo sab chodo......... I am very happy to see sidu playing in kitchen 😅
Now he is fine and well
Payal don't explain ur self to anyone....we love u the way u r...don't be disturbed by mean PPL 's words...tc. especially of urself since u were well u took care of your kids in absence of shoumik....love from karnataka...❤
Don’t bother negative comments anymore, I know , my husband goes on work trips frequently the person who handles the situation we only know how we feel when kids get sick and if we don’t have any help.
Keep going Payel ..You are doing well ! Its easy to troll n pass negative comments ...Dont get consumed by them ,its your life and your choice ❤..
Your worry was very valid. People don't get it ...just ignore what they say and don't acknowledge to thos e silly comments.
Don't get disturbed by sarcastic comments. Don't give clarification to negative people. God bless your family.
Payal . Don’t bother about the negativity. It’s natural for a mother to get upset, any mother who does not get anxious about the situation is not a mother then. Don’t explain or give an explanation. Your reaction is very natural. You are doing great.
Payel ur fear for a child who verbally can’t yet put forth his pain .. and him being continuously sleepy .. it is something to be worried abt ..ear infection causes lot of discomfort in kids and it is not easily recognisable.. even I faced this when my son was 5 years old .. thgh he conveyed his ears r paining still I had to rush him in emergency because even he was not at all active
Very true. The first time my son had an infection, he was asleep for hours and I had to wake him up at intervals to give him water. It was scary! With no one to guide or walk us through these situations, it can be extremely unnerving. The people who are yapping here must be people who have parents coming take care of their kids for 6 months and then in-laws coming to take care of their kids. They probably have no idea what it is to take care of a baby all the time without a spouse and parents around. Let’s declare godly status for them and move on. They deserve medals for attaining zen without sitting under the bodhi tree. 😀
Payal, in today's world most of the people lacks empathy. You're not at all over dramatic! because a person will definitely not understand a situation until they face the situation themselves. It is a fact that the world is filled with more hate & negativity but always remember that there are many people out there who adore you and your whole family. They always bless & pray for your family. Please take care & ignore all these haters even though it is hard. You're blessed with many good things in life. For me you have been such a motivator for many things in my life. Your vlogs have helped me emmensly to get over depressed situations and bounce back. Keep shining!! Hate comes for the people who are worth enough only. Just remember that. Much love for Rai, Sid & Rex 💕
Arrey, these people are those who have really no work to do & they are for these negative comments,just ignore them & delete their messages.love you Payel ❤❤
Payal I have been following and viewing you since the beginning and I love watching your videos. You are a part of my life now. I would like to let you know certain things which might help you.
It's your choice to show your daily life in front of everybody. By experience you must have understood by now that there are both kinds of views that must be coming on your content. Positive as well as negative.
I think you should take positive comments as an encouragement and at the same time take negative comments with a pinch of salt.
There is really no need to get so upset with the comments and people opinions.
Please remember that you have chosen this path of putting out the content publicly. Agreed that people do go beyond their limits while writing. Completely agree. But at the same time you should also know what to take, respond and what to ignore.
Continue with your daily vlogging if you really enjoy it and do not bother about the negativity. Lots of best wishes to both your kids.
Payal, whoever is criticizing you just do a public giveaway and give them medals. They deserve them for being such calm and efficient parents. Wo mahaan log hai. Aisa bolo aur chhod do. We are just humans. Baki “cool moms” ke liye 👏 (if you know what I mean)
Please dont stop ... keep showing Sid and Rex ... I will miss them .. Watching your videos now make me feel part of your family.. love to see Sid growing up ... and so also Rex.. Please just for those crazy people commenting .. please dont stop
It was not at all dramatic, we all should learn to be empathic towards others,life isn't easy please don't judge, please don't pass comments,fhats bare minimum we. Can do if not helping others
Hi Payal.. You are very strong lady. I went through similar situation when my baby was 5 days old. I had to take her to emergency as she got fever. It was COVID time and I was all alone as only one visitor was allowed in the hospital. Ignore the toxic people around and shine your life. Your smile motivates multiple new moms. Keep up the good work ❤
Hi Payal! Dear don’t be disheartened because of some ppl who are always judging u negatively. No point in explaining urself to them coz anyways they will believe what they want to. I’ve been ur viewer since Rai was in grade 3 and the first video that I saw of urs was the one in which u were following Rujuta diwakar’s diet and since then I have been ur subscriber. I have seen ur journey since so many years and I know all the ppl who know u since these many years know the kind of person u are. Please don’t change the content of ur videos just because some ppl say bad. If u will show something else they will find faults in that too. So I would suggest that be urself and make videos the way u want to. Take care and stay positive. We all are with u. Lots and lots of love ❤️… keep smiling 😊
Really this congestion nose ,ear infection and eye problem so irritable.
I guess people need compassion, love and sensitiveness in their life.. looking at the comment section it made me feel how stone-hearted everyone has become and how they are comparing their lives with hers ..god has given everyone different body features, different situations, different heart so if u don't judge anyone on the basis of ur personal situation..if u cn be compassionate then don't be judgmental about others life... have mercy ..dont spew all ur negativity on other because he is not going according to u and ur lifestyle..
Paysl dont take these comments personally. Thats the drawback of being on social platforms. People can bark anything. You slay girl❤️❤️
Yes Payal I totally agree with you. I dont understand why people judge others so easily without thinking. Making vlogs is not easy. Staying out of India away from our people in this situation is very difficult.when children are not well, every mother is worried.i can relate coz i m also in middle east country. We feel alone at times.we become helpless. Infact if anyone in the house is unwell we feel restless.Payal we love you. we love your vlogs.loads of love and blessings to cutu Sid🥰 and angel Rai🥰 Pls take care. Dont bother of these senseless people.
Love you❤
Don't bother much about others, they will only come to know if they are in that position, just chill
Payal please don't get angry .They are frustrated in their life , that's why . But for me u r the best and I really admire you. Where I live I also have 0 help , so I can totally understand ur situation. So , pls ignore because u know what is best for ur family 👪. God bless n give loads of love to Kids. Take care😊
i know you might be hurt but pls don't say that you will not talk about your kids, it feels like they are part of our family only. i have a 17 month old and i have been following you since i was pregnant.Though will respect your decision but will miss seeing Rai and Sidd
Payal, you don’t owe anyone any explanation. But I’m glad you spoke about it. I was in disbelief when I read comments on that blog. Hope Sid is doing well now.
Don't worry payal...the way you react its justify.....someppl don't undestand...stay strong.....god bless sid❤ppl r unnecessary trolling you..
@SimpleLivingWiseThinking : Dear Payal, I feel anybody who lacks sympathy is not worth talking with. If I were you, I would show such viewers the way out,and relax in peace 😅. I can't imagine how social media in India has deteriorated the conscience of people over the years. I sometimes get sick of this troll mentality in any comments section of most RUclips channels. These are veiled people, good for nothing when it comes to helping or being nice even in an online community. Would it hurt for people to be good to others ? - simply don't understand.
The best way to respond to a troll is to not respond.
Ignore the haters! They will only understand if they are in the same situation. Living in the US without immediate family and managing everything alone can be very daunting! You keep being positive and just see through those negative comments. They have nothing better to do ! We enjoy watching your videos. Take care !
Just ignore negative comments 👍 you are down to earth and sweet we have been watching you since years no need to give clarification....some people.only judge others without understanding other persons circumstances.....keep going ❤
People who commented probably dont know about the medical situation here.Appointments are hard to get, urgent care has long wait times and you cant just walk into pharmacy and get meds, there is wait time and insurance involved.Just give them the benefit of doubt.You dont have to justify yourself.Just know one thing you are in the public view so will get both hate and love.Not many people have the guts to show their lives.Good luck ,also Sid is adorable, pls dont stop showing him at times.
It’s her you tube channel
She has the freedom to put the content she likes
Her vlogs are just so normal , casual , organic daily home vlogs
It surely captures her natural feelings , emotions and expressions
It’s normal and natural
Every day is different
Every child is different
Every country is different
Every person reacts differently to different situations
Oh women c’mon , you wanna watch her channel, and you also want to comment and find faults .
I’ve noticed that ,Only a women is capable of doing this .
Forever pulling down another woman - criticise whether right or wrong . We live in newer times . Let’s broaden our thinking .
Pls encourage and support other women . If you have nothing nice to say - just keep quiet 🙏
Our children also watch us and imitate us .
BE MINDFUL
Spread love and cheer always . It helps us to have a better quality of life .
( don’t think I am Payals friend , cousin or Aunty. I’m just an old subscriber living oceans apart from her 😊👍)
Kuch log ki aadat hoti faltu comments krne ki pr tum Dil pe mt liya kro or main to vlog dekhti hi bachon ke liye hun maine Rai ko bada hote dekha h or ab Sid ki bhi masti dekh ke acha lgta hai to tum Bachon ko jarur dikhana .God bless you and your family.