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  • Last Week Was Horrible😭 Faced The Toughest Situation In My Life | Simple Living Wise Thinking
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  • @Truthaurnothing
    @Truthaurnothing 4 месяца назад +77

    shme on those who r calling her situation a drama..really she was all alone there with a little kid and she had no idea this wud happen to her when her husband is nt there.. i cud feel the trauma she had gone through every second of that day coz i hav gone through it ...i mean people have become so insensitive these days. really sad

    • @AC-jg2dg
      @AC-jg2dg 4 месяца назад +4

      I completely agree 💯👍

    • @ManjuRaikhola
      @ManjuRaikhola 4 месяца назад +3

      Well said....👍

    • @pranikarana9054
      @pranikarana9054 4 месяца назад +3

      Yeah true ...same happened with me so many times as my husband working out of city

    • @rakheedas4732
      @rakheedas4732 4 месяца назад +4

      I have a 3 year old son...Aisa situation hota toh kya karti main soch k bhi shivering ho raha hai...

    • @nishachauhan3512
      @nishachauhan3512 4 месяца назад +3

      Correct I also said that when anything comes on our kid, it is not tolerable. I again said, don't judge her in this matter.

  • @Ved4ever
    @Ved4ever 4 месяца назад +33

    Oh man.!! This comment section is full of hatred. Grow up people.!!
    It’s normal to feel anxious when your little one is sick & you are all alone. Why does everyone get into this competition of proving themselves as “Better Moms”?
    She just shared what she felt. Not everyone handles situations same way.
    This world would be such a better place to live when women will stop judging other women.

  • @meghji
    @meghji 4 месяца назад +1

    Learn to pronounce words correctly.. make an effort to

  • @pshal
    @pshal 4 месяца назад +3

    A mom who cannot calmly handle kids situation! Your caption was as if something terrible happened. Understandable that child is sick, but your way of Omg dramatic behavior and expressions is what is more sick!! Kids get ear infections left and right!!! It’s very common.
    Of course your kiddo is sick, but don’t make a fuss out of it. Be thankful that its only ear infection.
    You don’t know what parents go through with real sick kids with diseases.
    Using no help reason 24*7! We also live in the US. After so many years you still cannot manage on your own is a shame. You are a mom with two kids, 40 plus women. Grow up and learn to be calm and manage just home if you are not working!

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Really then who managed did you come and help me or did I take help from anyone and ear infection don’t happen right and left . Giving lecture is very easy and by the way who told that I am not working. I earn that much atleast I am afford a BMW for myself.

    • @SV-ff4iu
      @SV-ff4iu Месяц назад

      Imagine those women also shoulder jobs and have to look after everyone as well. What utter nonsense and you are so hypered all the time.. very typical bengali mother ..extremely over reactive.

  • @njmjius
    @njmjius 4 месяца назад +13

    Keep calm payal. Take some effort and make some friends who can help you in such unforseen situations. All of us are alone here.. friends are our family here... Come of of the zone where you constantly think that your world is just 4 people... Think about the time when your daughter will leave home for studies, keep you anxiety level low.. This will keep on repeating until he reaches a good immunity level...

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Really how you know I have anxiety and I leave in very white community where everyone is busy . Like seriously did you see me getting anxious and I think any mother will get anxious if they see that their baby is half conscious like you are acting as if people don’t get nervous and scared

    • @cheersbloom
      @cheersbloom 4 месяца назад +7

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinkingit’s a wrong statement that white people don’t help and are busy. They just don’t interfere in others life unless they are asked too. Next time please feel free to ask for help from neighbors if you are alone and worried - white neighbors will readily help.

    • @njmjius
      @njmjius 4 месяца назад +12

      You live in that community because YOU chose.
      Everryone is busy but you could have asked for help to pick drop your daughter.You live in a country where health care is easily available, think about other side of world. Doc gave meds you started meds and then putting misleading to titles for sympathy. I am not understanding that!!!

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +1

      @@njmjius on my mistake sorry any problem come next time I will seek your advise and who to ask for ride there all are working . I hope so in life when you have problem you will compare yourself with the other side of the world .

    • @cheersbloom
      @cheersbloom 4 месяца назад +2

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking Hi Payal, please don’t take all comments as negative - you can patiently think once and see if next time you can make few things easy for you. Definitely situation was difficult and in the heat of the moment difficult to think about solutions. From next time since your husband is always busy with work and if Sid is sick you can think of booking an Uber for Rai for pick up and drop to school in case no one of Rai’s friends parents can help in situations like this. Uber is very safe, you can track it on your phone and she has a phone and she is grown up and school is nearby. You can keep this as backup till she starts driving on her own.

  • @padmadudgaonkar7518
    @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад +20

    Ear infections can happen within 24 hours after a doctor checks the patient.
    Got nothing to do with routine checkups.
    Please update your knowledge regarding Toddlers healthcare and how to manage their sickness.
    Once the kids start going to daycare, this is ongoing situation till the ear canal develops fully.
    Talk to the pediatrician to learn about how to manage and get timely help.
    Including sick visits during the week and weekends.
    Rai was there as support that is good.
    But parents need to be in control of the situation.
    There is “ NO SPECIAL AWARD “ for being an over anxious parent!!!!
    The most important duty as a parent is to have a plan ready to handle these situations.
    You are mom for 2 children.
    This is nothing new to you!!!

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +3

      Really but I was all alone with zero help and then I took him to doctor Sid already had fever so it was her duty to check him properly.

    • @padmadudgaonkar7518
      @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад +4

      The reality of life here!!! One parent is very capable of handling situations like this.
      Yes!! If your husband was also home it would have been great!!.
      But as parents, we should learn to do this as calmly as possible.

    • @padmadudgaonkar7518
      @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes, we all feel helpless enough to feel that we take away the child’s pain and suffer it ourselves.
      She was not calm, because she waited till the child was very sick.

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      @@padmadudgaonkar7518 really I took him Friday also like where you present in the situation….. you people act as if you all are like God omg

    • @explorewithrupa
      @explorewithrupa 4 месяца назад

      😂​@@ashjoshi4070

  • @rads861
    @rads861 4 месяца назад +24

    I would not comment on overacting/ drama, but why did you use a click bait video title?! If this is The Toughest situation in your life, then you are so blessed. instead of thanking God for blessing you so much, you are using your kid’s sickness as a click bait way to attract attention. In all seriousness, what happened with your neighbor is actually the toughest thing to happen to a spouse or family. You have decent following on RUclips, are earning a good amount, stop having a pity party. Not watching anymore.

    • @Project800o
      @Project800o 4 месяца назад +12

      There!! some one said it 👏👏 such cheap gimmicks to get as many views as possible. She takes people for fools😂 it’s not like she is a new mother. This is her second child. she has been there done that! Yet, acts like her child is sick for the first time 😂 it’s comical at this point!!

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +2

      Really comical situation shame on you ….. really are you people human a child is sick and you are making fun of it …

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      How come it’s click bait …. I already told last week in my title .

    • @Project800o
      @Project800o 4 месяца назад +16

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking nobody is making fun of a child’s situation. Everybody is empathetic towards the child and wants nothing but the best care for him. What people are upset about is you overdramatizing every situation and using it as a clickbait. I don’t have to explain any further coz you know exactly what you are doing!!

    • @rads861
      @rads861 4 месяца назад +18

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking I will explain why it comes across as a click bait title- when I saw that title, so many things came to mind, all very sad and truly tough. An accident, car crash, fire hazard, theft, etc. A sick toddler with readily available medical resources and antibiotics already started, is not “things went horrible suddenly “. Kids usually go lethargic and sleepy in fever and infection. And it takes antibiotics some time to start showing results. I am sorry you are facing a backlash, but you should think about it. You can have a few jealous people but not everyone here is jealous of you. I watch your videos for so many reasons. I felt compelled to comment for a reason. Please use your titles very carefully, those who like your content will still watch your videos even with plain titles. You are very blessed, 😇.

  • @padmadudgaonkar7518
    @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад +13

    People praise you sky high who don’t live overseas.
    Just like a thing else we need to adapt to handle situations like this to the healthcare systems here.
    Talk to pediatrician.This is just the first time. You will see many events . This is all part of growing up. Nothing out of norm is happening.

    • @padmadudgaonkar7518
      @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад

      Excuse you!!! There is nothing new or negative, just giving her tips to manage situations like this.
      Unfortunately, FYI empathy can’t be sowed and reaped.
      Empathy is putting yourself in their shoes.
      I have worn those shoes and giving her real life tips which she can use.
      Butt out

    • @meghji
      @meghji 4 месяца назад

      Children are resilient.. don’t be dramatic

  • @alpanapaul8210
    @alpanapaul8210 4 месяца назад +18

    Its better if Sid stays at home and not go to Day Care. Too much infections are happening and always falling sick. His immune system has not developed.

  • @vadlamaniratnam278
    @vadlamaniratnam278 4 месяца назад +5

    It's quite common that kids getsick but when hubby is out of station it's obviously a panicky situation n it's quite natural so payal pplwill tell so many thing n may even laugh at us but I can personally relate myself touas I get very panicky even though pplr round me too

  • @goodgirl9894
    @goodgirl9894 4 месяца назад +21

    She always exaggerates even the smallest things. Grownup Payal

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +2

      Really it’s a small thing didn’t know dear

    • @Analysts-o9j
      @Analysts-o9j 4 месяца назад +1

      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking : please don't bother to reply to weird comments. It will waste your time unnecessarily.

    • @goodgirl9894
      @goodgirl9894 4 месяца назад +1

      To all of those who like drama are calling others fake who are keeping it real. Salute to those mothers whose kids are actually going through lot. Look at Palestine dont you think you all in much better position. Shame on you for making big deal outta everything. You have access to medical there they are blowing up hospitals.SO STOP THIS .

  • @AshimaBanerjee-zz3ze
    @AshimaBanerjee-zz3ze 4 месяца назад +18

    Most of the mother's go through all this, you do a lot of drama and over acting

  • @ghoshsuman214
    @ghoshsuman214 4 месяца назад +15

    এর ভিডিও হলো শুধুই lecture শোনো কিছু অর্থহীন কথা। কিছুই নেই মাঝে মাঝে কিছু বিশ্রী রেসিপি 🤣

  • @nehavij4337
    @nehavij4337 4 месяца назад +2

    Dramatic description of a normal ear infection after viral with kids. Ofcourse if the kids are sick such things happen. Learn to be strong and set example for your children .

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Really how was I not strong …… can you explain and ear infection is quite serious for kids under 2 and my son was unconscious for almost one day . Dont know you are a mother or not ….

    • @nehavij4337
      @nehavij4337 4 месяца назад +1

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking I said “the way you are describing is over dramatic” such things happen, no need to describe in such a way.

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Things look easy when you don’t have to face the situation. Grass is always greener in the other side

  • @aditiajayvyas
    @aditiajayvyas 4 месяца назад +1

    She is pampered dughter n wife kabhi life mein kuch dekha hi nahin toh yeh experience kharab hi lagega ......living individually extremely privilege she is small things n rotine problems will bother her for sure

  • @reemafernandes8265
    @reemafernandes8265 4 месяца назад +13

    she only keeps praising her neighbour who lost her husband lately...dat 2 she is a mum of 4 small kids.so payal should take things easy

  • @ashrafjafri1134
    @ashrafjafri1134 4 месяца назад +14

    Life happens. You are programming Rai also to be like you instead of making her capable and strong. That is more important than any GPA. I have three girls who were all honor students and everything in life is not GPA related. You need to involve her in more housework and childcare of her younger sibling. Real life training is important. Most of us are alone here and have to go through all kinds of emergencies. Some worse than what you went through. I hope you get counseling to learn to deal with things. Life is uncertain for all of us. I wish you the best dear.

    • @royalzboutique1
      @royalzboutique1 4 месяца назад +3

      I exactly was about to write this that Rai is also going to learn the same thing ... Payal .. U are really a worried mom as u yourself say ... Thats all it is ... Nothing more

    • @Iivingmybestlife
      @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад +3

      Actually this people never saw real life outside there home just they are in themself no friends no social group dont know how things outside home .... people are suffering from illness poverty jobless torture so more worst things... so we have to make ourself tough for any situation ... my husband always says its not women fault its husband fault too who make women dependent on them Husband love n over pamper spoils sometime ... she cant live one week without husband its all cz her husband made her like that... one should always prepare for worst

    • @rachnaluthra7741
      @rachnaluthra7741 4 месяца назад +2

      She is very codependent and naive and needs counseling. Her situation can change in a heartbeat. No one plans on being a single parent. Nothing will change till she changes her mentality. Daughter's learn from the example set by mother's.

  • @rackhi
    @rackhi 4 месяца назад +10

    For all those who are calling her drama and over acting.. you all are pathetic and feed on negativity. Isme kya drama or over acting hain?? She was all by herself with a sick child and in the USA it’s not like we can get up and go straight to our Dr. or hospital here they have after hour phone service and if anything goes out of control then you have to take your sick child straight to the emergency all by yourself. So in situations like this for someone who has not seen their child severely ill, it is evident to react like this.

  • @simple-x4m
    @simple-x4m 4 месяца назад +14

    So many things went right for you which could have gone wrong easily. Just imazine if you had to have 'real' job and this week you just could not take off, Rai is also a toddler and in your care, not having good insurance plan, not having a reliable car, husband on an international trip, a diagnosis that may require hospitalization, you also are sick etc. etc. -- the list goes on and on. You had a situation and you had all the resources to handle the situation. Your situation is not unique, not tough at all. There are so many incidences where the we have no control over the situation. There is a vlogger who has cancer and she vlogs, now she has it tough!!! Pray to universe that it gives you only so much that you can bear. Ear infection is a common thing.

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +3

      I hope so when you face the same situation you think like this …… really like I am sure nobody I. This world think about other people when they are in worst situation and we all don’t have the same life like I can’t compare my life to a homeless person right .

    • @njmjius
      @njmjius 4 месяца назад +5

      Thanks for showing her the mirror of 'real life problems'

    • @gertrude4847
      @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад +3

      I understood you, Very well said!
      But unfortunately, Payal won't understand what you are implying here, for her We are haters here who has no life experience

    • @gertrude4847
      @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад

      @@ashjoshi4070 2cents advice?? That was a multimillion advice

    • @gertrude4847
      @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад

      @@ashjoshi4070 Well, I could agree with you, But then We'd both be wrong!

  • @sujathanarayan6747
    @sujathanarayan6747 4 месяца назад +5

    Uppittu.... Payal ji its my favorite Dish..... 😍 from Bengaluru ❤

  • @kritikaganesh137
    @kritikaganesh137 4 месяца назад +5

    Rai is very sweet ..she will always help.She is understanding situations..hats off to Payal & Shaumik ..for balancing both kids ❤

  • @jdgirljd
    @jdgirljd 4 месяца назад +26

    U need to take anxiety meds
    I don’t understand how u let it escalate this serious ear infection doesn’t happen over night . Don’t you check his ears everyday after his bath ??? Don’t you clean baby ears everyday after bath.

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Really wow didn’t know that we can only see ear infection . Doctor’s also need a special instrument to see it .

    • @ujjainiroy-simplylife1371
      @ujjainiroy-simplylife1371 4 месяца назад

      Ear infections actually can happen overnight. I’m surprised you don’t know that.
      The thing with kids that small, ear infections can happen very fast. A child could be fit and fine today, but tomorrow, he/she may catch an infection, be it the ears or anything else.
      This has nothing to do with cleaning the ears.
      As far as I know, we, who are not medically trained, cannot check ears of infants or adults for infections. Only doctors/pediatricians are qualified to do that check/control.
      We can only do cleaning and that too on the outside. If you need a thorough cleaning of the ears, only a doctor can do that with the right tools.
      I know because my son’s doctor always cleaned his ears with a special tool for deep cleaning before checking his ears.

    • @KK-sl1nk
      @KK-sl1nk 4 месяца назад +1

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking Take a break from day care dear.

    • @pdchowhan
      @pdchowhan 4 месяца назад +1

      My God this is how you shame a mother? Have some fear of God.

    • @AC-jg2dg
      @AC-jg2dg 4 месяца назад

      @@ashjoshi4070 why are you harassing me and everyone else? No one said anything to you. You are the one who have mental issues harassing others and need to see a psychiatrist!

  • @ranid2530
    @ranid2530 4 месяца назад +2

    Payal change the tawa on which you made roti, if its non stick , its coating is gone, it will leach out toxins.

  • @OldSoul2779
    @OldSoul2779 4 месяца назад +39

    Payal you are getting very hyper these days. You need to stop overthinking. Such things happen in every house. Thank your stars you even drive.

  • @saayesha2796
    @saayesha2796 4 месяца назад +6

    I can understand one gets so scared ..good u were quick and vigilant in ur response to take him to doctor

    • @meghji
      @meghji 4 месяца назад

      This is North America with good support for emergency and health care .. grow up

  • @vartikatyagi4550
    @vartikatyagi4550 4 месяца назад +3

    Best wishes to Sid he will be 100% soon good job Payal breaking up in situation is easy. finding solution and being in sync is difficult. Kudos to Rai too❤

  • @rackhi
    @rackhi 4 месяца назад +9

    Payal trust me it is hard to see your child like this but this is how his body will develop immunity, he has been lethargic because his body needs all that energy to fight the infection. Only thing to remember is to keep him hydrated, he won’t eat much and it’s fine Dr. say that. Push fluids and let him rest that’s the key. Also, his appetite will be down for sometime but that’s ok he will catch up. Also, once the antibiotics course is complete (make sure you do complete it even if he is feeling better) then do give him prebiotic because that will help replenish his gut microbe.

  • @dharamvijaymn6110
    @dharamvijaymn6110 4 месяца назад +27

    In all the tension and confusion you have made the video of side
    Always complaining about doctors

    • @baisakhichatterjee3098
      @baisakhichatterjee3098 4 месяца назад +12

      Really she was cool enough to record even when she had so much tensipn😂

    • @gertrude4847
      @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад +2

      😂

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +3

      I made the video after 5 days and I recovered to show my husband as we was out of the town …. Really and it was doctors mistake

    • @padmadudgaonkar7518
      @padmadudgaonkar7518 4 месяца назад +3

      Now this has happened, this is very repetitive sickness.
      Children go through ear infections with a cycle of antibiotics for 10 days, 10 days gap and then it starts all over again.
      I have been through this till my child was 5 years old.

    • @dharamvijaymn6110
      @dharamvijaymn6110 4 месяца назад +4

      For u Indian doctors r not good they did csection for you
      Here they told they will do normal delivery but what happened,,,,csection
      Nanny was wrong sue her always complaining as if doctors r your servant
      Stop telling someone is wrong
      If doctors r bad stop going to them treat yourself

  • @faridanajak471
    @faridanajak471 4 месяца назад +21

    42 year women can handle women got 4 kids they handlel and do job also dnt over acting

    • @Rupa_singh88
      @Rupa_singh88 4 месяца назад

      What a pathetic comment

    • @binuthomas6395
      @binuthomas6395 4 месяца назад +1

      This comment is so insensitive. If you live outside of India you could relate to her. There is literally nobody to help or support. What do you get by being so mean on the internet.

  • @drishtimulani896
    @drishtimulani896 4 месяца назад +2

    Hello Payal Di sorry for people calling u or thinking the situation was over reacting.. People who r sensitive will understand your situation... Im 30 years and when my Old Parents fall Sick it bcmes difficult for me to manage everything trust me only people who go through it will understand it. Get Well Soon Siddu Baba❤

  • @m.faisalfaisal2609
    @m.faisalfaisal2609 4 месяца назад +22

    Over acting, over exatration every single woman face these type of problems. Thumb nail aisa dalti Hu jaisa Pata nahe kya ho Gaya ha bacha tu bemar hota hi hain

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +1

      Really

    • @candidlifewithruchika6182
      @candidlifewithruchika6182 4 месяца назад

      Just imagine your child is constantly sleeping, you don't know what is happening to him and you think any mother would not panic, when it comes to your children acchhe acchho ki band baj jati hai,any mother would have reacted in the same way, please show some empathy

    • @pdchowhan
      @pdchowhan 4 месяца назад

      ​@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking I can completely understand your situation as I faced similar situation with my son ,he was 1yr old my husband wasn't in town and my son had ear infection. He is 7.5yrs now but still that incident remains a nightmare. More power to you dear. God bless you all with good health and happiness 😊 🙏

    • @m.faisalfaisal2609
      @m.faisalfaisal2609 4 месяца назад +1

      Why u people so much over reacted every mother of this whole world facing these type of problems including me. Raise a child is not an easy thing. So ya sab kahna sa ohhhh this happens ohhhhhh that happens kuch nahe ho ga yah sab normal ha

    • @m.faisalfaisal2609
      @m.faisalfaisal2609 4 месяца назад +1

      So please dosro ko ya kahna shame on you and all this. Sab ka apna aik alag point of view ha. Ap social media per Har baat share kartay hain apni life ki tu woh sab dakhna wala sab log alag alag hain sab same aur apki pasand ka reaction nahe da sakta so deal with it.

  • @rackhi
    @rackhi 4 месяца назад +2

    Hi Payal, I can under your situation because this happened with me when I was home alone with my 9 month old and he had a fever and I panicked too. But one thing I will tell you since I have 2 kids and I have this experience of them getting extremely sick, if your child is sleeping then it is a good sign because that way his body is putting all the energy in fighting the infection, yes it is very scary to see your child is this condition but when we are sick we also feel like sitting down and taking rest. I really am not a fan of day cares because kids usually pick infections quite often. My daughter used to go to daycare and trust me she had the same situations. But remember kids do sleep a lot when they are sick so it is not a bad thing but they must be kept hydrated.

  • @jevitamenezes6903
    @jevitamenezes6903 4 месяца назад +9

    There's no hatred towards you, Payal, Personally, when I take the time to watch your videos, I hope to find something useful and informative. Lately, your videos seem to focus solely on your personal issues. Please refrain from being overly emotional in your videos and instead, be responsible by sharing more useful content. Hope Sid gets better soon…

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +2

      Really I don’t have time now to have entire thali or totally food related video but mostly daily I share recipes but there are so many channel you can explore dear .

  • @raksharawat204
    @raksharawat204 4 месяца назад +2

    Day care is the reason for sickness, as it happens with my children’s in the past.

  • @safiazia3782
    @safiazia3782 4 месяца назад +4

    Shomik ko bolo to much dieting is not good zindagi insan kaam kiyo kerta hai khane ke liye kha ker jio

  • @varshabodhani8828
    @varshabodhani8828 4 месяца назад +37

    Bhot overdrama and khana khana khana it's just 👂 infection again negative titles 😅

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +5

      Really I hope you never face like this situation in your life where you r all alone

    • @Iivingmybestlife
      @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад +33

      Alone alone you always say this please stop this ....each and everyone who live in abroad or out of there home have same situation ... even in india in metro city no one there to take care ... we alone have to manage everything .... anyways fed up with youtuber this days no content just making fuss about small small things ....

    • @manalitt
      @manalitt 4 месяца назад +18

      ​@@SimpleLivingWiseThinkingu choose to be alone by choosing money over your own family...deal with it

    • @sharifachinsammy4586
      @sharifachinsammy4586 4 месяца назад +2

      What a rude human being.. Get off her channel.... Period.

  • @userww--aa
    @userww--aa 4 месяца назад +4

    To open the blender lid, immerse the jar upside down in hot water. ( not boiling water). Keep it that way for a minute, the lid will loosen.

    • @ambassadoroflove3036
      @ambassadoroflove3036 4 месяца назад

      Have some shame and read your own words. Anyone will feel worried if their child is suddenly behaving like this. Only mothers can understand this. If you didnt feel the same for your kids then you are one of a kind!

  • @smo2416
    @smo2416 4 месяца назад +2

    When kids start school ear infection is very normal . It’s kind of part of the deal . Both my kids went through the phase .

  • @savitamatharu8620
    @savitamatharu8620 4 месяца назад +6

    You are so brave. Ghr mein koi bhi bimar ho toh bhi insaan stress mein aa jata hai . Hope so now sid teek hai ab.

  • @lylasvlogs5684
    @lylasvlogs5684 4 месяца назад +2

    Sid is getting all this from school.working moms leave there sick kids to school and other kids get that too.

  • @AA-nh2ou
    @AA-nh2ou 4 месяца назад +2

    Yes it’s very scary when kids suddenly fall sick and just sleep. Next time you take him for a regular check up, you yourself ask the doctor to check his ears too. It’s good that Sid has recovered now. Antibiotics cause nausea and vomiting so if possible try to mix it with his favourite food. Boiled potatoes with a pinch of salt is also comforting when one is sick. You can also enquire at pharmacy if there are any over the counter ear drops which you can keep at home. Ear infection is a recurring problem. It is more difficult before kids can learn to speak and tell us where it hurts and if they are feeling sick.

  • @JyotiPrasad-y6u
    @JyotiPrasad-y6u 4 месяца назад +1

    Why the hell every one is saying she is overactibg. Her child was very sick of course she will be tensed. Have little shame before commenting. Payal hope he is getting better.

  • @PamDSouza
    @PamDSouza 4 месяца назад +1

    I Hope Sid is fine now This is so scary I can understand how yo felt 😪 stop showing Sid on social media , yaar buri nazar bhi lagti hai 💖🧿

  • @pallavil6189
    @pallavil6189 4 месяца назад +36

    Dear payal kids are going to fall sick ear infection is common in kids I think you need to take it easy .Imagine sr parents living in india and kids in US ,howbthey handle

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +3

      I think so you have no idea about my situation….

    • @Iivingmybestlife
      @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад +1

      So true

    • @pallavil6189
      @pallavil6189 4 месяца назад +16

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking dear I have 2ckids was staying in US ,my kids were less than 4 years apart ,and faced this kind of situation multiple times, haveveven taken my older one to emergency on my own ,everyone goes through this it's not unusual situation ,we have to stsy put
      Rest your are great mom and down to earth person ❤️ lots of wishes

    • @AC-jg2dg
      @AC-jg2dg 4 месяца назад +12

      I have 3 kids with older two 17 mths apart, like twins. I had been through hell when they were babies and looking back still can't believe how I did it. I was taking care of them by myself, no daycare and with husband working all day and he also gone on work trips for a week at a time.

    • @riyadutta5422
      @riyadutta5422 4 месяца назад +4

      The situation of all familie are not the same gyz .Why are you always compared.be positive she share her situation that's it .apko dekhna Hain to dekho warna scroll down .that's it .but don,t demotivate other people.

  • @aminaumran1330
    @aminaumran1330 4 месяца назад +1

    Relax payal I can understand your situation, if kids go to day care this happens one of my friend has told this that her doctor told if kids go to daycare this is something which is unavoidable.
    And rest of you all please don’t say overacting that’s her mother concern for kids by end of the day we all do and live for kids to be happy and healthy.
    Anyways payal u please tc don’t worry.

  • @manishaagnani7541
    @manishaagnani7541 4 месяца назад +15

    Payal you really need to work on your anxiousness if you are going to take this type of problem so seriously you will never find peace in your life and going to fall sick badly , this was nothing what problem we have faced for years with our kids' health and tackled all alone without anyone's help , but that's the part and parcel of life , don't take anything so seriously in life , hope he feels better v soon take care of yourself first so that you can take care of them , lots of love ❤ 😊

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +4

      Really did I tell my husband to come back from his trip or did I seek help from any of my friend . The answer is no I handled very thing alone .

    • @manishaagnani7541
      @manishaagnani7541 4 месяца назад +10

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking I think you have to be a good example for your daughter , by getting so anxious over small problem you are creating her personality like that , in few years if she has to leave for further studies even she will have to face unseen problems , for that you have to make her stronger , that will be possible only when you are stronger enough

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      This was a small problem .I didn’t know that ok thanks

    • @nikitasharma9708
      @nikitasharma9708 4 месяца назад +1

      @@manishaagnani7541I think you need have a little bit empathy and be sensitive towards others. It’s not like you are perfect. No one is! At the end what matters is she handled everything by herself. Being anxious was normal for a person who has a sensitive nature. Maybe that’s not you but not everyone is like you. I hate when people like you start giving unneeded advice for no reason lol acting like “miss know it all”

  • @gertrude4847
    @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад +17

    Payal dear, have been watching your loving family for more than 5years,
    But you seems to be losing your cool and is sensitive over tiny matters these days, still loving you but at times we also love a strong mother for motivation. I see that some comments says you are overreacting, you also just dont take it to heart and make it an issue. Because you came with the content yourself, you be strong. We are still enjoying! Peace ✌️

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +4

      Really this matter is tiny I had no idea dear . I had not a single person to help . I took my sick child while he was mostly like unconscious to bring my daughter from school as that day she had last exam . Things look very easy when you never face the situation yourself .

    • @gertrude4847
      @gertrude4847 4 месяца назад +14

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking it's not a criticism. Take comments positively, I have always liked your videos from start because of your personality,
      Btw, we moms have to be strong, btw I am a single mom of 2. Been through worst of times alone, but it's my duty to protect my kids and not get fussy over their happenings. We will always face more as they grow.. Don't be hyper, that is all I'm saying. Stay calm, everyone cares for you.

  • @parnikakulkarni
    @parnikakulkarni 4 месяца назад +2

    Uppit is another name for upma , especially in Belgaum ❤

  • @nanditachhibber5323
    @nanditachhibber5323 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey Payal, I must say that you managed the emergency very well. Managing a medical emergency single handedly is very brave. But this is the difference between India and abroad. Same situation here , you would have received support from many family members or even neighbors 😊, even in the middle of the night. Hope Sid recovers speedily ❤

  • @arunrathore2525
    @arunrathore2525 4 месяца назад +1

    Simple living recipe arun singh Last week much special was face panner capsicum

  • @feminista2479
    @feminista2479 4 месяца назад +8

    May God help those judgemental, self claimed strong people...Payel di ignore them...

  • @Iivingmybestlife
    @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад +17

    I m just thinking about her neighbour jo 4kids alone manage kar rahi he after her husband death ....Inke pati ek week ke liye bahar kya gaye ghar sir utha liya itna panic karke me akele thi akele jabki rai was thr... learn something from your neighbour who managing four small kids alone with pain of husband loss

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +3

      She is going back to her parents house as it is impossible for her to manage alone .

  • @vsj5508
    @vsj5508 4 месяца назад +6

    Payal, just calm down! I too had faced this situation when my husband was abroad and i was alone in delhi( belong to hyd) with absolutely no help. And Both my babies and myself sick. I had to take them to doctor by rickshaw in delhi winters. I still feel traumatized thinking about that situation. Recently too ,during covid ,my dad had a heart attack and I had to rush him to the hospital at midnight all alone leaving my kids at home. My husband was travelling again! I had to manage for 48 hrs in the hospital leaving my kids alone at home. Life happens ! We have to learn from experiences. We r all alone at some point dealing with unexpected situations. When u feel anxious, sit down for a few moments and chart out a next plan of action. Positive thing is Rai is grown up and she was a great help. All blessings to Sid. TC

  • @Iivingmybestlife
    @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад +41

    U scared on small small things stay strong stop over thinking over acting... life is unpredictable God forbid if something big happens in life then what will you do.... keep urself calm dont overexaggerate...

    • @sangeetaparyani
      @sangeetaparyani 4 месяца назад +1

      We wish you go through the same situation alone someday and no one next to you tathaastu 🤚

    • @Truthaurnothing
      @Truthaurnothing 4 месяца назад +3

      omg ..cn u read ur comment once again.. its a shame

    • @sangeetaparyani
      @sangeetaparyani 4 месяца назад

      @@Truthaurnothingshame shame puppy shame

    • @Truthaurnothing
      @Truthaurnothing 4 месяца назад +3

      @@sangeetaparyani grow up

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад +1

      I hope you never go through this situation that I went

  • @craftangelonline
    @craftangelonline 4 месяца назад

    Omgosh Payal 100+ temp is sooo scary, over here in UK kids get admitted to hospital straight away if this is the case. Wishing you all especially Rai & Sid good health poor baby ❤ xxx

  • @authenticcuisinenmore656
    @authenticcuisinenmore656 4 месяца назад

    Waste of time watching others opinion for their lives

  • @teresamickle4431
    @teresamickle4431 4 месяца назад +1

    Gochujang is v nice...koreans have it...I see Korean food channel...it's fine and excellent

  • @anisaawadh
    @anisaawadh 4 месяца назад +1

    Payal dear,don't worry, kids r going to get sick, so don't worry. Sickness is always round us. Life is full of surprises, so take it easy.

  • @sampatandel6506
    @sampatandel6506 4 месяца назад

    Hi I always watch ur vlog since many many years . I am a Bengali I live in Mumbai with my husband with two small kids . We both are doctors . I could really feel ur pain when u were showing those videos of Sid I had tears in my eyes . It is very difficult to raise children without family support. My in laws stays with me so I can leave me kids with them and whole day get busy with patients and surgery . Family support is very important. I would also feel helpless like u if something like this happened to me inspite of being a gynaecologist myslef . U r very very brave . God bless you and ur family

  • @spurbliss
    @spurbliss 4 месяца назад +6

    Felt so bad looking at Sid.. I am sure u would have been so panicked and scared!! Great big sisters are always supprtive during this time ❤... Ur so strong .. Kudos to U!!

  • @kiransingh6899
    @kiransingh6899 4 месяца назад +5

    Too much over acting …… these situations happen . Learn to handle situations

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      So can you please explain who handled the situation….. did I call
      Anyone for help

    • @kiransingh6899
      @kiransingh6899 4 месяца назад +4

      @@SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      I praise your videos as well at times . But take criticism as well , you reply so rudely .
      These situations happen with kids , all mothers go through them

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      @@kiransingh6899 really so all the mothers are alone didn’t know that ….. thanks

    • @Iivingmybestlife
      @Iivingmybestlife 4 месяца назад

      @@neetu8233 true it cannot be worst experience its always learning when such thing happen

  • @swatikumar7202
    @swatikumar7202 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi Payal! I hope you all are fine, and I hope Sid is feeling better now. I want to tell you something, please stop giving Sid a bottle because it often causes ear infections in children. I live in Seattle, and my daughter also had an ear infection. Our doctor immediately advised against giving her a bottle, so now I give her milk using a straw in a glass. I have gone through the same situation and i felt the same .Please give it a try and see if it helps.God bless you all😊.

    • @SimpleLivingWiseThinking
      @SimpleLivingWiseThinking  4 месяца назад

      Actually it happened in day care

    • @swatikumar7202
      @swatikumar7202 4 месяца назад

      Oh yes, children often fall sick after going to daycare. I can understand. Please take care of yourself. God bless you always.

  • @ManjulaManjula-ff1bo
    @ManjulaManjula-ff1bo 4 месяца назад +3

    Ithni problems akele sambhaliyan👍💪 good work 👌

  • @Sumitra-v8p
    @Sumitra-v8p 4 месяца назад

    🕉️🌹🙏. Lady you don’t 📞 👨‍⚕️! Just imiditly take a child to the emergency. This is U S A.

  • @EshaHarry
    @EshaHarry 4 месяца назад

    Hey Payal .. Thank God 🙏🏻Sid is well now .. u can wash pillow in washing machine.. and it will dry perfectly in dryer. Yes u can replace them too .. ❤..

  • @binaishapinto871
    @binaishapinto871 4 месяца назад

    My daughter has had 3 ear infections in less than 4 months. Unfortunately this is a common occurence in kids and everything what you described and it will most likely happen again .I've seen in both my kids . Main thing like you said is to keep them hydrated.. The viruses in the U.S are very extreme..

  • @sweetchilli701
    @sweetchilli701 4 месяца назад +1

    This all happens when husbands are away...mere sath yeh humesha hota tha in my daughter' childhood. Bohot darr lagta he bhai.mujhe bhi.

  • @meghalidowarah3264
    @meghalidowarah3264 4 месяца назад +1

    Oh! Sad to hear about Sid beta. I luv him so much. Don't worry,he will be alright.. regular whole body check up is very essential.😊

  • @beetarsrs8237
    @beetarsrs8237 4 месяца назад

    I have been in a similar situation with two children. At the time one was 6 and one was 2...and my husband was out of town. I had to rely on friends for a ride to and back from the clinic. It was so stressful for me as I was alone.
    Ppl r just there to judge...if you can't say anything good then better you all not comment. Unless you have been in certain situation, you won't understand.

  • @mamun018
    @mamun018 4 месяца назад

    Only a parent know what they go through when their kid is sick n down . And every one have their own experience especially in a different country . Hats off to you Payal for handling everything so smoothly especially being alone during this time .. Sid will get well soon . All the positive energy and prayers to you.

  • @rachnaparadise3662
    @rachnaparadise3662 4 месяца назад

    How is sidd now..hope better.love to see you all..Here too hot .Lucknow..India.I admire you always . Take care

  • @Varishaady
    @Varishaady 4 месяца назад

    My kid also sufferd same situation 3 days before… if fever did not go dwn put onion juce on foot nd hands..fever will drop fast…and also do thandi patti

  • @9sanjukta
    @9sanjukta 4 месяца назад

    Is so so sad to see the comments.. shame on you people. How can people be such cruel .. there is no empathy sympathy left, such heartless , god forbid if someday same happens with your baby and someone tell like this how will you feel then.. always remember people karma strikes back in some or other way, dint be so heartless, just because it's social media that doesn't mean we'll talk non sense

  • @tonayadityanath3924
    @tonayadityanath3924 4 месяца назад

    People who are commenting that payal is overdramatic and overacting all of should know that when somebody is sick specially your toddler and no one is around you specially saumik you find helpless so people don't judge by its book...
    Stay strong and healthy payal rai saumik rex and sid

  • @banichatterjee113
    @banichatterjee113 4 месяца назад

    Once my jar was locked. And it’s opened after 3 months automatically 😀

  • @yogitadagli3466
    @yogitadagli3466 4 месяца назад

    Payal some people will not understand becoz that situation they have not gone.so live them they will not understand....

  • @starry7877
    @starry7877 4 месяца назад +1

    🙏 thank God sid ab thik hai ,Payal aisa hota hai life mai jub hum bilkul helpless feel kurte hai 😢😢😢😢Ab thoda sid ka or khayal rakhna.

  • @suvarnamanjunath8719
    @suvarnamanjunath8719 4 месяца назад

    Hiiii Payal, i hope kid is fine now... pls ignore all negative comments.. any mother can feel what you went through .. only heartless people pass negative comments. Take care.

  • @chandranimazumdar2928
    @chandranimazumdar2928 4 месяца назад

    It’s scary specially when you’re alone with two kids. I can understand your situation.

  • @banichatterjee113
    @banichatterjee113 4 месяца назад

    I can feel you payal. Tension karna quite normal hai. How’s Sid now??

  • @reshmisrestora8829
    @reshmisrestora8829 4 месяца назад

    I can totally understand ur situation.Being a mother, I can feel what u went thru .God bless u n ur family Payel di

  • @sandhyatambe1429
    @sandhyatambe1429 4 месяца назад

    Hope Sid is feeling better now. I can understand the situation. Take care❤

  • @pritayapanda8815
    @pritayapanda8815 4 месяца назад

    I don’t get it why people r writing ✍️ here bad comments . This is not done guys . Stop this .

  • @ranid2530
    @ranid2530 4 месяца назад

    Upma you said its called " chow chow bhaat" if i remember correctly

  • @Analysts-o9j
    @Analysts-o9j 4 месяца назад

    Hi Payal! Hope Sid Baba is doing better now💕💕.. Poor child. Can understand it must have been so difficult for you, specially during Shoumik Da's travel. Feel so relieved seeing him back and Sid back to his active self. Yes, ear infections can be painful and fever inducing.. Until a child is old enough to communicate, it's tricky for parents to figure out the issue.
    The bhutta looks lovely and also the parantha😊💕💕.. Such a skillful cook you are!
    God bless all of you! Take care

  • @ghunchajaffery7066
    @ghunchajaffery7066 4 месяца назад

    Thank God Sidh is.fine now. Lots of love from Atlanta GA

  • @shreyawadadekar3350
    @shreyawadadekar3350 4 месяца назад

    Oh no Payal pls take care of our cute Sid.you went thro so much my god.there you were alone.Rai is very sweet and so helpful🥰 dont worry Payal, Sid will be perfectly fine🥰

  • @reshmisrestora8829
    @reshmisrestora8829 4 месяца назад

    I love your vlogs.You are the most honest and genuine vlogger without any show .You speak your heart and there is no drama. I love your videos

  • @rashmip31
    @rashmip31 4 месяца назад

    Oh no! I am so sorry Payal you had to go through this. Seeing an active kid sleeping like this will make any parents worried and that too when u r the only grownup there. I totally get it. Just at tough times remember one thing that this will also pass. Kids are the blessing from god so he will protect them. My best wishes to you n your family.

  • @vaibhavirai4617
    @vaibhavirai4617 4 месяца назад +1

    Payal im 7mnth pregnant 🤰 aur kal hi muje corn 🌽 khane ki craving ho rahi thi, aur tumne aaj dikha diya ab mere hubby ko sam ko bhejungi kahise bhi dhundh ke lao

  • @arathipatil2945
    @arathipatil2945 4 месяца назад

    HI PAYAL ❤
    FEELING SO BAD FOR SID...😢 YOU JUST IGNORE ALL NEGATIVE COMMENTS .IF THEY ALL ARE IN YOUR CONDITION THEN THEY WOULD FEEL YOUR PAIN . GET WELL SOON SID GOD BLESS YOU ❤

  • @shagufta_Kubra12
    @shagufta_Kubra12 4 месяца назад

    I understand ThankGod Sid baby is fine now have kept watching u since years never seen u so worried ever before.

  • @Anabia122
    @Anabia122 4 месяца назад

    Being a mother its not easy nd this situation is so scary .. shes right though😢

  • @kavitasharma22
    @kavitasharma22 4 месяца назад

    Payal pls put pillow protector till sid is small

  • @sharifachinsammy4586
    @sharifachinsammy4586 4 месяца назад

    PAYAL SO SORRY TO HEAR OF SIDH I HOPE HE GETS WELL SOON, you are a tough lady, do not take any note of the haters.... Only a mother will know what it feels, when the men is not around.... Never ignore a ear infection, it puts one off balance. Sending love and light., 🙏🙏

  • @pujaagarwal5951
    @pujaagarwal5951 4 месяца назад

    I can understand payal this happens to my daughter when she was eleven months..she had very bad stomach infection..25 potty in 24 hrs...with blood in stool ..dr said please give water ...and she was peeing ...kids fall sick.. 😢😢 abhi hum pareshan ho jate hai...

  • @user-mc8wo1xd4i
    @user-mc8wo1xd4i 4 месяца назад

    Oh god. Poor sid. Thank god hebis ok 😊now.

  • @suchandrabose1
    @suchandrabose1 4 месяца назад

    Thanks Payal di for posting the update on Sid . I can completely understand what you have gone through last week . Glad that Sid is doing better now .

  • @lalithamc6862
    @lalithamc6862 4 месяца назад +1

    Uppitu

  • @pallavipant1889
    @pallavipant1889 4 месяца назад +3

    This sounds terrifying. Seeing your kid sleeping constantly and not able to wake up is horrible 😞😞. Hope you all are doing well now. Sending good wishes and good health your way