Good point about people using mental health illnesses/issues as insults, super insensitive and stigmatising…that’s why people don’t look for mental health help. Hope you feel better and take care!
I am so sorry Clemence. Injustice and being helpless about it are one of the worst feelings. I believe that your intelligence and dedication will bring you peace and relieve.
A very revealing video that I hope you will, in some small way, find cathartic. I will turn 60 early next year and after a considerable length of time on this planet I can confirm that life throws incredibly difficult challenges at many people but they, and you, will prevail. It takes time to understand our own responses to these tragedies or setbacks.
Guys, trigger warning again 🚨 First 20 min of the video are light hearted and chill the next is about very touchy subjects, you don’t have to watch it if you’re sensitive, Anyway thank you, we are 30k 🤍
Dear Clemence, you said you are Catholic by education. Please pray the Rosary (Chapelet). 📿 Pray it every day. And please pray a Novena (Neuvaine) to St Dymphna (Ste. Dimpre). 🙏 I love you. ❤
Thank you for sharing your struggles Clemence. You are unbelievably strong, and you are inspiring to those of us who also are dealing mental health issues as well. Thank you. You can not take responsibility or feel bad for the things you can not change. You have a lot to offer the world and the community. Bless you, and take care.
“It’s just there”, exactly. I completely understand and feel this. I’m tired of people who just say “snap out of it” if only it were that easy. Thank you for sharing you personal struggles and I pray you continue to get better and have better than worst day 💞
I've been watching your English and French channels for a couple years now and have always admired your transparency both in fragrance and in the full spectrum of human emotions Clémence. My heart broke and teared up a bit listening to how painful your loss and processing it has been. It's one that impacted my family as well, and I've tried to process in volunteering for a mental health hotline. Thank you for your courage in being raw and using your platform to shed light on such an important topic. Appreciate your thoughts both on fragrance and life. Much love to you ❤
My partner Helene is a huge fan of your channel. I have watched some of your videos with her. She is also French like you. May I say your video was very deep and moving. Thank you for your reflections and honesty. Keep well.
Owww that’s so nice, if it’s the Helene i know in comments, then I can say I’m a huge fan of her comments too that are always so sweet ! Thank you for watching and these words 🙏
i am so sorry you lost your friend and i'm so sorry for the pain both of you have lived; may you find forgiveness and peace within and may your Lauren also be inside peace..may every blessing be yours, dear and lovely Clemence💜
I'm so glad you published a video, cause I have a brutal migraine right now, like the loss of vision and makes you panicky kind. BTW, I am a Gemini, everyone says OH I KNEW It 😂😂😂 I can't keep that stuff straight. I don't blame you for the blood thing, I find it mesmerizing, but in an unsettling. I didn't feel strongly about Musc Ravageur at first, but now I think it suits me really well. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing this. I don't appreciate people saying "what a schizo" or "he's so schizophrenic" when the other person has an unpopular opinion or something. Or when they mean dissociative identity disorder. I had mostly dark moments in my life, but even though November is my hardest month, I'm doing much, much better now than then. There is always hope. Sending all my warmth ❤❤❤
Ahhh a Gemini ! I think it doesn’t mean much lol 😂 Unfortunately, most people don’t really know the difference between these disease, at the same time i can’t blame them, it’s hard to understand if you don’t decide to educate yourself on the subject, but at least people should just not use the words « so schizophrenic » lol what does that mean Wish you good recovery for your migraine, also for this month it’s good to hear you’re doing better, that’s all that matters 🙏 Thanks again and again for your long time support
@@clemenceccfragranceI am happy to have been able to support you a bit along the way 😊 you are a genuine and kind person, and I have always loved your videos cause that comes through
I've been religiously watching your videos for about a year now, and I am SO glad you shared your journey with us. I resonate so much with the mental health stuff as I have periods of really bad depression as well, and I also lost one of my best friends to suicide when I was younger. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. xo
Thank you so much for sharing about your friend. I lost my best friend 3 years ago , he did it himself. I always have day dreams and stuff about him even years later. Sending love and please know you sharing what you did made me realize it's ok to still mourn him
Firstly Clémence, I am so sorry for the things that happened to you, and to your friend. You needed to share those things and you did yourself proud. You don't need to edit your truth just to make others comfortable. Karma will get those guys. I hope you can forgive yourself where your friend was concerned. I think your friend would understand you were upset and she would want you to forgive yourself. The things I couldn't get past in my life, I had to sort of radically forgive, and often that meant forgiving myself too, even though I was the last person I wanted to forgive. I somehow wanted to hold the blame to make me feel something, but I was only sabotaging my peace and freedom in the end. It's effing hard 🙏 anyway, I hope you don't mind me sharing... You didn't ask for advice but I felt compelled. I'm sure you have resonated with a lot of us 🖤 I have bipolar disorder too, I was diagnosed at 27 and I am 42 now. You are so right, you have to find a way to live alongside it, you have to be easy on yourself and not fight it. Took me so long to come to that conclusion. Like you said you need to look after yourself and allow yourself to rest. It is already exhausting living with this kind of mind and that's before you actually get up and do anything! I mask, and laugh and smile, like you. It's my armour. You're a strong person Clémence. I am glad you have this way of supporting yourself, it's so important to have that flexibility when you have things going on. Mad respect to you and congrats on 30k 💃💃💃
Thank you so much Marek, it’s so nice to read that i cheer you up sometimes, it’s the best feeling! Thanks for your huge support, you don’t have to, and it’s super appreciated 🤍
❤🤍🕊🕯😘 I cried so much looking at you Clémence. For personal reasons and especially for having felt your pain and your emotion. We have a lot in common and I think my hypersensitivity exploded during the last 17 minutes of the video. I wish you the best and if not the best, as much positive as possible in your life and that your beautiful project can one day come true. I had never told anyone but I had the same desire. Take care Clémence and may your friend rest in peace. 🤍🕊🕯
Oh no Sabrina, I’m sorry i made you sad. I hope you will get to do this project, and if not it’s ok, it shows a lot about yourself, i think indeed we have a lot in common Thank you so much for your kind words 🤍
@@clemenceccfragrance It's okay Clémence, don't worry, I'm just super sensitive to this kind of subject. I am also very angry and sad for your friend but also for you... i do understand you and your feelings. Thank you for this very personal sharing and the answers to the questions. 🤍🤍🤍
You are very brave to be open about these difficult topics… I imagine how sorry you are about how your last meeting with your friend was like, but I am sure that wherever her soul is, she knows you really loved her.
Oh Clémence 🤍 je comprends ta colère face à cette injustice et j’espère de tout coeur que le fait d’en parler t’a fait du bien. Ce n’est pas facile de comprendre et accompagner les personnes dans leur souffrance, car celle-ci change inévitablement le comportement des gens qui souffrent et on n’est pas parfait, nos propres conditions ne sont pas parfaites pour nous permettre de tout comprendre et cautionner. Je suis sûre tu as fait de ton mieux malgré tes combats personnels. Je pense qu’être compréhensive envers toi-même c’est aussi une façon de chérir le souvenir de ton amie. Je t’envoie plein de pensées et je t’embrasse chaudement.
Dear Clémence, thank you for sharing parts of your personal experiences & I‘m sorry for the loss of your friend. Life has its ups & downs but I agree, it‘s important to stay authentic and true to oneself and that‘s what I appreciate about you the most! Big congratulations on your milestone, that’s amazing!! Lots of love & hugs from me!! 🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️
❤ i'm so proud of you! Thank you for sharing. I hope that you get the best help to learn with your struggles and depression. And that you have the most sweet and kind friends, boy friend and family (by heart) to support you. Take care and i want to know you that i realy like your videos and you as person. Sorry for my english (i have problem to learn a second language because i have dyslexia)
Clemence I trully love your work and I thank you for opening up and sharing your story with us 💜 It's very unfortunate and justice was not met for your friend 🥺 I hope they get the justice they deserve and rott alone with their little fan club 😡 I'm very sad about it :( hope you know that you are not alone in your pain and there was absolutely nothing you could have done to change the outcome.. It's not your fault!!!
This was so brave of you to speak about something so personal. I could only imagine how painful this is . Just know none of this is your fault and already you are helping all of us with your compassion and empathy that you probably wouldn’t have been able to without these experiences. I’m rooting for you Angel
I’m so sorry for you coming through this. I lost a friend to anorexia many years ago, even though she was not my bestie, but we were classmates and went out and about sometimes together at girl days, and it was a huge hit in the head for all of the school. I could never think she was coming through these dark thoughts, she was always kind and caring and everyone liked her, and by the way, never overweight. That time in my teens I was also struggling sometimes with terrible anxiety, but this happening turned my head totally upside down. Every time I think something terrible, I end up thinking about my family, my loved one❤ Just live for those around you if not for yourself, what are they going to do without you. I’m sure there are people that value your love and presence more than you ever think to yourself. Stay healthy and chill❤
If there were less stigma about bipolar, then more people would get treatment, people would understand it better, and people would feel more comfortable talking about it. Thank you for sharing this. I'm glad you've had some puzzle pieces filled in, and I wish for you only the best. Cheering you on, Clemence!
@@clemenceccfragrance I believe that's because people who are beloved (like you) are transparent about it. You're doing a service just by being yourself on RUclips.
Thank you so much for your strength to share something so valuable and important with us. One other incredibly precious story and precious life. 🖤 You're speaking for a lot of women out there, a lot of victims of various kinds of abuse, and how life plays out trying to live with that for so many. The fallout from abuse cripples our world, snuffs the light of so many who could have brought much good into it. A lot of deeply dark stuff out there that can't be denied. I hope we can keep being strong and truthful in the face of it. ♥
Thanks 🙏 CC For Opening Up To Us & For This Amazingly Deep Confession ♥️ I Personally Think That You Are Stronger Than You Think You Are ❣️ Just Keep Going Girl And Know That At The End Of The Day You Are Good Person 💋 For Sure 🐰
I read somewhere Clémence; as you are in fashion…. Your new fashion trend from now is to “ stop wearing the weight of other people’s opinions “ I’ve taken this on board for my 2024 lifestyle choice. Big hugs always 🙏🏻🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺🥰❤️🩷🧡
Merci Clémence, c'etait une belle vidéo et même la fin parce que moi tout ce que j'entends c''est tout l'amour que tu avais et a encore pour ton amie. Où elle se trouve elle le sait. ❤ prend soin de toi, un pas après l'autre 😘
I've always been impressed by how mature and knowledgable you are. As well as classy and kind hearted. I'm happy to hear Merlin is doing well at this time. My furbabies are my children and many have broken my heart into pieces. As for depression, there is no short answer. I have struggled with the problems you spoke about my whole life also. I wish I had a group to join of like minded people, as most people who don't understand don't want you to talk about it with them. And who wants to burden their friends with your problems anyway?. Thanks for sharing❣ Love you❤
May your friend’s sweetness and memory be a blessing. Speaking out about your and your friend’s experiences is a bold and positive stance to take and will touch others. Are there other organizations where you live where you could be an advocate for others? I will keep you in my thoughts for continued healing and peace.
I’m glad you’re doing well….Also makes sense …I get along very well with a lot of Sagittarius . Awesome vid as always. Also thank you for sharing insights into your life. Not easy to do at all but that’s what makes you amazing 👏🏼
Hello Clemence, j'ai beaucoup de compassion pour toi à propos de suicide, n'ayons pas peur des mots. Cela fait peur évidemment car quelques fois, on se sent tellement mal qu'on se laisserait bien glisser aussi. Il y en a eu beaucoup dans mon entourage, de gens affectivement très proches de moi et dans ma famille aussi. Ma soeur en particulier, ma seule soeur. En premier lieu, je n'ai pensé qu'à aider ma mère qui a été dévastée. Un grand sentiment de culpabilité aussi car mon mari essayait de me séparer d'elle. Et que je n'avais rien vu venir! Je pense que dans ce genre de situations, je parle de ton amie, des quelques semaines qui ont précédé son acte, il ne faut pas te sentir coupable de t'être fâchée un peu avec elle. La première chose dans la vie est, je crois de se respecter soi, si elle avait fait des choses chez toi que tu n'acceptais pas, c'était de lui dire, évidemment. Car même si tu avais passé l'éponge, jusqu'où serait-elle allée, et toi dans ton effacement ? Je comprends que tu aies envie de lui parler. Quelqu'un m'a conseillé un "voyante" de confiance, bienveillante, j'étais très angoissée car un des jumeaux de mon fils très prématuré est passé à 2 cheveux de la mort. Elle m'a transmis des nouvelles de plusieurs personnes décédées de mon entourage, mais pas ma soeur, elle m'a juste dit qu'elle regrettait, mais qu'elle ne pouvait pas parler avec elle car physiologiquement, si elle ne s'était pas donné la mort, elle serait toujours en vie, et elle n'y avait pas accès. Quand elle m'a saluée, cette dame, elle m'a rassurée à propos des jumeaux, mais j'ai lu clairement dans son regard que d'autres malheurs allaient arriver. Beaucoup concernent encore mon fils, mais il encaisse bravement, et je le soutiens comme je peux. Je n'y peux rien, je crois que c'est une étape dans le combat, le suicide me met en colère et j'enrage autant que d'être infiniment triste. Excuse moi de m'étaler ainsi, si quelques mots peuvent t'aider, j'en serais contente. Kisses from Belgium.
Hello Françoise, Alors déjà merci beaucoup pour ton messages, tes mots sur se pardonner soit même me rassurent vraiment, Je suis désolé d’apprendre pour ta sœur, c’est terrible et je comprends tellement tes mots meme si c’est encore autre chose pour toi, C’est intéressant ce que tu dis sur cette dame, voyante qui t’as aidé, je dirais juste de ne pas t’en faire sur son regard qui as pu faire peur sur l’avenir, comme tu l’as dit ce qui est important c’est de se soutenir, et peut être que les choses iront dans un sens plus positif que tu ne le pense, Merci pour ce message vraiment c’est inspirant toute cette force qui en découle Des bisous d’Angleterre 🤍
Very brave to do the bit at the end. Hopefully it can help you heal psycologically and make you stronger. You do a great job and I'm sure if you start the charity in future you will help a great number of people 🙂
I’m so sorry honey! Being a survivor of child sex abuse, I tried and tried and tried, over and over, for years and years to “end” myself, until I decided I was crap at that too! Ha, truth! Grief lasts as long as it lasts and I hate knowing you had anger between you before she ended her life … but I will say, she probably had this plan in her mind for many weeks, months before that. And that she was in such a dark place that couldn’t be reached by anything normal, because she wasn’t normal in her heart. I know you know! But you are loved! And I know you have good people around you who love you today and will love you tomorrow, no matter what ❤. For myself, I finally sought outpatient therapy, and finally inpatient therapy, and with time and work work WORK, and I’m still working, ha!, I have love and joy and peace in my life everyday. Even on bad days. So that’s my story! Just remember, how much joy you bring to us and perhaps, the ache isn’t so strong ….mmmmmmmwah! Doing something so positive that she would have loved sounds amazing and healing ❤❤❤
We suffer more from problems in our imaginations than we ever do in our physical bodies & the fact is, words seldom ever solve problems. That means that, more than likely, nothing you said differently to your friend would have changed the outcome. It's human nature to believe that we have more control over our world than we actually do, but in reality, we only have control over ourselves. I'm sorry that happened to your friend, but it's not your fault. She did what she did to try to end her pain & I don't think she would want you to feel guilty or angry in her place. She would want you to be happy. I hope you find peace ☺️🙏
The last two sentences really resonates with me, you’re right I don’t think you would like that Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, wish you the best also 🤍
yay! thnx for featuring n answering my question Clemecne. Brittany is beautiful. Thnx for being open about urself(can relate myself on some level)Keep being adorable. btw did u go for a bike rider after shooting this video?😁love ur looks always!
Bonsoir Clémence, Je viens de finir ra vidéo émouvante. Je risque d’ecrire à chaud, censure moi si besoin, je comprendrais... Je suis grave vénère quand j’entend des gens défendre des v.oleurs en disant "elle etait trop sexy, elle les a provoqué". C’est une sale mentalité macho. RIEN ne justifie un v.ol, Rien. Si on inverse les rôles homme/femme ce serait pas la meme reaction bien sur. J’ai vécu une eperience similaire, ca doit sortir (j’editerais peut-etre pour effacer cette partie). Des copains avaient fait boire un proche qui a terminé à la casserole. Ces meme copains on tenté de me faire boire (un seul verre et j’etais raid sous la table), ils ont tenté également de me faire passer à la casserole. Ils ont voulu faire croire à mon petit ami de l’époque que je dormais comme un bébé dans la chambre d’amis, et qu’ils me ramèneraient chez moi le lendemain. J’ai hurlé des qu’ils ont essayé de me déshabiller, soit disant pour me mettre à l’aise. Mon petit ami ne voulait pas partir sans moi (ouf) et a accouru. J’avais fais un cauchemars soi disant. Il m’a ramené intact a la maison mais c’est pas passé loin. J’etais mineure, ils auraient pris tres cher si j’avais parlé. Mais on est ado et bête à cet âge là. Et surtout, on voulait pas que nos parents apprennent ce qui est arrivé. Quand j’ai appris des années plus tard pour mon proche j’etais furieuse aussi. On va les excuser aussi ces détraqués lorsqu’ils le font sur des mineurs ? Quand ils commencent, ils ne s’arrêtent jamais. C’est quoi l’excuse ? Trop mignonne ? Et ce qui m’enervent le plus c’est que personne ne les arrêtent. Y a des "garconnieres" tout un réseau et du frics, mais surtout aucune preuve... Désolée Clémence, je me suis beaucoup lâché... Merci d’avoir partagé Pleins de bisous parfumés 😘
Surtout ne te censure jamais! Le pire dans ces histoires c’est que c’est nous qui nous censurons pour des choses dont on ne devrait pas avoir honte, C’est toujours la même chose c’est quand même un comble, Je suis d’accord avec toi sur toute la ligne Ton histoire est choquante et vraiment heureusement que ton copain n’est pas partis, ils sont complètement détraqués comme tu dis ces gens là, je comprends pas, Mon amie c’était un peu le même genre d’histoire, on a beau être ado, c’est incompréhensible ce qu’il peut passer par la tête de ces gens là Je suis contente que tu sois rentrée intacte ce jour la, et pour ton proche y a pas de mots Merci d’avoir raconté ton histoire, c’est important de parler et c’est jamais évident de le faire Des gros bisous 🤍
❤You are human and she loves you for that. All I see in this video is this immense love between 2 friends, 2 imperfect and kind women. Love triumphs, always.❤️ I’ve lost someone and his fragrance (L’habit rouge) helped me during tough time. It is reassuring. Is this the case for you? I send you love.
I pray to God I find dupe for The Body Shop Vanilla Oil from the '90's (black cap/stopper) 😢 That's the best smell I ever did ... well - smell . I would be the happiest man on 🌎 if I could only get my hands on 10ml of that oil ❤
Clemence, I work in mental health. Therapists cant diagnose mental health issues, so Im hoping this hasnt been your experience. A psychiatrist can diagnose. There are also 2 categories in Bipolar, Bipolar 1 and Bipolar 2, although many Psychiatrists dispute this and say one form of Bipolar is actually Borderline Personality Disorder, or EUPD, and the other is Bipolar.The one is sort of a milder form of Bipolar, although still very difficult for people to manage, the other is more of a full blown mania. Therapy is very helpful at times, but never in place of a diagnosis by a Psychiatrist. Hope you continue to get the right support
Hey there ! Thanks for your great advices, I’ve been seeing a psychiatrist to get diagnosed, I didn’t displayed all the treatments and help I’ve seeked but I certainly did, so don’t worry I am aware and doing much better now. Thank you
@@clemenceccfragrance Thankyou for all your recommandations over time ! I discovered it because of you, without you i would never have smelled niche perfumes. The first time i've smelled La Belle Otero I was like "oh but it's Féérie. But like if the Pixie turned darker. More sensual and more dangerous". There is something acid about that perfume ; even if the violet is the same than in Feerie (to my nose) ; every thing around is much less inocent. So it's perfect cause Féérie was something we weared when we was teenagers (I don't have a bottle remaining sadly, I would still were it if I could) and with Otero it grows up. This is clearly for a women, not a teenager. Sorry for my grammar ; I come from you french community I try writing in english cause I find it quite rude not to use the language of the targeted public if I can.
Dear Clemence, you said you are Catholic by education. Please pray the Rosary (Chapelet). 📿 Pray it every day. And please pray a Novena (Neuvaine) to St Dymphna (Ste. Dimpre). 🙏 I love you. ❤
Good point about people using mental health illnesses/issues as insults, super insensitive and stigmatising…that’s why people don’t look for mental health help. Hope you feel better and take care!
I am so sorry Clemence. Injustice and being helpless about it are one of the worst feelings. I believe that your intelligence and dedication will bring you peace and relieve.
A very revealing video that I hope you will, in some small way, find cathartic. I will turn 60 early next year and after a considerable length of time on this planet I can confirm that life throws incredibly difficult challenges at many people but they, and you, will prevail. It takes time to understand our own responses to these tragedies or setbacks.
Your words are very wise and it helps, thank you for sharing and of course watching 🙏
Guys, trigger warning again 🚨
First 20 min of the video are light hearted and chill the next is about very touchy subjects, you don’t have to watch it if you’re sensitive,
Anyway thank you, we are 30k 🤍
Dear Clemence, you said you are Catholic by education. Please pray the Rosary (Chapelet). 📿 Pray it every day. And please pray a Novena (Neuvaine) to St Dymphna (Ste. Dimpre). 🙏 I love you. ❤
Love watching you thank you for sharing and answering all the questions ♥
Thank you for sharing your struggles Clemence. You are unbelievably strong, and you are inspiring to those of us who also are dealing mental health issues as well. Thank you. You can not take responsibility or feel bad for the things you can not change. You have a lot to offer the world and the community. Bless you, and take care.
“It’s just there”, exactly. I completely understand and feel this. I’m tired of people who just say “snap out of it” if only it were that easy. Thank you for sharing you personal struggles and I pray you continue to get better and have better than worst day 💞
I've been watching your English and French channels for a couple years now and have always admired your transparency both in fragrance and in the full spectrum of human emotions Clémence. My heart broke and teared up a bit listening to how painful your loss and processing it has been. It's one that impacted my family as well, and I've tried to process in volunteering for a mental health hotline. Thank you for your courage in being raw and using your platform to shed light on such an important topic. Appreciate your thoughts both on fragrance and life. Much love to you ❤
My partner Helene is a huge fan of your channel. I have watched some of your videos with her. She is also French like you. May I say your video was very deep and moving. Thank you for your reflections and honesty. Keep well.
Owww that’s so nice, if it’s the Helene i know in comments, then I can say I’m a huge fan of her comments too that are always so sweet !
Thank you for watching and these words 🙏
I am so proud of you, Clemence! You are a fighter! Sending you a virtual hug and thank you for everything!
Thank you, it’s sweet to say! Hugs sent to you too 🤍🙏
And thanks for watching of course !
i am so sorry you lost your friend and i'm so sorry for the pain both of you have lived; may you find forgiveness and peace within and may your Lauren also be inside peace..may every blessing be yours, dear and lovely Clemence💜
Watched from first to last second. Sincere and brave. Thank you so much.
Ow thanks Carlos that’s super sweet 🙏🤍
I'm so glad you published a video, cause I have a brutal migraine right now, like the loss of vision and makes you panicky kind. BTW, I am a Gemini, everyone says OH I KNEW It 😂😂😂 I can't keep that stuff straight. I don't blame you for the blood thing, I find it mesmerizing, but in an unsettling. I didn't feel strongly about Musc Ravageur at first, but now I think it suits me really well. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing this. I don't appreciate people saying "what a schizo" or "he's so schizophrenic" when the other person has an unpopular opinion or something. Or when they mean dissociative identity disorder. I had mostly dark moments in my life, but even though November is my hardest month, I'm doing much, much better now than then. There is always hope. Sending all my warmth ❤❤❤
Ahhh a Gemini ! I think it doesn’t mean much lol 😂
Unfortunately, most people don’t really know the difference between these disease, at the same time i can’t blame them, it’s hard to understand if you don’t decide to educate yourself on the subject, but at least people should just not use the words « so schizophrenic » lol what does that mean
Wish you good recovery for your migraine, also for this month it’s good to hear you’re doing better, that’s all that matters 🙏
Thanks again and again for your long time support
@@clemenceccfragranceI am happy to have been able to support you a bit along the way 😊 you are a genuine and kind person, and I have always loved your videos cause that comes through
Clemence I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with us. We love you!❤
Thank you for listening. Sending all hugs xx
I've been religiously watching your videos for about a year now, and I am SO glad you shared your journey with us. I resonate so much with the mental health stuff as I have periods of really bad depression as well, and I also lost one of my best friends to suicide when I was younger. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. xo
Ton histoire m'a vraiment touchée Clémence
Tu es si forte ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing about your friend. I lost my best friend 3 years ago , he did it himself. I always have day dreams and stuff about him even years later. Sending love and please know you sharing what you did made me realize it's ok to still mourn him
Having a charity would be a great way to honor her❤
Firstly Clémence, I am so sorry for the things that happened to you, and to your friend. You needed to share those things and you did yourself proud. You don't need to edit your truth just to make others comfortable. Karma will get those guys. I hope you can forgive yourself where your friend was concerned. I think your friend would understand you were upset and she would want you to forgive yourself. The things I couldn't get past in my life, I had to sort of radically forgive, and often that meant forgiving myself too, even though I was the last person I wanted to forgive. I somehow wanted to hold the blame to make me feel something, but I was only sabotaging my peace and freedom in the end. It's effing hard 🙏 anyway, I hope you don't mind me sharing... You didn't ask for advice but I felt compelled. I'm sure you have resonated with a lot of us 🖤
I have bipolar disorder too, I was diagnosed at 27 and I am 42 now. You are so right, you have to find a way to live alongside it, you have to be easy on yourself and not fight it. Took me so long to come to that conclusion. Like you said you need to look after yourself and allow yourself to rest. It is already exhausting living with this kind of mind and that's before you actually get up and do anything! I mask, and laugh and smile, like you. It's my armour.
You're a strong person Clémence. I am glad you have this way of supporting yourself, it's so important to have that flexibility when you have things going on. Mad respect to you and congrats on 30k 💃💃💃
You always cheer me up. Much needed now. Thanks for another video and also for talking about mental health and such things. It's part of life.
Thank you so much Marek, it’s so nice to read that i cheer you up sometimes, it’s the best feeling!
Thanks for your huge support, you don’t have to, and it’s super appreciated 🤍
Sorry for what you are going through, you are not alone 💜 from a longtime subscriber
I’m so sorry for your loss Clemence and I’m so sorry about what happened to you. Talking and journaling about it helps.
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I cried so much looking at you Clémence. For personal reasons and especially for having felt your pain and your emotion. We have a lot in common and I think my hypersensitivity exploded during the last 17 minutes of the video. I wish you the best and if not the best, as much positive as possible in your life and that your beautiful project can one day come true. I had never told anyone but I had the same desire. Take care Clémence and may your friend rest in peace. 🤍🕊🕯
Oh no Sabrina, I’m sorry i made you sad. I hope you will get to do this project, and if not it’s ok, it shows a lot about yourself, i think indeed we have a lot in common
Thank you so much for your kind words 🤍
@@clemenceccfragrance It's okay Clémence, don't worry, I'm just super sensitive to this kind of subject. I am also very angry and sad for your friend but also for you... i do understand you and your feelings. Thank you for this very personal sharing and the answers to the questions. 🤍🤍🤍
You are very brave to be open about these difficult topics… I imagine how sorry you are about how your last meeting with your friend was like, but I am sure that wherever her soul is, she knows you really loved her.
Thank you so much, that’s means so much to me 🤍
Oh Clémence 🤍 je comprends ta colère face à cette injustice et j’espère de tout coeur que le fait d’en parler t’a fait du bien. Ce n’est pas facile de comprendre et accompagner les personnes dans leur souffrance, car celle-ci change inévitablement le comportement des gens qui souffrent et on n’est pas parfait, nos propres conditions ne sont pas parfaites pour nous permettre de tout comprendre et cautionner. Je suis sûre tu as fait de ton mieux malgré tes combats personnels. Je pense qu’être compréhensive envers toi-même c’est aussi une façon de chérir le souvenir de ton amie. Je t’envoie plein de pensées et je t’embrasse chaudement.
Dear Clémence,
thank you for sharing parts of your personal experiences & I‘m sorry for the loss of your friend.
Life has its ups & downs but I agree, it‘s important to stay authentic and true to oneself and that‘s what I appreciate about you the most!
Big congratulations on your milestone, that’s amazing!!
Lots of love & hugs from me!! 🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️
❤ i'm so proud of you! Thank you for sharing. I hope that you get the best help to learn with your struggles and depression. And that you have the most sweet and kind friends, boy friend and family (by heart) to support you. Take care and i want to know you that i realy like your videos and you as person. Sorry for my english (i have problem to learn a second language because i have dyslexia)
Clemence I trully love your work and I thank you for opening up and sharing your story with us 💜
It's very unfortunate and justice was not met for your friend 🥺 I hope they get the justice they deserve and rott alone with their little fan club 😡
I'm very sad about it :( hope you know that you are not alone in your pain and there was absolutely nothing you could have done to change the outcome..
It's not your fault!!!
Now I know that for sure I’m not alone, i can only thank you for your kind words and message 🤍
This was so brave of you to speak about something so personal. I could only imagine how painful this is . Just know none of this is your fault and already you are helping all of us with your compassion and empathy that you probably wouldn’t have been able to without these experiences.
I’m rooting for you Angel
I’m so sorry for you coming through this. I lost a friend to anorexia many years ago, even though she was not my bestie, but we were classmates and went out and about sometimes together at girl days, and it was a huge hit in the head for all of the school.
I could never think she was coming through these dark thoughts, she was always kind and caring and everyone liked her, and by the way, never overweight.
That time in my teens I was also struggling sometimes with terrible anxiety, but this happening turned my head totally upside down.
Every time I think something terrible, I end up thinking about my family, my loved one❤ Just live for those around you if not for yourself, what are they going to do without you. I’m sure there are people that value your love and presence more than you ever think to yourself.
Stay healthy and chill❤
If there were less stigma about bipolar, then more people would get treatment, people would understand it better, and people would feel more comfortable talking about it. Thank you for sharing this. I'm glad you've had some puzzle pieces filled in, and I wish for you only the best. Cheering you on, Clemence!
Yeah I agree, but I believe it’s getting better ! Thank you for sharing 🤍
@@clemenceccfragrance I believe that's because people who are beloved (like you) are transparent about it. You're doing a service just by being yourself on RUclips.
Thank you so much for your strength to share something so valuable and important with us. One other incredibly precious story and precious life. 🖤 You're speaking for a lot of women out there, a lot of victims of various kinds of abuse, and how life plays out trying to live with that for so many.
The fallout from abuse cripples our world, snuffs the light of so many who could have brought much good into it. A lot of deeply dark stuff out there that can't be denied. I hope we can keep being strong and truthful in the face of it. ♥
We appreciate you sharing with us Clémence, both the good and the bad! It’s all part of life. ❤hugs to you.
Thanks 🙏 CC For Opening Up To Us & For This Amazingly Deep Confession ♥️ I Personally Think That You Are Stronger Than You Think You Are ❣️ Just Keep Going Girl And Know That At The End Of The Day You Are Good Person 💋 For Sure 🐰
Ah that’s so sweet to say, thank you so much for your kind words 🤍
I read somewhere Clémence; as you are in fashion…. Your new fashion trend from now is to “ stop wearing the weight of other people’s opinions “ I’ve taken this on board for my 2024 lifestyle choice. Big hugs always 🙏🏻🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺🥰❤️🩷🧡
Vidéo très très courageuse Clémence ! Merci d'avoir abordé ces sujets, cela va certainement aider beaucoup de personnes. ❤
Merci à toi d’avoir écouté 🤍
Merci Clémence, c'etait une belle vidéo et même la fin parce que moi tout ce que j'entends c''est tout l'amour que tu avais et a encore pour ton amie. Où elle se trouve elle le sait. ❤ prend soin de toi, un pas après l'autre 😘
C’est gentil de le dire Sylvie, merci beaucoup 🤍
So sorry about your friend Clemancè . You have a great channel and always cheer me up with your videos ❤
I've always been impressed by how mature and knowledgable you are. As well as classy and kind hearted. I'm happy to hear Merlin is doing well at this time. My furbabies are my children and many have broken my heart into pieces. As for depression, there is no short answer. I have struggled with the problems you spoke about my whole life also. I wish I had a group to join of like minded people, as most people who don't understand don't want you to talk about it with them. And who wants to burden their friends with your problems anyway?. Thanks for sharing❣ Love you❤
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Thank you for being so open with us. I’m sorry to hear what you’ve been through. ❤
I've always loved your videos but now I love you as a person, Clemence. I admire your courage.
Ow Natasha, that’s so sweet ! I’m sending you lots of love 🤍
I’m glad you were able to talk about that. You are being haunted by that. Kind of sounds like PTSD? That’s very sad. I do understand the anger.
Hi Clémence! What you did today is going to heal you on the long run! I believe in you! Keep it up! Thanks for sharing! I was moved by your words!
I think it already helped me ! Thanks for listening 🤍
Thank you for sharing. I'm sure it helped people watching who have gone through similar situations.
I Hope so ! Thank you Chelsey 🤍
May your friend’s sweetness and memory be a blessing. Speaking out about your and your friend’s experiences is a bold and positive stance to take and will touch others. Are there other organizations where you live where you could be an advocate for others? I will keep you in my thoughts for continued healing and peace.
Survivor Guilt, Injustice, Feminine Wound, so many themes I hear on your story. I feel your friend would be urging you on. Much love to you Clémènce ❤
Thank you Adrienne 🤍
Beautiful edgy fit and respect your transparency 🎉👌🏾 (I am allergic to artificial strawberries too!)
Ahhh j'suis trooop contente que tu aies répondu a ma question ❤️❤️ Thank you so much for the bedtime scents ideas!!! Des gros bisous 😘
Des bisous merci d’avoir pris le temps de répondre au sondage !
Oh Clemence, :( sending big hug ❤
Clemence you are wonderful! Enjoying your content
I’m glad you’re doing well….Also makes sense …I get along very well with a lot of Sagittarius . Awesome vid as always. Also thank you for sharing insights into your life. Not easy to do at all but that’s what makes you amazing 👏🏼
Which star sign are you Joe ?!
Thank you for your kind words btw it’s appreciated !
@@clemenceccfragrance I’m a Capricorn ♑️ ….2 days after Christmas (December 27)
And anytime 🫶🏻Always here….will always support
Hello Clemence, j'ai beaucoup de compassion pour toi à propos de suicide, n'ayons pas peur des mots. Cela fait peur évidemment car quelques fois, on se sent tellement mal qu'on se laisserait bien glisser aussi. Il y en a eu beaucoup dans mon entourage, de gens affectivement très proches de moi et dans ma famille aussi. Ma soeur en particulier, ma seule soeur. En premier lieu, je n'ai pensé qu'à aider ma mère qui a été dévastée. Un grand sentiment de culpabilité aussi car mon mari essayait de me séparer d'elle. Et que je n'avais rien vu venir! Je pense que dans ce genre de situations, je parle de ton amie, des quelques semaines qui ont précédé son acte, il ne faut pas te sentir coupable de t'être fâchée un peu avec elle. La première chose dans la vie est, je crois de se respecter soi, si elle avait fait des choses chez toi que tu n'acceptais pas, c'était de lui dire, évidemment. Car même si tu avais passé l'éponge, jusqu'où serait-elle allée, et toi dans ton effacement ? Je comprends que tu aies envie de lui parler. Quelqu'un m'a conseillé un "voyante" de confiance, bienveillante, j'étais très angoissée car un des jumeaux de mon fils très prématuré est passé à 2 cheveux de la mort. Elle m'a transmis des nouvelles de plusieurs personnes décédées de mon entourage, mais pas ma soeur, elle m'a juste dit qu'elle regrettait, mais qu'elle ne pouvait pas parler avec elle car physiologiquement, si elle ne s'était pas donné la mort, elle serait toujours en vie, et elle n'y avait pas accès. Quand elle m'a saluée, cette dame, elle m'a rassurée à propos des jumeaux, mais j'ai lu clairement dans son regard que d'autres malheurs allaient arriver. Beaucoup concernent encore mon fils, mais il encaisse bravement, et je le soutiens comme je peux.
Je n'y peux rien, je crois que c'est une étape dans le combat, le suicide me met en colère et j'enrage autant que d'être infiniment triste. Excuse moi de m'étaler ainsi, si quelques mots peuvent t'aider, j'en serais contente. Kisses from Belgium.
Hello Françoise,
Alors déjà merci beaucoup pour ton messages, tes mots sur se pardonner soit même me rassurent vraiment,
Je suis désolé d’apprendre pour ta sœur, c’est terrible et je comprends tellement tes mots meme si c’est encore autre chose pour toi,
C’est intéressant ce que tu dis sur cette dame, voyante qui t’as aidé, je dirais juste de ne pas t’en faire sur son regard qui as pu faire peur sur l’avenir, comme tu l’as dit ce qui est important c’est de se soutenir, et peut être que les choses iront dans un sens plus positif que tu ne le pense,
Merci pour ce message vraiment c’est inspirant toute cette force qui en découle
Des bisous d’Angleterre 🤍
Very brave to do the bit at the end. Hopefully it can help you heal psycologically and make you stronger. You do a great job and I'm sure if you start the charity in future you will help a great number of people 🙂
I truly appreciate your honesty 🤍❤️ Thank you for sharing your emotions and experiences🖤 Thank you for the vlog very much💚
I’m so sorry honey! Being a survivor of child sex abuse, I tried and tried and tried, over and over, for years and years to “end” myself, until I decided I was crap at that too! Ha, truth! Grief lasts as long as it lasts and I hate knowing you had anger between you before she ended her life … but I will say, she probably had this plan in her mind for many weeks, months before that. And that she was in such a dark place that couldn’t be reached by anything normal, because she wasn’t normal in her heart. I know you know! But you are loved! And I know you have good people around you who love you today and will love you tomorrow, no matter what ❤. For myself, I finally sought outpatient therapy, and finally inpatient therapy, and with time and work work WORK, and I’m still working, ha!, I have love and joy and peace in my life everyday. Even on bad days. So that’s my story! Just remember, how much joy you bring to us and perhaps, the ache isn’t so strong ….mmmmmmmwah! Doing something so positive that she would have loved sounds amazing and healing ❤❤❤
That was so brave of you to share. Sending love x
Thank you so much for listening 🤍
We suffer more from problems in our imaginations than we ever do in our physical bodies & the fact is, words seldom ever solve problems. That means that, more than likely, nothing you said differently to your friend would have changed the outcome. It's human nature to believe that we have more control over our world than we actually do, but in reality, we only have control over ourselves. I'm sorry that happened to your friend, but it's not your fault. She did what she did to try to end her pain & I don't think she would want you to feel guilty or angry in her place. She would want you to be happy. I hope you find peace ☺️🙏
The last two sentences really resonates with me, you’re right I don’t think you would like that
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, wish you the best also 🤍
Sending you good vibes and warm thoughts from Singapore 💞
yay! thnx for featuring n answering my question Clemecne. Brittany is beautiful. Thnx for being open about urself(can relate myself on some level)Keep being adorable. btw did u go for a bike rider after shooting this video?😁love ur looks always!
Au the Audacity by Penhaligans is a good dupe for Babycat in the U.S. it's made by the same perfumer
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Congrats on 30k though 👍🏻
Bonsoir Clémence,
Je viens de finir ra vidéo émouvante. Je risque d’ecrire à chaud, censure moi si besoin, je comprendrais...
Je suis grave vénère quand j’entend des gens défendre des v.oleurs en disant "elle etait trop sexy, elle les a provoqué". C’est une sale mentalité macho. RIEN ne justifie un v.ol, Rien. Si on inverse les rôles homme/femme ce serait pas la meme reaction bien sur.
J’ai vécu une eperience similaire, ca doit sortir (j’editerais peut-etre pour effacer cette partie).
Des copains avaient fait boire un proche qui a terminé à la casserole. Ces meme copains on tenté de me faire boire (un seul verre et j’etais raid sous la table), ils ont tenté également de me faire passer à la casserole. Ils ont voulu faire croire à mon petit ami de l’époque que je dormais comme un bébé dans la chambre d’amis, et qu’ils me ramèneraient chez moi le lendemain. J’ai hurlé des qu’ils ont essayé de me déshabiller, soit disant pour me mettre à l’aise. Mon petit ami ne voulait pas partir sans moi (ouf) et a accouru. J’avais fais un cauchemars soi disant. Il m’a ramené intact a la maison mais c’est pas passé loin.
J’etais mineure, ils auraient pris tres cher si j’avais parlé. Mais on est ado et bête à cet âge là. Et surtout, on voulait pas que nos parents apprennent ce qui est arrivé.
Quand j’ai appris des années plus tard pour mon proche j’etais furieuse aussi.
On va les excuser aussi ces détraqués lorsqu’ils le font sur des mineurs ? Quand ils commencent, ils ne s’arrêtent jamais. C’est quoi l’excuse ? Trop mignonne ? Et ce qui m’enervent le plus c’est que personne ne les arrêtent. Y a des "garconnieres" tout un réseau et du frics, mais surtout aucune preuve...
Désolée Clémence, je me suis beaucoup lâché...
Merci d’avoir partagé
Pleins de bisous parfumés 😘
Surtout ne te censure jamais! Le pire dans ces histoires c’est que c’est nous qui nous censurons pour des choses dont on ne devrait pas avoir honte,
C’est toujours la même chose c’est quand même un comble,
Je suis d’accord avec toi sur toute la ligne
Ton histoire est choquante et vraiment heureusement que ton copain n’est pas partis, ils sont complètement détraqués comme tu dis ces gens là, je comprends pas,
Mon amie c’était un peu le même genre d’histoire, on a beau être ado, c’est incompréhensible ce qu’il peut passer par la tête de ces gens là
Je suis contente que tu sois rentrée intacte ce jour la, et pour ton proche y a pas de mots
Merci d’avoir raconté ton histoire, c’est important de parler et c’est jamais évident de le faire
Des gros bisous 🤍
I see clémence, I click
That’s super sweet thank you🤍
Thanks to voice things… ❤
Clemence❤️💪🏻
❤You are human and she loves you for that. All I see in this video is this immense love between 2 friends, 2 imperfect and kind women. Love triumphs, always.❤️ I’ve lost someone and his fragrance (L’habit rouge) helped me during tough time. It is reassuring. Is this the case for you? I send you love.
I pray to God I find dupe for The Body Shop Vanilla Oil from the '90's (black cap/stopper) 😢
That's the best smell I ever did ... well - smell . I would be the happiest man on 🌎 if I could only get my hands on 10ml of that oil ❤
Clemence, I work in mental health. Therapists cant diagnose mental health issues, so Im hoping this hasnt been your experience. A psychiatrist can diagnose. There are also 2 categories in Bipolar, Bipolar 1 and Bipolar 2, although many Psychiatrists dispute this and say one form of Bipolar is actually Borderline Personality Disorder, or EUPD, and the other is Bipolar.The one is sort of a milder form of Bipolar, although still very difficult for people to manage, the other is more of a full blown mania. Therapy is very helpful at times, but never in place of a diagnosis by a Psychiatrist. Hope you continue to get the right support
Hey there !
Thanks for your great advices, I’ve been seeing a psychiatrist to get diagnosed, I didn’t displayed all the treatments and help I’ve seeked but I certainly did, so don’t worry I am aware and doing much better now.
Thank you
For Féérie ; Clémence I don't know if you will agree, but i'll recomand les cocottes de Paris La Belle Otero
Ahhhh les cocottes ! I discovered the brand recently it’s lovely, need to try the one you mentionned thanks so much for your recommendation !
@@clemenceccfragrance Thankyou for all your recommandations over time ! I discovered it because of you, without you i would never have smelled niche perfumes.
The first time i've smelled La Belle Otero I was like "oh but it's Féérie. But like if the Pixie turned darker. More sensual and more dangerous". There is something acid about that perfume ; even if the violet is the same than in Feerie (to my nose) ; every thing around is much less inocent. So it's perfect cause Féérie was something we weared when we was teenagers (I don't have a bottle remaining sadly, I would still were it if I could) and with Otero it grows up. This is clearly for a women, not a teenager.
Sorry for my grammar ; I come from you french community I try writing in english cause I find it quite rude not to use the language of the targeted public if I can.
Penhaligons Eau The Audacity is a dupe for babycat
Get a sample of it and give it a try.
Hi Clemence ❤ this sounds like a funny video 😊
First part yes, second part you don’t have to watch it !
Thank you 🤍
Oh yes, I got to the second part today ❤
There’s nothing that can be said to help, hope talking openly about it helped you out. Sending lots of love your way ❤
Dear Clemence, you said you are Catholic by education. Please pray the Rosary (Chapelet). 📿 Pray it every day. And please pray a Novena (Neuvaine) to St Dymphna (Ste. Dimpre). 🙏 I love you. ❤
I knew you were sagittarius ❤
hi!!!! Indonesian here! come to Indonesia. I'll show you around ;)
Just wanted to say congratulations for being able to voice your trauma its not easy to do any time let alone this platform
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1st Clemence. I was just thinking of you :) xxx
🤍🤍 hope you’re well !
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