Slow To Anger I Season Six, Episode 3
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- Опубликовано: 19 мар 2024
- When we think of anger, we don’t often think of it as a God-given emotion … but it is. There’s nothing in scripture that says “don’t get angry.” Instead, we are encouraged to be slow to anger.
But what does it mean to be slow to anger?
In this week’s conversation, Candace and Jennie are digging into anger: what it is, why it is better to be honest about it rather than hide it, strategies that have helped them slow down in their anger, and ways anger can be destructive.
Remember, we are to be “slow to anger” but also not to sin in our anger. Listen in to hear more!
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Each season of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast features one guest for a deep exploration of a single theme, encouraging viewers to grow in their experiences of faith, family and purposeful living.
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Best known as ‘D.J Tanner’ in the hit television series “Full House” and Netflix’s “Fuller House,” and as the actor and director who takes over your television around Christmas time. Candace is also a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and CEO of Candy Rock Entertainment. Candace has been interviewed many times over her decades on television, and decided it was time to host deep conversations about the many topics people find important.
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Without getting into my family drama too much. I recently had a phone conversation with my sister-in-law and she brought up new/old information about the emotional abuse I endured from my mom. That just opened up all over again an old wound. I received a revelation (years ago...when the drama was all happening) and the Holy Ghost told me loud and clear: You never mind them. I knew I was being told, I'll deal with them, you just take care of you. So with the recent phone call, I prayed....okay that message just isn't enough to deal with this wound being re-opened. So, of course my prayers were answered. I found some sayings, a song popped up on my Pandora, and NOW your podcast. So, thank you. I learned from it that I have a narrow river and know that I am a person that wants to DEFEND myself and that will bring me sin in my anger. I will save this video and turn to it when I need help/comfort. Love to both of you.
Wow: Sending you compassion, sister. I’m so sorry that that old wound was re-opened….that is very hard. I recently experienced that, too, though around painful financial issues (rather than familial issues). ❤ I, too, turned to the Holy Spirit in my pain and refused to blow up in anger - even though part of me wanted to do so. But, hey, we are all “new creations in Christ” - no matter how long it takes, as I like to say. 😂 The change in our hearts 💕 is both immediate and also takes a lifetime to integrate and embody. It’s all of it. So super grateful for this podcast and this space of support here with wonderful people. Bless 🙏🏻✨
No way!! Today I was thinking about godly anger versus non-godly anger. Then, my Bible reading of the day was John 2 (where Jesus flips the table. THEN I came across this podcast and what do they talk about? BOTH OF THOSE THINGS! The Lord works!
I think the term you're looking for is righteous vs unrighteous anger.
Favorite part is, when Jennie explained the river will be narrow with trauma experience. Yes, it not an excuse, but be compassionate about when they might go through.
Great topics as always!
I love how honest you both are about your feelings. So good.
So grateful for this podcast. I’m learning so much about God, myself, and I’m growing.
I listen to Candace and see her and all I feel and see and sense is Spring! Call me weird. So the spring colours, flowers and their odours! So sweet
Thankyou both. For me…. I was thinking two main things, behaviour isn’t always entirely within our control (neurological injury has taught me this) BUT that doesn’t mean I don’t try everything I can to manage my behaviour and improve it. Then I loved Jennie’s discussion of the river banks…. I think my river is so narrow that I’m up on the sand and in a desert! I have been saying to people for awhile that I feel like I have negative resilience now because even good things often feel hard (mostly because they push what tiny amounts of energy and reserves I have)…. But the way Jennie put all this and why, which was done as an analogy with no judgement, did help provide greater understanding and gives me another tool in my own toolkit to think about what’s happening and why Im struggling as I am…. And in some time, somehow put in increased buffer zones while I learn to steer the canoe better. So truly, thankyou both!
Delayed obedience is no obedience...so so true! Teaching our toddlers so in teenage yrs it not new implementations!!
I am LOVING this so much!! You ladies are hitting it out of the park with these conversations ❤ Thank you for all the hard work you pour into each episode. It feels like we’re all just a bunch of girl friends getting together to chat over coffee-or tea or matcha ;-) and walking away refreshed and fueled to tackle anything!!
Loved this series so much! Thank you! ❤
I adore you Candace. Thx for this podcast. Helps so many people ☺️
I have needed this series for longer than I care to admit. Thank you both for answering God’s call on your life❤
This was very helpful. I love the idea of asking each other what was hard or what are you really feeling. 😊❤
Mom rage is soooo real and so debilitating sometimes 😢 love hearing you both talk about this.
This episode is going to be life changing for many people! Thank you for putting this out there. ❤
Laundry... definitely the one thing my kids saw me completely lose my mind over! A search for towels turned up a pile of--I kid you not--27 towels that were dumped in their bedrooms. Mom meltdown of epic proportions, for sure. That led to a wonderful thing, though. From that day on, each of my 5 kids was assigned a day to do their own laundry. No more meltdowns. Yeah, they have piles of dirty clothes still... but I no longer worry about it. That's their responsibility. It has been a sanity (and relationship) saver for our family.
I am so comforted & relieved!!!
Thank you Candace for this episode! It really helped me and blessed my life. Love this podcast! ❤️
Love my 🍵 unsweetened matcha!!
I focus on my breath too!, candace ! 😃 thank you for sharing!!
&,It empowers us & calms our Nervous system. 😃 🌞✅️👍
Completely understand the car time, Candace. I thought I was the only one who did that😅
Yep" internalize , " work through it " . 🎉🎉🎉
hey girl- loved the chat! Oh so good!😀😉 We need to calm ourselves and stay focused on the Lord. Like you said Candace- God's got this🥰
Great topic !! , yep!, people can be passionate !! Talking but not mad !, happend to me countless times. 😃 😊
Thanks for openly sharing your thoughts on emotions. ❤
My favorite! I love Matcha 🍵💗
So helpful ❤
I'm Italian and you both described me perfectly. Unfortunately my husband doesn't know how to take me.
Can completely understand this , I am greek and the same way… husband also has a hard time… I had to learn how to express myself definitely to help him
Yes! Italian girl here! Yes! Passionate!
Great chemistry between ya" !!😃👍😼
To my shame, you are describing me almost to a "T" 😢 Working where I work, I have learned how much anger is one of my greatest struggles
I have two toddlers right now and struggle daily with losing my patience. I always feel so guilty and like a bad mom. But then I have to remind myself that my husband and I don’t have a “village”, it’s just us.. so of course I’m overwhelmed. BUT I still have a lot I can work on internally to improve my patience.
Ok I’m 3 min. In and I just wanna say I’m a coffee girl but it bothered my stomach too. And now I drink mushroom coffee it’s amazing you gotta try it. ❤🎉
Hi!!1st time here!! 👋🏻
I was always taught to take things said with a grain of salt. I believe that helps me to a point. I don't really get easily angered much when I do I am more hurt than angered . I just don't like anger but I do think it takes alot to have me get there
Same! Often I can brush things off and not let it affect me. Otherwise I get more hurt than angry too. If I ever get extremely upset, I normally cry it out rather than get mad.
Does anyone have the link to the one page guide she mentioned? I'm looking for it....
I’m a Peacemaker and I don’t get angry/explode it’s a rare thing. And yes I’m extremely extremely passionate about things:) And my sisters. And I we grew up in a very very very healthy very very very Godly home. And we are super thankful to God that our parents are super super Passionate about Jesus Christ:)@Candace Cameron Bure
Can someone point me to the one page guide to being emotionally healthy. I cannot find it on the website.
Candace, I love your pants! Can you share where I can buy them?😊
What mocha do you use?
What matcha do you like Candace?? I need to know what and where to get the good stuff!
I would really love to know, myself! I cannot help wondering if she would actually tell us, because Candace is sure to get several offers to advertise different matcha brands.
I have Italian on my mom side. I drink unsweetened ice tea in the morning.
"I don't like sugary drinks" yikes! as someone who is ADDICTED to soda & sweet drinks..I was wondering if Candace (or anyone) would have any advice for me.😂 This has been a lifelong love 😢
What brand of Matcha do you drink, it sounds very good and healthy.
HALT
H-am I feeling Hungry?
A- am I feeling Angry?
L-am I feeling Lonely?
T- am I feeling tired?
This is helpful to ask yourself to help identify what you’re feeling and to assess your response to something. Often if we are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired it impacts our reactions and feelings towards a situation,
Great advice from jennie Allen, " let kids know they can ask parents what they ARE FEELING !! 😯😯
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How do you find out what you have suppressed inside. I snap at my spouse and I don't know why
Only have gotten to the matcha discussion....matcha is gross! ;)
I'm not sure women are more comfortable expressing emotions. I find women to be much more indirect, passive aggressive communicators who are VERY uncomfortable speaking directly, and will retaliate covertly if you speak frankly. Men seem to be able to handle direct communication and even appreciate it. Covert aggression also seems to be the norm amongst women. They'll deny their hostility until the day they die. That doesn't strike me as a high degree of comfort expressing emotion.
Yall definitely helped me❤