16 year nightmare at the hands of Mongrel Mob President I The Hui 2019

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • Gang abuse survivor Zania McCauley describes her 16 years of sexual and domestic violence at the hands Te Teko Mongrel Mob President Hoani John Chase, with whom she lived in Waiohau and was the father of her twins River and Rain. Crown Prosecutor Anna Pollett took on her case after she went to police and Justice Sarah Katz sentenced Chase to 18 years in prison. He was depatched and Mob member Slob said women were to be loved. Zania has moved on with a new partner Scott Enright. ➡️ SUBSCRIBE: / @thehuinewzealand
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Комментарии • 981

  • @de-nz4jp
    @de-nz4jp Месяц назад +563

    This isnt domestic violence.. she never chose to be with him.. he completely hijacked her life and her sons life and no one helped her..

    • @kylieharrison3782
      @kylieharrison3782 Месяц назад

      Domestic terrorism for sure

    • @DumplinNoodleSoup
      @DumplinNoodleSoup Месяц назад +53

      I'm so glad for your comment! This is what I kept thinking everytime they called it domestic violence! It was never her choice for him to be in her life. So tragic

    • @jenniferheta4770
      @jenniferheta4770 Месяц назад +6

      @de-nz4jp so.like your comment no one helped her???

    • @mylittlerebornfarm756
      @mylittlerebornfarm756 Месяц назад +15

      @@jenniferheta4770 NO ONE DID!! Until 16 years later!

    • @charissesainty4854
      @charissesainty4854 Месяц назад +10

      Her community and family did not help her. He kidnapped her home,life and was so insecure,frightened . Imagine believing that's what live is!! Good on you for doing for yourself.

  • @JanisTilyard
    @JanisTilyard Месяц назад +296

    She is braver than all the gang members who didn’t challenge him.

    • @drew7663
      @drew7663 Месяц назад +2

      100%

    • @MikeJones-m6r
      @MikeJones-m6r Месяц назад +18

      They didnt challenge him because the way he acted was "gangsta" and "hard" to them.
      The respected him for it, but when it came out they made a big act of pretending to "depatch" him lol.

    • @temaori4391
      @temaori4391 Месяц назад +3

      Cringe af

    • @helengillies2083
      @helengillies2083 2 дня назад

      Gangs are sh.t holes

  • @PM-ey5yq
    @PM-ey5yq Месяц назад +566

    THE WHITE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM FOR ME IS THAT POLICE OFFICER, HE KNEW

    • @maretajuo4549
      @maretajuo4549 Месяц назад +28

      My thoughts exactly

    • @MummaJ-2024
      @MummaJ-2024 Месяц назад +8

      Yes

    • @otablu685
      @otablu685 Месяц назад +41

      & the neighbours. straight useless

    • @Bellaozi
      @Bellaozi Месяц назад +66

      The whole town knew!
      The father to her son would've been able to hear her get beaten from his house up the road.
      What kinda culture is that?!

    • @Bellaozi
      @Bellaozi Месяц назад +2

      ​@@otablu685they were her family.

  • @HannahMitchell-Art
    @HannahMitchell-Art Месяц назад +154

    This is more like home invasion and torture rather than domestic violence. 16 years of brutal treatment in her own home. A miracle she is ❤❤❤

  • @victoriarose7111
    @victoriarose7111 Месяц назад +275

    No woman should have to live in fear of violence.

    • @SKCDOSENDEPS
      @SKCDOSENDEPS Месяц назад +12

      No *One does

    • @AnnaRexsick
      @AnnaRexsick Месяц назад +4

      Thats right, nobody.

    • @davidboyd8113
      @davidboyd8113 Месяц назад +7

      Did you know that it’s a 50-50 split that men also suffer violence from the woman except the police will not report it

    • @BettiePagan
      @BettiePagan Месяц назад +1

      @@davidboyd8113yea they see how long women have been repeatedly dismissed for the same claims, and don’t want to put themselves through more (legal)traumā

    • @bbym1313
      @bbym1313 Месяц назад +2

      @@davidboyd8113bull 💩

  • @williamburns9731
    @williamburns9731 Месяц назад +170

    As a 75yo Australian male I'm absolutely discussted at the way family and friends did nothing for this beautiful female. Shame Shame Shame. All the best for the rest of your life Sweet Lady ❤

    • @Narnz80
      @Narnz80 Месяц назад +4

      @@williamburns9731 Probably out of fear being a small community.

    • @nikorri6373
      @nikorri6373 Месяц назад +1

      Mind you're own business respect you're self and welcome to country 😂

    • @diggerau698
      @diggerau698 Месяц назад +8

      @@nikorri6373 "respect you're self" can you tell me what this means?

    • @ChristopherRodmell
      @ChristopherRodmell Месяц назад +5

      Her family, friends and the neighbors didn't want to help her, because it wasn't safe to help her, and I don't blame them.
      They obviously knew that this guy is extremely dangerous, trying to help her or call the police is not an option, otherwise they're putting their safety at serious risk too.
      If they tried to help her and he found out, he would hunt them down and terrorise them, and she won't have wanted that.

    • @Stoker-i2c
      @Stoker-i2c Месяц назад +4

      ​@@nikorri6373what you gonna bark at him ..beat him up ?

  • @thatbeerchick3511
    @thatbeerchick3511 Месяц назад +638

    Yet New Zealand media keeps glorifying gangs. This is sickening. My heart goes out her❤️

    • @mra6308
      @mra6308 Месяц назад +68

      And the politicians out there standing up for them

    • @toni-leeblair5869
      @toni-leeblair5869 Месяц назад +41

      And the cops......Foul!

    • @TammyLeeNicholls
      @TammyLeeNicholls Месяц назад +17

      They lowkey want to have a reason to instill martial law

    • @arthurfleck1764
      @arthurfleck1764 Месяц назад +19

      @@toni-leeblair5869 ...don't forget the judges!

    • @Leo29568
      @Leo29568 Месяц назад +38

      Glorifying gangs? No one is glorifying gangs.

  • @SUNIA21
    @SUNIA21 Месяц назад +312

    The Corrupt Cop though 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️ Pooftah. Bet the town knows who that cop was in that rugby team.

    • @Tippytipene
      @Tippytipene Месяц назад +30

      I’m from around those ways and a name comes to mind.

    • @otablu685
      @otablu685 Месяц назад

      that cu nt needs to be exposed

    • @ciouslil
      @ciouslil Месяц назад

      ​@@TippytipeneName the idiot

    • @1112-g1x
      @1112-g1x Месяц назад +9

      @@Tippytipene wht the name ? or r u worried?

    • @Synthetic-Chicken
      @Synthetic-Chicken Месяц назад +4

      @@Tippytipene Be sure and serve justice, corrupt systems and the people that built them.

  • @maymellor7592
    @maymellor7592 Месяц назад +204

    Heartbreaking. An unfortunate meeting indeed. I am horrified at this woman's abuse. That male is a absolute waste of oxygen. He is not a man.

    • @robinhoward4204
      @robinhoward4204 Месяц назад +15

      I'm just gobsmacked at this man and his barbaric abuse when there was never a relationship to begin with. There was no love, just fear, intimidation and horrific treatment. I'm amazed this poor woman survived, but thank heaven she did.❤

    • @bumblebee3729
      @bumblebee3729 Месяц назад

      Absolutley filthy guy

    • @rodeo4786
      @rodeo4786 Месяц назад +7

      There are many like these in society believe me

    • @mizdrive2735
      @mizdrive2735 Месяц назад

      @@rodeo4786 yep. That's for real.

    • @stu290bushrider
      @stu290bushrider Месяц назад

      @@rodeo4786 some people just haven't evolved.

  • @arliamcilroy1469
    @arliamcilroy1469 23 дня назад +34

    Zania, I went to school with River and Rain. You've done amazing with raising them. They were some of the sweetest girls I knew. I am so truly sorry. You're a warrior through and through.

  • @pman2916
    @pman2916 Месяц назад +160

    That cop should be fired named and shamed. How disgusting😡

  • @ruthmitipelo4624
    @ruthmitipelo4624 Месяц назад +106

    OMG! now that’s a woman who had the strength in her and she stood strong in her beliefs. I just loved and admired her courage and commitment to her children. I cried for her being through domestic abuse and to go through it all those years. I see you as a leader in your community and a very loving person. Not once did l see hatred just hurt! Blessings to you Zania and your family❤️💛🌻

    • @Lovekowhailove
      @Lovekowhailove Месяц назад +2

      Who's the nark that cop wtf he put her in this situation so who do you go when you need help

  • @mrsannettelee
    @mrsannettelee Месяц назад +59

    My ex took me hostage for one night and did horrible things. I put him in jail and he got 12 years. I could not imagine having to live through that for as long as this brave woman did. I have so much respect for her. Congratulations I'm being able to live your life again. These things change us, but they show how resilient we are. May you have hope, peace and love for the rest of your life.

  • @sixthsenseamelia4695
    @sixthsenseamelia4695 Месяц назад +178

    People knew.......
    And turned a blind eye.
    😞

    • @AnnaRexsick
      @AnnaRexsick Месяц назад +8

      That's what happened. Let's keep our eyes open from now hey

    • @mizdrive2735
      @mizdrive2735 Месяц назад +12

      Yes, most probably because of fear of retaliation from this psycho and his intimidating gang members. After all it is a small community. Everyone knows everyone.
      Being associated with gangs can lead to being isolated from friends because they do not want anything to do with you or the gangs and in some cases the loss of family members because of the association. It is a terrible predicament to be in- especially when like this lady- did not want to be in a relationship with this horrible thing called a human.
      In saying that, the cop should have had more sense and know there would have been consequences for that woman after she approached him for help.
      At the end of her 16 years of all her abuse and trauma and because of her daughter's intervention of another suicide attempt - She took steps to heal herself and when she did this and joined the Suicide Prevention programme - her life changed. It was good she finally told the police of her 16 years of hell. Good job that gang got rid of him. That man should never be let out.
      He is a danger to society and to this woman.
      Well done Zarnia - You are a strong beautiful woman.

    • @Narnz80
      @Narnz80 Месяц назад +2

      @@mizdrive2735 Facts💯

    • @MikeJones-m6r
      @MikeJones-m6r Месяц назад +1

      Touch a guy like that and police will raid your house as if you were a terrorist.

    • @TaaitulagiTuigamala
      @TaaitulagiTuigamala Месяц назад +2

      Happens in Samoan churches all the time. Grown men touch young girls and sit in front of the church... Everyone knows but continue to sing their church songs 😂
      Stopped going to church as soon as I left home. I still pray though ❤

  • @hotpod12
    @hotpod12 Месяц назад +31

    The fact that she said she doesn't blame her family and friends for not helping when they abandoned her one-by-one, simply because they were afraid of him, says a lot about her courage and forgiveness. As many have a said already, this isn't domestic violence, this is essentially a home invasion and kidnapping.

    • @JulieIelasi-lt7yp
      @JulieIelasi-lt7yp 25 дней назад +2

      But it kept on going it's domestic violence too

  • @aussiebird
    @aussiebird Месяц назад +137

    The NZ Government, Police & legal system should be ashamed of their lack of support for this woman and her innocent children. Gangs should be totally disbanded, why are they still active, waste of oxygen imo, pathetic excuses for human beings. NZ government & police you all need to grow some balls, change the law, put them all behind bars! You’re a warrior Zania 🙏

    • @LeMa121
      @LeMa121 Месяц назад +6

      its coming soon don't worry...national have promised a huge crack down on gangs, following Australia

    • @aussiebird
      @aussiebird Месяц назад

      @@LeMa121 I hope they do but until you see action, their political promises are empty imo. Why does NZ have such a huge problem with gangs & criminals? For such a small population the epic problems across generations these idiots cause, you'd think the police & legal system would have them locked up.

    • @kiwisrule6757
      @kiwisrule6757 Месяц назад +8

      @@LeMa121we shall see almost certain very little will change😢

    • @aussiebird
      @aussiebird Месяц назад +2

      @@kiwisrule6757 tend to agree as gangs have been active in NZ for many years & no politician has tried to shut them down

    • @jenkims1953
      @jenkims1953 Месяц назад +4

      its an ingrained thing that goes back through generations. Not all gang members are this heinous but also i think that they cannot fully abolish gangs as its so ingrained.

  • @charlenequigley5557
    @charlenequigley5557 Месяц назад +46

    This started with a home invasion and imprisonment of the home owner. I can't wrap my head around labelling this DV. There was no relationship. She doesn't even remember what happened on the night she met him. He could've slipped her something. He took everything from her. He systematically and psychotically destroyed her life. 18 years isn't long enough and DV isnt the right term too describe what he did.
    Anyway, her bravery is astounding and her life is on track. She and her children deserve all the happiness and peace and love in the world.
    Just curious about her employer. They must've realised what was happening. She must have had many sick days. I don't know if she stayed with the same employer or not. I'm just thinking that her job was kept for her. She had a few hours of safety at work, but noone offered her anymore than that.
    The police officer certainly didn't. Her family and community, put the potential risk too their safety, above hers. She was only 21, making a genuine go of her life and noone protected her.
    Saying at the end that the gang had no idea and would help her from now on and would take better care of their women folk. Yeah right, I don't think anyone believes the cosy idea that gangs are the families of the disenfranchised and left behind kids, any longer.

    • @sarahevans1580
      @sarahevans1580 Месяц назад +8

      I was thinking the same...this is so far beyond DV,and he should be in for life

    • @AlastairGoodlandonline
      @AlastairGoodlandonline 21 день назад

      Domestic terrorism is more accurate

  • @lislenz670
    @lislenz670 Месяц назад +117

    I grew up with violence and then ended up in a violent relationship (relationshit) from one survivor to another, well done for making the right decision and not being afraid. Xo

  • @asiasigafulu4017
    @asiasigafulu4017 Месяц назад +68

    Heart breaking story. So happy she's safe with her kids now.

    • @karenkennedy6293
      @karenkennedy6293 Месяц назад

      The day that parasite gets out his ex mongrel mob brothers should take steps to protect her from him and teach him a lesson. How ironic it was to see the club he represented supporting his wife and not him. !!❤

  • @rayofsonshine3
    @rayofsonshine3 Месяц назад +48

    18 years is not enough 😢😢 not what he put her through

  • @Juanita-gf4te
    @Juanita-gf4te Месяц назад +133

    I knew another woman who was in a predicament like this. She had 5 kids including a sick baby who was in and out of hospital. She was from up north and her case was so bad that The Women's Refuge up there arranged for her and her children to move secretly to Napier and she moved into the flay next to mine. Her 5 month old baby was again admitted to hospital with a serious lung disease. She knew her ex was looking for her and she was living in fear. I told her if she needed to she and her kids could hide out in my place. Anyway, something must have happened because next thing she moved out suddenly in the early morning hours and was gone. I never saw her again. I hope she and her kids are safe somewhere away from that man.

    • @mizdrive2735
      @mizdrive2735 Месяц назад +10

      Hope she is okay and her children. That would have been scary not knowing .

    • @jasonwinters4350
      @jasonwinters4350 Месяц назад +9

      Anyman with a patch or not that does this is a complete piece of 💩 wat a tough guy👎🏼👎🏼

    • @tackedbud1346
      @tackedbud1346 Месяц назад +5

      1 of my biggest fears is for mi daughter have a gang member for a parter i think thats alot of dads fears

  • @Keepitsimple183
    @Keepitsimple183 Месяц назад +23

    So many people can identify with Zania's suffering through this absolutely abhorrent story of abuse and trauma..
    Thankyou for sharing this.

  • @nuiwai5402
    @nuiwai5402 Месяц назад +85

    Kia Ora Zania thank you for fighting for you and your tamariki. ❤ You are so kaha and brave❤❤❤ We really admire you❤❤❤

  • @JonelleOld
    @JonelleOld Месяц назад +46

    Well I thought I’d heard the worst even been through hell but no I haven’t and I’m so blown away by what this woman endured for 16years. My Grandparents were the first domestic violence case in NZ courts and my grandmother couldn’t go through with it once she saw my GD in court. I hope our creator knows what this woman and her family have been through and they all have good lives for the rest of their days. This woman is courage in human form and my heart is proud of her strength and fortitude. Thankyou beautiful lady for sharing your pain and your new journey with us❤

  • @Ibeleiveintherapture2023
    @Ibeleiveintherapture2023 Месяц назад +16

    Oh sweetheart. My heart breaks. First time ive cried watching a programe. Im 70 and so proud of you. God bless you. ❤

  • @shyshy07
    @shyshy07 Месяц назад +83

    He disgusting and I’m happy for you and your son and daughters to be free of him I know what it feels like to tell your baby’s to run 😢

  • @beverleysteele1106
    @beverleysteele1106 Месяц назад +44

    I also lived with violence that broke my body and then my mind ,it has taken a long time to put the pieces back together but i have ,we need to be showing our boys what to be kind and empathetic ,and showing our girls that they deserve the kindness and empathy so all our kids can have a great life

    • @benj4840
      @benj4840 Месяц назад

      What a load of shit man… so men are expected to do something but women not? Dude you’re part of the problem. this lady I have no sympathy she associated with a gang member.

    • @mizdrive2735
      @mizdrive2735 Месяц назад +1

      🤗

  • @Sassin777
    @Sassin777 Месяц назад +21

    I’m so proud of you lady. You stayed true to the woman your father would have wanted you to be ❤

  • @lisacameron4698
    @lisacameron4698 Месяц назад +30

    And once were warriors continue in this country. Nothing has changed
    Im sorry you went through this. Stay strong beautiful lady🙏

  • @zninz5368
    @zninz5368 Месяц назад +120

    You’re not even my sister and I would of done everything I could for you not to go through that. May you heal much love

  • @Bellaozi
    @Bellaozi Месяц назад +43

    Please come to Australia with your beautiful children & have a good life. One where you'll be supported & not abandoned by those you love

    • @thatsthejobbb8587
      @thatsthejobbb8587 Месяц назад +17

      A women is murdered by a current or ex partner every 4days in Australia......

    • @marilynschmidt6400
      @marilynschmidt6400 Месяц назад +12

      ​@@thatsthejobbb8587 The statistics for domestic violence in a small country like NZ is an absolute disgrace though. I hope my son and his family never come back to NZ.

    • @edgarsox230
      @edgarsox230 Месяц назад +5

      Get off the pipe, rural aus is worse ffs wake up

    • @Bellaozi
      @Bellaozi Месяц назад +7

      Rather live in rural OZ than rural NZ... clearly many other NZ do too,!

    • @Bellaozi
      @Bellaozi Месяц назад

      @@thatsthejobbb8587 I guarantee there's more female brutality & murder in NZ than Australia per population capita.

  • @teddyboo101
    @teddyboo101 Месяц назад +6

    as a single mum of a son in my own home this story has really hit home. honestly she is inspiring

  • @johnr3150
    @johnr3150 Месяц назад +32

    Too many woman in NZ are in this situation. Sadly lots have been killed by these gang psychopaths. What’s gonna happen when the ex gets out of jail?. He’ll want revenge. I would leave town and make a new life in Oz if I was her.

    • @ChristopherRodmell
      @ChristopherRodmell Месяц назад +3

      She could indeed go to Australia if she wanted to, but don't forget that comes with risks too.
      She may get the better living standard, but because she'd be an immigrant she's got to watch out because it would only takes one wrong doing to get her kicked out of the country.
      The Australian government could easily just be nitpicky and come up with a reason to screw her over randomly if they felt like it. It's already happened a number of times with immigrants in Australia.

    • @de-nz4jp
      @de-nz4jp 8 дней назад

      @@johnr3150 you're right about the psychopaths in New Zealand, both gang and non gang connected, who are responsible for making woman's lives and family a daily hell.. for various reasons the police are often ineffectual in these situations..

  • @ST0L3NLAND
    @ST0L3NLAND Месяц назад +27

    This isn't domestic violence this is kidnapp and more

  • @ninjabbjakjak8337
    @ninjabbjakjak8337 Месяц назад +11

    We were the kids where domestic violence was the norm in our home. However, some of us chose not to accept or want to continue domestic violence. Some of us asked God to help because it needed to be buried with hate, greed and power. Zania stood up to her abuser and from there WA the glimmer of hope to freedom of inner peace. Thankyou for sharing your story. Amen!

  • @ehLeanne311
    @ehLeanne311 Месяц назад +33

    This kiwi short documentary is World class ,one of the best I've seen, gripping

  • @lizwilson9727
    @lizwilson9727 Месяц назад +19

    So proud of you Zarn, been a long road to get to today. I remember the first time I heard your story in person, you have such strength and have made many many hard decisions x

  • @_MoreOfYouLessOfMe_
    @_MoreOfYouLessOfMe_ Месяц назад +98

    It breaks my heart to hear what our wāhine go through! God bless you if you are going through trials and tribulations. Don't give up! Kiā Kāhā! Mānā Wāhine❤

    • @Buttercup_267
      @Buttercup_267 Месяц назад +7

      But what's more devastating it's our own tanē doing it to our own wahine

    • @hohepahohepa2708
      @hohepahohepa2708 Месяц назад

      I can't even watch that he's an evil man

    • @TonyWoodham
      @TonyWoodham Месяц назад

      Well instead of wringing your hands and bleating commiserations get off your sorry ar$ and do something about it, you are very good at spouting what you think people want to hear,
      BUT ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
      WALK THE WALK TALK THE TALK OR
      SHUT UP

    • @wikitoriasmith1713
      @wikitoriasmith1713 Месяц назад +5

      Yes! And they’re not all in gangs.
      I know, I’m a survivor.

    • @mizdrive2735
      @mizdrive2735 Месяц назад

      @@wikitoriasmith1713

  • @NZLink
    @NZLink Месяц назад +13

    they depatched him and call her a heroic figure but didn't step in once in 16 years?

    • @MikeJones-m6r
      @MikeJones-m6r Месяц назад +8

      They "depatched" him as a show. Just an act, I guarantee behind closed doors they still consider him a "real dawg"

  • @lacey8228
    @lacey8228 Месяц назад +73

    What a coward he went and got a gun.

    • @veronicaclayton8163
      @veronicaclayton8163 Месяц назад

      yeah F N coward alright

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 27 дней назад

      "" whoreeee - Kerry Fabling does that too around Auckland City, and suburbs.

  • @36paris
    @36paris 12 дней назад +3

    When she said she is stronger now, I thought to myself she was ALWAYS unbelievably strong. If she wasn’t she wouldn’t have survived all that torture.

  • @gixxusmetalman7435
    @gixxusmetalman7435 Месяц назад +13

    Should of gotten 50 yrs ,the law took its time alright!
    Poor lady,basically 1 yr for each beating.
    Hope these kids grow into great adults 🤟🤟

  • @kweenzwalters3916
    @kweenzwalters3916 Месяц назад +41

    Absolutely wish all the blessings to Zania and her kids❤ such a strong beautiful Wahine.

  • @jacksparrow7245
    @jacksparrow7245 Месяц назад +48

    You are the true example of strength Zarnia!

  • @gordonepiha1651
    @gordonepiha1651 Месяц назад +43

    16 years! Where was the whanau? Cant believe it went that long and knowone did anything to help her?

    • @Kult365
      @Kult365 Месяц назад

      Isolation via abuse probably

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 Месяц назад

      look upp - ''''Stockholm Syndrome'' on - Google.- victims who fall in love with their - ''Rapists.''

    • @1112-g1x
      @1112-g1x Месяц назад +4

      those small towns are very isolated places, regular ppl r nt equipped to figure these situations

    • @parkerhal
      @parkerhal Месяц назад +5

      ​@@1112-g1x equipped git nothing to do with it, they just got no mana.

    • @chelseafisher6881
      @chelseafisher6881 Месяц назад +6

      The police officer made it worse, where was she supposed to go

  • @mra6308
    @mra6308 Месяц назад +31

    Rmemeber. There are politicians out there that are trying to stop police and courts from prosecuting these gang members.

    • @bevwinn1369
      @bevwinn1369 Месяц назад +1

      Can you please name the politicians who are trying to stop the prosecution of gang members.

    • @piriurwin9153
      @piriurwin9153 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@bevwinn1369Certainly not any left wing politicians that's for sure

    • @whateverbro9002
      @whateverbro9002 Месяц назад

      Its absolutely the left wing politicians that have left most of these guys on bracelets back home instead of in prison, literally their politicie to keep people out of prison that has left so many back in the community.​@piriurwin9153

    • @malcolmhayward4431
      @malcolmhayward4431 Месяц назад +3

      Them exactly

  • @user-oc9tq6fw9t
    @user-oc9tq6fw9t Месяц назад +15

    Shocking and what a prince she was forced to marry. He is a big bloke that beat the life out of a woman, scared her children. Bless her and her children. I hope she is now feeling safe and enjoying life…finally.

  • @DjFlyguyNz
    @DjFlyguyNz Месяц назад +18

    Thank you for sharing your story and saving your kids ,you are such a beautiful strong soul , God Bless you. ❤

  • @mrmyers91
    @mrmyers91 Месяц назад +25

    What a strong strong woman ❤️❤️ what courage and strength this woman has! ❤️ he’ll be a frail lonely old man when released. What goes around comes around comes around .

  • @MikeJones-m6r
    @MikeJones-m6r Месяц назад +5

    But if a non-gang member had delt to him and helped her escape, they'd be immediately imprisoned as a "terrorist"

    • @WhoAmEye187
      @WhoAmEye187 13 дней назад +1

      That doesn't make any sense? Why would he be considered a "terrorist"?

  • @OffGridDreamsNZ
    @OffGridDreamsNZ Месяц назад +71

    Tragic story.. unfortunately he will be eligible for parole soon after half served.. and so comes the next nightmare. The family courts will say this guy needs contact with his kids, and so we go on.

    • @lukebrown9064
      @lukebrown9064 Месяц назад +2

      @@ciouslilif you didn’t notice, she made her own decision but he didn’t accept that…

    • @smurfylee
      @smurfylee Месяц назад

      Yeah he took no consideration for her feelings about anything, even not being with him! He would be the type to use his kids to get to her, but they'll be over 18 when he's out anyway thank goodness.​@@lukebrown9064

    • @nun365
      @nun365 Месяц назад +3

      @@ciouslilyes hes saying that he didnt listen to her when she said no, why would he listen to the children

    • @lady_v_101
      @lady_v_101 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@ciouslil no, they go through the children to get to the mother, because they know it's the only thing that they can have power over.

    • @shirleyvanderheijden5934
      @shirleyvanderheijden5934 16 дней назад

      All the systems are stuffed!

  • @soulthriver-oz6470
    @soulthriver-oz6470 Месяц назад +5

    Less than 8 minutes in & Im in tears. This was way beyond Domestic Violence, this was sheer TORTURE.

  • @FREDDAGGS
    @FREDDAGGS Месяц назад +9

    This is the gangs. This is what they represent. They have done this over and over. You see a patch, this is what it represents.
    Everything else is completely fake.
    This isnt domestic violence either. Its kidnapping.

  • @binzypoo
    @binzypoo Месяц назад +15

    You are such a beautiful strong Wahine, an inspiration for other wahine dealing with abuse.
    I'm so sorry you went through the horrors you did.
    May the rest of your life be filled with the love and abundance you have ALWAYS deserved.
    Much Aroha ❤

  • @PhillipPahinui
    @PhillipPahinui Месяц назад +9

    As a fellow polynesian (Hawaiian) I am ashamed of this behavior.

  • @ericarey64
    @ericarey64 Месяц назад +5

    wow, this broke my heart .. i cried too for her .. but 23:00 .. a new partner, a new life .. such a strong courageous wahine .. wow wow wow .. thank you darling for sharing and now reaching out to others to support .. x x x love you.

  • @SuperNova-Steve
    @SuperNova-Steve Месяц назад +9

    What a legend of a women. The Director of Photography did a beautiful job on the story too.

  • @juulclark2651
    @juulclark2651 Месяц назад +21

    I don’t care what motor cycle club someone belongs to, the police are there to protect an individual!

    • @1112-g1x
      @1112-g1x Месяц назад

      unfortunately the police r barley non exsistant, u can call them but thy will be very ineffective....this is the new normal

    • @gixxusmetalman7435
      @gixxusmetalman7435 Месяц назад +5

      Motorcycle club 😂😂😂😂

    • @MsMesem
      @MsMesem Месяц назад +1

      @@gixxusmetalman7435 That and other 'activities'.

    • @Eskii_NZL
      @Eskii_NZL 28 дней назад

      The mob ain’t a motorcycle club. They are a pack of losers

  • @goddessravenlovelife7452
    @goddessravenlovelife7452 Месяц назад +12

    You are a heroine to go through that abuse and get out of it alive . These men are absolute evil personified. Sending love and blessings to you sister and for your continued healing xo

  • @carljaninemaclean8174
    @carljaninemaclean8174 Месяц назад +5

    Guy is probably in prison being a bully. Doesn’t deserve any rights

  • @JamesBrown-zp7xm
    @JamesBrown-zp7xm Месяц назад +30

    My Daughter died at Easter,she ended her own life.She was the most beautiful girl in the world,none of us saw it coming,but she had been in an abusive relationship and once she had passed I found out the true horror of my brave little girls life.She was isolated by her abuser and beaten regularly,one beating she was punched in the head repeatedly and then kicked in the head repeatedly,she was made to feel like shit and the pain I feel is unbearable,she was my best friend and soulmate and I never knew what was happening. You will e avenged My Honey, you'll never be forgotten and Cory Connelly.....always look over your shoulder. RIP My Princess xx, the law looks like a joke in these instances

  • @sammyold4708
    @sammyold4708 Месяц назад +38

    Were were the real men? . I'm calling out all the useless fathers out there!

  • @SabrinaMystria123
    @SabrinaMystria123 Месяц назад +15

    To think someone had done this to you a MOTHER a daughter possibly someone's sister. it's absolutely disgusting to think this man exists what a disgrace he must be to his family ! I'm so sorry you had to go through this :( you deserved better you really did :(

    • @falconx5744
      @falconx5744 Месяц назад

      Thats exactly whats going through my mind. What a disgrace! No words i think can describe this rubbish of a man. But what a strong beautiful woman ❤

  • @leayoung5867
    @leayoung5867 Месяц назад +13

    Sister you aren't just a survivor, like myself the worst of Once were warriors was a good day for me but like myself you stood up with true Mana, Wairua. Like myself I still see the scars in the mirror as well as within but they now show we're not just survivors, we are thrivers. Empowering those that are still in that terror and nightmare, younger Wāhines. Heal on.

  • @aotearoanz1283
    @aotearoanz1283 Месяц назад +8

    Tuturu Whakamaua kia taina, Haumi E, Hui E, Taiiki E. You are an awesome blessing to all wahine throughout the world, your story will reach so many wahine to be able to STAND UP AND STAND STRONG TO SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. Thank you so much for sharing your story. From a Survivor to the fist.

  • @annabelle8160
    @annabelle8160 Месяц назад +4

    You can see the fear in her eyes when retelling her story😭😭😭 I’m so sorry this happened to you:(

  • @mosesevaka7478
    @mosesevaka7478 Месяц назад +15

    if this happened to a family member of mind id b locked up for life

  • @RobinLane-z9v
    @RobinLane-z9v Месяц назад +6

    Justice will come to this man when King of the universe returns and those like him.

  • @momojett
    @momojett Месяц назад +8

    Thank you Zania for sharing your story. You are an inspiring wahine, I wish you well for the future you could only have dreamed of before. This is your time xx

  • @karenmusa3052
    @karenmusa3052 Месяц назад +6

    She is a Warrior, she is a WOMAN.
    My heart ached and my tears fell watching this, my own experience with domestic violence and sexual assault coming to my mind.
    How we fight to survive, to be heard, to simply be loved and respected and nothing less.
    We should demand it, expect it, and receive it.
    This evil excuse for a man is nothing, he's a narsassistic psycho that needs to be kept locked away from other bloody human beings, he has given up his right to live amongst us.
    God bless u Sister girl, your family and your ancestors, may your days be filled with love and peace.
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @DossNZ
    @DossNZ Месяц назад +22

    Respect. Love this woman.

  • @sxna0214
    @sxna0214 Месяц назад +10

    Zarnia you should be very proud of yourself! Sending love to you and yours ❤❤❤

  • @lynettetehuia5021
    @lynettetehuia5021 Месяц назад +52

    You deserve to be treated better
    Never tolerate it ever

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 Месяц назад +1

      Victim Support.- Sean O'Dwyer- Sean O'Dwyer.- number 136- 140 Hobson Street.- Auckland 1010.- New Zealand.// maha aotearoa.''

    • @sheribrougham4863
      @sheribrougham4863 Месяц назад +1

      How do you not tolerate it when you cant escape.

  • @jessjess3838
    @jessjess3838 Месяц назад +4

    My ex husband is a black power member and I moved to NZ and left my family in Australia.
    Also isolated.
    I can confirm she's telling the truth.
    No one cares.
    The police told me to go back to Australia and didn't intervene.
    I nearly died.
    I had to flee in secret with my two babies.

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 7 дней назад +1

      There was a inciddent in lorne street Public libray when a mason Clinic inmate attacked a Black Power gang member

  • @ijustbetalkinfr
    @ijustbetalkinfr 22 дня назад +3

    16 years...just thinking about that much time she was held captive is so evil and putrid.

  • @MotherAotearoa
    @MotherAotearoa Месяц назад +5

    Admirable woman! ❤ Zania, you are free now 🕊 You are an example for your tamariki, whanau, and all women in the world.
    ~ "Keep on standing"

  • @carlysmith1247
    @carlysmith1247 Месяц назад +4

    What a harrowing watch. It is the weakest of men who use their fists to feel powerful. What a warrior Zania is.

  • @yeshua1st
    @yeshua1st Месяц назад +3

    You are beyond amazing and strong my sister. Thank you for being so brave and courageous to do the mahi that you are.

  • @lostandnotfound927
    @lostandnotfound927 Месяц назад +3

    Wow this really puts your own problems in stark contrast to what this woman has been through. As a 38 year old man, I will never come close to the strength of this woman.

  • @maretajuo4549
    @maretajuo4549 Месяц назад +7

    This is absolutely heart breaking!! She is so strong ❤

  • @janefriendofbillw1641
    @janefriendofbillw1641 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Missngatai22
    @Missngatai22 Месяц назад +5

    I’m soooo deeply sorry Zania. My heart breaks for you. Unfortunately I have my own story too, so I understand how you feel. You are a strong Wahinetoa. And I admire you. You are in my Prayers 🙏 Kia Kaha xxoo ❤

  • @lanacrystal8147
    @lanacrystal8147 Месяц назад +4

    This is the most courageous story of the love between a mother and her children. ❤

  • @victoriarihari4934
    @victoriarihari4934 Месяц назад +18

    BE STRONG IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT GOOD ON YOU FOR ASKING FOR HELP.
    PEOPLE LIKE HIM NEED HELP AND HEALING.
    MAY THE LORD WATCH OVER YOU AND YOUR WHANAU.
    AMEN.

    • @RooniP
      @RooniP Месяц назад +1

      in Jesus mighty name...Amen

    • @JRTIGER07
      @JRTIGER07 Месяц назад

      @@victoriarihari4934 ♥️ Amen ♥️

  • @victoriarose7111
    @victoriarose7111 Месяц назад +7

    What an amazing beautiful strong woman after going through so much violence I look to her inspiration for making my life better and speaking up for what I experienced in hope of justice also.

  • @donnawilson3846
    @donnawilson3846 Месяц назад +4

    Kia kaha, I cannot imagine your pain or what you’ve had to endure? Pray that the Lord restores & helps you to become stronger.

  • @cathywillis2644
    @cathywillis2644 25 дней назад +4

    Oh you poor darling😢i feel physically sick 😢

  • @louloulalee
    @louloulalee Месяц назад +6

    Thank you for your story Zania ❤

  • @bernadettelepou3487
    @bernadettelepou3487 Месяц назад +12

    16 years is a long time to put up with the abuse. But Zarnia made it out alive...very brave. So good to hear Slob say we treat our women good❤ and the fact the gangs supported Zarnia. Thank you for sharing and hope this will encourage women to get out and be safe.

  • @Kiwi_Christine
    @Kiwi_Christine Месяц назад +4

    It breaks my heart and makes me cry, that she had to endure that. I’m glad she has a kind man in her life. I hope she knows that Jesus loves her more than she could ever imagine.

  • @nofobentley5041
    @nofobentley5041 Месяц назад +9

    Sad this brings back memories from my upbringing in the 80's, still till this day I always have my quiet moments,
    No1 deserves to be treated like a animal

    • @suzyvegalicious5646
      @suzyvegalicious5646 Месяц назад

      Animals don't either. We are actually all animals. Human and non human.

  • @lynetteoneilll-ip4jf
    @lynetteoneilll-ip4jf Месяц назад +1

    What an amazing story. You are an incredibly strong woman. I am also a survivor and your story made me realise how lucky and strong. Thankyou for sharing this.💜💜💜

  • @theflashtheflash6101
    @theflashtheflash6101 Месяц назад +3

    You are an amazing beautiful mother and woman.
    Love strength, positivity run through your veins.
    Thank you so much for sharing . 🙏🌻🍀🥰

  • @laurinemankelow1629
    @laurinemankelow1629 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for sharing.
    I am glad you are happy now

  • @irifikkk8489
    @irifikkk8489 Месяц назад +16

    Sounds like a case of a dogsheitt...

  • @Justalittlebitdifferent
    @Justalittlebitdifferent Месяц назад +3

    All I can say is what’s a brave woman you are, it was hard to hear what you have gone through, all I can say is what a brave beautiful woman you are.
    I wish you well in life
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @trevorclausen2994
    @trevorclausen2994 Месяц назад +9

    So many Woman and young girls who have been through hell from this crap lifestyle

  • @holyliable5829
    @holyliable5829 Месяц назад +10

    The paranoia and insecurity while on meth

  • @ciouslil
    @ciouslil Месяц назад +4

    This story breaks my heart every time I hear it. She is the epitome of wahine toa! Thank goodness she's still here with us and has come out the other side stronger than what he ever could be.

  • @MummaJ-2024
    @MummaJ-2024 Месяц назад +3

    Sending all my aroha to u Zania and your tamariki. Thank you for sharing your story so sorry this happened to you. He wahine TOA koe. You are an inspiration and your story could spread awareness and help many other woman who may be going through the same . Onward and upwards. Arohanui ❤❤❤