Unfortunately, I’m sure the statue of limitations has passed long ago concerning abandonment. However, it’s my guess that she has probably killed at least one other, and there’s no statute of limitations on murder.
Heather Penton , she only claimed to find one. The other two were found by other people. I’m just sayin, what if a kid that she hid, actually never got found.
@@LB-gz3ke they were placed in a location someone in that time would of done so that the child would of been found. She didn't leave them in a dumpster or the woods.
@@bonitaohyea9258 Yes she did do better than in a dumpster or the woods. She left her just born daughter in a towel next to a convenience store where anyone or anything could find her. She left her son on the doorstep of strangers who may not have gone to that door for 24 hours or more. She is a hero.
@@LB-gz3ke did you want her to do a full background check? Ya do know that bad pple come in all forms of "good pple" including police and nurses right. Child molesters, rapists, kidnappers etc.
+Dana “dontforgethesprinkles” K , Exactly. I have 4 kids and you don't just "oops" more than once. At some point you have to take responsibility for your actions and change something because she obviously wasn't doing it right.
+Brittany Snider And what is bizarre is that she had something really desirable. There are thousands of couples all over the country desperately trying to adopt so there was absolutely no reason to dump these babies in paper bags.
Who raised these 3! They are the parents! I hope those parents get the love and appreciation who was their for the tears,scrapped knees got up at night and the teen years!!! Crocodile tears!!
She might’ve hid while she was pregnant and refused to visit anyone and then played it off like “Oh! I rescued a baby!” Instead of owning up that it’s her kid? I’m not sure
I can't imagine getting to the point that I forgive this woman....I guess my problem would be that it is three children. One time was a tough decision, three times is cold and heartless and possibly unforgivable.
i feel ya one that... She held those "Secrets" in for all those years...smh... deserves something..... You know though she got forgiveness that, in my mind, she didnt deserve...She's gotta live with her actions... #3dangtimes
gricel8402 for what? Safely surrendering a baby? Surrendering your baby isn’t illegal and shouldn’t be. She could have just aborted them and be done with it, but she was nice enough to give birth and let them be found safely so they could be adopted.
How would you feel being abandoned baby #2 or #3. She did not "find" them. She left them to be found by others. So it's easier to forgive being baby she called and turned over to the police.
@@LisaPFMoore because she is a serial baby maker, it is possible that she even abandoned some baby that wasn’t found, she knows how many she left out there, horrible woman, sex was more important to her, if she kept her legs closed she wouldn’t get pregnant. And yes, it is possible, I am a single mother, after I had my only child and the father abandoned me, I never had another kid again. It is not fair to the kids to not have parents.
"The normal way" 22k babies are abandoned in the US every year. - This kind of thing happens so often, Safe Haven laws had to be implemented to prevent these types of streetside abandonment.
In another interview she said she was afraid her ex-husband would find out and take her two children away from her. The three were all adopted and raised in happy homes.
proudbluestaterful what the fuck, you really think it would have been better if she had murdered her babys? At least she gave them a chance to life! I can't understand how there possibly could be people such hearthless and cruel to get a kick out of murdering innocent babys...
I condone nothing, but it's so hard to imagine the pain and suffering women with nothing go through in a judgmental society... Anyone can find a negative in anything but her thinking of that story and enabled her to directly get care for that older child and was probably much more for that reason her seeking any Glory is low self-esteem and fear are relentless destroyers of humanity
I’m so interested in knowing how the sons she raised felt about everything. What a beautiful tragedy. Thank God their safe and centered, building on what they have. It’s definitely a show of character that they’re able to rise above. ~Sheeara, Alaska
It breaks my heart to think that these three children, although adopted by loving families, grew up thinking that the person that brought them into the world threw them away next to the trash heap 💔. I can’t imagine growing up, looking at yourself in the mirror day after day, and think to yourself, I am nothing but someone’s unwanted trash 💔. The three of them seem like lovely, LOVELY PEOPLE, and I’m so glad they found each other.
If she abandoned 3 newborns - technically she ISN'T (by definition,) a MOM. I feel like the title of "Mom" isn't just about a birth - it's about nursing, a million diapers, ABC's, bandaids, and long nights rocking in your chair... it's about worrying and praying for the best decades after the actual birth itself...
April Moore she’s their biological mother, not their mom. I agree, a mom is all those things, a biological mom is someone who carries and delivers you.
My kids get on my Nerves sometimes😂 but imma tell ya wouldn't trade my Motherhood for anything... 💯💯💯 All they have 2 do is laugh... my Stern Momma attitude flies out the window!!!😂🐦🐦🐦
My mom left me and I'm sorry but this woman does not look like she is regretful or even realizes the damage she has done emotionally but then again I could be wrong but 3 times come on now
When the interviewer asked if she was thrilled when she had heard her daughter was searching for her she said the most fakest "yeahhhh" I've ever heard. You can hear it in her voice that she didn't feel that way..
I agree , this woman did it 3 times just dumping her babies..to die basically..and after the first dumping baby , she obviously had no remorse . Thats why baby number 3 baby was a piece of cake to her...She needs to do prison time bottom line..
True. Plus their was 5 period at one time. Um if she thought of her child every day how do you repeat action 2 and thrid time. The first child at least she could be given help right away as she faked the hero. But her other children didn't have that. How long were they in bag outside. They could of died if no-one came to their need of time. I feel bad for the adoptive parents. I would think this would feel like a slap in the face
She never forgot, but she cared enough to give birth and make sure they weren't brought into her awful distressing life. Her reaction is because she is still ashamed...and always will be.
I love when she said “ It was a brother hug”..(Men who have sisters) do hug different. Brothers, especially big brothers hug stronger, it’s like they know their not going to break a female. It’s a good squeeze 🤗👍🏼 I had lost 1 of my big brothers in a wreak, and a few years later my best friend introduced me to her big brother and the way he hugged me was such a familiar feeling ..and he had no idea that I had lost one of my brothers. I knew just by his hug, that he was a big brother of a little sister. 💓
"I forgive you" Yeah, YOU forgive her, but how can the others??? I cannot believe they forgive her. They were found in paper bags, actually abandoned. Where as she actually protected and saved the third. Its mind boggling.
She’s a heartless woman period. How can a mother abandon her new born child in the first place? and did it three times years apart? Crocodile tears!!!!
It’s easy to get pregnant but it’s not easy to raise a child, of course she made BIG mistakes, but she knows that and that’s what counts. She feels bad & she doesn‘t forgive herself even tho she made sure that all 3 of them were found.
I'm not sure why she wouldn't just give them up for adoption or let the hospital know that she doesn't want the baby. You can give up your baby responsibly .
Mental issues are not rare. This isn't a rare occurrence, loads of women kill or abuse their born children all the time. We need to promote childfree life and offer free sterilization.
No people need self control. I have not had any baby I didn't plan in the 16 years iv been sexually active. If you can't afford protection you can't afford sex and what comes with it. A baby!
You can buy a condom for a dollar, they hand them out at planned Parenthood, and doctor's offices for free. There is also this magical thing called closing your legs.
Jeremy Ho its not your place to forgive her. The three babies that were abandoned are the only ones that the mother should worry about forgiving her. They seem to at least be trying eventhough they were greatly affected. So idk why strangers on the internet are being so harsh to her. If her kids forgave her then thats on them
When I found my birth mother I told her I already loved her and was not mad at her. How could I judge her. Times were different back then and the stigma for being single and pregnant was incredible. Add divorced to the mix and its over. I thanked her for taking care of me in utero and for at least giving birth. I can totally see how these kids feel. At least they have answers now.
Maxine McFarlane if my parents told me I was adopted I would not give a single shit cuz they gave me shelter and food I’ll try to find my real parents but i would not give 2 shits
Exactly. She left them out naked, exposed to the elements & alone so they could die. They were probably starving & didn't even have those cloth diapers on. Who knows how long they sat in their urine & poop. They could've also been eaten alive by rats. That woman is a pathetic, vile creature that consensually had 3 more kids with 3 different men. Then she threw them away when she could've gotten an abortion or stayed on contraception. I can only imagine if those kids were picked up by rapists or abusers. They'd probably be dead or trafficked.
Signing up for sex doesn't mean you sign up for pregnancy... No shame in putting babies up for adoption if the mother can't care for them. The problem arises when the mother abandons her babies like this one did, THAT is truly unacceptable.
@@lillyflower3415 So what does unprotected sex mean. U don't just get pregnant 3 times and dump them. If you got pregnant once and couldn't take care of the child, adoption is absolutely an option. Doing it 3 times?!?!?! Please .... orphanages weren't created for us to just become irresponsible.
Well wait a min. WHERE ARE HER 1st SET OF BOYS that she was taking care of while she was pregnant with these other three childrenm. THE 2 OLDER BROTHERS ???
Wow, mom! I can not fathom how you did this. Left in a bag, in an alley? Suppose no one came along, they would've died. I'm speechless. However, forgiveness is healing
I know someone should of gave her a mental check because she wasn't right and where is the kids she said she had already something is very strange about her.
i had a feelin that was her mom from the beginning. they look exactly alike. especially when they hugged, u could tell the mom had some type of natural bond with her
As the children, I'd feel torn because she had two other sons before that happened. At least she didn't outright kill them though like some do. My heart goes out to all of the children involved.
She gave them up to be adopted. She pretended to be a good samaritan to save those babies rather than dumping them to die. Applying active listening would be nice, so you understand the story.
It took 34 years to reconnect with the oldest foundling. Then more time to connect with the third son & youngest daughter. (No mention of what happened to the 2 sons from before her divorce.) At least at the time of Vargas interview the 3 of the foundlings had forgiven her & they were in family mode. GOD BLESS them all.
"I didnt want to do this" Doesnt explain how she was forced to put her kids through all of this instead of just being transparent and putting them up for adoption the right way.
@@tasha7726 it’s 70’s 80’s birth control is expensive getting her tubes tied who knows how much money that would cost her anything can happen during surgery she’s a broke unemployment lady back then
I just loved the way the narrator said she "found herself pregnant"........really?! I didnt realise the Immaculate Conception was still alive and well....
That “mother” is grotesque. She couldnt put them in a basket with a blanket, a diaper, a toy, and a note saying how much she loved them & didnt wanna give them up but had no choice because she couldnt take care of them? No. Instead she throws them in brown bags & dumps them like garbage. She isnt sorry. She’s sorry she got caught.
3 times a terrible mother. Who abandons three helpless babies? If she didn't want to expand her family, it's called birth control. It's sad that you have women struggling to get pregnant and you have this selfish, see you next Tuesday throwing them away like old shoes.
Jen Logan please stop so times things happen. I pretty sure she did not drop the baby in an alley. Pretty sure she just called to cops and told them she found the baby.
Shellby Barajas Are you really making excuses for this sick bitch....what about the other 2 kids she left to die?? She had no issue posing for pics and being hailed a hero for the local paper but taking these babies to the hospital in the first place was just too much for her? Y’all are a joke....
SorbusAucubaria So use condoms but those babies could’ve died if they weren’t found. I’d rather abort a bundle of cells then leave a full grown baby to die on the street....one time is sickening but somewhat understandable but any more times than that makes this woman a fucking monster! I’m sure there are some babies out there that were never found.....
@@SorbusAucubaria ABORTION WAS AVAILABLE. THEREFORE, SHE DID A MUCH BRAVER THING BY ALLOWING THEM TO LIVE AND KNOWINGLY LIVING WITH THE PAIN OF GIVING THEM UP.
Aidan Rowe for real I'm feeling u more thn that crazy mom leaving her kids left to die .Lord knws what could of happen out in the streets.Lord I'm preaching now, heffa ..mmm
Out of all 3, Dean was the one who was most likely to have died when being abandoned. Sounds like he was actually found in a paper bag in an alley, while Janet, she just said she had found her in a paper bag in an alley.
Antonio Kinsey Just imagine where we will be at in 20, 50, or even 100 years from now. It's mind blowing just how recent DNA technology is, and just how much we can do with it. And it's only going to keep advancing.
IraGamer Roblox,Minecraft & More Exactly, & it's going to be a legal nightmare. I haven't done the DNA thing, partly for that reason, & another concern of mine is having relatives popping out of the woodwork. I just want to know where my ancestors came from, a historical interest. Is there any way to block the resulting info from going to anyone else? If not, can you use a fake name?
What a blessing you guys have a chance, really think about it. I grew up with a Mother who despised me, and let me know this every day. I really don't know what would be worse, what you guys went through, or what I did. I hope and pray this was a new begining for all of you.
I haven't been through either but I have to think what you went through would be worse. At least the abandoned babies got new families who loved them & raised them well. That would be horrible for any child to grow up in a house without love and feeling despised everyday by your own mom. I am really sorry & sad for you that you endured a childhood like that. I hope that you have found all of the love and happiness that you DESERVE in your life. I'm guessing that you have probably grown into a very strong woman. I pray for nothing less than amazing things for your life going forward. God bless you!
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@page I so relate and empathize...you are a beautiful worthwhile child of God no matter what any other person does or does t do, days or doesn't say...very similar situation for me and I've had to work hard to overcome awful self esteem issues....but overcome I will, and overcome you will ❤️ Reach out if you wish 🙏
@@LindaHutchings, Thank-you for your kind words, That is missing in today's world. After many years with counseling and psychologist. I do know none of this has anything to do with me personally. My mother came from a family of 18 children, who knows what she went through. She still said her hateful words up until the day she passed, but I took care of everything for her. That is what your supposed to do. She went through hurt as a young girl, and in her marriage. Does that give the right to treat her children that way, no! But thankfully I understood why. I had a good Father and many aunts and uncles who did care. That helped. Sadly you don't get to pick your parents, as well as you don't get to pick your children. You just have to make the best out of your own live, even if that means cutting people out of your life that don't make you happy. Have a blessed day and again Thank-you.
The son shows it very clearly that he is not even close to being able to forgive her or having any interest in trying to love her as a "mother". The mother's story is such BS!! She went out of her way to be a "Good Samaritan" and save a random babies life when the entire time she knew it was her baby??!! That is some evil running through her blood right there. No remorse in the world! She didn't care where her daughter would end up or how she would live! What if her daughter ended up in an abusive foster home? No soul...a completely soulless person! Then she has not one more, but 2 more babies that she abandons in the same exact manor?? Disgusting! No morals! No lessons learned! No regrets or feelings at all! She cried oh poor me...I got pregnant and didn't know what to do because I was already a single mom?!?!! How about DON'T HAVE SEX!!! Or USE BIRTH CONTROL!! Or even better, GET YOUR TUBES TIED!! This woman makes me sick!! She didn't deserve their love. Throw her in a brown paper bag out in the alley and walk away and never look back! Even more, you still had to go look for her 30 years later! She never came forward! Piece of crap!!!
Christina Racheal, Watch out with the self-righteous or next lifetime, you'll find yourself in same situation. Most likely, she was profoundly emotionally beaten down by a relative, taking advantage of her passivity. Too much shame there for it not to be an extreme-taboo situation. Empathy, please!!
The likelihood of an abandoned infant being put in an abusive foster home when the state can adopt that infant out early and easily is slim to none. There were no Save haven laws at the time. She put her children in the hands of people who could care for them, because for whatever reason she was not able to (have not watched the whole thing), and did not want to be linked to them." But sure, you're SO perfect. GTFO with your judgmental bullshit. If she didn't have any remorse, she wouldn't have turned them in saying she found them. She would have dumped them in the woods or something. How stupid are you? Do you know how difficult it is for a woman to get her tubes tied? In fact, unless you are a certain age, MOST doctors WILL NOT DO IT, and if you're married, MOST doctors ask your husbands permission. And if you're not, MOST doctors will refuse because your future husband might want children. SECOND, are you aware of her finances? Are you aware of whether BC was that easy for her to get? THIRD, since you're so all knowing and righteous, how do you know that she wasn't raped? YOU DON'T. Like I said, GTFO and STFU, and MAYBE you might one day learn a TINY bit of empathy for other people. Stupid little bint.
I feel like the first girl feels some sort of gratitude towards her mom because she still thinks of her as her savior for finding her on the street but doesn’t realize that she essentially threw her away hours after she was born and then was heartless enough to do it two more times. Truly disgusting human being. I hope the 3 siblings are able to find the other two and are safe and happy
The mom also lied to her face. However I've learned through people's traumatic stories that sometimes you need to forgive people, even bad ones, in order to pick up your soul and heal by moving forward. You don't want to stay in a kind of purgatory, you'll never get out of that miserable state. I can hear the little girl inside her,, she doesn't want to live like that. I heard the same from a guy who went to prison, a pretty normal guy. Before he left, he told himself he forgave the awful prison guards. He knew he'd be broken forever if he internalized the trauma. It would've afflicted him forever. That's self-care that not many people are capable of.
My friend and his mom work together at a courier service, a girl was hired and became close friends with them,she mentioned she was adopted,and looking for her parents, his mom said she was looking for her daughter she had to give up, months passed by,results had shown they were her mom and brother to her. I believe in miracles, they happen everyday, life is a miracle, love is its gift... If we are possible, anything is possible,even the impossible possibility, of the impossible.
My mother abandoned me. I also went looking for her.for me I was hoping to find she did love me. I was wrong We all have our different reasons. Some it's closure
I was abandoned by my father and when you're missing that, especially as a child, you build it up into this big thing that you dream about reconciling. It's almost like a "You didn't love me enough to keep me then but I'll eventually earn that love and approval and it will make me feel like I'm worth loving." I did reconcile with my father as an adult and all I learned is that he can disappoint me at close range too 🤷♀️
I get why the first child forgave so easily... she knew that lady still took her to a hospital to be saved even if she didn’t want her. But the other 2 idk how the second daughter forgave so easy and the son obviously like “it is what it is, nice meeting you” he’s been tapped out those motherly emotions
I can't even imagine doing that to any of my babies. That said, I will not judge this woman whose shoe's I have not walked in; whose pain i have not felt, and whose story is not for me to tell.
+Jazzy J. Atlanta Yes, ma’am, she sure is! I hope she daily and sincerely appreciates such a blessing to have not one, not two, but ALL three of the kids she abandoned be willing to immediately offer her forgiveness. Based on this kind of mature, considerate, loving, completely nonjudgmental behavior, I’d say it appears to me that all their adoptive families did a damn fine job bringing them up to love their fellow man, regardless of their identity or actions, AND I hope their birth mother is thankful for that as well.
Stokedhavok really? I doubt she even gives a shit about the kids she’s abandoned. And I doubt that each of them “immediately forgave” her She is a sick human being who didn’t care for the safety of her kids and she knew the potential of them even dying. I hope she rots in hell.
steve b So if I leave my kid to die, without sustenance, and it lives just on the coincidence someone finds it I shouldn’t be punished?? Y’all sick af....This isn’t just child abuse it’s attempted murder. The child literally has to depend on someone finding it in order to survive. There survival is dependent on something they can’t control.....no excuses for this evil ass bitch, and how do we know she only did this 3 times. There could’ve been kids in a bag that belong to her that where never found.
whenever i bumped into this kind of story it always sends me in a sad mode.. my mother left me with my step father whom at that time i had a difficult time to be attached.. my mother kept telling me my step father will stop caring of me if she leaves that made me anxious through the years maybe thats why i was too distanced with my step dad at that time.. when my mother left me and abandoned us, it shattered everything.. it was the most darkest moment of my life that even breathing was almost unrecognizable.. after 2 and half decades im still with my step dad who gave me a love that any adopted child could ever wished for.. the anger inside me for my mother was gradually vanishing through the years.. i tried my best to understand why she did that for i had no clues for me to accept it.. maybe she din't love my father that much that she wanted a life that even me as her son and my father wouldn't satisfy her.. at this moment my anger was already gone, she wanted a happy life or anything that non of us could give her and i hope my mother is happy now and finally got what she really wanted.. i already forgive the situation that put my family on that painful ordeal.
That happens every day all over the world. It's just more common to keep the baby and live in misery or be a shitty parent bc your heart isn't in it. It's 2019 and people still can't comprehend that the primary purpose of sex is to reproduce. I've been married for almost 12 years - we didn't want kids so we have never made kids. If we can manage that anyone can.
If you insist on dumping your baby please find out where the nearest safe Haven is. U can drop your baby off there-no questions. Sheesh. Baby doesnt have to die or be put in harms way. Care enough to give a family longing for a baby a shot at love. 🙏Just having babies and dumping them? Daheck?
Safe Havens weren't around then. Female Birth Control and abortion weren't available everywhere. Everyone seems to take all that for granted, but it depended all on the state. Condoms were available and obviously the men didn't use them.
@@joycomesinthemorning6721 Wow, people are judgmental! She didn't leave them to die, hence why they are not dead. She could have aborted them and didn't. She could have smothered them, like so many young, "good" Xtian girls and then left them in dumpsters, she didn't. Instead, she carried them to term "found" them and made sure they were safe. She couldn't care for them herself. And what about vilifying any of the men who planted the seed inside her? She didn't get pregnant from the drinking water. People always wanna hate and go out for blood. Maybe her choices really were, eat, feed my two boys, pay the bills or birth control, or maybe birth control didn't work for her. And why should she abstain from sex when it's a human, natural part of life. I don't think she was seriously addicted to giving birth and then abandoning babies, and if she was, she couldn't afford a psychologist's help!! Relax people, pull in the claws. Those kids are all alive and healthy!
So, what going to the BLACK mother, who did the same thing? Since ESAU wasn't arrested for dumping her babies. Are you going to leave her alone? Nope, since she's BLACK, you will throw the book at not only the Mother, You will also lock up the Father as well. Two different justice program. If you are ESAU, then you get a get out of jail free card. If your Black throw lock them up for life.
Can someone remind me why the birth mother isn't being prosecuted by the state? I would have thought that leaving a baby, in a bag, on the street, would at least be a phphphPhelony.
Cassandra. I don't think there was safe haven laws. Now a person can take a child and leave them at hospitals, Fire Departments , Police, etc without fear of reprisals. It's sad she did this and I don't think I would've been able to forgive her. Especially when I found out I had four siblings and she did the same thing to each of us. Frankly, what I think is what I think!! It is up to those children if they want a relationship with her. God Bless them.
I still never learned what was this mothers story. She carried all three to term, so why not put them up for adoption instead of abandoning them and risking their safety....
Maurice Harriott I don’t give them credit for that...they are initially emotional...I hope in time they tell this horrible woman to get out of their lives...she does not deserve it!
There are foundlings who were outright rejected by their birth mother when they tried to reach out and were asked to never contact them again. Such a heartbreak. I pray for those people.
@@dollymadison2397 You'd be surprised how some mothers think. But as someone in these comments said, her son saw through her. Empathy is something she chose not to have when she birthed those children.
what an evil horrible woman to do that. It is unspeakable to throw away children like that. And to pretend she was a good person rescuing the one. How low. She disgusts me.
See this is the problem everyone hates on the the mother for not using contraception but men get away with it no blame just a pat on the back for getting laid
@@daniellefoster2614 This is a narrative when you want to give a woman an excuse for irresponsible behavior. As A woman we know we bear the burden of caring and birthing babies. A responsible woman will be accountable for her sexual behavior also and therefore will know who the father of that baby is and hold him accountable. On the other end, you have women having babies and not notifying the father or not knowing who the father is. Accountability works both ways.
Is it just me or does it seem like the "Mom"; i use that term very loosely, could honestly care less? Just listen to the tone of her voice when she admits it was her who abandoned them.
I knew it from the beginning of the story when she met her "angel" at the door and she was so emotional and they were sitting next to each other. I was like, " dang, they look an awful lot alike, wonder if she's the mother!?" And sure enough she was! I don't know why I knew, but the 1st lady said she knew she was her mom too. It's funny that they do all look so much alike. Well, I'm glad they don't hate their mom and that they're trying to rebuild their lives. Also mom is lucky because I don't know how long the statute of limitations is on abandoned children cases, but I know where I'm at in Indianapolis IN even if they find one in those safe drop off points at fire stations and stuff they seem to hint these momma's down like dogs. So they usually end up found and some of them aren't in the end allowed to stay anonymous like they wanted to in the 1st place because the media gets a hold of the story and plasters their face and name all over hell and half of Jericho for all the world to know her business, but at the very least she made sure her kiddos didn't die, and we're given a chance to live. That's much better than like the girl in Texas who threw her babe in a dumpster and tossed her in like common garbage to hopefully die. So I guess she was an angel of mercy in the end. She made sure they survived and that the right authority had her kids. So I hope not all works out for all 4 of them! Good luck y'all. Love and prayers even though this story is old, it was still a good one!
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She did that 3 times, arrest her for abandonment.
Unfortunately, I’m sure the statue of limitations has passed long ago concerning abandonment. However, it’s my guess that she has probably killed at least one other, and there’s no statute of limitations on murder.
W. C. But she didn’t just leave her in an ally she just claimed she found her but that is her birth mother so why would any of them be dead?
Heather Penton , she only claimed to find one. The other two were found by other people. I’m just sayin, what if a kid that she hid, actually never got found.
Heather Penton, dang, you have a hell of an argument. And I hadn’t heard anything about that other murder. Kind of makes you rethink humanity.
W. C. Yeah it’s really sad and depressing tbh. The other girl was like 16/17 I believe and she was on Oprah that’s the only reason I know of it.
I don't believe this woman actually feels bad.
Yep she only feels bad that the truth was revealed.
I agree wholeheartedly. She doesn’t deserve those Kidd’s love.
What a horrible women.
Alicia Pompey it doesn’t look like she feels anything, she’s got a really weird vibe goin on I hate to say it...
@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts exactly
This woman doesn’t look like she feels anything. 😟
There are so many broken people in the world.
Maybe she doesn't. You can disconnect it's a mental illness
The mother should have been locked up for abandonment. There should be no statue of limitations on a crime like this
When you leave a newborn in an alley, that is attempted murder, not abandonment
Did you watch the video? She pretended to have found the baby in the alley when she turned the baby into authorities.....smh.
@@bonitaohyea9258 she did leave one on a doorstep and one at a convenience store. Those babies were not placed safely in anyone's arms.
@@LB-gz3ke they were placed in a location someone in that time would of done so that the child would of been found. She didn't leave them in a dumpster or the woods.
@@bonitaohyea9258 Yes she did do better than in a dumpster or the woods. She left her just born daughter in a towel next to a convenience store where anyone or anything could find her. She left her son on the doorstep of strangers who may not have gone to that door for 24 hours or more. She is a hero.
@@LB-gz3ke did you want her to do a full background check? Ya do know that bad pple come in all forms of "good pple" including police and nurses right. Child molesters, rapists, kidnappers etc.
You don't just "find yourself pregnant". And abandoning 3 newborn on the street? I just can't get past this. I can't wrap my head around it.
I know it's ridiculous. You don't just randomly become pregnant.
+Dana “dontforgethesprinkles” K , Exactly. I have 4 kids and you don't just "oops" more than once. At some point you have to take responsibility for your actions and change something because she obviously wasn't doing it right.
+Brittany Snider
And what is bizarre is that she had something really desirable. There are thousands of couples all over the country desperately trying to adopt so there was absolutely no reason to dump these babies in paper bags.
Brittany Snider me too..three babies..
I am glad she came back to get at least one of them
I'm so glad that the Siblings found each other ♥️ a mom who can abandon 3 babies doesn't deserve a relationship with them later.
Who raised these 3! They are the parents! I hope those parents get the love and appreciation who was their for the tears,scrapped knees got up at night and the teen years!!! Crocodile tears!!
Exactly
my only concern is... did she do this to any babies that were never found
Ok but seriously what about the mothers family members?! Did they not ask like hey what happened to your baby? Babies? Wtfff
Yeah good question.
Yeah and they definitely saw her pregnant
She might’ve hid while she was pregnant and refused to visit anyone and then played it off like “Oh! I rescued a baby!” Instead of owning up that it’s her kid? I’m not sure
They probably werent involved.
@@AngrySpongeCraft Thats what I'm thinking or she could of had flat pregnancies, or maybe she was biggish and could carry it off.
Girl, please. You did this 3 whole times and get an interview...as a free woman.
It's disgusting. I'm so mad at this "woman". I'm the mother of three beautiful children and couldn't even consider some mess like this
She should be in jail
They need to put her in jail
@@keetopuffs op
Ok!!! While everyone's basically roasting a 15 year old who did the same thing!!!
I can't imagine getting to the point that I forgive this woman....I guess my problem would be that it is three children. One time was a tough decision, three times is cold and heartless and possibly unforgivable.
Like a grown-ass woman keeps “finding herself pregnant.” 🥴
It is a blessing and a curse being a Fertile Myrtle.
Ikr!!!!
Right?? Nice euphemism. 🙄
My thoughts exactly. I was given up at birth myself, but It happened in a hospital.
@Rona F it’s in 70’s 80’s birth control cost a lot money back she’s unemployed and broke how can she afford it
These women and man are so forgiving. I would hate her for the rest of my life. She should have spent some time in prison.
i feel ya one that... She held those "Secrets" in for all those years...smh... deserves something..... You know though she got forgiveness that, in my mind, she didnt deserve...She's gotta live with her actions... #3dangtimes
and she needs to pay child support for all those years
janet young so anyone who puts their child up for adoption should go to prison and pay child support?
gricel8402 for what? Safely surrendering a baby? Surrendering your baby isn’t illegal and shouldn’t be. She could have just aborted them and be done with it, but she was nice enough to give birth and let them be found safely so they could be adopted.
@@dannyells yeah right leaving a newborn next to a dumpster is a good idea ,,rats could of eaten her baby, and she left the baby naked and afraid....
I can't even imagine what it's like to find out the person who was called a hero is actually the one who abandoned you.
Except she didn’t actually abandon her just made up a story about finding her in an alleyway
How would you feel being abandoned baby #2 or #3. She did not "find" them. She left them to be found by others. So it's easier to forgive being baby she called and turned over to the police.
@@LisaPFMoore because she is a serial baby maker, it is possible that she even abandoned some baby that wasn’t found, she knows how many she left out there, horrible woman, sex was more important to her, if she kept her legs closed she wouldn’t get pregnant. And yes, it is possible, I am a single mother, after I had my only child and the father abandoned me, I never had another kid again. It is not fair to the kids to not have parents.
@@ninjaked1265 she abandoned the other 2.
@@ninjaked1265 she abandoned her at the hospital after making up a story about someone else abandoning her. She still abandoned her.
It's a miracle the children turned out so well. Their adoptive families- their real mothers who raised them- are angels.
She allowed them to suffer mentally and emotionally knowing she could have simply answered every question for them. God will judge.
Why didn't she give them up for adoption the normal way? Giving them to the hospital?
"The normal way" 22k babies are abandoned in the US every year. - This kind of thing happens so often, Safe Haven laws had to be implemented to prevent these types of streetside abandonment.
why didn't she use birth control or get an abortion
In another interview she said she was afraid her ex-husband would find out and take her two children away from her. The three were all adopted and raised in happy homes.
proudbluestaterful what the fuck, you really think it would have been better if she had murdered her babys? At least she gave them a chance to life! I can't understand how there possibly could be people such hearthless and cruel to get a kick out of murdering innocent babys...
birth control or abortion might not be available or were too expensive.
She abandoned them and also took the glory in being the Good Samaritan ???
Only the one. The other 2 she didn't care as much for.
I condone nothing, but it's so hard to imagine the pain and suffering women with nothing go through in a judgmental society...
Anyone can find a negative in anything but her thinking of that story and enabled her to directly get care for that older child and was probably much more for that reason her seeking any Glory is low self-esteem and fear are relentless destroyers of humanity
I’m so interested in knowing how the sons she raised felt about everything. What a beautiful tragedy. Thank God their safe and centered, building on what they have. It’s definitely a show of character that they’re able to rise above. ~Sheeara, Alaska
It breaks my heart to think that these three children, although adopted by loving families, grew up thinking that the person that brought them into the world threw them away next to the trash heap 💔. I can’t imagine growing up, looking at yourself in the mirror day after day, and think to yourself, I am nothing but someone’s unwanted trash 💔. The three of them seem like lovely, LOVELY PEOPLE, and I’m so glad they found each other.
If she abandoned 3 newborns - technically she ISN'T (by definition,) a MOM. I feel like the title of "Mom" isn't just about a birth - it's about nursing, a million diapers, ABC's, bandaids, and long nights rocking in your chair... it's about worrying and praying for the best decades after the actual birth itself...
Totally agree
April Moore she’s their biological mother, not their mom. I agree, a mom is all those things, a biological mom is someone who carries and delivers you.
My kids get on my Nerves sometimes😂 but imma tell ya wouldn't trade my Motherhood for anything... 💯💯💯 All they have 2 do is laugh... my Stern Momma attitude flies out the window!!!😂🐦🐦🐦
@@Kenna_Fairbanks 💯💯💯
April Moore
Well stated and agreed sweetie... anyone can be a "mother", it takes someone special to be a mommy.
My mom left me and I'm sorry but this woman does not look like she is regretful or even realizes the damage she has done emotionally but then again I could be wrong but 3 times come on now
When the interviewer asked if she was thrilled when she had heard her daughter was searching for her she said the most fakest "yeahhhh" I've ever heard. You can hear it in her voice that she didn't feel that way..
She doesn't deserve to meet her children or her grandchildren. She's a sick so called mother.
I agree , this woman did it 3 times just dumping her babies..to die basically..and after the first dumping baby , she obviously had no remorse . Thats why baby number 3 baby was a piece of cake to her...She needs to do prison time bottom line..
True. Plus their was 5 period at one time. Um if she thought of her child every day how do you repeat action 2 and thrid time. The first child at least she could be given help right away as she faked the hero. But her other children didn't have that. How long were they in bag outside. They could of died if no-one came to their need of time. I feel bad for the adoptive parents. I would think this would feel like a slap in the face
She never forgot, but she cared enough to give birth and make sure they weren't brought into her awful distressing life. Her reaction is because she is still ashamed...and always will be.
I love when she said “ It was a brother hug”..(Men who have sisters) do hug different. Brothers, especially big brothers hug stronger, it’s like they know their not going to break a female. It’s a good squeeze 🤗👍🏼
I had lost 1 of my big brothers in a wreak, and a few years later my best friend introduced me to her big brother and the way he hugged me was such a familiar feeling ..and he had no idea that I had lost one of my brothers. I knew just by his hug, that he was a big brother of a little sister. 💓
"I forgive you"
Yeah, YOU forgive her, but how can the others??? I cannot believe they forgive her. They were found in paper bags, actually abandoned.
Where as she actually protected and saved the third.
Its mind boggling.
This woman needs to be put in prison. She's not regretful. She's an animal
I think your comment is uncalled for! It's not your pain
Sheree Linwood its still a baby
She needs to go to jail.
Sarah Pickett can’t u see she’s trying to play hero she loves that attention
she could have just brought the kids to an orphanage. and when her daughter searched her down she should have admitted.
She’s a heartless woman period.
How can a mother abandon her new born child in the first place? and did it three times years apart? Crocodile tears!!!!
It’s easy to get pregnant but it’s not easy to raise a child, of course she made BIG mistakes, but she knows that and that’s what counts. She feels bad & she doesn‘t forgive herself even tho she made sure that all 3 of them were found.
I'm not sure why she wouldn't just give them up for adoption or let the hospital know that she doesn't want the baby. You can give up your baby responsibly .
I agree, she could have came clean the first time they met and didn't. Heartless and selfish woman.
Mental issues are not rare. This isn't a rare occurrence, loads of women kill or abuse their born children all the time. We need to promote childfree life and offer free sterilization.
@@XCB165 she definitely did not feel bad.
When this video started I thought to myself that she looks the first baby looks so much like the woman who saved her.
I would have a very hard time forgiving someone like this. 3times. That's just sick.
All forms of birth control should be 100% free.
Natalie Thompson I’m sure she could have asked the men to buy it.
It is in the UK...
Was there no pph at the time.
No people need self control. I have not had any baby I didn't plan in the 16 years iv been sexually active. If you can't afford protection you can't afford sex and what comes with it. A baby!
You can buy a condom for a dollar, they hand them out at planned Parenthood, and doctor's offices for free. There is also this magical thing called closing your legs.
I won't forgive this woman, because it was not once but again and again. Sex was fun but responsibility is more important.
It isn't up to you to forgive her - that is up to her kids.
What about the fathers, can you forgive them? They carry exactly 50% of the guilt for the creation of each child too.
Jeremy Ho its not your place to forgive her. The three babies that were abandoned are the only ones that the mother should worry about forgiving her. They seem to at least be trying eventhough they were greatly affected. So idk why strangers on the internet are being so harsh to her. If her kids forgave her then thats on them
Jeremy Ho She couldn't take care of them stupid.
Jeremy Ho I don't think it's up to you to even hold any angst against this woman. Your not a part of this story so your not a victim.
When I found my birth mother I told her I already loved her and was not mad at her. How could I judge her. Times were different back then and the stigma for being single and pregnant was incredible. Add divorced to the mix and its over. I thanked her for taking care of me in utero and for at least giving birth. I can totally see how these kids feel. At least they have answers now.
That’s all that matters is how you feel, I’m glad you forgave her and found peace. I’m sure it means a lot to her.
If you let the Leah Lipps phenotype suck you up you will become aware.
I hope you dont have any kids with this mindset our world would be better off
"How much did you think of this children?"
"All the time, all day"🤥
I would be mad at her. She left them all like they were nothing. There is no forgiveness in doing that.
Maxine McFarlane if my parents told me I was adopted I would not give a single shit cuz they gave me shelter and food I’ll try to find my real parents but i would not give 2 shits
actually that is exactly was they were to her nth
There's nothing to gain by them holding on the bitterness. Plus they all had good childhoods so there's no point.
Makes me wonder if there is more then 3 dumped babies... 😟
Exactly. She left them out naked, exposed to the elements & alone so they could die. They were probably starving & didn't even have those cloth diapers on. Who knows how long they sat in their urine & poop. They could've also been eaten alive by rats.
That woman is a pathetic, vile creature that consensually had 3 more kids with 3 different men. Then she threw them away when she could've gotten an abortion or stayed on contraception. I can only imagine if those kids were picked up by rapists or abusers. They'd probably be dead or trafficked.
The true heroes are the people that stepped up and raised these 3 lovely, forgiving adults! Im glad they have each other now😊
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Anyone else who found her wording "I'm gonna come clean... I was the one who gave birth to you" seems like she isn't attached to the children.
There must come a point where you should think, "I really need to keep my legs together."
They say found herself pregnant as if we are talking of malaria. You enjoyed they sex, enjoy the responsibility. Damn
Signing up for sex doesn't mean you sign up for pregnancy... No shame in putting babies up for adoption if the mother can't care for them. The problem arises when the mother abandons her babies like this one did, THAT is truly unacceptable.
@@lillyflower3415 uuuh is does when you have unprotected sex js 🤷♀️
Abortion and birth control should be free of charge. Then this would not have happened
@@aaiish9097 exactly
@@lillyflower3415 So what does unprotected sex mean. U don't just get pregnant 3 times and dump them. If you got pregnant once and couldn't take care of the child, adoption is absolutely an option. Doing it 3 times?!?!?! Please .... orphanages weren't created for us to just become irresponsible.
Well wait a min. WHERE ARE HER 1st SET OF BOYS that she was taking care of while she was pregnant with these other three childrenm. THE 2 OLDER BROTHERS ???
Probably the dad took them I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️
Sista Tonya good question
I was wondering the same
I as well wondered the same thing
I was definitely wondering this also
Wow, mom! I can not fathom how you did this. Left in a bag, in an alley? Suppose no one came along, they would've died. I'm speechless. However, forgiveness is healing
abandoning three kids like that for me is heartless ... i m glad siblings found each other but this woman is just a piece of work
I do not think I would look up anyone who dumped me at birth.
BlackSpider4 UNIVERSE peace. I would. So I could tell them to go take a long walk off a short pier.
what if she had other babies that she left? That no one found?
Exactly what I was thinking!
Or the two that she had before being divorced..
They would die I guess
I know someone should of gave her a mental check because she wasn't right and where is the kids she said she had already something is very strange about her.
She is a serial abuser, it is most likely that she did killed some. All because she didn’t used protection or even get s surgery, wth???
i had a feelin that was her mom from the beginning. they look exactly alike. especially when they hugged, u could tell the mom had some type of natural bond with her
As the children, I'd feel torn because she had two other sons before that happened. At least she didn't outright kill them though like some do. My heart goes out to all of the children involved.
She thought she "child-proofed" her house, but they got in anyway.
How many other kids did she have that was never found?//
Tamara Laird ~EXACTLY
ikr
Exactly
They couldve just died on the road.
She gave them up to be adopted. She pretended to be a good samaritan to save those babies rather than dumping them to die. Applying active listening would be nice, so you understand the story.
Your parents are the wonderful people who CHOSE to raise and love you!!!!!
It took 34 years to reconnect with the oldest foundling. Then more time to connect with the third son & youngest daughter. (No mention of what happened to the 2 sons from before her divorce.) At least at the time of Vargas interview the 3 of the foundlings had forgiven her & they were in family mode.
GOD BLESS them all.
they don't owe her forgiveness
"I didnt want to do this"
Doesnt explain how she was forced to put her kids through all of this instead of just being transparent and putting them up for adoption the right way.
Or getting her tubes tied
Drug addiction and prostitution
She was probably too doped-up to think logically
@@tasha7726 it’s 70’s 80’s birth control is expensive getting her tubes tied who knows how much money that would cost her anything can happen during surgery she’s a broke unemployment lady back then
I just loved the way the narrator said she "found herself pregnant"........really?! I didnt realise the Immaculate Conception was still alive and well....
In England, you "fall" pregnant
Hallelujah it’s a miracle 3 times over
Still laughing at this one a whole hour later ... good one!
🤣😂😆😅
reporters poetic license
That “mother” is grotesque. She couldnt put them in a basket with a blanket, a diaper, a toy, and a note saying how much she loved them & didnt wanna give them up but had no choice because she couldnt take care of them? No. Instead she throws them in brown bags & dumps them like garbage. She isnt sorry. She’s sorry she got caught.
I am so glad they all found each other ! I am sure their is so much healing to their hearts now .💕
3 times a terrible mother. Who abandons three helpless babies? If she didn't want to expand her family, it's called birth control. It's sad that you have women struggling to get pregnant and you have this selfish, see you next Tuesday throwing them away like old shoes.
Jen Logan please stop so times things happen. I pretty sure she did not drop the baby in an alley. Pretty sure she just called to cops and told them she found the baby.
birth control is expensive and not reliable always and abortion might not be available and some wish to make abortion illegal.
Shellby Barajas Are you really making excuses for this sick bitch....what about the other 2 kids she left to die?? She had no issue posing for pics and being hailed a hero for the local paper but taking these babies to the hospital in the first place was just too much for her? Y’all are a joke....
SorbusAucubaria So use condoms but those babies could’ve died if they weren’t found. I’d rather abort a bundle of cells then leave a full grown baby to die on the street....one time is sickening but somewhat understandable but any more times than that makes this woman a fucking monster! I’m sure there are some babies out there that were never found.....
@@SorbusAucubaria ABORTION WAS AVAILABLE. THEREFORE, SHE DID A MUCH BRAVER THING BY ALLOWING THEM TO LIVE AND KNOWINGLY LIVING WITH THE PAIN OF GIVING THEM UP.
LMAO it's funny how at the end the mom still seems like she doesn't really want them there.
Can't forgive herself, probably just pain to her.
Aidan Rowe I agree but I am not laughing my ass off...it's sad
Aidan Rowe for real I'm feeling u more thn that crazy mom leaving her kids left to die .Lord knws what could of happen out in the streets.Lord I'm preaching now, heffa ..mmm
Aidan Rowe. I agree with you. This " mother " is a woman without morals . She isn't interested in the children.
What...
The children had been a good heart for their mother. Thank to the adopted parents of these children they raised this children well.
Out of all 3, Dean was the one who was most likely to have died when being abandoned. Sounds like he was actually found in a paper bag in an alley, while Janet, she just said she had found her in a paper bag in an alley.
Her sorry doesn’t sound sincere 😑
She's a psychopath.
I can't imagine this mother really wanted to be found, not once, not twice, and certainly NOT 3 TIMES!!! IMHO
The children are the ones who end up suffering and wondering, questions and why. How can she live with herself acting like if she was some hero.
Wow, plot twist. It's so interesting how the tracking DNA will help more and more unsolved mysteries.
Antonio Kinsey Just imagine where we will be at in 20, 50, or even 100 years from now. It's mind blowing just how recent DNA technology is, and just how much we can do with it. And it's only going to keep advancing.
Until the DNA goes to the government.
IraGamer Roblox,Minecraft & More Exactly, & it's going to be a legal nightmare. I haven't done the DNA thing, partly for that reason, & another concern of mine is having relatives popping out of the woodwork. I just want to know where my ancestors came from, a historical interest. Is there any way to block the resulting info from going to anyone else? If not, can you use a fake name?
Antonio Kinsey yes! And now they have found the east area rapist through dna!
April Tinsley’s killer was found through genealogy. They found his brother and then narrowed down male family members.
How many others did she abandon that way that did not make it?
Something similar happened this past three years at the same apartment complex in florida, same mom and dad and the father is very abusive.
What a blessing you guys have a chance, really think about it. I grew up with a Mother who despised me, and let me know this every day. I really don't know what would be worse, what you guys went through, or what I did. I hope and pray this was a new begining for all of you.
I haven't been through either but I have to think what you went through would be worse. At least the abandoned babies got new families who loved them & raised them well. That would be horrible for any child to grow up in a house without love and feeling despised everyday by your own mom. I am really sorry & sad for you that you endured a childhood like that. I hope that you have found all of the love and happiness that you DESERVE in your life. I'm guessing that you have probably grown into a very strong woman. I pray for nothing less than amazing things for your life going forward. God bless you!
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@page I so relate and empathize...you are a beautiful worthwhile child of God no matter what any other person does or does t do, days or doesn't say...very similar situation for me and I've had to work hard to overcome awful self esteem issues....but overcome I will, and overcome you will ❤️
Reach out if you wish 🙏
@@LindaHutchings, Thank-you for your kind words, That is missing in today's world. After many years with counseling and psychologist. I do know none of this has anything to do with me personally. My mother came from a family of 18 children, who knows what she went through. She still said her hateful words up until the day she passed, but I took care of everything for her. That is what your supposed to do. She went through hurt as a young girl, and in her marriage. Does that give the right to treat her children that way, no! But thankfully I understood why. I had a good Father and many aunts and uncles who did care. That helped. Sadly you don't get to pick your parents, as well as you don't get to pick your children. You just have to make the best out of your own live, even if that means cutting people out of your life that don't make you happy. Have a blessed day and again Thank-you.
The son shows it very clearly that he is not even close to being able to forgive her or having any interest in trying to love her as a "mother". The mother's story is such BS!! She went out of her way to be a "Good Samaritan" and save a random babies life when the entire time she knew it was her baby??!! That is some evil running through her blood right there. No remorse in the world! She didn't care where her daughter would end up or how she would live! What if her daughter ended up in an abusive foster home? No soul...a completely soulless person! Then she has not one more, but 2 more babies that she abandons in the same exact manor?? Disgusting! No morals! No lessons learned! No regrets or feelings at all! She cried oh poor me...I got pregnant and didn't know what to do because I was already a single mom?!?!! How about DON'T HAVE SEX!!! Or USE BIRTH CONTROL!! Or even better, GET YOUR TUBES TIED!! This woman makes me sick!! She didn't deserve their love. Throw her in a brown paper bag out in the alley and walk away and never look back! Even more, you still had to go look for her 30 years later! She never came forward! Piece of crap!!!
Christina Racheal, Watch out with the self-righteous or next lifetime, you'll find yourself in same situation. Most likely, she was profoundly emotionally beaten down by a relative, taking advantage of her passivity. Too much shame there for it not to be an extreme-taboo situation. Empathy, please!!
The likelihood of an abandoned infant being put in an abusive foster home when the state can adopt that infant out early and easily is slim to none.
There were no Save haven laws at the time. She put her children in the hands of people who could care for them, because for whatever reason she was not able to (have not watched the whole thing), and did not want to be linked to them."
But sure, you're SO perfect. GTFO with your judgmental bullshit. If she didn't have any remorse, she wouldn't have turned them in saying she found them. She would have dumped them in the woods or something.
How stupid are you? Do you know how difficult it is for a woman to get her tubes tied? In fact, unless you are a certain age, MOST doctors WILL NOT DO IT, and if you're married, MOST doctors ask your husbands permission. And if you're not, MOST doctors will refuse because your future husband might want children.
SECOND, are you aware of her finances? Are you aware of whether BC was that easy for her to get?
THIRD, since you're so all knowing and righteous, how do you know that she wasn't raped? YOU DON'T.
Like I said, GTFO and STFU, and MAYBE you might one day learn a TINY bit of empathy for other people.
Stupid little bint.
Christina Racheal, that's a pretty high horse, careful you don't fall.
@@labella9291 yikes lady chill
I feel like the first girl feels some sort of gratitude towards her mom because she still thinks of her as her savior for finding her on the street but doesn’t realize that she essentially threw her away hours after she was born and then was heartless enough to do it two more times. Truly disgusting human being. I hope the 3 siblings are able to find the other two and are safe and happy
The mom also lied to her face. However I've learned through people's traumatic stories that sometimes you need to forgive people, even bad ones, in order to pick up your soul and heal by moving forward. You don't want to stay in a kind of purgatory, you'll never get out of that miserable state. I can hear the little girl inside her,, she doesn't want to live like that. I heard the same from a guy who went to prison, a pretty normal guy. Before he left, he told himself he forgave the awful prison guards. He knew he'd be broken forever if he internalized the trauma. It would've afflicted him forever. That's self-care that not many people are capable of.
My friend and his mom work together at a courier service, a girl was hired and became close friends with them,she mentioned she was adopted,and looking for her parents, his mom said she was looking for her daughter she had to give up, months passed by,results had shown they were her mom and brother to her.
I believe in miracles, they happen everyday, life is a miracle, love is its gift...
If we are possible, anything is possible,even the impossible possibility, of the impossible.
These kids showed me the ultimate lesson of forgiveness...
You crazy like the mother too
She got away with this three times and they forgave her. Wow
3x and she’s free? WTH
I can’t understand how they want to relationship with her 😔
I don’t think the guy wants one, which is very much understandable
@@domo201 at least he is smart and understands that the mother is a psycho and does not want them
Wendell Monster - Me neither.
My mother abandoned me. I also went looking for her.for me I was hoping to find she did love me. I was wrong
We all have our different reasons.
Some it's closure
I was abandoned by my father and when you're missing that, especially as a child, you build it up into this big thing that you dream about reconciling. It's almost like a "You didn't love me enough to keep me then but I'll eventually earn that love and approval and it will make me feel like I'm worth loving."
I did reconcile with my father as an adult and all I learned is that he can disappoint me at close range too 🤷♀️
I get why the first child forgave so easily... she knew that lady still took her to a hospital to be saved even if she didn’t want her. But the other 2 idk how the second daughter forgave so easy and the son obviously like “it is what it is, nice meeting you” he’s been tapped out those motherly emotions
I can't even imagine doing that to any of my babies. That said, I will not judge this woman whose shoe's I have not walked in; whose pain i have not felt, and whose story is not for me to tell.
she is so blessed to have forgiving children
+Jazzy J. Atlanta
Yes, ma’am, she sure is! I hope she daily and sincerely appreciates such a blessing to have not one, not two, but ALL three of the kids she abandoned be willing to immediately offer her forgiveness. Based on this kind of mature, considerate, loving, completely nonjudgmental behavior, I’d say it appears to me that all their adoptive families did a damn fine job bringing them up to love their fellow man, regardless of their identity or actions, AND I hope their birth mother is thankful for that as well.
Stokedhavok really? I doubt she even gives a shit about the kids she’s abandoned. And I doubt that each of them “immediately forgave” her She is a sick human being who didn’t care for the safety of her kids and she knew the potential of them even dying. I hope she rots in hell.
Cream Puff one thread without negativity, please❤️❤️
Lol your niave to think deep down she even cares
why is the bio mom not behind bars right now?!
diana levy Because she's a white woman Duhhhh 🙄 if she had been black, hispanic or Mexican you already know what would have happened 😳🤐😩😏
Statutes of limitations
LadySinsReal ha that’s a funny lie
LadySinsReal Stop lying....this is a white activity. This lady left 3 of her kids to die for fun.
steve b So if I leave my kid to die, without sustenance, and it lives just on the coincidence someone finds it I shouldn’t be punished?? Y’all sick af....This isn’t just child abuse it’s attempted murder. The child literally has to depend on someone finding it in order to survive. There survival is dependent on something they can’t control.....no excuses for this evil ass bitch, and how do we know she only did this 3 times. There could’ve been kids in a bag that belong to her that where never found.
whenever i bumped into this kind of story it always sends me in a sad mode..
my mother left me with my step father whom at that time i had a difficult time to be attached..
my mother kept telling me my step father will stop caring of me if she leaves that made me anxious through the years maybe thats why i was too distanced with my step dad at that time..
when my mother left me and abandoned us, it shattered everything.. it was the most darkest moment of my life that even breathing was almost unrecognizable..
after 2 and half decades im still with my step dad who gave me a love that any adopted child could ever wished for..
the anger inside me for my mother was gradually vanishing through the years..
i tried my best to understand why she did that for i had no clues for me to accept it..
maybe she din't love my father that much that she wanted a life that even me as her son and my father wouldn't satisfy her..
at this moment my anger was already gone, she wanted a happy life or anything that non of us could give her and i hope my mother is happy now and finally got what she really wanted.. i already forgive the situation that put my family on that painful ordeal.
Wow! I can't believe they forgive her. That man has a right to be angry.
I don't get the second and third birth. She didn't know how to prevent pregnancy? I don't get it.
That happens every day all over the world. It's just more common to keep the baby and live in misery or be a shitty parent bc your heart isn't in it. It's 2019 and people still can't comprehend that the primary purpose of sex is to reproduce. I've been married for almost 12 years - we didn't want kids so we have never made kids. If we can manage that anyone can.
@Val Kayar condoms are a thing. And they don't cost much
If you insist on dumping your baby please find out where the nearest safe Haven is. U can drop your baby off there-no questions. Sheesh.
Baby doesnt have to die or be put in harms way. Care enough to give a family longing for a baby a shot at love. 🙏Just having babies and dumping them? Daheck?
Safe Havens weren't around then. Female Birth Control and abortion weren't available everywhere. Everyone seems to take all that for granted, but it depended all on the state. Condoms were available and obviously the men didn't use them.
@@nunnayrbznz3576 Adoption was still available. I mean, are you saying that what she did was okay?
Creepy Kalalou Nouwa-Lalou Nouwa 2 I know SMH
Silent Rocks you can drop your baby off at a police station and or fire stations
This is why abortion options or protection like condoms pills etcetera should be more available and better implemented in peoples lives
Power of forgiving. Amazing. ☺
She abandoned multiple kids. How she didn't get in troubke for this. She left them to die
Octavia Wilburn lord knows we would have been under the jail 🙄
@@joycomesinthemorning6721 Wow, people are judgmental! She didn't leave them to die, hence why they are not dead. She could have aborted them and didn't. She could have smothered them, like so many young, "good" Xtian girls and then left them in dumpsters, she didn't. Instead, she carried them to term "found" them and made sure they were safe. She couldn't care for them herself. And what about vilifying any of the men who planted the seed inside her? She didn't get pregnant from the drinking water. People always wanna hate and go out for blood. Maybe her choices really were, eat, feed my two boys, pay the bills or birth control, or maybe birth control didn't work for her. And why should she abstain from sex when it's a human, natural part of life. I don't think she was seriously addicted to giving birth and then abandoning babies, and if she was, she couldn't afford a psychologist's help!! Relax people, pull in the claws. Those kids are all alive and healthy!
@@paulagwhyte1720 bitch you sound dumb
@@paulagwhyte1720 she left one next to a dumpster.
@@jamairiamccain1868 Thanks for illustrating my point.
God knows why I've never found a baby or a bag of money..... I would keep both lmaooo
Exactly!!!! Wouldn't tell a single solitary soul #FindersKeepers
Facts! 😆
Lol 🤣 thanks for the honesty and levity
So, what going to the BLACK mother, who did the same thing?
Since ESAU wasn't arrested for dumping her babies. Are you going to leave her alone? Nope, since she's BLACK, you will throw the book at not only the Mother,
You will also lock up the Father as well. Two different justice program. If you are ESAU, then you get a get out of jail free card.
If your Black throw lock them up for life.
She (the daughter) is so emotional at the reveal, while the "mother" is like "meh"
Can someone remind me why the birth mother isn't being prosecuted by the state? I would have thought that leaving a baby,
in a bag,
on the street,
would at least be a phphphPhelony.
Probably because the window of prosecution past. But I wish she could still be prosecuted.
Fugitive Irons statute of limitations is passed.
Trey king show ? Lol 😂
Probably because she didn't leave the baby in any bag outside, didn't u watch the video?smh
@@Lesbiana31 I did. The birthmother is lucky her kids are so stupid. The nuts dont fall far from the tree.
Why couldn't she just leave them at a fire station to make sure they will be safe??
Cassandra. I don't think there was safe haven laws. Now a person can take a child and leave them at hospitals, Fire Departments , Police, etc without fear of reprisals. It's sad she did this and I don't think I would've been able to forgive her. Especially when I found out I had four siblings and she did the same thing to each of us. Frankly, what I think is what I think!! It is up to those children if they want a relationship with her. God Bless them.
wanna smash?
I still never learned what was this mothers story. She carried all three to term, so why not put them up for adoption instead of abandoning them and risking their safety....
Sad & astonishing that they love her in spite of everything.
A fire station! A Church! A Hospital! Happy for those siblings...but zero respect for the “mother” .☑️
How do u normalize behavior like that! And how can these kids say they love her? I give them credit for wanting to forgive and heal !!!
Maurice Harriott I don’t give them credit for that...they are initially emotional...I hope in time they tell this horrible woman to get out of their lives...she does not deserve it!
Anger only hurts you. Good choice to move forward. They are the only ones here who know the whole story. Are they mad at the unknown dad?
There are foundlings who were outright rejected by their birth mother when they tried to reach out and were asked to never contact them again. Such a heartbreak. I pray for those people.
These are three amazing kids. What beautiful souls to be so forgiving.
I don’t think the mom wants to be a “family”
Oh sure she does..now that the responsibility & selflessness part is done & THEY can take care of HER. Insurance for old age.
@@dollymadison2397 You'd be surprised how some mothers think. But as someone in these comments said, her son saw through her. Empathy is something she chose not to have when she birthed those children.
And this is why contraception MUST be available.
She probably "fucked" without a condom because the man she did it with pleaded/demanded to go bareback. This woman didn't get pregnant on her own.
What do you mean? Is it feminist to point out that it takes TWO people to produce a child? Hardly...
Hanne Lykke Poulsen yeah but the these lovely people wouldn't be here
Hanne Lykke Poulsen it is. You can get birth control for free!!!
Hanne Lykke Poulsen wtf? so take 3 innocent lives away. you're stupid. whats done is done.
Charges should've been filed against her. smh
what an evil horrible woman to do that. It is unspeakable to throw away children like that. And to pretend she was a good person rescuing the one. How low. She disgusts me.
Now here’s the the real question. Where are the fathers?
I doubt if she even knows who they are.
That's a good joke, if it was one
Likely still running from this nutter of a woman
See this is the problem everyone hates on the the mother for not using contraception but men get away with it no blame just a pat on the back for getting laid
@@daniellefoster2614 This is a narrative when you want to give a woman an excuse for irresponsible behavior. As A woman we know we bear the burden of caring and birthing babies. A responsible woman will be accountable for her sexual behavior also and therefore will know who the father of that baby is and hold him accountable. On the other end, you have women having babies and not notifying the father or not knowing who the father is. Accountability works both ways.
Is it just me or does it seem like the "Mom"; i use that term very loosely, could honestly care less? Just listen to the tone of her voice when she admits it was her who abandoned them.
PoetLG pretty much... sounds like a sociopath
Candy Colon-Rivera ~Yep. Classic unremorse. Did it, kept on truckin', when caught played the victim.
Yeah I thought the same ... same as "do you wanna eat some ice cream?"
PoetLG if she cared she would’ve prevented pregnancy. She’s got a screw loose
PoetLG seriously!!! the way she said sorry
This is soo cool! I’m glad they found each other!!!
I knew it from the beginning of the story when she met her "angel" at the door and she was so emotional and they were sitting next to each other. I was like, " dang, they look an awful lot alike, wonder if she's the mother!?" And sure enough she was! I don't know why I knew, but the 1st lady said she knew she was her mom too. It's funny that they do all look so much alike. Well, I'm glad they don't hate their mom and that they're trying to rebuild their lives. Also mom is lucky because I don't know how long the statute of limitations is on abandoned children cases, but I know where I'm at in Indianapolis IN even if they find one in those safe drop off points at fire stations and stuff they seem to hint these momma's down like dogs. So they usually end up found and some of them aren't in the end allowed to stay anonymous like they wanted to in the 1st place because the media gets a hold of the story and plasters their face and name all over hell and half of Jericho for all the world to know her business, but at the very least she made sure her kiddos didn't die, and we're given a chance to live. That's much better than like the girl in Texas who threw her babe in a dumpster and tossed her in like common garbage to hopefully die. So I guess she was an angel of mercy in the end. She made sure they survived and that the right authority had her kids. So I hope not all works out for all 4 of them! Good luck y'all. Love and prayers even though this story is old, it was still a good one!
I would forgive but I won't be hanging out with her