Officer adopts addicted stranger’s baby into family

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  • Опубликовано: 6 авг 2019
  • What one Albuquerque Police officer saw in September 2017 shook him to his core, and the decision he made in that very moment changed lives forever and touched hearts around the world.
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  • @LihleBukula
    @LihleBukula 4 года назад +15164

    The fact that they named her Hope Crystal and included her birth Mother's name is so kind and amazing.

    • @MacKenzieAkari
      @MacKenzieAkari 4 года назад +660

      When my parents adopted me, they made my middle name the name of my birth mother. I am proud of that name, and I love her so much. I hope that Hope can forgive her birth mother too

    • @gt9188
      @gt9188 4 года назад +301

      METHinks it should be Crystal Meth!

    • @davyna8897
      @davyna8897 4 года назад +33

      Johnny Five I was gonna write that !

    • @lovingpurrs8388
      @lovingpurrs8388 4 года назад +40

      Is scary , almost should name her crystal meth tho

    • @ollac3758
      @ollac3758 4 года назад +7

      @@gt9188 deffooo

  • @DumboKnudsen
    @DumboKnudsen 4 года назад +9306

    To all the young boys watching this. This is how a real man looks like

  • @SilverAukahzy
    @SilverAukahzy 2 года назад +1515

    "When somebody asks for help, the person who hears is responsible". Man, that is so wise and deep.

    • @racheltarentino3314
      @racheltarentino3314 2 года назад +22

      That line alone made me cry bro

    • @pacifist1360
      @pacifist1360 2 года назад +23

      Also the words that came out of his sergeant at 12:14 "I thought my job was to teach him. I thought my job was to talk to him about getting home safe and making mom proud. But here we see this man teaching me", moved me. Officer Holets and Sergeant Edison are both great cops and great human beings.

    • @roseberry9874
      @roseberry9874 2 года назад +2

      That’s what i felt

    • @christinecampbell7301
      @christinecampbell7301 Год назад +5

      I paid to put my little brother through rehab after my dad died and he hit rock bottom. I was the only one to listen.

    • @carleenmc1
      @carleenmc1 Год назад +1

      Absolutely!

  • @anyastar8
    @anyastar8 2 года назад +1676

    I commend the wife! She deserves more recognition. She's the one who's always left taking care of all them.

    • @croatianmaster8178
      @croatianmaster8178 2 года назад +78

      I agree mothers are superheroes !!

    • @6drydrydgdfhdre468
      @6drydrydgdfhdre468 2 года назад +13

      @@croatianmaster8178 no they arent, they literally just opened their legs nothing else.

    • @croatianmaster8178
      @croatianmaster8178 2 года назад +130

      @@6drydrydgdfhdre468 U think like that for real or u just want some likes cos u think u funny

    • @6drydrydgdfhdre468
      @6drydrydgdfhdre468 2 года назад

      @@croatianmaster8178 mate being a mother is literally defined by the act of getting fked and giving birth to the child. Just cuz you got your own little definition of it doesn’t make it correct. Stop praising women for the bare minimum you imbecile

    • @croatianmaster8178
      @croatianmaster8178 2 года назад +115

      @@6drydrydgdfhdre468 It's not my fault that your mother don't love you

  • @Sarah-zr1nj
    @Sarah-zr1nj 3 года назад +7308

    Forget being a “good cop,” this guy is just a good human being.

    • @sayanalimana697
      @sayanalimana697 3 года назад +30

      The best one

    • @lorraine9242
      @lorraine9242 3 года назад +46

      A good human being inspired by God. We should take on his example and help homeless people who have addictions.

    • @ruba3577
      @ruba3577 3 года назад +39

      You are 100% correct!!That's what many people don't understand.
      Cops are people.
      A good cop is usually going to be a good friend, good brother/sister, etc.
      Usually a bad cop is also a horrible husband/wife, father/mother.

    • @Sarah-zr1nj
      @Sarah-zr1nj 3 года назад +23

      Ru Ba exactly. My opinion is that American police forces attract a disproportionate amount of people who just itch to be aggressive and brutal - but I can also acknowledge that there are truly decent and caring officers that want to do the job with humility and justice. This man is a good human, so therefore he makes a good officer. To paraphrase Wayne Dyer: “when you squeeze an orange, what comes out is orange juice, because that’s what it contains. When you are squeezed, what you contain is what comes out.” This man (and his wife) were obviously filled with mercy and selflessness. This country needs to change the kinds of officers that they hire, and stop punishing the whistleblowers trying to uphold their duty to protect the people and do the right thing.

    • @Yythnngggbjjj
      @Yythnngggbjjj 3 года назад +2

      Ru Ba I mean being a good cop is there job yes they may not be bad cops but they support and owner for the awful system

  • @Lara-bk8zc
    @Lara-bk8zc 4 года назад +5450

    Let’s take a minute to appreciate how she wanted her baby to have a better life. She knew she wouldn’t be able to take care of the baby, so she did the right thing in that situation.

    • @Lara-bk8zc
      @Lara-bk8zc 4 года назад +16

      VideoEtTaceo Thank you :)

    • @dawnbutdarkeningdawn
      @dawnbutdarkeningdawn 4 года назад +44

      it warmed my heart when that part came up in the video.

    • @lisaryherd4685
      @lisaryherd4685 4 года назад +18

      Lara Yes, it was unselfish!!

    • @elizabethevenson6110
      @elizabethevenson6110 4 года назад +53

      she mama'ed up imo, and i hope that she manages to get and keep her life in order and possibly even maintain some kind of ongoing relationship with hope and the holets family.

    • @marethepoge9502
      @marethepoge9502 4 года назад +38

      she was shooting heroin while pregnant which can harm and even kill a baby. she didn't care about that baby nearly as much as she should have.

  • @hayleyelizabeth.x
    @hayleyelizabeth.x 2 года назад +1203

    I’m crying really like a baby. As a recovering addict, this is just.. these are incredible people. 17 months sober & never going back!
    ** edit, March 2023 - thank y’all so much for the loving, supportive comments! It means so much to me!! 💕 My husband & I just celebrated our 3 years clean mark in February! We DO Recover!!! ❣️🖤❣️

    • @mikewrasman5103
      @mikewrasman5103 2 года назад +14

      Being hooked on meth or crack or heroin is beyond horrible!
      They can take away everything in your life.

    • @aPumpkn
      @aPumpkn 2 года назад +16

      Good for you! I can't imagine how tough it must've been, but for what it's worth I'm happy to hear it.

    • @lujaynerashid6284
      @lujaynerashid6284 2 года назад +13

      Keep going!!!! 💝❤️💖💗💓💞💕❣️

    • @LindaBarham
      @LindaBarham 2 года назад +10

      Congratulations, I hope you're still doing good and being strong. If not, you can always start over again. Do you remember the dad said everyone is redeemable. He's right.

    • @chocolatebuttafly156
      @chocolatebuttafly156 2 года назад +8

      CONGRATULATIONS DARLING IM SO PROUD OF YOU I KNOW HOW HARD THAT WAS BUT YOU SUCCEED

  • @thir13en59
    @thir13en59 2 года назад +431

    Can we appreciate how they gave Hope her birth mothers name as her middle name. That’s such a loving gesture to her.

    • @potter3439
      @potter3439 11 месяцев назад +10

      Absolutely

    • @crabodaru175
      @crabodaru175 Месяц назад

      also gave them the name of the drug aswell x.x

    • @ArcticAirUltraPro
      @ArcticAirUltraPro 28 дней назад

      @@crabodaru175 she wasn’t doing meth, it was opioids (heroin).

    • @scarlettroses5136
      @scarlettroses5136 20 дней назад

      @@crabodaru175no she didn’t they were doing h - if your going to leave an stupid comment at least know what ur talkin abt

    • @crabodaru175
      @crabodaru175 19 дней назад

      @@scarlettroses5136 okay bruther man it was supposed to be a joke XD
      And I really don't care to educate myself about drugs when Iam in no way interested in it.

  • @CharyleTracy
    @CharyleTracy 4 года назад +11347

    "When someone asks for help, the person who hears is responsible". True words.

    • @lpadavis1
      @lpadavis1 4 года назад +130

      I didn't cry until that moment. Amazing man.

    • @scorpionmermaid6186
      @scorpionmermaid6186 4 года назад +68

      Yup that definitely did not fall on deaf ears I heard that loud and clear and made me want to do better so I can help someone if I can someday.....

    • @paulocl2
      @paulocl2 4 года назад +15

      Yes. I always wait to see if someone else will do anything. There is never someone else and I am the one who end up helping. I hope to get rid of my codependency some time in the future and be selfish like everybody else.

    • @scorpionmermaid6186
      @scorpionmermaid6186 4 года назад +10

      paulo c All it takes is a simple NO and mean it, they’ll get the hint if you say it enough!!!

    • @paulocl2
      @paulocl2 4 года назад +3

      I know... but I feel remorse.

  • @theunimpressedbeetch
    @theunimpressedbeetch 4 года назад +4042

    "When somebody asks for help, the person who hears is responsible"
    That quote alone defines his character!! What a great man!

  • @michelecastillo6576
    @michelecastillo6576 Год назад +584

    My husband and I adopted 6 kids out of foster care. We raised 40 foster children. We have contact with a lot of out kids. Congratulations to you and your family!!

    • @natalyraiderarias-ys1zc
      @natalyraiderarias-ys1zc Год назад +9

      can you adopt me

    • @michelecastillo6576
      @michelecastillo6576 Год назад +16

      @@natalyraiderarias-ys1zc May I ask how old you are and what state do you live in.

    • @jacquelinejohnson7541
      @jacquelinejohnson7541 Год назад +3

      Awe what a wonderful police officer and his kind wife to ,and the help they are given to this couple .👍🤗🙏💖🇬🇧

    • @rachelcurtis749
      @rachelcurtis749 Год назад +8

      Please adopt me ( 27f )and my 2yr old daughter 😅

    • @krystaldaniels7940
      @krystaldaniels7940 Год назад +2

      Ohhhh wow!! I always wanted to foster children but with a whole rescue farm AND my own adult kids moving back home i dont have time or bedrooms to devote to young kids right now. ..someday. .

  • @kaitlynreynolds5192
    @kaitlynreynolds5192 11 месяцев назад +66

    People like Crystal are almost always painted as evil, horrible people, but something must have happened to get her in that situation in the first place. Three years later, I hope the baby is doing well and is healthy and happy, and Crystal is able to spend more time with her daughter.

    • @supershepherd
      @supershepherd Месяц назад +5

      People have this idea that addiction is a simple choice. A choice that only bad people make. But truth be told, there are a million and one ways someone can fall into addiction and it can happen to anyone. It’s easy to believe it can never happen to you or anyone around you, but addiction is far more common then people realize. Cause some people also forget that drugs aren’t the only form of addiction either.

  • @daveenglish2358
    @daveenglish2358 3 года назад +1563

    Wife Rebecca deserves as much credit as him, and he'd probably be the first to say it.

  • @adacharlottedalton5723
    @adacharlottedalton5723 4 года назад +4369

    I love that they made the baby's middle name crystal

    • @SavingPvtBryan32
      @SavingPvtBryan32 4 года назад +263

      The methest of names

    • @politespoon9790
      @politespoon9790 4 года назад +25

      Ada Charlotte Dalton 4:37 pay attention next time

    • @darkark101
      @darkark101 4 года назад +69

      @@politespoon9790 they were paying attention you dopey twat. Think before you try to be so smart and condescending lol.

    • @mossygreentree
      @mossygreentree 4 года назад +6

      and i oop

    • @martincuevas7675
      @martincuevas7675 4 года назад +5

      @@MarMar-qz6ri u stfu white boy

  • @KGBeast.
    @KGBeast. 2 года назад +187

    "When somebody asks for help, the person who hears is responsible." Just like that me and my whole family was moved to tears

  • @getthereinaminute2639
    @getthereinaminute2639 2 года назад +207

    Here I am, 22 weeks pregnant with my first child. It's a girl and I'm literally in tears! God bless them all! 🥺♥️😭

    • @bluerosesv5905
      @bluerosesv5905 Год назад +4

      i truely hope you guys are safe and happy right now!

    • @charlottesmom
      @charlottesmom Год назад +5

      How are you and your little girl doing? 💕

    • @SilentHotdog28
      @SilentHotdog28 8 месяцев назад +2

      I grew up with 3 brothers and no sisters, I really hope I have 2 daughters and maybe a son too.

    • @Cyd98
      @Cyd98 Месяц назад

      Congratulations on your toddler

  • @CherryDolce93
    @CherryDolce93 4 года назад +5268

    He was so confident in his wife’s selflessness, enthusiasm, kindness and heroism - that he didn’t even ask her first - that’s beautiful

    • @marwanderley
      @marwanderley 4 года назад +219

      He knows her! He knew she would be excited! Incredible couple with a lot of harmony!

    • @Katgirldiamond
      @Katgirldiamond 4 года назад +90

      It's amazing to see such a well functioning relationship, and to help a little one in need and they're birth parents is amazing

    • @novanae7799
      @novanae7799 4 года назад +27

      un heard of. He is luckiest Man, as she is Woman

    • @representelanation4463
      @representelanation4463 4 года назад +34

      b ray nobody said hero, it says heroism which is a word of its own that is associated with audacity and spirit. No he isn’t say a war hero, but he sure is that kids hero/saviour (litteraly). On the other hand, you’re here deciding what counts as heroic when you yourself have never done anything remotely close to even daring.

    • @BubbaBellin
      @BubbaBellin 4 года назад +29

      @@novanae7799 He is not lucky. He is a follower of Jesus and so is his wife. Their marriage is built on a firm foundation.

  • @C.U.N.Tahiti
    @C.U.N.Tahiti 3 года назад +3060

    "When someone asks for help, the person who hears it is responsible for helping" I respect that mentality

    • @disobey9058
      @disobey9058 3 года назад +26

      I took that to heart. I really enjoy helping others, it is powerful, and that quote is exactly right. I am going to try to be more aware

    • @C.U.N.Tahiti
      @C.U.N.Tahiti 3 года назад +4

      soli Sanchez as far as drugs go, environment is everything. U can come from a good home and still have trauma or depression. But I think she'll be fine

    • @JackManic1984
      @JackManic1984 3 года назад +1

      Sadly most people go into the indifference of good men, when scary things are happening.

    • @fruitypeebils
      @fruitypeebils 3 года назад +5

      hey bro can you come help me move this saturday?

    • @Dangbroo
      @Dangbroo 3 года назад +3

      You know, that's actually a law in poland xd

  • @alyssa2796
    @alyssa2796 3 года назад +241

    Im glad crystal was able to get that help. I hope she lives a long happy life

  • @tiffinyanderson4403
    @tiffinyanderson4403 Год назад +94

    What an amazing man. And his equally amazing wife. This is a hero. Not a celebrity. Now he has another child to feed, clothe and take care of and he only considered the urgent need. Truly amazing.

  • @panfriedgoblins
    @panfriedgoblins 4 года назад +5378

    "so why would a 27 year old husband and father of 4 offer to take the baby of an addict?"
    Cuz thats what heros do.

    • @jes1993
      @jes1993 4 года назад +46

      A Song In Distress he is the good part of humanity, their needs to be more people like him

    • @Swerv
      @Swerv 4 года назад +14

      Heroes*

    • @kayneswinkels7837
      @kayneswinkels7837 4 года назад +8

      x̴S̴w̴e̴r̴v̴ fuck off

    • @mecomingtomo6933
      @mecomingtomo6933 4 года назад +32

      The funny thing is there are probably so many cops that do special things every day that no one hears about bc all the media talks about is the negativity of those who protect and serve

    • @waynecampbell9714
      @waynecampbell9714 4 года назад +8

      That's what decent people do there are heroes everyday nobody ever hears about them, this guy is amazing, who else would have done this if they had the means 2 help? Not many!

  • @jenneltenner4346
    @jenneltenner4346 4 года назад +2159

    His imitation of his wife’s ‘okay!’ is so adorable

  • @joosyj
    @joosyj 2 года назад +140

    I'm watching this again. I'm so happy for the baby. She won't suffer in a foster home being molested and abused now. So many kids say they're abused in foster homes. This is so nice and loving

  • @kristyhines7443
    @kristyhines7443 Год назад +72

    I’m a recovering addict. I did it all by myself as my family and friends deserted me. I would’ve given anything to have just anyone take my hand and offer help. When you’re in your addiction it’s almost impossible to help yourself, and honestly I don’t know how I did it! He is an amazing person!!! 🙏🏽

    • @jenniferjakob9005
      @jenniferjakob9005 Год назад +7

      Keep going❤ you should be so proud of yourself!!🎉🎉

    • @HeatherLeonard-vt4uh
      @HeatherLeonard-vt4uh 10 месяцев назад +3

      God that's how you did it he loves you very much congrats!

    • @lindabaldwin2568
      @lindabaldwin2568 10 месяцев назад +1

      You are blessed . Lots of people you'll never meet are praying for you ..🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @stefanycarrasco6245
      @stefanycarrasco6245 10 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @anthonyreis3533
      @anthonyreis3533 7 месяцев назад +1

      Big congrats king. Work hard and avoid anything that put you back in that place because it isn't worth it. God has your back king.

  • @catec9980
    @catec9980 4 года назад +2155

    “When someone asks for help, the person who hears is responsible.”
    That hit home

    • @robbiehiggins1
      @robbiehiggins1 4 года назад +16

      That is something to ponder on daily

    • @lydialewis8101
      @lydialewis8101 4 года назад +2

      Not if you have super hearing

    • @shannonator
      @shannonator 4 года назад +4

      Yee0j why do you say that?

    • @Alexandra-dy2ns
      @Alexandra-dy2ns 4 года назад +10

      @Yee0j No, sometimes you just can't manage alone and often it is very hard to ask for help. This guy has a high internal moral motivation which is inspiring and literally makes a change for others.

    • @lunafringe10
      @lunafringe10 4 года назад

      and the one who heard, is the loser hehe

  • @pickingwilddaisies945
    @pickingwilddaisies945 4 года назад +7479

    I LOVE that they helped the parents as well not just take the baby say “good luck”

    • @kendall9904
      @kendall9904 4 года назад +32

      @@cuppatae834 jesus christ let people believe what they want to believe. literally 6 of the 7 members of bts are Christian what are you going to say to them?

    • @markjuarez6538
      @markjuarez6538 4 года назад +8

      @Julie W. "All goodness cometh from the lord"
      Okay... Does your god control the affairs of the entire universe? If he doesn't then he is NOT omnipotent. If he doesn't control and will the evil you see in this world then he isn't a god by the description given in your own Bible. What I'm saying is: if god doesn't will evil to happen then that discredits him from being the god you worship. How can god be all good AND omnipotent in a world where evil exists?

    • @Confederal-Froomuss
      @Confederal-Froomuss 4 года назад +7

      @Joyce Woodruff dude are you serious keep your religious bullshit to yourself

    • @jolie4229
      @jolie4229 4 года назад +29

      @@cuppatae834 1) you could have replied in a nicer way 2) Respect peoples beliefs and let them be.

    • @jolie4229
      @jolie4229 4 года назад +18

      @@cuppatae834 Just suggesting these things. No need to be rude. Have a nice day 😊

  • @dianerathgeber1526
    @dianerathgeber1526 Год назад +17

    My Father was a police officer in Albuquerque, years ago. But I have a feeling that he was a monster. He was in our home……a monster. Good for this gentleman. He’s a hero and I applaud him.

    • @dianerathgeber1526
      @dianerathgeber1526 9 месяцев назад +1

      My story exactly. My father was a Albuquerque Police Officer when I was born. But my dad was horrible and I have a feeling that he was fired. He passed about 5-6 years ago. Not one person has shed a tear, especially me, since his death. I still wish I could get the real story from APD about him.

  • @kiingsaysotv
    @kiingsaysotv 3 года назад +60

    we need more human kindness like this

    • @papabear9481
      @papabear9481 Год назад +1

      Then we as a people and as individuals need to affect that change and become that of which we admire and respect as I do with this officer and his beautiful family.

  • @francesottewill2538
    @francesottewill2538 4 года назад +1804

    People forget that an addict is still a person, You dunno what got them to that point! Be kind.

    • @mentalhealthwarriors5015
      @mentalhealthwarriors5015 4 года назад +39

      Thank you for this. Thats love #formeraddict

    • @chrism6904
      @chrism6904 4 года назад +17

      @@mentalhealthwarriors5015 Same here. Glad you're free from addiction too! Keep up the good work!

    • @lovejesuschristlovejesus3398
      @lovejesuschristlovejesus3398 4 года назад +27

      Homeless people need this same type of kindness also

    • @sparx180
      @sparx180 4 года назад +11

      Frances Ottewill No truer words spoken. Thanks

    • @pearltoledo1852
      @pearltoledo1852 4 года назад +7

      Love it...💖

  • @cardia.2186
    @cardia.2186 4 года назад +2485

    They named her "Hope Crystal" they still kept a part of the baby's biological mother with her😭💞💗

  • @byerage
    @byerage Год назад +29

    As a child who was raised by parents who are addicts, this is so......heartwarming.

  • @jomahanovo3091
    @jomahanovo3091 3 года назад +37

    Wow this officer and his wife are the true definition of unconditional love. They are so far up in the spiritual climb. We should all follow more individuals like them instead of getting caught up in nonsense that only divide us.

  • @Psquared2324
    @Psquared2324 3 года назад +2166

    Her middle name is Crystal, after her birth mother. Incredibly moving.

    • @beng420smom8
      @beng420smom8 3 года назад +22

      Noticed that as well! Loved this so much

    • @YolandaMReyes
      @YolandaMReyes 3 года назад +4

      ❤️

    • @keck8104
      @keck8104 3 года назад +175

      ...
      Like...
      Crystal meth?

    • @YolandaMReyes
      @YolandaMReyes 3 года назад +15

      K Eck right that as well.....

    • @onetwo19
      @onetwo19 3 года назад +43

      Or after crystal meth.

  • @jeanenehea
    @jeanenehea 3 года назад +662

    "When somebody asks for help, the person who hears is responsible."

    • @lynneva3682
      @lynneva3682 3 года назад +2

      my mom word every day

    • @iambreajade_tv5666
      @iambreajade_tv5666 3 года назад +7

      Very true! If you see someone very desperate for help HELP THEM!! ☹️

    • @stefalexandra6127
      @stefalexandra6127 3 года назад +3

      Sometimes they have to help themselves first before you can help them. Are you gonna help a beggar? Knowingly you only gave them money so they can buy more drugs?

    • @pelviselvis3421
      @pelviselvis3421 3 года назад +2

      @@stefalexandra6127 🤢 you and your lack of humanity and empathy is truly SICKENING!! If these people could help themselves and heal themselves I am sure they would! They have given up on themselves and life.... so how are they supposed to 'hElP tHeMsElfEs'?!! You really need to EDUCATE yourself and stop making stupid, ignorant comments. I surely hope that you or your loved ones don't end up in this situation because I wouldn't wish it on anyone!
      And to answer your question, yes! I have given a panhandler (not 'beggar') money knowing damn well what they were probably going to use it for but that is not my business. I do it because I care about their suffering and that they are a HUMAN being who deserves to be seen and cared about!!

    • @stefalexandra6127
      @stefalexandra6127 3 года назад +2

      @@pelviselvis3421 judging by your emotional response you lack clarity. I only made one comment prior to my original message. This is the real world. Not everyone can help themselves and you're the problem if you think it makes you a good person just because you gave them money knowingly they would use it for drugs. You say it's not your responsibility but the fact that you gave that person money makes it your business. If someone wants something they have to put in the work instead of just hoping someone would give them money for their addiction. I like to thank you for twisting my response because your entire comment was done out of emotion. What the OP said implies everyone has to help because those people are asking for help and you heard them. But that's not always the case hence why I said what I said.

  • @bannanna.
    @bannanna. 3 года назад +17

    " I was the one hearing her" - 😭💙

  • @frostheart88
    @frostheart88 3 года назад +15

    You know, Crystal has resolve...she was willing to admit that she did something wrong to her unborn baby and wanted her baby to have a better life than with her. Props to her strength and honesty, and I hope she gets the help she needs.

  • @LightieeT
    @LightieeT 4 года назад +2895

    Tbh if my husband came home and said “I met a stranger and were adopting her baby” I would have been like “word? K”

    • @selenayvette15
      @selenayvette15 4 года назад +131

      Miya Payne “ Word? I’m down “ LMAO I LOVE IT !!

    • @legitme7572
      @legitme7572 4 года назад +18

      Mood lmao 😂

    • @HeavyMetalKittenx
      @HeavyMetalKittenx 4 года назад +9

      Right!

    • @railenbow4502
      @railenbow4502 4 года назад +68

      Yeah I would be like “seems like a great idea, I’m in babe! Where’s the baby?” Since I love having kids I would be soooo happy lol😂

    • @kallieestrada
      @kallieestrada 4 года назад +39

      i’d be like “aight”

  • @smnewstead4093
    @smnewstead4093 4 года назад +1964

    I was afraid that helping the addicted couple would end when the baby was born, but they continued to help them and they became sober. Wonderful story.

    • @lucindatheartist6435
      @lucindatheartist6435 4 года назад +11

      that's what made me happy the most, the fact they believed that the couple could be redeemed and get better. and they did help them! and I'm so happy for that

    • @Olivia-rd6ty
      @Olivia-rd6ty 4 года назад

      S.M.P. Newstead haha i gave u ur 1k like 💗

    • @robertstark8965
      @robertstark8965 4 года назад +4

      It is nice that the birthmom and dad has a chance to see her grow up and also for Hope to see them later in life if she wants. OMG such a wonderful story. Little baby Hope.

    • @smnewstead4093
      @smnewstead4093 4 года назад

      @Nikol S. Ervant Sobriety is the state of not being under the influence of any mind-altering substance. Similar is how "driving under the influence" may refer to alcohol or any other mind-altering substance. The psychiatric field definitely does not use the term "clean," because the opposite of that is dirty. "Junkie" is quite pejorative and dehumanizing too. Nice try at being condescending.

    • @jestineburggraf
      @jestineburggraf 3 года назад +2

      Thank you for saying sober instead of “clean”. We aren’t dirty - it’s actively using and we aren’t clean - we’re in recovery or sobriety.
      5 years and counting in long term recovery from opiate use disorder and working with moms actively using, seeking recovery and/or in long term recovery 💜
      #RecoveryIsPossible

  • @keshajohnson3103
    @keshajohnson3103 3 года назад +45

    Im so glad they found hope. She fits right in and the fact that they are still helping the biological parents is truly a blessing

    • @fantasma8253
      @fantasma8253 4 месяца назад

      That biological mother has gone viral before, I’m sure I’ve seen the same face and she was homeless then too. Don’t know if they scammed this couple or what

  • @stacynapier8206
    @stacynapier8206 Год назад +49

    I just came across this amazing story today. America needs more stories like this instead of all the evil that's blasted on television and social media . It's heart warming and so very special. God bless this couple and all of their children. "A servant's heart" powerful description.

  • @gustav_4190
    @gustav_4190 4 года назад +1183

    Dude adopts a drug addicts child not out of what's gonna make him famous but what's the right thing to do. Dude totally deserves all happiness in the world

  • @abby_bean
    @abby_bean 4 года назад +1119

    that man deserves a wife like that, they seem like a beautiful couple

  • @JustASmallTownGirl85
    @JustASmallTownGirl85 2 месяца назад +3

    The fact that they made her middle name, the Bio Moms name😢 The grace they have shown is so inspiring

  • @cathyhall7457
    @cathyhall7457 Год назад +15

    Very touching that they are still helping the birth parents... And also that they included the mother's name as well

  • @CannibalChxrry
    @CannibalChxrry 3 года назад +2295

    Can we not only appreciate the officer and his wife, but Crystal herself? She is an addict, BUT she knows that the baby deserves more than she can give her, and seems like a good person that got stuck in a hard place. I hope she continues her sobriety. And Crystal, if by some miracle you see this comment, you are wonderful for giving your baby to such wonderful people. I hope nothing but the best for you and your family. 💚

    • @nikikramerfreeman1803
      @nikikramerfreeman1803 3 года назад +68

      Yes she did something amazing and yes she did fuck up her baby but I am sorry it isn’t as easy as ppl want to think it’s so hard but I can tell you it can happen and none of my addiction had been done thru my pregnancy and I did the best thing I could not to see my baby go thru what I can’t and I know it is not my baby fault

    • @nikikramerfreeman1803
      @nikikramerfreeman1803 3 года назад +13

      She did an awesome thing

    • @minxymoo2325
      @minxymoo2325 3 года назад +24

      @@nikikramerfreeman1803 Then get an abortion! What was the point of carrying to term and making a fetus suffer for 9 months???

    • @CannibalChxrry
      @CannibalChxrry 3 года назад +90

      @@minxymoo2325 see the thing is, not everyone believes in abortions. Every one's opinions differ and some people carry the guilt. In her case, the baby is healthy and fine and now has a happy family. It may not seem like a big deal, but it takes a lot for someone to give up a child they have carried while battling their demons. So I can respect her.id advise you do the same or get out of my comment thread. Then again your most recent comments are all complaining. So is that your personality trait?😹😹😹

    • @boomthebunny
      @boomthebunny 3 года назад +46

      @@minxymoo2325 you would rather her kill the baby?? As if thats not just as bad? You know what they say. The people who are for abortion are already born. I bet if you asked that baby, that baby would want to at least have a chance at life. Some people, even though they're in a messed up place, still want to give that child a chance. You can't blame them for that.

  • @shobamargaret2630
    @shobamargaret2630 4 года назад +4066

    Mom of five .. no way.. she looks like a college student.. God is so pleased with her kindness that he Has blessed her with beauty

    • @isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva
      @isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva 4 года назад +16

      ¿?

    • @ameliasingleton1166
      @ameliasingleton1166 4 года назад +42

      @Julie W. I just googled Barbie and ken killers and they are not beautiful 😂😂😂 typical hillbilly couple nothing special.

    • @good-tn9sr
      @good-tn9sr 4 года назад +43

      Julie W. Just cause your blessed with beauty doesn’t mean that you will always do good.

    • @HeavyMetalKittenx
      @HeavyMetalKittenx 4 года назад +39

      God doesn’t determine looks. Genetics do.

    • @deborahlpayton1775
      @deborahlpayton1775 4 года назад +3

      Amen, I agree.

  • @reign3479
    @reign3479 2 года назад +28

    Yes this officer is what we need. He seen someone in help and offered everything he could to ensure they’d be safe their child included. He’s an amazing man and I hope his family has many more blessings to come.

  • @stephaniekalmus9327
    @stephaniekalmus9327 Год назад +13

    As a Recovering addict This touched my heart so much.

  • @penguinz3438
    @penguinz3438 3 года назад +1376

    I know everyone’s praising the guy and he deserves it. But like, can we talk about his wife? Like she is such an Angel, to just accept that like “okay” without even thinking about it. Like their relationship is amazing and she obviously trusts him a lot and she’s just cute in general in appearance and in soul. They are such a blessed couple.

    • @celestejacobs7386
      @celestejacobs7386 2 года назад +27

      She is soooo sweet 🥰. He's so lucky.

    • @mouadhaloui8114
      @mouadhaloui8114 2 года назад +13

      so true, they're both literal angels.

    • @sherylrichards5858
      @sherylrichards5858 2 года назад +5

      Such a wonderful couple.

    • @Baybieangel209
      @Baybieangel209 2 года назад +8

      Thats what happy couples do. My sister in law came out of class (college) and her mom called and told her a friend's friend is losing her child due to drugs and if she want to adopt the baby and without hesitation she said "yes". She later went home told her husband they are adopting and he says "okay" lol. After the adoption of baby girl, two years after to be exact, the baby has a sibling, baby boy.... now adopted by my brother and sister in law. Its stressful but worth it. My niece and nephew are so adorable and amazing ❤.

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 2 года назад +4

      @@Baybieangel209 There's a huge difference between asking and springing it on her. Welcoming a new baby is a big responsibility, and "happy couples" need to include each other in major life-changing decisions like this. Even if he knows his wife and knows that she'd be willing to adopt, he should have at least checked with her out of respect (and to hear any concerns) before making the offer, instead of agreeing to adopt and then TELLING her that he'd made the decision on behalf of both of them. I understand that in the moment he was likely very emotional and might not have thought that much, but making major decisions without your spouse's input not something that we should be glorifying by any means.

  • @zackdv7223
    @zackdv7223 3 года назад +1817

    "When somebody asks for help, the person who hears is responsible." This phrase is so beautiful.

    • @shypandapanda2046
      @shypandapanda2046 3 года назад +12

      Exactly. Opened up my eyes.

    • @MrPeteDane
      @MrPeteDane 3 года назад +10

      Its beautiful ye. But also not really true :) you cant be responsible for other peoples bad decisions. You can choose to Help if you can, of course

    • @sheddit6533
      @sheddit6533 3 года назад +1

      Wth i read that at the same time 👌👌👌

    • @carta8399
      @carta8399 3 года назад +2

      @@MrPeteDane But it is still true though, the one who hears someone crying for help is responsible, then has to make a decision wether to help or turn to the other side, the point is that he/she heard and can't unhear, whatever choice he/she makes

    • @poopoohead4455
      @poopoohead4455 3 года назад

      @@MrPeteDane dont have to be so literal its obvious what he meant

  • @potter3439
    @potter3439 2 года назад +11

    For the couple that gave birth to Hope, I pray that they can live a meaningful life and just shine and grow and still be part of Hope’s life as well.

  • @sdprescott324
    @sdprescott324 Год назад +4

    This couple with servant hearts just showed the world what it means to be the hands and feet of Jesus ! No judgment, sacrificial love, and mercy for those in need. Blessings from the Lord to your family !!!

  • @myaseizerr
    @myaseizerr 4 года назад +1460

    His wife is everything I want to be, she’s hopeful and positive, she took what any person would’ve panicked about or made worse, positive.
    I know magic isn’t real but holy hell shes magic

    • @leanneadams2549
      @leanneadams2549 4 года назад +11

      Yes, I wish I could be more like her!!!

    • @mannyescuela3511
      @mannyescuela3511 4 года назад +2

      Magic is real wtf how'd I conjure a demon in my room just yesterday if it wasn't?

    • @curiousgeorge6921
      @curiousgeorge6921 4 года назад +4

      @@leanneadams2549 you can't teach that.. it's either you are or you're not... they're beautiful people

    • @user-hh8tc1mp1e
      @user-hh8tc1mp1e 4 года назад +1

      Stupid cop, the just took the child from his mom, why didn't they help the woman from addiction drugs, and give her money and job, stupid government bad fake people steal the child poor

    • @exorcistunknown2067
      @exorcistunknown2067 4 года назад +3

      @@user-hh8tc1mp1e uh oh. Someone who was dropped on their head a lot as a baby and who's dumb as fuck. Crazy.

  • @zperk00
    @zperk00 3 года назад +1843

    All this hate on cops lately, this goes to show there are genuinely good people behind that badge and we shouldn't judge an entire force.

    • @Anal_Flute
      @Anal_Flute 3 года назад +44

      Facts

    • @hizee5515
      @hizee5515 3 года назад +114

      Exactly but this bad ones still have to be held accountable, what an amazing world we'd live in if we only had cops like this

    • @jessicathomas5954
      @jessicathomas5954 3 года назад +15

      Facts this man is a great example of what we need

    • @soup8451
      @soup8451 3 года назад +32

      Hi zee We do have cops like this. They’re just hardly recognized.

    • @Dwade32
      @Dwade32 3 года назад +42

      @@hizee5515 The world would be even more amazing if no citizens broke laws and committed crimes.

  • @Tyler-hk4wo
    @Tyler-hk4wo 2 года назад +6

    Geez that's a lot of children. I'd lose my mind. Big ups to them. They're stronger people than me.

    • @starshowers8312
      @starshowers8312 2 года назад

      I have 10! Half are grown now and I lost my mind years ago, but my husband lost his with me so I have wonderful company. I call it beautiful chaos

  • @sarahprice1375
    @sarahprice1375 Год назад +11

    This couple are amazing for helping the birth parents too.
    Noone plans to be an addict.
    I hope my son pulls thru it too.
    I have the most admiration for them

  • @AbiNomac
    @AbiNomac 3 года назад +1088

    This officer wanted to be a missionary. This man has Christ in his heart

    • @maryoleary2037
      @maryoleary2037 3 года назад +33

      He is a missionary...just doing it on home soil.

    • @AbiNomac
      @AbiNomac 3 года назад +8

      Mary O'Leary - Thats a very good point

    • @stephaniewood1547
      @stephaniewood1547 3 года назад +7

      He sure does...that’s what love looks like!

    • @shireenhendricks2194
      @shireenhendricks2194 3 года назад +2

      Agree

    • @ManpreetKaur-xe9jh
      @ManpreetKaur-xe9jh 3 года назад +11

      U don't have to be religious or believe in one religion as Hindu sikh Muslim and Christian believe earth made by their own God this way there should be four earth but earth is one and God is in actions which this police person have
      Look inside yourself r u really a gud person then God is in you that's all

  • @ashleyprince-miles2833
    @ashleyprince-miles2833 4 года назад +1320

    This was on the Dr.Phil show she got help and is now clean!! This officer is a blessing 🙏🙏

    • @_clownass_bruhhh
      @_clownass_bruhhh 4 года назад +20

      Do you know what episode? I'd like to watch it.

    • @ashleyprince-miles2833
      @ashleyprince-miles2833 4 года назад +8

      I don't know the link... This was awhile ago I saw it... I looked on here for it and couldn't find it so it may have been on the dr.phil FB page..

    • @roxanneh6016
      @roxanneh6016 4 года назад +2

      I was wondering what happened to her. Thanks for sharing.

    • @LM-eu8yr
      @LM-eu8yr 4 года назад +7

      I hope the couple does the right thing & gives the baby back to her mother. Adoption causes absolute trauma. The Primal Wound isn't just a book.

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl 4 года назад +1

      Great to hear. Thank you for sharing the information.

  • @MA-be6kd
    @MA-be6kd 3 года назад +51

    I just realized that here older siblings are not going to be able to prank her “you were adopted and mom and dad found you on the side of the road”

  • @saramarshall2957
    @saramarshall2957 2 года назад +25

    What great people. And Crystal, no matter her struggles is so wonderful too. She loved that baby enough to make sure that her baby ended up safe

  • @janetskene3413
    @janetskene3413 4 года назад +1355

    Opioid addiction is very real. We must stop judging others and help instead

    • @emoliver80
      @emoliver80 4 года назад +51

      @C H it's not always a choice. People are prescribed medicines by the doctor that they trust, and become addicted. Eventually the pills aren't enough and they move on to stronger things....from the streets. Nobody wakes up and says "today im going to become an addict and spend the rest of my life in misery." 🙄 Even for those who did choose to use opiates the first time, are they not deserving of help just because they made a bad choice? Have you never made a bad decision? The wrong decision? Trust me, it only takes 1 or 2 times of using heroin to become addicted to it. That quick, a person finds themselves trying to get more bc they literally feel like their body is going to shut down if they don't. All because of the one bad decision. Again, nobody wakes up dreaming of becoming an addict and living that lifestyle. I sure hope that you or someone you care about never has a bad day and makes that bad decision. The way things are going in the world today with addiction, it is *very* possible and *very* likely that addiction will hit close to home for you, and I hope no one turns their nose up at your family/friend and says "you shouldn't have chosen to abuse opiates." That would really suck. 😬🤷

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 4 года назад +22

      It's really, really, really easy to get addicted to pain pills.. been there, done that..

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 4 года назад +1

      D D And the western governments . The amount of illegal drugs on the streetsdon't get into western countries through mules!

    • @freakshow8252
      @freakshow8252 4 года назад +7

      When you have a baby in your stomach and continue to love your shitty life, you deserve to be told the truth of what you’re doing. If you wanna call it judgement, then you’re very weak

    • @TROLLDETECTIVE2
      @TROLLDETECTIVE2 4 года назад +2

      I grew up knowing not to touch hard drugs. Tough life, many hardships but still knew the rules of addiction. Person choice is what it is and I have seen the devastation and so many deaths and lives destroyed so STFU. DON'T TAKE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

  • @MechanicalMikesRoadsideRepair
    @MechanicalMikesRoadsideRepair 4 года назад +1941

    I’m not super religious and don’t ever usually say this but I hope god protects all these people and give them the best lives

    • @nurarich4945
      @nurarich4945 4 года назад +11

      Michael Lebert ameen

    • @thefakeslimshady8881
      @thefakeslimshady8881 4 года назад +26

      Michael Lebert I’m an atheist and I hope so

    • @moro1112
      @moro1112 4 года назад +35

      This man radiates love, I-can see God Working through him. He has a heart of gold! This man gives me hope for humanity .

    • @MangoLemonaideFresh
      @MangoLemonaideFresh 4 года назад +2

      @The Fake Slim Shady contradiction much lol

    • @malo_po_maloi_tako_taman9709
      @malo_po_maloi_tako_taman9709 4 года назад +1

      @@thefakeslimshady8881 so how are you an atheist, why are you an atheist?

  • @scottyfarras8655
    @scottyfarras8655 2 года назад +14

    I reckon God works in mysterious ways, that baby went from a potential horrible childhood to having a loving family with four brothers and sisters

  • @sireinamasleyyesqueenmorel1096
    @sireinamasleyyesqueenmorel1096 3 года назад +7

    This is really sad, over 4 years in recovery, I will tell you it isn't easy. She is doing her best and I will pray for her safety.

  • @Elena-xz7wj
    @Elena-xz7wj 4 года назад +779

    “so why did a 27 year old cop-“
    WHAT
    27
    WHAT

    • @ziamaysa4648
      @ziamaysa4648 4 года назад +43

      I know his so younge, good man.

    • @vianjelos
      @vianjelos 4 года назад +88

      He looks older than 27 I was taken aback when they said his age too...He looks at least 35. But also 4 kids by 27, he started young if the oldest was 4 he was 23 as a first time dad...you dont see many men now a days who are that young stick around let alone want even more that close together.

    • @christrout9902
      @christrout9902 4 года назад +33

      It's because he's balding.. if he shaved his head completely he would look 27

    • @GradyRho92
      @GradyRho92 4 года назад +19

      vianjelos he appears to be from a religious background. That’s probably a big factor

    • @walkingtalkingdread
      @walkingtalkingdread 4 года назад +21

      Yeah, he’s a very young man. It’s amazing that the wisdom and intelligence he has at this age is more than what people acquire in their lifetime. Great fella

  • @sad_vegan507
    @sad_vegan507 4 года назад +2428

    Heartbreaking. But this woman is clearly sick. She needs help beyond what any beat cop could do. And this cop is 1 and a million

    • @itsssnaeetv2239
      @itsssnaeetv2239 4 года назад +31

      Rachelle Fernandez she is better now it’s a sin to judge people also you should really think about what you said

    • @skuvet
      @skuvet 4 года назад +26

      Rachelle Fernandez, she’s been clean and sober and even visits with the family and Hope!

    • @alexisortizgil5446
      @alexisortizgil5446 4 года назад +15

      Gorgeous Eljahnae
      She isn’t “judging”. She is stating facts.

    • @mkobum2553
      @mkobum2553 4 года назад +23

      Rachelle Fernandez maybe you should be grateful for the cops instead of being a bitch

    • @itsssnaeetv2239
      @itsssnaeetv2239 4 года назад +2

      No Name she is judging

  • @georgecherucheril9947
    @georgecherucheril9947 2 года назад +9

    There is so much good and meaning in this story. In a dark world where charity is lacking, where babies are discarded like trash, where the addicted and down trodden are cast out, this policeman and his wife's actions shine light. The light draws us in and we remember what charity and love are all about. It plants a good seed and reflects the beauty of God. God bless this young officer and his wife. May God's light always shine down upon this wonderful family.

  • @papabear9481
    @papabear9481 Год назад +5

    I wish I had neighbors like this officer and his beautiful family. Just going to bed at night and waking up the next morning would be made brighter (knowing) I was in close proximity to true goodness.

  • @Belle_belle492
    @Belle_belle492 3 года назад +1594

    I adore the way he lights up when he talks about his wife saying “okay”. It shows that they are truly compassionate loving people ☺️ what a wonderful story.

    • @organicallyhannah
      @organicallyhannah 3 года назад +14

      They’re so in love

    • @Aaron-gt6xn
      @Aaron-gt6xn 3 года назад +3

      @@organicallyhannah some people never fine love. Let alone love like that

    • @zee-aaliyah
      @zee-aaliyah 2 года назад +4

      Yes. You can see his utter admiration for her. It was so beautiful that I rewound it

    • @egregiousqueef7781
      @egregiousqueef7781 2 года назад

      too bad they are completley outnumbered by a**holes and indifferent people (yes, there are good people; just, obviously look around you, not enough)

    • @YONCE8701
      @YONCE8701 2 года назад

      @@Aaron-gt6xn Yeahhh, the kind that some (well most tho they won't admit) can only hope & pray to find. At least I do.....always have. Like soulmates u knw; now not so much😅...tbh I lost faith in human beings . Though still love to see it😍

  • @sleepwalkerZZZ
    @sleepwalkerZZZ 3 года назад +430

    "I know my wife. I know she'll say, yes." ❤️

  • @TheCitizenKane1
    @TheCitizenKane1 2 года назад +29

    Someone should start a gofundme for this family

    • @usernamemykel
      @usernamemykel 2 года назад

      Looks like you're the perfect person for that, Elanor.

  • @erinbillington2405
    @erinbillington2405 3 года назад +18

    I love that he decided hope crystal was her name, he's including her birth mother in her name and his wife is as amazing as he is. You can see the love they have for this perfect little girl and each other. The world would be a better place with more people like you two.

  • @jackiewolfcin
    @jackiewolfcin 3 года назад +808

    Treat them like a medical patient and not a criminal, and this is the kind of thing that happens. This man did his job well.

    • @gothicMCRgirl
      @gothicMCRgirl 3 года назад +19

      Absolutely. The couple weren’t violent or trying to get away, they were just suffering, and this cop gave them what they truly needed at the moment: compassion. Not everything needs to be solved with a bullet, and I WISH that was the norm with cops instead of the exception.

    • @imshaunnurse
      @imshaunnurse 3 года назад

      @@gothicMCRgirl that's the norm for everyone except black people.

    • @glennkometscher7928
      @glennkometscher7928 3 года назад +1

      How many times are people going to repeat some body else's comments for likes???????🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄

    • @imshaunnurse
      @imshaunnurse 3 года назад +1

      @@glennkometscher7928 paid bots. Like lots of these comments.sometimes I feel like all of this internet is s simulation and we really aren't talking to others. Except in direct interactions we purposely seek and can validate in reality. Like these comments are just a giant AI. Occasionally I get a reply to either challenge or support my idea. Even if I'm just being facetious I still get replies costed in genuine concern.

    • @annamallen90
      @annamallen90 3 года назад

      @Alec Jeffs It is more like a judgement call. Not everyone is the same.

  • @annieneil1897
    @annieneil1897 3 года назад +767

    To tell your wife that you’re adopting just say, “honey I’m pregnant” 🤣

  • @ruslanbutsenko470
    @ruslanbutsenko470 2 года назад +14

    Such a beautiful baby. I’m happy the officer came just in time to rescue her.

  • @FV-ic7ov
    @FV-ic7ov 6 месяцев назад +2

    As a 53 year old woman that is unable to have children. Nor have I ever had the privilege to be called mom or hold a child I cried watching this. They make adopting so difficult it spins your head around.
    So glad this child is in good hands and not living in a bad situation.

  • @WhitneyDahlin
    @WhitneyDahlin 4 года назад +2396

    I wish they would do an update now and let us see where the baby and the parents and the birth parents are at now!

    • @marthanunez6470
      @marthanunez6470 4 года назад +51

      Kepping up with hope the new E! Series

    • @sofialblake
      @sofialblake 4 года назад +8

      Just stop

    • @vivenomada
      @vivenomada 4 года назад +142

      The mother is clean now edition.cnn.com/2018/07/06/health/police-officer-adopts-baby-addicted-mom-update/index.html

    • @NegleLir
      @NegleLir 4 года назад +62

      They dont seem like they want this attention, so I doubt that will ever happen. But the child has problems for sure! ALL heroin babies wil have problems forever. So sad!!

    • @starman8853
      @starman8853 4 года назад +93

      psyopus syzygy why? They (at least the mother) were nice people and truly cared about the baby having a good life, they’ve also been off drugs m so...

  • @Val-bp2zs
    @Val-bp2zs 4 года назад +557

    I love the fact his wife was just like “Ok, let’s do it”

  • @melaniemarceaux9580
    @melaniemarceaux9580 Год назад +4

    Can we talk about how adorable his wife is with the ok without hesitation. I love this couple

  • @indira018
    @indira018 2 года назад +27

    Balling my eyes, they deserved that standing ovation 👏🏽 and that family deserves just everything amazing that life has to offer for being selfless and kind hearted people. I hope Hope can grow up to be a healthy and amazing person like the people who adopted her. Wishing this family all the best.

  • @eianpadilla9636
    @eianpadilla9636 4 года назад +864

    When he talked about his wife, he was smiling like crazy and idk that just made me go “🤬💕❤️💗💖💗💗💕💕❤️💗💗❤️❤️💕💕❤️💗💖💖😌”

    • @tatianaapotter9768
      @tatianaapotter9768 4 года назад +50

      This dude seriously loves his wife to death. It’s so cute 🥺

    • @HeavyMetalKittenx
      @HeavyMetalKittenx 4 года назад +15

      I wish someone loved me like that 😒

    • @autumnautumn9408
      @autumnautumn9408 4 года назад +4

      @@HeavyMetalKittenx no,no people love you.you just single

    • @learnitdoitearnit9764
      @learnitdoitearnit9764 4 года назад +10

      It's because their both selfless, pretty rare these days to have people who truly are..
      Everybody, wants to *be* loved like that, but rarely wants to love someone els like that.(cause of greed, vanity, pride and jealously)

    • @StarLight-sy4wn
      @StarLight-sy4wn 4 года назад +3

      Couple sent from heaven 🙏💞💗💕

  • @vicvalente6721
    @vicvalente6721 3 года назад +805

    I was not surprised to hear this at all when I heard it, I went to school with Ryan for Aviation maintenance, and even at his young age then he deeply impressed me and we became good friends. He is one of the finest people I have ever met

    • @alexw9923
      @alexw9923 3 года назад +39

      Wow thankyou for being his friend. What a good man he's become.

    • @irishdeetalks
      @irishdeetalks 3 года назад +13

      What an honour to know him 💜🙏

    • @brendamiller6334
      @brendamiller6334 3 года назад +14

      Where was he when i was looking to get married?😉 A good man is VERY hard to find!!

    • @GetchaGwopUp
      @GetchaGwopUp 3 года назад

      cap

    • @peppatheoof
      @peppatheoof 3 года назад +1

      @Collin Stafford 😂

  • @marysstilllearning5803
    @marysstilllearning5803 Год назад +2

    This is what a REAL MAN looks like. I hope. That Hope and family are well and the bio parents are still clean healthy and thriving

  • @meanhe8702
    @meanhe8702 4 месяца назад +3

    We adopted our youngest son, whose birth mother was an addict. If you’re looking to adopt, don’t be afraid to take on one of these children, they may need a little extra help, but they will bring you joy. All of our children bring us happiness but he is the joy of our family, he’s the youngest, and he is surrounded and protected by all of us. He is successful and thriving, he doesn’t have any issues as far as behavior or substance abuse attraction. He’s actually a very humble, kind and funny guy, we love him so much.

  • @prashaanthi
    @prashaanthi 3 года назад +826

    "Everyone is lost to a certain point, and everyone is redeemable" words of wisdom 🙏 His wife is an angel

  • @IsabelleSayed
    @IsabelleSayed 4 года назад +494

    His wife has to be one of the most kind hearted people, she’s amazing

  • @sixstringblues06
    @sixstringblues06 3 года назад +8

    "Everyone is redeemable , we believe people are lost to a certain point but everyone is redeemable"

  • @elainemanley8074
    @elainemanley8074 2 года назад +11

    Thank God for the compassion shown towards this precious baby!!! God Bless them all!!!

  • @willwilson9172
    @willwilson9172 4 года назад +469

    I was adopted and I don’t remember my parents.. but I was blessed with a family that loves me like their own and this made me cry this is amazing

  • @simplisticlinguistics7165
    @simplisticlinguistics7165 4 года назад +1105

    People just assume that all drug addicts and people like her are just bad but she’s just a lost souls who can’t get off these horrible chemicals, so if you see someone like this just know that they need help not punishment

    • @Drewdwn2
      @Drewdwn2 4 года назад +7

      its illegal for a reason

    • @ok-kv3ml
      @ok-kv3ml 4 года назад +16

      NewtslayerProductions yeah. Look at RDJ! He used to be an addict, and with the help of his amazing wife he turned his life around and did an amazing job as iron man. :)

    • @hellopeople1748
      @hellopeople1748 4 года назад +4

      Kate A. Even obama did drugs!

    • @marthabanks677
      @marthabanks677 4 года назад +3

      Anisa Farah Obama smoked weed, he didn’t do heroine and meth . Lmao

    • @hellopeople1748
      @hellopeople1748 4 года назад +1

      Martha Banks When I was a teenager I used drugs, I drank, I pretty much tried whatever was out there.” These are his exact words and thats what i stated i dont really know what but he said he did drugs lfmao get your facts straight

  • @brendahutcherson42
    @brendahutcherson42 Год назад +9

    What a Blessing for her Baby! This is what Humanity Looks Like.

  • @bloodynuke1175
    @bloodynuke1175 8 месяцев назад +1

    By now the child should be 4 years old...i hope the family is doing great and healthy

  • @lovebugg9898
    @lovebugg9898 4 года назад +1229

    I live in Albuquerque and I did not hear about this. It's sad that our media is full of politics and crime. Thank you for shedding some light on our city. We need this.

    • @zoeanjoli9037
      @zoeanjoli9037 4 года назад +7

      Darian Vigil Agreed.

    • @alessandramendoza2874
      @alessandramendoza2874 4 года назад +2

      We really do were having a really hard time here in abq

    • @miac2382
      @miac2382 4 года назад +4

      Some people say they are just one couple but they can inspire others to help others and here in America too we got plenty of people in need with problems that maybe we could help

    • @shawndravonhatten206
      @shawndravonhatten206 4 года назад

      @@zoeanjoli9037 aqa

    • @4pfCorps
      @4pfCorps 4 года назад

      You really think that its everyone business? What if you're dope head with this same situation? You want the whole city to know? Doubt it. Highly doubt it.

  • @Alienpromqueen
    @Alienpromqueen 4 года назад +1380

    Damn I wish my birth mother was like this, kept shooting up with me, I was born addicted and I was taken away by the state at 6 months. My birth mother still doesn’t realize that you can’t be an addict and a mother. 21 years later she’s back in jail doing the same thing.

    • @thepolitea1545
      @thepolitea1545 4 года назад +84

      Sarah Hudson I'm sorry to hear that. Looks like you turned out splendidly!

    • @youngbootychips6945
      @youngbootychips6945 4 года назад +35

      Sarah Hudson I am so sorry to hear that but You turned out amazing

    • @stormstorm7396
      @stormstorm7396 4 года назад +40

      You are drop. Dead pretty we share the same story remember we are survivors🙏🙏🙏🙏 stay strong

    • @keithannjoachim6781
      @keithannjoachim6781 4 года назад +12

      So sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine a world without my mom. God bless you!!!

    • @skylaslater8291
      @skylaslater8291 4 года назад +12

      Same here I was born addicted and my mom is back in jail

  • @beckymesterhazi4624
    @beckymesterhazi4624 Год назад +6

    Wow he made me cry! When someone asks for help, The person who hears is responsible. What an amazing man! I hope my son turns out like this amazing man xx

    • @papabear9481
      @papabear9481 Год назад

      Learned behavior begins in the home. I'm sure you are a good person and will teach your son the right way. God Bless you and yours.

  • @margaretgallegos7566
    @margaretgallegos7566 2 года назад +13

    I can’t stop crying.it’s wonderful what you and your wife did for this baby😊

  • @ZombieWolfe
    @ZombieWolfe 4 года назад +644

    Look guys listen I didn't cry, water was just coming out of my eyes.

    • @amalzuhair4495
      @amalzuhair4495 4 года назад +8

      Senpai I cried there’s no shame in it

    • @keepingupwithaj4439
      @keepingupwithaj4439 4 года назад +3

      Me too water coming out my eyes like crazy 😝

    • @ema5793
      @ema5793 4 года назад +5

      me neither, my eyes were just sweating

    • @BeautifulPerception
      @BeautifulPerception 4 года назад +5

      I know! Me too. Someone call a plumber there's a leaking issue!!! 😱😭

    • @-ShotoTodoroki.
      @-ShotoTodoroki. 4 года назад +8

      Those onion cutting ninjas 😢😢😢

  • @lolitagenocide644
    @lolitagenocide644 3 года назад +410

    This is what "Protect and Serve" means. We need more cops like this...especially now.

    • @uFCapacitor
      @uFCapacitor 3 года назад +9

      We NeED moRe CoPs LiKe ThiSS!!! You're pathetic. One bad cop out of how many? Gee, I wish there was a word for when someone generalizes a group of many based on the actions of one.... Hmmm

    • @mosya1409
      @mosya1409 3 года назад +4

      @@uFCapacitor Except they aren't. They are simply saying that we need good cops, since some (Keep in mind, some, not all), are corrupt humans who abuse of their power.

    • @demonNthesn0w
      @demonNthesn0w 3 года назад

      Outgoing Shyguy well every race experience that buddy.

    • @deannekliene2673
      @deannekliene2673 3 года назад

      Yes...he definitly protected baby Hope and served by helping her mother to better herself by giving her worth and confidence...

    • @esthergaby4913
      @esthergaby4913 3 года назад

      More ppl like these

  • @tonib.3310
    @tonib.3310 Год назад +3

    Put in the right place at the right time,saving three lives.Absolutely beautiful.

  • @hughesy1452
    @hughesy1452 3 года назад +2

    This is type of videos that should be going around not all the bs that's taking over God bless u dude