5 Things Every Married Couple MUST Hear - With Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @mukc6496
    @mukc6496 Год назад +29

    My wife and I celebrated 5years of marriage this year. This is fire 🔥🙏🏾 thank you!

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips5576 21 день назад +2

    Best advice ever! Thank you. I need to find our family dictionary and have us cut the word divorce out of it. I'm in it until the end

  • @Secrets2shay
    @Secrets2shay 4 месяца назад +7

    Saying I love u in the home om a regular basis is important

  • @antonioreed9313
    @antonioreed9313 Месяц назад +1

    I like how even tho you all are talking to the people it seems like you all are having a conversation with each other with the eye contact and the level respect in you alls voices

  • @Khanyisile3
    @Khanyisile3 Год назад +12

    This is so good even for singles! I just love your wisdom, all glory to God 🎉 ♥

  • @katrinadodd2315
    @katrinadodd2315 Год назад +4

    " You can be boyfriend and girlfriend and the devil will leave you alone." This is so true. Everything was peaches and cream until my husband, and I said I do after that; all hell broke loose.

  • @anp0731
    @anp0731 Год назад +12

    The dishes though. Idk if I can ever get to that place Tabatha. I end up doing them, but I am furious and irritated while doing so. Everyone knows their responsibilities. In order for house to function in sanity, everyone must do their part.

    • @lesliecastro4916
      @lesliecastro4916 10 месяцев назад

      Try your best. Stress is not your friend it causes health issues.

  • @resmith44321
    @resmith44321 Год назад +15

    I am now on the 2nd podcast and you both are amazing. I've been married for 19 years and listening to your podcast it really gives a different prospective on things. I really want to stop and listen with my husband then I thought it would really be nice if we listened on our own then come together and discuss it. Thank you both. May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤

  • @blackcure8744
    @blackcure8744 Год назад +2

    wow, I struggle just like Tabatha with worrying too much but when she mentioned what God revealed to her by saying Focus on what is important right now. That just spoke to me to let my worries go because what I have right now is what I need and I'm alright. Amazing show guys, thank you so much.

  • @AllenADlaminiTV
    @AllenADlaminiTV 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you guys, I enjoy how you navigate this ministry of marriage. And I'm inspired because I also sense God incorporate marriage ministry into my calling.
    Thank you guys 🙏🏻

  • @hopeshakke9772
    @hopeshakke9772 Год назад +9

    Wow! I have followed you on IG for a while and love how you relate. I love your calmness and simplicity. This is my first video of you and I love it. I love your depth in the Word of God and how that's what guides your marriage. I love your authenticity. I am here for it all and will share and share. Thank you and blessings to you Ken and Tabatha.

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess Год назад +1

    I hear his wife so clearly. She is sharing her truth in such a kind and loving way!

  • @tammyspeakliferadioministr2332
    @tammyspeakliferadioministr2332 Год назад +1

    Tabitha, like you I grew up in the projects, Brooklyn, NY where I developed grit and perseverance. In my adulthood I expect difficulty but with Christ Jesus I can overcome this world.

  • @alessiajoy2906
    @alessiajoy2906 10 месяцев назад +3

    I love Tabatha's maturity and her soft voice when she may disagree with something's that's said.

  • @2008Tamez
    @2008Tamez 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love that you reference that verse in Nehemiah. What a wonderful principle to use... fight and build at the same time. Love y'alls podcast!

  • @annettelyles975
    @annettelyles975 Год назад +3

    I am single at the moment. You both have been a blessing. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @stephaniereeves7148
    @stephaniereeves7148 Год назад +1

    This was surely good information. I’m not Married yet but I’m looking forward to it. When God sends my husband, I will apply some of this good information to carry when our finally get married.😊

  • @awuraaspeaks
    @awuraaspeaks 5 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

  • @Ekerrisa
    @Ekerrisa 3 месяца назад

    My husband and I are celebrating 5 years this year! My husband is younger than me. I enjoyed yall talking about your ages!

  • @terrelladams2905
    @terrelladams2905 2 месяца назад

    I'm glad that they got over those hurdles,I've been married two years and mines is a over at this point I tried my best to fight for it 😢

  • @awuraaspeaks
    @awuraaspeaks 5 месяцев назад +1

    Seriously you guys are amazing! Where have been not seeing you guys.. its been soooo good guys love you too ❤❤

  • @RhemaVisions
    @RhemaVisions 8 дней назад

    Please pray for me and my Wife we need to be discipled. We've been Married for 2 years and we need help Jesus!🙏🙏🙏

  • @godisgoodjoann
    @godisgoodjoann Год назад +3

    Really enjoy your video's
    Your honest
    Your both good-looking
    Your lovingly kind to each other
    Pray for n me n my Husband Ken...I can't wait to let my husband see this...

  • @bridgettlouis9338
    @bridgettlouis9338 4 месяца назад

    I just love you guys. What a blessing you guys are to the body of Christ!

  • @yashicacarr4668
    @yashicacarr4668 Год назад +1

    This episode blessed me so much! May God continue to keep you and your family! Praying for the blood of Jesus covering you all! I thank God I found your channel. Keep letting the Lord use you both. The biblical wisdom you all are giving is better than gold.❤

  • @erinohnmeiss200
    @erinohnmeiss200 Год назад +1

    My husband and I celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary May 12th, this was amazing to listen to, VERY informative and inspiring, marriage is not easy, it is work, and so worth it though!!! Thank you for sharing, I just started following you guys a week ago and I’m really enjoying everything you share! God Bless!!

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot to us! So glad you are enjoying what we are putting out

  • @nesha8957
    @nesha8957 Месяц назад

    I needed this!!!! This was perfect I appreciate you’ll

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913 7 месяцев назад

    Listening From Ghana. I am a fun and I am Learning a lot from you guys. I listen to you when I am at work, home, bathingroom ect

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Год назад +1

    Thank you for being such a nice, balanced and loving couple. You seem to really fit

  • @megan.alexis
    @megan.alexis 7 месяцев назад

    Been binging these episodes. 😍 I just love Pastor Ken and Tab and look forward to your words of wisdom 🤍 thank you !!!

  • @meshiawashington5852
    @meshiawashington5852 8 месяцев назад

    I truly enjoyed this! This will not be my last watch.❤

  • @watchwhatyaeattv
    @watchwhatyaeattv 8 месяцев назад

    Great couple , love this channel . Starting a channel as well with my wife and this is the motivation needed. God is good!!!!

  • @phriscabless3100
    @phriscabless3100 7 месяцев назад

    Wow. I just discovered this beautiful couple and I love then already. Thanks a lot. I've been blessed

  • @denisa.Y
    @denisa.Y 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was really good. Hubby and I married 8 years in June and difficult is an understatement 😅

    • @denisa.Y
      @denisa.Y 5 месяцев назад

      @TaifuXanGaming I see you’ve commented a lot of negative stuff on this video. Seems like you’re trolling 🤷🏾‍♀️ I hope everything you speak returns to you 100 fold.

  • @DrVanessaBrooks
    @DrVanessaBrooks Год назад +1

    Not just you. It’s a woman and personality thing for sure. It’s not easy. Thinking of the things on your plate and then the unexpected dirty dishes or stuff lying on the floor. So true. Yes… we don’t mean to put the hubby in category as kids but see how it added to the list of dishes or stuff on the floor. Can be a challenge to keep in perspective and not trip

  • @doneidasimpson
    @doneidasimpson Год назад +1

    This was such a blessing to listen to.. thanks for sharing and may God bless you both🙏🏾

  • @magicmya
    @magicmya Год назад

    Great content. Thank you so much for sharing your marriage advice! Ken, it’s so funny how you always bring up the first 2 years of difficulty! You’re both amazing :)

  • @carola.richards9405
    @carola.richards9405 Год назад +1

    I just discovered you two today and am already so very appreciative of your honesty and transparency. I look forward to viewing your other videos. Thank you! ❤🔥🔥🔥♥️

  • @rumbichinhara2774
    @rumbichinhara2774 Год назад

    I love you guys🤍🇿🇼
    I enjoyed catching up with all content you shared before I subscribed. My Spirit Man is well fed by your sharings.

  • @gloriaparham8489
    @gloriaparham8489 11 месяцев назад +9

    I don’t agree with the mother just going on and doing the chores. I believe the husband should have a family meeting and take control of that scenario informing the house even himself that mom is not the maid we should all pitch in and do including husband should enforce it, because if she is doing all the chores that other family member should be doing now she’s turned into a maid, get burned out, and that doesn’t help other family members in the household to learn responsibility and being considerate of how the other family members mom or dad feel

    • @latonyaharris7708
      @latonyaharris7708 5 месяцев назад +1

      I agree and also want to add that when the wife/mom is stress and get sick then people wonder why. There should be expectations because in the world with the kids work and at the husband job, there will be expectations. Most times the spouse & kids will do things for others but not at home.

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington3288 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing 👏👏🙌👊💯

  • @sivvysetowski3708
    @sivvysetowski3708 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this great content. ❤ God bless you guys.

  • @ebony2413
    @ebony2413 Год назад

    Fantastic!!🙌🏾

  • @jstellato921able
    @jstellato921able Год назад

    Sooo good!! 👏🏼 Excellent relationship & marriage advice! Kudos to you both for all the valuable content you are sharing. ❤️

  • @SheletaWatts
    @SheletaWatts Год назад

    Thank you! This information is on time.

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Год назад

    4:10 on point

  • @12546382
    @12546382 10 месяцев назад

    enjoy listening and my birthday is 14 jan

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад +1

    1. Expect difficulty

  • @gracegrace9386
    @gracegrace9386 Год назад

    This is soooo great

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Год назад +4

    Opinions are like noses
    Everybody has one
    Doesn’t mean I want yours on my face😮

  • @searain1573
    @searain1573 2 месяца назад

    I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other.
    I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other. Most couples are too embarrassed to be naked around each other and have sex with each other.

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад +1

    Stop threatening leaving, divorce or separation

  • @rmechelle4230
    @rmechelle4230 Год назад +5

    I really enjoyed this video, and agree with most things, except for doing the dishes for the children. It teaches children to be irresponsible and to be disrespectful to the mother/wife in the home. I would have called a family meeting and explained that we are a “team”, and everyone has a part to play. The next time that your chores are undone, privileges are being pulled.

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess Год назад +1

      I agree It seems as though her true heart desire and need are being brushed over.

  • @valvanixza
    @valvanixza Год назад +1

    Pastor ken and mrs. tabitha referring to your comment about spouses that take 10 days away from spouse with friends, would you consider that spending 3-4 hours away from your spouse with friends, reasonable? Or 3-4 hours away with friends is the same has spending 10 days away from your spouse?

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Год назад

      Thank you for that question. If you’re going to spend time away 3-4 hours is very different from 10 days away. It takes 4 hours to play 18 holes of golf! And that’s healthy. 😀⛳️ It’s really whatever works for your marriage. 🙏🏽

  • @HerSpace1st
    @HerSpace1st Год назад

    Amen!!!!

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 9 месяцев назад

  • @vitoriaraposo7859
    @vitoriaraposo7859 Год назад

    👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @LISSETROJAS-k1d
    @LISSETROJAS-k1d 4 месяца назад +2

    I think the nagging thing is a woman thing... Women multi- task so much and when things are not done then it puts more on their shoulders/plates.

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    4. Stay Flexible

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    5. Divorce is not an option

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    2. Don’t over romanticize marriage

  • @maconmattersliveconversati5127

    😮

  • @allisonhinds8384
    @allisonhinds8384 Год назад

    So did you guys not talk and talk and talk before getting married. So dealing with your depression should have been dealt with it then.