5 Things Every Married Couple MUST Hear - With Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Опубликовано: 22 фев 2023
  • After being married for 23 years we have great advice up our sleeve. If you are married, planning to get married, or still praying to God for a spouse this episode is for you.
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Комментарии • 72

  • @mukc6496
    @mukc6496 Год назад +24

    My wife and I celebrated 5years of marriage this year. This is fire 🔥🙏🏾 thank you!

  • @alessiajoy2906
    @alessiajoy2906 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love Tabatha's maturity and her soft voice when she may disagree with something's that's said.

  • @resmith44321
    @resmith44321 Год назад +13

    I am now on the 2nd podcast and you both are amazing. I've been married for 19 years and listening to your podcast it really gives a different prospective on things. I really want to stop and listen with my husband then I thought it would really be nice if we listened on our own then come together and discuss it. Thank you both. May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤

  • @awuraaspeaks
    @awuraaspeaks 6 дней назад

    I absolutely LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

  • @ebony2413
    @ebony2413 11 месяцев назад

    Fantastic!!🙌🏾

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington3288 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing 👏👏🙌👊💯

  • @gracegrace9386
    @gracegrace9386 10 месяцев назад

    This is soooo great

  • @Khanyisile3
    @Khanyisile3 11 месяцев назад +9

    This is so good even for singles! I just love your wisdom, all glory to God 🎉 ♥

  • @doneidasimpson-simon9554
    @doneidasimpson-simon9554 Год назад

    This was such a blessing to listen to.. thanks for sharing and may God bless you both🙏🏾

  • @rumbichinhara2774
    @rumbichinhara2774 10 месяцев назад

    I love you guys🤍🇿🇼
    I enjoyed catching up with all content you shared before I subscribed. My Spirit Man is well fed by your sharings.

  • @Kiai808
    @Kiai808 10 месяцев назад

    Great content. Thank you so much for sharing your marriage advice! Ken, it’s so funny how you always bring up the first 2 years of difficulty! You’re both amazing :)

  • @jstellato921able
    @jstellato921able 11 месяцев назад

    Sooo good!! 👏🏼 Excellent relationship & marriage advice! Kudos to you both for all the valuable content you are sharing. ❤️

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Год назад

    Thank you for being such a nice, balanced and loving couple. You seem to really fit

  • @SheletaWatts
    @SheletaWatts Год назад

    Thank you! This information is on time.

  • @meshiawashington5852
    @meshiawashington5852 2 месяца назад

    I truly enjoyed this! This will not be my last watch.❤

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_Alexis 2 месяца назад

    Been binging these episodes. 😍 I just love Pastor Ken and Tab and look forward to your words of wisdom 🤍 thank you !!!

  • @sivvysetowski3708
    @sivvysetowski3708 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for this great content. ❤ God bless you guys.

  • @hopeshakke9772
    @hopeshakke9772 Год назад +9

    Wow! I have followed you on IG for a while and love how you relate. I love your calmness and simplicity. This is my first video of you and I love it. I love your depth in the Word of God and how that's what guides your marriage. I love your authenticity. I am here for it all and will share and share. Thank you and blessings to you Ken and Tabatha.

  • @watchwhatyaeattv
    @watchwhatyaeattv 3 месяца назад

    Great couple , love this channel . Starting a channel as well with my wife and this is the motivation needed. God is good!!!!

  • @2008Tamez
    @2008Tamez 4 месяца назад

    I love that you reference that verse in Nehemiah. What a wonderful principle to use... fight and build at the same time. Love y'alls podcast!

  • @blackcure8744
    @blackcure8744 9 месяцев назад +1

    wow, I struggle just like Tabatha with worrying too much but when she mentioned what God revealed to her by saying Focus on what is important right now. That just spoke to me to let my worries go because what I have right now is what I need and I'm alright. Amazing show guys, thank you so much.

  • @annettelyles975
    @annettelyles975 Год назад +3

    I am single at the moment. You both have been a blessing. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @phriscabless3100
    @phriscabless3100 Месяц назад

    Wow. I just discovered this beautiful couple and I love then already. Thanks a lot. I've been blessed

  • @awuraaspeaks
    @awuraaspeaks 6 дней назад

    Seriously you guys are amazing! Where have been not seeing you guys.. its been soooo good guys love you too ❤❤

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913 Месяц назад

    Listening From Ghana. I am a fun and I am Learning a lot from you guys. I listen to you when I am at work, home, bathingroom ect

  • @AllenADlaminiTV
    @AllenADlaminiTV 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you guys, I enjoy how you navigate this ministry of marriage. And I'm inspired because I also sense God incorporate marriage ministry into my calling.
    Thank you guys 🙏🏻

  • @stephaniereeves7148
    @stephaniereeves7148 8 месяцев назад

    This was surely good information. I’m not Married yet but I’m looking forward to it. When God sends my husband, I will apply some of this good information to carry when our finally get married.😊

  • @tammyspeakliferadioministr2332
    @tammyspeakliferadioministr2332 11 месяцев назад +1

    Tabitha, like you I grew up in the projects, Brooklyn, NY where I developed grit and perseverance. In my adulthood I expect difficulty but with Christ Jesus I can overcome this world.

  • @carola.richards9405
    @carola.richards9405 Год назад +1

    I just discovered you two today and am already so very appreciative of your honesty and transparency. I look forward to viewing your other videos. Thank you! ❤🔥🔥🔥♥️

  • @gloriaparham8489
    @gloriaparham8489 5 месяцев назад +5

    I don’t agree with the mother just going on and doing the chores. I believe the husband should have a family meeting and take control of that scenario informing the house even himself that mom is not the maid we should all pitch in and do including husband should enforce it, because if she is doing all the chores that other family member should be doing now she’s turned into a maid, get burned out, and that doesn’t help other family members in the household to learn responsibility and being considerate of how the other family members mom or dad feel

  • @yashicacarr4668
    @yashicacarr4668 Год назад +1

    This episode blessed me so much! May God continue to keep you and your family! Praying for the blood of Jesus covering you all! I thank God I found your channel. Keep letting the Lord use you both. The biblical wisdom you all are giving is better than gold.❤

  • @erinohnmeiss200
    @erinohnmeiss200 Год назад +1

    My husband and I celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary May 12th, this was amazing to listen to, VERY informative and inspiring, marriage is not easy, it is work, and so worth it though!!! Thank you for sharing, I just started following you guys a week ago and I’m really enjoying everything you share! God Bless!!

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot to us! So glad you are enjoying what we are putting out

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Год назад

    4:10 on point

  • @anp0731
    @anp0731 Год назад +8

    The dishes though. Idk if I can ever get to that place Tabatha. I end up doing them, but I am furious and irritated while doing so. Everyone knows their responsibilities. In order for house to function in sanity, everyone must do their part.

    • @lesliecastro4916
      @lesliecastro4916 5 месяцев назад

      Try your best. Stress is not your friend it causes health issues.

    • @TaifuXanGaming
      @TaifuXanGaming 13 часов назад

      @@lesliecastro4916 Have you considered plastic surgery?

  • @godisgoodjoann
    @godisgoodjoann Год назад +3

    Really enjoy your video's
    Your honest
    Your both good-looking
    Your lovingly kind to each other
    Pray for n me n my Husband Ken...I can't wait to let my husband see this...

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden4725 Год назад

    Amen!!!!

  • @12546382
    @12546382 4 месяца назад

    enjoy listening and my birthday is 14 jan

  • @DrVanessaBrooks
    @DrVanessaBrooks 10 месяцев назад +1

    Not just you. It’s a woman and personality thing for sure. It’s not easy. Thinking of the things on your plate and then the unexpected dirty dishes or stuff lying on the floor. So true. Yes… we don’t mean to put the hubby in category as kids but see how it added to the list of dishes or stuff on the floor. Can be a challenge to keep in perspective and not trip

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 3 месяца назад

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess 8 месяцев назад +1

    I hear his wife so clearly. She is sharing her truth in such a kind and loving way!

    • @TaifuXanGaming
      @TaifuXanGaming 13 часов назад

      @3DSuccess She’s just with him for the money. Plus he’ll get someone younger as she grows older. It won’t last.

  • @katrinadodd2315
    @katrinadodd2315 9 месяцев назад

    " You can be boyfriend and girlfriend and the devil will leave you alone." This is so true. Everything was peaches and cream until my husband, and I said I do after that; all hell broke loose.

  • @rmechelle4230
    @rmechelle4230 11 месяцев назад +5

    I really enjoyed this video, and agree with most things, except for doing the dishes for the children. It teaches children to be irresponsible and to be disrespectful to the mother/wife in the home. I would have called a family meeting and explained that we are a “team”, and everyone has a part to play. The next time that your chores are undone, privileges are being pulled.

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess 8 месяцев назад +1

      I agree It seems as though her true heart desire and need are being brushed over.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 11 месяцев назад +3

    Opinions are like noses
    Everybody has one
    Doesn’t mean I want yours on my face😮

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад +1

    1. Expect difficulty

  • @vitoriaraposo7859
    @vitoriaraposo7859 8 месяцев назад

    👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @denisa.Y
    @denisa.Y 2 месяца назад +1

    This was really good. Hubby and I married 8 years in June and difficult is an understatement 😅

    • @TaifuXanGaming
      @TaifuXanGaming 13 часов назад

      @denisa. Y As you get older, he’ll move on to someone younger.

    • @denisa.Y
      @denisa.Y 8 часов назад

      @@TaifuXanGaming I see you’ve commented a lot of negative stuff on this video. Seems like you’re trolling 🤷🏾‍♀️ I hope everything you speak returns to you 100 fold.

    • @TaifuXanGaming
      @TaifuXanGaming 8 часов назад

      @@denisa.Y Stating facts does not equate to trolling. Your husband will eventually look for someone who’s younger. You’ll see.

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    Stop threatening leaving, divorce or separation

  • @maconmattersliveconversati5127

    😮

  • @valvanixza
    @valvanixza Год назад +1

    Pastor ken and mrs. tabitha referring to your comment about spouses that take 10 days away from spouse with friends, would you consider that spending 3-4 hours away from your spouse with friends, reasonable? Or 3-4 hours away with friends is the same has spending 10 days away from your spouse?

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Год назад

      Thank you for that question. If you’re going to spend time away 3-4 hours is very different from 10 days away. It takes 4 hours to play 18 holes of golf! And that’s healthy. 😀⛳️ It’s really whatever works for your marriage. 🙏🏽

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    4. Stay Flexible

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    5. Divorce is not an option

  • @brandygates6583
    @brandygates6583 Год назад

    2. Don’t over romanticize marriage

  • @allisonhinds8384
    @allisonhinds8384 9 месяцев назад

    So did you guys not talk and talk and talk before getting married. So dealing with your depression should have been dealt with it then.