Girl you want a man who provides you with financial stability. A lot is revolved around him being responsible for just that. Prophesying can be your job as the queen of the household. ❤
I really admire how Ken and Tabatha communicate with each other. I like how he allows her a safe space to express her feelings and he seems to understand what she feels/communicates.
I like the fact that he said for him to function as a husband he had to have a relationship with God., that is powerful. Most husbands lack that attribute. A man of God.
I love this. My wife has brought self evaluation to our relationship which I had never experienced before and I love that we can see how we are doing through each others view. It's beautiful. We have grown a lot and continue to apply more to areas we lack in our relationship. Love it. Thank you for sharing your transparency with us.
I’m recently married, and my husband is the best. I couldn’t ask for a better husband. He works hard, and cares for me deeply. I can’t wait for our love to grow and see what it’s like in 20-50+ years😊
I love how they addressed many of the things some of us have observed on the outside 😂. Ken does come across as controlling at times, so it's encouraging to see him willing to "process" and admit his areas of opportunity.
I thought I was the only one with this thought. I value the gems they drop here. I believe Tabatha is very graceful, respectful and loving in how she deals with things Ken does/says that may be off putting and it gives me hope. Instead of lashing out , being argumentative or ‘snippy’ in her responses, she takes the high road and responds with love and wisdom. I know how tough that is dealing with a partner like that, so I commend her for being so loving and understanding no matter what. This is great to see. Thank y’all for sharing for with us ❤
I love the fact that they can have these constructive conversations and remain loving & respectful towards one another. Not everyone grows up seeing this, I find it beautiful 🥹❤
I am so glad I stumbled upon this. I was married for 21 years, and always dreamed of and tried to create this type of openness, dialogue, and communication. This is beautiful to see and gives me hope for future relationships.
honestly it’s from me not remembering what needs to be done, to her getting frustrated and always expect me to know everything. Then it becomes a big deal because kids are involved and it’s frustrating when I try to do my best it’s like never seen and I always get the blame I’m always wrong which is exhausting.
Hi I'm a man and have just a phew days ago stumbled into here. I like it a lot. And it's helping me already. I've told my wife about you two and she smiled. She's a real cutie she thinks you talk too fast but loves it lol. She's having a breast reduction tomorrow.
Self awareness is great but like faith without works is dead so is self awareness without change. We are all works in Christ so progress over profection!
You 2 are amazing. The security is so serious. I tell my husband this all the time. I've voiced to him how i dont feel secure, and if you all knew what i deal with, you would completely understand.
I have watched a few episodes now, and I love you guys! this was the best one hands down, at least regarding marriage! The first 15 minutes was a sheer display of humility, kindness, and oneness, while accepting each other's uniqueness and differences .You guys had a tough conversation and let us watch it. I don't know if y'all practiced this, I don't believe so, but what a vulnerable, transparent, beautiful moment between a couple who wants their marriage to win and our marriages to win too! The whole thing was wonderful! Thank you❤
Blessings Ken & Tabitha ❤ I watch you guys alot my husband starting to watch also , Thanks for your obedience to the Lord I believe GOD has called you guys to this 🙏🏾 Thanks again ❤
I enjoyed watching you two. Love the honesty and open conversation. In listening to this discussion regarding Tabatha saying that doing things your way could not be better simply because she is just a different person and it's hard sometimes. I am thinking just because his way might be harder and that you are different doesn’t factually mean it won't work or that is the only way but rather I understand it to mean the best way or method that will produce the best results of two or more options factoring different aspect like saving time, quality of tasks, efficiency, performance, taste, profit etc. It seems like Tabatha is an emotional thinker and processes and solves problems from a personal and emotional fulfillment level while the husband is facts and results-focused oriented. I like what you two are doing. May God continue to bless and guide you through this ministry.
have recommended the podcast to my friend and encouraged my husband to listen ...few episodes i have watched .at first when i got married taking care of my husband was really emphazsed ,to tell the truth i had no idea what that meant until i listen to the podcast Lord i learnt and understood the meaning behind take care of your husband for the past 4 months we have been married..thank you
Thank you so much for doing this podcast. I’ve sent this to my husband not to shame him but to encourage him and let him know that he is growing in the areas of loving me better.
Question? Do you study the person during the dating process. I don't want to misuse that word process. I couldn't think of another word. Thank you for listening
Great podcast. This information can help so many marriages and singles as well. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. The security part is so huge for a woman!
Y’all got a new subscriber..God 1st you got me and then you’ll are actually communicating, I’ve never seen two couples more transparent. This is edifying 💕. I’m blown away
I came across this prodcast last year, I have never been the same I have become feminine without even me knowing how, I believe my marriage will never fail as am preparing to be a wife, thank you so much may God continue to bless you. Learning and following from zambia❤❤
This is so good thanks to my daughter who got saved in your Church who invited me to Watch your Contents oh my goodness you are amazing this is my favorite thing to watch and trying to emulate your principles, thank you 🙏
Praying for you. May you continue to choose God first & your spouse. May God's angels be encamped all around you in every area of your lives & your children so that no hurt, harm, or danger will come near your dwelling. Thank you for being willing vessels in helping the Body of Christ.
Thank you. What stood out the most is that the way I want to receive love/love language does shift. I.e I may not want as much physical touch now after having kids because they are often climbing on me and wanting attention. ❤
THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. I’m single but this provides so much Wisdom and insight that I’m always seeking. Thank you for the love you both have for Jesus and for eachother, it is truly a beautiful kingdom marriage! This is what I want!! So grateful for you both! Really blessed. I also sent this to my parents because there marriage is so broken! Thank you for all that you do. I pray that our heavenly Father will continue to pour out his love upon you and use y’all to reach those who need Jesus to Revive there Life! In Jesus name AMEN!! Also speaking on wisdom and insight.. I am definitely one who struggles with making decisions and really acting on faith for taking next steps. Specifically trusting GOD in the unknown and really knowing where God is leading you. Wondering if you guys could talk about it?
Thank you for being obedient to the voice of GOD,This podcast has really helped me get some nuggets on marriage as I am getting married soon much love from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
Excellent podcast! I resonate so much with not only this particular podcast, but everything you share on relationships & marriage! Thank you for putting out such quality content. God Bless you both and keep them coming! 🤍🕊️✝️
Tabaka, you came to our church CALVARY CHURCH not so long ago. Your testimony was very touching and real. I’m very thankful for you your ministry as well as your husband. I have shared some with my husband. You guys are doing a great job we got continue and this journey so that we learn more, and be strong leaders with our families so that they could see Christ in us
Thank you, guys truly thank, you for these videos they help me so much! i do not have a lot of believers in my life so i look up to you guys as spiritual leaders.
I feel fear when I don't have security, because I am able to function on my own so if a husband is ''in the picture' he should play his part. I feel a sense of security with my husband as he never causes me to be jealous, However I feel afraid when he is unkind. I experience insecurity financially.
Tabatha, I would love to talk to you in private. Is there anyway I could write directly to you? No disrespect to Ken. Love him, but sometimes you just need a woman to woman conversation. Please let me know
He sounds like my husband is not affectionate, petty and egotistic and mean. I guess he has grown because he is listening to God. My husband needs to listen to God.
“Being a spiritual leader is more important than being a financial provider”-Ken 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“I don’t need you to tell me” 🚩 your attitude in not right in front God.
Girl you want a man who provides you with financial stability. A lot is revolved around him being responsible for just that. Prophesying can be your job as the queen of the household. ❤
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Shout Out all my single fellas prepping to build a family. You Got This King ‼️
His wife is really kind, loving and respectful.
I really admire how Ken and Tabatha communicate with each other. I like how he allows her a safe space to express her feelings and he seems to understand what she feels/communicates.
He's a good husband and humble. He sees room for growth in the relationship. Conscious and Awareness for God is always helpful
I like the fact that he said for him to function as a husband he had to have a relationship with God., that is powerful. Most husbands lack that attribute. A man of God.
I absolutely Tabatha and how she is so soft but yet so very strong! I love the way Tabatha looks at Ken!
Thank you for the healthy modeling as uncomfortable as it seemed for Ken. 💕 We need more of this safe vulnerability! Love y’all.
She is so graciously telling him the TRUTH! I hope that he receives it in love.
I love this. My wife has brought self evaluation to our relationship which I had never experienced before and I love that we can see how we are doing through each others view. It's beautiful. We have grown a lot and continue to apply more to areas we lack in our relationship. Love it. Thank you for sharing your transparency with us.
God first all the time
This podcast is going far🙌, God's hand is upon it❤. Let's share the channel with everyone 💞❤🎉
I’m recently married, and my husband is the best. I couldn’t ask for a better husband. He works hard, and cares for me deeply. I can’t wait for our love to grow and see what it’s like in 20-50+ years😊
Love to read this! Don't forget to always keep dating each other 🙏🏾
This is so good because Ken is open to hear his wife needs really listening. Men don't listen like this. Omg, this is sooo good.
Love this. I forwarded it to my husband and other married couples
Pride thinks everybody should do things the way they do it.
I love how they addressed many of the things some of us have observed on the outside 😂. Ken does come across as controlling at times, so it's encouraging to see him willing to "process" and admit his areas of opportunity.
Yes I wondered if I was looking too much into it. But Ken does seem controlling at times. But I do appreciate what the info they give us
I thought I was the only one with this thought. I value the gems they drop here. I believe Tabatha is very graceful, respectful and loving in how she deals with things Ken does/says that may be off putting and it gives me hope. Instead of lashing out , being argumentative or ‘snippy’ in her responses, she takes the high road and responds with love and wisdom. I know how tough that is dealing with a partner like that, so I commend her for being so loving and understanding no matter what. This is great to see.
Thank y’all for sharing for with us ❤
I love the fact that they can have these constructive conversations and remain loving & respectful towards one another. Not everyone grows up seeing this, I find it beautiful 🥹❤
Tabatha is fired up 😂❤❤
Pray for singles wanting and wanting to receive a spouse!
12:56 so honest ❤
I am so glad I stumbled upon this. I was married for 21 years, and always dreamed of and tried to create this type of openness, dialogue, and communication. This is beautiful to see and gives me hope for future relationships.
Lol she said I don’t like the way you think … he said I gotta process that 🤦🏾♂️😂
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Timestamp?
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I prayed that prayer Amen 🙏🙏
Amen! I love that I found you guys podcast as I am struggling currently and I listen to you guys every morning to pick me up and to believe in myself
We are glad you found us! What are one of the biggest takeaways you gotten so far?
honestly it’s from me not remembering what needs to be done, to her getting frustrated and always expect me to know everything. Then it becomes a big deal because kids are involved and it’s frustrating when I try to do my best it’s like never seen and I always get the blame I’m always wrong which is exhausting.
Yes, spiritual leader.. its a deal-breaker for me
Hi
I'm a man and have just a phew days ago stumbled into here. I like it a lot.
And it's helping me already.
I've told my wife about you two and she smiled. She's a real cutie she thinks you talk too fast but loves it lol.
She's having a breast reduction tomorrow.
Self awareness is great but like faith without works is dead so is self awareness without change. We are all works in Christ so progress over profection!
Our strengths can be our weaknesses when applied during the wrong time.
Love you guys and this message. Glad to call you guys my lead pastors.
I prayed the prayer! Thank you! ❤️
This podcast literally has blessed me. 😢
I prayed that prayer today
You 2 are amazing. The security is so serious. I tell my husband this all the time. I've voiced to him how i dont feel secure, and if you all knew what i deal with, you would completely understand.
When a husband is not affectionate it due to the fact they did not get affection as a child as well as they did not see it in home while growing up.
I have watched a few episodes now, and I love you guys! this was the best one hands down, at least regarding marriage! The first 15 minutes was a sheer display of humility, kindness, and oneness, while accepting each other's uniqueness and differences .You guys had a tough conversation and let us watch it. I don't know if y'all practiced this, I don't believe so, but what a vulnerable, transparent, beautiful moment between a couple who wants their marriage to win and our marriages to win too! The whole thing was wonderful! Thank you❤
Blessings Ken & Tabitha ❤
I watch you guys alot my husband starting to watch also , Thanks for your obedience to the Lord I believe GOD has called you guys to this 🙏🏾 Thanks again ❤
I miss you guys so much. Love you guys and thank you for everything you guys ❤️ have shown 🙏 me all these years later.
I love y’all honesty on this podcast. It’s so authentic and raw. And as a single man, I learned a lot of a gems.
incredle show ever.
When the Grace of God locates you , miracles happen. Amen
Amen so good 🙏 thank you ken and tabatha blessings
My highlight: the tongues… thank God for this podcast.
I really enjoyed this video lots of GODLY wisdom
LOVE THIS !!! Thank you for being so open and honest i needed this❤
I enjoyed watching you two. Love the honesty and open conversation. In listening to this discussion regarding Tabatha saying that doing things your way could not be better simply because she is just a different person and it's hard sometimes. I am thinking just because his way might be harder and that you are different doesn’t factually mean it won't work or that is the only way but rather I understand it to mean the best way or method that will produce the best results of two or more options factoring different aspect like saving time, quality of tasks, efficiency, performance, taste, profit etc. It seems like Tabatha is an emotional thinker and processes and solves problems from a personal and emotional fulfillment level while the husband is facts and results-focused oriented. I like what you two are doing. May God continue to bless and guide you through this ministry.
This has blessed me so mich.. I'm divorced but if God ever call me to marriage again.. I'm listening
have recommended the podcast to my friend and encouraged my husband to listen ...few episodes i have watched .at first when i got married taking care of my husband was really emphazsed ,to tell the truth i had no idea what that meant until i listen to the podcast Lord i learnt and understood the meaning behind take care of your husband for the past 4 months we have been married..thank you
Good podcast .I enjoy it. My husband is not spiritual but he is a good provider. Pray that he will give his life to God.
Hey..you guys have impacted my family life soon very much ...am grateful 🙏
My fiancé and I are reading the 5 love languages. It’s helping us love each other in our love language.
May the good Lord continue blessings u for us. we thank the holy spirit for the great job that he is enabling you to do. ❤u people.
My husband looks so appetizing when he worships in spirit and in truth . It's so beautiful 😍
Okayyy Tabatha 💪🏾 💖✨Not married but enjoyed this conversation, love listening to you guys
Thank you so much for doing this podcast. I’ve sent this to my husband not to shame him but to encourage him and let him know that he is growing in the areas of loving me better.
Omggg Ken STOPPP
🛑🛑🛑🛑😂😂😂🖐🏾🖐🏾 Talkin bout Baby ima need you not to shake da table n not be kickin me etc 😂😂😂😂🩷🩷😘😘
Question?
Do you study the person during the dating process. I don't want to misuse that word process. I couldn't think of another word. Thank you for listening
Great podcast. This information can help so many marriages and singles as well. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. The security part is so huge for a woman!
Y’all got a new subscriber..God 1st you got me and then you’ll are actually communicating, I’ve never seen two couples more transparent. This is edifying 💕. I’m blown away
I came across this prodcast last year, I have never been the same I have become feminine without even me knowing how, I believe my marriage will never fail as am preparing to be a wife, thank you so much may God continue to bless you. Learning and following from zambia❤❤
This is so good thanks to my daughter who got saved in your Church who invited me to Watch your Contents oh my goodness you are amazing this is my favorite thing to watch and trying to emulate your principles, thank you 🙏
Praying for you. May you continue to choose God first & your spouse. May God's angels be encamped all around you in every area of your lives & your children so that no hurt, harm, or danger will come near your dwelling. Thank you for being willing vessels in helping the Body of Christ.
Listening and watching from Ghana. God bless you both. Learnt a lot
Thank you. What stood out the most is that the way I want to receive love/love language does shift. I.e I may not want as much physical touch now after having kids because they are often climbing on me and wanting attention. ❤
Thanks for what you.. I enjoy your content. I love you both..
Ohh my God am loving this,God bless you 🙏
Keeping helping us.
Great job
Keep them coming ❤
THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. I’m single but this provides so much Wisdom and insight that I’m always seeking. Thank you for the love you both have for Jesus and for eachother, it is truly a beautiful kingdom marriage! This is what I want!! So grateful for you both! Really blessed. I also sent this to my parents because there marriage is so broken! Thank you for all that you do. I pray that our heavenly Father will continue to pour out his love upon you and use y’all to reach those who need Jesus to Revive there Life! In Jesus name AMEN!!
Also speaking on wisdom and insight.. I am definitely one who struggles with making decisions and really acting on faith for taking next steps. Specifically trusting GOD in the unknown and really knowing where God is leading you. Wondering if you guys could talk about it?
I am hering honesty.
This is such an awesome teaching!! Thank you so much and may God continue to bless you and your family🙏🏽
I love this a lot, was Married before now Single, but this is good, being honest and open with each other, this is deep, thank you love love this. wow
Thank you for being obedient to the voice of GOD,This podcast has really helped me get some nuggets on marriage as I am getting married soon much love from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
Excellent podcast! I resonate so much with not only this particular podcast, but everything you share on relationships & marriage! Thank you for putting out such quality content. God Bless you both and keep them coming! 🤍🕊️✝️
Tabaka, you came to our church CALVARY CHURCH not so long ago. Your testimony was very touching and real. I’m very thankful for you your ministry as well as your husband. I have shared some with my husband. You guys are doing a great job we got continue and this journey so that we learn more, and be strong leaders with our families so that they could see Christ in us
The intro is 🔥🔥. Love you guys!!
Thank you, guys truly thank, you for these videos they help me so much! i do not have a lot of believers in my life so i look up to you guys as spiritual leaders.
Love you guys ❤
Nice episode
I appreciate and love you guys, I love this podcast
Thank yall❤
11:38 ❤
Loved this!
This is so good!!
Pray for the people in Palestine 🇵🇸
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I feel fear when I don't have security, because I am able to function on my own so if a husband is ''in the picture' he should play his part. I feel a sense of security with my husband as he never causes me to be jealous, However I feel afraid when he is unkind. I experience insecurity financially.
I like this couple , but I wanted to hear from his wife on the topic. He kept asking her questions and wasn’t letting her speak.
Tabatha, I would love to talk to you in private. Is there anyway I could write directly to you? No disrespect to Ken. Love him, but sometimes you just need a woman to woman conversation. Please let me know
You were treating her like a child when you said don’t hit the table don’t move your arms aroundi.
He shows a lot of signs characterized by Narcissism. But narcissists can never see how they’re wrong
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He sounds like my husband is not affectionate, petty and egotistic and mean. I guess he has grown because he is listening to God. My husband needs to listen to God.
He doesn’t sound that way to me at all. He literally made an episode on how to take care of your wife
Hey. I was married over 28years. Now divorce. I'm waiting for my real king
It's getting hard. Any advice?
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Why is this turning out to be a discussion all about him? It’s supposed to be her.
Please finish the episode ❤️❤️
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😅 and ya'll funny
Ken is trying to be defensive when his wife points out areas of lack in the relationship.
This is refeshing
9:36 his face😂😂😂😂