You have definitely hit a solid point with regards to the resistance to / of something. What ever that is, then becoming an experience, effectively turning you from the actual experience in the authentic origin of its original intended purpose and holding onto it for what it is actually not, hence, causing your suffering.
After having experienced how instantaneously an understanding can dissolve layers of resistance, I feel as if I could never go back; even if I wanted to. I would know it all to be false because Now, I know the flavor of my truths.
Trauma causes awakening. Now, there’s nothing wrong with trauma we often shame or blame it when it’s actually the process of learning. Everyone wants emotional happiness. That’s our motivation for everything we do in this human reality. And what’s the opposite of happiness? Suffering. What is trauma? Strong suffering. So,strong suffering is strong motivation to get happiness. People are motivated to either get more happiness, or have less suffering both ideas take you in the same direction of happiness. Appreciate it and when you do, you’ll see that it was all part of the design. Your consciousness had to get kicked out of the body. you had to wake up from the dream because the body became uncomfortable emotionally and that forces you to wake up here because you didn’t want to continue to suffer here. Don’t be strong to continue your suffering. Use your strong suffering as a catalyst to awaken.
This is the sort of convoluted talk that my autistic brain can't handle. Starting off with, "We search for an external experience, and because experience cannot be found in any external experience, we continue to search." I have no idea what that means. And then, "You'll be living 90% of your life in resistant and 10% in resistance and 10% in short bursts of intermittent joy." What? And then talking about the word "hole", I didn't know which hole you meant, and even the transcript says "whole". I did figure it out, but then, "We're describing the absence of something, in this case, an empty space," makes it sound like the thing that is absent is an empty space. And then you interrupt your train of thought to plug your community, which is enough to lose me. And the sarcasm confuses me. It feels like the opposite of clear, direct, honest communication. It isn't funny and I don't understand it. And then you say that if we ignore/don't believe that we have an incessant yearning to find true happiness, then we will be miserable forever. What about once you've found happiness? Wouldn't that yearning go away? I guess you assume you are talking to miserable people? And did you say "de-miserize"??? Using words that aren't words confuses the shit outta me. I had to google it. It wasn't there. And right after that, "...we are an all embracive pure aspect of being or pure being...we're not an aspect of being we are being and this being is pure existence..." Holy shit. And the part about every action either being in the direction of happiness, or an expression of happiness...well, for some people, their actions are only meant to make others hurt and suffer as much as they do. Revenge never leads to happiness. I think you underestimate the ego thought system's ability to ignore and over-ride the rules of Life. I'm not sure how drinking wine is an expression of happiness. In my experience, happy people have no use or desire for mind-altering substances. FIN
Thanks for sharing Sarah, I have to say this isn’t the first time you’ve made comments like this, It sounds like my personality, humour, and language stresses you out. I feel like asking, Why are you still watching? There are lots of other clear, funnier, and likely more suitable characters to watch. Don’t waste your time getting confused over what I’m saying. It’s not meant for everyone, I am fully aware of that. But if your comments are designed as feedback to change who I am and how I share, then I appreciate it, but it’s a waste of time 🙏 I take any constructive feedback with open ears, however, with your comments I do struggle to understand whether it’s productive, or just complaining with no goal in sight. I don’t label myself - but my expression - if given names - could be considered very dyslexic, adhd, and I’m british, which means I make up words, i can hardly speak English, and I trail off randomly. Sounds like I’m not a fit for your autism and that’s fine :) It’s been a pleasure to meet you in the brief conversations we’ve had. I wish you the best 🙏
@@sajafendel I got frustrated 'cause I want to understand what you are saying, and it feels like hitting another dead end. It does seem that it's just not meant for me, and that's ok. If anything, I should probably get off youtube. It's not a great replacement for real life friends. Mine all died, too. I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry to have bothered you.
@@SarahDale111 you’re honestly not bothering me at all Sarah, on contrary I thought I was bothering you! My offer still stands for you to jump on the call so we can chat, maybe I can try tailor what I'm saying and help you better :)
@@sajafendel Thanks for the offer, but I think I'll not worry about it. Besides, to me you are an external experience, so it's inevitable that you will only lead to confusion and frustration. 😜 I really appreciate that you shared that you aren't the most neurotypical person in the world, either. That information helps me to understand the bigger picture, and explains why I struggle to make sense of things you say. I do tend to get caught up in details and can't see the forest for the trees, so thank you for that. Anyway, I wish you well, Saja. Thank you for talking with me.
@sajafendel I don't know all your videos - but I would like you to guide more with good questions than with sarcasm - I don't mind humor though, that would make it more powerful still
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You have definitely hit a solid point with regards to the resistance to / of something. What ever that is, then becoming an experience, effectively turning you from the actual experience in the authentic origin of its original intended purpose and holding onto it for what it is actually not, hence, causing your suffering.
After having experienced how instantaneously an understanding can dissolve layers of resistance, I feel as if I could never go back; even if I wanted to. I would know it all to be false because Now, I know the flavor of my truths.
So true! Like finding out Santa Claus isn’t real. We just drop it.
Trauma causes awakening. Now, there’s nothing wrong with trauma we often shame or blame it when it’s actually the process of learning. Everyone wants emotional happiness. That’s our motivation for everything we do in this human reality. And what’s the opposite of happiness? Suffering. What is trauma? Strong suffering. So,strong suffering is strong motivation to get happiness. People are motivated to either get more happiness, or have less suffering both ideas take you in the same direction of happiness. Appreciate it and when you do, you’ll see that it was all part of the design. Your consciousness had to get kicked out of the body. you had to wake up from the dream because the body became uncomfortable emotionally and that forces you to wake up here because you didn’t want to continue to suffer here. Don’t be strong to continue your suffering. Use your strong suffering as a catalyst to awaken.
Very good video! 😂
Glad you resonated brother 😉
Such a sarcasm 😄
It's true on both levels
Love it 😂
I hope people take this for what it's worth 😅
@@sajafendel I Welcome a less serious video.
This is the sort of convoluted talk that my autistic brain can't handle. Starting off with, "We search for an external experience, and because experience cannot be found in any external experience, we continue to search." I have no idea what that means. And then, "You'll be living 90% of your life in resistant and 10% in resistance and 10% in short bursts of intermittent joy." What? And then talking about the word "hole", I didn't know which hole you meant, and even the transcript says "whole". I did figure it out, but then, "We're describing the absence of something, in this case, an empty space," makes it sound like the thing that is absent is an empty space. And then you interrupt your train of thought to plug your community, which is enough to lose me. And the sarcasm confuses me. It feels like the opposite of clear, direct, honest communication. It isn't funny and I don't understand it. And then you say that if we ignore/don't believe that we have an incessant yearning to find true happiness, then we will be miserable forever. What about once you've found happiness? Wouldn't that yearning go away? I guess you assume you are talking to miserable people? And did you say "de-miserize"??? Using words that aren't words confuses the shit outta me. I had to google it. It wasn't there. And right after that, "...we are an all embracive pure aspect of being or pure being...we're not an aspect of being we are being and this being is pure existence..." Holy shit. And the part about every action either being in the direction of happiness, or an expression of happiness...well, for some people, their actions are only meant to make others hurt and suffer as much as they do. Revenge never leads to happiness. I think you underestimate the ego thought system's ability to ignore and over-ride the rules of Life. I'm not sure how drinking wine is an expression of happiness. In my experience, happy people have no use or desire for mind-altering substances. FIN
Thanks for sharing Sarah, I have to say this isn’t the first time you’ve made comments like this, It sounds like my personality, humour, and language stresses you out. I feel like asking, Why are you still watching?
There are lots of other clear, funnier, and likely more suitable characters to watch. Don’t waste your time getting confused over what I’m saying. It’s not meant for everyone, I am fully aware of that.
But if your comments are designed as feedback to change who I am and how I share, then I appreciate it, but it’s a waste of time 🙏
I take any constructive feedback with open ears, however, with your comments I do struggle to understand whether it’s productive, or just complaining with no goal in sight.
I don’t label myself - but my expression - if given names - could be considered very dyslexic, adhd, and I’m british, which means I make up words, i can hardly speak English, and I trail off randomly. Sounds like I’m not a fit for your autism and that’s fine :)
It’s been a pleasure to meet you in the brief conversations we’ve had. I wish you the best 🙏
@@sajafendel I got frustrated 'cause I want to understand what you are saying, and it feels like hitting another dead end. It does seem that it's just not meant for me, and that's ok. If anything, I should probably get off youtube. It's not a great replacement for real life friends. Mine all died, too. I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry to have bothered you.
@@SarahDale111 you’re honestly not bothering me at all Sarah, on contrary I thought I was bothering you! My offer still stands for you to jump on the call so we can chat, maybe I can try tailor what I'm saying and help you better :)
@@sajafendel Thanks for the offer, but I think I'll not worry about it. Besides, to me you are an external experience, so it's inevitable that you will only lead to confusion and frustration. 😜 I really appreciate that you shared that you aren't the most neurotypical person in the world, either. That information helps me to understand the bigger picture, and explains why I struggle to make sense of things you say. I do tend to get caught up in details and can't see the forest for the trees, so thank you for that. Anyway, I wish you well, Saja. Thank you for talking with me.
Oh really?
:)
Not cool man. You can do better - I know - you showed me
Explain? not sure what you mean brother
Excuse my British sense of humour. Take it for what it's worth 😎
@sajafendel I don't know all your videos - but I would like you to guide more with good questions than with sarcasm - I don't mind humor though, that would make it more powerful still
@@submodality noted brother 🙏