my ESFJ friend is in a bit of an emotional low atm and after watching this i composed a perfectly tailored message for him. i was the first person in like a month to get a reply :)
Wow So so true. My mom is ESFJ, I really need to thank her for how nurturing she was raising me, and trying to help in my family when she lived with us :’(
I'm a recently discovered ESFJ. This guy really knows what he's talking about. I have no interest in military stuff (I am a lecturer and researcher in the environmental field), but if he'd used these tactics to convince me when I was younger, I might have joined the navy 😂
Your comment about movement vs control as process-oriented vs outcome-oriented reminded me of a conversation I had with an ENFP friend about process and outcome. He was talking about how he focuses on improving his process of doing things, and I was saying that I've always thought of the outcome as the important thing. It was interesting to be exposed to the other point of view.
Also the shoulders...at this point, that suit is too big.. should get a suit which at least snugly fits the shoulders as those can't be tailored - INTJ
You look handsome... you should be so proud! Your an amazing man with an extraordinary mind! God bless you and thank you for SHARING your wisdom!! Your time and energy spent is making a difference, I promise! 💜
Loved the end story about you loving on your grandma-that must make her so happy. Love hearing that!!! I may be an ESFJ but I seem to have Se more in some kind of trickster slot (didnt even notice the suit till I read the comments lol! And then I find suits and tradition to be so suffocating) But I do really relate to the hoping for recognition from the family- story of my life as a teen. I went into a kind of depression because no matter how much I did for my loved ones I felt unseen and couldn't make the family happy. Maybe Im just shadow focused at this point as the ISFP seems to ring so much more true these days. Thanks for doing these videos. Literally have watched them over and over again.
It's funny when my ENTP brother and I (I'm an ENFP) get into a "what if" conversation. It's like swimming in a sea of Ne. Goes on forever... Don't get in a room with an ENTP and an ENFP who are talking about something like time travel unless you wanna hear a very long conversation...
BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE!!!! ... I set this video to 1.75x speed. CSJ is like a happy lil bumble bee fluttering over pastures of vibrant flowers... at 100 mph 🤣
Be careful ESFJs. My ISFP husband social engendered me by making me feel terrible on a consistent basis shaming me anytime I didn’t make him feel good about himself and allowed him to do whatever he wanted. He would breadcrumb me with the rare occasion of giving a wonderful beautiful shared experience that made him feel good. Because he did this rare good thing he expected to shirk most of his responsibilities. Our value system obligated me to stay married to him despite emotional abuse and of our children neglect. Getting out of that relationship was terrifying. Se rage combined with their strong Fi emotions can become violent quickly. Do trust checks set and enforce boundaries with people before you become loyal and give your care to them.
I love how you said (as the thoughts of the ESFJ) “he went as far as to actually highlight some things”. I only want to social engineer my ESFJ ex-husband for good reasons. For when I need to advocate for our ENTP son. Yeah, he is a loving father. I have lived 16 years in a place I do not like because I wanted to keep my son close to his dad. He’s a good father. But he and his ESTJ wife do not always understand the needs of an Ne dominant child. I’m an ENFP and I have to advocate for him.
I’m an esfj but I’m not really interested to know in-depth about my type 😂 I just happened to come here by chance and secondly, I actually wanted to leave some comments but before I was able to do that, reading all these negative comments targeted on esfjs immediately turned me off. It almost looks like everyone on youtube is hating on our type 😂
Ugh, process oriented to the max. I HATE trying to talk to my ESFJ husband about remodeling. He's been fighting me tooth and nail because I want to leave some of our elderly and cool looking ceiling joists and beams exposed. Why would I have bought a 150 year old farmhouse if I wanted to live in a suburban sheetrock box? FINALLY I find out it's all because the only process he knows for wiring the ceiling fixtures and plumbing the upstairs bathroom is to run the wires, heat ducts and pipes along the joists above the ceiling. It's so hard to convince him there are hundreds of different ways to get the result you want. I've been wondering about his arguments, because they always seem to sort of mimic Te. He'll say a certain process is more expensive, more work or takes longer. Then he'll turn around and offer to break up a cement patio just because it's in the way of his plumbing process. It doesn't seem like he's really using Te at all, but something else entirely.
You have really described me. I want people to socially engineer me so they will better understand and relate to me. But what about the INFJs and the INFPs. I want to find out how to socially engineer them so I can better get along with them. Thank you
47:30 what a beautiful thing to be able to feel and mean about one’s parent. I’m pretty sure this is my abusive “dark empath” Munchausen mother who proxied me’s personality type. It was always so gross how she never did anything not expecting thanks or a gold star. There was rarely an opportunity to originally express appreciation because it was always extracted before I could’ve gotten to it. I know my experience is with a terrible example of this type if it is this type but sounds like these people are not cut out to be parents. What kid wants a parent who provides in exchange for praise rather than because that’s a parent’s job? The kid is the one who needs some praise once in a while. For sure explains being a payday babytrap baby…which I didn’t expect from this. Thank you
INTJ here. I'm married to an ESFJ. 13 minutes into it, you finally get on topic. Sounds like you took a really long time to say that they need to be coddled and sweet talked. "Ain't nobody got time for that."
Enfp here married to an Esfj 15 years. We call ourselves the Dreamer and the doer. She keeps me grounded when I need to be Which I am thankful for. Reason I am here is that sometimes I don’t know how to giver her what She needs. Thank you for this video.
Very helpful video since I was brought up by an ESFJ systematic and conservative mom (attitudes I try to get rid of every day). Interested in the social engineering part of ESFJ since having a parent of a particular type causes one to benefit or not by growing up with the attitudes of that type.
Smile at an ESFJ, be interestd in their opinion, show them and describe what you are intersted in, they'll catch that they want it and you'll feel the duty to help them get it even if they don't pay for it. When they realize they're picking up the item if its an item they'll be mad at themselves because they knew they were being manipulated and will turn it into a covert contract and a control based reaction to let you know you depend on them
i figured it out!!!!! IF AN ESFJ WANTS SUCCESS WITH THEIR NI TRICKSTER THEY NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY DONT WANT FIRST TO SEE WHATS LEFT AND CHOOSE FROM THERE AND CRITICIZE WHATS IMPORTANT AND IF IT LINES UP. Definately should not calculate if its affordable first because the child will get in debt or spend all their money and then go hungry and have to figure out how to get money
Mr. Joseph's wardrobe is fine the way it is. I prefer to hear what he has to say. He's spent a huge amount of time learning and experiencing this info and is giving of himself freely!
Looking sharp ... Your haircut almost fits in well with the theme of the Military. And yes, believe it or not, some of those military recruiters are smooth talkers. (Btw, cut down on the caffeine and get some rest before you really burn out. I'll donate to your Patreon as soon as I am close to my career transition so you can delegate more tasks).
ESFJ: I can recover anything and i'm willing to give you rope to see who you are - Han from fast and the furious lol "I wanna see what a man is made of"
I feel ESFJs have 'gift giving' as their love language. I noticed that they're good at giving little gifts to others. And they like receiving gifts too, like flowers, a simple card, stuff like candles and other little gifts that are nice for decoration. Idk, that's just what I observed.
wow now I know where all the ENTJ bi*ches are at! I've been looking for an ENTJ gf for years and they were nowhere to be found. No wonder when they are here drooling over ESFJ guys. INTP is your best match bi*ches! Why the f*ck are you looking for types that you're not compatible with! You're a rare type ENTJs! Especially as females! So watch what the f*ck you're doing! -pissed off INTP here
Hard working, intelligent & healthy ENTP guy crushing hard on an ambitious, focused & cheery ESFJ girl. I want to at least be her friend in spite of the difficulties between our personality types. Also most people assume they’re INFPs and I used to for a time, my dad particularly thought I was an ENTJ when I was in high school. Maybe he’s right lol. I feel very comfortable with ESFJ’s other than this girl, because they ironically make me feel like life isn’t dead or nihilistic (even though they live life to the fullest). Wishing my ENTP claiming butt the best of luck getting with my ESFJ girl!
Process Vs result? That's difficult, I think everyone would think they're result cause you don't make a house to be making a house, you want a house. I mean some people like to build but you know what I mean. So how would you know which of the 2 you are? I can be sorta perfectionistic but also kinda rushing to get things done. The way i and I think many people work really depends on the the thing you're working on. I spend 10 minutes on this one thing just to get it done, but 3 days on the other to get it done.
As an INFJ-I don’t like to start. The finished results are never up to my expectations (or what I imagine in my mind) because that bar is to the moon -just another reason I feel like one of those useless eaters.
Also. My Ti child wants you to know that you said you were one of the few who could pull off black on black (you can 😀) but you finished with who wouldn’t? 🤔
Hmm so would their be a correlation with low Si and shorter life spans? xSFJs have the longest life spans so that means ENxPs have the shortest? Ah shit.
My parents are both esfj (s), and they have made my life all the way till mid 30s (now) a living hell. I’m an intj. They would attack me as if they are narcissist and always try and put me down. And always claim that i’m weird and disrespectful to them whereas they are always the one yelling. 😂
Lol I am an INTJ if I dont get to finish my objective in a certain way I feel off for the rest of the day. I also get a bit angry if things get done in a way I dont like. I'm working on that.
Maybe you will do infp by Christmas. :p. I start your videos and come back to them. I shadow or partially change to other types pretty often so some of these still somewhat apply.
In all seriousness, I had noticed that in this exercise that the ENTJ is almost emulating his subconscious. So in this case, would you say it would be more effective for the ENTJ to enter the subconscious versus emulating for social engineering? Or do you think the ENTJ would naturally enter his subconscious upon emulating an ISFP?
My patients/family have been sick recently as well. There's definitely something going around. What are you recovering from, if you don't mind my asking? Also, what do you keep looking at up and to your left?
Hey Chase, love your videos, and I am supporting you on Patreon. As an INFP male, I was wondering if it'd be difficult for me to social engineer an ESFJ as I have Se trickster, is this an accurate assumption? Anyone else can also voice their opinions lol. Also, would the engineering be easier if I was mature? Thanks to anyone who responds. #TheDopest #Getoutofyourcomfortzone #QandA. (P.S. - Even though I'm not CSJ certified as an INFP, I'm fairly certain of it)
All good bro. And yes you can social engineer any type, it comes down to how skilled you are and how much effort you put into it. Hard work always beats talent.
ESFJ: The result is important BUT you're not in control so it doesn't matter, for example a youth leader will host a service and even if only 1 person shows up it doesn't matter because atleast 1 person was saved lol
Yes. A lot of people say INTJ fits the trope but I wanted to know what you thought. Here’s a link to an article that lists out some common traits of this archetype if you wanna see: www.jonescollegeprep.org/ourpages/auto/2009/5/26/50381765/Byronic%20Gothic%20Hero.doc
You said that for someone to get into their Superego you need to be hitting their inferior function. So if it's not by their inferior function then which function do you have to hit/confort to get someone into or out of their Unconscious/Shadow side of their minds?
What do you think about Jordan Peterson stating that mbti is not valid anymore and it being archaic? He also said the only personality test that matters now is the top 5. I don't agree with him and think mbti is amazing. - INFP
How about ESFJ put a little bit of WISDOM into their Critic function ? Yeah ? How about it ? Because it’s so harsh dude. My assistant manager is an ESFJ, I’m an INFJ. And she doesn’t even let me finish my work, she takes the tools out of my hands. Because her standards of performance are so HIGH. This so fuck_ng frustrating ! I’m getting sick of working with her. Because I realized that I will never meet her expectations. All she cares is moving from a task to the next as quickly as possible. All I care is giving a good experience to the customers. Everyone should understand that people have different nature and stop pretending their view of the world is the correct one. I am perfectionistic and I’m not gonna change for them.
It seems that I already hit her demon function anyways because she barely let me speak anymore. “I dont ask you to think.” She even told me. That’s funny because at the same time she seems to feel bad about it. Personally she already hit my Si demon and I hold a grudge against her now. I don’t want to hear anymore from her when my contract with the company will end.
I saw that Chase liked my comment ! UPDATE Actually, I think I am more an ENFP that cannot face the reality that he’s in fact an ENFP. I’m a good salesman but my Se must be very bad for that ESFJ to hate me that much. I always hesitated between INFJ and ENFP but after all I think I’m an ENFP on my INFJ unconscious, due to some various traumas in my childhood. Regardless, amazing video and analysis as always ! Thank you Chase 😉 PS: I’m currently converting a whole MBTI online community to the 4 sides of the Mind and John Beebe’s Theory We have the spread the knowledge as much as possible !
Make a big effort to try to understand where each is coming from. If you are typed correctly you will naturally want to compete with each other on who is the better thinker, who is the better carer, etc... Do not compete or expect the other person to be something different in order to fulfill your needs, try to understand the other person instead every time there is a conflict. You both will need a lot of maturity to make it work and get rid of silly disfunctional behavior. When there is a conflict, that will reveal an area of misunderstanding or disfunctionality.
How to social engineer ESFJs:
Step 1. This suit
my ESFJ friend is in a bit of an emotional low atm and after watching this i composed a perfectly tailored message for him. i was the first person in like a month to get a reply :)
Wow So so true. My mom is ESFJ, I really need to thank her for how nurturing she was raising me, and trying to help in my family when she lived with us :’(
I have to share this video with my sons. My husband is an ESFJ and he has worked tirelessly for years for the family. He is a totally good man.
This is too real! My gf always says she is a simple girl. She just wants to be given attention and desired.
I'm a recently discovered ESFJ. This guy really knows what he's talking about. I have no interest in military stuff (I am a lecturer and researcher in the environmental field), but if he'd used these tactics to convince me when I was younger, I might have joined the navy 😂
I love Chase's impersonatnations of different types
Your comment about movement vs control as process-oriented vs outcome-oriented reminded me of a conversation I had with an ENFP friend about process and outcome. He was talking about how he focuses on improving his process of doing things, and I was saying that I've always thought of the outcome as the important thing. It was interesting to be exposed to the other point of view.
Thanks god they‘re so common and live long. In general, they’re such good people. My boyfriend is one.
Nice suit! Those sleeves could be tailored though, then it would be perfect! - ESTP
the entire suit is too big and the fit is old fashioned
Yes, listen to the SP fashion consultants.
I'm sorry but in my opinion that suit was just not doing it - ISFP
Also the shoulders...at this point, that suit is too big.. should get a suit which at least snugly fits the shoulders as those can't be tailored - INTJ
Teach me masters of fashion-infj
Stop making fun of Chase’s big suit... he said he has been sick and that has made him lose weight 🤕😭 Keep well, Chase, and keep making great videos 😘
I will and thank you very much.
Get yourself an ESFJ bf. They will do anything for you.
And I need to let her know I care, calling her more, and wanting to spend time with her. Man, way to hit my conscience
You are such an ENTP. I love it, thanks for the amazing content
You look handsome... you should be so proud! Your an amazing man with an extraordinary mind! God bless you and thank you for SHARING your wisdom!! Your time and energy spent is making a difference, I promise! 💜
Loved the end story about you loving on your grandma-that must make her so happy. Love hearing that!!! I may be an ESFJ but I seem to have Se more in some kind of trickster slot (didnt even notice the suit till I read the comments lol! And then I find suits and tradition to be so suffocating) But I do really relate to the hoping for recognition from the family- story of my life as a teen. I went into a kind of depression because no matter how much I did for my loved ones I felt unseen and couldn't make the family happy. Maybe Im just shadow focused at this point as the ISFP seems to ring so much more true these days. Thanks for doing these videos. Literally have watched them over and over again.
Whether some people like it or not. He brings good valid points and a lot of research to the table.
Black on black. That describes me and a few ex boyfriends. I know that's right
I lol when I saw your comment !! 😂😂
@@linyenchin6773 I am indeed
the small pauses in between makes it just even more powerful!
It's funny when my ENTP brother and I (I'm an ENFP) get into a "what if" conversation. It's like swimming in a sea of Ne. Goes on forever... Don't get in a room with an ENTP and an ENFP who are talking about something like time travel unless you wanna hear a very long conversation...
Valentyna Belofsky as an ENTP myself, my INFP friend and I have loads of conversations like this! Love it!
Yeah it's pretty fun
I as an INTJ would love to get in the midst of all those chaotic strings and start spinning a magnificent web for the world to see
Damn, not even ashamed to admit I clicked on this video just to see you in a suit
lol
BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE!!!! ... I set this video to 1.75x speed. CSJ is like a happy lil bumble bee fluttering over pastures of vibrant flowers... at 100 mph 🤣
I tried this and in my screen he did the Gangnam style dance
@@NoInsurance hahahaha wow
It’s funny how he dresses up nice just so the SE critic stays away
Be careful ESFJs. My ISFP husband social engendered me by making me feel terrible on a consistent basis shaming me anytime I didn’t make him feel good about himself and allowed him to do whatever he wanted. He would breadcrumb me with the rare occasion of giving a wonderful beautiful shared experience that made him feel good. Because he did this rare good thing he expected to shirk most of his responsibilities. Our value system obligated me to stay married to him despite emotional abuse and of our children neglect. Getting out of that relationship was terrifying.
Se rage combined with their strong Fi emotions can become violent quickly.
Do trust checks set and enforce boundaries with people before you become loyal and give your care to them.
Yes... my husband does the same thing
Omg...you just resisted my life...
I love how you said (as the thoughts of the ESFJ) “he went as far as to actually highlight some things”.
I only want to social engineer my ESFJ ex-husband for good reasons. For when I need to advocate for our ENTP son.
Yeah, he is a loving father. I have lived 16 years in a place I do not like because I wanted to keep my son close to his dad. He’s a good father. But he and his ESTJ wife do not always understand the needs of an Ne dominant child. I’m an ENFP and I have to advocate for him.
Perfect is worthless I like that 👌🏽 focus on being great 👌🏽
7:37 I love it when you do your best impression of me
*"ALL SOCIAL INTERACTION IS A FORM OF MANIPULATION"* -Chase S Joseph (ENTP)
Why is nobody in the comments actually an esfj, do we just not use the internet?
i was asking the same question
I’m an esfj but I’m not really interested to know in-depth about my type 😂 I just happened to come here by chance and secondly, I actually wanted to leave some comments but before I was able to do that, reading all these negative comments targeted on esfjs immediately turned me off. It almost looks like everyone on youtube is hating on our type 😂
@@dolsemiyano im an istp and the
my love is an esfj
I think that ESFJs inherently dislike the internet😂
ESFJ, reporting for duty, Sir 😏
I'm crushing on an ESFJ guy currently. When you said "watch out for the ENFP" I was like... fuck, I'm the ENFP
Ugh, process oriented to the max. I HATE trying to talk to my ESFJ husband about remodeling. He's been fighting me tooth and nail because I want to leave some of our elderly and cool looking ceiling joists and beams exposed. Why would I have bought a 150 year old farmhouse if I wanted to live in a suburban sheetrock box? FINALLY I find out it's all because the only process he knows for wiring the ceiling fixtures and plumbing the upstairs bathroom is to run the wires, heat ducts and pipes along the joists above the ceiling. It's so hard to convince him there are hundreds of different ways to get the result you want.
I've been wondering about his arguments, because they always seem to sort of mimic Te. He'll say a certain process is more expensive, more work or takes longer. Then he'll turn around and offer to break up a cement patio just because it's in the way of his plumbing process. It doesn't seem like he's really using Te at all, but something else entirely.
Here to learn how to social engineer my mother for her own good
OMG you looks so good in a suit!
This is amazing, well done!
Dang looking slick!
as always, great job.
You have really described me. I want people to socially engineer me so they will better understand and relate to me. But what about the INFJs and the INFPs. I want to find out how to socially engineer them so I can better get along with them. Thank you
Infj Male here. What makes it hard to get along with this type? Are you an Esfj?
@@John-ih7gp um, she said he described her.
47:30 what a beautiful thing to be able to feel and mean about one’s parent. I’m pretty sure this is my abusive “dark empath” Munchausen mother who proxied me’s personality type. It was always so gross how she never did anything not expecting thanks or a gold star. There was rarely an opportunity to originally express appreciation because it was always extracted before I could’ve gotten to it. I know my experience is with a terrible example of this type if it is this type but sounds like these people are not cut out to be parents. What kid wants a parent who provides in exchange for praise rather than because that’s a parent’s job? The kid is the one who needs some praise once in a while. For sure explains being a payday babytrap baby…which I didn’t expect from this. Thank you
looking sharp!
INTJ here. I'm married to an ESFJ. 13 minutes into it, you finally get on topic. Sounds like you took a really long time to say that they need to be coddled and sweet talked. "Ain't nobody got time for that."
Were did you met her?
@@ashuranero5721 where did who meet who?
@@cjh9696 Where did you met your ESFJ wife?
@@ashuranero5721 I'm the wife. My husband is the ESFJ. I think a male INTJ and female ESFJ would probably get along better.
@@cjh9696 Then where did you meet your husband and how do you know he is an ESFJ?
Enfp here married to an Esfj 15 years.
We call ourselves the Dreamer and the doer.
She keeps me grounded when I need to be
Which I am thankful for.
Reason I am here is that sometimes I don’t know how to giver her what She needs.
Thank you for this video.
you are most welcome
" this guy knows so i should listen to him because he will help me do whats best for me and i'm glad he knows because i sure don't
Very helpful video since I was brought up by an ESFJ systematic and conservative mom (attitudes I try to get rid of every day). Interested in the social engineering part of ESFJ since having a parent of a particular type causes one to benefit or not by growing up with the attitudes of that type.
Smile at an ESFJ, be interestd in their opinion, show them and describe what you are intersted in, they'll catch that they want it and you'll feel the duty to help them get it even if they don't pay for it. When they realize they're picking up the item if its an item they'll be mad at themselves because they knew they were being manipulated and will turn it into a covert contract and a control based reaction to let you know you depend on them
i figured it out!!!!! IF AN ESFJ WANTS SUCCESS WITH THEIR NI TRICKSTER THEY NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY DONT WANT FIRST TO SEE WHATS LEFT AND CHOOSE FROM THERE AND CRITICIZE WHATS IMPORTANT AND IF IT LINES UP. Definately should not calculate if its affordable first because the child will get in debt or spend all their money and then go hungry and have to figure out how to get money
You should totally wear according to the type you social engineer :D can't wait to see you in flamboyant clothes XD
good point, I will think on it.
HHaha that’s a genius idea!
Entp flamboyant? Hmm...
Mr. Joseph's wardrobe is fine the way it is. I prefer to hear what he has to say. He's spent a huge amount of time learning and experiencing this info and is giving of himself freely!
The INxJs getting called out at min 8:
👁👄👁
My moral Fi child is screaming how wrong it is but oh well lets learn it anyways.
Trying this out now, thank you.
INTJ here I laughed out loud at 8 minutes in. Good one...
Looking sharp ... Your haircut almost fits in well with the theme of the Military. And yes, believe it or not, some of those military recruiters are smooth talkers.
(Btw, cut down on the caffeine and get some rest before you really burn out. I'll donate to your Patreon as soon as I am close to my career transition so you can delegate more tasks).
much appreciated
I like your businessman choker cx
Please sum it up for me
ENTJ
My ESFJ made tea for my fam when he came home a few months back 😂🥰
ESFJ: I can recover anything and i'm willing to give you rope to see who you are - Han from fast and the furious lol "I wanna see what a man is made of"
In the next episode INFP and chase will wear some anime or WoW costume :D
You’re a deep winter so black works great for u ❤
Are they craving more than verbal gratitude?
I feel ESFJs have 'gift giving' as their love language. I noticed that they're good at giving little gifts to others.
And they like receiving gifts too, like flowers, a simple card, stuff like candles and other little gifts that are nice for decoration.
Idk, that's just what I observed.
ENTJ here wanna get an ESFJ boy cuz they r so giving 🥺
@@newme1977 same
wow now I know where all the ENTJ bi*ches are at! I've been looking for an ENTJ gf for years and they were nowhere to be found. No wonder when they are here drooling over ESFJ guys. INTP is your best match bi*ches! Why the f*ck are you looking for types that you're not compatible with! You're a rare type ENTJs! Especially as females! So watch what the f*ck you're doing!
-pissed off INTP here
@@godless789 INTPs pissed off bcoz girls are drooling over their worst enemy lol - ISFP
@@newme1977 aww congrats. I haven’t. Yet I find out being my ENTJ self on my own is the best 😍
Hard working, intelligent & healthy ENTP guy crushing hard on an ambitious, focused & cheery ESFJ girl. I want to at least be her friend in spite of the difficulties between our personality types. Also most people assume they’re INFPs and I used to for a time, my dad particularly thought I was an ENTJ when I was in high school. Maybe he’s right lol. I feel very comfortable with ESFJ’s other than this girl, because they ironically make me feel like life isn’t dead or nihilistic (even though they live life to the fullest). Wishing my ENTP claiming butt the best of luck getting with my ESFJ girl!
ya i want that! i want it i want it thats good, if i do this i'll have what i should have and people will think i'm responsible
Process Vs result? That's difficult, I think everyone would think they're result cause you don't make a house to be making a house, you want a house. I mean some people like to build but you know what I mean. So how would you know which of the 2 you are? I can be sorta perfectionistic but also kinda rushing to get things done. The way i and I think many people work really depends on the the thing you're working on.
I spend 10 minutes on this one thing just to get it done, but 3 days on the other to get it done.
My inner ESFJ likes your suit!
"Mobile infantry made me the man I am today! Would you like to know more?"
Thnx...CSJ...🤚🙉
" Yeah mom he said i was perfect for being a soldier and i can work my way up to the top, he says i know"
As an INFJ-I don’t like to start. The finished results are never up to my expectations (or what I imagine in my mind) because that bar is to the moon -just another reason I feel like one of those useless eaters.
Also. My Ti child wants you to know that you said you were one of the few who could pull off black on black (you can 😀) but you finished with who wouldn’t? 🤔
#facetious
You is good person
LMAO " i can FEEELLL IT MAN I FEEEL YOU ARE AMAZING" yOU DO??? REALLY? whoa you can FEELL WHO I AM?!?!?!?! mind blown
Hmm so would their be a correlation with low Si and shorter life spans? xSFJs have the longest life spans so that means ENxPs have the shortest? Ah shit.
there is somewhat a correlation but its more like a bell curve.
My ESFJ girlfriend don’t wear make up and could judge people on unlaced shoes or torn sweater ??
Hi Jospeh, do you have more content on INTJ male and ESFJ Female relationship ?
My parents are both esfj (s), and they have made my life all the way till mid 30s (now) a living hell. I’m an intj.
They would attack me as if they are narcissist and always try and put me down. And always claim that i’m weird and disrespectful to them whereas they are always the one yelling.
😂
Not possible to have two parents of the same type
@@CSJoseph
Why?.
@@CSJoseph my mum is ISTJ and my dad is estj.
ENTP’s can’t dress?? Looking sharp homie!
can be improved-estp
Chase .. you’re the man! I’m an ESTP and I often have shmutz on my shoe 🤣
Too busy to change out of work clothes... Time for a video. Heh.
smart
Lol I am an INTJ if I dont get to finish my objective in a certain way I feel off for the rest of the day. I also get a bit angry if things get done in a way I dont like. I'm working on that.
Maybe you will do infp by Christmas. :p. I start your videos and come back to them. I shadow or partially change to other types pretty often so some of these still somewhat apply.
That untailored suit coat adds 50 pounds and has dropped shoulders. For the love of sensors everywhere PLEASE get a new one that has been tailored.
Black on black, that's the Tesla
In all seriousness, I had noticed that in this exercise that the ENTJ is almost emulating his subconscious. So in this case, would you say it would be more effective for the ENTJ to enter the subconscious versus emulating for social engineering? Or do you think the ENTJ would naturally enter his subconscious upon emulating an ISFP?
yes, yes and yes. Best to be in their subconscious for real.
NJ as np's villian...
So, most common type of soldier recruits in Ukraine is ESFJ?
Can you do a video about how to engineer enfp
yes
34:33 - Deeper breakdown
ENTP style is leaking of this vid
My patients/family have been sick recently as well. There's definitely something going around. What are you recovering from, if you don't mind my asking?
Also, what do you keep looking at up and to your left?
a spider, and it was something viral.
Awe, I love spiders 🕷️💙🕸️ Don't tell me if you killed it. Hope you're feeling better.
Damn, you almost promoted me to join the navy😂😂 - ESFJ
Hey Chase, love your videos, and I am supporting you on Patreon. As an INFP male, I was wondering if it'd be difficult for me to social engineer an ESFJ as I have Se trickster, is this an accurate assumption? Anyone else can also voice their opinions lol. Also, would the engineering be easier if I was mature? Thanks to anyone who responds. #TheDopest #Getoutofyourcomfortzone #QandA. (P.S. - Even though I'm not CSJ certified as an INFP, I'm fairly certain of it)
All good bro. And yes you can social engineer any type, it comes down to how skilled you are and how much effort you put into it. Hard work always beats talent.
ESFJ: The result is important BUT you're not in control so it doesn't matter, for example a youth leader will host a service and even if only 1 person shows up it doesn't matter because atleast 1 person was saved lol
nice suit buddy!
Man this is actually cute XD
Weird question but what would be the mbti type for a Byronic hero in fiction?
the trope?
Yes. A lot of people say INTJ fits the trope but I wanted to know what you thought.
Here’s a link to an article that lists out some common traits of this archetype if you wanna see:
www.jonescollegeprep.org/ourpages/auto/2009/5/26/50381765/Byronic%20Gothic%20Hero.doc
You said that for someone to get into their Superego you need to be hitting their inferior function.
So if it's not by their inferior function then which function do you have to hit/confort to get someone into or out of their Unconscious/Shadow side of their minds?
The nemesis is the gateway to the unconscious.
We solved the subprime mortgage crisis🤣🤣. Just you wait. The problem goes wayyy deeper than a regulation that incentivised banks to make risky loans
What do you think about Jordan Peterson stating that mbti is not valid anymore and it being archaic? He also said the only personality test that matters now is the top 5. I don't agree with him and think mbti is amazing. - INFP
He's right. MBTI is archaic.
How about ESFJ put a little bit of WISDOM into their Critic function ? Yeah ? How about it ?
Because it’s so harsh dude.
My assistant manager is an ESFJ, I’m an INFJ. And she doesn’t even let me finish my work, she takes the tools out of my hands. Because her standards of performance are so HIGH. This so fuck_ng frustrating !
I’m getting sick of working with her. Because I realized that I will never meet her expectations.
All she cares is moving from a task to the next as quickly as possible. All I care is giving a good experience to the customers.
Everyone should understand that people have different nature and stop pretending their view of the world is the correct one.
I am perfectionistic and I’m not gonna change for them.
It seems that I already hit her demon function anyways because she barely let me speak anymore.
“I dont ask you to think.” She even told me.
That’s funny because at the same time she seems to feel bad about it.
Personally she already hit my Si demon and I hold a grudge against her now.
I don’t want to hear anymore from her when my contract with the company will end.
I saw that Chase liked my comment !
UPDATE
Actually, I think I am more an ENFP that cannot face the reality that he’s in fact an ENFP.
I’m a good salesman but my Se must be very bad for that ESFJ to hate me that much.
I always hesitated between INFJ and ENFP but after all I think I’m an ENFP on my INFJ unconscious, due to some various traumas in my childhood.
Regardless, amazing video and analysis as always ! Thank you Chase 😉
PS: I’m currently converting a whole MBTI online community to the 4 sides of the Mind and John Beebe’s Theory
We have the spread the knowledge as much as possible !
So an INTP has a common everyday shadow.
Entp here with an esfj fiance. Communication can be difficult as possible... but we somehow make it work. Any tips to make things run more smoothly?
Make a big effort to try to understand where each is coming from. If you are typed correctly you will naturally want to compete with each other on who is the better thinker, who is the better carer, etc... Do not compete or expect the other person to be something different in order to fulfill your needs, try to understand the other person instead every time there is a conflict. You both will need a lot of maturity to make it work and get rid of silly disfunctional behavior. When there is a conflict, that will reveal an area of misunderstanding or disfunctionality.
45:54 - Example #3
Is the Hero always optimistic, the parent pessimistic, child optimistic, etc.?
yes
So if you wanna punish an esfj all you have to do is tell them "I FEEL like you are so stupid."
Not me getting triggered just by reading this😂😂😂 but hey, then you earn our hatred. And it can sting like a bitch😂😂