As an ISFJ, Force isn’t my thing. I wouldn’t force anyone to believe what I believe, it’s more so that I want everyone to be open to what I believe and then use their free will to make a decision. I understand that free will is necessary for the authenticity of taking on said beliefs.
nah, I wouldn't take it to hard what he says about ISFJ, his mom is one, so he's harping on their negative qualities extra hard and kinda out of proportion tbh
Lol, I think he has issues with an ISFJ in his life (his mom), I noticed in all these videos he's proportionally more focused on the negatives for this type. Yes they can remember everything and hold grudges, but they don't consume the entirety of their life like he makes it out to be. He barely touches on the positive contributions they make and seems to define them by their negatives. Also notice how he mocks specific conversations coming from a negative ISFJ experience. Just an observation. I've had positive interactions with ISFJ's and ESFJ's and seen how they handled bad experiences.
This helps a lot for me to understand my ESFJ mother. She controls my life because I refuse to give her gratitude and recognition, which she craves like crazy. This started when I was in grade school. I am now pushing sixty and she still tries to control my life. Now I know that we have twenty plus more years of this love/hate relationship. Btw, I love your attitude. Great work.
Wow...talk about honest delivery...i being eaten alive by an ISFJ. My ISFJ. mother is endlessly "disappointed" in me because I don't let another family member floor me with rudeness... "People won't like you." she says... I say i don't care...HORRORS It seems some ISfjs expect you to suffer the same abuse they suffer and like it?
I’m married to an INTJ for 20 years and I have no interest in making him walk the line’ but NT’s have ways of challenging the social rules that I respect and drive me crazy at the same time. The negative points of SJ’s are spot on in unhealthy ones. It’s weird because I see a lot of people who think their moms are SJ’s which is valid but I think moms easily fit into the SJ profile trying to give kids structure.
Wowee them SFJs I tell you what. *spits in spitoon* I have an ISFJ parent and they are never direct. If you try to get them to be direct they'll look at you blankly and then start informing you in concrete terms. Lollll. Super confusing behavior as an NP when you want abstract informative answers OR direct concrete answers. But jeez, not informative concrete. Anything but that, please.
Woah the ISFJ subconcious actually explains why ENTPs can hold a lie so long , i. e. Great liars.(Since they aspire to have faith in their lies ,when in their vice, and echances their "performance"). It also explains why I can speak with conviction about my more absurd thoughts.
@@CSJoseph based of my own expierience and my own worry as to how I can become super manipulative if I actually wanted + the knowledge you gave me, it's a nice combo. Thanks for the thought provoking words ! Also hopefully I'll join your discord in the nearest time (a month the latest , gotta get my shit together and study for my end of high school exams ;_; ), I kinda wonder if I will sow discord there :P
My maternal grandmother was an ESFJ and she had Alzheimer's. I miss her. She showed so much love. She was never physically abusive with her children. She loved gossip. She made me laugh because she believed what was written in The National Enquirer. She was very conservative and she would tell me that she believed Oprah and Barack Obama were having a sexual relationship because that is what The National Enquirer mentioned. She wouldn't let me help her clean up. My maternal grandfather was an ESTJ who had Dementia. He was very abusive when angry. He was strict and rigid.
Great video, You literally described my isfj crush who i met at work, the irony is we work at an NonForProfit... better now i understand her logic. As an INFJ male im always looking at how "others" can experience and grow, so im constantly looking at ways or things to say that will stimulate her growth and bring her out of her shadow functions to make her "comfortable" My question to myself now is how do i find ways to shock her NE whilst still being myself and how consistent this needs to be done.
My Dad is an ISFJ. I love him, but as a freedom based creator, I have to constantly lie to him to enable my freedom. He thinks I'm an angel, little does he know 🤣 -ISFP Compared to my ESFJ friends, they are much quieter.
I love this, great humor and insights. Perfect. I’m just learning about this stuff, but it leaves no doubt in my mind Mom is an ISFJ. Laughed at the only “one” organized religion imposed on family. Yup.
Okay, so I suppressed all my functions except Ti to watch this video, he is correct about ISFJ, slightly biased but still quite an accurate generalization.
Thankyou I think I am isfj and I always thought that people only see the bad in me but I only thought that because I am that way Thank you very much mind blown.
I believe your mom regrets holding grudges. She just doesn't know how to let go of past hurts. She as an ISFJ has high standards and she had too high of a standard for you because you are her son and she believes that traditions and family events are very important. When she sees you being stubborn to go against the family traditions, she thinks you don't love or care about your family. ISFJs will retaliate if they think you are being stubborn, ignorant, or disrespectful. Your mom needs a friend who is an ESFP to help her focus on the present and see what you are doing in the present tense with Se. I think all personalities need to be confronted and helped by a personality whose dominant function is the the extroverted or introverted opposite. ESFPs can help ISFJs and ESTPs can help ISTJs when stressed because each is the other's shadow. ISFPs can help ESFJs when an ESFJ is stressed because when an ESFJ is stressed she or he becomes their shadow function which is an ISFP.
Omg, the grudge fest is real. I have a family member who has help one for 25 years, and it was something stupid. I deal with it by ghosting because I can't stand the passive-aggressive punishment. Although, I'm ISFJ and this person is probably the same, or maybe ESFJ. I don't hold grudges but I have some serious boundaries and door slams if taken advantage.
As an ESFJ, I can fall into major traps thanks to my naive ways (thanks, Ne child) and get really screwed over for it (despite having positive intentions going in). I find this aspect to be very true in my case.
You hate us ESFJ's haha awesome video man, I'm dating a ESFJ female (who is a sagittarius and I am a capricorn figures how stubborn I can be sometimes) we both literally need to be recognized haha! Thanks for this man, very detailed and awesome way in understanding my partner lol
Hi! Your videos are so informative. Been quite addicted to them, actually. I have a question, is it possible to be both ESFJ and ISFJ at the same time? I really believe I'm an ISFJ but I can relate to many of the things you explained about the ESFJ as opposed to ISFJ. Also I kinda think I was an ESFJ before but circumstances caused me to be more jaded and I so relate to the ISFJ in so so many ways. Also, I'm an introvert. I remember you saying in one of your videos that you can't change type and that ambiversion isn't a thing.. so my questions are prolly silly haha but I'm just confused and am hoping for some enlightenment. '16 personalities' is so fascinating to me.. def. helped open my mind and understand that people think differently.
Not going to lie I definitely felt you when you were going on about ISFJs holding grudges etc. Not going to lie that was me especially before I started taking my relationship with Jesus seriously. My husband is INFJ and I've definitely been this way with him but now I definitely know better after doing a lot of spiritual healing. I struggle but I definitely am not the same way that I used to be. It sounds like you had a very bad experience with an ISFJ. I can't imagine what you've had to endure in your lifetime and I'm sure you're better for it, but it's just really unfortunate. It's also important to point out that ENTPs and ISFJs are complete opposites so that can contribute to some of the bitterness between both parties.
When I am stressed, I will initiate. My shadow is an ESFJ. I can be taken for granted in my shadow. I hold on to grudges in my shadow. The only way an ISFP holds grudges is when he or she is stressed, angry or repeatedly betrayed or disrespected. You shouldn't be forced to see family members you don't like. Not even my shadow which is ESFJ cares about making sure everyone goes to family gatherings. Being ESFJ in my shadow, I just want to make sure the house is clean for company and clean and decorated for company coming over for the holidays and cooking appetizers for company to eat and having desserts for them to eat.
I'm confused now, I mean, I'm not social and not daring as esfj In fact, I lock myself in the house to escape from people's judgement and what they think about me , It's complicated, why it has to be that hard for me to know and decide who I am? I couldn't recognize myself, so I feel a little desperate. By the way, you were very funny when you changed your voice.
We ISFJ's practice reconnaissance. lol We don't appreciate deception. We're not deceptive people. I wouldn't send someone related down the river. You're wrong here. Respectfully.
But if I think of it it’s weird like isfp are more willing to be free spirit and do their own thing and esfj isfj more like to be family life and socialize
My mom is an ESFJ. Not a doormat, but does she give more than she receives? Yes all the time. Also she has many toxic qualities so I’m not here to attack or defend them.
I'm confused. I don't know if I am an esfj or an infj. You said that esfj's are the biggest doormat and are easily taken advantage of and will approach things optimistically on the first time. However, I am very very veryyyyyy easily taken advantage of and I do feel pessimistic towards other people and their intentions but I still continue being a big doormat for them. I don't know if that proves me an infj because I feel like I deserve this treatment which goes back to the fi critic where I literally think I deserve bad treatment. Also, I have always thought of myself as a movement type therefore an esfj but after you explained it in another video I am having second thoughts. I do take my time to do things but at the same time I can get really impatient with progress. I talk fast walk fast and get impatient about things happening. But in my day to day life I really take my time to do things right. I'm confused! Someone please help. Also you said that isfj's keep a record of everything. And it's not so much to use against the person themselves, I think I do it but it's to protect myself, to protect myself from being hurt again or to protect myself from being too trusting. It's not to hurt the other person alot of the times I keep the record all to myself for my own reference.
I thought that introversion and extroversion were on a spectrum and the I or E just determined whether your dominant function is extroverted or introverted. What happens to ambivert people? Can't you be an extrovert with the first function in your stack being introverted and vice versa?
I would never ask an ESFJ to do anything... unless I want it done slap dash and are willing to give praise for such nonsense. Who am I kidding, laundry and dinner is fine to get done slap dash, I'll even fake some praise if it's done on time. Saying that I would love to meet an ESFJ that has some kind of drive to... "be smart", but it hasn't happened yet in my life. Good to hear they exist though. 23:50 they will buy brand name electronics without looking at the specs. INTP goes... wow you're an idiot for paying double what I did, when my no-name TV *IS* better, here's why. They don't appreciate that.
I get along very will with those types especially esfj because we grow up together so I learned so much from them actually I feel like I become isfp because of them but whatever.. isfj hmm they are like my grandma who make delicious cookies 🍪 and has that ginger cat . sometimes nobody understand them which i know why because we are introverts but i try my hard to make a lot of jokes to make them like me actually i feel connected more to them than my enfj and estp
Hi Chase ! Is it possible for Se critic to be also about the duties/obligations of ppl around you, I mean like a "You should do that(ironing the shirt) to look better" or "You should take care of the choires" , or maybe it's more of a Ne child - Si parent thing(well it's the same case Xd) ? Once again thanks for the chapter! I know it's a video, just bad habbits(nope not gonna just erase that word even though it's easier). Also thanks for reminding me of the podcasts, I actually do tend to listen to your youtube videos while walking ... I guess you got yourself a new podcast subscdiber XD
ESFJ M here 😁 when u talked about the family gatherings i am out numbered cus the don’t treat each other as family (at least how i see family and other families function) and i suspect that my mom is an ESFJ so it went into me hating almost my entire family and i stopped carring ... my mom is the only link that binds me into my family cus she is trying hard to have me stick around since i am the only one that cares about family in general even thou i hate them and have nothing good to say about them Sorry i went into bit of a rant 🙃 if you read through it then thank u 😊 holiday season 😅 i had to vent 😊
This is a really good video by the way very very informative.but I can notice u have some issues with your isfj mother because of ur continuous critique and referring it back to ur mom
Please stop projecting your mommy issues onto all isfj's. This is not objective. I still like you even though you are cynical about my type. We all have our mommy issues, so I understand.
he totally is! wow, did you see he wrote "my condolences" to someone's comment about having an ISFJ parent. The original commenter was just stating a fact and he turned it to a negative.
I feel tbh Wat he said bout isfj Is fuckingggg Accurate I mean there r diff or sligthyl diff isfj But holyyyy People r againg hes against them etc But the truth is Thats the truth Im isjf I know peopel around me who r isfj Its just like wat he said Or almosttt I meannn its fact So people dont be salty
I’ve taken multiple test and one says I’m an ESFJ and the other one says I’m an ISFJ. I’m trying to figure which one I’m truly am? Any feedback? Thanks in advance! Btw great video!
That comes down to preference. Ability is not preference. What you do the most is not preference. Which one you would pick if you got the choice is preference. Good Luck
Do you do a male version of baking cookies for everyone all the time? Esfj. Are you tender hearted (ISFJ) or cooler (ESFJ). Do you prefer deep, intimate relationships (ISFJ) or many “warm” but not intimate friendships and relationships (ESFJ)?
Google User Te trickster combined with Fi critic and Fe parent. If they “feel responsible” for you then they expect you to take the same punishment they do. And if you aren’t, they will punish you.
Forgive me, but, I am not here to impress anyone. SJs treat me with contempt all the time, and most NPs would agree. What's fair is fair. Besides, being an SJ in first world culture gets one an automatic pass, especially if male SJ. Also, is any contempt that I may share in my lectures any less true? Furthermore, if you compare the Who Are the INFJs? lecture you will note many feeling like I was holding them in contempt and yet the ISFJ and/or ESFJ lectures of the same type were not so contemptuous. It is important for you to note that I am balancing out each lecture with a more negative tone or a more positive tone as time goes on to make sure all bases are covered.
As an ISFJ,
Force isn’t my thing.
I wouldn’t force anyone to believe what I believe, it’s more so that I want everyone to be open to what I believe and then use their free will to make a decision. I understand that free will is necessary for the authenticity of taking on said beliefs.
nah, I wouldn't take it to hard what he says about ISFJ, his mom is one, so he's harping on their negative qualities extra hard and kinda out of proportion tbh
Haha 😂 you just described me spot on. I am an ESFJ. The part where you called them a doormat, I have been called a doormat more than once.
You are so passive agressive about ISFJ‘s it‘s so funny 😂 Brilliant video keep it up!
Lol, I think he has issues with an ISFJ in his life (his mom), I noticed in all these videos he's proportionally more focused on the negatives for this type. Yes they can remember everything and hold grudges, but they don't consume the entirety of their life like he makes it out to be. He barely touches on the positive contributions they make and seems to define them by their negatives. Also notice how he mocks specific conversations coming from a negative ISFJ experience. Just an observation. I've had positive interactions with ISFJ's and ESFJ's and seen how they handled bad experiences.
watch all the ISFJ ones
He does talk about the good things, when they become Ne aspirational and get over there fear they can accomplish alot of creative endeavors.
This helps a lot for me to understand my ESFJ mother. She controls my life because I refuse to give her gratitude and recognition, which she craves like crazy. This started when I was in grade school. I am now pushing sixty and she still tries to control my life. Now I know that we have twenty plus more years of this love/hate relationship.
Btw, I love your attitude. Great work.
Wow...talk about honest delivery...i being eaten alive by an ISFJ.
My ISFJ. mother is endlessly "disappointed" in me because I don't let another family member floor me with rudeness...
"People won't like you." she says...
I say i don't care...HORRORS
It seems some ISfjs expect you to suffer the same abuse they suffer and like it?
Google User you are correct
Correct haha
Absolutely brilliant! I'm a new subscriber and everything I've heard here is amazing. Very inspiring.
Much appreciated.
ruclips.net/video/XvR-kTUad6U/видео.html
lul
I’m married to an INTJ for 20 years and I have no interest in making him walk the line’ but NT’s have ways of challenging the social rules that I respect and drive me crazy at the same time. The negative points of SJ’s are spot on in unhealthy ones. It’s weird because I see a lot of people who think their moms are SJ’s which is valid but I think moms easily fit into the SJ profile trying to give kids structure.
Well said!
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That part where you're talking about the ESFJ physicist gave me a good chuckle
With ISFJ,
I want to know what’s in it for someone when they do something as opposed to thinking right away about them screwing me over.
ISFJ believes guilty until innocent.
Esfj believes innocent until guilty.
Both keep record of wrongs, but not as much as ISFJs.
ESFJ tends to force people to go to family gatherings.
ISFJs enforce bc they are being forced.
ESTJ & ESFJ, Se critic as elitism.
SFJs faithful to organized religion
Wowee them SFJs I tell you what. *spits in spitoon*
I have an ISFJ parent and they are never direct. If you try to get them to be direct they'll look at you blankly and then start informing you in concrete terms. Lollll. Super confusing behavior as an NP when you want abstract informative answers OR direct concrete answers. But jeez, not informative concrete. Anything but that, please.
Woah the ISFJ subconcious actually explains why ENTPs can hold a lie so long , i. e. Great liars.(Since they aspire to have faith in their lies ,when in their vice, and echances their "performance").
It also explains why I can speak with conviction about my more absurd thoughts.
Faith in their lies... wow, this comment is one of the most epic on this channel. Kudos good sir, Kudos to you.
@@CSJoseph
based of my own expierience and my own worry as to how I can become super manipulative if I actually wanted + the knowledge you gave me, it's a nice combo.
Thanks for the thought provoking words !
Also hopefully I'll join your discord in the nearest time (a month the latest , gotta get my shit together and study for my end of high school exams ;_; ), I kinda wonder if I will sow discord there :P
My maternal grandmother was an ESFJ and she had Alzheimer's. I miss her. She showed so much love. She was never physically abusive with her children. She loved gossip. She made me laugh because she believed what was written in The National Enquirer. She was very conservative and she would tell me that she believed Oprah and Barack Obama were having a sexual relationship because that is what The National Enquirer mentioned. She wouldn't let me help her clean up.
My maternal grandfather was an ESTJ who had Dementia. He was very abusive when angry. He was strict and rigid.
Great video,
You literally described my isfj crush who i met at work, the irony is we work at an NonForProfit... better now i understand her logic.
As an INFJ male im always looking at how "others" can experience and grow, so im constantly looking at ways or things to say that will stimulate her growth and bring her out of her shadow functions to make her "comfortable"
My question to myself now is how do i find ways to shock her NE whilst still being myself and how consistent this needs to be done.
My Dad is an ISFJ. I love him, but as a freedom based creator, I have to constantly lie to him to enable my freedom. He thinks I'm an angel, little does he know 🤣 -ISFP
Compared to my ESFJ friends, they are much quieter.
Esjs are deffo less controlling than isjs
Can you do a video about how each type would behave on caffeine or alcohol?
Space Folk yes I will
I love this, great humor and insights. Perfect. I’m just learning about this stuff, but it leaves no doubt in my mind Mom is an ISFJ. Laughed at the only “one” organized religion imposed on family. Yup.
Okay, so I suppressed all my functions except Ti to watch this video, he is correct about ISFJ, slightly biased but still quite an accurate generalization.
Amazing video as always.
Thankyou I think I am isfj and I always thought that people only see the bad in me but I only thought that because I am that way Thank you very much mind blown.
I believe your mom regrets holding grudges. She just doesn't know how to let go of past hurts. She as an ISFJ has high standards and she had too high of a standard for you because you are her son and she believes that traditions and family events are very important. When she sees you being stubborn to go against the family traditions, she thinks you don't love or care about your family. ISFJs will retaliate if they think you are being stubborn, ignorant, or disrespectful.
Your mom needs a friend who is an ESFP to help her focus on the present and see what you are doing in the present tense with Se. I think all personalities need to be confronted and helped by a personality whose dominant function is the the extroverted or introverted opposite.
ESFPs can help ISFJs and ESTPs can help ISTJs when stressed because each is the other's shadow.
ISFPs can help ESFJs when an ESFJ is stressed because when an ESFJ is stressed she or he becomes their shadow function which is an ISFP.
Omg, the grudge fest is real. I have a family member who has help one for 25 years, and it was something stupid. I deal with it by ghosting because I can't stand the passive-aggressive punishment. Although, I'm ISFJ and this person is probably the same, or maybe ESFJ. I don't hold grudges but I have some serious boundaries and door slams if taken advantage.
Awesome vid!
As an ESFJ, I'm curious why at 29:55 you would point out ESFJs would be screwed if an ENFP would get a hold of us?
Thanks!
because they can sell you into the dumpster.
As an ESFJ, I can fall into major traps thanks to my naive ways (thanks, Ne child) and get really screwed over for it (despite having positive intentions going in). I find this aspect to be very true in my case.
You hate us ESFJ's haha awesome video man, I'm dating a ESFJ female (who is a sagittarius and I am a capricorn figures how stubborn I can be sometimes) we both literally need to be recognized haha! Thanks for this man, very detailed and awesome way in understanding my partner lol
Hi! Your videos are so informative. Been quite addicted to them, actually. I have a question, is it possible to be both ESFJ and ISFJ at the same time? I really believe I'm an ISFJ but I can relate to many of the things you explained about the ESFJ as opposed to ISFJ. Also I kinda think I was an ESFJ before but circumstances caused me to be more jaded and I so relate to the ISFJ in so so many ways. Also, I'm an introvert. I remember you saying in one of your videos that you can't change type and that ambiversion isn't a thing.. so my questions are prolly silly haha but I'm just confused and am hoping for some enlightenment. '16 personalities' is so fascinating to me.. def. helped open my mind and understand that people think differently.
No not possible, Season 17 explains more
@@CSJoseph ok thanks.
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Not going to lie I definitely felt you when you were going on about ISFJs holding grudges etc. Not going to lie that was me especially before I started taking my relationship with Jesus seriously. My husband is INFJ and I've definitely been this way with him but now I definitely know better after doing a lot of spiritual healing. I struggle but I definitely am not the same way that I used to be.
It sounds like you had a very bad experience with an ISFJ. I can't imagine what you've had to endure in your lifetime and I'm sure you're better for it, but it's just really unfortunate. It's also important to point out that ENTPs and ISFJs are complete opposites so that can contribute to some of the bitterness between both parties.
When I am stressed, I will initiate. My shadow is an ESFJ. I can be taken for granted in my shadow. I hold on to grudges in my shadow. The only way an ISFP holds grudges is when he or she is stressed, angry or repeatedly betrayed or disrespected.
You shouldn't be forced to see family members you don't like. Not even my shadow which is ESFJ cares about making sure everyone goes to family gatherings. Being ESFJ in my shadow, I just want to make sure the house is clean for company and clean and decorated for company coming over for the holidays and cooking appetizers for company to eat and having desserts for them to eat.
My father is an ESFJ and my mother is an ISFJ.
my condolences
C.S. Joseph Why? I’m an INFP male by the way😆.
I'm confused now, I mean, I'm not social and not daring as esfj In fact, I lock myself in the house to escape from people's judgement and what they think about me , It's complicated, why it has to be that hard for me to know and decide who I am?
I couldn't recognize myself, so I feel a little desperate.
By the way, you were very funny when you changed your voice.
I am ISFJ and I have held grudges more more than a decade looool
Yeah.... I'm an INTP and my mom is an ISFJ also. I know the struggle all too well.
We ISFJ's practice reconnaissance. lol
We don't appreciate deception. We're not deceptive people.
I wouldn't send someone related down the river. You're wrong here. Respectfully.
Man from the future is back 😎
Haha, love this.
13:40 idk why that little dance made me laugh ao hard...i am gonna go make that a gif now
But if I think of it it’s weird like isfp are more willing to be free spirit and do their own thing and esfj isfj more like to be family life and socialize
weaklings and lambs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! easily manipulated and exploited that what they are!!!!!!!! herd individuals or humans. infps too.
Would you mind doing one that compares ISFJ and INFJ?
Its on teh schedule
Yeap, I am ENFJ computer programmer (Game dev).
My mom is an ESFJ. Not a doormat, but does she give more than she receives? Yes all the time. Also she has many toxic qualities so I’m not here to attack or defend them.
I'm confused. I don't know if I am an esfj or an infj. You said that esfj's are the biggest doormat and are easily taken advantage of and will approach things optimistically on the first time. However, I am very very veryyyyyy easily taken advantage of and I do feel pessimistic towards other people and their intentions but I still continue being a big doormat for them. I don't know if that proves me an infj because I feel like I deserve this treatment which goes back to the fi critic where I literally think I deserve bad treatment.
Also, I have always thought of myself as a movement type therefore an esfj but after you explained it in another video I am having second thoughts. I do take my time to do things but at the same time I can get really impatient with progress. I talk fast walk fast and get impatient about things happening. But in my day to day life I really take my time to do things right. I'm confused! Someone please help.
Also you said that isfj's keep a record of everything. And it's not so much to use against the person themselves, I think I do it but it's to protect myself, to protect myself from being hurt again or to protect myself from being too trusting. It's not to hurt the other person alot of the times I keep the record all to myself for my own reference.
but its wrong to judge others based on past experiences from people who are not those others.
@@CSJoseph True, Ne inferior is to blame.
I thought that introversion and extroversion were on a spectrum and the I or E just determined whether your dominant function is extroverted or introverted. What happens to ambivert people? Can't you be an extrovert with the first function in your stack being introverted and vice versa?
I did a lecture on Ambiversion. ruclips.net/video/gHWCn5-EWkQ/видео.html
I would never ask an ESFJ to do anything... unless I want it done slap dash and are willing to give praise for such nonsense. Who am I kidding, laundry and dinner is fine to get done slap dash, I'll even fake some praise if it's done on time. Saying that I would love to meet an ESFJ that has some kind of drive to... "be smart", but it hasn't happened yet in my life. Good to hear they exist though. 23:50 they will buy brand name electronics without looking at the specs. INTP goes... wow you're an idiot for paying double what I did, when my no-name TV *IS* better, here's why. They don't appreciate that.
Joseph Stott true that
I get along very will with those types especially esfj because we grow up together so I learned so much from them actually I feel like I become isfp because of them but whatever.. isfj hmm they are like my grandma who make delicious cookies 🍪 and has that ginger cat . sometimes nobody understand them which i know why because we are introverts but i try my hard to make a lot of jokes to make them like me actually i feel connected more to them than my enfj and estp
Does "Te trickster" make people reluctant to read books or view some kind of external data?
That's Te Demon, Te trickster either forgets to look for data or accepts all data with equal weight.
@@CSJoseph ah, I see. Thank you
Hi Chase !
Is it possible for Se critic to be also about the duties/obligations of ppl around you, I mean like a "You should do that(ironing the shirt) to look better" or "You should take care of the choires" , or maybe it's more of a Ne child - Si parent thing(well it's the same case Xd) ?
Once again thanks for the chapter!
I know it's a video, just bad habbits(nope not gonna just erase that word even though it's easier).
Also thanks for reminding me of the podcasts, I actually do tend to listen to your youtube videos while walking ...
I guess you got yourself a new podcast subscdiber XD
yes
Sound more Se nemises
INTP son with an ISFJ mom, Rip my life and sanity..... 🙂
You have Season 21 episode 7 in your season 7 (on the castbox).
Please give some more respect to these personalities. As an SFJ, I have NPs friends, and we enjoy each other. Dislike
my probably ESFJ stepmom is a very good home decorator, could it be her ISFP unconscious as opposed to her INTP subconscious?
ESFJ M here 😁 when u talked about the family gatherings i am out numbered cus the don’t treat each other as family (at least how i see family and other families function) and i suspect that my mom is an ESFJ so it went into me hating almost my entire family and i stopped carring ... my mom is the only link that binds me into my family cus she is trying hard to have me stick around since i am the only one that cares about family in general even thou i hate them and have nothing good to say about them
Sorry i went into bit of a rant 🙃 if you read through it then thank u 😊 holiday season 😅 i had to vent 😊
This is a really good video by the way very very informative.but I can notice u have some issues with your isfj mother because of ur continuous critique and referring it back to ur mom
No
@@CSJoseph OK. U are a good teacher learnt a lot from this.very educative and u broke it down really well.keep up the good work u earned a sub
I thought a bit and noticed that everybody gives the benefit of doubt, just some doubt your intentions until proven otherwise :P
why did this video feel more entertaining than informational?
Please stop projecting your mommy issues onto all isfj's. This is not objective. I still like you even though you are cynical about my type. We all have our mommy issues, so I understand.
im not here to be objective. I am here to be biased.
he totally is! wow, did you see he wrote "my condolences" to someone's comment about having an ISFJ parent. The original commenter was just stating a fact and he turned it to a negative.
I agree, not an isfj here but I felt that strongly.
I feel tbh
Wat he said bout isfj
Is fuckingggg
Accurate
I mean there r diff or sligthyl diff isfj
But holyyyy
People r againg hes against them etc
But the truth is
Thats the truth
Im isjf
I know peopel around me who r isfj
Its just like wat he said
Or almosttt
I meannn its fact
So people dont be salty
Could you do how do ENTJs compare to ESTJs.
Yassin Hassan yessir, it’s already on the schedule
C.S. Joseph looking forward to it!
20:13 lol! HAHAHA
Can you do the infj vs isfj? Thank you for this now i have a better understanding of myself
already in queue
holy shit dude what ISFJ hurt you 😭😭😭
I’ve taken multiple test and one says I’m an ESFJ and the other one says I’m an ISFJ. I’m trying to figure which one I’m truly am? Any feedback? Thanks in advance! Btw great video!
That comes down to preference. Ability is not preference. What you do the most is not preference. Which one you would pick if you got the choice is preference. Good Luck
Do you do a male version of baking cookies for everyone all the time? Esfj.
Are you tender hearted (ISFJ) or cooler (ESFJ). Do you prefer deep, intimate relationships (ISFJ) or many “warm” but not intimate friendships and relationships (ESFJ)?
It’s because rabbits mate and reproduce almost non stop.
How does one develop their subconscious?
watch Season 16 episode 4 for the answer :)
You get way more emotional when you talk about ISFJ than any other type. Your points are fair, but the emotion is a lot for ISFJ people to deal with.
It’s not a lot, it’s what they hope for.
Why do ISFJ hold people to double standards...?
Google User Te trickster combined with Fi critic and Fe parent. If they “feel responsible” for you then they expect you to take the same punishment they do. And if you aren’t, they will punish you.
Alright i like the video my mother is ISFJ the beginning of the video your hand movements are backwards with the board. It threw me off
Not impressed.. you seem to have more contempt for SJ’s types then understanding who they are
Forgive me, but, I am not here to impress anyone. SJs treat me with contempt all the time, and most NPs would agree. What's fair is fair. Besides, being an SJ in first world culture gets one an automatic pass, especially if male SJ. Also, is any contempt that I may share in my lectures any less true? Furthermore, if you compare the Who Are the INFJs? lecture you will note many feeling like I was holding them in contempt and yet the ISFJ and/or ESFJ lectures of the same type were not so contemptuous. It is important for you to note that I am balancing out each lecture with a more negative tone or a more positive tone as time goes on to make sure all bases are covered.
MACK WICKER I agree he’s brilliant but enough with the overkill of religion in context of ISFJ.
MACK WICKER I would think more difference with generations
Not that I know of.
I mena, I am mega low level compatibility with SJs... sue me.
God you hate ISFJs so much... this video must be very offensive for them.
I hate each type equally.
Some good insights...but your tone and attitude comes off like you are really condescending or hateful toward sj’s!
thats natural because NPs are naturally incompatible with SJs. Sadly, I am not all things to all people.
@Monzive ENTP