Thank you for mentioning the correlation between pornography, social media and dating apps. The latter is an explicit example of commodifying and manipulating the human desire for love and attachment into an illusory buffet service of choice. Regarding social media, Instagram and their "influencers" openly sell a fantasy world that is akin to pornographic content. The irony of watching this video is that I appear to have replaced the porn addiction for RUclips. The symmetry of opening multiple tabs is concerning. However, I'm conscious of it and I just came across more informative content from the great Noah Church. The drug could be worse. Keep up the great work.
@Slothspeare I noticed the exact same thing. Pornography acted as the number one exciting thing to do in my life, not just orgasms. Its like an unhappiness/discontentment reset. If you don't stay discontented long enough you don't build up the drive to do something. I think the mind has realised that if it watches a lot of RUclips it can escape the feelings of discomfort that inevitably arise.
Thank you for making this video, Noah! Porn substitutes is what I struggled with for years, even though I rarely viewed real "porn". Very glad to be making some real progress! ❤
Im 22 years and im suffering from pied since like 4 years ago. I didnt know until like the last month that it was pied, despite the fact that i've being suspicious of it for like the last 2 years. 5 months ago, i met and started dating with a girl that i find so beautiful, and her personality was amazing (at least when things were good) and various times she would go completely down on me wanting sex and for the 3rd/4th times i was abble to find excuses not to do it, saying thing like i cant do it right now because of a situation im not confortable to tell u. Of course one day she just said to me that if i didnt told her what was going on she would not proceed to a relationship with me so i told her. At first she was saying she would not leave me for not manage to getting it up but yeah, i think theres no big surprise that she just dumped me like 3 to 4 weeks later. I felt and still feel destroyed by it, but i guess its life. What pisses me off is that i just want to be a normal guy, that can have sex and intimacy with the women i love and find atractive. Anyway, during the time i was with her, i decided to do a no fap, not because i knew it was pied ( at the time i still didnt know) but because i just tought, if i dont jerk off, my sexual drive will be better and maybe i can do sex with her. The problem was i quitted after a month, because i was on a flatline, a really hard one (like i didnt had urges to watch porn because i had 0 sexual drive) and i didnt know it was a flatline. So in my head i tough i was going nuts and that i would never feel sexually atracted to any women or even to porn. So i came back to porn but i started to experience difficulties even watching these vids. So i done an extensive research and thats when i found out about pied. I started a no fap imediately, regreting so much that i stoped the 1st one. Im now 25 days clean again, if i didnt stopped the first one i could be around 90 days clean and maybe this problem would be solved... but anyway, "the best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, the second best time is now". Wish me luck ✌️✌️✌️
Also i deleted instagram, twitter, tiktok, everything, the only thing feeding my dopamine is youtube, wich im consedering to uninstall to, and games, but games are kinda my hobbie so i think it will be a little bit hard to quit on them to 😅
We are together in this am passing through the same situation I have been having alot of girls liking me but I fail to do the same because I can't get it up
I discovered that watching the NEWS does the exact same thing to my brain as watching porn. Literally it is porn. Watching other people you don´t even know and who don´t care for you at all doing things that exclude and humiliate you because you cannot get involved and/or influence the plot and/or the outcome.
Sir Noah please, please I used to abstinence from porn for 10 months, but after that i relapse for 2 years , my addiction become more harder. I want to ask you if the process of abstinence from for 10 months will still benefit me or all these process is lost. Thank you Sir Noah, you remind me the time when i got full recovery from porn, it was brilliant days, i wish it lasted until now, but the new traumas were stronger than my willpower.
If you've been relapsing for two years then the direct recovery benefits from that 10 months are gone. However, what you learned from that time still remains.
Man i feel soo bad, my manhood is gone i feel terrible because of that and i feel like ill never get back to normal, fk sake why was porn ever allowed in society, i got hooked very young age. i am now starting my journey for past few weeks. I would say i have become way more productive and more active than before. But knowing I'm in a flatline and feel like my downstairs is completely dead and even gone small is worrying me a lot. I will quit everything now including no porn fap.
I just tested it and it seems to work. You'll get a subscription confirmation request, then within a few minutes the book will be in your inbox. Check your spam folder. If you still don't see it then email me and I'll send it directly: noah@coachchurch.com
around 3.20 would this still be the same as having previous relapses accidentally? Or is it the actual idea that you will go back to it while trying to quit that makes it take longer to recover/ brain be fixed
I've been there. You're definitely not alone, but you can get free. I highly recommend you join the Group I run and get the support of me and a team of other guys on the same journey: myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/RSD
Sir i was suffering from pied for last few month. Will it possible to recover from pied if possible then sir plz give me some tips that help me to reebot faster. Sir plz reply
PIED is absolutely reversible. You should read my book to get all the foundational information you need to heal. Free PDF here: myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/wack
So does being 13 effect the recovery time (it's just for my friend bcs I just want to help him). please tell me. thanks for replying to the previous comment.
Starting recovery when you're young is a positive thing. He will recover more quickly if he stops now than if he were to continue using for another 10 years and then stop at 23.
I'm recovering porn addict and I hadn't looked or thought of porn in a couple of years anyways just wondering is looking at pics and watching other stuff considered "post" porn like on social media such as twitter?
I thought this video was going to be about things that are healthy that could be a replacement of porn like hobbies or productive things. However this video is still helpful. But mind if you do this idea that I thought of first.
There’s a technique I created called the past present and future death trap. The moment I did it the first three days or 4 I lasted like 10 days or more without porn. But I got lazy and stopped doing it and relapsed again the fire went out. It is like this. I combine your hypnosis video with another video called masculine theory. Everytime I relapse I write down all the negative emotions I feel and the guilt and worries of your future. Afterwards watch a video about the potential benefits that I can have if you’re in semen retention. The keystone is to stay in the present moment and be persistent. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t making progress and are on day 3 afflicted with doubts and insecurities about how you aren’t on a 4 years streak. Or doubts that you will never make it. It is never about looking at the future or the defying yourself with the past actions of masturbation. It is about being persistent and constantly lighting up that flame within and reboot and program your mind to believe that you aren’t even a porn addict it involves revision techniques too it is like pressuring and taking both the negativity and the positivity and with both sides you’re crushing that porn addiction and killing it. With the negative notes you took and the masculine theory video. Plus hypnosis and believing the future version of who you want to become= a superhero. You just created a supernatural archangel type of person or marvel character. Oh I forgot you will be a normal human but what I forgot was that other element the law of assumption. There that’s how you’ll become a super hero there we go again. It is a mystical practice by some guru named Neville Goddard. To summarize it. Your mind is extremely powerful especially the subconscious mind and your imagination . If done the wrong way you can tie yourself to a self fulfilling prophecy and a false identity. Is like a combination of past present and future and trapping the porn addiction like a mouse trap. And killing it. When I first did this was rejoicing and laughing 😂 as if I was free!! Like a crazy laughter the demon is finally gone. It felt like I was finally breathing spiritually. It also felt like the person that was lustful was a completely different fiend and not even me. It is the best way I can explain like my whole identity and what I define myself completely vanquished like snake skin. It is as if I was taking layers off and meditating deeply!.. the next days I felt free as if I was dead to the porn addiction. Almost childlike
If they are able to stick to the guidelines, most people will heal completely within a year. Some do take longer even if they do everything right, but that's the minority.
Sure it can. It won't stop you from recovering from PIED, but your brain will be looking for other sources of excitement in recovery. Best to find those in healthy off-screen ways, like socializing, exercise, nature, creativity, etc.
hey noah thanks for the amazing work you do for us and the amount of informative content you publish.I have a question,is it possible to heal from PIED without a partner/while being single? I have had this question for a while now but I never got a response
It's possible for a lot of the healing to happen and it's possible to have successful sex on the first try after a long reboot, but for more people some amount of rewiring (practice having sex/intimacy) is necessary for full recovery.
You helped me out last year bro ❤love from south Africa 🇿🇦
3months clean and cured from pied
how much time to take for your cure bro??
Congrats man!
@@ANIKRAHMAN-m3h3 months
I was literally just on RUclips looking up some “asmr” videos when this video popped up. I needed to see this 😩
Thank you for mentioning the correlation between pornography, social media and dating apps. The latter is an explicit example of commodifying and manipulating the human desire for love and attachment into an illusory buffet service of choice. Regarding social media, Instagram and their "influencers" openly sell a fantasy world that is akin to pornographic content. The irony of watching this video is that I appear to have replaced the porn addiction for RUclips. The symmetry of opening multiple tabs is concerning. However, I'm conscious of it and I just came across more informative content from the great Noah Church. The drug could be worse. Keep up the great work.
Most everything online is designed to capture and hold our attention, so we have to guard it carefully!
@Slothspeare I noticed the exact same thing. Pornography acted as the number one exciting thing to do in my life, not just orgasms. Its like an unhappiness/discontentment reset. If you don't stay discontented long enough you don't build up the drive to do something. I think the mind has realised that if it watches a lot of RUclips it can escape the feelings of discomfort that inevitably arise.
Thank you for making this video, Noah! Porn substitutes is what I struggled with for years, even though I rarely viewed real "porn". Very glad to be making some real progress! ❤
I needed this, this very moment
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP.THIS TIME WE'LL MAKE IT.STAY STRONG!!👍🏻
This is a really important message. It's something many men don't realise at first (including me). Thank you for the work you're doing.
It's no different than substituting black tea for coffee and it's always caused me to relapse
Im 22 years and im suffering from pied since like 4 years ago. I didnt know until like the last month that it was pied, despite the fact that i've being suspicious of it for like the last 2 years.
5 months ago, i met and started dating with a girl that i find so beautiful, and her personality was amazing (at least when things were good) and various times she would go completely down on me wanting sex and for the 3rd/4th times i was abble to find excuses not to do it, saying thing like i cant do it right now because of a situation im not confortable to tell u. Of course one day she just said to me that if i didnt told her what was going on she would not proceed to a relationship with me so i told her. At first she was saying she would not leave me for not manage to getting it up but yeah, i think theres no big surprise that she just dumped me like 3 to 4 weeks later. I felt and still feel destroyed by it, but i guess its life. What pisses me off is that i just want to be a normal guy, that can have sex and intimacy with the women i love and find atractive.
Anyway, during the time i was with her, i decided to do a no fap, not because i knew it was pied ( at the time i still didnt know) but because i just tought, if i dont jerk off, my sexual drive will be better and maybe i can do sex with her. The problem was i quitted after a month, because i was on a flatline, a really hard one (like i didnt had urges to watch porn because i had 0 sexual drive) and i didnt know it was a flatline. So in my head i tough i was going nuts and that i would never feel sexually atracted to any women or even to porn. So i came back to porn but i started to experience difficulties even watching these vids. So i done an extensive research and thats when i found out about pied. I started a no fap imediately, regreting so much that i stoped the 1st one. Im now 25 days clean again, if i didnt stopped the first one i could be around 90 days clean and maybe this problem would be solved... but anyway, "the best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, the second best time is now". Wish me luck ✌️✌️✌️
Also i deleted instagram, twitter, tiktok, everything, the only thing feeding my dopamine is youtube, wich im consedering to uninstall to, and games, but games are kinda my hobbie so i think it will be a little bit hard to quit on them to 😅
I know how much that hurts, I've been there. But great job deciding not to let that happen again!
@@mariofreitas2944 hii bro how's going
I feel you brother I’m on the pied journey will be 2 years in February and still not recovered i have a supporting gf so it helps big time
We are together in this am passing through the same situation I have been having alot of girls liking me but I fail to do the same because I can't get it up
I discovered that watching the NEWS does the exact same thing to my brain as watching porn. Literally it is porn. Watching other people you don´t even know and who don´t care for you at all doing things that exclude and humiliate you because you cannot get involved and/or influence the plot and/or the outcome.
Video games with suggestive themes/character design.
Good call out.
Sir Noah please, please I used to abstinence from porn for 10 months, but after that i relapse for 2 years , my addiction become more harder. I want to ask you if the process of abstinence from for 10 months will still benefit me or all these process is lost. Thank you Sir Noah, you remind me the time when i got full recovery from porn, it was brilliant days, i wish it lasted until now, but the new traumas were stronger than my willpower.
If you've been relapsing for two years then the direct recovery benefits from that 10 months are gone. However, what you learned from that time still remains.
Man i feel soo bad, my manhood is gone i feel terrible because of that and i feel like ill never get back to normal, fk sake why was porn ever allowed in society, i got hooked very young age.
i am now starting my journey for past few weeks.
I would say i have become way more productive and more active than before.
But knowing I'm in a flatline and feel like my downstairs is completely dead and even gone small is worrying me a lot.
I will quit everything now including no porn fap.
Flatlines are temporary, don't let it break you!
You're great man
I love you
Hey Noah, i cant get your E-Book. Ive signed with 2 e-mails but wont get it in my box, can you send it to me or something?
I just tested it and it seems to work. You'll get a subscription confirmation request, then within a few minutes the book will be in your inbox. Check your spam folder. If you still don't see it then email me and I'll send it directly: noah@coachchurch.com
around 3.20 would this still be the same as having previous relapses accidentally? Or is it the actual idea that you will go back to it while trying to quit that makes it take longer to recover/ brain be fixed
myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/blog/how-reducing-pornography-use-can-be-harmful
I was free from masturbation and porn for two months now but somehow found myself doing it last nigh 😢, Noah I do need your help as God helps me too
I've been there. You're definitely not alone, but you can get free. I highly recommend you join the Group I run and get the support of me and a team of other guys on the same journey: myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/RSD
Sir i was suffering from pied for last few month. Will it possible to recover from pied if possible then sir plz give me some tips that help me to reebot faster. Sir plz reply
PIED is absolutely reversible. You should read my book to get all the foundational information you need to heal. Free PDF here: myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/wack
Thanks sir.
So does being 13 effect the recovery time (it's just for my friend bcs I just want to help him). please tell me. thanks for replying to the previous comment.
Starting recovery when you're young is a positive thing. He will recover more quickly if he stops now than if he were to continue using for another 10 years and then stop at 23.
I'm recovering porn addict and I hadn't looked or thought of porn in a couple of years anyways just wondering is looking at pics and watching other stuff considered "post" porn like on social media such as twitter?
I thought this video was going to be about things that are healthy that could be a replacement of porn like hobbies or productive things. However this video is still helpful. But mind if you do this idea that I thought of first.
I may make that video too!
There’s a technique I created called the past present and future death trap. The moment I did it the first three days or 4 I lasted like 10 days or more without porn. But I got lazy and stopped doing it and relapsed again the fire went out. It is like this.
I combine your hypnosis video with another video called masculine theory. Everytime I relapse I write down all the negative emotions I feel and the guilt and worries of your future. Afterwards watch a video about the potential benefits that I can have if you’re in semen retention. The keystone is to stay in the present moment and be persistent. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t making progress and are on day 3 afflicted with doubts and insecurities about how you aren’t on a 4 years streak. Or doubts that you will never make it. It is never about looking at the future or the defying yourself with the past actions of masturbation. It is about being persistent and constantly lighting up that flame within and reboot and program your mind to believe that you aren’t even a porn addict it involves revision techniques too it is like pressuring and taking both the negativity and the positivity and with both sides you’re crushing that porn addiction and killing it. With the negative notes you took and the masculine theory video. Plus hypnosis and believing the future version of who you want to become= a superhero. You just created a supernatural archangel type of person or marvel character. Oh I forgot you will be a normal human but what I forgot was that other element the law of assumption. There that’s how you’ll become a super hero there we go again. It is a mystical practice by some guru named Neville Goddard. To summarize it. Your mind is extremely powerful especially the subconscious mind and your imagination . If done the wrong way you can tie yourself to a self fulfilling prophecy and a false identity.
Is like a combination of past present and future and trapping the porn addiction like a mouse trap. And killing it. When I first did this was rejoicing and laughing 😂 as if I was free!! Like a crazy laughter the demon is finally gone. It felt like I was finally breathing spiritually. It also felt like the person that was lustful was a completely different fiend and not even me. It is the best way I can explain like my whole identity and what I define myself completely vanquished like snake skin. It is as if I was taking layers off and meditating deeply!.. the next days I felt free as if I was dead to the porn addiction. Almost childlike
Can you see my replies
@@Fire_youngprinceElias Yes, thanks for sharing that technique. It sounds like it works very well for you!
How long does it take to recover please tell me it's severe
If they are able to stick to the guidelines, most people will heal completely within a year. Some do take longer even if they do everything right, but that's the minority.
Noah, can you make a video on PAWS? there are several men who are going 3,4,5 years of complete abstinence and their libido is just not coming back
I'll definitely put that on the list!
How old are you?
@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey 32
por favor dame una respuesta me encantaría poder saber si puedo traducir el contenido a español
el contenido de tu curso
Todas las lecciones son escritas y en video, así que puedes usar software de traducción. Desafortunadamente, no hay subtítulos en español.
Can we still take our caffeine fix in morning?
In terms of porn recovery, yes. It won't hurt your recovery.
Hei noah, I'm on day 75 no PMO...I had PIED.... How can ensure that now I'm get rid from PIED?
You should get my free ebook, it should answer all the basic questions like this: myliferebooted.mykajabi.com/wack
Did it helped??
Sir please do a video for guided meditation for recovering from masturbation 🙏🏾
hi Noah, can I use Tinder
Just be honest with yourself, are you actively using it to meet up with women or swiping passively to look at women
What @ryuxfx52 said.
What Up Noah..can "shopping" be a porn substitute? They say shopping can raise high level of dopamine..The Feel Good effect
Sure it can. It won't stop you from recovering from PIED, but your brain will be looking for other sources of excitement in recovery. Best to find those in healthy off-screen ways, like socializing, exercise, nature, creativity, etc.
I think i. Perm damanged its summer 2024 ,no change im 52
Am i recovered when my receptors grow back
Did u recovered??
Also sneezing lol. Apparently it gives you a micro-orgasm 🤧😏.
hey noah thanks for the amazing work you do for us and the amount of informative content you publish.I have a question,is it possible to heal from PIED without a partner/while being single? I have had this question for a while now but I never got a response
It's possible for a lot of the healing to happen and it's possible to have successful sex on the first try after a long reboot, but for more people some amount of rewiring (practice having sex/intimacy) is necessary for full recovery.
Hii bro you are indian