Great advice..don’t look to any one else but your self..i love your advice..it helps me a lot..want you to know that my husband don’t look and listen your channel..but I’m changing because the Lord lives in me and I believe that God sent your advice. I want to thank you and bless you 🙌🏿
My marriage counselor that I go to alone has given up. My pastor says we aren’t married and he’s not a marriage counselor and walked away. I don’t understand what’s going on. I’ll give one example that sets a pattern for most of the other areas in our life. We have a 10 year old daughter that sleeps in our bed. I’ve been voicing my concerns for ages about her needing to be in her bed. I also say I want us to find a way that works for both of us and is good for our daughter. Our daughter still sleeps in our bed and I’m told that I have to control everything and it always goes my way. I don’t understand. I feel like I’m being constantly gaslighted and it’s driving me nuts. I can’t talk about how she hurts me in a good way or an unbiblical way (yes I’ve lost my cool and why I originally started counseling). The only way things are good is if I sweep it under a rug and shut up. I just mentioned about going to another counselor so I can voice my concerns and we can come up with common ground and I was belittled for that as well. I don’t understand how we’ve been to all of these seminars and read the books, listened to the podcasts, etc etc. they all have the same basic directions for marriage and somehow I’m out of line for asking for the same. What is going on here?????
I did recognize what I did in our marriage. We did turn our hearts away from each other. He started an affair. I repeated of my sins to God and confessed them to him and asked for forgiveness. I asked him to end the affair and it continued. We went to two marriage counselors and he lied about the affair to both of them; stating that she is just a friend. I asked again and again. Nothing did he do but continue. I wanted the chance to work and all he did was lie. I filed and got out. The deliberate emotional abuse was damaging.
1. It’s Christlike and we owe a debt of gratitude to God 2. The only method of responding to our spouse are problems that creates state true solution. 3. It’s the only Behavior that God will bless stop the vicious cycle of pain and rejection. 3. Trust God for the results as you put your faith in him ( marriage problems tests your faith in God) The best person does the right thing first with humility and laugh Don’t use your mouth to seek revenge because it will only in and chaos instead use your words to love your spouse even when it’s hard Fight for your spouse 4. You have to be willing to do the right thing for someone who’s knowing you wrong, Meet their needs even when they’re not meeting yours. Be willing to bless them when they’re cursing you and be willing to pursue them even when they’re ignoring you. 5. The focus is not your spouse the focus is on Jesus Christ and how big he is that he can save your marriage
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Thank you so much for your continued Godly marriage advice. You have helped me in my struggling marriage in so many ways!
Great advice..don’t look to any one else but your self..i love your advice..it helps me a lot..want you to know that my husband don’t look and listen your channel..but I’m changing because the Lord lives in me and I believe that God sent your advice. I want to thank you and bless you 🙌🏿
My marriage counselor that I go to alone has given up. My pastor says we aren’t married and he’s not a marriage counselor and walked away. I don’t understand what’s going on. I’ll give one example that sets a pattern for most of the other areas in our life. We have a 10 year old daughter that sleeps in our bed. I’ve been voicing my concerns for ages about her needing to be in her bed. I also say I want us to find a way that works for both of us and is good for our daughter. Our daughter still sleeps in our bed and I’m told that I have to control everything and it always goes my way. I don’t understand. I feel like I’m being constantly gaslighted and it’s driving me nuts. I can’t talk about how she hurts me in a good way or an unbiblical way (yes I’ve lost my cool and why I originally started counseling). The only way things are good is if I sweep it under a rug and shut up. I just mentioned about going to another counselor so I can voice my concerns and we can come up with common ground and I was belittled for that as well. I don’t understand how we’ve been to all of these seminars and read the books, listened to the podcasts, etc etc. they all have the same basic directions for marriage and somehow I’m out of line for asking for the same. What is going on here?????
AN UNFORTUNATELY TRUE TEACHING. LOL!
I needed this. I thank God for your ministry
I did recognize what I did in our marriage. We did turn our hearts away from each other. He started an affair. I repeated of my sins to God and confessed them to him and asked for forgiveness. I asked him to end the affair and it continued. We went to two marriage counselors and he lied about the affair to both of them; stating that she is just a friend. I asked again and again. Nothing did he do but continue. I wanted the chance to work and all he did was lie. I filed and got out. The deliberate emotional abuse was damaging.
Where can we ask questions that you answer and or get counselling?
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
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1. It’s Christlike and we owe a debt of gratitude to God
2. The only method of responding to our spouse are problems that creates state true solution.
3. It’s the only Behavior that God will bless stop the vicious cycle of pain and rejection.
3. Trust God for the results as you put your faith in him ( marriage problems tests your faith in God)
The best person does the right thing first with humility and laugh
Don’t use your mouth to seek revenge because it will only in and chaos instead use your words to love your spouse even when it’s hard
Fight for your spouse
4. You have to be willing to do the right thing for someone who’s knowing you wrong, Meet their needs even when they’re not meeting yours. Be willing to bless them when they’re cursing you and be willing to pursue them even when they’re ignoring you.
5. The focus is not your spouse the focus is on Jesus Christ and how big he is that he can save your marriage
I honestly wonder how he can say it was all him…
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Why does Christian help cost money? Isn't tidings enough?