"I Would Be Told To Be Married At 14 Years Old." How I Survived A Cult
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- Опубликовано: 12 окт 2022
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we are speaking with Elissa Wall, she tells us her story of being born into a cult and subject to manipulation and abuse. She was forced to marry her cousin at a very young age and felt completely trapped in the cycle of violence. Luckily she found the strength to escape and now tells her story to inspire others...
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The woman who put Warren Jeff in prison. What a f*ck*ng LEGEND 👏👏
Yeah I’m glad she put that Modern Day Version of Joseph Smith in prison. Because when I look at Warren Jeffs he’s like a Modern Day Version of Joseph Smith.
Yes!!!!! I'm clapping as I read your comment. PREACH IT.
She's a modern day warriorESS!!! ❤
What a brave and intelligent woman.
@@beatrice9286Yeah it sure does
Human.
How is this not illegal? After all this and this all is still allowed. Also, how can any state allow a 14yr to be abused and be married away - institutionally?!
It is illegal, but the FLDS infiltrated law enforcement in the area and the age of consent in Utah is sketchy.
They crossed state lines to marry the under age girls, and nobody from the outside knew it was happening
@@bexxa4837 omg thanks for the reply and info.
@@bexxa4837 there are many states where consent is young when parents agree. It’s terrible.
There are only about 8 states in the USA that unconditionally prohibit minors from marrying. Many states allow underage marriage if the parents 'consent'. That leaves it open for the parents to 'compel' too. Bad laws!
The symbolism of warren losing a staring match with a woman is so satisfying.
Addendum: your commitment to changing the area you were captive in to a place of promise and hope for the people is just....beautiful. Not every survivor can march back in and start rebuilding what their abusers tore down. ⚡
This woman is so brave. She walked through hell and came out on top.
Thank you for sharing. I grew up in the Jehovah’s Witnesses cult. I have been cut off from my parents since July who are wonderful but brainwashed. There is indeed life on the other side.
Such courage ❤
So sad that the people who created you would allow strangers to separate them from their flesh and blood 😢What God would want that?
I am so sorry to hear about your experience with the JW’s! My mother has t spoken to me in over 11 yrs due to her belief in the JW’s! It has broken my heart over and over. I cry everyday at the loss of her and my younger brother. What people don’t understand is once you become a jw you are supposed to give up your family for this new family. We even call each other brothers and sisters. They are all great until you have a question or you do something wrong then you are cut off so you are left completely alone!! I hope you are doing ok!! I feel your pain to my core!!
@@lauragosnell2481 I’ve known many
Jw’s they seemed normal. They talked about god sometimes but I just ignored it and was friendly then after about four years I think they realized I didn’t care about their religion and I don’t hear from them anymore. I’m one of those people who can’t be brainwashed I never even once fell for the Covid nonsense. I didn’t even know they were considered a cult. The Covid cult was way too obvious though.
That ain’t a cult. My aunt is a JW and she shared information with me about the religion. I’ve seen cults…and that’s not it.
I don’t belong to any religion today, as I do t believe in religion…but I know JWs ain’t a cult. They might be very strict…but it’s not a cult. I love my aunt very much.
The abuse is horrific, my heart breaks for you, may you heal and have a wonderful life.
I remember watching this documentary on Netflix. I was so appalled by the abuse and brainwashing.
I grew up in the regular LDS church. I have felt like a prisoner of my father and then husband. I'm scared all the time. I'm so inspired by your bravery. I'm so happy for you from the bottom of my heart. I'm glad things have worked out well for you. I'm happy you have a child with a man you love. God bless you. God would NEVER judge men to be more worthy than women. Thank you for all you have done!!!!
I prayed for you. May Jesus wrap his hedge of protection around you and may you be safe in the shadow of his wing. 🙏🏻🤍
I hope you find strength to live your own life, find your self worth and self esteem because you are beautiful you deserve to be happy and free
I will pray for you
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You’re still afraid because you are still stuck? I hope you have found freedom or do because you deserve to be happy.
this is not what the LDS Church teaches I never felt like a prisoner to my dad or my husband. The FLDS is very different from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
There is something diabolical about hiding child abuse through religion. You saved so many lives. Well done. ❤️
Thank you for being so courageous in telling your story. As a survivor of sexual assault myself I just am so proud of you! What you are doing is hard but you are helpful no so many women.❤
Helping so many women I meant to say…stupid big thumbs with a tiny phone!
As a christian I am digusted by these satanic cults. You are one brave of a woman!
Yes❤same
Nah, nothing satanic about this. Pure human abuse. I know Satanists who would never condone anything like this.
As a member of the satanic church I have to tell you that this has nothing to do with satan. You may believe me or not but not all evil comes from satan but also from members of other religions. Imagen how many people think they are a true believer of your god and have killed people for it, punished people because they believe they are no true believers or even raped people because they think they deserve to get what they want because they are on the right path and others are not. And as far as I know Mormons have nothing to do with Satanic Cults.
Sure but this is a christianity based cult.
Christianity is just a different kind of Cult.
The fact that you went back to the community you so bravely escaped from is just amazing. I so admire you for listening to your heart and educating yourself and for your determination to improve the lives of others.
Your son will grow up knowing a wonderful mother.
No one has to “escape” from being a Jehovah’s Witness. Unlike Scientologists and Mormons, Witnesses are free to disassociate without being shunned for that personal decision.
@@logicrealitytruth she wasn’t jehovah’s witness though? she was lds, specifically the flds with warren jeffs
@@grey6703 I know she was LDS. I must have been replying to a different comment directed to me. I never had to “escape” from any group, nor would I associate with any group that infringed on my freedom. I feel sad for anyone held emotionally or physically against their will to a fringe group or ideology that makes them literally have to escape to survive.
@@logicrealitytruth That was not my experience with a friend who was a witness. She studied hard to become a witness, like her family. It just didn't work for her. I'll never forget being in the supermarket and running into an old classmate who happened to be her sister.( I never knew that) She ignored her sister like she wasn't even there, while greeting me with a smile and hug. It was awkward for me, and I was so hurt for my friend. So, don't tell me former Witnesses aren't shunned, unless times have changed. This was many years ago!
@@juliacannon9682 I left for about ten years, and Witnesses were kind to me during that time, unlike my family (all Catholics) who shunned me when I became a Witness. When I chose to follow Jehovah again, I was warmly welcomed back. Even disfellowshipped ones are welcome to attend meetings at the hall; we just don’t socialize with those who choose to egregiously break Jehovah’s laws. I don’t know what transpired between your friend and her sister, but I’m sorry there was not even a greeting exchanged between them. My family does that to me because I left the Catholic Church and am now a Witness. Please don’t judge an entire group of people by one person’s perception. 💞✌🏽🥰
You can hear the fear and anxiety in your voice. You can see the determination and resolve in your eyes and in your body language. When you were speaking of staring down that coward from the witness stand I just wanted to put you on my shoulders to show the world what a hero looks like. You had great courage, faith in the true God, love for your family and yourself despite your probably not feeling that way at the time. Thank you for helping SO many people around the world by speaking the truth.
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a bullying regime to live in. Those men are cruel and misogynistic.
You poor thing. You had to go through so much. I can't imagine having still births as a child.
I'm glad you got justice . It is incredibly brave to face him in court.
You did break the cycle for so many.
Elissa, we are SO proud of you!! WOW. I, too, survived hell on earth, being married to a narcissist abuser. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. 😢
What you did and are doing is the thing of miracles, heroism and freedom! Bless you!!!
Congratulations to you for busting out of that bondage! Even the thought of marrying any cousin creeps me out!!!
This woman is a tremendous hero!
Her dad being deemed as an "unworthy man" in that cult tells me he was probably a good one.
I had never heard the term “domestic refugee” before, but I remember being one. This is such a powerful concept, and we need to be there for others in this situation. You are so brave and intelligent! Ultimately, a true hero.
You are so amazing! Stronger then you ever thought, brave, kind and just powerful!!! So glad ypu got out and found yourself. And spoke against evil!! Sending love ❤️
Thank you for sharing! It was through FLDS survivors stories that I began to take a hard look at the fundamentalist cult I had grown up in (a similar cult to that of the Duggars in # Kids and Counting). After seeing so many similarities, I was able to get the courage to leave. It’s not only FLDS survivors you’re helping. Thank you!💜
I read her book some years ago. She's become this remarkable woman who I admire so much. Even hearing her story now even though I somewhat know it, I was riveted to my chair not leaving to listen to it all. You have changed yourself and your former community with your courage and free will. God bless you!
You are so worthy of being a mom!!! You escapad that takes self respect and courage, this is the most important to teach your children 🏆
I'm reading Curch of lies and plan to read your book too. I'm shocked beyond believe. My heart goes out to all the people suffering in this cult. I'm proud of all the people fighting for them.
Read "uncultured " it's about the "children of god" cult if you really want to read about the long term damage a religious cult does to a child
God bless you for standing against the evil cult. Norway
Thank you, Elissa. I read your book years ago and you and Caroline Jessup are always on my mind every time I hear about Jeffs and the women and men who are still imprisoned there.
You were a victim of both this cult and human trafficking. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with this, and so glad you are out. Healing IS possible, and I'm proud of you.
I am so sorry you went through all this. I too have negative blood and I can't imagine going though all that at such a young innocent age. May God Bless you!
Tons of respect for Elissa Wall.
God bless her for her courage to stand for truth and the right!!
Wow. So sorry this happened to you and so many others. Thank you for your bravery. You've helped so many people by telling the truth.
I watched 'Prisoner of the Prophet' last night. You and Briele are so amazingly strong, and brave! Thank you for helping others to escape, and blossom.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and helping your community change! Education is key, that's why cults are trying to keep it away from the members...
Thank you for sharing. That’s a lot!
I am so impressed by the strength you were able to find at such a young age and after so much abuse. I have listened to a lot of these stories and find it appalling that one or two men can control an entire community and abuse not only the children, but the fathers and mothers who have children taken and are pushed out of the community in the name of religion. I am so glad it is becoming more widely known and the tide is turning. All of those wasted lives - it's heartbreaking.
The part where she held her gaze is just so powerful 💞
Good on you. You told that man the truth
Thank you for sharing, exposing this will help others
Good for you! Thank you for sharing your story!
I read your book and was inspired by your strength. Hearing you being able to speak out is amazing. Please keep up your brave work!
Good for you! Glad you brought Abuse in the community to light!
1.) Sounds like they lifted a lot of verbiage from the Jewish faith (gentiles, God's Chosen People, Zion)
2.) I'm so sorry you went through this. It's my literal nightmare as a woman. The fact that this place had its own law enforcement system that protected them from legal consequences is vile. America's "religious freedom" laws are being abused every day in this way to allow cults to get away with things individuals acting alone never could. Nevada needs to change their marriage laws ASAP!
Almost enough to move there & vote on such things 🙂
The legal age to be able to marry in Nevada is 18. These folks are breaking the law
I know there are still states that allow children to be married if their parents approve. No parent in their right mind would approve....but there are plenty that aren't in their right mind.
It’s illegal to get married under 18 in all states unless you have parental permission, but they aren’t getting legally married anyway. It’s a celestial marriage type thing, where they get married in the eyes of God, but not in the eyes of the law.
@@bexxa4837 parental permission leads to parents legally getting their kids married off in somes states. I believe 12 years old is legal. I don't know about this case but yes, it occurs legally.
I bought Elissa's book when it first came out, and highly recommend it. This woman is a hero, although she would be the last one to call herself that.
Thank you for sharing. I truly appreciate your authenticity and your veracity.
wow what an amazing woman. I'm so proud of her for coming forward and doing something so tough for her but also knowing that it wasn't right and I am glad she got the justice she and so many others deserve
Wow! What an inspiring story.
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You’re a hero!!! ❤❤❤❤
You are brave and inspirational ! I have watched several former members and they have been through so much. Thank you for telling the world !
I remember when this happened! I was one of those who could hardly believe it. I have always wondered what happened to that first victim. This was great to see.
WOW! I have been educating myself about various cults and this story is so remarkable. I cannot imagine the hell as you call it. What a strong women. So much strength for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story, you are a very strong and brave woman.
You are a hero! Job well done. You have saved thousands of lives.
You are strong, beautiful, and inspirational! Thank you for your testimony, and your ongoing advocacy.
You can be so proud of yourself! Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for helping other people to see the truth 💕
Wow ... what an amazing person Elissa is. It's humbling to hear her story.
I believe you! You did so good! Proud of you! I used to live close to that area and have these young ladies in the community!
"There is no god that I know that could look at you and say 'a job well done'." That right there is exactly why I left. Nothing I was raised it or made to believe could come from a good, loving, just god. If that's what he stood for, I wanted no part of it. Never been happier since I wanted away. Good for you, ma'am. Good. For. You. Hold your strength, and never let anyone take it from you again.
Your strength has saved you and hopefully will save others. Bless you!
I’m in deep admiration of your courage, compassion and leadership. You are Inspirational.
You are a such a blessing to those following in your footsteps ❤
You are an amazing human being! Congratulations for standing up.
and being fierce. And for using your experience for good. 🙏🏻💗🙏🏻
You must be the strongest and purest soul I have ever seen, to go back to that community and make positive changes despite all that trauma, heartbreak and betrayal. That is true belief ❤️
I will definitely look out for her podcast. I would also recommend her book and her series of longer interviews on Mormon Stories.
You are such a strong woman. You are an inspiration. God bless you. 🙏❤️
You're so brave - you did and are doing exactly the right thing.
I've seen your story before but more in depth you are a legend and a Hero...❤❤❤❤
You are amazingly brave, young lady, hope you have a wonderful life 💜
Thank you for sharing. You are incredibly brave. I wish you well.
Wow amazing, Thank you being brave enough to sharing this story.
So proud of you. You’re a hero
It is so inspiring what you have done! God bless you so!!!
I'm so sad to hear your story. It is heart breaking. I hope you are doing better now that you are out.
Thank you for being so so so brave. You are an inspiration. You are amazing and so so strong❤❤❤❤
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Well done for speaking out on this.🙏💕X
I applaud your bravery. 👏🏼God loves you, knows you & will aid you in your path.🙏 Keep faith. Live for you & what you know to be RIGHT. 👊🏽
Elissa, you are so strong and a true warrior, please don’t ever quit telling your truth 💜💜
She seems so happy n proud while telling her story. Well done 👍🏻 n hope the best for you
It’s women like her that actually make a change. Her struggles and abuse she has gone through is how change happens. It’s sad that someone has to go through that to make change.
I read your book over and over again! Thank you! This video helps with the contents of the book. Its good to put a face to the author of the book. Thank you again!
You are an amazing brave woman and an inspiration to so many enslaved females. You provide knowledge and knowledge is freedom. Blessings, dear one! ❤
I’m so proud of you for being so strong ❤
Well done. I read the book a long while ago and it is very good.
I read The Body Keeps the Score and learned so much about ptsd, definitely recommend it
Oh sweetheart. I just want to hug you. Yet, you are so strong. I admire you. You are wonderful.
Congratulations on finding yourself and taking responsibility to make your own choices. It takes immense courage to believe in yourself and your feelings about all these things.
im so proud of her!!!!! shes amazing
What an amazing woman. Then to go back and help that community is super brave. Just going to say this she’s got guts
You are so Strong thank you for telling the TRUTH and your Story ❤😊
You are an inspiration ❤️🌺❤️
🎉🎉🎉🎉 you are a hero. Thank you for fighting for you
You go girl! Small step for Elysa big step for humankind!! ❤
What an incredibly brave lady! A true modern hero!
Very well spoken!
Such a brave woman.
I dont suppose you will ever read this, but I'm so happy to know that you didn't lose yourself during this trial. You are beautiful and well-spoken. There may be diffivulties in what i hope is a long and happy life. But you will persevere.
What a strong and courageous young woman you are. ♥️🙏🏼
Wow. You are the bravest women ive ever known. U are selfless and determined. God loves you🙏🌻
Your such a brave individual kudos to you for overcoming this monster.