Narcissists: Masters of Inverting Your Reality!
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Sounds like the world's governments and corporations. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
Yes. My first thought was "gods, it is how goverment in my country works"
Yep. It's the same way with narcissistic partners. I thought I had a break from reality when I saw it, but it was actually a breaking of the psychosis and waking up out of the narcissist's fever dream. Now when I see her I can't help but see exactly what she is, and it's better than disappointment and a relief. Once you exit the false reality, you see how you actually have zero feelings for this animal, you just bought the idea they sold.
I did magic mushrooms and then for the first time in my life I realized my the invisible prison my narcissistic father had put me in mentally as a child and had kept me there somehow all up till I at 39 escaped it doing pscilocybin mushroom trip/therapy. after couple more times I realized governments often have npd characteristic making all its inhabitants npd victims.they do brainwash us like a cult does to its kids :O
I wish there was more information about those who don't have fullblown NPD. For me, the most difficult thing is: trying to navigate my feelings through abuse and times where they seem to suddenly be someone else, nice, empathic, and that DOES come across as genuine. In short: they sometimes play the "game" and sometimes not.
It drives me nuts.
I would LOVE some info on how to treat somebody that behaves like that.
@@smoly37you leave or cut them out of your life. That's textbook covert narcissist actions. It's called cognitive dissonance. You know it's wrong, but they convince you it's your fault or it isn't that bad and you're being dramatic.
It doesn't get better and if you're not super careful it will consume you and you'll become a shell of yourself.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
its always difficult to let go of you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me.i couldnt just let her gsomeone o i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back
wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Thad because you have been brainwashed or charmed to believe in the false narrative. It was not real But because you have the pain and hurt of the truth. It’s hard to ignore the pain. Remember the red flags you saw. And accept the loss for what it is.
I know I was feeling lost confused cried for weeks.
The truth will set you free if you can see it I’m going thru this every day trying to to heal. It’s not easy I hurt more now because now I can see the distraction is real when I look in the mirror and in my bank account.
Evil enters like a needle and spreads like an oak tree. ~Ethiopian Proverb
Naw, evil enters like a “freedom fighter” and spreads like a political campaign… then it controls like the German government in 1942… and then come the gas chambers…
Trees and needles free you from this evil.
❤some of this is our own fault. We go into the relationship with our own dreams and we ignore the warning signs of the narcissist and the lies that they start to tell and we ignore the truth and we start arguing with them about the lies in time but we never really say fuck this liar we get engrossed in the world of the dream of what could be and when you find out that .they are very hurt humans you want to soothe them and rescue them.
I did it time and time again with my mother and then with a replica of my mother in a man.
They live in full blown delusion. They live in a dream.
They are so insecure that they have no real person in them. They are in a vortex of insanity.
If the real person has been touched on that they are not perfect and they are unbelievably hurt an explosion happens.
It's more than rage. It's a murderous attack that they will kill people who touch the wordless in their core.
You have to be condition for these people from birth
Like cancer.
I've had a kind of reverse experience. I've come to learn my dad is 10000%, no confusion, no excuse, no way around it textbook narcissist. Read the 9 traits, I have DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of examples for each and every point. And no its not an internet diagnostic thing, Ive had problems with others that aren't what he does.
So anyways I was never a person before a narcissist because I was raised by one, and he was especially fixated on me over the 6 other kids.
I came to hate him and myself so much (and couldn't fully grasp why) that, as an older teen, I made an internal vow to be as opposite to him as physically possible. If he reacted this way to x situation, unless it was shown to not work I'd do the OPPOSITE. If he was mean to this person, I was kind. If he liked this hobby, I despised it. If he ate this way (fortunately he's no health nut) I'd inverse it. If this made him mad, I found joy in it. Everything I could think of, I reversed.
Within less than a year I became a dramatically better person. Calm, well spoken, far less manipulative, smarter for sure, more adventurous. I could think for myself, I cared less what people thought, was much harder to offend, decisions I made panned out, the rest of my family liked me better, I could get more done, found a few passions, possibly have found forever love.
Instead of having the gift of normalcy taken away, I FOUND normalcy and happiness once my world was inverted. Good became evil and evil good the way its supposed to be. I do still hold some hate towards him for being a parasite, but at least he's not unknowable. Just looking up qualities for narcissists answered 95% of my miserable choldhood.
They are attracted to you because you have strong boundaries, but they don’t respect you as an equal. They observe you closely, but they don’t like how you have your own personality. Their attention on you is not good for you.
Well said 👌🏼
They study you to look for cracks in your stability to make you falter. They point out your perceived flaws to bring you down, to make you feel insecure. They study you like prey waiiting to pounce.
Spot on, I ran away a week ago, because I could see I was turning into someone I didn't like.
Yep. With boundaries we tell them/inform them what are our weak spots and where they need to attack. When they have tiniest ounce of power over us - they will break us where we are the most vulnerable. Like Mediaeval castles - these were build around money and food storage and wealthy cities. Toxic people are literal predators.
The mimicking that they do is so fucking gross. They act like you are soulmates, but really they’ve just been watching you and taking notes and they know exactly what you want to hear. So disturbing that they do this whole thing, the entire set up is just to yank it out from underneath you And laugh and celebrate as you crash down. And sometimes lose your entire life, along with yourself, your business, your family, and other relationships. The insanity and evil of these people drive many to suicide.
@@theoriginal7727
Sad but true 💔 the extent of their sadism is So senseless
The slow boil is the best way to describe it…they are so charming and sneaky and covert about their shady behaviour behind peoples backs..scary
I've had a kind of reverse experience. I've come to learn my dad is 10000%, no confusion, no excuse, no way around it textbook narcissist. Read the 9 traits, I have DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of examples for each and every point. And no its not an internet diagnostic thing, Ive had problems with others that aren't what he does.
So anyways I was never a person before a narcissist because I was raised by one, and he was especially fixated on me over the 6 other kids.
I came to hate him and myself so much (and couldn't fully grasp why) that, as an older teen, I made an internal vow to be as opposite to him as physically possible. If he reacted this way to x situation, unless it was shown to not work I'd do the OPPOSITE. If he was mean to this person, I was kind. If he liked this hobby, I despised it. If he ate this way (fortunately he's no health nut) I'd inverse it. If this made him mad, I found joy in it. Everything I could think of, I reversed.
Within less than a year I became a dramatically better person. Calm, well spoken, far less manipulative, smarter for sure, more adventurous. I could think for myself, I cared less what people thought, was much harder to offend, decisions I made panned out, the rest of my family liked me better, I could get more done, found a few passions, possibly have found forever love.
Instead of having the gift of normalcy taken away, I FOUND normalcy and happiness once my world was inverted. Good became evil and evil good the way its supposed to be. I do still hold some hate towards him for being a parasite, but at least he's not unknowable. Just looking up qualities for narcissists answered 95% of my miserable choldhood.
I've had a kind of reverse experience. I've come to learn my dad is 10000%, no confusion, no excuse, no way around it textbook narcissist. Read the 9 traits, I have DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of examples for each and every point. And no its not an internet diagnostic thing, Ive had problems with others that aren't what he does.
So anyways I was never a person before a narcissist because I was raised by one, and he was especially fixated on me over the 6 other kids.
I came to hate him and myself so much (and couldn't fully grasp why) that, as an older teen, I made an internal vow to be as opposite to him as physically possible. If he reacted this way to x situation, unless it was shown to not work I'd do the OPPOSITE. If he was mean to this person, I was kind. If he liked this hobby, I despised it. If he ate this way (fortunately he's no health nut) I'd inverse it. If this made him mad, I found joy in it. Everything I could think of, I reversed.
Within less than a year I became a dramatically better person. Calm, well spoken, far less manipulative, smarter for sure, more adventurous. I could think for myself, I cared less what people thought, was much harder to offend, decisions I made panned out, the rest of my family liked me better, I could get more done, found a few passions, possibly have found forever love.
Instead of having the gift of normalcy taken away, I FOUND normalcy and happiness once my world was inverted. Good became evil and evil good the way its supposed to be. I do still hold some hate towards him for being a parasite, but at least he's not unknowable. Just looking up qualities for narcissists answered 95% of my miserable choldhood.
Evil malignant wonderland is a golden description Dude
This actually helped me realize I was being abused and I’m not crazy ❤
Trust me you’re gonne me okay. Don’t be harsh with yourself. Always remember that you’re a good human being. And moving forward, give yourself courage to keep your guard up for such nasty folks
Join the club sweety. I hope you're safe and sound.
You WILL heal because your soul is still whole and theirs is fragmented.
I've had a kind of reverse experience. I've come to learn my dad is 10000%, no confusion, no excuse, no way around it textbook narcissist. Read the 9 traits, I have DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of examples for each and every point. And no its not an internet diagnostic thing, Ive had problems with others that aren't what he does.
So anyways I was never a person before a narcissist because I was raised by one, and he was especially fixated on me over the 6 other kids.
I came to hate him and myself so much (and couldn't fully grasp why) that, as an older teen, I made an internal vow to be as opposite to him as physically possible. If he reacted this way to x situation, unless it was shown to not work I'd do the OPPOSITE. If he was mean to this person, I was kind. If he liked this hobby, I despised it. If he ate this way (fortunately he's no health nut) I'd inverse it. If this made him mad, I found joy in it. Everything I could think of, I reversed.
Within less than a year I became a dramatically better person. Calm, well spoken, far less manipulative, smarter for sure, more adventurous. I could think for myself, I cared less what people thought, was much harder to offend, decisions I made panned out, the rest of my family liked me better, I could get more done, found a few passions, possibly have found forever love.
Instead of having the gift of normalcy taken away, I FOUND normalcy and happiness once my world was inverted. Good became evil and evil good the way its supposed to be. I do still hold some hate towards him for being a parasite, but at least he's not unknowable. Just looking up qualities for narcissists answered 95% of my miserable choldhood.
@@dflaming1371 knowledge is wisdom👍🏻
Just now recognizing this after 4 decades..
Wow 4 decades, I'm so sorry for what you have endured 😢
Yes obviously born before RUclips and social media platforms I understand lifelong learning..,,
Where I had lots of friends and loved to socialize in my late teens and early twenties. After my marriage I can't tolerate people and just want to become a hermit. I feel like I have to be on guard with everyone and worry I'll be sucked dry if I get into any kind of relationship, platonic or otherwise. I would love to have the old me back but I feel like I'm broken and jaded to the point of no return.
I feel like this too, it’s traumatizing when we don’t have the mindset of the people that hurt us before. We can guard our hearts and good to observe have healthy boundaries and we don’t even have to tell people we don’t want to hang with them. Guarding our hearts and closing them off is two different things. It’s good to have people that are kind and respectful. Just have to watch them and see.
Same here. Everyone tells me how much better my new life is but I hate how I got here.
I miss my old life of being a useless unknown nobody without a care in the world who by default trusted everyone at face value.
I was happy then, now I hate everything.
Jesus loves u❤
Come to Jesus 👉🏽 He is the way , the Truth and the Life!
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I'm experiencing the exact same thing. When, somehow, my eyes opened to what was happening to me, it seemed like I saw EVERYBODY in another daylight. That nice neighbour across the road?? She's doing base cocaine and only wants to endlessly borrow money. When I said: "no, I won't do that anymore and you ALWAYS try to change the day of giving it back!" The "friendship" was immediately over.
For instance. I started to stay home more and more because there was the only place I felt secure and safe.
Now I'm beginning to notice, that I'm afraid of other people. It's just...incredible what narcissist people can do, to the point where you have completely lost yourself and who you are.
@@smoly37 I went through that feeling for a while but adapted my life and learned how to deal with bad people until I became fearless at confrontations with them.
I still hate the confrontations when they happen but at least I know how to shut them down and send them packing when I need to.
I was always fully aware that my boundaries were being crossed. Therefore I always fought back in 1000 ways. However, all attempts were futile. Eventually I just left.
@chocolate Me too, however, the fall out of leaving everything behind (I left with my young children) had crippling financial repercussions that I live with today, 28 yrs later.
@@citizen1163 yeah, walking away doesn't guarantee a better life afterwards as many YT-heroes want us to believe. It is just different shit. For those who are able to have a better life in every sense of the word more power to them. But for me I dont have a good life now except that I am not being abused anymore on a daily basis. Take care of yourself and your children.
When you decide to fight back, never pay to win. Play for endless stalemates. Make them burn their world down trying to take yours down with them.
It works.
Giving and leaving is just you giving them what they wanted all along, using you and keeping everything of yours you leave behind for your efforts.
A solid win for them, not you no matter how you self-justify it.
@@chocolatecookie8571 Exactly that.
Everyone tells me I am in a better place now. Nope. What I was forced to give up in order to get where I am now will never be justified.
It's like becoming rich because those you loved the most were slaughtered in front of you and you were their life insurance recipient.
There is no way you would have ever made that trade willingly or see what you got in the end as worth anything because of how it came to be.
@@thecustodian1023 hi, I am not sure if I understand you correctly but what I can tell is that outsiders 99% of the time don't have fair judgement skills, nor have the capacity to make any clear statements about someone else for several reasons. Most lack empathy, the ability to put oneself in other's shoes. So they can assume you are in a better position but that is because they are biased to the general opinion that leaving a narcissist is always the best and only good thing to do and that life will be betterr afterwards. They believe that this fantasy is a fixed reality that always has to be defended in order to keep their perception of reality in place. Or else they will find themselves in unsafe territory and that can create anxiety which they want to avoid.
Reality is that we are individuals with our own background, beliefs, circumstances, age, social status and future possibilities. Yes, leaving a narcissist is good if you want the abuse to be stopped but that doesn't mean the other side of the grass is greener and there awaits you a group of family members and friends wanting to help you with open arms and cuddle you. Fuck no! They don't give a shit and that happened to me. I don't want to go into details.
Truth shivers..this is precisely how it happens
This is also why a narcissist will almost instinctively see your love and care for them as a weakness in you that they can exploit.... It's because they have inverted values themselves.
Thank you, Richard. That's true. I love when someone can say things in a simple fashion yet, it's very deep. He broke down everything about how I saw myself. You're too ugly to go outside, you sound stupid when you talk, you don't know how to make a phone call. But, he could never break my faith. That was the wall that could not come down. That faith says that I am worthy to be treated with respect. I enjoyed last night's live. Gracias.😊
You have just given me the map to every abuser ever in my life.
Relatable...lived in an alternative relaity for a decade.
Same. It was absolutely mind-bending. It's physically painful to wrap my head around it, because it was so nonsensical and upside down.
I remember trying to explain to my friend why I didn't like visiting my parents after she said " you can't not see your family!" Finally I replied " when I leave there, I feel like up is down...left is right...black is white!"
Crazy! And then we come upon the person that will be our life partner...
Yes, thanx be to Jesus for saving me and rebuilding my selfworth. Restoring truth, love, and peace within me. May all others gain salvation, in Jesus's name! Amen!
Where is my mind? Very, very slowly returning. With reservation - too used to open fire no holds barred mind f*ckery to breath... Richard Grannon has shone a light for me more times than i care to remember. Felt this deeply
The crime this is on children who have to grow up with narc parents! I used to be one of them and it will probably not leave me to the end of my days. Fully no contact now, gladly.
Absolutely. There is no way any of these creatures should ever be parents or anywhere near the halls of power, government, medicine, etc. My daughter’s mother has severe borderline and NPD, although she is high functioning and can fake her way through life for months at a time before having a breakdown/mask slip. Doing everything I can to keep her stable, and knowing there is a lot of loving people in the world. And watching with Hawkeyes to make sure that there is no abuse happening when she’s over there.
Oh my god this is so accurate it’s scary - but also validating.
I fell in love with someone who fits the description of a narcissist. We worked together, and she showed so much compassion at work, then criticized everyone as soon as she left. I lived with her for two years, and she would say to people we were dating right in front of me. When I was sick, she never asked if I needed anything. She would never confront the issue in a disagreement. She would always walk away. Now, she has found someone new and is happy and carefree. I think how did I fail?
You didn't fail she failed you,,,,👉🙏👍🕊️
Does it help to say to yourself: I escaped. The one she seems happy and carefree with now, will also leave. If not, that man is either a narcissist himself or a victim. Feel sorry for him.
And she is NOT happy. Never was, never be and will never know how, it's just a mask.
I pray for you 🙏
Brother, she’s not happy and carefree. She’s just putting on an act, like they all do. They like to keep most people completely unaware of the reality behind their masks so that they can continuously abuse whoever they have in their clutches. And they will always have the next person lined up, never running out of supply.
@@smoly37dam straight
Sounds like my mom talking about how “homeless people want to be homeless so they don’t deserve money.” With her $168,000 in her savings that she never shares and complains she’s always broke.
I watched this inversion occur with all the colleagues I worked with over the course of three years. The NPD person was the principal of the high school. By the end, he actually said at a staff meeting, with no one daring to challenge, that the staff should not expect to be running an academic program. I just couldn't believe my ears.
Yeeeeeeesssss.
I’m glad to hear that someone else has said this.
Thank you, Mr. Grannon.
And trying to get the right way around again after so much time living in a narcissist environment feels so impossible.... just have to take one day at a time 🕊✨️
Totally what is happening to me. It is frightening. I'm trying to get out, but inbetween time I'm going through the motions.
Hope you get to the good side
Yes. Erosion of your boundaries is the beginning of the process by which your true self, and your world, slowly dissolves.
This is so true..You also start wondering what is wrong with you.
It all creeps up on you all this ,your so right the x was exactly like this ,and so grandiose,,think he was a psychopath.,,he was some Tulip indeed!!!
This is very true every sentence,, 💯
Soooooooo Spot on.🎉🎉
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This is so well put and validating. Thank you.
Living in the upside down right now
Thats what its like after you take crack/heroin for a while😢❤
Yep, and I remember narc used to often lean on my sleeves, tread on my feet, get too close! Then act distant and walk ahead regularly! Love to all survivors here! ♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏
All of the physical ticks and habits are so freaking weird. You start to see them after a while, in the beginning, they can seem very endearing. But later, once you realize they have no conscience it’s just creepy. Every single inch of them, and every moment of their lives and history is, so fucking creepy.
An intense emotional rollercoaster ride with my abusive X woman abusing fiance of seven years. Thank god i was able to slam the door shut on him & his mental mind . Now i have to master keeping him in the past & eventualy not iñ my mind at all. God bless him !!!
Scary! This is exactly what my husband has done to me.
AMAZING, EXACTLY!!! Before you know what hits, it's long way, too late. DANGEROUS
Such great explanation.
Sucked in but free now. took me 3 years to find myself again. When it was happening I didn’t even realize. It was like I was drugged and I don’t use any substances, not even alcohol.
. Eight years into it and just beginning the healing process! We share a child so the trauma stays pretty fresh always.
It begins with not taking your information seriously. I have put up a "no" and she still say that i should it. Hell NO! I already said it 5 times.
Thank God it never reached the point to where my boundaries were actually changed. No way did I ever want to be like the nex.
How evil is that. Imagine living 18years in it! And now the “no contact”. It feels like my soul is robbed . And the only thing I can rely on is my Creator . It’s like redefining my core values again , and having someone approve my core values , so that I can differentiate good from bad.
Yep! I’ve only lost a decade of my life so far, but so much richer on this side of things… Although I barely survived, especially the second one that I formed a business with, I am here and beginning to heal, stronger than ever before and much more worldly wise. I had no idea how much fucking evil there was everywhere. And that people would use love, the promise and the pretense of love to abuse others and stab them in the back anddrain them of everything good!
Yes exactly, very slow.... For years and years! We would be watching TV, and of course I was always tired as hell, and I would usually fall asleep before the news at 11pm.😢They would never converse during TVtime, but they'd always make it a point to blurt out,, " You awake?" They would watch me, and once my eyes closed, there go the question. You AWAKE? To be suddenly awoken like that all the time was startling. It disrupted my sleep so bad. There was never any talk. during TVtime , just ARE YOU AWAKE?😢
SO, one day, I finally explained how rude that was to me and that I would never do that to them. Many times, after I got startled, I felt ashamed that I fell asleep while we watched TV. This went on for 30 years! It effs you up, trust me. And after I told them never to do that again, they became 😡 & very black 😭 pupils, as if I was the problem becuz I fell asleep! It gets worse! Then knowing that I suffer from CPTSD, they continue to view all the crime, violence and murder programs. And when I asked them to please stop bcuz it's traumatic to me, they continued doing it. Very covert. Nobody sees it but me bcuz were alone, right 👍. Having disruptive sleep patterns is injurious to your REM. I can barely get 3 hrs sleep....
To counter his TV abuse, I retrieved to the spare bedroom when I got tired rather than fall asleep in front of TV, and I kindly said, "when I'm in my bedroom, please stay out!". 😡 That didn't stop him from violating my boundaries. He was still coming in, laying next to me becuz he didn't care. I have since enforced my boundaries, but the anger 🤬😠🤬 gets worse!
That’s sooo true! My ex narcissistic partner was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder in 3th year of our 4 year relationship. He always said something that wasn’t true to look like someone intelligent but I knew that was bs. He always tested me and played his games on me. At first time he was like a prince on a white horse but when we get closer and lived together he started to abuse me emotionally, physically and financially. He had me choose him over driving license, him over my friends and family, him over my university….that was sooo painful! Every morning he woke up early to change my alarm and because of it I was always late to my university! I had to provide everything because he couldn’t find a job. I cried when our fridge was empty and my parents get my some food…He beat me soo hard that I thought I will die so I called my mother to rescue me and that was our last time together! I broke up with him 4 years ago and I’m still healing. Now when I’m alone l got my driving license, university degree and still studying, working part time and I feel free. But he still messaging me and wants to meet me. I responded to him that I’m busy 👍🏻🥰🤫😊
Yes l they sabatage anything you do!! Even paying bills on time or taking kdis to school!
O M G that is bang on with my ex. She's a demonic soul and took me away from everyone.
This one gave me goosebumps.
Thx this really helps me understand
I have experienced full blown psychosis after this happened.
2 nervous breakdowns in two years.
So so true. But I have been broken out of my denial.
I've read articles about stalkers (where many could well be narcissists) that the target can have changes to their personality occur. This seems a start to how that may happen.
We become a brand new
Person
Thts the bonus ❤
THANK YOU Richard!! SOOO TRUE! ❤
Well said
I see 1 thread...by this 1 thread I rip the fabric apart
The crucial point is weaken boundaries. For "healthy" people the softening of boundaries can be a sign of coming together. If it's fair and mutual. Narcissists take tihis process as gaining power and will never give their share. They can't. Thanks, Mr. Grannon.
This explains a lot! How was I to know? Who stands a chance with this evil. My sister is still caught in this and can’t see it.
Understading that was paramount to undo all the damage done. Thank God for the internet and that fact I don't need to dig on an enciclopedia to find this shizz out. This is biblical nothing shall remain covered everything shall come to the light.
Oh yes absolutely bang on point...
Strength of character went this is not right...started questioning myself. I spotted the flaws and the liar... And then questioned myself.
Rest hx...
Love your videos! 💪🏼
Also, we’d like to see your face not buried in subtitles 😄🤗
You are talking and im here remembering what the beginning was like. Exactly what ur saying and its terrifying.
He had so easy game with that because I had tge conditioning yet
Don't they create out of character behavioir from yourself, then you self reflect later and wonder, wow - what am I even doing?
Ty❤
Ya. You're the threat, not the narcissist. It's a focal point in arguments because it's them versus the world, and you are just an asset.
I or we were born with a LP record ,and diamond needles, but some how throughout or interactions the white table cloth was a play and they slipped another LP record ontop of yours.ours. started to skip to outhers. And panic was theirs to see and manipulate. Control because they have no internal objectives or love.😮😮
Looking back, i think i liked the lack of boundaries. It felt comforting at first because it was "good enmeshment" LOL i know it sounds crazy! It is!
Mr. Richard would you please do a video on boundaries? I don't think I really know what it is.
Im so glad im only narcissistic with ASPD and a God complex and that i dont have NPD ive always pitied those insecure little and shallow personalities
Especially when it's your family
Spot on!
A most excellent explanation of the subtle manipulation my ex used on me, thats for sure!
It's absolute insanity. I was lucky to get out.
Yes!!
This is the fatal flaw of NPDs when around me. I make narcissists cry. 😂
And they will say that i scare them that i intimidated them? Because i have opinions and i will not budge. They will ask me to have an open mind, then demand it, and then cry. I just tell them that they can do whatever they want to, but im not going with them. I'm not going along. And to be careful that they're not so open-minded that their brain falls out.
Peer pressure never worked on me. My rule has always been that everything must be an agreement. It's ok to disagree. Because everyone must feel safe. But i live in front of God and refuse to do or say certain things. You can. Fine enough. (And stay in that stance with ease.)
And if you use these guide posts and a few more, it's impossible to fall for their shyt. On any level. And they will actually cry in the end. Fully bazaar.
They are children. Treat them as such.
Last part 🎯
Bingo
Once you have an awareness of this type of manipulation, how do you heal the heart? How do we get rid of the guilt when you find out you're being programmed by the ones who said they loved you? Thank you.
Therapy, plus self love/care/healing over time
Exactly 💯
Jezabel!
🙋🏻♀️living this crap now ! 😠
Get out as fast as possible!! They are amazing con artist!!!
Biblical.. good is bad, bad is good
They call bad good and good bad !! The Bible says exactly that about the unrighteousness!! The NDP disorder has been mentioned in tbe bible a long time ago !!! People die and born and still there is narcisists there !! The only way to escape is just leave !! Like the enemy , you do not entertain, you just command then to leave and insists until they leave you in peace ! Otherwise, they still think you belong to them!!!!
Being with a toxic person i didn't recognize my self anymore saying things i never had said before they told me i was wrong asking them for money to help pay bills they lay in bed watching videos and on the computer i never seen a person like this i know their actions are demonic i am not a victim because i chose to move on they cook every meal because they are the only one that knows how to cook if i tell them i am not hungry they said i keep them from eating they cussing calling you every thing but a child of God i am not responsible because they had a bad childhood i am sharing what i have been through sign Cynthia Smith run away from this toxic person
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Wow
Can npd be mistaken for behaviours learnt over time, not necessarily what they( "The narcissist")think is correct. But ... Environment and for lack of a better description, "auto pilot"
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I find absolutely no joy in the knowledge of what is to ultimately become of those who, [without remorse] deviously lived out their life; manipulating and conniving their way all through life, leaving an unmeasurable amount of pain and suffering within the hearts of those people that [most likely] loved/loves them, and cared for them most of all, [including their own children]… these “people” may not care to notice the wake of destruction they’ve left behind, there will come a day when they’re inevitably exposed, they WILL be held accountable; and when their heart gets weighed in the balance, and they are still found wanting, then ultimately, a most unfortunate consequence will be theirs to pay…
[Isaiah 5:20-21]…
“Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”
“Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!
do they do that on purpose or do they just think they are right and normal?
Will you be commenting on Baby Reindeer? Especially now with the Piers Morgan interview
How long would you say it will take to recover from narcissistic abuse/ psychopath violence (1 relationship 4years ended 2010 we have our son together and 1 relationship 2017-2019 I lost my second son with that man during birth- and he was a full blown psychopath I promise you have never heard about that kind of stalker and possessed man that he is) how long until my diagnosed ptsd and everything else will be better than just manageable do you think because it has been so long now- I want to wake up and smile you know?😢
I don't think time alone solves the problem. It takes ACTIVE healing work on YOURSELF (not just understanding narcissism). I began smiling again 6 months post narc, laughing again 1 yr post narc, living fully 2 years post narc. Now I am 3 years post narc but realize that I have to catch myself still almost DAILY from old patterns of overgiving from guilt, emeshment with new friends, tendencies to give myself away without boundaries etc. I have to make time ALONE to hear MY inner Spirit, to see how I feel, to decide what I need. I am still reactive to anything harmless that even REMINDS me of past abuse. Those are signs that my healing is not complete. I have been celibate and alone which has helped me greatly to learn to accept myself and my life and the peace I have within so that I NOTICE if a new person disturbs that peace as narcs do. But I am still drawn toward narcs because I still admire the appearance of confidence and friendliness they give out initially. I need to develop more of those qualities authentically within myself.
Witchcraft Richie plain ole witchcraft
😭😭😭I'm glad I'm out.
You see it best when you get out of it and have a normal woman by your side... Then you realize what a tragicomedy you've been playing.
Sickooss these narcs
EVIL 😈 SHALL 🐝 CALLED GOOD. AND. GOOD SHALL 🐝CALLED 👹 READ. IT. AND. WEEP OR. 🙏 STAND😎🫡 AND 🐝 COUNTED♟️♥️
Yeah and then you start doing things like them and then they use that as a way to make you feel even more like the abuser.
What's MPD
NPD Narcissistic Personality Disorder
I wonder how many "groomers" are narcissists...
Its Anti - Christ behaviour
Opposite of God Almighty