How I deal with loneliness
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- Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
- This weekend, I was writing about 'how to deal with loneliness', but that topic came up after I thought about what it means to discover one's purpose, and whether that's a good thing. It has been a challenge coping with loneliness of pursuing my God-given purpose. I've questioned if I'm actually following my purpose or accepting the universe. Accepting the Universe and it's demands is often times at odds of what it is that God wants for you.
But this is your life. I was talking last week about how sometimes I search too often for videos and podcasts. I used to spend too much time listening to Joe Rogan, or Jordan Peterson. You can't live vicariously through content or any sort of media. It's important simply be alone with your thoughts. The more time you spend alone, and in silence, the more you come to know yourself.
I want peace. I want to live slow. Slow living leads to living full. I don't want to be in a state of negative emotion and wish away any aspect of my life. I don't want to be alone, but sometimes spending time alone is necessary.
Rarely are the times in my life that I've felt fully understood. When I've ask 'why am I lonely', I've found that the answer isn't to surround myself with more people, but to confront that feeling and discern whether not the person I'm revealing to the world has anything to do with my true self. Loneliness is hard, and being in a state of feeling alone is not good for your emotional well being, but there has to be an actual solution. For me, I've found that the solution is to be more authentic, and more genuine to who I truly am. To be vulnerable with people and do my best to be my true self-- to let others see who I really am without fear of being judged. If you're afraid of judgement, and unwilling to reveal to others your true self, there'd be no way to not constantly feel alone.
I'm working on writing stories right now. I was going to read one of my stories in this episode, but it's not quite there yet, and i'm trying to elevate the quality of my stories.
Enjoy and let me know your thoughts
00:00 Introduction
01:00 What is loneliness?
5:50 The Story I'm currently writing
10:35 When you feel alone, while with people, where are you?
12:18 Why do I fear being alone?
15:12 The purpose of the hero's journey
19:30 Why do we need faith?
21:57 How being alone brought me closer to God 
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alone is not lonely- writing from Ecuador- ALONE and thrilled! Ciao~
That’s awesome that you’re writing from Ecuador. Good perspective too. Thanks for sharing.
hello good morning to you thank you for your message your So rite 🎶☦️ I'm a lone wolf 🐺
I remember feeing lonely and how I would always compare my "life journey" to the great explorers of old who set off alone to find riches and new lands. I quickly realized this was a very false and ego inflating way to think, since I would never do what they did and really was not doing anything amazing or that unique. I came to some level of happiness when I realized no one was paying attention to what I did in life so I could do whatever I wanted with no fear of hate or negative judgement. It is not a great revelation or very inspiring but it has allowed to shrug off my fears and apprehension.
No, I think this is indeed a great and powerful revelation. What you’re describing here about people not paying attention to what you do in life is a source of humility. For me, humility always leads to joy. Thank you for sharing.
@@thedayaheadpodcast wise perspective!
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I’m learning to find peace by creating my own loneliness. The only way to connect to all that is
Great perspective. Thanks for sharing!
Thankyou I am in the pits of depression and loneliness and it really helped to listen to you, what you are doing is a great thing, and instead of continuing to run away from yourself like I have with my drugs, I think it would be wonderful to get away into nature, I would find that very appealing, I suppose my drug usage is catching up and I am in a little withdrawal, I long for my beautiful ragdollcat and miss him so much, he was my best friend and companion!🎉Yes a lot of grief for my loss even after all these months!🎉I take a leaf out of your wisdom!🎉
I appreciate you sharing what you are going through. I think patience is crucial. If you’re in a low spot i think you have to be patient with yourself and the process. Make small improvements day to day. Things can get better but it won’t happen all at once. It sounds like you should get into nature and allow yourself time to be at peace and not overthink. Wishing you the best.
This was really beautiful to listen to.
We all have to take our own leaps into the depths of the unknown and fear of that to grow.
Godbless you appreciate how you put it into perspective
Thanks for your feedback. God bless you as well.
i thoroughly enjoyed this authentic sharing. I'm on my own journey of solitude illness uncertainty. I'm not sure how you got recommended to me I was just watching podcasts about Nietzsche I'm sure I like heroes journey videos but you found a kindred spirit Sir. I will subscribe and look forward to your future videos. You got a lot of heart man you took the jump. Wishing you nothing but blessings and success on your journey.
I enjoyed reading this; thanks for taking the time to write this out. I think observing people who are on similar journeys as ourselves is a wonderful, and maybe even healing, thing. Wishing you blessing and success on your journey also!
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.
If your happyness depend on extern factors you will never be because extern factors are endless.
Happyness starts inside you.
The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, violent, hate, double standards, own benefits, judge, comparing etc.... Reflection of their broken souls.
Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time.
And no, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and awake.
Be the light in your own life.
This was nice to read, thanks for sharing your perspective.
Thanks for sharing yourself like this. You are such a thoughtful, authentic, eloquent young man. It took me a long time to recognize my Faith, to see that I (and everyone/everything else) is grounded in the Divine. You will flourish.
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Sometimes it’s good to get away alone kind of like a vision quest and to get with God and listen just listen. That is not loneliness. In fact it is the opposite of loneliness. You are never alone.
Fantastic perspective, and well said. This is optimistic and true. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint.
You are a very wise soul. I enjoyed listening to you and agree with your philosophy. Glad I found you! 😁❤️
This is really kind of you to say. Thanks for letting me know. I’m glad you’re here!
Thank you so much for sharing. I feel it's important to add reflection and assess the difference between being alone (for whatever circumstances in our lives) and being lonely. These are two different states. Feeling lonely can be related to sadness or depression, which would be urgent to seek help. Whereas being alone can be related to other things, I feel sometimes we mistakenly assume that we have to be in company 100% of the time. I hope this comment finds you feeling better 💖 xx, A.
People hurt period
thanks for the videos , a lot to learn from it .... Good luck
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Stay away from people.
I'm never lonely. Because I'm the best person to be around. All I have is me and the vengeance that sustains me.
I get where u went with this! Great message!😊
Thanks for letting me know! I appreciate your feedback.
@@thedayaheadpodcast im normally just a watcher... you'll see me do a pair of eyes usually 👀 👀
Ty 4 ur reply! Made me feel important
Wow all of that really resonated with me. I know we're kindred spirits, it feels like we've had very similar, almost identical experiences and perspectives growing up. I'm glad I 'stumbled' upon your video, it was a great moment of acknowledgement and reflection. What would be great (if you've not done one yet) is a follow up video talking about how you actually do the next steps - to find/retrieve oneself, to know what we must do, to hear our calling. Stay blessed.
This is a great recommendation for a topic. If you had to put the topic your recommending here into one focal question, what would it be? “How do I discover my life’s purpose?’ ‘How do I find purpose in my life?’ ‘How to hear my life’s calling?’ Would it be something like one of these questions or something else?
@@thedayaheadpodcast Yes exactly along those lines. I suppose the latter is more precise because it emphasises in a specific way the practicality or mode through which that's done. I came to realise that it's about listening, but one of my struggles has been to understand how to have a clear sense, rather than still being faced with indecision and multiple directions. Hearing and listening to a calling needs discernment and the ability to recognise and act on the obvious choice 🌿
@@vtx5475 ahh yes, I understand. This is a good idea. I’ll meditate on this more and see if this is a topic that I could offer insight into. Thanks for sharing your feedback and letting me know your perspective!
@@thedayaheadpodcast Thank you :) all the best
Great video thanks,
I believe that every human being feels lonely and emptiness often. You have to deal with it.
Absolutely
I understand you
Ur right keep going 🙏
Thank you, this resonates deep.
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Anger is my stand still
i understand you...!!!
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Every one in concert saying crap for years and I don’t see how to stop them because they won’t reveal themselves
hey, have you ever been hypnotized?
Wen god tell u to be still u be still thats all i can do go whit ur hart 🌏🙏
I just want to feel good 👍 😅😅
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I need people around to talk to
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We can see this reality in many ways/ perspectives depending in how we manage our emotions/energies
Hell, Heaven, prison, playground, school, lab ect. I in particular like to see it as a Party, a complex gathering of beings/energies. Theres are two directions unity or separation. Individuality or integration, loneliness or togetherness,. The more we are devided the more demonic/evil it gets. the more united , the more angelic, godly.
I understand what you’re saying. I don’t think being united is always a good thing though. Sometimes people (us all) can become unified under negative ideals, and false idols. For example someone can be united under their own aspiration to become a celebrity for the sake of fame. They’d be united under the goal of become famous. In that case they’d be better to disentigrate away from that aspiration, so they can reunify under God- the Highest Good. Fame isn’t the Highest Good. So I don’t think order is inherently good, and chaos isn’t inherently bad. Let me know what you think.
My bro, Unity is Law in this place, everything is together, separation is an illusion, God is the unity of all and there is an Order to this place, it is not chaotic, everything is in its place here on earth, we humans are just ver confused, thats why organization is required for our success, to clean up our mind, and collective mind set, there is no loneliness, its a self induced illusion that allows us to have this individual experiences but The truth is we are one.
By having a yt channel.
I like the hippie vibe
Yung 2 💪
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Do you think that you dealing your loneliness by broadacsting ?
Reverse. I dove into the loneliness so that I could broadcast.
Try to they are everywhere bring me down by crap to destroy my mind different than a normal person
But if we have kids we wont die wont we
Hero ? Unless you’re publicly destroyed by the unknown while interfering with your life misunderstood and lies ?! I am a worrier
Nobody is born independent
How to disappear? Book
You remind me of tom cruise
I no an ur going to be ok 👁👂🧠🫀🌏🙏
You look like Tom Cruise in the thumbnail
Born alone die if you are born and left there
Sounds like you're describing a sense of impending doom and dread.
World is stupid wish I lived away
You're on a humongous stone ball travelling at thousands of miles an hour around a million times more humongous impossible black ball, with trillions of humongous balls of pure energy along for the ride. How much more meaning do you want! You've been given this chance to see the story unravel. I'm not sure how much more meaning there could be!
i had extreme sadness for a few years when i was in my 20s because i felt alone. now in my 40s i'm the opposite and i like being alone so that i can focus on my own survival and do exactly what i want to do any time. i think what we focus on can lead us down a good or bad path.
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Which God? There are over 3,000 of them.
You're delusional.
There is only one AlmightyGod the one who created you and me from Single sperm and eggs he is called God
sorry, dude, but your whole approach is boring
I was with him until he starting preaching. Bait and switch.
he is amazing --- because he doesn't care about someone else's boredom -- u just gave evidence he is doing it right
haters gone hate i thought this was amazing
Jealousy. He entitled to his opinion! Helping others and being real...GO away !
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