Top 5 Reasons People Flee 55+ Communities

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

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  • @Southwest55Plus
    @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

    To set a time for a Zoom or a call click this link: www.calendly.com/esalechick

  • @deedeew4040
    @deedeew4040 6 месяцев назад +16

    I am sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis. Hugs. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +7

      Thanks! It was a few years ago. I had great treatments and am now in remission. Thanks for your prayers. They're always appreciated!

  • @leilanihimmelmann9190
    @leilanihimmelmann9190 6 месяцев назад +7

    Another great and informative video. Thank you! Glad to hear you’re n remission. And your glasses are fun! Nothing wrong with statement glasses. Love it!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks so much! I'm glad you thought the glasses were fun. I thought that when I picked them out. I like a bold touch now and then. I appreciate you watching my channel!

  • @lynnwilliams4006
    @lynnwilliams4006 6 месяцев назад +10

    I've lived in my 55 community 18 years. Love it. We look out for each other. Have lots of recreational activities. Of course we see and hear children. Most of us have grandchildren who visit. As far as gossiping goes, if you don't participate in gossiping you don't ever hear any.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      I love hearing this! So glad you love it as much as I love my community! I’m not sure why people think we don’t allow kids. My grandkids come over all the time. Appreciate you watching my channel!

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 6 месяцев назад

      same here. My 55+ community is wonderful

  • @jepomer
    @jepomer 6 месяцев назад +23

    I would never live in a 55+ community. It is not a natural environment to me. Nothing pleases us more than hearing the young children across the street sing songs, slide on the snow, bring over little gifts (the last one was a bird house she made).
    You can have the 55+ community. It would be pure hell for me.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Sounds like you're living in a great place! I'm so glad we all have choices! Thanks for watching.

    • @jepomer
      @jepomer 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@Southwest55Plus - A vital society has all ages living in the same community. Segregating society by ages or gated communities is a sign of society in decline.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      You might not have a good understanding of how many 55+ communities are setup these days. Lots of them are integrated with all ages communities. The Verrado (Buckeye, AZ) community celebrations for July 4th included activities for all ages. The 55+ section of housing has some things for adults only over 55 but they also use things in the larger overall neighborhood. I don't see any decline in society from this at all. Our societal problems stem from things much worse than adults who choose to be active in their own community.

    • @JBoy340a
      @JBoy340a 3 месяца назад

      Yep. I sure cannot imagine not having a mix of people of different ages in your neighborhood. It keeps you younger and connected to the real world. And honestly a lot of old people are really demanding and stuck in their ways. They have forgotten that change is the only constant.

  • @craigperryproductions313
    @craigperryproductions313 6 месяцев назад +4

    So glad you're in Arizona. Not quite there yet but when I am I intend to reach out to you for an affordable single family residence in Surprise, AZ. Until then, may you be healed of all ailments and live to serve Arizona home buyers long into the future! Respectfully, a 64 year old veteran living in Arizona 🙂

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words and healing thoughts! I'm doing great and plan to work for a long time! Call me when you're ready. Thank you so much for watching my channel!!

  • @jesurunblends
    @jesurunblends Месяц назад +1

    I am a cancer survivor myself for almost 40 years God bless you with many many fulfilling joy filled years !

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  Месяц назад

      So awesome to hear that ! Thankful that you're healed and doing well. Thanks so much for watching my channel!

  • @2MasterBuilder2
    @2MasterBuilder2 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have family that live in one of these parks and there's a ton of gossip. LoL. Love the glasses; you remind me of my HS art teacher. Awesome woman ❤

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the compliment! I appreciate you watching my channel.

  • @chrisbayoumi8521
    @chrisbayoumi8521 6 месяцев назад +4

    glasses are nice... glad your in remission...awesome video

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks Chris! Glad you like them. I'm still unsure. Appreciate your feedback!

  • @lindag9975
    @lindag9975 6 месяцев назад +8

    The main reasons why people leave my Phoenix area 55+ community are that they have to go into a nursing home or assisted living, they pass away, or they move in with adult children or in a guest house on the property of their adult children.
    I'm not sure about the glasses, but if you like them it's all that matters.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I'm not sure I like the glasses either. I'm happy to get your feedback so I don't look silly out in publice! Thanks for watching!!

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 6 месяцев назад

      @@Southwest55Plus if you have to think about it, you don’t like them. In my opinion, they’re kooky and not flattering. They take over your face rather than enhancing your appearance.

  • @janhatcher6991
    @janhatcher6991 6 месяцев назад +6

    my girlfriend is in Maryland lives in leisure world, a 55 and older. She pays $1044 a month just to live there. That is absolutely ridiculous. That is somebody's whole paycheck almost thank goodness or her husband have good retirement.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +2

      That’s excessive for sure. But if the cost of the homes is super low then maybe but I don’t advise people to purchase in those area. You have to buy smart!

    • @kathleenk2381
      @kathleenk2381 6 месяцев назад

      Seizure World?

  • @seebunlim
    @seebunlim 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love the glasses! Fun 😬

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Glad you like them! Thanks for watching my channel 🙂

  • @peterhildebrandt2827
    @peterhildebrandt2827 6 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent video. After five years our 55+ home is for sale. Craving diversity and worldview more humanistic instead of evangelical/ right wing/ white/ anti gay. Don’t get me wrong this is the nicest newest home I have ever lived in; perfect natural setting too on a creek full of life. Ready for a change, getting back to my roots in the northeast. Had some 35 years or so of the sunbelt.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I think lots of people decide to make changes in their homes and communities. It helps when most of us have good home equity to take out when we sell. I’m happy to hear that you’ve got a plan. That creek sounds enticing as well. Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @dennisbaker1003
    @dennisbaker1003 6 месяцев назад +5

    You didn't mention dissatisfaction with the community HOA board of directors or the incompetent management company overseeing the community. Sometimes HOA fee go up to higher levels.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Some HOAs can be a challenge for sure. I’ll have a totally separate video for that. Stay tuned and thanks for watching!

  • @colleensmith3374
    @colleensmith3374 6 месяцев назад +3

    Blessings on your heath. Glasses: try peepers, super cute styles.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the tip! I'll check those out. Thanks for watching!!

  • @CrucesNomad1
    @CrucesNomad1 6 месяцев назад +2

    I want to move out of state close to my grand kids. But we have it made here. For now I will stay put.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Totally understand that feeling! Glad you found my channel. Thanks for watching. 🙂

  • @lynne6336
    @lynne6336 3 месяца назад +1

    Great tips on things to consider first before moving into a 55+ community!
    On your glasses--- I think you would look friendlier with more feminine glasses that have a little bling at the outer corners.
    A little bling will highlight your stunning blue eyes!!! No reason to hide them with black glasses....

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  3 месяца назад

      Funny that you mention the bling…I’m on the hunt for a blingy pair right now. Stay tuned to see what I can find. Thanks so much for watching!!

    • @lynne6336
      @lynne6336 3 месяца назад

      @@Southwest55Plus Enjoy the hunt! You may find a couple of pairs that really show off your face and eyes! Good luck.... we'll all be watching...

  • @genekostcruiser
    @genekostcruiser 6 месяцев назад +3

    Your glasses are very artsy, very scottsdale paradise valley. Hope you get better soon

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for your kind words! I'm not sick now--in remission for the past few years. Appreciate you watching my videos!!

  • @russellfisher2895
    @russellfisher2895 6 месяцев назад +2

    You definitely don't want to be harrased by an
    HOA when you are aging!!! That's the last thing you would want!!! 5:22

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I’m not thinking that most HOAs will “harass” their residents if they simply follow the rules agreed to at time of purchase. It hadn’t been my experience at all.

  • @ElhamD1968
    @ElhamD1968 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, that was an unexpected story at the end - sad. 😥
    My opinion on those glasses probably would be to get something a little more subtle. But that's just my taste, doesn't mean it's right.😆
    I love your content, thank you!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Something more subtle could be good. I'm experimenting with lots of styles. Glad you watched this video! I appreciate it so much.

  • @bluesteel48
    @bluesteel48 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’d have to see the glasses while you were playing the piano.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Well you can’t see that now. Elton John called and made me give them back to him. 🤣

    • @bluesteel48
      @bluesteel48 6 месяцев назад

      @@Southwest55Plus 😂

  • @teriscott685
    @teriscott685 6 месяцев назад +1

    AZ native here,i live in a 55 community,belive me the places are Not cheap

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      55+ Communities in AZ are fantastic but we have definitely seen a run up in prices. Still some affordable options though even in the most popular areas. Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @darlenesouthern9439
    @darlenesouthern9439 6 месяцев назад +1

    I like the Magoo glasses. Very Iris Arpel.

  • @mistiinseattle
    @mistiinseattle 6 месяцев назад +1

    depends on the community. I live in a 55+ apartment complex and one of my wisest decisions ever. Fantastic community. lol and you only hear gossip if you participate in it. We are totally spoiled here by management

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you like it! Generally speaking, 55+ communities are wonderful places. Thanks for watching my channel!

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 6 месяцев назад

      @Southwest55Plus My community is wonderful! I sold a condo in Seattle and moved to a less expensive place. I absolutely love living in my 55+ community. We are not isolated with just other old people as some seem to think. Most of us are very active in our churches and wider communities.

  • @russhendrix9674
    @russhendrix9674 6 месяцев назад +2

    The largest retirement community in Florida made the news for having the fasted growing STD rate of any population. I have heard it's pretty wild. This may have something to do with the Gray divorce.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +2

      Good point! We have a video coming soon to address that topic. Thanks for watching!

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 6 месяцев назад +1

      The Villages lol. However, Margaritaville in Daytona Beach is a cesspool of alcohol and debauchery. Old, drunk swingers 24/7 who act like they’re back in middle school.

    • @suebotchie4167
      @suebotchie4167 6 месяцев назад

      Geriatric brothel, no thanks.

  • @YoungAtHeart9
    @YoungAtHeart9 6 месяцев назад +9

    Hard pass on the glasses. They don’t fit your face.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +4

      Totally agree! They’re now in the “only use when desperate” pile. Thanks for watching!

    • @yolandejoazard6655
      @yolandejoazard6655 4 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

  • @BillBritt-iz2zs
    @BillBritt-iz2zs 5 месяцев назад +1

    We rent in the south for winters. just don’t want the stress and commitment like we see others have not to mention the cost! Many that bought high last 3-4 years will lose big money. Glasses are not good. Why people want glasses that hide your face and make people look at the glasses and not you are beside me? Your a pretty older woman.

  • @christopherclarke6642
    @christopherclarke6642 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thumbs up on the glasses!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      I thought you'd like them! You're a man with style!! Thanks for the input. 🙂

  • @h.f.4095
    @h.f.4095 6 месяцев назад +16

    Not a fan of the glasses..

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +3

      I'm torn but I don't think I'll wear them out. You know how it is though--you lose them all the time. I order a ton of them so I've always got a pair handy. These are different for sure. Thanks for the input!!

  • @feliciasampson8032
    @feliciasampson8032 6 месяцев назад +2

    The glasses don't flatter your pretty face. Maybe try with your bangs lifted off your face.
    Excellent video!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for the tip! It was so hot that day that my hair fell flat and those bangs are a disaster! Thanks for watching!

    • @feliciasampson8032
      @feliciasampson8032 6 месяцев назад

      We're experiencing a heatwave here in Reno...my hair will soon need a therapist!!

  • @Rita-r1j
    @Rita-r1j 6 месяцев назад +1

    Like glasses❤️👌

  • @susanstandard8727
    @susanstandard8727 6 месяцев назад +1

    Agree with your kids! 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Yes I think you and the kids are right! Gone with the glasses! Thanks for watching.

  • @artsyladie7
    @artsyladie7 6 месяцев назад +3

    You are cute! But NO on the Magoo glasses.😊

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Oh thanks for saying that! I agree that these glasses are ridiculous. I'll save them for an emergency only and keep trying to find some that don't look so goofy! Thanks for watching.

  • @yassss5114
    @yassss5114 6 месяцев назад +1

    There are much better choices for glasses!! Life is to be lived, no one is promised a certain amount of years, live life to the fullest and expect to meet your maker, that is not sad, but a certainty.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I have to agree I think. These will be ok at home when I can't find the others. Thanks for watching!

  • @helenmorley8016
    @helenmorley8016 6 месяцев назад +1

    Good video. We live in a retirement community in Australia and we find most leave due to declining health and death. That is life of course and they all loved their time here over the years. Re your glasses, I think they are hiding your face, as in your glasses are wearing you rather than the other way around. Maybe try some alternative frames as you do have a beautiful face. 🙂

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for watching and love your comment! As for the glasses, now that I see myself on my big TV I know I will only use them at home. Too goofy! On to the next pair soon!

  • @whitewolf4016
    @whitewolf4016 5 месяцев назад +1

    Miss Mugoow 😂....🎉....!

  • @frankiesayrelax100
    @frankiesayrelax100 5 месяцев назад +1

    ichsnay the glasses. unless you wanna put on a striped rugby shirt and be Where's Waldo for passing out candy on Halloween.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  5 месяцев назад

      Oh my gosh that is hilarious! You are so right! I won’t wear them except for Halloween. 😀

  • @penniephillipp936
    @penniephillipp936 6 месяцев назад +4

    No to the glasses

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +2

      100% agree with you! Thanks for watching my channel!!

    • @jesurunblends
      @jesurunblends Месяц назад

      as long as you like them and they help you that is all that matters

  • @jerryhantz7233
    @jerryhantz7233 6 месяцев назад

    Have you tried contacts? Just a suggestion.Sorry about your situation

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I have contacts but still need readers. One of the consequences of getting older darnnit! Thanks for watching my channel 🙂

  • @cindyfreihofer2093
    @cindyfreihofer2093 6 месяцев назад +2

    Can find a more flattering pair of glasses

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I’m currently on the hunt for a cuter pair! Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @billylambert9650
    @billylambert9650 6 месяцев назад

    Mister magoo is the first thing I thought of

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Yep. And now I really hate them after I see them
      On my large TV! Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @kathleenk2381
    @kathleenk2381 6 месяцев назад +1

    Glasses are a big nope.

  • @stevenkaskus6173
    @stevenkaskus6173 6 месяцев назад +3

    Glasses not your style, reminds me of Edith Head

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      I didn’t even think of Edith Head but you are so right! Either way they’re better on her. 🤣

  • @caridadrosado2964
    @caridadrosado2964 11 дней назад

    You have a very pretty face. Consider wearing glasses that are not as heavy and do not take from your natural looks. Perhaps rectangular timeless glasses.
    Enjoyed your subject. Recently bought into a 55+. I'm not sure I like it...

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  11 дней назад

      Thanks for your kind words! Still experimenting to find the right spec for my taste! Just out of curiosity, where did you purchase your home?

  • @carolynw3602
    @carolynw3602 6 месяцев назад +1

    Good video. To be honest, those glasses are too big and heavy and hide your beautiful eyes, which you should show off 👀👁

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for your honesty! They looked good online but wow not so good on my face! Still trying to find some that are fun but not wacky. Stay tuned for the nect version that I try! Thanks for watching.

  • @Cheryl-yt8ee
    @Cheryl-yt8ee 6 месяцев назад +3

    Try a different style glasses. Sorry!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +2

      Don't be sorry at all! I agree that they are not for me. Thanks for watching my channel! I really appreciate it

  • @DianeMarcus
    @DianeMarcus 6 месяцев назад +2

    I don’t care for the glasses on you

  • @joniangelsrreal6262
    @joniangelsrreal6262 6 месяцев назад +1

    👁👁 the eye ware:
    More in keeping with Groucho Marx ..
    Have a professional choose the proper fit and shape …it’s your face we’re talking about …

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      These are cheap readers. I have a highly trained pro for my real glasses. And yes they’re reminiscent of Groucho for sure. Not wearing them out of the house again. 🙂 Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @gaylegillick8989
    @gaylegillick8989 4 дня назад +1

    No glasses

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  4 дня назад

      Thanks for that feedback! Appreciate you watching my channel!

  • @avoiceinthechoir5791
    @avoiceinthechoir5791 6 месяцев назад +1

    Find another eyeglass frame that better flatters you. Your current glasses are terrible.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      They’re no longer my glasses. Just a brief fling with them to see what I thought. I hated them and so do you. 🤣 Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @brettb8884
    @brettb8884 4 месяца назад +1

    Get different glasses. Your glasses steal / overpower the view of your attractive face. Your glasses are too reflective.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  4 месяца назад

      Rest assured that those crazy glasses have been retired. Still testing others though so stay tuned. I love hearing your opinions. Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

  • @frankthewriter5937
    @frankthewriter5937 6 месяцев назад

    ‘Terrible lockdown states’
    Huh???

  • @MarkPurnell-er1lx
    @MarkPurnell-er1lx 6 месяцев назад +2

    Change the glasses …. they are too 70s 😊

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      You are SO right! Currently on the hunt for better styles. Thanks for watching!

    • @MarkPurnell-er1lx
      @MarkPurnell-er1lx 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Southwest55Plus It takes time to find that pair that coordinates with our bone structure, skin tones and personality. Have fun and keep the videos coming 🎥

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      You're so right! I'm always looking for my next pair! Stay tuned!!

  • @stephenharvey5932
    @stephenharvey5932 6 месяцев назад

    Too much like HOA

  • @LauraVee63
    @LauraVee63 6 месяцев назад

    Sounds like you could be living anywhere....whether it be a 55+ community or a rented apartment, what's your point? You don't say much about 55+ communities........this could happen anywhere you live. Again what's your point?

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад +1

      The point is that people ask me all the time why there are so many For Sale signs in 55+ communities that we look at. The purpose of this video was to explain why people leave. Many people buy in a community thinking it will be their "Forever Home." It doesn't always turn out that way. Thank you for watching and for your comment!

  • @brucepickthorne3856
    @brucepickthorne3856 2 дня назад +1

    Forget the horrid glasses.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  2 дня назад

      Thanks for that honest feedback! I hate them too and they're already disposed of! Appreciate you watching my channel!!

  • @SamLukie
    @SamLukie 5 месяцев назад

    Once you buy in you can't get out. Financial suicide.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  5 месяцев назад

      Not true in our Arizona single family communities. You might be thinking of the manufactured home communities which I would NEVER recommend!

  • @kennethfischer1
    @kennethfischer1 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thumbs down on the glasses 👓

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the input. I’ve officially retired them!

  • @MsGenXodus
    @MsGenXodus 6 месяцев назад +1

    I turn 55 in a few months and have been considering moving to a 55+ community because it's cheap and I figure I will get my money's worth if I move in early into my retirement years.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  6 месяцев назад

      These communities can be amazing and yes very affordable! Thanks for watching my channel. 🙂

    • @jerryhantz7233
      @jerryhantz7233 6 месяцев назад +3

      Where is this cheap 55 plus community that you speak of?

    • @bettyb1581
      @bettyb1581 6 месяцев назад

      I'd like to know too​@@jerryhantz7233