Intrigue - How to Create Interest and Connect with Anyone: Sam Horn at TEDxBethesdaWomen

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @SamHornIntrigue
    @SamHornIntrigue 11 лет назад +164

    Thank you for your valuable feedback.
    I'm on a mission to show that speaking is not just about giving an excellent presentation. Even if it's well-done, that is still one-way communication.
    It's about creating two-way communication and creating an interactive community where everyone has a chance to connect and contribute their insights and experiences.
    Hope you have a priority project in mind and take notes as you watch this video so you can instantly apply its techniques to create interest, earn respect and win buy-in to your priority projects. Enjoy!

    • @GeorgeKaoCommunity
      @GeorgeKaoCommunity 11 лет назад +3

      Great speech, *****!

    • @EuniceDeCampi
      @EuniceDeCampi 11 лет назад +3

      ***** What a great lesson, from experience most 60 seconds tend to be a one way communication. I like the 3 Question technique to create interest. Thank you!

    • @ElaineNieberding
      @ElaineNieberding 11 лет назад +3

      ***** , how great to hear again about *creating intrigue*. here on G+. I'm grateful you gifted the Atwood/Atwood/Shimoff Million Dollar Mastermind group of September 2012 with your Skype visit where I first experienced the power of your insights. Pop on! Tongue-Fu on! Thank you.

    • @SoulShineLiveMichele
      @SoulShineLiveMichele 6 лет назад +1

      Sam Horn this was so amazing, I'm watching a second time and sharing with my friend who has an amazing project to get his portable water filtration system for third world and natural disaster situations. I'm so excited for him to have another took to get his invention out to those in need.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 4 года назад +1

      @@SoulShineLiveMichele ... thanks for your feedback and for sharing this. Best wishes to your friend and his invention.

  • @adolfo.sirias
    @adolfo.sirias 3 дня назад

    This needs more views. This is timeless, here I am 10 years later... sheesh!

  • @KDD8
    @KDD8 8 лет назад +201

    She's like the 1/20 substitute teacher that every kid wants to come back

  • @aquarianhealer
    @aquarianhealer 9 лет назад +4

    This is exactly what compelled me to invite an acquaintance I met through facebook, and a common interest in a horse ranch, to a movie. Once upon a time, he had a zest for life and excitement, fast cars, and many friends. He is now in a wheelchair from an unfortunate accident and volunteers on a horse ranch that helps individuals with special needs. I invited him not only to expand my circle of friends with a compassionate human being, but to appreciate the experience of a simple thing such as going to a movie being confined to a wheelchair. I believe that people could very easily learn a handful (ha) of signs so that if they encounter a deaf person, they could at least have minimal dialogue and help them feel connected to society. Great talk!

  • @benjaminmcgrand5961
    @benjaminmcgrand5961 3 года назад +1

    She might be the best speaker I’ve ever watched.

  • @leanalyden444
    @leanalyden444 6 лет назад +12

    This has helped me talk to people alot. If we want to succeed we must intrigue! Love that. It reminds me of a quote that says, "People won't care how much you know until they know how much you care" learned alot Thank you.

  • @jamesmanley9414
    @jamesmanley9414 9 лет назад +105

    What a likeable person

  • @richardboe2130
    @richardboe2130 9 лет назад +80

    yep, one of the best ted talks I've heard in a while, great mix of info and comedy and vocal pace.

  • @AAvfx
    @AAvfx 3 года назад +6

    This is so true! Love life and love will love you back, is what I'm experiencing the last years as an artist! 😍🙏 The most important thing I've come to realize is that, in everything that you do in life, the energy that you feel while making it - passes on to others. 👌😇 So never loose faith in by thee!

  • @muhammadshoaib1962
    @muhammadshoaib1962 6 лет назад +5

    Undoubtedly one of THE best ted talks.

  • @IncomeBeast
    @IncomeBeast 5 лет назад +4

    "If you love life, life will love you back" Great🌞

  • @Blessed2Dance4God
    @Blessed2Dance4God 8 лет назад +5

    Her ovation was much deserved, her 'pleasantness' doesn't feel as calculated as most who discuss these topics.. obviously she knows what she's doing and knows her craft (that's why she's teaching it) but at the same time it seems very sincere and easy absorb and learn - Great info, God bless you maam.

  • @lisacook763
    @lisacook763 5 лет назад +2

    Sam Horn's talk is both entertaining and informative. Watch it if you have a new idea, business or strategy and you want to convince others to jump on board! Thank you, Sam!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 5 лет назад

      Thank you Lisa. That was my goal - to hopefully engage people in this important topic of how to connect, model the principles, and share actionable insights people can put into practice and get real-world results. Glad to hear that this talk is having that impact.

  • @scottmcdonald8657
    @scottmcdonald8657 6 лет назад

    Our team at Royal Roads University just used this method to present to our final residence MBA clients. We had them in the first 60 seconds and one was brought to tears by the end of the presentation. Thank you Sam Horn for your guidance that led us to a 99% grade.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 6 лет назад

      You're welcome Scott and thanks for sharing your success story. It makes my day when people are kind enough to take the time to get in touch and let me know how these INTRIGUE approaches are helping them create more genuine connections with people. Congrats!

  • @jessicabehrens7
    @jessicabehrens7 3 года назад +11

    Tomorrow is the day that I will meet the person who has the power to say yes and change my life completely, enabling my biggest dream to come true! Thanks a lot! From the deep of my heart, thanks a lot!

  • @ellatang8084
    @ellatang8084 9 лет назад +22

    Sam, You are so intriguing that I want to listen to you all the time. Thank you for the talk.

    • @Rijwan887
      @Rijwan887 7 лет назад +1

      Ella Tang plzlzzl talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339

    • @nafisadmankhan
      @nafisadmankhan 4 года назад

      @@Rijwan887 dude did she talk with you 🙄

  • @ADANESHAL
    @ADANESHAL 9 лет назад +61

    Best speaker ever, beautiful lady.

  • @PetalynSwartHeartFueled
    @PetalynSwartHeartFueled 11 лет назад +1

    Boy, did my light bulb go off, I finally got my 6 second 'here's what I do' down pat. Thank you...I've struggled with this for years! So simple and so effective. Ever since I've been using my new version, EVERYONE who has hear it stops in their tracks. I can't believe I found you.

    • @johnk4934
      @johnk4934 5 лет назад

      So, what do/did you do?

  • @danialbrown6068
    @danialbrown6068 8 лет назад +3

    Extremely underrated talk.

  • @CIsays
    @CIsays 5 лет назад +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed this, I took notes! You know what else I figured out? A permanent smile and a great sense of humor goes a long way!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 5 лет назад +3

      Thanks Chidera for your gracious note. Katherine Graham of the Washington Post said, "To do what you love and feel that it matters , how could anything be more fun?" I agree. I feel lucky to love and enjoy what I do and feel it matters. Katherine's right. I'm not sure it gets much better than that.

    • @CIsays
      @CIsays 5 лет назад +2

      @@SamHornIntrigue I never expected this, and I am honoured by your reply. I already practiced the "Did you know?..." yesterday.
      I have social anxiety and I get really nervous sometimes so this means a lot to me.
      I hope that I can be happy doing the things I !genuinely! love to do and not be forced by society to do what society/the world needs me to do to survive.
      Thank you once again ❤

  • @alicefaye4636
    @alicefaye4636 8 лет назад +23

    that hands down is the best ted talk I've seen in ages, BRILLIANT!!!

    • @Rijwan887
      @Rijwan887 7 лет назад +1

      alicefaye17 PLZZ talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339

  • @SoDoneWithUsenames
    @SoDoneWithUsenames 6 лет назад +2

    Excellent talk. And I could listen to her speak all day long!

  • @denishead1045
    @denishead1045 6 лет назад +1

    She is my Mother from another Mother. Love you ma

  • @heathersavage7365
    @heathersavage7365 9 лет назад +12

    One of the best things I have EVER seen on the internet!

  • @marilynrabinowitz8369
    @marilynrabinowitz8369 8 лет назад +20

    I have watched this a few times and now I am going to try and use it. What a wonderful speaker.

  • @phimhaytonghop2673
    @phimhaytonghop2673 11 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much Sam Horn. Very powerful, very practical. One of the best speakers I've ever watched.

  • @bombardier0543
    @bombardier0543 6 лет назад

    I listened to this marvelous entrepreneur.
    I now am locked into a deep feeling of disturbance.
    My life is now made of eyebrows

  • @anuyew9537
    @anuyew9537 7 лет назад +4

    What a Dynamic Lady!!

  • @leahgodson2319
    @leahgodson2319 11 лет назад +8

    I really like this; so applicable. Thanks Sam, Intrigue Expert!

  • @deeptc1
    @deeptc1 10 лет назад +3

    Great way to make your 60 seconds and get people intrigued !!!

  • @mobk9774
    @mobk9774 6 лет назад +2

    I have this Cheshire like smile on my face. You definitely connected with me. What a fantastical ray of light you are. Thank you for sharing your music.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 6 лет назад

      Thanks for your gracious feedback. It made my day. Glad you found this intriguing and useful. - Sam Horn

  • @colinkramer8734
    @colinkramer8734 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks @SamHorn for clearing the pathways to new vistas of expression - awesome

  • @JamesJonesReverendJ
    @JamesJonesReverendJ 9 лет назад +2

    This talk is BRILLIANT!!

  • @belindapruyne
    @belindapruyne 9 лет назад +27

    Love love love the step by step insights and advice!! Something I can really put into practice. Thank You Sam for sharing your brilliance and for being so intriguing!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 2 года назад

      So glad you found this valuable, and thanks for sharing this with others so they have an opportunity to put it into practice.

  • @apoorvkulkarni
    @apoorvkulkarni 6 лет назад +1

    Do you know anyone - could be you, or a family member, or a friend - who watched a TED talk which was intriguing, entertaining, and actionable? Well, I just joined their ranks after watching this talk.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 6 лет назад

      Thanks Apoorv: Your gracious response got my eyebrows up and made my day. Thanks.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 6 лет назад

      Thank you Apoorv ... it makes my day when people take the time to let me know they've found this talk beneficial and they're using it in their life. Glad you found it entertaining, and most importatnly, actionable. - Sam Horn

  • @TheFreshspidey
    @TheFreshspidey 9 лет назад +68

    This was a really good Ted Talk!

  • @HonoluluAunty
    @HonoluluAunty 9 лет назад +3

    Great food for thought, will work on my 3 questions. I look forward to meeting Sam Horn in the near future.

  • @EileenMcDargh
    @EileenMcDargh 10 лет назад +4

    As always, your style, insight and clarity make every word magic. Thanks, Sam

  • @HarrietMeyerson
    @HarrietMeyerson 11 лет назад +4

    Wow! Your advice is amazing. Right away you are putting the focus on the other person even when they ask about you. That's genius. I am throwing out my elevator speech and using your guidelines to connect. I love the part about the eyebrows, too. Very enlightening. I never thought about that. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with the world.

    • @JanineGregor
      @JanineGregor 11 лет назад +2

      Hi Harriet, Wanted to stop in and say 'hello'. Saw you on Marisa Murgatroyd 's Super Hero Summit pre-view today. I'm a big fan of her work! Was a fun webinar!

  • @Lori90Alih
    @Lori90Alih 6 лет назад

    I think this video just changed my life

  • @vesnaeastelysium
    @vesnaeastelysium 6 лет назад +2

    Higly practical and useful knowledge and wisdom, brilliant. Thanks Sam.

  • @arttubelady
    @arttubelady 9 лет назад +3

    yes, yes... I am a believer. thank you.

  • @uncommonsense9711
    @uncommonsense9711 9 лет назад +5

    OMG I've done that before.
    Went through all the trouble of accessing an opportunity only to chicken out at the last minute!!

  • @cve4me
    @cve4me 9 лет назад +2

    yesterday. Went on this morning to try and write a blog post. Forget it. Sam you made such an impact that here I am this time really taking brake down note.
    Thank you

  • @Kobe29261
    @Kobe29261 6 лет назад +2

    You find genius in the Professors office - sometimes, here's another kind!

  • @tokunboiginla9454
    @tokunboiginla9454 9 лет назад +5

    Really great talk with so much practical take away. Thanks Sam

  • @blespere
    @blespere 8 лет назад +5

    Absolutely EXCELLENT. Just what I needed for my business.

  • @dr.jamesabiye2825
    @dr.jamesabiye2825 6 лет назад +1

    Whaoooo! Now I know why people get turned off when I try to explain what I do!

  • @dancain9614
    @dancain9614 9 лет назад +7

    I'm implementing these principles immediately! Thank you for sharing this information!

  • @presentlyhappy
    @presentlyhappy 9 лет назад +3

    one of the best talks

  • @candinajanicki324
    @candinajanicki324 5 лет назад +1

    Great Ted Talk, entertaining and a great approach to the "elevator pitch" and answering "what do you do?".
    She talks about how to "raise the eyebrows" and gives some solid advice and a method to create intrigue and interest.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 5 лет назад

      Thanks Candina - glad you found this inspiring and useful!

  • @CybersStorm
    @CybersStorm 3 года назад +1

    Shoutout to those of us watching this video for a college course!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 3 года назад

      Mo .. thanks for the shout-out. May I ask what college course you're watching this for? It make my day to know these techniques are being taught at universities:-)

  • @andreewert1142
    @andreewert1142 7 лет назад +5

    Gee, I like your Style a Lot..funny, witty, humble

  • @candyearp2653
    @candyearp2653 9 лет назад +4

    Love this Ted talk

  • @didthatreallyjust
    @didthatreallyjust 9 лет назад +10

    yessssssss. Someone has to teach this

    • @mergaafa2617
      @mergaafa2617 9 лет назад +1

      Hey

    • @Rijwan887
      @Rijwan887 7 лет назад +1

      alicia gannon PLZZ talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339

  • @AndrewHorn
    @AndrewHorn 11 лет назад +4

    Thanks for sharing a true idea worth spreading Sam. This is universally applicable advice for anyone who is working on something they care about. Kudos!

  • @patpattison3152
    @patpattison3152 11 лет назад +4

    Very good talk Sam. Will use this strategy in selling my TV Show. Hope all is well.

  • @peggystreetinfluencer
    @peggystreetinfluencer 2 года назад +1

    This is an awesome class!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 2 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed these insights on how to intrigue people, Peggy. Thanks for your positive feedback.

  • @Aritul
    @Aritul 2 года назад +1

    Excellent talk.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 2 года назад

      Thank you - glad you found this valuable.

  • @joymcclendon5156
    @joymcclendon5156 11 лет назад +3

    This is absolutely informative and relevant. I will immediately use the principles.

  • @Tracyanndavis25
    @Tracyanndavis25 8 лет назад +6

    Awesome presentation with content that's very practical and easy to apply

  • @ayeshamoonmoon1863
    @ayeshamoonmoon1863 7 лет назад +4

    Very very Incredible, Loved it so much. She was great there.

    • @Rijwan887
      @Rijwan887 7 лет назад +1

      Ayesha MoonMoon ASLMUALEKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WABA RAKATUH plz talk to me my what's up number is +919782579339

  • @johnton5656
    @johnton5656 6 лет назад +1

    Ever watched a Ted Talk with a really great speaker? Have you ever wondered how you could benefit from the message in her talk? Imagine me, little old Johnny, doing those things, and learning some GREAT techniques that are actually SUPER FUN to try, and boosting sales of my own micro-business! It's inspiring, fun and, I'm guessing, effective - can't wait to try your ideas Sam!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 6 лет назад

      Thank you John for your instant application of these ideas - and for your gracious follow-up. I appreciate your feedback and am happy to hear you found these INTRIGUE insights fun, inspiring and useful. - Sam Horn

  • @priscillacastaneda5478
    @priscillacastaneda5478 9 лет назад +4

    this is incredibly valuable information! wow my mind is blown

  • @tothepast
    @tothepast 6 месяцев назад +1

    Valuable!

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 3 месяца назад

      Glad you found this valuable. It makes my day to hear from people around the world that they watch this to develop a new elevator INTRO that helps them meet people more confidently and have more meaningful conversations .

  • @sachisachi7666
    @sachisachi7666 6 лет назад +1

    💞....aaaahhhhh...Sammy,my eyebrows always goes up and down...even without thinking,been accused on that....love your Talk..Thank You💞‼️

  • @dawn1607
    @dawn1607 6 лет назад +1

    She is great!

  • @RandyPeyser
    @RandyPeyser 11 лет назад +2

    Great ideas, Sam! Always a pleasure to see you in action. You share such great content!

  • @samanthagoebel6886
    @samanthagoebel6886 6 лет назад +1

    I absolutely loved this

  • @tomheitz1651
    @tomheitz1651 11 лет назад +3

    Awesome Sam! I will share this with the people I coach who are struggling to craft their commercial.

  • @williammedford5891
    @williammedford5891 6 лет назад

    A real gem. Must see.

  • @hamza99772
    @hamza99772 4 года назад +1

    Loved this talk.

  • @j-y1524
    @j-y1524 7 лет назад +3

    Super funny and very doable!

  • @saheedsomoye1293
    @saheedsomoye1293 6 лет назад +2

    I love this, I'm following her on RUclips asap.

  • @camilaschneider386
    @camilaschneider386 9 лет назад +7

    what a sweet lady, and great and enjoyable talk

  • @galactickim
    @galactickim 2 года назад +1

    You are such a fantastic speaker (you intrigued me!) with amazing advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 2 года назад

      Glad you found this valuable. Hope this Did You Know opening helps you get interest in what you care about.

  • @karlsmith21
    @karlsmith21 9 лет назад +3

    That's exactly why I have made it my mission to kill the elevator pitch...thanks Sam for the confirmation. brilliant

  • @kosmopolitanna
    @kosmopolitanna 9 лет назад +2

    That doesn't look like it is good Tedx Talk at first, but it is!

  • @GrayMatterOfficial
    @GrayMatterOfficial 8 лет назад +12

    For the next tedx event there is going to be someone speaking about "how tedx changed my life"

  • @WallStWarrior11
    @WallStWarrior11 2 года назад +1

    This is fantastic

  • @giochacon8354
    @giochacon8354 Год назад +1

    great talk, really full of value and practical uses.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 3 месяца назад

      Thanks. That was my goal - for this to be inspiring AND full of practical, real-world examples so people could use these ideas on and off the job.

  • @shannatedder2310
    @shannatedder2310 7 лет назад +2

    Awesome talk, very engaging and informative!

  • @ScottErtl
    @ScottErtl 11 лет назад +4

    Sam, you always amaze me with your intriguing ways to keep it simple and make it real! Thanks for sharing your awesome insights! :)

  • @letitia4423
    @letitia4423 4 года назад +3

    I absolutely love this so much..
    When asked how I spent my time during quarantine/lockdown I will simply reply, with intrigue, did you know?...

  • @dfaria1000
    @dfaria1000 5 лет назад +1

    An awesome presentation..........really intriguing.............

  • @boya92_
    @boya92_ 4 года назад

    One of the ways of making sure someone comes to an agreement is by knowing what they want to hear, and in order to get hold of that idea is ideal to appeal to a necessity.
    Unlike the condescending manner of approaching people exposing thus ulterior motives, connecting with people is not about acting in such a way the person feels flattered but instead, understood; aiming to find out a problem that is usually subject of concerns and according to it being able to approach the pitch of one's speech and ultimately provide a solution.
    Loved this Ted Talk, thanks Sam.

  • @aivytran5872
    @aivytran5872 6 лет назад +1

    This is a very relevant talk . Thank you!

  • @jwbbccp
    @jwbbccp 10 лет назад +9

    what a great message and excellent delivery! practical and practiceable ideas for making quick connections in an ever-quickening world :-)

  • @terieseful
    @terieseful 9 лет назад +3

    this is great! thank you!

  • @BennyBoy_1010
    @BennyBoy_1010 9 лет назад +2

    That was awesome! I know what to include in my marketing plan of my business

  • @sirarthurfrentzel1434
    @sirarthurfrentzel1434 9 лет назад +6

    Very enlightening.

  • @bethannfischberg3874
    @bethannfischberg3874 5 лет назад +1

    Love this and your infectious energy Sam!
    I can’t wait to take on this challenge and looking forward to meeting you at your Portland workshop in October! ❤️

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 5 лет назад +1

      Thanks BethAnn - what fun we're going to have. Looking forward to crystallizng a Meaningful NEXT that puts the light on in our eyes.

  • @shashiranjan392
    @shashiranjan392 6 лет назад +2

    SO WONDERFULL...

  • @vijay_yejare
    @vijay_yejare 4 года назад +1

    I learned something new today👍👍

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 4 года назад

      So glad you liked this approach for how to turn a standard elevator SPEECH into a more genuinely engaging elevator CONVERSATION.

  • @gypsieladie
    @gypsieladie 9 лет назад +6

    WoW!

  • @shellihowlett
    @shellihowlett 11 лет назад +3

    Great Job on "Raising Eyebrows"! I enjoyed your workshop at BNI HQ.

  • @bubbles_222
    @bubbles_222 4 года назад

    Esse vídeo é a coisa mais incrível da minha vidahhhh MEU DEUS-- eu tô passada

  • @Corporate_Carolyn
    @Corporate_Carolyn 11 лет назад +3

    Sam this is great stuff!!! Thanks so much!

  • @nameless3211
    @nameless3211 9 лет назад +5

    brilliant!

  • @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812
    @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812 4 года назад +1

    * It really interesting 🤔 listening to this lovely lady and one ☝️ think you can pick up right away from her is the compassion she has towards people, that must be her nature.
    There’s a saying in Tamil, spoken in India, and it goes like this- you have butter 🧈 in your hand 🤚 and you go searching for ghee.
    Even though Joe Ann had the butter 🧈 she went searching for the ghee vs the others who took the butter 🧈, benefited by taking advice, thus made their own ghee.
    But I believe you’re more than the butter 🧈, you’re gold! Thanks 😊 for your advice.

    • @SamHornIntrigue
      @SamHornIntrigue 4 года назад

      You just made my day with your thoughtful feedback. Thank you for taking the time to share this lovely insight about compassion. Sending best wishes. - Sam Horn

    • @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812
      @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812 4 года назад

      Sam Horn
      Thank you and Happy Mather’s Day! 😊
      As soon after listening 👂 to you I jotted this down, because I didn’t want to forget it while the idea 💡 popped up fresh in my head. Well, what good is it going to do for me some might think 🤔 being in the situation that I am in right now, but only the Almighty Lord has the power to bring anything to happen and it’s my responsibility to be prepared. So, thanks to your kindness, I have gained knowledge, I appreciate it greatly.
      So this is what I wrote:
      1.) Do you know anyone who admired the taste of baklava so much that they would be willing to travel 🧳 overseas to grab them some?
      2.) What would you say if it wasn’t too sweet, nor too soggy with all the sugar syrup, but just right amount of sugar with it’s flaky layer after layer of flavorful butter 🧈 that’s got the golden walnuts mixed in with it.
      3.) If you had the opportunity to eat ☝️ that’s made with so much love 💕 and care, cut into a beautifully diamond ♦️ shaped pieces that smells so good 😊, would you be willing to try one ☝️?
      Well, this is what I had wrote down. I hope you liked it.
      It’s crazy, I am old. In my mid fifties. I just now discovered that I suddenly love 💕 to read and write, never thought 💭 in my wildest dreams. And here all the way through elementary school 🏫 I was terrible in my English class.