It’s because your TRYING to be funny, your probably over thinking it and trying to think of jokes. I do the same thing when I’m TRYING to be funny. But I’m the funniest when I just say what’s on my mind and not think about if people will laugh or not. I’m sure it’ll help you too
The Secret is to be cool and natural and don't bother about it, the moment thing respectations will grow tension and over thinking inside us so don't care about girls just go on your way. On the way you will get girls. Don't send girls as your aim. That's the key
I don’t know what’s taken over me, but I have just the urge to go ask every good looking girl for their number now. And I act on it, thank you for everything man.
*A light-hearted, confident approach shows you’re not afraid to be yourself, and it makes her laugh and feel comfortable around you. This balance of charm and humor really works!*
This video is one of his best and I hope everyone listens. Whatever happens is simply HAPPENING. It’s not happening TO YOU. The interaction and its outcome is not a reflection of YOU. That’s ridiculous. This person knows nothing about you. Approach with that in mind and best of luck boys. Stay positive and spread the love.
Yeah i really hate that. They got zero stones between their legs. You go: lets make some chaos and approach some women and they stand their like you just said: let go play into ongoing trafik until we get killed. They freeze and have this dumb look on their face. Thing is its not as fun without a wing because it can be a drain sometimes getting to hear no alot.
Jack saved me in college. I literally followed his example and developed a killer social circle from absolute zero. Start talking to people. You can do it
@@adventure09 4ish years ago. I was in college and he was first blowing up with all his approach videos. It took me about 6 months of working out and talking to strangers to really see results and within a year I went from no social life (I was miserable) to what I would consider an amazing social life
@@doorey2 Man, you are killing it! I hope this learning experience made you realize what type of girl you actually prefer, as opposed to what you might have thought to be your "type".
I've tried this with strange beautiful girl and it works perfectly. However, i failed to get her number actually. I was a bit upset but i believe i did very well and i felt so proud of myself at the moment i remembered your videos about my situation. 😂❤❤
Small steps my friend. Make it into something you can remember like: approach, small qualifier, bigger qualifier, make fun of her, statement, statement, listen, statement, listen. move her 3 times, take her hand and say lets go.
Hey Denmo, I realised after watching your recent videos that I made myself a commitment to meet at least 1 girl a day that I don't know and talk to them. I copied the way you would talk to these girls, and I get pretty good results. It was so easy to get their Snap
Ive been watching Coach Kyle Todd V Corey Wayne To help me with approaching. It’s honestly fun to play around with girls when you truly don’t expect an outcome. For the first time ever ,I approached a group of 3 girls and started a convo with all of them and slowly weeded them out to the 1 that desired me the most. I really want to get great at game.
THRIFT STORES ARE AMAZING! I started thrifting for fun, and it helped me up my style so quickly, and for so cheap! Plus, girls fucking love it, it's so fun.
Thats crazy. I've literally done this before (trolling a girl that i was into on facebook), started out as, she posted a random post on facebook, i saw it and DM'ed her basically wanting to make sure I read it right, so i asked her something along the lines of "you really dislike such and such?!" She responded with her dislike of it, i said "wow, you're so odd! How can you not like such and such!? Lol" one thing lead to another, i got her number, we spent the next few weeks talking until we could plan a meet up etc. It works. I didn't even know that that was actually a thing you could do to not seem so "vanilla", basically trolling playfully to get a laugh from her.
Already took care of step 1... After my 1st rejection I did some self analysis and changed my mindset in such a way that whichever girl i'll like in the future, she'll be my equal.. a human, not a goddess 7:21 I am 15 years old 😭😭
If you just see yourself as the picker in the interaction you don't need this other shit. It will flow naturally. Also never seek validation from anyone other then yourself.
I was at the dentist one time and the receptionist noticed my baso profondo bass voice, she wanted me to sing but i was too embarrassed. If I knew how to talk to girls I could have asked her on a date
my favorite line is getting her to say something about herself, and then say (with a smile so she knows youre not serious) "That's not as hot as you think it is" Hope this helps someone
Lol for the nost part I've been who he described at 12:00, so that cut deep a bit. The hard part is growing up with severe anxiety and pretty much being made to be this way....hard to change. Been trying though. Workin hard but what a road its been
Old widower here. It is both a pain and pleasure to start over with this flirting and seduction shite. Solid video. One quibble. In the pick-up clip you showed, you've got the backwards cap. WHY?! That look is controversial with women. Some see it as immature, douche-y. You've got nice hair. If I had your hair, I'd never cover it! Btw, "Mustard Tiger" is hilarious!
Guys ignore all those videos of wannabe „coaches“ all u need is to be comfortable with yourself and really enjoy time with yourself. You cannot expect someone to be attracted to you if you don’t even accept yourself. Set yourself small goals day by day and take it slow, soon you become a better version of yourself and you will like yourself more and more. Just as people around you will. Keep in mind this process takes time and not happen overnight. Its a marathon not a sprint but if you learn how to love yourself and be proud of who you are more people will be attracted to that and you will also feel more confident to get to know people more often. Its all about yourself and for all those fellas who overthink about everything i was one of you but just life and stop trying to to control the unknown and life in the moment. I believe in you and wish you to become the best version of yourself!
Thx for the vid, I knew what I had to do and what was the problem, but couldn't think of a solution, now I can Def tease her tomorrow. As you said we've been taught to be nice and nothing else, so those that were interested in love from day one are having a difficult time. Especially the gen z, or they just manage so good to show off their problem on dating haha
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, well ex girlfriend now, mainly due to not ha ing had one until late in life, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. because the way it looks like, guys, men, need to know or learn all of these social skills or social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, have certain social behaviors, have certain talking and communication ability, have a certain lifestyle, because initiating interaction or approaching, leading, getting her attracted to you during the conversation or interaction, flirting, teasing, creating sexual tension, passing her shit tests, leading and taking the lead, leading the courtship, asking her out, planning and setting up the dates, is all social behavior based or social skills based, behavioral aspect based. Along with have a certain lifestyle as well, because men have the burden of building or sparking the attraction, it's like, a woman doesn't need to know how to attract a guy. Yes I know people will say don't compare yourself to others and don't worry about what other people don't have to do and I don't disagree with that, but I just get angry and annoyed whenever people say that women have to learn as well when the man is basically making everything happen for them so because of that I don't see how women have to learn anything about dating or courtship, attraction, because women basically are just passengers in the whole dating and courtship process, so I don't see how that requires any learning or training or practice on their end One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training. It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general. I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male. "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad and angry, enraged, that its not appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further. Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do. I know I'm not alone in thinking this way in which I have the mindset in which I feel that if I was born a woman I would not have been alone or single that long. I like to think this way and I know that a lot of people agree with this and that is being born a woman basically guarantees you will always have options because you are on the receiving end of sexual attention just for being born a woman because it's often said that women are in abundance by default but men are in scarcity by default because for all time women are the ones that get pursued and hit on or sought after or get advances made on them and when you are in that position.
Yes, you are correct. In your mind, you are entitled to feel these things because it is what you have observed. Men do not get a pass even when we look good. No woman will EVER come up to us and show interest in dating unless we are famous, rich, or well known for our actions. It's a fucked up world for a man right now. We are taught to be complacent and let girls pass us by while we waste the best years of our life. No matter what, we are not as lucky as women in the dating game, because even a well below average looking girl will still get more dick than a well above average looking guy will get pussy. This imbalance exists and will not go away for as long as we live. But you already know what the solution is: This mental baggage must be let go. There is no fixing this societal imbalance ourselves. Like all threats in life, we must adapt and overcome. I cannot lay down and accept this fate. I want to play the victim so fucking bad every single day of this life, but nothing will change unless I get up from bed and try to chip away at this old fucking sad shell I've built myself. Else I will die within it. At 24 years old I want to believe there is no hope left, that I have done everything I can to be happy in life- and that no matter what I do, it is useless and I am never meant to experience love. That no girl on earth could ever possibly fall for me. This cannot continue. Why as guys, are we taught to be so weak and pathetic growing up? I am now beginning to find my strength, but It's only an uphill battle from this point on, as I can not turn back the clock. My only option is to let go of these burdens weighing on my mind- to fight for my own happiness, even if I am never meant to find love.
Guys girls aren’t as easily offended as you think. They generally like to be teased a bit as long as you are decent looking and not giving off serial killer vibes
it's never been a problem talking to girls and charming them but it has been a problem to find a girl that i actually liked personality wise I am too picky and i have never had one.a lot of them wanted to be with me but i just didnt want to be with them. i am just weird,different and not compatible with 99% of people,let alone women.all of them bore me to death tbh i dont get you all,doing everything you can just to get a girl,but do you even stop and question whether they are the right one for you? or are you just that desperate to go out with anyone?
I will definitely join your socializer community when i get some good enough money. Meanwhile, I'm gonna take what you teach me for free and go out there an appraoch without the help of the internet. 😊
00:00 🎭 Being able to make a girl laugh and engage her in conversation is highly rewarding and not as difficult as it seems. 01:53 💡 Instead of focusing solely on making her like you, focus on simply initiating conversation as a first step. 02:07 🔄 Change your mindset from just being nice to girls to understanding and embracing female nature, which craves excitement and challenge. 04:38 💬 You don't have to be the funniest person; mastering basic jokes and banter is sufficient to start conversations and create connections. 05:34 🚫 Don't hesitate to tease and joke with girls; they appreciate being treated normally and don't want to be put on a pedestal. 08:09 🤔 Utilize a smug and mysterious demeanor to pique a girl's curiosity, triggering her desire for social approval. 11:05 ⚠ Use psychological tactics responsibly to avoid manipulating or hurting others; focus on genuinely connecting and building attraction. 12:27 🔒 After establishing rapport and initial teasing, gradually push boundaries by making playful assumptions and challenges to keep the interaction engaging.
@@DenmosocialDemno, we want an Action and Music Video. Once in a While do a even more Personal Video. Just for fun. (But doesnt it Delude the BRand. Well maybe. But It strengthens other Relationships. Called it Hopes and Dreams I had. --- And how They......
I actually did the 'whatever she's wearing' opening today without thinking. I saw a girl wearing a Philly sweatshirt so I said, "Hey, walking back to Philly?" [Which is 200 miles away, so it was a bad joke.] She laughed but I didn't follow it up, which would have been awkward anyway because I didn't slow down and neither did she. How do you stop someone on the street without it seeming awkward? Most of your approaches are on campus where it's natural for people to just stand around.
"...yeah, I mean... we should do things together... finger painting, moto-x... roofing... I think my friends would really like you... ...if I had any..."
Literally the only 2 main points all you really need to get a girl is 1. be clean/good hygeine etc and 2. tease girls/ almost treat them like one of the lads with the banter
Since my secondary, I think I am so afraid of looking like the "alpha male" attitude, that I'm not friendly with, that I began acting like the "victim" I guess.
I'm finally gonna join the socializer. Throughout all of my life I've been vanila and didn't know how to tease the girl properly. I was afraid to drop a flirty joke or comment thinking she would think I'm a creep or something which actually happened in the past and left me scarred. Can you help me out when I join the course?
I enjoy your approach and how your flirting with women, but at 68 I don’t know that this would work with older women, maybe? If there’s anyone that’s tried it and has feedback, please feel free to tag me.
Not going to open up a circus. Easy straightforward meaningful mutual bonding is enjoyable. You get over not getting every beautiful girl that you encounter - attraction is no guarantee of anything - it’s 1 criteria 2. Is values 3. Is wanting a harmonious bond. If you want quick meaninglessness get drunk & meet a tipsy girl. But that *barely* meets your needs, as a man, a human, a real person. Also, if you were female would you want Jack Black or Brad Pitt? Even though you’re not, you KNOW which. That is to say this overbearing “teasing” energy would be quite annoying to encounter.😂 Be more real, cause who has the limitless time/energy/resources to entertain so many people? Have you all actually tried juggling & keeping many girls at once? You get burned out physically, mentally, financially. It’s not like you don’t have other duties in life.
Your suggestions are great but are not quite pointing how to take action if you are set in a way and don’t know how to get out. How are you supposed to adopt these mindsets when you aren’t clever with jokes by nature or have low IQs, don’t like laughing in general, don’t want to be teased, are super serious. Something about me just never did well in environments of levity. I get really really bored when I’m with other guys and or people and they’re doing nothing but drinking, joking around, teasing each other. It’s a turnoff of mine. I want to go home. I want to work or do something. I equated this teasing, conversations for a long time with laziness. I see rules as important. When I was really young, I even remember multiple times of getting super mad when people teased me as a kid. I just hated being teased and wanted to be left alone. It really got to me. I also came from the world that taught you shouldn’t talk about sex or sexual innuendos in public. So I was trained to believe jokes like that are sinful and I shouldn’t do it. I’m still accustomed to this. Not to mention, I’m waiting for marriage to have sex. That’s my code and what feels right to me. I feel it’s hypocrisy to have rules to life, then joke about it in the background. I feel it would be the height of power and charisma to remain true to myself in that way. I just don’t want to be a fuckboy. In fact I’m trying to cure myself of things like swearing, fully going back to the days when it was wrong to curse. These days, I have to wrestle with an immediate response which is to put shields up against people. So how can I tease, laugh and push girls’ buttons when I also don’t like it being done on me? Basically what’s the first step on that long process towards changing?
Nah.. The problem is that you want a step by step guide What's gonna happen when the girl in question doesn't follow your script? Trial and error. Go outside
When you like a girl and try to remain true to those principles, then another guy who teases her gets her instead of you then you will be forced to take action to change.
You were trying to hard to be cool around her and she couldn't connect with your true self. Learn from the experience and keep getting better my friend.
Does it ever happen where you try an approach and then as soon as you show interest the woman tries to spin the situation as if you're being "creepy, weird, inappropriate, etc. etc."? Basically she tries to make it seem as if you're doing something wrong? A few women that I've known have talked about guys that randomly tried to approach them and it seems like they always had something negative to say. Yet they never describe the guy actually doing anything wrong. They'll just say that he was weird, creepy, or whatever. Has that ever happened? And what's the best way to handle that if it does? This never made any sense to me because obviously guys are expected to initiate just about everything in the dating process yet at the same time we get shamed and lambasted for having a sex drive and being interested in women. Wtf.
Isn't it awkward going up to a group of 2 or more girls and only focusing all of your interest on one person? I guess they are used to it, but to me it seems rude/insulting to her friends.
3/11 Today I got THE HOTTEST girl on campus’s number. Insanely bad. Like. CRAZY. Top 3 hottest girls whom I’ve approached if not THE. Anyways Today I feel good. So many baddies on campus with high volume. Had many close calls, times where I almost approached. (Red hair Latina, bench Latina) Was able to do within 40 minutes! I started at 12:20 This was either the 3rd or 4th round. I had a close call on the 2nd where I could’ve easily approached, a very cute Latina looking girl sitting on the green benches. There were 3 people coming my way within earshot that psyched me tf out, pussied out, and walked past. Then, after making a loop around, I said fuck it! I’m going back in to talk to this girl, I was battling with the awkwardness of her having already seen me, but I rationalized that NO ONE gives a fuck, no one is paying attention. once I reached the bench, peered around the corner, she was gone. I continued to walk around to the parking lot for the science building, noticing there’s a LOT of hot girls that go to their cars from and to class. I walked and noticed Johans sport bike for the 7th time, when I saw her, the curves made it impossible to not look. Sitting next to steps, on her phone, by herself, next to only one other girl. I got closer and closer, debating should I do it? Is she too hot for me? I hadn’t even warmed up. I got closer, passing another girl 6/10 who could easily hear if things went badly. just then I caught her taking a lightning quick glance, our eyes met, this is my chance. FUCK IT. I threw myself in gun to the head style, and after I said “excuse me,” there was no turning back. I just hit her with the “I’m lost…looking for your number” line and the rest is history. I felt so relaxed and turned on this whole time, how she made me feel being in front of her channeled a different, more suave version of myself. (And perhaps choosing to slick this morning my hair back had this effect as well;) Very smooth, but quick, interaction. With the number (hopefully not fake) secured.
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The key is to have enough confidence to the point you don't care what you say and you're not afraid of anything.
well said
@@LeftHimDeadand if she’s actually into you to begin with lol (aka be white)
@@LeftHimDead no offense to denmo but have you seen him?
@@Jedilord882 "be white" lol, who brainwashed you, little one?
@ThatBoyDontPlay I don't believe that. I'm super mid yet I don't care if others give baseless criticism
I can only flirt and be really funny to girls when I don’t think about it. But when I try to be funny it fall flat
It’s because your TRYING to be funny, your probably over thinking it and trying to think of jokes. I do the same thing when I’m TRYING to be funny. But I’m the funniest when I just say what’s on my mind and not think about if people will laugh or not. I’m sure it’ll help you too
The Secret is to be cool and natural and don't bother about it, the moment thing respectations will grow tension and over thinking inside us so don't care about girls just go on your way. On the way you will get girls. Don't send girls as your aim. That's the key
Dating coaches like Kezia Noble and Bobby Rio can also help you get a better mindset.
Then don't think about it lol, since your default mode is already good at flirting and being funny to girls.
the secret to for being cool is NOT LITERALLY TRYING TO BE COOL. dont perform just enjoy the flow and situation =
I don’t know what’s taken over me, but I have just the urge to go ask every good looking girl for their number now. And I act on it, thank you for everything man.
my man. Let us know how it goes
Thirsty as hell
If she’s not good looking I don’t want her 😅
Sound like you're a normal guy.
@@bekabeka71but…he said “good looking” tho lol
As a woman, can confirm I like a good playful tease. Just make it crystal clear it is playful and lighthearted.
*A light-hearted, confident approach shows you’re not afraid to be yourself, and it makes her laugh and feel comfortable around you. This balance of charm and humor really works!*
This video is one of his best and I hope everyone listens.
Whatever happens is simply HAPPENING. It’s not happening TO YOU. The interaction and its outcome is not a reflection of YOU. That’s ridiculous. This person knows nothing about you.
Approach with that in mind and best of luck boys. Stay positive and spread the love.
When i started 'game' i couldnt imagine i will receive the most hate from guys have not the balls to approach a girl..Pro work my friend thanks!
I can relate to that. Not really your friends, in all actuality.
Yeah i really hate that. They got zero stones between their legs. You go: lets make some chaos and approach some women and they stand their like you just said: let go play into ongoing trafik until we get killed. They freeze and have this dumb look on their face. Thing is its not as fun without a wing because it can be a drain sometimes getting to hear no alot.
Jack saved me in college. I literally followed his example and developed a killer social circle from absolute zero. Start talking to people. You can do it
Awesome man. When did you start implementing Jack's advice?
@@adventure09 4ish years ago. I was in college and he was first blowing up with all his approach videos. It took me about 6 months of working out and talking to strangers to really see results and within a year I went from no social life (I was miserable) to what I would consider an amazing social life
buddy you gotta email me your success story thats awesome
@@doorey2 legend
@@doorey2 Man, you are killing it! I hope this learning experience made you realize what type of girl you actually prefer, as opposed to what you might have thought to be your "type".
I've tried this with strange beautiful girl and it works perfectly.
However, i failed to get her number actually. I was a bit upset but i believe i did very well and i felt so proud of myself at the moment i remembered your videos about my situation. 😂❤❤
You gave her an ego boost. Congratulations 😂
Yeah man it such an amazing thing to do with girls actually. Simultaneously, it's fun. 😍😁😁
Small steps my friend. Make it into something you can remember like: approach, small qualifier, bigger qualifier, make fun of her, statement, statement, listen, statement, listen. move her 3 times, take her hand and say lets go.
its never about specific conversations, its about the vibe and to create that vibe you need to have good tactics
Here we go, Denmo dropping another banger, thank you as always bro 😎
gotchu homie
Thanks man i was actually speaking girls with no jokes, no flirting etc. until i join socializers (free one.) and i watched your videos. Thanks again
Hey Denmo, I realised after watching your recent videos that I made myself a commitment to meet at least 1 girl a day that I don't know and talk to them. I copied the way you would talk to these girls, and I get pretty good results. It was so easy to get their Snap
"hey Jimmy. What's going on, man?" the way you said it killed me😂
lmao you know what I mean tho😂
This is unreal man..how the hell you get this girl so smoothly.
become a Socializer brother
Ive been watching
Coach Kyle
Todd V
Corey Wayne
To help me with approaching. It’s honestly fun to play around with girls when you truly don’t expect an outcome.
For the first time ever ,I approached a group of 3 girls and started a convo with all of them and slowly weeded them out to the 1 that desired me the most.
I really want to get great at game.
proud of your progress. I'm familiar with some of their content and they are legit
look up approval seeking behavior(spoiler: very bad) and qualifications. If you got that then you will not need the rest.
I watch them too.. add Jim wolfe as well on channel "Dating advice for men who love women". He is amazing.
I make a point to talk to the cashier in the check out line, and that is helping getting used to talking to strangers.
THRIFT STORES ARE AMAZING! I started thrifting for fun, and it helped me up my style so quickly, and for so cheap! Plus, girls fucking love it, it's so fun.
agreed brotha thrift stores are the best
Thats crazy. I've literally done this before (trolling a girl that i was into on facebook), started out as, she posted a random post on facebook, i saw it and DM'ed her basically wanting to make sure I read it right, so i asked her something along the lines of "you really dislike such and such?!" She responded with her dislike of it, i said "wow, you're so odd! How can you not like such and such!? Lol" one thing lead to another, i got her number, we spent the next few weeks talking until we could plan a meet up etc. It works. I didn't even know that that was actually a thing you could do to not seem so "vanilla", basically trolling playfully to get a laugh from her.
We making it out of loneliness and despair with this one boys 💯🔥
Already took care of step 1... After my 1st rejection I did some self analysis and changed my mindset in such a way that whichever girl i'll like in the future, she'll be my equal.. a human, not a goddess
7:21 I am 15 years old 😭😭
Dude holy shit I just went on my first date from a girl I cold approached on campus and it was 🔥
This guy is right, like flirting is just saying something sexual and then making it not sexual on repeat.
I love the posters in your background, it's inspired by 1st man
Easier said than done...but it gets simpler with practice
agreed, get out there and practice my man
If you just see yourself as the picker in the interaction you don't need this other shit. It will flow naturally. Also never seek validation from anyone other then yourself.
this content is literally a gold mine
today anxiety took over me and i didnt approach my crush... im a total failure
all good brother try again tomorrow. you got this
@@Denmosocial thanks really appreciate it man, sometimes i think that i am just over thinking it idk why
Just keep trying i do the same and back out , but u have to keep trying
@@SaifAlRazi tk u really love u man we got thissss
if you need more help join socializer school, even if just for a month. I'll sort ya out directly
I go up to a coworker wearing the same uniform and I compliment her shirt😆
I laughed my ass off at the first clip talking to that girl - especially the "love you" at the end. That was smooth as hell man; props.
The key is to talk to everyone
I was at the dentist one time and the receptionist noticed my baso profondo bass voice, she wanted me to sing but i was too embarrassed. If I knew how to talk to girls I could have asked her on a date
In my opinion, you should have sung and invited her to karaoke 😅
Totally how my first conversation with my crush was..I was just being myself and making her laugh, she started wanting to be around me
my favorite line is getting her to say something about herself, and then say (with a smile so she knows youre not serious) "That's not as hot as you think it is"
Hope this helps someone
Lol for the nost part I've been who he described at 12:00, so that cut deep a bit. The hard part is growing up with severe anxiety and pretty much being made to be this way....hard to change. Been trying though. Workin hard but what a road its been
keep going G you got this. in my free community i have a free guide called socializer protocol that could help you with this
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Great video dude as always !!! Thank you master denmo...
gotchu buddy
This works, just sometimes I get accused of bullying 😂 maybe I did too much
bruh if you do it right its definitely not bullying!
Old widower here. It is both a pain and pleasure to start over with this flirting and seduction shite. Solid video. One quibble. In the pick-up clip you showed, you've got the backwards cap. WHY?! That look is controversial with women. Some see it as immature, douche-y. You've got nice hair. If I had your hair, I'd never cover it! Btw, "Mustard Tiger" is hilarious!
Guys ignore all those videos of wannabe „coaches“ all u need is to be comfortable with yourself and really enjoy time with yourself. You cannot expect someone to be attracted to you if you don’t even accept yourself. Set yourself small goals day by day and take it slow, soon you become a better version of yourself and you will like yourself more and more. Just as people around you will. Keep in mind this process takes time and not happen overnight. Its a marathon not a sprint but if you learn how to love yourself and be proud of who you are more people will be attracted to that and you will also feel more confident to get to know people more often. Its all about yourself and for all those fellas who overthink about everything i was one of you but just life and stop trying to to control the unknown and life in the moment. I believe in you and wish you to become the best version of yourself!
lol i can’t keep up with all your amazing content uploaded daily !
Thx for the vid, I knew what I had to do and what was the problem, but couldn't think of a solution, now I can Def tease her tomorrow. As you said we've been taught to be nice and nothing else, so those that were interested in love from day one are having a difficult time. Especially the gen z, or they just manage so good to show off their problem on dating haha
this is a genius because he is not a 10 but he have the skills than are more than 10
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, well ex girlfriend now, mainly due to not ha ing had one until late in life, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
because the way it looks like, guys, men, need to know or learn all of these social skills or social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, have certain social behaviors, have certain talking and communication ability, have a certain lifestyle, because initiating interaction or approaching, leading, getting her attracted to you during the conversation or interaction, flirting, teasing, creating sexual tension, passing her shit tests, leading and taking the lead, leading the courtship, asking her out, planning and setting up the dates, is all social behavior based or social skills based, behavioral aspect based. Along with have a certain lifestyle as well, because men have the burden of building or sparking the attraction, it's like, a woman doesn't need to know how to attract a guy.
Yes I know people will say don't compare yourself to others and don't worry about what other people don't have to do and I don't disagree with that, but I just get angry and annoyed whenever people say that women have to learn as well when the man is basically making everything happen for them so because of that I don't see how women have to learn anything about dating or courtship, attraction, because women basically are just passengers in the whole dating and courtship process, so I don't see how that requires any learning or training or practice on their end
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again.
I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life.
Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot.
Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing.
Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training.
It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general.
I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male.
"Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together"
Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad and angry, enraged, that its not appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further.
Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.
I know I'm not alone in thinking this way in which I have the mindset in which I feel that if I was born a woman I would not have been alone or single that long.
I like to think this way and I know that a lot of people agree with this and that is being born a woman basically guarantees you will always have options because you are on the receiving end of sexual attention just for being born a woman because it's often said that women are in abundance by default but men are in scarcity by default because for all time women are the ones that get pursued and hit on or sought after or get advances made on them and when you are in that position.
Yes, you are correct. In your mind, you are entitled to feel these things because it is what you have observed. Men do not get a pass even when we look good. No woman will EVER come up to us and show interest in dating unless we are famous, rich, or well known for our actions. It's a fucked up world for a man right now. We are taught to be complacent and let girls pass us by while we waste the best years of our life. No matter what, we are not as lucky as women in the dating game, because even a well below average looking girl will still get more dick than a well above average looking guy will get pussy. This imbalance exists and will not go away for as long as we live.
But you already know what the solution is: This mental baggage must be let go. There is no fixing this societal imbalance ourselves. Like all threats in life, we must adapt and overcome. I cannot lay down and accept this fate. I want to play the victim so fucking bad every single day of this life, but nothing will change unless I get up from bed and try to chip away at this old fucking sad shell I've built myself. Else I will die within it. At 24 years old I want to believe there is no hope left, that I have done everything I can to be happy in life- and that no matter what I do, it is useless and I am never meant to experience love. That no girl on earth could ever possibly fall for me. This cannot continue. Why as guys, are we taught to be so weak and pathetic growing up? I am now beginning to find my strength, but It's only an uphill battle from this point on, as I can not turn back the clock. My only option is to let go of these burdens weighing on my mind- to fight for my own happiness, even if I am never meant to find love.
Damn you folks that type very long messages on RUclips scare me lol
dude wrote a whole novel. 💀💀
These the type of messages you just reply with just “K”
@@Tranquiled- yep I'm not expecting people to read all of this
this is something I struggle with cuz I don’t wanna accidentally offend her so I stay away from this usually
then you're gonna be alone and stuck with friends/girls you arent that connected with
Don't worry about what she thinks about you. That's the key, give zero shits.
@@JeanClaud3 I was that way for two years and it killed my mental health cuz that’s now who I am
Guys girls aren’t as easily offended as you think. They generally like to be teased a bit as long as you are decent looking and not giving off serial killer vibes
Never happens, some will get offended, some will like it. That's how reality is.
it's never been a problem talking to girls and charming them
but it has been a problem to find a girl that i actually liked personality wise
I am too picky and i have never had one.a lot of them wanted to be with me but i just didnt want to be with them.
i am just weird,different and not compatible with 99% of people,let alone women.all of them bore me to death tbh
i dont get you all,doing everything you can just to get a girl,but do you even stop and question whether they are the right one for you? or are you just that desperate to go out with anyone?
I will definitely join your socializer community when i get some good enough money. Meanwhile, I'm gonna take what you teach me for free and go out there an appraoch without the help of the internet. 😊
00:00 🎭 Being able to make a girl laugh and engage her in conversation is highly rewarding and not as difficult as it seems.
01:53 💡 Instead of focusing solely on making her like you, focus on simply initiating conversation as a first step.
02:07 🔄 Change your mindset from just being nice to girls to understanding and embracing female nature, which craves excitement and challenge.
04:38 💬 You don't have to be the funniest person; mastering basic jokes and banter is sufficient to start conversations and create connections.
05:34 🚫 Don't hesitate to tease and joke with girls; they appreciate being treated normally and don't want to be put on a pedestal.
08:09 🤔 Utilize a smug and mysterious demeanor to pique a girl's curiosity, triggering her desire for social approval.
11:05 ⚠ Use psychological tactics responsibly to avoid manipulating or hurting others; focus on genuinely connecting and building attraction.
12:27 🔒 After establishing rapport and initial teasing, gradually push boundaries by making playful assumptions and challenges to keep the interaction engaging.
F*ck yeah, my mans doing the skoolgames! Go get them!!
Well, you may be a bit hesitate at the bigging but it very easily when you start a conversation with the girl 😉
Great video thanks for the tips bro, from Mexico ,just moved to Toronto, planning on visiting Vancouver one day.
Denmo. ...are you the BATMAN. THAT VOICE!
lmao i am
@@DenmosocialDemno, we want an Action and Music Video. Once in a While do a even more Personal Video. Just for fun. (But doesnt it Delude the BRand. Well maybe. But It strengthens other Relationships. Called it Hopes and Dreams I had. --- And how They......
I actually did the 'whatever she's wearing' opening today without thinking. I saw a girl wearing a Philly sweatshirt so I said, "Hey, walking back to Philly?" [Which is 200 miles away, so it was a bad joke.] She laughed but I didn't follow it up, which would have been awkward anyway because I didn't slow down and neither did she. How do you stop someone on the street without it seeming awkward? Most of your approaches are on campus where it's natural for people to just stand around.
I am a laughter master.
"...yeah, I mean... we should do things together... finger painting, moto-x... roofing... I think my friends would really like you...
...if I had any..."
I know someone who uses this sarcasm method I’m sure without even knowing it. Needless to say he’s very popular
"Write down your friend group jokes."
Nah, i don't think i can 😂
Haha nice try officer
this video is so good
The title is misleading I’m now facing a 10 year prison sentence and permanent restraining order
🥲🥲💀
The title got me 😭
they call it clickbait for a reason
@@Denmosocial lol
Women come to life before my eyes when I playfully tease them. And I am a 5’3” balding dude who is basically invisible.
Literally the only 2 main points all you really need to get a girl is 1. be clean/good hygeine etc and 2. tease girls/ almost treat them like one of the lads with the banter
They want to be one of the bros
Does not work if you don't like them.
@@insus100 well ovbs if your gay then you dont need to get girls
I got laid plenty as a dirty degenerate so honestly you dont even need hygiene. you need confidence nothing else.
Since my secondary, I think I am so afraid of looking like the "alpha male" attitude, that I'm not friendly with, that I began acting like the "victim" I guess.
First roul: don't shake hands imidiatly !!!
Good shit.👌
Where did you get the posters jack?
cold reading
Instructions unclear, i made fun of my girl friend and pushed all the buttons in her car, now she won't talk to me
She’s probably looking for a new bf now
She's testing you, laugh about it and be awesome.
I just can't talk to my crush cause she's literally too beautiful
I'm finally gonna join the socializer.
Throughout all of my life I've been vanila and didn't know how to tease the girl properly. I was afraid to drop a flirty joke or comment thinking she would think I'm a creep or something which actually happened in the past and left me scarred.
Can you help me out when I join the course?
ofcourse bro. I do direct calls each week (3 hours Q&A) so we can chat
@@Denmosocial sounds good. See you there
Going to a bar will be a good option? There is not a place where people gather and talk in my town. 🇯🇵
Bro I need more of your jokes please make a whole new video
I enjoy your approach and how your flirting with women, but at 68 I don’t know that this would work with older women, maybe? If there’s anyone that’s tried it and has feedback, please feel free to tag me.
I have a lot of friends in schools and quite a few of them are women, but I have trouble inviting them over or asking them to do something
10:56: lol im addicted to routine and sameness
lol same, but it is really hard to find girl that like this ,,boredom,,
@007 Humans are too picky.
i actually got a girl a happy meal😭😭
Not going to open up a circus. Easy straightforward meaningful mutual bonding is enjoyable.
You get over not getting every beautiful girl that you encounter - attraction is no guarantee of anything - it’s 1 criteria 2. Is values 3. Is wanting a harmonious bond.
If you want quick meaninglessness get drunk & meet a tipsy girl. But that *barely* meets your needs, as a man, a human, a real person.
Also, if you were female would you want Jack Black or Brad Pitt? Even though you’re not, you KNOW which. That is to say this overbearing “teasing” energy would be quite annoying to encounter.😂
Be more real, cause who has the limitless time/energy/resources to entertain so many people? Have you all actually tried juggling & keeping many girls at once? You get burned out physically, mentally, financially. It’s not like you don’t have other duties in life.
im just curious how many times have you been rejected if you had to throw out a number
I'm in Canada and does snyone here think women are this approachable here?
Your suggestions are great but are not quite pointing how to take action if you are set in a way and don’t know how to get out. How are you supposed to adopt these mindsets when you aren’t clever with jokes by nature or have low IQs, don’t like laughing in general, don’t want to be teased, are super serious. Something about me just never did well in environments of levity. I get really really bored when I’m with other guys and or people and they’re doing nothing but drinking, joking around, teasing each other. It’s a turnoff of mine. I want to go home. I want to work or do something. I equated this teasing, conversations for a long time with laziness. I see rules as important. When I was really young, I even remember multiple times of getting super mad when people teased me as a kid. I just hated being teased and wanted to be left alone. It really got to me.
I also came from the world that taught you shouldn’t talk about sex or sexual innuendos in public. So I was trained to believe jokes like that are sinful and I shouldn’t do it. I’m still accustomed to this. Not to mention, I’m waiting for marriage to have sex. That’s my code and what feels right to me. I feel it’s hypocrisy to have rules to life, then joke about it in the background. I feel it would be the height of power and charisma to remain true to myself in that way. I just don’t want to be a fuckboy. In fact I’m trying to cure myself of things like swearing, fully going back to the days when it was wrong to curse.
These days, I have to wrestle with an immediate response which is to put shields up against people. So how can I tease, laugh and push girls’ buttons when I also don’t like it being done on me? Basically what’s the first step on that long process towards changing?
Nah.. The problem is that you want a step by step guide
What's gonna happen when the girl in question doesn't follow your script?
Trial and error. Go outside
When you like a girl and try to remain true to those principles, then another guy who teases her gets her instead of you then you will be forced to take action to change.
You were trying to hard to be cool around her and she couldn't connect with your true self. Learn from the experience and keep getting better my friend.
Gotta dial in the new mic
Do we still wait 3 days before text her again?
Your ripped jeans example sounds like an interrogation.
#virginsquad here hahah
Does it ever happen where you try an approach and then as soon as you show interest the woman tries to spin the situation as if you're being "creepy, weird, inappropriate, etc. etc."? Basically she tries to make it seem as if you're doing something wrong?
A few women that I've known have talked about guys that randomly tried to approach them and it seems like they always had something negative to say. Yet they never describe the guy actually doing anything wrong. They'll just say that he was weird, creepy, or whatever. Has that ever happened? And what's the best way to handle that if it does?
This never made any sense to me because obviously guys are expected to initiate just about everything in the dating process yet at the same time we get shamed and lambasted for having a sex drive and being interested in women. Wtf.
Fire
can anyone tell me which video is the clip from
It's just metaphor don't actually just push her button
"I don't know, I guess nobody likes vegans"
Get elegantly wasted and move through their spaces. That agitates the cats.
I sm nit able to approach girl teasing is difficult for me 😢.
Nah my jokes are just dark humor and sounds real bad outta context
Isn't it awkward going up to a group of 2 or more girls and only focusing all of your interest on one person? I guess they are used to it, but to me it seems rude/insulting to her friends.
acknowledge the friends greet them
tell them you'd like to steal their friend!!
and tell them it'll only be a minute
"make you work for it"
NOOOOPE
If I have to work for the spelling of your name image what the rest of the relationship is like.
perfect example of someone that just doesn't get it. god speed.
I just want to know how many girls have asked you to "go away" 😂😂
plenty. thats life buddy
@@Denmosocial you have my respect. ❤️🩹
3/11
Today I got THE HOTTEST girl on campus’s number.
Insanely bad. Like.
CRAZY.
Top 3 hottest girls whom I’ve approached if not THE. Anyways
Today I feel good.
So many baddies on campus with high volume.
Had many close calls, times where I almost approached. (Red hair Latina, bench Latina)
Was able to do within 40 minutes!
I started at 12:20
This was either the 3rd or 4th round. I had a close call on the 2nd where I could’ve easily approached, a very cute Latina looking girl sitting on the green benches. There were 3 people coming my way within earshot that psyched me tf out, pussied out, and walked past. Then, after making a loop around, I said fuck it! I’m going back in to talk to this girl, I was battling with the awkwardness of her having already seen me, but I rationalized that NO ONE gives a fuck, no one is paying attention. once I reached the bench, peered around the corner, she was gone. I continued to walk around to the parking lot for the science building, noticing there’s a LOT of hot girls that go to their cars from and to class. I walked and noticed Johans sport bike for the 7th time, when I saw her, the curves made it impossible to not look. Sitting next to steps, on her phone, by herself, next to only one other girl. I got closer and closer, debating should I do it? Is she too hot for me? I hadn’t even warmed up. I got closer, passing another girl 6/10 who could easily hear if things went badly. just then I caught her taking a lightning quick glance, our eyes met, this is my chance. FUCK IT. I threw myself in gun to the head style, and after I said “excuse me,” there was no turning back. I just hit her with the “I’m lost…looking for your number” line and the rest is history. I felt so relaxed and turned on this whole time, how she made me feel being in front of her channeled a different, more suave version of myself. (And perhaps choosing to slick this morning my hair back had this effect as well;) Very smooth, but quick, interaction. With the number (hopefully not fake) secured.
Remember to mit der too Attached to your Girl, because one sehr notices your top attached, she will leave
i don’t have guy friends lol
Any girls in here can vet any of this?
I don't tell jokes, it's corny.