Struggles of Dating a Non-Latino
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I like when Curly calls us French fries.
vidiesel me too i feel special
Me too 😁
vidiesel 🤣🤣🤣
Michelle Marquez you are special
He does that makes me hungry for 🍟 French Fries
"Listen up, vegetarianism isn't really a thing, you can probably eat some rice....but even then its cooked with f***** lard"
🤣🤣🤣
There's always beans!
That’s the truth. Vegetarianism and veganism is kind of a silly way to live for most traditional Latinos
I type random comments. Which is also cooked in lard or with some pork product.
JuaniqueVerde Well everyone has different ways, I suppose. I don't cook it that way. I'll try it.
@@Pollo.a.la.crema. nopales tostones platano maduro frijoles calabazas mango mangu raspas pulparindos macepanes sopes....
guey hay muchos y eso es solo vegano
Vegetarianos tienen un chingo de comida
1:00
My boyfriend: why is there skeletons everywhere?
Me: Go watch the movie "Coco"
Or the Book of Life
I took Spanish and we learned about dia de los muertos
@@myeesha3752 MMMHMMM I know a lot about the day of the dead because of my pre k and kindergarten Spanish teacher.
@@ogechiuradu8807 book of Life really ain't about day of the dead
I'm Mexican dating an African for 3 years. It's been challenging learning each other culture and Language but it's all worth it. We're expecting our 2nd child and we're trying to teach them how to embrace both cultures.
Congrats!
African from which country btw?
@@Rabidanti Togo
@@nishikidokeii 🇹🇬🇹🇬😎😎
I'm sure he/she can speak Spanish though. (Or at least know some words hahaha)
Oh, and are you learning your partners Native language (most likely Ewe or Kabiyé I suppose) or French language?
I married a caucasian male who was a traditionally trained chef. After both of my parents' passed away I have always been blessed that my Gutemalan mom passed along her recipes to him. He may not be able to pronounce most words but cooking transcends language barriers.
That's very sweet of him, it's like feeling like your parents are still with you but through him that's so beautiful ❤️
Sí, que es tan hermoso💖😭
What tf is traditional trained chef? Was there an old way to cook vs now?
Latina here. Dating a Latino, but he’s like third gen and doesn’t speak Spanish. So this is still verryyyy relatable!!! Lol
Heflin Estelle Its ok to Know English in America
Ken93 What’s to know English in America?
That’s sad
im 3rd gen and ion speak spanish🤷♀️
@@kyradanielle755 that's sad
I am a Native American (Navajo). Natives hate to see other Natives date outside their race but my family are a mix (They married a different race). Myself I never dated within my tribe (You ask fir their clan and they are related) so I ended up dating a guy from a different tribe. 😂 People think Natives eat the same food, speak the same but no it's different. I never knew that until I met him and we started learning eachothers language/culture/foods. 💖 Haha love the video. 💖
I'm black and I've only dated latinos. My bf family is amazing! They welcomed me. I just love the culture and the food. I'm def struggling to learn spanish but I'm trying my best. lol
Imagine being a Dominican vegan 😭 shit is hard man. I’m married to a half Puerto Rican half American man who can understand Spanish doesn’t speak it too much. But he confuses people since he looks like a pure Gringo. I gotta warn my Dominican family like don’t talk shit he’ll understand you 😂🤣😂🤣
Jisselly Diaz I’m Dominican and have a cousin who’s vegan but it’s very rare
Hi Jisselly, just wanted to say that one can't be half American it's better to say half caucasian (if he is that). Americans are mix of different ethnicities and cultural backgrounds :)
American isn't an ethnicity my guy. Cuz Puerto Ricans are Americans lmao
I'm Dominican and I tried going vegetarian and when I tell you it was a struggle, ITS A STRUGGLE. Like they laughed at me sometimes 😂😂😂😂
Jisselly Diaz just say half white lmao, Americans can be any color
Yo soy vegana... y Argentina, imaginense como vivo 😂
😂
Creo que para mi es mas facil porque de chica nunca me gusto la carne, igual en mi familia todos me tienen bronca 😂
La única razón por la que no dejo la carne es porque me matarían de hambre en mi casa JAJA
Pero boss puedes tomar vino!!!
Sameeee
Igual, pero colombiana jajaja
I dated a white Jewish girl for almost a year, and whenever I had dinner with her family the food was so bland omg. I made dinner for them a couple times and one time her dad told me my tacos were restaurant quality lmao
ps I’m Nicaraguan-American🇳🇮
danipshoe ayyy 🇳🇮. Wonder if they’d like nacatamales
Yeah, I am Mexican and italian and my boyfriend is white. The food has not a lot of flavor and is bland.
Desiree Polloreno same here. I’m Mexitalian. My husband is white American. Girl, the food....issa no
Jewish people are not white.
You should make for them fritanga, they would probably love it. I'm from Nicaragua btw
I'm hispanic, & I feel awkward going to a latino party & hugging & kissing everyone, I literally just wave & say hi to the whole table, but I would say I grew up much more American in that way, don’t get me wrong if it’s a friend/family I’m the cuddliest but having to do that with a whole damn room of people I’m so deathly awkward that doesn’t come naturally to me
I wish i could just wave n say hi. The people around me would totally freak out!
It's fine. I'm hispanic too but I just love my personal space. I'll hug and kiss a couple people but the whole damn room? :/
Uh oh! The old ladies probably talk shit later about how maleducada you are. Chismosas lol
@@tequil00meter yesssss ❣️
charlierose214 damn don’t lose your culture now!
Someone please get Maya some sancocho and Vivaporu. Chica's been sick since forever.
She also needs syrup, tablets, te caliente, mate y sopa de pollo.
Yo for real what’s up with her voice it’s been two months almost. Necesita un té de jengibre.
Is that you mama?
@@lovinghatredOXY tambien necesita té de limon con ajo
I've never dated someone, but dating a non-latin@, while being latin@ is probably a struggle, but if there's love, then it's better.❤
TØP/ FOB/ P!ATD/SHEPPARD/ PARAMORE/ AJR what does the @ mean?
@@WoeJee latinos or latinas, it's like saying "latinx"
TØP/ FOB/ P!ATD/SHEPPARD/ PARAMORE/ AJR got it 👍
@@WoeJee Where I live it's common to say it like that.
@@hinatablake3189 Thanks! Didn't know some people would like it.
I am married to a Scottish Irish man with blond hair and blue eyes. Our daughter is a blonde blue eyed baby. My Mexican parents will never stop calling us the güeros. BUT my white boy now understands and speaks a little Spanish. He loves our food. He appreciates our language and culture.
So you married a man with blond hair and blue eyes? Congratulations!!! Your hatred toward your OWN people it's quite evident is not normal for a human being to lack melanin, having blond hair and blue eyes is a genetic defect, your husband and daughter are both mutants.
manny1up youre very ignorant.
manny1up manny1up You do know Mexican is a nationality right. You can be any race and be Mexican. Majority of Mexicans happen to be a mix of white and indigenous blood(mestizo). She can marry who ever she wants. And her husband is open minded and appreciates Mexico’s many cultures which thrives of Indigenous, South European, West African, and Arab migration to Mexico
They just wanted a reaction. Probably not happy with themself.
manny1up lmao, you sound like a straight up hater! FYI there are white Mexicans, Latinos come in every shade. Dating or marrying a white guy doesn’t mean you hate yourself, it could be a preference. You’re a damn racist 🙄
What's funny is, as much as 'latinos' love to talk about our similarities, there are a lot of differences between us as well. Dating outside ones culture is one thing, but cover the topic of dating OTHER Latin people from other parts of Latin America. Some groups aren't that accepting or open minded to other groups, even within the Latin community. Overall, even when you ARE Latin, there are still cultural differences to consider, because we don't all function the same.
Absolutely true. I'm Nicaraguan and I've had Mexican people look at me weird when I describe some of our traditions or food. Even Latinos can be real ignorant or rude about other Latinos.
Yes! Very different mindsets. When I realized the difference in the way they view things, it was such a culture shock to me...as a child of Hispanic Caribbean parents, ,, dealing with men of south America,,, Argentina, Mexico...Or maybe was just my luck with those very few 2, lol.
I dated before I got married others Hispanic guys from Mexico , Ecuador Guatemala and Honduras very nice people but I never date a gringo because my English was not great before then after married ny Puerto Rican /American husband my English is much better so I don’t have esperiencia dating outside Latino culture
I know this is meant to be a lighthearted video, but I think a more serious video would be helpful as well! I know that my biggest struggle with my non-Latino boyfriend is trying to help him understand my view of the world. Being a white male is really different than being a Mexican woman in the USA, and I we’ve spent a lot of time discussing why situations he is comfortable in makes me feel almost in danger.
I had that happen to me too when I dated a white American girl, she would expose me to aggression, beration and danger.
Yes girl! I recently broke up with my white boyfriend because he refused to try to understand and the racist things he would say sometimes! Girllll
Can I get some examples? I'm curious
Okay so I'm totally in love with Latino culture. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years but his family is very hesitant about him dating we are both almost 17. I respect that part of this may be culture but are there things I could do to help his family be more open minded towards us? Also is it because we are of different culture?
Loida Guajardo
My boyfriend is Indian and I am Mexican. Being an Asian male is really different than being a Mexican woman in the USA, and we have been discussing the differences of Asian vs Latino privileges in the Western world. It took a WHILE for my boyfriend to understand me especially he grew up/dated among Desi/Indian and White culture and I am the FIRST Latina friend and girlfriend to even top it off. But we have 9 months together so far, and we are learning everyday from our lens and sharing them. It DOES take hard work, but I think it is paying off.
As long as both parties are able to accept each other cultures. It becomes a struggle if someone is not willing to learn, or think their culture is better or right. Date a person who can accept and embrace the beauty of latinos (and can dance some merengue) ❤️❤️
E R It ok to Anglo-Saxon and Westerner
It's not even just a struggle dating a non latino because within the latino community most nationalities are very different. As someone who is half Cuban and half Puerto Rican I don't have much in common with some other latinos Mexicans, Colombians, Dominicans ... Most places have their own way of speaking, their own music, their own style of dancing, their own foods, the way they're raised, and their own traditions, it's not that simple. Lol
Bahaha wtf is caveman Spanish???
Annette 1 Exactly! My family is Nicaragua, but all of our church friends are Mexican. So for events at church or just hanging out their houses, it’s still so different; the way the talk, cook, and other customs. We still have to adjust
Dude!! Lol I'm Cuban and my man is Puerto Rican, and the fucking differences is astounding. We legit got into an argument when we first started dating about what empanadas were called. Even the dialect is so different
@@hambone4984 I actually think that Cubans and Puerto Ricans are very similar. I have alot of friends from both nationalities and they have so much in common. Also in my own family the Cuban side and Puerto Rican side get along great. The names of some foods are different though empandas versus empanadillas, and pastelillos. Lol
Annette 1 why do you say Dominicans don’t have much in common with you? I don’t think that Dominicans, Boricuas and Cubans have that many differences. We are the same people tbh, we just talk different dialect but we eat the same foods basically and have happy and outgoing cultures in the Spanish Caribbean lol
Im black, all of my boyfriends have been Mexican. None of them or their families cared (except one)
Maya Burris where I live a lot of Mexicans and black people end up together. It’s beautiful and it’s nice to see how it’s just normal around here.
@@Angie-et5gq same. I'm Mexican an I dated a light skin an it was pretty unexpected of her to start speaking/texting me in Spanish but I liked it lol
I'm really sorry about that. Almost the whole majority of Mexican families care for one another, including people of different races an they love to jus include everyone in everything. Cookouts, birthday parties, etc. If you still date Mexicans, then I hope one day you get experience that ♥️♥️♥️
My mexican parents were extremely ignorant, would not allow me to date anyone who isn't latino because culture and language was different. Over the years as i got older they got used to my filipino amor, they speak caveman spanish to eachother. It's beautiful.
linaтнεs̾p̾o̾o̾k̾y̾무무 but filipinos have Spanish influence like us so I don’t see it as too much different i don’t know I dated before married Italians guys but they speak Spanish and watch novelas
@@shiararuiz5171 I'm talking about the language barrier, they do not speak Spanish they speak Tagalog.
@@shiararuiz5171 Byt you are right with the culture bit ❤❤
I’m a Latina (Mexican/Ecuadorian) and currently dating a lovely Russian guy. I guess thing the biggest challenge that face us is our families’ language barrier, while we’re fluent in English, each of our parents are not, so communicating with them requires one of us to translate. Recently my boyfriend surprised me by taking a Spanish course at his university, which in turn prompted me to start learning Russian. It’s been lot of fun learning each other’s native language and has brought us closer!
That's hispanic not Latina, there's a difference between those 2 ethnicities
@@joshuabuchanan1141 Mexicans and Ecuadorians are Hispanic because they are Spanish speaking countries, and also Latino because they are in Latin America.
I'm Dominican and I grew up in a predominantly Dominican town in Jersey. Its what I grew up around and what I knew and felt comfortable with...I never would have thought that the love of my life would be a extremely patriotic Mexican man...and even though we both speak Spanish, in the beginning I thought he was speaking another language and vise versa...our cultures are so different and it was very rough in the beginning, but 10 years of marriage and 2 beautiful baby boys later, I know that love conquers all including ethnicity, language and skin color...he loves my big round booty and kinky hair and I love his flat booty and stereotypical Mexican Chicano accent. 🇩🇴♥️🇲🇽 And FYI, tostones with guacamole is the bomb!
there's a dominican town in jersey? WHERE?!
@@frostbites1613 oh yeah, Perth Amboy...
Tostones and guacamole sounds pretty damn good. I’ma have get on that.
FrostBites You must not be from North Jersey. Paterson NJ is like a little Dominican Republic. Also it’s pretty rare to see a Mexican with Dominican 😩
@@juliem6840 Haha my first guess was gonna be Perth Amboy. My second and third were gonna be Paterson and Passaic.
I once dated a Korean American guy and we learned a lot about each other’s cultures. I currently live in South Korea and I’ve realized that there are a couple of foods that are similar to Dominican food but with a different name. Like for example, con con (crust of the rice) is eaten here as a snack whereas in DR it’s eaten with a meal. And there’s something here that’s kind of like moro (rice mixed with beans) but it has no flavor haha
My family is Puerto Rican & my brother in law is an american country boy from the South. He has learned some key phrases, dances merengue, dances salsa, eats everything, & his family came to our Noche buena party complete with lechon & una parranda.
I'm Haitian and we have to the same thing make sure you greet everyone with a hug and kiss or it'll be considered disrespectful
CHILDISH.BECCAAA that’s because the French influence on yall
@@anthonyrivera-medina it's a sign of respect is what I said and how it's a similar tradition and I didn't say anything about the "French influence"
CHILDISH.BECCAAA that’s the reason for it tho, just like the Spainards in our countries, haiti isn’t Hispanic but it is Latino
@@anthonyrivera-medina I'm not even gonna go back in forth with you🤦🏾♀️
CHILDISH.BECCAAA agreed if your offended sorry that wasn’t the intention but 🤷🏻♂️
Why does Maya's grandma expects her boyfriends to understand spanish if Maya herself doesn't speak spanish???
I mean, we all saw the videos where she learned the language herself, so grandma wasn't so keen on teaching her? 🤔
The biggest struggle is that the most people can't handle us Latinas! I have that experience that I'm always too loud, screams so much and my Dominican family it's fucking crazy. So the most gringo are shocked when they visit us. So i think sometimes other latinos understands us a little bit better than Non-Latinos.
Waaay better...greetings from Brazil!
I agree. my hubby is white and I'm Guatemalan. we have 2 sons and have been married for 26 years Both boys are familiar with both cultures. Since my hubby is both German and Polish we have exposed our boys to it all. My hubby actually has learned more Spanish than our boys... lol I love you guys' videos keep it up!!! #LatinosUnidos #RightAlongWithEverybodyElse 😉
Hahah a house full of skulls, ma’am that could make so many good jokes out of your dad 😂😂
“It’s the ex’s that broke my heart”
Omg i love it ha
I couldn’t love Curly more if I tried!!! ♥️♥️♥️ he’s so honest, chill and just badass. I feel like he’d be the friend who would ALWAYS give the best advice!
After my very traditional Mexican dad found out I was dating my now fiancé ( African born in Sierra Leone ) he kicked me out of my house at 18.... it was a struggle at first since mainly my dads side of the family won’t talk to me anymore.... but our love fought through after all of that , my moms side was so welcoming with open hands to him, they really do love him. It’s hard at times dating interracially, but if theirs love nothing else matters. (:
Jhoanna Zuniga Im so sorry you went through that but I’m glad you stuck to what’s true to your heart. He doesn’t get to choose who you love. I hope you two last a life time.
*_Quien vio que decia latinos y le picaron?_* 😂
YESSSSS! My fiance is Hmong, and it's been a struggle, but we can relate to ALL OF THIS!!! Were currently planning a Boricua-Hmong wedding and it's going to be very interesting. I love when y'all make relatable content!!! I'm sitting on the couch with him and even he agrees and he especially was like "Thaaaats why you say hello and goodbye to everybody." Like YES FOOL, I have to!
I would say don't do it. Unpopular opinion I know but of all the Spanish / Latino people I've dated 1% of their families have been nice to me. I don't speak Spanish but I understand a lot and every time I would go to their houses they would be talking s*** about me thinking I didn't understand. Or constantly say to the guys why can't you find a nice Spanish girl? Or she's too dark can't you date a light skin black girl?
And then didn't have the decency to be ashamed when I called them out on what they said.
Yes I may have just met shity people but I'll pass.
that's so rude, I'm sorry they treated you so badly. That's not normal at all.
Thank you for your comment - I was looking for this! The anti-Blackness is *so real* within the Latinx community!! I’ve experienced it too. #hardpass
JuaniqueVerde You have points but at the same time you guys can’t punish other people for the racism that the elders in the latinx community have
So sorry you had to go through that. Anti-black racism is so insidious in my country, Brazil, and in other Latin countries too. I often wished Latinos would be held just as accountable as white Anglos for their prejudice and mistreatment of others.
It's pretty despicable. Sorry you had to go through all that BS.
I'm Mexican and my husband is Black. Hes been learning Spanish and my mom spoils him rotten bringing him food and sweets. My mom doesn't speak much English but they get along so good.
Dulce Dogan She can learn English
@@dukekenny9340 she tries but gets shy ☺
My family Latino but we have vegan/vegetarian options and we embrace that shit.
I've been married to a Mexican for almost 20 years. I learned to speak Spanish, just like he learned English. I learned how to cook things he likes from his Mom. I know more about his culture than I do my own. He has done much the same. When you love someone that's what you do. Our traditions and how we have raised our kids is a great mix of the both of us. Love is first , everything else was secondary.
Tell the Dominican girl to make more Dominican insult videos or like something with your parents because I’m Dominican and my mom laughs when I show her those videos
My husband is Puerto Rican and one thing I promised him is that I would learn about his culture. It’s been one amazing experience for sure from learning the Spanish language (which I’m still working on) to learning how to cook Puerto Rican dishes such as pasteles with his tia, etc. Dating outside of your culture with someone who’s got an open mind and an open heart is beautiful. Love is love is love. :)
Is Maya okay? She’s been sick for a long time...
She probably just popped into a couple videos that week. But each editor is doing their own thing and there isn't a set release schedule. With some BF videos you can tell it sat a while and with others it looks like they just hurried up and did something to have a release (Ladylike, for instance).
Yaaaas I feel this because my Husband is black but from California and I'm Cuban-Mexican. He has yet to learn Spanish, non the less he is all about my culture and experience everything that comes with it.
I tried dating someone non Latino but I could never 😩 I’m Mexican and realized I want to date in my Hispanic culture but not Mexican. My last relationship was with a Puerto Rican 💗
Lisset Gamino Puerto Rican men are yummy 🤤
Im puerto rican but since I live in Miami there are a lot of Cubans down here so thats what I tend to go for. Culturally there isnt much of a differance anyway except that they have a stronger family foundation that a lot of puerto ricans in the states seem to lack(from my expiance and that of other puerto ricans i know)
Mocha18 agree ! I made my mind up that I will marry a Puerto Rican man
Puerto Rican men are 💖💖
Lisset Gamino lmao 😂 same here, I love Puerto Rican men or Dominican, I just can’t find any cute Mexican men
I’m Hispanic engaged to someone from Trinidad. Even though he doesn’t speak Spanish, my family is also from the Caribbean and it’s amazing how similar our customs and foods are!
Get well soon Maya. xoxoxo
as a Mexican American I married an African American and we have 3 beautiful children. I resonate with alot of these stories when we were dating. its beautiful to meet someone different, makes for a lifetime of learning a different culture.
Though I'm half Panamanian I always grew up with Mexican culture from friends and a tiny bit of family. But my American family is a one hug greet like there's no kisses and hugs you get laughed at and pestered about school or what you should be doing with your love life😂😂
I date a non Latin man and I am Latina (he’s Italian. I’m Dominican and Puerto Rican). We’ve both learned to embrace each other’s culture. It’s made us grown closer, and I wouldn’t ask for a better partner ❤️
The culture is beautiful and hopefully I’ll be almost completely fluent by the time I graduate college! I’m a Spanish translation major hoping to work with migrants! 😊
Te quiero como una persona, y por lo que haces.
Audrey C. You are a traitor to Anglo culture
I'm married to a black man. I don't really force him to do the things that are expected in Latino culture, and he doesn't force me either. But we talk often about each others cultures and educate each other in that respect. At the end of the day both our cultures have more similarities than differences, and the beauty of it is that love transcends everything. It's also worth nothing that since we are both from minority races we have way more alike than not, so that also made it easier to understand each other.
Me imagino la sorpresa de ver tantas calaveras en Dia de Muertos💀💀💀
Porque van a creer que eres una bruja oh algo asi
“Pelo malo where” right ❗️
The struggle is real but it keeps a lot interesting & everything’s a learning moment for eachother! Both Pros and cons 🤷🏼♀️ lol Pero Like ..
We’re , Nicaraguense and Puertorriquena ova here ! Where you guys from !?
I've had a white boyfriend and a black boyfriend and a 4th generation Mexican american.. I couldn't see myself with them in long term.. I had to get myself a straight up paisa. Lol I love dancing Mexican music. Zapatiadas and corridos are my thing lol.. and I made sure he loved to dance cause I'm not the type of person to sit during the whole family party lol. Yeah I had cousins make fun of me cause my husband doesn't speak English. Pero como tuerzen la boca cuando me seca a bailar.. yup lol
if i can learn chinese, korean, japanese WITHOUT my man saying or forcing anything, then you need to look harder for educated/cultured men/women. its not that deep
lol good for you for the effort!!!!
serenityq26 wait sis what helped you learn those? Spill the tea
How do you feel about the “Latino” word? After researching some history I have came to the conclusion that the word Latino came from the opportunity for profit from the Anglo people. To add, Latino comes from the word Latin. Which we are not. Mexica would be more appropriate for indigenous Mexican people.
The most challenging thing I’ve encountered is the dancing. I love salsa, bachata, merengue, punta, cumbia etc and they can’t 😭😭😭
Tell me about it, my Indian boyfriend is shy when it comes to salsa!
I’m Trinidadian(not sure if that counts as Latino), married to a Dominican for 10 years. We met 16 years ago in Japanese class. 😂
Being a first generation Mexican American, I never thought I’d date outside my race. I am currently in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for 5 years who happens to be white. His patience and understanding of my culture is AMAZING. He knows to say hi to EVERYONE in a room when I have family over and it helps that he’s in love with my culture’s cuisine and language! He’s beginning to become fluent in Spanish and is able to speak to my grandparents which means the world to me. I never thought my soulmate would be white! Always have an open mind when dating!
My boyfriend is of Romanian descent but he was born in the U.S. and I'm full bred Mexican from la Ciudad de Mexico. If you have a non latino partner talk to them in Spanglish you'd be surprised how many words they're gonna learn at the end of the day. When I'm chillin with my man sometimes I'm like "babe can you get my chanclas" or get me some "bolitas de queso". He didn't know what the word "palita" meant when we were cooking together but now he knows what I'm talking about most of the time. Oh btw his mom makes some bomb as food, they apparently have chorizo too in this dish called "mamaliga".
My boyfriend is Vietnamese and only knows the basic Spanish words that everyone knows. It’s only a bit difficult when I say cariños to him but he doesn’t understand.
m hernandez Latino and Asian couples are the cutest !!!! Best of luck in your significant other’s quest to learn Spanish
also learn Vietnamese too :p
This is so accurate 😂. It's good to keep an open mind and explore other cultures. Proud to be 100% latino 🇨🇴, 🇭🇳.
Julissa’s shirt is giving me life😂
Pelo malo where?
My family makes vegetarian food all the time. Mexico has a great variety of food that doesn’t require meat or where meat can easily be taken off. Beef was too expensive growing up, so we hardly had it. Also, I never grew up eating food cooked in lard, always vegetable oil...tbh as soon as I smell Manteca anywhere I go, I know I won’t be eating the food. Too gross for me.
I'm Mexican and my mans is Korean. Luckily, his Spanish is so good.
I’ve thought about this! Being just two adult individuals is ok. But when children are being raised I assume it will be tough to decide religion, where to celebrate the holidays, traditions the family going to be authentic to, traditions are going to be blended if applicable, ... I’m so interested in this topic. Make a video going into detail, please.
I've never dated a non-latino,because I've never dated anyone #SingleLife
I’m from Ecuador and I’ve been dating someone who’s from Guyana & Scotland for 3 years 💛
Pues nosotros gringos podemos hablar en español también...
Chido 😎
S DLC solo estuve tratando decir que la gente latina y los gringos pueden llevarse bien y que la diferencia en idioma no es tan enorme de un impedimento. Todos pueden ser amigos ahora, no tenemos que seguir siendo divididos.
@@allyk5971 tu español es mejor que el mío :) como prácticas tu español?
Mi Mi yo leo mucho en español, voy a una clase en mi escuela secundaria, escucho a música y veo las novelas, pero sobre todo esto creo que la cosa que me ayudó más ha estado hablando y escuchando a los hispanohablantes nativos (generalmente mexicanos en mi escuela) en persona no como un video o en clase
Es que me impresiona mucho que en Estados Unidos la gente ve el aprendizaje de idiomas como algo muy difícil y brillante.😂😂
Incluso me han dicho que uno solo logra aprender un idioma hasta los 12 años o algo así.
Y en verdad chicos, aprender español no es lo mismo que aprender chino-mandarin 😂😂😂.(incluso si tienes más de 12 años de edad)
2:12 y’all left out the best part of that scene!
“It’s okay, I make lamb” 😂😂😂
Right, stating straight facts🇵🇷🇵🇷🇩🇴
I’m Louisiana creole & white. My fiancé is Dominican. It can be a struggle sometimes, but with a little effort on both sides it’s easy to make it work. Creole culture and Dominican culture are like oranges and tangerines. They are very similar, but definitely not the same.
I can't keep up with Curly's weight loss anymore ! Masha'Allah
Lol their videos are funny but sometimes very hard to relate to.
They make it seem like every hispanic follows their traditions, even within a country people have different traditions or people who live in the cities versus people who live in small towns also have different traditions.
Some non-Latinos do know Spanish. They learned the same way y’all did learned English. Except for my lovely Maya
I’m Haitian (and yes Haitians are Latinos as well) my ex boyfriend who’s Colombian was super shocked to see how similar our cultures were the only difference was the language but most Haitians speak Spanish
It's so hard to explain "te quiero" and "te amo"
Jimena Cuevas
I may be way wrong here, but I always thought:
Te quiero = “I love ya” to friends, family, people you care about;
Te amo = “I (deeply) love you,” as in, “I’m so in love”, what you say to that one special person.
I love this! My husband (he’s what we call spicy white aka Mexican descendent but not connected to his culture) and I have been together for a year now and it’s been such a funny adventure teaching him about my Nicaraguan culture and all my family’s customs. Especially for the holidays showing him how we typically celebrate and in turn I get to see how a stereotypical American family celebrates too. Culture is so much fun!!!
bueno pues I’m Mexican and a vegetarian and you don’t know how much crap I got when I first told my family 😂😂
Same!! Its been 3 years and my mom still be trippin lol
Would you say it's harder for a Mexican to come out as a vegetarian to their families than coming out as gay?
i'm a non catholic latina and I've been with a catholic asian man for over 5 years. The cultural differences are definitely hard sometimes but we make it work and i'm sure others can too.
@1:47 I would probably be that grandma lol!
I’m Dominican 🇩🇴 and my fantastic boyfriend is Belgian🇧🇪. I love to teach him Spanish and things about the latino culture.
It’s funny that I teached him el trabalenguas de erre con erre cigarro and now he can rolls the Rrr better than me 😂😂
Lol I’m the non-Latino my husband married... I learned Spanish just so I could understand everyone, still can’t understand everyone but oh well.
Kahana Supnet just the fact that you are trying means how much you love your husband! I hope he is willing to try and learn about your culture as well!
Kahana Supnet and they can’t learn English!!
Ana Samayoa thank you ☺️ and he did try a little bit. I’m Hawaiian Filipino so he tried to learn how to play the drums when I danced Tahititian.
Ken93 lol yeah, I guess it’s harder to learn English after so many years just speaking one language.
Cuban here dating a Canadian, she tried to learn spanish for me and it honestly melted my heart 🥺 It's so appreciated to feel like someone cares about my culture and tries to engage themselves with it
0:16
...idioma isnt’ feminine, okay bye...
Supposedly a partner of your race will get you, meaning naturally understand you better, but sometimes like in my case...you may not be so fortunate dating your own kind..and you can't help who you fall in love with. As it's been said many times before, love has no age or color. Sweet.
Curly said la idioma...its el idioma.
I'm not Latina... I have no Hispanic heritage whatsoever and I'm pasty white. However I speak fluent Spanish and have integrated myself into the Hispanic community ever since I was 14. I speak the language, I wear the clothing, my favorite food to cook is Mexican food, and I participate in a few of the traditions. Only thing that's awkward when I'm with other Latinos at parties for example... I can't dance. But for real when I'm ready to start dating again in a few years... I hope that Latinos don't shy away from dating me. I will have NO problem speaking Spanish with your mom :)
Mexican fams do be trolling
Haha siii
Okay, listen, I need to share this because I'm pretty sure this is the cutest thing. So, I'm brazilian and I'm currently dating an amazing asian-american girl. Latinos and asians have a lot in common, especially food wise, but since we come from different countries the cultural shock can sometimes be hard. Recently tho, she said she wants to learn my language and she even went to a brazilian supermarket in California to try some of my food on her own. I have the sweetest girlfriend EVER.
I'm Puerto Rican 🇵🇷
BD Mexican
Husband #2 White
Husband #3 White
#loveislove
@Nico _ yup looking for#4
Lol
American here dating a Dominican! Long distance of 1 year in 20 days!! I have a 106 days on Duolingo to learn Spanish for mi amors familia. Te extraño mi novios familia. I love the Dominican culture!
U guys are soo hilarious ❤️❤️❤️
It’s definitely an adjustment but idk-I feel like it’s kinda exciting to introduce your significant other to your culture, your language, and it’s even more exciting when they ask questions about it bc it means their interested in getting to know you more then they Alr may know you. I’m currently dating another Puerto Rican like myself, however before them I would usually attract only African American men. It was fun honestly when they would ask what a word meant or what I just said to them, explaining the foods we eat, about the island, etc.
Just a Brazilian passing through the comments 😂🇧🇷
Bryce Antony Franco da Silva onde são Morenas ?
I love these shorts. I am gringo, we are gay. my husband is Peruvian and I am much older than he is and we have heard it all from family and friends in Peru and America but I have been accepted finally and they have decided that I will be called a Gringatino. HaHaHa!! Keep the videos coming, I am a gringo who enjoys them so much and I can relate to them.
My mom and big sis already have this idea witch is true tht I will end up dating a american or another race then a Latino guy lol😂
I'm Colombian dating an Uzbek who's Muslim so yes there are many differences between our cultures but I love that he's learning. He recently tried bandeja paisa and loves it!!
I'm Slavic and I would date a latina
@S DLC Fuck you
Comrade_ Savage15 stay Russian for the motherland
OHPBA Umm there are white Hispanics
Na bro only date Slav girls there way hotter
I’m Cuban American... meaning my family is Cuban but I’m born in America... and I am married to an Indian from Trinidad. Needless to say, our household is interesting. We are raising a beautiful little boy together and we celebrate both noche buena and Diwali, drink both batido de mamey and mango lassi, sometimes eat arroz con frijoles and other times eat Chana masala with basmati rice and sometimes watch bollywood movies! I’ve also converted to vegetarianism as a result of his family’s culture and traditions! The unique blend of cultures our family has is beautiful, and I wouldn’t trade it for the world 😊💕