He only speaks highly because it benefits him, protraying this "High value, traditional guy" . Meanwhile, behind closed doors, he engages in any degeneracy possible. Makes me remember of those "religious" dubai billionaires. They're only "religious" as a public front, behind closed doors they have the same dignity as a Porn Star
@@MeakH1 It's a mix of both. People on one side saying they're against divorce and should stick with each other through both the good and bad. The other side is saying if they do split they're shouldn't be stuff like a lot of alimony or something.
True. But Aba is wrong about the part with "what about saying you will love them etc". You dont spoil them, you dont teach them about the world etc if you dont love them. That usually comes from love. Having your children grow up in a better place is also out of love. Giving them better opportunity in a better school is also out of love. The guy (redpiller) also said that he would give his children love numerous times, and he said that he rather loving his girlfriend than marry her, because many people marry and then they divorce - that love is more important for him. I dont know the guy, but Aba clearly has issues with the guy solely because he is a redpiller - so Aba puts words in his mouth basically. Thats quite pathetic not gonna lie.
He apparently has a REALLY BAD relationship with his mother. How can you tell, eh? And yes: HUGE red flags everywhere! Doesn't matter how much money he has, I pity the women who 'falls' for this POS!
Lila is not annoying, she is bringing the same energy to these red pillers that they bring to OF girls. He is happy to bash OF girls for their life choices but when Lila is respectfully asking him about his opinions on dating then he is calls her annoying. Yeah its annoying when someone calls you out on your bs.
Nah, she's a bit annoying. She was literally asking him the same question in different ways. It was almost like she was too slow to understand what he said the first time or something.
My traditional Muslim wife is ok with my other 4 traditional Muslim wives. We vote red, we pray together daily, we abstain from all forms of sin and obscene behavior. You do not represent all conservatives. My 5th fiancee agrees 👍
@@voidmayonnaise well said 👍 Kinda cool my dad never calls himself that, it’s like I just see it for myself and the way he protects and provides, pretty much like every father should do
Yeah, he ain't a hero, he a villain. He expects all the women to be witth him only, while he fucks around. I blame the women for having kids with a man like that. They only care about the lifestyle, they don't care about the negativee impact it will have on their kid(s).
He got so upset with her just because she asked some questions. She didn't even say anything crazy. These "tough men" can never take the slightest pushback.
This is the reality of those who have left Allah's guidance and chose their own desires as their God. Insecure, miserable liars who aim to drag the rest of mankind down with them.
Guys like Justin and that dork from ModernLifeDating are total clowns, on one hand you have a dude that's willing to put a multitude of his supposed children through single parent households and MLD abuses women like it's nothing.
It's very obvious he has major control and anger issues. The way he reacts to any time he's questioned shows he can't handle explaining himself. As though he's never had to entertain that idea 😅
It's so annoying to hear people misuse the word simp. Simp is basically a cuck, but without even being in a relationship. You just keep thinking you're going to get in a relationship but you never do. So I hope he isn't going to basically be a cuck to his daughters? Relationship podcasts are the worst lol
I think it's because he knows this is the type of woman the red pill community wants and he's realizing that red pill guys can't get them. A self-respecting conservative Christian woman will never settle down and have a family with a guy who openly admits he will cheat on her
No actually women generally sacrifice themselves for their children. Don’t generalise women, especially when it comes to parenting. It’s men who get to do whatever they want. Women know before children, that they won’t get to live for themselves.
With a few questions she was able to expose how deeply anti-Christian and anti-family some of the red pill talking points are. The most ironic part is that she's the image of everything the red pill community says they want in a woman, so he can't just fall back to the classic "you're just a 403" defense, which is of course why he was so triggered.
Yep, redpillers praise good religious women all day but spend their lifes with 304s OF models with a double digit iq. The first Christian woman became annoying after 5 minutes.
@@missNCWthese men ignore good girls😂 they WANT ho3s. All their talking points center around sluts because those are the only women they notice and want.
She’s “annoying” because she’s forcing him to reconcile his completely self-absorbed philosophy with his claim that he’s a good family man, which he obviously cannot do. She was right on the money, hence his resort to insults.
This is textbook narcissism. Cannot be held accountable for anything they do and will NEVER admit to anything they have done wrong. I’m one of those daughters that kicked rocks and went no contact with my pops (my therapist and my sister’s therapist have both confirmed our beliefs about his NPD). Best thing I ever did was leave that trash behind.
@AEdavirgin Asking a question many different ways is a great way to see if people really understand or believe what they're saying. Applying pressure on someone also gets a reaction because most people don't like it. The way you conduct yourself under pressure or in discomfort says a lot about someone. In this case, it showed he's a lightweight in professional conversations and lacks strong character.
That said, there are ladies like Cartman's mom who are a slave to make the kid like them, even if it's bad for the kid longterm. Niceness ≠ Kindness. Simping ≠ Nurturing
@@samwallaceart288 I guess maybe American men should stop running out on their kids so much that the overwhelming single parent households in America are headed BY WOMEN. Maybe men should try being there for their fvcking children instead.
That woman wasn't annoying at all, she managed to stay composed and resilient even though he was being aggressively rude to her. It was impressive to see her hold composure and not back down. On the other hand, this definitely made me want to call my dad up and tell him how awesome he is.
yeah that cuck was so triggered lol he is so insecure and aggressive for no reason. And the things they talk about... their logic... this is is just sad
It's called being a Disney dad. All you do is show up once in awhile take em to Disney for a week buy em shit then dissappear again. My cousin's dad did it. She hates her father.
Gross? I thought simping was doing or saying anything a woman wants to hear even if you don't actually believe it personally, just so you can have sex with her. I really hope no man would consider trying that with their daughter😬
I had the same reaction as preach. I do believe there is a sexual connotation to it but at a minimum, it's just fucking weird, creepy and ridiculously out of touch to look at your own flesh and blood the same way as a random girl in your dating/social pool.
@@abbiereynolds8016simp is an acronym for suckers idolizing mediocre pussy. It's inherently sexual and using it in reference to the relationship with your children is highly inappropriate and the usage is completely incorrect.
He was so defensive over simple questions. If he really believes those things, why does he think they’re bad and needs to be defensive about it? And when he talks to her he can’t even show respect by turning towards he. He has to talk to her side eyed. She asked him if he wants that for her daughters, I thought she meant would you want her daughter to be a part of some other man’s harem. He immediately thought it was about him.
@@HypocritesExposd It's because he DOESN'T believe that bullshit he's spewing 😂. He's saying it because he thinks it makes him sound Cool. Alot of these redpill guys want to express LOVE for others but they've been through so much that they spend years cultivating an Image/PERSONA to hide their true feelings 👍.
I don't think she was annoying. I think the guy was. He went on a relationship podcast but didn't want to state his relationship status? Why even go on there, everyone else did it. He was extremely rude and seeing him get so bothered was pathetic on his end. She was calm and rational. He acted emotional and resorted to name calling.
@mgbbaby1 exactly. And I get it if it wasn't pertaining to the topics, but it's a relationship podcast! What did he expect? I'm kinda bothered that the host seemed to be a pushover and accept the guy's non answers. I've seen another one after this and he kicked out a girl for pretty much doing the same as this guy with weasel answers.
Apparently single motherhood is bad, because the child grows up without a father. Mothers putting the father on child support and visitation is bad because the father doesn't get to see his child enough to establish a relationship with them. But it's ok for a father to have 7 different families and barely see his children, and he will establish a healthy loving relationship with every one of them? People who think this are actually goofballs.
These manosphere types are just as toxic, superficial, materialistic, and hypocritical as the feminists they claim to hate. It’s like they both claim to hate each other but at the same time, they need each other to survive.
My dad was an immigrant and wasn't rich. But he played dolls with me, bought me a tea set and sat down with me, showed up to every play and ballet recital, showed up to every swim practice, and always helped me with homework. One of the girls who went to my high school had a rich dad who constantly cheated, never spent time with her, had children with a whole bunch of women, and threw money at his kids whenever they asked to spend time with him. Fast forward a few years, I got a high paying job in STEM, bought my dad and mom a car, paid for my parents to go on a family vacation to Italy with me, and I take care of them and stay in touch with both of them. I recently got engaged to a great family-oriented Irish guy. The girl with the rich dad that screwed around? She's in and out of rehab and has an onlyfans. This guy is triggered for a reason. He knows the redpill movement claims they are against single parents, absent fathers, and weak men, but in reality, they create the next generation of all of those problems so they stay in business and keep making money for their ideology pyramid scheme.
Well said. I knew something was off with this "red pill" movement. I saw somewhere, I forget where but a guy said that this red pill movement is the same as modern day feminism. Like two sides of the same coin type of deal.
@@mrmiso1414 I was honestly a fool when I graduated high school and leaned into the red pill community for about 2 or 3yrs. I'm glad I never actively participated in their BS, and found some nice channels on YT and talkin with ppl to realize how toxic and self destructive the red pill community was.
@@mrmiso1414 Imo the "red pill" expression got highjacked and subverted by astroturf 'celeb' plants. Cannot have an organic movement that makes sense today. We're in 4th&5th generation warfare folks.
The fact that he started insulting her once she hit him with really good logical points shows everything you need to know about his character. This man is clearly a narcissist who thinks his shit don’t stink, grew up hating himself so much that even now as an old ass man-baby he needs to go around making sure everyone believes the same lies he’s been telling himself about being “a high value man”. I honestly pray for whatever woman let’s him inside her life.
these redpillers complain about these women obsessed with money, yet this man is literally creating his daughters to only be interested in money and associate that with being cared for
This ginger alphawhore wants to be run through by multiple women but at the same time he is mad that he is surrounded by golddiggers lol His IQ is around 35
I found that word to be odd. Hero...it speaks more to how he wants his children to view him more than how he would treat his children. You know, my parents didn't have much money when I was growing up. They weren't able to buy me toys, always telling me "no" because they needed to use the money for more practical needs. Still, one of my fondest memories is walking up and down the aisles of Toys R Us with my dad. That place looked massive! My dad would let me show him what I liked. He'd tell me he was working hard to make more money, and he'd buy me toys. I know it hurt him to not be able to buy me anything, but growing up made me understand that the time walking through stores with him was what mattered.
For reals, I bet you all he wants is to have his kids say "he's my hero", "he's the best dad" but that's his goal, not the intention to be there for his kids....a good outcome isn't always done thru selflessness it can come from selfishness.
Dude was just being called out IN a Feminine way. He was being tough and abrasive because he noticed she could smell his BS. she wasn’t being annoying, He was just cornered.
You can tell he hates women and even his daughters arent safe. He already is prepared to cut them off if they dont look at him as the King. No man who has women in his life that he loves would talk like this 😮.
Red pill men: “Where are all the traditional women at?” This woman here is all kinds of traditional and lives it out. Red pill dude: “You’re annoying…”
They don't actually want a traditional woman. That's just something they use to attack the OF girls. If a real traditional woman was in front of them they'd hate her too because she would expect him to be traditional as well (for example waiting for marriage before having sex) and they would never accept that. They just want to sit there and get paid to complain about the OF/IG girls, then bang them when the cameras stop rolling (I'm looking at Fusty & Funky in particular👀).
They claim to want "traditional," but they only want it to be one-sided- on the woman's part. They don't want to be traditional men. Unfortunately for them, traditional women expect a man to be traditional, so when they do meet a traditional woman, they're put off by her.
I wouldn't consider a man, who hates marriage while also wanting a Harem of baby mommas, traditional, at least not by Western standards. Red Pill losers are the opposite of traditional, in fact, they are the male versions of the OF hoes they b*tch about, except even worse, because at least OF girls know what they are.
@@e69alpha It's deceptive, she's a psycho. She's stated that she would force an 11 year old rape victim to carry a pregnancy to term, and have her charged with murder if she gets an abortion. Eleven year olds can't physically carry a baby to term. But she would force it. Her points in this conversation make her sound level headed. But she's not.
@@sarahrobertson634 I know what exactly video you are talking about here (although I imagine you just watched a 10 second clip before you made that judgement of her) and if you really think that's what she said than you are just straight up delusional.
I don't think the Christian lady was annoying at all. In fact, she was engaging with the discussion in a very composed way given that Mr Manosphere snuck in as many ad hominem pot shots as he could. She never insulted him or even his ideas the way he insulted hers. She was very civil about her disagreement and about as gracious as one could be in that situation.
She just asked him questions and he insulted her multiple times and was super aggressive. You cant come on a dating podcast and say something ridiculous like “Im gonna have fifty wives and a hundred kids” and not expect someone to ask you about that.
The fact that he had to say he wasn’t triggered by her definitely meant he was triggered. He tried to disrespect her like he disrespects his 400 wives, and she stood her ground, good for her.
He’s already failed as a father in my opinion, the second you have that child your life is no longer just about you. The statement “I’m not gonna simp for my children” shows how ignorant this man is. You can’t live 100% for yourself and expect to be a decent father
From a child who’s “father” had multiple families and multiple children with different women i didnt even get to know all of my brothers and sisters i grow up fatherless i have no memories of him i dont want to extend my history but when i became a teenager as i said before i didnt know all of my siblings… unfortunately i meet one of my siblings from another mother that i didnt know it was my sibling long story short we ended up having a relationship and during our relationship we found out we share the same “father” to this day im still under psychiatric treatment under the diagnose of BPD….
Wait, so you'll simp for your daughter's. I'm confused. But as a parent, you'll always have to sacrifice so much so your kids will want and need you. Even if they do something wrong, you must guide them. You can't be too soft on your kids, or they will be those annoying kids who grow up doing bad things.
@@Escalusfrno it is insecure because simping is an insult he’s trying to look all macho and won’t even “simp” (ducking gross way to put it) for his own daughters
My dad worked 3 jobs and constantly talked about how much wealth we had (upper middle class), he was so overworked that we were all too terrified of the next explosion of anger to enjoy any time with him. Meanwhile, my best friend who's family lived paycheck to paycheck loved every minute she spent with her dad.
@@josephbth5562 Whoa you literally just solved every situation ever. Abusive parents? I simply choose not to have abusive parents. Bro thinks Nuh uh actually works
3:45 he sounds like he hates the idea of his future daughters already. The idea of his daughter who does not exist not liking him already filled him with rage so I can only imagine what would happen if he does have a kid, and they so much as disobey.
A dad having multiple families is a set up for failure. You're going to be not only neglecting your baby mother but also your kids and that's going to lead to the siblings hating each other. This guy doesn't care about the mental health issues his kids would go through. He'll just throw money at them
The Almighty has allowed men to have multiple wives and encouraged them to have abundant children, not to let Satan's whispers convince us that we'll be poor or too tired to take care of them. So, are you listen to God or Satan?
I can’t believe In this day and age if you care about your wife’s/daughter’s opinions and feelings it’s considered simping. We’re so out of touch with reality.
To be honest, I don’t think it is, this dude is getting rightfully clowned and any woman who sees this and still chooses to go ahead an possibly have a relationship/kids with him knows full well what lies ahead.
He’s a narcissist for sure. He justifies what he does by saying all men cheat (we don’t) and then gets on his superiority soapbox with the “At least I’m honest about it”. He got triggered when someone had the nerve to question him. He may have money, but he’s a weak human being.
You're so on point! It's wild that he thinks being honest about shitty behaviour makes the behaviour any better. Shitty behaviour is shitty, doesn't matter if you're honest about it or not. There is an argument to be made that being honest about shitty behaviour means that he is a worse person. People are usually dishonest because they feel guilty or ashamed about their behaviour because they know what they're doing is wrong. The fact that he's honest about his behaviour means he's not ashamed and doesn't think it's wrong which, in my opinion, is kinda worse.
LOL the funniest thing is that he actually thinks that the most important thing is "the man gets to be the hero". Operantly more important then how it hurts the kids and women or society. Sounds like a grown up child :'D This is the lowest value of man you can get.
I really aspire to be as calm and articulate as the female host. The way she pressed and triggered him without losing eye-contact (notice how he isn't having eye-contact with her) and herself to his rudness and disrespect is an incredible skill which shows perfect self-control and strenght.
So families with 3 kids don't 'neglect' the middle child I guess. Or families with 2 kids never have favorites. Time to go back to the one child policy then
As a person who grew up with a dad who had 6 wives and many girlfriends. I can say my mom was a single parent, I saw my dad 1 week every 4 months and when i turned 16 i never saw my dad again because he wanted to focus on his younger kids. Til this day I don't have a relationship with my dad. I'm grateful that he paid for my studies but they were years that my mom was the sole breadwinner and my dad didn't even help her out because he needed to buy a girlfriend a car and lace front wigs.
I'm sorry you've had to endure such a situation. I think it's fairly easy to see that having multiple wives/girlfriends etc is a lot of responsibility for one person. I'm not making any excuses for your dad. I'm just speaking in general terms that the family wasn't designed to function in this way. One person realistically won't be able to give the time and attention they really should.
In the UK the state is housing those other 'wives' and children for many families. They're claiming to be 'single' mothers ... even though in their religion they're 'wives'.
They guy sitting in the mic talking about spending all of his 20s fixing himself taking about being able to raise that many kids or that many families is laughable. I had both parents all my life, but dad deploying all of the time stole years away from that personal relationship and guidance growing up. He was a great father and I learned lessons from those sacrifices, but personal time and mentorship as a parent should be a top priority
@@justinhall3073 I also find it hillarious that he indirectly called himself Intelligent...and how he will make babies to raise the general IQ. Oh dear. 😅
She didn’t ask the question 5 different times she was simply challenging his perspective and actually made him contradict himself, hence why Justin Waller threw an emotional fit and made himself look like a fool. Respect to that woman for keeping her composure and breaking down every piece of that so called “Red Pill” douche.
@@Kami-oj6om "I won't simp for my daughter" & "all I care about is being a good father...". He won't be a good father if he can't simp for his own kid.
@Kami-oj6om all he said was word vomit. He began that conversation knowing he was going to make it null. I can only.imagine it's because he knows she can actually debate him solidly on many things. But, his word vomit was: first he said he had many families, then changed his wording to "could if I want to" She followed by asking if he thought that would be ideal. He responded with "I didn't say I did that" she re-worded her question to his word vomit and he continued with (summarized) "I could if I wanted to, I'm a big family guy, and my kids would still be better off" she asks if he thinks it would make a negative impact on his children, he responds with its none of her business, he's gonna do him and she should kick rocks, saying he's better off than any Christian (not with that anger and contempt, he aint) and calls her Bible thumping. Lila rose is Catholic. As far as I know, they don't do much Bible reading. (I've never met a Catholic in my life that reads their Bible.) If he was trying to prove his ideals and morals are better than hers, he failed miserably. But I think he was totally intimidated by her. Why? Because if you know you're solid on your ideals and can defend them, you shouldn't have to word vomit to avoid answering questions that may put you in a tight spot. And if he was just being a prick for the sake of being a prick, it shows your contempt, why accept to do the interview? I think this was a fail for him.
I'm a Christian and submissive woman and a LOT of the Red pill Guys would make terrible, if not dangerous husband's. I'm 41 and have been married most my adult life, so fight me 😂
@@jamelahallsdyer in the manner that is outlined in the Bible. It's a grossly Nuance subject. Do you really want to talk about it and you do comments. Sorry I don't have time for it. But I do appreciate the engagement💙
Having multiple families destroys children. Im sick of people like this. It destroyed my Mother. My Grandfather dumped his first wife with 4 kids and started a new family in another state and it messed with my Mom and her siblings. People like this are the bane of existence. They are selfish and narcissistic.
It destroyed my mother as well she' in her 70's & still hurt from not getting to know her other brothers & sisters from my granddad having 5outside them
My dad was open with his multiple girlfriends. They alk knew about each other. He had 10 or more children (i don't know all my siblings) we were all screwed up. Every single last one of us had serious relationship problems and a hard time succeeding in life. The only reason I'm okay now is because I grew up baptist and became a Christian when I was very very young. By the time I was 21 I turned my life around because of my faith and that has helped me overcome my dumb mistakes, my trauma and helped me make good decisions for my future kids i have now. Men like him be capping. If he really believed what he was saying he wouldn't be so angry and defensive about someone else's opinions on it. Especially calling Lila goodie two shoes. I'm thinking, okay dude so your saying your lifestyle, which is opposite of hers is bad right? Dude is constantly making contradictions in what he's saying. Nothing good ever comes from that way of life. Do not be fooled.
Thanks for speaking. My mother had 4 kids. We turned out alright, but that's because my Father was a strong Christian and my mother was huge on Academics (and Athletics). I think Mother got her Graduates Masters in 2018. So right now I turned 19 from a Texas Univ and I frequently call my older sister, my younger brother, and my Mom when asking for advice.
What are you guys talking about he speaks FACTS😑😐 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 OK jokes asides what kid are you talking about? Who's dumb enough to marry him AAAAHAHAAA😂🤣
Literally no child whose dad has slept around behind their mother's back, conceiving children willy nilly thinks of him as some sort of traditional champion of family. One of the best gifts a man can give his children is A) picking their mother well and B) loving her well. Both my husband and I came from a dad-with-multiple-families background and are determined not to repeat the cycle because of how destructive it was.
well chase said he wouldn't do it behind his wive's back. He made a point to say everyone will know and be upfront. SO I guess that means the wife is cool with the situation if he's able to do it so openly.
@Ndasuunye my doubts on how happy a woman could honestly be in that situation aside, I still have a very hard time believing that the children will grow up having positive feelings towards having a dad that has extremely divided loyalties and LARPs as the welfare state, even if he is wealthy. Who is he spending Christmas with this year? Who is he going to cut support from first if his resources dwindle? This will especially sting if they get to see families where the dad is loyal to one woman and actually comes home every if not most nights. Lavish lifestyle won't fill that void like J Waller seems to think it will.
From a child who’s “father” had multiple families and multiple children with different women i didnt even get to know all of my brothers and sisters i grow up fatherless i have no memories of him i dont want to extend my history but when i became a teenager as i said before i didnt know all of my siblings… unfortunately i meet one of my siblings from another mother that i didnt know it was my sibling long story short we ended up having a relationship and during our relationship we found out we share the same “father” to this day im still under psychiatric treatment under the diagnose of BPD….
She definitely wasn’t annoying. She was clearly asking him similar questions to further point out how much of a hypocrite he is. And he was also dodging her questions until he finally admitted he didn’t care what his kids would think about his fuckboy nature as long as he was able to financially support them. Honestly it seems like Preach’e bias against Christianity affects how he sees Lila
I stay far away from guys like him. I wouldn't have a family with him even if he'd pay me absurd money for it. He just sounds like an emotionally abusive and unavailable partner. No thank you.
@@DreamieQueenimagine having all these kids that he wants and you just get paid off and left alone by him. He’s also underestimating the amount of time he’d have to spend with each family, on top of managing whatever career he has.
@@DreamieQueen Agree, I have many great male role models In my personal life and they are all successful, married with kids and great jobs, these men would be horrified and cringe at a man like this.
Who said she was Catholic ? Every Catholic is a Christian but not every Christian is a Catholic. You can be Orthodox, Protestant, Coptic or Catholic as a Christian. Most of North America is Protestant like the sub-branches Evangelism and Puritanism. So if have to bet my money I would say she is a Protestant.
Says the person watching narcissists who only gossip about other ppl. "React". Meanwhile, JWaller puts up steal buildings, hires people, pays women handsomely, motivates Men, and much more!
I didn't find her annoying at all. It's a podcast full of men claiming to be role modles. In a quite way she called him out and showed him to be the person he is. He showed he is a crappy person without her doing anything but asking reasonable questions. He found her annoying because she didn't back off, is everything he claims to want in women, and he knows what he is saying is bullshit. So he resorted to personal attacks. He was annoying, not her.
Straight up found it odd how he said "be the hero of the families" but having children with multiple women. No women or child in that situation is going to see you as the hero. You're the villain
Exactly, and what happens when one of the kids calls for their dad to be the hero, will they get 'sorry hun, I'm with my other family right now, it's their turn. I have other children to simp over' -.-
I actually think that wording was right on brand of most red pillers. They seem to look at the world through a very selfish lense. It’s all about what makes them happy, what they want for their families, how they feel. Most truly lack empathy and it’s part of the reason why they claim women are so “emotional”. Regardless of how the feel about it, you can not truly love someone or yourself for that matter while simultaneously pushing away your emotions. True love requires vulnerability and I just don’t believe any of those men are capable of that.
It depends to be honest. Sometimes young kids idealize the parent who is the least present. Because the parent who’s there have to do the actual parenting and it’s not always fun. A dad with multiple families is not going to be very present so I could see why some kids would see him a their hero, because he’s the "cooler" parent. This happens even when the parent has only one family. But yeah the kid will grow up and eventually realize that the "absent" parent wasn’t that great which leads to resentment.
@@haywoodjablowmi1427 yeah, sometimes they idolise them because if you don't spend much time with them, you don't see their flaws, you don't argue over dishes etc. it's the parent at home that is "evil" because they force you to do the homework while you only have positive memories with the absent ones when they give you an xbox for christmas or took you on vacation. but then as an adult you see the "evil" one was the "hero" one.
100% , it's the kjnd of thing you have to bd healthy to understand. It was really quite sad. I kinda feel guilty for laughing at him, he obviously has struggles.
I found it funny how he kept talking about Christianity, her being a Christian and all this stuff about religion. But, not once did she talk about her religion.... why is he so triggered?😂
He is aware that he can not be a Christian and live the lifestyle he lives. And he also knows he lacks the will to say no to those vices. And is threatened by those that are capable because they're a reflection of what he isn't.
Because this guy is a textbook narcissist. Narcissists want to come across like they’re on top, they got control, they’re the man. But really, its easy to poke through their insecurity and let their real persona come out as you can see. Narcissists act real cool and high and mighty, until you start to criticize them, then they completely lose their shit. They’re truly the most toxic people on Earth.
It’s no debate for you to live your life on your terms, unapologetically. But if you have been announced that you’re gonna be a father, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the child. You can’t visit every now and then believing that you gonna be the best father, better than all fathers. That’s such a narcissistic claim to have, Bruv.
It's funny cause the "I'm living my truth unapologetically" line is typically used by the OF models on these podcasts, and the girls get roastwd for saying that mercilessly. This guy says it and it's supposed to be some kind of own to Lila 😂
I can agree that this is narcissistic. But my only pushback is, carrying a child to term is completely on a woman because "her body, her choice" I would like to assume women are wise enough to wanna know that a man has no narcissism before allowing herself to have that man's child. So if she does, then she must find his mentality acceptable to carry on. Or else, what's the point? Date him, fuck him with contraception. But have his child? No way. UNLESS you're deep down in agreement.
@@TheOuttaPocketVarietyShow There are some dumb bimbos who get knocked up and think he'll magically become a good husband and father once the baby comes along, because they've been brainwashed by society and corny movies into thinking that having kids changes people for the better (hint: it usually doesn't).
@@harsh3948 Apparently, a great deal of men think merely earning a paycheck and living under the same roof = successful fatherhood, and then think they deserve to win Father of the Year for it.
You are absolutely right. If your survival depends on someone being attracted/amused with you in the moment then you are not actually financially secure.
I don't believe she was annoying at all. She stood by her principles and asked consistent questions. He responded aggressively while trying to maintain a "strong" persona. Marriage or at least a stable and faithful relationship between parents is important for children growing up. And as much as some people practicing Christianity act hypocritically, the notions of the faith itself to me are pretty neat, especially when it comes to human relationships
That is one thing I find interesting, when people have an issue with Christianity it’s always about the people but not the principles themselves. I didn’t find her annoying but she didn’t know how to see that nothing she said would make him see differently so she should have moved on. My issue with him is believing that being honest about him being with multiple women and having a whole bunch of kids that he won’t have time for makes him a good father. For me the only person who can make judgment on your parenting is your child. And from the thousands of testimonies of children of fathers who had multiple families and where harsh like this man here, 90% of the time they found their fathers selfish, non loving and end up not having any relationship with their father at all.
The guy absolutely cared what that woman thinks, and his reaction and tone demonstrate it. She pointed out his hypocrisy and he knew he couldn’t defend himself, so he went on offense.
Absolutely, he seemed super triggered. I do wish she'd called him out more on his blatantly evasive/nonsensical answers, although overall she did great imo. She was very level headed and even when he called her annoying she kept her cool.
He’s just soooo…. Defensive. And I love how CHILL she is. His energy is unattractive, I don’t care how high value he is. If he is the definition, I don’t want it. Kudos to the young lady who delivered her questions respectfully and wasn’t intimidated by his aggressive comebacks.
From the start of her question which wasn’t disrespectful, his energy toward her was extremely direct and abrasive as though he was trying to “own” the conversation when she simply asked his opinion. He read and assumed the intention behind her question as an attack and therefore came off defensive, it’s all over his energy and body language. Even if that was her intention and not simply a question out of curiosity, I’ve seen more masculine and high value men answer definitively in their stance without being dismissive to the other persons opinion. Look up Bobby Price speaking on a panel, that’s a high value, masculine man that can respectfully disagree with his opponent and still “own” the conversation without needing to be aggressive. His defensiveness leads me to think he has doubts in his argument and potentially feels exposed.
@willalareche1699 perhaps you are getting defensive because of how he said it? He spoke rather calm and collected. What part are you talking about specifically?
@@LAZER904 I disagree, if you look at the women’s faces in the room they are also picking up on the tension starting from his response and his demeanor. It may have been a calm tone and pitch but the sharpness and dismissiveness in her opinions when they were both equally engaging suggests he was annoyed. You don’t have to raise your voice to be aggressive. He could be direct and sharp without being dismissive of her perspective as though he was scolding a child. There’s a huuggge difference. I have a friend who has a similar personality to him and she often has to work on her own because she easily offends others. Leaders know how to control the atmosphere in a room and enable others to feel at ease. There’s different kinds of styles of course but in a podcast, a conversation between the two opposing views would make it a great panel. He alienated her and caused the other girls most likely to shut up for the remainder of the interview because well, they most likely won’t want his smoke. It was unnecessary.
@willalareche1699 that's because women are incapable of thinking objectively and listen to how something is said instead of what is said. That isn't our fault. I still don't see where he was out of line
Let's hypothetically go through this scenario. You're a dad with kids in multiple families, you make all the money for those families but you don't have time to actually physically be there and play catch with all your 8 kids spread across like 4 families, you're just a money provider. LITERALLY what is the difference between you and the welfare state in practice??? I thought these guys hate the welfare state but all they seem to be doing is roleplaying as it.
If he thinks having multiple woman and children is a family then he has no idea of what family is. He has no regard to emotional and nurturing aspect that’s needed for both the mother and the children.
I think Lila asked those questions not to make the guy on the table see the fault in his logic, but to the thousands of men who have no actual guidance in their lives, who watch these podcasts and fall for ideologies like his, trying to make THEM see that this red pill "life" isn't all its cut out to be. She did a great job, continue to do what you do girl!
Yeah, this is a good take. It would be one thing for her to try to convince him out of his lifestyle within one conversation on a podcast, but to instead warn the men watching the video who seem to look up to this loser of a man is gonna have a far greater impact.
@@CrowandRaven my thoughts exactly, if she had been trying to convince him, it would have ended on the second or even first question but she kept prying, to the annoyance of Aba and the dude lol
And she wants all those men to become Catholics and be anti-abortion. She's also a horrible person who would say rape victims should have a rapist baby.
@@CrowandRaven that "loser" of a man is a multimillionaire. With endless women who want to lock him down but he doesn't let them. Nothing pisses women off more than top men rejecting commitment. Now avg guys are too. It's why the net and news is full of women in 30s complaining they cant find a husband.
She kept her composure and handled herself with grace. She was the only girl on that panel willing to challenge any of his beliefs. I wonder who is really the backwards, judgmental, and hypocritical person, this Red Pill guy or the Christian lady.
@KonKairwell, tbf this is supposed to b a podcast and it sounded like they were talkin about whether this was good for society or not. And then again, even if that’s not exactly what the larger conversation was specifically about, that’s what these podcasts r always about anyway. Telling bimbos from the street that the way they r living their lives is ridiculous. The only difference is that, this time, the bimbo was a guy. Lol
@KonKairon a panel like that everyone is allowed to share their opinions. Any of those girls and guys could have chimed in and said what they wanted. Why is is a problem if a Christian does it?
My grandfather had three wives at the same time. He had a total of 24 children. I can tell you from experience that none of his children became good parents, my mom included. They grew up in loveless homes with a father that was never present.
@@Franzifii this was in Mexico, so a man and a woman living together meant they were married. He only legally married the last one and she was 15 to his 30ish.
If this is what a "high value man" looks like, I'll head straight to the bottom tier. This guy couldn't be anymore defensive. How many times does he have to assert his security as a man? His lack of self awareness is incredible. A man this fragile is riddled with insecurity. Delusion, need for external validation, and self servitude somehow became something honorable among the red pills, and they can't handle when their hypocrisy is noticed by others.
Because the teachings of the RP have been twisted to grifting. Perhaps this was inevitable because in the beginning it was a powerful, but ill-defined and not centrally controlled...
@@CEWIII9873that doesn’t make any sense at all. Conservatives stand for the complete opposite of what this guy believes with regards to the traditional family. Your prejudice is showing
@@vivyvocalist723 Sure they are. You believe in handling snakes, speaking in tongues and most of all in an invisible sky wizard daddy. Your BS religion is entirely an accident of geography, because had you been born in India - you would be Hindu.
The Christian lady wasn't annoying, shes the only one who had the courage to challenge him on his beliefs or values or whatever it is he called it. And he is definitely triggered by her because he can tell she sees through his BS and hypocrisy.
any young man who is looking for some guidance in life, PLEASE do not turn to guys like Justin...there is nothing more rewarding than being a dad and having a supportive wife, but that is something they will never talk about.
In terms of her being "annoying" He wasn't answering her questions. Not the way she was asking them. He was deflecting with his responses. She was asking if living that lifestyle wouldn't affect the kids. his answer was literally "I Don't Care" and he said it in different ways. So rather than her telling him "you're not answering the questions" she kept asking the question a different way and EVENTUALLY he answered it. As someone who does something similar people start to call me "annoying" when I ask them things that make them reflect. They hate it, especially those that aren't humble enough to listen. They want to live life a certain way. Yes we all know he doesn't care what she had to say but you have to remember its a podcast. With Viewers. The goal is for viewers to see different points of views and she held her composure and wanted to dig deep and he HATED IT as most people do when they aren't humble and instead are arrogant.
Hard agree she was clearly pushing him to answer the questions not just that she was pushing him to answer her questions stupidly bro straight up said he doesnt care about his kids feelings and said that he doesnt have self control😂
Thank you. I thought the she’s annoying remark was low and unnecessary from Preach’s part. The reason why she pressed so hard to get an answer from him isn’t necessarily because she cares about his opinion. It was because that guest represents an entire community who promotes a selfish, immoral and materialistic lifestyle that will harm society in the long run. A community that actively watches that podcast. This is just my opinion so I may be wrong, but I think Preach’s cynicism towards Christianity made him put himself in the position of the guest being berated by the finger wagging Christian, regardless of Lila’s intentions in the context of that specific argument.
@@lulu_749 post religious trauma is legit. Can't fault a person for it, just be aware that they can't think clearly insofar as their former religion is concerned.
She definitely wasn't annoying. He was very insecure and easily agitated. He didn't actually answer the question at all, on several occasions. All he said was he doesn't care. I think she was just emphasising the stupidity of his opinion.
I do think she was annoying. She kept saying "you dont think that this? So you don't think that that?" Yes he doesn't think that, that's what he just said. Don't get me wrong, I think he is out of his mind. But she is being manipulative. When she says "so you don't think it's gonna be hard for your kids?" What she means is "I think this is gonna be hard on your kids", but then he will say "I don't care what you think", so she's just reframing her opinion as a question.
This man will die alone in a hospital bed with none of his children present around him. Seen it many times. They will be as heartless as he is, and all they will want from him is inheritance..
Thank you for speaking on this. I was raised Muslim and my father married another wife and started a whole other family. It was devastating to us as his kids, and to my mother. He was never an involved father and after his second marriage we barely saw him and when we did he was exhausted and there was so much tension in the household. The trust in our family was broken. Because his other children are younger they needed more attention and time/money and we certainly felt it. It’s taken years of therapy to undo the trauma from that situation so I could learn to trust men again. Even still it affects me negatively, my relationship with both my parents is non existent. It destroyed us as a family all under the guise of “it’s his right to marry multiple wives” as part of the Muslim religion. Theoretically he should have divided his time and resources equally, but from a practical standpoint it’s impossible. I agree, it’s not good for society or the individuals in that situation even the man who is stupid enough to think it’s a good idea. As a child I would have preferred they just get divorced that way my mom could move on too and it wouldn’t be as confusing.
Yep. Children need that emotional connection with their parents. It's good for their development. This man treats it as some weird transactional thing and his kids will resent him for it. He's just an idiot lmao
As an ex-muslim I find it hilarious that Preach can freely say that Christianity is full of contradictions / hypocrisy. Meanwhile, if an ex-muslim like myself would do it, I would risk my life lol
“I spent my 20’s trying to fix myself” Translation: I spent my 20’s doing absolutely nothing to fix myself. This is man who has no moral compass. If he thinks he can get away something, he will do it. He lives in “the truth” (his truth). His children will never know a father’s love. They will never have a father to read stories to them at night, teach them to ride a bike, take them to practice, or teach them to drive a car. His value as a man starts and stops at the money he provides. This is what clinical narcissism looks like.
Yeah, I think for both men and women, we are failing to see that there's a lot of highly functional people that are mentally deranged. This dude is mentally sick enough to see himself as the hero of his story and may die not realizing that he was a villain all along.
I don't think you understand. He doesn't want to say what he really means, so let me explain. When he says he was fixing himself what he means is the he was trying to impress women. That's all there is for those redpill dudes. They must have failed to get women at some point, which made them obssess over it(partly due to how society treats men who don't have success with women). Which is why they have this grind mindset, because they want to impress women with their success. Just look at what they talk about. This is the personality women like. Be the bad boy she always wanted. Etc. He can't outright say it because he makes fun of simps for being nice to women in hopes of earning affection from her. But the only reason he isn't a simp is because woman don't like simps, if they did he would be the biggest simp. His entire life revolves around women, and he doesn't want to admit this. This is the answer to her question of why he can't commit to just one woman. It's because he worked far too hard in becoming a man women want that he won't be satisfied getting just one. His ego wouldn't allow it.
@@AngryReptileKeeperusually those who are very well of financially are that way because it's all they have ever valued or been taught to value, unfortunately.
It’s actually really sad. He pretty much cannot experience love. That’s really very sad. Not caring how your conduct affects your children is a bad sign.
They never mention wanting to raise good, virtuous, honorable children either. They don't want to raise their child. They really think money and "providing" will achieve everything. If that were the case, children whose only interaction with their father was a child support check would be the best people in our society
Multiple times he's said he will impart his skills, knowledge, and wisdom onto them so that they could be equipped to handle the world. Turn on your listening ears.
@@EriPages And how will he do that equally to all 100 kids he stated he will have with the multiple wives??? You are deaf and stupid. 🤪🤦 He clearly doesn't care about the kids... he is a sociopath pos.
@@EriPages Never heard love and care, also he mostly talked about paying for their education and travel. The “values” he talked about instilling is basically his kids simping for him because he’s “such a great role model”
"They really think money and "providing" will achieve everything." They think money IS providing. That's the beginning and end of that thought process. They think that as long as they can throw money at their woman and kids, they've won Father/Husband of the year.
I'm surprised he's even talking about money. Aren't these men the same that complain about women only wanting money and how that makes them golddigger? Probably is the only thing he can offer.
My dad is upper-middle class, but we didn’t used to always be that way. When I was a kid, we were poor. Had no money. My parents almost couldn’t afford the hospital bills from my siblings birth had it not been for charity that paid them off. My dad is not perfect, but he works hard, and was there in my life. He showed up to all my ballet recitals and would take me fishing and we would do everything together as a kid. I would never ever ever dream of trading him for some narcissistic rich millionaire who thinks money is all that matters and he can be the “hero” for that. I don’t need a hero, I need a father, even now as an adult. I feel so sorry for the kid that has him as a father one day.
My dad was very present and one of the kindest people I have ever met. He was definitely not rich, but we miss him ever single day. Funny enough in my culture polygamy is practiced and he said it destabilizes societies. It never works well from what I’ve seen. This guy sounds like the men in my community who think that children and women are just accessories to inflate their egos. And typically in these families with the rich men the kids and women end up just waiting till they die to fight for his assets. I’ve seen it so many times even in my own family. There is a lot of generational trauma that is created from these men who simply want to “spread their seed”. They lack social and personal responsibility.
The almighty dollar is darn curse that got a hold of this man soul and he doesn’t even realize it . But on serious note I definitely want to be there for my future kids even and do a lots of fun activities together and be there for my future wife to and we both work hard to make it happen and yes money is needed but memories and experiences are important to.
My dad worked his ass off, 2 jobs all my life. Tagging along on his second jobs and working with him in the yard were more meaningful than the trips to amusement parks, gifts, and vacations. Hands down.
I have 4 sisters and we all adored our father and he treated us great and provided all while teaching us to take shit from no one but treat everyone with kindness. After hearing this guy I am even more thankful for having him as a father.
Amen to that! One of the best benefits of having a great father in your life is a good chance as finding a partner with similar values. My father is one of the greatest blessings in my life. And so fortunate to have a good man as well🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
“I’d never simp for my daughter” this word simp is just being overused at times when it doesn’t need to be used. Simping is in regards to interactions where someone is trying to either romantically or sexually get with someone else
Simping does not just mean having interactions for sexual favors. Its you putting in way more of the effort then the other while receiving very little back. It’s like you buying things for your wife, daughter or son things that they want like expensive clothes, phone, game, car and they respond to that by disrespecting you and not appreciating that. Now if ur a parent you need to buy them what they need but that’s it they will need to show some level of respect to get the things they want.
the fact that the thought of his children cutting him out of their lives was at the forefront of his mind is telling. he’s ABSOLUTELY expecting his kids to want nothing to do with him. why the hell would he have them?
@@CEWIII9873 but the thing is, no one’s going to remember who this guy is. so many men talk about leaving a legacy when no one even really cares. it’s an inflated sense of self.
@@hardcandy71287Some people in my family that passed I forgot what they looked like because they weren't family oriented, they were not around and very few pictures 😢
I grew up with an abusive dad who had plenty of money and whose only way of apologizing was buying me food/stuff. There was a point where i didnt want anything i just wanted a hug and a sorry. Because of this i had ptsd & attachment issues. I may not have struggled financially but the saying is very true that money isnt everything. Don't believe these men that say the only real way to be a man is being rich. You need a heart as well
Sorry to hear that for you. I’m glad that you were able to put that in your past. I find it interesting that most of these redpill guys and their followers can never seem to discuss how they will dedicate and multiply their love as easy as riches. You won’t hear them speak on the Bible way of loving your(wife) like, love her as yourself, provide, protect and cover her, be willing to give your life for her as the Son gave His life. Unfortunately, most fall short with just providing finances
@@detectivetap9119 As if a person can't grow and mature? I'm actually happily married going 3 yrs and have a beautiful kid while you're typing behind a screen being bitter to a stranger who has more self-awareness than you.
@@CharlesNauck i think common sense says dont raise your daughter to be a spoiled brat. But if there is anyone in your life you’re gonna go the extra mile for, it should be your kid.
Nah fuck that cuz then we get entitled pompous brats men and women u can simp for ur kids but at some point I gotta teach them how the world works however this dude in the vid is fkn saying some stupid and hypocritical shit
It’s ironic that for a man who speaks highly about traditional values, is annoyed that a traditional woman is challenging him on his hypocrisy.
Well said
Yup
Traditional is subjective tho
Because he isn't traditional, he's a degenerate in EVERY way lmfao
He only speaks highly because it benefits him, protraying this "High value, traditional guy" . Meanwhile, behind closed doors, he engages in any degeneracy possible.
Makes me remember of those "religious" dubai billionaires. They're only "religious" as a public front, behind closed doors they have the same dignity as a Porn Star
The Christian lady wasn’t even trying to attack him. She’s just pointing out his hypocrisy. Shows how fragile and insecure these “alpha” men are
And he said he wasn’t triggered by her either! Ya right! 😂
No-no, he's just being "passionate"! 😂
He was dripping with insecurity he wouldn’t even look her in the face but hey go head “hero”
@@Scriptures_K lol, that the trigger word from so-called Alpha males.
I damn near expected him to stomp off with how much of a tantrum he was throwing.
What's with these red pill dudes preaching against single mothers but then creating a bunch of them?
Advocating for fornication and self pleasure. That's what it comes down to.
Keep in mind that they are against divorce........so they will just endure it 😂
@@Gchildwarrior redpill isn't against divorce. They are for divorce under their own rules/terms.
@@MeakH1 Some are and some aren't. MLD being one of them
@@MeakH1 It's a mix of both. People on one side saying they're against divorce and should stick with each other through both the good and bad. The other side is saying if they do split they're shouldn't be stuff like a lot of alimony or something.
'I want a woman with traditional values.'
'You mean like a monogamous, life long commitment to one another?'
'No. MY traditional values.'
😂😂
The modern "traditional" values 😂
Oh yes those one sided traditions, only the woman has to abide by the made up man made rules 🫤🔪
@@user-rb6qf4po9lmore like pagan values (no wonder that life style lost to Christianity)
That's not wrong
It's not simping for your daughter it's being a parent.
Dildo Waller hates his mom.
Taht should tell you everything you need to know.
True. But Aba is wrong about the part with "what about saying you will love them etc".
You dont spoil them, you dont teach them about the world etc if you dont love them.
That usually comes from love. Having your children grow up in a better place is also out of love. Giving them better opportunity in a better school is also out of love.
The guy (redpiller) also said that he would give his children love numerous times, and he said that he rather loving his girlfriend than marry her, because many people marry and then they divorce - that love is more important for him.
I dont know the guy, but Aba clearly has issues with the guy solely because he is a redpiller - so Aba puts words in his mouth basically.
Thats quite pathetic not gonna lie.
They think genuine care for others is simping. Then they'll wonder why no one is simping for them on their death bed.
@@vipr1142 The dude dismissed his children being upset as unimportant.
If he really puts his money where his mouth is. He will not be a good father.
Thats such a weird incestual statement too.
He's pure red flags🚩🚩 Smooth, soft spoken dripped in oil, arrogance and venom. He will never love anyone or anything but himself.
He apparently has a REALLY BAD relationship with his mother. How can you tell, eh? And yes: HUGE red flags everywhere! Doesn't matter how much money he has, I pity the women who 'falls' for this POS!
Dude is a textbook narcissist. Even his posture is screams it.
Edit he doesn't even love himself
Okay, but why is that description so raw!? I love it!
This is a textbook narcissist, and I don't throw that around loosely. I've studied this shit, did my thesis on it -- this is a narcissist.
Lila is not annoying, she is bringing the same energy to these red pillers that they bring to OF girls. He is happy to bash OF girls for their life choices but when Lila is respectfully asking him about his opinions on dating then he is calls her annoying. Yeah its annoying when someone calls you out on your bs.
This comment right here 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@taebrown384 Indeed 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Exactly!!!!!!
Nah, she's a bit annoying. She was literally asking him the same question in different ways. It was almost like she was too slow to understand what he said the first time or something.
@@anonymousbo0318 I think she was trying to get him to listen to wth he was saying. He kept contradicting himself.
As a Christian myself, no trad woman I know would ever put up with this shit. What he is describing isn't a traditional marriage, it's a harem.
My traditional Muslim wife is ok with my other 4 traditional Muslim wives. We vote red, we pray together daily, we abstain from all forms of sin and obscene behavior. You do not represent all conservatives. My 5th fiancee agrees 👍
@@cheeeeezewizzzyou’re ☪️ancer
@@cheeeeezewizzz thats her but any woman with self respect wudnt. Thats just be tho.
@@cheeeeezewizzz🧢
@@cheeeeezewizzz Islam allows a man to have only 4 wives. You have five wives, so that's haram.
Bro calling himself as "the hero" of families tells you enough you need to know about this dude
But where I’m from (Zimbabwe) fathers are seen as the heroes and I even see my dad that way tbh, unless he meant in a different way?
It seems like the entire motivator in his whole outlook is just ego
@@voidmayonnaise well said 👍
Kinda cool my dad never calls himself that, it’s like I just see it for myself and the way he protects and provides, pretty much like every father should do
Yeah, he ain't a hero, he a villain. He expects all the women to be witth him only, while he fucks around. I blame the women for having kids with a man like that. They only care about the lifestyle, they don't care about the negativee impact it will have on their kid(s).
@@HarryTagarahero’s don’t call themselves hero’s.
He got so upset with her just because she asked some questions. She didn't even say anything crazy. These "tough men" can never take the slightest pushback.
hes always like this. narcissistic sociopath
frr they act so mighty until someone dares challenge them
Yep, you should never question an alpha male lol
This is the reality of those who have left Allah's guidance and chose their own desires as their God. Insecure, miserable liars who aim to drag the rest of mankind down with them.
He’s scared of women. Like most redpill types.
He said he's not "triggered" by her, but immediately went ahead and admit that she's "annoying" him😂
Guys like Justin and that dork from ModernLifeDating are total clowns, on one hand you have a dude that's willing to put a multitude of his supposed children through single parent households and MLD abuses women like it's nothing.
Super triggered.
It's very obvious he has major control and anger issues. The way he reacts to any time he's questioned shows he can't handle explaining himself. As though he's never had to entertain that idea 😅
@@rosiekapun207she was annoying though
It's so annoying to hear people misuse the word simp. Simp is basically a cuck, but without even being in a relationship. You just keep thinking you're going to get in a relationship but you never do. So I hope he isn't going to basically be a cuck to his daughters? Relationship podcasts are the worst lol
His body language says it all. He isn't even facing her when she asks most of the questions. He just keeps giving her the side eye.
He felt uncomfortable and vulnerable. Even check out his hunched posture 😂
He was struggle red and intimidated by her.
I think it's because he knows this is the type of woman the red pill community wants and he's realizing that red pill guys can't get them. A self-respecting conservative Christian woman will never settle down and have a family with a guy who openly admits he will cheat on her
I loved the "I don't want you to think I'm triggered because I'm not" out of nowhere showing he was super triggered.
true any body language expert would know he wasnt feeling secure or confident
"I'm gonna live my life unapologetically" is every OF girls mantra. He is a mirror image of the things he speaks down on.
No actually women generally sacrifice themselves for their children.
Don’t generalise women, especially when it comes to parenting.
It’s men who get to do whatever they want. Women know before children, that they won’t get to live for themselves.
@missNCW I think you have misunderstood what I what I was saying or maybe replied to the wrong person.
@@missNCW you're either projecting didn't, read the comment or are replying to a different comment.
@@missNCW OP said OF girls, aka pornstars aka nude webcam girls. He's not talking about normal woman. Learn to read.
@@missNCWyou just generalized fathers and men. Also not all women live for others and many have no clue what that means.
She's a G for just laughing at him when he insulted her repeatedly 😂
Agreed
As a man who is married with daughters, I have never even thought of the sentence "simping for my daughter." Bro, what? That's your child.
You'd be surprised. In the darker route and alleyway of things there are Fathers who do this, to an extreme and or inappropriate way.
I'm with Preach on this. The word is WEIRD
@KonKair what's your point? That's still your daughter
@@Zhello79 Reminds me when Donald Trump said when his daughter was born he was wondering if 'she was gonna be huge tits like her mom'
😂😂
@@xandres9451so you would do anything your daughter says for her validation?
With a few questions she was able to expose how deeply anti-Christian and anti-family some of the red pill talking points are. The most ironic part is that she's the image of everything the red pill community says they want in a woman, so he can't just fall back to the classic "you're just a 403" defense, which is of course why he was so triggered.
Yes, and he called her annoying in a goody too shoes way.
So the type of woman that these men want, is still not good enough. Can’t make this shit up
Yep, redpillers praise good religious women all day but spend their lifes with 304s OF models with a double digit iq. The first Christian woman became annoying after 5 minutes.
@@missNCWSo true 😂 they’re just bitter men who think they are victims and are triggered when they feel powerless.
if she was a real trad woman she wouldn't be on some podcast.
@@missNCWthese men ignore good girls😂 they WANT ho3s. All their talking points center around sluts because those are the only women they notice and want.
She’s “annoying” because she’s forcing him to reconcile his completely self-absorbed philosophy with his claim that he’s a good family man, which he obviously cannot do. She was right on the money, hence his resort to insults.
This is textbook narcissism. Cannot be held accountable for anything they do and will NEVER admit to anything they have done wrong. I’m one of those daughters that kicked rocks and went no contact with my pops (my therapist and my sister’s therapist have both confirmed our beliefs about his NPD). Best thing I ever did was leave that trash behind.
literally this ^^ fragile ego
Women talking at all is annoying to hyper narcissistic misogynistic men like him.
No, she's annoying because she keeps asking same thing because she doesn't like his anwer. Glad he saw right through what she was doing.
@AEdavirgin Asking a question many different ways is a great way to see if people really understand or believe what they're saying. Applying pressure on someone also gets a reaction because most people don't like it. The way you conduct yourself under pressure or in discomfort says a lot about someone. In this case, it showed he's a lightweight in professional conversations and lacks strong character.
Imagine calling a mom a "pick me" for taking care of her son.
That said, there are ladies like Cartman's mom who are a slave to make the kid like them, even if it's bad for the kid longterm.
Niceness ≠ Kindness. Simping ≠ Nurturing
@@samwallaceart288 I guess maybe American men should stop running out on their kids so much that the overwhelming single parent households in America are headed BY WOMEN. Maybe men should try being there for their fvcking children instead.
Bruh
Because it doesn’t matter how good of a mother you are, in the end they could end up being just another disgusting vile man.
@@Kittcatty bro shut your bitter ahh up fatherless af🤣🤣
That woman wasn't annoying at all, she managed to stay composed and resilient even though he was being aggressively rude to her. It was impressive to see her hold composure and not back down.
On the other hand, this definitely made me want to call my dad up and tell him how awesome he is.
Its always disheartening when a woman is the proper amount of assertive but will still be labeled as bitchy even when they aren't
@@user-cd4ms6cf8l I was thinking that too. Woman who are assertive or don't back down to a man are easily labeled as annoying, Karen or bitchy...
Because you have sense and aren't in this RP cult.
@fooliefoolie4160 his thinking is so cyclical in its confusion. He can't explain it because he hasn't thought about it properly.
yeah that cuck was so triggered lol he is so insecure and aggressive for no reason. And the things they talk about... their logic... this is is just sad
It's called being a Disney dad. All you do is show up once in awhile take em to Disney for a week buy em shit then dissappear again. My cousin's dad did it. She hates her father.
I call them Hollywood dad”s
"Simping for your daughter" is a crazy sentence
Imagine thinking simping is loving and protecting a child
Gross? I thought simping was doing or saying anything a woman wants to hear even if you don't actually believe it personally, just so you can have sex with her. I really hope no man would consider trying that with their daughter😬
I had the same reaction as preach. I do believe there is a sexual connotation to it but at a minimum, it's just fucking weird, creepy and ridiculously out of touch to look at your own flesh and blood the same way as a random girl in your dating/social pool.
@@abbiereynolds8016simp is an acronym for suckers idolizing mediocre pussy. It's inherently sexual and using it in reference to the relationship with your children is highly inappropriate and the usage is completely incorrect.
@@abbiereynolds8016 Plenty of men do, hence the rise of spoilt princesses that are Modern women
She really made him feel like the soulless child that he is.
He was so defensive over simple questions. If he really believes those things, why does he think they’re bad and needs to be defensive about it? And when he talks to her he can’t even show respect by turning towards he. He has to talk to her side eyed.
She asked him if he wants that for her daughters, I thought she meant would you want her daughter to be a part of some other man’s harem. He immediately thought it was about him.
Ok misandrist
@@HypocritesExposd It's because he DOESN'T believe that bullshit he's spewing 😂. He's saying it because he thinks it makes him sound Cool. Alot of these redpill guys want to express LOVE for others but they've been through so much that they spend years cultivating an Image/PERSONA to hide their true feelings 👍.
@@TurtleChad1Ok beta
@@HypocritesExposd No he actually said if his daughters are provided for or taken cared of then he was fine with it.
I don't think she was annoying. I think the guy was. He went on a relationship podcast but didn't want to state his relationship status? Why even go on there, everyone else did it. He was extremely rude and seeing him get so bothered was pathetic on his end. She was calm and rational. He acted emotional and resorted to name calling.
Facts.
Right he didn’t even fully answer any questions. That was very annoying
He kept interrupting her while she was asking him questions, and seemed to be offended by everything she asked. He should’ve stayed at home 🥱
@samwallaceart288 thank you 😊
@mgbbaby1 exactly. And I get it if it wasn't pertaining to the topics, but it's a relationship podcast! What did he expect? I'm kinda bothered that the host seemed to be a pushover and accept the guy's non answers. I've seen another one after this and he kicked out a girl for pretty much doing the same as this guy with weasel answers.
"Most people want to have kids. They don't want to be parents."
Preach, Preach (No pun intended)
Value value 😅
The sad thing is that Lila wasn’t even trying to own him, and yet, his typical red pill immaturity made it happen.
Justin waller owned her. He's alpha. I'd die for him. He's always right. W justin. I will have 50 kids too
With 30 women
@@smokerx6291Huh? 😂
@@smokerx6291you funny as hell😂
@@smokerx6291😂😂😂
Apparently single motherhood is bad, because the child grows up without a father. Mothers putting the father on child support and visitation is bad because the father doesn't get to see his child enough to establish a relationship with them.
But it's ok for a father to have 7 different families and barely see his children, and he will establish a healthy loving relationship with every one of them?
People who think this are actually goofballs.
These manosphere types are just as toxic, superficial, materialistic, and hypocritical as the feminists they claim to hate. It’s like they both claim to hate each other but at the same time, they need each other to survive.
That kind of thinking just breaks my brain. Simply goofy
Yeah and more young men will start families with this guys mindet. More future generations of children will grow up with an absentee father
@@samuelalvarez9045 Which means the cycle of lost and confused people will continue🤦🏼
The single mothers are always blamed and criticized, the father who abandoned them is never mentioned
My dad was an immigrant and wasn't rich. But he played dolls with me, bought me a tea set and sat down with me, showed up to every play and ballet recital, showed up to every swim practice, and always helped me with homework.
One of the girls who went to my high school had a rich dad who constantly cheated, never spent time with her, had children with a whole bunch of women, and threw money at his kids whenever they asked to spend time with him.
Fast forward a few years, I got a high paying job in STEM, bought my dad and mom a car, paid for my parents to go on a family vacation to Italy with me, and I take care of them and stay in touch with both of them. I recently got engaged to a great family-oriented Irish guy.
The girl with the rich dad that screwed around? She's in and out of rehab and has an onlyfans.
This guy is triggered for a reason. He knows the redpill movement claims they are against single parents, absent fathers, and weak men, but in reality, they create the next generation of all of those problems so they stay in business and keep making money for their ideology pyramid scheme.
Well said. I knew something was off with this "red pill" movement. I saw somewhere, I forget where but a guy said that this red pill movement is the same as modern day feminism. Like two sides of the same coin type of deal.
Ideology pyramid scheme is the realest description of their business model
@@mrmiso1414 I was honestly a fool when I graduated high school and leaned into the red pill community for about 2 or 3yrs.
I'm glad I never actively participated in their BS, and found some nice channels on YT and talkin with ppl to realize how toxic and self destructive the red pill community was.
@@mrmiso1414 Imo the "red pill" expression got highjacked and subverted by astroturf 'celeb' plants. Cannot have an organic movement that makes sense today. We're in 4th&5th generation warfare folks.
EXACTLY!!!
The fact that he started insulting her once she hit him with really good logical points shows everything you need to know about his character. This man is clearly a narcissist who thinks his shit don’t stink, grew up hating himself so much that even now as an old ass man-baby he needs to go around making sure everyone believes the same lies he’s been telling himself about being “a high value man”. I honestly pray for whatever woman let’s him inside her life.
these redpillers complain about these women obsessed with money, yet this man is literally creating his daughters to only be interested in money and associate that with being cared for
This ginger alphawhore wants to be run through by multiple women but at the same time he is mad that he is surrounded by golddiggers lol His IQ is around 35
Fr!
Exactly. He’s creating a standard where his daughters will grow up associating male affection with material gains.
the fact he thinks that the dad will
be a hero in all his families is wild. this man has no clue how to have a proper family.
I found that word to be odd. Hero...it speaks more to how he wants his children to view him more than how he would treat his children. You know, my parents didn't have much money when I was growing up. They weren't able to buy me toys, always telling me "no" because they needed to use the money for more practical needs. Still, one of my fondest memories is walking up and down the aisles of Toys R Us with my dad. That place looked massive! My dad would let me show him what I liked. He'd tell me he was working hard to make more money, and he'd buy me toys. I know it hurt him to not be able to buy me anything, but growing up made me understand that the time walking through stores with him was what mattered.
He seems to view children as just another source of narcissistic supply.
So delusional and out of touch. He thinks life is a little boys fantasy
For reals, I bet you all he wants is to have his kids say "he's my hero", "he's the best dad" but that's his goal, not the intention to be there for his kids....a good outcome isn't always done thru selflessness it can come from selfishness.
Exactly!! Heroes sacrifice. Sleeping around and making babies with multiple women doesn't sound like sacrifice at all.
Dude was just being called out IN a Feminine way. He was being tough and abrasive because he noticed she could smell his BS. she wasn’t being annoying, He was just cornered.
You can tell he hates women and even his daughters arent safe. He already is prepared to cut them off if they dont look at him as the King. No man who has women in his life that he loves would talk like this 😮.
He hates his mother.
@@lizmcclin7800because she abused him as a child
Red pill men: “Where are all the traditional women at?”
This woman here is all kinds of traditional and lives it out.
Red pill dude: “You’re annoying…”
They don't actually want a traditional woman. That's just something they use to attack the OF girls. If a real traditional woman was in front of them they'd hate her too because she would expect him to be traditional as well (for example waiting for marriage before having sex) and they would never accept that.
They just want to sit there and get paid to complain about the OF/IG girls, then bang them when the cameras stop rolling (I'm looking at Fusty & Funky in particular👀).
Accountability annoys the RedPill brigade
Couldn't even consider him a traditional man😭
They claim to want "traditional," but they only want it to be one-sided- on the woman's part. They don't want to be traditional men. Unfortunately for them, traditional women expect a man to be traditional, so when they do meet a traditional woman, they're put off by her.
I wouldn't consider a man, who hates marriage while also wanting a Harem of baby mommas, traditional, at least not by Western standards. Red Pill losers are the opposite of traditional, in fact, they are the male versions of the OF hoes they b*tch about, except even worse, because at least OF girls know what they are.
The Christian woman seems rational and level headed.
Zhe sounded so nice. Like she cares a bit
@@e69alphathat piece of trash just wanted to get that ha ha moment ....she don't care at all
@@e69alpha It's deceptive, she's a psycho. She's stated that she would force an 11 year old rape victim to carry a pregnancy to term, and have her charged with murder if she gets an abortion. Eleven year olds can't physically carry a baby to term. But she would force it. Her points in this conversation make her sound level headed. But she's not.
@@sarahrobertson634 I know what exactly video you are talking about here (although I imagine you just watched a 10 second clip before you made that judgement of her) and if you really think that's what she said than you are just straight up delusional.
@@sarahrobertson634is it a case of when she decides to kill it.. surely you are not crazy enough to say she can kill the child after it’s born right.
I don't think the Christian lady was annoying at all. In fact, she was engaging with the discussion in a very composed way given that Mr Manosphere snuck in as many ad hominem pot shots as he could. She never insulted him or even his ideas the way he insulted hers. She was very civil about her disagreement and about as gracious as one could be in that situation.
💯agree
She just asked him questions and he insulted her multiple times and was super aggressive. You cant come on a dating podcast and say something ridiculous like “Im gonna have fifty wives and a hundred kids” and not expect someone to ask you about that.
The fact that he had to say he wasn’t triggered by her definitely meant he was triggered. He tried to disrespect her like he disrespects his 400 wives, and she stood her ground, good for her.
He’s already failed as a father in my opinion, the second you have that child your life is no longer just about you. The statement “I’m not gonna simp for my children” shows how ignorant this man is. You can’t live 100% for yourself and expect to be a decent father
Bro imagine admitting on the internet you’re gonna give up on your kids when they fall out of line ☠️☠️ what if he has kids and they see that irl????
From a child who’s “father” had multiple families and multiple children with different women i didnt even get to know all of my brothers and sisters i grow up fatherless i have no memories of him i dont want to extend my history but when i became a teenager as i said before i didnt know all of my siblings… unfortunately i meet one of my siblings from another mother that i didnt know it was my sibling long story short we ended up having a relationship and during our relationship we found out we share the same “father” to this day im still under psychiatric treatment under the diagnose of BPD….
@@salsipuedes8425 dawg that sounds so fake cuz that’s the most wild thing I’ve ever heard, if you’re Fr I hope you find peace and fuck your dad
@@salsipuedes8425omg! I am so sorry you went through that. I hope you recover soon and definitively
@@wardiya3arbiya thanks you i hope so too but is hard
"I'm not gonna simp for my daughters" has got to be the most insecure thing I've ever heard someone say in my entire life.
Pretty much. Imagine thinking you can simp to your daughters…BRO YOU’RE A PARENT!
It's not insecure
It's stupid, but not insecure
This word gets thrown around way too much
Wait, so you'll simp for your daughter's. I'm confused. But as a parent, you'll always have to sacrifice so much so your kids will want and need you. Even if they do something wrong, you must guide them. You can't be too soft on your kids, or they will be those annoying kids who grow up doing bad things.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957no it’s not called simping full stop .
@@Escalusfrno it is insecure because simping is an insult he’s trying to look all macho and won’t even “simp” (ducking gross way to put it) for his own daughters
My dad worked 3 jobs and constantly talked about how much wealth we had (upper middle class), he was so overworked that we were all too terrified of the next explosion of anger to enjoy any time with him. Meanwhile, my best friend who's family lived paycheck to paycheck loved every minute she spent with her dad.
You don’t want either situations man.
@@josephbth5562I think it’s better to be in a situation where you got a loving home rather than one where you constantly live in fear of a parent
@@josephbth5562fr. Money ain’t none to play with too
@@josephbth5562 Whoa you literally just solved every situation ever. Abusive parents? I simply choose not to have abusive parents. Bro thinks Nuh uh actually works
@@onepunch1019like everything in life, it’s all about balance…
3:45 he sounds like he hates the idea of his future daughters already. The idea of his daughter who does not exist not liking him already filled him with rage so I can only imagine what would happen if he does have a kid, and they so much as disobey.
He has 2 from what I’ve heard
A dad having multiple families is a set up for failure. You're going to be not only neglecting your baby mother but also your kids and that's going to lead to the siblings hating each other. This guy doesn't care about the mental health issues his kids would go through. He'll just throw money at them
He doesn't care about anyone else's feelings, wishes or needs. As long as he's "happy" it's all that matters to him.
That guy is so full of himself. Literally contradicting his words and framing it as "alpha grindset" bruh, shut up 🤦♂️
The Almighty has allowed men to have multiple wives and encouraged them to have abundant children, not to let Satan's whispers convince us that we'll be poor or too tired to take care of them. So, are you listen to God or Satan?
@@hamzanocapisn’t it In Muslim? Christianity promote only having 1 wife
@@hamzanocap the almighty was buggin
I can’t believe In this day and age if you care about your wife’s/daughter’s opinions and feelings it’s considered simping. We’re so out of touch with reality.
Male fragility is dangerous
To be honest, I don’t think it is, this dude is getting rightfully clowned and any woman who sees this and still chooses to go ahead an possibly have a relationship/kids with him knows full well what lies ahead.
@sirlewishamikton8817 true. The ones who still actively pursue are dumb@sses
I agree. It's incredibly absurd to call it simping. Such a peculiar word to describe be a loving, doting parent.
I agree!
He’s a narcissist for sure. He justifies what he does by saying all men cheat (we don’t) and then gets on his superiority soapbox with the “At least I’m honest about it”. He got triggered when someone had the nerve to question him. He may have money, but he’s a weak human being.
You're so on point! It's wild that he thinks being honest about shitty behaviour makes the behaviour any better. Shitty behaviour is shitty, doesn't matter if you're honest about it or not. There is an argument to be made that being honest about shitty behaviour means that he is a worse person. People are usually dishonest because they feel guilty or ashamed about their behaviour because they know what they're doing is wrong. The fact that he's honest about his behaviour means he's not ashamed and doesn't think it's wrong which, in my opinion, is kinda worse.
@@leroyjenkins7968Ricky Bobby hates mother fuckers that don't chew big red.
LOL the funniest thing is that he actually thinks that the most important thing is "the man gets to be the hero". Operantly more important then how it hurts the kids and women or society.
Sounds like a grown up child :'D
This is the lowest value of man you can get.
Definitely. It's rare to see so many narcissistic red flags in the first minute. I felt in my stomach.
His money has all the value. He doesn't.
I really aspire to be as calm and articulate as the female host.
The way she pressed and triggered him without losing eye-contact (notice how he isn't having eye-contact with her) and herself to his rudness and disrespect is an incredible skill which shows perfect self-control and strenght.
Having five families and neglect all those kids equally. Good job.
And be a hero 😂😂😂
“Having five families” is redpill for “5 child support payments”
So families with 3 kids don't 'neglect' the middle child I guess. Or families with 2 kids never have favorites. Time to go back to the one child policy then
@@harsh3948we get it, you're an idiot. You don't need to keep trying to prove it.
🤣😂🤣
As a person who grew up with a dad who had 6 wives and many girlfriends. I can say my mom was a single parent, I saw my dad 1 week every 4 months and when i turned 16 i never saw my dad again because he wanted to focus on his younger kids. Til this day I don't have a relationship with my dad. I'm grateful that he paid for my studies but they were years that my mom was the sole breadwinner and my dad didn't even help her out because he needed to buy a girlfriend a car and lace front wigs.
I'm sorry you've had to endure such a situation. I think it's fairly easy to see that having multiple wives/girlfriends etc is a lot of responsibility for one person. I'm not making any excuses for your dad. I'm just speaking in general terms that the family wasn't designed to function in this way. One person realistically won't be able to give the time and attention they really should.
In the UK the state is housing those other 'wives' and children for many families. They're claiming to be 'single' mothers ... even though in their religion they're 'wives'.
They guy sitting in the mic talking about spending all of his 20s fixing himself taking about being able to raise that many kids or that many families is laughable. I had both parents all my life, but dad deploying all of the time stole years away from that personal relationship and guidance growing up. He was a great father and I learned lessons from those sacrifices, but personal time and mentorship as a parent should be a top priority
@@justinhall3073 I also find it hillarious that he indirectly called himself Intelligent...and how he will make babies to raise the general IQ. Oh dear. 😅
babe were you in a cult? Because thats very unusual
She didn’t ask the question 5 different times she was simply challenging his perspective and actually made him contradict himself, hence why Justin Waller threw an emotional fit and made himself look like a fool. Respect to that woman for keeping her composure and breaking down every piece of that so called “Red Pill” douche.
Totally agree with you. I also noticed he didn't make much eye contact with her when he gave his responses.
Where did he contradict himself? Honest question.
@@Kami-oj6om "I won't simp for my daughter" & "all I care about is being a good father...". He won't be a good father if he can't simp for his own kid.
@Kami-oj6om all he said was word vomit. He began that conversation knowing he was going to make it null. I can only.imagine it's because he knows she can actually debate him solidly on many things. But, his word vomit was: first he said he had many families, then changed his wording to "could if I want to"
She followed by asking if he thought that would be ideal. He responded with "I didn't say I did that" she re-worded her question to his word vomit and he continued with (summarized) "I could if I wanted to, I'm a big family guy, and my kids would still be better off" she asks if he thinks it would make a negative impact on his children, he responds with its none of her business, he's gonna do him and she should kick rocks, saying he's better off than any Christian (not with that anger and contempt, he aint) and calls her Bible thumping. Lila rose is Catholic. As far as I know, they don't do much Bible reading. (I've never met a Catholic in my life that reads their Bible.)
If he was trying to prove his ideals and morals are better than hers, he failed miserably. But I think he was totally intimidated by her. Why? Because if you know you're solid on your ideals and can defend them, you shouldn't have to word vomit to avoid answering questions that may put you in a tight spot. And if he was just being a prick for the sake of being a prick, it shows your contempt, why accept to do the interview? I think this was a fail for him.
plus both the guys looked like they didn't agree with him they're barely made any eye contact
The guy who says "simping for his daughter" is the same type of guy who'd equate looking after his child as "babysitting".
“Most people wanna have kids not everyone wants to be parents” PREACH
RIP to all of those parents who wish they can think like yall and not have anyone of us but had us anyways and are happy about it.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957no idea what you said
I'm a Christian and submissive woman and a LOT of the Red pill Guys would make terrible, if not dangerous husband's. I'm 41 and have been married most my adult life, so fight me 😂
The red pill community seems to be having an awakening to the hypocrisy of their leaders😅
I always kept Redpill and narcissistic tendencies separated, but these goofy girl pants wearing mfs mix em all together and slurp the kool-aid...
What do you mean by a submissive husband,? Letting your husband make all the decisions in your life
@@jamelahallsdyer in the manner that is outlined in the Bible. It's a grossly Nuance subject. Do you really want to talk about it and you do comments. Sorry I don't have time for it. But I do appreciate the engagement💙
@@DBaylor197 got red pilled on the red pill
Having multiple families destroys children. Im sick of people like this. It destroyed my Mother. My Grandfather dumped his first wife with 4 kids and started a new family in another state and it messed with my Mom and her siblings. People like this are the bane of existence. They are selfish and narcissistic.
more like full-blown sociopaths...
@@CEWIII9873 that too
Same, my family is messy bc of the men having kids everywhere. Always drama. I envy the nuclear families.
@@VenusManTrap-777 make your own
It destroyed my mother as well she' in her 70's & still hurt from not getting to know her other brothers & sisters from my granddad having 5outside them
The way he speaks it’s very clear that he doesn’t have an emotional connection with his children…
I don't think he's capable of it, to be honest.
He doesn’t have any
My dad was open with his multiple girlfriends. They alk knew about each other. He had 10 or more children (i don't know all my siblings) we were all screwed up. Every single last one of us had serious relationship problems and a hard time succeeding in life. The only reason I'm okay now is because I grew up baptist and became a Christian when I was very very young. By the time I was 21 I turned my life around because of my faith and that has helped me overcome my dumb mistakes, my trauma and helped me make good decisions for my future kids i have now. Men like him be capping. If he really believed what he was saying he wouldn't be so angry and defensive about someone else's opinions on it. Especially calling Lila goodie two shoes. I'm thinking, okay dude so your saying your lifestyle, which is opposite of hers is bad right? Dude is constantly making contradictions in what he's saying. Nothing good ever comes from that way of life. Do not be fooled.
❤❤❤
Very well said ❤
Kudos to you.
God is good man
Thanks for speaking. My mother had 4 kids. We turned out alright, but that's because my Father was a strong Christian and my mother was huge on Academics (and Athletics). I think Mother got her Graduates Masters in 2018. So right now I turned 19 from a Texas Univ and I frequently call my older sister, my younger brother, and my Mom when asking for advice.
That dude's future kids are going to resent him for life.
For LIFE
He made it pretty clear he does not care.
@@champ7139 good point
What are you guys talking about he speaks FACTS😑😐
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
OK jokes asides what kid are you talking about?
Who's dumb enough to marry him AAAAHAHAAA😂🤣
@@champ7139till he’s sad and alone at a nursing home wishing he did better. It’ll be too late by then pal…
Literally no child whose dad has slept around behind their mother's back, conceiving children willy nilly thinks of him as some sort of traditional champion of family. One of the best gifts a man can give his children is A) picking their mother well and B) loving her well.
Both my husband and I came from a dad-with-multiple-families background and are determined not to repeat the cycle because of how destructive it was.
well chase said he wouldn't do it behind his wive's back. He made a point to say everyone will know and be upfront. SO I guess that means the wife is cool with the situation if he's able to do it so openly.
@@Ndasuunye isn't practicing polygamy technically illegal by law statewide in NA lol? Forget about being upfront, this n*gga should be in jail. 🤣
@Ndasuunye my doubts on how happy a woman could honestly be in that situation aside, I still have a very hard time believing that the children will grow up having positive feelings towards having a dad that has extremely divided loyalties and LARPs as the welfare state, even if he is wealthy. Who is he spending Christmas with this year? Who is he going to cut support from first if his resources dwindle? This will especially sting if they get to see families where the dad is loyal to one woman and actually comes home every if not most nights. Lavish lifestyle won't fill that void like J Waller seems to think it will.
good & same!
From a child who’s “father” had multiple families and multiple children with different women i didnt even get to know all of my brothers and sisters i grow up fatherless i have no memories of him i dont want to extend my history but when i became a teenager as i said before i didnt know all of my siblings… unfortunately i meet one of my siblings from another mother that i didnt know it was my sibling long story short we ended up having a relationship and during our relationship we found out we share the same “father” to this day im still under psychiatric treatment under the diagnose of BPD….
She definitely wasn’t annoying. She was clearly asking him similar questions to further point out how much of a hypocrite he is. And he was also dodging her questions until he finally admitted he didn’t care what his kids would think about his fuckboy nature as long as he was able to financially support them. Honestly it seems like Preach’e bias against Christianity affects how he sees Lila
He's the definition of emotional unavailability. Men like him have kids that go no contact as adults.
I stay far away from guys like him. I wouldn't have a family with him even if he'd pay me absurd money for it. He just sounds like an emotionally abusive and unavailable partner. No thank you.
@@DreamieQueenimagine having all these kids that he wants and you just get paid off and left alone by him. He’s also underestimating the amount of time he’d have to spend with each family, on top of managing whatever career he has.
@@DreamieQueen Agree, I have many great male role models In my personal life and they are all successful, married with kids and great jobs, these men would be horrified and cringe at a man like this.
And he'll congratulate himself for it.
Looks like we got some W woman in this comment thread.
God bless Lila for actually being authentic in the Catholic faith and then challenging that narcissist.
Who said she was Catholic ?
Every Catholic is a Christian but not every Christian is a Catholic.
You can be Orthodox, Protestant, Coptic or Catholic as a Christian.
Most of North America is Protestant like the sub-branches Evangelism and Puritanism.
So if have to bet my money I would say she is a Protestant.
Says the person watching narcissists who only gossip about other ppl. "React". Meanwhile, JWaller puts up steal buildings, hires people, pays women handsomely, motivates Men, and much more!
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@@dfed324 Supressing the truth
“When most men eat garbage, they eat it with a spoon; I eat my garbage with a knife and fork,” is what he was saying.
True Sigmas use chop sticks.
Great quote!
I didn't find her annoying at all. It's a podcast full of men claiming to be role modles. In a quite way she called him out and showed him to be the person he is. He showed he is a crappy person without her doing anything but asking reasonable questions. He found her annoying because she didn't back off, is everything he claims to want in women, and he knows what he is saying is bullshit. So he resorted to personal attacks. He was annoying, not her.
Straight up found it odd how he said "be the hero of the families" but having children with multiple women. No women or child in that situation is going to see you as the hero. You're the villain
Exactly, and what happens when one of the kids calls for their dad to be the hero, will they get 'sorry hun, I'm with my other family right now, it's their turn. I have other children to simp over' -.-
I actually think that wording was right on brand of most red pillers. They seem to look at the world through a very selfish lense. It’s all about what makes them happy, what they want for their families, how they feel. Most truly lack empathy and it’s part of the reason why they claim women are so “emotional”. Regardless of how the feel about it, you can not truly love someone or yourself for that matter while simultaneously pushing away your emotions. True love requires vulnerability and I just don’t believe any of those men are capable of that.
It depends to be honest. Sometimes young kids idealize the parent who is the least present. Because the parent who’s there have to do the actual parenting and it’s not always fun. A dad with multiple families is not going to be very present so I could see why some kids would see him a their hero, because he’s the "cooler" parent.
This happens even when the parent has only one family.
But yeah the kid will grow up and eventually realize that the "absent" parent wasn’t that great which leads to resentment.
@@haywoodjablowmi1427 yeah, sometimes they idolise them because if you don't spend much time with them, you don't see their flaws, you don't argue over dishes etc. it's the parent at home that is "evil" because they force you to do the homework while you only have positive memories with the absent ones when they give you an xbox for christmas or took you on vacation. but then as an adult you see the "evil" one was the "hero" one.
100% , it's the kjnd of thing you have to bd healthy to understand. It was really quite sad. I kinda feel guilty for laughing at him, he obviously has struggles.
I found it funny how he kept talking about Christianity, her being a Christian and all this stuff about religion. But, not once did she talk about her religion.... why is he so triggered?😂
Right she was just reiterating his own viewpoints and questioned his line of thinking
He is aware that he can not be a Christian and live the lifestyle he lives. And he also knows he lacks the will to say no to those vices. And is threatened by those that are capable because they're a reflection of what he isn't.
Because this guy is a textbook narcissist. Narcissists want to come across like they’re on top, they got control, they’re the man. But really, its easy to poke through their insecurity and let their real persona come out as you can see. Narcissists act real cool and high and mighty, until you start to criticize them, then they completely lose their shit. They’re truly the most toxic people on Earth.
It’s no debate for you to live your life on your terms, unapologetically. But if you have been announced that you’re gonna be a father, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the child. You can’t visit every now and then believing that you gonna be the best father, better than all fathers. That’s such a narcissistic claim to have, Bruv.
It's funny cause the "I'm living my truth unapologetically" line is typically used by the OF models on these podcasts, and the girls get roastwd for saying that mercilessly. This guy says it and it's supposed to be some kind of own to Lila 😂
What is your metric of success for fatherhood?
I can agree that this is narcissistic. But my only pushback is, carrying a child to term is completely on a woman because "her body, her choice"
I would like to assume women are wise enough to wanna know that a man has no narcissism before allowing herself to have that man's child. So if she does, then she must find his mentality acceptable to carry on.
Or else, what's the point? Date him, fuck him with contraception. But have his child? No way. UNLESS you're deep down in agreement.
@@TheOuttaPocketVarietyShow There are some dumb bimbos who get knocked up and think he'll magically become a good husband and father once the baby comes along, because they've been brainwashed by society and corny movies into thinking that having kids changes people for the better (hint: it usually doesn't).
@@harsh3948 Apparently, a great deal of men think merely earning a paycheck and living under the same roof = successful fatherhood, and then think they deserve to win Father of the Year for it.
You can’t be financially secure with a provider that is emotionally unfaithful
This should have many many more likes than it correctly does
You are absolutely right. If your survival depends on someone being attracted/amused with you in the moment then you are not actually financially secure.
We learned from a great grand mother's, our grand mothers and mothers now. That's why we aren't dating
Wouldn’t exchange my middle class dad who came home every night to any absent millionaire. The man is a gem in today’s world
THISSSS
Yes! Idk when it became all materialistic. Solid parent figures & a stable happy family is the best gift one could get at birth.
I don't believe she was annoying at all. She stood by her principles and asked consistent questions. He responded aggressively while trying to maintain a "strong" persona. Marriage or at least a stable and faithful relationship between parents is important for children growing up. And as much as some people practicing Christianity act hypocritically, the notions of the faith itself to me are pretty neat, especially when it comes to human relationships
That is one thing I find interesting, when people have an issue with Christianity it’s always about the people but not the principles themselves. I didn’t find her annoying but she didn’t know how to see that nothing she said would make him see differently so she should have moved on. My issue with him is believing that being honest about him being with multiple women and having a whole bunch of kids that he won’t have time for makes him a good father. For me the only person who can make judgment on your parenting is your child. And from the thousands of testimonies of children of fathers who had multiple families and where harsh like this man here, 90% of the time they found their fathers selfish, non loving and end up not having any relationship with their father at all.
@@itsyaaveragegirlin his delusion he believe he will be considered a "Hero" to those kids😂
@@wardiya3arbiya facts more delusional than the women they complain about
Christianity teaches that women are second class citizens.
@@sarahrobertson634 I don't believe it does. Would you mind telling me which passages in the bible you are using to make this inference?
The guy absolutely cared what that woman thinks, and his reaction and tone demonstrate it. She pointed out his hypocrisy and he knew he couldn’t defend himself, so he went on offense.
"I'm not triggered, I just think you're an annoying stupid B goody-two-shoes christian hypocrite WOMAN"
there's no hypocrisy there dummy, if u actually listened u would know that.
When he said "I'm not triggered" I actually did laugh out loud. He was the definition of triggered in that moment.
Absolutely, he seemed super triggered. I do wish she'd called him out more on his blatantly evasive/nonsensical answers, although overall she did great imo. She was very level headed and even when he called her annoying she kept her cool.
Notice he has his body turn away from her. He is curling up at times also. Insecurity
He’s just soooo…. Defensive. And I love how CHILL she is. His energy is unattractive, I don’t care how high value he is. If he is the definition, I don’t want it. Kudos to the young lady who delivered her questions respectfully and wasn’t intimidated by his aggressive comebacks.
How were they aggressive?
From the start of her question which wasn’t disrespectful, his energy toward her was extremely direct and abrasive as though he was trying to “own” the conversation when she simply asked his opinion. He read and assumed the intention behind her question as an attack and therefore came off defensive, it’s all over his energy and body language. Even if that was her intention and not simply a question out of curiosity, I’ve seen more masculine and high value men answer definitively in their stance without being dismissive to the other persons opinion. Look up Bobby Price speaking on a panel, that’s a high value, masculine man that can respectfully disagree with his opponent and still “own” the conversation without needing to be aggressive. His defensiveness leads me to think he has doubts in his argument and potentially feels exposed.
@willalareche1699 perhaps you are getting defensive because of how he said it? He spoke rather calm and collected. What part are you talking about specifically?
@@LAZER904 I disagree, if you look at the women’s faces in the room they are also picking up on the tension starting from his response and his demeanor. It may have been a calm tone and pitch but the sharpness and dismissiveness in her opinions when they were both equally engaging suggests he was annoyed. You don’t have to raise your voice to be aggressive. He could be direct and sharp without being dismissive of her perspective as though he was scolding a child. There’s a huuggge difference. I have a friend who has a similar personality to him and she often has to work on her own because she easily offends others. Leaders know how to control the atmosphere in a room and enable others to feel at ease. There’s different kinds of styles of course but in a podcast, a conversation between the two opposing views would make it a great panel. He alienated her and caused the other girls most likely to shut up for the remainder of the interview because well, they most likely won’t want his smoke. It was unnecessary.
@willalareche1699 that's because women are incapable of thinking objectively and listen to how something is said instead of what is said. That isn't our fault. I still don't see where he was out of line
Let's hypothetically go through this scenario. You're a dad with kids in multiple families, you make all the money for those families but you don't have time to actually physically be there and play catch with all your 8 kids spread across like 4 families, you're just a money provider. LITERALLY what is the difference between you and the welfare state in practice??? I thought these guys hate the welfare state but all they seem to be doing is roleplaying as it.
TRUE ESSENTIALLY CHILD SUPPORT
If he thinks having multiple woman and children is a family then he has no idea of what family is.
He has no regard to emotional and nurturing aspect that’s needed for both the mother and the children.
🎯🎯🎯
They're probably fans of Nick Canon lol
💯 nailed it
I think Lila asked those questions not to make the guy on the table see the fault in his logic, but to the thousands of men who have no actual guidance in their lives, who watch these podcasts and fall for ideologies like his, trying to make THEM see that this red pill "life" isn't all its cut out to be. She did a great job, continue to do what you do girl!
Yep she played it calm and cool. And hopefully helped some dudes deter from following this guys footsteps.
Yeah, this is a good take. It would be one thing for her to try to convince him out of his lifestyle within one conversation on a podcast, but to instead warn the men watching the video who seem to look up to this loser of a man is gonna have a far greater impact.
@@CrowandRaven my thoughts exactly, if she had been trying to convince him, it would have ended on the second or even first question but she kept prying, to the annoyance of Aba and the dude lol
And she wants all those men to become Catholics and be anti-abortion. She's also a horrible person who would say rape victims should have a rapist baby.
@@CrowandRaven that "loser" of a man is a multimillionaire. With endless women who want to lock him down but he doesn't let them. Nothing pisses women off more than top men rejecting commitment. Now avg guys are too. It's why the net and news is full of women in 30s complaining they cant find a husband.
She kept her composure and handled herself with grace. She was the only girl on that panel willing to challenge any of his beliefs. I wonder who is really the backwards, judgmental, and hypocritical person, this Red Pill guy or the Christian lady.
Both
@KonKairwell, tbf this is supposed to b a podcast and it sounded like they were talkin about whether this was good for society or not. And then again, even if that’s not exactly what the larger conversation was specifically about, that’s what these podcasts r always about anyway. Telling bimbos from the street that the way they r living their lives is ridiculous. The only difference is that, this time, the bimbo was a guy. Lol
Love for the elegant Dr. Lila Rose!
@KonKair but they are on shows like that so their views on life would be challanged... I fail to see the point
@KonKairon a panel like that everyone is allowed to share their opinions. Any of those girls and guys could have chimed in and said what they wanted. Why is is a problem if a Christian does it?
Nick Cannon seems to have "accomplished" the harem thing, but he is literally working himself to death.
My grandfather had three wives at the same time. He had a total of 24 children. I can tell you from experience that none of his children became good parents, my mom included. They grew up in loveless homes with a father that was never present.
@@CEWIII9873 none. We don’t come from a culture where multiple wives is common, either. This isn’t something to be proud of.
How was that even possible, I mean legally?
@@Franzifii this was in Mexico, so a man and a woman living together meant they were married. He only legally married the last one and she was 15 to his 30ish.
@@CEWIII9873that’s stupid if he didn’t raise them right , why would he expect them to become something he can be proud and take credit for
@@estephania5882 Ah, I see!
If this is what a "high value man" looks like, I'll head straight to the bottom tier. This guy couldn't be anymore defensive. How many times does he have to assert his security as a man? His lack of self awareness is incredible. A man this fragile is riddled with insecurity. Delusion, need for external validation, and self servitude somehow became something honorable among the red pills, and they can't handle when their hypocrisy is noticed by others.
Because the teachings of the RP have been twisted to grifting.
Perhaps this was inevitable because in the beginning it was a powerful, but ill-defined and not centrally controlled...
He acts like a ticking time bomb. I'm good, next
right even his posture the dude can't even look at her in the eyes it's embarrassing truly
@noracharef6901 lots of guys look up to these kinds of guys and think "yeah with his guidance I'll succeed as a husband/boyfriend "
@@samuelalvarez9045 I know it's something I can't understand it's pretty sad to see
As a conservative I hate that this so called “red pill” influencers are portrayed as conservatives. We don’t claim them we don’t agree with them
you own them because you intersect on MANY issues
@@CEWIII9873that doesn’t make any sense at all. Conservatives stand for the complete opposite of what this guy believes with regards to the traditional family. Your prejudice is showing
@@vivyvocalist723 "prejudice?"
Like when you guys support Nick Fuentes?
@@CEWIII9873 Who is “you”? Christians are not a monolith.
@@vivyvocalist723 Sure they are.
You believe in handling snakes, speaking in tongues and most of all in an invisible sky wizard daddy.
Your BS religion is entirely an accident of geography, because had you been born in India - you would be Hindu.
Thank you, Aba for pointing out that narcissistic guy never talked about loving his hypothetical kids, just overly spoiling them.
The Christian lady wasn't annoying, shes the only one who had the courage to challenge him on his beliefs or values or whatever it is he called it. And he is definitely triggered by her because he can tell she sees through his BS and hypocrisy.
any young man who is looking for some guidance in life, PLEASE do not turn to guys like Justin...there is nothing more rewarding than being a dad and having a supportive wife, but that is something they will never talk about.
Exactly. These red pill guys are just lame
none of your buisness. They can listen to whoever they want.
Based
No it isnt.
@@arkomazumder1782cry
In terms of her being "annoying" He wasn't answering her questions. Not the way she was asking them. He was deflecting with his responses. She was asking if living that lifestyle wouldn't affect the kids. his answer was literally "I Don't Care" and he said it in different ways. So rather than her telling him "you're not answering the questions" she kept asking the question a different way and EVENTUALLY he answered it. As someone who does something similar people start to call me "annoying" when I ask them things that make them reflect. They hate it, especially those that aren't humble enough to listen. They want to live life a certain way. Yes we all know he doesn't care what she had to say but you have to remember its a podcast. With Viewers. The goal is for viewers to see different points of views and she held her composure and wanted to dig deep and he HATED IT as most people do when they aren't humble and instead are arrogant.
How a person reacts to Socratic questioning reveals a lot about them 😂
Hard agree she was clearly pushing him to answer the questions not just that she was pushing him to answer her questions stupidly bro straight up said he doesnt care about his kids feelings and said that he doesnt have self control😂
Thank you. I thought the she’s annoying remark was low and unnecessary from Preach’s part. The reason why she pressed so hard to get an answer from him isn’t necessarily because she cares about his opinion. It was because that guest represents an entire community who promotes a selfish, immoral and materialistic lifestyle that will harm society in the long run. A community that actively watches that podcast.
This is just my opinion so I may be wrong, but I think Preach’s cynicism towards Christianity made him put himself in the position of the guest being berated by the finger wagging Christian, regardless of Lila’s intentions in the context of that specific argument.
@@lulu_749 post religious trauma is legit. Can't fault a person for it, just be aware that they can't think clearly insofar as their former religion is concerned.
i totally agree, i wish this comment would get pinned
The poster child for “money doesn’t buy you class or standards” what a clown.
She definitely wasn't annoying. He was very insecure and easily agitated. He didn't actually answer the question at all, on several occasions. All he said was he doesn't care. I think she was just emphasising the stupidity of his opinion.
She wasn't annoying at all
I do think she was annoying. She kept saying "you dont think that this? So you don't think that that?"
Yes he doesn't think that, that's what he just said.
Don't get me wrong, I think he is out of his mind. But she is being manipulative. When she says "so you don't think it's gonna be hard for your kids?" What she means is "I think this is gonna be hard on your kids", but then he will say "I don't care what you think", so she's just reframing her opinion as a question.
“Redpill VS Christian” is an interesting dynamic. Reveals how different these two belief systems really are.
Beta Redpill vs Chad Christianity for the Win
More like red pull being similar to how the average local preacher lives sadly lol
All it means is,
Redpill - you have an idea of how things should be
Christianity - you have an understanding of how things should be
@@thebacklashwaveVuh, what?
Both are losers lol
This man will die alone in a hospital bed with none of his children present around him. Seen it many times. They will be as heartless as he is, and all they will want from him is inheritance..
👌🏽excellent
No different then any other scanless person when it comes to money
I am a hospice nurse. This is true thankfully 😁
A lot of good people die alone in bed too so that's not really a very good argument.
@@diehardernxgt2161 I wasn’t talking about other people. I was talking about this guy
This guy is the last person that should have children.
Thank you for speaking on this. I was raised Muslim and my father married another wife and started a whole other family. It was devastating to us as his kids, and to my mother. He was never an involved father and after his second marriage we barely saw him and when we did he was exhausted and there was so much tension in the household. The trust in our family was broken. Because his other children are younger they needed more attention and time/money and we certainly felt it. It’s taken years of therapy to undo the trauma from that situation so I could learn to trust men again. Even still it affects me negatively, my relationship with both my parents is non existent. It destroyed us as a family all under the guise of “it’s his right to marry multiple wives” as part of the Muslim religion. Theoretically he should have divided his time and resources equally, but from a practical standpoint it’s impossible. I agree, it’s not good for society or the individuals in that situation even the man who is stupid enough to think it’s a good idea. As a child I would have preferred they just get divorced that way my mom could move on too and it wouldn’t be as confusing.
Your story is really compelling. This fool is just delusional.
How were you and your mom so deficient your father had no choice BUT to start another family?
Well if only your mom pulled her weight.
Bad news for you, he actually does not have to divide his time equally. Even the prophet Muhammad never treated his wives equally
@@CEWIII9873 you tell me. Tell me how they were deficient. Go ahead
Maintained well but raised wrong…financial needs met but emotional & mental needs aren’t…celebrities children are a good example of this…
Prime example these day: Hunter Biden
Yep. Children need that emotional connection with their parents. It's good for their development. This man treats it as some weird transactional thing and his kids will resent him for it. He's just an idiot lmao
As an ex-muslim I find it hilarious that Preach can freely say that Christianity is full of contradictions / hypocrisy.
Meanwhile, if an ex-muslim like myself would do it, I would risk my life lol
yeah
@@vipr1142 but who is stopping you from saying anything here?
“I spent my 20’s trying to fix myself”
Translation: I spent my 20’s doing absolutely nothing to fix myself.
This is man who has no moral compass. If he thinks he can get away something, he will do it. He lives in “the truth” (his truth). His children will never know a father’s love. They will never have a father to read stories to them at night, teach them to ride a bike, take them to practice, or teach them to drive a car. His value as a man starts and stops at the money he provides.
This is what clinical narcissism looks like.
Yeah, I think for both men and women, we are failing to see that there's a lot of highly functional people that are mentally deranged. This dude is mentally sick enough to see himself as the hero of his story and may die not realizing that he was a villain all along.
People like him serve to reinforce my firm belief that someone can be financially highly successful and still be a complete loser.
@@juanbarbosa1405Fkn facts
I don't think you understand. He doesn't want to say what he really means, so let me explain.
When he says he was fixing himself what he means is the he was trying to impress women. That's all there is for those redpill dudes. They must have failed to get women at some point, which made them obssess over it(partly due to how society treats men who don't have success with women). Which is why they have this grind mindset, because they want to impress women with their success. Just look at what they talk about.
This is the personality women like.
Be the bad boy she always wanted.
Etc.
He can't outright say it because he makes fun of simps for being nice to women in hopes of earning affection from her. But the only reason he isn't a simp is because woman don't like simps, if they did he would be the biggest simp. His entire life revolves around women, and he doesn't want to admit this.
This is the answer to her question of why he can't commit to just one woman. It's because he worked far too hard in becoming a man women want that he won't be satisfied getting just one. His ego wouldn't allow it.
@@AngryReptileKeeperusually those who are very well of financially are that way because it's all they have ever valued or been taught to value, unfortunately.
It’s actually really sad. He pretty much cannot experience love. That’s really very sad. Not caring how your conduct affects your children is a bad sign.
They never mention wanting to raise good, virtuous, honorable children either. They don't want to raise their child. They really think money and "providing" will achieve everything. If that were the case, children whose only interaction with their father was a child support check would be the best people in our society
Multiple times he's said he will impart his skills, knowledge, and wisdom onto them so that they could be equipped to handle the world. Turn on your listening ears.
@@EriPages And how will he do that equally to all 100 kids he stated he will have with the multiple wives??? You are deaf and stupid. 🤪🤦 He clearly doesn't care about the kids... he is a sociopath pos.
@@EriPages Never heard love and care, also he mostly talked about paying for their education and travel. The “values” he talked about instilling is basically his kids simping for him because he’s “such a great role model”
"They really think money and "providing" will achieve everything."
They think money IS providing. That's the beginning and end of that thought process. They think that as long as they can throw money at their woman and kids, they've won Father/Husband of the year.
I'm surprised he's even talking about money. Aren't these men the same that complain about women only wanting money and how that makes them golddigger? Probably is the only thing he can offer.
My dad is upper-middle class, but we didn’t used to always be that way. When I was a kid, we were poor. Had no money. My parents almost couldn’t afford the hospital bills from my siblings birth had it not been for charity that paid them off. My dad is not perfect, but he works hard, and was there in my life. He showed up to all my ballet recitals and would take me fishing and we would do everything together as a kid. I would never ever ever dream of trading him for some narcissistic rich millionaire who thinks money is all that matters and he can be the “hero” for that. I don’t need a hero, I need a father, even now as an adult. I feel so sorry for the kid that has him as a father one day.
My dad was very present and one of the kindest people I have ever met. He was definitely not rich, but we miss him ever single day. Funny enough in my culture polygamy is practiced and he said it destabilizes societies. It never works well from what I’ve seen. This guy sounds like the men in my community who think that children and women are just accessories to inflate their egos. And typically in these families with the rich men the kids and women end up just waiting till they die to fight for his assets. I’ve seen it so many times even in my own family. There is a lot of generational trauma that is created from these men who simply want to “spread their seed”. They lack social and personal responsibility.
The almighty dollar is darn curse that got a hold of this man soul and he doesn’t even realize it . But on serious note I definitely want to be there for my future kids even and do a lots of fun activities together and be there for my future wife to and we both work hard to make it happen and yes money is needed but memories and experiences are important to.
My dad worked his ass off, 2 jobs all my life. Tagging along on his second jobs and working with him in the yard were more meaningful than the trips to amusement parks, gifts, and vacations. Hands down.
I have 4 sisters and we all adored our father and he treated us great and provided all while teaching us to take shit from no one but treat everyone with kindness. After hearing this guy I am even more thankful for having him as a father.
Fr, listening to this narcissist has now made me appreciate my father a lot more.
Amen to that! One of the best benefits of having a great father in your life is a good chance as finding a partner with similar values. My father is one of the greatest blessings in my life. And so fortunate to have a good man as well🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Yeah, thank God I have a good dad and lot of good man (my brother, my uncles, and my grandpa) around when I grew up.
I also thank God for my dad....he had his faults but this one is serious 😂
How sad for kids to have to share their dad with other families.
"Most people wanna have kids, but most people dont wanna be parents. Kids are like possessions and parent is a role." Well put Erich.
“I’d never simp for my daughter” this word simp is just being overused at times when it doesn’t need to be used. Simping is in regards to interactions where someone is trying to either romantically or sexually get with someone else
Gonna have to get used to it. Nowadays the original meaning of words seem to change or become buzzwords.
@@champ7139 it’s really sad. As Preach mentioned, it’s just awkward
Simping does not just mean having interactions for sexual favors. Its you putting in way more of the effort then the other while receiving very little back. It’s like you buying things for your wife, daughter or son things that they want like expensive clothes, phone, game, car and they respond to that by disrespecting you and not appreciating that. Now if ur a parent you need to buy them what they need but that’s it they will need to show some level of respect to get the things they want.
@@champ7139 Yeah I'm a full-on rapist, Um. Africans, dyslexics, children that sort of thing.
the fact that the thought of his children cutting him out of their lives was at the forefront of his mind is telling. he’s ABSOLUTELY expecting his kids to want nothing to do with him. why the hell would he have them?
because he feels having a "legacy" is sufficient, and actually providing for them is unimportant...
@@CEWIII9873 but the thing is, no one’s going to remember who this guy is. so many men talk about leaving a legacy when no one even really cares. it’s an inflated sense of self.
@@hardcandy71287Some people in my family that passed I forgot what they looked like because they weren't family oriented, they were not around and very few pictures 😢
Everyone wants a “traditional” partner, without being traditional partners themselves.
I grew up with an abusive dad who had plenty of money and whose only way of apologizing was buying me food/stuff. There was a point where i didnt want anything i just wanted a hug and a sorry. Because of this i had ptsd & attachment issues. I may not have struggled financially but the saying is very true that money isnt everything. Don't believe these men that say the only real way to be a man is being rich. You need a heart as well
Sorry to hear that for you. I’m glad that you were able to put that in your past.
I find it interesting that most of these redpill guys and their followers can never seem to discuss how they will dedicate and multiply their love as easy as riches. You won’t hear them speak on the Bible way of loving your(wife) like, love her as yourself, provide, protect and cover her, be willing to give your life for her as the Son gave His life. Unfortunately, most fall short with just providing finances
at least you got something out of it, some didn't get anything else
To these red pillers being cold hearted and unhappy is what attracts desirable women. But honeslty its what drives them away.
Damaged goods smh.... I feel sorry for you and the upcoming man that's gonna suffer bcs of that
@@detectivetap9119 As if a person can't grow and mature? I'm actually happily married going 3 yrs and have a beautiful kid while you're typing behind a screen being bitter to a stranger who has more self-awareness than you.
The fact that he’s so hostile when answering simple questions from that woman tell me everything I need to know.
You would think the only girl a man would truly simp over in terms of making sure she has everything she needs and her happiness is his daughter.
There has to be a limit though 'cus that kind of just sounds like being spoiled.
@@CharlesNauck i think common sense says dont raise your daughter to be a spoiled brat. But if there is anyone in your life you’re gonna go the extra mile for, it should be your kid.
@@kant5696 I see spoiled brats all the time bruh wym.
@@1PlebeianWhat do you mean? He is just saying to raise kids right. Those brats you see weren't raised right.
Nah fuck that cuz then we get entitled pompous brats men and women u can simp for ur kids but at some point I gotta teach them how the world works however this dude in the vid is fkn saying some stupid and hypocritical shit
That dude is an actual sociopath