Redpill Teaches You "How To Train Your Wife"... ITS WORSE THAN YOU IMAGINE.

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  • @Woog87
    @Woog87 Год назад +5632

    Having your partner living in fear isn't manly, it's cowardly.

    • @MilahanPhilosophersCorner
      @MilahanPhilosophersCorner Год назад +88

      Exactly 💯

    • @neilis2405
      @neilis2405 Год назад +243

      Yep. It's like to them the girl ain't good till she's traumatized.

    • @hadbetterdays8118
      @hadbetterdays8118 Год назад +112

      And disgusting

    • @Crueltea
      @Crueltea Год назад +81

      Seriously, look how terrified she looked while he was ordering at the restaurant

    • @ChrisSimpiamson3
      @ChrisSimpiamson3 Год назад +23

      While I wouldn't go about things the way Donovan does I think people are soft and make a big deal out of the phrase "train your wife". Most western women have bad habits for a relationship and those habits need to be "trained" out of them. Also A&P and Destiny's audience is just filled with a bunch of 80%ers that promote complacency and mediocrity.

  • @baAz200
    @baAz200 Год назад +3431

    As a woman I can confirm that I take my phone in the bathroom, but all I do is watch Aba & Preach until my legs are numb.

    • @Jester8087
      @Jester8087 Год назад +123

      Or reading a good news paper🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @amandahicks9858
      @amandahicks9858 Год назад +48

      Same😅

    • @msice-eq2qb
      @msice-eq2qb Год назад +221

      Pack ya bags it's over

    • @wayneious
      @wayneious Год назад +19

      Sounds like dime store romance novel story line.

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 Год назад +91

      😂😂😭 Gotchu wobbling when you stand up and walk away 💀

  • @hildthelfld1154
    @hildthelfld1154 Год назад +453

    Love is not controlling, or manipulation.
    It's about communication, respect, and patience.

    • @RainForestLeDoux
      @RainForestLeDoux 9 месяцев назад +10

      Thank you healthy person..
      For a min I thought I was crazy thinking this lol.

    • @thecalmingspace7242
      @thecalmingspace7242 9 месяцев назад

      The red pillers love a good trauma bond! They love an unhealthy dynamic, because they LOVE control and manipulation. Its what makes them feel better about their failings and inadequacies.

    • @alastor718
      @alastor718 8 месяцев назад +4

      You're not me and my wife have been together for almost 10years.
      these red pillers are almost just as bad as these man hating feminist most of their advice is horrible

    • @hildthelfld1154
      @hildthelfld1154 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@alastor718 praise the lord, each is there own. I should say; this is what I feel would be a no for me in a relationship...

    • @spirit_gun3869
      @spirit_gun3869 Месяц назад

      Yeah that's exacly what i want them to believe

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 Год назад +1038

    Her having a baby at 13 isn’t a red flag on her, it’s a red dot on that man’s house! Red pill is really big on blaming extremely young girls for being abused and it’s gross.

    • @thebeamli
      @thebeamli Год назад +126

      Thank you. Chilldren can not consent to sex. 2nd, there's no way a judge or jury would side with a 13 yr old on this matter. 3rd, I'm sorry, but what grown man gets with someone who's barely legal? 19 and 31 🤢

    • @crowley3000
      @crowley3000 Год назад +38

      I wonder how old was that man who impregnated her.....

    • @ConsuelaAllen923
      @ConsuelaAllen923 Год назад +3

      @@thebeamli *wouldn't?

    • @cristianproust
      @cristianproust Год назад +13

      The Red Pill indeed it is a cringe group with absurd ideas. But I never met someone that had a kid that young that was not a complete mess,
      because well structured families don't have that problem.
      Is not only her, but the family values and behaviors in which she grew up are dysfunctional. Yeah, a red flag it is. It would be the same as asking a girl to ignore that a man went to jail.
      He could be a fantastic person, but the probability that is something seriously wrong is there

    • @missinterpretation4984
      @missinterpretation4984 Год назад +31

      @@cristianproust I’m sure she was from a messed up family, IDGAF. It’s still not a red flag on her. This man at 31 dating a 19 year old and talking about red flags is the red flag.

  • @trademark314
    @trademark314 Год назад +3421

    Dude was 31 and got his heart broken by a 19 year old. I couldn’t imagine someone ever looking this terrible

    • @GothVibeWars
      @GothVibeWars Год назад +310

      You should have a problem with the fact that a 31 year old was dating a 19 year old, not that he looks pathetic or got played…

    • @Wilbur-mj3fq
      @Wilbur-mj3fq Год назад +187

      And now he gets triggered by bringing a phone into the bathroom 😅

    • @dragonfireideas
      @dragonfireideas Год назад +48

      He must have been terribly lonely.

    • @thegreatestever913
      @thegreatestever913 Год назад +125

      @@GothVibeWars what's the issue? Young women love older men and vice versa

    • @jibrael5705
      @jibrael5705 Год назад +88

      @@GothVibeWars That's a non issue

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous Год назад +4990

    Prime example why I do not take 90% of these “red pill dating gurus” seriously because they be speaking fluent CAPanese 🧢

    • @mightguysseconddisciple8670
      @mightguysseconddisciple8670 Год назад

      Facts, they sell a dream and don’t actually live it, they just trying to get paid off men who don’t know how to talk to women

    • @shortsbetacompil5523
      @shortsbetacompil5523 Год назад +97

      Is Donovan woman alright in her head ?

    • @DopeDevastation
      @DopeDevastation Год назад +129

      Doesn't mean everything they say is wrong, they just come up with the worst solutions for the (PROBLEMS) not enough self reflection mixed with wisdom

    • @improbablyyourdad8458
      @improbablyyourdad8458 Год назад +253

      They be speaking trauma

    • @fenrix7160
      @fenrix7160 Год назад +25

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashakih1649
    @ashakih1649 Год назад +212

    I was in a physically abusive relationship for years. That's how it looked on the outside. I was "respectful".

  • @mr.sweatshirts6004
    @mr.sweatshirts6004 8 месяцев назад +112

    31 chasing a 19 yr old this hard is wild. And the audacity to make a platform to how to be a dominant man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @l3loodforpride426
      @l3loodforpride426 8 месяцев назад +4

      @mr.sweatshirts6004 Hey hey he's a alpha lol😂😂😂

  • @stubbywankenobi1
    @stubbywankenobi1 Год назад +3304

    It’s weird that he wants her to act like a kidnap victim. She literally has all the classic signs of domestic abuse

    • @wolfhawk1999
      @wolfhawk1999 Год назад +95

      Yeah, that's borderline abusive behavior

    • @leg0land100
      @leg0land100 Год назад

      It brings in the money from dumbass that believe this shit and follow him

    • @neilis2405
      @neilis2405 Год назад +289

      @@wolfhawk1999 BORDERLINE? That's like saying syrup is borderline sweet.

    • @kadebebesis4204
      @kadebebesis4204 Год назад +193

      @@wolfhawk1999 it’s abuse. Emotional or physical, abuse is abuse. Just cause we didn’t see him punch her doesn’t mean it’s not abuse.

    • @boystobusiness
      @boystobusiness Год назад +68

      It’s not domestic abuse if she is voluntarily doing it. Let’s stop making women the victim every time, they are both weirdos in my opinion

  • @hztohelp
    @hztohelp Год назад +9906

    I didn't think another man could reach Skippy levels of cringe, but here we are.

    • @nfsking27
      @nfsking27 Год назад +190

      Yooooo I was thinking the same thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tresphorempundu3185
      @tresphorempundu3185 Год назад +93

      Here we are indeed 🤦

    • @indianv1
      @indianv1 Год назад +151

      I knew the cringe levels were familiar!!!

    • @neeru7298
      @neeru7298 Год назад +14

      Yap

    • @WaffleStomper69
      @WaffleStomper69 Год назад +69

      We need to merge the cringe and have Skippy take this guy's world famous master class and try it out in the wild.

  • @MizzBellaKitty
    @MizzBellaKitty 7 месяцев назад +40

    “Ladies, don’t pretend you’ve never texted an ex in the bathroom.” I’ve never once felt the need to sneak off and text someone who will most likely bring my anxiety up into a panic attack.

  • @nutmegsonuttz8854
    @nutmegsonuttz8854 Год назад +443

    My best friend was "trained" by her ex POS. He acted just like this. Literally looked like acting irl. It's weird af to witness. It took her finding female clothes that weren't hers to leave, not the beatings, emotional abuse, or mental control

    • @42billybob
      @42billybob Год назад +39

      Beatings and emotional abuse are presented as punishment or discipline. Or spun as though it's because they feel such passion for their partner that they lose control when they feel betrayed. The victim is made to feel like they're responsible for any given incident of violence by stepping out of line.
      Cheating is just a violation of the terms of the relationship. You can't play that off as "I did that to punish you" if the victim had to figure it out on their own. And the whole obsessively passionate person who can't control their temper narrative falls apart when they direct that passion at someone else. That's why it'll snap a victim out of it better than beatings will. Cheating breaks the bubble abusers keep their victims in.

    • @skuzzlebutt9745
      @skuzzlebutt9745 Год назад

      @@42billybobwoman need to be obedient to the man. He is giving lots of resources so he needs to make sure you’re body count is down because he has to cheat for his biology

    • @wherethedarkfindslight4481
      @wherethedarkfindslight4481 Год назад +7

      Same thing happened with my mom.....he is in jail for beating her (because of us not her calling the cops and him being a felon already) but she is still talking to him and says "we need to find it in our heart to forgive because everyone makes mistakes"...... like he hasn't beat her for over 3 years....

    • @nutmegsonuttz8854
      @nutmegsonuttz8854 Год назад +3

      @42billybob damn, that puts a lot of sense in a nonsense situation.

    • @nutmegsonuttz8854
      @nutmegsonuttz8854 Год назад +2

      @wherethedarkfindslight4481 it's terrible to be so close to a person and not being able to snap them out of it. I was the last of her friends and family who still allowed her to bring her ex with her to chill (because she wasn't aloud to leave the house otherwise). I did that to keep her close so she had somewhere to go when she realized his "love and passion" was literally abuse. She didn't even realize until months after she left him, how many times she was graped by him. Since it was her partner, she didn't think it counted as grape 😞

  • @MachineGunKali
    @MachineGunKali Год назад +521

    This man, at 31, got his heart SHATTERED by a 19 year old and hasn’t recovered yet. 😂😂😂😂

    • @Dreweybaby
      @Dreweybaby Год назад +12

      🤣💀🤣 @ recovered yet

    • @JDMHaze
      @JDMHaze Год назад +16

      lmaoo😂😂 “heart SHATTERED” lmaoo😂😂

    • @kevensevenonreverend
      @kevensevenonreverend Год назад

      😂😂😂

    • @TheCraydee
      @TheCraydee Год назад +12

      19 year old heroic addict single mother

    • @MachineGunKali
      @MachineGunKali Год назад +7

      @@TheCraydee when he said, “and it gets worse”, he was not bullshitting

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 Год назад +3619

    A grown ass man acting this insecure and controlling to prove how "alpha" he is, only to prove how toxic this behavior is in a relationship. Also, the term "well trained" is wild bruh.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 Год назад +1

      He needs a dog, not a woman. I'd like to know who follows this crap?

    • @PepeToTheMooon
      @PepeToTheMooon Год назад +228

      There are sadly dudes out there who will take his advice…and they will be single forever because of it

    • @taylormade9748
      @taylormade9748 Год назад +158

      @@PepeToTheMooon it’s crazy that some men are desperate enough for help that they’ll let this guy lead them. He’s ridiculous

    • @PepeToTheMooon
      @PepeToTheMooon Год назад +67

      @@taylormade9748 yep all of his advice is comical

    • @TRC19999
      @TRC19999 Год назад +49

      The funniest thing is he blocks all criticism on his videos

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr10 Год назад +65

    This is abuse plain & simple. She is essentially acting exactly like a Hostage.

  • @arawilson
    @arawilson Год назад +75

    31, dating a 19 year old drug addict with some sad past, borrowing money, hits bottom & still goes back -- and THAT's his takeaway? There was a whole mess of other ways to remedy that experience going forward.

  • @wewereonlyseven9325
    @wewereonlyseven9325 Год назад +2045

    …. The fact that he admits to being 31.. and STRESSING over a 19 year old, needs to be a wake up call for A LOT of red pill men who follow people like him😬

    • @MikeBarbarossa
      @MikeBarbarossa Год назад +160

      This is a seeekness

    • @BuffKangaroo1
      @BuffKangaroo1 Год назад +20

      I don't get what's the big deal if she's legal

    • @sebastianziegler8960
      @sebastianziegler8960 Год назад +204

      @@BuffKangaroo1 ooh yikes, maybe don't say that bro

    • @c4llmeifigetlost485
      @c4llmeifigetlost485 Год назад

      @@BuffKangaroo1 legality ≠ morality.

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 Год назад +66

      I don’t think most red pill men are following him. I haven’t even heard of this guy until Aba and Preach started putting him on blast.

  • @blaccpanther8715
    @blaccpanther8715 Год назад +2426

    I actually respect the vulnerability, brave of him to humiliate himself unprovoked

    • @plzletmebefrank
      @plzletmebefrank Год назад

      Indeed. And with a story that sounds entirely made up. I mean... This dude is a liar. That's been established. And that story is whack. So he's very willingly humiliating himself with a story he's at least made additions to for dramatic effect... For what. To be an infamous asshole online?

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi Год назад +43

      🤣

    • @eurekaliza
      @eurekaliza Год назад +50

      This should be the title of the video 😂

    • @belovedgoddess8637
      @belovedgoddess8637 Год назад +4

      🤣😂🤣😂😂😂

    • @elfboy676
      @elfboy676 Год назад +30

      I don't know. At this point I think it is a kink.

  • @misspuddin87
    @misspuddin87 Год назад +96

    I had a partner like this, always in my phone and tracking my moves. I finally realized his insecurity had no end when I learned not to speak or look at men. One day he accused me of making a noise when we passed a group of men... I didn't make a noise but he started an argument over this imaginary noise. We weren't together much longer.

    • @ultraboombean
      @ultraboombean Год назад +12

      My mom and I had to flee from her boyfriend a few years back.. He was cheating but was accusing of her of cheating with random ass people or at random times.. Man that stuff is such a red flag.

    • @MoreToThePicture
      @MoreToThePicture Год назад +6

      Glad you got out from the relationship before it got worse

    • @Historian4real
      @Historian4real 4 месяца назад

      Lies. You a thot who mad you could not able to cheat on your man

  • @emimon2351
    @emimon2351 Год назад +30

    Just FYI, I've heard and seen the EXACT SAME story, word for word, the same girl, same age, same baby daddy in prison, same birthday tattoo etc. in EVERY manosphere forums, threads, channels, etc.
    Maybe based on a true story that happened to someone once, but tons of guys in the redpill community have picked up the tale and re-using it.

  • @jamesdagmond
    @jamesdagmond Год назад +761

    If you can't trust your woman to be on her phone in another room, you don't belong in a relationship. 😂

    • @GodWorksOut
      @GodWorksOut Год назад

      No man belongs in a relationship then because all girls have secrets on their phone

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I Год назад +1

      Women are the ones who want the relationship though not men

    • @mollygriffin5474
      @mollygriffin5474 Год назад

      @@TheShowOff2I 🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I Год назад

      @@mollygriffin5474
      Yes big red flag
      women are the ones who benefit from relationships and they manipulate men into thinking that the men are the ones who benefit when it’s the opposite

    • @schokococoa575
      @schokococoa575 Год назад +107

      @@TheShowOff2I if it were only women, then why do men make these videos for relationships😂

  • @jstiggers10
    @jstiggers10 Год назад +1539

    The fact that he’s telling the story to make the female look bad is absolutely hilarious to me.

    • @shiningdragon8737
      @shiningdragon8737 Год назад +60

      The story wasn't to make her look back, it was to make him look bad and sell how he grew from it so he can sell it to his audience.

    • @Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo
      @Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo Год назад +6

      You don't have to tell stories to guys to make females look bad, y'all general behavior is enough of a display to us.

    • @KNEWERAADVERTISING
      @KNEWERAADVERTISING Год назад +15

      Police are trained, soldiers are trained, nurses are trained, doctors are trained, electricians are trained, plumbers are trained before they earn the Qualification to have the Title/Role of their profession. Being a husband is a title/role, being a wife is a Title/Role. There are responsibilities required and expected from being a wife and being a husband. There is nothing wrong with training your wife just as there is nothing wrong with training your husband if it's consensual to learn the things their wife or husband likes and DO them to make their spouse HAPPY. Couples should do things to make their significant other Content in the relationship.

    • @Jankyito
      @Jankyito Год назад

      @@KNEWERAADVERTISING the fact is that when these red pillers say to train your wife they don't mean teach each other how to be better lovers and life partners, they mean make her submit to you like a legal slave.

    • @shiningdragon8737
      @shiningdragon8737 Год назад +1

      @@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo I agree.

  • @gosiazachoszcz1367
    @gosiazachoszcz1367 Год назад +102

    I think they call this a narcissistic personality disorder in a relationship 😂

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 4 месяца назад +3

      This is exactly what it is. I was in a relationship just like this. He definitely got his degree from the University of Kevin Samuels. I would push back, and he would psychologically punish me. Nevous system was alllllll fucked up. Never again. Never. Again.

  • @TeeTeeAnTj
    @TeeTeeAnTj Год назад +23

    My pops taught me in a lot of situations the man walks behind everyone because you can’t keep an eye on everyone from the front. Then i seen how wolves travel and the pack leader is far enough behind he can see everyone and respond in case of emergency. These guys do so much posturing it’s ridiculous
    But like preach said in situations where you are unsure you lead.

  • @maruchikayo1764
    @maruchikayo1764 Год назад +1466

    Big man is how old and he acted like a boy fresh out of highschool? He reeks of loser for getting into that situation at 31...

    • @mattcaston9546
      @mattcaston9546 Год назад +89

      He's a black red-pilled Skippy with better physicality

    • @drewmungus5841
      @drewmungus5841 Год назад +145

      @@mattcaston9546 better by a very small margin. His voice is almost more annoying too lmao

    • @jnightmare0
      @jnightmare0 Год назад

      Could tell he’s a loser from his picture from when he got arrested

    • @shemarshorter9328
      @shemarshorter9328 Год назад +1

      Yep these type of guys are weird as fuck

    • @nilsingvar7319
      @nilsingvar7319 Год назад

      I thought I was a loser at 35, but this fucker has me beat by light years holy shit.

  • @et2792
    @et2792 Год назад +1780

    imagine going from finding zero red flags with a drugged out homemade tattooed 19 year old that was hooking up with older men and getting pregnant at 13
    to
    finding red flags if your girlfriend accidently faces towards a man that is on the other side of a glass door in a restaurant.
    i mean...

    • @bruv1029
      @bruv1029 Год назад +66

      Are you talikg about his wife or girlfriend or whatever she is. Damn, that is wild shit right there. And he thinks he is above other men.

    • @Cali_DetroitConnect
      @Cali_DetroitConnect Год назад +26

      I was waiting for this comment. Lol

    • @mrj1299
      @mrj1299 Год назад +125

      He got from one extreme to the next... makes sense... This guy needs some serious therapy.

    • @yamiyugi8987
      @yamiyugi8987 Год назад +12

      It is hard to imagine when we are literally looking right at it through this clown. Lol

    • @ty194
      @ty194 Год назад

      Well, you see how it happened...

  • @KaizokuOoji
    @KaizokuOoji 10 месяцев назад +12

    Batman himself couldn't get this info outta me .... That backstory was crazy... He was 31!!! ......What?!!!

  • @Napptrully_Beautiful
    @Napptrully_Beautiful Год назад +6

    How are you 31 and blaming a child for your mistakes.

  • @DJx79x
    @DJx79x Год назад +908

    Good lord I couldn't imagine that level of insecurity. If I gotta monitor anyone's phone usage 24/7 then I'd rather die alone.

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Год назад +17

      Same here. I'm old hat, though.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi Год назад +43

      It would be exhausting, you would never have any peace, who wants to be a full time jailor?

    • @alejandrodelgado5829
      @alejandrodelgado5829 Год назад +1

      So you dont lock your door every Day?

    • @raydromeda3777
      @raydromeda3777 Год назад +26

      @@alejandrodelgado5829 it's quick and non time consuming to lock your door. To cyber stalk someone is constant work and a waste of time.

    • @alejandrodelgado5829
      @alejandrodelgado5829 Год назад

      @@raydromeda3777 no if you have a app.

  • @frogery
    @frogery Год назад +180

    bro's listing red flags of a 19 year old when him dating her at 31 is the biggest red flag of all.

  • @Casper-Ghost
    @Casper-Ghost Год назад +63

    The fact that this dude can make Pearl and MTR look reasonable and rational is insane.

  • @kimberlyporter9555
    @kimberlyporter9555 Год назад +21

    I feel for his family and friends who bailed him out over 19 yr old WAP. A 31 year old man who can't attract or keep a woman his own age? Baby man.

  • @Wuqz
    @Wuqz Год назад +719

    All those red flags, cheating, and he still took her back.. This isn't about women at all. It's about his own insecurities. Dude invested his time and emotions in something he knew was bad, but somehow still blames the teenager he was dating as a grown man.

    • @drewpoohs5764
      @drewpoohs5764 Год назад +30

      Don’t forget about wasting others money too 😬

    • @william4996
      @william4996 Год назад

      He's talking about trusting a woman but he was trusting a DRUG ADDICT. Wild. It's like saying all men will kill you because Dahmer exists. All women will cheat because I trusted a a drug addict 8 times.

    • @william4996
      @william4996 Год назад

      @@Wuqz Yup, thats what I'm saying. Most drug addicts should not be trusted, not because they're bad people but because they're hooked on a substance that changes their personality and pushes them to put drugs above other people.

    • @mousalini4095
      @mousalini4095 Год назад +12

      He was lying. No way you don't recognize someone shooting dope. They have to have it.

    • @skyjacksonA1
      @skyjacksonA1 Год назад +24

      Thisssss lol when I was 17 my 31 year old boyfriend at the time complained about me going to school like dude, I have to go to school or I won't graduate 😒 and when I acted crazy he would complain about me to anyone who would listen just get a more mature woman 😮‍💨

  • @allemoney
    @allemoney Год назад +1143

    I can’t imagine being in my 30s and thinking I can have anything serious with a 19yr old. 😂

    • @isdits
      @isdits Год назад +1

      19 y/o crack head at that

    • @Krazyparisboy
      @Krazyparisboy Год назад +41

      You can but it’s extremely rare and even then you want to redirect her to a young serious guy like her

    • @setme4ree
      @setme4ree Год назад +180

      19 year olds should be with people their own age, its healthier. All my happy friends in long term relationships are with people around their age. The ones with older men act like abuse victims lmao

    • @mashamitchell9574
      @mashamitchell9574 Год назад +66

      Right? I wouldn't trust a 19 year old to tell me the time.

    • @plzletmebefrank
      @plzletmebefrank Год назад +59

      Yeah... Hell, I'm 23 and most 19 yr olds? Hell no. Even if they are in my age group, most of them are... Idk. I wouldn't fit with 90% of them.

  • @sarbnitrof4663
    @sarbnitrof4663 Год назад +4

    "Have fun, or be with me"
    Dope, peace out.

  • @hag8752
    @hag8752 6 месяцев назад +6

    Ill know im a good parent when i can show this to my daughter and she goes "eugh-"

  • @sirisaacmormont5445
    @sirisaacmormont5445 Год назад +926

    It hurts the heart to see so many men of influence take unsuspecting young men down a road of insecurity and failed relationships.

    • @frikabg
      @frikabg Год назад

      yeah men are at fault here for not letting women using them like a toilet paper ... ever thought that if women weren't having the same properties as a toxic waste on a dude's life these 'life coaches' wouldn't exist? To me both are scum but blaming only the man when the whole thing is a REACTION to the current dating market is just wrong.

    • @ProfessionalRageBaiter
      @ProfessionalRageBaiter Год назад +31

      i watch videos in the manosphere. pretty heavily and do not know who this dude is and the videos look like some lost footage from a horror movie. it’s a bit creepy tbh

    • @sirisaacmormont5445
      @sirisaacmormont5445 Год назад +53

      @@frikabg Well if you believe men are the leaders of relationships, you should have no problem accepting the majority of the fault that leadership comes with. You can't be the quarterback and then blame everyone else for the L

    • @frikabg
      @frikabg Год назад

      @@sirisaacmormont5445 considering how the modern world works and how the laws operate it is impossible for men to be leaders... so unless you are willing to take a couple of hundred steps back and actually let men LEAD 'cough' which is what got us here in this day and age with all the technologies etc which you observer around you 'cough' i suggest you look for someone else to blame for all the fuck ups you see around you. We can't be 'equals' while you let men somehow 'lead' just so you can turn around and blame men for 'failing' while 'leading'. This might be a little bit hard for you to grasp but hey that is a YOU problem... not a ME problem. I live in reality not in 'la-la' land where you shout 'you go girl' while blaming men for your own low IQ problems :D

    • @sirisaacmormont5445
      @sirisaacmormont5445 Год назад +22

      @@frikabg You sound like a person that has never had a meaningful relationship with a woman in your life. The women/fiancé now I deal with, I don't have to ask to lead. That's what's good from day 1. Women follow competent men. You either have "it" or you have to develop "it" and it doesn't sound like you're interested in either.

  • @Ntalor634
    @Ntalor634 Год назад +671

    I dated a guy like him. When we first met he was great. When he moved in with me he changed in to this Donovan character. Guys like him exist. I tried to reassure him I was not like his ex girlfriend, but nothing changed. He was very controlling and violent. When he shipped out. I packed all is stuff and mailed it to his parents and moved. Told my friends not to give him my new location.

    • @arabian_empress
      @arabian_empress Год назад +98

      Glad you got out of that alive. I dated a guy similar when I was 18... he became abusive after 6 months of being amazing, completely flipped the switch when he figured out I was inlove with him. He completely ruined me emotionally and mentally, I lost my faith in God for 13 years of my life and only 5 years ago I came back to my faith again... I'm 33 now . Til this day he still tries to get to me and he's blocked from everything it's like living in constant fear but I finally moved on from it all.

    • @rebelyell50
      @rebelyell50 Год назад +25

      I had a man I loved so much for one year he was amazing eventually he lost his job I said fine I'll work don't worry he started abusing me verbally then physically I stayed for three years had a child with him finally he almost killed me I had enough I sent him to jail he only got 4 months but he seemed good he got off Dr*gs he got a job a place I thought well we can co parent he didn't like that but he once again played like he was good he had my son for a weekend I was dating someone he decided not to change my son's diaper the whole weekend because I didn't text him while being on a date my son is now 8 he hasn't seen his father since his diaper rash was so bad I had to take him to the hospital I told his father you will not have him alone ever again until he is an adult his father disappeared

    • @kevlamar6613
      @kevlamar6613 Год назад +3

      I found you

    • @drugbustin
      @drugbustin Год назад +3

      @@arabian_empress The faith in god thing being lost was a good thing...the rest, not so much

    • @tiffanyyisrael7989
      @tiffanyyisrael7989 Год назад

      Good for you ma'am.

  • @sobrowneyes87
    @sobrowneyes87 Год назад +11

    Dude is wild. If a dude comes to me with a story like that, red flags 🚩 I’d run! The fact that he thinks every woman is gonna act like his ex is a sign that he needs to stay single until he can get out of his past. He reeks insecure. 🤢

  • @akashicklovebpd1264
    @akashicklovebpd1264 8 месяцев назад +3

    Red flag #1 31 year old male dating a 19 year old girl.

  • @lindseycrittendon7883
    @lindseycrittendon7883 Год назад +324

    That guy is the male equivalent of the 40 year old woman saying all men are trash when she hand picked every trash man...and these guys want to say women never take accountability? Dude, you need a therapist.

  • @cecesmith4723
    @cecesmith4723 Год назад +790

    Apparently there’s nothing more “alpha male” than acting on insecurities and trying to make your partner conform to them instead of working on bettering yourself and stabilizing your relationship

    • @TheRealAdam23
      @TheRealAdam23 Год назад +20

      It’s all compensation man. I’m not gay! You’re gay! That kinda deal

    • @magicdragon9621
      @magicdragon9621 Год назад +5

      This is really it.

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 Год назад +1

      So, just because one grifter does this, that’s just the general perception of what an alpha male is?

    • @DrettiAndDaleHaveNoDad
      @DrettiAndDaleHaveNoDad Год назад

      @@mikemontgomery2654stereotyping. guessing you’re new to it huh

    • @cecesmith4723
      @cecesmith4723 Год назад

      @@mikemontgomery2654 this isn’t just the first time I’ve seen this, I’ve seen dozens of self-proclaimed “alpha males” who pull similar, if not the exact same, stunts like this guy. Preaching that women need to be fully submissive and subservient to their man, that men should be allowed to have harems of women because they’re “alpha” and “high value”
      There’s a reason why this is becoming a running gag and stereotype for “alpha/beta” males, it’s because the lot of them are advocating dumb stuff like this and are serious about it

  • @lavieentoni7654
    @lavieentoni7654 Год назад +31

    Thank you for bringing these things to our attention, it’s a sad time, women really need to hold their heads up and know their worth, if women never put up with these things the red pill community would die out

  • @Lullabybabyzzz
    @Lullabybabyzzz 9 месяцев назад +2

    Preach peeped the foolery lol

  • @yvelynefreycinet905
    @yvelynefreycinet905 Год назад +341

    it rubs me wrong that a 31 year old going this hard over a 19 year old.

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 Год назад +112

      I was actually feeling sorry for the girl. 13 year old having a baby?? It's most likely she was forced on especially if the man was a convict. But this guy has no sympathy at all. Anyway, I don't believe he is telling the full story or the full truth

    • @mekareactsandreviews3026
      @mekareactsandreviews3026 Год назад +22

      Screams simp behavior 😅😅

    • @wagamama8
      @wagamama8 Год назад +87

      Also - the baby daddy was her step father/ mom's boyfriend but he conveniently left that out

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Год назад +64

      @wagamama8 ofcourse he did. He probably thought the man did nothing wrong and that she came on to him at 12.🙄

    • @anneb889
      @anneb889 Год назад +48

      @@wagamama8 Wait, he claims the man was let off easier because the girl (at 12) stated she seduced him. She seduced the step dad? I gotta go with Preach, unless she had a bunch of evidence, videos showing it was all on her…..most juries are throwing the book at step dad/moms bf.

  • @ellecrescent9834
    @ellecrescent9834 Год назад +507

    Made me kinda sad when she diverted her eyes from that man when leaving the restaurant. Reminds me of a bad relationship I was in and he was so ridiculously jealous that I started to silently panic every time a man would start talking to me. That’s no life. So glad that’s over.

    • @eznosnopes5276
      @eznosnopes5276 Год назад +18

      It’s all acting. She runs the relationship lol.

    • @ellecrescent9834
      @ellecrescent9834 Год назад +53

      @@eznosnopes5276 really not the point my man

    • @itsyaaveragegirl
      @itsyaaveragegirl Год назад +22

      @@ellecrescent9834nah that should be the point. what they are doing is fake while what you went through actually happened. Respect yourself and your situation enough to not project your trauma on a video that the are faking to make money off of RUclips. Their making a mockery of the trauma some women have gone through and then classifying this behavior as alpha to make a few bucks. Its sad

    • @ellecrescent9834
      @ellecrescent9834 Год назад

      @@itsyaaveragegirl hey average girl, why don’t you mind your own business. I’ll comment whatever I want 😂 fucking weirdo

    • @itsyaaveragegirl
      @itsyaaveragegirl Год назад

      @@ellecrescent9834 your the one spilling your person trauma stories on the internet and equating it to an obviously fake video, seems like your the weird one.

  • @robinallums4541
    @robinallums4541 9 месяцев назад +3

    Lol if I was the waiter, I’d be like “ blink twice if you’re in danger ma’am “🤣

  • @maranilee
    @maranilee Год назад +2

    Omg as a server in the south I see this all the time and I look at the female like “blink if you’re not okay”

  • @usonumabeach300
    @usonumabeach300 Год назад +905

    The fact that there are actually people who legitimately want the sort of relationship with a woman this guy claims to have with his woman makes me despair that I'm of the same species.

    • @KOHoxton
      @KOHoxton Год назад

      This shit looks like she's being held hostage by isis.

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 Год назад +14

      You'll be okay, lol

    • @ChrisSimpiamson3
      @ChrisSimpiamson3 Год назад

      You wouldn't understand because you're a feminine male that needs to do "50/50". Which is a scam btw.

    • @helium-379
      @helium-379 Год назад

      Eh you just call em a stupid goober and a disgusting disgrace to your kind.

    • @floatinrocktubetalk3768
      @floatinrocktubetalk3768 Год назад

      The shame part is absolute virtue signaling clown shit. You are not him and don’t have to make the same decisions. All men shouldn’t be looked down on because of him. You promoting that shit is fucking ridiculous and part of the problem.

  • @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements
    @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements Год назад +1136

    He sounds like the bad guy in one of those old Maury episodes where the guy control every aspect of the woman's life. Lmao

    • @robertnoble7554
      @robertnoble7554 Год назад +11

      Women trains their husband and you don't seem to care.

    • @zaynehancock3751
      @zaynehancock3751 Год назад +5

      Only to find out that it was all an act and then even Maury himself was lying to you.

    • @VisionPoet
      @VisionPoet Год назад +4

      D West bout to pop out and take them to the morgue 😂😂😂

    • @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements
      @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements Год назад +25

      @@robertnoble7554 Either is bad, and you're supposed to be RP aware to become privy to the situation. If you don't do your work before getting with a chick leading to you being controlled, ain't my fault. You're not supposed to control your wife, and your wife is not to control you.

    • @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements
      @PrestonGarveyofthesettlements Год назад +1

      @@zaynehancock3751 lol obvs.

  • @busisiwe327
    @busisiwe327 Год назад +8

    "it was all your decisions", as a grown adult at 31, it's worse 'cause he's older than that and still thinks it's the girls fault he put himself through that, damn.

  • @ReleaseMyKrakken
    @ReleaseMyKrakken Год назад +730

    I'm heartbroken for anybody that follows this man and listens to him seriously

    • @HarryPierpoint
      @HarryPierpoint Год назад +5

      Is it not a joke?

    • @ReleaseMyKrakken
      @ReleaseMyKrakken Год назад +45

      @@HarryPierpoint nope, from what I've seen this is all real by this dude and I don't understand how anyone follows him

    • @Galphor
      @Galphor Год назад +8

      @@HarryPierpoint nope Donovan is serious.

    • @azuleslight
      @azuleslight Год назад +17

      no one owns wisdom, Even a fool can be right. so id watch him on what is a red flag in my male friends... difference is a tell them the truth about themselves. lol

    • @ReleaseMyKrakken
      @ReleaseMyKrakken Год назад +7

      @@azuleslight good point lmao. His channel is a Hallmark on how not to act

  • @Hekinsieden
    @Hekinsieden Год назад +371

    Man... lotta these relationships out here lookin like neighboring countries with only a vague peace treaty and trade agreement stopping all out war between them.

    • @mariediop9551
      @mariediop9551 Год назад +44

      I swear to God this shit is tense for no good reason

    • @ducksquidbat8315
      @ducksquidbat8315 Год назад +18

      Most relationships would break down if they didn’t spend 40+ hours a week away from eachother.

    • @wweghorstgoldbridgesgreatest
      @wweghorstgoldbridgesgreatest Год назад

      @@ducksquidbat8315 which explains why divorce rates went through the roof with Covid induced lockdowns and curfews.

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 Год назад

      😂

    • @Righhhhhtttt
      @Righhhhhtttt Год назад +3

      Perfect comparison! 😂

  • @DDs878
    @DDs878 Год назад +2

    THis is giving major AceVane "But wait that ain't even how I died" Vibes🤣🤣

  • @avocadobe
    @avocadobe Год назад +1

    That concert ticket never tasted so sweet

  • @sd8150
    @sd8150 Год назад +230

    I agree! The worst part of the story is that he lets a 19 year old derail his life so terribly at 31. What does that say about his character at 31. The man had nothing going for him in his 30s. He is weird and lame. No one should be taking any advice from him. Not a soul.

    • @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701
      @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701 Год назад +25

      No.
      There is no singular "worst part" of this story, the whole thing is cringe and bad and you know what? If its true, if that relationship was real, he'd go back to her tomorrow... hell, that might be the woman he's with now. Why? The dude has zero self esteem and zero self awareness.

    • @ajh.4131
      @ajh.4131 Год назад +3

      Exactly! 💯

    • @NRG56
      @NRG56 Год назад +10

      @@undergrounddojokeyboardcag701 the worst part is that he has an audience

    • @TheJdmartinjax
      @TheJdmartinjax Год назад +1

      10 to 1 he is the SAME pos that did her at 12.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Год назад +4

      He took all these L 's. Because she Is 19

  • @User71956
    @User71956 Год назад +768

    I was a insecure shit BF in my 20’s and here’s what I learned, if someone wants to cheat on you, they are going to cheat on you. Telling her she can’t go to certain places or she can’t have certain friends only will make it more likely for her to cheat on you or dump your ass. All you’re doing is creating a self-fulfilling prophecy by doing with these guys are doing.

    • @carlosf.xblackjack
      @carlosf.xblackjack Год назад +17

      True.

    • @supoa9489
      @supoa9489 Год назад +71

      That's where you messed up, your not meant to stop her. If you have boundaries and then break them then end the relationship

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Год назад +50

      @@supoa9489 *Yep.*
      If you're older and have been married for years with kids, couple's counseling might be worth it, but if you're a 20 something and have barely been together a year, you should just go.
      Save yourself the time.

    • @ChrisSimpiamson3
      @ChrisSimpiamson3 Год назад +34

      Incorrect. RP doesn't teach men to control women. They are teaching men not to commit to women that go to bars and clubs to begin with.

    • @saehisaya
      @saehisaya Год назад +30

      @@ChrisSimpiamson3 but that’s not happening lol. The redpill is contradictory in nature.

  • @ethiosexDr.
    @ethiosexDr. 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love Aba and Preach man,such great dudes with great videos👍👍👍

  • @montblancnoland1
    @montblancnoland1 Год назад +1

    Yoooo she look terrified in the resturant ahhhahaha

  • @lebrent312
    @lebrent312 Год назад +720

    I'm glad people like Donovan Sharpe exist because he makes me feel so much better about my life. Protect this man at all cost!🤣

    • @PiNeAPPLeSaMa
      @PiNeAPPLeSaMa Год назад +53

      Damn son, that's grimey lmaooo

    • @IamjustBruh
      @IamjustBruh Год назад +15

      You actually got in the first half

    • @mattlol163
      @mattlol163 Год назад

      LMFAO!!!! you need another man's life, to help you "feel better" about how horrible your life is???
      how about just go outside and stop being a virgin, loner, sitting on the computer all day, trying to "feel better" about your life from OTHER people's life
      Like him or not, YOU are talking about him. Apple n Peach are talking about him. And he has a women, while Peach is married to a clinically obese whale, Aba is single and complains about other men MOST of his days making videos, and you are doing the same.
      i mean....hey, hater will hate. Its just hilarious watching it happen from some who wants to "feel better" about how much you life sucks. ROFL.
      you cant make this stuff up.

    • @2FINE4YOUBABYGIRL
      @2FINE4YOUBABYGIRL Год назад +27

      Same lol I feel f*cking healthy mentally compared to some of these ppl

    • @hardplans2366
      @hardplans2366 Год назад

      He's a post-PUA pick up artist 🤡
      And yet, he doesn't follow his own rules by not dating single post-wall moms
      Dude, just stop

  • @Ianjoel58
    @Ianjoel58 Год назад +165

    This is an abusive relationship. Textbook. These guys telling other guys how to be “alpha” are always the most insecure/abusive/petty

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 Год назад

      No it's a beta relationship. She doing what he wants cuz shes a single mom with no prospects. He with her cuz no sane woman gets wet for such a goober

    • @setme4ree
      @setme4ree Год назад +1

      Theyre the most abusive forsure

    • @YungPhilosopher
      @YungPhilosopher Год назад +1

      Agreed upon boundaries isn’t abuse lol. She can easily leave at any time. He’s not physically abusing her or holding her hostage. Not saying I agree with boundaries but obviously he does

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 Год назад

      @@YungPhilosopher the bottom line is she cant do better. Shes a middle aged overweight single mom with pink hair. This goober is likely the best deal shes ever gonna get, and same for him too.
      Personally I want a girl I can be proud of to call her mine and not have to police her behavior, but then I can stand being alone until i find someone decent.

    • @YungPhilosopher
      @YungPhilosopher Год назад +1

      @@ethosterros9430you have to police your woman’s behavior to some degree nothing wrong with that. Saying if you do X then the relationship is over isn’t abuse and it’s not wrong. She can leave if she wants. Nothing immoral or wrong about that

  • @LilRedWitch
    @LilRedWitch Год назад +1

    The silence is DEAFENING. I’m cracking up

  • @socool245
    @socool245 Год назад +2

    That sounds like a lot of work...for the prisoner and the warden

  • @darrenmacklin5442
    @darrenmacklin5442 Год назад +311

    If ya'll following this dude's advice prepare to spend the rest of your life familiarizing yourself with your hands

    • @PepeToTheMooon
      @PepeToTheMooon Год назад +36

      PALM-ela will get a great workout.

    • @islandgirlxx3465
      @islandgirlxx3465 Год назад +4

      All those fools who follow these scammers redpill gurus advice are going to end up alone

    • @darrenmacklin5442
      @darrenmacklin5442 Год назад

      @@PepeToTheMooon 😄😄😄

    • @thedog5k
      @thedog5k Год назад

      This guy is a degenerate, but the unfortunate thing is advice tends to sound like his or the complete opposite.

    • @erind2261
      @erind2261 Год назад +6

      😂😂

  • @jameswilmshurst6973
    @jameswilmshurst6973 Год назад +403

    What’s fucked up to me is that the “don’t let them walk in front of you” is the exact thing I was taught when training my dogs when I first got them.

    • @theeyesbutterfly6089
      @theeyesbutterfly6089 Год назад +10

      😮

    • @hiitsme3039
      @hiitsme3039 Год назад

      Tupac voice wonder why they call you b***h

    • @bupekamfwa
      @bupekamfwa Год назад +2

      It used to be part of the old school dating advice that used to be on youtube in 2010. It may seem evil if you think of it that way but I'm sure you've spent time walking with a group or a person before and then you all stop and you ask yourselves "where the fuck are we going?" and then you guys say "I don't know I was following you". Walking in front a lot of times defaults you as the designated "leader" or maybe planner for that specific instance when people aren't paying close attention or playing power games. Most people don't want to lead.

    • @Limpass610
      @Limpass610 Год назад +4

      You don't have to be in front to direct direction. You can be at the side and change direction, your friend will follow. You can be behind and say," this way". They will follow.
      Subconsciously the 'in front' thing works most of the time.
      But playing the training mentality and paying attention to so many social cues and directing them is exhausting ( they work I won't lie)
      But you canJust be a solid and reliable dude and these things will fall into place

    • @Rubenz343
      @Rubenz343 Год назад

      @Bob ""😮""

  • @nobantulanga
    @nobantulanga Год назад +2

    This is just madness. So many rules to live by. 😂😂😂

  • @Iamjeffsledge
    @Iamjeffsledge 9 месяцев назад +2

    He's mad at her for having a child at 13....but he was 31 dating a 19 year old...make it makes sense.

  • @AstralxFayt
    @AstralxFayt Год назад +602

    …. I stopped the video numerous of times to take a deep breath and catch myself. This is outrageously cringey on another level that I didn’t think was possible. My man needs therapy

    • @kimkimmy1269
      @kimkimmy1269 Год назад +38

      Dude is disturbingly cringey.

    • @cargopilotguy305
      @cargopilotguy305 Год назад +17

      I’m about to have to call off work and recover from seeing this

    • @martelldozier3898
      @martelldozier3898 Год назад +6

      This was funny and wild

    • @Allan5889
      @Allan5889 Год назад +5

      5 day old comment on a vid that’s not even an hour old. This man has mastered the paths

    • @wavesbnice1
      @wavesbnice1 Год назад +1

      He's aware of female nature...

  • @DavidNwokoye
    @DavidNwokoye Год назад +312

    The fact that the 19 year old bought him at 31 a cupcake is hilarious to me 🤣🤣

    • @Syn741
      @Syn741 Год назад +34

      hey the little 31 year old needs to celebrate his birthday!

    • @hiroshi7025
      @hiroshi7025 Год назад

      That dude is socially r/tard/d, he did at 31 everything a 17 yo would have been doing.

    • @mctreasure
      @mctreasure Год назад +11

      He used to be out of shape, cake probably was well appreciated then

    • @spinmaster6995
      @spinmaster6995 Год назад +12

      Reverse EDP

    • @PrincePetti
      @PrincePetti Год назад +2

      EDP moment

  • @jennerbug27
    @jennerbug27 Год назад +2

    When men need to have this much control in a relationship, healthy women only see weakness.

  • @Toni-Z
    @Toni-Z 5 месяцев назад +1

    I need my phone at all times 😂😂

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 Год назад +616

    This is abusive and the fact he’s so open about it is crazy. I would never tell my husband he can’t go to a concert or out with friends period. And if he ever did that to me, I’m done. Do not control your partner.

    • @martelldozier3898
      @martelldozier3898 Год назад +8

      It's wild . But it was funny lol

    • @Sker2
      @Sker2 Год назад

      he's just selling bs to his dumb audience.. this is what all these guys do..

    • @GLoLChibs
      @GLoLChibs Год назад +57

      According to guys like him, your husband could go out cause somehow 'remind her she's replaceable but also men don't cheat during guys night out'. Dudes cringey quack.

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 Год назад +12

      How is this controlling? He’s kinda cringe and this it’s all done for camera. His woman is enabling because she can leave whenever she wants.

    • @DocBelle2
      @DocBelle2 Год назад +25

      I was going to comment this is abusive. I really thought this was satire. Who would put up with this?

  • @tealsummers2316
    @tealsummers2316 Год назад +714

    "It was all your decisions" THANK YOU!! I find it ironic that men like him are constantly speaking about the bad decisions of women and that women need to be held accountable for their bad decisions, yet, when it comes to their own bad dating decisions they are the victim and it was all the woman's fault not the decisions of the man to be with the woman. The hypocrisy is undeniable. "At 31..." LOL

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Год назад +64

      I never even caught that but you're right. The whole idea of "the wall" don't get mad when you're partying your youth away and the music stops and no one wants you anymore. It's a consequence of your actions. But then these dudes blame women for their problems.
      The fact of it is a lot of these red pill guys have something they don't like about themselves (too emotional, never take responsibility, etc) and pin it on women to feel better about themselves. Just how feminists take the worst of their behavior and pin it on men.

    • @TheDestineyAngel
      @TheDestineyAngel Год назад +7

      The reason why he “behaves” in the manner demonstrated in the beginning of the video is due to his trust issues. In his “it gets worse stories”, he demonstrates attempts to trust someone, for it to only end in some form of betrayal (ie cheating or lying) and then people like you tell him to hold himself accountable instead of the party that wronged him. Your undermining his struggle to find a partner and misguide him into becoming a paranoid control freak.
      Your comment lacks compassion. You fail to see things from his point of view and claim his victimhood is ironic. Instead of focusing entirely on the man, you should acknowledge that woman innately have the ability to make decisions regardless of morality. If his ex decided to do something contrary to his expectation, he shouldn’t be held accountable for someone else’s decisions. Also it’s naturally for him to feel disappointed. So in the most vague sense of the term victim, he felt victimized by someone who deceived him each time he tried to form a honest connection.
      Now how do you suggest he stops being a victim…. Making better dating decisions?…
      (Regardless of his decisions, his partner can do whatever he or she decides independently, otherwise he’ll start micromanaging.)
      Speaking of micromanaging, his behavior in the skits at the beginning weren’t necessarily abusive. Well he acts like the insecure control freak. He’s being dismissive to her in order to minimize chance of feeling like a victim to HER DECISION to either be honest or lie. I personally believe he’s mistaken for trying to micromanage while being dismissive of her, but clearly it’s a DEFENSE MECHANISM to his TRUST ISSUES. And his way of MAKING BETTER DATING DECISIONS so he’s no longer a victim with feelings.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi Год назад

      @@TheDestineyAngel Impressive mental gymnastics there.

    • @aleckmenard5304
      @aleckmenard5304 Год назад +3

      This man can blame that girl though. She abused him, clearly. He was being dumb and blind all along that story, just as women can be dumb to stay with an abusive man : but the woman is never blamed for it.

    • @patriceesela5000
      @patriceesela5000 Год назад +53

      @@aleckmenard5304 At 31??? By a 19 year old??

  • @muertito8077
    @muertito8077 Год назад +1

    When you said „origin story“ you had me screaming 🙀😺😻😹

  • @99living
    @99living Год назад +90

    Poor girl. Lost her childhood and battling addiction. I hope she find her path and cut these bad influences from her life

    • @mryoung205
      @mryoung205 Год назад +2

      Lol...the story is a lie

    • @soumia117
      @soumia117 Год назад +9

      he told the story in a way to paint her in a bad light but every sane person with empathy sees her a victim

    • @kingmedjai9433
      @kingmedjai9433 Год назад

      Sounds like she's the bad influence. They goofy tho

  • @candiigurl7893
    @candiigurl7893 Год назад +332

    This guy's behavior is that of the bully in school or the kid that was bullied then turned into a bully after getting a little power and finding someone more insecure than they are.

    • @maryfields877
      @maryfields877 Год назад

      Basically. One relationship that he simped out in and now all women are the same. She was a 19 year old drug addict!!!

    • @Lightflames85
      @Lightflames85 Год назад +13

      I was bullied and luckily i did not turn out like this.

    • @devincorns409
      @devincorns409 Год назад +4

      You nailed it.

    • @Luca-pz2pv
      @Luca-pz2pv Год назад +1

      That is the perfect description.

  • @shannsimms9072
    @shannsimms9072 Месяц назад +1

    4:00 if I were this waiter I would 100% think this was some type of trafficking situation with the way she’s looking down and not speaking

  • @sirleeproductions
    @sirleeproductions Год назад +1

    it really does get worst ☠️😭

  • @plamondonworks6948
    @plamondonworks6948 Год назад +432

    Homie was definitely the kid in the back of a class who drew disturbing manga and didn't make eye contact with anyone. He bought himself a smart phone, downloaded an app for children and said, "it's my time to shine"

    • @Numb_
      @Numb_ Год назад +19

      i dont know what this means

    • @stacierose1692
      @stacierose1692 Год назад +24

      Screaming 😭

    • @stacierose1692
      @stacierose1692 Год назад +7

      @@Numb_ 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭just whyyyy🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @1911odisea
      @1911odisea Год назад +1

      App for children? What?

    • @canadianturtle7240
      @canadianturtle7240 Год назад +7

      @@Numb_ It means OP of this thread probably was the kid in the back of his class that drew manga.

  • @jsssure3314
    @jsssure3314 Год назад +129

    If you feel you gotta control your partner in such a manner, it's possible you're too unstable to hold a relationship with someone that is stable.

    • @atropabelladonna3120
      @atropabelladonna3120 Год назад +13

      It's also hella cringy to put the words 'train' and 'partner' in the same sentence.
      My brother in Christ, if you feel you gotta train anyone get a dog, adult humans ain't for training and controlling, you form a bond, respect and support eachother through the hardships of life. Otherwise stay single and free.

    • @jayc342009
      @jayc342009 Год назад +5

      You should look for someone who doesn't need training, training someone to be a suitable partner is a huge red flag

    • @jayc342009
      @jayc342009 Год назад

      @Louis Kingsta certain people do actually need it but why would you go for someone who needs training? Go for people who actually know how to be decent

  • @alyshiakroll15
    @alyshiakroll15 Год назад +1

    I can't watch this.
    My husband and I have been together for over a decade. I never check his phone, I don't require him to ask my permission to do anything,and vice versa because neither of us are controlling insecure physcopaths.
    Thats not a relationship its abuse. Period. If my husband ever did some crap like that or spoke to me that way especially in front of our son that would be an issue.
    I feel sorry for any young men taking this "man" seriously. Hes not looking for a partner in life, hes looking for a slave/puppet. Please lord dont bless them with children. A real healthy loving relationship consists of mutual respect, trust, teamwork. My husband could tell me
    "Hey babe X is having his bachelor party at the strip club" and Id say
    "We have nothing going on that night have fun"
    Why? Because I know #1. Hed never cheat on me. And #2. Hes super cheap hed never pay for something he can get for free at home.
    He came from foster care, I came from a house hold of addiction. We started without two pennies to rub together, one car and living in a roach infested apartment. He worked at Dunkin donuts and I was a GM at 5 guys. I could tell he was miserable so we sat down and talked about what work hed be happy doing. After that conversation I told him to quit his job, I picked up extra hours to support us so he could get all the certifications and credentials he needed. Fast forward to now, we have a 3 bed 2 bath town house in a nice neighborhood and he makes alil over 80k a year.
    Through the years we've struggled together, supported each other, built a life/family together. Weve been through so much and built so much together we are best friends, we know neither of us is going anywhere.
    Thats a relationship. A partner/best friend you trust with your life and respect/love more than anything. Theres no need for all that crazy shit when the love is real. As I said before thats not love, its abuse. Thats not respect, its fear. It will NEVER work.

  • @jaygrewal8592
    @jaygrewal8592 Год назад +1

    This reminds me of Key and Peele's sketch, "Consequences"

  • @KaizenLegacy
    @KaizenLegacy Год назад +397

    Here is the thing with Donovan, F&F, and Rollo: they were all the geeky kids in high school that never got any attention from women. They never really grew out of it and have held onto their "Revenge of the Nerds" fantasies the whole time.

    • @Galphor
      @Galphor Год назад +7

      but people need to stop using them as an example of all of the redpill dudes.

    • @aagemini707
      @aagemini707 Год назад +7

      Living in revenge world...😆

    • @Tores444
      @Tores444 Год назад

      @@Galphor then stop propping them up. I mean red pillers are retarded by nature but yall share the king retards content all the time

    • @HaKarina
      @HaKarina Год назад +6

      EXACTLY

    • @KaizenLegacy
      @KaizenLegacy Год назад

      @@Galphor They do not need to be examples of "all redpill dudes" to be pointed out as bad examples to follow and nothing but frauds and grifters.

  • @jabbathehutt489
    @jabbathehutt489 Год назад +87

    The lack of self-awareness to realize that his story makes him seem weak and insecure at 31 is baffling

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 Год назад

      He is a old dork.

    • @ragejinraver
      @ragejinraver Год назад +1

      He's in his late forties he's definitely not 31

    • @Sonworshipper
      @Sonworshipper Год назад

      Astonishing

    • @tperrien
      @tperrien Год назад

      @@ragejinraver he was 31 in the story he told, according to him.

    • @AntenDS
      @AntenDS Год назад

      He wants to make it seem like he was even more of beta then his audience is/was but since had his Red Pill "glow up" and you can learn from his mistakes to be the big Alpha like him. What people see (outside of red pill) is a man hurt till his mid 30's and since has been projecting his insecurities in current relationships.

  • @KissDogg
    @KissDogg Год назад +6

    Literally watching this in the bathroom. 😂😂😂

  • @bks7889
    @bks7889 Год назад +1

    dem knockers though

    • @bupekamfwa
      @bupekamfwa Год назад +1

      indeed they be knocking

  • @canadianturtle7240
    @canadianturtle7240 Год назад +404

    Taking relationship advice from a redpill guru is like taking financial advice from the homeless. They might be giving some hard hitting truths in their words, but most of them absolutely do NOT practice what they preach. Most of them are not as "Alpha" as they claim. Most dudes who are actually successful with women, do not make redpill content. People who are actually happy with their lives don't need to shackle a woman down to a slave in order to keep her around. These men just don't want to admit they're not desirable enough.

    • @jonahkolell
      @jonahkolell Год назад +11

      I always thought that his gf/wife was into it and guy here had a brilliant idea to make a RUclips channel on it, thinking this was how every girl should be. Sarcasm on the "brilliant idea" part

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 Год назад +8

      Who to take dating advice from? Don’t say women.

    • @RandomPerson-tz7wk
      @RandomPerson-tz7wk Год назад +15

      @@pantsenfuego9986
      Your parents, or anyone in your life that is in a stable relationship. Don't have one? Get a life first, then once you're happy with your own life. Only then look for a companion.

    • @mattlol163
      @mattlol163 Год назад

      @@RandomPerson-tz7wk What??
      Donovan Sharp has a stable relationship tho...... He has been with her for years now. They even work together... But let me guess, that doesnt count in your opinion, uh?
      Or do you only pick and choose based on how you FEEL about the person?? ROFL
      "only then look for a companion"
      sorry bud, the question wasnt about WHEN to look for someone. Clearly you cant read correctly or something. The guy asked "Who to take dating advice from"
      And you replied with "be happy with yourself, THEN go look for someone"
      *lmfao! You are single.... please stop trying to tell OTHER PEOPLE how or what to do in life to get to a place where YOU are not at yourself.*

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm Год назад +4

      Sigma males who dont give a shit how they are percieved. Do their thing with humility.
      Have partners they can trust and not weird group mentality views. Like all this or all this is like this.
      You work on yourself mentally physically and spiritually to be the best version of yourself. And tackle your dreams.
      May it be a very lucrative career that gets you alot of money, or a less paying job that makes you happy everyday.
      Because the real high value a Sigma brings is he is true to himself. He needs no artificial objects or clout to be at the top.
      You take all you can from.a Sigma you still got the "top g". Because beneeth all that is still a great golden person.
      You take any of this Alpha males. Take their stuff and money. What do you got? Insecure mfers who get women through money and once thats gone result to manipulation and snake behavior to acumilate more money by draging others down. Needing to say "they are the king" but arent more then a peasant with a crown.
      While the Sigma is the King who never has to say anything,, or cover himself in gold. People know he is.

  • @TheBhup
    @TheBhup Год назад +445

    Donovan is the type of brother projecting all this nonsense but love’s getting pegged in the bedroom

  • @rorik.3842
    @rorik.3842 Год назад +1

    i take the phone to watch tiktok ☠ and if a man think i took it to cheat ... i'm kicking him out not calling him an uber.

  • @erinlindzey5271
    @erinlindzey5271 Год назад +1

    Cornball! That’s the best 😂😂

  • @elplatypus1584
    @elplatypus1584 Год назад +124

    That was a perfect exemple of a toxic relationship . If you can't trust your partner , have a talk with her or leave her.

  • @DavefromWork
    @DavefromWork Год назад +248

    Imagine not being able to process emotions and moving on with your life to THIS extent.
    That's a mental disorder.
    Getting cheated on doesnt feel great, sure.
    But using it as an excuse to exert THIS level of control over someone out of fear that you'll "feel bad" again is pathetic.

    • @vanderumd11
      @vanderumd11 Год назад

      It absolutely works.

    • @YThates
      @YThates Год назад +10

      @@vanderumd11 I mean, the other partner always has the option to say "no" though. Then we end up in situations where ppl are out here killing their spouse for wanting to leave an abusive relationship.

    • @vanderumd11
      @vanderumd11 Год назад

      @@YThates very rare circumstance. The VAST majority of situations where one personally says no end in violence. If you look at the data females are more likely currently to abuse their significant other. Each adult has the ability to choose what type of relationship they want... She chose one where she isn't responsible for ANY of the finances. She has said that she enjoys that dynamic so it's none of our business. This is a 50year old adult people are trying to decide what is good for her lol many people would rather she go out and work hard for someone else's company ... Just so she can claim "independence" lol

    • @vanderumd11
      @vanderumd11 Год назад

      @Louis Kingsta yes, some women choose to go out and work to pay their bills. Others find men who can and are willing to support their lifestyles in exchange for relationship duties. They always have the option to leave and go pay for their own lives.

    • @5050TM
      @5050TM Год назад

      He was more cucked than cheated on. It seems like he knew he was sharing the rocket pocket with her ex every time she left him. She probably called him up to tell him where she was and everything.

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow. Pause at 0:06. Makes me remember him talking about never getting fat, blah blah blah.

  • @RileyByrdFlock
    @RileyByrdFlock Год назад +1

    You can’t help everybody. Some people are just corny for LIFE 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @fromninetothrive
    @fromninetothrive Год назад +296

    The stories he tells have to be true, because I refuse to believe someone would purposely make themselves look that bad w/lies

    • @TheRealAdam23
      @TheRealAdam23 Год назад +25

      The real lies are the one this man has been telling himself

    • @jonagreen7323
      @jonagreen7323 Год назад +23

      I don't know how he told that story and didn't pause to reflect for even a second.

    • @KevinReyes-qu9zd
      @KevinReyes-qu9zd 9 месяцев назад +1

      It was just talking with no emotion, basically bragging

  • @TemporaryJ
    @TemporaryJ Год назад +299

    Looking forward to Destiny debating Donovan. Should be fun.

    • @finnyoung2911
      @finnyoung2911 Год назад +48

      Destiny finna wipe the floor with Donny.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill Год назад +46

      @Sonder J then we can finally call him Beta for running away from a blue haired "liberal" as people decribe Destiny.
      Destiny is the red pill gurus kryptonite
      And I dont even follow Destiny like that

    • @jnightmare0
      @jnightmare0 Год назад +4

      😂gd ol donny might not show up

    • @SolomonFoland
      @SolomonFoland Год назад +3

      Donovan debating Ben Shapiro would be fun

    • @PasserMontanus
      @PasserMontanus Год назад +6

      Edwin ("Donovan") won't debate anyone after debating Kevin Ray Wilder.

  • @Petahpaka
    @Petahpaka 14 дней назад +1

    There’s a small part of me that fully believes there’s no 19 year old. This girl only lives in his imagination.

  • @mandywhite9536
    @mandywhite9536 9 месяцев назад +1

    Making young men single for life. That story isn’t a good excuse to be the way he is. My previous relationship did way worse and I still have a sense of reality.

  • @rubyhernandezrico
    @rubyhernandezrico Год назад +287

    This reminds me of how my dad treated/treats my mom, she can’t look in any direction without my dad accusing her of looking at someone, life full of trauma and emotional abuse. She can’t even enjoy being around her own family much less my dads family and can barely go to church in peace without my dad breathing down her neck

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Год назад +34

      Wow, I feel so sorry for her AND your father.
      He clearly has some personal trauma that he hasn't dealt with, and takes it out on her.

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 Год назад +28

      My dad was like that and then my dad told me to get married and I said " Hell no" ( I live in a country where arrange marriage is a big deal)

    • @moralityisnotsubjective5
      @moralityisnotsubjective5 Год назад +13

      It speaks to a great deal of insecurity.

    • @Someones_account_haha
      @Someones_account_haha Год назад +11

      I was like that too with my SO… your father needs help asap, controlling isn’t loving.

    • @Jennifer-uh8th
      @Jennifer-uh8th Год назад

      He’s probably cheating on ur mother, sorry to break it to you

  • @savantus1
    @savantus1 Год назад +219

    Only thing missing from the redpill guys relationship is showing him beating her physically, but all the other signs of abuse are showing.

    • @absolute757
      @absolute757 Год назад +17

      What sign? What abuse? Pls elaborate. Cuz I didn't see it. Sure, the guy is kind of a dork but he has his own rules. The woman can take it or leave it. I dont understand where the abuse is. A man can't have rules in his own house?

    • @AgentLemmon
      @AgentLemmon Год назад

      @@absolute757 Was the concert at his house? Also retarted rules don't count, it just makes a man look very insecure. But you are right, this is not really abuse, just narcissictic brainwashing lol

    • @Soldier_Sean
      @Soldier_Sean Год назад +5

      Abuse lol yea ok. Its called setting boundaries. Only simp men would disagree

    • @RandomPerson-tz7wk
      @RandomPerson-tz7wk Год назад +39

      @@absolute757
      Pretty sure, not having a choice is abusive. Can't even decide what you want to eat yourself.
      And the double standard. Oh I must train her to not look at or talk to other male. But it's perfectly okay for me to (poorly) flirt with the host or look at other women.
      If your idea of a relationship is close to a jailer and prisoner or slave and master. Everyone else that sane and normal would think you're abusive.

    • @mac1bc
      @mac1bc Год назад +5

      Believe it or not, there are some women who are ok with this type of relationship. And they choose to stay no matter what other people say. The same goes for some guys who are controlled by their woman.