"I Want My Daughter To Be Part Of Andrew Tate's Harem" - Sneako Vs Destiny

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  • @ledisi8250
    @ledisi8250 2 года назад +6492

    I’m
    Ngl I like Tate’s ideologies to a degree however, I would scream in horror if either my sisters or “daughter” dated a man like that.

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  2 года назад +6898

      Why? You don’t want your daughter to share Top G

    • @ren3480
      @ren3480 2 года назад +1455

      High iq moment

    • @OEThe11
      @OEThe11 2 года назад +820

      @@AbaNPreach 😭😭😭

    • @rakdosrok5816
      @rakdosrok5816 2 года назад +1893

      Pin of "Hmmm".

    • @iDunked
      @iDunked 2 года назад +837

      Id like my mom dating a Top G. That makes me Lil G

  • @Manullus
    @Manullus 2 года назад +15402

    Aba really nailed it. You can't bash or demonize single moms when you're behaving in a way that helps create single moms.

    • @mhballa5866
      @mhballa5866 2 года назад +331

      yes women are blameless.

    • @JeffCaplan313
      @JeffCaplan313 2 года назад +3

      @@mhballa5866 Do you believe women have more, less or equal free will to men, irrespective of the laws of man?
      Do you act in a way that aligns with your belief?

    • @Theblaziken2000
      @Theblaziken2000 2 года назад +323

      Bro he really hit the nail on the head with that one.

    • @brian_Austin27
      @brian_Austin27 2 года назад +153

      Exactly it takes too

    • @jessieis
      @jessieis 2 года назад +2

      Yup we're not ignoring that mother who made the poor choice for sleeping with a fuck boy, but the man who walked out and made a broken home is also fucked up. People seek to only wanna see their own side and blame the others.

  • @ryansalters8273
    @ryansalters8273 2 года назад +6342

    Continuously giving Sneako the "Excuse" of being 23 is a slap in the face to all of us other 23 year olds that aren't idiots

    • @iburntmytoe3470
      @iburntmytoe3470 2 года назад +217

      Exactly!!

    • @soul-the_argonaut5211
      @soul-the_argonaut5211 2 года назад +357

      That's not even what's going on here.
      His point is that- at the age of 23, you haven't yet been through significant life bonds in relationships with people. You've barely gone through the trials of life alone at that age...
      And yeah, at 23, it feels like you're dealing with all kinds of shit, and you are... BUT-
      Come back and tell me you were grown at 23, when you're 35...?
      At 23, your level and exp aren't that high in reality...
      Doesn't make you an idiot at all though.

    • @SuperWHIIITE
      @SuperWHIIITE 2 года назад +670

      @@soul-the_argonaut5211 I'm 24 and I'm nothing special and I can acknowledge that I still have a lot to learn about the world. But sneako sounds less like me a year ago and more like me when I was 15. When I was super edgey and agsty and rebellious and thought I was the smartest guy in the room because the reality of the world started to hit me all at once. Its kinda dangerous for him to be old enough as an adult to make his own decisions but not mature enough to have gotten past his teenage mindset.

    • @Wiffernubbin
      @Wiffernubbin 2 года назад

      Sneako is unironically the low IQ npc he accuses others of being.

    • @soul-the_argonaut5211
      @soul-the_argonaut5211 2 года назад +111

      @@SuperWHIIITE 😂🤣this was so well said

  • @Cindy_D
    @Cindy_D 2 года назад +1707

    I am a woman who was raised with family values and morals, no way in hell would I be dating these type of dudes to settle. I run away from guys like Sneako.

  • @antfunny2187
    @antfunny2187 Год назад +1385

    Dude is literally destroying himself 💀 " i know what women want, I've been in 20 relationships"

    • @CallumRichards151
      @CallumRichards151 Год назад +123

      he's trying to hard to be like tate, he is loosing his own identity

    • @erenssister.5535
      @erenssister.5535 Год назад +75

      Having 20 one night stands does not equate to 20 relationship

    • @maryahpolk7278
      @maryahpolk7278 Год назад +42

      And to make it worst. His longest relationship out of ALL 20, was 2 years. Lol I'm dead. Dude doesn't even hear himself.

    • @Psilo-gn1sx
      @Psilo-gn1sx Год назад +3

      @@maryahpolk7278 lol, my friend having trouble with her bf, I literally just told her relationships ain't shit until at least 2 years. Anything before that is honeymoon.

    • @zenbear9952
      @zenbear9952 Год назад +19

      20 relationships is 20 failed relationships

  • @DreamingInTechnicolor
    @DreamingInTechnicolor 2 года назад +4108

    It amazes me when individuals seek out a partner with a strong moral fiber when they themselves lack said morals. The hypocrisy of it all!

    • @femimark5021
      @femimark5021 2 года назад +28

      It's not hypocritical. Don't use words when you don't know what they mean.

    • @CJ-ru7uf
      @CJ-ru7uf 2 года назад +382

      I agree like, what’s the point of requiring criteria even they don’t hold up to? lol

    • @voidtempering8700
      @voidtempering8700 2 года назад +656

      @@femimark5021 How is that not hypocritical? Saying something and then doing something else. How is that not hypocritical.

    • @conchobar
      @conchobar 2 года назад +36

      They do it because they can. Show me a male serial cheater, and I'll show a man who never struggles to find a woman willing to enter a long term relationship with him.

    • @DreamingInTechnicolor
      @DreamingInTechnicolor 2 года назад +221

      @@femimark5021 in certain religious sectors it is considered hypocritical because the individual stated that he is a “good“ person a good man a good man MUST possess strong moral fiber… he must be able to direct the woman in his house to be a Godly woman and trusted to lead and protect. within that context he is being hypocritical when he demands that of others - being the women that he wants to get with - something he does not possess himself.

  • @nyworth1588
    @nyworth1588 2 года назад +2425

    Destiny with an easy W. No woman that has been saving herself up until her late 20s is going to want a man who’s been sleeping with 100s of women

    • @pookpook3891
      @pookpook3891 2 года назад +455

      Thank you. It always amaze me how guys who have been sleeping around since they're 17 and are still doing it in their late 20's without any knowledge of loyalty or what a healthy relationship is think they're entitled to such women. It's two different lifestyles and the relationship is bound to be a wreck from the get go. Plus the guy will never be happy and delude himself into thinking he would be and never return to his old ways lol

    • @Kyronetta
      @Kyronetta 2 года назад +34

      Exactly

    • @adio8824
      @adio8824 2 года назад

      Neither is she looking for an incel (involuntary celibate) woman not looking for a man who can’t get women.

    • @nsbdbsbsbdbzbz8555
      @nsbdbsbsbdbzbz8555 2 года назад +65

      Lol?
      Thats exactly who they want
      Drake
      Justin Bieber
      Leonardo dicaprio
      Bla bla bla.
      You people are delusional

    • @brothaman007
      @brothaman007 2 года назад +13

      If youtube would allow memes, the Joe Rogan seeing a knockout meme would be all over this video. Destiny was punishing Sneako for opening his mouth.

  • @dummybear6772
    @dummybear6772 2 года назад +1308

    Aba's so right it kinda hurts. The Red Pill guys bashing jaded women, single moms and broken families likely have a hand in creating them with their attitude and behavior.

    • @eastwaters4082
      @eastwaters4082 2 года назад

      Of course they have a hand, only their sperm. Unless they forced the woman to have sex or to give birth, all responsibility goes to the woman.

    • @kristun216
      @kristun216 2 года назад

      You really think there's enough red pill guys to ratio the jaded women, single moms and broken families? Is it not likely that women do this themselves because they pick terrible partners. Yet again we are taking accountability away because now there's a red pill boogeymen impregnating women and leaving them to raise the kid themselves. Always the men's fault.

    • @missa2855
      @missa2855 2 года назад +50

      Nobody asked me, but: I was confused for a moment about that statement cause I thought "wait, red pillers are like 'don't fuck around, seek partners that share your values and be a provider'"
      But of course I realised that there are more than one red pill brand.

    • @TheOfficerlucas
      @TheOfficerlucas 2 года назад +7

      God damn aba and preach are what will fix the soul of this nation

    • @Londonlink
      @Londonlink 2 года назад +31

      @@missa2855 I never hear those red pillers what are their channels?? Genuine question

  • @spitalhelles3380
    @spitalhelles3380 Год назад +878

    sneako acts so edgy yet he is so easily influenced

    • @mitchjames9350
      @mitchjames9350 Год назад

      Sneako is sleazy slime ball and a grifter.

    • @teasquared09
      @teasquared09 Год назад +52

      Dude literally doesn’t think for himself

    • @harambe7430
      @harambe7430 Год назад

      Agreed, he’s literally the biggest gullible sheep on the internet

    • @revolution475
      @revolution475 Год назад

      He's a fool

    • @mothh7600
      @mothh7600 Год назад +22

      @@teasquared09 dude doesn't think.

  • @jurgenkuka7962
    @jurgenkuka7962 2 года назад +2331

    I swear to God Sneako is just like a 14 year old kid who found out that parents aren't always right and starts yammering that he knows more than they do.
    Exactly the same

  • @docholliday9741
    @docholliday9741 2 года назад +3438

    As a man who has been happily married, with three daughters, and runs his house with a badass woman who’s done nothing but point out how our daughters need to have a good man but will never get one if they aren’t a good woman, I can say with 100% certainty that any man who is truly ok with his daughter being part of a harem needs to be investigated. There’s something big time wrong there

    • @lilmoloch
      @lilmoloch 2 года назад

      yeah all those dads that let theyre daughter date, Narcos, drug dealers, Hitman, Scammers, should be ashamed literally, shamed , *dude i heard youre daughter is dating an ex criminal who used to robbed at gunpoint*

    • @tonkysue207
      @tonkysue207 2 года назад +84

      Well said

    • @sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986
      @sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 2 года назад +22

      Most cultures throughout history have tended towards polygamy western society is one of the few that has (mostly) prioritised monogamy most men in history and in the world today actively desired their daughters to marry a powerful/wealthy man even if it meant being one of many wives to a king it’s still better than the only wife of a peasant

    • @dude2410
      @dude2410 2 года назад +40

      @@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 It's interesting how people just disregard thousands of years of human polygamy and pretend it's some "crazy" unbelieveable anomaly, now THAT is something worth of investigation.

    • @dude2410
      @dude2410 2 года назад +8

      Please explain to me what you think a harem is, and why it's wrong or reprehensible.

  • @nikkiq5124
    @nikkiq5124 2 года назад +1697

    The fact that he couldn't even properly define what a relationship was and mockingly reduced it to watching Netflix with someone speaks for itself. Red pill guys are so eager to tell women they'll die alone, but guys like this are the real ones that'll die alone because they never learned how to acquire nor sustain meaningful relationships.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

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    • @gummy5862
      @gummy5862 2 года назад +85

      Yea kinda sucks cause Sneako’s overall persona seems pretty charming (especially when you look at his old vids) and he’s definitely super attractive and tall. Someone like him shouldn’t have any trouble at all finding a good relationship, but he just completely wrecks it for himself. Sad, but I don’t feel bad.

    • @Waterbug1591
      @Waterbug1591 2 года назад

      Jordan Peterson allowed Mikhaila Peterson, his daughter to date Andrew Tate. She flew to Romania to meet Andrew after divorcing her perfect husband. What can the blue-pilled betas say about that???

    • @spike5499
      @spike5499 2 года назад +42

      @lovekaaay he always had an ego problem, there's entire youtube videos about it

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 2 года назад +6

      How to acquire in this meangless world? It's literally swim against the current. If nobody taught you that is hard, if not impossible, to find by yourself in this current world

  • @jarilee_
    @jarilee_ Год назад +991

    As a spiritual woman none of us want a man who’s sleeping around sex affects you spiritually and a man who claims to want a spiritual woman, but also be spiritually tied to 90 other women is diluted 😂not to mention not all men and not all women work, the same sexually, and are aroused by the same things if anything, having a bunch of sexual partners, will make it harder for you with the person you end up with because you have all these preconceived ideas of how they’re gonna want it instead of just finding out how they like it.

    • @schmeetsonbeetson7168
      @schmeetsonbeetson7168 Год назад +87

      And on top sneako is Christian, I have no idea why he is so polygamous.

    • @redvelvet9215
      @redvelvet9215 Год назад +45

      As a woman I agree

    • @Psalm_23
      @Psalm_23 Год назад +5

      @@schmeetsonbeetson7168 because its in the bible
      be fruitful and multiply

    • @schmeetsonbeetson7168
      @schmeetsonbeetson7168 Год назад +111

      @@Psalm_23 bruh...God literally made a law for the kings to be monogamous but they ignored it anyway. Be fruitful and multiply doesnt mean do it faster

    • @truthhurts101.
      @truthhurts101. Год назад +3

      that’s only with females when they have sex men spiritually bond differently not through sex but through responsibility’s and duty for the women you are with

  • @kiragumanyara
    @kiragumanyara 2 года назад +1500

    One thing I’ve learned from life is that just because someone talks loudly and passionately about something doesn’t mean they’re correct

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 2 года назад +54

      ...or talks fast like Ben Shapiro. If you really listen to what they are saying it is usually BS.

    • @chuyozuna2398
      @chuyozuna2398 2 года назад +42

      At first I was hooked to the socialist Left on Twitch during the Trump years (HasanAb etc.) and then I migrated to the red pill community a year ago because I was looking for dating advice and men issues because Hasan and other left wingers weren’t talking about it lol and now idek, I think it’s best if I stay moderate because both sides have gone so extreme

    • @kiragumanyara
      @kiragumanyara 2 года назад +54

      @@chuyozuna2398 Take what you can from both sides.. if you wade through the bullshit, keep and open mind and ALWAYS challenge your ideas and viewpoints objectively you'll be okay

    • @crispin_21
      @crispin_21 2 года назад

      Facts

    • @dude2410
      @dude2410 2 года назад +6

      @@kiragumanyara Most ideas you can't challenge objectively, sounds like good advice on paper, but it really doesn't apply well practically.
      One true thing I think is that you should live your life periodically, one phase consisted mostly of thinking, and one of action, and repeat.

  • @Mohamed-uc9mb
    @Mohamed-uc9mb 2 года назад +1319

    Married for five years, and I have a daughter, I try my best to treat my wife same way I would want my daughter to be treated. Some people are hypocrites, they idolise the likes of Tetes or pick up arts but they want their daughters or sisters to be treated well. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

    • @Cbawls
      @Cbawls 2 года назад +51

      Spot on

    • @neku2741
      @neku2741 2 года назад +29

      Best you can do to treat your loved ones by loving them. No need to be andrew top G tate, if you have to be something you aren't to keep them then you are not in a healthy relationship.

    • @the1only467
      @the1only467 2 года назад +5

      Well said.

    • @LarryBonson
      @LarryBonson 2 года назад +15

      Every man wants their daughters, sisters women in their family to be treated well because that's their family it has nothing to do with hypocrisy but looking out for yours. It not your job to look out for other people kids just like it's not your job to supervisor other people.

    • @ayeyou5651
      @ayeyou5651 2 года назад +112

      @@LarryBonson ignorance is bliss... if the next man hold the same philosophy... it will be very hard for the woman you care about to be treated well... because everyone is looking out for someone else. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @stinaw.454
    @stinaw.454 2 года назад +1243

    I couldn't imagine telling my dad I'm about to be one of twenty lol. There's no way I would embarrass my family like that. Idk how someone could want a traditional woman and then plan to live a completely reckless lifestyle before or with her.

    • @notsorry3631
      @notsorry3631 2 года назад +120

      Not even the most open minded people want that for their child, or their mother for that matter.

    • @DefenderOfTheEnd
      @DefenderOfTheEnd 2 года назад +12

      Young Women were often given by their fathers to wealthier men being 1 of 5 or whatever number. Thats actually traditional..... polygamy is also traditional...... but hey 🦦 there’s still modern dating and marriage...

    • @dynamicdingus
      @dynamicdingus 2 года назад +39

      Yea in the middle east, not here in the west

    • @casebased8391
      @casebased8391 2 года назад

      @@DefenderOfTheEnd That’s not the norm in any traditional country lmao. The male/female ratio in the population is 50/50. If 5 women went to 1 man, that means the *vast* majority of men would die childless with no family. *Most* people, even in the Middle East, practice monogamy.

    • @flowergirl-o9d
      @flowergirl-o9d 2 года назад +4

      Exactly, I agree with them to an extent about modern women but they themselves are no different

  • @artistjuliadocherty
    @artistjuliadocherty Год назад +323

    It never ceases to amaze me that guys like Sneako & Tate don’t understand that men like Sneako and Tate create women that Sneako & Tate complain about🤦🏼‍♀️ Like seriously, honest question to men, what do you expect women to do in a Tate/ Sneako world? If you want 50’s women, be 50’s men… It’s so simple.

    • @nightshade3782
      @nightshade3782 Год назад

      Funny how they are oblivious like this, they don't understand they are male equivalent of OF girls, no really valuable man would take girl like this, so its logical no valuable woman would take a guy like this

    • @5Akecheta4
      @5Akecheta4 Год назад +2

      Tate is no where like Sneako.. What you talkin' 'bout? Tate might say or talk kinda crazy, but we all know what he is talkin' 'bout... Even myself will say or talk kinda crazy 'bout somethin', but my buddies know it.... So i advise you to understand

    • @deansn8580
      @deansn8580 Год назад

      You’re wrong yikes

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 Год назад

      @@5Akecheta4 They're exactly the same. Except Tate is more articulate about it. Tate is a manipulator, con man and overt narcissist. Gullible men got played by him. His tactics would never work on a high quality woman with morals and self respect. He simply wants a weak minded woman who allows mental abuse and mind games. Keep following that corrupt mindset and watch how you'll end up divorced down the road. Then you'll probably whine and blame all women because you don't know how to function properly in a marriage.

    • @5Akecheta4
      @5Akecheta4 Год назад

      @Mitch P Like what.. No you explain

  • @BobbyDigMOB
    @BobbyDigMOB 2 года назад +3218

    Destiny is preaching. I was thotting it up in my 20s and I haven't had a healthy stable relationship because I didn't develop the skills needed to maintain a healthy relationships. Did get a couple children out of it though.

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  2 года назад +1850

      Glad you had that reflection, put young folks on game.

    • @Uncle_Apoc
      @Uncle_Apoc 2 года назад +794

      That child support hit different.

    • @chiru4017
      @chiru4017 2 года назад +75

      @@AbaNPreach earlyyyy gang pull up

    • @Skullfire56
      @Skullfire56 2 года назад +18

      Ok Jody

    • @noblegalifreyan4551
      @noblegalifreyan4551 2 года назад

      Men right now are trying to "live their best life" but will shit over women when they do the same. Then. They end up bitter alone and with child support

  • @ek5273
    @ek5273 2 года назад +1143

    Sneako portrays levels of pseudo-intellectualism that would embarrass a 14 year old reddit atheist circa 2010.

    • @mikescherrer4923
      @mikescherrer4923 2 года назад +34

      Yoooooo 🔥

    • @phillipterrance4171
      @phillipterrance4171 2 года назад +53

      This comment is spot-on 💀💀

    • @adio8824
      @adio8824 2 года назад

      You comment spews “pseud-intellectualism”. Sneako is a young man exploring why we hold certain virtues over the others. Stop suckin ya nut sack

    • @cobracommander8133
      @cobracommander8133 2 года назад +13

      LOL

    • @BimmerBros
      @BimmerBros 2 года назад +9

      Edgelord lol

  • @SweetAsYoni
    @SweetAsYoni 2 года назад +334

    It's always the selfish, non-wholesome ones asking for someone wholesome and generous 🙄

    • @Brookigetit
      @Brookigetit 2 года назад +20

      FAX

    • @Maleetorres105
      @Maleetorres105 2 года назад +31

      Lol yes true for real. Those people aren't compatible with wholesome women its too much work for a selfish person irl. I hold the guys I date up to the standards I hold myself to.
      - conciderate of timing/planning
      - frequent updates & communication
      - don't mention other women/men
      - show interest in personal and family life of your date
      - exude kindness, grace, and consideration (socially aware of what appropriate)
      - control of their emotions (stoic)

    • @deadlyninja112
      @deadlyninja112 2 года назад

      Narcissistic symbiotes

    • @autumxxleaves4186
      @autumxxleaves4186 2 года назад +13

      Narcissist in training

    • @ThomasFoolery8
      @ThomasFoolery8 2 года назад +4

      Tell this to all of the innocent Victoria’s Secret angels who slept with Leo DiCaprio and see what they say about it.
      If you can get it, it’s because she wants you. That’s the free market.

  • @Lala_monzz
    @Lala_monzz Год назад +1593

    as a woman who saved themselves for marriage, I have never gotten into trouble with men, I’ve mainly focused on my job and school… I would consider myself a good girl, I never drink or do drugs and I barely go out anyway lol when I got married two years ago, I did a thorough investigation of my man and the lifestyle that he’s lived, he was a virgin as well, which is what I wanted because I was as well. he lived his life religiously, he prayed, his social media accounts portrayed it and his family and friends portrayed it and even my parents, who I go to for approval, approved of him. He’s 3 yrs older than me and we have been married two years with a baby on the way. Don’t be so bitter towards women when u expect one to live with u and build a life with u. If you want a good girl, you have to be a good guy. You can’t expect a good girl, when you’re a hoe lol

    • @Ibn267
      @Ibn267 Год назад +27

      How did you investigate to find out he was a virgin tho😅

    • @Ibn267
      @Ibn267 Год назад +4

      @@itwasaizensplan007 thanks mma avoid all duh and not get caught now. U helped a brother out

    • @Princess15732
      @Princess15732 Год назад +78

      Where did you find your guy? I am also a spiritual person and looking for same type of person. I go to church a lot but I don't get to meet any young guy

    • @Ibn267
      @Ibn267 Год назад +26

      @@itwasaizensplan007 I was joking m a virgin as it can get but if she slept around in the past and she changed and no one in the community knows then it’s calm ig I’ll still marry her. M not gonna ask her about her past I’ll ask about her present so Yh

    • @intellextualweq3830
      @intellextualweq3830 Год назад +9

      Water seeks its on level in the end. ❤

  • @bluechiefawesome5587
    @bluechiefawesome5587 2 года назад +786

    The thing with Sneako is that he is basically the male version of the hypergamist women he so much despise; wanting a huge body count, money, getting famous, living a life of obscene luxury. His whole life purpose is to consume and spend his time on this Earth on frivolous things. Just like Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit and the rest of the so-called manosphere, he isn't preaching the Bible or leading by example; he wants women to be modest, traditional and grateful and yet, his life is the exact opposite of that. I find it ironic how he keeps talking about the Matrix and the Blue Pill when in reality, his whole gimmick is nothing but a celebration of consumption, vain needs and the most basic fantasies of getting ass and money no matter what.

    • @salmagtz7110
      @salmagtz7110 2 года назад +18

      👏👏👏

    • @Raven-lu5ee
      @Raven-lu5ee 2 года назад +15

      PREACH

    • @Elmo914
      @Elmo914 2 года назад +11

      Hes still a kid, doesn't know anything. Let him grow out of it. Him debating destiny was good and I dislike destiny, sometimes all these kids need is someone to tell them that there are other ways.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

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    • @lilmoloch
      @lilmoloch 2 года назад +8

      You can be a gentlemrn be good looking and respectful, my sister literally just dumbed hes bf she said he was 'boring' , the previous dude she dated cheated on her and the relationship lasted longer despite the cheating, being a good guy gets you nothing

  • @krystelhardesty9960
    @krystelhardesty9960 2 года назад +453

    What gets me is that this guy will go out and sleep with every women he can, and then turn around and complain about damaged women sleeping around. Like my dude you can't do that and still think you aren't part of the problem, and then think you deserve a perfect virgin never been touched women when you want to settle down and have a family.

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 2 года назад

      He hates "sIuts" but sleeps around.... so who is he sleeping with??? Men???
      He's one of those guys that thinks "when men get a lot, it's impressive, but women can get it so easy" as if it's women's fault that men will fu/ck anything with a warm moist hole. Lmaoo

    • @footballholic_R10
      @footballholic_R10 2 года назад +55

      For real, he gives off the energy of the "where are all the good guys" equivalent when it comes to relationships

    • @bean-pod
      @bean-pod 2 года назад +28

      Yep -- this comes out in the debate. A devout woman is married with children longgg before that kid ever decides to settle down. They won't be available when at 40+ he decides he wants a "good woman" 😂

    • @edge7941
      @edge7941 2 года назад

      In his defense, if he were to not sleep with these women, someone else would. You think him holding out is going to change western culture? Men are not the problem for existing in this dynamic. Blame your media, your pop stars, your politicians for allowing children to be captivated by problematic lifestyles.

    • @alanparker2817
      @alanparker2817 2 года назад +5

      Hate the game, not the player

  • @AP-qu2li
    @AP-qu2li 2 года назад +735

    it is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows

    • @giovannime3192
      @giovannime3192 2 года назад +11

      Well said. This young man is marketing himself and his "skills" to a younger generation. The formula/roadmap for attracting money, power, people with guaranteed success is a myth. Success/Failure/Path are individual. Social media is hope for some, entertainment for most, and a bag for others.

    • @Canseeyt
      @Canseeyt 2 года назад

      Facts 💯

    • @sylerbeen4569
      @sylerbeen4569 2 года назад

      Facts

    • @shaggyd00kale58
      @shaggyd00kale58 2 года назад +2

      Love me some Epictetus

    • @ghostlandered
      @ghostlandered 2 года назад +4

      That's why at 31 I'll admit i don't know shit, and never will

  • @yahussain1272
    @yahussain1272 Год назад +316

    Aba nailed it, its always the guys bashing the single moms who put those women in that position…

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 Год назад +10

      Michelle Qureshi Yes I never understood that. It's something disgusting.

    • @OFFICIALRAMKO
      @OFFICIALRAMKO Год назад

      That’s bs… most single moms are single moms by choice. Loser simp.

    • @jaimeb.873
      @jaimeb.873 Год назад +3

      I wouldnt say "those guys put those women in that position" because it's women that choose who they have sex with and have the final say.

    • @jackeagleeye3453
      @jackeagleeye3453 Год назад +28

      @@jaimeb.873 It's a two way street, the men are just as responsible as the women.

    • @rico14
      @rico14 Год назад +1

      It’s the toxic people on both sides that make each gender look bad. Kind of like politics too.

  • @cardinalsfan9610
    @cardinalsfan9610 2 года назад +495

    "A real relationship is dealing with the ups and downs of life with a partner you're committed to, not someone you meet on Friday night to F" is advice that a lot of men and women need to take to heart.
    Too many people are just wanting the upsides of relationships, not being with someone when they're struggling. I had experiences in my own life where no one was around when it would have been nice to lean on someone. Then and now, I can reflect and say how nice that would have been, and how much of a difference it would have made. Never getting that really stung.

    • @alieshahill8937
      @alieshahill8937 2 года назад +33

      I thought that was a mic drop moment. In my opinion, no one will ever get the security and satisfaction a real relationship brings from being an F boy (or girl).

    • @lorddj9910
      @lorddj9910 2 года назад +20

      I know how this feels bro hang in there

    • @Shawn-my8pz
      @Shawn-my8pz 2 года назад +18

      @@lorddj9910 For real, got to understand what it means to be human and having a lover should be the other half of you. You both know what, having that maturity, and how to embrace all the aspects of life together because suffering is inevitable in this universe and having someone there is such a blessing.

    • @the1stmetalhead
      @the1stmetalhead 2 года назад +2

      This right here 👆🏼

    • @ThomasFoolery8
      @ThomasFoolery8 2 года назад

      And yet, Destiny just slept around most of his life and is in “healthy” long term relationship now. I thought that isn’t something he can magically do because all he has experience with is f**king them.

  • @younggooni14
    @younggooni14 2 года назад +297

    Man said 20 spiritual women like Pokémon.. dude was talking about a cult lol

    • @wimsylogic65
      @wimsylogic65 2 года назад +8

      Why does it have to be spiritual women? What is it about spiritual women that makes it so they wanna be in a harem? I consider myself spiritual. I don't want to be with anyone other than my husband who is the only person I've ever been with. I am absolutely repulsed by the idea of other people, Outside of my marriage.

    • @JaculaDudek
      @JaculaDudek 2 года назад +3

      GOTTA CATCH 'EM ALL

    • @franciscolima1762
      @franciscolima1762 2 года назад +4

      @UnfaithfulEvil 🅥 congratulations.👍🏾

    • @younggooni14
      @younggooni14 2 года назад

      @@wimsylogic65 they used the word “spiritual” but I think the idea behind the concept the guy was referring to was someone who’s faithful.. to him. The way in which you described your relationship with your husband is exactly what he’s looking for, even though he doesn’t plan on doing the same.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад

      They want to be the next R Kelly lol.

  • @christopherclark8788
    @christopherclark8788 2 года назад +217

    It's not that he's 23 because I'm 23 it's that he doesn't want to swallow his pride and admit he's wrong. My grandfather always told me Pride goeth Before Destruction.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

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    • @missmargmillionaire6421
      @missmargmillionaire6421 2 года назад +6

      Grandpa know his bible

    • @christopherclark8788
      @christopherclark8788 2 года назад +3

      @@missmargmillionaire6421 he was a pastor before he retired

    • @Jake38nine
      @Jake38nine 2 года назад +1

      Sneako has a big ego to make up for something smaller in his pants. That's how all red pill men are.

    • @mmaScholar99
      @mmaScholar99 3 месяца назад

      ​@@ItzMalick Ur channels dope bro, I just subscribed. I'm also an up and coming RUclipsr, can you give me a shout out on your channel?

  • @Resident_Legal
    @Resident_Legal Год назад +223

    I would personally rather be with one woman that truly matters to me for the rest of my life than being with 20 different women sexually that don't mean shit to me nor have anything in common with me.

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад

      Hahahaha bro that's what a lot of men want but it's usually the woman who actually matters to you who is the one who stabs you in the back. For my men reading this with common sense here's a piece of advice, NEVER care about a woman, never give your heart to a woman, never be vulnerable with a woman because I promise you it will come back to bite you in the ass. You don't have to believe or listen to anything I'm typing, you can continue to listen to this blue-pill, soft, soyboy, simp, cucks and have a woman cheat on you and ruin your life.

    • @Resident_Legal
      @Resident_Legal Год назад +2

      @@HowlingMikey You are the most triggered boy on the internet. Just because 19 random people liked my comment you feel some pathetic need to “shut down” my comment by calling me all these things that I am not :) I said I personally prefer to truly and fully be with just one woman that matters to me instead of being with 20 random women sexually that don’t matter to me at all. That’s just my way of life. If anybody else wants to be like you and not care about any woman in his life and also have a bunch of random and pointless sex all the time with random people that’s fine by me, also good luck on your STD test! Anyway I consider the majority of blue pill people to actually be the ones who have the worst relationships. Just look at Destiny and his “wife”, they both agreed to an open relationship and both constantly fuck random men and women. Those constant sexual acts lead to nowhere. What is the point of being married or being in a serious relationship if there is no loyalty between a man and a woman, and they constantly feel the need to fuck other people?! Would you still be born if your father hadn’t loved your mother or cared about her at some point? Saying something like “Never care about a woman” is the stupidest thing you could possibly say.

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад

      @@Resident_Legal Well first if you trust a woman to the point where you give her your trust and you're all, you're a dumbass, I don't even mean that in a disrespectful way honestly. A woman will ruin your life just because she feels like it, you could be the perfect husband it doesn't matter. Now PERSONALLY the reason why I will have sex with women outside my marriage is because women have this habit of denying their man sex, we all know the stereotype of a man asking his woman for sex and she replied "no honey I'm tired", "no honey my head hurts" , "no I'm on my period". I am against forcing a woman to have sex if she doesn't want to or if she's not in the mood, so you can say no if you want to but I refused to be sex deprived because my wife doesn't feel like having sex. If I was up to me I would fuck my wife EVERYDAY, then fuck some disgusting slut once a week to relieve myself.

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад +1

      @@Resident_Legal Also I appreciate the respectful reply, even if I did come in hostile to your original comment. I still stand by what I said
      MEN do not marry a woman and tie your name to hers because one day she will wake up and leave you and take you for everything she can. Also if you find a woman who seems good respect her and treat her well but DO NOT give her leverage over you and always mind your boundaries

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад

      @@Resident_Legal Also yes I did say never care about a woman because caring about a woman is how men are put on trial and are taken for alimony, child support, and spousal support

  • @psychotropy101
    @psychotropy101 2 года назад +708

    The worst thing about all this is that there are young, impressionable men who are following this kid down the wrong path. This is why it's important to stay in your son's lives gentleman.

    • @pcasimire
      @pcasimire 2 года назад +80

      You don’t know how many times I have to tell my brothers to be careful with what they watch and just stay away from these type of people. It’s like once you watch one of these red pill videos, you get wrapped into some pipeline that’s hard to escape

    • @brahtrumpwonbigly7309
      @brahtrumpwonbigly7309 2 года назад

      Is rather them get red pilled vs turned into zimps. These are two sides of the extreme.

    • @Santiago_RS
      @Santiago_RS 2 года назад +38

      @@pcasimire Exactly! Dudes like Tate and Sneako be changing people's minds, especially the young ones. I’m young too but I can’t take them seriously lol. The best decision was to stop watching Sneako after a few videos

    • @ThomasFoolery8
      @ThomasFoolery8 2 года назад +2

      The wrong path of becoming rich and successful? Oh no.

    • @dumdude1083
      @dumdude1083 2 года назад +10

      I pray he never tried to sell this shit like a program like andrew Tate. Rn he really believes this bullshit and maybe can change with experience but when you add that money he'll never be able to change

  • @jobiy1999
    @jobiy1999 2 года назад +241

    If you want a girl who's honest be honest. If you want a girl who can raise a family be a man who can raise a family. If you want a girl who's spiritual be spiritual.

    • @reitum.9950
      @reitum.9950 2 года назад +1

      Noted.

    • @moltisanti9190
      @moltisanti9190 2 года назад +3

      You think that’s how life work?

    • @jobiy1999
      @jobiy1999 2 года назад +49

      @@moltisanti9190 I know that's how life works. Maybe I should have said keep instead of want.

    • @sunipye7051
      @sunipye7051 2 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @sunipye7051
      @sunipye7051 2 года назад +37

      @@moltisanti9190 Yes. Be what you want to see in your partner.

  • @derpderp3383
    @derpderp3383 2 года назад +504

    I don't have kids and I'd be uncomfortable sending my 18 year old daughter with a 40 year old dude. I got uncomfortable just hearing that.

    • @ibizawavey8630
      @ibizawavey8630 2 года назад +11

      Agreed. Would you send your daughter to war? or to be a cop?

    • @Zellymackintosh
      @Zellymackintosh 2 года назад

      Sending? Are you a pimp sir? Lol

    • @OMAR-vk9pi
      @OMAR-vk9pi 2 года назад +10

      Nothing wrong with age gaps given the guy is a good guy but there’s definitely extra suspicion

    • @pillaygabrielle4450
      @pillaygabrielle4450 2 года назад +60

      @@OMAR-vk9pi maybe 21 and 40 yes. 18 and 40 is very fucking sus.

    • @VonTheStampede
      @VonTheStampede 2 года назад +11

      She is still a teenage so let her grow up a bit. Also if the 40 year old man got everything together and is a good guy? Is it a still a problem?

  • @constantineparaskeva1676
    @constantineparaskeva1676 Год назад +168

    The Andrew tate thing aged well 😂 I’m not rich nor do I have a Bugatti but I’ve a wife kids and a roof nor have I ever spent two months in a Romanian prison as of today so I take my humble little life.

    • @missinterpretation4984
      @missinterpretation4984 Год назад +7

      Well played, sir!!

    • @alleywaydude399
      @alleywaydude399 Год назад

      W.

    • @Mptappin12
      @Mptappin12 Год назад +10

      Yup and by his tweets, he says he needs to defend his food from cockroaches. And there’s a crazy guy in his cell so him and his brother take turns sleeping.

    • @womenstriving8960
      @womenstriving8960 Год назад +2

      Well done sir! 🎉 you’re winning at life

  • @EVOxGEORGEx
    @EVOxGEORGEx 2 года назад +802

    Sneakos problem isn’t that he is 23, I am 23 and I like to think I don’t come across nowhere near as incompetent, unintelligent and narcissistic as him. His problem is that he can’t be wrong, even though his whole ideology falls apart after a few simple questions are asked to him.
    He really makes the red pill community look stupid, he clearly doesn’t know how to think for himself and he’s just regurgitating what he has heard and takes it on board without first thinking about it himself.

    • @bronzee548
      @bronzee548 2 года назад +16

      You are a smart 23 yr old.

    • @mohamedhussein2780
      @mohamedhussein2780 Год назад +41

      Sneko is one of those die hards andrew tate fans that unconsciously trys to be like them but ultimately fails. I like tate he is a funny guy, i agree with alot of things he says, but some things I don't. Definitely don't like habing a harem of girls, since that is a serious headache to deal with, one women is enoigh as it is for my stress levels😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kevinsaviro2708
      @kevinsaviro2708 Год назад +28

      Its quite ironic how he preaches to stop following the herd or the “matrix” but he himself also just mindlessly follows others. Its human nature to follow each other.

    • @seanwalsh7542
      @seanwalsh7542 Год назад +8

      the irony is that the red pill community actually thinks for itself, whereas the blue pill is of the hive mind. Sneako is a young guy, but his ideologies hold true in practice

    • @deecartier7376
      @deecartier7376 Год назад +1

      The fact yall have a community called red and blue pill community Is dumb asl ima be honest t

  • @barryhill2836
    @barryhill2836 2 года назад +431

    I'm GENUINELY happy I was too shy in my teens and early 20's to sleep around. I've been in a long term relationship for over 8 years and I'm 27, and I'LL BE HONEST, I feel like I've dodged so many bullets.

    • @markcoleman7246
      @markcoleman7246 2 года назад +36

      Yea but can she say the same? How do you know if you find out one day things weren't "as they seemed" all those years?🤔 It wouldn't be the first time it's happened.

    • @seeksolace2059
      @seeksolace2059 2 года назад +1

      @@markcoleman7246 true

    • @aClownBaby-
      @aClownBaby- 2 года назад

      You can have both though. I was a whore, then got into a 6 year or so relationship, and I’m now 2 months free at age 27. But I’m EU and the drinking age was 16, so EU maybe started doing those things way earlier

    • @aClownBaby-
      @aClownBaby- 2 года назад

      @@markcoleman7246 Yeah, I think everyone needs a slut-fase in their lives. Otherwise you’re gonna regret it later

    • @jamesonblues
      @jamesonblues 2 года назад

      Yes you did. Coming from a 35 year old ex-manwhore. Blessings to you!

  • @indiascarlett
    @indiascarlett 2 года назад +890

    Destiny is bringing up a point that I've always thought, high value women don't want men who've slept around and done all that, the Kim k types do.
    If you want a woman with a past who has reinvented herself then yes, you can marry someone who dresses well, acts classy, wifey material etc.
    But if you want a woman with an entirely clean slate who has always had good values, then don't act like Andrew tate.
    I don't have anything against the man but any traditional woman would be too embarrassed to go out with him considering how public his lifestyle has been.

    • @thethinkingmansgame5050
      @thethinkingmansgame5050 2 года назад +209

      That's FnF too.. they don't want a girl with a high body count..but demand they have segs on the first date or meet or withing 3 dates... hmmm your contributing to the high body counts... and when they say no..you leave

    • @indiascarlett
      @indiascarlett 2 года назад +166

      @@thethinkingmansgame5050 yep, they refuse to take responsibility for how they have helped this culture take such a deep root in society.

    • @kingofgrooveness
      @kingofgrooveness 2 года назад +1

      This is exactly why I watch red pill stuff. I always try and be fair to my girlfriend and when we discuss toxicity in females I also have to have an understanding of toxic masculinity. I find that the new feminist movement and the red pill movement are the toxic traits of shitty people coming together in an echo chamber so they don't have to acknowledge reality. In terms of the conversation, there's no way in hell would any mature or economics savy man think that spreading something would make it more valuable. If I put my dick in just ANY girl I have to recognize my value goes down. High supply and low demand isn't high value. High demand and low supply means high value.

    • @christophervibe7430
      @christophervibe7430 2 года назад +3

      The difference is him being able or been able to attract and sleep with women makes him attractive women co-sign with other women to see the value in the guy so if a guys experienced in sex, and other women can vouch for him then that gives her a higher incentive to sleep with him, let’s use romantic attractions, if he’s able to attract women both sexually and romantically it tells u this guys really worth getting if that guy has nothing behind his words to prove his value women will not give him the time of day at least women who want a quality man

    • @soundspeachy5140
      @soundspeachy5140 2 года назад +1

      @@christophervibe7430 Why are men like you so ignorant. You literally have a woman TELLING you that women who have traditional values are not attracted to man whores, and you feel the need to go against that cause "I know what women more than women", like are seriously trying to explain female attraction to females???

  • @John-hz8kq
    @John-hz8kq Год назад +79

    sneako will never find a nice girl, very arrogant of him to think good women would want something like that

  • @Tee9156
    @Tee9156 2 года назад +519

    My problem with the red pill community has always been their extreme and narrow view of life. It's the same issue I've always had with the modern day feminism. I understand most people want life to be either blue or red, I get it, it'd be simpler, but that's just not how life works.
    Can't deal in extremes in life. No, not all single mums are bad. Not all men deserve good women, and vice versa. Not all men deserve submission, and not all women deserve the princess treatment. Just bcs he/she is 'spiritual' doesn't mean he/she is not flawed, or that he/she will always be spiritual. Life is a journey, people change. They have crisis in faith, mid-life crisis, and their circumstances change. Grief, age could mess them up.
    Expecting to have a smooth sailing relationship without ups and downs is unrealistic. No matter how good things get, you'll be tested. It used to be men who understood these things while modern day feminism sold women fantasies. Now we have men who are being sold the same fantasies of having it all. It's simply exhausting at this point.

    • @nihil8131
      @nihil8131 2 года назад +56

      Couldnt agree more. Admittedly I fell pretty hard into the more toxic side of the red pill community and as you would expect made me miserable about everything. Thankfully I realized what this philosophy was doing to me mentally and spiritually and ditched it altogether. I'm in a much better place mentally and spiritually now and after leaving all that did I realize that that community and the extreme feminist were practically one in the same.
      IN a weird way I am glad that I did go through that journey though because it did wisen me up to the reality that as you said there are rarely anything that can be labelled as black and white and that there are nuances to practically everything.

    • @goldenwarrior4727
      @goldenwarrior4727 2 года назад

      @@nihil8131 I would disagree that is feminism because that is similar to think conservative ideology is similar to white nationalism, but its true that people weaponize equality for their own deed just look at TERFs for example.

    • @davidsolimene5367
      @davidsolimene5367 2 года назад +1

      @@davidjo508 has he always talked like that? Did he actually say he's "redpilled" verbatim?

    • @foxxysoxxs
      @foxxysoxxs 2 года назад

      @@davidjo508 ouch, your mother should consider leaving him for someone who can treat her better

    • @Maleetorres105
      @Maleetorres105 2 года назад +12

      Thank you yes. I have a very holistic view on people. Like its your fellow human being treat them with that consideration whether you respect them or not. Its selfish to use someone at your convenience for your self satisfaction. If I leave a guy I don't go back when im lonely or bored because it wouldn't be right to use them like that. Very self centered for everything to be about your pleasure and wants in a social relationship.
      I like being kind to people and leaving them how I found em. In good faith. Which is why anyone who doesn't act like that I would never be able to tolerate or talk to for longer than 10 minutes. Never even let myself come in contact with those people. Pretty easy to spot out on dating apps if u know the red flags. Lol one time I did and I berated him for his selfishness and ghosted him. Why be with someone like that when I could find a guy who does make me feel respected and important.
      A woman who doesn't play games and values herself would be too much work for sneako to realistically be with. He would not be able to meet her standards of attention, time, organized planning, family/inlaw support, thoughtful words and actions. Not possible

  • @JDWalker495
    @JDWalker495 2 года назад +264

    “Gotta catch them all”
    Sneaky really out here playing Pokémon with women while destiny playing chess with an idiot

    • @xsxm3116
      @xsxm3116 2 года назад +12

      That shit made me crack tf up ngl😂

    • @kibablade2642
      @kibablade2642 2 года назад +1

      That was VERY WELL said!!! Bravo 👏

    • @Noir_tommie
      @Noir_tommie 2 года назад

      yoooo😂😂😂😂😂

    • @endonyxoneaudio8644
      @endonyxoneaudio8644 2 года назад

      Bars!

    • @edk487
      @edk487 2 года назад +1

      Sneako is 20 lol why would he settle down for one woman now, the difference between people is negligible so why settle for only one.

  • @dugonman8360
    @dugonman8360 Год назад +214

    A mormon friend told me this once:
    "Every man wants a traditional virtuous woman but want to continue being letcherous hedonistic degeneratss. Likewise, Women want a gallant chivalrous man but continue being materialist vain hedonists.
    Men want an Isolde, a Zelda, a Buttercup but they outright refuse to be Tristen or Link or Wesley. This is why the dating scene is in the pits"

    • @unwnme
      @unwnme Год назад

      Did he leave out how women are responsible as well?

    • @yourmother5810
      @yourmother5810 Год назад +44

      ​@@unwnme "Likewie, Women want a gallant chivalrous man but continue being materialist vain hedonists."

    • @pinkkfloydd
      @pinkkfloydd Год назад +47

      @@unwnme Reading comprehension ain't your strong suit, is it?

    • @josephtyndall7411
      @josephtyndall7411 Год назад +1

      Mf I'm trying 🤣

    • @Fox20muir
      @Fox20muir Год назад +1

      FAXX bro

  • @Aaron-kj8dv
    @Aaron-kj8dv 2 года назад +170

    I love when Aba said "your behavior leads to the outcome you claim you don't want"
    The same way man hating women raise their boys into the men that they hate, these dudes will do the same exact thing with their daughters. It's all a cope.

    • @Plutonic_Blue
      @Plutonic_Blue 2 года назад +2

      Goes both ways women do this with daughters too

    • @KHOiloveromeo
      @KHOiloveromeo 2 года назад +3

      @@Plutonic_Blue WE KNOW

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад

      Everytime you go to the strip club or log onto only fans you got to praise these types of men who become fathers I guess.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +1

      @@Plutonic_Blue OP literally stated it.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

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  • @gerardedison2001
    @gerardedison2001 2 года назад +612

    I tried being a F-boy for half a year in my early 20’s and couldn’t do it. I had always been a relationship guy and thought I could just turn the switch and F around with multiple women. It was exhausting and I found myself still pining for my lost love. You have to have the right mindset to be polyamorous and I don’t have it. It’s ok to acknowledge your true nature and live in it.

    • @JahnDavis2734
      @JahnDavis2734 2 года назад +89

      Yup, I had an experience like this after my first long-term girlfriend cheated on me after 3 years together.
      I had a bit of a phase where I was having physical intimacy with women I wasn't dating - essentially a hoe phase. That was the single most unsatisfying period of my life - it just felt completely wrong, for the 1.5-2 years it was going on. I'm just not built that way.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +45

      good for you that you found that out. How would you feel about a woman who is very similar to you but also went through a very similar experience? Would you be able to be in a relationship with her?

    • @keithhayes6339
      @keithhayes6339 2 года назад +18

      Same... I lost the weight, I was wearing the jersey shore shirts rocking true religion jeans. That shit lasted a whole 2008 summer , after that I went this shit is stupid. Got me out here looking like the great value version of Flo-rida. Hahaha

    • @breeexmortis
      @breeexmortis 2 года назад +46

      These guys aren't even polyamorous; they're the exact kind of guys that I try my best to avoid when they slide into ENM spaces cause there's nothing _ethical_ about what they do. They're just hollow... Don't care about anyone but themselves 😕

    • @breeexmortis
      @breeexmortis 2 года назад +70

      @@MusMasi That's actually a really valid question lol I see men go through these sorts of redemption arcs all the time, but women often don't get the same leeway when it comes to their body count

  • @sinnsupbringing3764
    @sinnsupbringing3764 2 года назад +501

    you’ve helped me open my eyes finally . I was really into the Sneako things then I really started going deep & thinking about it . we all grew up thinking we were gonna be Lebron or Kobe or Mike then the real world hit and we realize there are millions probably billions of people way better than us . the chances to be in the NBA are .001% . the chances to be rich are probably just as slim . as long as you can live comfortably and provide for yourself and your offsprings that’s all that should matter . a better life doesn’t have to be filled with vanity

  • @mysticmoon3042
    @mysticmoon3042 2 года назад +532

    It’s annoying to hear a man say i as a woman don’t know what I want from a man. They say that so they can push their will on me. I know I don’t want to share just like you don’t. I’ve been married 9 years it’s not all sex and Netflix it’s hard work it’s literally facing your traumas and overcoming them for the betterment of your family.

    • @gg_ingy
      @gg_ingy 2 года назад

      The same clowns think that all women have the mind of a child. No sir, you're just dating the women on your level. Simple men.

    • @ZoniZahiRoniZahi
      @ZoniZahiRoniZahi 2 года назад +7

      Do you know the reason why they say that, and does it contain any degree of accuracy in your opinion? How did they come to that conclusion, what's the specific association?

    • @fishdeeck71
      @fishdeeck71 2 года назад +10

      You may know what you want, good for you. Women as a collective don't. But let's assume for a moment that women do know what they want. How can women, as a collective, know what they want and file for 75-80% of divorces?

    • @trisha130
      @trisha130 2 года назад +109

      @@fishdeeck71 having a divorce is also a decision, they want it for themselves. This narrative that women don’t know what they want is total BS. There is more to life than romantic relationships.

    • @aubreysong
      @aubreysong 2 года назад +27

      @@fishdeeck71 Choosing husband is just like choosing a leader, it's a gambling.
      Sometimes you questioning your leader decisions, right? The problem is, people nowadays don't know what is the purpose in their life, don't know why they even born as human, and what their responsibility as human being who has more inteligent, awareness, and conciousness that differentiate human and animal. Norms and values. Especially in new normals era.
      Ngl, there's serious trust issue problems in modern society between men and women.
      The art of leadership in family, man as husband and father, women as wife and mother, parents as parents, is decreasing rapidly.
      It's kinda suck when you asked your leader where are you going to lead me, but you found that they also have no clue, vision, or even guts to take risk making a decision. If it happened in a country level, and your politician or country leader do this, you will complaining a lot, right? Same thing with your wife and kids, they will always questioning your decisions as family leader.
      You can always blaming women, but if you think men is supposed to be the leader in his family and society, you must admit, there's serious leadership problem in modern men.

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 2 года назад +374

    I love how Aba calmly slow walks a person into their own hypocrisy with targeted questions. It's actually a work of art. Awesome video.

    • @kingkarma4286
      @kingkarma4286 Год назад

      You must be an idiot if his backwards logic works on you, I pray every that can , takes advantage of your stupidity to gain more in their life.

    • @sebastianmonette8763
      @sebastianmonette8763 Год назад +4

      My boy is a scorpio but denies it

  • @edgartorres6482
    @edgartorres6482 2 года назад +312

    The fact that he was so easily influenced by those type of “guru’s” for lack of a better term shows how much growing he has to do. It’s one thing to agree with some points but then downloading that and blindly subscribing to that is nuts.

    • @nikolairose2739
      @nikolairose2739 2 года назад +1

      I do admit Sneako is rather dumb when it comes to gathering information, making logical points, and coming to logical conclusions. But many men all around the world have the very same opinions as Sneako/Andrew Tate. It's called being conservative and striving for more.
      They are a bit loud with their desires, but that's only because the masses of men are bereft of masculinity and as internet personalities... They have to be extreme to garner attention and spread the message.
      I guarantee that for every Sneako there are thousands of low-key men working on themselves in some field they are in trying to reach the top at. All the while being fit, dating, and building themselves up to be future patriarchs.
      No man is "easily influenced". You either are that guy or you are not. What you are seeing are plenty of men who have resonated with that message since childhood and finally are seeing people spreading the same message.
      The more masculine and disagreeable your nature. The more likely you gravitate towards "alpha male energy". The more agreeable the more you were programmed by society and opt for more leftist views, and detest "alpha male energy".
      People often say that Andrew Tate's message or Sneako's message is targeting kids who are mad at women because they can't get laid.
      A. Kids don't care about getting laid. They are kids.
      So why do they say this? What do kids represent? Kids represent our most authentic selves before most of us are culled of all our personality and sent of to be slaves to the system. Kids are unapologetic. Kids love nice cars and boldly proclaim the things they desire to become.
      So when people say that insult it's to say that the viewers are all delusional children who refuse to grow up. But growing up to the average human means becoming a dull automaton who lives a very steady/comfortable life.
      And to be a kid. To have hope, to have bold dreams, and visions of grandeur... It goes against the grain. And it "isn't attainable" for all, so they destroy the child in us all as best they can to assure we all end up conforming members of society.
      It's deep. Deep goes the rabbit hole.

    • @Tjnovakart
      @Tjnovakart 2 года назад +16

      @@nikolairose2739 I don’t know how this behavior became seen as “conservative,” but it’s not. Every conservative dude I’ve met over the age of 35 that isn’t just a manchild is HUGE on family values and monogamy. They believe that sleeping around in and of itself is a sin regardless of gender, and that sex should be saved until marriage or at the very least a few years into a relationship. There’s a reason why abstinence-only sex ed is so common in red states. To believe that guys hoeing around is remotely conservative is laughable at best. The only exception is certain cults, which are universally panned by a vast majority of conservatives, both male and female. These manosphere dudes just want to excuse their bad behavior and cover their asses by trying to attribute it to a common belief system, even if it doesn’t track.

    • @nikolairose2739
      @nikolairose2739 2 года назад +2

      ​@@Tjnovakart
      What is conservative really? Good question.
      For this talk and for my previous answer. Think of conservatism as someone who believes both in gender roles and traditional masculinity.
      Traditional masculinity being in favor of leadership, strength, knowledge, honor, courage etc.
      Gender roles being the man as the bread winner and leader, while the woman is the home-maker and housewife to the man of the house.
      How we go about expressing gender roles or traditional masculinity varies greatly based upon your religion, culture and geographic location.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

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    • @Waterbug1591
      @Waterbug1591 2 года назад

      Jordan Peterson allowed Mikhaila Peterson, his daughter to date Andrew Tate. She flew to Romania to meet Andrew after divorcing her perfect husband. What can the blue-pilled betas say about that???

  • @goodvibesandhealing
    @goodvibesandhealing Год назад +61

    As a girl I always thought this. It is just as ungodly for these men to have so many sexual partners, drinks, smoke, and even produce adult film content, as it is for women to do the same.

    • @starlarose2216
      @starlarose2216 Год назад +9

      Right! What's good for the goose is good for the gander, if men want women to act and be a certain way they have to hold themselves to the same standards.

  • @titanblade3706
    @titanblade3706 2 года назад +267

    It’s quite sad that these grown men have the mind of a teenager. They expect women to be adults (really a submissive sex doll) while they get to act like teens. They need to grow up.

    • @vaderkurt7848
      @vaderkurt7848 2 года назад +4

      They will mature around 25+

    • @m_ron2742
      @m_ron2742 2 года назад +13

      @@vaderkurt7848 we’ll see… but i doubt it

    • @p4ladin167
      @p4ladin167 2 года назад

      Agreed. Switch the genders and you got a redpill talking point right there.

    • @MenchieExtrakt
      @MenchieExtrakt 2 года назад +4

      @@vaderkurt7848 andrew tate is 40 though

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

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  • @deaconx
    @deaconx 2 года назад +342

    When someone tries to cover their stupidity with 'confidence', this guy is what it looks like.

    • @erikasmith8894
      @erikasmith8894 2 года назад +18

      That also looks just like Fruity and Fraud.

    • @Jasiqueenz
      @Jasiqueenz 2 года назад +5

      This comment right here 👌🏽👌🏽absolutely nailed it

    • @EyobFitwi
      @EyobFitwi 2 года назад +5

      That's why I don't put confidence on a pedestal like so many people do. Don't get me wrong, confidence is a useful tool, but it's far behind having substance.

    • @Leprutz
      @Leprutz 2 года назад +2

      @@EyobFitwi a Tool to be learned and used wisely.

    • @dynamicdingus
      @dynamicdingus 2 года назад +2

      He learned it from his daddy tate

  • @versatileduplicity9313
    @versatileduplicity9313 2 года назад +689

    If you're 40 years old man with an 18 year old woman, you're a predator. That's sick

    • @medusachristo4998
      @medusachristo4998 2 года назад +147

      She's not a woman, she's a girl. Absolutely

    • @itkojecockot
      @itkojecockot Год назад +7

      and how much of an age difference is acceptable (according to you) ??????

    • @bubbles261
      @bubbles261 Год назад +53

      @@itkojecockot lol divide your age by two and then add 7

    • @sgracem2863
      @sgracem2863 Год назад +73

      For real it’s insane people worship the dude. I knew society was going downhill but this is just making me scared to raise children

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 Год назад +33

      @@itkojecockot 5 to 6 years at most. If you’re in your 40s. Around 21, no bitch under 19. If your between 19 and 20 as a man, then no one under 18. If you’re 18, no one under 17. If you’re 25, no female under 22.

  • @bostontowny4life744
    @bostontowny4life744 Год назад +12

    Sneako is the embodiment of someone who needed to get their ass kicked, but never did. They always ran away, slipped out of sight, hide in the bushes.

  • @theincrediblejessica1420
    @theincrediblejessica1420 2 года назад +108

    You know what’s funny to me is that all these men claim to know women and know how to “get” women but none of them ever actually ask an intelligent woman how they feel about this

    • @dlilwon
      @dlilwon Год назад +1

      An actual intelligent woman will intimidate men like them which is why they go for air head bimbos. Even they know that

    • @TheRealTact
      @TheRealTact Год назад +6

      They only know about the treeshes and the onlyfans models.

    • @jaredl1480
      @jaredl1480 Год назад +1

      Facts. They believe that women don't know what they want

    • @Gothicc_senpai
      @Gothicc_senpai Год назад

      smart women are rare

    • @spaghettimonster153
      @spaghettimonster153 Год назад

      @@Gothicc_senpai Listen to yourself. Look around. The vast majority of the population are mindless drones, and you simplify it down to "women". Smart people are rare. You aren't one of them.

  • @zaza-ks9wb
    @zaza-ks9wb 2 года назад +527

    At the ripe age of 34 the best dating advice i can give as a single person is this: find someone you wanna struggle with. Most ppl won't have the whole moneyed fantasy so being with someone you want climb out of rock bottom (everyone falls there at some point in their lives) with will hopefully open you up to new ppl that you might not have otherwise looked it.

    • @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist
      @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist 2 года назад +27

      It's fascinating how shared interests, struggles, and mutual benefits get overlooked so often.
      People's coping mechanisms under stress & pressure say a lot more about them than almost any other aspect of their personality.
      There are people whose primary coping mechanism seems to be shared misery instead of shared solutions to problems.
      I've seen other relationships where they'll burn out pretending to be a solo hero or give up and let it all burn before changing any aspect of themselves and working with someone else.
      Better make sure the sun's always shining, and they want for nothing, or you're in for a treat.
      EDIT: Thinking a bit more about it. It seems to boil down to finding someone with comparable uncertainty/risk tolerance, time preference, effective coping mechanisms and shared interests and values.
      The physical stuff matters, but there's a strong case of diminishing returns with those.
      Saying you care about “personality” without specifying what kind of personality is usually meaningless.

    • @zaza-ks9wb
      @zaza-ks9wb 2 года назад +17

      @@DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist that's exactly what I mean. Relationships should be more than a picture opportunity. It should be a unity between compatible individuals
      I stayed in a bad relationship because he fit all the criteria so when I told ppl i was going to break up with him everyone told me that relationships take work and that he was such a good guy itd be silly to break up. I felt like I was wrong and making a bigger deal then it actually was. So I stayed. I was not happy. When I finally couldn't anymore and broke up, the relief i felt was tremendous. We're better friends than partners.

    • @joegurt2957
      @joegurt2957 2 года назад +5

      @@zaza-ks9wb that’s real right there

    • @1974GreekTiger
      @1974GreekTiger 2 года назад +3

      Women don't build up with you.They wait at the finishing line to get the winners.

    • @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist
      @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist 2 года назад +6

      @@1974GreekTiger Find one who didn't have much choice except to build themselves up?
      While they're building up themselves they can struggle with a partner or struggle without one.
      Circumstances shape behavior.
      How many have you tried this with?
      No guarantees here, but if someone knows how to deal with stress and uncertainty productively (because they were forced to) due to past experiences, they're less likely to throw a fit and screw you over temporary uncertainty later in life.
      If they could avoid a bitch fit when times were tough (without you) there's less reason to assume they'll throw one when you're around and life throws lemons at you both (as life usually does).
      You gotta find them before you or they reach the finish line.
      Problem is the ones trying to reach the finish line may not be as common as the ones already waiting at it for someone else.
      You gotta rely probabilities instead of guarantees.

  • @SoLoboo
    @SoLoboo 2 года назад +503

    I used to talk just like Sneako when I had no real experience with women, but swore I had it all figured out. It’s a coping mechanism for lack. But I was much younger than he currently is. The fact this dude is 23 but articulates like a 14 year old know it all is top tier cringe character creation.

    • @thabokgwele5268
      @thabokgwele5268 2 года назад +83

      Lol that's the thing. They keep saying he's 23, but I wasn't acting like this last year when I was 23. I think most 23 year olds don't sound this pretentious. He comes off like an edgy teenager at best.

    • @Skullfire56
      @Skullfire56 2 года назад +35

      Ain’t got shit to do with age, just look at F&F and Andrew Tate

    • @BklynConan
      @BklynConan 2 года назад +27

      @@thabokgwele5268 I believe its because of the wealth he has amassed at a young age. It influences the mind to believe you ARE the main character if you are so successful, so young, while others are not.

    • @drnobody418
      @drnobody418 2 года назад +26

      Sneako use to be much calmer and sounded much more mature for his age when he was talking hot topics in his mid and late teens.
      Apparently after his last relationship ended that's when he swallowed that red pill a little bit to hard and capitalize on screaming into the screen with he shit he currently spits out

    • @lfcmike12
      @lfcmike12 2 года назад +12

      @@drnobody418 This is why young people don't need to be listened to, I have nothing against any of the people that were in these streams, but they're not having any sort of realistic conversation, Aba was the only voice of reason as far as I could see. This Sneako character and that Qcx or w.e his name was had nothing of value to add to the conversation.

  • @FatBoiaFatCat
    @FatBoiaFatCat Год назад +81

    My brother messed around mostly in his 20's. I got in a long term relationship when I was 19. He's a year older than me and we've only known about each other for two years. He recently got married and I recently broke off my relationship with the only girl I've ever been with. I gotta say, him settling down now, and watching him try to adapt to an actual relationship, is even worse in comparison to me six years ago.

    • @shubhambane7494
      @shubhambane7494 Год назад +4

      you will find someone right for you soon buddy

  • @outlawstargaming525
    @outlawstargaming525 2 года назад +173

    Now that I’m 35 all I can say is “these guys have a lot to learn” I also was raised conservative and todays world is crazy! Finding decent men and women and hard to find.

    • @Elmo914
      @Elmo914 2 года назад +24

      Age of social media and instant gratification my friend. Just keep fighting the good fight.

    • @jf8188
      @jf8188 2 года назад +7

      @@Elmo914 instant gratification is a drug that gets ahold of people. I’m guilty of it too but I’m working on it

    • @barryallen8307
      @barryallen8307 2 года назад

      Sneako is completely right

    • @victorprimal2437
      @victorprimal2437 2 года назад +2

      What made me realize I am still a kid even though I was 20 at the time was when a friend of mine who si in his 50's told me he wished hoe could be a kid again. I agreed with what he said, but I mean a child in their single digit age, while he meant my age. It was then I knew, I am still a dumb kid who is FAAAAAR from being a true, mature man. I will never forget what my friend said and take those words to heart untill the day I die.

  • @crellc
    @crellc 2 года назад +251

    What caught me was that "Everyone can be rich"... NO everyone can't be rich. Business owners (like myself) can practice something I call "moral capitalism" which is small businesses who pay living wages and allow employees to live (relatively) comfortable lives. It's amazing to hear my 20yr old thoughts at 26 lol, shocks me to think how naïve i was. Great video Aba and Preach👍

    • @Quiselott
      @Quiselott 2 года назад +39

      Bro doesn't get market principles. If everyone hypothetically became rich at the same time then the new poor would just be the bottom 25%. All prices would adjust to accommodate the fact that literally everyone has more money now. It's a fairy tale that people who make it try to tell those who don't so they don't have to feel socially responsible.

    • @chuyozuna2398
      @chuyozuna2398 2 года назад

      Exactly, this SNEKAO dude is a complete idiot bro don’t know how basic economics works 💀💀💀💀

    • @dylan-5287
      @dylan-5287 2 года назад +3

      I can appreciate his idealistic youth, I think we all relate to that, and if anything I still feel that in my late 20s vs him being early 20s. But if everyone is rich, or strong, or whatever, then no one is. Those words only have meaning because it's not everyone.

    • @quarentitties9232
      @quarentitties9232 2 года назад

      @@Quiselott he never said everyone thoe he said everyone could be but only 1% will ever be it takes very little brain power to figure that out

    • @Typo385
      @Typo385 2 года назад

      Yeah, wealth is relative but not only relative to your peers and the current economy. Wealth could also be measured against the needs of the body and the resources of our earliest ancestors, by which most everyone not only could be but is wildly rich.

  • @felixuchies4688
    @felixuchies4688 2 года назад +442

    A woman who gives her life and body to give you children and nurture them, she deserves all the respect in the world from you, and banging other women is the ultimate disrespect to the only woman you'll find with the best interest of you and your kids in mind.

    • @heavygaming6596
      @heavygaming6596 2 года назад +79

      @Aimer ? maybe you shouldn't have been so fast to get her pregnant and left her since she's toxic? Idk isn't that what dating is for? To get to know if you're compatible

    • @paytonyoder1260
      @paytonyoder1260 2 года назад

      @@heavygaming6596 yeah, unless she’s faking it and pretending to be nice only to put a hole in the condom or “forget” to take her birth control to try and trap the guy.

    • @paytonyoder1260
      @paytonyoder1260 2 года назад

      What happens if that woman also holds sex hostage and uses it as a tool to force you to do stupid shit that she wants, she still deserves respect then?

    • @enochazmarino6905
      @enochazmarino6905 2 года назад

      Lol so the single mom epidemic is men’s fault yeah?

    • @torment6369
      @torment6369 2 года назад +8

      @@paytonyoder1260 Nope, but at the end of the day that is unfortunately the person's consequence for choosing that person as a partner. Everyone has flaws and people learn to live with them. Plenty of people who been married for years have also been fighting for years but yet they stay together. The funny thing is that when you really start to analyze why certain people do certain things you realize that while on the outside it seems different, it will eventually hit the same thing. In that situation a person may say well then I'll just go get sex from this other person. That is actually the same thing as a woman leaving a man cuz he's not making "enough" money. Both go to another to get what they are in need, while simultaneously saying f you to their partners for not giving them what they want. Instead of staying and trying to fix an issue, you temporarily patch an issue only for one to appear later. Then no matter what gender you are, reasons are created to justify the action but at the end of the day its just excuses from both sides to save face.

  • @Lady_de_Lis
    @Lady_de_Lis Год назад +56

    As a virgin woman who fully intends to wait until marriage, I could not care less how "talented" a man is in bed. That is so low on my priorities, that it doesn't even make it on the list. I have turned down prospective dates because I knew the guy slept around. Why? Because here's the baggage that comes with a guy who sleeps around: 1) He has never learned how to be in a committed relationship, so the chances of infidelity from him will be WAY high. 2) He could likely give me STDs. 3) I'll likely have to deal with a bunch of exes and baby mamas sticking their noses in our business. 4) His lack of self respect and self discipline is sure to affect other areas of our relationship and make things ways harder than they need to be.
    So, with all that in mind, here's some advice to the men out there looking for chaste women: Stop sleeping around. Be celibate for at least a year or two before you start looking for a wife. Stop watching porn entirely. Develop into a virtuous person who values others. Grow as a human being.
    if that's too difficult for you, go back to the clubs and the bars and find women there. We don't want you.

    • @extaza555
      @extaza555 Год назад

      And how old are you?

    • @Lady_de_Lis
      @Lady_de_Lis Год назад +12

      @@extaza555
      I'm in my mid-twenties. However, I personally know other virgin women irl who are both younger and older than me who all feel the same way I do.

    • @boysloveworld3424
      @boysloveworld3424 Год назад +12

      24 years old virgin here. The way the world is going I’d rather die a virgin 😂

    • @tovlonia1594
      @tovlonia1594 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@boysloveworld3424 As a 17 year old virgin, I couldn't agree more 😂

    • @paccawacca4069
      @paccawacca4069 10 месяцев назад

      You would crack in a heartbeat for a man who was redpill aware, lol

  • @michaelcain263
    @michaelcain263 2 года назад +103

    The key to be "high value" is to be good and kind. Care about people and improve yourself. That's it... the secret to good life.

  • @mharris4264
    @mharris4264 2 года назад +152

    Sneako is redpill talking points with a pinch of "wokeness" and a splash of schizophrenia. 🤣

  • @Skullfire56
    @Skullfire56 2 года назад +129

    The fact Sneako is now acting Iike the one girl he ran into attacking everything he said is crazy…..

    • @noblegalifreyan4551
      @noblegalifreyan4551 2 года назад +17

      It's because guys who try to act tough and "alpha" usually end up being the biggest hypocrites

    • @sawlty-suite5131
      @sawlty-suite5131 2 года назад +6

      from what ive seen of him in the past months he's got to be acting

    • @pookpook3891
      @pookpook3891 2 года назад +3

      For some reason I couldn't believe he was the same guy and thought of them separately lol

    • @thabokgwele5268
      @thabokgwele5268 2 года назад

      Lol hold up THAT WAS SNEAKO? damn

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo famm I’m An upcoming RUclipsr, and I Make a range of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a variety Of other content and I’m still working on versatility, and quality But I guarantee You will find something you will Enjoy🙏🏾‼

  • @reneegabbard6437
    @reneegabbard6437 Год назад +7

    The fact that Sneako paused before he answered those 2 question makes me feel like there is still hope for him.. he’s just young and being around guys like FnF and Tate, he can be influenced very easy. Hopefully he will grow out of it

  • @queenseabee8113
    @queenseabee8113 2 года назад +56

    That kid doesn't know. A girl that is loyal, has faith, is conservative, they are not gonna go for a guy like him. Not now and not when he's older

    • @feliciab5019
      @feliciab5019 2 года назад +7

      Exactly.

    • @Demipimp
      @Demipimp 2 года назад +5

      I hate to say it but they're both right sneakos an attractive rich man so he will get the girl and he will fumble her

  • @JukemDrawles87
    @JukemDrawles87 2 года назад +505

    You have to be like the top 1% to have a harem. I'm a Christian and no matter how rich or high value I become I'll just want one good traditional woman

    • @ma2443
      @ma2443 2 года назад +19

      I'm Muslim but same

    • @WORTH-IT-MAN
      @WORTH-IT-MAN 2 года назад +2

      My names Christian O’Pray and no I’m not religious I need help

    • @rissikesthiyagarajah2205
      @rissikesthiyagarajah2205 2 года назад +5

      I'm hindu 🕉 and I agree with tou

    • @DadsCigaretteRun
      @DadsCigaretteRun 2 года назад +9

      0.001% of people and it’s not good relationships IMO

    • @firstlast_x
      @firstlast_x 2 года назад

      🤣 You say that like you have a choice. Never met a man that wouldn’t want to fuck other women while loving their main girl.

  • @HaHa-lx9yo
    @HaHa-lx9yo 2 года назад +704

    As a woman who just broke up with a guy after giving a 100% in a relationship where the guy barely put any effort, thank you so much to Destiny. After being in a healthy relationship for four years but separated, I have always looked for the same relationship with emotional security and approached guys with utmost sincerity and honesty and got fucked over two times. Women want healthy relationships and the red pill community constantly says that women have the upper hand or whatever. Women have been fucked over by men as well.

    • @Elmo914
      @Elmo914 2 года назад +71

      Been there, shit is rough, because you feel like you're the only one that gets it. But all we can do is keep being true to our values and doing the right thing even when it feels hopeless.
      You will find that someone, perhaps its time to stop looking and let that chance fall to you.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +2

      Yo Famm I’m an upcoming RUclipsr, and I Make a range of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a variety Of other content and I’m still working On versatility, and quality but I guarantee You will find something you will Enjoy🙏🏾‼

    • @HaHa-lx9yo
      @HaHa-lx9yo 2 года назад +15

      @@Elmo914 Thank you so much!

    • @applefarm6126
      @applefarm6126 2 года назад +2

      @@HaHa-lx9yo Jesus loves you

    • @MACA_Zeon
      @MACA_Zeon 2 года назад +4

      Word. Me and my partner give each other slot and it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. We are very transparent as well even with our belongings

  • @spk1121
    @spk1121 Год назад +6

    If he had said "financially secure," I might have believed him, but "rich" was a step way too far

  • @adamh509
    @adamh509 2 года назад +352

    I'm 24 and been with the same girl for 5 years. I know I'm not old enough to say I've "experienced" life or that I know what there is to life, but I know damn well what it takes to make a relationship work, from communication of openly having hard to swallow conversations to ensuring that we are both happy with the state of our relationship.

    • @arka7018
      @arka7018 2 года назад +32

      29 same woman since 19 keep up

    • @selrox879
      @selrox879 2 года назад +25

      @@arka7018 rare men like you and @Soulomind
      Gives me faith in humanity 🤗👏

    • @arka7018
      @arka7018 2 года назад +13

      @@selrox879 big up, it certainly isn’t always easy and add 3 kids in the mix it truly hones your focus down to a point . God the head of Man, Man the head of Woman and Woman the head of the children and when we keep it orderly everything, everything move like a well oiled machine. It’s when we detract from these roles that the issues occur in life, I.E man turning away not listening to God. The core principle of it all, put that Word on you your family your wife .. keep that Word as the foundation and you’ll never be moved

    • @chuyozuna2398
      @chuyozuna2398 2 года назад +1

      W

    • @fate8007
      @fate8007 2 года назад +2

      @Big Almond sneako fangirl?

  • @christinanicole2226
    @christinanicole2226 2 года назад +116

    This reminds me of men that have tried to talk to me after their wild years and now they have like 15 kids by 15 different chicks and now want to settle down with someone without kids and it definitely goes both ways. I agree can't just turn off that switch.

    • @Maleetorres105
      @Maleetorres105 2 года назад +9

      Yup, yup baby mama drama. Don't want my simple life to get complicated and be faced with moral dilemmas. Also huge red flag that this dude will sink my ship if I rely on him. Met one, guy was crazy and emotionally stunted. Error 404 no logic found. Personal responsibility has left the chat..All the best to him tho.
      Also id get so much shit if I brought a guy like that home it would be awkward to explain a bad choice

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 2 года назад

      Yap me too ...plus also broke sick and financially shady

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +9

      How many people want that type of dysfunction in their lives? Several kids to several other people? No thanks.

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz 2 года назад

      u wish it goes both way lmao you must have literally run into all 2 of those men.

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 2 года назад

      Yup men with no dick control are such a turn off.

  • @Darksora79
    @Darksora79 2 года назад +168

    I remember being in a “pyramid scheme” meeting when I was younger and one of the big wigs said “I’m gonna be honest, only 5% of the people I talk to about this opportunity will make it.” And I never went back.

    • @OddsTheo
      @OddsTheo 2 года назад +15

      Man was just like "It's my last day, I don't care" and told the unpalatable truth

    • @Jade_Hanson
      @Jade_Hanson 2 года назад +9

      That's how it is in everything though... not everyone will be at the top else there wouldn't be a top

    • @OgZz73
      @OgZz73 2 года назад +2

      Lmaoo same shit happened to me i was like sumthings off and went home and researched that shit

    • @eastwaters4082
      @eastwaters4082 2 года назад

      Did the truth freak you out or something? The hungriest people make it the furthest and highest in financial freedom and success, that's exactly why people aspire to be part of the 1% and not the 99%.

    • @Darksora79
      @Darksora79 2 года назад

      @@eastwaters4082 freak me out? No I was a young naive dude realizing a piece of how the world works. I was right around Sneako’s age.

  • @tia5055
    @tia5055 Год назад +6

    True masculine man is someone who is responsible, humble, kind, loyal and prioritizes his family. He is aware of his strengths and weaknesses but never misuses his strengths.

  • @Starryeyedcathy
    @Starryeyedcathy 2 года назад +307

    Y’all please wear your seatbelts!
    We literally just buried a friend of the family’s son. He had just turned 18 and lost his life in a car accident. He was ejected out of the vehicle.
    If you are concerned about being trapped in a vehicle, you can purchased a seatbelt cutter and glass breaking tool. That should be what is promoted not a seatbelt bypass device.

    • @vincn5113
      @vincn5113 2 года назад +43

      Hilariously the most ridiculous part of anything he said shown in this video, how on earth someone would reject the statistics of seatbelts and the aid it has in preventing straight death in worse case scenario car crashes, is beyond me. While saying he doesnt even bother to actually know the statistics, just spouting random nonsense.

    • @gena5270
      @gena5270 2 года назад +7

      Someone I know survived because he wasn't wearing a seatbelt, he got ejected from the car through the windshield and 2 seconds after that happened the whole car completely got crushed.

    • @Ngozi838
      @Ngozi838 2 года назад +34

      @@gena5270 still wear your seat belts

    • @tayhoops8641
      @tayhoops8641 2 года назад +1

      @@gena5270 where a seat beat

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent 2 года назад +2

      thank you for the psa, bless you and all your loved ones. my condolences 🫂

  • @Alustar22
    @Alustar22 2 года назад +70

    This kid is so deep he can't get out even after being shown he's wrong. You can hear it in his voice when he doubles down, he knows he's caught, but he can't abandon the narrative or he'd lose face. I hope he gets help.

    • @kristianawilson9038
      @kristianawilson9038 2 года назад +3

      Its like jubilee video when those scientists were talking to the flat earthers. The pain I felt as the scientist looked blankly into the air because the flat earthers were so deep in their ideas

  • @MaliJ
    @MaliJ 2 года назад +277

    Destiny is right. Sneako just isn’t being logical.

    • @TemporaryJ
      @TemporaryJ 2 года назад +29

      Even Tate doesn’t talk about having “20 spiritual women”🤣🤣

    • @daviddawes293
      @daviddawes293 2 года назад +22

      If you’re 12 he’s your guy

    • @leely577
      @leely577 2 года назад +2

      He's always like that.

    • @isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643
      @isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643 2 года назад +2

      how long did it take for anyone to figure that out?

    • @conchobar
      @conchobar 2 года назад +7

      Only in some ways. I was raised in the Church and even attended a Christian University. Devote Christian women are still attracted to bad boys. A lot of those girls were praying for a "50Cent turnt Youth Pastor" for a husband. Destiny is 100 regarding dating a bunch of women won't teach you anything about making a relationship work.

  • @trespatines305
    @trespatines305 Год назад +31

    Feel bad for this kid. He’s just so lost and trying to be hard. The cool guy. Tried that and it’s pretty lonely and full of empty relationships.
    If your not with the person that you see yourself spending the rest of your life with, you’re wasting time. Life comes and goes quick.

  • @559DaHit
    @559DaHit 2 года назад +100

    Sneako is the example of a person who need to get real experience. He has the mindset of a high school kid

    • @kthom4595
      @kthom4595 2 года назад +7

      High School!? I was think more like elementary.

  • @depressedwatermelon411
    @depressedwatermelon411 2 года назад +151

    Things like this is why I love psychology. On one hand there's 23 year olds who are coping with lige and trying to create their own philosophy, then there's 19 or 20 yr olds who lived a tough life being forced to act 20 since they where 10 and are see the world completely differently than those who claim to know the world

    • @ExeErdna
      @ExeErdna 2 года назад +21

      True, trauma is nasty.

    • @donaldthompson6808
      @donaldthompson6808 2 года назад +21

      I give big respect for those who started working before 16. They know alot of shit about the world.

    • @devinparks7150
      @devinparks7150 2 года назад +4

      Moved across the country at 18 and make more than my parents at 20. Stress gets you out.

    • @youknowme1475
      @youknowme1475 2 года назад +2

      @@donaldthompson6808 i worked at age 15 Andøy cousin at 12-13

    • @out_of_orbit1968
      @out_of_orbit1968 2 года назад +3

      He is playing a character 😂y'all crazy. He will go back to being normal once people get tired of his red pil persona. Don't take it too seriously, 😅

  • @RazaqIshola
    @RazaqIshola 2 года назад +432

    I remember watching this Sneako guy a few months back. The guy who was interviewing people and was interrupted by the drunk woman. I thought he was very mature, a new RUclipsr who composed himself very well, spoke with logic etc etc etc. Now I'm discovering him again in these videos and he's gone proper douche bag. Did I miss something? What happened?

    • @andrewhood8952
      @andrewhood8952 2 года назад +149

      Your right I first saw his subway video's and he seemed normal now he has gone off the deep end.

    • @cheezballz1313
      @cheezballz1313 2 года назад +111

      Sneako been drinking the Kool-Aid.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +150

      Probably knows he can get more views this way, maybe partially hes just chasing the $?

    • @calisha1889
      @calisha1889 2 года назад +51

      Maybe the LA RUclips scene got to him, like Tana Mongeau. Used to seem okay, then turned into a sellout for clout and fast money

    • @Yuh_zhimmy
      @Yuh_zhimmy 2 года назад +40

      More views, more money. That’s why him AND Andrew do this.

  • @CJ-cz3hv
    @CJ-cz3hv Год назад +56

    No traditional woman would date sneako

  • @elevatedxconscience
    @elevatedxconscience 2 года назад +289

    Man I appreciate you guys for being the honest humans that you are.

    • @DomDanCam
      @DomDanCam 2 года назад

      🤣

    • @Teeth.Ledger
      @Teeth.Ledger 2 года назад

      u sound like u want to blow him or something....dont be such a stan

  • @dvariuswright3054
    @dvariuswright3054 2 года назад +346

    As a 26 year old young man I thought like sneako in my earlier 20s…but after missing out on some real “wife” type women because of my immaturity and lack of accountability, life slaps you in the face and makes you realize there’s so much more to it than pussy. Focus and chase your purpose, find you a solid wife who will support and fuck you, and you will see how much more content you are!

    • @lorddj9910
      @lorddj9910 2 года назад +13

      Big facts broo

    • @notTheXDer
      @notTheXDer 2 года назад +12

      THIS! The guilt is real as fuck.

    • @djjukeboxhero6491
      @djjukeboxhero6491 2 года назад +15

      Yeah but having "one-itis" is not good either.

    • @wasteddude
      @wasteddude 2 года назад +14

      @@djjukeboxhero6491 men lack discipline. I lacked it when I was in my early-mid 20s. Ngl.

    • @sebastienc.2257
      @sebastienc.2257 2 года назад +21

      Yup quality women get picked up in their 20s just like we get picked up by quality women. This doesn’t guarantee a happy life or marriage but in your 30s you’re usually dealing with more trauma when dating.

  • @austins.1102
    @austins.1102 2 года назад +100

    3:24 “A *real relationship* is dealing with the ups & downs of life with a partner that you’re committed to not somebody that you meet Friday night to fck” Destiny was cookin Sneako like Rotisserie chicken ngl🤣💀💀

    • @ichorous7434
      @ichorous7434 2 года назад +7

      SNEAKO went silent for like 5 seconds and then said "...fuck" after that 😭😭

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m An upcoming RUclipsr, and I Make a range of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a variety Of other content and I’m still working on versatility, and quality But I guarantee You will find something you will Enjoy🙏🏾‼

  • @doctort434
    @doctort434 Год назад +26

    Sneako is the sort of dude who just swallows red pill philosophies hook line and sinker, without any nuance or mature understanding

  • @MAli-os2yj
    @MAli-os2yj 2 года назад +75

    Stable relationships are an underrated requirement for a healthy society

  • @thornkelius
    @thornkelius 2 года назад +427

    The problem with this rise of “How to get women, Teaching Masculinity” is that PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN AGENDAS. Communities get flawed like this when people create echo chambers of their own perception based on their life experiences, personal trauma, and developed ego. All human beings are flawed. Nobody is perfect. With every action there is a reaction to things. But in between all that are nuances that have different approaches to things. Everyone is different. I think the problem with people who feed off of a specific ideology is that they fail to asses the other critiques and perceptions of other people as well actually proving the critiques to be false. There’s too much claims for shit to be said like “OH NO THIS TRUE TO EVEEEEEERYTHING” “THIS IS THE MAGIC SAUCE. I KNOW I KNOW IM RIGHT”. That shit is wack. That shit is dumb and that shit not only is not productive to helping people, but it's just another way for some people to make their ego bigger. It doesn’t help that these “teachers” get paid to do this. Now are all the teachers genuine? Maybe maybe not. But there’s more to life than a linear path to believe all woman to be this, all woman to be that etc etc. If anything, people need to look in the mirror and fix their own internal problems. Because it’s clear that both sides Male or Female, are having a identity crisis and communities like this, people are looking for answers. Now what is Female and Male? Hm?? Oh I know. Human Beings. Take accountability. It'll save you more time and money than taking these courses. Think for yourself.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +6

      A lot of that type of thinking has caused mankind a lot of pain and suffering over the years.

    • @samsonthewyrm9396
      @samsonthewyrm9396 2 года назад +1

      The problem with it is masculinity has absolutely nothing to do with women, just man.

    • @thornkelius
      @thornkelius 2 года назад +22

      @@samsonthewyrm9396 There definitely is like steps to manhood that don’t revolve around women. That needs to be in the forefront because women is such a small percentage of what it is to be a man. It’s more than that.

    • @Oblisk
      @Oblisk 2 года назад +9

      Exactly what I was thinking. There’s no ONE RIGHT IDEOLOGY when it comes to this aspect and area of life, there’s always little nuances and things that’ll work differently for everyone. There not one magic pill that’s gonna solve all your problems

    • @thornkelius
      @thornkelius 2 года назад +5

      @@Oblisk How the hell does everyone know what everyone went through? I always ask my self that. Like with Sneako “OH I CAN JUST KNOW” Bruh people are going through so much shit in life and we may never know about it. You can take an educated guess and maybe assume, but is that really the best way to lead people with a specific ideology of Manhood? Based on that shit alone? Idk man. What I do know is that people think things for their own personal reasons especially because of what they been through in life. And sometimes people aren’t conscious of why they think the way they think.

  • @kronos1794
    @kronos1794 2 года назад +90

    We need to get off this "everyone is special, a king, a queen, needs to be rich, ect." Everyone needs to just do their best every day and learn to derive joy from that growth. Not every seed is gonna become a giant tree but they can at least grow enough to break through the soil and enjoy the sun.

    • @cybertron1000s
      @cybertron1000s Год назад

      Everyone needs to put themselves where they can raise a family, this boomer-WASP Capitalist religion has been destroying families left and right since the 50s on wards. You won't be a millionaire, but there's nothing wrong with making 60k a year.

    • @LadyCoyKoi
      @LadyCoyKoi Год назад +2

      I rather be a medicinal plant... small, but really useful. 🥰🤷

  • @beatemuller3690
    @beatemuller3690 Год назад +12

    Nice to see some guys with their head on straight. It goes both ways. Children out of wedlock are by far the biggest red flag for a good woman looking for a husband and father. Both men and women’s body count matters. Birds of a feather flock together.

  • @kyleshelton1636
    @kyleshelton1636 2 года назад +134

    As a happily married man with a low body count, this is absolutely fire lmao. Body count matters for everyone, men and women.

    • @amandamarie69
      @amandamarie69 2 года назад +13

      Absolutely!

    • @eastwaters4082
      @eastwaters4082 2 года назад +5

      If you were a virgin, do you think you could've picked up the same wife?

    • @kyleshelton1636
      @kyleshelton1636 2 года назад +34

      ​@@eastwaters4082 actually, yes. I actually think she'd get a kick at the idea of stealing my innocence. That being said, the stars did kind of line up for us, and if I had been a virgin, it would have been a very different start to our relationship, maybe even a better one.

    • @rb9888
      @rb9888 2 года назад +3

      not really. men with high bodycount is always desired. it means that he have traits that women value.

    • @kyleshelton1636
      @kyleshelton1636 2 года назад +28

      @@rb9888 I'm referring to the psychological effects of sleeping around. It affects men too. Both men and women will deny it, but it does have repercussions.

  • @yotone8909
    @yotone8909 2 года назад +269

    I took a year long break from having sex with random women that I hooked up with back in the day . And in that moment in time what I found the most important thing in myself which was clarity in my life .
    Me at 25 I had shitty job delt with shitty women was depressed af lazy unmotivated unless it was for some ass . Me at 28 Now I have an amazing girl friend that supports me and loves me . I have a job that I'm proud of and also pursuing my dreams.

    • @williamchimezie7423
      @williamchimezie7423 2 года назад +10

      Glad to hear it bro! Hope u never stop striving for better in life

    • @kashifreza1993
      @kashifreza1993 2 года назад +1

      How did you stop and take a break from it ?

    • @cd4playa1245
      @cd4playa1245 2 года назад +9

      A girl’s personality can be so incredibly attractive and helpful in life.

    • @maddylou8173
      @maddylou8173 2 года назад

      @@kashifreza1993 distract yourself, discipline yourself, whatever you can do (that's healthy and progressive) to simply not give in to the horny. Dick discipline. Focus on yourself and not just your nut :D but im a female so im kinda just spittin random shit out

    • @alanparker2817
      @alanparker2817 2 года назад +4

      You come first KING

  • @cabpeer5963
    @cabpeer5963 2 года назад +173

    That whole point about the daughters...it's actually a very frightening thing to bring up. A lot of these types of men actually would be fine with their daughters being in a harem I think. They don't give a rip about their daughters because they don't give a rip about women in general. They just see us as bang maids. My own father is like Andrew Tate, but even worse. There's a reason he doesn't know anything about my romantic life.

    • @commandery3574
      @commandery3574 2 года назад +46

      oh my god. sending love, i hope you are alright

    • @cabpeer5963
      @cabpeer5963 2 года назад +25

      @@commandery3574 Thanks for your concern😁 luckily I don't live with him and I'm an adult. Our relationship is very limited. We like to talk about my travels and such, but there are a lot of no-no topics. I see him occasionally and that's about it.

    • @LGDarksteed
      @LGDarksteed 2 года назад +13

      Whoa. There's someone worse then Andrew Tate? Damn!

    • @adunce.5422
      @adunce.5422 2 года назад +2

      @@LGDarksteed Andrew Tate is my idol because he gave me the best possible advice to win the speedrun of life. The motivation to say, “the quicker this ends, the better.”

    • @jjrobledo
      @jjrobledo 2 года назад

      It's better than a guy that's lazy

  • @Amadeus_2061
    @Amadeus_2061 Год назад +12

    Blue shirt is absolutely right. I've had that view my whole life - will never touch a man that's passed himself around, most likely to loose women (because those are the only ones who will have him). I will not risk my own mental, spiritual, and physical health on a man who has no impulse control and whose entire life revolves around sex. These types of men will end up with their female counterparts, meaning, women who live by the exact same values. Like attracts like. It's law.

    • @honkhonk8009
      @honkhonk8009 Год назад +4

      Yup.
      People attract likeminded people.
      If the dude got zero other ambitions outside of chasing women, he's a loser bruh. Last thing u wanna do is fuck with those types of guys.

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад

      Hahaha sure... I'm sure you didn't go to some college party and fuck every guy at the party and get trains ran on you. Men this woman is a classic example of a woman who has fuck a bunch of men and now wants to change it around and say "no no no those guys are bad, I would never-" shut the fuck up

    • @HowlingMikey
      @HowlingMikey Год назад

      @@honkhonk8009 Dude... Are you dumb or stupid?
      If a man isn't ambitious he won't even get a chance to fuck a bunch of bitchs.

  • @kunosaki1302
    @kunosaki1302 Год назад +281

    For someone like sneako who claims himself to be red pill he damn sure comes off as a beta.

    • @normaaliihminen722
      @normaaliihminen722 Год назад +33

      He is caricature of Islam. Just like Andrew Tate is. It was unsurprising to me that Andrew Tate converted to Islam. It fits entirely with his persona.

    • @kunosaki1302
      @kunosaki1302 Год назад +4

      @@normaaliihminen722 no it wasn’t surprising at all only thing it it did was confirm my suspicions of Andrew.

    • @ScorpionSuerte
      @ScorpionSuerte Год назад

      So you're saying a guy who advocates watching your gf get railed by another guy is beta?

    • @user-rr9cg1ni3e
      @user-rr9cg1ni3e Год назад

      @@normaaliihminen722 don't disrespect Islam you dumb shit you judge a person's character of his religion and just so you know Andrew tate was a Christian a few weeks ago and sneeko isn't Muslim either. If anything this says more about Christians you retarded fucker

    • @detailmetail8622
      @detailmetail8622 Год назад

      @@kunosaki1302 that's what he said idiot

  • @crunchychicken2
    @crunchychicken2 2 года назад +150

    I recently turned 20 and one thing that humbled me was one of my mother's friends asking what age I'd be on my birthday then saying "oh you're still a baby" when I told her.
    It truly dawned on me that, yes we are legally adults beginning at the point of 18, but we seriously are still so young when it comes to our development and maturity.
    Stop thinking you know it all, stop thinking no one can teach you more than you know, stop thinking that consequences aren't something you don't have to face.
    Accept wisdom, accept knowledge, accept where you are right now at this stage and be humble enough to evolve day by day and want better for yourself and the future you have at your fingertips.
    One day you may raise a family or influence the youth in some way. So start from now being who you would've wanted to teach your younger self. Yes you may want to live it up, but still take responsibility for your life and future.

    • @sweetsugar2876
      @sweetsugar2876 2 года назад +11

      I’m 20 as well and noticed that within myself, I still feel young and impressionable now.

    • @crunchychicken2
      @crunchychicken2 2 года назад +10

      @@sweetsugar2876 for real and there's no shame in just admitting that. Everyone is so quick to be grown and think they know everything. Sometimes it's good to sit back and just accept that we really have so much growing to do throughout our entire lives so 20 is truly nothing.

    • @sweetsugar2876
      @sweetsugar2876 2 года назад +6

      @@crunchychicken2 exactly! I literally also just turned 20 as well and when I see these manosphere/red pill people and how brainwashed I was into this following.. it’s absolutely horrible. I geniunely believed I was going to lose my prime at 23/24 but I realize, if I keep optimal health, ignore these influences and put myself out there, I can find what I want and be that woman!

    • @lebrilopejackalope5775
      @lebrilopejackalope5775 2 года назад +6

      Everything you said it's all true, and I hope you realize even though you're young and have a lot left to learn, you already did a lot of growing up since you were a child or in your teens, and you're now mature enough to reach those conclusions you overlooked before.
      As for the "you're still a baby" comment, I can't say I take those too seriously, since it reminds me of my grandmother refering to 40-50+ year olds as "babies" or talking about someone who's 90 years old as being "young". We would always joke about it because of how ridiculous that notion was.
      What's certain it's people's perspective about age changes as they grow older, when we're young kids we perceive older teens as being so "grown-up", and 20 and 30 somethings are SO old, when you're in highschool you pretty much consider anyone who's older than you as old. A lot of people who are over 30 or 40 years old consider people in their 20s as "babies" or "kids".
      A big part of the reason why this is may be that they look back to when they were in their 20s and realize just how much they didn't know and how much they still had to learn, BUT funnily enough I think it also comes from a subconscious feeling of not wanting to feel old, after all if people on their 20s are babies yet then that makes them young adults.
      My grandma is a master at this: everyone who's younger than her is a baby, and even some who are/were older than her are still young (legit would say "She was only 90 years old, she passed away so young").
      Sorry for rambling so much, not sure why I felt like I wanted to share that.

    • @crunchychicken2
      @crunchychicken2 2 года назад +4

      @@lebrilopejackalope5775 lolllll this just reminded me of a thing older people in my country say whenever they hear that a baby is growing up. "They're getting old, not us right?" I always laugh because they really do never want to feel old/admit that they're getting older. I on the other hand proudly identify as 80 something years old because I've been having knee and back pains since I was 12🤣🤣🤣

  • @Schticky
    @Schticky 2 года назад +295

    Anybody that says they want their daughter to end up with someone like them and not someone better then them. Is either lying or a bad father.

    • @brunocardoso3326
      @brunocardoso3326 Год назад +5

      father this father that, the mom would tell her to marry the rich old dude anyways so, your point?

    • @bubbles261
      @bubbles261 Год назад +72

      @@brunocardoso3326 that’s called a bad mom too

    • @kingofgrooveness
      @kingofgrooveness Год назад +43

      @@brunocardoso3326 you sound emotional

    • @heyhey439
      @heyhey439 Год назад +32

      @@brunocardoso3326 Every mom I've ever known has advised me to focus on my work and health and don't bother with men at all.

    • @brunocardoso3326
      @brunocardoso3326 Год назад

      @@heyhey439 cap

  • @charproulx
    @charproulx 2 года назад +151

    The most shocking part of this video was finding out Preach is 40 when he looks like he's in his early 30's max

    • @jakd2962
      @jakd2962 Год назад +24

      Black don’t crack

    • @matthewhamilton2913
      @matthewhamilton2913 Год назад +7

      He could pass for 28

    • @WYKLO
      @WYKLO Год назад +1

      THIS DUDES 40!? I Didn't even know people that old knew how to use youtube

    • @mattm7426
      @mattm7426 Год назад

      Which one is preach, the gay one?

    • @CJ-cz3hv
      @CJ-cz3hv Год назад +2

      @@mattm7426 having a lisp doesnt mean being gay my guy

  • @Spartan117A51
    @Spartan117A51 Год назад +18

    Literally this kid has the audacity to say the stuff he does and has NOT got his ass beat

    • @rml4289
      @rml4289 Год назад

      Who's gonna beat his ass

  • @taybaybay5553
    @taybaybay5553 2 года назад +170

    dated someone for 7 years and had a kid with him who was 4 at the time, move across the country because he "never got to enjoy his 20's". three years later he's 33 and still out partying and sleeping around pretending he's 20 with no responsibilities. his parents encourage this behavior as well and think I'm selfish for thinking he need to grow up and help with his own child. this video makes me feel better because they think I'm only upset because I'm jealous and not because he abandoned his daughter just so he could sleep around and get drunk.

    • @Ticketman99
      @Ticketman99 2 года назад +14

      Lemme guess: he showed you something you liked and suddenly "transformed" later?

    • @marshapple
      @marshapple 2 года назад +26

      Sounds like my marriage! I was married to someone for 10years and he acts the same. His family enable him as well. His mother, sister and older brother. Most of his extended family aren't surprised when they heard about the divorce and why. They were more shocked that I stuck around this long. It's disheartening but I just take the L and move on. The kids were more than happy to leave with me. It's not all rainbow and sunshine because they are still trying to make my life a living hell. However, we just gotta keep pushing because our little ones need us.

    • @ImAgentK
      @ImAgentK 2 года назад +23

      Im sorry that happened yeah that’s messed up.

    • @m.a.118
      @m.a.118 2 года назад +13

      While thats is a problem, the "didn't get to live my 20's" is also a real problem. A lot of guys get sidelined in their 20's because they don't fit in at college or are still socially awkward or poor, or don't get any romantic or sexual attention. But often they find their stride, get money, improve in their looks by their 30's so yea... They're gonna live that life many ppl in their 20s got to live. Then these ppl who partied in their 20s now want to settle, but the guys in their 30s from FOMO retro-actively want a piece of that action too. That doesnt excuse running out from the kid, but the psychology is 100% there.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate 2 года назад +18

      That's literally the antithesis to what a man is. I also did that, but I did it from 16-20. I didn't get a child, and I certainly wouldn't abandon a child so I could be immoral. Imagine neglecting your children for short term pleasure seeking behaviour. Weak, and honestly saddest shit imaginable.

  • @dylantravis190
    @dylantravis190 2 года назад +561

    Yeah, for anyone who wants to justify sleeping around just know this. Birth control has a use failure rate of 7% and a perfect failure rate of 1%. Meaning, you have anywhere from a 1- 7% chance to get a girl pregnant 40% of pregnancies are unintended btw. You might think, why is this relevant. Well, if you get someone pregnant you don't care about you are extremely likely to break up thus creating a single mother. And that means, that kid is going to be a billion times more likely to grow up with depression, anxiety, and all kinds of other issues. If you are also the same type of person that thinks, why is this generation so weak. Consider this, maybe a bunch of kids growing up in fucked up households because someone with your mentality was out creating single moms caused a butterfly effect that your now seeing the results of. When you sleep around you don't just effect you and the women your with. You contribute to the epidemic of mental illness in young children due to growing up in fucked up households because there mom and dad don't give a shit about each other. Not to mention even if the women wants it, if you know it messes up someones ability to pair bond and do it anyway. Your just an awful selfish person that cares more about pleasure then thee long term consequences of there actions on society. If that women goes on to become fucked up in the head. guess what not only is she to blame for her behavior but you are also to blame for enabling that behavior. idk. maybe I have radical opinion on this. but this just seems the logical way to view this to me.

    • @1stblackpm
      @1stblackpm 2 года назад +49

      You're correct, but the problem is only getting worse

    • @KneeGrowDoingKneeGrowThings
      @KneeGrowDoingKneeGrowThings 2 года назад +10

      "That Nigha ain't mine"

    • @swirvin91
      @swirvin91 2 года назад

      Once I learned about what happens to a womens brain with the bonding hormone when she has sex with to many men. It made me feel like it was selfish to run through women.

    • @cvzdez
      @cvzdez 2 года назад

      TOO many men in the blk and brown communities are really slow when it comes to biology they think all contraceptives are 100%.
      Wondering why you broke and disease ridden and lonely by 40 suffering from ED.
      Men hit the wall hard too

    • @STOPPEDINCOLORADO
      @STOPPEDINCOLORADO 2 года назад +37

      That’s crazy. I always agreed with this standpoint but never thought about it on this level. What a wonderful, thought-provoking comment.

  • @cory8080
    @cory8080 2 года назад +57

    I had a business owner come and speak to my entrepreneurship class. He asked how many people wanted to make millions a year? Almost everyone raised their hand. He then asked those that answered yes to write down what we do on a daily basis, from the start of the day to the end. He then picked out three people from the lists and said those three got realistic chances but even them, it’s going to be a long journey. The rest of us were living in fantasy land and needed to get our heads out of our asses.

    • @Jake38nine
      @Jake38nine 2 года назад

      Exactly. I'm happy with what I make because I value my free time.
      To be rich, you have to sacrifice free time.
      And guess what? I'm still rich. Frredom is richness.

    • @aloowalia2849
      @aloowalia2849 2 года назад

      @@Jake38nine agree i see my aunt and uncle lifestyle who are millionaire in their 30s and that's not what I want in my life

  • @jackcommonman1381
    @jackcommonman1381 Год назад +12

    guys like tate are the reason fathers have been buying 12 gauges for generations