The Real Reason We're All So Busy (and What to Do About It) | Dorie Clark | TEDxBoston

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @jessopedia-J
    @jessopedia-J 2 года назад +46

    Real freedom is about choosing how and with whom we want to spend time with ❤❤

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 2 года назад +1

      Yes !

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @darcyeikenberg
    @darcyeikenberg 2 года назад +18

    The more peace I find in myself, the less I feel compelled to be "busy" all the time. There's definitely a connection. Thanks for the great talk!

  • @MariaPalia
    @MariaPalia 2 года назад +28

    This days is all about pursue a carrier and make a lot of money. We put the rest of our lifes in hold like family, friends and hobbies . Even our feelings stay in hold. I believe this is one of the reasons why Depression is rising.

    • @JoaoVictor-dw2ci
      @JoaoVictor-dw2ci 2 года назад

      Exactly this

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

    • @zvon7089
      @zvon7089 2 года назад +1

      That and we're too connected with social media, believing the illusion that we have many friends who we interact with which is only really on occassional and brief instances. E.g. liking someone's picture or simply leaving a comment... no further engagement or meaningful interaction/conversation.

    • @drvren030
      @drvren030 Год назад

      and with Artificial intelligence on the rise, i can only imagine what direction the internet will go in.
      now you won't make real friends when you got robot friends online and around you lol

  • @SayStats
    @SayStats 2 года назад +67

    “Job can become a pain reliever.” That’s so true! Once you are fully focused into your job, you don’t have time to feel emotions like sadness and loneliness. It’s like job is the only thing that matters in that moment.

    • @parv13
      @parv13 2 года назад +11

      This could become a problem in the long run, causing issues in personal life.

    • @SayStats
      @SayStats 2 года назад +3

      @@parv13 Very true!

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy 2 года назад +8

      Yes, and it can become the thing people do in place of handling life’s responsibilities or connecting with people. That becomes a real problem for people who are down sized out of a job or have a manager that is suddenly unsatisfied with their work in favor of a young new employee. Those people find out they spent their time devoted to something that didn’t care about them at all.

    • @mdshajalal2099
      @mdshajalal2099 2 года назад +3

      If it prevents you from sadness, won't it prevent from happyness?

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @bggeorgieva
    @bggeorgieva 2 года назад +3

    ‘Busy is a status’ - thats the best ever explanation what we turned our life into and how we mask what we do, trying to sound important

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @antoinebeyney8416
    @antoinebeyney8416 2 года назад +113

    There's a 4th reason : the most precious value any boss or organisation will pay for (and as cheap as possible, because this is all about that) is time, because it's the most important thing you can extract from a life form, even if this time is not occupied by what you like to do neither surrounded by people you like.

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 2 года назад +2

      Facts

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy 2 года назад +10

      Yep. Every service we had 30 years ago has turned into something we are expected to do for ourselves. We are expected to bag our own groceries, we are expected to order medications on line, and if you get an appliance delivered, in many cases, they won’t hook it up. What this means is all of the money corporations save in services has passed down to you and me. If there is a problem with anything we are also expected to resolve it even if they made the mistake. They are saving time and money at the expense of everyone.

    • @SevenHunnid
      @SevenHunnid 2 года назад +1

      I had to quit my job because i started beefing it with 50 year old mfs.. and It got toxic to be there, now i spend most of my time smoking weed on my RUclips channel now, meanwhile i get back to the hustle 🤦‍♂️ of course i had bread aside 🥖

    • @sucessology7570
      @sucessology7570 2 года назад +4

      That's a fact buddy, but you don't need to be paid by anyone. This may sound cliche but the fact is that if you're only looking for places to work, you’ll never get the time you need. Nobody is too busy, we just have different priorities

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @dianawudavid
    @dianawudavid 2 года назад +14

    Let's get serious about "beating back busyiness" - alliterative awesomeness and very timely message, Dorie!

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @2369drew
    @2369drew Год назад +2

    What a powerful message. I will try to earnestly put it to use. It's a modern day crises. Somehow someway humans have invented this idea we have to be busy in the sake of being busy but are we truly making the most of our limited time on earth?

  • @rochellemyles3045
    @rochellemyles3045 2 года назад +12

    Great talk, Dorie! Several of your points resonate strongly with me personally. At the same time, I think the reasons are true for a certain social class. For many people, there is a key other reason. With so many employers cutting their labour expenses to the bone and expecting free additional hours from their employees, people are busy due to under resourcing at work. That is not in their control yet affects every aspect of their daily lives.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @DianeDiResta
    @DianeDiResta 2 года назад +9

    Excellent presentation, Dorie. You hit on 3 real reasons why we're so busy as opposed to the excuses of why we're busy. I especially relate to the 3rd reason-numbing. When my mother died years ago, I didn't have the energy to keep up my usual pace. During that down time as I was grieving I felt the loneliness that I had masked by filling my time with work and social activities. You always provide food for thought.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @connorbetancourt5605
    @connorbetancourt5605 2 года назад +12

    We put so much time into the little details and those little details that you want to be perfect makes It so hard take so much mental capacity. We think everything needs to be this detailed but you'll never look back in ten years and feel good about that little thing you did. We need to be busy, but we need to be busy in a way that actually benefits us.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @atticusmcfly
    @atticusmcfly 2 года назад +62

    Don't go to the bar, eliminate unnecesary friends, deprioritize watching television, sell your video games, delete your social media, have one less kid that you envisioned, live beneath your means. There now you have all the time you need.

    • @n2killu
      @n2killu 2 года назад

      We see ur a person of culture Edit: It‘s sarcasm

    • @atticusmcfly
      @atticusmcfly 2 года назад +1

      @@n2killu 🥰 Edit: I know. Lol.

    • @sentryslayer16
      @sentryslayer16 2 года назад +6

      Deconstructing your life like this won’t do a damn thing to help you if you don’t have an aim in the first place. One might say that that goes without saying, but often times we forget what is important or how to figure that out at all.

    • @TheMikiomi
      @TheMikiomi 2 года назад +1

      So have long term strategic thinking, basically :p

    • @benjaminhenderson7059
      @benjaminhenderson7059 2 года назад +2

      Thats what we want to have time for. Those are upper class luxuries the poor have already suffered without.

  • @joeaustin2919
    @joeaustin2919 Год назад

    When you look at human history for thousands of years compare to now, we used to have very simple life’s even though it was hard we didn’t used to commute so much all the time, we take too much for granted and not enough in return.

  • @gushernandez25
    @gushernandez25 2 года назад +18

    This is a great topic and it raises very fundamental questions including why is being too busy a bad thing? Why do family oriented cultures devote so much time wasting each others time? Why does the US promotes consumerism as a way of life, when do we get to enjoy life at home here in the US? I shouldn't have sneak in family time betwewn job shifts all year long, thats not normal. It's not adulting, we as humans should also be able to work on our homes, being there for loved ones and work on our mental and physical selves.

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 2 года назад +2

      Facts man. It’s like we waste our youth working and getting money and then we get older and get sick and have to use that money for health. It’s honestly sad that’s why we just do something we love and take care of our bodies. We don’t have to fall to society’s norm we must live a life we truly cherish. Balance is everything.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @tilobatxonraximova2836
    @tilobatxonraximova2836 2 года назад +2

    thanks For this video professor Dorie Clark you are the best I believe that one day I will probably share my experieces to achive success in TEDx Talks

  • @djw8888
    @djw8888 2 года назад +2

    So sorry to read about your cat. He looks like a Turkish Angora. I lost my TA (mixed breed) last year. I think there's something special about the bond they can form with a human.

    • @DorieClark
      @DorieClark 2 года назад

      I got him from a shelter but yes, I think it's likely he was a Turkish Angora!

    • @DorieClark
      @DorieClark 2 года назад +1

      Such beautiful and special creatures and I'm so sorry about your loss, as well.

  • @drvren030
    @drvren030 Год назад +2

    i feel like the whole individualistic, tech-driven system we've built recently has also turned out to be a big mistake.
    because
    1) humans are social people, we're not meant to be isolated. the only reason we can live isolated nowadays and not get bored is because of the internet available on our devices 24/7. this applies to both men and women. and this will only get worse with artificial intelligence.
    2) the internet and technology has completely destroyed the social environment. we cannot just live in the present and make memories that help us develop long, sustainable emotional relationships with people. there's so much time taken in taking videos, photos, then editing and filtering them to make them look good, rather than enjoy what exactly it is you're taking a photo or video of. if you're really enjoying the present and are fully invested in the present, you actually would not be thinking of pulling out your phone to take a photo/video. the only activities for which people want to lose themselves and fully invest themselves in nowadays are drugs and s*x.
    3) because of this individualistic approach, we cannot develop long, sustaining relationships with anyone. developing relationships, not connections for work, is a beautiful emotionally investing process that takes time and effort to make it work. everyone is replaceable now. like in point 2, we can't just enjoy the present anymore. we approach each social interaction only thinking about ourselves, and walk around looking tensed up, constipated, and/or opportunistic and only listen when it can help us financially or economically.

  • @aarxnw
    @aarxnw 2 года назад +1

    He looks so tired, yet so charismatic, not to be rude.. captivating voice :) nice speech.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @geebashiri3315
    @geebashiri3315 2 года назад +15

    Can’t understand these people with money and all these problems smh. I work hard for every dollar and it’s still not enough. Can’t imagine having all these easy to fix problems and needing help. God bless you all that do

    • @n2killu
      @n2killu 2 года назад

      Well, zuckerberg dont care

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @brunosauter
    @brunosauter Год назад +1

    Good talk, thanks for sharing!

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for this space for time

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @zakikhan814
    @zakikhan814 Год назад

    I've chased success and my career for years to realize I'm replaceable more so in industry than family. Money isn't worth it if you dont have time to enjoy it or spend it on those you love.

  • @nathanielanderson4898
    @nathanielanderson4898 2 года назад +9

    We are all so busy, because if our time is not spoken for, we will be required to spend it otherwise.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @thembelihlemasina3018
    @thembelihlemasina3018 2 года назад +1

    great speech in preparation for the year ahead. thank you.

  • @MdWahidurRahmanOvi
    @MdWahidurRahmanOvi 2 года назад +11

    Wonderful ted talk. Happy new year. Thank you, professor Dorie Clark.

  • @EckiSchmecki
    @EckiSchmecki 2 года назад +7

    "And as I like to say: Work is better than crack!" - Karl Marx (5:57)

  • @marissafayer9726
    @marissafayer9726 2 года назад +2

    Always brilliant Dorie!!!

  • @XxWahuxD
    @XxWahuxD 2 года назад +26

    well... what's the point he is making? Accepting uncertainty? Thinking long-term? Working with people we like in nice environments? After the alright build up the "what to do about it" part was a bit underwhelming for me.

    • @KevlarKoat
      @KevlarKoat 2 года назад +11

      He's saying reprioritize your life goals around what truly makes you happy, and be honest, which is way harder than it seems seeing as how the ego will sacrifice happiness for many things like valor, greed, and status).
      It's denial territory for most so he's trying to drop useful information gently to sway the humble and to not get the typical egocentric "I'm not in denial, how dare he" response.

    • @TheMikiomi
      @TheMikiomi 2 года назад +5

      Yeah I find talks tackling the big life questions like this usually have answers that feel underwhelming, but that's usually because the answers I get aren't as easy as I'd hoped. I click videos like this looking to have some epiphany, and the answers they tend to give me are "practice some self-aware thinking, get realistic, reprioritize and sacrifice some comfy but overall less important activities"
      ...so it's easy to feel underwhelmed but unfortunately there usually aren't magical cures to things like "feeling too busy" or "being unhappy".

    • @TPPidgeon
      @TPPidgeon 2 года назад

      The last sentence was the point. If you're not busy, you wouldn't understand.

  • @carolyntyler6585
    @carolyntyler6585 2 года назад +32

    *Mondern man is not the man who goes off to discover himself, his secrets, and his hidden truth; he is a man who tries to invest himself in something beneficial for the future.*

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      @maxgoodchild6111 2 года назад

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    • @alessiamorgan1651
      @alessiamorgan1651 2 года назад

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      @alessiamorgan1651 2 года назад

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      @paulwalter9516 2 года назад

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  • @crackener
    @crackener 2 года назад +13

    I’m pretty busy to watch this whole. 😔

  • @figward
    @figward 2 года назад +10

    Thanks for sharing and adding value to my day.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @saleonquiney8239
    @saleonquiney8239 5 месяцев назад

    Yes yes yes.💜

  • @benabdelouhebreda1102
    @benabdelouhebreda1102 2 года назад +1

    Thank you , merry Christmas Also happy new year .

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @khuntaro831
    @khuntaro831 2 года назад +5

    I respectfully disagree:
    Freedom is precisely the state of not having to choose

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @danielestiferson2345
    @danielestiferson2345 Год назад

    "They want to take your peace by making you so busy"- unknown

  • @jacquelinecrafford7274
    @jacquelinecrafford7274 2 года назад

    Amazing thank you

  • @sashakkkkk
    @sashakkkkk Год назад

    Great video😊

  • @TheModestMama
    @TheModestMama 2 года назад +10

    Loved her talk here, would totally listen to more from her!

  • @AritheCreator_
    @AritheCreator_ 2 года назад +7

    If you’re reading this, whether or not you realize it you are a CREATOR. We are all the creators of our life experience, and by expanding our consciousness and enhancing our spiritual well-being, together we can CREATE a better world 🌎
    Much love from Ari the Creator 💙

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @ritataylor4646
    @ritataylor4646 2 года назад +5

    The Peter Principle: people rise to their level of incompetence.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @jefflovenc
    @jefflovenc Год назад

    weekend gatherings......... without gatherings are endangering family relations

  • @chamboyette853
    @chamboyette853 2 года назад +1

    Why does no-one here think that social media could be a large part of this?

  • @matthewbrown6163
    @matthewbrown6163 2 года назад +4

    Interesting insight, Professor. I really enjoyed your fresh approach to personal sustainability. As a Key Note Speaker too, the biggest issue to change is to open up the minds of your attendees & divert them from their paradigms. We need to make Quality over Quantity a priority. I once worked alongside a now retired US Navy Admiral. Myself as a former Army Reserves Officer, marvelled at his ability to think clearly with multiple tasks at hand. He told me as a captain of a battleship under attack you don't have time to think - you react. who was able to multi-task & maintain full command / control. As he stated when you are being attacked by other ships & planes - you don't have time to think - you react.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @pennyweller8169
    @pennyweller8169 2 года назад

    Profound!

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA 2 года назад +1

    Iam so crazy busy this feeling for the human mind to deal with certainty yes exactly the importance of being keep it to that extent thank you

  • @mvexler
    @mvexler 2 года назад +4

    Very good analysis... Maybe we can add a statistic on the percentage of procrastinators in the pool of people interviewed for the studies.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @jasonuren3479
    @jasonuren3479 2 года назад +13

    1) status
    2) uncertainty
    3) numbing
    What is motivating you?

    • @EckiSchmecki
      @EckiSchmecki 2 года назад +2

      4) weed

    • @patti8935
      @patti8935 2 года назад +2

      Money, we need to earn a decent amount to survive and thrive.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA 2 года назад +1

    Manifestations Yes

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican 2 года назад +1

    1:49 I attended 62 meetings last week

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 2 года назад +2

    Dorie is IKEMEN, and his talk is so smooth.

    • @SpiritualAttitudeSage
      @SpiritualAttitudeSage 2 года назад +1

      Her*

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @extremotionaltrouffas
    @extremotionaltrouffas 2 года назад +6

    Not what one might describe as motivational, but still, some useful reminders here.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @shalinigupta8082
    @shalinigupta8082 2 года назад

    Definitely

  • @triumph9371
    @triumph9371 2 года назад +1

    She is so cool. 😀

    • @triumph9371
      @triumph9371 2 года назад +1

      @@aaronrosenberg6633 I'm so Sorry. I not saw this video . I commented on this on my friend's wish. 😓😓(Hope you forgive me)

    • @aaronrosenberg6633
      @aaronrosenberg6633 2 года назад +1

      @@triumph9371 No problem - I deleted my comment. I just see too many people intentionally doing this. Of course I forgive you.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @Angela-je8rs
    @Angela-je8rs 2 года назад +1

    Great!

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @GaasubaMeskhenet
    @GaasubaMeskhenet 2 года назад +1

    We need to rest

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @silverlinings3946
    @silverlinings3946 2 года назад +32

    We really don't have to work so much. The only reason we do, is because billionaires exploit the low and medium earners and then don't pay enough taxes on these unfairly gained profits.
    Let's be real: do we need so much stuff to survive?

    • @MdWahidurRahmanOvi
      @MdWahidurRahmanOvi 2 года назад +3

      very well said.

    • @ZPositive
      @ZPositive 2 года назад +2

      What a lovely steaming pile of virtue signaling platitudes. Nobody's forcing you to work more than you want. Nobody's forcing you to buy stuff you don't need. And the billionaires are the job creators and the tax payers. If you honestly believe they don't pay enough in taxes, you've been brainwashed by the lying media. Class warfare is a Marxist tactic meant to divide us and destroy this system. Stop being jealous of the rich. Their lives aren't better than yours, or mine. The second you stop worrying about it is the same second you stop being a pawn of the Marxists.

    • @richardmcallen2641
      @richardmcallen2641 2 года назад

      Hello Monika, How are you doing?

    • @ZPositive
      @ZPositive 2 года назад

      @@Dimitris_Half LOL irony overload. Are you upset that someone doesn't want you to be jealous of the rich? Are you upset that someone doesn't want you to be a pawn of the left? I want everyone to be free of the left's manipulations. Are you so happy with your chains that you don't want someone advocating for you?
      And yes, I'm being productive here _and_ IRL. I'm taking the time to explain things to folks who very likely have been so sequestered in the lying media's bubble that they only fear and hate my opinions, rather than giving them a chance. And IRL I own a small company that employs a few good people. I'm no rich guy but my hard work has paid off in increased free time for me to comment here. 🙂

    • @ZPositive
      @ZPositive 2 года назад

      @@Dimitris_Half of course you are serious. And that's exactly why I see irony. Instead of an actual rebuttal to anything I've said, you just want me to shut up and/or leave your space of jealousy and hatred. It's sad that I'm telling you that you're under control of the left, and you just want to stop hearing it. I do hope you had a very merry Christmas, and I wish you the best 2022.

  • @aarxnw
    @aarxnw 2 года назад +1

    You’re right, where is that life long partner that pays for everything and allows me to live in the now and just live comfortably in the now, why do I need to be a robotic machine that works all the time, I deserve a different lifestyle to the one i’m living in, on auto-pilot all the time, where do I sign up for that?

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @buffsamson
    @buffsamson 2 года назад +3

    Sounds like Gary V

  • @daisyhinojosa23
    @daisyhinojosa23 2 года назад +2

    My main takeaway was “Work is better than crack” 😂😂😂

    • @aaronrosenberg6633
      @aaronrosenberg6633 2 года назад

      Maybe that's what you needed to hear? It's a start.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @MammaApa
    @MammaApa 2 года назад +1

    I've read Momo. I know what's going on. It's the Men in Grey...

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @10k-Noodles
    @10k-Noodles 2 года назад +1

    I just searched for whatever I could. I have my own problems. But the big concern is my mom. She'll be 67 in a few weeks. She's losing her vision. She was never patient with people touching her things to begin with and my brother and his kids moved in and do not respect or even acknowledge her boundaries and she's going insane. Half ot it is her being weird. The other half is them not even caring how she feels. She's getting sick from the stress. She'll beg them to shut up and let her sleep at like 3 AM and they get backup from my brother, claiming it's normal for kids to be this way art 3 AM when they don't have school the next day. Mostly, I'd like you to beat the shi out of my brother. But also, how can I help mom?

    • @10k-Noodles
      @10k-Noodles 2 года назад

      His kids don't even listen to me. Free reign. He never had this or that and she was a terrible mother so it's okay for his kids to drive her insane. I was her kid, too, and I'm here worrying about her. But he will whne about how awful his life was in front of me.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @alan4sure
    @alan4sure 2 года назад +1

    "We" are not all so busy. I have excess time. Retirement😁👍

    • @gushernandez25
      @gushernandez25 2 года назад +2

      You are not the demographic of this topic but I wish you a blessful retirement.

    • @alan4sure
      @alan4sure 2 года назад

      @@Dimitris_Half you'll be waiting a long time yet I suspect...Lol

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @rejoicepeter-george5648
    @rejoicepeter-george5648 Месяц назад

    Hello Dorie, where are you from?

  • @rockbay79
    @rockbay79 2 года назад +2

    I could not determine if this was a man or a woman. I went back and read the description posted under the video, but they never made any reference such as "she presents this data" or "he claims". Was this all on purpose?

    • @goldfishcrayon
      @goldfishcrayon 2 года назад +2

      What does their gender have to do with the presentation?
      Edit: the description does identify she/her btw.

    • @rockbay79
      @rockbay79 2 года назад

      @@goldfishcrayon Well, for me, I never could focus on the presentation because I was confused. Is this a man or a woman?

    • @MrChampionchimp
      @MrChampionchimp 2 года назад

      @@rockbay79 why though?

    • @olympicging1155
      @olympicging1155 2 года назад +1

      @@rockbay79 The descriptionsays "She". Now you can focus on the presentation with no distractions haha.

    • @rockbay79
      @rockbay79 2 года назад

      @@olympicging1155 No need, I'm retired. Ha Ha.

  • @francoisjoinneau
    @francoisjoinneau 2 года назад

    What about job sharing ? Double the teams, hire twice more people than you need, and so everyone will become a part time worker. A part time worker is healthier, smarter and more productive. A part time worker has time to train self and to train others. A part time worker can have family time, waste recycling and sorting time, citizenship time...

  • @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA
    @SABRISALEEMMOUSTAPHA 2 года назад +2

    Work is better than crack IT IS ALL ABOUT UNCERTAINTY

  • @nicolasmeon6740
    @nicolasmeon6740 2 года назад +1

    I thought Ajani was the white cat, not Gideon. I guess he was not around in 1996

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @dm20422
    @dm20422 2 года назад +1

    ☀️

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @l.r5770
    @l.r5770 2 года назад +4

    I feel like the busyness also has to do with capitalism. Social acceptance of working long long hours with 4 vacation days a year. When you do that you have little time for yourself, especially if you have kids.

    • @masontheodore4122
      @masontheodore4122 2 года назад

      Welcome to Dr Oseghale spell home forever grateful thanks for being my Ex back to me

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @selmakaradas3667
    @selmakaradas3667 2 года назад +1

    Türkçe alt yazılı olsaydı daha iyi olurdu.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @ThirstysURL
    @ThirstysURL 2 года назад +2

    I think you're all busy so you don't stare at elites and think too much

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.*

  • @Mike2004Fede
    @Mike2004Fede 2 года назад +17

    She's trying to get the rest of us to slack so he can get ahead. Stay woke

  • @beamworthy4134
    @beamworthy4134 2 года назад +1

    Read books, or don't want to read a book. There are audiobooks. Instanta eous culture, just calm down

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @benjaminhenderson7059
    @benjaminhenderson7059 2 года назад +1

    This is only relevent to the proffesional upper middle class. For the poor, this has never been a choice.

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @РиммаИбрагимова-д6й
    @РиммаИбрагимова-д6й 2 года назад +1

    Переводить на русский

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @janklaas6885
    @janklaas6885 2 года назад +3

    🇺🇳5:24

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад +1

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

    • @janklaas6885
      @janklaas6885 2 года назад

      @@Precious-x7s
      😂 no thanks man, glad to be of "any" help.
      But seriously, im very BUSY, so understand that my reaction is still very worthy,
      just because of the FACT, it is there.

  • @anhphamngoc7709
    @anhphamngoc7709 2 года назад

    work is better than crack ....hmmm

  • @QuethLevi
    @QuethLevi 2 года назад +2

    didnt add much knowledge or insight into anything

    • @aaronrosenberg6633
      @aaronrosenberg6633 2 года назад

      Did you listen through to the end?

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @johnjames732
    @johnjames732 2 года назад +1

    the irony is the speaker hasnt lived enough real life to even speak on the topic about not having enough time. remember only the rich virtual signal that there " busy" not middle america

    • @MrChampionchimp
      @MrChampionchimp 2 года назад

      Define real life?

    • @johnjames732
      @johnjames732 2 года назад

      @@MrChampionchimp life can be defined by any means according to the one living it, but this presenter is not speaking from the wisdom gained from the up's and downs but from a perspective lived by privelage and statistics

    • @johnjames732
      @johnjames732 2 года назад

      @@Dimitris_Half says the lonely cat lover

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts.**

  • @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon1
    @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon1 2 года назад +9

    He LITERALLY looks like Ellen Degeneress long lost feminine EMO sister.

    • @MrChampionchimp
      @MrChampionchimp 2 года назад +1

      That's not what "literally" means

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @asafarifare9520
    @asafarifare9520 2 года назад +1

    Hahahahah

    • @Precious-x7s
      @Precious-x7s 2 года назад

      *👆👆👆Your thoughtfulness will always be remembered.Words cannot express my feelings, nor my thanks for sharing your thoughts..*

  • @chisupportbaothythuychihoa4509
    @chisupportbaothythuychihoa4509 2 года назад

    Is the man girl or boy?

  • @laraoliveira455
    @laraoliveira455 2 года назад +1

    xD

  • @keegn
    @keegn 2 года назад +2

    first xD

  • @ims-053-aman2
    @ims-053-aman2 2 года назад

    Second xD