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I'm in my 40s now and I wish I would have started dressing my age in my 30s instead of belatedly doing so when I turned 40. I immediately noticed people taking me more seriously and treating me better when I switched from hoodies, baseball caps, and joggers to sweaters, dark-wash denim, and dress boots. Great video!
Yea I realized this just before I turned 30 years old (28 to be exact). It took me 2 years to really afford a whole new wardrobe and adjust to wearing suits everyday. i donated all my past clothes,sneakers,baseball caps, backpacks,graphic tee’s, hoodies, etc. i don’t do it for others but for myself and my self respect.
I absolutely agree with you! I've also noticed that people treat me with more respect, whether at a pub, shop, public transit, etc. The best thing is, is that I simply dress more "smart casual," which is just a step above "casual." Amazing, what basic things like a wool overcoat, tweed sports coat, sweater, dark denim, dress shirts, and leather shoes/boots in versatile/neutral colours can up your style so much with a little bit of effort!
I hung up the hoodie at 23 for the blazer, the harrington, and the pea coat, people thought I was over 30. At 40 I'm all over the heavy cardigan, safari jacket, and the topcoat. Starting over after massive weight loss, it's more exciting than ever to go shopping.
38 and I am now working with the c-suite more and more it’s time to start dressing the part. We are not a suit & tie place but thinking sport jacket/blazer.
Fit is my number one upgrade outside of my custom suit. I’ve started wearing shirts that aren’t two sizes too big for the first time in my life, and i feel better than ever about my outfits simply because they fit me
- Fit, I agree. I lost a bit of weight but was shocked when I was wearing 43-42 suits and a tailor told me I was actually a 40! But the smaller suit looked SO much nicer.
Great tips, Antonio! I just want to say there's a big population up here in Toronto, Canada who need to see this video! The baggy style hasn't left, lack of style and a lot of grown men who act and dress like they peaked in highschool!
I'm 65 now and my whole life I have dressed well but conservatively. Very rarely wore jeans never wore t shirts and sneakers and shorts except in the gym. No facial hair, a buzz cut till I started shaving my head at 26. I always just felt better. I do however have a lot of ink but I keep them covered.
wanted to say hi, Antonio. loving your videos. I'm pretty new to wanting to dress better and more age appropriate (I'm almost 47.) I hear a lot of things in your videos that reinforce my hunches about what is or isn't a good style choice but I also learn something new in each new video that I've watched. thanks brother! -Brad
Just discovered your channel a couple of weeks ago. Can't get enough of them! In this video, you discussed shoes. I'm over 50 years old and have plantar fasciitis. This restricts my choice of footwear. Basically, I have to wear either extremely comfortable dress shoes, which are really ugly, or sneakers/tennis/running shoes. I wear a suit every day to work. I have a varied collection of sneakers/tennis shoes, with all sorts of colors ranging from purple to red to neon yellow to neon green to classic black (Vans skateboard shoes) to blues and even orange colored sneakers. Some of these sneakers give my overall look a certain "pop" to it. In your estimation, Antonio, what is your rule to wearing sneakers/tennis/running shoes with suits? Are there some looks I can pull off or do you prefer that I avoid them when wearing suits? I sometimes wear my nice dress shoes to work, but then quickly slip on sneakers when not in front of executive company.
@@w.adammandelbaum1805 Yes, many have given me that same tip. Do you wear tennis shoes or sneakers with suits? If so, then what color combinations do you style?
12:40 Maybe with a Sleeveless Cardigan? I'm 36, recently branched out and got one, in black, and paired it with a dark purple plain Tshirt, and I've had quite a few complements on it.
Great video (and love your channel!) I think that varsity jacket and denim jacket are two different categories, i.e., where a varsity jacket is definitely off limits for most 30+, I think denim jackets can be worn by any age demographic.
For several years, shoe manufacturers have made 3 major changes: - there are some retro models, which unfortunately also have retro sizes (height, width.. i.e. narrowness) and "retro comfort", from the time when they didn't know how to make shoes - some models are too fashionable - they also have different broken sizes to look more fashionable - they changed - most of them - the way they put on the heel, so most of the versions come off my foot like slippers, even if they are the right size. Before, you could take 2 sizes bigger and still not fall off your foot. Having said that, it's hard for me to find shoes, and elegance is even harder.
Currently working on retiring the graphic tees and elevating the shoe game, but that takes time and thought to not throw money away. As for fit that is the biggest thing that plagues men's fashion. Even though at time of writing the baggier look is in, it's built around men with average or very often slim/slender build. If you have a physique in the middle or on the thinner side fashion is going to be a breeze for you, but many of us get some size in our twenties. For some it's flat out weight gain, for many others (especially starting around 2016-2018) we have found exercise and weight lifting. Those Levi's 501s that fit the model loosely are going to be painted on to the guy who squats 100lb more than he weighs. So many brands want to make slim fit shirts to accentuate the torso, but if you've built your chest and arms at all you'll be strangled by that shirt. When we get to our late twenties one perk we lose from late teens to mid twenties is being able to easily grab clothes off the rack and maybe 1 or 2 adjustments to have a usable item to wear. You need to actually try clothes on and try different fits and cuts to make sure it's JUST right. It may be tedious but the payoff of looking good while also having a larger physique is worth it.
Antonio, you mentioned a couple of times in the video about men around 45-50 to wear what you want? Why is that? I'm approaching 53 this year, not as stylish as I want to be due to my body type (Though I'm working on it, 60 lbs. down since June.) and I work in an informal office sales job. Where do you think I should be falling on the style scale? Always love your videos.
Great video Antonio! Could you please cover some appropriate dress for us guys just shy of 60? Also, how about a segment on covering a tasteful revival of those certain eras some of us hold dear.. I’m partial to the 70’s.. nothing too crazy mind you.. I dig the casual style. Also cover the classic style and fit of the suits in the 60’s. Yes I’m old, but I don’t want to look like everyone else. Cheers! 👍
Love hoodies, will never retire them, but a more you age look could easily be a quater zip, still is big nice and soft like a hoody but looks more mature.
❤ Great words, this is what I try to tell friends and colleagues. It's like talking to a wall sometimes because somehow making an effort is too hard when it comes to everyday clothes but going to the gym or run several times a week with specially designed workout outfits is fine.
@@majrminer I'm with her! As a woman who isn't a teen I also prefer men who dress like men and not someone either stuck in the past or trying to re-live it. Ugh.
I'm not stuck in the past, nor am I trying desperately to hold on to it, but I still prefer casual clothes even if the clothing tips always look cool in his clips. That you prefer a certain look in men is completely okay, but please don't try to ascribe any complexes to people who don't fit into your prey schema@@garmtpug
There was a comment by Guy Ritchie on why he is impeccably dressed, said he sees a bunch of 40 and up men dressing like 20-year olds - baseball cap, joggers, sweats. Dressing to your age gets you some respect as well from young people.
I'd like to see what you'd recommend for a male, mid 70's, physically fit, active and accused of being younger. I believe that clothing should also reflect individual personality. Thanks, btw, I really like your podcast. I'm an avid outdoors man, love western boots especially Lucchese and Black Jack (huge collection) but would commonly be on the dressier side as opposed to casual.
Should your pant leg drape over your boot or sit atop your boot? Particularly the boots with the opening a bit flared out and not tapered around the ankle.
I'm in my early 50's i have my own style,dark jeans,plain polo shirt or shirt,brown or burgundy brogues,smart zip through hoody,or more often than not a smart jacket & a good fragrance to finish it off
I’m Goth for life and thankfully it works, I only wore hoods and easy stuff around my teen/radiation recovery days. Some think I’m dressing “tough” but being generally in black and leather/metal is just enjoyable and fits weather and people know it’s not cheap💀🖤🦇
I’m in my forties and this is what I might wear for work or at a restaurant, but in my free time it’s all about comfort so it’s trainers and a hoodie. You also need to be careful not to look 10 years older than your age you know.
There are areas of the world that need to hear more about not wearing logos. I was in South Africa for the holidays and everyone wore logoed everything. It was crazy. Nike hat, giant Polo on the shirt, Gucci tennis shoes and probably an Invicta watch. The more logos, the better.
7:05 and what if you have a problem with your feet? for work I have to stand up for long periods and Ive tried all kinds of shoes, even expensive shoes that are suppossed to "fit like a glove" Ive tried different insoles (of course all this consulting a physician) and all "solutions" simply didnt solved the problem, some worked a bit less worse than others, but whatever I did I still end up feeling pain at the end of the day. BUT running shoes dont cause this problem, I buy the most sober running shoes and use those for work and everyone seems to be ok with that, but I wish I could find some more elegant shoes that I could wear in an elegant party maybe dance without any pain, Im even thinking on ordering custom made boots with special made soles, expensive yes but I guess is the only way, like those military boots that really are running shoes but in boot format. i dont know.
I use fitted sweaters and shirts I also own a hoody… Got classic boots but also got a lot of designer sneakers (exlusively hightops) wear T-shirts with leather jacket or different type of bodywarmers… Wearing a lot of polo shirts… Distressed jeans got them (not leftover old ones from way back) My wardrobe is ample even maintain a baseball cap collection (pristine) also owning several sunday chillout (house/ supermarket) tracksuits… General sportwear including running shoes are only for the gym…. So a lot of no-no’s for a guy approaching his 30’s….. Iam 40😂
I wish I could figure out a personal style to wear on a daily basis. I'm 27 years old, quickly approaching 28, and I've been railroaded into the "dad uniform" because I have to wear a polo and jeans, khakis, or dress slacks for work. I don't get an opportunity to dress the way I want because I would be overdressed for work or for church lol.
As someone who's 46, this is going to be a *COMPLETE* mindset change. I've NEVER liked the things that are considered a proper fit. • I've always liked my jeans loose fitting (I hate it when anything jacks into my crotch). I wonder if tailors or something can help in a search for good fitting jeans? Because the first pair I came across in awhile a couple years ago...wasn't nearly as good a fit as anyone thought, including me!! • When it comes to dress shirts, I've always had to go a size larger simply because the correct size would choke me hard when buttoned up. (When I was in AFJROTC in highschool, I literally had to demonstrate the issue to both teachers...when they saw how the shirt that otherwise was the right size had choked my neck, they made me get outta it FAST. I've never seen anyone that freaked out about it before.) • Shoooes?? This is one to take in heavy consideration, it's definitely almost time to invest in a fresh pair!! • Tee shirts...ehhh. I've done well with solids and with graphics. Then again, I've lost one graphic tee (a navy blue shirt with the 80s style Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on it, logo and all) to the laundry shrinking it to underwear fit levels and then ultimately damaging it, and another one (a light blue Pokémon shirt featuring all nine forms of Eevee arranged in a 3x3 layout) is headed down the same path. Colors that get compliments are blue, black, yellow, "silver" (gray), green, white, purple, and even red...and I'm not a big fan of red, but since it works...
I dont know, I prefer the simpler one which is no glasses no fancy hair no scarfs. Its easier to relate. I wouldn't ask a fancy guy for directions but the simple one anytime
I still wear my cold weather danner knock offs (oakley) boots. I do work in the trucking/construction arena, whats your thoughts on combat boots? especially for us veterans?
I'm not a veteran but I own a pair of green and black jungle boots that someone I know gave me. He was a Marine and served in the late eighties. He got the boots from, I believe, his commanding officer. I see nothing wrong with wearing them. Of course I don't wear them all the time. I have other boots. But I find them to be comfortable.
Exactly, it's more about personal taste. I come from a different ethnic background than Antonio, and men do not dress like this from where I come from. However, I will concede that I've never been into the street style and clothes most guys from my community like to dress in. I like a lot of tips he gives, but I am really against imposing unnecessary rules on people. Antonio is a suit and sports coat kinda guy. That's nice, but everybody doesn't like the stuffy look. I personally like to be comfortable, and I refuse to be put in a box by judgemental people who want to impose their personal style and beliefs on others. If everyone dressed the same, the world would be a very boring place.
Of course you can dress however you want but you have to realize this is a fashion channel. In fashion there are always rules. If you don’t want to follow rules then you are in the wrong side of youtube my guy.
@@gerdz101 Who said I didn't realize this is a fashion channel and that there are rules in fashion? I think I understand that perfectly well. I've dabbled in fashion all my life. Also, these rules you speak of, change from channel to channel and from one style "expert" to the next. Sure, there is some overlap but it still boils down to personal taste and style. That's all I'm saying. All of them will tell you that rules are also meant to be broken unless you're more straight lace like this channel or take yourself and these "rule" too seriously. It's just like with everything, some people try to use their personal beliefs to put everyone in a box. I will never be put in a box. NEVER. I take the advice that works for me and leave the rest.
@@hshawn00 dude if you don’t want his style of clothing you can just be a grown ass man and just leave the video. He is not imposing unnecessary rules. A lot of what he says makes sense. You dont want his style? Move on to a different channel that’s it. Whether you like it or not people will judge you by how you project yourself. That’s just reality. You don’t go and meet the president at a party wearing a pair of pajamas because “that’s what makes you feel comfortable”. Lol for a person who don’t know how to dress classy like me I go watch his videos for tips. That’s it.
@@gerdz101 Also, way to miss the point. Who the hell would go to meet anyone wearing pajamas? Do you think pajamas are the only article of clothing one can find to be comfortable in? Let me school you for a minute. Yes, I said I like to be comfortable and I'm not changing what I said just because it doesn't fit with your personal taste. My idea of being comfortable is, depending on the occasion, a nice pair of khakis or dress pants and a nice buttoned up shirt and shoes. I don't like suits for my everyday look and my job doesn't require it. Please learn to gain an understanding of what someone is saying before you go shooting your mouth off.
QUESTION: why do some women make men wear kids clothing; the disney t-shirt or hoodie top? Why? When I explain to them that I'm nearing 30 and I don't dress like this, they call me an old dull man. Is this a female red flag?
If they *make* you wear anything, that's a red flag in itself. But yes, if they're dressing you like a child, that's definitely a red flag. Peter Pan Syndrome is not exclusive to men.
Me at 32 with only death metal and comic hero shirts 😮💨. I finally moved away from my gym attire after 7 years. Give me one more year so I can start a better wardrobe please.😅
I have the curse of being size ‘marge’. It’s either tight in the chest and fits at the waist, or fits at the chest with a parachute at the waist. I hate this crap. The majority of clothes is made for people who have an H shape, when ideally we should be striving for the Y shape
I kept my hoodie and upgraded everything else around it, meaning I have become suit and hoodie guy. Tailored Athlete makes a piece called a “hooded top” that super lightweight it can even be worn in the summer, it’s almost Under Armour with a hood. Keep the suits fresh, the pocket squares spicy, and the boots on point. With the right watch and glasses you look like a literal baller (for function reference, I’m a wrestler)
I went into the military straight out of high school and quickly gave up my boyish ways. Style wise, I discovered the world of Ralph Lauren. Now while I couldn't initially afford the products on my budget, I could closely replicate the style at the Exchange or through stores like Sears or JC Penny. Gents, many of the fine styles have been created for you. You just have to discover which to be your reflection. The internet, which I didn't have, has made it even easier. Ditch the hoodie, put away your toys and step up into manhood. It is your time. Hooyah. ⚓️🇺🇸
In Europe, it is difficult to find a "sport jacket", especially from the texture point of view. And besides, there are generally only variants with a huge cleavage. Half of your chest is "unclothed". I'm not talking about the length of some jackets. They are so short that they remind him of Chaplin's or Norman Wisdom's characters
Where I live, great lakes area, everything is styled like a potato sack to fit the generic potato. At 52 I wear straight cut khakis, flannel shirts, wool fisherman's sweaters and black canvas trucker jacket, because they fit my athletic frame and pair them with classic leather boots. I only wear running shoes for running. I can't stand hoodies. Everyone wears them here.
"If you are part of a punk band you wear whatever you want" LOL, I just turned 36 and I'm in a rock cover band, I actually wear what I used to in my late teens when playing but dress up as to the occasion whenever I'm not; like Steve Mcqueen for casual and like James Bond when dressy... and a lot comes from this channel!
Through out my 20’s and 30’s I was in the Navy. The only time I wore a suit was at my wedding. Otherwise it was a couple pairs of jeans, Cargo shorts and some polo’s and T-shirts. A pair of runners and a casual sneaker and maybe one other shoe as that wasnalk Incoukd fit in my locker. Since leaving the Navybin 2019 I have grown my wardrobe and look. I was one of those that would look at someone in a suit and think “why”, Inam now one of those guys and love ok it.
I think a dark denim jacket looks great, if you wear it correctly. The fit must be on point, and function needs to make sense. I wear one with my usual work attire: chinos, chelseas, and a long sleeve shirt (sometimes under a v neck sweater that shows the collar). It's chilly this time of year, but a well-fitting denim jacket isn't big or bulky, and neither is it inappropriately warm for Texas winter. That said, I also have a dark blue peacoat and a tan leather jacket (which matches some of my boots) for colder days, and a checkered scarf which matches both. How one wears these articles in conjunction* with one another makes all of the difference, so trying out different things is never a bad strategy.
You don't need to go skinny nor baggy. There's the middle ground of "well fitting jeans" which are neither to baggy nor super tight. Baggy looks just young and sloppy and skinny just look tacky and old fashioned.
The bible states that men should not wear hats, but I'm not gonna spend all day in a cold wearhouse or outside without one in the winter. You've gotta be logical and appreciate life before you try and impress anyone... more people die from the cold every year than the heat
Honestly I dress to appeal to myself only. If I don't like my own reflection then fuck sake it's a loss. I don't have enough fux to give out of my 16oz bag anymore, I'm all out; with none to restock.
I made a promise to myself long time ago, that I will never walk in crocks, flipflops and loafers. I'm almost 40 and I'm still keeping that promise. Loafers with shorts are making my stomach turn upside down, I'm sorry :D that's a grandma look imo
I do wish you and Aaron would not be too critical of the 90’s fashion. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE wore baggy clothes. All the stores (those that targeted both Caucasians, Hispanics, and African Americans) had the same styles. I chuckle and smile when I see old pictures because we were all dressed the same, the music was awesome, and times were simpler. Lastly, I remember back in the 90’s there wasn’t a ton of jean options in terms of fit…so don’t be too hard on yourself. .
Ironic how I literally just bought a new hoodie 2 days ago, and I'm in my mid-40s. 99% of my winter wardrobe consists of cashmere sweaters and long sleeve polos, so I figured I'd mix it up a bit. And now I'm like...maybe I shouldn't have done that?
I wouldn't worry. Nothing wrong with a well-fitting hoody in a solid color. I'm in my late 40s and still wear them out when running errands. I wouldn't wear them to a social function but there are a lot of other situations where they can work just fine. Just follow Antonio's advice and stick with solid colors and avoid any large logos and you should be good!
Hoodies were never my go-to, but even in my 40s it's important to have 1 at least. If anything, still useful for jogging! And the trend has died off a bit, but the hoodie layered underneath a jacket still looks cool to me
I am in my late 40’s and there is nothing wrong wearing a good fitting, sold dark colored hoodie without logos with jeans that have the proper fit and dark boots to run errands. Paired with a puffer vest looks amazing.
@@vpnath75I'd never wear anything with logos at this point. But you've described exactly how I've been wearing the hoodie...it's dark brown, and I've been pairing with dark jeans and dark brown lace up boots. It looks pretty good on me, despite my age.
Maturity level between ages of late 20s/30s and 18 to 22 is huge. I was surprised to hear you say that a lot of single guys were interested in girls that were not their age.
They can’t get women their age so they need to date younger. I am 18 and I know so many 18-20 year old girls who make fun of late 20s men trying to date them.
You care so much about your look, grooming and clothes, then why don't you fix your teeth as well? I don't mean to be disrespectful, it's just an honest question (here in Brazil we care a lot about our teeth and getting them straight).
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I'm in my 40s now and I wish I would have started dressing my age in my 30s instead of belatedly doing so when I turned 40. I immediately noticed people taking me more seriously and treating me better when I switched from hoodies, baseball caps, and joggers to sweaters, dark-wash denim, and dress boots. Great video!
Yea I realized this just before I turned 30 years old (28 to be exact). It took me 2 years to really afford a whole new wardrobe and adjust to wearing suits everyday. i donated all my past clothes,sneakers,baseball caps, backpacks,graphic tee’s, hoodies, etc. i don’t do it for others but for myself and my self respect.
I absolutely agree with you! I've also noticed that people treat me with more respect, whether at a pub, shop, public transit, etc.
The best thing is, is that I simply dress more "smart casual," which is just a step above "casual." Amazing, what basic things like a wool overcoat, tweed sports coat, sweater, dark denim, dress shirts, and leather shoes/boots in versatile/neutral colours can up your style so much with a little bit of effort!
cheers Eric.
The timing on these videos are impeccable, I turned 30 in October and I'm only now learning all this, thanks for making these
I hung up the hoodie at 23 for the blazer, the harrington, and the pea coat, people thought I was over 30. At 40 I'm all over the heavy cardigan, safari jacket, and the topcoat. Starting over after massive weight loss, it's more exciting than ever to go shopping.
cheers
38 and I am now working with the c-suite more and more it’s time to start dressing the part. We are not a suit & tie place but thinking sport jacket/blazer.
Fit is my number one upgrade outside of my custom suit. I’ve started wearing shirts that aren’t two sizes too big for the first time in my life, and i feel better than ever about my outfits simply because they fit me
- Fit, I agree. I lost a bit of weight but was shocked when I was wearing 43-42 suits and a tailor told me I was actually a 40! But the smaller suit looked SO much nicer.
Great tips, Antonio! I just want to say there's a big population up here in Toronto, Canada who need to see this video! The baggy style hasn't left, lack of style and a lot of grown men who act and dress like they peaked in highschool!
I'm 65 now and my whole life I have dressed well but conservatively. Very rarely wore jeans never wore t shirts and sneakers and shorts except in the gym. No facial hair, a buzz cut till I started shaving my head at 26. I always just felt better. I do however have a lot of ink but I keep them covered.
wanted to say hi, Antonio. loving your videos. I'm pretty new to wanting to dress better and more age appropriate (I'm almost 47.) I hear a lot of things in your videos that reinforce my hunches about what is or isn't a good style choice but I also learn something new in each new video that I've watched. thanks brother! -Brad
Awesome - thanks for this comment Brad.
Just discovered your channel a couple of weeks ago. Can't get enough of them!
In this video, you discussed shoes. I'm over 50 years old and have plantar fasciitis. This restricts my choice of footwear. Basically, I have to wear either extremely comfortable dress shoes, which are really ugly, or sneakers/tennis/running shoes. I wear a suit every day to work. I have a varied collection of sneakers/tennis shoes, with all sorts of colors ranging from purple to red to neon yellow to neon green to classic black (Vans skateboard shoes) to blues and even orange colored sneakers. Some of these sneakers give my overall look a certain "pop" to it.
In your estimation, Antonio, what is your rule to wearing sneakers/tennis/running shoes with suits? Are there some looks I can pull off or do you prefer that I avoid them when wearing suits?
I sometimes wear my nice dress shoes to work, but then quickly slip on sneakers when not in front of executive company.
Having had plantar fasciitis and fixed it with some calf stretching exercises, you might want to look at some RUclips videos that deal with this.
@@w.adammandelbaum1805 Yes, many have given me that same tip.
Do you wear tennis shoes or sneakers with suits? If so, then what color combinations do you style?
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12:40 Maybe with a Sleeveless Cardigan? I'm 36, recently branched out and got one, in black, and paired it with a dark purple plain Tshirt, and I've had quite a few complements on it.
Great video (and love your channel!)
I think that varsity jacket and denim jacket are two different categories, i.e., where a varsity jacket is definitely off limits for most 30+, I think denim jackets can be worn by any age demographic.
I so wish I saw this 20-22 years ago. If I wear a graphic t-shirt, it's at home or a special event. Man, I wish I saw this 20 years ago!
I just bought my first ever penny loafers!
Love your channel, brother! Great content!
I appreciate that!
For several years, shoe manufacturers have made 3 major changes:
- there are some retro models, which unfortunately also have retro sizes (height, width.. i.e. narrowness) and "retro comfort", from the time when they didn't know how to make shoes
- some models are too fashionable - they also have different broken sizes to look more fashionable
- they changed - most of them - the way they put on the heel, so most of the versions come off my foot like slippers, even if they are the right size. Before, you could take 2 sizes bigger and still not fall off your foot.
Having said that, it's hard for me to find shoes, and elegance is even harder.
Currently working on retiring the graphic tees and elevating the shoe game, but that takes time and thought to not throw money away. As for fit that is the biggest thing that plagues men's fashion. Even though at time of writing the baggier look is in, it's built around men with average or very often slim/slender build. If you have a physique in the middle or on the thinner side fashion is going to be a breeze for you, but many of us get some size in our twenties. For some it's flat out weight gain, for many others (especially starting around 2016-2018) we have found exercise and weight lifting. Those Levi's 501s that fit the model loosely are going to be painted on to the guy who squats 100lb more than he weighs. So many brands want to make slim fit shirts to accentuate the torso, but if you've built your chest and arms at all you'll be strangled by that shirt. When we get to our late twenties one perk we lose from late teens to mid twenties is being able to easily grab clothes off the rack and maybe 1 or 2 adjustments to have a usable item to wear. You need to actually try clothes on and try different fits and cuts to make sure it's JUST right. It may be tedious but the payoff of looking good while also having a larger physique is worth it.
Antonio, you mentioned a couple of times in the video about men around 45-50 to wear what you want? Why is that? I'm approaching 53 this year, not as stylish as I want to be due to my body type (Though I'm working on it, 60 lbs. down since June.) and I work in an informal office sales job. Where do you think I should be falling on the style scale?
Always love your videos.
Great video Antonio! Could you please cover some appropriate dress for us guys just shy of 60? Also, how about a segment on covering a tasteful revival of those certain eras some of us hold dear.. I’m partial to the 70’s.. nothing too crazy mind you.. I dig the casual style. Also cover the classic style and fit of the suits in the 60’s. Yes I’m old, but I don’t want to look like everyone else. Cheers! 👍
Love hoodies, will never retire them, but a more you age look could easily be a quater zip, still is big nice and soft like a hoody but looks more mature.
Totally agree!!! Love these style tips and as a woman in my 30s I'd prefer to see a man dressed like a man not a boy
Thank you!
❤ Great words, this is what I try to tell friends and colleagues. It's like talking to a wall sometimes because somehow making an effort is too hard when it comes to everyday clothes but going to the gym or run several times a week with specially designed workout outfits is fine.
@@majrminer I'm with her! As a woman who isn't a teen I also prefer men who dress like men and not someone either stuck in the past or trying to re-live it. Ugh.
I'm not stuck in the past, nor am I trying desperately to hold on to it, but I still prefer casual clothes even if the clothing tips always look cool in his clips. That you prefer a certain look in men is completely okay, but please don't try to ascribe any complexes to people who don't fit into your prey schema@@garmtpug
There was a comment by Guy Ritchie on why he is impeccably dressed, said he sees a bunch of 40 and up men dressing like 20-year olds - baseball cap, joggers, sweats. Dressing to your age gets you some respect as well from young people.
Thanks for taking up thithis topic. The tips are really useful.
My pleasure 😊
I'd like to see what you'd recommend for a male, mid 70's, physically fit, active and accused of being younger. I believe that clothing should also reflect individual personality. Thanks, btw, I really like your podcast. I'm an avid outdoors man, love western boots especially Lucchese and Black Jack (huge collection) but would commonly be on the dressier side as opposed to casual.
Perhaps turtlenecks.
What materials are good and thick for solid T’s? I always find they are very thin and even see through. Any recommendations on materials or brands?
At 47, my style image is...mentally 25, physically a tad heavy (winter weight gain!), dress a combination. However, always a good watch!
Should your pant leg drape over your boot or sit atop your boot? Particularly the boots with the opening a bit flared out and not tapered around the ankle.
I'm in my early 50's i have my own style,dark jeans,plain polo shirt or shirt,brown or burgundy brogues,smart zip through hoody,or more often than not a smart jacket & a good fragrance to finish it off
I’m Goth for life and thankfully it works, I only wore hoods and easy stuff around my teen/radiation recovery days. Some think I’m dressing “tough” but being generally in black and leather/metal is just enjoyable and fits weather and people know it’s not cheap💀🖤🦇
Where would you recommend getting nice casual shoes if I wear a size 15 shoe ?
Thank you Antonio
I’m in my forties and this is what I might wear for work or at a restaurant, but in my free time it’s all about comfort so it’s trainers and a hoodie. You also need to be careful not to look 10 years older than your age you know.
There are areas of the world that need to hear more about not wearing logos. I was in South Africa for the holidays and everyone wore logoed everything. It was crazy. Nike hat, giant Polo on the shirt, Gucci tennis shoes and probably an Invicta watch. The more logos, the better.
I never liked wearing logos especially if its a known expensive brand. Cant do it.
25 right now! This video is just right!
We need some content about how to maintain shoes of different materials.
7:05 and what if you have a problem with your feet? for work I have to stand up for long periods and Ive tried all kinds of shoes, even expensive shoes that are suppossed to "fit like a glove" Ive tried different insoles (of course all this consulting a physician) and all "solutions" simply didnt solved the problem, some worked a bit less worse than others, but whatever I did I still end up feeling pain at the end of the day. BUT running shoes dont cause this problem, I buy the most sober running shoes and use those for work and everyone seems to be ok with that, but I wish I could find some more elegant shoes that I could wear in an elegant party maybe dance without any pain, Im even thinking on ordering custom made boots with special made soles, expensive yes but I guess is the only way, like those military boots that really are running shoes but in boot format. i dont know.
❤❤amazing, love from India
I use fitted sweaters and shirts I also own a hoody… Got classic boots but also got a lot of designer sneakers (exlusively hightops) wear T-shirts with leather jacket or different type of bodywarmers… Wearing a lot of polo shirts… Distressed jeans got them (not leftover old ones from way back) My wardrobe is ample even maintain a baseball cap collection (pristine) also owning several sunday chillout (house/ supermarket) tracksuits… General sportwear including running shoes are only for the gym…. So a lot of no-no’s for a guy approaching his 30’s….. Iam 40😂
Thank you 👍
You are welcome
Love your channel my man.
What brand is this white double breasted overcoat at 8:25? It's a great look
Very nice Antonio. Way to go in 24
I wish I could figure out a personal style to wear on a daily basis. I'm 27 years old, quickly approaching 28, and I've been railroaded into the "dad uniform" because I have to wear a polo and jeans, khakis, or dress slacks for work. I don't get an opportunity to dress the way I want because I would be overdressed for work or for church lol.
As someone who's 46, this is going to be a *COMPLETE* mindset change. I've NEVER liked the things that are considered a proper fit.
• I've always liked my jeans loose fitting (I hate it when anything jacks into my crotch). I wonder if tailors or something can help in a search for good fitting jeans? Because the first pair I came across in awhile a couple years ago...wasn't nearly as good a fit as anyone thought, including me!!
• When it comes to dress shirts, I've always had to go a size larger simply because the correct size would choke me hard when buttoned up. (When I was in AFJROTC in highschool, I literally had to demonstrate the issue to both teachers...when they saw how the shirt that otherwise was the right size had choked my neck, they made me get outta it FAST. I've never seen anyone that freaked out about it before.)
• Shoooes?? This is one to take in heavy consideration, it's definitely almost time to invest in a fresh pair!!
• Tee shirts...ehhh. I've done well with solids and with graphics. Then again, I've lost one graphic tee (a navy blue shirt with the 80s style Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on it, logo and all) to the laundry shrinking it to underwear fit levels and then ultimately damaging it, and another one (a light blue Pokémon shirt featuring all nine forms of Eevee arranged in a 3x3 layout) is headed down the same path. Colors that get compliments are blue, black, yellow, "silver" (gray), green, white, purple, and even red...and I'm not a big fan of red, but since it works...
I dont know, I prefer the simpler one which is no glasses no fancy hair no scarfs. Its easier to relate. I wouldn't ask a fancy guy for directions but the simple one anytime
Sir, thank you!!!!
It's true dressing fashionably is essential as you grow up🎉🎉
The trend is back to classic menswear, so tired of all the oversized and hoodie era .. rip
You look like johnny manziel in the first photo, should have kept that look:)
Most people wear hoodies & sweat pants 9x sizes too big.
I still wear my cold weather danner knock offs (oakley) boots. I do work in the trucking/construction arena, whats your thoughts on combat boots? especially for us veterans?
I'm not a veteran but I own a pair of green and black jungle boots that someone I know gave me. He was a Marine and served in the late eighties. He got the boots from, I believe, his commanding officer. I see nothing wrong with wearing them. Of course I don't wear them all the time. I have other boots. But I find them to be comfortable.
I'm a vet, and I wear combat boots with jeans when the colder weather hits. Keep them shined, though spit shined is a little too much with jeans.
I'll say this though. Stan Smiths will never go out of style no matter what your age.
Exactly, it's more about personal taste. I come from a different ethnic background than Antonio, and men do not dress like this from where I come from. However, I will concede that I've never been into the street style and clothes most guys from my community like to dress in. I like a lot of tips he gives, but I am really against imposing unnecessary rules on people. Antonio is a suit and sports coat kinda guy. That's nice, but everybody doesn't like the stuffy look. I personally like to be comfortable, and I refuse to be put in a box by judgemental people who want to impose their personal style and beliefs on others. If everyone dressed the same, the world would be a very boring place.
Of course you can dress however you want but you have to realize this is a fashion channel. In fashion there are always rules. If you don’t want to follow rules then you are in the wrong side of youtube my guy.
@@gerdz101 Who said I didn't realize this is a fashion channel and that there are rules in fashion? I think I understand that perfectly well. I've dabbled in fashion all my life. Also, these rules you speak of, change from channel to channel and from one style "expert" to the next. Sure, there is some overlap but it still boils down to personal taste and style. That's all I'm saying. All of them will tell you that rules are also meant to be broken unless you're more straight lace like this channel or take yourself and these "rule" too seriously. It's just like with everything, some people try to use their personal beliefs to put everyone in a box. I will never be put in a box. NEVER. I take the advice that works for me and leave the rest.
@@hshawn00 dude if you don’t want his style of clothing you can just be a grown ass man and just leave the video. He is not imposing unnecessary rules. A lot of what he says makes sense. You dont want his style? Move on to a different channel that’s it. Whether you like it or not people will judge you by how you project yourself. That’s just reality. You don’t go and meet the president at a party wearing a pair of pajamas because “that’s what makes you feel comfortable”. Lol for a person who don’t know how to dress classy like me I go watch his videos for tips. That’s it.
@@gerdz101 Also, way to miss the point. Who the hell would go to meet anyone wearing pajamas? Do you think pajamas are the only article of clothing one can find to be comfortable in? Let me school you for a minute. Yes, I said I like to be comfortable and I'm not changing what I said just because it doesn't fit with your personal taste.
My idea of being comfortable is, depending on the occasion, a nice pair of khakis or dress pants and a nice buttoned up shirt and shoes. I don't like suits for my everyday look and my job doesn't require it. Please learn to gain an understanding of what someone is saying before you go shooting your mouth off.
What's the equivalent of a sweater for people who live In Florida?
Edit: you answered at 9:00 thank you.
QUESTION: why do some women make men wear kids clothing; the disney t-shirt or hoodie top? Why? When I explain to them that I'm nearing 30 and I don't dress like this, they call me an old dull man. Is this a female red flag?
If they *make* you wear anything, that's a red flag in itself. But yes, if they're dressing you like a child, that's definitely a red flag. Peter Pan Syndrome is not exclusive to men.
Hi Pill
Too skinny is uncomfortable and too baggy looks silly
You always a great videos and your very handsome
I find graphic tees can still look good in a casual setting if it fits well and your body is in good shape or athletically built.
Im wearing a NASA t shirt at 52 and idgaf because im in good shape.
Me at 32 with only death metal and comic hero shirts 😮💨. I finally moved away from my gym attire after 7 years. Give me one more year so I can start a better wardrobe please.😅
i am 44 .. i look much younger and i wear versity jacket and a greta loking air jordan 1 s high og sneakers
I have the curse of being size ‘marge’. It’s either tight in the chest and fits at the waist, or fits at the chest with a parachute at the waist. I hate this crap. The majority of clothes is made for people who have an H shape, when ideally we should be striving for the Y shape
I kept my hoodie and upgraded everything else around it, meaning I have become suit and hoodie guy. Tailored Athlete makes a piece called a “hooded top” that super lightweight it can even be worn in the summer, it’s almost Under Armour with a hood. Keep the suits fresh, the pocket squares spicy, and the boots on point. With the right watch and glasses you look like a literal baller (for function reference, I’m a wrestler)
I like the batman t shirt though
I’m in the “I can wear wherever camp”. Just shoveled in vintage military pants, Mickey boots, a hoodie, and great coat. It’s all about confidence.
I went into the military straight out of high school and quickly gave up my boyish ways. Style wise, I discovered the world of Ralph Lauren. Now while I couldn't initially afford the products on my budget, I could closely replicate the style at the Exchange or through stores like Sears or JC Penny. Gents, many of the fine styles have been created for you. You just have to discover which to be your reflection. The internet, which I didn't have, has made it even easier. Ditch the hoodie, put away your toys and step up into manhood. It is your time. Hooyah. ⚓️🇺🇸
In Europe, it is difficult to find a "sport jacket", especially from the texture point of view. And besides, there are generally only variants with a huge cleavage. Half of your chest is "unclothed". I'm not talking about the length of some jackets. They are so short that they remind him of Chaplin's or Norman Wisdom's characters
Where I live, great lakes area, everything is styled like a potato sack to fit the generic potato. At 52 I wear straight cut khakis, flannel shirts, wool fisherman's sweaters and black canvas trucker jacket, because they fit my athletic frame and pair them with classic leather boots. I only wear running shoes for running. I can't stand hoodies. Everyone wears them here.
"If you are part of a punk band you wear whatever you want" LOL, I just turned 36 and I'm in a rock cover band, I actually wear what I used to in my late teens when playing but dress up as to the occasion whenever I'm not; like Steve Mcqueen for casual and like James Bond when dressy... and a lot comes from this channel!
Through out my 20’s and 30’s I was in the Navy. The only time I wore a suit was at my wedding. Otherwise it was a couple pairs of jeans, Cargo shorts and some polo’s and T-shirts. A pair of runners and a casual sneaker and maybe one other shoe as that wasnalk Incoukd fit in my locker. Since leaving the Navybin 2019 I have grown my wardrobe and look. I was one of those that would look at someone in a suit and think “why”, Inam now one of those guys and love ok it.
If a darker pair of denim jeans is more grown up looking on a man, than why isn't a darker denim jacket the same?
I think a dark denim jacket looks great, if you wear it correctly. The fit must be on point, and function needs to make sense. I wear one with my usual work attire: chinos, chelseas, and a long sleeve shirt (sometimes under a v neck sweater that shows the collar). It's chilly this time of year, but a well-fitting denim jacket isn't big or bulky, and neither is it inappropriately warm for Texas winter.
That said, I also have a dark blue peacoat and a tan leather jacket (which matches some of my boots) for colder days, and a checkered scarf which matches both.
How one wears these articles in conjunction* with one another makes all of the difference, so trying out different things is never a bad strategy.
Hi Undertaker
Beastie boys!
Hopefully this is the year the resurgence of the oversized/baggy trend dies hard.
Most jackets weigh a ton so I prefer denim jackets!
Why is everything so damn heavy?
Well I got the t-shirts right 😅
I personally love the fact baggy jeans are making a comeback. Way better than the skinny jeans craze of the 2010s
You don't need to go skinny nor baggy. There's the middle ground of "well fitting jeans" which are neither to baggy nor super tight. Baggy looks just young and sloppy and skinny just look tacky and old fashioned.
If you are regularly wearing hoodies beyond the age of 30-35, you're doing it wrong.
The bible states that men should not wear hats, but I'm not gonna spend all day in a cold wearhouse or outside without one in the winter. You've gotta be logical and appreciate life before you try and impress anyone... more people die from the cold every year than the heat
Never giving up my hoodie lol
Ngl the thumbnail looks mixed up
The NO looks like a relaxed and mature man and the YES looks like a 22 year old middle eastern hairdresser
He'll switch out the pictures and titles in a day, he nearly always does. It's a "click me" gimmick. You're talking about it, right? 😉
I hope you have donated that white coat😂
I could never understand people paying for distressed denim... if you realy want them buy new ones and let them age while you wear it xD
Honestly I dress to appeal to myself only. If I don't like my own reflection then fuck sake it's a loss. I don't have enough fux to give out of my 16oz bag anymore, I'm all out; with none to restock.
I made a promise to myself long time ago, that I will never walk in crocks, flipflops and loafers. I'm almost 40 and I'm still keeping that promise. Loafers with shorts are making my stomach turn upside down, I'm sorry :D that's a grandma look imo
I do wish you and Aaron would not be too critical of the 90’s fashion. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE wore baggy clothes. All the stores (those that targeted both Caucasians, Hispanics, and African Americans) had the same styles. I chuckle and smile when I see old pictures because we were all dressed the same, the music was awesome, and times were simpler. Lastly, I remember back in the 90’s there wasn’t a ton of jean options in terms of fit…so don’t be too hard on yourself.
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Ironic how I literally just bought a new hoodie 2 days ago, and I'm in my mid-40s. 99% of my winter wardrobe consists of cashmere sweaters and long sleeve polos, so I figured I'd mix it up a bit. And now I'm like...maybe I shouldn't have done that?
I have way too many hoodies. And I’m 32.
I wouldn't worry. Nothing wrong with a well-fitting hoody in a solid color. I'm in my late 40s and still wear them out when running errands. I wouldn't wear them to a social function but there are a lot of other situations where they can work just fine. Just follow Antonio's advice and stick with solid colors and avoid any large logos and you should be good!
Hoodies were never my go-to, but even in my 40s it's important to have 1 at least. If anything, still useful for jogging! And the trend has died off a bit, but the hoodie layered underneath a jacket still looks cool to me
I am in my late 40’s and there is nothing wrong wearing a good fitting, sold dark colored hoodie without logos with jeans that have the proper fit and dark boots to run errands. Paired with a puffer vest looks amazing.
@@vpnath75I'd never wear anything with logos at this point. But you've described exactly how I've been wearing the hoodie...it's dark brown, and I've been pairing with dark jeans and dark brown lace up boots. It looks pretty good on me, despite my age.
Maturity level between ages of late 20s/30s and 18 to 22 is huge. I was surprised to hear you say that a lot of single guys were interested in girls that were not their age.
They can’t get women their age so they need to date younger. I am 18 and I know so many 18-20 year old girls who make fun of late 20s men trying to date them.
@@Silverswitch1 as a 29 year old, why would I date a woman my age?
@@MrLifeUnderTheScope most young women just don’t date. They may not be dating men their age but they also aren’t dating older men.
Is 1:28 supposed to be him looking terrible? Because all I see is a young sporty-dressed man built for that weather and it's not that cringe to me...🤔
Man, your title pic should have the check and the x reversed.🙄
Uuhh. I remember the oversized '90s. I hated it!
Please, please, please never wear loafers with shorts and a polo. It’s a form of abuse to those around you 😂
The baseball cap has to go.
shorts and loafers looks disgusting
You had me until the loafers. Never could take a man in loafers seriously, especially while wearing a suit. Just looks silly.
You did an MBA in Austin? Rich man
You care so much about your look, grooming and clothes, then why don't you fix your teeth as well? I don't mean to be disrespectful, it's just an honest question (here in Brazil we care a lot about our teeth and getting them straight).
Give her gift a boy like me.