I got pregnant 10 days after a miscarriage and now a a beautiful healthy 5 month old baby! So if you do get pregnant before your cycle starts back up, don't worry too much!!! You can still have a totally healthy pregnancy!
Arie, I have to say Lauren is the best decision you have ever made! I can not imagine you with anyone else. Y’all are the cutest and such a perfect fit for one another.
Yes 🖤 we stopped “trying” trying and once we relaxed, we got pregnant a month later. (5 weeks and 2 days, currently 🖤). Congrats to you guys! Super excited for y’all!
It took my spouse and I 2 years to get pregnant, but we got the most amazing little girl out of it 😊 We actually had a vacation planned and decided if we weren't pregnant when we got back, we'd start fertility treatments...but we got back and found out we were pregnant 😁 Vacations work!
You should do the belly cast! When you get closer when your belly is at its biggest. My husband did it for me and it was a great bonding experience and now I show my 6 year old how little he was to fit inside my belly and he can see it instead of just showing him pictures. You can decorate the cast and put in nursery.
After miscarriage, my husband and I waited one cycle and then tried every other day during my ovulation window and now I’m 12 weeks. Still feeling cautiously optimistic but I love hearing your story. I can relate so much!
@@alyssiasimmons1256 yeah there was a big controversy during his season because a few weeks after he proposed to Becca he realized he loved the runner up (Lauren) more and broke it off with Becca to be with Lauren. It looks like it worked out for the best. It is a difficult environment and decision to make. Besides, other bachelors did even worse in my opinion and got way less backlash (like Peter Webber).
Can I be honest about something? I feel horrible saying this, but I was not fans of you two when you were on the show. I truly think it was the editing tho and not you two personally. BUT ever since y’all started this RUclips channel, I’m obsessed with you guys and your little family. I love watching your day to day on Instagram, also. It’s sad that a show can edit someone so differently than their true self. Thank you for sharing all of your life with me/us, I love following along.💜
At least you gave their channel a chance! Some wouldn't even bother watching if they thought they didn't like them. They're one of my favorites Bachelor couple.
I thought the same thing! I was very hesitant whether to watch their videos but I’ve enjoyed getting to know them this way! They really are great together!
I have a feeling they edit the final couple in order to keep the viewers guessing so they don't give away the finale so quickly, same thing happened with Rachel and Brian but its a great couple too
I agree. Lauren has so much spunk and personality and they made her look boring and almost mute. And Arie is the sweetest guy and they made him out to be vile. It's honestly not ok
You two are so adorable, when my daughter-inlaw was trying to get pregnant she tried for 11 years I told them they needed go on cruise sure enough they got away and when they got back sure enough she got pregnant and now I have a beautiful 20 year old granddaughter so you are right stress will make it hard to get pregnant love you both
There are no tips. If your body releases two eggs or one egg splits, you get twins! If women on your moms side are more prone to releasing more than one egg then you have a higher chance!
Right. My mom is an identical twin, her mom's mom had twins. My husband's mom is an identical twin. And some how we only had one our first shot. I'm scared to death to get pregnant again because I feel like I'll end up having a whole litter. 😂😂😂
Identical twins have nothing to do with genetics. It’s spontaneous and without explanation. Fraternal twins can be genetic, but only on the mother’s side. It’s a gene that causes more than 1 egg to release. The father having twins in his family or being a twin has zero influence on he himself having twins.
@@allimack00 yes! This is correct. So many mistruths about twins and how they come about what side they need to come from if fraternal. I had identical twins :)
Already have a girl. Any tips on how to get a boy? I lost my dad after having my 1st child, and life is incomplete without telling his goodbye and I want to take care of my dad the way he took care of me, so I am praying for a baby boy now...probably I am being silly but my dad had a tragic death and I was not there for him when he needed me :(
Not everyone is ready right away to try for another baby after a miscarriage. There is often a TON of fear that you will miscarriage again, and miscarriages back to back can be devastating.
Ovulation tests were a downfall for me and my husband while trying to conceive. We became really obsessed with it and sex become nearly impossible because of how stressed we were. My cycle ended up completely stalling which isn’t normal for me at all. Trying to conceive can cause so much stress. When people say “just relax” it’s really accurate😂
We’ve followed you and your dad’s racing careers since your father began. Our son, Beau DeBard, followed in your footsteps towards Indy and now races a McLaren Can Am. We feel a connection with you, which makes us so happy to see that your personal journey has turned out so well. Congratulations. Your daughter is darling and how wonderful that you’re having twins. Your happiness is infectious. 🥰
Implantation occurs on a cellular level and can’t actually be felt but there’s a high chance you felt the follicle rupture and release the egg (or eggs in your case
It took us 10 yrs to conceive our 1st, with 4 miscarriages along the way. Went through everything you guys went through! It was so rough, & becomes a chore. The harder u try, the more frustrating it gets. It may seem like a long time, but u guys are lucky it happened that fast! It was when we gave up all the fertility treatments & specialists & just left it in God's hands, that it finally happened! We now have 3 amazing miracles, all conceived naturally without "trying". Such a surprise & blessing! Thank u for sharing your story...it's important to all those who have, or are about to lose hope to hear success stories like ours!🙏❤️ Congrats guys! Can't wait to follow your journey into twin life!😊❤️
Found out on Saturday my mum is pregnant with twins! (They are Di-Di) But recently she's had lots of heavy spotting we're honestly scared that they might not make it. Please do keep us in your prayers. I wish you the best of luck with your twins aswell!💕 Twins are truly a miracle
Thanks so much for sharing your story. My husband and I are ttc. We had 3 miscarriages this summer/fall and now it's been 5 months of trying. We are trying not to try and still not having luck. I really appreciate you guys taking the time to share your story and help others out and give us hope. Sending love and prayers for you guys and those babies
I lost my baby at 21 weeks in September last year and I’ve been trying ever since. I totally relate to you guys saying how you felt like something was wrong when each month rolled by and every month the disappointment came. You guys give me hope that it will happen for me when the time is right ❤️ So excited to continue to watch your journey as you expand your family xx
I miscarried almost 6 weeks ago now at 13 weeks (I shared my story on my channel) and am still waiting on my first period again. My pregnancy was also not really planned but now that I've experienced that loss I feel like we do want to get pregnant again soon so I was stoked on this video! I will take any tips no matter how ridiculous they sound! 😄
Thank you Lauren are Arie for being so vulnerable! I am sure that many couples will appreciate your honesty and tips. My husband and I waited to have our first child after 10 years of marriage. I was young and it never occurred to me that when you decide to have a baby you might not get pregnant. Thank God it did not take too long since we had already waited intentionally for 10 years. What I have learned over the years is that you don't know when you are ready if there will be any difficulty getting pregnant! I am so happy for you and your family! You two have such a loving and fun spirit! God bless you!
Hi Lauren and Arie, The pain you had is called mittelschmerz. It's an indication of ovulation, the pain is as a result of the release of the egg. So if you had sex the day before you felt this pain it may mean that you gave yourself the best chance of the little swimmers reaching to the eggs in time. 😊😊
I am trying, well my husband and I. I am on the 2nd month of trying. I had the same feels my first month. I am 38 so considered high risk. This video gives me great hope. Thank you so much for sharing!
Melissa, me TOO, I am 37 so pretty much same thing it’s so frustrating, in my 20’s I know I wouldn’t have this issue, I was extremely fertile but now trying for more has been a disappointing couple months - why or what reasoning did your doctors give you on why after a certain age it’s harder to produce? Have you tried the ovulation kits? I got pregnant right away 2 x with that method . Best of luck.
@@izzyleyladowney2442 I didn't even try in my 20's. I have no idea if I can even get pregnant. My OB said based on my age and being on birth control for 15 years she is not sure but suggested folic acid for now, and ovulation pills if I don't get pregnant on my own. What is an ovulation kit? Are you currently trying? I got the pills in Lauren uses. I am waiting on my oil. I am deciding which prenatal vitamin is best.🙏🏼
I love twins! have an identical twin. ❤️I also have three daughters all born without a twin. Greatest blessings of my life! When they were born I felt a sense of guilt for bringing them to this world alone. Being born without your best friend I just couldn’t imagine! They are each others best friends and mine and have a million little friends so there was no need to be sad! But I still couldn’t imagine! Congrats on these lil ones! The twin connection is real! Even tho they aren’t identical. They will still have the twin bond. I’m exited to see all the twin stuff! 🥰🎉
Thank you for this! My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 3 years now. We are currently working with a fertility doctor but having people open up about their struggles too has helped me a lot through all of this.
Yesss! Progessence Plus!!! I’ve heard so many testimonies of women using this serum to support their hormones and to help with fertility. That’s amazing! So happy for y’all!!
PROPLUS is amazing. I struggle with PCOS, our first daughter took almost 3 years to get pregnant, after 3 months of proplus we were pregnant. It helped us with baby number 2 as well, it only took 1 month that time. :)
Love you guys. Alessi is way too adorable & CAN'T WAIT to see what the twins will look like. Question were you guys planning on getting pregnant before you got married. I don't know if you did but can you post a video ( if you have one ) of Alessi's birth? Can you give us a hint of the twins names?
@@laceebrewer152 I put a roller on it and would roll it on my wrist, hips, and neck. Morning and night. :) some people only use it for the second half of their cycle but I used it every day and found it super beneficial to my mood and cycle regularity. Good luck and baby dust!
This is our fifth year trying for a baby. We miscarried august 2019 but have been trying since 2017. I’m glad it happened easily for them all times and hate they miscarried but it’s awesome that you all got a double rainbow so soon!
I had a miscarriage around the same time and also eventually started using the progenesince plus and got pregnant right away!! I don’t know if it’s just a coincidence but that stuff works
I've been in the exact same situation as Lauren. Have been trying to conceive for a year with a miscarriage within that year. I watched this video and instantly bought the progessence plus oil you talked about. I thought, what the heck, why not?? I GOT PREGNANT THE FIRST MONTH I used it!!! I feel like this video gave me all the baby dust. Thank you so much! 😍
I am beyond happy for the both of you! I can honestly say that you both are soul mates. The bachelor was a vessel from the angels for you two to unite. Your love is beautiful, kind and endearing. I smile every time I see you and your family. I say this because I know my husband is my soul mate and I know what that looks and feels like. God is looking out for you and your beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your love because it is something that makes everyone feel good.
My mom said that when she got pregnant (all three times) she got this weird twinge in her side and for my brother (first baby) she clearly didn't know it but when she got pregnant with me and my sister (we're also twins btw) she told my dad that she thinks that shes pregnant and that also happened with my little sister too
I love how open you guys talked about everything! Had a few good laughs, thanks for that 🤗 so glad it all worked out for you in the end!! Sending lots of love from Germany 🧡
I’m pregnant with rainbow boy/girl twins, too. My daughter is 2.5! We are so excited. Can you do another “what I eat in a day pregnant edition?” And a second trimester update? I’m currently 17 weeks. Love you guys!!!
I worked at a fertility clinic and some tips I learned were... 1) try as much as you can to avoid being stressed, I know it can be super tough, but do what you can to create a stress free environment externally and internally 2) male, stop carrying phone in pocket near man parts 3) vegetarians may want to consider eating meat 4) in general eat healthier food options - avocados, almonds, brown rice, fruits/veggies, lots of protein
Just went through a miscarriage a month ago and waiting to see if we are pregnant again, I’m literally so impatient and watching this has given me so much peace of mind knowing I’m not alone in wanting a baby after a miscarriage. Thank you for being willing to share your story, it means so much!!!!!!!!! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛wish the best for you guys and your family 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
First of all let me say i have seen a lot of these videos and i have only seen the man in the video when she told him she's pregnant, and to see you here with her explaining everything its amazing , secondly its good that you are in on it and you know everything thats going on with her body and what she took, i love it 💓
we were in Vegas when our twins (boy/girl) were conceived. My wife said the rollercoaster at New York, New York shook an extra egg loose (haha). Best wishes!
So excited for you guys! We’ve tried for over 14 years and have never been able to get pregnant. The only way would be IVF and we don’t have the money for that. So we tried adoption and that fell through too, so now, we’ve given up and I don’t think it’ll ever happen now. But I love seeing other people have babies and hearing about their pregnancies. So happy for you both! ♥️♥️
@@ericamarch4558 can’t, it’s my husband. No sperm, the next thing we could do for us to have natural would be a biopsy where they cut the testes in half and try to find sperm, and so far he’s not down to do that. Lol.
Congratulations. I'm so happy for you both! I have pcos and have been told if i ever want to have children, I'll either need to see a fertility specialist or it just won't happen because of egg maturation issues. I'm just really happy ya'll were able to get through that challenging time and were rewarded with 2 amazing babies.
Clinical herbalist here. Wild yam is a completely separate plant than sweet potato. They’re in two separate plant families and are completely unrelated. 😉
I love that you used a Young Living product in your journey- I’ve heard so many amazing stories about how PPP or progessence plus has helped so many women! I love YL products and this one has so much research behind it!
😩😩😩😩 it’s Katie and I know you knw how much I’ve refrained from writing on this post.... giving the topic and door THATS been opened for me... so. Ya. I love you lol.
Arie's right, not stressing & worrying about gettinng pregnant consistantly usually works best. Letting it happen naturally is the best approach as long as nothing is wrong with either one..
I miscarried January of 2020, and had several complications afterwards, but I used Progessence Plus (because I saw Alexa’s story when trying to get pregnant with Drew). I got pregnant immediately (shes 3 months now). My OB also didn’t know anything about it, but I swear by it. I’ll definitely be using it again the next time around!
Love your honesty and story, that takes strength. After over a year and a half of trying as one last effort before IVF we went to a naturopath who put me on vitamins and progesterone cream. I got pregnant right away! I used the cream the whole first trimester too to make sure my levels kept up. Swear by it for myself. So glad this helped you too.
Congratulations 🎊! I understand the frustration of trying unsuccessfully. My husband and I have been trying for baby number two for six years and it really taken a toll on us every month. Definitely going to try these products, couldn’t hurt! ❤️
So happy for you both! 😁 Would love to see a Bachelor season brunch if you have the time to watch/film! Miss your weekly brunches and I’m curious what you think of Matt’s season.
Lauren & Arie It’s a hot mess in my opinion 😂 Especially going from Tayshia’s season that was full of love and respect from an amazing group of men to a bunch of bullying and unnecessary drama! But I don’t blame you two for not watching! Alessi and the babies come first! Wishing you an amazing pregnancy! ❤️
@@LaurenAndArie I quit watching this season after episode 4 just too much drama and obvious production meddling. You guys are the cutest couple finishing each other's sentences!
Just a reminder that this is all good advice for people with normal fertility....conception under 8 months is completely normal. If you've been trying to conceive for a year or longer you need to look elsewhere for actual infertility advice. Just relax and take progessence plus does not cut it if you have an actual medical condition preventing conception. :)
Exactly! I’ve been trying to conceive for almost 8 years..... I’ve literally done everything humanly possible to conceive. These little suggestions they are giving are definitely NOT for anyone dealing with infertility.
I think the pressure of trying causes stress even when you don't think you are. Stress can really set that back. Just having fun and no stress is best.
Usually when u get STRESSED the level of cortisol increase ,,, which in turn decreases the levels of oestrogen and testosterone in the body , making u less fertile . Love everything about you guys ... Happy pregnancy 💜💜
You two are the cutest couple on RUclips thank you for taking us along on this journey cannot wait to see the twins it has been a blessing to be part of this channel please don't go anywhere much love to all of you and God bless
My first 3 children, I was pregnant less than a month after deciding to try. My 4th.. we tried for ELEVEN months. At month 12.. we decided not to try, because we didn’t want a Christmas baby. We took that month off.. and I had a December 21 delivery that year. LoL Stress to try definitely factors in lack of fertility. The month we purposefully protected and didn’t try.. BOOM.
Thank y’all so much! I’ve been following you guys for a few months now, y’all are so nice and humble! I literally ordered this product YESTERDAY and to see you also using it is amazing. It’s a sign, thank you! God bless.
Hey if you don’t mind me asking how is the product working for you I to have a problem conceiving for about 8 years now and currently praying 🙏🏽 I finally have came across a breakthrough 🥺
I burst out laughing when you said your aunt gave you some uncomfortable tips 😂😬. Stress levels, especially long term stress, have the biggest effect on infertility besides actual medical problems, so being on vacation and starting to relax about it a bit and emotionally recover from the miscarriage probably was the biggest factor secondarily supported by things like healthy diet, supplements, and progesterone support. I'm happy for you guys and can't wait to continue following your journey. 💕
I got pregnant 10 days after a miscarriage and now a a beautiful healthy 5 month old baby! So if you do get pregnant before your cycle starts back up, don't worry too much!!! You can still have a totally healthy pregnancy!
Claim your I love Lauren and arie ticket here❤️
Arie, I have to say Lauren is the best decision you have ever made! I can not imagine you with anyone else. Y’all are the cutest and such a perfect fit for one another.
Yes. I was thinking the same thing!
Yes 🖤 we stopped “trying” trying and once we relaxed, we got pregnant a month later. (5 weeks and 2 days, currently 🖤). Congrats to you guys! Super excited for y’all!
Congratulations❤️❤️
Congratulations!
@@Ellasnaps thank you 🖤
@@sarasinger9094 thank you 🖤
It took my spouse and I 2 years to get pregnant, but we got the most amazing little girl out of it 😊 We actually had a vacation planned and decided if we weren't pregnant when we got back, we'd start fertility treatments...but we got back and found out we were pregnant 😁
Vacations work!
Awwe, I’m currently 19wks pregnant with twins! So exciting!
I love that she has so much energy for being pregnant with twins because I’m pregnant with my second singleton and I’m dying at 6 weeks
It gets easier! Those first few weeks are tough but will be gone before you know it!
Same! I was dying from week 6 until week 9. I’m in week 10 now and just starting to feel more normal
I’m 31 weeks tomorrow with my first baby 👶 it gets a lot easier !
You should do the belly cast! When you get closer when your belly is at its biggest. My husband did it for me and it was a great bonding experience and now I show my 6 year old how little he was to fit inside my belly and he can see it instead of just showing him pictures. You can decorate the cast and put in nursery.
YESS!!!
Can’t wait to see the twins!! They are gonna be so cute like Alessi and I can’t wait til Alessi meets them too!
My daughter has been trying for over 4 years she lost a baby at 10 weeks 2 years ago, we pray everyday for her rainbow baby
I hope things work out very soon for your daughter!
I just love how open you guys are talking about pregnancy and stuff . Can’t believe you’re halfway through your twin pregnancy again 🤰🏼
After miscarriage, my husband and I waited one cycle and then tried every other day during my ovulation window and now I’m 12 weeks. Still feeling cautiously optimistic but I love hearing your story. I can relate so much!
This is literally the happiest bachelor couple in recent memory and everyone hated them because Arie was honest about his feelings lmao
Wait what?
Yeah exactly. They’re one of my favorite couples but they got so much hate at first.
@@alyssiasimmons1256 did you watch arie’s season of the bachelor?
@@sallysmith8408 oh no myb
He looks familiar tho
@@alyssiasimmons1256 yeah there was a big controversy during his season because a few weeks after he proposed to Becca he realized he loved the runner up (Lauren) more and broke it off with Becca to be with Lauren. It looks like it worked out for the best. It is a difficult environment and decision to make. Besides, other bachelors did even worse in my opinion and got way less backlash (like Peter Webber).
Can I be honest about something? I feel horrible saying this, but I was not fans of you two when you were on the show. I truly think it was the editing tho and not you two personally. BUT ever since y’all started this RUclips channel, I’m obsessed with you guys and your little family. I love watching your day to day on Instagram, also. It’s sad that a show can edit someone so differently than their true self. Thank you for sharing all of your life with me/us, I love following along.💜
At least you gave their channel a chance! Some wouldn't even bother watching if they thought they didn't like them. They're one of my favorites Bachelor couple.
I thought the same thing! I was very hesitant whether to watch their videos but I’ve enjoyed getting to know them this way! They really are great together!
Over the years I have come to realize "nothing is as it seems on the show"
I have a feeling they edit the final couple in order to keep the viewers guessing so they don't give away the finale so quickly, same thing happened with Rachel and Brian but its a great couple too
I agree. Lauren has so much spunk and personality and they made her look boring and almost mute. And Arie is the sweetest guy and they made him out to be vile. It's honestly not ok
You two are so adorable, when my daughter-inlaw was trying to get pregnant she tried for 11 years I told them they needed go on cruise sure enough they got away and when they got back sure enough she got pregnant and now I have a beautiful 20 year old granddaughter so you are right stress will make it hard to get pregnant love you both
Its so cute that you say, "we" are pregnant. We are 20 weeks....
There are no tips. If your body releases two eggs or one egg splits, you get twins! If women on your moms side are more prone to releasing more than one egg then you have a higher chance!
Right. My mom is an identical twin, her mom's mom had twins. My husband's mom is an identical twin. And some how we only had one our first shot. I'm scared to death to get pregnant again because I feel like I'll end up having a whole litter. 😂😂😂
Also, Arie has brothers that are identical twins. There's the answer.
Identical twins have nothing to do with genetics. It’s spontaneous and without explanation. Fraternal twins can be genetic, but only on the mother’s side. It’s a gene that causes more than 1 egg to release. The father having twins in his family or being a twin has zero influence on he himself having twins.
@@allimack00 yes! This is correct. So many mistruths about twins and how they come about what side they need to come from if fraternal. I had identical twins :)
Already have a girl. Any tips on how to get a boy? I lost my dad after having my 1st child, and life is incomplete without telling his goodbye and I want to take care of my dad the way he took care of me, so I am praying for a baby boy now...probably I am being silly but my dad had a tragic death and I was not there for him when he needed me :(
Not everyone is ready right away to try for another baby after a miscarriage. There is often a TON of fear that you will miscarriage again, and miscarriages back to back can be devastating.
I believe when the pressures off is when you are,relaxed, it happens
Ovulation tests were a downfall for me and my husband while trying to conceive. We became really obsessed with it and sex become nearly impossible because of how stressed we were. My cycle ended up completely stalling which isn’t normal for me at all. Trying to conceive can cause so much stress. When people say “just relax” it’s really accurate😂
Just found your channel and I'm so excited for you guys!! I had 2 miscarriages before naturally conceiving my fraternal twins boys. Congratulations!!
We’ve followed you and your dad’s racing careers since your father began. Our son, Beau DeBard, followed in your footsteps towards Indy and now races a McLaren Can Am. We feel a connection with you, which makes us so happy to see that your personal journey has turned out so well. Congratulations. Your daughter is darling and how wonderful that you’re having twins. Your happiness is infectious. 🥰
So excited for your twins !!! I went through 4 years of infertility, now pregnant with my second IVF baby 🥰
It’s crazy how Lauren’s face looks so different. So pretty with more weight on her. She looks so much happier too!
You get bloated in your face when you’re pregnant
She got a nose job
Y’all are the cutest parents everrrr!! Can’t wait for the twins to be born 🥺💗💗💗
Implantation occurs on a cellular level and can’t actually be felt but there’s a high chance you felt the follicle rupture and release the egg (or eggs in your case
It took us 10 yrs to conceive our 1st, with 4 miscarriages along the way. Went through everything you guys went through! It was so rough, & becomes a chore. The harder u try, the more frustrating it gets. It may seem like a long time, but u guys are lucky it happened that fast! It was when we gave up all the fertility treatments & specialists & just left it in God's hands, that it finally happened! We now have 3 amazing miracles, all conceived naturally without "trying". Such a surprise & blessing! Thank u for sharing your story...it's important to all those who have, or are about to lose hope to hear success stories like ours!🙏❤️ Congrats guys! Can't wait to follow your journey into twin life!😊❤️
Found out on Saturday my mum is pregnant with twins! (They are Di-Di) But recently she's had lots of heavy spotting we're honestly scared that they might not make it. Please do keep us in your prayers. I wish you the best of luck with your twins aswell!💕 Twins are truly a miracle
Hope everything turns out well sending prayers 💖
Prayers for your mom and babies🙏🏻
How old is your mom
@@bethclare9104 my mum miscarried both of them the day after I commented this. But thank you for your prayers
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i miss when the bachelor used to have normal contestants like lauren
Also you guys should totally do a “baby names we love but won’t be using” video!! 💕💕 I love Alessi’s name!
I agree 100% with this!!!
I agree can 100%
Yes 100 %
Yes yes yes!!!!
Why do ppl do those?
Lauren’s hair is gorgeous like her 😍
can’t wait for the twins they’re gonna be the cutest
Thanks so much for sharing your story. My husband and I are ttc. We had 3 miscarriages this summer/fall and now it's been 5 months of trying. We are trying not to try and still not having luck. I really appreciate you guys taking the time to share your story and help others out and give us hope. Sending love and prayers for you guys and those babies
I lost my baby at 21 weeks in September last year and I’ve been trying ever since. I totally relate to you guys saying how you felt like something was wrong when each month rolled by and every month the disappointment came. You guys give me hope that it will happen for me when the time is right ❤️ So excited to continue to watch your journey as you expand your family xx
I am so sorry! What a painful experience! Prayers that a pregnancy is coming soon for you. Never lose hope! 💛🙏🏼😘
@@skiyogagirl thank you, very much appreciated ❤️
I miscarried almost 6 weeks ago now at 13 weeks (I shared my story on my channel) and am still waiting on my first period again. My pregnancy was also not really planned but now that I've experienced that loss I feel like we do want to get pregnant again soon so I was stoked on this video! I will take any tips no matter how ridiculous they sound! 😄
Thank you Lauren are Arie for being so vulnerable! I am sure that many couples will appreciate your honesty and tips. My husband and I waited to have our first child after 10 years of marriage. I was young and it never occurred to me that when you decide to have a baby you might not get pregnant. Thank God it did not take too long since we had already waited intentionally for 10 years. What I have learned over the years is that you don't know when you are ready if there will be any difficulty getting pregnant! I am so happy for you and your family! You two have such a loving and fun spirit! God bless you!
The pain you described sounds like mittelshmerz pain...some women can feel when they ovulate every month...congrats on the twins!
Alessi is so cute I can’t imagine how cute the twins are going to be! PS sorry if I spelled Alessi wrong. Also I’m a huge fan
You got it!
Omg I just got the notification that Lauren & Arie replied to my comment and I literally screamed
That fine
If feel like some RUclips channels will get old, but they never will
Hi Lauren and Arie,
The pain you had is called mittelschmerz. It's an indication of ovulation, the pain is as a result of the release of the egg. So if you had sex the day before you felt this pain it may mean that you gave yourself the best chance of the little swimmers reaching to the eggs in time. 😊😊
I'm literally obsessed with you guys I can't stop binge-watching your videos !
I am trying, well my husband and I. I am on the 2nd month of trying. I had the same feels my first month. I am 38 so considered high risk. This video gives me great hope. Thank you so much for sharing!
P.S You are not big. You are beautiful and glowing.
Melissa, me TOO, I am 37 so pretty much same thing it’s so frustrating, in my 20’s I know I wouldn’t have this issue, I was extremely fertile but now trying for more has been a disappointing couple months - why or what reasoning did your doctors give you on why after a certain age it’s harder to produce? Have you tried the ovulation kits? I got pregnant right away 2 x with that method . Best of luck.
@@izzyleyladowney2442 I didn't even try in my 20's. I have no idea if I can even get pregnant. My OB said based on my age and being on birth control for 15 years she is not sure but suggested folic acid for now, and ovulation pills if I don't get pregnant on my own. What is an ovulation kit? Are you currently trying? I got the pills in Lauren uses. I am waiting on my oil. I am deciding which prenatal vitamin is best.🙏🏼
I love twins! have an identical twin. ❤️I also have three daughters all born without a twin. Greatest blessings of my life! When they were born I felt a sense of guilt for bringing them to this world alone. Being born without your best friend I just couldn’t imagine! They are each others best friends and mine and have a million little friends so there was no need to be sad! But I still couldn’t imagine! Congrats on these lil ones! The twin connection is real! Even tho they aren’t identical. They will still have the twin bond. I’m exited to see all the twin stuff! 🥰🎉
Arie is so sweet & calming towards Lauren 😭 why can’t I have that? Lol
Thank you for this! My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 3 years now. We are currently working with a fertility doctor but having people open up about their struggles too has helped me a lot through all of this.
If you don’t mind me asking have you tried the oil? I to struggle with trying to conceive .
Loved the bloopers at the end-definitely would be a fun thing to keep seeing on your new videos!
Yesss! Progessence Plus!!! I’ve heard so many testimonies of women using this serum to support their hormones and to help with fertility. That’s amazing! So happy for y’all!!
PROPLUS is amazing. I struggle with PCOS, our first daughter took almost 3 years to get pregnant, after 3 months of proplus we were pregnant. It helped us with baby number 2 as well, it only took 1 month that time. :)
Love you guys. Alessi is way too adorable & CAN'T WAIT to see what the twins will look like.
Question were you guys planning on getting pregnant before you got married. I don't know if you did but can you post a video ( if you have one ) of Alessi's birth? Can you give us a hint of the twins names?
How did you use?! 1.5 years of trying and I just got my bottle in today! All the tips please!
@@laceebrewer152 I put a roller on it and would roll it on my wrist, hips, and neck. Morning and night. :) some people only use it for the second half of their cycle but I used it every day and found it super beneficial to my mood and cycle regularity. Good luck and baby dust!
Is ProPlus the Progessence Plus Lauren references in the video?
This is our fifth year trying for a baby. We miscarried august 2019 but have been trying since 2017. I’m glad it happened easily for them all times and hate they miscarried but it’s awesome that you all got a double rainbow so soon!
Lauren can you show a hair tutorial on how you curled your hair like in this video?
I had a miscarriage around the same time and also eventually started using the progenesince plus and got pregnant right away!! I don’t know if it’s just a coincidence but that stuff works
I've been in the exact same situation as Lauren. Have been trying to conceive for a year with a miscarriage within that year. I watched this video and instantly bought the progessence plus oil you talked about. I thought, what the heck, why not?? I GOT PREGNANT THE FIRST MONTH I used it!!! I feel like this video gave me all the baby dust. Thank you so much! 😍
Hey dear, where did u buy it, and how does one use it?
@@hopeubaka9700 a young living oils representative. I put a few drops of oils on my wrists each day.
Hi, I have a question, for the progesterone plus serum do I need to take it after ovulation or just start it before? How did you take it?
@@nidannelly when did you stop using it please?
I am beyond happy for the both of you! I can honestly say that you both are soul mates. The bachelor was a vessel from the angels for you two to unite. Your love is beautiful, kind and endearing. I smile every time I see you and your family. I say this because I know my husband is my soul mate and I know what that looks and feels like. God is looking out for you and your beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your love because it is something that makes everyone feel good.
My mom said that when she got pregnant (all three times) she got this weird twinge in her side and for my brother (first baby) she clearly didn't know it but when she got pregnant with me and my sister (we're also twins btw) she told my dad that she thinks that shes pregnant and that also happened with my little sister too
I love how open you guys talked about everything! Had a few good laughs, thanks for that 🤗 so glad it all worked out for you in the end!!
Sending lots of love from Germany 🧡
I’m pregnant with rainbow boy/girl twins, too. My daughter is 2.5! We are so excited. Can you do another “what I eat in a day pregnant edition?” And a second trimester update? I’m currently 17 weeks. Love you guys!!!
That's great,I love to have twins boy and girl healthy babies in my next pregnancy,I trust in God and receive it in Jesus name.
You guys are seriously so cute. Two of the most humble, soft spoken sweetest human beings ever ❤️❤️❤️
I worked at a fertility clinic and some tips I learned were...
1) try as much as you can to avoid being stressed, I know it can be super tough, but do what you can to create a stress free environment externally and internally
2) male, stop carrying phone in pocket near man parts
3) vegetarians may want to consider eating meat
4) in general eat healthier food options - avocados, almonds, brown rice, fruits/veggies, lots of protein
Just went through a miscarriage a month ago and waiting to see if we are pregnant again, I’m literally so impatient and watching this has given me so much peace of mind knowing I’m not alone in wanting a baby after a miscarriage. Thank you for being willing to share your story, it means so much!!!!!!!!! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛wish the best for you guys and your family 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
Do you have any good news?🙏
First of all let me say i have seen a lot of these videos and i have only seen the man in the video when she told him she's pregnant, and to see you here with her explaining everything its amazing , secondly its good that you are in on it and you know everything thats going on with her body and what she took, i love it 💓
I love Progessence Plus!!! It’s amazing! I’m literally in tears that God brought that into your life & then cane TWINS! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Also- Pro+ has massive affects and I wish more doctors used/knew about it! Most women are deficient in Progesterone
Has it helped you? I’m considering trying this to conceive. Thanks for the feedback. ☺️
I saw a picture of you and like 3 friends and they were all pregnant but you weren’t and it made my heart so sad. So happy this is happening for you!
we were in Vegas when our twins (boy/girl) were conceived. My wife said the rollercoaster at New York, New York shook an extra egg loose (haha). Best wishes!
WE MISS YALL!!!!
No lie. On the last blooper, when your Siri went off because of what you said, my phone sitting next to my iPad wet off too. CRAZY!!! Love you guys ❤️
So excited for you guys!
We’ve tried for over 14 years and have never been able to get pregnant. The only way would be IVF and we don’t have the money for that. So we tried adoption and that fell through too, so now, we’ve given up and I don’t think it’ll ever happen now.
But I love seeing other people have babies and hearing about their pregnancies.
So happy for you both! ♥️♥️
aww! i’m praying that God gives you a baby!!♥️
try acupuncture!(:
It doesn't matter. Enjoy your life.
@@ericamarch4558 can’t, it’s my husband. No sperm, the next thing we could do for us to have natural would be a biopsy where they cut the testes in half and try to find sperm, and so far he’s not down to do that. Lol.
@@mandavvv thank you. I wish we could one day. Ya never know!
Y’all are the cutest parents everrrr!! Can’t wait for the twins to be born 💗💕
Congratulations. I'm so happy for you both! I have pcos and have been told if i ever want to have children, I'll either need to see a fertility specialist or it just won't happen because of egg maturation issues. I'm just really happy ya'll were able to get through that challenging time and were rewarded with 2 amazing babies.
Heyyyy I help women with PCOS
I totally know how you feel. It took me 4 years and multiple rounds of fertility treatments to get pregnant with my twins.
Clinical herbalist here. Wild yam is a completely separate plant than sweet potato. They’re in two separate plant families and are completely unrelated. 😉
I didn’t watch his whole season, but I really like them together...I’m so happy they’re happy 🥲
I love that you used a Young Living product in your journey- I’ve heard so many amazing stories about how PPP or progessence plus has helped so many women! I love YL products and this one has so much research behind it!
I just hope and pray you have a safe twin pregnancy 🤰🏼. I couldn’t be more excited for y’all
😩😩😩😩 it’s Katie and I know you knw how much I’ve refrained from writing on this post.... giving the topic and door THATS been opened for me... so. Ya. I love you lol.
😂I see you kt!! Love you😘
Arie's right, not stressing & worrying about gettinng pregnant consistantly usually works best.
Letting it happen naturally is the best approach as long as nothing is wrong with either one..
You two are just lovely together. Please remember to continue to nurture your love. Taking care of your relationship for yourselves and your children.
I miscarried January of 2020, and had several complications afterwards, but I used Progessence Plus (because I saw Alexa’s story when trying to get pregnant with Drew). I got pregnant immediately (shes 3 months now). My OB also didn’t know anything about it, but I swear by it. I’ll definitely be using it again the next time around!
Love your honesty and story, that takes strength. After over a year and a half of trying as one last effort before IVF we went to a naturopath who put me on vitamins and progesterone cream. I got pregnant right away! I used the cream the whole first trimester too to make sure my levels kept up. Swear by it for myself. So glad this helped you too.
When I got pregnant with my son I had a sharp shooting pain. I felt the moment he implanted exactly.
OMG YES ME TO WITH MY DAUGHTER! I tell people this and they think I’m crazy, I’m like I felt her implanting
That look on Aerie's face when he talks about his advanced moves is too funny!!
Thank you!!! This is really encouraging especially knowing I'm going to have a tough time getting pregnant due to PCOS.
Heyyyy I help women with PCOS.
@@monicaparodi1679 hi! Im so sorry I just now saw your reply. Im currently on that same oil and its working really well.
Congratulations 🎊! I understand the frustration of trying unsuccessfully. My husband and I have been trying for baby number two for six years and it really taken a toll on us every month. Definitely going to try these products, couldn’t hurt!
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My parents tried getting pregnant (with me 😇😂) for 9 years and once they “gave up” and bought a nice sports car they got pregnant with me! 🤯
Love you guys!!! Being stress free about it is so important the moment you really stop is typically when it happens. Lauren you look amazing!!!
So happy for you both! 😁
Would love to see a Bachelor season brunch if you have the time to watch/film! Miss your weekly brunches and I’m curious what you think of Matt’s season.
We actually haven’t watched!
Lauren & Arie It’s a hot mess in my opinion 😂 Especially going from Tayshia’s season that was full of love and respect from an amazing group of men to a bunch of bullying and unnecessary drama!
But I don’t blame you two for not watching! Alessi and the babies come first! Wishing you an amazing pregnancy! ❤️
@@LaurenAndArie curious as to why? Jw :)
@@LaurenAndArie I quit watching this season after episode 4 just too much drama and obvious production meddling. You guys are the cutest couple finishing each other's sentences!
Just a reminder that this is all good advice for people with normal fertility....conception under 8 months is completely normal. If you've been trying to conceive for a year or longer you need to look elsewhere for actual infertility advice. Just relax and take progessence plus does not cut it if you have an actual medical condition preventing conception. :)
Exactly! I’ve been trying to conceive for almost 8 years..... I’ve literally done everything humanly possible to conceive. These little suggestions they are giving are definitely NOT for anyone dealing with infertility.
THANK YOU!
“Arie needs to recharge” LOL LOVE YOU GUY! All I know 100% is Gods plan is prefect 🙏🏼 and he blessed you with twins 😊
Amen 🙏🏼 God is great & blessed them with two miracles after a miscarriage 🙏🏼💞✨
Alessi is the cutest name, so we can’t wait to see the twins and see what you name them!
Watching your videos make me so happy....when I see notification of a new video, I immediately watch
Blessed to be following this remarkable beautiful journey 💘
I think the pressure of trying causes stress even when you don't think you are. Stress can really set that back. Just having fun and no stress is best.
Usually when u get STRESSED the level of cortisol increase ,,, which in turn decreases the levels of oestrogen and testosterone in the body , making u less fertile . Love everything about you guys ... Happy pregnancy 💜💜
You two are the cutest couple on RUclips thank you for taking us along on this journey cannot wait to see the twins it has been a blessing to be part of this channel please don't go anywhere much love to all of you and God bless
My first 3 children, I was pregnant less than a month after deciding to try.
My 4th.. we tried for ELEVEN months.
At month 12.. we decided not to try, because we didn’t want a Christmas baby. We took that month off.. and I had a December 21 delivery that year. LoL
Stress to try definitely factors in lack of fertility.
The month we purposefully protected and didn’t try.. BOOM.
Thank y’all so much! I’ve been following you guys for a few months now, y’all are so nice and humble! I literally ordered this product YESTERDAY and to see you also using it is amazing. It’s a sign, thank you! God bless.
Hey if you don’t mind me asking how is the product working for you I to have a problem conceiving for about 8 years now and currently praying 🙏🏽 I finally have came across a breakthrough 🥺
The bloopers were SO CUTE! you definitely should include more bloopers in your videos lol!
I burst out laughing when you said your aunt gave you some uncomfortable tips 😂😬. Stress levels, especially long term stress, have the biggest effect on infertility besides actual medical problems, so being on vacation and starting to relax about it a bit and emotionally recover from the miscarriage probably was the biggest factor secondarily supported by things like healthy diet, supplements, and progesterone support. I'm happy for you guys and can't wait to continue following your journey. 💕
Lauren, you look beautiful at twenty weeks pregnant! You rock! ♥️🥰🙃😊
Awhh you guys have came a long way since starting your RUclips channel ✨
Also, Arie we need a video for the boys.