I truly believe that when I let go and let God things changed for me because I'm confident and not operating from a place of lack. I feel abundant and I know my worth so I glow and live in my essence. After I chose to live this way I attracted my man out of nowhere. I didn't meet him on a dating app although I was on multiple sites. We met by chance and he shows up everyday even though he has a demanding job. He shows up and is consistent and I truly appreciate it because my main love language is words of affirmation. I thank you for guiding me along my journey. Be blessed.
I appreciate your post. It's encouraging to me because I don't want to go on a dating site, am trusting God. My husband just divorced me a year ago and I'm 67. How's that for Having to trust God. But I do and I won't stop. The point is as you said he came out of no where ,I like that. You were just going about your business. Thank you for your encouragement. Thank you for sharing.
I strongly suggest at some point looking into dating apps. While some humans randomly and when least expected find somone I would never suggest it as a strategy. Both ONLINE and OFFLINE connections can work the key is learning how to use them so that these experiences don't end up using you : )
1. Express your uniqueness 2. Share the gifts from your story-wisdom, greatness, lessons and pain 3. Freely express more of your philosophy and true value, what are you truly committed to 4. Your personality- confidently state this is what makes me, me. Be the authentic high version of you 5. Clearly express what do you like and what do you hate- speak from conviction 6. What is your life mission what are you committed, be clear about your mission and purpose
Thank you! I wish to be filled with light, peace, and joy. This is what I want to bring to all the people I love, and this is what I want to feel. I’m trying to learn how to live fully and authentically, masks off.
I am pursued - even at age 80 - I want to choose someone with my set of values that is aligned so I am not aiming high enough for my age as that’s a reality of life. Tell me I’m wrong.
Love this Bern… going to listen to it again & possibly again ❤❤ lovely positive feedback… I like looking at myself this way … my journey, to enjoy ever step in growth 🎉 beautiful thank you 🙏
Hi... Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your knowledge and insight...I honestly was very surprised because the truths you are sharing are truths that apply to all of life! I absolutely love your philosophy... I'm going to dive deeper into some of the things you talked about...I have been on a spiritual journey for many years now and I am very much into learning and growing... Thank you again and I look forward to this new page I have turned here on my own personal journey... Much love, to you and yours, from northern mi! 💕😊
I was told if you share the challenging things you been through early on, men would judge and hold it against you. Even if the circumstances were not your fault.
I love all your advice! In my 60's I'm trying to appreciate my authentic side. Whatever that is? I find being with all types of personality helps me see myself more clearly! If we show up authentic we help our brothers and sisters show up authentic! A win win situation!
By far the most excellent vid advice on attracting the one that’s a right fit for you. Then add the future visioning of LOA and command the universe to give it since that has a clarity of energy and deep gratitude for getting it. 😍
Lol. My latest vid was Alan Watts. “Life is not a journey.” Long story short…It’s like music or art. Dancing. Playing. We aren’t supposed to “go” anywhere in order to “arrive.” It’s all about dancing to the music while it’s still playing. Bcuz really. Not to be morbid, but it all ends in the grave ya know so if we make it all about “going somewhere” there just is no point. Or how the universe just “is.” Like it’s not driving a bus to “go” to some destination or trying to “go” some place. Particularly humorous was the idea of going to a music concert to only hear the last note. Or the idea that the fastest and shortest song “wins.” Absurd, but this is how we all seem to live down here. Fears…the other fear is that of being trapped in some kind of suckage. (For us fearful avoidants). Fear of something as horrible as love not really existing like it’s all just a big hoax. So in that case it may not be fear as much as cynicism. Speaking of. I don’t even care eh? A man not wanting me or chasing me around is to me a respite and a relief. Lol. Just what you said tho. You don’t “need a man” to find meaning. If you have no meaning now then having a man won’t change that. A man is not “all that” to a woman like some cure all panacea. He’s just another mere human just like we are. He’s just like us. Another mere human who is prob also about as lost as we are, also with his fair share of warts just as we have. So I think also women need to stop downgrading themselves as if your magnificent created being is lacking anything without a male counterpart. Mating is not at all necessary for any woman to be her best self and entirely complete, satisfied and happy all on her own. I personally am loving how it is now. I don’t want some joker coming around possibly messing my solo mojo up. Another thing also is considering if the desire for a man is based on the infamous societal pressures that always seem to tell us we are messed up, weird, off putting, not desirable etc. bcuz we are single. What is the number one question eh? Why are you still single? Like some personal female Indictment. (Replies sarcastically…Bcuz life is better that way. Duh!). Lol. I was just curious. Great vid tho.
Not even well corrected : tuh-gor ( if you want to correct ,do it right ) . Anyway, Tagore in Spanish, that's how it sounds and is well said also. English pronunciation is popular but not yet mandatory. And Tagore Is not even an English author.But, I just wonder, that's the only part you catch from what he said ? 😮 Wow
@@amandaburleson2035OMG Amanda, you are not even close to being on your ‘downhill slide’ (and FWIW… one doesn’t ever have to have one. I was widowed young (@ 26 and just short of 2 years married) 5 years later I met the right woman. We got married just short of 6 months later… she was 42, I was 31. Her two kids were 15 & 16. She approached me, we started chatting and as things ended she told me to call her if ‘I was bored some weekend, got her number). We will have our 40th anniversary in six weeks? I’d marry her again tomorrow. FYI… I’m 71 now and still occasionally get hit on by much younger women. Put yourself out there…be friendly, open, engaging, consider younger or not perfect looking guys.
[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
I already know the answer. Lol. Bcuz that’s what I want right now. 😅😅
You attract what you are. If you want authenticity you must be authentic. If you want unconditional love, you must love yourself unconditionally.
Yes! And thank you for watching. 🙏
Very clearly stated
I dont think thats true. We as women attract all types of men. Its who entertain that matters!
@@Tnc874totally agree. We all meet many types but we don't let them all stay. That's great boundaries in action.
I truly believe that when I let go and let God things changed for me because I'm confident and not operating from a place of lack. I feel abundant and I know my worth so I glow and live in my essence. After I chose to live this way I attracted my man out of nowhere. I didn't meet him on a dating app although I was on multiple sites. We met by chance and he shows up everyday even though he has a demanding job. He shows up and is consistent and I truly appreciate it because my main love language is words of affirmation. I thank you for guiding me along my journey. Be blessed.
I'm glad this are working for you and that you've benefitted from my videos : )
I appreciate your post. It's encouraging to me because I don't want to go on a dating site, am trusting God. My husband just divorced me a year ago and I'm 67. How's that for Having to trust God.
But I do and I won't stop.
The point is as you said he came out of no where ,I like that.
You were just going about your business. Thank you for your encouragement. Thank you for sharing.
I strongly suggest at some point looking into dating apps. While some humans randomly and when least expected find somone I would never suggest it as a strategy. Both ONLINE and OFFLINE connections can work the key is learning how to use them so that these experiences don't end up using you : )
Why are you here then watching videos?
1. Express your uniqueness
2. Share the gifts from your story-wisdom, greatness, lessons and pain
3. Freely express more of your philosophy and true value, what are you truly committed to
4. Your personality- confidently state this is what makes me, me. Be the authentic high version of you
5. Clearly express what do you like and what do you hate- speak from conviction
6. What is your life mission what are you committed, be clear about your mission and purpose
Thank you for the depth of your communication. Next level 😊👍🏼🌷
Suze, glad you found this useful. Thanks for your kind words 🙏
Thank you! I wish to be filled with light, peace, and joy. This is what I want to bring to all the people I love, and this is what I want to feel. I’m trying to learn how to live fully and authentically, masks off.
Here’s to masks off 😊
I am pursued - even at age 80 - I want to choose someone with my set of values that is aligned so I am not aiming high enough for my age as that’s a reality of life. Tell me I’m wrong.
❤🙏
Thank you for reminding me of enjoying the journey of getting to know someone as a spiritual journey. I'm focusing on that now 😊
Sara, glad this helped you!
Love this Bern… going to listen to it again & possibly again ❤❤ lovely positive feedback… I like looking at myself this way … my journey, to enjoy ever step in growth 🎉 beautiful thank you 🙏
Hi... Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your knowledge and insight...I honestly was very surprised because the truths you are sharing are truths that apply to all of life! I absolutely love your philosophy... I'm going to dive deeper into some of the things you talked about...I have been on a spiritual journey for many years now and I am very much into learning and growing... Thank you again and I look forward to this new page I have turned here on my own personal journey... Much love, to you and yours, from northern mi! 💕😊
I was told if you share the challenging things you been through early on, men would judge and hold it against you. Even if the circumstances were not your fault.
@kdcreative9541 - I agree and not only man but even others judge u on that ..
Me too and unfortunately I think there’s truth in that.
Great video Bernardo!
Great to beat someone speak what I've been thinking too!!!
Please Keep it coming ♥️
I love all your advice! In my 60's I'm trying to appreciate my authentic side. Whatever that is? I find being with all types of personality helps me see myself more clearly! If we show up authentic we help our brothers and sisters show up authentic! A win win situation!
Karron, glad this was helpful to you. : )
Love David Whyte too. Great video. Subscribed 😊
Thank you for subscribing and glad this was helpful to you : )
Been alone for 30 years, done years of shadow work and learn law of attraction and still alone .
Same 😢 9 yeats completely Alone😢 i had only 1 relationship in my life but he died of cancer when I was 28… seems there is just 1 real love in life 😞
Sorry to hear this Linda, have you ever had relationship specific help or coaching?
I'm coming up on you. Divorced 25 years ago and single since.
It's possible you project that. Also, it's okay to come to earth and travel solitary..
I am usually always single. Only had a 1 yr relationship of which I initiated. All the other years fully single and I am middle aged by now!
This is deep❤
Thank you!
By far the most excellent vid advice on attracting the one that’s a right fit for you. Then add the future visioning of LOA and command the universe to give it since that has a clarity of energy and deep gratitude for getting it. 😍
Lol. My latest vid was Alan Watts. “Life is not a journey.” Long story short…It’s like music or art. Dancing. Playing. We aren’t supposed to “go” anywhere in order to “arrive.” It’s all about dancing to the music while it’s still playing. Bcuz really. Not to be morbid, but it all ends in the grave ya know so if we make it all about “going somewhere” there just is no point. Or how the universe just “is.” Like it’s not driving a bus to “go” to some destination or trying to “go” some place. Particularly humorous was the idea of going to a music concert to only hear the last note. Or the idea that the fastest and shortest song “wins.” Absurd, but this is how we all seem to live down here.
Fears…the other fear is that of being trapped in some kind of suckage. (For us fearful avoidants). Fear of something as horrible as love not really existing like it’s all just a big hoax. So in that case it may not be fear as much as cynicism.
Speaking of. I don’t even care eh? A man not wanting me or chasing me around is to me a respite and a relief. Lol. Just what you said tho. You don’t “need a man” to find meaning. If you have no meaning now then having a man won’t change that. A man is not “all that” to a woman like some cure all panacea. He’s just another mere human just like we are. He’s just like us. Another mere human who is prob also about as lost as we are, also with his fair share of warts just as we have. So I think also women need to stop downgrading themselves as if your magnificent created being is lacking anything without a male counterpart. Mating is not at all necessary for any woman to be her best self and entirely complete, satisfied and happy all on her own. I personally am loving how it is now. I don’t want some joker coming around possibly messing my solo mojo up. Another thing also is considering if the desire for a man is based on the infamous societal pressures that always seem to tell us we are messed up, weird, off putting, not desirable etc. bcuz we are single. What is the number one question eh? Why are you still single? Like some personal female Indictment. (Replies sarcastically…Bcuz life is better that way. Duh!). Lol.
I was just curious. Great vid tho.
Thank you Man❤
You're very welcome!
Amen❤ I am on track
Glad to hear this.
Preach it !!!❤
Rabrindranath Tagore💯🙌
It’s pronounced as Tag-or instead of Tag-or-ay. Good video though Bern!
Glad you liked it this is my Mexican pronunciation ;)
Not even well corrected : tuh-gor ( if you want to correct ,do it right ) . Anyway, Tagore in Spanish, that's how it sounds and is well said also. English pronunciation is popular but not yet mandatory. And Tagore Is not even an English author.But, I just wonder, that's the only part you catch from what he said ? 😮 Wow
@@tara-30 thanks! I’m a Bengali and an Indian & wanted to help him with the incorrect but easier for western countries - pronunciation of it.
Beautiful
Thank you for your kind words.
WHOA....
nothing is wrong with you ladies, you are just old. its normal. the attention you had at 21 naturally just fades away. its OK!
Ikr? 😁
For you. maybe but not for others. Don’t generalise. And if you’re not there yet, you soon will be.
@@td3701 im 35 and i think im at the peak its all downhill from here
@@amandaburleson2035OMG Amanda, you are not even close to being on your ‘downhill slide’ (and FWIW… one doesn’t ever have to have one. I was widowed young (@ 26 and just short of 2 years married) 5 years later I met the right woman. We got married just short of 6 months later… she was 42, I was 31. Her two kids were 15 & 16. She approached me, we started chatting and as things ended she told me to call her if ‘I was bored some weekend, got her number). We will have our 40th anniversary in six weeks? I’d marry her again tomorrow. FYI… I’m 71 now and still occasionally get hit on by much younger women. Put yourself out there…be friendly, open, engaging, consider younger or not perfect looking guys.