The 7 Things Smart Guys DEDUCE About YOU After One Date

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

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  • @yiqingzhao3692
    @yiqingzhao3692 7 месяцев назад +24

    This is helpful, although I find it dangerous (and easy) to make assumptions instead of having open honest communication and observation

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +5

      I think open and honest communication is key AND sometimes that leads to insightful observations.

  • @juliaskagfjord6207
    @juliaskagfjord6207 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is helpful and useful, we are all so lucky to have your sound thinking and positive uplifting guidance.

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад

      Julia, glad this was useful.

  • @valerieifill2268
    @valerieifill2268 7 месяцев назад +6

    I always find your information and insights very helpful. I have learned so much by listening to your videos and emails. Thank you for all you pass on to me.

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад

      You’re most welcome, Valerie.

  • @miss__deeee
    @miss__deeee 7 месяцев назад +3

    I recently started watching your videos and I have found them very insightful and useful for actually putting into action. Your points and tips have made me much more self aware. Thank you! 🙏🏻

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +1

      Welcome aboard, Dee and glad my videos are helping you!

  • @melissasmuse
    @melissasmuse 7 месяцев назад +7

    Curious to know your thoughts on what percentage of the population are these men you speak of? I’m not doubting they exist, rather curious about there numbers. I’ve dated for years, and really struggled to find conscious men like this. I know a few really great men, but who are scared of intimacy and making the first move.

    • @iyounghuang5433
      @iyounghuang5433 6 месяцев назад

      Hi there. 👋🏻
      You don't need the persentage or the number.
      You only need one.
      😁

  • @nickysmith5808
    @nickysmith5808 7 месяцев назад +5

    Very helpful, thank you!!

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад

      You’re so welcome!

  • @aceanyconcept337
    @aceanyconcept337 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for your remarkable content. Very insightful like always😊

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад

      So glad to hear this is helpful for you : )

  • @MariaS2786
    @MariaS2786 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is wonderful ❤

  • @Lady.Luck.
    @Lady.Luck. 6 месяцев назад

    Great stuff

  • @bhagavatilad3268
    @bhagavatilad3268 4 месяца назад

    I asked my coworker whom I just met a couple of weeks ago on my new shift at work who I sit next to to fetch me a drink from the cooler because a lady went round saying last call for drinks after an office party and he refused and was shocked that I asked him and he said now you show your true colors what does he mean by that in the end the girl who sits in front of me got me and another lady our drinks what was strange about him was that he felt sorry for the girl fetching it for me and he felt sorry for her because she had just come back to work from being ill. Then he was telling about another lady of my race in the office who wanted to change her schedule and be off on Mondays and I said I don’t think she should be off on Monday’s because that’s our busiest days and he went on about how I should show empathy to a sister of my country and still insisting that I should have got my own drink what did I do wrong? In his eyes I have no ailments but I do I have high blood pressure I’m stressed driving to work In 5:00 o’clock traffic on top of that I’m a successful worker who outshines him and totally independent he was really mad I could tell he wouldn’t look so favorable in the office if he got me my drink since he knows all the women and he failed to recognize that I’m a woman too I was doing little things for him like put up his stuff I had even shared a portion of my cake what am I doing wrong besides being in my masculine energy why doesn’t he treat me like the other woman? I told him quite bluntly from now on I’m not going to do anything for you anymore and he says there is nothing wrong with me he’s treating me like another man? I am a woman a beautiful kind sincere honest loving women why can’t he treat me like the other woman who he seems to feel sorry for? This is what I mean about taking care of myself I feel I deserve the same respect from any man in return for my respect for him why am I not getting it and so I’ve decided I’m going to detach from anyone who doesn’t give me the same respect? Question am I being selfish? and is this why I’ve been through 2 divorces and he was further shocked when I said I could marry again he quoted Elizabeth Taylor anyone please post comments thank you for letting me vent here much love always

    • @SirenaSpades
      @SirenaSpades 4 месяца назад

      You need to pull your weight at work and work functions

    • @bhagavatilad3268
      @bhagavatilad3268 4 месяца назад

      @@SirenaSpades he’s finally come round and he asked if he could put my timesheet in the basket with his because he finally realized how much I’ve been helping him.

  • @BernMendez
    @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +2

    [Take My Free Quiz]: What's tGraspe #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz

  • @BQ900
    @BQ900 6 месяцев назад

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and I think he should kiss me. Maybe I should tell him. 🤷🏻‍♀️We spent every day together almost until he had to go away for work.

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  6 месяцев назад +1

      I highly suggest that you talk to him : )

  • @tamsparris-bah8283
    @tamsparris-bah8283 6 месяцев назад +1

    Smart guys are also attracted to woman they sense they can learn things that will interest and engage them from.
    Sharing similar interests is also attractive to them as it creates the potential to create great experiences (and therefore, great memories) together.
    This is my experience 😊

  • @susanhaines7358
    @susanhaines7358 7 месяцев назад

    A huge movement of sex before a relationship 😂😂😂 men are new boot goofin

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +1

      Not sure what you mean but hope this was helpful : )

  • @Olga8888
    @Olga8888 7 месяцев назад +2

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +1

      Olga, thanks for watching!

  • @judyperri9496
    @judyperri9496 7 месяцев назад +2

    Totally disagree Men really have little interest in getting to know you They just want to know what you can do for them

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +2

      Hi Judy, I'm sorry this is your experience the title of my video is 7 things SMART Guys deduce not average guys. Believe it or not there is a growing number of conscious men who crave emotional depth and intimacy. While I don't have any investment in you believing what I say, I'm offering an alternative view that might be the difference maker in your experience of only connecting with men who have little interest in getting to know you. Thank you for watching and from the bottom of my hear I wish you a better experience with guys than you've had so far.

    • @dandydiavoless310
      @dandydiavoless310 6 месяцев назад

      one gets what one gives

  • @lyndamcmullen5506
    @lyndamcmullen5506 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  7 месяцев назад +1

      Lynda, thank you for watching!