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  • @SheRaSeven1
    @SheRaSeven1  2 года назад +94

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    • @soulmatesis1
      @soulmatesis1 2 года назад +3

      Shera you don't talk about pregnancy.

    • @funnyexit
      @funnyexit Год назад +1

      how to wait till have sex and what can we give sexually wise ?

    • @beccaaustin9678
      @beccaaustin9678 10 месяцев назад

      Wa

  • @perfectDOE
    @perfectDOE Год назад +3218

    Don't let them know about your past. And never tell them how you were mistreated

  • @siesies000
    @siesies000 2 года назад +1720

    I promise ya'll. Listening to Shera while text messaging guys or while online dating. Also while getting ready for dates and driving to dates and before phone calls or video chats with guys. The energy of shera gives you the confidence like no other. It's like a magnet to to the male gaze. Oh, her points only work for the correct target. Dusties, weak, cheap, insecure, user males crumble under these guidelines.

    • @moonlights9061
      @moonlights9061 Год назад +27

      Agreed !!!

    • @queengwendolyn333
      @queengwendolyn333 Год назад +54

      most definitely doing this while getting ready for a date, or just to go out and be cute and feel seen... the boost of confidence I get watching her videos 😋

    • @caitlynimani6710
      @caitlynimani6710 Год назад +73

      heavy on crumble. tried my new standards on my ex-dusty and he became unrecognizably angry. standards are a handheld mirror to men with nothing to offer

    • @Bre-bo6nd
      @Bre-bo6nd Год назад +6

      No fr 😂😂😂

    • @Pr1ncessYasmin
      @Pr1ncessYasmin Год назад +15

      *sprinkle sprinkle*

  • @homeaccount1575
    @homeaccount1575 Год назад +739

    Girl I decided I was done about 3 years ago when I was 33. My boyfriend was 60. I haven’t worked since, he bought me a house and multiple cars. I don’t work, he pays all of the bills. Just discovered your channel the other day and everything you’re saying is facts. I know because I’ve lived by this law and I will never look back. #SprinkleMFSprinkle.

    • @sash7804
      @sash7804 11 месяцев назад +16

      Where did you meet him? Maybe I'd go for 50 +

    • @sarahcooper29
      @sarahcooper29 10 месяцев назад +1

      Please tell me where you found him?

    • @PhaniceKhalayi-v6j
      @PhaniceKhalayi-v6j 9 месяцев назад +2

      I need one please give it to me.

    • @PhaniceKhalayi-v6j
      @PhaniceKhalayi-v6j 9 месяцев назад +1

      I need one please give it to me.

    • @acc6905
      @acc6905 7 месяцев назад +15

      Girl I have a rich 60 year old who’s interested in me and he’s rich and I’m very tempted. I’m 29. You think it’s ok?

  • @food4thought692
    @food4thought692 2 года назад +3603

    Yes being thin or fit is a huge advantage that lots of women underestimate. You can be any size and get a man but if you can be disciplined and work on your body the natural way the world is your oyster. Dating is A LOT easier as a fit/fine girl especially if you are a woman over 35. Most women let their bodies go around that time. You have ALL the options after 35 if you keep it tight. When you go to the 5-Star resorts all you see are fit women of all ages with their rich men. 💕💕

    • @Ashley50144
      @Ashley50144 2 года назад +194

      So TRUEE & beautiful i'm 29 & iHear that from MENN all the time first from My father.

    • @sadelorraine8437
      @sadelorraine8437 2 года назад +314

      So so true. If there’s one thing women should do it’s maintain their bodies. As long as their fit and healthy mental and emotional improves dramatically and you’ll have men tripping over each other to get to know you.

    • @katehudson6490
      @katehudson6490 2 года назад +33

      Yes!!!

    • @edema2274
      @edema2274 2 года назад +191

      Yes! You hit it right on the head! Fit women are first in line when it comes to successful men.

    • @katehudson6490
      @katehudson6490 2 года назад +216

      @@edema2274 Fit women are number one in line. You can have a cute face but if you are chubby it’s a no go. Take it from me I am married to a wealthy white man and I know their MO. They will support you if you are trim and cute and non problematic (the latter so).

  • @jessyrocks5640
    @jessyrocks5640 2 года назад +649

    Yall the way you look is everything. I started attracting a different type of men once I dyed my hair and started shopping for more beautiful clothes.

    • @vickyperez213
      @vickyperez213 2 года назад +15

      Hey there! How did you decide? Personally I bounce between brown and jet black.

    • @beyoncepage7795
      @beyoncepage7795 Год назад +15

      @@vickyperez213 just buy stuff that you see and like and make outfits

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 Год назад

      Meanwhile they look and smell like whatever.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад +23

      It happened to me when I started to put more make up. It is incredible..

    • @TT-nu4qk
      @TT-nu4qk Год назад +28

      ​@@vickyperez213Black and grays are men colors. Once I started exercising for a year 5 days a week eating clean and meditation raised my vibration and inter peace and ease where my feminine energy flowed out of me attracting high value men left and right. I started wearing neon colors orange green pink whites.

  • @fromkimwithlove
    @fromkimwithlove 2 года назад +904

    "What's the best job for a leveled up woman?"
    Shera: "Volunteer work" 💀⚰️😂🤣😅😂🤣😅
    Sprinkle sprinkle 💫💫💫

    • @indigolynn4192
      @indigolynn4192 2 года назад +12

      🤣😂💜

    • @SagRising19
      @SagRising19 2 года назад +10

      😂😂😂😂

    • @jamrockk
      @jamrockk 2 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂🤣

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 2 года назад +3

      Lmaoooo

    • @Unassuming_usernamer
      @Unassuming_usernamer Год назад +37

      I’m dyingggg at this-I leveled up and got a provider- my “job”literally is volunteering and he was attracted to that 😂
      Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨

  • @fearless7989
    @fearless7989 2 года назад +1247

    I also believe in no cursing. In not cursing, I inadvertently communicate to men that I value careful communication. I would never want a man to believe he could be overly familiar, or overly casual with me. I want to avoid men rushing me or making the situation awkward. I think that is important and Shera is right, he knows I am an elegant woman💕

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 2 года назад +34

      I couldn’t agree more. ❤️

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 2 года назад +44

      Yes! Cease the cursing, please!

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +10

      Interesting.

    • @barbaramay9288
      @barbaramay9288 2 года назад +23

      I get told that I’m too uptight for not cursing at all

    • @schokococoa575
      @schokococoa575 Год назад +43

      @@barbaramay9288 better to be too uptight than to be too loose tbh and if they see you not cursing to be too uptight then they’re just wanting you to lower your standards so that they are more comfortable, not considering that you would then be uncomfortable when lowering them.

  • @xoxobutterfly
    @xoxobutterfly 8 месяцев назад +162

    Got my first manicure at age 31 ❤ you have to start somewhere

    • @kierapenilton5222
      @kierapenilton5222 Месяц назад +5

      Girl I turn 30 this year and I still haven't been to the nail salon. Ima change it.

  • @tijeraslack3
    @tijeraslack3 2 года назад +267

    I couldn’t get a man in my small town. I went somewhere else and got game. Everyone was getting everyone pregnant in my town. I didn’t have time for the shenanigans. And I stay away from online. I would rather meet someone in person, and I did that by moving.

  • @edema2274
    @edema2274 2 года назад +1210

    Old men are so hard to deal with. Not only do they look disgusting, have poor manners and dress like hell but the entitlement they have for young women is unbelievable.
    I met up with this 62 year old man for wine/lunch and he burped and farted TWICE during the date. I had to leave and blocked him I was so disgusted.

    • @khouloudrhounai8879
      @khouloudrhounai8879 2 года назад

      Bitch im deaaaaad omg his old ass

    • @Pinkpanda811
      @Pinkpanda811 2 года назад +492

      lol sorry that happened to you, but that's just one man. The fact that he wasn't trying to impress you is concerning.

    • @Sheisanangel0
      @Sheisanangel0 2 года назад +197

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @kayodudu5190
      @kayodudu5190 2 года назад +222

      He felt you were entitled to smells his fart, slurps and burps and then take it all in. He is definitely closer to where he is going, if you get my drift.This was so funny it made my day.

    • @edema2274
      @edema2274 2 года назад +204

      @@kayodudu5190 Please stop, I’m still recovering from the trauma 🤣

  • @HoneyBunches100
    @HoneyBunches100 2 года назад +912

    Ladies, the concept of men ordering for you in restaurants doesn’t have to mean he chooses what you eat. When on a date, look over the menu, then before the waiter comes you simply tell him what you’re going to order, for example, “The Chilean sea bass sounds really good. I’ll have that and a side of asparagus”. Then, what typically happens is, when the waiter comes he just verbally conveys what you said you’ll have to the waiter, “She will have the Chilean sea bass and….”. ❤️💫🌍

    • @thehypergamousjourney
      @thehypergamousjourney 2 года назад +29

      Exactly!

    • @quitecontrary23
      @quitecontrary23 2 года назад +41

      One guy told me I didn’t order enough, and told the waiter what I ordered would be our shared appetizer and then chose something completely different for my entree. So controlling..

    • @grubbraw
      @grubbraw 2 года назад +14

      No, I will order my own food.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 2 года назад +92

      My dad has always done this. He asks me what I want then orders my meal first then his. It's chivalry. My ex did that too. They're both Jamaican.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 2 года назад +26

      @@grubbraw then do that. She's just explaining what it means.its ok if some women allow that too.

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 2 года назад +427

    Classy, intelligent Ladies always say "please" and "thank you" proper manners never go out of style.

  • @truthorlies5282
    @truthorlies5282 2 года назад +303

    Preach on this I have already seen the difference in how men treat me from losing weight , you get treated wayyy better having a pretty face is a bonus once the weight goes , I now workout four to five times a week , I have watched you and had tremendous improvements in my life please take care of your body

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki Год назад +4

      Ex wives be like omg I can’t handle this gorgeous mamma 😂

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 3 месяца назад

      Just make sure you're not losing muscle mass..

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 месяца назад +1

      Im not losing any weight other than drinking more water.

  • @user-by2tt7cw4s
    @user-by2tt7cw4s 2 года назад +205

    been binging your vids heavy the last 2 weeks. i feel like a new woman!!! already scaring the dusties away!
    babbbbbyyyy i have never felt more beautiful & more feminine. Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @ninah5938
    @ninah5938 2 года назад +704

    As an African woman who was raised seeing struggle love, single mothers and then married to a diagnosed narcissist, I had no chance. I was a masculine, competitive albeit extremely successful woman who could out do myself and most men. When my most recent relationship failed, I realised something had to give. I had been conned to do it all! Thankfully I dress extremely well and feminine and have repeatedly reinvented myself so this time I am being a soft woman. I am lucky I can get the men easily so now to find a husband. Recently I went to a work event and left early and didn't drink to match my male colleagues which used to be standard procedure and is in banking. Baby steps but I got this.
    Thank you Shera. ❤️

    • @fairy9749
      @fairy9749 2 года назад +36

      All the best to you!

    • @nawagrace4903
      @nawagrace4903 2 года назад +14

      Which country are you from ?
      Am Zambian

    • @high5_mohini283
      @high5_mohini283 2 года назад +6

      🙌🏽

    • @4315am
      @4315am 2 года назад +16

      @@nawagrace4903 Nigeria chile!

    • @dmcneal08
      @dmcneal08 2 года назад +27

      Wow I thought African women usually didn’t experience struggle love and single motherhood.

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Год назад +139

    How you allow them to shine - not correcting them, making them look good, allow them to be themselves (they shouldn’t feel stressed to be themselves)

    • @BlackberryTitties
      @BlackberryTitties Год назад +21

      Wow!! I hope you get paid for the job!!
      😂😂😂
      Y’all out here lying to men to keep them!!

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 Год назад

      @@BlackberryTitties they're out changing themselves to appease men who they just admitted are psychotic and not be trusted. It baffles me. There's nothing to respect when it comes to men. What the hell are women doing?

  • @khiannegeriane5297
    @khiannegeriane5297 2 месяца назад +10

    Listening to Shera is like a free therapy to me. Growing up being a people pleaser and a pick me without knowing, It heals me listening to you my dear. I am getting happier and feeling really validated. Sprinkle sprinkle.

  • @Mia-sp8jc
    @Mia-sp8jc 2 года назад +448

    Posture, pronunciation, a positive attitude each is very attractive to an upper class man. Taking classes, running a small non-profit, writing books will impress men.🌹

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +1

      You can have all that, but how do you get rid of people so they avoid you do you?

    • @nenisguevaragomez8122
      @nenisguevaragomez8122 2 года назад

      Taking classes of what?

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 2 года назад +1

      @@mstwelvedeadlycyns ???

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 2 года назад +23

      @@nenisguevaragomez8122 Whatever you want to learn more about. How to start a business! Computers. Another language. Get a BA or Masters, in a subject that fascinates you. Make a goal and achieve that goal. Think.

    • @justmemessy
      @justmemessy Год назад +15

      @@nenisguevaragomez8122 just… have hobbies. Do workshops accordingly. What are YOU interested in? Or what is the archetype of man who you’re seeking interested in? Golf class, horseback riding lessons, figure skating/barre, ?? Idk 🧠 if at the very least you dont know what you like, think abr what things are appealing to men you like.

  • @madonna8739
    @madonna8739 2 года назад +848

    No cursing, smoking or drinking. If you must drink, drink champagne.
    Don‘t interrupt him, present your opinions with a smile and wit. Just like Shera 🤩
    She got a high value man, so will you

    • @edema2274
      @edema2274 2 года назад +110

      Yes! Emphasis on the no smoking, ladies smoking anything will give you wrinkles and bad breath. If you MUST have weed do the edible option and for the cigarette smokers please stop, you’re nasty lol

    • @Sari_jesus
      @Sari_jesus 2 года назад +1

      Lmaooo sad life, having to live with a man you are neither attracted to or even love. No thanks. Anybody can get money now. Women can get their own money now. Why must I sacrifice an attractive man and love

    • @jazs2300
      @jazs2300 2 года назад +56

      @@edema2274 Lol “you’re nasty”

    • @Trustn01718
      @Trustn01718 2 года назад +2

      @@edema2274 🎯

    • @DD-kv5uu
      @DD-kv5uu 2 года назад +13

      @@jazs2300 that took me out 🤣

  • @MyFrankieee
    @MyFrankieee 2 года назад +178

    I would also like a man who’s taking me out for dinner to look half decent when I’m seen out with him in public 😂lol

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +11

      Very true

    • @rainacherienne1010
      @rainacherienne1010 Год назад +13

      I used to be embarrassed by hanging out with old unattractive men in public so I always took a friend with me (or she took me when she had someone). We also always tried to take them to the restaurants where it was the least chance of someone we knew seeing us. Now I don’t care.

  • @gldsundrp9087
    @gldsundrp9087 Год назад +180

    Here because i work two jobs and I’m tired and tired of being approached by trash when i work too hard.
    Upgraded my living situation
    Keeping up with my monthly facials, hair appointments, nails etc.
    Let go of toxic friends and family

    • @chelseadaniels4327
      @chelseadaniels4327 Год назад +10

      keep up the effort! i'm trying to up my finances a bit so i can throw in those extra amenities" lol

  • @aaliyahsmith8785
    @aaliyahsmith8785 Год назад +67

    One of the reasons guys won’t approach you at regular places is because you don’t look like a dusty can approach you! Baby when I go anywhere I’m looking my best because my husband will ask for my number because I have class on sight! They know not to come to me broke.

  • @angelwright5114
    @angelwright5114 Год назад +91

    I'm a black woman married to an engineer and he is white and older

  • @atzimbamartinez1425
    @atzimbamartinez1425 9 месяцев назад +107

    Shera has so much patience, answering all these dumb questions. I realize that most of us woman are the problem . Including my self but not anymore thanks to Shera 😂

  • @gameoncareerguidance
    @gameoncareerguidance 2 года назад +146

    Once again, Shera you provide tremendous value to us ladies really looking to level up and stay there! 💗

  • @tabitaeguangs
    @tabitaeguangs 2 года назад +295

    I am 38 and thin and I attract all types because I am thin.I don't yet have wrinkles because of my skin routines.I hope that it stays this way.Not just for the men but for my health.

    • @Girligirl24
      @Girligirl24 Год назад +9

      What is your skin routine 😍

    • @perfectDOE
      @perfectDOE Год назад +32

      do microneedling and Trentonin. I still get carded b/c I'm thin with 0 wrinkles or sagginess.

    • @Torihappyness
      @Torihappyness Год назад +43

      Tretinoin, chemical peels, niacinamide serum and water water water!
      I'm 39.

    • @hermionebatek2431
      @hermionebatek2431 10 месяцев назад +2

      Whaoooooo 38 with no wrinkles ❤Pls can you share your skin care routine.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 10 месяцев назад +10

      Water mainly daily, living in cold climate and very little to no stress.

  • @LL-sf3cv
    @LL-sf3cv Год назад +56

    yep especially when men ask you out on dates. i let them suggest to see where they are at. i'm not trying to change them if they pick sub-par restaurants. i just don't go lol. the man should be choosing amazing restaurants

    • @Atypicalkid88
      @Atypicalkid88 8 месяцев назад +2

      Amen

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 3 месяца назад

      The amazing restaurants have the worst tasting foods..

  • @siesies000
    @siesies000 2 года назад +36

    51:36
    GOLD
    These gentlemen are usually professionals or retired professionals. They do NOT want any resemblance of work life while they are in the presence of a lady.

  • @lavacakeproductions6400
    @lavacakeproductions6400 Год назад +185

    I appreciate this advice but the best way to get a quality man is to stop worrying about it and focus on loving yourself. Men love when a woman is at her best. Just be your best most comfortable self and someone that actually meshes with you will be drawn to you automatically. Better than any mind trick you can play, and it'll last!

    • @themarquis8716
      @themarquis8716 Год назад +9

      Statistically speaking, women have largely realized it doesn't last.

    • @lavacakeproductions6400
      @lavacakeproductions6400 Год назад +26

      @@themarquis8716 why should it? No one belongs to you or anyone else. People are too obsessed with possession which is extremely unhealthy. No one person can truly fulfill your every need. That's why you have to have self love first, so if they leave you don't fall apart even if you break down at first. Pain is natural and time is no man's friend so just be in the moment and you might it find it to last a life time. Men respond to our energy more than anything even if they don't realize it. So even if you find the "perfect" man, y'all still might not mesh because he's not meant to be YOUR man. The fastest way into a man's mind is self care, the fastest way to the heart is respect for him but primarily yourself. Men worth keeping really dig women with boundaries. It makes her almost seem untouched when a women knows how and where to say NO regardless of your past. How do I know this stuff? I ASKED GROWN MEN, good and bad men. All of their answers were very similar even if their individual approaches were VERY different.

    • @k.apricot
      @k.apricot Год назад +3

      Me when i gaslight myself

  • @sara-il4bb
    @sara-il4bb Год назад +44

    im so glad i started watching shera at a young age!

  • @thetraveldynasty7915
    @thetraveldynasty7915 Год назад +28

    I’m
    A nurse girl and the scrub comment is true you are speaking truth

  • @yourfavorite7518
    @yourfavorite7518 Год назад +70

    I wouldn’t say to take advice from Latinas. Growing up in Latino culture, I would see (in parties) the women making tortillas, serving plates, while their husbands just sat around and drank beer. Instead of them hiring people to do that for us. 😂 As it should be! 😘 Like common now is a party I came to eat not to serve. 😭
    Now this is not always the case. Some Latinos probably had it better. I just want better for all of us, women.🫶🏻

    • @EC-yl7xk
      @EC-yl7xk 9 месяцев назад +7

      AS a Latina I agree.

    • @schirley1267
      @schirley1267 6 месяцев назад +1

      my friends are Latino. I sit with the guys driking my beer while my girlfriends are serving xD no way I'm gonna do the servent for them. but I can see that they still value women taking care of them

    • @goldrays4862
      @goldrays4862 5 месяцев назад

      If cardi ain't above serving her man you need to pay attention.... this is how men feel loved, when their taken care of. Your doing it for your husband not a dusty, there's a difference.

    • @yourfavorite7518
      @yourfavorite7518 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@schirley1267 depends the guys be cheating on them like crazyyyyy

    • @yourfavorite7518
      @yourfavorite7518 5 месяцев назад

      @9Mountains9 we can be 😭 bc of novelas we are like that

  • @shanteianwokorie9622
    @shanteianwokorie9622 2 года назад +136

    In shera's voice "Oh don't worry we ain't gonna rush nothing, WE NOT GOING TO RUSH INTO ANYTHING" LOL right on Shera 😂

  • @HJFVJFKG
    @HJFVJFKG Год назад +64

    You have definitely helped me to increase my self-esteem the most important thing on earth in an individual!

  • @farrahforever0210
    @farrahforever0210 2 года назад +78

    I wish I could like this 100x you are doing the Lord’s work ! Thank you Shera☺️

  • @jt305
    @jt305 10 месяцев назад +22

    dusties approach anyone it's a numbers game for them 😂🤮

  • @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent
    @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent 2 года назад +293

    Thank you for this video Shera! I wish I could have watched this in my 20s. I was a very hoity-toity high class young lady, but I lacked true self confidence so people valued me less. Self confidence was the hardest thing for me to achieve, but now that I think THE MOST HIGHLY of myself, I have returned to the life of getting everything that I want again but now I know and believe that I deserve it!

    • @bibibomba4515
      @bibibomba4515 2 года назад +9

      How did you achieve self confindence? Thanks in advance...

    • @cristalgrill
      @cristalgrill 2 года назад +11

      @@bibibomba4515 she did it by watching Shera7’s videos✨✨

    • @tijeraslack3
      @tijeraslack3 2 года назад +1

      Ditto.

    • @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent
      @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent 2 года назад +31

      @@bibibomba4515 I started putting myself first, stay focused on my own wants & goals, and kick the negativity out of my life. I only found Shera a few months ago. She has confirmed to me that I wasn’t wrong and I need to keep pushing through. Most people who were not really for me tried to discourage me and really had me reconsidering myself but God has sent Shera to us to confirm what we already think/know and gives us many many tools to keep pushing forward and keep LEVELING UP! 💯💯

    • @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent
      @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent 2 года назад +17

      @@bibibomba4515 I wrote a long reply before but I’m just seeing that it didn’t post! 😩😩 I hope this helps! Stay steadfast to your own wants/goals. Anyone telling you different is a hater/pickme/Barbara the Builder/Dusty. Opinions from any of these people Need to go directly in the trash!

  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 6 месяцев назад +27

    For a relationship to really work, both parties should chose EACH OTHER at all times. That is what I read and I 1000% agree.

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms Год назад +52

    Shera, I would take advice from you because you have secured a provider male for life. That proves you know what you're doing and how to be successful.

  • @luxbeauty4952
    @luxbeauty4952 Год назад +44

    handsome men dont cheat as much as ugly guys do. They know the game now I feel like

  • @naominaomi511
    @naominaomi511 Год назад +33

    10:00 ITS NOT THE AGE OF THE MAN THAT DETERMINES IF HE WILL MARRY, ITS THE CULTURE THE MAN IS LINKED TO.

  • @Lastdayone
    @Lastdayone 2 года назад +43

    I lovvve this look on you! It’s giving breakfast at Tiffany’s. Going to France for an espresso and croissant lol 💜✨

  • @StunningTransformations
    @StunningTransformations 2 года назад +47

    "It's like a cafeteria that has jello... and Salisbury steak... and unseasoned cabbage.." 🤣🤣🤣

  • @NaiSays
    @NaiSays Год назад +61

    The eating partner??? That’s facts 😊 I lost some weight and got a gentleman of means and he fed me crème brûlée and everything else until I gained it back and then some… working that weight off now 😂😂😂😂 it’s about balance, I’ll have to make sure im careful with every meal aside from dates and that may help me next time 😂😅

    • @Arun71150
      @Arun71150 5 месяцев назад +2

      Eat picky. Same thing has happened to me often. I gain by letting them influence my diet. No more now!!!

  • @ivy6179
    @ivy6179 2 года назад +600

    I determine them by their actions as early as meeting before the 1st date. Men think they're the only ones categorizing women and putting them in boxes, but us women do it too. Lol. I know who's gonna be in the friendzone right from the first interaction. Ciao.

  • @loveself6396
    @loveself6396 2 года назад +89

    You are so right about exs! When I posted me in a rolls-Royce my stock went WAY UP! Lmao 🤣

  • @carissam1735
    @carissam1735 2 года назад +347

    Men do think this way. I know for some women it’s hard to accept. BUT it’s true and doing the things shera suggests works.
    I tried these things as an experiment, and got 2 proposals within 2 years. I kinda had to laugh at myself.
    ALSO, you do these things all while being ur true authentic self. Men can tell when you’re being real.

  • @JadeHeartLove
    @JadeHeartLove Год назад +55

    I would have said it's how you look in private that matters 🤦 but that's totally wrong. It's how you look "To the Public" 💯

  • @nony6189
    @nony6189 Год назад +5

    This is probably the realest video I've ever seen.

  • @donnette7985
    @donnette7985 Год назад +36

    Great that US women think their approach is confident in most instances it can appear to be attention seeking. Quiet confidence is highly attractive.

  • @SharleenTinah
    @SharleenTinah 3 месяца назад +2

    Everything you speak about actually works! Sprinkle sprinkle!

  • @lois_king
    @lois_king 11 месяцев назад +13

    Shera is doing the Lord's work ❤

  • @misoka8020
    @misoka8020 Год назад +312

    Ladies YOU determine your worth! Men simply look at you and sense how much you value yourself
    That’s why it is important to make conscious decisions in every area of your life (dresswear,health,attitude etc) so you can communicate that you are valuable
    Simple as that
    No one else tells you how much you are worth. If you don’t know who you are and what you bring, the world will undervalue you…

    • @alexislamberson1901
      @alexislamberson1901 Год назад +3

      🎯

    • @Likelyfairy
      @Likelyfairy Год назад +14

      Exactly, people underestimate you attract what you put out.

    • @louisav11
      @louisav11 Год назад +17

      this is so true. no matter how long i go single, i wear sexy lingerie always and always have on high quality perfume w my nails done. i will never let this standard go for myself because it's about the value i see in me.

    • @antoinettecollins8079
      @antoinettecollins8079 8 месяцев назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing 2 года назад +87

    Everything in this is golden.
    I find wm look at the entire package. Some actually have been burnt by the prettiest women and look much deeper. At least in my experience.

    • @deeniemediainc9959
      @deeniemediainc9959 10 месяцев назад +5

      WM like thin- maybe bigger if you’re fit with a nice shape. That’s 85% of it for them.

  • @shesfabulouz
    @shesfabulouz 2 года назад +45

    Shera you are hilarious. You said how many animal prints are you wearing. 😂 You are so right especially about those big giraffe lashes.

  • @theupgraded6558
    @theupgraded6558 Год назад +19

    Talk & never ask, complement other women’s posessions & show that you want that too

  • @cassianaphillips3665
    @cassianaphillips3665 Год назад +8

    Shera! You are an actress and deserves an Oscar❤

  • @rrb2895
    @rrb2895 2 года назад +33

    I'm laughing but Shera not lying about Lubys and early morning grocery run. 😂😚.

  • @carmenwalker717
    @carmenwalker717 2 года назад +172

    I love all the great advise , But ultimately us as women determine our own Worth! No man should or can determine that.

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 2 года назад +46

      She’s saying you can trick a high value man into sharing his wealth with you (securing the bag) by simply following these rules. Obviously if he’s broke don’t waste your time and keep it real. Men like to be tricked they don’t like reality.

    • @ErinDeNis
      @ErinDeNis Год назад

      @ethanelston4314 So why do they date beautiful and dumb if they like them smart 🤔

  • @Macheka
    @Macheka 6 месяцев назад +14

    “How many animals print are you wearing at the same time” that annoys my eyes 😂

  • @AahyiSam
    @AahyiSam Год назад +105

    Shera’s videos are now the soundtrack to my days these days… ❤
    #Transformation

  • @belindamarie3222
    @belindamarie3222 Год назад +15

    Shera..I'm buying your books. But really wish you were giving out this great advice in the 90's when I was sure nuff in the game. 😉. I would own a house now ..and much more!

  • @Nohypocrites
    @Nohypocrites Месяц назад +1

    Shit as a single 32 year old father that works 3 jobs I’m happy shera giving the game up dating now is different from 10 years (married wife past of cancer) cause I met this 21 year old who tries this I be thinking in my head I already know exactly what you about to do or say and game plan around it

  • @islandglam1
    @islandglam1 2 года назад +35

    Disagree with the confidence topic on cultures. It must be the area as where I am for some reason American women seem extremely insecure!

    • @edema2274
      @edema2274 2 года назад +60

      They really are, insecure bill splitting masculine pickmesha’s. I can’t tell if it’s getting better or worse but one thing you can never tell a Russian woman is to pay a man’s rent, surefire way of getting your butt kicked.

    • @islandglam1
      @islandglam1 2 года назад +12

      @@edema2274 hahaha 😂🤣 I agree, makes me wonder where is she seeing these “confident women?”

    • @datingandlifeadvicechannel7534
      @datingandlifeadvicechannel7534 Год назад

      The uk is worse women here are terrible insecure and look abused

  • @XPrincess30
    @XPrincess30 8 месяцев назад +12

    I’ve heard some men say they like some amount of drama or problems otherwise if you’re both goody goody all the time it gets boring to them or something

  • @oia5882
    @oia5882 2 года назад +38

    This is the first ever SheraSeven video I've ever watched. At first I didn't know this lady I was looking at was such a phenomenal goddess lady. Didn't know that she will be my role model at that time. Thank you so much, Shera🌹💕

  • @keniasharpe1610
    @keniasharpe1610 Год назад +6

    I’m not about to play sheraaaaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂 she said wit the blue film over they glasses good niiiiiiiite ✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿

  • @brendacrawford5744
    @brendacrawford5744 2 года назад +29

    GOING BACK 2 THE LA FITNESS THEN!!

    • @LoveWyns
      @LoveWyns 2 года назад +2

      Me too! I’m in Canada

    • @Ashley50144
      @Ashley50144 2 года назад +17

      If you want to attract a man .. or when you loose weight .. transfer to a luxury gym they gave spas & everything inside you’ll pay like 250 month but affluent rich men are @ those places .. not no 30 dollar a month gym.

    • @siesies000
      @siesies000 2 года назад +11

      @@Ashley50144 get skinty first though...

  • @fromkimwithlove
    @fromkimwithlove 2 года назад +33

    Yes! You should write a clapback book 💯🤞🏾😂🤣😅

  • @aminawilliams3843
    @aminawilliams3843 Год назад +32

    If by the end of the year I find a provider sheraseven I will buy your books
    This is a commitment ❤

  • @donnieslabs
    @donnieslabs Год назад +25

    Shera how do we make a man feel loved after he has spent his money & things how do we stop him from feeling used and losing interest ?

    • @MBeyeline
      @MBeyeline Год назад +36

      Emotional gifts and acts of service that he sees. Like a photo album of your favorite dates and moments together. And helping his mom do something. 😁🫡

    • @lulapaloozah
      @lulapaloozah Год назад +4

      ​@@MBeyelinelove this

  • @fabulousfairy96
    @fabulousfairy96 Год назад +11

    “How many animal prints at the same time” 😂😂

  • @kieuoanhk14nab
    @kieuoanhk14nab 4 месяца назад +6

    Treat yourself as a garage for expensive cars, just for Ferrari or Bentley etc,. When dusties about to park, he will see those flashy cars and will find a way out himself. 😂😂😂

  • @tessawilliams261
    @tessawilliams261 2 года назад +40

    You're message has evolved great! More realistic and mature. Great.

    • @pamelah1220
      @pamelah1220 Год назад +6

      She was already on fire, but now she's unstoppable.

  • @brendacrawford5744
    @brendacrawford5744 2 года назад +21

    Thanks "Lady "Shera-- you're truly the CLASSIEST LADY HERE MAKING THE WORLD MORE BEAUTIFUL EVERY DAY!!!!!! THANK U THANK U THANK U!! MOVING BACK HOME BECAUSE OF U!! (AND HOUSING IS ATROCIOUS HERE IN FLA!!!)

  • @aariegood8343
    @aariegood8343 2 года назад +23

    girl you are hilarious ! all while dropping gems. subscribed.

  • @user-ib7it2li8f
    @user-ib7it2li8f 2 года назад +21

    Don’t invite me 💀 if they don’t say thank u and please

  • @misscooks601
    @misscooks601 Год назад +30

    I can’t believe I wasted my time watching Kevin Samuels. I belonged over here!

    • @jessicaB-wy2xn
      @jessicaB-wy2xn Год назад +10

      Bestie, I hope you healed from tjst

    • @jessicaB-wy2xn
      @jessicaB-wy2xn Год назад +4

      But I feel that I should’ve BEEN over bere

    • @mariatamara1626
      @mariatamara1626 2 месяца назад +1

      What video haven’t I watched of this guy? I wish it was shera first too

    • @misscooks601
      @misscooks601 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jessicaB-wy2xn yess well healed 💜🥰

    • @misscooks601
      @misscooks601 2 месяца назад

      @@mariatamara1626 all that matters is we’re here now 💕

  • @Bionic_bunny
    @Bionic_bunny 8 месяцев назад +4

    Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨

  • @midnightblue1539
    @midnightblue1539 11 месяцев назад +8

    How you add to their image
    Don’t complain a lot
    Have Common sense don’t ask dumb questions all the time

  • @amethyst4990
    @amethyst4990 5 месяцев назад +3

    I dated a couple guys and they thought i was too skinny. They kept telling me but i didn't listen. Now i gained about 14 lbs and lol they were right i look bette rwith meat on my bones. Got some thighs and butt on me.

  • @HJFVJFKG
    @HJFVJFKG Год назад +19

    omg I am in love with your evil laugh

  • @cierrataree3366
    @cierrataree3366 2 года назад +59

    Not how many animal prints u have on😂😂😭😭😭

  • @Cat-es9rq
    @Cat-es9rq 2 года назад +21

    Please do video about being married and get what I want

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Год назад +16

    Yesss knowing what you want chances the game energetically as well

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Год назад +7

    Love your lipstick !

  • @Helloo_oo
    @Helloo_oo 2 года назад +23

    Looking very beautiful Shera!😍😍😍 The hair compliments the face, your makeup looks on point too!

  • @oneloveoneheart9075
    @oneloveoneheart9075 2 года назад +18

    Not a Barbara the builder 😂😂😂

  • @HJFVJFKG
    @HJFVJFKG Год назад +23

    The people who had the best delusions are the people that got the more money

  • @daughteroftheking01
    @daughteroftheking01 2 года назад +10

    1:23:30 LMFAAAOOO she’s funny af. Can’t even fill out no paperwork uh un bye😂😂😂😂😮‍💨

  • @cynbod
    @cynbod 2 года назад +18

    Where do you meet these men outside online dating? It´s always the left overs online...

    • @siesies000
      @siesies000 2 года назад +8

      Online is harder, but you still can turn up in a positive situation. The best situations do usually come in person. Doing hobbies and stuff like that usually help.

    • @Zeroboy5467
      @Zeroboy5467 Год назад +1

      Make a list what you want in a man and about a look and you will get him sis
      Close you legs till he put a Ring on😊

  • @constanceolorunmola1383
    @constanceolorunmola1383 Год назад +10

    Totally unrelated, but I lost a lot of money today and I just found my way back to Shera's video cause she quietens the voice in my head

  • @breebrown1626
    @breebrown1626 2 года назад +9

    Girl im from Houston too and please and thank you is just how we live here! I couldn’t imagine not saying it.

  • @balqeesalbozabiba8663
    @balqeesalbozabiba8663 9 месяцев назад +3

    Bruh she makes me laugh ngl😭😭🩷🩷

  • @jeanies1090
    @jeanies1090 Год назад +20

    I think marrying a young man is fine if he is mature (from his personal experiences), you have been with him for years and and he have standards.

  • @robotnitchka
    @robotnitchka 3 месяца назад +2

    If you do all of these things and still can't find a man, be grateful that at least you are able to repel the dusties. (To get a provider man you just need to go to a wealthier part of town.)

  • @daciasdiy1861
    @daciasdiy1861 Год назад +8

    The way she says Dusty is hilarious ! Nope i had one dusty and nobody believes it! That was when i was a tennager! Lol

  • @patfar392
    @patfar392 2 года назад +63

    Absolutely would rather be single and work that do all that stuff to get a man . Men are two a penny … I see a homeless lady near me who has a boyfriend ffs am not going to work that hard for anyone ( except myself ). It’s exhausting just listening to you !
    I will look nice for me - no worries .
    I will be educated and behave well for me - done !
    But for a man ? … jeez. No man worth that.
    Nope 😅

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +8

      I agree.

    • @ladylady7848
      @ladylady7848 Год назад +7

      💯💯💯

    • @namedrop721
      @namedrop721 Год назад +28

      Ma’am are you smart enough to hear a repeated message? She repeats it about 15-35x a video.
      It’s about finding 💴 💴 💴

    • @rainacherienne1010
      @rainacherienne1010 Год назад +10

      I hardly want to get up in the morning and go clock in for myself. I could never do this for a man.

    • @peachdumpling9053
      @peachdumpling9053 Год назад +20

      Yea imma just go off what she said before “if you find yourself doin too much, he’s not the one. And that’s when you know you should let him go” I’m not losing myself over a man, especially not in this day and age…. It feels desperate

  • @kokotv1913
    @kokotv1913 2 года назад +18

    That lash statement……🤣🤣🤣🤣