The harder someone works to bring you down or humble you, the more scared they are of you. Trust me, you scare them and I remind them of all they lack inside lol
Yep. I was a dating an EXECUTIVE who openly admitted he was terrified of me and he tried to humble me any time he thought he could and baby, 🗣️HE COULDN’T!
I would like to encourage more men to view these type of channels, so they can see the satanic nature of you type of women. This is not being a man’s rib. And you relationships will not last
Learn the art of detachment. Women need to stop attaching themselves to men who don't attach themselves to you. Be completely detached which allows you to focus on what you wants and if they can't comply your not pressed your not attach emotionally so you move on to the next. Unbothered!
In 30 years there will be an award winning documentary film about Shera and her contribution to shifting societal paradigms. It’s gonna be epic. I already see it.
Everytime a man opens his mouth to speak you, he is running game. If you keep that foundational knowledge in mind, you'll move accordingly and win more, ladies. Thank you, Shera!! My spirit guide fr 😂
I promise this is the truth 💯💯 I say always assume everything a man says is a lie lol because most likely it is . But never let them know you are onto to them just play the game right along with them and benefit in anyway you can.
Me too. Though my mama told me all men want is my body she didn’t go further with why our bodies are so valuable. How attached we get from sleeping w a man and how easily men use and discard
@@PreciousOtaigbeLeave. He's basically paying you to have s*x and stick around. My "bf" just broke it off after doing the same thing and the whole time I wondered why we didn't talk more during the day, etc
I'm just going to say if a man asks you aggressive, belittling questions like, "What do you bring to the table?" Do not give them the chance to backtrack. Get up and walk out because that is an insecure boy who will make you suffer. They don't bring anything to the table and that's why they're asking what they can get from you.
Exactly I am learning not to ask about body count, I am learning not to ask about what a woman brings to the table. It is just dumb. Just get to know her. If a woman asks me about how much money I make or to expects me to pay for the first date. I am walking away. Cause really we are trying to get to know each other. Enjoy the company that we bring to each other we need to match our energies. Do not ask about body count do not ask about what she brings to the table. Do not ask about my bank account do not expect me to pay for the first date. Traditional is just stupid everybody needs to chill and vibe.
I’m blown away by how accurate this is about showing up for yourself always. I got dolled up to meet a online date and when I didn’t want to enter his apartment before the dinner he ghosted me. So I went out by myself and bumped into the new guy I’m dating. Couldn’t of worked out any better 🎉
That's so creepy.. ew that first guy's intention was really to try and get you into bed yikes! So scary he could have overpowered you in his apartment. Glad you said no! 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Guys try to talk to me wherever I am, mall, grocery store, walking outside, etc. I just ignore because I know they’re Dustys. This one guy approached me today wearing socks and flip-flops. I simply just walked away didn’t even say nothing to him. Do not approach me if you look like you can’t pay my bills!!
Hey girl. Make sure you look like they cannot afford you - classy, not bright colored and loud labels clothes and complicated nails and unnatural looking hair.
Girl, a guy approached me telling me he didnt brush his teeth this morning so he doesnt want to talk to me at close range. But he had to approach me , cause he couldnt let me get away
Men play psychological games most of the time… this is done to know if you deserve their respect or not. When you start dishing out everything about your past and things you have done. *they have got it* Ladies let’s all be smart… getting the bag is the most important..Thank you Shera
This is why you should NEVER disclose too much info. Even to your own husband. So many women lack mystery. He’s not gonna disclose all his past wrong doings so why should you? Always keep him wondering and curious.
You are a flippin' genius, especially the part of creating doubt within the woman to break her. I wish you were my sister. We are so much alike in thinking.
Yes ma'am next time I'm ASKED for pics I NEVER agree to send... I ALWAYS say NO! but THIS TIME imma say Yeah 😁 and send pictures of EVERYTHING I WANT AND NEED lol thank you SHERA☺️ SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 💋
@@nanaamakyerewaa6656 I'm not finna say anything... I just wanna know what he buying or getting first...if he doesn't respond to the pictures I sent... BLOCKED!!!!
anytime they ask me for a “pic” i always tell them to follow my social media and they can see all my photos on there 😂 definitely not sending them a picture they crazy 😂
You're better off being single now a days, folks are either traumatized by their past and not quite sane OR have a hidden agenda and its not to say that applies to everyone of course, that's the case with vast majority today. Moral of the story- Preserve your time and energy☝️#StAyWoKe
I remember a BOY MAN asked me "What do you bring to the table" I continued to be in the space only to realize, how much I was trying to prove myself that I was the one. BIGGEST MISTAKE
my favorite flex is saying i have to go to the bathroom & never coming back if any little thing is said to me that i feel is even remotely disrespectful on a date with a man. thats what i would do if a man ever asked me what i bring to the table ✌️
Watching Shera is hard but needed. There’s so much I didn’t know, and I’ve acted so sad because my self esteem was low. But now I know better. Thank you Shera!
Say yes 😂 ! And that you’re trying to see who you like more , which is the truth. But they get all competitive and try to impress you because they see it as a game / chase
And even then, once you have him, still make hom KNOW you are free spirited bird that cannot be caged and and lioness that will not be tamed. For some reason, men cheat on the con trad wife and work harder for the biotches. So being nice and feminine and complaint gets you nowhere
If a guy wants to reschedule last minute, I just say OK. I never reschedule, when they ask about my availability I just say we'll play it by ear. Which is code for block and delete. You don't get to waste my time. I also never start getting ready or leave to meet until they confirm the day of and also when they are leaving out to the location. Sometimes they are sitting there waiting for me, and I reply "you never let me know you left and I don't like to wait."
I've met a guy like that he asked me for pics before I told him no. I knew he was manipulative, trying to guilt trip me but i didn't know that asking for pics is a psychological trick
@shayemoore No, I was just reading some old messages. The dude wasn't a potential interest. It's more like an acquaintance. We just lived in the same dorm while I was in college. Back then, I was desperate to have friends, but even so, I'm actually proud of myself because that little hobbit couldn't manipulate me. Now I'm reading and seeing all his tricks. Guilt tripping and asking for photos. I didn't know that asking for photos is a way of manipulation, too. But seeing how he tried other ways of manipulation, asking for pics must have been one of them.
She said if you don't know who you are then keep guessing... all facts people... do it as early as you can too... if it means stepping away from family and old friends... do it
I am lucky i found you. You are honest, strong, to the point and respectful. All other female ‘coaches’ wasted my time and confused me. You deserve to be where you at🙌🏻👑
I feel dead inside, I don’t understand humans… I feel betrayed to the core, can’t we all be more genuine. Why is it like this? Are ppl really like this?
I need to start standing up for myself and stop being mashed down. I never knew how to detach and not GAF. No wonder I meet all these crappy low grade dudes that say I ask for too much. And most the time I’m asking for the basic shit to maintain a relationship or whatever. Smh I need to do better.
PLSS the guy i’m talking to just asked me to send him a pic of me and i just went on youtube and this was the first thing in my recommendations and the intro had me shook 🤣🤣😭
I wish I can share all these text messages I get from men. They are MAD AS HELL!! I now see that guys are just hooking up with whom ever they can get. I see those pick mesha’s giving me dirty looks when she’s walking next to her dusty because he’s looking at me (while he’s literally next to her) Little does she know that I DON’T WANT YOUR BROKE DUDE! And I low key wish I can teach her to not settle for less.
Got a older man 57 years old. Rich. Wants to fly me out to hang out an event with him but won’t buy me the appropriate attire to be there with him. Hard pass! Spending 300$ for flight And 400$ hotel is not showing me he is appreciative of me being arm candy to show all his friends Nope 👎🏽
These videos help me and I still got work to do. I’m trying to put my sister on because she’s a super newbie with dating and I told her the world is different.
Its so funny. I had a guy act like he was so interested in me But once he saw how much money i spent on myself he realized he couldn't afford me. I sent him a pic of some $40 shoes ( basic ass converse) i wanted for my bday and he told me he would only buy me things like that once we are together.... 😂😂 i laughed so hard. They were forty dollar shoes and it was my bday. To me that was EXTREMELY REASONABLE for someone i was getting to know for the pass 5 months. But i believe since we weren't having sex he wasn't feeling the gesture 😂 Dusty...cheap.
I'd never buy a girl shoes if we're not even having sex. You are absolutely entitled. You expect to be bought entire presents but wont even give him something that costs nothing. I don't blame him at all, all he did was prevent himself from being exploited by someone that doesn't care for him,
When a dusty try to approach ask for payment and look at them a straight and make them to feel shameful. Remember giving time for dusty is like sleeping on cold without a blanket
Lmaooooo Shera you are too damn funny you said what happened when we were “friends with benefits”? We benefited that’s what happened!!! I’m cryinggggg 😭😭😭😂😂😂
1:57 it’s a sales trick… “get someone to say yes and it’s easier to get yes the next time.” I don’t think you should even send your social media pic.. should just tell him “my pics are on my profile.” We gotta tell them “no” to see how they respond to our boundaries.
The fact these men ALL do this, in various ways in ALL of their different relationships is crazy! They were all raised with society and they Mamas thinking they’re the prize😂. Time to wake them up! You’re not, and I’m not clarifying ish cause you began this game but I’m disengaging 😜
Thank you SheRaSeven I have been severely depressed today - I broke up with this guy who wasn’t treating me the very best 😪- but for whatever reason it hurts!
Wow this information is Platinum 😮 thank you so much! I just saw your video in my recommendations - and I am watching with an open mouth. Thank you!!!!👍🔥 these men are so weak. We, strong women, do not need them if they cannot provide us value.
Hontey! I have been Subed.. since u were 1st uploading 6yrs. ago!!! U still speaking in your truth! And it is that !!! YASSSS NOW IN THE OVAL OFFICE!! YAS! MAA'M!!! TELL IT!!! MOST DON"t EVEN GET THIS FROM THEIR PARENTS AND I WILL BE 49 on the 29th and my daughter. Same day!! I tell her this already about her friends... Don't let people get in you=r head!! Thanks for this! I will be sharing on my Facebook!
‘When a women says don’t worry about it, that means she will find another man’.
This the first comment I saw and yes it’s exactly what the fuck it mean lmao
Your terms are acceptable.
Does this go for men as well
@@jayObv😅 right no games
She's really implying she's had enough and ready to move on to bigger and better things whether that resorts to another man or being single.
The harder someone works to bring you down or humble you, the more scared they are of you. Trust me, you scare them and I remind them of all they lack inside lol
❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Reminds me of a guy I was getting to know 😂
He hated my confidence low key
Facts
Facts
Yep. I was a dating an EXECUTIVE who openly admitted he was terrified of me and he tried to humble me any time he thought he could and baby, 🗣️HE COULDN’T!
You’re changing the world, I swear. Men are offering me things left and right.
@@Tetris-le4trwhat complaint did she make?😂😂illiterate first bunny
@@Tetris-le4trshutup you bozo she didn’t complain you mad that you can’t provide 😢
Not the Cheesecake Factory guy.
@@Tetris-le4trwhat are you even doing here 😂
I would like to encourage more men to view these type of channels, so they can see the satanic nature of you type of women. This is not being a man’s rib. And you relationships will not last
“Desperation makes people want to exploit you even more” wise words to remember.
Learn the art of detachment. Women need to stop attaching themselves to men who don't attach themselves to you. Be completely detached which allows you to focus on what you wants and if they can't comply your not pressed your not attach emotionally so you move on to the next. Unbothered!
This right here is the key
Exactly!! Detachment is our friend. Allows us to move on to bigger better things 🎉
❤
Yes ma'am.
😉☀️😅@@KatalinaKris
the white house back drop is sending me 🤣
Shera for president!.
I was seriously thinking she’s a judge 😂
Sending us to they bank accounts 😹🙌🏽
She’s always telling us to use Photoshop and Ai 😂😂😂😂😂
@@eljofrvait's the dark clothing. It looks kinda like judicial robes.
In 30 years there will be an award winning documentary film about Shera and her contribution to shifting societal paradigms. It’s gonna be epic. I already see it.
Yas!!!
@@thehypergamousjourney Cardi B’s daughter will play her in the docuseries
It’s not going to take 30 years. I give it 5 max
🙌🏻
She’s a diamond! 💎
Everytime a man opens his mouth to speak you, he is running game. If you keep that foundational knowledge in mind, you'll move accordingly and win more, ladies. Thank you, Shera!! My spirit guide fr 😂
I promise this is the truth 💯💯 I say always assume everything a man says is a lie lol because most likely it is . But never let them know you are onto to them just play the game right along with them and benefit in anyway you can.
@@deboii100We know ur tricks silence
@@deboii100you’re just angry you can’t control people anymore
@@deboii100nah feel sorry for the men who will end up lonely 😂
can he run game if you dont let him speak?? hmm
I wish I would have had someone like you when I was a teenager. Would have saved me from sooooo much trauma from men.
i avoid men and i don't have trauma from them, this is the only solution.
same
Me too. Though my mama told me all men want is my body she didn’t go further with why our bodies are so valuable. How attached we get from sleeping w a man and how easily men use and discard
It would have saved me as well.
Yesss❤❤❤❤❤
so true.. men absolutely can't stand when you don't need them or pay attention to them
What if he gives me money buh no attention what do I do?
@@PreciousOtaigbeLeave. He's basically paying you to have s*x and stick around. My "bf" just broke it off after doing the same thing and the whole time I wondered why we didn't talk more during the day, etc
@@PreciousOtaigbecontinue to enjoy the monetary benefits! Get attention from the other men that you’re dating. ☺️
@@PreciousOtaigbeyou’re in the perfect situation. get his money and go find you somebody you connect with 😂
@@dreamkitty buh he keeps ghosting me I’m tired of double texting just to ask for money I ghosted him bck kos I feel my self respect comes first
I'm just going to say if a man asks you aggressive, belittling questions like, "What do you bring to the table?" Do not give them the chance to backtrack. Get up and walk out because that is an insecure boy who will make you suffer. They don't bring anything to the table and that's why they're asking what they can get from you.
💯💯💯
Absolutely 💯
Exactly I am learning not to ask about body count, I am learning not to ask about what a woman brings to the table. It is just dumb. Just get to know her. If a woman asks me about how much money I make or to expects me to pay for the first date. I am walking away. Cause really we are trying to get to know each other. Enjoy the company that we bring to each other we need to match our energies. Do not ask about body count do not ask about what she brings to the table. Do not ask about my bank account do not expect me to pay for the first date. Traditional is just stupid everybody needs to chill and vibe.
Exactly
Thks for sharing this
y’all read the men’s comments …. they are still clueless and mad….. also they have poverty mind .
Lol. They don't know you're married and wealthy.😂
a man thats not with the back and forth.. went forth not lookin back..
Even if they send money, you don’t owe em shit😂
Exactly! 💖
I'm not beating your method, but there's a reason "provider" men are rare, and this is one of them.
I can only encourage y'all to keep doing that.
@@hillsideonly They are rare in your experience. You need to stop hanging with bums.
Stuff like this is why I have zero pity when these men out here take advantage of you back. You objectify another human - you deserve it.
Right
I’m blown away by how accurate this is about showing up for yourself always. I got dolled up to meet a online date and when I didn’t want to enter his apartment before the dinner he ghosted me. So I went out by myself and bumped into the new guy I’m dating. Couldn’t of worked out any better 🎉
That's so creepy.. ew that first guy's intention was really to try and get you into bed yikes! So scary he could have overpowered you in his apartment. Glad you said no! 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Same thing happened to me, blocked the guy, and ended up going out with my backup n had a great time! 😊
The last time I guy asked me for pics, I sent him a picture of a refrigerator from Home Depot 🤣. He was so confused.
Lmao I’m gonna use that!
😂❤
😂😂😂😂 like Sir pay for the refrigerator
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣
🤣
Guys try to talk to me wherever I am, mall, grocery store, walking outside, etc. I just ignore because I know they’re Dustys. This one guy approached me today wearing socks and flip-flops. I simply just walked away didn’t even say nothing to him. Do not approach me if you look like you can’t pay my bills!!
Facts!!
Hey girl. Make sure you look like they cannot afford you - classy, not bright colored and loud labels clothes and complicated nails and unnatural looking hair.
Girl, I’m 21 whenever a man tries to talk to me I automatically say dusty the fashion isn’t mathing I walk the other direction
Fr & he will just move on to the next basic other b
Girl, a guy approached me telling me he didnt brush his teeth this morning so he doesnt want to talk to me at close range. But he had to approach me , cause he couldnt let me get away
Men play psychological games most of the time… this is done to know if you deserve their respect or not. When you start dishing out everything about your past and things you have done. *they have got it* Ladies let’s all be smart… getting the bag is the most important..Thank you Shera
men played psychological games since the start of the world. They play psychological games all these centuries through
@@heliana25 lets play better than them.... sprinkle sprinkle 🌟🌟
This is why you should NEVER disclose too much info. Even to your own husband. So many women lack mystery. He’s not gonna disclose all his past wrong doings so why should you? Always keep him wondering and curious.
@@prettykitty5416 😂😂😂😂😂 any luck yet?
@@heliana25 I want to be lesbian so bad
You are a flippin' genius, especially the part of creating doubt within the woman to break her. I wish you were my sister. We are so much alike in thinking.
Sweetie Pie, she is your utube sister, Sprinkle, Sprinkle!!🎉🎉😇👍.
I just stop dealing with these men all together … I’m not interested in the games they play anymore
4B baby
I swear I watch shera solely for confirmation that I’m moving right in these dating streets and that she taught me well 💅🏾
Me too!!!
Yes! She won’t lead us wrong!
Yes ! Had to coem listen to her after some dusty was trying to trip me up lmfaoo
Yes ma'am next time I'm ASKED for pics I NEVER agree to send... I ALWAYS say NO! but THIS TIME imma say Yeah 😁 and send pictures of EVERYTHING I WANT AND NEED lol thank you SHERA☺️ SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 💋
I just take a snapshot of my dp and send. But I like this better
Afyer taking the pics and sending to them what do you say?
@@nanaamakyerewaa6656 I'm not finna say anything... I just wanna know what he buying or getting first...if he doesn't respond to the pictures I sent... BLOCKED!!!!
Just like when they don't get what they want from us... They move on to the next 😅 It's our time 😉
🤣
🧔🏾😛:Send some pics
👩🏾💻: 🎁🛍🛍🛍🥘🍡🍏🗽🗼🏰🍱🏎🏖🌇🕌⛴🛥✈🇯🇲🇬🇧🇪🇪🎫🩱👝🛍🛍👛📿💍💎💰🍱
Sadly, older men can be immature too.
Yes they usually are
Yeah that's true
Getting older doesn't make em wiser
anytime they ask me for a “pic” i always tell them to follow my social media and they can see all my photos on there 😂 definitely not sending them a picture they crazy 😂
Lol I used to say I can show you a pic on my phone 😂😂
@@Queen-ConsciousYa lmfao 😂 as you should babe
50 bucks 😂😂😂
Or send a fake 1 😜
Send a picture of a really pretty necklace and the link where they can buy it.
If a man says you're mid tell him that's why u went for him... women date down bc looks aren't as important to women 😅
Or dump him. Say you’ve got other options who think you’re hot.
Whenever a man calls me mid online I usually tell them they ain't even reaching mid they in the negatives shut they asses right up 😂
@@Emptytopfloorher comment was better.
This is when you tell him that he's broke.. remember their money hurts their feelings
Profound 😊
When guys want me to send pics, i say lets wait until you take me out, we can take pics and make memories together. Lol
nah i don’t want to take pictures with them either. He can take a picture of me though
noted
Shera said “I’m enough for myself.” No offense to anyone. I hollered. That’s the “main character energy” she talks about.
“ send me a picture of some money”😂. I felt that, I hate when they ask for pics. I leave them on read
They ask for the pic so they can whack off to them be careful with ur beautiful pics
Send me Pic of ur bank account lol
Same
I never understood why women sent pics!!! I always send a cashapp request. They will leave you alone. Lol
😂
Fools only believe promises!!! ❤ just believe “actions ”!!! Sprinkle sprinkle 🎊 🎉
You're better off being single now a days, folks are either traumatized by their past and not quite sane OR have a hidden agenda and its not to say that applies to everyone of course, that's the case with vast majority today. Moral of the story- Preserve your time and energy☝️#StAyWoKe
Facts !
You're not lying at all
Mannnnn listen 💯💯
I wish I could express how real this comment is. If anyone ever sees this , please PLEASE believe it.
Seeking help males & pickmes’
SheraSeven for President! In Shera We Trust.
Shera stays dropping wisdom and facts. Sprinkle, sprinkle. ✨
@@Tetris-le4tr It’s better to be single single than with a dusty dusty.
My mama says that “ALWAYS have something else to do” 😂
“Stop falling for these okey dokes” so true “they want you at a discount… but they can’t have you” ❤❤❤
I remember a BOY MAN asked me "What do you bring to the table" I continued to be in the space only to realize, how much I was trying to prove myself that I was the one. BIGGEST MISTAKE
my favorite flex is saying i have to go to the bathroom & never coming back if any little thing is said to me that i feel is even remotely disrespectful on a date with a man. thats what i would do if a man ever asked me what i bring to the table ✌️
Unless it's winter
@@anka6356 i’ll abandon a man in any season ❄️🌤️🌧️☀️⛄️🔥
@@anka6356Uber run in all seasons
@@anka6356I drive myself to the date so I can leave whenever 😆
@@Angelface_16 always
Shera said show up for yourself.
@@pocahontas521 4:59
😂😂😂 The fact that she’s dressed like a judge
😂😂😂😂😂
I didn’t notice until I read this hahaha
😂😂😂
LMAO
😂😂😂😂😂🫠order in the court 😅
I just hollered at the short man comment when you said wake up and look down at him while ya bills are paid!!! I’m cryn 😂😂😂😂
I never send anyone pics. I say no right away! I don't post pics online and I find it totally insulting to be asked.
VERY
What if he doesn't know what u look like at all? Is it still unreasonable for him to ask for a pic? I'm talking regular pics not nudes
@@getgot3461she has a profile picture.
What’s their obsession with getting pics? It’s truly |nsane to me 😅
@@gailainsley6939 to me it already lets me know 1) he has a collection of different women in his phone and 2) he probably watches too much porn
Watching Shera is hard but needed. There’s so much I didn’t know, and I’ve acted so sad because my self esteem was low. But now I know better. Thank you Shera!
My SD ghosted me… I told him he had to pay to get back in
Signal to get another one
How could u even tell him that if he ghosted u
@@xoxotiffanyj4001maybe he messaged her after ghosting her out of the blue 😂
So what, get another. You’re not desperate.
Period … don’t give me financial excuses, give me finances ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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" Would you date a bisexual man? You mean a man that's been to prison? "🤣 hilarious. thoroughly enjoying this video !!
What😭😭😭
The answer to that is Hell Fucking No!!
😂😂
if he asks "are you going out with other people (guys)?" you resond "why? are you?"
Say yes because he then wants to be the winner
@@alivanessa134True. This also weeds out the dusties because broke men are also usually too lazy to work for a woman’s affection the way he should.✨
Say yes 😂 ! And that you’re trying to see who you like more , which is the truth. But they get all competitive and try to impress you because they see it as a game / chase
And even then, once you have him, still make hom KNOW you are free spirited bird that cannot be caged and and lioness that will not be tamed. For some reason, men cheat on the con trad wife and work harder for the biotches. So being nice and feminine and complaint gets you nowhere
"Maybe, is that a deal-breaker for you?" And smile.
I wish I had this advice years ago! I watch this channel AFTER having years of these experiences.
You guys were lost in the same energy and behaviors you guys talk sh*t about now. And That you're probably still lost in. It's tragic.
Wow, this Chayo4537 really on here mad, commenting on every comment. They’re either an angry dusty or lonely pickmeesha!
Improve everyday and learn from mistakes nobody is perfect you are not alone gurl
same! omg i’ve experienced so much heart ache 🤕
i'm glad o found shera in my 20's
U lucky 😂😂😂
What you did to me girl... there is no emotions left, I can't even cry no more...I just want money🙃
GREAT😁
😂
A man I just met asked me to send him a picture I told him I don’t send pictures to men I don’t know. ❤
Period
Listening to shera while I do my laundry. Daily affirmations 😅
me currently
Yes lol
I listen to her in the shower or on my drive home from work.
@tookyamanz oh you’re moving DIFFERENT!! i need to do that 😭😭😭😭
@tookyamanzthis!
If a guy wants to reschedule last minute, I just say OK. I never reschedule, when they ask about my availability I just say we'll play it by ear. Which is code for block and delete. You don't get to waste my time. I also never start getting ready or leave to meet until they confirm the day of and also when they are leaving out to the location. Sometimes they are sitting there waiting for me, and I reply "you never let me know you left and I don't like to wait."
I do the same. Can’t risk getting ready for nothing
Slowly coming out of my pickmesha era. wish i learnt about you 10 years ago😢
Yall talking smack about pickmeishas and pick mes when you guys are glossy in that era. It takes one to know one.
@@chayo4537 whatever go & stay mad!
Better late then never girllll. Just come out fast not slowly
girl yes smh. low key feels its too late
That is not something u should be exposing urself on the internet babes😂 gn
I've met a guy like that he asked me for pics before I told him no. I knew he was manipulative, trying to guilt trip me but i didn't know that asking for pics is a psychological trick
Tell him no and leave it at that. No explanation needed.
I didn't know too😂😂😂 but that is as far as they could manipulate me...
@shayemoore No, I was just reading some old messages. The dude wasn't a potential interest. It's more like an acquaintance. We just lived in the same dorm while I was in college.
Back then, I was desperate to have friends, but even so, I'm actually proud of myself because that little hobbit couldn't manipulate me. Now I'm reading and seeing all his tricks. Guilt tripping and asking for photos. I didn't know that asking for photos is a way of manipulation, too. But seeing how he tried other ways of manipulation, asking for pics must have been one of them.
@@jenjenk452 Ok, I see. That's what they do. They'll try to guilt trip you. Glad you stood your ground😊
Or...he just wanted photos? Not everything is a trick .
She said if you don't know who you are then keep guessing... all facts people... do it as early as you can too... if it means stepping away from family and old friends... do it
No lies! Train them to spend the coin 🗣️🗣️ I train them to spend from the DOOR!
Shera is a once in a lifetime revolutionary! 💖
I am lucky i found you. You are honest, strong, to the point and respectful. All other female ‘coaches’ wasted my time and confused me. You deserve to be where you at🙌🏻👑
I feel dead inside, I don’t understand humans… I feel betrayed to the core, can’t we all be more genuine. Why is it like this? Are ppl really like this?
Morally I feel disheartened.
It’s a cold world we live in~ Future
Sorry but its much worse..
Literally. You are not the only one. It’s hard out here.
She is so true be wise women;these men can exchange women in a blink of their moments stay focused be wise always power😂
I need to start standing up for myself and stop being mashed down. I never knew how to detach and not GAF. No wonder I meet all these crappy low grade dudes that say I ask for too much. And most the time I’m asking for the basic shit to maintain a relationship or whatever. Smh I need to do better.
Shera please continue to educate women you’re amazing ♥️ you’re the reason why a lot of women now are making it perfect and clear about what they want
PLSS the guy i’m talking to just asked me to send him a pic of me and i just went on youtube and this was the first thing in my recommendations and the intro had me shook 🤣🤣😭
I wish I can share all these text messages I get from men. They are MAD AS HELL!!
I now see that guys are just hooking up with whom ever they can get. I see those pick mesha’s giving me dirty looks when she’s walking next to her dusty because he’s looking at me (while he’s literally next to her) Little does she know that I DON’T WANT YOUR BROKE DUDE!
And I low key wish I can teach her to not settle for less.
Never ever sent pictures thats controlling and disrespectful .
14 minutes in and alreadz keeping notes! Shera you're a gem!
Hello!!!!
Shera for president!!
Time to get implementing these tips! Shera is a pure genius
Honestly
That's what I'm kno
Desperation attracts dust. Decide from a place of abundance 😊
Got a older man 57 years old. Rich. Wants to fly me out to hang out an event with him but won’t buy me the appropriate attire to be there with him.
Hard pass!
Spending 300$ for flight
And 400$ hotel is not showing me he is appreciative of me being arm candy to show all his friends
Nope 👎🏽
“Tell them to send YOU pictures…OF SOME MONEY” LMAOOO
LMAO I Respect this lady. Women step it up. You are not wrong for having standards. It's ok ladies peace out
The problem with being desperate is… I’ve been desperate many times but I never knew I was desperate lol
I actually ask a man to send me a screenshot of his bank statement… he did lol he had 40 k in his account and thought I would be impressed… I wasn’t
And what did you do after it 😅
did you ask for money
He has 40 and you need 10
What a loser
Hahahaaa just asked for moneyyyyy babyyyyyy
These videos help me and I still got work to do. I’m trying to put my sister on because she’s a super newbie with dating and I told her the world is different.
SheraSeven is a sigma woman I can tell. Plenty of commonsense and very observational.
Its so funny. I had a guy act like he was so interested in me
But once he saw how much money i spent on myself he realized he couldn't afford me.
I sent him a pic of some $40 shoes ( basic ass converse) i wanted for my bday and he told me he would only buy me things like that once we are together....
😂😂 i laughed so hard. They were forty dollar shoes and it was my bday. To me that was EXTREMELY REASONABLE for someone i was getting to know for the pass 5 months.
But i believe since we weren't having sex he wasn't feeling the gesture 😂
Dusty...cheap.
Yup, men will white wash u, if they can. Dusties are real real!
Omg imagine failing a $40 test. Hahhaha.
@@peachesandpoetsomg begging for $40 😂 sound like y’all bums
I dumped every guy that tried that. Lol Bye Dusty * sprinkle sprinkle*
I'd never buy a girl shoes if we're not even having sex. You are absolutely entitled. You expect to be bought entire presents but wont even give him something that costs nothing. I don't blame him at all, all he did was prevent himself from being exploited by someone that doesn't care for him,
Watching a stream from Shera is in my new self care weekly routine 🎉
Same here❤
Me too
Me too🥰
When a dusty try to approach ask for payment and look at them a straight and make them to feel shameful. Remember giving time for dusty is like sleeping on cold without a blanket
Lmaooooo Shera you are too damn funny you said what happened when we were “friends with benefits”? We benefited that’s what happened!!! I’m cryinggggg 😭😭😭😂😂😂
1:57 it’s a sales trick… “get someone to say yes and it’s easier to get yes the next time.”
I don’t think you should even send your social media pic.. should just tell him “my pics are on my profile.” We gotta tell them “no” to see how they respond to our boundaries.
Watching your channel worked! I listened and it helped my relationship! I’m getting married this month
The fact these men ALL do this, in various ways in ALL of their different relationships is crazy! They were all raised with society and they Mamas thinking they’re the prize😂. Time to wake them up! You’re not, and I’m not clarifying ish cause you began this game but I’m disengaging 😜
You just woke me the FU*K UP! Thank you ❤
One of your greatest sermons Ashera ❤
I promise I needed this. My fiancé is being an ass.
👸remember shera said. he can only be an azzz🐐 to u.
if U let him. bc u control the cat. which is what he wants🐈.
Hunny my husband is an ass.
@@queensun6059I got $40 for you babe
Tell me as a student in SSU he is no longer your fiancé or else drop out 😅
Shera would tell you to get another one
the background is sending me lol
I’m in tears 😂😂😂
Really wish I had access to this knowledge earlier. But thanks to you I’m no longer a pickmesha 😂😂😂
Thank you SheRaSeven I have been severely depressed today - I broke up with this guy who wasn’t treating me the very best 😪- but for whatever reason it hurts!
Question, how long yall was together?
😢
You'll be alright
Why does it hurt? He isn't nice or caring for you properly. Find someone who cares.
YOU broke up w HIM!! Celebrate!!! 🎉 you’re better off and being single is absolutely fabulous 🥰
When I go out by myself men approach me more and best believe I dress my best 😙
I'll do that!
A dusty got mad at me just because i responded to him 2 days later😂
But who’s laughing at you for engaging with a dusty at all.
Why are dusties knowing how to contact you? 😮
Why did you respond ..
Coming to you live from the White House, sprinkle sprinkle ✨
I just found you. You are a genius,girl!! Speechless!!
Using this video to have a conversation with my daughter! Great video. ❤❤
Wow this information is Platinum 😮 thank you so much! I just saw your video in my recommendations - and I am watching with an open mouth. Thank you!!!!👍🔥 these men are so weak. We, strong women, do not need them if they cannot provide us value.
Hontey! I have been Subed.. since u were 1st uploading 6yrs. ago!!! U still speaking in your truth! And it is that !!! YASSSS NOW IN THE OVAL OFFICE!! YAS! MAA'M!!! TELL IT!!! MOST DON"t EVEN GET THIS FROM THEIR PARENTS AND I WILL BE 49 on the 29th and my daughter.
Same day!! I tell her this already about her friends... Don't let people get in you=r head!! Thanks for this! I will be sharing on my Facebook!
1:09 promise is a comfort to a fool👏👏👏. Shera for President. This!!! How many many man string women on promises
In Shera We Trust 😤❤
“tell him to send YOU some pictures… of some money” 😭😭😂❤️ 2:27
“Send me a picture of your money your house your car your boat” Lmfaoooo 😂😂😂
Practice the art of detachment!