SAY IT AGAIN GAMES LEAD TO GAMES LEAD TO GAMES LEAD TO GAMES. You're specifically looking for the person whos willing to forfeit their manhood all together just to entertain you.
At the end of the day this is an extremely clumsy way of training. Obviously the goal is to book as many donors live spot your as target market faster. Shes obviously from Houston. Show up in New Orleans with your boots laced. We got appointments in a much faster environment.
Literally, us women have the power! When we all start to deny them dusties any access to us, that’s when men won’t have any other choice but to level up and offer us more.
This. I realised in my late 20s that men are literally obsessed with women and they need sex and intimacy. They always are in the search for women. That’s why they get so mad when women are confident and knows what she wants. Not saying to be rude or a diva, just stop accept dustys.
@@Emiliah1996 And they use women to get confidence boost and respect from other men and women. They will be with a woman, not because they have feelings for her, or want her, but simply for the fact that she wanted them and they were able to get with her, so they can boast themselves and brag to other men.
@@SylviaSaetahey… money rules. I understand your frustration, knowing that you’ll always be just an object… well at least shera is teaching you to use it to your advantage
@@nathanielelzie8898”just an object” to males. Which is irrelevant because another person’s opinion of me isn’t the truth, it’s what I think of myself that matters. Your male opinions hold no value 🤷🏽♀️
chasing is a very masculine activity in which i will never participate in again . if a man doesn’t chase me i automatically assume he doesn’t want me and move on , and that’s how it should be ladies !
Listen to this lady😅. I have went on a full paid trip to Jamaica, a brand new refrigerator, a trp to Denver!! I am a middle age lady! Okay looking 😅. I chose a man who wants me.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Hold on… let me share this! Boys!!!!! Will HATE! That you choose yourself first! I have had men tell me ,” you go to the gym everyday” “ you could’ve cancelled going to the gym” Just so I can lay up with them smoke weed , watch a movie and give him some cookie. 😭🤣🤣🤣 jokes on youuu! I’m at the gym! Every👏🏽Single👏🏽Time!!
@@angelika87absolutely. It makes you feel better too. Man I used to be 👺, chasing any attractive guys attention. Whew chile just going to the gym I feel like a celebrity now😂
lmao men are wising up and we aint chasing no more. Especially a man who takes care of himself meaning striving for improvement daily. There isnt enough manly man out there so if you find one and you try to play the "game" with him, he will move on to next immodestly. Only a simp and a lame chases. Know that ladies.
I’m 20 and I’m seeing all these comments wishing they’d had your advice at my age. Just got played by a 24 year old “successful” man who wanted wifey privileges without a title. Talkn bout some “cook for me” lmaoooo never again! Next!!! I’m so glad I found your channel you’re helping me find what I need as a woman.
A lot of them don't chase anymore. Some will at first and then stop. Even the ones with 💵, the older ones with strong work ethics, etc. I think this era of men are just built different.
If all women do what Shera says then the men will have to just start chasing again. Women have become way too lazy with our standards hence the current state of lazy men❤
Like seriously, I always reject first offer because I think a man needs to ask me twice, but after first no they give up. Remember when older grandmas used to say that they didn’t like their husband when they first met them, but they kept trying, so finally they agreed and now they’ve been married 60 years. Not like that anymore.
They were like 6 to 12 when they first met of course the girl was playing hard to get but u a grown ass woman that's a different thing. They got married way early back then. Ya'll are not the same. there's no point comparing the two, U ain't your older grandma and he ain't your older grandad u don't possess there great qualities. @@rainacherienne1010
Most men dating online, even after you have a connection with, are still active online with their profile. As a matter of fact, they are on multiple platforms. I find that you cant ever trust them bc they are addicted to online dating.
14:16 She is soooooo real about not meeting them online. It’s funny I felt this even before this video. And always felt the online men were just not it. Finally met a guy in person who hates social media and it’s great
@@Victoria_FamaGo to your favorite places. Like Target, Starbucks, Costco, Sam’s Club etc. I know she says “freestyle” so nice bars and restaurants. No lie, I met the best man I ever had at the mall in my twenties. He will always be my bar, he was a real man and did everything Shera talks about on this channel without any manipulation. This is the person I should have married but has my own ideas back then.
Shera is right! If a man doesn’t pursue you, he doesn’t like you! Even he decides to be with you, it’s cus you want him and he benefits from being with you. Don’t be Pickmesha
I didn’t even watch the video just yet, and I’m still gonna like it and scream facts! I literally just met a guy that I really was feeling, and he mentioned something about his previous partners chasing him and proposing to him. That was the last time he heard from me.
Really appreciating the take on adult friendships here. At some point you just don’t have time and capacity to deal with what’s going on in other people’s lives on top of your own. Especially if u have enough going for yourself 🙌🏻🖤
I am the prize. you want a man who represents a corporation. So if I am the CEO of the corporation of the Olympics, do you think you are more important than the CEO of the Olympics.. you are only the prize compared to other women.
Oh, hell no. I immediately nip that in the bud before I block him (if I say anything, because it’s usually a straight block): “I don’t play like that, so don’t ever play with me like that again.” Ick! 🤮
@aphrodite-vz9itSelfish looking for gifts 😂..Transactional relationship is what you desire ? Not all guys are into fake material holidays etc.. maybe he does other things for you dates, vacations, share of bills etc. ?
he's sezually using you, move on. Don't waste your youth on men your age. Go older early ie 40s on up. You will not receive anything from a man whose young broke and jobless. Unfortunately you gave yourself away for free so there is no way to convince him to give to you when he's already had you without having to give you anything.
@aphrodite-vz9it girl… a starbucks coffee is like 6€ … I mean he GOTTA be sweet and great cause he ain’t got no money- that’s all he can offer. But i am in my teenage years as well, and unless y’all are like 12 he got some money. the problem is he does not want to spend that money on YOU. No gift for bday is actually crazy, like, insane even…
Also don’t go out with a man who’s always asking you, wyd or when are you going to cook for me! He should be taking you out, where you want to go and he should be feeding you and also buying everything.
9:49 There is no point in being with an older man unless he can fund my entire lifestyle. These older men be looking a HOT DAMN mess, they better know they paying bills!
@@Loveskelly-hr Foreal 😂 I cut one off cuz he wasn't doing shit for me, & straight up told him I hope u don't think a young woman in her prime is with your old ass cuz she likes you?....
Uh, I don’t know about this one. lol this is a little far fetched. If a man is too quick to marry you, something might be wrong with him. I would say give it two years of consistency at LEAST. If he doesn’t bring up marriage within this time period then I would say he’s not serious. You should have a roster though… I would say look more at his effort, and look at what he’s doing for you. I wouldn’t cut a bag off because he didn’t propose. Some men aren’t looking for marriage, if you are… then you should have a roster of men.
Um no don’t listen to this ladies I work in family court and general sessions they come by my office to fill out marriage applications but be right back in there divorced because they got married too fast
I literally just broke up with my high school sweetheart for this! I told him he too relaxed for me! Then no action. Then I sent him a invoice for waste 4 months of my energy. 🤷🏽♀️💅🏾🙃🙄💃🏽
Please listen to her point about being flown out! I definitely made the mistake of being flown to see a guy I met in my town because he travels constantly for work. I didn't even think about what Shera is saying....and it definitely was a waste of my time and energy. The next time someone offers me that, I will pick the destination, the hotel, ask for my own room, AND spending money...and watch him disappear. 🤣
A man who doesn’t chase u is BEYOND stressful bc ur ultimately doing the chasing and it’s exhausting. A woman shouldn’t be adding that to her plate of satisfying her partner, being pregnant, carrying a baby to term, raising your child & supporting ur husband! Women should not chase. Chasing means; texting first, asking to hang out first, paying for a date, worrying about him when he’s literally f**** some other girl, going 50/50 on a date (he’s just using u bc he’s broke), NOT COMMITTING!!! Stop CHASING that man he will hurt u beyond belief in the long run!!!
ok what about the ones who don't get care to be pregnant or won't be pregnant for a long time. If pregnancy is your excuse how come it doesn't stop you from doing all the things men use to only do like working, driving, etc.?
@@justlurkin Pregnancy is not the only thing sweetie. Women still get paid less than men to this day so y'all better change that or make up for it... Just saying
❤❤ Thank you. This is how I was raised. I taught my daughter how to be a lady also. Now she is married to a high value man in her early 20s. We need to know your value
I have real hair, I never wear lashes, and I never take booty pictures. but YOU ARE RIGHT! I post my opinion on social media and men do not react ...but the moment I post a selfie they all react even the married ones. they give me attention the 24 hours of the story I posted then they vanish till I post another story lol
They don't chase because they don't have to anymore. They use internet to find what they need, is a holy grail for guys, especially awkward one's, not specifically pretty one's, one's without money or with lots of. I opt for a guy that stays away from social media platforms and is eager to focuse on genuine relationships only.
Factz 💯 If he’s not putting in effort he’s not worth your time. High value women know men are hunters/providers. We don’t settle for less than gentleman’s behavior. Literally a couple coworkers came into my office lurking around me in front of women they are getting with. Those girls looking at them while they looking at me 😳. It’s so sad cus no matter how young, cute, or trying to work hard for his attention type of girls they are, dudes leave them with nothing but a used butt and poor work reputation smdh. They literally didn’t upgrade these girls in any way or get them anything yet be looking at me like I’m supposed to jealous🤦🏽♀️
@@MoneyOverHoezz You all are proudly saying women's money or their career is not what men get attracted to. Then if our money is not attractive then your money better be..😂😂
First off if your credit bad and you out here dating and not fixing it from the money you getting, something wrong! That's apart of leveling up. Never be afraid to pull your credit and pay off those bills or dispute them!❤
Shera has leveled up consistently for 18 yrs. She stays switching up her physical, which keeps men intrigued. She provides a living example and practices what she teaches.
@@joad8537 what does her age have to do with anything... weird.... anyways... I just don't understand why anyone would waste their time on content they don't like ... why not just watch something else.
💯 everything you said is so on point! Absolutely DO NOT go anywhere if your own bills ain’t settled no way we gonna fall behind just for some trip a man springing on you
20:34 I think play fighting is a nerdy loser boy thing. A guy who didn’t have many friends growing up in school and now he gets his wires crossed around women because he never got that out of his system in boyhood. He’s still a child!
Facts she knows what she’s talking about I’ve been chased by most men and those were the ones that actually wanted to invest in me. I’ve only had 1 or 2 men that didn’t want to chase me and took me for granted lol bc they said they don’t chase women regardless of them wanting them. How funnyyy when you pull your energy back they actually do chaseee 😄
It‘s simple. When you as a female human are in your masculine because you are working or have a career or simply are a do-er-type of person you have an urge to feel validated for you achievments through the attention of a man and you get triggered by a man who us not interested in you🤷🏽♀️ that‘s when you start feeling to chase a man and yup there you are, finally behaving like a man is supposed to. It‘s just logical.
What? I swear if it’s not these fake intellectual men it’s the women. This is why so many people are lonely. I don’t mean just having a body next to you but everyone things mind games will get them a relationship. It will. It will get you a bad relationship.
What you say about dating apps is the truth. Personally i beg to differ in the way i present myself even when online. Certainly that doesn't mean i ve matched anyone who was " serious" either 😂😂😂
Shera idk if you’ll see this, but seriously thank you. I don’t have any guidance when it comes to dating etc as a young woman. I never witnessed healthy relationships or a man being a real provider
Oh my gosh to the fake fighting, I get this a lot & I voice that it is absolutely not okay & I get told I'm too sensitive & people spread the word that I "take things seriously" "watch out for her (me). I'm like this can't be normal & I'm a lady I don't play fight. Never understood it. No thank you, I don't want to accidentally on purpose "playfully" be assaulted. These people are weird.
If you want someone to chase you, one day they will run from you😂 that’s the human mind. Who is chasing you and why ? All ego. They should want to be with your energy, creating, loving, growing, not chasing. What have you chased and thrown out after ? Or wanted and didn’t want after you had it ? Women are so twisted these days wanting to be desired in all the wrong ways and wondering why the garden they grow has no beauty or roots. But to each his own, if this is your path enjoy 🙏
That's not what she is saying. A man is the head, and he is supposed to court a woman. In this generation everything has been twisted you even have women getting on one knee proposing to a man!🤦🏽♀️Rib of my rib #adamandeve! Women have to live in their femine energy and let a man be a man.
You’re taken it too literally. But like it or not, men pursue women they want. And u will live to c a “laidback” man chase a woman or an opportunity he really wants.
Honestly I’ve just dealt with a man who approached me then in the same week of messaging got upset he was reaching out first… like what? Also told me he was accustomed to women texting him. I kicked him to the curb this morning cause he thought he was a bad b and that I should be chasing him 😩😂👋🏽
Ladies the man who doesn't chase you doesn't want you. Period.
U missed all the T's in the word Period. Periodttt
SAY IT AGAIN
GAMES LEAD TO GAMES LEAD TO GAMES LEAD TO GAMES. You're specifically looking for the person whos willing to forfeit their manhood all together just to entertain you.
@@rhyno8644there’s nothing more manly than a man going after the woman he wants
Amen!!!✨️✨️
exactly
Exactly, I can't stand a man who doesn't chase me. Like, you want me but you're not actively pursuing me? You're lying!
Them words don’t match his actions🥴
"Why you always lying " 🎤🎷🎸
Maybe he doesn't want to give off stalker vibes?
At the end of the day this is an extremely clumsy way of training. Obviously the goal is to book as many donors live spot your as target market faster. Shes obviously from Houston. Show up in New Orleans with your boots laced. We got appointments in a much faster environment.
@Camrynns some women are also like that too. I dealt with couple of them in the past
Literally, us women have the power! When we all start to deny them dusties any access to us, that’s when men won’t have any other choice but to level up and offer us more.
This. I realised in my late 20s that men are literally obsessed with women and they need sex and intimacy. They always are in the search for women. That’s why they get so mad when women are confident and knows what she wants. Not saying to be rude or a diva, just stop accept dustys.
They know this. Which is why they they shame and shout down women who speak up.
@@Emiliah1996 And they use women to get confidence boost and respect from other men and women. They will be with a woman, not because they have feelings for her, or want her, but simply for the fact that she wanted them and they were able to get with her, so they can boast themselves and brag to other men.
@@SylviaSaetahey… money rules. I understand your frustration, knowing that you’ll always be just an object… well at least shera is teaching you to use it to your advantage
@@nathanielelzie8898”just an object” to males. Which is irrelevant because another person’s opinion of me isn’t the truth, it’s what I think of myself that matters. Your male opinions hold no value 🤷🏽♀️
Low effort is unattractive… keep the standards high, ladies! ❤
It really is.
👸well stated👏👏👏major turn-off! ick. no matter how cute he is; he's super ugly if he's cheap & not $poiln u. bye man-boy🏃♀️.
Absolutely
Yal don’t b worth it. Plenty other fish 😂😂
@@Vincedaprince1go run to pickmeshia. Her arms wide open
NEVER EVER EVER CHASE a MAN.. MEN CHASE women they wanna chase.. if he ain’t chasing you, it’s because he doesn’t want YOU…PERIOD
exactly!!!!!!
Not always something is because she messed up and Men have honor, you girls can't understand that
I chase my dreams not some 🐱 humble yo self
Period!
@@kobiwan8231that's why you on this channel trying to see what we talking about 😂😂
"If he's not proving it, and you're still believing it, then we know who the dumb one is. " 😂😂
2:28
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I wish I would have found content and reality checks like this in my twenties, instead of my mid 40's. Straight truth.
Same from this 45 year old
It' s better late than never . . .
Better in your mid-40's than mid 50's like me. lol But also...better late than never.
@@Laurie-RenéeVoltaire but never late is better. . . . Take care
Grateful for this knowledge at 19
chasing is a very masculine activity in which i will never participate in again . if a man doesn’t chase me i automatically assume he doesn’t want me and move on , and that’s how it should be ladies !
Listen to this lady😅. I have went on a full paid trip to Jamaica, a brand new refrigerator, a trp to Denver!! I am a middle age lady! Okay looking 😅. I chose a man who wants me.
Sprinkle, Sprinkle! That's awesome! 😊⭐️❤️
Does he got brother
Sprinkle sprinkle 🎉
@pekoml3999😂😂😂😂😂😂
you know he is. or sloppy overweight.
If he not chasing, I’m replacing 💅🏾
💯💯
Replacing with cat litter trays
@@DrSoappgay man unemployed
yes
1. Paying Bills
2. Doing the most for you
3. And chasing YOU
MORAL OF THIS video☝🏽🤞🏽
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
👸if he's NOT chasing and/or he stops chasing u. he doesn't like or want u. block. delete. access denied.😌
Yes!!!! Access denied !!!!!!!
Period
Yup blocked yu so i can find females who aint on bs
What if I like him as a friend but he still won’t make time to see me ?:(
@@leopardxo Guess you got access denied?
Hold on… let me share this! Boys!!!!! Will HATE! That you choose yourself first!
I have had men tell me ,” you go to the gym everyday” “ you could’ve cancelled going to the gym”
Just so I can lay up with them smoke weed , watch a movie and give him some cookie. 😭🤣🤣🤣 jokes on youuu! I’m at the gym! Every👏🏽Single👏🏽Time!!
the gym is the 2nd best investment of a woman's time. you'll increase your chances of attracting better men.
@@angelika87absolutely. It makes you feel better too. Man I used to be 👺, chasing any attractive guys attention. Whew chile just going to the gym I feel like a celebrity now😂
@@number-uz1esFr also you can kick some asses if need be.
How a man (consistently) treats you is key. The wrong man can chase, obtain, conquer, and discard.
Exactly!
Keep your legs closed sprinkle sprinkle
Im dealing with this now!
@@doveflyer1636 u chose him your fault take accountability 😍😍😍😍
Not a bad idea@@passionfruitpassionfruit2034
If he aint chasing, he aint that interested! Sprinkle sprinkle
Keep telling yourself that ladies
FACTS!! 🔥💯 He doesn’t like you forreal.
lmao men are wising up and we aint chasing no more. Especially a man who takes care of himself meaning striving for improvement daily. There isnt enough manly man out there so if you find one and you try to play the "game" with him, he will move on to next immodestly. Only a simp and a lame chases. Know that ladies.
@@mysticx33you chasing and kissing men instead since you know them so well
keep denying the truth@@cvtisdz
I dont wanna be chased. I want to be pursued.
En afirmación, siempre. A mí me persiguen! ❤🎉
Exactly
Amen
🤜🤛🏽
I’m 20 and I’m seeing all these comments wishing they’d had your advice at my age. Just got played by a 24 year old “successful” man who wanted wifey privileges without a title. Talkn bout some “cook for me” lmaoooo never again! Next!!! I’m so glad I found your channel you’re helping me find what I need as a woman.
Lolol as if your cooking is some amazing honor that beats Popeyes 2 piece chicken wing special
@@ImThePrizeXYYou must be the “successful” man in question
@@ImThePrizeXYthen why was he asking her to cook if her cooking isn't better than Popeye. If he was really successful he should buy it
@themagicalcupcakeunicorn5755 how'd you guess😃
@@ImThePrizeXY Bye, Dusty. Enjoy your cholesterol-laden "meals". 🤮 You're erasing your dusty 🧬 off this planet faster.
A lot of them don't chase anymore. Some will at first and then stop. Even the ones with 💵, the older ones with strong work ethics, etc. I think this era of men are just built different.
If all women do what Shera says then the men will have to just start chasing again. Women have become way too lazy with our standards hence the current state of lazy men❤
Like seriously, I always reject first offer because I think a man needs to ask me twice, but after first no they give up. Remember when older grandmas used to say that they didn’t like their husband when they first met them, but they kept trying, so finally they agreed and now they’ve been married 60 years. Not like that anymore.
I also need some strategy.
Why? How long did u expect him to chase u for? Do u have a timer or a dater or is he supposed to guess how long?
They were like 6 to 12 when they first met of course the girl was playing hard to get but u a grown ass woman that's a different thing. They got married way early back then. Ya'll are not the same. there's no point comparing the two, U ain't your older grandma and he ain't your older grandad u don't possess there great qualities. @@rainacherienne1010
My block and delete game, literally and figuratively is 100% on point and i'm not just talking about men alone. I apply it to everybody.
I'm tryna get used to applying it to friends who put me down too
Period !
yall are irrelevant. 🤣.
as you should. be selective with everybody.
had a guy i used to text, his friend ran his mouth. I blocked him and the friend, I draw the line at disrespect
Most men dating online, even after you have a connection with, are still active online with their profile. As a matter of fact, they are on multiple platforms. I find that you cant ever trust them bc they are addicted to online dating.
@jtw99235to say only is an exaggeration.
Facts
They thing to find “better” when they suck themselves. Hell some of them were secretly married! Shady!
Single men too, who be playing around.. dating online
I literally don’t know what I would do without Shera’s videos. She keeps my head on straight 😅
She’s our lord and saviour ❤
No seriously 😩🫶🏾 so grateful I found her in my 20s
shes like 50 and single. 😂
@@joad8537 she's married but ok 😅
@@joad8537😂😂😂😂
14:16 She is soooooo real about not meeting them online. It’s funny I felt this even before this video. And always felt the online men were just not it. Finally met a guy in person who hates social media and it’s great
Where do I even go to meet them lol I feel like most irl would be married
@@Victoria_FamaGo to your favorite places. Like Target, Starbucks, Costco, Sam’s Club etc. I know she says “freestyle” so nice bars and restaurants.
No lie, I met the best man I ever had at the mall in my twenties. He will always be my bar, he was a real man and did everything Shera talks about on this channel without any manipulation. This is the person I should have married but has my own ideas back then.
@@KeiyaHood I’m so sorry for your loss :(
❤❤❤
@@Victoria_Famahey Victoria, ur a total cutie . How old are u ?
Shera is right! If a man doesn’t pursue you, he doesn’t like you! Even he decides to be with you, it’s cus you want him and he benefits from being with you. Don’t be Pickmesha
I am a man and I like this video. I am applying this . And I do understand chasing means showing interest. Thankyou for this information.
Where ARE men like you? 😅
I didn’t even watch the video just yet, and I’m still gonna like it and scream facts! I literally just met a guy that I really was feeling, and he mentioned something about his previous partners chasing him and proposing to him. That was the last time he heard from me.
Ewwwwwww. The biggest ick possible!
😮
And that's how ir's done!
Run Forest Run
@@UnpredictableAri girl yes, I was like “???“
“If they wanna be the feminine man let them represent”😂💀💀💗
Lmaooo believe all the men of this generation are gay and you’re a straight women. Ashera is sooo funny 🤭🤣🤣🤣
@@haryel5058😅😅😅😅
@@haryel5058 BS
Man I fell out when she said that! 🤣
Time stamp please 🙏🏾
She's SO RIGHT about meeting Men online..NEVER worked for me and they treat it like a Candy store 💯💯
Let him be who he is
Facts
Just leave him be
Yup let him b a REAL man who doesnt let women boss him
@@AyaNichelle-gi9cd😮😮😮😮
@@MoneyOverHoezz Spoken facts
You are either his dream girl or the placeholder. Choose wisely sprinkle sprinkle ✨
PREACH!!!!
Actions not words, be a priority not an option, stop wasting time-like someone said they chase or you replace!
Really appreciating the take on adult friendships here. At some point you just don’t have time and capacity to deal with what’s going on in other people’s lives on top of your own. Especially if u have enough going for yourself 🙌🏻🖤
But you make time to deal with a stupid man. 🤔🤣
I am the same way
@@Bb-jm6wxshe said that in the video before this one
@@Bb-jm6wx She talks about it briefly in this video at the 1hour mark
Because THEY Wanna Be The Prize & Princess 😊
Cap
yuk these grown ass men 😂😂
I am the prize. you want a man who represents a corporation. So if I am the CEO of the corporation of the Olympics, do you think you are more important than the CEO of the Olympics.. you are only the prize compared to other women.
@@geralddial3154 && Without A WOMAN, You Wouldn’t Be Here To Do ANY Of That. It’s Deeper Than Whats On Paper….Its UNIVERSAL. 🥱
Exactly 😂😂
I never play fight ever, my father always told me to never give a man space to hit me ever.
Oh, hell no. I immediately nip that in the bud before I block him (if I say anything, because it’s usually a straight block): “I don’t play like that, so don’t ever play with me like that again.” Ick! 🤮
👊I just hit u
Wish i found her earlier.. Must confess i dated a guy for 9 months who didn’t gift me ANYTHING… luckily we learn from our mistakes 💀
no girl, he dont like you@aphrodite-vz9it
@aphrodite-vz9itSelfish looking for gifts 😂..Transactional relationship is what you desire ? Not all guys are into fake material holidays etc.. maybe he does other things for you dates, vacations, share of bills etc. ?
@aphrodite-vz9ityou need to stand up a bit…
he's sezually using you, move on. Don't waste your youth on men your age. Go older early ie 40s on up. You will not receive anything from a man whose young broke and jobless. Unfortunately you gave yourself away for free so there is no way to convince him to give to you when he's already had you without having to give you anything.
@aphrodite-vz9it girl… a starbucks coffee is like 6€ … I mean he GOTTA be sweet and great cause he ain’t got no money- that’s all he can offer. But i am in my teenage years as well, and unless y’all are like 12 he got some money. the problem is he does not want to spend that money on YOU. No gift for bday is actually crazy, like, insane even…
Also don’t go out with a man who’s always asking you, wyd or when are you going to cook for me! He should be taking you out, where you want to go and he should be feeding you and also buying everything.
Exactly. If yall stop chasing they'll start.
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The wig, lash, booty pose took me out!! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 she ain't lying tho
Older men with money-that have it together-legacy men..period!
Where is the lie!
Hell yea yall jus using him
9:49 There is no point in being with an older man unless he can fund my entire lifestyle. These older men be looking a HOT DAMN mess, they better know they paying bills!
Facts! Some of these older men are 🥴🥴. And Some of the young men too...🥴🥴🥴
Some of them truly believe we'd get with them because we're attracted to them too 🥴 they be looking musty and still don't wanna pay
Delusional and dusty. Smh
@@Loveskelly-hr That is mental illness. SMH
@@Loveskelly-hr Foreal 😂 I cut one off cuz he wasn't doing shit for me, & straight up told him I hope u don't think a young woman in her prime is with your old ass cuz she likes you?....
When she said "you can skip this whole generation" I cackled deep in my soul..I skipped x3 😂 *sprinkle sprinkle*
Okayyy sprinkle sprinkle girl I see u✨🥂
If a man doesn’t marry you within a year of dating, he’s just not that into you 💅
Say it louder for the ones in the back! 👍
@vre7474 yes you are.
Uh, I don’t know about this one. lol this is a little far fetched. If a man is too quick to marry you, something might be wrong with him. I would say give it two years of consistency at LEAST. If he doesn’t bring up marriage within this time period then I would say he’s not serious. You should have a roster though…
I would say look more at his effort, and look at what he’s doing for you. I wouldn’t cut a bag off because he didn’t propose. Some men aren’t looking for marriage, if you are… then you should have a roster of men.
Depends on your age…I wouldn’t recommend an 18 year old to marry in a year.
Um no don’t listen to this ladies I work in family court and general sessions they come by my office to fill out marriage applications but be right back in there divorced because they got married too fast
LOL - "I never travel to no man. What am I, pizza delivery?" That was great!!
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Yes!
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For those asking about dating apps I think we should have a two week rule . If he doesn’t ask you to hang out in person after 2 weeks move on .
This women is a full time comedian 😂❤
I literally just broke up with my high school sweetheart for this! I told him he too relaxed for me! Then no action. Then I sent him a invoice for waste 4 months of my energy. 🤷🏽♀️💅🏾🙃🙄💃🏽
how long was he meant to be chasing u for? If his already caught u? Make that make sense?
@@allthewayuptvliterally forever ? Lol
@@sarahlikesmusic7347 and that's why videos like this are made. Ain't nobody got the time to be chasing another human forever.
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Unless they are worshipping me I’m simply not interested ☺️🥂
E N E R G Y 🎉🎉🎉
Poor mindset in my opinion
How immature and delusional of you.
@@SoLoud3Music your opinion doesn’t matter anymore :)
@@SabinaAli81 Jesus the only way mahm
Only Dogs chase. Men step Up and Lead. Facts!
Facts!
thank you, very positive comment
Simp😂
Dogs chase not Kings🤡🤡🤡
Congrats on 500k!
Please listen to her point about being flown out! I definitely made the mistake of being flown to see a guy I met in my town because he travels constantly for work. I didn't even think about what Shera is saying....and it definitely was a waste of my time and energy. The next time someone offers me that, I will pick the destination, the hotel, ask for my own room, AND spending money...and watch him disappear. 🤣
As well he should. F that. You don’t dictate terms if I’m paying….lol.
A man who doesn’t chase u is BEYOND stressful bc ur ultimately doing the chasing and it’s exhausting. A woman shouldn’t be adding that to her plate of satisfying her partner, being pregnant, carrying a baby to term, raising your child & supporting ur husband! Women should not chase.
Chasing means; texting first, asking to hang out first, paying for a date, worrying about him when he’s literally f**** some other girl, going 50/50 on a date (he’s just using u bc he’s broke), NOT COMMITTING!!! Stop CHASING that man he will hurt u beyond belief in the long run!!!
U are a total cutie young lady.
How old are u ?
@@dante19890 guess
@@juanita_piju 19. The perfect age for a girl
ok what about the ones who don't get care to be pregnant or won't be pregnant for a long time. If pregnancy is your excuse how come it doesn't stop you from doing all the things men use to only do like working, driving, etc.?
@@justlurkin Pregnancy is not the only thing sweetie. Women still get paid less than men to this day so y'all better change that or make up for it... Just saying
❤❤ Thank you. This is how I was raised. I taught my daughter how to be a lady also. Now she is married to a high value man in her early 20s. We need to know your value
Please may I know where to find these men? I am not allowed to go out at night
@@Amandaaaaaa123 How old are you?
@@creolehoney2253 I am 23 :)
Please help me too 🥺
I have real hair, I never wear lashes, and I never take booty pictures. but YOU ARE RIGHT! I post my opinion on social media and men do not react ...but the moment I post a selfie they all react even the married ones. they give me attention the 24 hours of the story I posted then they vanish till I post another story lol
same
Yep
Absolutely appreciate the advice of women mainly meeting men outside and not online. Especially for us black women, sage advice there❤
It's not real lol
Chase? No one should be chasing anyone. He should pursue you and the woman should show interest if she is.
Pursue, chase whatever. I get what she is saying.
Shera is aging backwards 😍
what the hell
Indeed
They don't chase because they don't have to anymore.
They use internet to find what they need, is a holy grail for guys, especially awkward one's, not specifically pretty one's, one's without money or with lots of.
I opt for a guy that stays away from social media platforms and is eager to focuse on genuine relationships only.
You are so wise . Always can count on your videos to get my mind right abt men.
Factz 💯 If he’s not putting in effort he’s not worth your time. High value women know men are hunters/providers. We don’t settle for less than gentleman’s behavior.
Literally a couple coworkers came into my office lurking around me in front of women they are getting with. Those girls looking at them while they looking at me 😳. It’s so sad cus no matter how young, cute, or trying to work hard for his attention type of girls they are, dudes leave them with nothing but a used butt and poor work reputation smdh. They literally didn’t upgrade these girls in any way or get them anything yet be looking at me like I’m supposed to jealous🤦🏽♀️
Nope. Only a desperate man would pay you out of fear you wouldn't want him, just his money
@@ImThePrizeXYyou're definitely broke. 😅
@@Jeniffer61867 heeyyy... you can't talk about me like that, u creep!😡
@@Jeniffer61867 Nahh yall broke, yall expect us to pay
@@MoneyOverHoezz
You all are proudly saying women's money or their career is not what men get attracted to. Then if our money is not attractive then your money better be..😂😂
Ever since I started listening to your channel, I don’t even want to man anymore. I just want to get money from them.
Choose yourself! Sprinkle sprinkle 😂❤
Period!!! I’ve NEVER regretted investing in me!
Women are the choosers. We do the picking. Let the best man win. 👏
Yep even in a argument, he still needs to be chasing.
Yea chasing money not women
@@MoneyOverHoezzif you’re gay just say that
@@PrincesaHermosa444 and your a lame and you didn't have to say it foh bih lmao
@@PrincesaHermosa444 why are you insecure that men are empowering and learn not to chase women instead chase money?
@@mountainkid417men have been chasing women since the beginning of time and real men still do it and they still have time to get their bag too.
First off if your credit bad and you out here dating and not fixing it from the money you getting, something wrong! That's apart of leveling up. Never be afraid to pull your credit and pay off those bills or dispute them!❤
So well said😩🙏🏽
I recently came across a man that’s used to being chased…I caught him driving by my house and tried to run into me in public. all I can say is 🤦🏻♀️
Girl why does he know where you live?! These dudes are unhinged: please be careful.
Just waiting on shera to reach 1 million subscribers ❤❤ she’s always dropping gems 💎
Me too, Shera is sooooo deserving!!!!
She will
I wish I found your channel before falling for the man child who persued me and when I fell for him he dropped me and broke my heart 💔
Woah..
I know that feeling
Same
That's evil I'm so sorry. You will recover.
same...
You are helping so many women and I really appreciate that. I share your videos with young girls so they can realize their value.
This! ✨👏🏼
ooohh, That's dangerous!
She's helping them remain single
Shera has been glowing up more and more she’s glowing!!🔥
Shera has leveled up consistently for 18 yrs. She stays switching up her physical, which keeps men intrigued. She provides a living example and practices what she teaches.
She damn sure keeping u intrigued. Hahahahahaha @@HoneyBunches100
If you don’t like her don’t watch … some of these people ! Even you don’t like her she is giving real true advice .. take the information you need❤️
Nahh we gettin this shut down
Damn.. y'all funny.
taking relationship advice from a 40 year old single woman is like taking financial advice from a brokie.
@@joad8537 what does her age have to do with anything... weird.... anyways... I just don't understand why anyone would waste their time on content they don't like ... why not just watch something else.
💯 everything you said is so on point! Absolutely DO NOT go anywhere if your own bills ain’t settled no way we gonna fall behind just for some trip a man springing on you
20:34 I think play fighting is a nerdy loser boy thing. A guy who didn’t have many friends growing up in school and now he gets his wires crossed around women because he never got that out of his system in boyhood. He’s still a child!
Facts she knows what she’s talking about I’ve been chased by most men and those were the ones that actually wanted to invest in me. I’ve only had 1 or 2 men that didn’t want to chase me and took me for granted lol bc they said they don’t chase women regardless of them wanting them. How funnyyy when you pull your energy back they actually do chaseee 😄
How do you get them to chase you?
@@j1nnienchristbe irresistible ❤
Some men chase and when they get what they waht, they leave.
That's why you date those you can benefit from .. so that when they leave you will have things to hold on to
Play fighting is grooming for future abuse in some cases
facts.
Yesssss wow
Period she gave me a reality check.
I’m not even sure how a man who wasn’t chasing me would ever even….how would I even know he exists?
It‘s simple. When you as a female human are in your masculine because you are working or have a career or simply are a do-er-type of person you have an urge to feel validated for you achievments through the attention of a man and you get triggered by a man who us not interested in you🤷🏽♀️ that‘s when you start feeling to chase a man and yup there you are, finally behaving like a man is supposed to. It‘s just logical.
What? I swear if it’s not these fake intellectual men it’s the women. This is why so many people are lonely. I don’t mean just having a body next to you but everyone things mind games will get them a relationship. It will. It will get you a bad relationship.
That's why men are learning not to chase.
You ateeeee
I like what you said. I need think about this.
Thats where the balance follows urself
You definitely setting yourself up for disappointment if he not chasing you.
It’s true … let him go give them time to act right. Never beg for mans attention.
What if no man chooses you? Then chose yourself ❗️😂 I missed you
What you say about dating apps is the truth. Personally i beg to differ in the way i present myself even when online. Certainly that doesn't mean i ve matched anyone who was " serious" either 😂😂😂
You need to be chaseable. It is not only a matter of physics but it is more than that! If you don’t have value you need to create it for yourself.
Shera idk if you’ll see this, but seriously thank you. I don’t have any guidance when it comes to dating etc as a young woman. I never witnessed healthy relationships or a man being a real provider
This is words to live by. My new motto if he don’t chase replace
I don't get impressed easily too...he has to give me a lot of stuff for me to even look his way
Hell nahh he aint a man if he doin that shii
nobody is wasting money on useless humans anymore lol
@@MoneyOverHoezztheses women are delusional
how much? 😂
you for sale? 😂
Yea you fried out your little nugget
I didn’t watch the entire video yet…just the title only…made me hit the like button! Agree that nooooo woman should chase a man. Men are hunters! 😊
Yes sherah I feel the same, I can’t have friends I’m too up here in my thinking unless you’re like me which is super rare.
I’m not into the whole “meeting people off of social media thing”. You gotta meet me in person. I guess that’s why im still single lol
Why am I just finding you? You are hilarious, and your advice is priceless!
As I watch this, I am deleting my dating profile
wig,eye lashes and booty😂😂😂
@@CherimoSusanall look the same 😂😂
@@CherimoSusan😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
SHERA FOR PRESIDENT 2024
Yesssss❤❤😊😊
“If you can’t help me tie up these loose ends, I’m not flying anywhere…” -Priorities….!
I’m hollering…..🙅🏽♀️😃
Oh my gosh to the fake fighting, I get this a lot & I voice that it is absolutely not okay & I get told I'm too sensitive & people spread the word that I "take things seriously" "watch out for her (me). I'm like this can't be normal & I'm a lady I don't play fight. Never understood it. No thank you, I don't want to accidentally on purpose "playfully" be assaulted. These people are weird.
LOL again - "My friends are so old; they probably don't remember what I said." You are so entertaining, I had to subscribe!
If you want someone to chase you, one day they will run from you😂 that’s the human mind. Who is chasing you and why ? All ego. They should want to be with your energy, creating, loving, growing, not chasing. What have you chased and thrown out after ? Or wanted and didn’t want after you had it ? Women are so twisted these days wanting to be desired in all the wrong ways and wondering why the garden they grow has no beauty or roots. But to each his own, if this is your path enjoy 🙏
THIS. THIS COMMENT RIGHT HERE
@@indianprincesstarotGod bless women like y'all 💯💯. It's sad cause this basically just promoting hoe trick culture
@@sharifs649nobody said go and sleep with them
Y’all don’t listen before you talk
That's not what she is saying. A man is the head, and he is supposed to court a woman. In this generation everything has been twisted you even have women getting on one knee proposing to a man!🤦🏽♀️Rib of my rib #adamandeve! Women have to live in their femine energy and let a man be a man.
You’re taken it too literally. But like it or not, men pursue women they want. And u will live to c a “laidback” man chase a woman or an opportunity he really wants.
“We don’t have time to mess around. Just pretend this whole generation turned out gay.” 😭😂😂
This VIDEO is a must watch! girlies please watch the WHOLE VIDEO!
SHERA COMING THRU WITH THE KNOWLEDGE 🙏
Secure one that will invest in you - sprinkle sprinkle
THAT’S the correct target!
Manz are targets now. pop, pop, pop, pop, pop. @@niratomas579
But in order for that investment to happen...we will ask what woman are bringing to the table that is worth investing in ? 😂
@@misterb5926u are not the target so why are u worried?
Honestly I’ve just dealt with a man who approached me then in the same week of messaging got upset he was reaching out first… like what? Also told me he was accustomed to women texting him. I kicked him to the curb this morning cause he thought he was a bad b and that I should be chasing him 😩😂👋🏽