That’s right if he loves you, everything is easy. he will pay all the bills give you anything you want. So I always advise to pray pray pray for a RICH MAN that will LOVE AND ADORE YOU.
@Miss. Waters turned you into savages?? Really?? When feminists are the ones who made you seek equality and careers. Men have always provided for women.
The most successful men know that sex is overrated and can actually stop a man from achieving greatness. Women have no power over a man who isn't controlled by his dick. I bet you or someone else is gonna tell me that a real man thinks about sex 24/7.
I agree. So true. I play games with men all of the time and do not feel bad about it all. Many men esp black men only want sex from you but dont want to put in any work. No thank you. Id rather be paid and have money than just be laid up having sex with nothing to show for it
This comment is SAD. If couples work together they can build wealth and achieve much more as a team. In these comments its YOU vs. Men... I have achieved so much more by US vs the world.
Right! When people are like “how can people be like this 🥺” like… you mean actually respecting yourself and being smart 😂 I admit I used to be more like that but I’ve gotten wiser
Right! It’s even worse to be with a rich man that won’t do anything for you, that is just like him showing how much you do NOT mean to him. He is showing you that you mean nothing to him, he is just using you. And it is just blatant disrespect! At least you know that a Dusty won’t do it because he just cannot. But, still no reason to deal with a dusty 😂😂😂
I abandoned someone with mommy issues and I fear ( sarcastically ) I’ve gained a stalker for life. He thought I was super crazy over him until I proposed a BREAK UP. Flipping the script after he thought things would be the same after disrespecting me time and time again. I’m doing the complete opposite of everything he thought I was. Now he can’t predict my next moves. Obsessing over me because I shattered his ego and made him feel insignificant.
This makes no sense - if you choose not to laugh or smile, that’s intentional. I’m unimpressed by your lack of inherent intelligence. Prize-worthy catch for sure
Yesss!!! Same 😭😩🤌🏽 ever since i followed her advice. (Started a week ago) i’ve had my bd under “control”. He moved me back into his house. Bought me makeup & clothes. Takes care of my Car notes. Buying me a bigger car. & taking me out to dinners in sky rises. Apologizing more. Communicating with me more thoroughly. & we’re buying new luxury couches that have high tech upgrades 😭(LoveSac Sactionals) AND ITS ONLY BEEN A WEEK & a half !!! Hes taking about joint bank accounts. Alot of days; i DO get to be in my femininity & not struggle financially. Its all working out for me. All thx to Shera 🤍 & God. LOL
@@Alexistxsjwhen you say you’ve been listening to her advice what do you mean by that ? Like what have you done to have achieved all that ? Congrats tho 🎉🙏🏼
I wish i would have known about this when i was young enough to do something about it! I've wasted my whole youth and beauty being Pick Mesha the builder! 😢You young ladies make you you listen to her! Shes so right about everything!!
i keep sending the videos to my younger sisters in her early 20s. i'm 37 and i have dated the same man in different forms for years... long relationships that go nowhere with men who i treated way too kindly, too understanding, always dreaming one day they'd want to marry me if i just showed them what a great wife i would be. i've had nothing but immense heartbreak from behaving like this. my last break up was the most painful one, then i found this channel. now i will work on myself to make sure i never behave like the man is the prize ever again... ❤
I’ve said this before on another Shera video but if my sixty something year old grandma can level up and remarry (all bills paid), then we have no excuse lol ❤
I unintentionally did this with a guy. He had no washing machine and I dissed him politely until he bought himself a 600€ one the next day. Money he didn’t really had. Manipulation is a real thing.
Exactly the more comments she gets thr more $$$. And the more views she receives then that's another level she let the people that don't agree keeps disagreeing.
So true.I used to feel like maybe she gets annoyed by all of our questions.But after seeing how she answers them and helps them out,it caused me to donate money.And buy some of her products and books.She got some real good serious game.
my man was acting up so i ignored him and then he was after me like a bird after some crumbs. Men want to win because of their ego so when you dont give it to them they get desperate AS F*CK. Trust Shera, shes right!
How did men play you when they have been providing for you for centuries?? Isnt what you all want a return to the golden age when men were true providers??
Black males have never provided for women. Even European explorers journaled about the laziness of black males while they explored the African continent.
Well put it this way, most men who have side chicks, the side chick knows the game she always gets the most money out of him honestly. And yes this being happening from the beginning of time, it's just that social media make it known what's options are out there for us women now, and trust lots of young ladies are getting the game. So don't be surprised that men will in the future stepping up there game, because I young ladies I know now ain't having kids without security.
Me watching this after a man I’ve talked to for a week tried to trigger and control my emotions. Shera knows what she’s talking about, these men play mind games. Play back.
I love triggering narcissists using that same technique you mentioned 😂 It was funny for awhile but they are dangerous, spiteful and the men are bitchy like seriously in their negative feminine. It’s truly disturbing when it stops being funny. Run, seriously. They aren’t trying to give you the bag anyway. They don’t care about anyone enough.
My ex is a narcissist AND a mama's boy. He has treated me in a way that he would NEVER even think of treating his mom like that. Mom just lives forever on a pedestal.
Ok so start with “I know you don’t have the money” to make him have an exorcism out of his own body😂. Pretty much nicely tell him “I know you’re broke but....”
Situation with phone.....just say they stole your phone. How you gonna call him ? You need a new one. That's it...😁 for me it worked, he bought me a new one.
Same here! This one guy always called me on face time but I never picked up ( cus I was looking a mess) He got angry with me and I made An excuse that my front camera broke. 1 week later he bought me a new iPhone 8 😁
@@princesspai1975 Are u crazy ? If I'm able to do everything for myself then I don't need any other man. Because I will become one. Hahahahahahha...... my advice for men is stop using women for sex and shelter. Same situation.
This is like old Sherra videos and I love it. The manipulation tactics are the reason why I watch Shera and I use it for people not just men. Really wish Sherra has a manipulation channel separate from dating. How to manipulate your way through life.
you're so right about the manipulating via their age. I told the same to my boyfriend who is 7 years older than me. "Well you're 7 years older so I mean you have more experience than me, you should be able to get this or do that"
I think feminine persuasion over triggering. Make everything you ask an expectation you have of them because they are so special and not like other men. Oh honey can you help with this, or babe can you get me that I think it'll look soo good. Don't get frustrated or combative they'll probably not do it just to spite you, men are big kids. Positive reinforcement works like a charm
@@cherryblossom6702 There are some tips I could give you to see if he is emotionally qualified to be more than a guy you know or not, but NOTHING you do could make him emotionally involved with you if he was not from the beginning ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT so that you will move on quickly & not waste your time. Be mysterious, do not reveal anything just observe and ACT like an actress that you are nice & fun to be around with him and other people and see his reaction, is he trying to get your attention? Is he trying to be funny so you would smile? Is he watching you from distance when you move around & talk to other people around him? If Yes, then he might be hooked already...Use your femininity and baby voice to play him, appear like you need his strength to open the jar for you or lift your bag. Appear like you enjoy your time around him smile or laugh at whatever jokes he's telling do not correct him if he was wrong in front of people play along and try your best to be a pleasant to be around but not a doormat though! Anything you do you should do because you want to not because he asked you to or expect you to, use all these tactics with all your targets not just a guy you want him to be impressed with you otherwise you are in the danger zone & could fall for him harder than he ever would 😑 Be save and stay cautious above all if you sensed someone is a bad then he probably is a bad news block him and do not ever hang around him or interact with him!
Ladies....we are meant to be protected during stressful times. All 3 of my brothers were ready to report - Naturally, during covid/my panic moments. If you have brothers you will see so clearly the foremost purpose of men. It is to protect and provide. Its just the way it is.
I love it when Shera says in the beginning of the video that she's not gonna be on long, and then the video is three hours long 💗💗 we appreciate all the time you spend on this platform
Shera is right. Manipulation works. Use their triggers (in a nice tone) against them. I promise that will get them to do better, apologize, and chase you. Word play is very important.
As a man, I must say this is scary😢. A lot of these things would actually work on me. Let's me know I gotta step my emotional intelligence up. Thanks 🙏🏼
Wow so what your saying is I just have to apply the same tactics I did on my parents to my husband 🤔 not surprised. I did all of this on them just to joke with them and get what I want 🤣 wow I had it in me all this time
It’s so eerie in hindsight watching your daughter come in with that article about coronavirus. Hell, In Jan, I hadn’t even heard about it yet, but she was on it!
Dealing with an older man and told him " you should plan a 50th birthday party, next year babe lol!! And he replied : "50 is a big number ". I play on his ego often! I'm taking more notes 📝
I feel you about logging out. Some things are just private and everyone is entitled to their privacy...married or not. My ex used to secretly put apps on my phone to record my conversations, text, and email. The app was even recording my face while using my phone. When I found out, I flipped the fk out. Respect my fucking privacy. I will never deal with no one that fkn sneaky.
And you can obtain true love and things without opening your legs...I am engaged..I have a rock..and multiple gifts of money and things including a fur coat and boots for early Christmas...and I have not parted my thighs..and she's right.....
The first time I listened to you Shera I was so mad and felt so type of way about your advice but right now honey you are preaching to tye choir on this. This game is on point. Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨️✨️
I now ask myself WWSD (“what would Shera do,” like the acronym WWJD “what would Jesus do”) 😂…. when dealing with relations. And, I can attest that her tactics definitely work!!!!
The one about the 401k was too much. I agree with everything Shera says but the woman that asked that will never be at her peak because she doesn't know how to play. How you gonna ask for almost half of his retirement money? This is about getting money from men who can spend freely not no damn old man who gotta go into his 401k to keep you around 🙄. Like you cant take from people who dont have it and that's what most of yall trying to do and try to make them a sugar daddy when they ain't. If you arent attracting one man to provide that's why she say get multiple until you find that one who can do it all.
Agreed no need to go into his life savings he definitely not the one if that is the case for sure Those who have it give and are used to giving is best
As a man I love this channel and I like her frfr knowledge is power saying NO is the best word in the dictionary nd American language if u don't Kno it I respect the hussle...
Pancake Batter my daughter not here to show me how to adjust color 🤣🤣 I will have to google that later. But since I am biracial I can technically use 👏🏿👏🏿😊
It’s impeccable and worth every praise that u ki eternally spoke on a subject for too long . So generous. So thoughtful. One thing is that u r compassionate. How else otherwise ! ❤
My friend brags about having so much money and he didn’t get me a birthday present which was in oct, we saw each other on Christmas and he goes o I still owe a present I said he’s you do I want this Gucci bag and I went to the website got the bag and I gave him my phone so he fill out the card info lmaooo you want to brag we’ll buy my present then lol
My ex was like that too.I got him something nice on his birthday, cooked for him too.But,when mh birthday came up,he did nothing for me.I know he was trying to trigger me and get an emotional reaction, so I just did some fun things with my family on my birthday. Also,I broke up with him shortly after.Some guys just want to flaunt their money,but don't want to give you any.
Thanks for your content. I’m 50 and married for the first time, 2 years ago. My now husband was legally separated but not planning on getting divorced, so I said: “well, if you’re married, you can’t marry me, which means I have to find someone else” 2 weeks later, he filed for divorce and proposed to me a few months later. ❤
Asheraisms: "If you don't look the part, they're not going to play the part!" You are brilliant Shera! You should put your Asheraisms into a book! I would buy it! ❤ Kim
Omg Shera! Your videos are the best videos there are for women out there!!! I used to watch mindful attraction but I think i’m starting to fall more in love with your videos 😍❤️ You’re cynical but in a good way you’re helping us level up together as women
I'm a man, this is incredible stuff. It's like getting inside her playbook. Thank you Shera. Just taking notes in this meeting. I really appreciate all the comments I am reading aswell. I light cigar, loosen my tie and take notes of all of this.
I had a SD and my god what a headache! At the end he kept complaining going on and on about what does he get (like a kid stuck in an old mans body) And my reply back was is because I don’t have the ring, car & house with your consistency allowance! Bye boy
I’ve found your canal and I need to admit I was using some things you talk about unconsciously and man went crazy and got obsessed with me. I still commit too much mistakes but your canal is a gold! Hope to change my mindset soon.
You are blessing and I'm truly thankful for you . To tell you the truth you are like that Big Sister that never had and always wanted. Your knowledge that you shared helped kept me out of DV situation with men. You are loved and appreciated. Thank you Jesus Christ Yeshua for a new Sister.
""Were you alive when.... lol love it!! Shera, you are hilarious. You need to do live speaking engagements. I know you would hear the whole audience cracking up.
Lmfao how does she do this her word play and the way she manipulates situations is so smart I stay laughing at her 😂 like her responses are hilarious so nonchalant and blunt put these men in place real quick
Now I understand that snake's strategy...i was guessing he did all to trigger me n now I know it for sure...men even do this in workplace I can't believe...triggering women pressurizing them just cz they want to get their attention...feminine men
Ash Outlandish narcisstic men. Also if your gonna go for an ugly guy make sure he’s rich nothing worse than a broke man who’s also ugly 😂😂 I’ve noticed ugly guys treat woman like shit
Dina A. True I have an ugly broke dude the chance , because he said I was shallow and he guilt tripped me and guess what he treated me like shit. He started thinking he was the catch. Like wtf never again I hate how ugly broke dudes always guilt trip girls into not having standards fuck them like they’re always the absers I’ve noticed
You should do a whole video on The subject of women asking a man for their hand 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽in marriage💍 and decode the psychological mindset of a woman who does that💯💯💯
I don't even want to know what they think. A woman who will ask a man for his hand in marriage will do ANYTHING for him. And he will use it to his advantage. Sis better get her life!
That’s right if he loves you, everything is easy. he will pay all the bills give you anything you want. So I always advise to pray pray pray for a RICH MAN that will LOVE AND ADORE YOU.
With prayer, you have to align yourself with that goal..meaning work on yourself in and out for the prize....that's with anything
Yes, getting a man who likes you is the hardest and first thing. Everything else should be easy from there
I pray all the time for a rich man who loves me and look after me Without me having to play games to have gifts and bill pay from him.
@@kimtaylor1878 how will you fix
horror haze more details please!
Men play games to get the kitty, so why can't we play games to get to that wallet. They want what we have, so who has the real power? Us, not them.
@Miss. Waters turned you into savages?? Really?? When feminists are the ones who made you seek equality and careers. Men have always provided for women.
mdivane ndlovu yeah. I despise the feminist
The most successful men know that sex is overrated and can actually stop a man from achieving greatness. Women have no power over a man who isn't controlled by his dick.
I bet you or someone else is gonna tell me that a real man thinks about sex 24/7.
I agree. So true. I play games with men all of the time and do not feel bad about it all. Many men esp black men only want sex from you but dont want to put in any work. No thank you. Id rather be paid and have money than just be laid up having sex with nothing to show for it
This comment is SAD. If couples work together they can build wealth and achieve much more as a team. In these comments its YOU vs. Men... I have achieved so much more by US vs the world.
“When u don’t fear losing u win”shera
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Facts on facts
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How can someone call this cynical...ppl are really mad women aren’t being dumb anymore
Her response though 😅
She's an icon
Right! When people are like “how can people be like this 🥺” like… you mean actually respecting yourself and being smart 😂 I admit I used to be more like that but I’ve gotten wiser
Facts
When you don’t fear losing you win
And you don't take to defense, you remain on strong offense when you aren't attached to winning
You aint never lie ... the less ive cared the more they care and the more mind games i played rhe more triggered they became 😊
So true.
@GonzotheGonz1 if that decent man is for me nothing will stop that . Sprinkle sprinkle
@GonzotheGonz1 go to bed u sound tired
@GonzotheGonz1 not the ones i know
@GonzotheGonz1 boy u still writing lol ok leave us go sleep
Not just a rich man but a generous one too because a selfish man with riches is like being with a dusty he Can do for you but he won’t smh
Blissful Life Tell me about it girl. I was with one rich and very stingy dusty. I hate that guy even today
Been with such......
Yes maam
Right! It’s even worse to be with a rich man that won’t do anything for you, that is just like him showing how much you do NOT mean to him. He is showing you that you mean nothing to him, he is just using you. And it is just blatant disrespect! At least you know that a Dusty won’t do it because he just cannot. But, still no reason to deal with a dusty 😂😂😂
FACTS
i'd rather look greedy than needy is my life motto now
GREEDY IS BEING NEEDY LOL
Not even the homeless look needy these days.
I told my boyfriend his condo was dinky and it’s not but we’re looking at houses now 😂
Alyson Norton lmfaooooo get it
Alyson Norton you go gurl!! 💯
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Update: he just bought our dream house and we’re engaged
Alyson Norton yesss babyyy 🤑👑💍
I abandoned someone with mommy issues and I fear ( sarcastically ) I’ve gained a stalker for life. He thought I was super crazy over him until I proposed a BREAK UP. Flipping the script after he thought things would be the same after disrespecting me time and time again. I’m doing the complete opposite of everything he thought I was. Now he can’t predict my next moves. Obsessing over me because I shattered his ego and made him feel insignificant.
That takes a lot of energy. Maybe find someone who will treat you right.
@@ritasjourney I did.
I love this for you. I love flipping the script!
love this can i ask what the situation like now?
@@NBk-c6s he goes above and beyond for me now
😂😂😂 I trigger him about money all the time! Touch his ego and he tries to prove himself by giving me the money on the spot!
Get it girl
I will find you and ngzokushaya wena
@@leyland2725 😂😂 ufunani lana this is for women and gay men.
@@zoenzimande535 q
Yes Queen 😂❤💃🏻
I unintentionally trigger men by not laughing, or smiling at them. I'm unimpressed by them.
This makes no sense - if you choose not to laugh or smile, that’s intentional. I’m unimpressed by your lack of inherent intelligence. Prize-worthy catch for sure
@@gkeaton78
… And dude took it personally. 😂
@@asecretchannel4135dude is using logic. So don't worry, you won't understand. ;)
Got trigger @@gkeaton78
@@AliSidTex lol you missed the point, and the logic.
All the times I’ve cried asking myself “what am I doing wrong” made me manifest Shera I swear I’m so thankful I finally have all the answers
Yesss!!! Same 😭😩🤌🏽 ever since i followed her advice. (Started a week ago) i’ve had my bd under “control”. He moved me back into his house. Bought me makeup & clothes. Takes care of my Car notes. Buying me a bigger car. & taking me out to dinners in sky rises. Apologizing more. Communicating with me more thoroughly. & we’re buying new luxury couches that have high tech upgrades 😭(LoveSac Sactionals) AND ITS ONLY BEEN A WEEK & a half !!! Hes taking about joint bank accounts. Alot of days; i DO get to be in my femininity & not struggle financially. Its all working out for me. All thx to Shera 🤍 & God. LOL
Weekend girl 🎶🎶🎶
@@Alexistxsjwhen you say you’ve been listening to her advice what do you mean by that ? Like what have you done to have achieved all that ? Congrats tho 🎉🙏🏼
@@losmit2194
Mmmkojoioh onion noble m Ohio I Jo n mm $,
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@@LillyLuscombright...like ... which tactics did you apply and what results did you get ?
I wish i would have known about this when i was young enough to do something about it! I've wasted my whole youth and beauty being Pick Mesha the builder! 😢You young ladies make you you listen to her! Shes so right about everything!!
How old are you? It's never too late boo
i keep sending the videos to my younger sisters in her early 20s. i'm 37 and i have dated the same man in different forms for years... long relationships that go nowhere with men who i treated way too kindly, too understanding, always dreaming one day they'd want to marry me if i just showed them what a great wife i would be. i've had nothing but immense heartbreak from behaving like this. my last break up was the most painful one, then i found this channel. now i will work on myself to make sure i never behave like the man is the prize ever again... ❤
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Girl, if you don’t go out and get you an old man, someone that is 20+ years older than you. We women do not hit the wall after 30.
I’ve said this before on another Shera video but if my sixty something year old grandma can level up and remarry (all bills paid), then we have no excuse lol ❤
I unintentionally did this with a guy. He had no washing machine and I dissed him politely until he bought himself a 600€ one the next day. Money he didn’t really had. Manipulation is a real thing.
Wow. 🤣
Same. He had an old dusty car and I politely dissed it. Next day he bought a more luxury new car (Volvo suv)
Ommmgggg hahahaha nooooo !
"I'm not go be on here all day" - - - ~Shera stays 3 hours 🥰🥰
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I'm just getting to this video and that's exactly what I'm saying! Auntie be in it!
When to trigger after marriage, commitment or day one?
@@JamrockRose she is not old, stop calling her autie
I rather look Greedy than Needy... LOL
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I can't stand to look at gold diggers!
I SCREAMMMMED🗣️🗣️
@@lc-il6wrawwww you’ll be ok
Shera is so classy wit it. she don't even get annoyed by people's questions. all questions, all comments = money to be honest so why get annoyed?
Exactly the more comments she gets thr more $$$. And the more views she receives then that's another level she let the people that don't agree keeps disagreeing.
Unlike another person who mentions patience.
So true.I used to feel like maybe she gets annoyed by all of our questions.But after seeing how she answers them and helps them out,it caused me to donate money.And buy some of her products and books.She got some real good serious game.
my man was acting up so i ignored him and then he was after me like a bird after some crumbs. Men want to win because of their ego so when you dont give it to them they get desperate AS F*CK. Trust Shera, shes right!
You’re a genius! Men played women for centuries. As always, the topic is right on time for me.🎯👏🏽☝🏽💫
How did men play you when they have been providing for you for centuries?? Isnt what you all want a return to the golden age when men were true providers??
mdivane ndlovu Clearly not all men! There are groups of narcissists, game players and the real mvp’s the providers to name a few.
Black males have never provided for women. Even European explorers journaled about the laziness of black males while they explored the African continent.
Well put it this way, most men who have side chicks, the side chick knows the game she always gets the most money out of him honestly. And yes this being happening from the beginning of time, it's just that social media make it known what's options are out there for us women now, and trust lots of young ladies are getting the game. So don't be surprised that men will in the future stepping up there game, because I young ladies I know now ain't having kids without security.
I have “I am the prize” written out in red lip stick right on my mirror as a reminder to both me and the hubby. lol 😂
Lol good job!
Hilarious 😂
I love this 😂
I rather look greedy then needy !🙌😂 I love it! On the floor dying of laughter!
Real talk!
22:00
Not even the homeless look needy these days..
Your smirks kill me. Love it!
Right☺️
Me watching this after a man I’ve talked to for a week tried to trigger and control my emotions. Shera knows what she’s talking about, these men play mind games. Play back.
Amen she is brilliant.
When Shera says “I’m not gonna be on here long…” 90% of the time, I know we about to get several hours of content. 🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾 I ain’t mad at all.
I love triggering narcissists using that same technique you mentioned 😂 It was funny for awhile but they are dangerous, spiteful and the men are bitchy like seriously in their negative feminine. It’s truly disturbing when it stops being funny. Run, seriously. They aren’t trying to give you the bag anyway. They don’t care about anyone enough.
Maaaaaan this is soooo TRUE. "They dont care about anyone enough" and they only want your energy supply. Narcs DONT reciprocate.
My ex is a narcissist AND a mama's boy. He has treated me in a way that he would NEVER even think of treating his mom like that. Mom just lives forever on a pedestal.
Girl that’s so freaking true been there with those soulless business man … you’re just another pen on the desk for them 👌🏼 THEY JUST DO NOT CARE.
But it’s exciting! 😂 I have 3 huge dogs so they ain’t jumping in my windows! 😂😂
Run is right- they are so dangerous and vindictive! All of them need to just go away and stop hurting women 😤
Ok so start with “I know you don’t have the money” to make him have an exorcism out of his own body😂. Pretty much nicely tell him “I know you’re broke but....”
Does that approach work for you?
ireach I’m about to find out 😂
lool.
Breanna Denmark Super petty !! 😩😭
Breanna Denmark 😅😅😅
Situation with phone.....just say they stole your phone. How you gonna call him ? You need a new one. That's it...😁 for me it worked, he bought me a new one.
Same here! This one guy always called me on face time but I never picked up ( cus I was looking a mess)
He got angry with me and I made An excuse that my front camera broke. 1 week later he bought me a new iPhone 8 😁
That's using a man
That's wrong
Period
Women should do for self
Women can do whatever a man can do
@@princesspai1975 Are u crazy ? If I'm able to do everything for myself then I don't need any other man. Because I will become one. Hahahahahahha...... my advice for men is stop using women for sex and shelter. Same situation.
@@tianaboqutaice9647 Two wrongs don't make a right..you're just as bad as the dudes you explained
@@ronsmith9714 Yes I'm bad you are absolutely correct....😁
“I’m not low key petty , I’m high key” 😂🤣
This is like old Sherra videos and I love it. The manipulation tactics are the reason why I watch Shera and I use it for people not just men. Really wish Sherra has a manipulation channel separate from dating. How to manipulate your way through life.
My life lmao
Every wealthy person do just that. They are not all honest with there dealings.
mel jobson agreed! They are actually THE worst....hands are never clean and they crazy lol!
Yess
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you're so right about the manipulating via their age. I told the same to my boyfriend who is 7 years older than me. "Well you're 7 years older so I mean you have more experience than me, you should be able to get this or do that"
😂😂😂
Exactly
7 years.. u R so petty..
I think feminine persuasion over triggering.
Make everything you ask an expectation you have of them because they are so special and not like other men.
Oh honey can you help with this, or babe can you get me that I think it'll look soo good.
Don't get frustrated or combative they'll probably not do it just to spite you, men are big kids. Positive reinforcement works like a charm
I'm gonna use that stragedy make sure they are emotionally attacted tho
@@pianotnt but how do you get them emotionally attracted to you? 🤔 I hot them in the physical but the emotional I would like to know.
@@cherryblossom6702 There are some tips I could give you to see if he is emotionally qualified to be more than a guy you know or not, but NOTHING you do could make him emotionally involved with you if he was not from the beginning ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT so that you will move on quickly & not waste your time. Be mysterious, do not reveal anything just observe and ACT like an actress that you are nice & fun to be around with him and other people and see his reaction, is he trying to get your attention? Is he trying to be funny so you would smile? Is he watching you from distance when you move around & talk to other people around him? If Yes, then he might be hooked already...Use your femininity and baby voice to play him, appear like you need his strength to open the jar for you or lift your bag. Appear like you enjoy your time around him smile or laugh at whatever jokes he's telling do not correct him if he was wrong in front of people play along and try your best to be a pleasant to be around but not a doormat though! Anything you do you should do because you want to not because he asked you to or expect you to, use all these tactics with all your targets not just a guy you want him to be impressed with you otherwise you are in the danger zone & could fall for him harder than he ever would 😑 Be save and stay cautious above all if you sensed someone is a bad then he probably is a bad news block him and do not ever hang around him or interact with him!
@@user-in2xn4xc4i that's weird as fuck that you're talking about using a "baby voice" that lolita shtick to attract a man. Ewww
I always lead with asking, puts the relationship in the right perspective...lol
It's a friendly way to remind him of his age and that he's not the prize😂😂😂 gurlll!!!! Too funny
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Damn, I actually do this a lot without even noticing. Didn’t realize how manipulative I was!
Me too! 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍
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😂😂 said this to myself about a few parts 💀
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Ladies....we are meant to be protected during stressful times. All 3 of my brothers were ready to report - Naturally, during covid/my panic moments. If you have brothers you will see so clearly the foremost purpose of men. It is to protect and provide. Its just the way it is.
This is so true
This explains why Men are universally understood to be the superior gender.
Well, we bring babies to this world...
@iaf4454 right women protect, men provide and add to our innate maternal protection
@@TheVgasm exactly
I love it when Shera says in the beginning of the video that she's not gonna be on long, and then the video is three hours long 💗💗 we appreciate all the time you spend on this platform
'what do you remember about WW2 --- Did you serve your country back then?" ☠💀☠ Shera out here teaching us how to steal souls
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This is another level of clever
“Put them back in the nerd spot real quick where they tried to escape from” 😂😂😂
“Were you alive during WWII?” I almost ran off the road laughing so hard!!
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Right! Hollering 😅
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I was in stitches 😂😂😂😂
Shera is right. Manipulation works. Use their triggers (in a nice tone) against them. I promise that will get them to do better, apologize, and chase you. Word play is very important.
Your single ass has NO IDEA what you're talking about and you know it.
Anyone from Somalia 🇸🇴 en listening 👂 to shera❤️❤️
Oh God why is dis not my mother? 😫😭
Seriously, I didn't have a mother..
@@DandyDuh I have one ☝🏾 but she didn’t teach me anything. Doesn’t know anything
You should get a Nobel prize or become a Governor ..!! You choose !!👏👏❤️
well ...Hitler was nominated for one ...hell Obama was given one so why not lol
the way she laughs is sending me. its my fav sound in the world
I feel sorry for the women that haven’t discovered you
Yes, Shera! I'm with you. I would rather look Greedy, than needy. I been needy before, and it doesn't look too pretty.
🤣😂She said FashionNova dress and red lipstick and I felt attacked...still on my level up journey 🤦🏾♀️
Man i died when she spoke about reminding him how old he is. hilarious shit.
😆😆😆 same
That break down on Marjorie is so eye opening. She plays games so well
As a man, I must say this is scary😢. A lot of these things would actually work on me. Let's me know I gotta step my emotional intelligence up. Thanks 🙏🏼
You are so cute. Learning the game from SheRa. ❤😂
It’s too late, we’re butter, you’re toast 😉
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Wow so what your saying is I just have to apply the same tactics I did on my parents to my husband 🤔 not surprised. I did all of this on them just to joke with them and get what I want 🤣 wow I had it in me all this time
how wud u summarise it..
Lmfao
Lmao 🤣
I was thinking 🤔 My daughters have said some of this on me too 😂😭😩🥴
Watching this gold as I sip wine and look for the engagement ring I want
Time stamp for myself:
18:24 Age gap dating reality
29:21 guilt tripping when he forgets to send me something
It’s so eerie in hindsight watching your daughter come in with that article about coronavirus. Hell, In Jan, I hadn’t even heard about it yet, but she was on it!
We’re you alive!!! I’m dead. Thank you for this one. My guy is 51
Consistently dropping gems. Thanks for your dedication to us.
Dealing with an older man and told him " you should plan a 50th birthday party, next year babe lol!! And he replied : "50 is a big number ". I play on his ego often! I'm taking more notes 📝
That just makes you look weird dating him. Why u can't get a man your own age.
I feel you about logging out. Some things are just private and everyone is entitled to their privacy...married or not. My ex used to secretly put apps on my phone to record my conversations, text, and email. The app was even recording my face while using my phone. When I found out, I flipped the fk out. Respect my fucking privacy. I will never deal with no one that fkn sneaky.
Yuppppp. Join the club. Disgusting huh?
Omg!!!!!
How did you find out ?
Wow that's crazy
Can’t stand nosy people eww
Remember, true confidence is quiet. Learn, reflect and self care. You got this ❤
And you can obtain true love and things without opening your legs...I am engaged..I have a rock..and multiple gifts of money and things including a fur coat and boots for early Christmas...and I have not parted my thighs..and she's right.....
Parted my thighs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 get it girllll!!!!
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They open like a hallway
Mee too
Reverse Psychology works every time
The first time I listened to you Shera I was so mad and felt so type of way about your advice but right now honey you are preaching to tye choir on this. This game is on point. Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨️✨️
She indeed triggered something on us
Shera said she going at 45 minutes , I look up this a 3.5 hour video 😂😂 love her
Saying I love you is not enough to express my appreciation and admiration. You are amazing. Auntie Shera you are my rock!
Like the said on the movie Heartbreakers : Cute leads to feelings which leads to screwing which leads to screwed!!!
This video had me rolling. "Were you alive when..." 🤣🤣🤣
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I now ask myself WWSD (“what would Shera do,” like the acronym WWJD “what would Jesus do”) 😂…. when dealing with relations. And, I can attest that her tactics definitely work!!!!
I’m so much better with my emotions! And reading people thanks to shera 👑🙏🏽☺️
The one about the 401k was too much. I agree with everything Shera says but the woman that asked that will never be at her peak because she doesn't know how to play. How you gonna ask for almost half of his retirement money? This is about getting money from men who can spend freely not no damn old man who gotta go into his 401k to keep you around 🙄. Like you cant take from people who dont have it and that's what most of yall trying to do and try to make them a sugar daddy when they ain't. If you arent attracting one man to provide that's why she say get multiple until you find that one who can do it all.
I play chess not checkers!
They take from us, why cant we take from them. Profess love and home care nursing then once you get the check 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Agreed no need to go into his life savings he definitely not the one if that is the case for sure
Those who have it give and are used to giving is best
Lol trying make sugar daddies, out of splenda daddies
As a man I love this channel and I like her frfr knowledge is power saying NO is the best word in the dictionary nd American language if u don't Kno it I respect the hussle...
Wouldn’t it be hilarious if James has his own secret channel? 😂😂😂
james gettin that pussy on the low
Dina A. 🤣🤣🤣😂
@ Yall stupid 😜 😂😂😂
Who cares
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Nobody:
Not a single soul:
Shera: I’m back but not for long
3 hours later....
She keeps us on our toes 😉
The scenarios you come up with 🤣🤣🤣👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Pancake Batter lmao. I wasn’t ready for that comment.
Pancake Batter my daughter not here to show me how to adjust color 🤣🤣 I will have to google that later. But since I am biracial I can technically use 👏🏿👏🏿😊
Pancake Batter I’m donee 😂😂
Looooll leave MART MORT alone.
Pancake Batter
I had the same question. My hands ain’t even that dark 👏🏾👏🏾
The best friend who speaks truth I never meet personally
It’s impeccable and worth every praise that u ki eternally spoke on a subject for too long . So generous. So thoughtful. One thing is that u r compassionate. How else otherwise ! ❤
U r generous with ur comment too 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Shera you are a master! Always love when you do re-enactments 👏🏼😂😂
My friend brags about having so much money and he didn’t get me a birthday present which was in oct, we saw each other on Christmas and he goes o I still owe a present I said he’s you do I want this Gucci bag and I went to the website got the bag and I gave him my phone so he fill out the card info lmaooo you want to brag we’ll buy my present then lol
My ex was like that too.I got him something nice on his birthday, cooked for him too.But,when mh birthday came up,he did nothing for me.I know he was trying to trigger me and get an emotional reaction, so I just did some fun things with my family on my birthday. Also,I broke up with him shortly after.Some guys just want to flaunt their money,but don't want to give you any.
Yeah block that dude asap
@@Shante112XO she got a Gucci bag which is ghetto.
I LOOOOOOVVVEEEEE your hair like this, so natural and classy
whatever you answer to or respond to is what you deal with!! YESS!
My son asked me if the whole world was black and white when I was a kid. Lol
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I'm cracking up about putting old men in their place🤣
Thanks for your content. I’m 50 and married for the first time, 2 years ago. My now husband was legally separated but not planning on getting divorced, so I said: “well, if you’re married, you can’t marry me, which means I have to find someone else” 2 weeks later, he filed for divorce and proposed to me a few months later. ❤
Asheraisms: "If you don't look the part, they're not going to play the part!" You are brilliant Shera!
You should put your Asheraisms into a book! I would buy it! ❤ Kim
Omg Shera! Your videos are the best videos there are for women out there!!! I used to watch mindful attraction but I think i’m starting to fall more in love with your videos 😍❤️ You’re cynical but in a good way you’re helping us level up together as women
Oh I like the mindful Attraction guy he has alot of helpful advice lol
I'm a man, this is incredible stuff. It's like getting inside her playbook. Thank you Shera. Just taking notes in this meeting. I really appreciate all the comments I am reading aswell. I light cigar, loosen my tie and take notes of all of this.
Glad you are taking notes.
@@ehill8926 it sky rocketed my finances actually. Every man should take notes. Saved me a ton of money and energy.
"did they have microwaves".....😂🤣
So many acting scenes here! Shera you are something else!!
I had a SD and my god what a headache! At the end he kept complaining going on and on about what does he get (like a kid stuck in an old mans body) And my reply back was is because I don’t have the ring, car & house with your consistency allowance! Bye boy
That's what u get for dating an old man.
I’ve found your canal and I need to admit I was using some things you talk about unconsciously and man went crazy and got obsessed with me. I still commit too much mistakes but your canal is a gold! Hope to change my mindset soon.
You are blessing and I'm truly thankful for you . To tell you the truth you are like that Big Sister that never had and always wanted. Your knowledge that you shared helped kept me out of DV situation with men. You are loved and appreciated. Thank you Jesus Christ Yeshua for a new Sister.
""Were you alive when.... lol love it!! Shera, you are hilarious. You need to do live speaking engagements. I know you would hear the whole audience cracking up.
I can’t keep listening to this at work I burst out laughing work colleagues think I’m crazy 😂
Same 😂
Dont share it with your colleagues they are not prepared for shera
You absolutely tickle me pink with the tips you give. Thanks for helping us.
Lmfao how does she do this her word play and the way she manipulates situations is so smart I stay laughing at her 😂 like her responses are hilarious so nonchalant and blunt put these men in place real quick
Now I understand that snake's strategy...i was guessing he did all to trigger me n now I know it for sure...men even do this in workplace I can't believe...triggering women pressurizing them just cz they want to get their attention...feminine men
Ash Outlandish narcisstic men. Also if your gonna go for an ugly guy make sure he’s rich nothing worse than a broke man who’s also ugly 😂😂 I’ve noticed ugly guys treat woman like shit
Dina A. True I have an ugly broke dude the chance , because he said I was shallow and he guilt tripped me and guess what he treated me like shit. He started thinking he was the catch. Like wtf never again I hate how ugly broke dudes always guilt trip girls into not having standards fuck them like they’re always the absers I’ve noticed
Bhavitha Datla yes you’re right. And I was taught by my sister to get and ugly man because they will treat you like a queen! NOT!!!!!!
Shera with what should be common sense!! Always ❤️ SCHOOL US sis! ❤️
You should do a whole video on The subject of women asking a man for their hand 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽in marriage💍 and decode the psychological mindset of a woman who does that💯💯💯
I don't even want to know what they think. A woman who will ask a man for his hand in marriage will do ANYTHING for him. And he will use it to his advantage. Sis better get her life!
That episode for pickmeisha diaries 🤔😜
This was one of the best videos yet ✨✨✨✨✨ Love you Shera and thanks to all the girls in chat giving advice too, y’all have helped me so much 🌪
I just gained a whole new perspective on triggers.