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0:54 Focus on Your Character 1:27 Stop Trying To Please Other People 1:59 Stand Up For Yourself 2:24 Stop Being a Victim Ad: BetterHelp 5:13 Get Rid Of Toxic People 6:06 Be Around Truthful People 6:55 Smell Amazing 7:37 Talk To Yourself 7:58 Stop Being Idiots
Practice keeping your word everyday you’ll really gain confidence. Every time you say you’re gonna do something and don’t do it, your self-esteem diminishes no matter how meaningless the task may seem. Take your word very serious.
I love the straight forward information and explanations he gives simple basic and easy to understand ,its done in a semi humorous way i love it good advice good channel
Thanks man. Thanks for being the dad that we never had for many of us. I love your videos. I've been watching you since the Shark Tank days. Through therapy and RUclipsrs like you, I'm feeling pretty damn good. Keep them coming.
Aaron & Alex are quite possibly my 2 favourite people in the world. From fashion to fitness; mental health to self-confidence. They have changed the way I view myself and approach life. Thank you 🙏🏼 Sincerely Hagan
I seen one of your ads on tv the other day for the first time. Coincidentally it was while pitching my business idea to two IT guys for a Fortune 500 company. I had to tell’em “That man inspired me” and it’s true. I had watched your recent upload for side hustles and took the leap. All of this to say Thank you for the inspiration and doing what you do. You’re greatly appreciated.
How could someone else want to see you fall so they can control you, that seems so f*cked up. I'm experiencing that with a "friend" and it doesn't make you feel good. unfortunately I work with him but I'm tired of putting up with his disrespect and immaturity. Crazy how when you're doing good they get jealous then when you fall you can see that jealousy is less obvious so messed up
you're advice helps! I think your right it's starts with you and holding yourself accountable and being the best version of yourself take care of yourself and all the rest will fall into place! It's all connected. I get it! Thanks alpha M!!
Today will be the first day of my sobriety . I am a very confident person at is. But I have beer everyday. It doesn’t change me and I’m still same person but my health is pathetic bc if it. I keep telling myself I will stop but haven’t . So today I will try . Send prayers thank you …
Yep I'm sick of pleasing people and there's no way I will be pressured or influenced to do something I'm not finna do sadly it's why people or most guys live to please other people or women its why they stop taking care of themselves and deal with bullshit 💯
I had a stroke recently last year i almost died from. And since I had the stroke that almost killed me, it made me more confident, made me a much better person. It also helped me to realize that life is to precious to waste and to always worry about people are going to think or say about you. It made me realize fuck what people say and think. Do what you want to do go after what you want in life let nothing get in your way or ever stop you. Keep going after what you want in life whether if its a spicy senorita or a job. Fuck what people say or think if they don't like it then they can kiss my ass attitude. Live life for you and fuck what people say or have to think about your actions. That's the way to live right there. 🤘😎 🍻 🥂 🍻
Been vibing with your content since I saw you tribute KS, even though you weren't really tight. You showed respect nevertheless. I found that very cool. Your energy is contagious. I appreciate you. Thanks, Man.
My self-esteem and self-confidence are rocked right now. Just turned 50, not a millionaire like essentially every one of my friends/acquaintances I grew up with. Probably a solid 7, 6', 168 pounds. Right around 6 digit income, but it's still wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy harder out there than it's ever been. Especially dating.
Right on Alpha! Dig hard and exude confidence and esteem. Who cares what others think? Right! Not this cat because I could not give a $#/+ what others think. Everybody puts their socks on one at a time… Own the room, own the situation, own it all! Self esteem and self confidence go hand in hand…
Main quality Alpha taught me is to do no metter how! No excuses. Now filming workouts form Ukraine and want to say thank you for motivating me all this years!
Thank you for the wise words brother, I can relate, I was a people pleaser a long time, then woke up and had to rebuild, reinvent myself because I never had structure growing up. 🙏
Even if I said “My Life Is A Movie” like I’m good enough to be extremely better than people because when I first started to change into a best version of me. But daily, jumbles my memory parts out of my thoughts to become a quiet person but I wouldn’t like that at all. Whenever how my self esteem or my strong conversations always distorted not to be confident enough and that’s what mean is that I was thinking like “I’m the robot” or “a god” that turns me arrogant instead of being humbled.
Stop playing the victim card. I didn’t think I did that. But then I did some therapy to get rid of baggage from the past. It dawned on me I was indeed playing the victim. So I took ownership of my part in what happened. Guess what? My self-confidence soared.
I agree with most of what you said..but.."rude" friends are not necessarily bad for you..I preffer one friend which is honest than one which is dishonest and says what I want to hear..of course the truth is in the middle..of course we want an uplifting friend but in the same time we want a friend which is honest about our flaws and toxic traits, because yes..we can be toxic too
You forgot one. Trying to impress people with expensive things or showing off ones money. You know how people with money will buy expensive cars or build a house or houses they don’t need. They do this to show off.
When I was younger I was a geek I'm talking 94 windows, playing DOOM geek! Now I'm older I listen and interact with people and have confidence in my job which I love. If you don't like me GTFO! I lost 10 inches off my waist in a year and got thinner, just need to slow down the booze now. Alpha helped me in this, just need to sort the bald spot out. Thinking Jason Statham now the double chin has gone.
I just got a sample of Villain along with some other Pete and Pedro products they're fucking awesome. Buyer beware though 2 squirts is more than enough I did 3 this morning and it was a little strong 😂. Keep up the good work Aaron men need you now more than ever!
Just because you don’t know how to deal with something or someone doesn’t mean they are toxic. There’s is a solution to everything and everyone, whether you like that solution or not. Stop calling everything you don’t like toxic. That in itself is victim mentality. Next time you call someone toxic, how about just talking to them about what you feel is their “toxic behavior”. Ask why they do what they do or so specific things you feel are toxic.
Ahahabh what I tell myself when feeling “smaller”/weaker” is say “I’m literally a soldier, I am the one who’s gonna save this mans ass so I can’t be weaker” lol
self-esteem is appreciating your own value self-confidence is your belief in your ability America is great and wealth From Milwaukee Wisconsin Give me like if you live in America
I don't know if others brought it up, but if they Didn't.... Alpha, Aaron, you need to be _Consistent_ with your Discretion of profanity. Sometimes you Don't bleep the Fbomb, 2:11 sometimes you Do. 8:41 Doesn't affect me either way, censor fully or No, but, you gotta pick a side.
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great advice dude, i'm so sick of pleasing people, so scared no one will like me if i say no. fuck that, time to change!
@population-_-420 yes they do
0:54 Focus on Your Character
1:27 Stop Trying To Please Other People
1:59 Stand Up For Yourself
2:24 Stop Being a Victim
Ad: BetterHelp
5:13 Get Rid Of Toxic People
6:06 Be Around Truthful People
6:55 Smell Amazing
7:37 Talk To Yourself
7:58 Stop Being Idiots
Thanks 😊
69th liker😏
@@MixingMagicDJ you are cringe
Thanks
Practice keeping your word everyday you’ll really gain confidence. Every time you say you’re gonna do something and don’t do it, your self-esteem diminishes no matter how meaningless the task may seem. Take your word very serious.
Doesn't it say new videos every week on your page.. I guess we all have moments of lacking confidence. Thanks tho
@@carmentascione4802 lmfaooo
Does this work?
I agree on stop trying to please people. In life you aren't going to please everyone no matter if you keep trying to live up to their expectations.
Confidence isn’t:They Will Like Me
Confidence is:I’ll be Fine even If They Don’t💯
Facts
I love the straight forward information and explanations he gives simple basic and easy to understand ,its done in a semi humorous way i love it good advice good channel
"Stop worrying" - Imagine if it were that easy?
Thank you for always running this channel. After a few toxic relationships my self-esteem took a few hits.
Definitely bro
Thank you for those motivation. It does help me my handsome egoself.
"Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it." ~ Stan Smith 💪🏻🚀
Yes it does
Thanks man. Thanks for being the dad that we never had for many of us. I love your videos. I've been watching you since the Shark Tank days. Through therapy and RUclipsrs like you, I'm feeling pretty damn good. Keep them coming.
Definitely keep them good
Aaron & Alex are quite possibly my 2 favourite people in the world. From fashion to fitness; mental health to self-confidence. They have changed the way I view myself and approach life.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Sincerely
Hagan
There my favorites too
I seen one of your ads on tv the other day for the first time. Coincidentally it was while pitching my business idea to two IT guys for a Fortune 500 company. I had to tell’em “That man inspired me” and it’s true. I had watched your recent upload for side hustles and took the leap. All of this to say Thank you for the inspiration and doing what you do. You’re greatly appreciated.
How could someone else want to see you fall so they can control you, that seems so f*cked up. I'm experiencing that with a "friend" and it doesn't make you feel good. unfortunately I work with him but I'm tired of putting up with his disrespect and immaturity.
Crazy how when you're doing good they get jealous then when you fall you can see that jealousy is less obvious so messed up
you're advice helps! I think your right it's starts with you and holding yourself accountable and being the best version of yourself take care of yourself and all the rest will fall into place! It's all connected. I get it! Thanks alpha M!!
I moved to the countryside, and live among lumberjacks. That made this city boy stronger, fresh air was also helpful.
An excellent book to read is The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden... it will change your life!
Today will be the first day of my sobriety . I am a very confident person at is. But I have beer everyday. It doesn’t change me and I’m still same person but my health is pathetic bc if it. I keep telling myself I will stop but haven’t . So today I will try . Send prayers thank you …
Yep I'm sick of pleasing people and there's no way I will be pressured or influenced to do something I'm not finna do sadly it's why people or most guys live to please other people or women its why they stop taking care of themselves and deal with bullshit 💯
I started Better help the other day. It seems really good, as I sometimes find life difficult, and have low views on myself. Thank you AlphaM!
I had a stroke recently last year i almost died from. And since I had the stroke that almost killed me, it made me more confident, made me a much better person. It also helped me to realize that life is to precious to waste and to always worry about people are going to think or say about you. It made me realize fuck what people say and think. Do what you want to do go after what you want in life let nothing get in your way or ever stop you. Keep going after what you want in life whether if its a spicy senorita or a job. Fuck what people say or think if they don't like it then they can kiss my ass attitude. Live life for you and fuck what people say or have to think about your actions. That's the way to live right there. 🤘😎 🍻 🥂 🍻
confidence is legendary
Thank you, Alpha.
Been vibing with your content since I saw you tribute KS, even though you weren't really tight. You showed respect nevertheless. I found that very cool. Your energy is contagious. I appreciate you. Thanks, Man.
Alpha is going HAM. Good stuff mann 💪
Thanks you, once again!
Fixed: Arrogant
Growth: Humble
Good job with the bold white text emphasising the point you're trying to make. It is a really good idea and a nice touch!
Thank you so much Alpha M that make me feel better and Powerful 🙂
Thanks Alpha
THANKS FOR THE INFO "ALPHA",I GOT IT!!👍👍👍👍
My self-esteem and self-confidence are rocked right now. Just turned 50, not a millionaire like essentially every one of my friends/acquaintances I grew up with. Probably a solid 7, 6', 168 pounds. Right around 6 digit income, but it's still wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy harder out there than it's ever been. Especially dating.
I need to stand up for myself at work. Done with this toxic job treatment
Number 4 was the most accurate thing this world needs
Right on Alpha!
Dig hard and exude confidence and esteem.
Who cares what others think?
Right! Not this cat because I could not give a $#/+ what others think.
Everybody puts their socks on one at a time…
Own the room, own the situation, own it all!
Self esteem and self confidence go hand in hand…
It’s fact that I AUTOMATICALLY 👍 the video before Aaron says anything more than “What’s up gentlemen?” Because I KNOW it’ll be gold
Main quality Alpha taught me is to do no metter how! No excuses. Now filming workouts form Ukraine and want to say thank you for motivating me all this years!
Слава Украине! 🇺🇦
Instead of filming workouts, go join the fight and save your country
I do food videos while high af on my RUclips channel.😮
Omg yes! Can you do a video “how to workout when you’re country is under attack”. That would make for some killer content 🌚
@@ChefSidorov Героям Слава брате!
He's right!
Thank you for the wise words brother, I can relate, I was a people pleaser a long time, then woke up and had to rebuild, reinvent myself because I never had structure growing up. 🙏
Even if I said “My Life Is A Movie” like I’m good enough to be extremely better than people because when I first started to change into a best version of me. But daily, jumbles my memory parts out of my thoughts to become a quiet person but I wouldn’t like that at all. Whenever how my self esteem or my strong conversations always distorted not to be confident enough and that’s what mean is that I was thinking like “I’m the robot” or “a god” that turns me arrogant instead of being humbled.
True that. Rid your life of all the bull shit and toxic people, and life is more grand.
Thanks alpha for the advice, you rock!
You’re TRULY ONE OF A KIND MAN 👊🏻😉👌🏻 keep up the great work my brother!!!
Desperately needed this video
Back to your channel again and the contents keep getting better and better.
You are the inspiration to many bro... KUDOS!
Great advice, you give solid advice @alpha m.
man i wanna save this in my alarm so that I can wake up in the morning and start being optimistic
You r dope🤟... Man
Stop playing the victim card. I didn’t think I did that. But then I did some therapy to get rid of baggage from the past. It dawned on me I was indeed playing the victim. So I took ownership of my part in what happened. Guess what? My self-confidence soared.
Ditto!
What’s up Alpha! It’s been a few weeks and I’ve noticed the key word subtitles added in your videos. I like that highlighting of key points! 👍🏽👆🏽
You're so amazing Alpha.🙏🔥
Well said
TY a lot 👍🏼
Aaron is the man
Amazing
It just made my day❤❤
This is a great video, alpha!
I agree with most of what you said..but.."rude" friends are not necessarily bad for you..I preffer one friend which is honest than one which is dishonest and says what I want to hear..of course the truth is in the middle..of course we want an uplifting friend but in the same time we want a friend which is honest about our flaws and toxic traits, because yes..we can be toxic too
You forgot one. Trying to impress people with expensive things or showing off ones money. You know how people with money will buy expensive cars or build a house or houses they don’t need. They do this to show off.
Ok Tony
Fantastic content, as always! Thank you.🙏🏼☺️
I am officially the most Broke Alpha Male after purchasing all his products 👍
ALPHA MY NINJA
I always do this
be confident 🤞
Insecurities are Loud But Confidence is Silence💯
The best way to be confident is to take care of your face...Teige Hanley...no just me? Oh ok. Lol
Damn... i was literally destroyed in the first 15 seconds 🤣
Alpha ♥️ you
Kobe Bryant probably has the best video ever about confidence.
Perfect
Strong Men Create Good Times
Good Times Create Weak Men
Weak Men Create Hard Times - we are here.
Hard Times Create Strong Men
need more videos like this one!!!!!
When I was younger I was a geek I'm talking 94 windows, playing DOOM geek! Now I'm older I listen and interact with people and have confidence in my job which I love. If you don't like me GTFO!
I lost 10 inches off my waist in a year and got thinner, just need to slow down the booze now. Alpha helped me in this, just need to sort the bald spot out. Thinking Jason Statham now the double chin has gone.
I just got a sample of Villain along with some other Pete and Pedro products they're fucking awesome. Buyer beware though 2 squirts is more than enough I did 3 this morning and it was a little strong 😂. Keep up the good work Aaron men need you now more than ever!
Legend.
Men get strong, get some money, get a wolf pack and be honorable.
Be a monster and learn to control it.
There's nothing wrong with talking to yourself. What's wrong is when you talk to yourself and begin finding out new things
Oh yeah 👍...
Common Aaron W
I am proud of following u long Time❤💪
Great video
I love using Alpha's advice in practicing confidence by wearing an ugly shirt and slowly learn to not care about what others think.
2:20 Connor Murphy vibes
Just because you don’t know how to deal with something or someone doesn’t mean they are toxic. There’s is a solution to everything and everyone, whether you like that solution or not. Stop calling everything you don’t like toxic. That in itself is victim mentality. Next time you call someone toxic, how about just talking to them about what you feel is their “toxic behavior”. Ask why they do what they do or so specific things you feel are toxic.
Ahahabh what I tell myself when feeling “smaller”/weaker” is say “I’m literally a soldier, I am the one who’s gonna save this mans ass so I can’t be weaker” lol
no one:
alpha: *always starts his video intros with *GENTLEMAN*
Weird uncle Barry 😂
Alpha finger 💪🏻🔥
Love from india.. 💝🙌
Benn watching u since 2 years and helped me a lot to be a man. 🙏
Hey you can’t say SUPER FRESH!!!
self-esteem is appreciating your own value
self-confidence is your belief in your ability
America is great and wealth
From Milwaukee Wisconsin
Give me like if you live in America
damn boi he drinkin his milk
Key takeaway from thumbnail: If I ever get nervous in a school meeting, just flip everybody off
Alpha, did you ever read about the stoics? If yes, maybe a new video idea? This philosophy is the ultimate alpha way
title is wrong in every way
why do you need to be confident when there’s weak guys around
plus, do YOU thing you are not one of em weak guys
I don't know if others brought it up, but if they Didn't....
Alpha, Aaron, you need to be _Consistent_ with your Discretion of profanity. Sometimes you Don't bleep the Fbomb, 2:11 sometimes you Do. 8:41 Doesn't affect me either way, censor fully or No, but, you gotta pick a side.
I am weak… but i’ve made the commitment to not stay this way
Superrrb Awesome Fantastic video
Big fan ❤️❤️❤️
Yes🎉