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  • Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
  • Catherine Kassenoff, a former prosecutor, chose to die by assisted suicide after a custody battle with her ex-husband Allan. In her suicide letter, she blames the court system. Social media influencer Robbie Harvey tells "Banfield" it's his mission to shine a light on these stories and that "hopefully this case will open up the eyes of people who need to make the decisions to change this system."
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  • @vc5385
    @vc5385 Год назад +62

    Please Dear Lord, look over these 3 girls and protect them from their father and the corrupt individuals he was able to pay off (allegedly) to keep custody of these children.
    Any mother who would seek out Assisted Suicide, had to have been "pushed to the brink"...Why did noone listen and step in to assist her ?

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@vc5385 the Lord protected these children by removing the abuser mother from their lives. No one listened to her including her 11 lawyers over 3 years because she was nuts.

  • @MarinFitzgerald
    @MarinFitzgerald Год назад +40

    Catherine gave me the drive to finally commit to becoming a paralegal in a family law firm. I want to help people like her, and people like my mother. Her legacy is affecting people so deeply that even I, after 4 years of not going to school, decided to go back so I can prevent this from happening again.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@MarinFitzgerald she was mentally unstable and an unfit mother and a faithless abusive wife. Your mother was like her?

  • @ansn1989
    @ansn1989 Год назад +22

    This is poor journalism. She was dying! She did not commit suicide because of the abuse from her husband. You’re pinning her to be an irresponsible mom that left behind her children.

  • @tovah8841
    @tovah8841 Год назад +21

    He called her fat multiple times & she’s not even fat! He’s abusive

    • @garyhost1830
      @garyhost1830 4 месяца назад

      Yeah I spun out at that when I saw her in a black dress. Imagine having a wife that's a prosecuted and looks like that. I would of assumed they both would be the happiest couple in the world. ( both good looking, 3 beautiful kids, both lawyer nice house. ) crazy😮

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 Месяц назад

      She was far more abusive. She was having multiple affairs and bragging about them to Alan.

    • @alexhein6054
      @alexhein6054 13 дней назад

      @@michaelschmitt447he was too. There both narcissists

  • @terintiaflavius3349
    @terintiaflavius3349 Год назад +14

    We need to get justice for Catherine. All these people in the court need held accountable

  • @booberry3157
    @booberry3157 Год назад +21

    I have much respect for you saying something about the broken system. I have been saying it for years. I fought the system for 10 yrs to protect my grandchildren and it was an emotionally and mentally challenging situation i have ever endured. Cost tons of money and aggravation and loop holes that seem never-ending. By the time the final hearing I was mentally broken and don't trust the system anymore. It is all about the money and who you know in the community. It is not there to protect the victims anymore. Society has become a vile greedy place to trust and rely on to up hold the law with integrity. It is disgusting what people have to go through to do what is right to protect the children these days.

  • @SuperBikeRacer7
    @SuperBikeRacer7 Год назад +12

    I am disgusted to hear this female news caster victim blame "1:34" a woman in such a powerless situation being brutalized along with her children 😠 this poor doomed woman DOES NOT hold equal responsibility for the abuse her and her children were being put through by Allan Kassenoff and his band of parasites!!! This female news caster is the reason justice is so difficult to attain, because people keep revictimizing the victims for the reason that they simply DON'T CARE about others!😡

  • @baileysmith2586
    @baileysmith2586 Год назад +19

    Alan Kassenoff videos speak for themselves.... You don't need him to give his side.. his actions, his behaviors say ENOUGH..

  • @trishconway8187
    @trishconway8187 Год назад +25

    Thank you Robbie for fighting for Catherine and for all the other women like her.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@trishconway8187 he should have been fighting for the children and protecting them from the abusive mother who did all she could to destroy them.

  • @yinnetteolivo
    @yinnetteolivo Год назад +14

    He has her arrested, she found her self evicted from her own homes, he convinced a judge to give him sole custody without her in court, then while she had visitation, he would try and touch her and she would push him away, and he would start his abuse.. He is VINDICTIVE EXTRACT.... This man is sooo petty, he tortured her until she could not continue living....

  • @DaNiyaHodge
    @DaNiyaHodge Год назад +11

    Rip Catherine Youssef Kassenoff, you will be missed

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@DaNiyaHodge certainly not by her kids whose lives were destroyed by her.

  • @formeformeforme69
    @formeformeforme69 Год назад +17

    This is my story as well. Luckily I had moved to Italy when I had full custody. After I moved an unknown father filled for full custody and got it in WV. The GAL never looked into any CPS reports with his live in daughter..not with my children , Domestic arrests, drug usage etc. He and the GAL basically lied in court on many issues. I thought it was just me but this is going on all over America. So scary. What makes it even worse is my children were born via ivf and surrogates in which he was not involved in any part of the process but unfortunately for my first son I did not have him sign a contract. I am so glad I left when I did but watching what is being exposed now about family court is horrible but its so true.

    • @jenvanderputten4277
      @jenvanderputten4277 Год назад +3

      Does Italy have stronger protections? What was the protective benefit of moving to Italy? Maybe we need a fund for women and children to get them out of the U.S. when horrors like this are happening

  • @amandawhitney6255
    @amandawhitney6255 Год назад +5

    1:50. 🎯. Ashley.Nailed It.
    This is devastating . .. all my respect to this man to not only speak up & speak loud for awareness, but more importantly his unwavering demand for change🙏❤️

  • @joan-lisa-smith
    @joan-lisa-smith Год назад +16

    She took her life, she had TERMINAL CANCER, stop leaving that out, it was assisted dying for terminally ill people not a suicide because of losing custody. I'm sure that stress didn't help but leaving that fact out changes the narrative completely.

    • @formeformeforme69
      @formeformeforme69 Год назад +4

      It not about this..she was not able to see her 3 daughters because he was connected with money. Does not change any narrative..It about the family court system..this happened to me and 1000s and 1000s of other children

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@joan-lisa-smith she did not have cancer. It was a made up story to gain sympathy and attention for herself. She never cared about the kids it was all about her. She went through 11 lawyers and cost her kids $3 million. Then she killed herself and dragged them into this mess.

  • @sabbathsermonthetypist
    @sabbathsermonthetypist Год назад +2

    Thank you for reporting this!!!! Thank you!!!

  • @hollyk512
    @hollyk512 Год назад +5

    Thank you for this ❤ I have lived this for 21 years. A complete maniac man who’s only way of punishing the kids (who are adults now) or talking to me is by screaming in our faces! Trying to intimidate us. Now that my boys are men, they don’t just take it from him. Me, I just let him scream and ignore him. He’s like a broken record and I can tell you this. I am a women who has been abused in every way possible by this man and I would rather be punched in the face than verbally abused! Words hurt and verbal abuse is just as traumatizing as any other abuse. Shame on that court system. Prayers to the girls❤

  • @linneamedia
    @linneamedia Год назад +7

    Thank you! Please cover this story with investigation to the core. This has been happening to my baby and to me too. This is what is happening to us by our abusive, wealthy attorney ex in New York. We are domestic violence victims in danger. Please help us. #justiceforcatherine #metoofamilycourt #postseparationabuse #familycourtcorruption

  • @Hunee-
    @Hunee- 6 месяцев назад +1

    I wish the courts would recognize verbal and mental abuse. Studies have shown that the implications of such abuse results in the same as physical abuse, if not worse. People need to be held accountable.

  • @WildAntics13
    @WildAntics13 7 месяцев назад +2

    When husband commits suicide he is depressed but when a woman do suicide she is unfit mother seriously?

  • @shawnamyers3899
    @shawnamyers3899 9 месяцев назад +2

    I have been through this myself. Courts done nothing. Wouldn't listen even though their was proof of abuse. I lost all 3 of my children by my ex husband. I wish I knew how to make people listen.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@shawnamyers3899 obviously there was no proof of abuse only proof of your false allegations which is abuse. Glad the kids are safe in their father’s care.

    • @shawnamyers3899
      @shawnamyers3899 13 дней назад

      @michaelschmitt447 there was proof of abuse. My ex husband was charged for assaulting me infront of my children.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@shawnamyers3899he was charged but not convicted right? Who filed the charges?

    • @shawnamyers3899
      @shawnamyers3899 13 дней назад

      @michaelschmitt447 police arrested him and charged him. He was not convicted because I recanted and had the judge drop them. Just like many women do.

  • @chronicallykelly7193
    @chronicallykelly7193 Год назад +4

    Love Robbie so much. Thank you guys for highlighting this case, and having Robbie be the one to speak, bc he truly got the attention for it. I'm a survivor... And the second I saw even the beginning of that first video he made, it **broke** me.

  • @bettydamnboop3030
    @bettydamnboop3030 Год назад +7

    His channel is amazing 🤩

  • @KittyCurioso
    @KittyCurioso Год назад +3

    Robbie dues good work.

  • @jax3722
    @jax3722 Год назад +3

    When your married to a narcissist bully, they blame you for everything,

  • @Narcshield
    @Narcshield Год назад +5

    My message didn’t go through before so trying again. With all due respect it’s hard to understand when people don’t understand abuse . Victims video in an attempt to show/prove what is really happening behind closed doors because it is hard to explain to those it’s never happened to. You lose support because people may say things like, “why would anyone do that?” “Are you sure your not being paranoid?” It’s gaslighting that isn’t meant to happen. The abusers use the flawed court systems to abuse their victims more. The victims are distraught because leaving is difficult knowing you have this threat over your head. Mothers are trying to protect their kids but staying sometimes seems better to keep them from going through a system that may take them away if the abuser threatened them. Abusers see people as objects. They don’t care about the kids or people. They care about gaining power and control over someone’s emotions. It’s emotional abuse and in some countries recognized as a crime. Narcissistic abuse is emotional abuse. There are many reasons why things happen . The abuser wants their victim worn down to make them financially and emotionally unstable. They know they won’t have support and beat them up in the courts. There needs to be change . The abuser knows if they can break their victims emotionally they can control things. They try to appear calm and stable while the victim is trying to get help and support looking unstable. Think Brian Laundrie and Gabby Petito. No kids but emotionally abusive. Understanding the cycles of abuse , trauma bonds and how there are people who just use people and systems to abuse is so important. It may be hard to understand but it happens all day everyday. Victims are swimming through an emotional sea and unfortunately their mental health can decline and even physical health with loss of sleep. They are trying to manage everything and everything is falling apart as they feel alone in something they can’t fix. People wonder why people stay in abusive relationships even. Well, there are many reasons and many times it’s the threat of allegations in court to take the children away. Abusers know the system is flawed and so do victims. The choices are hard for reasons that people don’t understand who haven’t been through it. Bottom line there are emotional abusers out there. Emotional abuse doesn’t show scars for people to see like bruises. The scars are there but you can’t see them. This can happen to anyone . WNAAD brings awareness about emotional abuse. I can’t write more here but gaining awareness can help people better understand. God bless the children and family.

    • @scottfamily5963
      @scottfamily5963 Год назад

      VERY WELL SAID. THANK YOU.

    • @scottfamily5963
      @scottfamily5963 Год назад

      This should be a highlighted comment.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@Narcshield of course you don’t mention the videos of her abusing the kids and the father. You only look at one side of the story.

  • @DaRealRoachDogg
    @DaRealRoachDogg Год назад +1

    This is why I hate journalism.

  • @EricAllen8494
    @EricAllen8494 Год назад +2

    Conflict of interest case should have been brought to the #DOJ #JusticeDepartment WTF $64.47 BBBBBILLION YRLY BUDGET

  • @miguel66014
    @miguel66014 Год назад +3

    There are MANY WOMEN who verbally & emotionally ABUSE MEN. This message needs to be shared. Thank you.

  • @smileyface-nm6xi
    @smileyface-nm6xi 10 месяцев назад +1

    These people I know. I feel so bad for those children. I always see them also running out of the house and always never around there father. I feel so and for them, but it’s sad because I don’t even think they even know what actually happend.

  • @CanadianSquatchgirl
    @CanadianSquatchgirl Год назад +1

    Tragic😢

  • @robinelizabeth7411
    @robinelizabeth7411 Год назад +2

    not only is emotional/verbal abuse not illegal, its basically covered up by churches and dare i say encouraged through victim blaming.
    #acryforjustice

  • @jjsolis8259
    @jjsolis8259 Год назад +1

    Online online.

  • @gabbyhai3534
    @gabbyhai3534 7 месяцев назад

    I really wish you'd do a follow-up to this case now that so much more info has been released

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@gabbyhai3534 he apologized for supporting Catherine when the truth came to light. She was the narcissistic abuser not the father. She went through 11 lawyers. She wasted $3 million dollars that could have been given to the kids. She cost the father his job which was needed to support the kids. She ruined the kids lives.

    • @gabbyhai3534
      @gabbyhai3534 13 дней назад

      @@michaelschmitt447 yeah I know. I run a FB group about this case

  • @Mage-Flower123
    @Mage-Flower123 4 месяца назад

    The way that this news station covered this whole entire situation rubbed me the wrong way. I'll get good vibes

  • @glitterprincess5672
    @glitterprincess5672 2 месяца назад

    And just today Robbie posted a video apologizing, saying he was wrong

  • @nicolesherie7065
    @nicolesherie7065 3 месяца назад

    It's emotional abuse is that not recognized

  • @MrBastilleDay
    @MrBastilleDay 9 месяцев назад +1

    0:49
    “I got a celebrity…Ashley..”
    I love seeing narcissists talk about other narcissists.

  • @rickyd1126
    @rickyd1126 Год назад

    Isn’t this the dude that cries all the time.

  • @lindaallen5616
    @lindaallen5616 Год назад

    This is gross behavior, there all responsible and need to be held accountable.

  • @gabbyhai3534
    @gabbyhai3534 Год назад +2

    It drew massive attention because only one side had been told. The court documents show a severely mentally unstable woman

  • @Vanessa-hk7ym
    @Vanessa-hk7ym Год назад +1

    This is my story also.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@Vanessa-hk7ym you abuse your kids and husband also? You need to stop.

  • @scottfamily5963
    @scottfamily5963 Год назад

    Please don't back off holding the father accountable because politically the father is aggressive and Robbie Harvey is a controversial figure. He is doing the right thing here, he is self-aware, and the last thing we need right now is reporters who try to paint the mother as the problem like you did with Angelina Jolie, when it is clear the legal system could have done much better by EVERY family member if legal and political connections and money were not governing the equation of who gets justice and who receives mounting injustices and suffering, including children. We do not need reporters who pull away and turn your backs on children and dead mothers who never got to see their childen again for NO GOOD REASON. THINK ABOUT IT; WHAT DID THIS MOTHER DO THAT THE FATHER DIDN'T, OR VICE VERSA, THAT ONE OR THE OTHER PARENT SHOULD NEVER SEE THEIR CHILDREN AGAIN IN ANY CAPACITY, AND WHY SHOULD THE MOTHER SEE THE CHILDREN SUPERVISED WHEN THIS IS THE CONDUCT OF THE FATHER AND HE ISN'T? THINK ABOUT IT!?!? Children should not be prizes to be won, objectified, or our society has a personality disorder. How are those poor children truly doing now? Men were even saying the house was messy and that was why dad was mad, he didn't like having all girls! People, get over your selves. This mother was a professional herself. A parent and children are exhausted and traumatized by living with someone who treats them like this. This father should be evaluated and he should be charged with a crime for treating his wife and children this way. Instead, he has custody because of money and male connections and a predatory stranglehold on the legal system. Even if there is a disorder responsible for his behaviour or a learned pattern of conduct, this needs to be addressed for the sake of the children. The mother should never have lost custody or unsupervised contact; NEVER, period. The parents should have had no contact. Those poor children.

    • @michaelschmitt447
      @michaelschmitt447 13 дней назад

      @@scottfamily5963 she was the more abusive parent as the record shows and Robbie now admits.

  • @amandawheaton2213
    @amandawheaton2213 7 месяцев назад

    I watch him all the time on instagram

  • @saradickerson5685
    @saradickerson5685 Год назад +5

    When my son was a baby, we went to family court seven times because I had to keep fighting because they wanted to give custody to his dad, who was a drug user and yes, I knew he did it before our son was born but his logic was he needed to get his wild oats out before our son was born, and then he would commit to being a father.

    • @hollydaugherty2620
      @hollydaugherty2620 Год назад +5

      So you ignored countless red flags with this guy and decided it was a good idea to get pregnant? Not sure I’d volunteer that information to the world if I were you.

    • @saradickerson5685
      @saradickerson5685 Год назад +4

      @@hollydaugherty2620 I was a manipulated 22-year-old involved with a 30 year old. I was told by him family everyone that he was a man and because I was younger that’s just what men did. He punched me a week before a wedding, and my family said I still had to marry him because the wedding was paid for. I got pregnant on my wedding day. My son was born nine months to the day of my wedding. I wanted to leave, but was told to let him get his oats out of his system before becoming a father. I left him before our son was two months old with just a stroller, a bag of baby clothes, and my dog, and never looked back.

    • @saradickerson5685
      @saradickerson5685 Год назад +3

      @@hollydaugherty2620 I’ve had over 25 years to grow and see what happened back then and I’m not ashamed of it and going through all those court cases was very eye-opening difficult. The end result is I just walked away and never seen child support from him when it came to visitation, he never had an actual interest in seeing our son his whole point was to hurt me, but once I didn’t care, he stop..

    • @formeformeforme69
      @formeformeforme69 Год назад +1

      @@saradickerson5685 I get it..I was with a physically and mentally abusive drug addict...I worked for IBM and traveled and he had this amazing karma but also very abusive. I stayed until I could no longer. Sometimes red flags are not seen if you have spent alot of time with a narcissist that over years make you seem crazy and break you. I just remember the guy used to say after I had black eyes and was hurt many times..if I really wanted to hurt you I could..but by that time I WAS BROKEN.

    • @saradickerson5685
      @saradickerson5685 Год назад +1

      @@formeformeforme69 I understand where you’re coming from when he proposed to me he told me that no one would care for me like he does so I had to say yes because no other man on the planet would want me. And when he punched me the week before the wedding and I wanted to walk away, my mother told me I wasn’t able to because we spent too much money for the wedding. I had to work three jobs to pay for the wedding because he said traditionally the brides parents pay for the wedding, so he left it up to me to cover the cost.

  • @leeknox872
    @leeknox872 Год назад

    This is my story too🙋🏼‍♀️#metoomama

  • @XYouVandal
    @XYouVandal Год назад +6

    Are we going to ignore the videos taken of the mother terrorizing the children?

    • @nettiea9384
      @nettiea9384 Год назад +10

      The mom was screaming because her daughter ran off without telling anyone… to b found by cops. Anything cd hv happened to her. And still she cdnt sit when told to discuss the gravity of her actions …. No doubt that kid is traumatized by her dysfunctional family life but I as a mom wd be in rage and sorrow too if my daughter ran off and wd need more than a minute to calm down. Katherine was already unhinged from her abusive marriage and a terminal illness. How much can a person take?

    • @Vid7872
      @Vid7872 Год назад +1

      We're also supposed to ignore the provocation of the husband's anger.
      Don't ask why he is angry, that would spoil the whole narrative

    • @ehilton7044
      @ehilton7044 Год назад +5

      @@Vid7872 No matter how angry he is - he shouldn't threaten or abuse his kids.

    • @GenXsinglefree
      @GenXsinglefree Год назад +5

      ​@@Vid7872
      No excuses. He can just leave if he feels anger rising.

  • @jeaninelaffin6946
    @jeaninelaffin6946 Год назад +2

    There are 2 sides to every story, both of these people were horrible, both used the kids against each other and both had a lot of issues and never should have been parents, EVER. Both of them. Period.

  • @nettiea9384
    @nettiea9384 Год назад +3

    I’m shook. An intelligent woman takes her life and leaves her girls alone to be raised by an abusive husband. 3 girls! Tragic. The video of the husband screaming hate to his wife like a lunatic in front of those impressionable children. How is that sane. He’s a maniac

    • @Vid7872
      @Vid7872 Год назад +1

      I wonder what happened before he yelled? And to think she had her phone ready to record

    • @GenXsinglefree
      @GenXsinglefree Год назад +2

      She actually didn't leave. She had no contact with her children by court order. She was dying and most likely wouldn't have lived to see justice done.

  • @elsands9774
    @elsands9774 Год назад +2

    Both the wife and husband were abusive to each other, and their children.

  • @patricialynn6280
    @patricialynn6280 Год назад

    How can she say there ate 2 sides to every story as if we didnt see 2 sides????

  • @integritymatters1180
    @integritymatters1180 Год назад +2

    Who follows their husband around with a camera in his own home?!?!? I'd go crazy too. Catherine allegedly had several restraining orders against her and 4 judges who presided over the custody battles and the courts gave sole custody to the father while she was still alive. There's a reason women lose custody over their children. I dated a mentally ill person for over 10 years, they send you crazy, they break you! We saw Allen at his worst, broken and exhausted. I wish Allen and his kids well.

    • @SuperBikeRacer7
      @SuperBikeRacer7 Год назад +5

      If you'd behave like Allan Kassenoff because someone was recording you, then you are the mentally unstable one not anyone you dated!🥴

  • @Vid7872
    @Vid7872 Год назад +3

    Because the NYP piece showed a very mentally unstable woman. The videos confirm that this woman provoked and provoked and provoked this man to his wits' end. They show her following him around the house more than Amber followed JD. And yet he is seen gathering his composure, walking away from the perpetrator, and never laying a hand on anyone. How much footage does she have of him not reacting at all, even brushing off her prodding which she doesn't want to show?
    Want to make a man enraged, incessantly hen peck him then follow him around until you record the reaction you need. He never published any video he has of her.
    The threat of suicide if she doesn't get her way is next level manipulation. Using your daughters to bait their own father into anger and then publish it on tik tok is work only a sociopath is capable of. Not even Amber used terminal disease to shield her from criticism.
    And not one of her family members has come out to defend her. No wonder every judge, despite her immense connections, has sided with the father.
    The article was quickly taken down because the comments weren't what Catherine was hoping for. The more you look into this case, the clearer it becomes that Catherine is the narc

    • @ehilton7044
      @ehilton7044 Год назад +5

      I disagree, this is a well educated man, a lawyer, he should have handled himself better, when did he think it was a good idea to threaten his kids say cruel things to them when they are trying to sleep, telling them no presents. What sort of guy does that? Calling his wife a fat loser? When you have to resort to name calling you have lost the argument. This guy is gutted now its gone viral, I hope a close eye is on him with regard to his children who will never forget this and hate him.

    • @GenXsinglefree
      @GenXsinglefree Год назад +5

      Here we go again, someo e making women responsible for men's behavior. Women endure pure mental and physical torture, but a man is so weak that he can't endure nagging or objective criticism.

    • @xarrengorre6682
      @xarrengorre6682 Год назад +2

      This @ Vid7872 is actually the abusive husband Allan speaking😅 well played

    • @ehilton7044
      @ehilton7044 Год назад

      @@xarrengorre6682 you have a point.

  • @RiseofTaitoShirei
    @RiseofTaitoShirei Год назад

    Allen i evil but Catherine isn't good either. Just poiting.

  • @CatherineRookasin
    @CatherineRookasin Год назад +9

    @iamcatherinekassenoff 💜💜💜

  • @gomonstor7509
    @gomonstor7509 Год назад

    Cathy probably denied a bunch of good guys only to end up with that crazy guy... Overall rip to her

    • @GenXsinglefree
      @GenXsinglefree Год назад +6

      You obviously haven't experienced the switch up. These men charm everyone. They're usually well-respected in the community, in their families, including in-laws. However, once the honeymoon ends, and particularly after the first child is born, he switches up on the woman. The facade remains for everyone else but the woman.