1. Don’t hate on other women 2. Big on personal development 3. Have hobbies and goals 4. Prioritize mental, spiritual & physical life. Constant re-engagement with self. 5. Learn,adapt & evolve from their experiences.
Being pretty, Neuro divergent, spiritually aware ,bold and authentic might as well mean unicorn. . You are a rare breed sis, and you will always be misunderstood until you become well known and fully established and successful on this journey . . I strongly believe women like us are sent here to create change and teach others how to break free from the mediocre standards society tries to box us in . . We are here to be the best version of ourselves first and and model to others how to do the same. . This is the path less traveled ,it’s the INFINITE GAME here. Meaning it’s a 24 hr -365 days a year job to believe in yourself ,and become the version of yourself. -No days off.😂😂😂…buts it’s all worth it.❤️💋
@@alonnaelaine Ido see you sis, and listening to you feel the same. Women like us are very rare and even though we may be far apart just know we are all here in the background rooting for you. ❤️💋
Girlllll you just CALLED me out here! Omg as a young, black, 26 year old girl trying to figure out my life right now and get back to myself😢 this was so powerful. I truly lost myself fully since Covid, and I am trying to rebuild my life and self from the ground up. This is really the video I needed to see, and hear❤
It is always & only from a place of love. Who you truly desire to be is waiting for you on the other side of that journey and I am so happy to see you want to meet her too. I had to call myself out first in order to get here! 😭😂♥️ Thank you for being here!
It’s ok, to see yourself and have the courage to change is very powerful. Give yourself grace and know that your “slip up” will actually be the piece of your story that someone needs to hear later on. You’ll be the reason they didn’t give up, because they could see themselves in you.♥️
Um ma’am, who told you all my business with my mother lol. Girl that mother daughter dynamic you hit right on the nail it’s scary. This is why I go to therapy because I would have never consciously recognize the toxic relationship I have with my mother and how to reparent/heal myself from it so I don’t repeat the cycle. TY🙏🏾
Sis! The way I’m staring at you on my tv screen is crazy!!! (eyebrow raised, Like where did you come from?! ) I’m cleaning my room minding my business while listening to you and you spoke FROM my soul! I wanted to hug you so bad lol.This is actually the first video of yours I came across and let me tell you.. I’m so happy I did❤ I genuinely hope one day we connect ❤️
So good. It’s like my inner monologue out loud. Through all the struggles woman experience to be against each other is so low energy and it saddens me. I still pray for them no matter what because being free in Gods love is like the fountain of youth. I wish for others to unlock all the levels to this spiritual experience. Well said. Ty.
So true, especially about the fountain of youth. This is what helped me let go of so much pain and anger. I understood it wasn’t meant for me to control. I had to step aside so God could heal those parts of me. It allowed me to go back to school, start my channel, and really align with my purpose of helping other women. Thank you for sharing your insight, it will help so many others on their journey.💕
8:49 I can’t stand it either! 9:00 I encounter this so much . Women often try to put me down after I have had a difference in opinion then theirs/others . The response I receive from them was completely unnecessary and I definitely was a loner growing up. 12:08 very real!! Me and my mother relationship is cooked , I confirmed it once my bf at the time mother pointed it out.
I really wanted to be understood. I really wanted friends and to fight my social anxiety and panic attacks. Exactly a decade later. I don't cry about wanting those things anymore. I don't cry, not understanding that it's me who has no guard and thinks everyone has good intentions. It's my fault for wanting to be like them and thinking they're heart is like mine. Now I cry for the girl I was. I'm sorry we didn't know how to handle the past, but from now on, it's going to be okay. We are about to learn. No one is going to make me feel this way again. I mean that.
Honestly, we are human and unfortunately - every game has to be played by its rules. It feels so unfair to be the kind of person who literally feels everything. However, your ability to experience life is on a deeper level energetically. You can’t know who your people are until you know who you don’t want to be close to. Try your best to change how you view your past selves, she is the reason your view has expanded. Her courage to try and fit in, is why you now know you’re meant for a different path. Crying is normal and a valid way of expressing our deeper emotions, just know it doesn’t mean you are weak or silly. No, not everyone has good intentions but they do miss out of those of us who do. Sending love my friend, you are not alone. ♥️
Can we talk about this in a sister capacity? 😮💨😮💨 So frustrating as the youngest sister trying to be successful and stabilize myself and an older sister comes with some snide comments
This was valuable information, it actually made me reflect instead of passively watching the video, you have gained a new subscriber👌🏾❤️ Side note: I’ve been procrastinating on joining a gym that provides classes and with watching this video I reached out to start my new journey with my fitness.
Wow, thank you so much for your love! Ahhhh! So proud of you for taking that next step! Your future self will remember this moment and be grateful you kept your promise to yourself. Sending love!♥️🦋
I'm DETACHING from a man whom embarked upon my territory after healin from EMOTIONAL TRAUMA from a previous relationship; I shoulda... Shoulda... Shoulda 😩😪😣
Learning is growing! Knowing & doing are two very different energies so figuring out why you’re struggling with doing what’s better for you, would really help. However it can be difficult, especially if we weren’t always given the room to express that part of ourselves. Be kind to yourself!♥️
YOUR ALMOST AT THAT THOUSAND! Such a great start!!!!!
Ahhhh!!!!🥹🙏🏾♥️
Pinning this comment to remember how far we’ve come🫶🏾🦋
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1. Don’t hate on other women
2. Big on personal development
3. Have hobbies and goals
4. Prioritize mental, spiritual & physical life. Constant re-engagement with self.
5. Learn,adapt & evolve from their experiences.
Thank you for taking the time to watch and write notes!♥️🙏🏾🥹 I appreciate you!
Yes
When they benefit from your lack of boundaries 🥹
Being pretty,
Neuro divergent, spiritually aware ,bold and authentic might as well mean unicorn.
.
You are a rare breed sis, and you will always be misunderstood until you become well known and fully established and successful on this journey .
.
I strongly believe women like us are sent here to create change and teach others how to break free from the mediocre standards society tries to box us in .
.
We are here to be the best version of ourselves first and and model to others how to do the same.
.
This is the path less traveled ,it’s the INFINITE GAME here. Meaning it’s a 24 hr -365 days a year job to believe in yourself ,and become the version of yourself.
-No days off.😂😂😂…buts it’s all worth it.❤️💋
That was so beautiful, it felt like a warm hug from a friend I haven’t seen for a bit. Thank you for being you and for seeing me. 🥹🙏🏾♥️
@@alonnaelaine Ido see you sis, and listening to you feel the same. Women like us are very rare and even though we may be far apart just know we are all here in the background rooting for you. ❤️💋
Girlllll you just CALLED me out here! Omg as a young, black, 26 year old girl trying to figure out my life right now and get back to myself😢 this was so powerful. I truly lost myself fully since Covid, and I am trying to rebuild my life and self from the ground up. This is really the video I needed to see, and hear❤
It is always & only from a place of love. Who you truly desire to be is waiting for you on the other side of that journey and I am so happy to see you want to meet her too. I had to call myself out first in order to get here! 😭😂♥️ Thank you for being here!
COVID threw me off my tracks. Self isolation made me stagnant. I’m just getting back to myself, shifted mindsets and dropped the COVID weight
It’s ok, to see yourself and have the courage to change is very powerful. Give yourself grace and know that your “slip up” will actually be the piece of your story that someone needs to hear later on. You’ll be the reason they didn’t give up, because they could see themselves in you.♥️
@@alonnaelaine thank you🥹
Um ma’am, who told you all my business with my mother lol. Girl that mother daughter dynamic you hit right on the nail it’s scary. This is why I go to therapy because I would have never consciously recognize the toxic relationship I have with my mother and how to reparent/heal myself from it so I don’t repeat the cycle. TY🙏🏾
Sis! The way I’m staring at you on my tv screen is crazy!!! (eyebrow raised, Like where did you come from?! ) I’m cleaning my room minding my business while listening to you and you spoke FROM my soul! I wanted to hug you so bad lol.This is actually the first video of yours I came across and let me tell you.. I’m so happy I did❤ I genuinely hope one day we connect ❤️
Wow! 🥹😭 I love that! I am so glad our frequency aligned!♥️♥️ To feel less alone in this world because you have found your tribe is a soul level flex!
So good. It’s like my inner monologue out loud. Through all the struggles woman experience to be against each other is so low energy and it saddens me. I still pray for them no matter what because being free in Gods love is like the fountain of youth. I wish for others to unlock all the levels to this spiritual experience. Well said. Ty.
So true, especially about the fountain of youth. This is what helped me let go of so much pain and anger. I understood it wasn’t meant for me to control. I had to step aside so God could heal those parts of me.
It allowed me to go back to school, start my channel, and really align with my purpose of helping other women. Thank you for sharing your insight, it will help so many others on their journey.💕
Shifting my mindset to I can be just as abundant. Was deep .
I too can have the things I see.
Absolutely! Those mindset shifts are sooo powerful!♥️
This was therapeutic. Hope your well continues to be full with wisdom. Thank you babes 🫶🏾
Awww that is so kind! Thank you🥹🦋🙏🏾♥️
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Great tips! Thank you for sharing 🫶🏾
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I love this! I can relate to so many points ❤
That’s amazing, so glad you liked it♥️
Love this video! i had this urge to grow as a woman and these tips did help me. thank you!!!
That’s amazing! So glad it helped♥️♥️🥰
So many great tips, I actually got a notebook and took notes.
🥹🙏🏾♥️thank you so much!
It’s like having a chat with my big sister…Thank you so much🥹💖
Aww I love this.🥹🥹♥️🥰
8:49 I can’t stand it either! 9:00 I encounter this so much . Women often try to put me down after I have had a difference in opinion then theirs/others . The response I receive from them was completely unnecessary and I definitely was a loner growing up. 12:08 very real!! Me and my mother relationship is cooked , I confirmed it once my bf at the time mother pointed it out.
I really wanted to be understood. I really wanted friends and to fight my social anxiety and panic attacks. Exactly a decade later. I don't cry about wanting those things anymore. I don't cry, not understanding that it's me who has no guard and thinks everyone has good intentions. It's my fault for wanting to be like them and thinking they're heart is like mine.
Now I cry for the girl I was. I'm sorry we didn't know how to handle the past, but from now on, it's going to be okay. We are about to learn. No one is going to make me feel this way again. I mean that.
Honestly, we are human and unfortunately - every game has to be played by its rules. It feels so unfair to be the kind of person who literally feels everything. However, your ability to experience life is on a deeper level energetically. You can’t know who your people are until you know who you don’t want to be close to. Try your best to change how you view your past selves, she is the reason your view has expanded. Her courage to try and fit in, is why you now know you’re meant for a different path. Crying is normal and a valid way of expressing our deeper emotions, just know it doesn’t mean you are weak or silly. No, not everyone has good intentions but they do miss out of those of us who do. Sending love my friend, you are not alone. ♥️
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Wow! This is so good! Thank you for this!
Thank you so much!!♥️🦋
This video made me feel so much better ❤️
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Can we talk about this in a sister capacity? 😮💨😮💨 So frustrating as the youngest sister trying to be successful and stabilize myself and an older sister comes with some snide comments
Mmmmm!! This! 😭😭♥️
This was so good and true!! New subbie 👑
Thank you so much for being here!!♥️♥️
Newly subscribed! You’re inspirational❤️
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Honyyyyy I love this 💯❤️
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Greatly enjoyed this video
Nailed it.
This was valuable information, it actually made me reflect instead of passively watching the video, you have gained a new subscriber👌🏾❤️
Side note: I’ve been procrastinating on joining a gym that provides classes and with watching this video I reached out to start my new journey with my fitness.
Wow, thank you so much for your love! Ahhhh! So proud of you for taking that next step! Your future self will remember this moment and be grateful you kept your promise to yourself. Sending love!♥️🦋
@@alonnaelaine thank you so much and sending love back!
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I love your videos
🙏🏾🙏🏾thank you!
Awesome content. Well done!
Thank you so much for your kind words & positive energy 🙏🏾♥️🦋
New subscribers from Namibia ❤
♥️🦋🥹 Wow! Thank you for being here!
You are soo pretty ❤.
Thank you so much!🙏🏾🦋
Yes girl thank you for your video 🤍 +1 follower ☺️
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Thanks Ja Zak Allah for your tips Alonna🤍! I’ve been asking God for confidence and to be patient w pp in my life..
That is beautiful, thank you for sharing that. These comments are confirmation for me as well.🙏🏾♥️
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♥️♥️ thank you for being here!
New suscriber here.. omg GIRRRLLL i wana be your friend 😂👌🏼❤️❤️❤️
😭🫶🏾 I love you for that!
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I'm DETACHING from a man whom embarked upon my territory after healin from EMOTIONAL TRAUMA from a previous relationship; I shoulda... Shoulda... Shoulda 😩😪😣
Learning is growing! Knowing & doing are two very different energies so figuring out why you’re struggling with doing what’s better for you, would really help. However it can be difficult, especially if we weren’t always given the room to express that part of ourselves. Be kind to yourself!♥️
I love all of the advice you gave! New subscribers here I wish I would’ve found your channel sooner!! 🩷
Aww thank you so much!