I’m not even in college yet, still in high school but this advice helps out a lot. Being able to learn that the outcome wasn’t based on you but the struggles and outlook they have in their lives brings me a little comfort.
this is another amazing video Jacob. love the advice u give out in this vid. i lowkey miss the ear to ear type whisper u did a while back. hopefully u can do it once again someday
I’m honestly just sick of people it’s so hard to find a loyal person even as a 17 year old to me these days either it’s someone who’s egoistic or someone who’s lusting over other women or cheating.. then there’s people who can’t stop watching corn and have high expectations from their partner. THEN there’s people who only care about materialistic things or about physics. THEN there’s people who can’t stop keeping secrets and are just not loyal and keep cheating. Is there really still true love out there? I want someone who loves my soul someone who’s genuine :(
was with my girl for 2 years but found out she cheated on me yesterday, bro i was so blind she was literally everything you js said (- the corn part), can’t expect to find much @17yo
I hate to sound like a boomer but you are so young bruh, please don't let a couple of bad experiences ruin dating for you. I know it feels like it's a lost cause but if you focus on yourself and do your best, and most importantly, be patient, you will end up with who you're supposed to
Happy new years! Could you make a trigger words video? I love your whispers, absolutely godlike! I just cannot fall asleep to ramble or talking videos, because I focus too much on what’s being said (which is a ridiculous problem since I love whispering asmr😭)
You have yet to experience soul crushing heartbreak so you’re pretty smart and should be glad that you’re learning good advice before you actually step out into the dating world
Im 23 and never had a boyfriend before, but I met a dude at a bar in a town neither of us live in, and we went on a date last friday! So far it seems like it’s going well and I feel like I got super lucky
Just do your best and don't be too hard on yourself. And know that time heals all. I never thought I would EVER get over my first gf. Show up every day trying to be a little better and you'll get there
How are you doing now? Honestly one day you just wake up and notice that the thought of them is no longer this soul crushing, heart wrenching feeling anymore, and instead maybe just a light wave of nostalgia, and that’s when you know you’ve made it out. Time does heal all
do u guys have any tips on how to set up boundaries with ur boyfriend about him being super friendly with his girl best friend it sorta makes me uncomfortable and i don’t know how to talk to him about it i don’t wanna like tell him and then he’ll be like oh ig i can’t have friends like how do i get my point across that i just wanna set boundaries
If I were u, for starters tell him that you want to be honest with him, since you trust him as a partner, and that u want to communicate what you have been feeling. Try to pin point specific things that make you uncomfortable, so that he doesn't misunderstand into thinking "she doesn't like me having female friends", and maybe come with alternative ways they could interact without you feeling weird or just putting the situation in perspective (or flipping the scenario and asking him if he'd feel weird if he were you). Always be emphatic w ur love for him and try to be understanding with his POV, try to reach a middle ground where both of u are comfortable
@ i’ve never been in a relationship so don’t listen to much to my advice but i think focus on yourself and have self confidence in yourself and the right girl will come into your life sooner or later, some guys are just late boomers, like me 🤷🏼♂️
I don’t need dating advice I just need plastic surgery and I’m actually waiting on my appointment in a month from now No one needs dating advice they need plastic surgery because the only dating problems people have are superficiality and shallowness to end the problem = plastic surgery!!
A love that is based on looks just means you haven't found the one, because someone out there will always be prettier, and even those also get cheated on.
My advice is to bump into strangers and spill hot coffee on them in a bookstore. Works every time
Instructions unclear; I am now permanently disfigured and part of a multimillion dollar lawsuit
@@Sleepsludge A multimillion dollar lawsuit, the biggest love of all
@@SleepsludgeI love when people are funny
was 3rd degree burns apart of the advice too..
I’m not even in college yet, still in high school but this advice helps out a lot. Being able to learn that the outcome wasn’t based on you but the struggles and outlook they have in their lives brings me a little comfort.
If I had to pick one thing out of this whole list it would be that one. Just do your best and you have nothing to hang your head about
I hope my future boyfriend is watching this video
agreed
I'm watching it 🤷
i hope my future girlfriend is watching this video
hi from Jacob (asmr)
i read ur name as beautifulasauruswoman and pictured a dinosaur 🦕 im also a taurus
Thank you for sharing your learned lessons, your vulnerability is appreciated as is the format. Your soft whispers are very soothing 💗
Thank you!
Bro just gave me a reality check 😭
another jacob banger. appreciate you for sharing so much of your wisdom through lived-experience and for being so open.
Ahlie safe
August where tf have you been homie
this is another amazing video Jacob. love the advice u give out in this vid. i lowkey miss the ear to ear type whisper u did a while back. hopefully u can do it once again someday
You look like you were created by Tim Burton in the coolest way possible
I’ve never been in a relationship before and I’m taking so much notes thanks to these videos 😅😂❤thanks Jacob !!!
This was so helpful as someone who just turned 21 and has no idea how to navigate the start of my 20s!!😭
I'd say just don't put a lot of pressure on yourself, you're gathering data rn
I’m honestly just sick of people it’s so hard to find a loyal person even as a 17 year old to me these days either it’s someone who’s egoistic or someone who’s lusting over other women or cheating.. then there’s people who can’t stop watching corn and have high expectations from their partner. THEN there’s people who only care about materialistic things or about physics. THEN there’s people who can’t stop keeping secrets and are just not loyal and keep cheating. Is there really still true love out there? I want someone who loves my soul someone who’s genuine :(
Jus have hope !
was with my girl for 2 years but found out she cheated on me yesterday, bro i was so blind she was literally everything you js said (- the corn part), can’t expect to find much @17yo
Have Faith🙏
I hate to sound like a boomer but you are so young bruh, please don't let a couple of bad experiences ruin dating for you. I know it feels like it's a lost cause but if you focus on yourself and do your best, and most importantly, be patient, you will end up with who you're supposed to
@ thank you 🫶🏼
Stumbled upon this exclusively for relaxation purposes and ended up receiving some excellent advice. Thanks mane
Thank you so much for this! I really needed this. My dating life has been a joke, but I know it will get better with these tips. Thank you again
Thank you! Invite me to the wedding when it works out
Happy new years! Could you make a trigger words video? I love your whispers, absolutely godlike! I just cannot fall asleep to ramble or talking videos, because I focus too much on what’s being said (which is a ridiculous problem since I love whispering asmr😭)
20 years old and have avoided all romantic relationships with men. (Thank you parents) 😂
You have yet to experience soul crushing heartbreak so you’re pretty smart and should be glad that you’re learning good advice before you actually step out into the dating world
Lame loser
There's no rush, don't force it
Im 23 and never had a boyfriend before, but I met a dude at a bar in a town neither of us live in, and we went on a date last friday! So far it seems like it’s going well and I feel like I got super lucky
That's so cool, good luck!
Happy New Year!!❤🎉 Hope you’re doing well
Please do a semi inaudible whispering video!!
I love your buzz cut jacob
I'm not even dating but I listened to the whole video 😌
thank youuuu! just met the love of my life last week
jacob bro come back
Jacob thank you for sharing a piece of advice to us!! We really appreciated!! Hope you're doing well Big bro!!🙌❤️
This is genuinely great advice, thanks!
Can you do another video with the two mics? 😊
first boyfriend just broke up with me recently so i’m learning everything from the start it hurts but gotta start somewhere
Just do your best and don't be too hard on yourself. And know that time heals all. I never thought I would EVER get over my first gf. Show up every day trying to be a little better and you'll get there
How are you doing now? Honestly one day you just wake up and notice that the thought of them is no longer this soul crushing, heart wrenching feeling anymore, and instead maybe just a light wave of nostalgia, and that’s when you know you’ve made it out. Time does heal all
The buzz suits you my man 👊🏻
watched this video although i have been with my bf since i was 14 (we’re 19 now) because you have a very nice whisper
you gotta grow that hair out gang, look like you finna star in the next serial killer movie
I disagree. I think his hairstyle is just fine (maybe I'm a lil' biased because I look exactly like that).
I have good news for you. My hair does grow
I'm done with dating... what belongs to me will find me🌻
But aye I'm here for the asmr😴
U r so real for that.
miss you king
Great video ❤
Thank you for this
Dating is real hard fr
aye less go bro w video
Hope my future husband would think just like you
Yayyyy now I can go to sleep
Where are you Jaaaacob. Hope you’re all good ❤❤
come back king
Ngl your eyes scared the sht out of me in the thumbnail lol 🤍
I saw this video in my feed and thought hey why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it’s interesting to hear a guys perspective! Great asmr too bonus lol
Thank you! Glad you took a chance on me
Your videos are always inspiring and comforting somehow. Began to wonder what’s your mbti haha, infj/infp?
I have to retake it but like five years ago i was infj
the hell am i watching this for when I've NEVER dated and have NO interaction with boys whatsoever?
Cuz it's fun to dream about. your day will come dw
@@jacobdreamsasmr 💗 lets hope i guess
Thanks babe
Just do breath sounds in mic it's alright don't hold you're breathing because it's stressful 😂❤ anyway good video thanks
You are literally me
I really enjoyed this ASMR video and all of your advice but for being honest only advice you should be following is don’t be desperate .
My friends call me a loser
Don't listen to them
do u guys have any tips on how to set up boundaries with ur boyfriend about him being super friendly with his girl best friend it sorta makes me uncomfortable and i don’t know how to talk to him about it i don’t wanna like tell him and then he’ll be like oh ig i can’t have friends like how do i get my point across that i just wanna set boundaries
If I were u, for starters tell him that you want to be honest with him, since you trust him as a partner, and that u want to communicate what you have been feeling. Try to pin point specific things that make you uncomfortable, so that he doesn't misunderstand into thinking "she doesn't like me having female friends", and maybe come with alternative ways they could interact without you feeling weird or just putting the situation in perspective (or flipping the scenario and asking him if he'd feel weird if he were you). Always be emphatic w ur love for him and try to be understanding with his POV, try to reach a middle ground where both of u are comfortable
Yo bro we need a new video!
I love you
miss you buddy
Time to come back
idk bru i just want someone who will let me stare at them awkwardly without saying anything💔💔
mood 😩
@@Alijah.Gamia99 alijah gets it😞🤞
wow
😌‼️
ok fine
Vro chill
yo you look like chic from riverdale
you look angry af in that thumbnail there jacob
My bad i was locked in
I just met someone, I’ll writing this down!!!
I hope it's going well so far, good luck
I’m 21 I’ve asked out 54 girls I’ve dated 1 been with 1 she cheated on me and then tried to ruin my life
atleast you have the confidence to ask girls out some guys are too scared to
@ at what point does it just stop like I can’t keep going on this
@ i’ve never been in a relationship so don’t listen to much to my advice but i think focus on yourself and have self confidence in yourself and the right girl will come into your life sooner or later, some guys are just late boomers, like me 🤷🏼♂️
@ I’ve been told that for years but I’ll keep being optimistic
@ yeah man, just stay positive and i’m sure you’ll find the one right for you
eyyyy
we need a other video ur gone too long
dude why do you look so depressed(ง •_•)ง
it’s his resting face?
I don’t need dating advice I just need plastic surgery and I’m actually waiting on my appointment in a month from now No one needs dating advice they need plastic surgery because the only dating problems people have are superficiality and shallowness to end the problem = plastic surgery!!
A love that is based on looks just means you haven't found the one, because someone out there will always be prettier, and even those also get cheated on.
I hope you heal
severe brainrot case
I enjoy ur videos but pls don't always make it about romance
Let him do what he likes 😼
@@dianavaskovicova9462 I'm not forcing him to stop duh
Romance is everything
where’s the West Ham asmr amirite (soucek)
@@Anishaaaaa1998 no.