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I liked that you keep your private like a way from RUclips That's the best thing for both of you I hope she liked the gift ❤i wish you a happy anniversary

Books are by far the best way to run away from your problems

The buzz suits you my man 👊🏻

I love these videos. every video I watch I want to walk away feeling like I learned something, and you’re videos make me feel like I’m actually filling my head with knowledge and not brain rot for once😂 keep it up bro!🫶

you remind me a lot of Dan Humphrey from Gossip Girl but in a really good way, you both have the same vibe

1:09 could somebody please tell me how to get my shit sorted out (I'm /) We're on a break with my boyfriend of four years and we're probably going to break up soon. He was a very nice escape from reality but now... It's scary. I'm probably gonna drop out if uni... I'm 21(also not american and not a native english speaker) I'll use the comment section as therapy ✨ I'm so scared that I'm going to fail in life... It's my 5th semester and it's really hard(research is hard) and I'm not really invested in my major. Also I thought I had this one thing in life that was a success - I did this one thing right. Got a boyfriend. My first and my last... Well... Guess not. I'm heartbroken. He is too probably. We have grown apart and... We've given the relationship a second and even a third chance. Yes, I feel like shit... I can't sleep without asmr and without thinking about my future failing. Now what... Trail and error is so much better as a saying. Practice is pain.(sounds like victim behaviour but honestly... That's what I have and.. Yes, that's my best right now)

watched this video although i have been with my bf since i was 14 (we’re 19 now) because you have a very nice whisper

I am sorry for your negative experience with that Uber driver, we are not all like that.

ok fine

Thank you for this

This is so sweet the amount of thought and effort😭 also a great video I was crackin up. Good luck topping that lol. Happy late anniversary to you guys!!

Wise words.

same!! I'm a Pisces too😊

I also just finished “Demon Copperhead”!! Fantastic book! Also love the “dawn fm” and “more life” posters.. ovoxo

dude why do you look so depressed(ง •_•)ง

You look like you were created by Tim Burton in the coolest way possible

Please do a semi inaudible whispering video!!

do u guys have any tips on how to set up boundaries with ur boyfriend about him being super friendly with his girl best friend it sorta makes me uncomfortable and i don’t know how to talk to him about it i don’t wanna like tell him and then he’ll be like oh ig i can’t have friends like how do i get my point across that i just wanna set boundaries

Obsessed w this video and the way you’ve articulated it. It’s just filled me with optimism in my single era 😌

Your experience helps me, I can say that much. The only social media I consume is from RUclips (mostly ASMR) so when I'm needing a distraction, lately I've found your videos to be a good fix. I can relate to a lot of what you talk about through your videos, including the anecdote about searching through different media to hopefully find that one missing piece of the puzzle that'll make my experience make any sort of sense. Ironically, your videos are apart of that journey for me as I sit and wait for the epiphanies to roll in, and luckily a few have. Your girlfriend sounds pretty amazing, especially after what she said about not taking what popular, high produced, self-help podcasts tell you at face value (paraphrasing). I wanted to leave a comment like that on another one of your videos but couldn't word it that nicely or in a way that didn't sound condescending, especially from a stranger on RUclips. I digress, I share this opinion, and hold it for anything on Tiktok or Instagram or whatever media. There's no proof of intent in any of those statements, especially ones online, and that's why I turn to RUclipss and try to think about tapping or whispering idk. When I leave comments (which I've recently learnt is really fun, especially getting thumbs up and comments. This must be what making friends feels like!) my intent is to try and be that epiphany you're panning for. Regardless of my anonymity, I can understand that words are words and I hope they might mean something to you, or anyone else that reads. To contradict myself entirely about face value and trusting strangers with uncertain intentions (which reminds me that you can never entirely know what someone else is thinking. Never. Sorry to drop that so suddenly), I'd like to give you some advice, from my own experience. First of all, I've dabbled in the recording of myself to try and legitimise my existence (not labelling this as your experience, just mine). This was born out of something a therapist told me when I was a kid, which was to record conversations with interesting characters in my life (trying to remain anonymous here, but trust me, it's an interesting story) so I didn't have to try so hard to remember every detail for my next appointment. This theory of hitting record did help, but then it turned dark sided when I found myself recording every important conversation, every difficult moment, just trying to record everything. They were only audio recordings, but I referred to it as "documenting". I was simply documenting my life, but it had become a compulsion because in my mind, if I wasn't recording my difficult conversations then I wouldn't be able to refer to them later and therefore the entire conversation was pointless. The point is, the cycle was very unhealthy and I've ceased doing it. Your segment on recording yourself, or as I'd say, "documenting", for your future kids reminds me of that. It'd be cool to actually have a conversation with you about it, but I'll leave it with two questions. If your parents had done the same thing, would you watch the days of footage? And do you think it would help you? Another unprofessional piece of advice I'd like to randomly throw in is about your reading habits. About getting in a routine, then that routine becomes the bare minimum so you have to 'improve' on it until that 'improvement' becomes the new bare minimum. This behaviour reminds me of a few of my OCD tendencies. Do what you will with this information... Anyways. I do wonder what you'll think when you see this chapter of a comment. Hope this shit isn't too intrusive for you, and if it is please let me know so I can just tune in to relax and tune out my own existentialism. And yeah, I'm six months late again and I'm aware that you might have overcome all these crises by now (fingers crossed), so I gotta do better at following your journey more chronologically. I hope you've got people to talk to and I hope those people let you know that a problem shared is a problem cut in half.

What’s it like to know that 23 thousand people wanted to hear you be so honest?

I’m 21 I’ve asked out 54 girls I’ve dated 1 been with 1 she cheated on me and then tried to ruin my life

thank youuuu! just met the love of my life last week

I'm not even dating but I listened to the whole video 😌

I saw this video in my feed and thought hey why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it’s interesting to hear a guys perspective! Great asmr too bonus lol

Wait I loved this video so much, it was so wholesome and sweet. And the existential crisis in the mirror was very relatable 😂 I hope she loved her gift! My song recommendations are: The Holy Shangri-La by Foster the People; Pretty Lady by Tash Sultana; and Walk The Line by Jadu Heart

You gotta let us know if the frame arrived intact or broken. The postal service is so abysmal now I’m afraid to send anything that may get damaged.

yo you look like chic from riverdale

I'm done with dating... what belongs to me will find me🌻

I don’t need dating advice I just need plastic surgery and I’m actually waiting on my appointment in a month from now No one needs dating advice they need plastic surgery because the only dating problems people have are superficiality and shallowness to end the problem = plastic surgery!!

Jacob thank you for sharing a piece of advice to us!! We really appreciated!! Hope you're doing well Big bro!!🙌❤️

Just do breath sounds in mic it's alright don't hold you're breathing because it's stressful 😂❤ anyway good video thanks

You're very articulate, it's really satisfying to hear someone go into depth about such complex topics like you have in this video. At 13:17 you said, "I almost feel embarrassed or ashamed whenever I tell somebody about something that's bothering me". This hit really close to home and I wanted to ask you about it. I'm glad you addressed any possible irony in your statements later on in the video, but I want to know if this 13:17 quote applies to your videos? Do you feel similar emotions with talking on RUclips as you do talking to someone in person? Do you experience vulnerability hangovers after hitting 'post'? I hope you don't, and I thought I'd mention it because I think it's a positive sign that you feel comfortable being honest here. For some more irony, I think advice from online can be reallllly shitty, and needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Personally, I get overwhelmed if I have two pieces of advice that contradict each other, let alone possibly the entire internet. I do hope you find the advice or read an experience that helps you become more comfortable in yourself and less existential. I'm aware that this video is 6 months old and my advice might be old news since perhaps you've found your way through this already (hopefully!). I felt obliged to comment as your situation sits very similarly to mine, and perhaps most men our age. It's a really difficult perspective to have (I'm speaking for myself) when you advocate for men's mental health but not for your own. You seem like a cool, introspective, and thoughtful guy and those who you feel comfortable around should cherish that. Also the ear to ear was really cool. Is it easier to do than just the one mic?

you look angry af in that thumbnail there jacob

The drop in views for this video in contrast to the surrounding ones tells me some *viewers* aren't too happy about the title... 🤣😭👀😬 I really like the vid idea tho 👌🏽

Dating is real hard fr

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insurance cut me off my medicine and “permanent sleep” has been on my mind heavy. i can’t afford therapy so having this insight could really help me. thank you.

Kinda ironic to get an advice from a guy on the Internet who suggests to not take any advices from the people on the Internet.

“The goal is peace, not happiness” is something I got from Kevin Durant. It’s probably the best single piece of advice there is

the hell am i watching this for when I've NEVER dated and have NO interaction with boys whatsoever?

idk bru i just want someone who will let me stare at them awkwardly without saying anything💔💔

you said hello 7 times damn

you kinda looks like sheldon cooper, that's a compliment!

Based on your book preferences, I'd highly recommend East of Eden by John Steinbeck, and White Oleander by Janet Fitch. Should check them out if you haven't already read :)

Ngl your eyes scared the sht out of me in the thumbnail lol 🤍

Also self theraphy is the best kind because you know yourself better than anyone ever will, shadow work has helped me so much 🙏🏼

Theraphy is amazing for you, even theraphists need theraphy! There is nothing like discovering youself from the perspective of someone else and deep diving into spaces in your mind youve never been ❤ also love this just come across your channel

I really enjoyed this ASMR video and all of your advice but for being honest only advice you should be following is don’t be desperate .

I’m honestly just sick of people it’s so hard to find a loyal person even as a 17 year old to me these days either it’s someone who’s egoistic or someone who’s lusting over other women or cheating.. then there’s people who can’t stop watching corn and have high expectations from their partner. THEN there’s people who only care about materialistic things or about physics. THEN there’s people who can’t stop keeping secrets and are just not loyal and keep cheating. Is there really still true love out there? I want someone who loves my soul someone who’s genuine :(