thank you for actually (maybe unknowingly) promoting a healthy attitude towards speaking about / discussing kinda existential topics. i think we're all kind of lost here and are just perpetually making mistakes, learning and searching for purpose, which can be quite overwhelming at times (a state which, as i understood, you had or have been going through), and hearing you speak instead of sitting in hollow silence after asking these questions is very comforting in a way -- i'd argue, to anyone who's watching. so thanks :) i wish you and your viewers a very nice day
His eyes are so deep and mesmerizing, it feels as though he’s truly seeing into me, even through the screen. Your videos are wonderful; great job with the whispers, they’re my favorite trigger.
1. Hamilton - Satisfied or Kirill Richter - trio in 1d 2. All of my happiest moments are with my family or friends, our laughs. I can’t choose just one, every laugh is equally important for me 3. My stupid deal breaker (more of an ick tbh) is biting nails, or dirty nails, ugly nails in general 4. I would buy this very expensive camera the name that I forgot, it costs about 4-5k. It is a digital camera that shoots like a film camera. A lot of celebs have it 5. Glasses, wavy hair, veeeery smart, from a very small family, that he’s not close with, so he’ll be more connected to mine, works for himself 6. Acts of service. and I hate words of affirmation, words mean nothing to me, which is sucks sometimes. When person is honest with you, but you don’t believe him 7. I prefer being around specific people, if it’s strangers then I’d stay by myself. This year I’m trying to challenge myself to be more outgoing 8. “If this situation could be solved, then don’t stress about it, if it can’t be solved, then what is the reason to stress about?” 9. I do want kids, I want 2, gender doesn’t matter (but I kinda really want daughter). But having kids is not my priority in life, or my goal. I want be sad if don’t have them (I hope I don’t be sad) 10. Creative, good leader, trend setter (I know what will be trendy) 11. I don’t think that people have a purpose in life. I personally think that I’m lucky to have a dream that drives me forward, or for some people I believe that not having a dream is also ok, like you do you, I do me. I think that the only “purpose” is to be ok. To feel safe, sometimes happy, sad, and etc. but in general to be ok
Man those were such good answers. I think what you said about your happiest memories being laughs is so on point. A lot of the moments I remember best are when I was laughing the hardest. Thank you for taking the time to respond it means a lot
Had to comment again to answer the music question! Probably would play Ancora by Ludovico Einaudi. It’s a piano piece, no lyrics, but it truly speaks to my soul. It’s a longer song that takes some time and patience to get through, but the latter half is especially spectacular and I just love how the piece feels like the perfect metaphor to express this journey that is life, that is the seasons of our existence. It’s so funny too, because the word “ancora” in Italian apparently means “still”… I can’t help but think that the composer named it that to be intentionally paradoxical.
@@jacobdreamsasmr I’m so glad you liked it! I haven’t been into piano music as much lately, but he is by far one of my favorite composers and I’ve listened to the album that piece is on hundreds of times over the past couple of years. Piano music definitely isn’t for everyone, but I find it to be perfect to listen to when I’m in a very contemplative or sentimental mood. That album especially is amazing to listen to while looking out a window on a rainy or wintry day and just taking the whole atmosphere in.
you seem to have such an amazing personality i just stumbled upon your channel and i can’t wait to see you grow. your crispy whispers are so relaxing and the way you turn your head to exhale every now and then is so fetching i instantly followed you. this questions were amazing too wow
Genius video, love the way you consider yourself sm sort of "overthinker" and even self'destructive sometimes...i can completely relate into that. You got my sub
1- bags by clairo or vienna by billy joel 2- i guess it was when i went to a taylor swift concert in another state with one of my best friend's but when i think about this question i've always remembered about my childhood & random moments in my high school 3- for sure whenever a person is being rude with their parent or when they let random peoples talk shit about someone they suppose love idk its just weird to me 4- i would def get the first plane to italy if it was summer there hahaha that was my first thought. but being realistic i was probably buy something for my mom or my sister 5- that was a hard one but someone that is not ashamed to be w me, someone that i could have that type of comfortable silence, someone that respects me when i need to be alone (bc im a introvert and overthinker). idc about physical aspects 6- quality time or acts of service 7- you made two questions so i preferred to be alone but if you'd invited me to this party, i would def go w you just bc you seem pretty chill to be around 8- "the time will pass anyway" idk how to formulate that but it work in my head 9- yes, i do want to have just one daughter that i would call elena. but yk it's not my priority or dream to have a child, even bc i have this side on me that thinks that it's selfish to have kids when the world is almost ending so idk its easier in theory 10- empathetic, funny as well and optimistic? idk 11- if i have one, i didn't discover what is it yet. i have some dreams that seems too crazy but are the ones that beats harder on my heart yk? but i have no idea if they are my purpose or just something that i've put unconsciously in my head. im sorry if i wrote something wrong, english isn't my first language but i really wanna to answer those amazing questions !!! i love your channel 💓💓💓
Those were such good answers. 4ever by Clairo used to have me in a chokehold bruh. And Elena is a beautiful name btw good pick. Thank you for taking the time to answer it means a lot
For the song: “The Stable Song”, by Gregory Alan Isakov ft. the Colorado Symphony Orchestra. It changed my life and is beyond worth the 6 minutes of your time it will take to listen. For the quote: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou Awesome video and video wonderful channel. As someone finishing up school here I feel we’re in very similar boats trying to figure out a place in this world. Thanks
I’ll play that song as soon as I’m done filming, thanks for the rec. And that quote is great. One of my favorite parts about making videos is the ability to make other people feel things. It’s so powerful and lasting
Ooh, love that song and definitely went through my own Gregory Alan Isakov phase a few years back. I’m not sure if I’ve ever heard the orchestra version though, so I’ll have to check it out sometime too.
seconding this, I love that song! remember the first time I heard it it wasn't just the music, there's a line that goes "turn me back into that wild-haired gale" and just so happens my name is gail and my hair is super curly and untamed ;) so I got shivers all over when I heard it. it's a beautiful beautiful song
We’ve been blessed 🙌🏻 For the song, it would be Slip by Majid Jordan. I love almost all their songs and music so it’s hard to choose. Summer by Calvin Harris is so memorable and iconic for me also!
There is something so soothingly evocative about this video :) Lately, I would probably play 'won't you come home' (devendra banhart's) or 'chance' (angel olsen's) depending on my mood/disposition that day. Similarly, I resonate with many - and quite diverse - quotes depending on where my sensibility is at throughout my daily littlewhile-s, which makes sticking with one too difficult. I definitely thrive with Fleabag's dialogues and tonight these lines strike a chord - a raw yet encouraging self reminder rather than a mantra I stick by - 'I don’t believe you can pray your problems away. I think you have to face who you are and suffer the consequences. It’s the only road to happiness.'
I'll queue both of those songs rn while I'm working, thanks for the recs. And that quote is great. So much time I spent trying to avoid my problems or come up with a different solution to them could've been spent just sucking it up and going through it. It reminds me of a book called "The Obstacle is the Way"
would totally recommend “when you die” by mgmt. i honestly dig their whole discography since imo, they’re one of the few raw and genuine artists that still exist today. ermmm i would also recommend listening to their s/t album and their “Little Dark Age” album - both great pieces that get me thru the insanity of harsher realities sometimes
I’m listening to the song rn and this is fire bruh, thank you for the rec. the buildup to the drop and the little string sounds are so good. I’ll listen to the album at the gym later
You should really listen to “wish it was me” by obongjayar, the lyrics describe being so in love and admiring a person so beautifully. I think you’d love it
firstly I was thinking, why do you look the other ways, like not at the camera for not so long but like as little breaks idk. Then I noticed that your whispers are sooo good and only regular whispering almost made me tingle and stuff. And then I noticed that you breath out when you look somewhere else, so you don't breath directly in the mic. I tought that that is just so sweet somehow and then I got soo good tingels!! 💗💗
I’m so glad to hear that, I try to balance having good whispers and talking about entertaining subjects so that means a lot to hear. Thanks for watching!
you’re so effortlessly funny and charismatic☺️ loved the whispers and interesting questions! definitely a new subscriber upd. my list of songs is trilogy album by the weeknd
Mantra- “Only focus on what I can actually control, which is not how some reacts to you being honest.” And “ you have all the answers you need, you are just not listening to your gut.”
Yo Jacob hope you're doing well man just gonna put my answers here. 1. I gotta feeling - black eyed peas. It holds good memories, the time of my life where I was growing up and honestly who doesn't love it. 2. Winning the final in my football game, year 6. I had no worries I was a kid, I was 10? 11? all year was leading up to this one day and I was very sick. I think it was the only day I ever went to school feeling that bad haha, they didnt want to send me home but they knew how much I wanted to play. During school we were building stuff outside, my goalie kit was all black and it was May/June. I was struggling lmao. We were dominating the other schools, and honestly during this time being in goal was all I cared about. Obviously, I was in goal, my teammates saw how bad I was, I saved one goal and they saw how badly I went down. It was a really hot day, like a really hot day, my head hurt so bad lmao. The rest of the game I didnt really see the ball, they knew I clearly wasn't well enough to play so they made sure to keep it on the other end. We won 10-0. I physically felt terrible but emotionally I have never felt so good. 3. My gut says no too, I presume maybe one day I will but, I'm an adult now. Not a kid anymore, I have real life struggles. Maybe one day if I no longer have financial struggles or mental health problems, a good day will come. 4. No smoking, your just destroying your body. Not to get deep but my mates aunt passed recently from lung problems. It was the smoking that killed her n there is a gofundme because he cant pay for funeral expenses.. anyway.. No over drinking, yeah I guess once in awhile its fun but every weekend? and then ofc vaping. Fills your lungs with liquid, its not good man. I'm so basic tbh man, have a hobby to work on instead of bad habits. 5. Pay for my mates top surgery. He deserved happiness and the nhs is shit with trans problems and anything actually, I want my mates to be happy. But if it was for me, honestly I dont know man, maybe a new guitar or maybe ill get an electric one. 6. This is tough. I'd need someone who understands my emotions, who knows I struggle to articulate things like a normal person. To comfort me when needed. Who wont get mad about my forgetfulness haha. I dont ask for much really, I just want someone kind. 7. Physical touch and words of affirmation, listen I wont admit this to anyone in my real life but when I really love someone, hugs 24/7. I'm a cuddly guy and thats cringe to say but I just am. 8. Depends, my first thought for everything is no because I like being alone. Recently though ive been ore inclined to say yea because I just want to be around people, it's more fun. Creates more memories. 9. Yeah I do, "There's only one of you in the world, and that is more than good enough. Be unapologetically yourself." 10. No, I don't want kids. The world is fucked and I don't want them living in something we have left dying. Also I'm terrible with kids.. I can't handle the screaming and I have no time or money. 11. Ahh I hate this question man, I guess im creative, I like playing guitar. Active. I love sports, any sport I wanna play, basketball, volleyball, football, tennis, everything. Serious, some people like it, most don't.. I do my best to chill though lmao.
Those were all such good answers, I gotta feeling is one of my best friends favorite songs too. And we need you to put the boots back on and get in goal for arsenal bruh they lost the cl today. Thank you so much for taking the time to respond, you are so cool for doing that
I love questions 1. LMAO my mysterious identity but also still me would say siberia by lights / polish girl by neon Indian but inner child me would say safe and sound by capital cities/ walking on a dream by empire of the sun all of those songs are similar vibe wise. I guess that's just who I am inside. :p 2. I was with my cousins and we just finished binging Bridgeton lol, we were on that sleepover high so we just started fcking LARPing 18th century england in their room 😭 we gave each other titles and ballroom danced and there was even a makeshift horse drawn carriage using the closet door. we also staged a beheading in that same night 💀 but it was so so fun we were all just putting on dumb british accents and laughing nonstop (we're all adults/ almost adults so its crazy that we were doing all that). I think by the time we fell asleep it was 5am and we had to get up at 9 😭 3. I sure hope I do!! I hope I can reach that bond with my friends too :) 4. not sure how to describe it, but I hate people who are comfortable reducing people. i.e those people who can meet someone and be 100% comfortable making assumptions and sticking by them forever. the idea of my partner sticking me into one box in their head and keeping me there makes me super uncomfortable. I used to talk to a guy who would constantly call me quirky and he meant it somehow as a compliment/observation but it just felt gross because im just me. similarly I used to listen to some kpop but to this day my dad and sister who (no offence love them sm) are pretentious af about it. My obscurify score is 82 and they know this already but my dad will still only initiate music convrsations with my sister. which is cool and all but if I have to deal with that from my spouse it’s either a divorce or homicide! Lol. 5. an iPhone 6, a scooter, lifetime membership to an iceskating rink, and that one house I saw in my neighbourhood that I really envy + all its furniture 6. I hope my future partner is someone soft spoken and kind and sees the good in people + gives them room to be themselves. And if they have a hobby they’re really passionate about that’s super hot im sorry. 7. I love acts of service especially when it’s something most people would overlook. Yay 8. Im an extrovert and like meeting people but somehow still prefer feeling alone. i like my own company because I dont have to think as much about it 9. These days its “inaction is a decision” by my history teacher lol. I have a bad habit of blaming other factors when things go wrong but it reminds me that its always a choice 10. Tbh no, but if it happens anyway ideally id let them become their own person and try to have v minimal influence. I do like working with and talking to kids but I feel like its deeper than that 11. funny, emotionally intelligent, witty, good listener (UMM loaded much) 12. I dont think I have a calling I could probably do a lot of things. im existing but I want to be good at it ! overall this was such fun video I thoroughly enjoyed it. thank you for making it u seem very introspective and self aware.
Those were such good answers bruh I feel like I just read your lore. I totally get what you mean about people being mean and using those weirdly negative adjectives to describe a person. I’m reading a book rn about leading w love and it’s kinda making me realize all of my favorite people are the ones who lead w positivity or at least open mindedness. Thanks again for sharing I loved reading your responses
@@jacobdreamsasmr HAHAHA thats so kind of you considering i was just oversharing 😭 i 100% agree those are my favourite people too! thank you for taking the time to readdd ☺ this was a very peaceful experience, looking forward to what ull put out next!
There’s a New Day Coming by Menahan Street Band because as much as I relate to the content of your videos and the ~struggles~ of having no fucking clue what we’re doing as 20-somethings, I think we could all benefit from looking to what lies ahead and imagining a truly fulfilling life for our futures
I have said many times vaping is a massive dealbreaker for me. 😮💨 I’d prefer someone who doesn’t smoke at all as a non smoker myself but I’m more willing to date a cigarette smoker than someone who vapes bc then they’re at least forced to go outside to get their nicotine fix but the idea of someone waking me up bc they think I’m laying on top of their vape at night stresses me out 😩
Hahah it is kind of a 180. I just got tired of the reaction genre, I always tried to be lighthearted but it inherently still felt a little mean if that makes sense
please, please, please let me get what i want by deftones, song choice reflects the lack of not having a happiest day yet. deal breaker, unmotivated to pursue living life.
I’ll queue that while I do chores rn. And those acts of service are so meaningful bruh. And I’m so glad that’s been helping you that’s the coolest thing ever
Idk why, I had a VIVID image of what you looked like (I had my phone down while sleeping and this auto played so I couldn’t see your face) and you look NOTHING like it I feel so stupid 💀
You are my comfort asmr artist
Its so cute how he makes sure we know his gf is amazing
I feel him. If I was him I would too. Our loved ones deserve that!
Honestly that’s so me, i love her so much and all around me must know that.
Awesome whisper rambles! You’re one of the few who does them both well and creates long form content. Keep it up!!
That's the best thing to hear, thank you so much! I'm recording again today so I'll have something else for you soon
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I genuinely love seeing that you have uploaded a video🏄🫶🏻
I genuinely love seeing you in the comments thank you for watching
Let’s do what we can to hype up this channel! Link on bigger ASMRtists, share with friends, comment/like/subscribe, let’s hype Jacob up!!!!
You being here is more than enough
thank you for actually (maybe unknowingly) promoting a healthy attitude towards speaking about / discussing kinda existential topics. i think we're all kind of lost here and are just perpetually making mistakes, learning and searching for purpose, which can be quite overwhelming at times (a state which, as i understood, you had or have been going through), and hearing you speak instead of sitting in hollow silence after asking these questions is very comforting in a way -- i'd argue, to anyone who's watching. so thanks :) i wish you and your viewers a very nice day
Thank you for the kind words! I look for any reason to get existential so these videos are a good excuse to do so
don’t break my heart by the weeknd is a certified hit in my bed room!! real recognizes real.
bop!
It's triple platinum in my shower stg
His eyes are so deep and mesmerizing, it feels as though he’s truly seeing into me, even through the screen. Your videos are wonderful; great job with the whispers, they’re my favorite trigger.
1. Hamilton - Satisfied or Kirill Richter - trio in 1d
2. All of my happiest moments are with my family or friends, our laughs. I can’t choose just one, every laugh is equally important for me
3. My stupid deal breaker (more of an ick tbh) is biting nails, or dirty nails, ugly nails in general
4. I would buy this very expensive camera the name that I forgot, it costs about 4-5k. It is a digital camera that shoots like a film camera. A lot of celebs have it
5. Glasses, wavy hair, veeeery smart, from a very small family, that he’s not close with, so he’ll be more connected to mine, works for himself
6. Acts of service. and I hate words of affirmation, words mean nothing to me, which is sucks sometimes. When person is honest with you, but you don’t believe him
7. I prefer being around specific people, if it’s strangers then I’d stay by myself. This year I’m trying to challenge myself to be more outgoing
8. “If this situation could be solved, then don’t stress about it, if it can’t be solved, then what is the reason to stress about?”
9. I do want kids, I want 2, gender doesn’t matter (but I kinda really want daughter). But having kids is not my priority in life, or my goal. I want be sad if don’t have them (I hope I don’t be sad)
10. Creative, good leader, trend setter (I know what will be trendy)
11. I don’t think that people have a purpose in life. I personally think that I’m lucky to have a dream that drives me forward, or for some people I believe that not having a dream is also ok, like you do you, I do me. I think that the only “purpose” is to be ok. To feel safe, sometimes happy, sad, and etc. but in general to be ok
Man those were such good answers. I think what you said about your happiest memories being laughs is so on point. A lot of the moments I remember best are when I was laughing the hardest. Thank you for taking the time to respond it means a lot
Had to comment again to answer the music question! Probably would play Ancora by Ludovico Einaudi. It’s a piano piece, no lyrics, but it truly speaks to my soul. It’s a longer song that takes some time and patience to get through, but the latter half is especially spectacular and I just love how the piece feels like the perfect metaphor to express this journey that is life, that is the seasons of our existence.
It’s so funny too, because the word “ancora” in Italian apparently means “still”… I can’t help but think that the composer named it that to be intentionally paradoxical.
Let me put it on rn and get back to you, thanks for the rec
I feel like I'm in a different world rn listening to this, I don't usually listen to piano pieces but this is sick
@@jacobdreamsasmr I’m so glad you liked it! I haven’t been into piano music as much lately, but he is by far one of my favorite composers and I’ve listened to the album that piece is on hundreds of times over the past couple of years.
Piano music definitely isn’t for everyone, but I find it to be perfect to listen to when I’m in a very contemplative or sentimental mood. That album especially is amazing to listen to while looking out a window on a rainy or wintry day and just taking the whole atmosphere in.
I don’t know why but everytime you upload it gives me a relief to know that you’re still there 😮💨😮💨
Analysing yourself to the point of self destruction 😂 man knows me
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@@jacobdreamsasmr ❤️
these questions were AMAZING
Hahaha thank you I spent way too long picking them. I just didn't wanna ask the typical stuff
you seem to have such an amazing personality i just stumbled upon your channel and i can’t wait to see you grow. your crispy whispers are so relaxing and the way you turn your head to exhale every now and then is so fetching i instantly followed you. this questions were amazing too wow
Thank you! That means a lot
Genius video, love the way you consider yourself sm sort of "overthinker" and even self'destructive sometimes...i can completely relate into that. You got my sub
1- bags by clairo or vienna by billy joel
2- i guess it was when i went to a taylor swift concert in another state with one of my best friend's but when i think about this question i've always remembered about my childhood & random moments in my high school
3- for sure whenever a person is being rude with their parent or when they let random peoples talk shit about someone they suppose love idk its just weird to me
4- i would def get the first plane to italy if it was summer there hahaha that was my first thought. but being realistic i was probably buy something for my mom or my sister
5- that was a hard one but someone that is not ashamed to be w me, someone that i could have that type of comfortable silence, someone that respects me when i need to be alone (bc im a introvert and overthinker). idc about physical aspects
6- quality time or acts of service
7- you made two questions so i preferred to be alone but if you'd invited me to this party, i would def go w you just bc you seem pretty chill to be around
8- "the time will pass anyway" idk how to formulate that but it work in my head
9- yes, i do want to have just one daughter that i would call elena. but yk it's not my priority or dream to have a child, even bc i have this side on me that thinks that it's selfish to have kids when the world is almost ending so idk its easier in theory
10- empathetic, funny as well and optimistic? idk
11- if i have one, i didn't discover what is it yet. i have some dreams that seems too crazy but are the ones that beats harder on my heart yk? but i have no idea if they are my purpose or just something that i've put unconsciously in my head.
im sorry if i wrote something wrong, english isn't my first language but i really wanna to answer those amazing questions !!! i love your channel 💓💓💓
Those were such good answers. 4ever by Clairo used to have me in a chokehold bruh. And Elena is a beautiful name btw good pick. Thank you for taking the time to answer it means a lot
Thank you for putting in what appeared to be great effort in not exhaling onto the mic 😌
1 minute in and I’m already stressed…. But continue 🫣
Can you do more videos like this? I appreciate your energy and vibes. Thanks for the good sleep 👍🏽
Of course, if you have any topic recs or ideas please let me know, I'm brainstorming rn
For the song: “The Stable Song”, by Gregory Alan Isakov ft. the Colorado Symphony Orchestra. It changed my life and is beyond worth the 6 minutes of your time it will take to listen.
For the quote: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou
Awesome video and video wonderful channel. As someone finishing up school here I feel we’re in very similar boats trying to figure out a place in this world. Thanks
I’ll play that song as soon as I’m done filming, thanks for the rec. And that quote is great. One of my favorite parts about making videos is the ability to make other people feel things. It’s so powerful and lasting
Ooh, love that song and definitely went through my own Gregory Alan Isakov phase a few years back. I’m not sure if I’ve ever heard the orchestra version though, so I’ll have to check it out sometime too.
seconding this, I love that song! remember the first time I heard it it wasn't just the music, there's a line that goes "turn me back into that wild-haired gale" and just so happens my name is gail and my hair is super curly and untamed ;) so I got shivers all over when I heard it. it's a beautiful beautiful song
@@Amber24426 the orchestral version of if I go im going made me cry lol highly recommend
you remind me a lot of Dan Humphrey from Gossip Girl but in a really good way, you both have the same vibe
We’ve been blessed 🙌🏻 For the song, it would be Slip by Majid Jordan. I love almost all their songs and music so it’s hard to choose.
Summer by Calvin Harris is so memorable and iconic for me also!
I love majid jordan, one i want and summer's over interlude are soooo good. I'll listen to slip rn
There is something so soothingly evocative about this video :)
Lately, I would probably play 'won't you come home' (devendra banhart's) or 'chance' (angel olsen's) depending on my mood/disposition that day.
Similarly, I resonate with many - and quite diverse - quotes depending on where my sensibility is at throughout my daily littlewhile-s, which makes sticking with one too difficult.
I definitely thrive with Fleabag's dialogues and tonight these lines strike a chord - a raw yet encouraging self reminder rather than a mantra I stick by -
'I don’t believe you can pray your problems away. I think you have to face who you are and suffer the consequences. It’s the only road to happiness.'
I'll queue both of those songs rn while I'm working, thanks for the recs. And that quote is great. So much time I spent trying to avoid my problems or come up with a different solution to them could've been spent just sucking it up and going through it. It reminds me of a book called "The Obstacle is the Way"
i would play i know it’s over by the smiths. also you have such an awesome whispering voice 😭 i love your videos :)
Thank you! I'll queue it rn
That was fire, great rec
@@jacobdreamsasmr omg so glad u liked it !!
No matter what your relationship status is The Smiths have it covered, especially if you know it’s falling apart. Awesome choice!❤
2:45 the questions start
im so glad you answer too because it makes me irritated when they respond with something and it was nowhere near to what i said lmaoooo
The Spins by Mac miller obviously
would totally recommend “when you die” by mgmt. i honestly dig their whole discography since imo, they’re one of the few raw and genuine artists that still exist today. ermmm i would also recommend listening to their s/t album and their “Little Dark Age” album - both great pieces that get me thru the insanity of harsher realities sometimes
I’m listening to the song rn and this is fire bruh, thank you for the rec. the buildup to the drop and the little string sounds are so good. I’ll listen to the album at the gym later
you’re a very luminous person 🤍
if the only genre they listen to is rap i’m sorry i can’t do it i can’t 😭
Nah cause same
That's a hill I would die on with you. All my guy friends who only listen to rap have severe emotional issues. Still love them though
@@jacobdreamsasmr yupp there’s definitely a type of person that comes along with that and respectfully they aren’t for me☠️
@@jacobdreamsasmr LMFAO 😭
Stumbled upon this & quickly subscribed! Your enunciation & pace of speaking are incredibly relaxing. You’re so good…& so very handsome as well.❤️
Thank you! I’ve been trying to make the whispering as good as possible so it means a lot to hear you say that
this is so relaxing I love your channel now 😂
Hope you’re doing well brother
You should really listen to “wish it was me” by obongjayar, the lyrics describe being so in love and admiring a person so beautifully. I think you’d love it
I'll listen rn while I edit
bruh this is so good I already love it
@@jacobdreamsasmr hahaha I’m glad, I was obsessed with it when I first discovered it :)
You're gorgeous
save me ethnically ambiguous man with kind eyes
Thanks for doing what you’re doing 🩶
Song- Thrift shop by Macklemore, I know all the lyrics AND young gravy “Opps” lol
This is calming Love it
firstly I was thinking, why do you look the other ways, like not at the camera for not so long but like as little breaks idk. Then I noticed that your whispers are sooo good and only regular whispering almost made me tingle and stuff. And then I noticed that you breath out when you look somewhere else, so you don't breath directly in the mic. I tought that that is just so sweet somehow and then I got soo good tingels!! 💗💗
I’m so glad to hear that, I try to balance having good whispers and talking about entertaining subjects so that means a lot to hear. Thanks for watching!
you’re so effortlessly funny and charismatic☺️ loved the whispers and interesting questions! definitely a new subscriber
upd. my list of songs is trilogy album by the weeknd
That album is so good great pick. And thanks for watching!
Mantra- “Only focus on what I can actually control, which is not how some reacts to you being honest.” And “ you have all the answers you need, you are just not listening to your gut.”
Those are both great, I really like the second one, I have a hard time trusting my gut but in hindsight it usually ends up being the better choice
@@jacobdreamsasmr something I learned in therapy lol you have to learn to trust yourself and the choices you make, that is true self confidence
great video!!! btw I would play ‘Waves’ remix by robin Schulz
Yo Jacob hope you're doing well man
just gonna put my answers here.
1. I gotta feeling - black eyed peas. It holds good memories, the time of my life where I was growing up and honestly who doesn't love it.
2. Winning the final in my football game, year 6. I had no worries I was a kid, I was 10? 11? all year was leading up to this one day and I was very sick. I think it was the only day I ever went to school feeling that bad haha, they didnt want to send me home but they knew how much I wanted to play. During school we were building stuff outside, my goalie kit was all black and it was May/June. I was struggling lmao. We were dominating the other schools, and honestly during this time being in goal was all I cared about. Obviously, I was in goal, my teammates saw how bad I was, I saved one goal and they saw how badly I went down. It was a really hot day, like a really hot day, my head hurt so bad lmao. The rest of the game I didnt really see the ball, they knew I clearly wasn't well enough to play so they made sure to keep it on the other end. We won 10-0. I physically felt terrible but emotionally I have never felt so good.
3. My gut says no too, I presume maybe one day I will but, I'm an adult now. Not a kid anymore, I have real life struggles. Maybe one day if I no longer have financial struggles or mental health problems, a good day will come.
4. No smoking, your just destroying your body. Not to get deep but my mates aunt passed recently from lung problems. It was the smoking that killed her n there is a gofundme because he cant pay for funeral expenses.. anyway.. No over drinking, yeah I guess once in awhile its fun but every weekend? and then ofc vaping. Fills your lungs with liquid, its not good man. I'm so basic tbh man, have a hobby to work on instead of bad habits.
5. Pay for my mates top surgery. He deserved happiness and the nhs is shit with trans problems and anything actually, I want my mates to be happy. But if it was for me, honestly I dont know man, maybe a new guitar or maybe ill get an electric one.
6. This is tough. I'd need someone who understands my emotions, who knows I struggle to articulate things like a normal person. To comfort me when needed. Who wont get mad about my forgetfulness haha. I dont ask for much really, I just want someone kind.
7. Physical touch and words of affirmation, listen I wont admit this to anyone in my real life but when I really love someone, hugs 24/7. I'm a cuddly guy and thats cringe to say but I just am.
8. Depends, my first thought for everything is no because I like being alone. Recently though ive been ore inclined to say yea because I just want to be around people, it's more fun. Creates more memories.
9. Yeah I do, "There's only one of you in the world, and that is more than good enough. Be unapologetically yourself."
10. No, I don't want kids. The world is fucked and I don't want them living in something we have left dying. Also I'm terrible with kids.. I can't handle the screaming and I have no time or money.
11. Ahh I hate this question man, I guess im creative, I like playing guitar. Active. I love sports, any sport I wanna play, basketball, volleyball, football, tennis, everything. Serious, some people like it, most don't.. I do my best to chill though lmao.
Those were all such good answers, I gotta feeling is one of my best friends favorite songs too. And we need you to put the boots back on and get in goal for arsenal bruh they lost the cl today. Thank you so much for taking the time to respond, you are so cool for doing that
@@jacobdreamsasmr cheers man, loved the video. Haha playing for arsenal would be a dream man, devastated they lost the cl. No worries man it was fun
this video felt like 10 minutes😮 subscribed✅️
loved this plus you’re funny
I love questions
1. LMAO my mysterious identity but also still me would say siberia by lights / polish girl by neon Indian
but inner child me would say safe and sound by capital cities/ walking on a dream by empire of the sun
all of those songs are similar vibe wise. I guess that's just who I am inside. :p
2. I was with my cousins and we just finished binging Bridgeton lol, we were on that sleepover high so we just started fcking LARPing 18th century england in their room 😭 we gave each other titles and ballroom danced and there was even a makeshift horse drawn carriage using the closet door. we also staged a beheading in that same night 💀 but it was so so fun we were all just putting on dumb british accents and laughing nonstop (we're all adults/ almost adults so its crazy that we were doing all that). I think by the time we fell asleep it was 5am and we had to get up at 9 😭
3. I sure hope I do!! I hope I can reach that bond with my friends too :)
4. not sure how to describe it, but I hate people who are comfortable reducing people. i.e those people who can meet someone and be 100% comfortable making assumptions and sticking by them forever. the idea of my partner sticking me into one box in their head and keeping me there makes me super uncomfortable. I used to talk to a guy who would constantly call me quirky and he meant it somehow as a compliment/observation but it just felt gross because im just me.
similarly I used to listen to some kpop but to this day my dad and sister who (no offence love them sm) are pretentious af about it. My obscurify score is 82 and they know this already but my dad will still only initiate music convrsations with my sister. which is cool and all but if I have to deal with that from my spouse it’s either a divorce or homicide! Lol.
5. an iPhone 6, a scooter, lifetime membership to an iceskating rink, and that one house I saw in my neighbourhood that I really envy + all its furniture
6. I hope my future partner is someone soft spoken and kind and sees the good in people + gives them room to be themselves. And if they have a hobby they’re really passionate about that’s super hot im sorry.
7. I love acts of service especially when it’s something most people would overlook. Yay
8. Im an extrovert and like meeting people but somehow still prefer feeling alone. i like my own company because I dont have to think as much about it
9. These days its “inaction is a decision” by my history teacher lol. I have a bad habit of blaming other factors when things go wrong but it reminds me that its always a choice
10. Tbh no, but if it happens anyway ideally id let them become their own person and try to have v minimal influence. I do like working with and talking to kids but I feel like its deeper than that
11. funny, emotionally intelligent, witty, good listener (UMM loaded much)
12. I dont think I have a calling I could probably do a lot of things. im existing but I want to be good at it !
overall this was such fun video I thoroughly enjoyed it. thank you for making it u seem very introspective and self aware.
Those were such good answers bruh I feel like I just read your lore. I totally get what you mean about people being mean and using those weirdly negative adjectives to describe a person. I’m reading a book rn about leading w love and it’s kinda making me realize all of my favorite people are the ones who lead w positivity or at least open mindedness. Thanks again for sharing I loved reading your responses
@@jacobdreamsasmr HAHAHA thats so kind of you considering i was just oversharing 😭 i 100% agree those are my favourite people too! thank you for taking the time to readdd ☺ this was a very peaceful experience, looking forward to what ull put out next!
THANK YOUUUU
Hi Jacob 👋. I am a new subscriber. Have a good day ☀️.
Thanks for watching! You have a great day too
Love this video Jacob. 🥰❤️
There’s a New Day Coming by
Menahan Street Band because as much as I relate to the content of your videos and the ~struggles~ of having no fucking clue what we’re doing as 20-somethings, I think we could all benefit from looking to what lies ahead and imagining a truly fulfilling life for our futures
I'm gonna put that in the queue rn thanks for the rec
This is fire, I could so see myself driving home at night windows down listening to this
Great video 🫶🏽🥱
Thanks!
just out of curiosity, why do you turn your head and exhale so much? I just happened to notice it
I’m trying not to exhale into the mic, I don’t wanna be too loud
loveee ur videos
hell of a night by travis
don’t break my heart >>>
You’re so good looking. You remind me of that guy from Being Human. ❤
I’d play Don’t worry baby by The Beach Boys
I'll queue it rn
Wow 20 seconds in and I already like this a lot. It kinda makes me feel romantic for some reason
@@jacobdreamsasmr totally bro. Beautiful song. Their harmonies are unmatched. Forever my number one band.
Underrated
Yay 😊
Great video! also by any chance did you ever make tiktoks reacting to cringey thirst traps?
Perhaps
You’re so real
Thanks girl
If I had 1 million dollars I would buy
1: Porsche GT2RS
2: Kawasaki Ninja
3: some mods for my Bimmer that I have right now
Is that exciting enough?😅
❤
why did we say the exact same two things for what’s a deal breaker in a relationship w the same point of view😭😭
Great minds think alike
For the record, u are funny, at least to me 🫂
I'm gonna write that on my whiteboard so I never forget it
I'm just gonna be honest...
YOU ARE SO HANDSOME🫣.
( cool video btw )
I love this 🫠🫠🫠🫠
I have to subscribe now
id play kaan enna tahoun by fairouz my lebanese queen
I have said many times vaping is a massive dealbreaker for me. 😮💨
I’d prefer someone who doesn’t smoke at all as a non smoker myself but I’m more willing to date a cigarette smoker than someone who vapes bc then they’re at least forced to go outside to get their nicotine fix but the idea of someone waking me up bc they think I’m laying on top of their vape at night stresses me out 😩
Hahah I totally get what you mean. Watching people realize they lost their vape is equal parts funny and concerning
YAY
IM BACK AGAIN
These vids wouldn't be the same without you
That, happiest day question didnt have an answer for me ngl, was probably no older than 5 the last vacation i had
Nice video
You started an Asmr channel?????
Not like judging or anything i just used to watch you on TikTok in 2020 and your videos were so funny so this is a hard switch I think
Hahah it is kind of a 180. I just got tired of the reaction genre, I always tried to be lighthearted but it inherently still felt a little mean if that makes sense
Subscribing
You look kinda like a young Jake Gyllenhaal
please, please, please let me get what i want by deftones, song choice reflects the lack of not having a happiest day yet. deal breaker, unmotivated to pursue living life.
Let me add it to the queue rn
Bruh this is so good, it kind of reminds me of iris by the goo goo dolls. It's making me feel angsty but in a good way if that makes sense
@@jacobdreamsasmr it’s like a plead, listen to smiths version, it’s more optimistic:’)
I woul defenitely play life is a high way🤌🤌
Okay read this pls, i would play you Sultans of Swing, by Dire Straits, so pretend thats the only song you can listen rn, and go find it, thakyou
❤❤❤
you are handsome af
i would play you ten second silence by guilty joy
I would spend every last of those million dollars decking out a recording studio with the best equipment
also once my bf washed my dishes for me out of literally nowhere and I cried on my way to work bc I never felt so loved in my life
lately my go to reminder to myself has been "7 out of 10" so thank you for that ❤
I’ll queue that while I do chores rn. And those acts of service are so meaningful bruh. And I’m so glad that’s been helping you that’s the coolest thing ever
You are a tan version of my brother (he is as light as paper) how can that be
Shaved head looks much better
I kinda think we’re just here to reproduce and live until Jesus comes
Sometimes I really think I'm just here to survive and reproduce. On my caveman vibes
isso foi bem intimista. amei
36:33
this guy is so hot
Как мило
2:58 Man, I'm just going to ask God for forgiveness or run away, I'm a Muslim girl 😭🤝
Free palestine 🍉
You look like oscar Isaac. Grow your beard, and you're good to impersonate him.
King🤍
can you do asmr with your gf
We're agreeing to contract terms over subject matter and compensation rn
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Idk why, I had a VIVID image of what you looked like (I had my phone down while sleeping and this auto played so I couldn’t see your face) and you look NOTHING like it I feel so stupid 💀
Did I exceed or fall below expectations
@@jacobdreamsasmr idk neither??? You were a different fucking race 💀
That’s crazy bruh what did you think I looked like
@@jacobdreamsasmr idk how to describe it but you were black 😭
Why do you whip your head side to side? It is very distracting.
To avoid breathing into the mic. If you close your eyes you won’t see it
@@jacobdreamsasmr it's relaxing hearing the breathing. Please try it without turning away, I don't think people will complain. I subscribed anyway.
uhh maybe 4 the song id choose places by bdfi its like one of my favs rn, im like..a nerd and stuff its kind of my theme rn :p 🌷🪷 5:32