ASMR Getting you Ready for a Date (Gentle Whispers)

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024
  • If you end up marrying this person, I'm gonna need an invite to that destination wedding
    Short video helping you get ready for a first date, talking about the modern dating scene, love and relationships, asking you some questions about your thoughts and feelings on first dates.

Комментарии • 72

  • @doe.little
    @doe.little 5 месяцев назад +146

    I feel like this channel is slowly becoming you just being our dating coach 😂

    • @euphoria_6543
      @euphoria_6543 5 месяцев назад +6

      i would nottt be complaining🤣

    • @roachemani
      @roachemani 4 месяца назад +14

      some ppl actually pay for dating coaches, so yall be grateful we gettin this for free 😭

    • @Ksh-0-
      @Ksh-0- 4 месяца назад +4

      I’m honestly okay with that cause I’m learning “ how to love Lil Wayne voice “ lmaooo

  • @cinnamonboy20000
    @cinnamonboy20000 5 месяцев назад +48

    love that you're smiling in ur thumbnail!

    • @-Dynamite
      @-Dynamite 5 месяцев назад +2

      same. W jacob

    • @Jose-es9xy
      @Jose-es9xy 4 месяца назад

      ❤❤

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +9

      I was a little worried about switching it up but I'm really glad you like it. Sometimes I feel like my thumbnails are all the same and get old, idk if you feel the same, or do you like the consistency?

    • @cinnamonboy20000
      @cinnamonboy20000 4 месяца назад +4

      @@jacobdreamsasmr honestly i think some smiling ones would be nice just as a little break and show us a different side that we all get to see in your videos! but ofc whatever you feel comfortable with, we will still watch no matter how the thumbnail looks :)

  • @euphoria_6543
    @euphoria_6543 5 месяцев назад +26

    your lighting for your videos is so easy on the eyes and so cinematic, i really appreciated that

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +2

      That's great to hear, I have this ancient light box that attaches to my camera, idk if you could tell but I haven't used it the past couple vids cuz it dies so quickly, but I did this time and the lighting is way better

  • @zorosboyfriend
    @zorosboyfriend 5 месяцев назад +10

    his smile is so cute

  • @charlizemoran
    @charlizemoran 4 месяца назад +11

    aww ur thumbnail is so cute! maybe its bc i fall asleep to ur videos so quick, but i dont really see u smile much so this is a nice surprise. great video as always, thanks for the nice rest before my trip tmr :))

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +5

      For some reason I forgot I do asmr and when I was picking a thumbnail I was like oh let me switch it up and pick a smiling one, they've seen me smile I'm sure it's fine. And then I remembered that nobody looks at the screen past the first 5 seconds. And I was right cuz a couple of people said it scared them. But I'm glad you like it hahaha

  • @Beautifultauruswoman
    @Beautifultauruswoman 5 месяцев назад +11

    I wish I could play this in a Bluetooth earpiece for my first date next week… both to relax me and so I know what he’s going to ask next

  • @kyleethepanda
    @kyleethepanda 2 месяца назад +1

    About the questions thing... I would say its entirely dependent on the person to whom you are speaking, but generally I think most girls enjoy when a guy asks interesting and engaging questions. The issue lies in the fact that every girls definition of interesting is going to be different and so I just say go for it and find out. Me personally, I love when a guy asks interesting maybe some would say "weird" questions because it shows he cares and that he himself is interesting.

  • @capatcho4380
    @capatcho4380 4 месяца назад +2

    Just came to say I would love if you did another advice video. I have watched the full 2 hours of it at least 3 times. I know it was probably tons of work so no rush, just want you to know your work was appreciated and we would love another one!

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      I love advice vids so that’s a great idea, do you have any specific topics you’d want addressed?

    • @capatcho4380
      @capatcho4380 4 месяца назад +1

      @@jacobdreamsasmr I love any advice you give catered towards just being a person in your early 20s figuring life out.
      Specifically though, I would love some advice on building relationships, both romantic and platonic.
      I moved about a year ago from a small town in Oregon, to Orlando. I love it here. I love my job, I love the city, I love my home, but I haven’t made a single friend.
      I have some amazing friends from back home that I keep very close contact with so I haven’t really been lonely, but it’s just not the same as if they were here.
      I have met a few people through bumble bff/ facebook groups, but I am just so picky. If there is one small red flag or something I dislike I’m done with them. I am the same way with romantic relationships.
      I want close friends like I used to have, but I value my alone time so much and I find that the average person tends to like me more than I like them then I just end up hurting their feelings.
      Sorry it’s so long, but I just wanted you to get the full picture. I’m not sure if this is even something you can help with, but i’ve just been struggling with it.
      Thanks!

  • @mashaasmr3522
    @mashaasmr3522 5 месяцев назад +1

    Jacob omg i got so sweet and kind vibes watching this video,you’re so shiny and have so positive energy!! thank you so much for new amazing video💗

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      That's so sweet of you, thank you! I'm glad you liked it

  • @CoIorado.
    @CoIorado. 4 месяца назад +2

    loved your smile on thumbnail

  • @purfectangelboy
    @purfectangelboy 4 месяца назад +1

    the smile in the thumbnail is giving major homelander vibes, halloween homelander roleplay when

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +1

      Somehow me smiling in the thumbnail is even more sociopathic than the soulless stare I usually do. Have you watched any of the new season yet, I haven't

    • @purfectangelboy
      @purfectangelboy 4 месяца назад

      yes!! the new season is so good, i always watch discussion videos afterwards cause this season has so much potential

  • @heenyhoney
    @heenyhoney 4 месяца назад

    i can’t sleep cuz some of the things you’re saying are so funny lmao (neighbour’s dog,finance book etc😭😭)

  • @heenyhoney
    @heenyhoney 4 месяца назад

    i was about to fall asleep but u asked for 5 seconds to come up wd an example on what kinda out of pocket questions u used to ask in highschool,but still didn’t come up wd anything after a loong pause was OUTRAGEOUS lol

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      I messed that part up so badly bruh I swear I had like five examples before I recorded

  • @minghaonator
    @minghaonator 4 месяца назад +2

    This is crazy cuz this Saturday I’m literally going on my first first date in months 🤯

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +2

      Then this video truly was for you, good luck and have fun

  • @maddy_walker
    @maddy_walker 4 месяца назад +2

    bro this dude that I like asked me out yesterday!!! I’m def gonna play this while i’m getting ready for my first date 😊 Thank you!! 🙏 ❤

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      Let's goooo congrats bruh, have fun, if it works out I expect a wedding invite

  • @yeehawyippee9365
    @yeehawyippee9365 4 месяца назад

    HAHHAHA “wish you were on a first date” thank you i do 😭

  • @christopherjaydenphoenix
    @christopherjaydenphoenix 4 месяца назад

    I am really good with nerves. I think there was one date I went on that I was like super nervous because I didn’t want to say or do anything awkward but after many dates I just try to stay cool and not be so much in my head.

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      Experience definitely helps, I hope you still get excited about it though

  • @amirs.escapade
    @amirs.escapade 4 месяца назад

    never looked better thank you kind sir 🙂‍↕️🫶🏾

  • @cindymohamedkheir
    @cindymohamedkheir 4 месяца назад

    ohh yaaaay just in time for bed ❤

  • @kaaallli
    @kaaallli 4 месяца назад

    My fav channel ❤️

  • @Anishaaaaa1998
    @Anishaaaaa1998 4 месяца назад +4

    Brooo your girlfriend is lucky to have you 😂

  • @yasinn003
    @yasinn003 5 месяцев назад

    Can you make mukbang, cooking asmr videos. Even a gardening video could be cool!

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +1

      Those are great ideas, I'd love to try something a little more experimental and life-like, like showing you guys my shoes or clothes or something

  • @jeremymendez3167
    @jeremymendez3167 4 месяца назад

    Off topic but your hair is growing rlly well

  • @sokhna88-88
    @sokhna88-88 5 месяцев назад

    Jacob, thoughts on the hardstone psycho album? Also do you have a fav song yet?

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      Bruh I'm so glad you asked, I really like it, specifically glock and inside. I think it'll grow on me too, that's what's happened with every album he's put out. What did you think?

    • @sokhna88-88
      @sokhna88-88 4 месяца назад

      @@jacobdreamsasmrI really liked it too! My favorite rn is kryptonite

  • @gmb2006
    @gmb2006 4 месяца назад

    Just found your channel 💜

  • @Starsamongtheforest
    @Starsamongtheforest 4 месяца назад

    This was good.

  • @clarasva
    @clarasva 4 месяца назад

    Soft spoken video next pleaseeeeee

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      I've been thinking a bit about different whisper styles I could try, do you know any channels who do that well that I could check out?

  • @davidstylo05
    @davidstylo05 4 месяца назад

    someone said his name is jacob but looks like edward

  • @dulguunbatsaikhan6622
    @dulguunbatsaikhan6622 4 месяца назад

    bro uploaaaaddd a new video 😭😭

  • @blindcherry
    @blindcherry 4 месяца назад

    this ate

  • @trev_schuffe
    @trev_schuffe 4 месяца назад +1

    Jacob you should fr think about becoming a therapist ‼️

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +3

      I've lowkey been thinking about it, it's just the three more years of school that intimdates me

  • @gxramirez
    @gxramirez Месяц назад

    😍😍😍

  • @CatherineEvans-t3x
    @CatherineEvans-t3x 4 месяца назад

    Actually am though 🙌🏻

  • @saidrew1030
    @saidrew1030 4 месяца назад +3

    You're definitely an INFJ

  • @brandonhall2904
    @brandonhall2904 5 месяцев назад +3

    That thumbnail terrified me at first

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +3

      Can a guy be happy once in a while smh

  • @Anishaaaaa1998
    @Anishaaaaa1998 4 месяца назад

    Next time make a video on arrange marriage

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад

      That's interesting, I have absolutely no experience w that but maybe I'll do some research into it

  • @dulguunbatsaikhan6622
    @dulguunbatsaikhan6622 4 месяца назад

    bro upload

  • @pepapig0
    @pepapig0 5 месяцев назад +3

    We need a vid with your gf next

    • @jacobdreamsasmr
      @jacobdreamsasmr  4 месяца назад +1

      I actually think she's down, I'll tell her you said that and see what she says

  • @Nuitmodeon
    @Nuitmodeon 4 месяца назад +2

    Just noticed that you have the tiktok “dead eyes” that is why the thumbnails give me a scary vibe. From the way you speak tho, I am sure you are a chill guy.

  • @Beautifultauruswoman
    @Beautifultauruswoman 4 месяца назад

    Bro upload wtf

  • @Tyler-di2de
    @Tyler-di2de 4 месяца назад

    I am begging for a boyfriend roleplay if you are willing and comfortable 🙏