[ASMR] Relationship Advice | Dating in 2021

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

Комментарии • 213

  • @benthompson9576
    @benthompson9576 3 года назад +406

    My dating advice for 2021: pine after your favorite asmrtists until they start liking your comments.

    • @CapBaileyASMR
      @CapBaileyASMR  3 года назад +94

      DONE

    • @michaelcamm-storey658
      @michaelcamm-storey658 3 года назад +11

      Agreed, he’s a refreshing walk on the beach!!

    • @benthompson9576
      @benthompson9576 3 года назад +22

      @@CapBaileyASMROmg bae stop, you’re embarrassing me 😩😳 but real talk, solid work as always Cap. Keep it up! 👌🏼🤘🏼

    • @TheBesney
      @TheBesney 2 года назад +2

      @@michaelcamm-storey658 you have some genius lyrics there my friend

  • @Chloenorton7269
    @Chloenorton7269 3 года назад +111

    I may not do the whole relationship thing but man this is relaxing

  • @Enigma1990ad
    @Enigma1990ad 3 года назад +62

    When the guy giving you relationship advice is the guy you want to be in a relationship with :(

  • @HavvyHavra
    @HavvyHavra 3 года назад +69

    “We are complacent in being inactive-and we sit in that complacency even though we’re not very happy there cuz it’s what we’re use to.” Holy shit I personally resonated with this so hard.
    It’s so easy to just.. stay in your bubble and avoid confrontation cuz of the possibility of embarrassing oneself. But how can we grow without risk or that exploration outside our bubble?? Me literally commenting this is filling me with anxiety cuz I don’t like putting myself out there (I like to lurk lol), but it’s such an important thing to recognize that our insecurities will only cause our growth to stagnate.
    Take baby steps. We’re all learning :)

    • @haydeen6535
      @haydeen6535 3 года назад +2

      You deserve more likes, good sir.

    • @jorjeyyyy222
      @jorjeyyyy222 3 года назад +3

      I could totally relate🥲

    • @VOLTRAR
      @VOLTRAR 10 месяцев назад

      Ditto with all of this.

  • @deevalife2000
    @deevalife2000 3 года назад +57

    I don’t know why you’re giving me relationship advice when you can just date me😂 but I love the video! Super relaxing as always!!!

    • @PluckySmurf
      @PluckySmurf 3 года назад +4

      Smooth. 😁

    • @pvtrichardsonbr
      @pvtrichardsonbr 2 года назад +1

      Aht aht! Cut that out sista (frowns im hotep) 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jennifersteele7575
    @jennifersteele7575 3 года назад +15

    Been in a few relationships and thought the same about being happy. Then I discovered I am happy all by myself and I love helping others. I get more joy from friendships than living with someone. You have a great view on happiness and definitely comes from within. I find great happiness in God.

  • @jonpedro4016
    @jonpedro4016 3 года назад +27

    I swear RUclips is like "oh, time for bed? Here's your daily dose of Cap"

  • @freshhh_prince
    @freshhh_prince 3 года назад +61

    Damn Cap got me over here contemplating my life decisions when I was just trying to relax 🤔

    • @zosoart
      @zosoart 3 года назад

      I know right 🙈

  • @wilsonfutrell1833
    @wilsonfutrell1833 3 года назад +12

    Your talent in engaging the listener comes out again. It’s like you are talking to somebody (us) in the room with you.

  • @MJ-oi6ul
    @MJ-oi6ul 3 года назад +8

    It’s one thing being attractive on the outside but you clearly have a heart of gold as well. You spoke from your heart here so bless you for your genuineness ❤️

  • @neptunian_dreamer6526
    @neptunian_dreamer6526 3 года назад +2

    I think your point of actually talking to someone is the best advice ever. A lot of people let shyness or fear of rejection get the best of them.

  • @theincfiles
    @theincfiles 3 года назад +7

    A few months ago I asked you this on stream and similarly you gave great advice! Nice to see the conversation continue!

  • @kcgriff08
    @kcgriff08 3 года назад +9

    😂😂😂 I'm dead! You said, "if you're a 2 or 3 set your expectations accordingly..."

  • @raikyu5071
    @raikyu5071 3 года назад +17

    I got freaked out by the subtle "whisper" type things in the background and thought there where voices in my head lol

    • @gabe1900
      @gabe1900 3 года назад +6

      THANK YOU! Was waiting for someone else to comment on it 😂

    • @K4inan
      @K4inan 3 года назад

      That's not a good sign. A normal person would not come to that conclusion.

  • @ethancartr6
    @ethancartr6 3 года назад +7

    Hey man, really liked this video, it’s a nice change to a lot of other asmr videos! It was relaxing but had me thinking at the same time which is quite weird lol. Hope you can do this sort of thing again!

  • @jade-bk5ld
    @jade-bk5ld 3 года назад +2

    counselor cap in the building !

  • @Eprosis
    @Eprosis 3 года назад +12

    "The right one will come my friend. Promise."
    That's great. I'mma just go back to eating cheetos in bed, thanks Cap.

  • @devbypass5910
    @devbypass5910 3 года назад +2

    look at you, production value has def increased and I love it! please keep up the amazing work. I appreciate your videos so so so very much and they've really helped me with my horrid sleep schedule. So I thank you. For getting me back on track ♡♡

  • @JennaHasSpoken
    @JennaHasSpoken 3 года назад +6

    Haven’t even gotten 1 minute in and I can already tell this is gonna be a great video!

  • @J_GoTTi
    @J_GoTTi 3 года назад +3

    Haven’t been in a relationship in over 4 years. 😊 Never been happier. Not to say dating is a bad thing. Haha, love ya cap. You the man!

  • @FonsKleijn
    @FonsKleijn 3 года назад +3

    Thanks Cap! Really needed advice! Sometimes i just don’t know what to do. Means more than you think

  • @alejandraflores7370
    @alejandraflores7370 3 года назад +23

    No way you are single. You have such a caring personality!

    • @ottogofast3882
      @ottogofast3882 3 года назад +3

      A lot of us kings are single out here. It’s ok to focus on yourself for awhile, being in a relationship isn’t always beneficial.

  • @scaligi
    @scaligi 3 года назад +2

    Reassuring support from the best ASMR artist out there - Thank you for your support Cap Bailey

  • @BradsPitts.
    @BradsPitts. 3 года назад +51

    How do you get more attractive with each video 🤣

  • @charlesmoss2313
    @charlesmoss2313 3 года назад +1

    This was absolutely unexpected and wholeheartedly beautiful.
    Lovely, Cap 😊
    I’m smitten by the truth and wisdom here.

  • @HeatheredEffect
    @HeatheredEffect 3 года назад +54

    I love 7:07 when you just get distracted by my beauty. 😏

  • @Luis.wp1
    @Luis.wp1 3 года назад

    Think what can you do for them, not what they can do for you. I’m gonna remember for the rest of the my life. This video was good ty bro

  • @maniester9914
    @maniester9914 3 года назад +24

    Cap: When was your last relationship?
    Me: Never.
    Cap: Kay, how long has it been since you've split up with your last significant other?
    Me:...Never.
    Cap: Kay...what would be the reason you split up with your significant other?
    Me:...She didn't exist.

  • @jonikarvinen_
    @jonikarvinen_ 3 года назад +18

    Never had a serious relationship. But I'm sure one day it will come, thanks to this vid!😎
    But seriously people are teasing me about it all and shit but I just don't really give a shit. Rather be happy alone than not satisfied/happy in a relationship just because your friends were teasing you about it🙌🏼
    Also man, thanks for blessing us with so many amazing videos!!!!!!

  • @trailblazetravelofficial
    @trailblazetravelofficial 3 года назад +3

    Hey Handsome! We are so lucky to have you as our favorite ASMRtist ❤ Hope you are having a fantastic day!

  • @doalux
    @doalux 3 года назад +49

    so are we not gonna address the new profile picture...🧍🏻‍♀️👀

  • @NastyOMGItsFlikz
    @NastyOMGItsFlikz 3 года назад

    This spoke to me on a spiritual freaking level. All this information is better than any reddit post, google search, or list of questions. I've been wondering all of this stuff mentioned. I know it's ASMR but man this is so informative.
    Cap, thank you. 💯💞

    • @CapBaileyASMR
      @CapBaileyASMR  3 года назад +2

      So happy to give my opinion my friend

  • @paulinabroda5384
    @paulinabroda5384 3 года назад +2

    I absolutely love this idea!!!!!! Finally the relationship advice giver is getting the advice :))))

  • @gelenamurena
    @gelenamurena 3 года назад +3

    aromantic and still gonna watch this, because I like everything you do! 💛

  • @CoachFieno2
    @CoachFieno2 3 года назад

    Cap you been very very consistent. all hits no misses. I see 100K for you very very soon.

  • @itsalexisvro
    @itsalexisvro 3 года назад

    i had a boyfriend during the peak of the pandemic last year and it wound up not working out bc we didn't get to see each other very often bc of said pandemic. i think i'm a good person and according to your checklist i seem to be. the patience thing is the only thing i have problems with bc i just want a guy to appreciate me lol :( i've met a few people from my job that i'm interested in and hoping at least something will work out with the advice you gave. i've always been the one to give relationship advice to my friends but rarely have been the one to take advice but now i think i'm gonna take it. thank you for this video cap, as always you knock it out of the park. :) youre a true gem

  • @QuaintASMR
    @QuaintASMR 3 года назад +1

    Those speech intervals are rather adorable.

  • @alisonsoifer4191
    @alisonsoifer4191 3 года назад +2

    Cap Bailey you’re a fantastic man and asmr artist! Thanks for another great video and I hope you’ve been well!

  • @addisondickens2079
    @addisondickens2079 3 года назад +2

    Love the work man! Very relaxing to just listen to your thoughts

  • @nathanpanusky2531
    @nathanpanusky2531 3 года назад +1

    0:00-0:03
    How bold of you to assume I've been in a relationship...

  • @anthonyingram2745
    @anthonyingram2745 2 года назад

    20:37 is when he almost said the f bomb 😂😂

  • @caswillsaveme
    @caswillsaveme 3 года назад

    Omg your voice is the most relaxing deep tone ever seriously

  • @Maddie-tz4zn
    @Maddie-tz4zn 3 года назад +18

    Him “ do you have a Significant other”
    Me” can you be my significant other” 😂

  • @hawknights
    @hawknights 3 года назад +2

    Don't be COMFORTABLE BEING COMFORTABLE. Taking that home. Thanks Cap! You're my idol 🙌🙌🙌

  • @rebeccaturner1662
    @rebeccaturner1662 3 года назад +1

    I need to make sure before I get into anything with anyone, I don’t get into anything with anyone 🤣. Awesome video as always!

  • @allytrbl
    @allytrbl 3 года назад +1

    thank you, been needing this 🗿😂🖤🖤 great video!! love u!

  • @patriciagregory8461
    @patriciagregory8461 3 года назад

    Great dating advice Cap. You always say the right words...and that soft voice..wow😊

  • @nateranger783
    @nateranger783 2 года назад

    This has given me a lot to think about and in a really relaxing way, thank you.

  • @joshuamarshall5570
    @joshuamarshall5570 3 года назад

    Such a good video I love the effort and time you put into ur channel,I watch all ur videos and have much love and respect for u pal,keep up the good work brother ❤

  • @nerdbamarich2063
    @nerdbamarich2063 3 года назад +1

    I need that shirt lol. great content as always my friend!!

  • @ASMRBlackScreenZZZ
    @ASMRBlackScreenZZZ 3 года назад +4

    Got the notification for this right as I entered a class with my crush....hmmm

  • @giovannibonfiglio9243
    @giovannibonfiglio9243 3 года назад +2

    It’s assignment week at my university and Cap just insinuated I was a 2 or a 3. Cheers man hahahaha. Still helped me relax though, appreciate it 😂😂

  • @Codaxion
    @Codaxion 3 года назад

    This guy never disappoints i love the videos Cap !

  • @ski9657
    @ski9657 3 года назад +1

    I've never did shit like this but this is so relaxing and i love it

  • @saulramirez3056
    @saulramirez3056 3 года назад

    Is this true?!? 4 new videos in 1 week! Man you're awesome thanks a lot. Greetings form Mexico City!!!!

  • @marcomanic7760
    @marcomanic7760 3 года назад

    I always get exited when I see a notification that this guy made a new video 💙😃

  • @carasaunders3677
    @carasaunders3677 3 года назад

    The hoppy lobby pen🙌🏻 Love it!

  • @Lucerne9
    @Lucerne9 3 года назад

    Cap with professional dating advice... Greatly appreciated

  • @erikironheart8904
    @erikironheart8904 3 года назад

    So like I love all the content it’s why I’m always coming back. But I’m obsessed with the tattoos.

  • @EthalaRide
    @EthalaRide 3 года назад

    "don't forget to get your sleep"
    *looks at the clock to see it's 3am* _"God damn it."_

  • @lunamae5776
    @lunamae5776 3 года назад +1

    Oh my goodness I’m so early! I love your content! I’m so excited to watch this ☺️
    Edit: you see a lot of dating advice content from a woman’s pov but not often do you see them from a man’s! Great idea 😁♥️👍

  • @malachiteheart1676
    @malachiteheart1676 3 года назад +7

    I know that I’m too much of a mess to be in a relationship, but the thought is still nice 😌

  • @anthonyalverio1130
    @anthonyalverio1130 3 года назад

    Much respect I could tell this is straight from the top and I respect that.✊🏽

  • @paradox__chaotic6098
    @paradox__chaotic6098 3 года назад +1

    "Whens the last time you were in a relationship? Or are you ina rela-"
    G A M E R

  • @khawlah971
    @khawlah971 3 года назад +1

    Cap: remember to get your sleep...
    Me seeing the video at 3am: umm sure

  • @bubberin0cs2
    @bubberin0cs2 3 года назад +1

    My only advice for 2021 is, watch Bailey asmr

  • @xxkellyvo
    @xxkellyvo 3 года назад

    Lol mine is cliche but when i stopped trying to find a relationship, the perfect man showed up in my life at 21! 4 years and engaged 😌

  • @TheBesney
    @TheBesney 2 года назад

    This dude is super cool thanks for the info I resonate with what you are saying

  • @redpho3nixx808
    @redpho3nixx808 3 года назад

    Jesus, just asked out someone yesterday and then this came out. What are you trying to tell me, 2021?

  • @tonid7815
    @tonid7815 3 года назад

    Thank you brother 🤗 Please do a big/older brother role play. You are good at this.

  • @justinfowler6325
    @justinfowler6325 3 года назад

    Lol love the advice, great format. I feel like you would do a really good psychiatrist/therapist roleplay🤔(not sure if you've done one, didn't check😅) Anyway, keep up the good work and i look forward to the next vid!😄

  • @reubenglish
    @reubenglish 3 года назад +6

    4:50 are you just using that as an example or did you just give me a straight-up rating of a 2 or 3? 😥
    edit: 6:36 okay you've redeemed yourself, good job

    • @PluckySmurf
      @PluckySmurf 3 года назад +1

      You're a 10 Reuben. Cap's a 10. Every boy who does ASMR seems to be a 10. It's like Oprah up in here. 😁

    • @reubenglish
      @reubenglish 3 года назад

      @@PluckySmurf hahahaha well fancy seeing you here! I do appreciate the reassurance - I knew I could count on you 😇

    • @voASMR
      @voASMR 3 года назад

      @@PluckySmurf yo this gives me hope lmao

  • @jimalancook3157
    @jimalancook3157 3 года назад

    Good video. So relaxing!

  • @Bass9482
    @Bass9482 3 года назад +1

    This vid is goated make another therapist type vid

  • @MrJoaoCurio
    @MrJoaoCurio 3 года назад

    thank for this video. it really helped me in a lot of ways :)

  • @Rona_1984
    @Rona_1984 3 года назад +1

    Whats in that notebook gotta be funny 🤣 thanks Cap for another video!

  • @jadeyxboox
    @jadeyxboox 3 года назад

    Hey bestie I can't watch this bc I'll cry but I support it ❤️ thumbs up 👍🏻

  • @Simply_Sadie
    @Simply_Sadie 3 года назад

    So nice to see all of your face!

  • @CrysASMR
    @CrysASMR 3 года назад

    Loving these tips 💕

  • @Mustafa_9628
    @Mustafa_9628 3 года назад +1

    Single, alone and sad
    Kinda like it
    Kinda feel lonely
    Kinda broken
    But i dunno how to adress it nor do i care bout doing anything bout it
    Thats me 2021

    • @CapBaileyASMR
      @CapBaileyASMR  3 года назад +2

      Sounds like a ton of ppl but we shall bounce back 🤘🏼

    • @Mustafa_9628
      @Mustafa_9628 3 года назад

      @@CapBaileyASMR
      Dunno how and when
      Dont care anyways😂

    • @Mustafa_9628
      @Mustafa_9628 3 года назад

      @@CapBaileyASMR
      Why did you remove the heart from my comment?
      Thats rude mr bailey

  • @jackcopeman6120
    @jackcopeman6120 3 года назад

    Love the video please do more like this my guy 😊

  • @PodChklilpp339
    @PodChklilpp339 3 года назад

    I didn't know I needed this until I had it, plus its asmr so lol

  • @robertovalle8137
    @robertovalle8137 3 года назад

    Hey Cap you should try a gameing video just to see how it dose because gameing asmr can be very good and get clicks depending on what game it is

  • @teraphIl1000
    @teraphIl1000 3 года назад

    Insight and relaxation, nice. 😊

  • @Pepega_Pig
    @Pepega_Pig 3 года назад

    Thanks for being real 😎 would’ve helped me in my younger years

  • @ohsehorn6043
    @ohsehorn6043 3 года назад

    Well...a nice way to fall asleep

  • @lilaac6374
    @lilaac6374 3 года назад +1

    hey Cap... you have a nice smile 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

  • @PodChklilpp339
    @PodChklilpp339 3 года назад

    This was somehow the best fuking advise i have found on Internet

  • @lljacobll5298
    @lljacobll5298 3 года назад

    Bro looks better and better every video! 😂

  • @maleficent6881
    @maleficent6881 3 года назад +1

    I mean.. you sound like someone I’d be attracted to outside of this evaluation too. I’ll be patient.😂😍

  • @wutangclams9936
    @wutangclams9936 3 года назад

    There is definitely great advice here

  • @emmanebauer7984
    @emmanebauer7984 3 года назад

    Any advice on how to date you Cap? 💚
    All jokes aside (almost 😂) another awesome vid!

  • @tabbidiaz9916
    @tabbidiaz9916 3 года назад

    A second in and I already feel attacked 💀
    Cap back at it again 👏 always watching out for us but who's taking care of him? Does he ever rest?? Is he hydrating???

  • @KelseytheLetteredDandy
    @KelseytheLetteredDandy 3 года назад +1

    Cap, dear friend, how are we all supposed to sleep and take notes at the same time?! 🤔😆

  • @emeraldrose6870
    @emeraldrose6870 3 года назад +1

    Amazing video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carasaunders3677
    @carasaunders3677 3 года назад +1

    “Nobody likes to date someone who’s full of shit”
    Say it louder for the folks in the back please😂

  • @luca.alonso
    @luca.alonso 3 года назад

    This was bang on man

  • @captainspaulding1247
    @captainspaulding1247 3 года назад

    Lmao why do I always go to your videos when I’m either high or trippin off someone??? Anyway... nice vid :)

  • @lovingmemories8902
    @lovingmemories8902 3 года назад

    How did I miss this one…? ♥️❤️♥️🌺🌸🌺

  • @globalman
    @globalman 3 года назад

    Love the Shirt you're wearing and looks great on you. Plus the lighting is really effective.
    Maybe a subjective comment but if so than so be it, whoever dates and/or is in a relationship with Bailey is one very lucky person. 10+ Handsome, talented, gifted, imaginative, passionate and with the most magnificent profile since John Barrymore. Also really great hair 😏
    By the way ...... there are too many emotional Vampires out there. Psychopathy is at epidemic proportions, worse than corona LOL